“Grieving someone who didn’t really exist.” Wow, that hit me! I had to pause the video and process that. I always wondered why this has been so difficult for me. I’ve gone through very difficult breakups feeling better and stronger after but this one is just different and I couldn’t pin point why that is. But I think you just gave me the answer. He was a dream come true but slowly he changed and now I don’t know what’s real and what’s not.
Sounds exactly like what I’m going through. I know what is happening with me though. I’m severely trauma bonded. Letting go is so hard when that happens.
Omg this reading is already on point. I dealt with a toxic emotionally immature aquarius and it was a nightmare. I finally got sick of the mind games and silently walked away and BLOCKED! it was a wasted 14 months 😒
@SisSheIsSafe I'm proud of us because I know how much strength it truly takes to walk away and never look back. But im proud of us both for finally doing it. It's been 2 months ago for me and I don't regret a thing.
@@stephaniehickman7383 it just takes so much strength to walk away and say I’m proud of both of us. It’s not easy at all. I don’t regret it. I just hate reading cause you’re saying wondering if anything was ever real because it just feels crazy to feel like someone is your world and really truly you’re not even a small piece of theirs. Healing to all of us 💜💜💜
@SisSheIsSafe omg I completely understand that. I was blindsided and almost always confused. The bandaid I learned was "I love yous" but they were never real. I just had to realized I deserved so much more and I no longer wanted to have that person in my energy. That relationship was literally making me physically ill.
@@stephaniehickman7383 man, I totally relate to what you’re saying people don’t even understand the mental and emotional language that you experience behind closed doors cause it’s like you didn’t even want to say it out loud
Gabrielle, I've been watching your channel for a while but this is the first time I feel compelled to comment. I've always appreciated your emphasis on self-love and deserving, but this message today was extra, and sooooo meant for me. I felt so much sadness and yet empowerment listening to you describe this relationship. Took my breath away. It really resonated and I take comfort in your insights and loving words. Thank you.❤
Started dating a DISSMISSIVE avoidant after divorcing a narcissist. Sucked. I need to set boundaries and accept red flags as red flags. Not my circus, not my monkeys. Capricorn fooled me, confused me, and ghosted me. I am so grateful for the lesson.
you are right on the money! I've only been seeing this person for three weeks and he ghosted as soon as he saw me put up boundaries. I'm not super hurt cause I haven't known him long enough but it's still annoying how these people can do something like this. Definitely not giving up because I deserve so much better and I know that person will show up.
Scary accurate! Thank you Gabrielle for validating everything I am experiencing right now with this person. I had the strength to break it off finally and we have agreed to be friends but it still hurts. I really thought they were the one.
Damn, I feel like this reading was just for me. I had a 3 years relationship and in the beginning he presented himself as someone else, for 6 months until we meet in person (I was not in the country until then). When we meet in person I felt like I have found the love of my life. When I moved back in my country for him , things startet to change, he was saying he loves me so much yet his actions showed the complete opposite. He brought me through hell and all I did was to love him more and more cause of the face he showed me in the beginning. Thank you for reminding me that his actions are not my fault as he made me feel through manipulation. every single time. I started to think that I am not made to have a relationship and that no one really wants me. Thank you for reminding me THIS IS NOT TRUE. Thank you for giving me the power to wipe my tears and get out of bed bettering myself instead of asking me WHY HE DID ALL OF THAT TO ME.
This was spot on!!!!!! Like you’ve been watching the entire situation. I appreciate this read. I appreciate you! Keep doing what you’re doing to connect! It’s working 💚✨🧚🏽♀️
You are so accurate it is literally like grooving someone who didn’t exist because the person who I thought they were was not real or three years and I finally changed my phone number and it’s been 3 to 4 months now it’s been hard but I couldn’t stay in that cycle
SO incredibly insightful…almost felt like a personal reading; many thanks and much appreciated, gabrielle! ✨ I’m about 90-95% on the other side and the peace + freedom is such a beautiful gift…thank you for helping to bridge the gap! 💕
@@tarotbygabrielle quick question - after watching this reading several times (because it was THAT beautiful/insightful), I noticed that you used the same cards for our side of the connection as their side of the connection. does this make a significant difference in the interpretation and accuracy of the reading?
Ouch wish i hadn't crosswatched this lol. My Sagittarius is fine 😂 couldn't care less. Some people know when to walk away when they aren't appreciated. I hope he remembers the part he played and doesn't treat anyone else that way. We both deserve happiness.
