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First story: I teach the 2-3 year old class in daycare and every year I try my best to make sure the children do not go with ANYONE, even if they know them, without asking one of their parents. I used scenarios, storybooks etc… I had even used myself as an example that even if they see me outside of daycare, they are not to come to me without checking with mom, dad or whoever they are with. Once while shopping in the mall, I hear familiar voices calling my name and two kids from my class came running over. I asked where their parents were and they realized what they did. They did not ask their parents and had run off on them, needless to say they were in trouble with their parents and with me.
Well you're not doing a very good job at teaching 😂
@@ZovaBe well their little kids, cut the person some slack
@@ZovaBe teaching children is very hard! They don't get things like adults do, they need to be told multiple times before they grasp it.
@@martina6700 Well, considering kids learn faster than adults, I wouldn't say that's strictly true. I don't think it's that they don't remember it or understand it, I think kids just have this way of ignoring certain instructions the first few times they're given.
The thumbnail story dang
What does it mean
it means the story written on the cover of the video 😊
@@Haneiul_ioI havent watched the vid yet but the thumbnail story looks like the neighboor might've intended to commit SA (im not sure if im allowed to say the full word on yt?)
The wife was a saviour that day in the first story😭
Sucks that she was with him
I have one where I first felt bad and thought it was a bad situation, but turned out to be alright. When I was little, maybe eight years old, I was sitting at a table at my godmother's 40th birthday, drawing silently. A man I had often seen at such occasions but never before talked too, sat down next to me and started chatting with me, told me he was my uncle, and complimented my drawings, he asked me if I ever had enough drawing paper and what else I liked. I told him I had just learned to read and liked it a lot. He asked me if I wanted more pens and paper and some nice books, and feeling safe I said yes, and he said he'd bring some to me in the coming days.
Later that evening, I felt bad because my parents had, of course, told me not to talk to strangers and not to take gifts. I had totally forgotten because it was a family function, and I felt safe, but later at night, alone in my bed, I was worried, my parents would be angry, so I didn't dare tell anyone.
A few days later, my dad announced we'd have a visitor, and my uncle came with a huge box of things for me. Not just pens and papers and some books, but also toys and even pretty dresses. My dad said it was okay and I could take it. My mum was silently crying and left. And I was really anxious, but my dad said, it was okay, and I could go play. Later, he told me that this time I had done nothing wrong, and he was really just my uncle, meaning well, but the next time I should come to him or mum and ask if it was okay before accepting people bringing me gifts. This time it was fine because my uncle had actually told him he wanted to give me some things the very same day he'd spontaneously offered, and so my parents knew what was happening.
Years later, I found out why my mother cried. It wasn't really because he was a bad person or something. My uncle had lost his wife and daughter in a car accident. The day of my godmother's birthday was the first time he was able to interact in any way with a child without having a breakdown. And the stuff he gave me were the first things he was capable of giving away. Before that, he had preserved his wife's and daughter's stuff in some sort of shrine, and had obsessed over it.
The family was very relieved because they feared he would commit suicide, but after that incident, he finally was able to move on. He kept living alone, but was much more involved with his family's affairs. I actually got to know him as an adult woman, and he was about the nicest person you could ever meet. A very kind and quiet man. But never able to even think about having another family of his own.
But that shows how important it is to talk to your children, and not just warn them of stranger danger, but tell them what they should do if they are approached. If it wasn't my indeed harmless uncle that day, it could have easily been a perpetrator or the creepy uncle, and despite me being warned, I wasn't afraid at all. I wasn't ever told what to do if it happened, and it isn't enough to tell a young child what NOT to do, you have to tell them what they are supposed to do because children don't know that until you tell them. So don't just say: 'never talk to strangers and don't accept gifts'.
Because that won't work in a situation where they don't feel unsafe, or the person isn't really a stranger. It won't work when their uncle or a neighbour tells them to hop in the car or if they want to see their bunny.
Tell them: 'When someone asks you to come with them, or wants to give you something, always tell one of us. Never believe them we said it's okay unless one of us has told you in person that it is okay, regardless of what they say. If they want to argue with you, just repeat you have to talk to us first because we told you so. Never let them tell you otherwise, even if it is someone you already know, like a teacher or an uncle. And if they get pushy, and you feel uncomfortable, scream loudly and run away.'
