@@Retroworld-lk8so In the first season or two I occasionally thought Miranda seemed motherly. But I haven't felt that way for a loooong time. She is too often jealous, petty, or mean. It's a relationship of on older and younger sister. She loves Meredith like an older sister but also is jealous and knows the sore spots to hurt her
Just like Derek, Bailey never stopped seeing Meredith as the intern who fell in love with an attending, they didn't respect her for her own accomplishments and merits. And *that* for those of you who forgot, is the reason Mer didn't move to D.C with Derek. When Cristina left in the end of season 10, she told Meredith: "He's very dreamy, but he's not the sun, you are". And after that Mer and Derek had a fight and she told him he still sees her as the intern who will follow him around, that he thinks his career is more important than hers, no matter what she does. This is also why Meredith understands now that she has to leave, because no matter how much she accomplished, people in Grey Sloan will always see her only as the woman who went after her boss, a married man.
@@MickeyDeeCool Derek chased Meredith, but Meredith was the one it backfired on when it was revealed Derek was married. She was the slutty intern of a dirty mistress
@@EvieKng Yeah, I remember her coworkers were saying she got what she deserved for being with a married man. Meredith didn't even know. She took so much of the brunt of that reveal.
@@Mia_M she didn’t know he was married to start with and she left him Alone when she found out he pursued her even before he divorced Addison , then they got back togather and married
Bailey stooped so low here. It was incredibly unprofessional of her and I’m disappointed that she never apologised. On a better note, before she walked in Meredith and Nick had one of their most beautiful scenes. They are so connected.
yeah, for sure one of the best scenes between them and I also loved her seeing how genuine he is with the families of his patients, that he really cares. When he said in the cabine that was falling in love... when he said to her: "I don't want to leave you ever".
@@angelaborgia7991, this is a drama show too, and with a new season coming they can even have some disagreements but he is super centered and... i don't know, I just absolutely THE BEST guy.
@@claudiateixeira5158 I absolutely expect disagreements to come but I also trust that they can get through them like adults. It’s what Meredith couldn’t seem to have with DeLuca, he was an okay guy but he could be so overly passion-driven and juvenile at times, like a male Izzie so to speak, which Meredith doesn’t need or have time for. Nick is more centered, like you said.
she hit a nerve when she started talking about Derek and tbh I’m glad mer stopped her. Bailey has no right to bring up things in her past, especially things about Derek.
@@Nicole-dj3jf This is Scott Speedman, not able to be mistaken for anyone else. // Fun you wrote Joe's because on episode 18x13 she makes a "joke" by saying "My name is Jo, not to be confused with Joe's. I'm Jo without an "e"" 😂 😂 Plus, her ex-husband, Paul, died at the ER BEFORE Nick's first episode.
Meredith is really in love with Nick, huh? To stand up for him like she did was something we never had the chance to see with Derek. Maybe because Derek was always the one who stood up for Mer then (which she never asked for). But look at how Mer grew and matured over the years. She has become stronger than ever. A person of her own. I love this version of her. So feisty. Way to go, Mer!
I don't think you need to be in love with someone to stand up for them. Bailey trash talked Nick because she was angry with Meredith, it had nothing to do with him and Meredith wouldn't accept it.
Mer has grown, from all of her losses, raising her children, being a great doctor. She has learned from years of mistreatment by her mom, dad. Bailey ALWAYS talked down to Mer, except when Mer was dying with COVID - she tried to be kind to her. Pompeo is a fabulous actor.
Meredith is finally speaking up for herself!!! She was definitely heartbroken about how Bailey spoken to her that way! I love Bailey, but she was definitely wrong in this situation.
Watch the show from start to finish. Just binge watch it. Every character does it every few episodes. They also follow the same patterns. They cheat on their partners, get back together, cheat again, try to get married (sometimes it's successful), a partner dies and the remaining partner gets over it pretty fast
The fact that Bailey says “already married” and looks at Nick made me so mad, as if she was shaming her in front of Nick to make him think less of her. Screw her, Mer doesn’t have to stay forever, Bailey always turns her back on her when things get tough without ever hearing reason.
That's kind of unfair Bailey was like that with Meredith. I definitely didn't see this reaction when Yang left for Switzerland or when Alex wanted to leave for his fellowship.
@@ismaelleal7314 To be fair, Alex didn’t even give Bailey a chance to kick his ass. He simply wrote a letter and noped out of Grey Sloan without saying a word. Had he been there in person? Webber and Bailey would have given him shit. He was the under dog and by the end, he was chief(?) at another hospital. Also, remember when Alex was being courted by other hospitals for fellowship? Arizona kicked his ass up and down the hospital.
@@ismaelleal7314 To be fair, Alex didn’t even give Bailey a chance to kick his ass. He simply wrote a letter and noped out of Grey Sloan without saying a word. Had he been there in person? Webber and Bailey would have given him shit. He was the under dog and by the end, he was chief(?) at another hospital. Also, remember when Alex was being courted by other hospitals for fellowship? Arizona kicked his ass up and down the hospital.
@@sukhmanisreadingcorner6811 actually yes you do have a point about Alex. They would've given him shit if he was in person. But I definitely didn't see this when Yang left for Switzerland. I think Bailey is just jealous of Meredith's success and I get that there'd a staff shortage but I think it'd Meredith's time to shine and be successful just like Yang.
@@ismaelleal7314 yes, for Yang, there wasn’t much. Besides, she had gone to Minnesota once. They had to let Yang go because she was brilliant and worthy of winning the Harper Avery award. She couldn’t win it because of the hospital’s affiliation with HA/Catherine Fox at the time. But yes, it is finally time for Meredith to shine on her own.
It wasn't only Bailey, Richard taught her even more but everyone seems to forget that and he did not even talk to her this way, I kinda felt bad for Meredith here.
I think Bailey is tired and she knows she can’t take time off because of the shortage of personnel so she keeps everything inside… and I guess this was the last straw.
If I were Meredith, I would have BEEN wanted to leave that hospital. All her closest friends there are gone or dead (Alex, Christina, Izzy, George, Arizona, Callie), both her parents died in that hospital, she almost died there several times, she was beat up by a patient, and the staff has an unreal body count (Derek, George, Lexi, McSteamy, that short-haired intern, Heather, Deluca...). Run, Meredith! Run!
Exactly. At the end of the day it’s just a job, as close as they are they’re still just co-workers. And they have to make a living… if there are better options out there, ofc they’re going to go for it.
@@natalieeubank4533 Exactly, we saw in the previews that Maggie looks to be giving Meredith the cold shoulder for not telling her she is thinking about moving to Minnesota
"This Hospital raised you. I raised you" so what? My mom raised me too, am I supposed to live under her roof for the rest of my life? This is an incredible job opportunity and honestly I'm surprised meredith even stayed that long. She doesn't have any obligation towards that hospital. It's a job. People change their jobs. They are all so damn unprofessional it's nerve-wracking
@@mibchannel8385 that does not mean that she should stay. she has every right to leave. she has stayed long enough thru everything that has happened, and has tried to everything that was expected of her. i don’t blame her for leaving but just bc the hospital is crumbling down, that means she should stay and turn down a amazing opportunity?? seriously? so you’re saying she doesn’t get the right to leave and enter a new chapter in her life just because the hospital is burning down??? bffr lmfaooo
You would be surprised at the behavior doctors get away with behind closed doors, At the end of the day doctors are still people too sometimes with inflated egos
I don’t know why as time passes, they make Bailey ruder and more selfish. She was the epitome of strength and character when the show first started. But as people left and died and her position and power went up, she morphed into someone that can be very unpleasant. Even her sense of humour has faded. People she loves dying would affect her, but from earlier with George and her mum, she protected herself, but also kept those important to her close. But the past couple seasons, it’s almost like she needs to punish those that care about her. Bailey was one of my fave characters, but for the last few years, I have just found her unlikeable. Such a shame considering she such a brilliant character.
New flash Bailey has ALWAYS been rude and selfish with the "I dare you to like/love me" even though I am rude and selfish. She was rude and selfish to George O;Malley back in the day be HE still cared about her. Nothing new, same ole Bailey.
Bailey always been rude and selfish she one on the show I never really cared for I thought she could been little nicer to people Christina was mean too but she was funny she was my favorite on the show I miss her
Meanwhile, Izzie in her farm, Alex in his schizophrenia, Cristina in Switzerland, Jackson in Boston, April in Boston : left way earlier without Bailey screaming at them about their dead husband.
I wonder if this is medical -- or psychiatric. It's in character, but not. Bailey is hard, but never this out-and-out mean. I think she's seriously ill.
@@franktalk2585 No Bailey is just under a lot of stress. Like she said doctors are leaving left and right. Meredith is her best surgeon so, Bailey was in panic mode as she thinks Meredith is leaving her.
Bailey is in panic mode because she is afraid everything they have worked so hard for is slipping away, and she needs Meredith on her team to help keep it going. That is why she reacted that way. Unfortunately it looks like Bailey just blew a clot that traveled into her lungs. Possibly leading her to have a stroke.
