Years ago I decided that if I believed my life was divinely guided, there was no reason to question any decision I made. Making that deliberate choice has made all the difference.
I think people who asks this is worried about inspired actions. And they fear if they miss it. Let me tell you.... YOU CAN NEVER MISS THE INSPIRED ACTION. Period. That's why they are called INSPIRED actions. You won't even know it was an inspired action untill you look back and realized "oh so that's what led me to my manifestation".. you'll be compelled to do it.( talking from personal experiences) So don't worry. And l've heard some coaches say " you have to take inspired actions" that's the dumbest thing l've ever heard. Trust me they don't know what they are saying. You can't "take" inspired actions that will happen naturally. If that's an inspired action you won't question it.
Thank you for this comforting message! Folks say we need to jump through all these hoops in order to make sure something happens, when inside I know that doesn't feel good. Knowing and trusting is what feels natural 😌
Thank you! I thought I just messed up my 3d ad started to date someone else and that person fell in love with me. Now trying to manifest that they find someone new, so I won't hurt them.
Thank you Shelley. More coaches need to teach this. There is nothing wrong in what we’re doing in our manifesting journey. There’s steps to this. Being and embodying the version who has what we desire brings the manifestation! ❤️
I agree. I had a manifestion coach that told me would never get a masculine version of a man if contacted him in the 3d. If I just texted him to say hello: that it was chasing and that's his job. I was told to leave him alone in the 3d. This was a important video for many.
@@eternalabundance39 100 percent. We know when we’re in a state of chasing (ie desperate feeling) or in a state of acceptance and allowing ourselves to do what what we really feel is good and right in any moment. Reaching out to say hello to an SP and then letting go is not a form of chasing. You’ll know even when you no longer have the desire to do that. It’s all a process, a journey.
Love your videos, Shelly! I feel more reassured and secure with my manifestation, sometimes overthinking can get in the way and I question myself, but this was really helpful. Thank you so much!
You know this makes so much sense on the flip side. We are programmed from childhood and attract partners based on patterns we practiced then. We don’t make any effort there, it’s natural because it’s familiar…. Reprogramming is the same thing. We’re making new patterns that are familiar and we don’t make any effort it’s a natural drawing in.
Seriously?!! I am writing this without even watching this video completely. Just yesterday I was having second thoughts on whether I am making some mistake or doing something wrong; I was a bit anxious to be honest. And boom! Shelly came up with this video!! The timing couldn't have been better. 😍❤ Thanku Shelly! More power to you!!
Today, day 9 after starting my "magnetic" subliminals, I am feeling the obsession with this guy falling away. And yet, I still want him. Because of this, I am understanding what the right energy for me is for being in a relationship. I am not 100% it'll work out but maybe 67%. And yet, I feel like no matter what, everything is going to work out fine, because it is fine now. Also, synchronicities, people going out of their way to be kind, etc. etc. Really, really good. (P.S. The subliminals idea was based on Shelly's Magnetic course.)
Hello Shelly… I’m going to disagree that “wanting to be sure you do the right thing” comes from a sense of “not having your desire”. For me it came from all of the suggested rules that are out there! You know, things like “Don’t use certain words”. “Don’t focus too much energy on your SP”. “Don’t think about the 3P at all”. It has only been recently that I’ve seen a shift away from all these don’ts by Manifestation Coaches! It can be daunting when you’re learning manifesting. I appreciate you clarifying things with this video! I took your “Manifest Your SP” course in November and December of 2020. I manifested a new SP and the SP I had originally intended. You are an excellent coach. Thank you.
Shelly do you have a video on how to ignore current reality when it's totally showing no movement and can you make a video for same. Just how to deal on day to day basis with current circumstances.
Ruth always just go in your inner world. Trust in your desire, trust that you’re creating everything, and trust in your higher self/God to shift and move everyone/everything that has to happen to give you what you want. Remember that your desire is bigger than your ego self. Its divine , you’re infinite and it’s all greater than any circumstance.