Clearly communicate with them whom they can trust and who their emergency people are. Tell them, a good person will always be okay with them talking to their parents and telling them where they are because that's the truth. When they're older, you can set up codewords too.
The pinball story…it took place in 1971. So yeah, while kids had more freedom, as in being able to go to the arcade alone, they were also much more innocent. Innocent as in “I didn’t know what I was supposed to be feeling”. He didn’t do anything with her the first day because he was grooming her to trust her in order to @buse her over a long time period.
As a boomer I don't think we were more innocent . I think we were better prepared . We played sport with the same rules as the adults and physical punishment was normal , at home , at school and in the streets . We understood actions have consequences. It toughened us up and made us aware of our surroundings. I left home just before I turned 16 and was able to cope with the world and look after myself . It wasn't easy but it probably made me the person I am .
@@macman1469 I meant innocent as in the s*xual aspect. Even in the 80’s, girls that age wouldn’t really think that a man would do that. In fact in HS, I graduated in ‘85, we had to fight for s*x education. It was a 3 day classes -segregated boys in 1 class, girls in another. Many parents didn’t want the topic of @bortion taught at all…
Kids were allowed to grow up without all of the s*xuality of today. That’s what I meant by innocent.
@@betsysanders4524 Fair enough . Where I went to high school in West Australia , back in the 70s , we had sex education . It was taught as part of science . As for predators we were taught about them in primary school .
@@macman1469 Hope the others actually did understand about predators soon enough, on the gaming platform Roblox, there are groups full of them establishing "online relationships" and grooming them to eventually make their relationship official in some way. Some of the kids there were still 14 or 15.
Several of these stories are validation for my main instruction on the very few times I was home alone. This being "don't open the door for anyone, even me. If it's me, I'll already be able to get in". We also joke about not using the microwave, but the main real instruction is the door thing.
My mom would say that too.
I wasn't expecting that ending to the last story, at all. 💀💀💀
I was at an arcade with my mom when I was little, she left me beside a game machine while she added money to our cards. A girl a little older than me came up to me, telling me my mom is looking for me. Before she could say anything else, I went straight the counter where my mom’s buying. Cause she’s looking for me, right? She said she wasn’t looking for me, the girl followed me there, and looked at a lost for what to do before hurrying away. Sometimes I wonder if that girl was an accomplice in an attempted kidnapping, and if she is doing okay.
I heard sometimes bad people get kids involved when trying to abuse other kids and kidnap them. She could have been instructed by an adult to tell you that, so you could get kidnapped. She could have been the kid of that person. I'm glad you're alright and I hope she's alright too.
4:30 This is actually very sweet. You can think its creepy but this dad loves and misses his kids very much and through this way he feels closer to his kids by kissing the same spot as their kids did. I dont think they would allow the kids to paint their whole hand and leave a handprint on the glass.
Some people have a wonderful childhood and some people have a hellish childhood.
Yeah I actually agree that you shouldn't be too trusting with anyone, even relatives, because someone I know was molested by her own uncle.
reminds me of my own story. it sounds so fake, and whenever I ask my brother if he remembers it he says no, but im sure it was real.
there was a time when i was 8, and me and my brother both needed to pee at the same time. my brother offered to come in with me and then id leave when it was his turn. i accepted because he was my brother and i was 8.
from then on, for months, every time i went to the bathroom he’d follow to do the same thing. he made observations too.
I thought it was normal until my dad found out and dragged him out of the bathroom. he never did it again.
to this day I still wonder why.
Most assaults/r@pe cases are actually done by someone the victims actually know and close to.
Went to school with a girl and we were talking about our parents and I mentioned that my dad dad would drink alcohol once in a while, and she asked me if he would beat us after he drank. I just said no he didn't.
It was only years later that I realised what she was saying to me that day and why she couldn't believe that my father wasn't abusive. I still wonder if she was able to get help.
I got told the same thing about worms as well, and I remember a lot of other kids and some adults believed that too. I don't know where that information came from but it spread pretty far where I grew up.
There IS a type of worm called a planarian that can regenerate missing body parts. If one is cut in half, both halves can regenerate the missing parts to become a whole worm again. But, this is not how they normally reproduce. But, your typical earth worms can't do this.
