Dave Thomas Junior - I Can't Make You Love Me
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 พ.ย. 2017
- lyrics:
Turn down the lights
Turn down the bed
Turn down these voices inside my head
Lay down with me
Tell me no lies
Just hold me close, don't patronize
Don't patronize me
'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
'Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
I'll close my eyes, then I won't see
The love you don't feel when you're holding me
Morning will come and I'll do what's right
Just give me till then to give up this fight
And I will give up this fight
'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
'Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
This is a cover. Original song is by Bonnie Raitt.
music: Dave Thomas Junior
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Hey, Dave Thomas Junior just released an instrumental version of this song. Check it out: th-cam.com/video/akK2u3xJCW4/w-d-xo.html
Ya Ya u
❤
The best thing is when you click on a song
And that song lead you to another great song and another and another, if you have this experience you have discover the gem part of youtube, congrats, enjoy your stay.
Ikr
finally this comment
yasss
Yessss haha
Omg i just realise thisss ❤❤❤
It’s so hard to lose someone that was never even yours.
And i loosed it :-)
Jeez, truee
Deep
silly how people feel so losing for something that they never posses..
its the regret whats left...fking sucks
love how everyone is so damn honest and gentle in these comments
Well.... That's what happens when so many people have a broken heart. They know that everyone is in the same pain... And that pain is making everyone connect.
Very different from other comment sections. These kinds of songs just let people vibe and people who like to comment will comment their realest thoughts.
I miss the old you, the guy I fell in love the one that I talked to everyday and now you're just a stranger. I still love you and I miss you very much.
Do u still miss him to this day ?
Why so much sad comments?
Owshii what happened
I am still here for you baby
@Teresita Sanchez Did you actually "know" him, or was it his music that spoke to you ? As a former singer, who loved a female singer (both leads), but she became successful and me an afterthought. I can relate in more ways than one. I wasn't jealous of her success, but happy for her. I just wouldn't have forgotten had the situation been reversed 😔💯🕺🎤 It makes me wonder if I was just the 🤡💔
We used to talk about the future together, Now it’s here and you aren’t
That hits hard, because it's so true
Ouch ...
*crack*
😭
😭
Hardest part of falling for someone who doesn't feel the same is having to pretend you don't have feelings for them. You just go on pretending to be happy for them, urging them on in their life and relationships, even though inside, you're only desire is for them to see you in the same light you see them. And then you come across songs like these, cry your heart out, and eventually numb your feelings to move on and hopefully meet someone who can spark some life back into you.
I really know how you feel right now. Truly. I'm there now and working everyday to try and love him selflessly, without asking for anything in return. The only thing I can say is I hope you find a way to turn your love inward and give yourself the love they could not give to you. Because you already ARE love. You have it all, everything you need is inside your ❤️; and I hope this comment finds you in a good place. Be strong 💪💜 Take care.
I feel like that rn, I will see him in a couple of weeks and I will tell him that I don't love him anymore ( I will lie:( ) I don't want to feel this pain, I'm consuming myself and I know it's not ok, but I just can't. I feel that kind of sadness that makes you lose your appetite, I barely eat...
My whole entire life..
Literally this is me everyday
You're not alone
TH-cam after this song: You ok?
Me: Yeah, let me just die here alone
i hope you’re okay
I feel so comfortable in the comment section of these types of songs. Everyone is kind and genuine. ☄
Why aren't all the people like you?
Have a nice day and remember to smile and be grateful for what you have and who you are. *hug* 💖
One of the nicest comments I've ever seen. I can feel you, why isn't there more love in this world.
Have a nice day, you are an awsome person, I feel that❤️
honestly , hope you’re having a good day as well
:')
I love coming across genuine comments like these, you also have a good day!
I wonder what it's like to be loved.
Is it really how they show in the movies? Is it bright but ugly and funny but beautiful and every thing good. What's it like to spend time with a person who puts up with you, who thinks of you as his first priority , his first choice. I wonder what's it like going on dates and having a guy talk to you about what he likes about you, or just hold hands. How nice it must be to be loved, to think you're worthy enough , I wish I knew. I really do but I guess I never will, it just wasn't written in my book
Your story isn't finished yet bro
I thought I was the only one with those same thoughts...
The thing about being loved, sweetheart, is that sometimes you don't realise it's there until an everyday moment a few years later, when either of you aren't even talking anymore. But if you mean mutual feelings? It's indescribable. You'll feel like your heart is flying, and you know all those cheesy metaphors about feelings? They exist for a reason. They'll hit you one by one and you'll finally understand what all those hopeless poets were writing about. And believe me, it doesn't matter if you're 15 or 50, those feelings will hit you without warning.
