What kind of "cheating "? Muslim men can marry up 4 women don't have to let the first wife know or need permission from her as long as he can afford to treat all of them same financially. Of course If first wife finds out she might consider that cheating if she doesn't know about the other wife's In reality he is not cheating though, he is with in his rights!! And she knows it.
@@rogers5622 if married they're not side peace my dear, Muslims men can marry up to 4 remember? It's called nikkah yhe government doesn't have to know about it🤣🤣🤣🤣 she is a wife.
@@Naallaa they wasn’t married lol he only had 1 wife! Just because you are Muslim doesn’t mean you can sleep with 4 women! They have to be his wives! No it doesn’t have to be a legal marriage but it does have to be a Muslim wedding and permission from his elders from his place of worship
I clicked because I was surprised by the title of the video. All I have to say is ladies, you are worth much more than to be treated like someone else's option.
I like the comment “ I am staying in my marriage for the kids’’a single mother would not understand that because her man didn’t stay for theirs. So basically the other woman is not the highest priority. It’s just physical so guys married or not will tell a woman what she wants to hear for the physical gratification. It happens on both sides but on the female side it’s for financial gratification and validation by any means. The other woman wants your resources and will do whatever takes to extract them especially if it’s from children that are not hers.
I'm dating a married man. We're older. I'm totally good with the fact that I most likely will not end up with him. I do love this man. He loves me too. We completely enjoy each other in every way. We knew each other as 20 year olds and he contacted me 30 years later. I never forgot him and it's like my wildest fantasy to kiss him. He has grown kids. He said he wants the intimacy and so do I because I lack it in my 10 year relationship. I'm prepared for it to end at any time. You need to be in reality.
The tips might be helpful to some, but - the title on this video’s cover is so NOT correct, getting attracted to a married man can happen to any woman , few times she falls for the good times- can happen. Continuing such arrangements also requires strength but getting yourself out of such situations requires much more strength !!!
Whew, clicked this out of curiosity and all I can say is although my relationship with my father isn't great thank GOD I had a man teach me better than this. Many women literally BUILD turmoil into their lives with their choices & don't even realize it. Then 2-3 baby daddy's later wonder why no good man wants them, they're burnt out & gave away all your valuable stuff. If you want a soft life, get into tech. I'm probably living better than 1/2 the women who do this without the degrading act of sleeping with someone's husband and stepping between their GODLY vows. Karma is real. So is AIDS & there are wives who will kill you because of this...! Ya'll stay safe. *shrugs*
I wasn’t trying to date him and it’s honestly against my beliefs but our chemistry is everything our convos out laugh and our bond I feel I should stop but my selfishness won’t let me I love how he treats me I get sooo high off him he’s a good man too it’s a lot in him that a crave he’s really a good person it’s just that he’s married I wish I could’ve met him years ago
Lmao if you notice the wife knows about you and doesn't fuss and allows him to be with you.. BIG RED FLAG because the wife knows the Man is an abuser and wants him off her hands.
This is the worst advice ever. Stop using men. If you are a women who is in this position needing this advice, you really need to work on yourself and stop dating entirely. Men want loyalty above all else, and you apparently don't value loyalty. You just want something from a man. Stop it.
so many men are unaliving their mistresses. Black women are already a target for dangerous narcissitic men like this. (I am a mixed spanish black girl however i am speaking for all women when I say this) This advice, is dangerous! This woman talking about self love ? Girl please. Women no experience is better than an experience with a narc who is using u as a mistress. Please protect yourselves and go to school or work start ur business don’t ask these weird men for nothing! it will save ur time, money, physical and mental health.
@@Mindful.Movement.01 i don’t know, what does that change? Now, why are people willingly putting themselves at risk for this though? cus y’all are desperate and love to let these podcasts brainwash y’all? Maybe that’s something u need to be mindful ab
Huh ? I’m just asking a question. I don’t do married men. I genuinely want to know since you said it. It sounded like you had experience in situations like this with married men. Not sure where the conscendig shade is coming from and the random assumptions about my life
@@Mindful.Movement.01 Are you okay? I’ve never done anything with a man in a relationship. I’m not condescending at all. I’m disgusted with this dangerous advice being targeted at women who are already statistically proven to be MOST LIKELY victims of domestic violence. You would be upset and not know what to think if you were me too! This is disturbing advice and it’s putting many in a vulnerable position. Do u want a comfortable lifestyle? work for it, don’t run around begging these dirty men for nothing! I know who I am and what my reason for saying things is, so if you think you’re proving a point by saying these silly micro-agressions towards me, then you are mistaken! However, if u didn’t have rude intentions and u see where i’m coming from then I apologize if I came off as judging u. Just too use to people who are supporting this mentality coming at me sideways for speaking up for victims
@@careforjusticealways ok listen this went totally left. Really I wasn’t coming at you and had no ill will intentions with my first comment. I genuinely wanted to know. I worked hard for everything I have and do life a god lifestyle. I just genuinely wanted to know how does a situation turn into the married man killing the single woman when he married. That’s all . No harm no foul
What about the “dating” aspect? Is it ever ok to publicly go on dates like the movies, restaurant, trips out of town, etc? I know you said to act like you don’t know him if you see him in public so I’m guessing that’s a no-go but I’m asking just to be sure.
Don’t do it. You will have to answer to God for it. He said “Let no man put usunder.” The person who does so is what the Bible refers to as the strange woman in proverbs.
Mans are biologically polygamous, having multiples wifes is a good thing! There is not a single script of any relation that put limitation for how many wifes a man can have , only islam set up a limitation, you girls you have to grow up and understand that your man he's biologically polygamous so accept a second wife better than sleeping around and cheating with many !!
Dude shut up yes there is it's called the Bible. The old testament isn't what people go by you're supposed to have one wife and cheating on her is a sin. Men aren't polygamous that's just what men who want to control and abuse women say especially when they tell them to just accept it.
@@fordshojoe8080great job explaining this to a brother. It’s all about discipline. He seems to be maybe part of the “red pill community”. May he find the truth he seeks before it is too late.
I been single for 21 years , my guy said I gat girlfriend girlfriend mean shit when he on my house every day. But what make it worse no he sometimes call her wife he is not. Thing is after 5 months and believe me he sleep on he’s house she on her house I sleep on my house but I will ruin he’s life for the lie . That’s where I’m at I loose nothing he lie to me stay on my house 3 times a week all nite long and guess what my heart is not of rock. He is fuck with my ass now you bet on that. Cause the lie
I only date a married man from two months. I wanted to commitment from him.but he don't want to give me commitment. I said him, to do separate your past relationship. After than I will think about you. But I can't agree to him at all.
I would never date a married man! I don't have much more time to waste. And if he can lie to his wife and be disloyal to her, even if he says it's a bad relationship, then he is capable of a lot with you too! Ultimately, he's a liar and has no sense of honor. That man/boy is not worth the time to waste....SERIOUSLY. But I can see how it can happen....BUT being in a relationship like this is wasting the chance to find a real man...But if you're dating a married man then WOMEN time to level yourself up !!
I was so surprised to see this that I just had to click on it. I don't know why I'm in disbelief. This is just....WOW. Dating a married man is never a good idea. It will only lead to heartache.
@@ladysunshine9029 I don't know why you would want a married man. It's funny though. Now that you say bad karma, I'm thinking of my dad's cousin. She was really pretty, but was married and would cheat. She had a boyfriend for years and a good husband. He raised her children from a previous marriage. He died. One day my dad was talking to him in his room. The man was battling cancer, and he told my dad...I'm not stupid. I know she out there cheating. Had been for years. NONE of us liked her side dude. He was dangerous. Well. Her husband finally died, and the side dude is gone. She all broke down and old looking. She should not need assistance to walk at her age. She's alone. It's just crazy. I think about how she did her husband and how she should have been caring for him, now she our here on her own. Smh. Maybe it's karma.