I’m so scared they’re gonna mess with Bailey this season. Leave my girl alone. And let’s be real Bailey told no lies here. Hate her for speaking the truth, but she’s in panic mode. I will always love Dr. Miranda Bailey. Also, Meredith is her last baby. Her last one. She’s terrified to let her go. Y’all are confusing her anger for her fear and love she does have for Mer.
Bailey has always had some sort of personal resentment towards Meredith for no reason and it comes off as jealousy. She feels as if Meredith owes her her entire career, like Mer wasn’t already naturally talented. Bailey isn’t the only one who can be credited for the surgeon Mer is today, a lot of that had to do with her own talent, her mom, Richard and even Derek. For her to insinuate that Mer is who she is only bc of Bailey is gross, screw Bailey. I’m so sick of her disrespectfulness just bc she’s chief and self entitlement to Mer’s success. Mer doesn’t owe ANYONE anything, and she is allowed to make advancements in her career. There’s nothing wrong with her being a little selfish.
the only people who can say they helped meredith with her career and REALLY helped her out was richard(tought her everything he knew in general surgery and even showed some clips of ellis grey), derek( tought her the majority of what he knew in neuro and cristina when she tought her sutures and techniques so she could shorten her time and not take long during surgeries and tbh ellis grey for good genetics but even with all that she was already naturally talented
to be fair it's the same treatment Bailey has received her entire career from Richard. remember how he treated her when she did the peds fellowship? maybe she resents or envies her but the real issue to me is that Grey Sloan mentors are way too territorial about their mentees. hurts me to say but the only mentor with boundaries on that show is owen with april
I think is comes down to the fact that Richard always protected Meredith, even as putting her above Bailey's opinion (like with the alzhaimer's trial and when Mer got fired over the insurence thing in season 16), I think the fact that Richard was also Bailey's mentor and seeing somehow Meredith always come back from her problems stronger than before (as if she never faced the real consequences of her decisions, which is a lie), like she could do everything she wanted no matter what was going around made Bailey feel the way she does right now.
@@marissaklein303 Not all of it was true, but some of it was. Like Meredith should've told her she was deciding over the job in Minnesota, especially when the hospital was in shambles.
@@ThatsSoKatie44 but that could also be considered a nice thing; not giving Bailey nothing to worry about when decision hasn’t even been made. That’s at least if after Meredith decided she was going, she’d stay working until Bailey has found someone you
@@ThatsSoKatie44 that’s what’s wrong with ppl. Meredith was not obligated to let her know about anything especially if she didn’t even make a decision yet. Bailey absolutely milked this entire situation just by feeling entitled.
I agree. There is a such thing as staying TOO long at one job. If you stay in the same job for too long employers will think you have a less diverse and evolved set of skills than someone who has mastered a broader range of jobs. They might also assume you're not motivated or driven to achieve or think that you're more comfortable with the familiar and would have difficulty adapting to a new job, leadership style, or corporate culture. Meredith has worked at Grey-Sloan for 17 years. It's time to move on to bigger and better things.
Exactly Miranda thinks she owns the doctors(once her residents)who are her employees not her children and always seems to think she can control what what they do with their lives even if it's better for them.Meridith has the right to move forward with her career and have a future wherever she wants if it will make her a better doctor and person.Miranda is selfish for getting that worked up for ease dropping on her private conversation.
It was just bad timing tho, everybody was leaving at the most crucial time and they was finna shut down the residency program. She prolly would’ve accepted it at a different time but right now was too stressful she damn near had a heart attack
how can people even agree with miranda? She was so unprofessional and they literally raise these surgeons so they can grow and go onto better opportunities… mer has gone through so much she deserves happiness
Oh! Bailey went massively over the line with Meredith. It's like all these years despite of Meredith's accomplishments both in her career and personal life at the back of her head she still sees her as that self destructive girl who is head over heels on her married boss. Disappointing.
No, Ellis would understand the career move, in fact I think she’d applaud her for moving. Out of everyone in GA history, Meredith has lost the most, she has had the deepest trauma. She dedicated herself to Grey Sloan way longer than she had to. Bailey always has this jealousy about Meredith. It’s sad. A great teacher or mentor would be thrilled to see their protégés thrive, Meredith outgrew Bailey by miles, won awards, recognition, and innovation. However, her jealousy also stems from her relationship with Richard too.
bailey had no right to say that. meredith has had a lot of opportunities throughout the years but still chose to stay. she has done so much for the hospital yet no one acknowledges that, especially bailey. she deserves to do something for herself so if she wants to go, she should.
You can hear how hurt Meredith is when she asks Bailey: “Why are you speaking to me like this way!?”, it kind of reminded me of her relationship with Ellis. How dare Bailey called her “the same little girl”. This is going to ruin their relationship as it did with Derek when he insinuated that she saw herself as the intern that fell in love with him. And also when he told her “you sound just like your mother”. I hope Bailey apologizes.
Everyone is gone and no ones stays the same place forever, the others have moved on and Meredith needs to leave. Nothing is left for her there and Bailey knows that as well.
I'm sorry but Bailey was way out of line in how she spoke to both of them. This was resentment against Meredith all the way back to Season 1, it had nothing to do with Nick, who was trying to do ground-breaking surgery but was reduced down to "handsome attending". And to assume that Meredith would only take a job becasue of Nick, rather than the money, the opportunity, the change and the challenge is really insulting. At least Richard recognised what Hamilton was doing and saw it about her talent.
@@anitacele9044 It's both, Bailey is saying Mer is still doing the same thing, history repeating. "following her handsome attending". Bailey is looking straight at Nick when she says it and that is why Meredith then tells Bailey to not speak to Nick like that. She's having a go at Meredith for still being the "same little girl" that followed Derek around. She's trashing Derek and Meredith and implying its the same with Nick.
Poor Bailey! Her level of stress is crazy for someone in her position and all that she has kept bottled up just came out and she lashed at the person who was in front of her. She knows what she said was wrong and she regrets it. I am surprised she didn’t have a heart attack with everything going on.
Why poor Bailey?She had no right to speak to Meridith that way.She didn't know whether should would take the job or not and Bailey was lashing out and disrespecting her friend,her employee like she always does.Being cheif of the hospital doesn't make you God.
I agree. People act as if they don't remember all the sh*t that has been done at that hospital season after season. Everybody in the chief position has made mistakes or succumb to stress. I get it that Bailey is not everybody's cup of tea, but she wasn't entirely wrong here. Maybe the "married man" comments were unnecessary, but I can understand the upset.
@@lekhayes13 I don't think she was.Meridith hasn't even made a decision,she was only considering the offer at the other hospital and vault was listening on a private conversation she had with nick She should have waiting for Meridith to come to her.She was being disrespectful.
"No one and nobody else matters"??? Are you kidding me right now? She voted for Bailey to be on the Hospital's board and comforted her when she had a miscarriage. What about helping Alex for that test when they where interns when most of the others hated him and she convinced them to help him; taking the team to support Izzie when she cut the Lvad; the bomb situation; the little girl with cancer on season 15 and talking loudly about insurance companies, she stood up for that little girl that shot her father to protect her mom... the list is huge. I understand that Bailey is worried about the hospital and it is a big problem happening there and she probably didn't mean to say everything she did, but she kinda helped Meredith to make a decision... if she goes to Minnesota it's about HER. Meredith has part of the shares of the hospital, are seeing her worried about the money she put into it? No. Yes, we know she doesn't need it and can live with her salary but she chose to put her heart (aka money) on that hospital. Maybe Bailey can manage to have a statement about how good the program is from MAGIC (without George, obviously), plus April, Jackson, hell even Stephanie (didn't like the way she left, she would be a star), couldn't hurt. Bailey said she always wanted to be chief of surgery but she is happier when she's on the OR... girl, you say that people shouldn't steal your joy, but it seems that your joy is not reflected on your title. And probably when Schmitt's mom wakes up she'll see that her son is good, as the program is because that education saved her life. --- The way Nick and Meredith talk is SO sweet!! ❤️❤️
Also how Meredith helped her friends study for their boards. She's done so much for the hospital. Instead of allowing it to shutdown after they went bankrupt, they came up with a plan to buy it. Bailey calling her selfish, revealed who was truly selfish in this scenario.
Ooh Bailey you crossed the line after all Mer work hard she still see her as an intern who slept with a married attending and bringing dead husband on the picture, she could have just told mer to stay and wait to make the R program first. You can feel in Meredith voice that she is hurting.
So interestingly, this shows more than ever that Bailey is jealous of Meredith and resents her. She has many reasons to be envious of Mer's talent along with her success. Bailey always resented the fact Mer came from surgical royalty and always had Chief Richards back, even when she tampered with trials and such. Bailey always considered Richard as family and wanted to be considered his Number 1 and favorite, but Meredith always came first for him. She even rubbed it in Mer's face that George was her favorite and that Meredith always pissed her off. Meredith never took that crap personally and was always the bigger person in recognizing Bailey's feelings. Meredith has done everything that Bailey secretly wanted to do but, instead, Bailey settled into an admin role, which seems to suit her fine skill-wise. Bailey never pretended, nor could be, to be innovative or cutting edge like the other surgeons. She is envious of Meredith's success and is now trying to make her feel guilty for it. This shows severe traits of insecurity. Because, in the end, Meredith was a better intern intellectually than the other interns in her class, rose through the ranks quickly, and managed to own a hospital that technically employs Bailey (and Meredith is her boss). Bailey is jealous alright, but I believe Meredith deserves to be in a place where no one is jealous and malicious of her success. It's a win for everyone. too bad Bailey is so blind by her own insecurities she can't see that.