It's been crazy because she seemed perfect but what you are saying is what she told me, she was pretending to be better than she is and she felt not good enough so she left out of nowhere. I've spent the past year trying to balance giving her space and trying to work things out but it never worked. It hurts because I really loved her unconditionally, but I have to let go
There is no version. There is only the truth. And he needs to look at himself. And it definitely will not happen again. I keep hearing about him. How many years will this take.
Brilliant spot on thank you so much for breaking this down fully resonate loved it TRUE 💯 I’m feeling a lot better after meeting this PERSON but it has taken time it will be a year November 24.
Cross watcher here the roles are completely reversed in our situation. Sag is the devil (addictions and ifedelity) ego driven person who came in with a completely different persona and did a full personality change once the relationship progressed. Just saying the reading is a complete reversal in our relationship
“Grieving someone who didn’t really exist.” Wow, that hit me! I had to pause the video and process that. I always wondered why this has been so difficult for me. I’ve gone through very difficult breakups feeling better and stronger after but this one is just different and I couldn’t pin point why that is. But I think you just gave me the answer. He was a dream come true but slowly he changed and now I don’t know what’s real and what’s not.
Wow every word you said was true. Yes I tried to fix him and make him a better person. I realized all the lies. Moving on. Thanks.
Exactly! For me too.
I haven’t even started the read but the title says it’s for me .
Sounds exactly like what I’m going through. I know what is happening with me though. I’m severely trauma bonded. Letting go is so hard when that happens.
Ditto. It’s all happened for us and not to us.
I fell in love with the illusion , not the real immature guy. Ugh.
there wasn’t one word you said that I didn’t resonate with!! beyond grateful for the clarity this has already given me 🫶🏽
Thank you for articulating so well how this relationship dynamic works. It’s just really comforting and relieving to hear it.
Spot on, Gabrielle! Thankfully, I’m about 90% on the other side of this breakup. You are helping me process until I’m at 100%. Thank you so very much!
The love that you deserve does exist! Set boundaries from the beginning will tell you everything. ❤
Omg your like the therapist I never had. Your explanation gives so much hope in looking forward to heal faster.
I am not a licensed therapist, but I'm so glad the messages helped you❤️
Wow! Exactly what happened to me this summer! Working on self love 💕 right now! Trying to keep the faith that something better awaits
Omg this reading is already on point. I dealt with a toxic emotionally immature aquarius and it was a nightmare. I finally got sick of the mind games and silently walked away and BLOCKED! it was a wasted 14 months 😒
Me too it’s been 3- 4 months and I walked away the same way didn’t say anything changed my number
@SisSheIsSafe I'm proud of us because I know how much strength it truly takes to walk away and never look back. But im proud of us both for finally doing it. It's been 2 months ago for me and I don't regret a thing.
@@stephaniehickman7383 it just takes so much strength to walk away and say I’m proud of both of us. It’s not easy at all. I don’t regret it. I just hate reading cause you’re saying wondering if anything was ever real because it just feels crazy to feel like someone is your world and really truly you’re not even a small piece of theirs. Healing to all of us 💜💜💜
@SisSheIsSafe omg I completely understand that. I was blindsided and almost always confused. The bandaid I learned was "I love yous" but they were never real. I just had to realized I deserved so much more and I no longer wanted to have that person in my energy. That relationship was literally making me physically ill.
@@stephaniehickman7383 man, I totally relate to what you’re saying people don’t even understand the mental and emotional language that you experience behind closed doors cause it’s like you didn’t even want to say it out loud
Gabrielle, I've been watching your channel for a while but this is the first time I feel compelled to comment. I've always appreciated your emphasis on self-love and deserving, but this message today was extra, and sooooo meant for me. I felt so much sadness and yet empowerment listening to you describe this relationship. Took my breath away. It really resonated and I take comfort in your insights and loving words. Thank you.❤
My thoughts exactly. 🧡 Thank you, Gabrielle. 🙏🏻🧡
Your readings are amazing and you are so gifted and insightful. Thank you!💕
Started dating a DISSMISSIVE avoidant after divorcing a narcissist. Sucked. I need to set boundaries and accept red flags as red flags. Not my circus, not my monkeys. Capricorn fooled me, confused me, and ghosted me. I am so grateful for the lesson.
you are right on the money! I've only been seeing this person for three weeks and he ghosted as soon as he saw me put up boundaries. I'm not super hurt cause I haven't known him long enough but it's still annoying how these people can do something like this. Definitely not giving up because I deserve so much better and I know that person will show up.
I’m hurting right now, but I needed this. I’m too empathetic and see the potential, is exactly my problem.