@@Morgan24_7 Good morning; I'm just seeing your comment. I agree that this is his wife's karma. It may take years, but it will come back around. It's all energy, and the universe has to send it back somehow. Plus, it always comes back when they're least expecting it. Marriage is ordained and sacred
No Karma will happen man will always cheat yall. Side chicks want money Period if your man can give out money that easily then why not. Let these women be and let Keena teach them how to win the game.
Hello Crystal. Thank you for commenting. I love your channel. I watch it often actually and love your approach on things. We should do a video together in regards to the subject. I think it would be interesting.
This is not about judgement, but encouragement: Ladies, you deserve your own man. You are valuable and worthy of being someone’s one and only. Why choose this? Life is short, every day you can make a new decision and experience new outcomes.
I SAY GET COMPENSATED FOR YOUR TIME !! YES, I SAID " YOUR TIME " !! HE ISN'T LOOKING FOR LOVE !! PERIOD. KEEP YOUR EMOTIONS IN CHECK AND INVEST YOUR EARINGS. THATS PLAYING IT SMART !! MARRIED MEN DO NOT LEAVE THEIR WIVES AND OR KIDS. THEY DO NOT LEAVE NO MATTER HOW BAD OR UNCOMFORTABLE THE SITUATION IS AT HOME. THEY STAY AND THEY STAY AND THEY STAY !! ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE ARE KIDS TO BE RAISED. MOST MEN DO NOT INITIATE DIVORCES AND MOST WILL VOMIT AT THE THOUGHT OF SOMEONE ELSE RAISING THEIR CHILDREN.
i dunno how accurate this statement is, but coming from someone who WAS married...not all men stay. My ex and I were together for 16 years, married for 10, have 1 kid together. things got bad, and i left. I started dating a year or so later, and still legally married. we dont live together, we dont hang out, we dont do any of that. not all men stay. and not all wives are innocent.
@@phillippantaleano2930 I Sir was addressing single women who date married men or men who are in relationships. These men particularly do not leave wives or long-time girlfriends for side chicks or side pieces or dime pieces. I understand every situation is different. I also understand some men will stay in their marriages for the sake of their children. Most men do not initiate divorces, especially when there are children to be raised and cared for.
The thing that is more disgusted is NOT dating a married man but seeing the comments bashing the mistress ONLY..The husband made the VOWS not the mistress Married men leave single women alone..NO wrath on the single women the wrath is on the husband who took the vows..stop being chauvinistic and blaming the Happy SINGLE women who are minding their business and the MARRIED MAN is pursing and SOME men are leaving their wives it’s alot and they remarry and be happy Stop with cap Women in the comments he hating on other women that’s why the men cheat they know they will never get blamed the wife will fight the SINGLE women before she fault her pursing a$$ husband SMDH
100% correct. I have been getting hit on by married men and I have never dated not one. In fact I have gotten hit on so much that it has turned me off from wanting to get married because I don’t want to be a dumb naive wife acting like the single woman put voodoo on his penis to have sex with him. These men and women too who do this are just selfish PERIOD. Stop blaming the single woman. She doesn’t owe you anything he does.
Help them? Wth are they even in this type of “relationship”. She’s not in a relationship except in her head. He’s already in a relationship with his wife. Woman meets man, man has a wife yet she sees him as a potential partner. Wth? And this notion that she just can’t break it off smh. She shouldn’t have gotten involved with another woman’s husband to begin with. What is so damn hard for these women to grasp? HE HAS A WIFE! It’s none of her business of what’s going on in his “unhappy” marriage. She’s not an innocent, helpless bystander. Ugh.
@@wavy2186 Of course. That goes without saying, but we’re talking about the women now. You can’t control what he does. You can control what you do by not getting involved. Women are responsible for their OWN actions. These married men aren’t putting a gun to their head. You’re trying to deflect. It’s called consent. SMDH.
These tips are very valid! I understand where you’re coming from. Although, it’s wrong to even date a married men but it happens. So bring transparent is a key factor. He’s never going to be a “real boyfriend “. You’re essentially just a side piece and it’s risky to fall in love in the first place. Even if he truly loves you it doesn’t matter. His wife and kids are always the priority no matter what.
It isn't "wrong" to date a married man when he & his wife agree on having a non-conventional structure to their marriage. Not everyone wants to be a primary partner. Some people value their autonomy & independence more than trying to totally merge their everyday lives with someone. Their relationships are just as valid as the ones society places higher recognition on. I chose non-conventional relating & always choose to have my heart present. If I fall in love, so be it. If I don't, but I enjoy sharing love with that partner, so be it. We really need to expand our views of what intimate relating looks like. People have been playing a variety of roles in their love lives for thousands of years.
Fear of commitment , lack of self esteem, traumas, narcissistic disorder, are why some people like married men or women . They need therapy and healing
@@mermaidlilyrose if the wife allows him to be with you it is most likely because the man is an abuser and wants to get rid of him I've seen it many times.. no woman is just going to let a good man go
Keep the relationship spicy. Else he'll keep it moving. Stay focused on what you want to gain from that relationship. Be it financial security or business establishment through his connects or even just fun. Cuz best believe that main will drain everything he needs out of you from that relationship. Keep it on your terms but stealthily and respectfully
A married man liked me for a long time (before he was married) but I was in a relationship and so by the time i became single he was dating his now wife. He told me earlier that he really liked me but I refused because it would have been a LDR and that’s when he went to his now wife.. During the whole time periodically he expressed interest towards me but I refused to entertain him.. last month I was feeling a bit vulnerable and depressed and he was being there for me, giving me emotional support,mental support,he was respectful,kind,polite,caring and loving and while he mentioned he wouldn’t leave his wife… I also don’t want him to leave his wife or anything because I didn’t and don’t want anything with him. I made a mistake by engaging in some dirty texting and phone sex with him. But that was once. After that I heavily regretted and he understood that I’m not up for this. Then he still wanted to be friends and I said no. He mentioned he still has feelings for me and still finds me attractive and cares about me. It was hard to let him go but I’m glad I did. It’s been two weeks and I’m trying to hold on to my strength and tell myself I deserve so much better. I mean I always knew I deserve better,I’ve always prayed for better. My judgement got a bit clouded on those few days of phone sexting but it meant nothing to me also. Ultimately I told him that I don’t want to be communication and he accepted that.
Let’s just be honest some women don’t want to be a full time partner. Some like to only have the fun parts. So keep your options open so you will end up leaving the situation get what you can get out of it and exit
I never wanted to date a married man but it happen to me once ..we really liked each other and the time i met him i was heartbroken from the previous relationship and he was separated from his wife ..He connected with my heart ,the love and care he gave me brought healing to me,it was something beautiful but yes i know that this kind of relation can’t progress to something more deeper
How did it end? Was he sincere? I am going through a similar situation. My husband was cheating on me and I was going through a divorce and this guy helped me heal and I ended up trusting him.
Dating married men is not good like a lot of people say, but these relationships exist and a lot of ladies are surviving and living a soft life out of it, Just know how you play the cards
I come from Africa and we have something called POLYGAMY- many are dating married men for marriage as 2nd 3rd wives etc. The wealthy/able rarely have one legal wife. Side chics aka concubines as in the bible are shunned upon...but are still there
This is real and happening, so if you are the woman who didn't know that your date is actually married, you should take these pieces of advice. But for us, no one wins in this kind of setup, everyone loses. If there is someone who want to date you, especially if you are skeptical, it's better to use a marriage and divorce records search first. And if he turns out to be Mr. Married, stop engaging with them, and move on. You don’t deserve to be lied to and toyed with.
Whoever dates a married person has no respect for themselves and needs serious help. I pray that y’all find the help you need as soon as possible. Amen 🙏🏿
I dont think like.that. it doesn't matter if somebody got a ring on the finger or not and still.be in a relationship ..i really.dont care cause its not my head issue with it cause iam free if i would date a married man. End of the story
Here is a wrench for you. How about if the man's wife knows and consents and the man *is* capable of caring for, and being loyal to both. It's exceptionally rare, but not impossible. Most guys cannot really handle more than one person at that level, but a small few can.