Furthermore, I think Meredith respects her enough to let bygones be bygones because Bailey was her teacher and mentor. But, for Mer's sake, she needs to move on.
Bailey will always think of Meredith as the slutty intern who screwed an attending who was married. That’s why she’s jealous of Meredith, because she’s not the type of person she sees her to be, she’s way more than that. She’s a successful surgeon who won a harper avery and did what Bailey couldn’t do because of her ego.
Honestly, when you look at it closely, Bailey has no reason to be jealous of Meredith. She loves her so much that's why she's so hurt Meredith is leaving at the time she needs the most. No one wants to clip her wings, I mean she's already working in both hospitals, holding important positions at that.
Meredith being her student and yet she’s accomplished so much more, won an important award, being recognized internationally, all interns want to work with her, Bailey has reasons to be jealous of her, but that doesn’t make it right. Instead of being proud she just tries to drag her down with her
Bailey went too far. She’s been holding on to that stuff for years just for an opportunity to use it against Mer and it was gross. It was evil and difficult to watch. I can’t believe Bailey went down to the gutter. I won’t look at her the same anymore.
I felt bad from both sides from Meredith's point of view but also Bailey's. Yes it is Meredith's decision to do what she wants but also Bailey she is her mentor and Meredith is her last student at Grey-Sloan. It hurts looking at it from both sides.
@@juliadelao9922 Bailey sees them as her children. She sees them as family. And to her, family sticks together when times are hard, and all they've worked for is on the line.
@@bethnichols2875 Bailey herself moved across US to med school and then stayed in Seattle when her parents lived somewhere else. Children spread their wings at some point and move on, they can't stay in their parents' shadow forever.
Also I'd would've thought such a huge offer like that, she wouldve communicated better with someone at grey sloan. Meredith knew there was a huge possibility of her taking that job, and filling her place is gonna take forever. So even though I think Bailey was being selfish in that moment, I also see her POV too.
Bailey acts like this high and mighty being but it’s clear she’s very codependent on Meredith’s name but, her pride and ego will never admit it outright. This season alone shows how much power Meredith’s name alone goes a long way for whatever hospital she works for. For example, the episode where a bunch of hospitals were holding out fairs to the top med students in the country Grey Sloan had no one show up to their stand since Meredith herself wasn’t present. Richard has also shown early on in the series that he greeds for talented named doctors (When he thought Bailey was leaving but she was just pregnant) so when he thought Meredith was trying to be sueded he also snapped. I respect the hell out of Richard as a teacher but it was clear Meredith was a big part of the Surgical Residency program at GS hospital. So all in all Webber, Bailey, and Catherine can all act like they are all superior but the reality is Meredith has long since surpassed all of them.
I hate to see my fave Chief Bailey like this, she has too much on her plate, I really hope she is okay😢. Phenomenal actress💕👏🏾 give her long overdue #Emmys.
Bailey has always been a little jealous of Meredith, ever since when Meredith was just an intern. Bailey was always getting into things she wasn't even in the middle of. Either Bailey is jealous or Bailey is mad at Meredith
Bailey went overboard with this one, even mentioning one of the most private moment of grey’s life. Yes she raised her but that doesn’t mean she can’t grow up and find herself a better place
I think Bailey found out this news at the worst possible moment. They were on the verge of losing the residency program, all the doctors are leaving, and I think she expected Meredith to come to her and Richard and talk to them and ask for their advice about taking the job.
She didn't tell them because she has not make the decision yet she was weighing option if to work on both hospitals or to stay in Grey sloan and help Nick with the liver research, but the way bailey talked and trash her and derek I think she will leave.
How the hell does this woman keep yelling people into medical emergencies!? She did it to the review board guy and now Bailey. Do not want to be on the receiving end of her anger. 😳
We know she raised her, Mer has not make decision yet, plus Mer was talking to Nick about bringing his liver project to seattle, and she was offered a job by Hamiliton she could just told her they need her because the program has issues but the way bailey spoke to her i feel like she might leave, while she was thinking of staying
where were those facts?! slut shaming her ?? disrespecting her? calling her out for Derek?! using her past against her?? belittle her and even Derek and Nick?? acting like Mer is her slave because she was ONE of her mentors?! she was bullying her just like what Mer's mother used to do. yes Bailey was a huge influence on Mer, but she wasn't her only mentor, so was Richard and Derek! also her mom was a huge part of even Mer following that pass, and more importantly HER OWN FREAKING TALENT and Hard Work ! teaching and mentoring a student doesn't mean you own them! you can control or insult them for want to chace other dreams! and even act like those dreams is just for a man ! really ! facts🙄
@@maureenavilia208 yes Bailey was so out of line and honestly i now see what Meredith meant by people will always see her of who she used to be! like that isn't even a bad thing, she was damn good intern and worked so hard for everything she has now, she earned it by her talent and hard work first, before all of her mentors help but still by Bailey bringing her past like that! her relationship with Derek as a something to shame her with! to call her a little girl who followed a man! even if that wasn't true at all, she talked like Mer's mother, the same shaming and bullying way of reducing Mer like that! so unprofessional and disgusted actually 😒 stupid from Bailey because now she even give Mer a more reason to leave all of that behind her and earn a new fresh beginning and respect somewhere new, without all of the baggage/past of grey sloane and all of the bad memories ☹️
@@bobopoza3892 my sentiments too, it's like the way cristina said they take and take from you but they don't give you back, plus am wondering if meredith goes she is going with Amelia so am wondering why are they not bringing her Down just Meredith, I hope Richard let her go and shine in Minnisota, bailey really passed me off plus maggie acting shaddy because Mer said she will take the offer.
Damn Bailey, that’s how you really feel? 😤That shit was unnecessary and embarrassing. She really showed her true colors!! Then gone work herself into a fake ass heart attack 😩😩😩Good for Meredith standing up for HERSELF!!
Bailey had no right to talk to Meredith that way and be disrespectful to nick. Whatever happens between them is not Bailey business and people move on.
Bailey has always been jealous of Meredith to be honest. This part of her character sickens me. Meredith helped her with so many projects yet she still treats her as scutt. She taught her yes but she wasn't the only one and that was her damn job to teach so what is she on about? Didnt someone teach Bailey or was she born with a scalpel. So damn self-righteous and annoying 😒.
Can they stop retreading this ground? Either Bailey has trust in Meredith, or she doesn't. They always come back to the Meredith doing something that causes a rift between them. It's tired. How about something new.
Always with Mer, anyone personal to her tries to leave or do something she doesn’t agree with she flips out. It’s a job not a career or a personal relationship. You can get another job doing the same thing. Your not entitled to any of your doctors.
I'm actually rooting for Meredith to go to Minnesota, even tho I think that they'll make her stay in Seattle eventually. She NEEDS to be happy for God's Sake! A fresh start wouldn't be so bad...
Can tell how stressful that job is for Bailey. Evidently if it all fails everyone including herself will blame her. Knowing her nature, she is probably trying not only to maintain but grow the hospital that raised her to be the doctor she is and watching it crumble like this. Poor Bailey. What she said was shocking but her lashing out makes sense.
Wow bailey that is amazing you are just amazing artists you are my favorite character in the show I am obsessed of you and bailey you are right to say that to mer everything you said every word you are very smart that way.
That was not smart and that's why I hate bailey, telling all that to Mer was disrespecting Meredith got a job offer and she was still deciding, and Let's get it straight Bailey has always been jealous of Mer and she admit it in S16
Bailey's stress probably caused her to speak the way she did. Honestly, she always respected Meredith's skills, as well as Meredith's relationship with Derek. Especially considering they've been friends for so long. I kind of understand that bec to Bailey it feels like things are falling apart and she may being relying on Meredith more as a friend/for her loyalty when that doesn't really work in a workplace
Also Nick is not Derek to be Meredith is not doing the same thing as with Derek. I like Nick for Mer as they compliment each other and they are probably closer in age and their more equally matched in their careers. Which is an awesome thing. So I want Mer to take the job in Minnesota because Bailey does not deserve her or own her.
I'm wondering why Bailey was so into Meredith? She's about to leave just like everyone else. Why doesn't she stick with Alex or Christina after she left. MEREDITH HAS THE RIGHT TO LEAVE!!
bailey clearly aint cut out for this job if shes gonna have a heart attack everytime it gets stressful and lash out on everyone and fire ppl for no reason.
Bailey has been so insufferable ever since she became chief. How dare she bring Derek into this?! After all the shit Meredith has been through she earned the right to leave a LONG TIME AGO! And Bailey is expecting her to give up a once in a lifetime opportunity?!