Scary accurate! Thank you Gabrielle for validating everything I am experiencing right now with this person. I had the strength to break it off finally and we have agreed to be friends but it still hurts. I really thought they were the one.
Damn, I feel like this reading was just for me. I had a 3 years relationship and in the beginning he presented himself as someone else, for 6 months until we meet in person (I was not in the country until then). When we meet in person I felt like I have found the love of my life. When I moved back in my country for him , things startet to change, he was saying he loves me so much yet his actions showed the complete opposite. He brought me through hell and all I did was to love him more and more cause of the face he showed me in the beginning. Thank you for reminding me that his actions are not my fault as he made me feel through manipulation. every single time. I started to think that I am not made to have a relationship and that no one really wants me. Thank you for reminding me THIS IS NOT TRUE. Thank you for giving me the power to wipe my tears and get out of bed bettering myself instead of asking me WHY HE DID ALL OF THAT TO ME.
This was spot on!!!!!! Like you’ve been watching the entire situation. I appreciate this read. I appreciate you! Keep doing what you’re doing to connect! It’s working 💚✨🧚🏽♀️
That was a fantastic reading.
Woman you are 💯 on Point
Thanx for this Read…
You’re Beautiful & Amazing
Excellent reading thank you spot on! I love your perspective it expanded my mind to be able to shift me into what I needed to see.❤
Thanks for the reading Gabrielle.
Cheers
You are so accurate it is literally like grooving someone who didn’t exist because the person who I thought they were was not real or three years and I finally changed my phone number and it’s been 3 to 4 months now it’s been hard but I couldn’t stay in that cycle
This reading totally resonates with me. So accurate. Thank you.
This was so helpful I love! Thank you❤
SO incredibly insightful…almost felt like a personal reading; many thanks and much appreciated, gabrielle! ✨ I’m about 90-95% on the other side and the peace + freedom is such a beautiful gift…thank you for helping to bridge the gap! 💕
I know how hard this journey has been, and it’s so amazing that you’re finding your way through. Amazing things await! ❤️
@@tarotbygabrielle quick question - after watching this reading several times (because it was THAT beautiful/insightful), I noticed that you used the same cards for our side of the connection as their side of the connection. does this make a significant difference in the interpretation and accuracy of the reading?
Thank you.. you just described the relationship perfectly ❤
Ya I thought my love would change him .
Hadn’t seen him in so long .. I thought we all changed over time.
I was wrong about this one.
I thought the same thing, that unconditional love would change him. I saw the goodness in him and made excuses for the rest.
Ouch wish i hadn't crosswatched this lol. My Sagittarius is fine 😂 couldn't care less. Some people know when to walk away when they aren't appreciated. I hope he remembers the part he played and doesn't treat anyone else that way. We both deserve happiness.
Love your reading.
So spot on wow! Thank you, incredibly accurate. ❤
I really needed to hear this. Thank you
I’m glad the reading found you❤️
Great reading spot on !!!! ❤ shed light on so much thank you 🙏🏼
You’re very welcome! ❤️
Amazing reading spot on. Thank you
Oh my your sooooooo good! Everything is bob on 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
I really like your nails. Thank you for this reading ❤❤❤
Thank you! 💕
You are really great! Explanes it just the way it is!❤
This so resonated❤❤❤
Also, fire bangs and nails! ❤❤❤
You'll get over it. Just "sad" because I have to start over AGAIN. It's really ok tho didn't drag on this time.
It's been crazy because she seemed perfect but what you are saying is what she told me, she was pretending to be better than she is and she felt not good enough so she left out of nowhere. I've spent the past year trying to balance giving her space and trying to work things out but it never worked. It hurts because I really loved her unconditionally, but I have to let go
There is no version. There is only the truth. And he needs to look at himself. And it definitely will not happen again. I keep hearing about him. How many years will this take.
Great reading!
Off topic..where did you get your wallpaper? 😂
Soooo helpful
So accurate ❤
Brilliant spot on thank you so much for breaking this down fully resonate loved it TRUE 💯 I’m feeling a lot better after meeting this PERSON but it has taken time it will be a year November 24.
Healing takes time, but it’s always worth it in the end. Sending you so much love!!
@@tarotbygabrielle thank you so much ♥️
This killed me inside.But i learnd. Not go in when it feels too good to be true.With that a devil came.Became physically ill.
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Cross watcher here the roles are completely reversed in our situation. Sag is the devil (addictions and ifedelity) ego driven person who came in with a completely different persona and did a full personality change once the relationship progressed. Just saying the reading is a complete reversal in our relationship
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His twin to you were blind she is dead