This is a rubbish thing to do and it only will make you less likely to ever get married because of the sins that come along with that. I have tried this and it backfired and also when you start dating you must understand that you will attract those situations to you if you don’t stop repent and find your own partner through Christ. I know things and life gets tough but don’t ruin any woman’s relationship/marriage for money or anything else. RESPECT ONE ANOTHER AND DO NOT TRESPASS. ❤ DO NOT HURT ANOTHER WOMAN WHEN YOU KNOW HOW HURT FEELS. ❤
Great tips I can concur with your thoughts only because everything you have said I've done and I'm still happily married but I don't condone what I have done.
I met a married man at work..it's been a year and I know he's still interested. I don't sneak or cheat, or seek to hurt any other woman or break up a family. So nothing has happened. Do I think that we would have dated if he was single? Without a doubt. Or maybe if somehow I had met him years before, we would be together. No doubt. But in life, these type of situations occur, and some things just aren't meant to be.
How do u keep your emotions in check if you're really feeling him? Do you have a time limit with these guys.. like 3-4 months? What's your personal exit strategy?
This is not cute at all. You may not be condoning it but yet you’re enabling this behavior. It’s unethical. When the scriptures talk about this being an Adulterous generation this “CHANNEL” confirms it. You just took us in to the mind of female narcissism.I came across this video and Had to comment hopefully a young girl will see this and go the opposite route.Woman deserve relationships built in loyalty. It’s called courtship please don’t embarrass yourself. The blck population is already in shambles. I’m 22 years old and would not give this advise to my younger sis.I just watched a woman explain her trauma being Parentified because her mother had an affair with a married man and him not wanting to provide for the children he had with the woman’s mother. It’s sad
Y r side chicks loyal is the real question??? lol that’s not playing the game that’s just getting played . Ur single bby girl don’t let a married man stop your motion 😊
I feel like the 2nd most girl code thing to do is NOT have a baby for a married man. Ever. Like they always say when the side piece is pregnant “there is already a innocent baby involved” Guess what there were already innocent babies involved so I gave zero sympathy 🤷🏾♀️
My guy is in an open marriage so it's not as problematic but it is a curious feeling, knowing he comes home to someone else and pals around with someone else's family. It's good advice to know your end game. For me, it's just companionship, a friend, sex. But I know when people fall in love, the plan can change... thanks for the advice!
Would u sleep with his wife if he asked you to? To me side chicks don’t value themselves so u might as well. I told my husband when women come onto him tell them he comes as a package deal. If they can’t accept and sleep with me too then ain’t no discussion
@@Goddessoftarot216 being a side chick doesn't mean she's gay or obligated to fuck a woman even if she does lack self respect. what you said actually sounds predatory and creepy as fuck even though i'm sure you didnt mean it like that
As a Christian I must say that this is most disturbing! If you truly cared about people you would NOT BE GIVING THEM TIPS ON HOW TO RUIN THEMSELVES AND OTHER PEOPLE BUT INSTEAD YOU WOULD advise people to do what's right because God is ALWAYS WATCHING.......and our choices have SERIOUS consequences! A WOMAN WHO CHOOSES TO LET SOMEONE ELSE'S HUSBAND DUMP ON HER AND DUMP IN HER HAS TO BE A WOMAN WHO DOES NOT LOVE OR VALUE HERSELF OR KNOW HER WORTH, she has to be very selfish, very ignorant, and she has to be a person who is willing to corporate with evil! Marriage is very serious and any DECENT PERSON would respect someone's marriage! AND IT IS EVEN MORE HORRIFIC AND EVIL.....when children are involved and some woman with a Jezebel spirit has no conscious about helping to destroy a child's life! BUT PLEASE BELIEVE THAT JUST AS GOD SEES ALL THINGS KARMA IS REAL AND WHEN IT COMES KNOCKING ON YOUR DOOR TO COLLECT AFTER YOU HAVE HAD YOUR LITTLE FUN......IT IS GOING TO BRING YOU TO YOUR KNEES! MY TIP FOR YOU IS TO LEARN TO LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF, AND TO LEARN TO LOVE AND RESPECT GOD AND LET HIM IN YOUR HEART SO THAT YOU CAN LOVE AND RESPECT OTHERS!!!!!! Jesus teaches us that it profits us nothing to gain the whole world and lose our souls! THINK ABOUT OBTAINING INSIDE BEAUTY AND think about YOUR SOUL!!!! Temporary pleasures can cost you a lifetime of hurt and pain! GIVE YOUR HEART TO JESUS WHERE IT WILL BE SAFE! I LOVE YOU and I am correcting you out of love........I am not trying to bash you! You are beautiful and you are valuable and you should love yourself and want the best for yourself and others! 👩❤️👩 A good heart and peace with God is true freedom! SEEK JESUS.......HE LOVES YOU SO!😘✌️
Thank you so much for your comment. I understand what you are saying and where you are coming from. I feel that there are women that need to protect themselves from someone else's "husband" that decides to have an extra marital affair. Whether these women were lied to initially by these men or they knew, there is a community of women who just want to be loved by this man, whether wrong or right. In the moment, Yes they have made what some would call a sin or a bad decision. But now what.... do we pray them off the ledge or give them the tools so they can navigate the rest of their way through their own lives? I choose to help them navigate. What God has given us is free will. What you choose to do what your day is up to you. Ive been on both sides. I just choose to share my own perspective so people can create boundaries and realistic expectations for whatever this turns in to. Thank you again. I appreciate your view and I pray that someone will learn something from our conversation.
@@theoxperience5474 THERE IS NEVER A RIGHT TIME TO DO WRONG! JESUS TEACHES THAT SIN DOES NOT BRING HAPPINESS! SIN DESTROYS! JESUS ALSO TEACHES US TO TREAT OTHERS THE WAY THAT WE WANT TO BE TREATED! BUT YOU ARE CORRECT.......WE all HAVE FREE WILL.....THIS IS WHY THERE IS A HEAVEN AND HELL! HEAVEN IS FOR THOSE OF US WHO HAVE REPENTED, SURRENDERED OUR LIVES to Jesus and have accepted Jesus as our personal Savior! Heaven is for BELIEVERS who care about the will of God and who live in the will of God! Hell is for those who have rejected Jesus! Unbelievers do not care about the will of God! It was unbelievers that hung Jesus on Calvery's Hill! And unbelievers in the world today HATE THE SPIRIT OF TRUTH which IS GOD'S WORD! I understand that! But please remember this......WE ARE LIVING IN THE LAST DAYS and I Just want to warn as many people as possible before it is too late! Remember in the bible days when God told Noah to build an ark because He was about to flood and destroy the earth? I can imagine the people laughing at Noah and shrugging it off and ignoring him because of their unbelief! BUT WHEN THE FLOOD CAME THE PEOPLE WERE TERRIFIED AND THERE WAS NO WHERE TO RUN AND NO WHERE TO HIDE! 😳🥺🥺🥺 I can imagine them pleading to get in that same ark that they laughed at......but it was too late! The pleasures of this world is a distraction from seeking the true meaning of life! True fulfillment and true purpose can only be found in JESUS!!!!! JESUS PURPOSELY PUT A VOID AND A CERTAIN EMPTINESS INSIDE OF US THAT CAN ONLY BE FILLED BY HIM! THERE IS HOPE FOR YOU.......ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS PRAY AND ASK JESUS TO SAVE YOU! Again........I am only telling you this out of loving correction but God gave each of us the right to choose Him or reject Him.......but rejecting Jesus will cost you your soul and I do not want you're soul's home to be in hell for eternity! I hope you pray about this message and I pray that Jesus will give you a change of heart and a new and right perspective! LoVe and pEaCe!😘✌️
Exactly I’m a Christian too but how about the husband who went against HIS vows..Just say someone took your man from you..typical “religious” woman putting blame on the SINGLE woman who is NOT under Gods marriage covenant:.Christians like you need to stop with the cap..The HUSBAND will get his wrath or maybe he will find his real ribmate maybe current wife is not his ordained wife Stop with all that and give Bible scriptures to back it up Husband broke covenant not mistress SMH
I don't agree with everything that's said here yes some may be true but you can't say a man will never leave his wife it happens every day and the wife didn't fall from haven she was once a girlfriend too, some people realize when they are already in marriage that they are not going the same direction, if a man loves his wife so much why would he even take risk of losing her by cheating. This thing of saying' it's in a man's nature to cheat' is a load of bull cheating is a choice and people cheat on their spouses for different reasons and only those individuals who are in that triangle will know the reasons it's not something that can be generalized.