It’s because flatworms (notably planarians) actually can breed by splitting in two. But earthworms don’t. Kids often get that confused.
Someone already explained it already but yeah planarians can be cut at any point of their body and they grow up the missing parts, including head so it actually becomes too. People probably mistaken them and it isn't even because of the similar name because I remember this rumors here in Brazil where they have completely different names. 🤷
My dad was always verbally abusive and explosive, especially towards my mom. I didn’t know that he was that bad until I was around ten to eleven, he was throwing my mom’s stuff around while yelling at her.
I also once woke up to him yelling at my mom and breaking a chair. I’m fifteen now and it hurts so much that he’s such a pos and I can’t even bring myself to hate him. He was always like that and I just never knew because he wasn’t like that to me.
He blames my mom whenever he gets mad, I get that my mom can be annoying sometimes but is blowing up really necessary?
report him ...as soon as possible ..he will leave u with trauma otherwise.talk to your mom ... maybe she will understand
@@nimrarazzak8844 I’ve asked my mom a few times about him and why she hasn’t annulled him yet (divorce isn’t legal in my country), and she said that it would look bad if she was an annulled woman💀
But she did say that if he ever laid hands on her or us, she would annul him.
I’m also not sure if I can report my dad because he most likely won’t be jailed, his family is pretty influential and he has money so he probably won’t be jailed and he’s pretty well acquainted with the policemen in my city.
My mom told me that she’s tried talking to him but he never tried to help himself and for some reason she never tried admitting him into getting some sort of help.
It's not. Necessary. Neither an appropriate reaction. Anything violent which seems overly reactive to mundane frustration just means that dad has an inability to manage his own anger and to not put it on himself. He blames his wife. It's easier. Easier to blame others. Easier to blame someone who won't react the same or who will forgive easily. Unfortunately it's never okay. Because someone is always hurting due this. If the dad doesn't have the same rxn towards you then that means the expression he leaves on you matters to him. You are his child. If you show that what happens heavily bothers you then we can see a slight likeable change in time.
@@nimrarazzak8844 I’ve actually talked to my mom a few times about this and she’s always told me that she’ll get annulled with him if he ever hit her or one of me and my siblings. I also asked her a few times why she hasn’t annulled with him yet and she said that being an annulled woman wasn’t a good look💀
(Divorce isn’t legal in my country)
I’ve also been trying to record his verbal outbursts for evidence but I’ve only got one voicemail recorded so far. I also don’t know if he’ll be put in jail because he’s a little popular (his family is a little influential in my area so he most likely won’t go through much)
I’ve also told my dad before that I didn’t like it when he was like that towards my mom and my eldest brother (he also gets verbal with my brother) and that it made me feel uncomfortable and unsafe, and he apologized but he didn’t really change.
I don’t really want my dad to go to jail or anything, I just want him to change and be better
@@butterfly_squats5425 I want to show him how uncomfortable it makes me, but I don’t know how to do it through actions, what should I do?
I think that leaving babies alone was widely done in the past . You know , parents saying " I need to go to the shop for 5 minutes " . I heard that when I was a child myself , from neighbours . My mother always told them to take the kid with them but ...no....Nowadays people would call the police but back then the police couldn't care less ....and yes I'm an old old woman !
i feel so bad , because they didn’t even know that it was happening , they just thought of it as if it was normal . no kid should feel or go through that . 😢😢
7:13 also thinking about how he knew where the kid lived or if she told him that’s also bad too for obvious reasons.
Interesting fact but some species of worms actually reproduce with eggs and being chopped in half. I think earthworms can do this. Starfish can also reproduce if a limb breaks off,it can grow into a new starfish.
When watching movies, my uncle would call me over to sit on his lap even if I was in my own chair. Around the time, I experienced cocsa and the next time I went back to my uncles for a movie I felt really uncomfortable on his lap (they had both bounced me on their legs roughly). He got arrested for raping his niece. Everyone told me he was in africa helping starving children. I feel for that girl and hope shes alright (never met her but I do think of her).