Don't lose hope bro,
lol are you me
The hardest thing is knowing you both love each other but not being able to be together...
Xanthe Walker that hit hard
it hurts
:'(
There's a song for that
Try listening to Already Gone by Sleeping at last
I don't believe in timming...where there is a will there is a way...all the others are just shitty mediocre excuses :)
I lost my best friend yesterday. I was so in love with him. I wish he knew how perfect he is to me. I should’ve just taken the chance, told him about my feelings for him. I love you. I miss you so much.
I am so sorry about what happened:(
Hey, I know you wrote this 7 months ago, but how are you doing?
@@Kevin-kc1cx You my friend are a gem :)
You are a man thats disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourself
You dont lost him you will see him in other world read the coran
To you, that beautiful human being reading this! ⬇
You are not alone. You are worth it and absolutely wonderful. Sometimes life's hard, but the sun will shine again. Brighter than ever before. Just for you,
you special human being✨
You are loved.❤
Hope so
Thank u
Whoever is going through
depression
abuse
Anxiety
Insomnia
any type of suicidal thoughts
Just Remeber That Someone is Outhere to make you smile
Ceren Mathers, you just made me smile :)
🖤💙 ALWAYS 💙🖤
In Jesus' name
Thank you😊
Who?
Thank you💜
Does anyone feel like just blank starring the sky, smoking and just staying there for some time, throwing all those deep thoughts in the air?
yup !
it’s 2:12 am and i only feel like trying to work up enough courage to face the fear to finally end my life
@@JoshuaMadiliaMusic trust me thats the worst time to be awake !
been there done that, its even better when its cold-ish outside in the mountain, saying it was the best experience of my life wouldnt be an overstatement
And, just like that, my plans for the day were made. Thank you.
Welcome to the comment section
Where people confess , talk about there pain and sadness
😂😂😂👌
Sad Pretty Light.
its their tho
But a good philophical comment section nevertheless.
Their
Now i feel how severus snape really feels throughout the years.
Reading the comments makes my heart in so much pain for you guys ..but the most painful thing is that I don’t even have a story to be told
I think it's still better than being a girl from the song 😞 trust me
having no story most likely doesn't compare to their pain. You'll have a story someday and hopefully it isn't one that ends with pain.
Me too, I don't have a story
Tell me about it..
aseel hassan ... hope u wont feel that pain we feel .. coz it will keep u up all night and hunt ur mornings down .. makes u feel nothing but pain inside .. and it never goes away ... no matter time passes by .. it just keep digging in to u till it breaks u in to half .. and eats u life ..
and after all . u still miss who ever did that to u ..
I've never been in a relationship and I'm afraid I'll never be. All of my friends have bf/gf and I'm the loner, I play it off as If I didn't care but deep inside I'm jealous of how easy they seem to fall in love.
I claim that I'm single by choice, but the truth is I've had no other choice... no one has ever confessed their love for me, not even a slight crush. I fear that I crave for something so meaningful that it'll never arrive, I try to convince myself that everything comes at a certain time... but I've just been waiting too long.
Renata AG same, I’m such a hopeless romantic and only one guy liked me but he never mentioned it bcz I am this unpopular nobody at school so yeah.
As you said everything comes at a certain time. Some people have more luck in finding love than other but that doesn't mean that you are worse than anyone. Waiting for love is annoying because everyone want a person to be with but if you start to think about yourself in way what you can do to love yourself, to be confident, to be happy love will come faster than you think. The most important thing is to give yourself time. Meet new people, look at them not as a possibility to fall in love but as a next, worth to get to know person. Best of luck. I believe that you are good person and you deserve love just like each other.
I feel you. And sometimes its so unfair. Ugh.
Everything you've said I feel so closely. I feel the same way 😢 I feel like nobody will ever love me and I'll be alone forever.
@@urinedanger1008 it sucks. It feels like the world is so big, but why theres no one thats into you that shows you affection or love. And u see people around you so easy to have a relationship. Ugh. I just hope I wonf feel this sadness forever. Because its true what they say. Love makes you feel complete. But its just so unfair.
Turn down the lights
Turn down the bed
Turn down these voices inside my head
Lay down with me
Tell me no lies
Just hold me close, don't patronize
Don't patronize me
'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
'Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
I'll close my eyes, then I won't see
The love you don't feel when you're holding me
Morning will come and I'll do what's right
Just give me till then to give up this fight
And I will give up this fight
'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
'Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
❤️
Thank you
For someone who never had a boyfriend but so in love with her bestfriend,this song says it all for me.
i never love someone, but i cry cause this song, i dont know why, what is love, and why it can make anyone pain 😢😢😢 i just cry and dont know why, memories still un my mind and i dont know what it is
This song explains my situation so well. I fell in love with someone I knew i had no chance with .. Recently , I said my final goodbye and let him go... I'm happy becoz we still breathe under the same sky...!!
same happened to me...