People cheat because they feel entitled and don't think they will lose everything. Her video is correct he will never voluntarily leave his wife. If the wife finds out and kicks him out he might "choose you" as in use you for a soft landing, but that's it.
And people say God will definatly deal with a woman if u dated a married man, I mean I'm also God's child bbe nd God forgive his children nd love us all
Please stop saying that it’s so many men and women leaving their spouses people are refusing to be in miserable marriages..if you cheating leave if they stay it’s not because they love their wife it’s because their egos and what outsiders will think..People marry their mistresses every day people are looking for soulmates and twin flames No longer the “convenient” wife People are becoming different type of thinkers now and people no longer care what outsiders say
Right no one is staying in unhappy marriage anymore and i really hate when people say he will never leave his wife for you thats a lie because it happens everyday
I was In the same position few weeks ago. But I told him I wouldn’t get pregnant without a marriage. He wanted me to get pregnant to get out of his marriage. But I’m not that kind of woman. That’s how I saw that he was not good for me.
@@TeamGstyl you're right for not doing that. a married man lied to me and we talked for some months and he wanted me to get his name tatted and was talking about having kids one day. i said fuck no. but it was kinda different cause he took advantage of me the whole time since i was 18 and he was 32. everything he told me was a lie
@@chickensauce85 He definitely groomed you😢this is why I side eye older men that pursue much younger women especially if she’s under 26 since that’s around the time that our prefrontal cortex’s become fully developed.
THE BIGGEST TIP IS THAT KARMA IS REAL!!! DATING MARRIED MEN IS BOTTOM FEEDER MENTALITY ON BOTH ENDS!!! THERE ARE NO WINNERS IN THIS TRIANGLE AND MORE THAN LIKELY HE IS NOT GOING TO LEAVE HIS WIFE FOR THE MISTRESS (That is quiet rare)!
If you are in it because you think you may end up with a man with assets. You might be so surprised how he will not end up with all those assets by the time you end up with him.
Single women rarely date married men with the intention to snatch him from the wife,,, they normally do it for financial benefits,, these men support them on a monthly basis,, just like he does his family,, i think its dumb to talk about your long term benefits eg,, what you get when he dies,, coz the side piece will probably be married to her soul mate by that time,,, so your husband is just an atm until lady gets what she wants, 😂😂women are not stupid ma'am
@@theblackbarbielifestyle9204 A lot of sb do end up marrying men that cheat on them. Most of the time their soul mate has the character traits of the married man they dated.😂
Turn from this sin, girls. Grow up from childish, foolish ways. God is not mocked…. ““For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become ONE flesh.”” Ephesians 5:31 NIV (New Testament) “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become ONE flesh.” Genesis 2:24 NIV (Old Testament) God always intended it to be ONE man, ONE wife. TWO become ONE. Keep playing with fire, you WILL get burned.
Revelation 16:15(“Behold, I am coming like a thief! Blessed is the one who stays awake, keeping his garments on, that he may not go about naked and be seen exposed!”)
I have a tip, find your own man or someone who is not married . Period!!
Truth be told , many of these side pieces WERE wives before ( I know 1 who has 2 side babies after she had a broken marraige 😳).
No wrong video
What kind of "cheating "? Muslim men can marry up 4 women don't have to let the first wife know or need permission from her as long as he can afford to treat all of them same financially. Of course If first wife finds out she might consider that cheating if she doesn't know about the other wife's
In reality he is not cheating though, he is with in his rights!! And she knows it.
@@rogers5622 if married they're not side peace my dear, Muslims men can marry up to 4 remember? It's called nikkah yhe government doesn't have to know about it🤣🤣🤣🤣 she is a wife.
@@Naallaa they wasn’t married lol he only had 1 wife! Just because you are Muslim doesn’t mean you can sleep with 4 women! They have to be his wives! No it doesn’t have to be a legal marriage but it does have to be a Muslim wedding and permission from his elders from his place of worship
I clicked because I was surprised by the title of the video. All I have to say is ladies, you are worth much more than to be treated like someone else's option.
Facts 💯💯
@@blessedlife6771 then don't click on the video
Ok. But we understand the rules
It's not normal to be monogamous for most people
This can get ugly. What if you catch feelings? This can be a dangerous situation. The other woman can come after you.
I like the comment “ I am staying in my marriage for the kids’’a single mother would not understand that because her man didn’t stay for theirs. So basically the other woman is not the highest priority. It’s just physical so guys married or not will tell a woman what she wants to hear for the physical gratification. It happens on both sides but on the female side it’s for financial gratification and validation by any means. The other woman wants your resources and will do whatever takes to extract them especially if it’s from children that are not hers.
I'm dating a married man. We're older. I'm totally good with the fact that I most likely will not end up with him.
I do love this man. He loves me too.
We completely enjoy each other in every way. We knew each other as 20 year olds and he contacted me 30 years later. I never forgot him and it's like my wildest fantasy to kiss him.
He has grown kids. He said he wants the intimacy and so do I because I lack it in my 10 year relationship.
I'm prepared for it to end at any time.
You need to be in reality.
The tips might be helpful to some, but - the title on this video’s cover is so NOT correct, getting attracted to a married man can happen to any woman , few times she falls for the good times- can happen. Continuing such arrangements also requires strength but getting yourself out of such situations requires much more strength !!!
Right she needs to change the title it doesn’t fit the conversation
It’s all fun and games until you end up a homicide victim from someone snapping on you .
😂😂😂Tu
Show me one real life instance of a wife killing her husband's mistress.. I'll wait
See this the one right here. Lol 😂 it’s not funny but yea
Whew, clicked this out of curiosity and all I can say is although my relationship with my father isn't great thank GOD I had a man teach me better than this. Many women literally BUILD turmoil into their lives with their choices & don't even realize it. Then 2-3 baby daddy's later wonder why no good man wants them, they're burnt out & gave away all your valuable stuff. If you want a soft life, get into tech. I'm probably living better than 1/2 the women who do this without the degrading act of sleeping with someone's husband and stepping between their GODLY vows. Karma is real. So is AIDS & there are wives who will kill you because of this...! Ya'll stay safe. *shrugs*
Sometimes the husbands be the ones to kill them especially if they threaten to tell the wife.
What??! Y'all are actually entertaining them? Don't!!! They didn't respect you enough to wait til you can be with a single man. 🤦🏽♀️
I guess I'm weak cause I can't handle all of that.
You're not weak. It's just not for everyone.
Same
Same..
No you're not weak, you're sane. And you still have your self-respect 🙌
Mental health is a real problem these days.
I've been there with a married WOMAN. She uses me only while im a decent men...she knows that and is playing games!!
I wasn’t trying to date him and it’s honestly against my beliefs but our chemistry is everything our convos out laugh and our bond I feel I should stop but my selfishness won’t let me I love how he treats me I get sooo high off him he’s a good man too it’s a lot in him that a crave he’s really a good person it’s just that he’s married I wish I could’ve met him years ago
I'm in the same situation
So stupid as black women we have to have some standards
No judgement here. Honest question … how can he be a good man if he is messing with you behind his wife’s back?