Why is she the only one that had this reaction Bailey raised a lot of residents and she’s the only one that gets this when she wants to move on that’s not fair
Bailey's "problem" always was fear that Meredith will leave Seattle I mean if you wanna go much bigger you go and catch your biggest goals! And Bailey will regret the thing's she said to Meredith that I am on Mer place I would said to her face everything she is no regretting. She's not their property they need to let her alone to achieve her goals. This scene is selfish because Bailey knows withaut Meredith she's alone. Something is going to happen for sure and Meredith will stay. But Bailey need to learn how to respect People and mention all that and her dead husband what the hell? She's really freaking out🙄🙄And you didn't raised Meredith she raised herself! This is so selfish when Christina, Derek, Alex, Arizona, Torres... left she didn't make such big drama is she nuts... Narcist 🤔
Que le pasa a Bailey???? Quien se cree que es??? Si bien Meredith fue su estudiante no quiere decir que le deba nada ni que todo su talento o lo que logro sea gracias a sus maestros. Porque claramente ya tenía un telento natural y además se esforzó mucho en su educación y en mejorar.....ya desde que la nombraron jefe se volvió loca Bailey, está inaguantable....
I love Bailey but maybe let Owen take over as chief. Bailey seems stretched thin not to mention maybe she wishes she could be more like Meredith in the sense going after new job opportunities. I know Bailey must regret not taking the space job.
The true plot of Greys anatomy is this. 1. Someone falls in love 2. They cheat on them 3. They either get married or try to get married 4. They cheat again 5. Kids happen somehow 6. Sloan gets involved 7. Person dies at some point and the partner gets over them within months
I literally came just to see the Bailey hate, yall always have something negative to say about Bailey🙄 Anywho, im glad she's okay because they have her way too stressed out.
I absolutely love Bailey, but she was 100% in the wrong to bring Derek and Meredith’s past and throw it in her face like that. Especially when Miranda was married to a resident and screwing him in on call rooms herself.
@@jocagle1093 Miranda was married to Ben way before he was a resident. That has no equivalence to sleeping with an attending, especially one that was married. Now granted she didn't go about it in the best way Meredith definitely needed to hear what she said because most of it is true.
@@98dajera its not like Meredith knew Derek was married. Also, this happened like what 15 years ago, Derek has been dead for 7 years now. Whatever Mer accomplishes now, it sure has nothing to do with being Derek’s wife or mistress. Kai Bartley didn’t even know who Derek was. Mer is her own person now and she’s gained every single thing she has. Plus, if she wants to leave she has the right to. It’s her life, her career. She doesn’t own them anything. Miranda had always this kind of resentment towards meredith, since like season 1 for no reason
@@kelialunaargentino2721 All she asked was for the courtesy of her to tell her or maybe wait until their wasn't a shortage or the middle of the hospital falling apart. Miranda never claimed to own her she just asked for the decency and respect to not be left hanging or in the dark when she relies on her so much especially with the shortage.
@@98dajera She makes snooty comments that imply she feels a sense ownership over Meredith, the same kind of comments that narcissistic parents make when they think they own their children & control every aspect of their lives.
Bailey has never been a fav for me. There have been so many times she has yelled and belittled people. Her treatment of Ben. She was ready to through an intern out the door and she was the person that was spreading the virus. As soon as she found out it was her on all three surgeries, she started back peddling. And this speech is unbelievable wrong on so many levels. Just further show this viewer more reason why I don't like the character Bailey.
I do too. That is the problem with pretty much all of the attending physicians. They treat the hospital like their own personal playground and then take their marbles and go home when things don’t go their way. It’s extremely unprofessional and immature. Who gets left holding the bag every time? Bailey and Richard.
@@24601cc don't get me started 😉 a hospital full of doctors/ nurses and near none of them know what or were to get or use any form of birth control. 2. Something tells me the guy that plays nico was not ok playing gay. Their tv kiss weren't like the straight characters and their seens were few and far between.
@@24601cc Meredith hasn't allowed her personal life to interfere in her work for years... Bailey was the one being unprofessional here, bringing up stuff that happened over 15 years ago.
@@Mia_M It was the fact that Meredith didn’t give Bailey the respect of having a discussion with her that was the true issue which felt to her like a lot of the past issues she had with Merideth. Keep in mind also on top of Merideth she has a whole staff which has been nothing but problems and issues for years. It was the straw that broke the camel’s back.
THIS ISN'T REALLY BAILEY. I'm not going tojudge her on this outburst, and I don't think that Meredith will either. It's obvious that Bailey is under a LOT of stress. But this does not need to happen just when she and Ben just got Pru full time! The last thing we need is for Bailey to have another heart attack.
That was soo disrespectful of bailey to say to meredith. You dont talk bad about someone dead husband, and the Bailey really expects meredith to stay?? She got an amazing job offer and no one is happy for her. Im glad she chose the job, she deserves this.
For God's Sake... Let Bailey retire and live a happy life. She deserves a rest. This job has been way too stressful on her and her heart. As a huge fan of her character, it's about time she focuses on happier things. It's been 18 years. Think about it.
Miranda has always been jealous of Meredith lol I don’t know this is surprising to anyone she just really took a low blow when she mentioned Derek 🤦🏽♀️
I kinda agree with bailey here don't get me wrong I felt bad for mer, and Bailey shouldn't had referred Derek in this situation, but Bailey has been stressing, and been trying to keep grey-sloan afloat, so ig when she heard about the news she didn't know how to act. I mean the residency program is literally hanging on by a thread and by this point I think that thread has snapped.
‘why are you speaking to me this way’ - oh my god you could literally feel the hurt in her voice
I feel like she got reminded of Ellis when she was arguing with Bailey considering Bailey and Meredith have such a mother daughter relationship.
@@Retroworld-lk8so ... no, they don't. They're like sisters. Miranda has her own children.
@@reginaldfairfield sisters ??
@@DeadByLani... yes?? Why would she be her mother when they're the same age. Lmaooo
@@Retroworld-lk8so In the first season or two I occasionally thought Miranda seemed motherly. But I haven't felt that way for a loooong time. She is too often jealous, petty, or mean. It's a relationship of on older and younger sister. She loves Meredith like an older sister but also is jealous and knows the sore spots to hurt her
Just like Derek, Bailey never stopped seeing Meredith as the intern who fell in love with an attending, they didn't respect her for her own accomplishments and merits.
And *that* for those of you who forgot, is the reason Mer didn't move to D.C with Derek. When Cristina left in the end of season 10, she told Meredith: "He's very dreamy, but he's not the sun, you are". And after that Mer and Derek had a fight and she told him he still sees her as the intern who will follow him around, that he thinks his career is more important than hers, no matter what she does.
This is also why Meredith understands now that she has to leave, because no matter how much she accomplished, people in Grey Sloan will always see her only as the woman who went after her boss, a married man.
Correction, Derek chased Meredith before she knew he was married.
@@MickeyDeeCool Unfortunately everyone doesn't see it that way.
@@MickeyDeeCool Derek chased Meredith, but Meredith was the one it backfired on when it was revealed Derek was married. She was the slutty intern of a dirty mistress
@@EvieKng Yeah, I remember her coworkers were saying she got what she deserved for being with a married man. Meredith didn't even know. She took so much of the brunt of that reveal.
@@Mia_M she didn’t know he was married to start with and she left him Alone when she found out he pursued her even before he divorced Addison , then they got back togather and married
Bailey stooped so low here. It was incredibly unprofessional of her and I’m disappointed that she never apologised.
On a better note, before she walked in Meredith and Nick had one of their most beautiful scenes. They are so connected.
She acts like everything is a personal slight against her and she’s been doing it for a long time. It’s disappointing and gross.
yeah, for sure one of the best scenes between them and I also loved her seeing how genuine he is with the families of his patients, that he really cares. When he said in the cabine that was falling in love... when he said to her: "I don't want to leave you ever".
@@claudiateixeira5158 He’s such a good guy! She deserves this.
@@angelaborgia7991, this is a drama show too, and with a new season coming they can even have some disagreements but he is super centered and... i don't know, I just absolutely THE BEST guy.
@@claudiateixeira5158 I absolutely expect disagreements to come but I also trust that they can get through them like adults. It’s what Meredith couldn’t seem to have with DeLuca, he was an okay guy but he could be so overly passion-driven and juvenile at times, like a male Izzie so to speak, which Meredith doesn’t need or have time for. Nick is more centered, like you said.
she hit a nerve when she started talking about Derek and tbh I’m glad mer stopped her. Bailey has no right to bring up things in her past, especially things about Derek.
Bailey was doing the most.
Totally, I get her being mad and feeling betrayed, but bringing up Derek was over the line
Are you guys short term memorys? This was Joe's husband that she ran from and why she couldn't marry Alex 🤣😅
@@Nicole-dj3jf What? This is Nick, he was a guest star in season 14. Jo's ex-husband was played by a different actor.
@@Nicole-dj3jf This is Scott Speedman, not able to be mistaken for anyone else. // Fun you wrote Joe's because on episode 18x13 she makes a "joke" by saying "My name is Jo, not to be confused with Joe's. I'm Jo without an "e"" 😂 😂 Plus, her ex-husband, Paul, died at the ER BEFORE Nick's first episode.