She explained it in this video, maybe watch this a few times. I would suggest too: looking up what Neville Goddard explains on states. All the best to you ❤️
Hi Shelly, do you remember how often you would do inner child meditations until you were solid in the belief of love is consistent and stays? I keep thinking I’m good after a month, sp pursues, I slowly stop the meditations and then he distanced again…
I think this worrying is stemmed from limiting belief and it create resistance. They transmitted vibration of uncertainty and doubt based on worrying and fear which is definitely not good for manifestation. But the truth is once we have that inner knowing and certainty, we automatically transmitting vibration of certainty and wish fulfilled to the universe and so every step we take or not take becomes a bridge of incidents that has to lead us to our desired outcome
I love this video! For the people that want clarification on this subject: read chapter two of The Law and The Promise by Neville Goddard. It’s all about living in the end ❤️
I agree with this because, I know that I'm not making the wrong decision while manifesting but I had this question and I don't know whether this one is or not but it was troubling me ever since I started manifesting and it is that on Instagram I see how everyone is me pushed out because, I want to know how do I not get in that state where I'm not only desperate but also asking for in this case followers on Instagram from kids my age, to become friends, and them blocking me and un-following me. I know I'm not this person anymore but I've felt anxious about this and this was the reason this happened between me and my sp. I am a good person, amazing, incredible, chosen, and loved!
She has one titled "DO THIS AFTER You Manifest Your Relationship/ Specific Person (very important!)" date Dec 27, 2019. Older tho, so maybe she'll want to do a new one??
Hi shellyyy , but i am so stuck whether i should recreate my current sp or new sp , as i created some unloving things with this sp where i dont feel for him much now or maybe just i got numbed bcoz of hurt , so i am extremely confused that should i start with someone new i am so restless bcoz i am stuck at this , as i can get the things i want with both the new and current one , but the current one rn feels so constrained and i am confused whether i still love him or not , what shall i do?
Dear Shelly, so if I understand correctly , then it’s also okay if we reacted or said something not very nice to our SP? It feels like if I said “Hell no” to the version of him I don’t want….🙃
We can’t mess up our manifestation! I made the mistake (for the last time!) and reacted to the 3D, SP blocked me, then unblocked me, only to block me again. I’m not worried a bit, that’s my bridge of incidents of him realising how much he loves and misses me. Stop looking at the 3D and go within. The past is not your future, claim your manifestation and enter the state you want to be in. ♥️💫
Hi can someone help me? I accidentally told my sp I'm manifesting him when we had argued and I'm wondering if that can affect my manifestafion? What should I do then? It seems like he is manifesting the opposite
Seriously, the video answers this question. Where she says decision - you decided to tell him you were manifesting him. Even if you feel you did it "accidentally."
Sometimes you think you really know your desire is coming in without any doubt and then it doesn't. Isnt this kind of misleading ? What to do in this case ?
I can relate. Usually i give up meaning I literally say if it shows up in 10 years so be it. I feel into my worst fear, either not getting it or "it" showing up later than I wanted. Ive had things show up and usually although I knew it would happen i didnt care or want it anymore
Hi Shelly I want to manifest gorgeous hair. I had beautiful hair few years ago. So my belief which I no is true is " I can have gorgeous hair again". Could you please help me how to change to my new belief?
Just repeat your affirmation untill it becomes a belief. Repetition is all you need. Belief is a thought you repeated over and over untill you believed it.
Question: when you were manifesting your man did people ask you whether you were in a relationship? If yes, how did you respond in the 3D while embodying the feeling of your pending manifestation. Thank you so much !
She has said in many videos that she wasn’t delusional, she just said knew it and didn’t feel the need to explain it to anyone. I say I’m single even though I trust my SP is mine because both can be true.
Here is a question if I think that I am already in a relationship or if I’m somebody’s girlfriend and if I truly believe into this equation then if I already believe it in then Then wouldn’t my desire be compromised for looking a partner, it will Will become less because I will already assume that I am already in a relationship. Looking for yoir insights.
If you’re the guilty party can you still manifest them back ? She keeps coming hot and cold but says she can’t comeback to me in a relationship I’m too toxic , there is also I 3rd party .