@@kayk2899yes thank you
He isn't a good man if he's hanging out with a single woman. Enjoy!
Watching this simply because my boyfriend was married… i found out, i never knew😭 found out thru FB
You are a 100 percent correct
Lmao if you notice the wife knows about you and doesn't fuss and allows him to be with you.. BIG RED FLAG because the wife knows the Man is an abuser and wants him off her hands.
Or because she benefits from the marriage, is not in love with him either, and couldnt care less.
Or because the wife doesn't have the wherewithal to leave.
This is the worst advice ever. Stop using men. If you are a women who is in this position needing this advice, you really need to work on yourself and stop dating entirely. Men want loyalty above all else, and you apparently don't value loyalty. You just want something from a man. Stop it.
You make no sense stfu
Leave married men alone. Period.
What demographic has the highest rates of Stds, doing a report for school, and trying to get to the bottom of it
so many men are unaliving their mistresses. Black women are already a target for dangerous narcissitic men like this. (I am a mixed spanish black girl however i am speaking for all women when I say this) This advice, is dangerous! This woman talking about self love ? Girl please. Women no experience is better than an experience with a narc who is using u as a mistress. Please protect yourselves and go to school or work start ur business don’t ask these weird men for nothing! it will save ur time, money, physical and mental health.
But why are they unaliving their mistress though
@@Mindful.Movement.01 i don’t know, what does that change? Now, why are people willingly putting themselves at risk for this though? cus y’all are desperate and love to let these podcasts brainwash y’all? Maybe that’s something u need to be mindful ab
Huh ? I’m just asking a question. I don’t do married men. I genuinely want to know since you said it. It sounded like you had experience in situations like this with married men. Not sure where the conscendig shade is coming from and the random assumptions about my life
@@Mindful.Movement.01 Are you okay? I’ve never done anything with a man in a relationship. I’m not condescending at all. I’m disgusted with this dangerous advice being targeted at women who are already statistically proven to be MOST LIKELY victims of domestic violence. You would be upset and not know what to think if you were me too! This is disturbing advice and it’s putting many in a vulnerable position. Do u want a comfortable lifestyle? work for it, don’t run around begging these dirty men for nothing! I know who I am and what my reason for saying things is, so if you think you’re proving a point by saying these silly micro-agressions towards me, then you are mistaken! However, if u didn’t have rude intentions and u see where i’m coming from then I apologize if I came off as judging u. Just too use to people who are supporting this mentality coming at me sideways for speaking up for victims
@@careforjusticealways ok listen this went totally left. Really I wasn’t coming at you and had no ill will intentions with my first comment. I genuinely wanted to know. I worked hard for everything I have and do life a god lifestyle. I just genuinely wanted to know how does a situation turn into the married man killing the single woman when he married. That’s all . No harm no foul
What about the “dating” aspect? Is it ever ok to publicly go on dates like the movies, restaurant, trips out of town, etc? I know you said to act like you don’t know him if you see him in public so I’m guessing that’s a no-go but I’m asking just to be sure.
condoning by default if I tell somebody how to get away with murder, that would make me an accomplice
Wtf. If Andrew tate got canceled for going against feminist can this one go away for being with some others woman's man.
I rebuke this babylon teaching in the name of Jesus back to hell fire! Give your life to Jesus sis🔥
Theeeeeeeee holidays!!!
thanks
I dont know who wanna be in a situation like that my brain is tiered of here all this roller-coaster of do and don't. Uhh
Thanks for sharing 🤩
Rhis video should be about 3 seconds long just saying "DONT"
That’s why you’re in a tiny apartment you hardly fit in 🙄
😂😂😂
Very true thankyou
Don’t do it. You will have to answer to God for it. He said “Let no man put usunder.” The person who does so is what the Bible refers to as the strange woman in proverbs.
Mans are biologically polygamous, having multiples wifes is a good thing!
There is not a single script of any relation that put limitation for how many wifes a man can have , only islam set up a limitation, you girls you have to grow up and understand that your man he's biologically polygamous so accept a second wife better than sleeping around and cheating with many !!
Dude shut up yes there is it's called the Bible. The old testament isn't what people go by you're supposed to have one wife and cheating on her is a sin. Men aren't polygamous that's just what men who want to control and abuse women say especially when they tell them to just accept it.
@@fordshojoe8080great job explaining this to a brother. It’s all about discipline. He seems to be maybe part of the “red pill community”. May he find the truth he seeks before it is too late.
Not a good idea at all.
I think there is one situation that worked Prince Charles and Camilla Parker Bowles
That’s because they were lovers before Charles was forced to marry Diana. Camille wasn’t the ideal type for a Royal family at the time.
😂😂
I been single for 21 years , my guy said I gat girlfriend girlfriend mean shit when he on my house every day. But what make it worse no he sometimes call her wife he is not. Thing is after 5 months and believe me he sleep on he’s house she on her house I sleep on my house but I will ruin he’s life for the lie . That’s where I’m at I loose nothing he lie to me stay on my house 3 times a week all nite long and guess what my heart is not of rock. He is fuck with my ass now you bet on that. Cause the lie
I agree with you
I only date a married man from two months.
I wanted to commitment from him.but he don't want to give me commitment.
I said him, to do separate your past relationship.
After than I will think about you.
But I can't agree to him at all.
No don’t do this!!!!😢
I would never date a married man! I don't have much more time to waste. And if he can lie to his wife and be disloyal to her, even if he says it's a bad relationship, then he is capable of a lot with you too! Ultimately, he's a liar and has no sense of honor. That man/boy is not worth the time to waste....SERIOUSLY. But I can see how it can happen....BUT being in a relationship like this is wasting the chance to find a real man...But if you're dating a married man then WOMEN time to level yourself up !!
How to end up dead and buried in a ditch somewhere
Just hear to look at a thick yellow bone.
That's true but let's be real most women find married men more attractive than single
Yep, that's why i date married women
No, only desperate hos.
Only insecure hoes find 'em
I was so surprised to see this that I just had to click on it. I don't know why I'm in disbelief. This is just....WOW. Dating a married man is never a good idea. It will only lead to heartache.
And bad Karma! This is such bad energy to put into the universe. The universe sends back whatever you put out. It's time for healing.
@@ladysunshine9029 I don't know why you would want a married man. It's funny though. Now that you say bad karma, I'm thinking of my dad's cousin. She was really pretty, but was married and would cheat. She had a boyfriend for years and a good husband. He raised her children from a previous marriage. He died. One day my dad was talking to him in his room. The man was battling cancer, and he told my dad...I'm not stupid. I know she out there cheating. Had been for years. NONE of us liked her side dude. He was dangerous. Well. Her husband finally died, and the side dude is gone. She all broke down and old looking. She should not need assistance to walk at her age. She's alone. It's just crazy. I think about how she did her husband and how she should have been caring for him, now she our here on her own. Smh. Maybe it's karma.
@@Morgan24_7 Good morning; I'm just seeing your comment. I agree that this is his wife's karma. It may take years, but it will come back around. It's all energy, and the universe has to send it back somehow. Plus, it always comes back when they're least expecting it. Marriage is ordained and sacred
Btw, I only let about two minutes of this video play. I don't want to receive that energy. 💯
No Karma will happen man will always cheat yall. Side chicks want money Period if your man can give out money that easily then why not. Let these women be and let Keena teach them how to win the game.
Lady have some respect
He will never leave his wife
Dating a Married means he has 2 BEAUTIFUL Women and you have HALF a Man!
Hello Crystal. Thank you for commenting. I love your channel. I watch it often actually and love your approach on things. We should do a video together in regards to the subject. I think it would be interesting.
@@theoxperience5474 I would love to. Let's organize!
Unless you are married too🙃
@@Vera-sc3ud He still has 2 Women and you have HALF a Man and a husband! Why are you Both STILL MARRIED??