When I was in 6th or 7th grade my family went on a trip with my aunt's family and our grandmas. When we were coming back I had an upset stomach and I wasn't feeling well. I was sitting next to my uncle and I had the window seat. My uncle made me lay down on his lap and tocuhed me under my shirt. I tried getting up several times but I was forced to lay down. What's funny is that literally everyone else including my parents grandparents his children and wife were all inside. I'm a timid person so I have a hard time speaking up. I still haven't told anyone about that and now I always avoid my uncle when I see him. And there was also this music teacher who came to teach me piano. He would sit next to me during lessons and sometimes he would touch me down. I hated it so much but I was too afraid to speak up. I know that if I had at least told my mom she would stop the classes immidiately but I still wonder why I didn't. Anyway, he's no longer in this world so it's okay. I think this is exactly where my Androphobia came from. The only men I trust in this world are my dad, younger brother, my uncles from my dad's side. Apart from that I'm uncomfortable with all the men. We have male teachers at school and I find it uncomfortable to be around them too. Even though I know that all men aren't the same I can never feel at ease around men unless there's at least one woman around.
It think the creep wanted to gain trust that’s y he let her go bc he trusted she was dumb enough to meet him again and he was right she would’ve if she didn’t tell her mom
Gurl why did you say that mom didn't care about the kid in the "my mom laughed at me while i was bleed through my leg" because that was much more than "not caring" thats sadism, actually psychopathic even. Not caring would be if you 4 yo shows you a crayon drawing and you just say "sure bud" instead of trying to encourage them and stuff. But even the most emotionally cold normal person wouldn't laugh at their child being seriously hurt , let alone not even get them proper treatment
I got mad and frustrated told my friend my dad had shoved me against the fridge and she got cps involved that was my introduction to realizing nothing was normal about how i was being raised and it was very abusive mentally, physically, and emotionally. I was also very suicidal too because of it and have scars from self harm. I had really bad anorexia too from not being given food to point i started making jewelry just to buy myself some food i also was being forced to sleep in a very dusty and dirty shop with no heating or cooling without a bed just a pile of blankets and clothes I snuck into the shop in attempt to kinda get sleep. He basically expected me to spend most of the day cleaning or cooking and any other time was spent on my schooling due to it being online they couldn't hold him to give me the time I needed either because he never cared. I was always very sleep deprived while always being insulted like I was worthless and the sad part is i ended up believing him too due to how much he said it and all the many different ways....
HOLY SHIT. ARE THEY BEHIND BARS?!
That's absolutely a felony. Did you get therapy?
@@JustAHarmlessSoph it's a felony?
@@emilyevans7642 definitely child abuse and neglect
@@JustAHarmlessSoph welp.... and kinda did but didn't really do anything...
That’s the tragic backstory of a supervillain if I’ve ever seen one
Tbf usually when a worm gets split in half the other half does turn into separate worm LMAO, this is because they have 9 hearts so op most likely didn't kill them, and the person who told them that was probably just confused. So no it's NOT how the reproduce at all but it does technically make two worms (this is also probably why no adult told them they were wrong). I hope someone tells the poster this so they can feel a bit better about their childhood 😭
Now I understand cuz I remember something about being told both halves will become separate worms too (but I still never touched worms cuz ewwww worms
I haven't watched you in years, you were my favourite TH-camr as a kid!! Im so happy you're still doing TH-cam and I wish you the best!!!!
Same bro😭 I still have notifs on and every time I go
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7:00 that is terrifying how close that was
for me my moment that i slowly realized wasnt normal for others was when i was 20 and realized that my dad attemptin to murder a man and leavin my brother and i at the scene of the crime was NOT smth that most ppl go through. i was like around 7-9 at the time. my friends all asked if i was ok and i was like "well, im pretty sure i didnt see the body so"
6:59 Girl, PROBABLY?!?!? HE ALREADY DID IN THE ARCADE
I love your username. Army? ❤😂
@@brightstarcrochet Thank you! Hell yes I am 💜
it makes me happy when you come back up to my recommendations, because of how much I loved watching your videos every single day for such a long time when I was younger. It makes me happy you're still doing your thing. 💖💖
5:26 I never did anything about it cuz ewww worms but I was told that as a child too
When I was around 8 a guy running from the cops stopped at my house and tried to break in and I chopped him. My parents didn't believe me saying I read yoo much books and watch too many movies... He did go to jail he got out earlier this year and I saw him. He didn't recognize me though and tried to get my number🙄
Some dudes are idiots 🙄
omg。。。 what is wrong with some people。。。
Yeah, umm…. Gen X and early millennials (who wrote most of these stories) were in arcades by themselves at 11 years old all the time back in the day. It was pretty normal, to be honest. My mom would let my brother and me hang out in the mall arcade while she went shopping. I was 12 years old when the local mall opened half an hour from where I grew up, and though I don’t know exactly when my mom first let my brother and me hang out there on our own, I know she left us there more than once.