Meredith is really in love with Nick, huh? To stand up for him like she did was something we never had the chance to see with Derek. Maybe because Derek was always the one who stood up for Mer then (which she never asked for). But look at how Mer grew and matured over the years. She has become stronger than ever. A person of her own. I love this version of her. So feisty. Way to go, Mer!
I don't think you need to be in love with someone to stand up for them. Bailey trash talked Nick because she was angry with Meredith, it had nothing to do with him and Meredith wouldn't accept it.
She would have defended anyone against Bailey it's not about him. if anything the comment about him sleeping is where she's saying she's down bad
I couldn’t agree with you more
She would have defended him anyway, but I do believe she loves him. She’s still processing it but I trust she won’t be afraid of her feelings anymore.
Mer has grown, from all of her losses, raising her children, being a great doctor. She has learned from years of mistreatment by her mom, dad. Bailey ALWAYS talked down to Mer, except when Mer was dying with COVID - she tried to be kind to her. Pompeo is a fabulous actor.
I agree, Bailey shouldn't have referred to her past with Derek, that was low but she's in a panic mood... so sad to watch
Meredith is finally speaking up for herself!!! She was definitely heartbroken about how Bailey spoken to her that way! I love Bailey, but she was definitely wrong in this situation.
I agree a 100%!
exactly!
Watch the show from start to finish. Just binge watch it. Every character does it every few episodes. They also follow the same patterns. They cheat on their partners, get back together, cheat again, try to get married (sometimes it's successful), a partner dies and the remaining partner gets over it pretty fast
@@Nightshade17655 😂😂😂
The fact that Bailey says “already married” and looks at Nick made me so mad, as if she was shaming her in front of Nick to make him think less of her. Screw her, Mer doesn’t have to stay forever, Bailey always turns her back on her when things get tough without ever hearing reason.
That's kind of unfair Bailey was like that with Meredith. I definitely didn't see this reaction when Yang left for Switzerland or when Alex wanted to leave for his fellowship.
@@ismaelleal7314 To be fair, Alex didn’t even give Bailey a chance to kick his ass. He simply wrote a letter and noped out of Grey Sloan without saying a word. Had he been there in person? Webber and Bailey would have given him shit. He was the under dog and by the end, he was chief(?) at another hospital. Also, remember when Alex was being courted by other hospitals for fellowship? Arizona kicked his ass up and down the hospital.
@@ismaelleal7314 To be fair, Alex didn’t even give Bailey a chance to kick his ass. He simply wrote a letter and noped out of Grey Sloan without saying a word. Had he been there in person? Webber and Bailey would have given him shit. He was the under dog and by the end, he was chief(?) at another hospital. Also, remember when Alex was being courted by other hospitals for fellowship? Arizona kicked his ass up and down the hospital.
@@sukhmanisreadingcorner6811 actually yes you do have a point about Alex. They would've given him shit if he was in person. But I definitely didn't see this when Yang left for Switzerland. I think Bailey is just jealous of Meredith's success and I get that there'd a staff shortage but I think it'd Meredith's time to shine and be successful just like Yang.
@@ismaelleal7314 yes, for Yang, there wasn’t much. Besides, she had gone to Minnesota once. They had to let Yang go because she was brilliant and worthy of winning the Harper Avery award. She couldn’t win it because of the hospital’s affiliation with HA/Catherine Fox at the time. But yes, it is finally time for Meredith to shine on her own.
Yes, Bailey and Grey-Sloan raised her, but they don't own her!! Why does she always get this way when someone decides to leave??
She actually owns them lol.. like literally
It wasn't only Bailey, Richard taught her even more but everyone seems to forget that and he did not even talk to her this way, I kinda felt bad for Meredith here.
@@natalieraeann no she doesn't, she pays them yes, but she does not have ownership
I think Bailey is tired and she knows she can’t take time off because of the shortage of personnel so she keeps everything inside… and I guess this was the last straw.
If I were Meredith, I would have BEEN wanted to leave that hospital. All her closest friends there are gone or dead (Alex, Christina, Izzy, George, Arizona, Callie), both her parents died in that hospital, she almost died there several times, she was beat up by a patient, and the staff has an unreal body count (Derek, George, Lexi, McSteamy, that short-haired intern, Heather, Deluca...). Run, Meredith! Run!
She always flips out when she finds out one of the surgeons is going to leave. Like damn, it's a job not a personal attack
Being at grey Sloan isn't a job it's leaving family that's why everyone is taking it so hard
Exactly. At the end of the day it’s just a job, as close as they are they’re still just co-workers. And they have to make a living… if there are better options out there, ofc they’re going to go for it.
I can see Bailey’s side of things, to her it is a personal attack. I can also see Meredith’s side
@@natalieeubank4533 Exactly, we saw in the previews that Maggie looks to be giving Meredith the cold shoulder for not telling her she is thinking about moving to Minnesota
Bailey was very nice to Arizona when she decided to leave
"This Hospital raised you. I raised you" so what? My mom raised me too, am I supposed to live under her roof for the rest of my life? This is an incredible job opportunity and honestly I'm surprised meredith even stayed that long. She doesn't have any obligation towards that hospital. It's a job. People change their jobs. They are all so damn unprofessional it's nerve-wracking
what the hell are you talking about...that hospital need meredith..grey sioan is a mer legacy..she must stay forever at grey sloan..
@@mibchannel8385 do you hear yourself?
@@mibchannel8385 that does not mean that she should stay. she has every right to leave. she has stayed long enough thru everything that has happened, and has tried to everything that was expected of her. i don’t blame her for leaving but just bc the hospital is crumbling down, that means she should stay and turn down a amazing opportunity?? seriously? so you’re saying she doesn’t get the right to leave and enter a new chapter in her life just because the hospital is burning down??? bffr lmfaooo
You would be surprised at the behavior doctors get away with behind closed doors,
At the end of the day doctors are still people too sometimes with inflated egos
I love the fact that since a few seasons everyone just forgot that Mer owns the hospital lmao
True 😂
Because of nepotism
The writer ms probably did toon😭😭
@@zechariahcameron3645 what
@@zechariahcameron3645 what lol her mom had nothing to do with her owning the hospital, started with the plane crash
The whispered “I don’t know, I don’t know, I don’t know”. Scott Speedman’s acting is so natural.
Mer standing up for herself and nick, so proud 👊✊ mer and nick having a beautiful moment and then bailey had to interrupt it 😤
Chandra's acting here should give her an award, just amazing!
I don’t know why as time passes, they make Bailey ruder and more selfish. She was the epitome of strength and character when the show first started. But as people left and died and her position and power went up, she morphed into someone that can be very unpleasant. Even her sense of humour has faded. People she loves dying would affect her, but from earlier with George and her mum, she protected herself, but also kept those important to her close. But the past couple seasons, it’s almost like she needs to punish those that care about her. Bailey was one of my fave characters, but for the last few years, I have just found her unlikeable. Such a shame considering she such a brilliant character.
New flash Bailey has ALWAYS been rude and selfish with the "I dare you to like/love me" even though I am rude and selfish. She was rude and selfish to George O;Malley back in the day be HE still cared about her. Nothing new, same ole Bailey.
Bailey always been rude and selfish she one on the show I never really cared for I thought she could been little nicer to people Christina was mean too but she was funny she was my favorite on the show I miss her
Meanwhile, Izzie in her farm, Alex in his schizophrenia, Cristina in Switzerland, Jackson in Boston, April in Boston : left way earlier without Bailey screaming at them about their dead husband.
Alex schizophrenia 😂 much better ending for him actually
Alex 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bailey has changed so much since becoming cheif, that power went straight to her head, and her heart 😭.
I wonder if this is medical -- or psychiatric. It's in character, but not. Bailey is hard, but never this out-and-out mean. I think she's seriously ill.
@@franktalk2585 I’d love for them to explore this being a medical issue.
Shit got her clutching her heart bruh 😭
@@franktalk2585 No Bailey is just under a lot of stress. Like she said doctors are leaving left and right. Meredith is her best surgeon so, Bailey was in panic mode as she thinks Meredith is leaving her.
She was beyond cruel then faked a heart attack to avoid the fallout. I lost a lot of respect for Bailey after this scene
Bailey is in panic mode because she is afraid everything they have worked so hard for is slipping away, and she needs Meredith on her team to help keep it going. That is why she reacted that way. Unfortunately it looks like Bailey just blew a clot that traveled into her lungs. Possibly leading her to have a stroke.
She's fine, it was a panic atrack.
Unless another blood clot if formed, a clot doesnt pass from the lungs to the heart.
I’m so scared they’re gonna mess with Bailey this season. Leave my girl alone. And let’s be real Bailey told no lies here. Hate her for speaking the truth, but she’s in panic mode. I will always love Dr. Miranda Bailey. Also, Meredith is her last baby. Her last one. She’s terrified to let her go. Y’all are confusing her anger for her fear and love she does have for Mer.