@@CrystalDatingCoach No. According to your count if he has two women,and you are married,you have two men.Same. Just saying.
"I only stay for the kids" this is like their motto🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
It really is 😂😂😂
I’m very familiar with this motto 😂
This is not about judgement, but encouragement: Ladies, you deserve your own man. You are valuable and worthy of being someone’s one and only. Why choose this? Life is short, every day you can make a new decision and experience new outcomes.
Lies
My friend only says that married men never talk about the good times they share with their wives only the bad
I SAY GET COMPENSATED FOR YOUR TIME !! YES, I SAID " YOUR TIME " !! HE ISN'T LOOKING FOR LOVE !! PERIOD. KEEP YOUR EMOTIONS IN CHECK AND INVEST YOUR EARINGS. THATS PLAYING IT SMART !! MARRIED MEN DO NOT LEAVE THEIR WIVES AND OR KIDS. THEY DO NOT LEAVE NO MATTER HOW BAD OR UNCOMFORTABLE THE SITUATION IS AT HOME. THEY STAY AND THEY STAY AND THEY STAY !! ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE ARE KIDS TO BE RAISED. MOST MEN DO NOT INITIATE DIVORCES AND MOST WILL VOMIT AT THE THOUGHT OF SOMEONE ELSE RAISING THEIR CHILDREN.
i dunno how accurate this statement is, but coming from someone who WAS married...not all men stay.
My ex and I were together for 16 years, married for 10, have 1 kid together. things got bad, and i left.
I started dating a year or so later, and still legally married. we dont live together, we dont hang out, we dont do any of that.
not all men stay. and not all wives are innocent.
@@phillippantaleano2930 I Sir was addressing single women who date married men or men who are in relationships. These men particularly do not leave wives or long-time girlfriends for side chicks or side pieces or dime pieces. I understand every situation is different. I also understand some men will stay in their marriages for the sake of their children. Most men do not initiate divorces, especially when there are children to be raised and cared for.
@@cherrycrawford8342 Hey darlin, i get what you are saying now.
@@cherrycrawford8342 Well said.
Thank you this is all I needed to know
The thing that is more disgusted is NOT dating a married man but seeing the comments bashing the mistress ONLY..The husband made the VOWS not the mistress Married men leave single women alone..NO wrath on the single women the wrath is on the husband who took the vows..stop being chauvinistic and blaming the Happy SINGLE women who are minding their business and the MARRIED MAN is pursing and SOME men are leaving their wives it’s alot and they remarry and be happy Stop with cap Women in the comments he hating on other women that’s why the men cheat they know they will never get blamed the wife will fight the SINGLE women before she fault her pursing a$$ husband SMDH
100% correct. I have been getting hit on by married men and I have never dated not one. In fact I have gotten hit on so much that it has turned me off from wanting to get married because I don’t want to be a dumb naive wife acting like the single woman put voodoo on his penis to have sex with him. These men and women too who do this are just selfish PERIOD. Stop blaming the single woman. She doesn’t owe you anything he does.
Shut up!!!!!!!!
Her audience is women and therefore they are speaking to the women watching this shit!
She's telling the truth women she's trying to help those who are in that type of relationship 💯
EXACTLY! The ones who is in this kind of RELATIONSHIP!
Help them? Wth are they even in this type of “relationship”. She’s not in a relationship except in her head. He’s already in a relationship with his wife. Woman meets man, man has a wife yet she sees him as a potential partner. Wth? And this notion that she just can’t break it off smh. She shouldn’t have gotten involved with another woman’s husband to begin with. What is so damn hard for these women to grasp? HE HAS A WIFE! It’s none of her business of what’s going on in his “unhappy” marriage. She’s not an innocent, helpless bystander. Ugh.
@@skel760 What is so hard about these husbands understanding they have wives, and shouldnt pursue other women? 🤷🏾♀😂
@@wavy2186 Of course. That goes without saying, but we’re talking about the women now. You can’t control what he does. You can control what you do by not getting involved. Women are responsible for their OWN actions. These married men aren’t putting a gun to their head. You’re trying to deflect. It’s called consent. SMDH.
@@skel760women be so lost it’s crazy. Another thing men can’t cheat if women dont open up their legs
These tips are very valid! I understand where you’re coming from. Although, it’s wrong to even date a married men but it happens. So bring transparent is a key factor. He’s never going to be a “real boyfriend “. You’re essentially just a side piece and it’s risky to fall in love in the first place. Even if he truly loves you it doesn’t matter. His wife and kids are always the priority no matter what.
I totally agree, truth must be told regardless
It isn't "wrong" to date a married man when he & his wife agree on having a non-conventional structure to their marriage. Not everyone wants to be a primary partner. Some people value their autonomy & independence more than trying to totally merge their everyday lives with someone. Their relationships are just as valid as the ones society places higher recognition on. I chose non-conventional relating & always choose to have my heart present. If I fall in love, so be it. If I don't, but I enjoy sharing love with that partner, so be it. We really need to expand our views of what intimate relating looks like. People have been playing a variety of roles in their love lives for thousands of years.
Fear of commitment , lack of self esteem, traumas, narcissistic disorder, are why some people like married men or women . They need therapy and healing
@@mermaidlilyrose if the wife allows him to be with you it is most likely because the man is an abuser and wants to get rid of him I've seen it many times.. no woman is just going to let a good man go
Not if he out with another woman lol he should stay home then
Hebrews 13:4 - Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Keep the relationship spicy. Else he'll keep it moving.
Stay focused on what you want to gain from that relationship. Be it financial security or business establishment through his connects or even just fun. Cuz best believe that main will drain everything he needs out of you from that relationship.
Keep it on your terms but stealthily and respectfully
What the actual fuck kinda advice is this?
A married man liked me for a long time (before he was married) but I was in a relationship and so by the time i became single he was dating his now wife. He told me earlier that he really liked me but I refused because it would have been a LDR and that’s when he went to his now wife.. During the whole time periodically he expressed interest towards me but I refused to entertain him.. last month I was feeling a bit vulnerable and depressed and he was being there for me, giving me emotional support,mental support,he was respectful,kind,polite,caring and loving and while he mentioned he wouldn’t leave his wife… I also don’t want him to leave his wife or anything because I didn’t and don’t want anything with him. I made a mistake by engaging in some dirty texting and phone sex with him. But that was once. After that I heavily regretted and he understood that I’m not up for this. Then he still wanted to be friends and I said no. He mentioned he still has feelings for me and still finds me attractive and cares about me. It was hard to let him go but I’m glad I did. It’s been two weeks and I’m trying to hold on to my strength and tell myself I deserve so much better. I mean I always knew I deserve better,I’ve always prayed for better. My judgement got a bit clouded on those few days of phone sexting but it meant nothing to me also. Ultimately I told him that I don’t want to be communication and he accepted that.
Let’s just be honest some women don’t want to be a full time partner. Some like to only have the fun parts. So keep your options open so you will end up leaving the situation get what you can get out of it and exit
Facts. Some don't want to deal with his annoying traits - they leave that up to the wife.
@@rogers5622 Very true 🤣
This!
Then have fun with a SINGLE MAN there’s no way y’all are this dumb
@@CleoraAleise sounds like you’ve been cheated on… to name call js
I never wanted to date a married man but it happen to me once ..we really liked each other and the time i met him i was heartbroken from the previous relationship and he was separated from his wife ..He connected with my heart ,the love and care he gave me brought healing to me,it was something beautiful but yes i know that this kind of relation can’t progress to something more deeper
How did it end? Was he sincere? I am going through a similar situation. My husband was cheating on me and I was going through a divorce and this guy helped me heal and I ended up trusting him.
@@hinashah9256 Take the time to heal yourself. Why go to another man to “heal” you? You’re vulnerable.
Girl what no y’all women have no morals smh
Relationship with a married man or been a second wife, nothing wrong with that ! Man's are biologically polygamous!