I do not know why but I feel like everything I try to manifest is already there with one of my friend she has literally everything I try to manifest and before that she doesn’t I started having a believe that everything I try to manifest comes to her and I need to change this thought of mine I don’t know but can you help me if you don’t mind that is
So if you text your SP during NC, where they stopped talking to you, regardless of their reaction, it can’t mess up your manifestation to get them back in your life?
Sheesh, I hope not. I believe it's true tho. I once got in a terrible place with a guy I was involved with and he eventually ended up contacting me a couple times. It did take a long time, but also, I wasn't even manifesting that to happen!
@@KeepQuestioning243 Oh, really that's crazy! Things just come unexpectedly am I right? But, I trust the process and I know that eventually she'll contact me too!
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Years ago I decided that if I believed my life was divinely guided, there was no reason to question any decision I made. Making that deliberate choice has made all the difference.
I think people who asks this is worried about inspired actions. And they fear if they miss it. Let me tell you.... YOU CAN NEVER MISS THE INSPIRED ACTION. Period. That's why they are called INSPIRED actions. You won't even know it was an inspired action untill you look back and realized "oh so that's what led me to my manifestation".. you'll be compelled to do it.( talking from personal experiences) So don't worry. And l've heard some coaches say " you have to take inspired actions" that's the dumbest thing l've ever heard. Trust me they don't know what they are saying. You can't "take" inspired actions that will happen naturally. If that's an inspired action you won't question it.
Completely agree and I love your comment :)
@@Sonja147 thanks 🖤
Agree! Thank you, perfect comment ✨❤️✨
Hi, what does the Period mean here? Thanks a lot.
I agree! Well said, thanks for the comment.
Thank you for this comforting message! Folks say we need to jump through all these hoops in order to make sure something happens, when inside I know that doesn't feel good. Knowing and trusting is what feels natural 😌
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Thank you! I thought I just messed up my 3d ad started to date someone else and that person fell in love with me. Now trying to manifest that they find someone new, so I won't hurt them.
Thank you Shelley. More coaches need to teach this. There is nothing wrong in what we’re doing in our manifesting journey. There’s steps to this. Being and embodying the version who has what we desire brings the manifestation! ❤️
I agree. I had a manifestion coach that told me would never get a masculine version of a man if contacted him in the 3d. If I just texted him to say hello: that it was chasing and that's his job. I was told to leave him alone in the 3d. This was a important video for many.
@@eternalabundance39 100 percent. We know when we’re in a state of chasing (ie desperate feeling) or in a state of acceptance and allowing ourselves to do what what we really feel is good and right in any moment. Reaching out to say hello to an SP and then letting go is not a form of chasing. You’ll know even when you no longer have the desire to do that. It’s all a process, a journey.
This is probably the best explanation of manifesting I have seen. Shelly you are an amazing teacher. 🙂
Thank you!
thank to you, I'm in a beautiful relationship!!
YOU ARE WONDERFUL SHELLY❤❤❤
I love your Clarity!! 💜
Best video ever done on this topic 🙌🏻✨✨
This is by far one of the most AWESOME videos ever!!!!! Thank you, Shelly!!! ⚘
Oh Shelly I needed this!!! I'm get so confused sometimes with doing this but you make it clear. thank you, your amazing.
Love your videos, Shelly! I feel more reassured and secure with my manifestation, sometimes overthinking can get in the way and I question myself, but this was really helpful. Thank you so much!
Needed this right now. Thank you❤
You know this makes so much sense on the flip side. We are programmed from childhood and attract partners based on patterns we practiced then. We don’t make any effort there, it’s natural because it’s familiar…. Reprogramming is the same thing. We’re making new patterns that are familiar and we don’t make any effort it’s a natural drawing in.
Seriously?!! I am writing this without even watching this video completely. Just yesterday I was having second thoughts on whether I am making some mistake or doing something wrong; I was a bit anxious to be honest. And boom! Shelly came up with this video!! The timing couldn't have been better. 😍❤
Thanku Shelly! More power to you!!
This was reassuring for me! 🙏 Shelley.