Bailey has always had some sort of personal resentment towards Meredith for no reason and it comes off as jealousy. She feels as if Meredith owes her her entire career, like Mer wasn’t already naturally talented. Bailey isn’t the only one who can be credited for the surgeon Mer is today, a lot of that had to do with her own talent, her mom, Richard and even Derek. For her to insinuate that Mer is who she is only bc of Bailey is gross, screw Bailey. I’m so sick of her disrespectfulness just bc she’s chief and self entitlement to Mer’s success. Mer doesn’t owe ANYONE anything, and she is allowed to make advancements in her career. There’s nothing wrong with her being a little selfish.
the only people who can say they helped meredith with her career and REALLY helped her out was richard(tought her everything he knew in general surgery and even showed some clips of ellis grey), derek( tought her the majority of what he knew in neuro and cristina when she tought her sutures and techniques so she could shorten her time and not take long during surgeries and tbh ellis grey for good genetics but even with all that she was already naturally talented
to be fair it's the same treatment Bailey has received her entire career from Richard. remember how he treated her when she did the peds fellowship? maybe she resents or envies her but the real issue to me is that Grey Sloan mentors are way too territorial about their mentees. hurts me to say but the only mentor with boundaries on that show is owen with april
@@spinalc0rds Amelia and Stephanie also. Or jackson and mark! I love them
I think is comes down to the fact that Richard always protected Meredith, even as putting her above Bailey's opinion (like with the alzhaimer's trial and when Mer got fired over the insurence thing in season 16), I think the fact that Richard was also Bailey's mentor and seeing somehow Meredith always come back from her problems stronger than before (as if she never faced the real consequences of her decisions, which is a lie), like she could do everything she wanted no matter what was going around made Bailey feel the way she does right now.
@@kelialunaargentino2721 true! I didn't count them because they didn't last as long
I love how natural they are together.
I understand both sides and some of the things Bailey said was true, but she was so damn wrong for insulting Meredith like that by mentioning Derek.
It was not true no need to bring up the past
@@marissaklein303 Not all of it was true, but some of it was. Like Meredith should've told her she was deciding over the job in Minnesota, especially when the hospital was in shambles.
@@ThatsSoKatie44 but that could also be considered a nice thing; not giving Bailey nothing to worry about when decision hasn’t even been made. That’s at least if after Meredith decided she was going, she’d stay working until Bailey has found someone you
@@ThatsSoKatie44 that’s what’s wrong with ppl. Meredith was not obligated to let her know about anything especially if she didn’t even make a decision yet. Bailey absolutely milked this entire situation just by feeling entitled.
@@ThatsSoKatie44 exactly that part. I understand why Bailey is upset about mer not telling her about Minnesota in person
This is insane. You can’t expect someone to stay in one place forever for a job, for your coworkers. People move on, it’s natural
It’s just a show…
I agree. There is a such thing as staying TOO long at one job. If you stay in the same job for too long employers will think you have a less diverse and evolved set of skills than someone who has mastered a broader range of jobs. They might also assume you're not motivated or driven to achieve or think that you're more comfortable with the familiar and would have difficulty adapting to a new job, leadership style, or corporate culture. Meredith has worked at Grey-Sloan for 17 years. It's time to move on to bigger and better things.
@@brett8460 I agree.She could chief or CEO of own hospital like Christina in Swizerland.
Exactly Miranda thinks she owns the doctors(once her residents)who are her employees not her children and always seems to think she can control what what they do with their lives even if it's better for them.Meridith has the right to move forward with her career and have a future wherever she wants if it will make her a better doctor and person.Miranda is selfish for getting that worked up for ease dropping on her private conversation.
It was just bad timing tho, everybody was leaving at the most crucial time and they was finna shut down the residency program. She prolly would’ve accepted it at a different time but right now was too stressful she damn near had a heart attack
Bailey was so out of line and was personally attacking mers past
how can people even agree with miranda? She was so unprofessional and they literally raise these surgeons so they can grow and go onto better opportunities… mer has gone through so much she deserves happiness
Oh! Bailey went massively over the line with Meredith. It's like all these years despite of Meredith's accomplishments both in her career and personal life at the back of her head she still sees her as that self destructive girl who is head over heels on her married boss. Disappointing.
I think Bailey sounds just like Ellis
Yeah, she does!!!
Yes!! I said the same thing. Meredith is use to this kind of verbal abuse from her childhood 🥺😢
No, Ellis would understand the career move, in fact I think she’d applaud her for moving. Out of everyone in GA history, Meredith has lost the most, she has had the deepest trauma. She dedicated herself to Grey Sloan way longer than she had to. Bailey always has this jealousy about Meredith. It’s sad. A great teacher or mentor would be thrilled to see their protégés thrive, Meredith outgrew Bailey by miles, won awards, recognition, and innovation. However, her jealousy also stems from her relationship with Richard too.
When Meredith yells you know you’ve crossed the line
I think they forgot that Meredith yelled at a Dr and led him to the ER with seizure which led to death, I need her to bring the thunder in S19
Bailey got some damn nerve
bailey had no right to say that. meredith has had a lot of opportunities throughout the years but still chose to stay. she has done so much for the hospital yet no one acknowledges that, especially bailey. she deserves to do something for herself so if she wants to go, she should.
You can hear how hurt Meredith is when she asks Bailey: “Why are you speaking to me like this way!?”, it kind of reminded me of her relationship with Ellis. How dare Bailey called her “the same little girl”. This is going to ruin their relationship as it did with Derek when he insinuated that she saw herself as the intern that fell in love with him. And also when he told her “you sound just like your mother”. I hope Bailey apologizes.
Everyone is gone and no ones stays the same place forever, the others have moved on and Meredith needs to leave. Nothing is left for her there and Bailey knows that as well.
I'm sorry but Bailey was way out of line in how she spoke to both of them. This was resentment against Meredith all the way back to Season 1, it had nothing to do with Nick, who was trying to do ground-breaking surgery but was reduced down to "handsome attending". And to assume that Meredith would only take a job becasue of Nick, rather than the money, the opportunity, the change and the challenge is really insulting. At least Richard recognised what Hamilton was doing and saw it about her talent.
She's talking about Derek , he's the "handsome attending "
@@anitacele9044 It's both, Bailey is saying Mer is still doing the same thing, history repeating. "following her handsome attending". Bailey is looking straight at Nick when she says it and that is why Meredith then tells Bailey to not speak to Nick like that. She's having a go at Meredith for still being the "same little girl" that followed Derek around. She's trashing Derek and Meredith and implying its the same with Nick.
She didn't lie though it was true
@@justinsalinas3663 no it isn’t true. Meredith is nothing like the person she used to be.
Poor Bailey! Her level of stress is crazy for someone in her position and all that she has kept bottled up just came out and she lashed at the person who was in front of her. She knows what she said was wrong and she regrets it. I am surprised she didn’t have a heart attack with everything going on.
Why poor Bailey?She had no right to speak to Meridith that way.She didn't know whether should would take the job or not and Bailey was lashing out and disrespecting her friend,her employee like she always does.Being cheif of the hospital doesn't make you God.
Poor bailey?? She just implied meredith slept her way to the top.
Poor Bailey?? Yea stress is an excusable reason to verbally attack and embarrass someone who has been a great friend and colleague to you for years 🤨
I agree. People act as if they don't remember all the sh*t that has been done at that hospital season after season. Everybody in the chief position has made mistakes or succumb to stress. I get it that Bailey is not everybody's cup of tea, but she wasn't entirely wrong here. Maybe the "married man" comments were unnecessary, but I can understand the upset.
@@lekhayes13 I don't think she was.Meridith hasn't even made a decision,she was only considering the offer at the other hospital and vault was listening on a private conversation she had with nick She should have waiting for Meridith to come to her.She was being disrespectful.
"No one and nobody else matters"??? Are you kidding me right now? She voted for Bailey to be on the Hospital's board and comforted her when she had a miscarriage. What about helping Alex for that test when they where interns when most of the others hated him and she convinced them to help him; taking the team to support Izzie when she cut the Lvad; the bomb situation; the little girl with cancer on season 15 and talking loudly about insurance companies, she stood up for that little girl that shot her father to protect her mom... the list is huge. I understand that Bailey is worried about the hospital and it is a big problem happening there and she probably didn't mean to say everything she did, but she kinda helped Meredith to make a decision... if she goes to Minnesota it's about HER. Meredith has part of the shares of the hospital, are seeing her worried about the money she put into it? No. Yes, we know she doesn't need it and can live with her salary but she chose to put her heart (aka money) on that hospital.
Maybe Bailey can manage to have a statement about how good the program is from MAGIC (without George, obviously), plus April, Jackson, hell even Stephanie (didn't like the way she left, she would be a star), couldn't hurt. Bailey said she always wanted to be chief of surgery but she is happier when she's on the OR... girl, you say that people shouldn't steal your joy, but it seems that your joy is not reflected on your title. And probably when Schmitt's mom wakes up she'll see that her son is good, as the program is because that education saved her life.
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The way Nick and Meredith talk is SO sweet!! ❤️❤️
Also how Meredith helped her friends study for their boards. She's done so much for the hospital. Instead of allowing it to shutdown after they went bankrupt, they came up with a plan to buy it. Bailey calling her selfish, revealed who was truly selfish in this scenario.