Dated a married man when I was younger, ngl no one spoiled me like he did
Same. I was about 19/20
Young women are the best.
how/why did it end?
@@chickensauce85 He said he needed to focus on his business and I was a distraction, I think his wife was getting suspicious
Romans 8:28
And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose
Dating married men is not good like a lot of people say, but these relationships exist and a lot of ladies are surviving and living a soft life out of it, Just know how you play the cards
Yes! Until God send down his wrath.
@me me And many diseases
@@Yokaisenn no they didn’t have many diseases from having many wives smh😂
@GGs-WorldThat’s Old Testament, that was not what God intended
@GGs-WorldAnyone who is married and has any other affair is considered adultery
I come from Africa and we have something called POLYGAMY- many are dating married men for marriage as 2nd 3rd wives etc. The wealthy/able rarely have one legal wife. Side chics aka concubines as in the bible are shunned upon...but are still there
WOW! In the United States it's called sisterwives.
The single men are nowhere to be found either
This is real and happening, so if you are the woman who didn't know that your date is actually married, you should take these pieces of advice. But for us, no one wins in this kind of setup, everyone loses. If there is someone who want to date you, especially if you are skeptical, it's better to use a marriage and divorce records search first.
And if he turns out to be Mr. Married, stop engaging with them, and move on. You don’t deserve to be lied to and toyed with.
Whoever dates a married person has no respect for themselves and needs serious help. I pray that y’all find the help you need as soon as possible. Amen 🙏🏿
I dont think like.that. it doesn't matter if somebody got a ring on the finger or not and still.be in a relationship ..i really.dont care cause its not my head issue with it cause iam free if i would date a married man. End of the story
Did somebody break your heart because you Seem very bitter this is not advice
I ONLY date married men as I’m an emotionally unavailable person this is perfect relationship for me
Wow. Thank you for owning your truth. Its so many women in this situation.
Wtf 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
One day when you are available and crave a faithful relationship, do not be surprised or hurt when Karma rolls around. That's it that's all.
@@inyourdreams444 what’s your husband up to
@@shaquitawalden9417 😂
Here is a wrench for you. How about if the man's wife knows and consents and the man *is* capable of caring for, and being loyal to both. It's exceptionally rare, but not impossible. Most guys cannot really handle more than one person at that level, but a small few can.
Side pieces don’t want to marry the husband, he will do the same to her.
😂 cheaters don’t love anyone but themselves.
Wow! This is a good convo, No judgment, it happens..
This is a rubbish thing to do and it only will make you less likely to ever get married because of the sins that come along with that. I have tried this and it backfired and also when you start dating you must understand that you will attract those situations to you if you don’t stop repent and find your own partner through Christ. I know things and life gets tough but don’t ruin any woman’s relationship/marriage for money or anything else. RESPECT ONE ANOTHER AND DO NOT TRESPASS. ❤
DO NOT HURT ANOTHER WOMAN WHEN YOU KNOW HOW HURT FEELS. ❤
“A good wife brings his man a second wife.”
Sad women date married men. SELF WORTH can you teach that? Married men usually have kids this is sad.
It's called adultery and which is very wrong ...I can't believe your giving this kind of advice 🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️
@@nadiahoveka6051exactly she's apart of the problem.
“Prepare to be on an emotional roller coaster”. Well, that’s exactly what women like so I guess date a married man.
Any advice For single women not to date married guys?
This ain’t nothin but the devil
My dad married the woman he cheated on my mom with 🤷🏾♀️
Great tips I can concur with your thoughts only because everything you have said I've done and I'm still happily married but I don't condone what I have done.
I met a married man at work..it's been a year and I know he's still interested. I don't sneak or cheat, or seek to hurt any other woman or break up a family. So nothing has happened. Do I think that we would have dated if he was single? Without a doubt. Or maybe if somehow I had met him years before, we would be together. No doubt. But in life, these type of situations occur, and some things just aren't meant to be.
How do u keep your emotions in check if you're really feeling him? Do you have a time limit with these guys.. like 3-4 months? What's your personal exit strategy?
Hey friend. Im going to record a video about emotions around this subject. Thank you for the subject title.
Solid truth, hurtful and true
This is not cute at all. You may not be condoning it but yet you’re enabling this behavior. It’s unethical. When the scriptures talk about this being an Adulterous generation this “CHANNEL” confirms it. You just took us in to the mind of female narcissism.I came across this video and Had to comment hopefully a young girl will see this and go the opposite route.Woman deserve relationships built in loyalty. It’s called courtship please don’t embarrass yourself. The blck population is already in shambles. I’m 22 years old and would not give this advise to my younger sis.I just watched a woman explain her trauma being Parentified because her mother had an affair with a married man and him not wanting to provide for the children he had with the woman’s mother. It’s sad
Y r side chicks loyal is the real question??? lol that’s not playing the game that’s just getting played . Ur single bby girl don’t let a married man stop your motion 😊
Thanks for your candid honesty. I appreciate you for being real and opening up a subject ppl need to talk about.
I feel like the 2nd most girl code thing to do is NOT have a baby for a married man. Ever. Like they always say when the side piece is pregnant “there is already a innocent baby involved” Guess what there were already innocent babies involved so I gave zero sympathy 🤷🏾♀️
My guy is in an open marriage so it's not as problematic but it is a curious feeling, knowing he comes home to someone else and pals around with someone else's family. It's good advice to know your end game. For me, it's just companionship, a friend, sex. But I know when people fall in love, the plan can change... thanks for the advice!
Would u sleep with his wife if he asked you to? To me side chicks don’t value themselves so u might as well. I told my husband when women come onto him tell them he comes as a package deal. If they can’t accept and sleep with me too then ain’t no discussion
@@Goddessoftarot216 being a side chick doesn't mean she's gay or obligated to fuck a woman even if she does lack self respect. what you said actually sounds predatory and creepy as fuck even though i'm sure you didnt mean it like that
As a Christian I must say that this is most disturbing! If you truly cared about people you would NOT BE GIVING THEM TIPS ON HOW TO RUIN THEMSELVES AND OTHER PEOPLE BUT INSTEAD YOU WOULD advise people to do what's right because God is ALWAYS WATCHING.......and our choices have SERIOUS consequences! A WOMAN WHO CHOOSES TO LET SOMEONE ELSE'S HUSBAND DUMP ON HER AND DUMP IN HER HAS TO BE A WOMAN WHO DOES NOT LOVE OR VALUE HERSELF OR KNOW HER WORTH, she has to be very selfish, very ignorant, and she has to be a person who is willing to corporate with evil! Marriage is very serious and any DECENT PERSON would respect someone's marriage! AND IT IS EVEN MORE HORRIFIC AND EVIL.....when children are involved and some woman with a Jezebel spirit has no conscious about helping to destroy a child's life! BUT PLEASE BELIEVE THAT JUST AS GOD SEES ALL THINGS KARMA IS REAL AND WHEN IT COMES KNOCKING ON YOUR DOOR TO COLLECT AFTER YOU HAVE HAD YOUR LITTLE FUN......IT IS GOING TO BRING YOU TO YOUR KNEES! MY TIP FOR YOU IS TO LEARN TO LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF, AND TO LEARN TO LOVE AND RESPECT GOD AND LET HIM IN YOUR HEART SO THAT YOU CAN LOVE AND RESPECT OTHERS!!!!!! Jesus teaches us that it profits us nothing to gain the whole world and lose our souls! THINK ABOUT OBTAINING INSIDE BEAUTY AND think about YOUR SOUL!!!! Temporary pleasures can cost you a lifetime of hurt and pain! GIVE YOUR HEART TO JESUS WHERE IT WILL BE SAFE! I LOVE YOU and I am correcting you out of love........I am not trying to bash you! You are beautiful and you are valuable and you should love yourself and want the best for yourself and others! 👩❤️👩 A good heart and peace with God is true freedom! SEEK JESUS.......HE LOVES YOU SO!😘✌️
Thank you so much for your comment. I understand what you are saying and where you are coming from. I feel that there are women that need to protect themselves from someone else's "husband" that decides to have an extra marital affair. Whether these women were lied to initially by these men or they knew, there is a community of women who just want to be loved by this man, whether wrong or right. In the moment, Yes they have made what some would call a sin or a bad decision. But now what.... do we pray them off the ledge or give them the tools so they can navigate the rest of their way through their own lives? I choose to help them navigate. What God has given us is free will. What you choose to do what your day is up to you. Ive been on both sides. I just choose to share my own perspective so people can create boundaries and realistic expectations for whatever this turns in to. Thank you again. I appreciate your view and I pray that someone will learn something from our conversation.
