Adulting 101: A guide to surviving being a young adult with Lebo Mehlomakhulu
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.พ. 2025
- For the next 3 episodes, I’ve partnered with @solal_sa and together we’ll be bringing you conversations that cover themes around mental health through the month of October. For today’s episode, I sit down with my friend, Lebo Mehlomakhulu and we speak about “Adulting 101: A guide to surviving being a young adult”.
For this episode, Lebo and I will be sharing our journeys on:
-Lessons learned in navigating adulthood;
-Why navigating your 20s are so hard;
-Navigating relationships & friendships;
-The process of becoming;
-Building a wellness tank and refilling;
-Lessons from building a business & career etc
Lebo is an advocate of love, wife, mommy, entrepreneur, digital content creator, sold out for Christ curator of Marriage Monday.
This episode was special because I got to bring you into my world alongside my friend Lebo. We hope that this episode will serve as a space to remind you that you are alone and remember to breathe and be gentle with yourself.
Episode sponsored by Solal
Solal: solal.co.za
Location: Radisson Hotel & Convention Centre, Johannesburg, O.R. Tambo
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One thing about Lebo she's so humble♥️♥️I love love her not to even mention you Ayanda♥️yall are the epitome of what a true woman of God is ...keep up the good work.
I love how soft spoken you are Ayanda, you remind me of my demeanor.
Ayanda please consider having these one on one conversations with Lebo every week I enjoyed this episode so much ❤
Wow beautiful topic. My daughter is 21 and she thinks she’s so ready for marriage and I’m like heyi girl, ima kancane… you still have a long way and you still need to learn more about yourself. Hayi ke ugirl uzamenzan when she’s inlove 😂.
Love you ladies
I'm still navigating my early twenties & this hit hard . I totally loved it!🥺❤
Ayanda your work is incredible girl, you genuinely built a safe community for us ladies ❤️ . Lebo you such a super woman...much love 🌷
Ayanda your purity of heart shows so much in this episode. May God heal every wound that's still triggered in this season in Jesus name🥰
This was such a beautiful watch! ❤️ it felt like we were eavesdropping on your coffee date. So vulnerable. Thank you!
I recently got what I would call my big break after spending the larger part of my early 20s with sooo many dreams and boy does the pressure mount! We need to truly be gentle with ourselves. Own lane, own race
Hi Ayanda my name is Michaela I'm new to your channel just want to say I love your topic such important things to listen to, something I can also go back to when I'm being hard on myself forcing things to happen. I'm 25 years old struggling with career choices sometimes I feel so confused, I'm thankful for the topic💕❤️.
"Your yes to something, is a no somewhere else" 🥺🥺 Really enjoyed this conversation. Thank you Ayanda for this platform and thank you Lebo for pouring into our cup ❤❤
I felt that part when Ayanda said i am a pursuer in most of my friendships ,i keep trying and trying and trying and honestly i got to understand that it's okay let certain things okay yes friends come and go and that's okayy and one day just one day you are going to meet you the friend you have always been to your past friends ,and trust me it's so beautiful you would always look up and say God i have been waiting for such .
''twenties are very hard to navigate '' felt that when Lebo said it.
Loved this on friendships. I resonate with both of you at various levels. Learning. Unlearning. Allowing God to do a new thing.
U both look gorgeous, wow 😍❤️
Ayanda, I don’t know why I’m only subscribing now…woman keep up the good work, love your heart🌺♥️
Thank you Ayanda & Lebo🙏🏽❤️💖💫 really appreciate you for sharing your life experiences with us🙏🏽❤️
waitsi l see my life in a few years to come having mature conversations like these, love this a lot :)
My two favorite girls...love you so much and your lives display uncomplicated Gospel of Christ.
Lebo you such a great woman free spirited person looking good ❤ thank Ayanda
Loved the conversation, so relatable❤ especially when Ayanda spoke about how she has always been a pursuer in friendships. I was also the same way but I have learnt to let go. I came to a point in my life where I was completely DONE with that. When my energy is no longer reciprocated, I just let go. God has a way of bringing new friends when other friendships end.
I'm more of Lebo I have lots of yes and lot's of No to things that matter, I need to work on my boundaries, Thanks for this conversation 🙏
Enjoyed this episode 🙌🏾. I can relate on Ayanda having to pause and see if a friend would reach out. That’s how I lost many people I once called friends. Lebo, being a fixer, let me just say, I learned the hard way.