I love you so much Shelly 💖💕
Today, day 9 after starting my "magnetic" subliminals, I am feeling the obsession with this guy falling away. And yet, I still want him. Because of this, I am understanding what the right energy for me is for being in a relationship. I am not 100% it'll work out but maybe 67%. And yet, I feel like no matter what, everything is going to work out fine, because it is fine now. Also, synchronicities, people going out of their way to be kind, etc. etc. Really, really good. (P.S. The subliminals idea was based on Shelly's Magnetic course.)
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Hello Shelly… I’m going to disagree that “wanting to be sure you do the right thing” comes from a sense of “not having your desire”. For me it came from all of the suggested rules that are out there! You know, things like “Don’t use certain words”. “Don’t focus too much energy on your SP”. “Don’t think about the 3P at all”. It has only been recently that I’ve seen a shift away from all these don’ts by Manifestation Coaches! It can be daunting when you’re learning manifesting. I appreciate you clarifying things with this video! I took your “Manifest Your SP” course in November and December of 2020. I manifested a new SP and the SP I had originally intended. You are an excellent coach. Thank you.
I agree I had manifested successfully in the past by just doing it. Then got caught up in all the ways of having to do it right.
Are you reffering on Master Course?
This video ist superb Shelly (as usual), but this one is 🙂
Thank you Shelly. Your video encouraged me. Good luck:))
Great video Shelly ❤️
Thank you Shelly!
Thank you Shelly!🙏✨💖🤗
On point in this one
Shelly do you have a video on how to ignore current reality when it's totally showing no movement and can you make a video for same. Just how to deal on day to day basis with current circumstances.
Ruth always just go in your inner world. Trust in your desire, trust that you’re creating everything, and trust in your higher self/God to shift and move everyone/everything that has to happen to give you what you want. Remember that your desire is bigger than your ego self. Its divine , you’re infinite and it’s all greater than any circumstance.
She explained it in this video, maybe watch this a few times. I would suggest too: looking up what Neville Goddard explains on states. All the best to you ❤️
This is a good video :)
Hi Shelly, do you remember how often you would do inner child meditations until you were solid in the belief of love is consistent and stays? I keep thinking I’m good after a month, sp pursues, I slowly stop the meditations and then he distanced again…
I think this worrying is stemmed from limiting belief and it create resistance. They transmitted vibration of uncertainty and doubt based on worrying and fear which is definitely not good for manifestation.
But the truth is once we have that inner knowing and certainty, we automatically transmitting vibration of certainty and wish fulfilled to the universe and so every step we take or not take becomes a bridge of incidents that has to lead us to our desired outcome
I love this video! For the people that want clarification on this subject: read chapter two of The Law and The Promise by Neville Goddard. It’s all about living in the end ❤️
Thank you will read today!
I agree with this because, I know that I'm not making the wrong decision while manifesting but I had this question and I don't know whether this one is or not but it was troubling me ever since I started manifesting and it is that on Instagram I see how everyone is me pushed out because, I want to know how do I not get in that state where I'm not only desperate but also asking for in this case followers on Instagram from kids my age, to become friends, and them blocking me and un-following me. I know I'm not this person anymore but I've felt anxious about this and this was the reason this happened between me and my sp. I am a good person, amazing, incredible, chosen, and loved!
You okay Kaleb?
Can you do a video on when you’ve manifested an SP? Or have you always moved on from exes and chose to manifest someone new?
She has one titled "DO THIS AFTER You Manifest Your Relationship/ Specific Person (very important!)" date Dec 27, 2019. Older tho, so maybe she'll want to do a new one??
Oh, I'm sorry - I misunderstood what you wrote.
Love that 👌♥️
SO true!! 😘😘
Hi shellyyy , but i am so stuck whether i should recreate my current sp or new sp , as i created some unloving things with this sp where i dont feel for him much now or maybe just i got numbed bcoz of hurt , so i am extremely confused that should i start with someone new i am so restless bcoz i am stuck at this , as i can get the things i want with both the new and current one , but the current one rn feels so constrained and i am confused whether i still love him or not , what shall i do?
Dear Shelly, so if I understand correctly , then it’s also okay if we reacted or said something not very nice to our SP?