Ooh Bailey you crossed the line after all Mer work hard she still see her as an intern who slept with a married attending and bringing dead husband on the picture, she could have just told mer to stay and wait to make the R program first. You can feel in Meredith voice that she is hurting.
SHE’S OVER HERE LEGIT CLUTCHING HER HEART 😭😭😭
LMFAOAO
So interestingly, this shows more than ever that Bailey is jealous of Meredith and resents her. She has many reasons to be envious of Mer's talent along with her success. Bailey always resented the fact Mer came from surgical royalty and always had Chief Richards back, even when she tampered with trials and such. Bailey always considered Richard as family and wanted to be considered his Number 1 and favorite, but Meredith always came first for him. She even rubbed it in Mer's face that George was her favorite and that Meredith always pissed her off. Meredith never took that crap personally and was always the bigger person in recognizing Bailey's feelings. Meredith has done everything that Bailey secretly wanted to do but, instead, Bailey settled into an admin role, which seems to suit her fine skill-wise. Bailey never pretended, nor could be, to be innovative or cutting edge like the other surgeons. She is envious of Meredith's success and is now trying to make her feel guilty for it. This shows severe traits of insecurity. Because, in the end, Meredith was a better intern intellectually than the other interns in her class, rose through the ranks quickly, and managed to own a hospital that technically employs Bailey (and Meredith is her boss). Bailey is jealous alright, but I believe Meredith deserves to be in a place where no one is jealous and malicious of her success. It's a win for everyone. too bad Bailey is so blind by her own insecurities she can't see that.
Furthermore, I think Meredith respects her enough to let bygones be bygones because Bailey was her teacher and mentor. But, for Mer's sake, she needs to move on.
Bailey will always think of Meredith as the slutty intern who screwed an attending who was married. That’s why she’s jealous of Meredith, because she’s not the type of person she sees her to be, she’s way more than that. She’s a successful surgeon who won a harper avery and did what Bailey couldn’t do because of her ego.
Honestly, when you look at it closely, Bailey has no reason to be jealous of Meredith. She loves her so much that's why she's so hurt Meredith is leaving at the time she needs the most. No one wants to clip her wings, I mean she's already working in both hospitals, holding important positions at that.
Meredith being her student and yet she’s accomplished so much more, won an important award, being recognized internationally, all interns want to work with her, Bailey has reasons to be jealous of her, but that doesn’t make it right. Instead of being proud she just tries to drag her down with her
Yes she was always jealous, because Richard taking care for Mer and Mer being better then her
I understand Bailey but she is definitely out of line here with all the personal attack
Bailey went too far. She’s been holding on to that stuff for years just for an opportunity to use it against Mer and it was gross. It was evil and difficult to watch. I can’t believe Bailey went down to the gutter. I won’t look at her the same anymore.
That team who visited to review the program are the one who reminded Baily of Merder situation when they talked about Maggis marriage
I felt bad from both sides from Meredith's point of view but also Bailey's. Yes it is Meredith's decision to do what she wants but also Bailey she is her mentor and Meredith is her last student at Grey-Sloan. It hurts looking at it from both sides.
It’s sad cause everyone left while she was chief, I’m sure it hurts her more than them just “taking a job”
@@juliadelao9922 She sees them as her children. She sees them as family.
@@juliadelao9922 Bailey sees them as her children. She sees them as family. And to her, family sticks together when times are hard, and all they've worked for is on the line.
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Bailey herself moved across US to med school and then stayed in Seattle when her parents lived somewhere else. Children spread their wings at some point and move on, they can't stay in their parents' shadow forever.
Also I'd would've thought such a huge offer like that, she wouldve communicated better with someone at grey sloan. Meredith knew there was a huge possibility of her taking that job, and filling her place is gonna take forever. So even though I think Bailey was being selfish in that moment, I also see her POV too.
Bailey acts like this high and mighty being but it’s clear she’s very codependent on Meredith’s name but, her pride and ego will never admit it outright. This season alone shows how much power Meredith’s name alone goes a long way for whatever hospital she works for. For example, the episode where a bunch of hospitals were holding out fairs to the top med students in the country Grey Sloan had no one show up to their stand since Meredith herself wasn’t present. Richard has also shown early on in the series that he greeds for talented named doctors (When he thought Bailey was leaving but she was just pregnant) so when he thought Meredith was trying to be sueded he also snapped. I respect the hell out of Richard as a teacher but it was clear Meredith was a big part of the Surgical Residency program at GS hospital. So all in all Webber, Bailey, and Catherine can all act like they are all superior but the reality is Meredith has long since surpassed all of them.
I hate to see my fave Chief Bailey like this, she has too much on her plate, I really hope she is okay😢. Phenomenal actress💕👏🏾 give her long overdue #Emmys.
Bailey has always been a little jealous of Meredith, ever since when Meredith was just an intern. Bailey was always getting into things she wasn't even in the middle of. Either Bailey is jealous or Bailey is mad at Meredith
Bailey has a change of heart. ❤️❤️❤️
“Why are you speaking to me this way?” 💔💔. Bailey became a little bit crazy last episodes.
Bailey went overboard with this one, even mentioning one of the most private moment of grey’s life. Yes she raised her but that doesn’t mean she can’t grow up and find herself a better place
I think Bailey found out this news at the worst possible moment. They were on the verge of losing the residency program, all the doctors are leaving, and I think she expected Meredith to come to her and Richard and talk to them and ask for their advice about taking the job.
She didn't tell them because she has not make the decision yet she was weighing option if to work on both hospitals or to stay in Grey sloan and help Nick with the liver research, but the way bailey talked and trash her and derek I think she will leave.
So what if Meredith wants to leave look how someone uses her past against her
How the hell does this woman keep yelling people into medical emergencies!? She did it to the review board guy and now Bailey. Do not want to be on the receiving end of her anger. 😳
It's kind-of the way I wouldn't ever want to play board games with Teddy.
She was defending herself from a very uncalled for and childish personal attack.
This sounds almost identical to when Webber had this talk with Bailey. Wow!!
Bailey spilling true facts. I’m surprised Chandra hasn’t won any Emmys yet when she’s the best actress on the show!
We know she raised her, Mer has not make decision yet, plus Mer was talking to Nick about bringing his liver project to seattle, and she was offered a job by Hamiliton she could just told her they need her because the program has issues but the way bailey spoke to her i feel like she might leave, while she was thinking of staying
where were those facts?! slut shaming her ?? disrespecting her? calling her out for Derek?! using her past against her?? belittle her and even Derek and Nick??
acting like Mer is her slave because she was ONE of her mentors?!
she was bullying her just like what Mer's mother used to do.
yes Bailey was a huge influence on Mer, but she wasn't her only mentor, so was Richard and Derek! also her mom was a huge part of even Mer following that pass, and more importantly HER OWN FREAKING TALENT and Hard Work !
teaching and mentoring a student doesn't mean you own them! you can control or insult them for want to chace other dreams! and even act like those dreams is just for a man ! really ! facts🙄
@@maureenavilia208 yes Bailey was so out of line and honestly i now see what Meredith meant by people will always see her of who she used to be!
like that isn't even a bad thing, she was damn good intern and worked so hard for everything she has now, she earned it by her talent and hard work first, before all of her mentors help but still by Bailey bringing her past like that! her relationship with Derek as a something to shame her with! to call her a little girl who followed a man! even if that wasn't true at all, she talked like Mer's mother, the same shaming and bullying way of reducing Mer like that! so unprofessional and disgusted actually 😒
stupid from Bailey because now she even give Mer a more reason to leave all of that behind her and earn a new fresh beginning and respect somewhere new, without all of the baggage/past of grey sloane and all of the bad memories ☹️
@@bobopoza3892 my sentiments too, it's like the way cristina said they take and take from you but they don't give you back, plus am wondering if meredith goes she is going with Amelia so am wondering why are they not bringing her Down just Meredith, I hope Richard let her go and shine in Minnisota, bailey really passed me off plus maggie acting shaddy because Mer said she will take the offer.
This👏🏾💯
This scene was crazy.... Loved it
i dont want her to leave :(
I get being upset and scared but she went for the jugular. Wrong wrong wrong.
Damn Bailey, that’s how you really feel? 😤That shit was unnecessary and embarrassing. She really showed her true colors!! Then gone work herself into a fake ass heart attack 😩😩😩Good for Meredith standing up for HERSELF!!
Bailey had no right to talk to Meredith that way and be disrespectful to nick. Whatever happens between them is not Bailey business and people move on.
Bailey has always been jealous of Meredith to be honest. This part of her character sickens me. Meredith helped her with so many projects yet she still treats her as scutt.
She taught her yes but she wasn't the only one and that was her damn job to teach so what is she on about? Didnt someone teach Bailey or was she born with a scalpel. So damn self-righteous and annoying 😒.
Bringing up Derek was a low blow, especially in front of Nick.
Can they stop retreading this ground? Either Bailey has trust in Meredith, or she doesn't. They always come back to the Meredith doing something that causes a rift between them. It's tired. How about something new.