I love such friendships, Lebo is such a great friend, she’s able to be honest and real with her friends without making them uncomfortable 😍😍😍
You can tell that Ayanda is comfortable and this is a safe space for her❤️
I have always admired Ayanda , specifically as a friend😢❤️ she takes her friendships so seriously and I hope she is surrounded by the people who are able to receive her well because she’s such a sweetheart you guys😍😍😍❤️❤️😭
You guys are so beautiful 🔥🔥❤️
Such a grown up conversation and it is well received ☺️
I Just Know I'm Going To Listen To This Again and Again! Beautiful Honest Conversation. Thank You So Much For This Ladies.💗
I'm 24 still struggling with career choices finding a job and I have to remind myself to be kind to me even if I'm so idle and broke
Idle n broke I am at 26. But I'm getting there ❤
@@brighterwithnzu392 I feel led to encourage you I'm 26 and I wrote that comment when I was 24 I just want to encourage you no situation is permanent I'm not rich yet but I am no longer idle I do small business out here in my streets just trust the process and don't be afraid to start small or doing small things that will bring you money. Sending hugs and love your way
This was really insightful..Thank you Lebo I needed to hear that, twenties are not easy to navigate…Oh and you guys are lovely and humble man❤❤
Thank you for this conversation Ayanda. You ladies were great. I could relate so much when you speak about being a persuer, you put a name to what I am. It so painful though to hold back when your heart wants to reach out but I guess one needs to come to the realization that not every friend will be a life time friend and that is OK.
Hope to see more of these conversations 🌺
So excited ❤❤❤
Literally 😍😍🤩
I love uLebo bethuna she is authentic
Thanks Aya💕💕💕
Wow this podcast is everything....I can relate to the pressure around me. I'm that kind of person who is always looking around to see where everyone is in their lives. I really need to be more gentle with myself
same 😭
I love this combo❤️❤️
Aaaarrrg I loved this. I actually didn’t want it to end! 🤗♥️ lovely conversation.
This is so calm and refreshing, thanks Lebo & Ayanda ❤
Beautiful episode loved it so much, so light and freeing and motivating ,you guy’s energy was just calm and it’s just everything I really needed to navigate my youth days 😍
This conversation was so liberating! Thank you so much ladies! May God bless you abundantly!❤❤❤
Great Talk Ayanda & Lebo!, wonderful wisdom and advice given.👏🏾💕👍🏾
I love Lebo❤️beautiful conversation ladies💖
This was such a pure and honest conversation, thank you ladies!
I really needed this conversation ❤️❤️❤️ thank you
Throughly enjoyed this❤️
Absolutely loved this episode 😍 not to mention the ladies look stunning😍😍
Hi ladies. I'm new on this channel and I'm happy to have found it. Thank you I thoroughly enjoyed the video as I'm on a life journey and learning to be still and there are a few pointers that I resonate with and are very helpful.
Thank you 🌸
Navigating friendships is so hard, how normal it is to not have friends because right now I am tired
Wow ladies🥰 thank you for such a wholesome conversation 💓
I needed this badly,I can relate to everything.
This was beautiful to watch 🤗❤ big ups ladies
Thanks so much loves for a beautiful talk. I learned a lot.
Watching your production for the first time Ayanda, in awe of the quality and the calm in which you executed this chat. Watched this while preparing a very stressful report for work and the calm in how you Ladies had this conversation made me take a step back and just breathe.
You have a new subbie in me! ❤
God l love Lebo❤️❤️. Hello ladies
Thank you ladies i enjoyed your conversation. Its never too late to learn. ♥️♥️♥️
Much much much needed. Thank you Ayanda and Lebo :)
Lovely conversation ladies 🌻🍃
I honestly enjoyed this conversation.❤
Heyy just show the trailer with my fave Lebo ❤️❤️ went right in
I needed more,it was so short.
I enjoyed listening to this❤❤❤lovely conversation ladies!
I appreciate this conversation so so so much! Urgh Lebo is just the REALEST guys… every conversation she has??! Absolutely Love her!🥺❤️
Thank you for this conversation Ayanda… you have freed alot of us 🥺🙌🏽
Love the wisdom from you both. ❤
Ayanda❤️❤️
Your voice sounds sweet
Thank you so much for this conversation..... ❤️🥺
I love the honesty ladies
Beautiful 💚
Lebo❤️❤️❤️
This!😭❤
Yoo I relate so much to Ayanda😊
I love this podcast ❤️
My fav combo...
Spoke to my heart❤️beautiful 🙏🏽
Lol I can relate to you Lebo as a recovering fixer
Such a beautiful and honest conversation 👌👌
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Thank you for this 🙏🏽 y’all dropped bombs!! 🥺🔥🤍
I'm 24 still struggling with career choices finding a job and I have to remind myself to be kind to me even if I'm so idle and broke