This made me remember when something of the kind happened to me (a lot less dark then the stories in this vid, unless we are talking about the disappearance of my childhood innocence):
So, when I was in like 6th grade our teacher gave us a mandatory book to read and about one third into the book the main character had some 'weird dream' in which he and girl from his class (which - by that point in the book - I suspected the mc might have had a crush on) were alone together in some kind of bath/ sauna for the elders and he told the girl to undress. I, in my 12 year-old innocence, thought that the boy wanted to give her a massage (since they were in a sauna). Only 3 years later as I sat awake in bed one night the realization as to what the dream was actually implying struck...
Edit: I have tried searching the book, and apparently the age rating is 9-11 years-old...💀
I have currently completely lost faith in humanity...
Being overprotective can ruin kids too you know.
Hii Ellen I love the video and your outfit I hope that you and coco have had a wonderful day and that the both of yall stay healthy and safe also coco is adorable I love the both of yall💜💜💜
another scenario for 6:17 would be they were eyeing the house specifically to rob it and when they walked in and saw the kid they panicked and said the first believable story that came to mind ... thankfully the kid didn't buy it and saved the house from being burglarized
I was today years old when I found out ymca isn't just a song
Truly amazing
what does the 2nd one mean?? about the clean houses?
They were really poor
Maybe it was a horder type of family and never clean up the house
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Hi!! Love your content. Been a fan for 2 and more years now. The thumbnails though 😅 i think you need to improve it more so more people will click ❤🎉
I like that she has a small community tho coz it's cozy and nice and everyone's so supportive. But yeah she does deserve more views and its sad that she has less views than before. But I'm so happy she's still making vids
Gave the first thumbs up but it stayed at zero.
Thumbnail is .... Wow
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Are my eyes just bad or is the video blurry....
I think I need glasses 😶
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Wait, worms die when they get split in half?
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I've never been this early omg
"Me no likey scary needles" 6 year olds do not act like that at least I didn't. I grew up quick (mentally) and I stopped saying incomplete sentences at 3 somehow.
Do you know what paraphrasing is?
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How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, I swear that people like this man should just be put on an isolated island with several other convicts and criminalls because they are just not fit for this society anymore. How in the f*ck did he even get a wife because he is truly just so disgusting? In the second story, rich people can also have filthy and nasty houses because they just refuse to clean. Anybody can have a clean house, but they've just got to be willing to work on it themselves. In the third story, I am just so very sorry and I feel so very bad that the main protagonist had to witness that awful scen take place. What is wrong with the mom because kids can't make things like that up. She owes her child huge apology. In the fourth story, unfortunately there are some kids who grow up in very ab*sive homes and they get h*t so much to the point where they either think that it's normal or they just become completely numb to it. In the fifth story, so this person grew up in a very dysfunctional home where they just never recieved affection or any kind of positive attention at all. I hope that they're doing better now. In the sixth story, this is just so creepy and I truly hope and pray that those men are locked up now. In the seventh story, this is ab*se right here and the mom should've been locked up along with the babysitter as well because was an accomplice. In the eighth story, I strongly believe that their granny was trying to take them out of this world. In the ninth story, mothers like this really just piiss me off to the fullest because it's not like her child asked to be borrn, she made that decision when she decided to have naaughty time with some man, but now she can't take care of her responsiblilties because it's to hard for her. Big deal time to grow up. In the tenth story, she was in a room filled with pedos. In the eleventh story, he was a very bad man and even worse a bad dad too. In the twelveth story, their babysitter was ab*sing them and they didn't even know it. I love you my precious friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe beautiful!!
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Nope. Twentieth.