Always with Mer, anyone personal to her tries to leave or do something she doesn’t agree with she flips out. It’s a job not a career or a personal relationship. You can get another job doing the same thing. Your not entitled to any of your doctors.
Agghhh. This hurt a lot. Bailey’s finally reached her tipping point and took it out on Meredith and that was….. that was tough to watch
i know this is this weeks episode, but for future viewers it would be nice if they put the season and episode number in the description.
18x15
I'm actually rooting for Meredith to go to Minnesota, even tho I think that they'll make her stay in Seattle eventually. She NEEDS to be happy for God's Sake! A fresh start wouldn't be so bad...
Meredith has had enough of Bailey for eighteen seasons
I love this show
Can tell how stressful that job is for Bailey. Evidently if it all fails everyone including herself will blame her. Knowing her nature, she is probably trying not only to maintain but grow the hospital that raised her to be the doctor she is and watching it crumble like this. Poor Bailey. What she said was shocking but her lashing out makes sense.
For some reason it failed and its put on Meredith shoulders while every one leaves
Wow bailey that is amazing you are just amazing artists you are my favorite character in the show I am obsessed of you and bailey you are right to say that to mer everything you said every word you are very smart that way.
That was not smart and that's why I hate bailey, telling all that to Mer was disrespecting Meredith got a job offer and she was still deciding, and Let's get it straight Bailey has always been jealous of Mer and she admit it in S16
Bailey's stress probably caused her to speak the way she did. Honestly, she always respected Meredith's skills, as well as Meredith's relationship with Derek. Especially considering they've been friends for so long. I kind of understand that bec to Bailey it feels like things are falling apart and she may being relying on Meredith more as a friend/for her loyalty when that doesn't really work in a workplace
Also Nick is not Derek to be Meredith is not doing the same thing as with Derek. I like Nick for Mer as they compliment each other and they are probably closer in age and their more equally matched in their careers. Which is an awesome thing. So I want Mer to take the job in Minnesota because Bailey does not deserve her or own her.
I'm wondering why Bailey was so into Meredith? She's about to leave just like everyone else. Why doesn't she stick with Alex or Christina after she left. MEREDITH HAS THE RIGHT TO LEAVE!!
bailey clearly aint cut out for this job if shes gonna have a heart attack everytime it gets stressful and lash out on everyone and fire ppl for no reason.
Finally Meredith gets her voice heard
she was way outta pocket it's not her fault that she has a shortage of doctors mer needs a new change
Bailey has been so insufferable ever since she became chief. How dare she bring Derek into this?! After all the shit Meredith has been through she earned the right to leave a LONG TIME AGO! And Bailey is expecting her to give up a once in a lifetime opportunity?!
Why is she the only one that had this reaction Bailey raised a lot of residents and she’s the only one that gets this when she wants to move on that’s not fair
Bailey's "problem" always was fear that Meredith will leave Seattle I mean if you wanna go much bigger you go and catch your biggest goals! And Bailey will regret the thing's she said to Meredith that I am on Mer place I would said to her face everything she is no regretting. She's not their property they need to let her alone to achieve her goals. This scene is selfish because Bailey knows withaut Meredith she's alone. Something is going to happen for sure and Meredith will stay. But Bailey need to learn how to respect People and mention all that and her dead husband what the hell? She's really freaking out🙄🙄And you didn't raised Meredith she raised herself! This is so selfish when Christina, Derek, Alex, Arizona, Torres... left she didn't make such big drama is she nuts... Narcist 🤔
the same woman who stood up to Derek to stay away from her that she was a mess too the woman who point out he was already married
Que le pasa a Bailey???? Quien se cree que es??? Si bien Meredith fue su estudiante no quiere decir que le deba nada ni que todo su talento o lo que logro sea gracias a sus maestros. Porque claramente ya tenía un telento natural y además se esforzó mucho en su educación y en mejorar.....ya desde que la nombraron jefe se volvió loca Bailey, está inaguantable....
I love Bailey but maybe let Owen take over as chief. Bailey seems stretched thin not to mention maybe she wishes she could be more like Meredith in the sense going after new job opportunities. I know Bailey must regret not taking the space job.
Why are Richard and Bailey acting like they own Meredith?
always mention the season and episode number to get better conversion rate.. because, Promos are there to make people watch the full episode
S18 Ep between 15,16
The true plot of Greys anatomy is this.
1. Someone falls in love
2. They cheat on them
3. They either get married or try to get married
4. They cheat again
5. Kids happen somehow
6. Sloan gets involved
7. Person dies at some point and the partner gets over them within months
I'M CRYING. OMG I'M CRYING.
I literally came just to see the Bailey hate, yall always have something negative to say about Bailey🙄 Anywho, im glad she's okay because they have her way too stressed out.
I absolutely love Bailey, but she was 100% in the wrong to bring Derek and Meredith’s past and throw it in her face like that. Especially when Miranda was married to a resident and screwing him in on call rooms herself.
@@jocagle1093 Miranda was married to Ben way before he was a resident. That has no equivalence to sleeping with an attending, especially one that was married. Now granted she didn't go about it in the best way Meredith definitely needed to hear what she said because most of it is true.
@@98dajera its not like Meredith knew Derek was married. Also, this happened like what 15 years ago, Derek has been dead for 7 years now. Whatever Mer accomplishes now, it sure has nothing to do with being Derek’s wife or mistress. Kai Bartley didn’t even know who Derek was. Mer is her own person now and she’s gained every single thing she has. Plus, if she wants to leave she has the right to. It’s her life, her career. She doesn’t own them anything. Miranda had always this kind of resentment towards meredith, since like season 1 for no reason
@@kelialunaargentino2721 All she asked was for the courtesy of her to tell her or maybe wait until their wasn't a shortage or the middle of the hospital falling apart. Miranda never claimed to own her she just asked for the decency and respect to not be left hanging or in the dark when she relies on her so much especially with the shortage.
@@98dajera She makes snooty comments that imply she feels a sense ownership over Meredith, the same kind of comments that narcissistic parents make when they think they own their children & control every aspect of their lives.
Bailey has never been a fav for me. There have been so many times she has yelled and belittled people. Her treatment of Ben. She was ready to through an intern out the door and she was the person that was spreading the virus. As soon as she found out it was her on all three surgeries, she started back peddling. And this speech is unbelievable wrong on so many levels. Just further show this viewer more reason why I don't like the character Bailey.
What session and episode is this does anyone know
YEEEEESSSS bailey 🥳👏minus the chest pain.. can we pleeease get more this, bailey telling them off i got a list of whos next.
I do too. That is the problem with pretty much all of the attending physicians. They treat the hospital like their own personal playground and then take their marbles and go home when things don’t go their way. It’s extremely unprofessional and immature. Who gets left holding the bag every time? Bailey and Richard.
@@24601cc don't get me started 😉 a hospital full of doctors/ nurses and near none of them know what or were to get or use any form of birth control. 2. Something tells me the guy that plays nico was not ok playing gay. Their tv kiss weren't like the straight characters and their seens were few and far between.
she doesn’t own meredith, she can make decision for her career and herself 💁🏻♀️
@@24601cc Meredith hasn't allowed her personal life to interfere in her work for years... Bailey was the one being unprofessional here, bringing up stuff that happened over 15 years ago.
@@Mia_M It was the fact that Meredith didn’t give Bailey the respect of having a discussion with her that was the true issue which felt to her like a lot of the past issues she had with Merideth. Keep in mind also on top of Merideth she has a whole staff which has been nothing but problems and issues for years. It was the straw that broke the camel’s back.
Which episode is this?
When bad things happen she lashes out.
Ben Warren.
THIS ISN'T REALLY BAILEY.
I'm not going tojudge her on this outburst, and I don't think that Meredith will either.
It's obvious that Bailey is under a LOT of stress.
But this does not need to happen just when she and Ben just got Pru full time!
The last thing we need is for Bailey to have another heart attack.
No, she’s got a history of lashing out and being cruel.
That was soo disrespectful of bailey to say to meredith. You dont talk bad about someone dead husband, and the Bailey really expects meredith to stay?? She got an amazing job offer and no one is happy for her. Im glad she chose the job, she deserves this.
For God's Sake... Let Bailey retire and live a happy life. She deserves a rest. This job has been way too stressful on her and her heart. As a huge fan of her character, it's about time she focuses on happier things. It's been 18 years. Think about it.
Miranda has always been jealous of Meredith lol I don’t know this is surprising to anyone she just really took a low blow when she mentioned Derek 🤦🏽♀️
I kinda agree with bailey here don't get me wrong I felt bad for mer, and Bailey shouldn't had referred Derek in this situation, but Bailey has been stressing, and been trying to keep grey-sloan afloat, so ig when she heard about the news she didn't know how to act. I mean the residency program is literally hanging on by a thread and by this point I think that thread has snapped.
But I also see where Meredith is coming from. I honestly feel bad for both
Season and episode?
I can't take them seriously with that music 😂
bailey is just as childish and entitled as richard when he was her mentor
I love her but yeah.
@Yang Cristina exactly. The hypocrisy