@@theoxperience5474 THERE IS NEVER A RIGHT TIME TO DO WRONG! JESUS TEACHES THAT SIN DOES NOT BRING HAPPINESS! SIN DESTROYS! JESUS ALSO TEACHES US TO TREAT OTHERS THE WAY THAT WE WANT TO BE TREATED! BUT YOU ARE CORRECT.......WE all HAVE FREE WILL.....THIS IS WHY THERE IS A HEAVEN AND HELL! HEAVEN IS FOR THOSE OF US WHO HAVE REPENTED, SURRENDERED OUR LIVES to Jesus and have accepted Jesus as our personal Savior! Heaven is for BELIEVERS who care about the will of God and who live in the will of God! Hell is for those who have rejected Jesus! Unbelievers do not care about the will of God! It was unbelievers that hung Jesus on Calvery's Hill! And unbelievers in the world today HATE THE SPIRIT OF TRUTH which IS GOD'S WORD! I understand that! But please remember this......WE ARE LIVING IN THE LAST DAYS and I Just want to warn as many people as possible before it is too late! Remember in the bible days when God told Noah to build an ark because He was about to flood and destroy the earth? I can imagine the people laughing at Noah and shrugging it off and ignoring him because of their unbelief! BUT WHEN THE FLOOD CAME THE PEOPLE WERE TERRIFIED AND THERE WAS NO WHERE TO RUN AND NO WHERE TO HIDE! 😳🥺🥺🥺 I can imagine them pleading to get in that same ark that they laughed at......but it was too late! The pleasures of this world is a distraction from seeking the true meaning of life! True fulfillment and true purpose can only be found in JESUS!!!!! JESUS PURPOSELY PUT A VOID AND A CERTAIN EMPTINESS INSIDE OF US THAT CAN ONLY BE FILLED BY HIM! THERE IS HOPE FOR YOU.......ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS PRAY AND ASK JESUS TO SAVE YOU! Again........I am only telling you this out of loving correction but God gave each of us the right to choose Him or reject Him.......but rejecting Jesus will cost you your soul and I do not want you're soul's home to be in hell for eternity! I hope you pray about this message and I pray that Jesus will give you a change of heart and a new and right perspective! LoVe and pEaCe!😘✌️
It’s the “Jesus” for me! 🤣🤣🤣🤣Jesus is only going to wreck havoc on the Jezebel? 😂😂😂😂
Exactly I’m a Christian too but how about the husband who went against HIS vows..Just say someone took your man from you..typical “religious” woman putting blame on the SINGLE woman who is NOT under Gods marriage covenant:.Christians like you need to stop with the cap..The HUSBAND will get his wrath or maybe he will find his real ribmate maybe current wife is not his ordained wife Stop with all that and give Bible scriptures to back it up Husband broke covenant not mistress SMH
@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 No self-respecting woman would mess around with a married man!
This is disgusting
I like this video. I think all side chicks need to watch this it. They may just realize how they are wasting their time.
Yall rather date married men instead of Polygamy...I Don't get it ....
I don't agree with everything that's said here yes some may be true but you can't say a man will never leave his wife it happens every day and the wife didn't fall from haven she was once a girlfriend too, some people realize when they are already in marriage that they are not going the same direction, if a man loves his wife so much why would he even take risk of losing her by cheating. This thing of saying' it's in a man's nature to cheat' is a load of bull cheating is a choice and people cheat on their spouses for different reasons and only those individuals who are in that triangle will know the reasons it's not something that can be generalized.
People cheat because they feel entitled and don't think they will lose everything. Her video is correct he will never voluntarily leave his wife. If the wife finds out and kicks him out he might "choose you" as in use you for a soft landing, but that's it.
And people say God will definatly deal with a woman if u dated a married man, I mean I'm also God's child bbe nd God forgive his children nd love us all
Please stop saying that it’s so many men and women leaving their spouses people are refusing to be in miserable marriages..if you cheating leave if they stay it’s not because they love their wife it’s because their egos and what outsiders will think..People marry their mistresses every day people are looking for soulmates and twin flames No longer the “convenient” wife People are becoming different type of thinkers now and people no longer care what outsiders say
@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473i totally agree with you
Right no one is staying in unhappy marriage anymore and i really hate when people say he will never leave his wife for you thats a lie because it happens everyday
My married man told me to get pregnant but it’s me who doesn’t want
I was In the same position few weeks ago. But I told him I wouldn’t get pregnant without a marriage. He wanted me to get pregnant to get out of his marriage. But I’m not that kind of woman. That’s how I saw that he was not good for me.
@@KisweBeauty yes who have to be careful you will be stuck with them for life raising that baby alone.
@@TeamGstyl you're right for not doing that. a married man lied to me and we talked for some months and he wanted me to get his name tatted and was talking about having kids one day. i said fuck no. but it was kinda different cause he took advantage of me the whole time since i was 18 and he was 32. everything he told me was a lie
@@chickensauce85 He definitely groomed you😢this is why I side eye older men that pursue much younger women especially if she’s under 26 since that’s around the time that our prefrontal cortex’s become fully developed.
THE BIGGEST TIP IS THAT KARMA IS REAL!!! DATING MARRIED MEN IS BOTTOM FEEDER MENTALITY ON BOTH ENDS!!! THERE ARE NO WINNERS IN THIS TRIANGLE AND MORE THAN LIKELY HE IS NOT GOING TO LEAVE HIS WIFE FOR THE MISTRESS (That is quiet rare)!
My daddy left my momma and married his mistress 🤷🏾♀️
If you are in it because you think you may end up with a man with assets. You might be so surprised how he will not end up with all those assets by the time you end up with him.
Single women rarely date married men with the intention to snatch him from the wife,,, they normally do it for financial benefits,, these men support them on a monthly basis,, just like he does his family,, i think its dumb to talk about your long term benefits eg,, what you get when he dies,, coz the side piece will probably be married to her soul mate by that time,,, so your husband is just an atm until lady gets what she wants, 😂😂women are not stupid ma'am
@theblackbarbielifestyle9204 Exactly😅
@@theblackbarbielifestyle9204 A lot of sb do end up marrying men that cheat on them. Most of the time their soul mate has the character traits of the married man they dated.😂
Its not about his assests its all about him how he makes me feel and what ever hes doing for me in that moment
Turn from this sin, girls. Grow up from childish, foolish ways. God is not mocked….
““For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become ONE flesh.””
Ephesians 5:31 NIV (New Testament)
“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become ONE flesh.”
Genesis 2:24 NIV (Old Testament)
God always intended it to be ONE man, ONE wife. TWO become ONE. Keep playing with fire, you WILL get burned.
How to date a married man and go to hellfire.... They az should be uncomfortable .
So this is a video on how to be a side chick basically.. i haven’t watched this but it’s so messed up to encourage infidelity period
That's not even a relationship,u just messing around
Sad life.
Had to watch this again to reset my mind
Respect you Mam...Tqs for helping everyone❤❤
Revelation 16:15(“Behold, I am coming like a thief! Blessed is the one who stays awake, keeping his garments on, that he may not go about naked and be seen exposed!”)