It feels like if I said “Hell no” to the version of him I don’t want….🙃
We can’t mess up our manifestation! I made the mistake (for the last time!) and reacted to the 3D, SP blocked me, then unblocked me, only to block me again. I’m not worried a bit, that’s my bridge of incidents of him realising how much he loves and misses me. Stop looking at the 3D and go within. The past is not your future, claim your manifestation and enter the state you want to be in. ♥️💫
Hi can someone help me? I accidentally told my sp I'm manifesting him when we had argued and I'm wondering if that can affect my manifestafion? What should I do then? It seems like he is manifesting the opposite
Seriously, the video answers this question. Where she says decision - you decided to tell him you were manifesting him. Even if you feel you did it "accidentally."
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Sometimes you think you really know your desire is coming in without any doubt and then it doesn't. Isnt this kind of misleading ? What to do in this case ?
I can relate. Usually i give up meaning I literally say if it shows up in 10 years so be it. I feel into my worst fear, either not getting it or "it" showing up later than I wanted. Ive had things show up and usually although I knew it would happen i didnt care or want it anymore
Maybe try focus on self consept?
Hi Shelly I want to manifest gorgeous hair. I had beautiful hair few years ago. So my belief which I no is true is " I can have gorgeous hair again". Could you please help me how to change to my new belief?
Just repeat your affirmation untill it becomes a belief. Repetition is all you need. Belief is a thought you repeated over and over untill you believed it.
@@daughterofthemoon4602 Thank you ❤️
Question: when you were manifesting your man did people ask you whether you were in a relationship? If yes, how did you respond in the 3D while embodying the feeling of your pending manifestation. Thank you so much !
that’s my thoughts too. l
She has said in many videos that she wasn’t delusional, she just said knew it and didn’t feel the need to explain it to anyone. I say I’m single even though I trust my SP is mine because both can be true.
Plus, he came super quickly. She probably didn’t have the opportunity to answer 😂
Here is a question if I think that I am already in a relationship or if I’m somebody’s girlfriend and if I truly believe into this equation then if I already believe it in then Then wouldn’t my desire be compromised for looking a partner, it will Will become less because I will already assume that I am already in a relationship. Looking for yoir insights.
If you’re the guilty party can you still manifest them back ? She keeps coming hot and cold but says she can’t comeback to me in a relationship I’m too toxic , there is also I 3rd party .
I do not know why but I feel like everything I try to manifest is already there with one of my friend she has literally everything I try to manifest and before that she doesn’t I started having a believe that everything I try to manifest comes to her and I need to change this thought of mine I don’t know but can you help me if you don’t mind that is
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So if you text your SP during NC, where they stopped talking to you, regardless of their reaction, it can’t mess up your manifestation to get them back in your life?
No! But....you might get triggered when SP doesnt respond back. So trust the process!
Sheesh, I hope not. I believe it's true tho. I once got in a terrible place with a guy I was involved with and he eventually ended up contacting me a couple times. It did take a long time, but also, I wasn't even manifesting that to happen!
@@iamqueen222 Yeah, that's how I felt before I started manifesting. I trust the process!
@@KeepQuestioning243 Oh, really that's crazy! Things just come unexpectedly am I right? But, I trust the process and I know that eventually she'll contact me too!
@@KalebJackson Yeah, Kaleb. I'm pretty sure I'm quite a bit older than you and I can tell you it happens a lot.
How can i manifest my SP if i have hurt her badly and doesnt want to talk to me?
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If someone else says these things which we want to be heard by our person how to take that situation ???
That's bird before land.. in terms of LOA or manifesting..😂😅
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It's a really good sign.
@@iamqueen222 That makes me thing of be back later ... LOL (I know what you mean, tho.) 🤣
@@KeepQuestioning243 Yeah, I know right that's what I thought too now that I think about it lol.
So “inspired action “ isn’t really necessary?
If it's truly an "inspired action," it'll happen without you really noticing it.
Could you please do other things apart from relationships (for the most people that already have that)
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Difficult to know a man is going to come into your life when you’ve been through divorce and single for years
thank you shelly. Love you!