This hurts so much I can't
I fell head over heels over this boy who was and still is perfect. He admitted he liked me and we were together for ages... It was perfect, then he fell for someone else and the only message I've got from him since I asked him why was "because she doesn't have anxiety and she's stunning" it makes me not want to love anyone ever again...😪💔
You will be alright. Nobody wants to hear that cause it doesn’t feel that way. And they overcast sky stays for awhile. But there will be a day the sun peaks out and you will rember the hurt and the rain. But a rainbow will appear and sparks will fly. Hang in there. I know anxiety sucks. But that doesn’t make you any less deserving of love. If he chouldnt stay, that is in him. Chin up :)
I let him go.
After 8 yrs I still love you!
And I will die loving you.
And no, I don't need you to love me back!! I have enough of love for both of us!! Goodbye..
Hey! I hope you are okay. My story is kind of same. 8 years too.
@@amritaborah9169 tu ek aur.😒
I love your courage it takes alot to let go
I feel this. Totally...
13yrs here, hurts
The hardest thing is loving someone and knowing you can't be together....
Never.
Maybe in reality but in our hearts... Perhaps we can be together with our lover
Ohh...
It's funny how I'm imagining myself in his arms everyday but he doesn't even know....
Tell me about it, I keep imagining her running back into my arms but somehow I’m not sure it’s gonna happen
@@jacobwhitehouse9281 I feel you bro
@@Ssffss61 yeah man, I still imagine after this long, I fell so hard
Pain bruh
This song makes me thinking about my nonexistent boyfriend
meeeeeeeee😂😂
Felt this
Me too 😂
*nonexistent Girlfriend 🤷♂️
same bitch same
Everybody is commenting about their past relationships and crushes but to me this song is the non existent love that my father has for me. How cold he acts around me everyday. I'm not his daughter, for him I'm just a stranger living in his house, an enemy.
Be strong ! You can do it and he loves you for sure ! Why? Because he is your dad simply.. it may be hard but don’t give up :)
I can relate. I just want you to know you arent alone.
its Joëlle I’m so sorry to here this. No matter what I just wanted to let you know that you’re worth be valued and loved. Keep breathing.
Relatable
Relatable. Today my father asked me not to call him Dad anymore. That hurt.
It is so hard fell in love with someone that you know you cant have them ☹️
Tell me more 😭
You literally just described my life...
Exactly,,, I Love ❤️ her the most,, but she just Like me,, But No Love
Erin Ruby 😢 Without doubt i agree with you 100%
I know how you feel I love someone love her from the very first day I saw her Beautiful face and beautiful eyes And the most thing that I loved about her Was her determination and her Beautiful heart and what she is as a person but I cant be with her 😔 When I am with her I feel Alive And when she's gone i feel empty with out her I think a bout her everyday Sometimes life can be so cruel She's the most Sweetest and kindest person I have ever met she would help anyone and she works so hard and never give up She's a special special person and love her with all my ❤ I just wish that I could turn back time If I could she Would-be mine And I would love her for ever And keep her safe 😔🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🌹🌹🌹🐞🐝🔥🙏😘🔥🙃
Crushing on someone who’s already in a relationship. It’s my fault for getting in too deep and for knowing him in the first place
feel you😪
Actually, no human knows if the one we are with is and will be our long-time partner (or soul mate, for those who believe in that). Crushing on someone who is in a relationship and them later loving you maybe really great or not. It just sucks being caught in limbo with huge life decisions, such as whom we will be with and wake up next to.
Exact same situation right now
How do you guys fall in love with a taken woman or guy? Is there not billions of people out there??
I fell in love with someone who wasn't over their ex. Two months of non stop talking, meeting up, falling in love out of nowhere and it actually being mutual was the best thing ever. Until her ex started talking again, lost her within a second. Stil somewhat have her as a friend, but i'm dying on the inside. I'm crushed and can't stop thinking about her every single part of the day. Doesn't help she's giving me mixed signals about us and if she actually wants to get back with her ex or not. I honestly wish I never fell in love, because she is the most amazing thing that happened to me in a long time.. and I lost it because I was too polite and respectful about her other feelings. I wish we never met, because this friendship does not feel the same anymore. It hurts to look at her, and her responding with an empty look in her eyes. I wish I didn't yearn for her hugs every day and every time I see her, because I can't have it anymore. About 10 years ago I Fell in love with someone who was in a relationship, which sucked. But I have to tell you, this situation is way worse. You get a taste of the best feeling ever, and then it just disappears in thin air. I wish it never happened.
I feel like smoking a cigarette so bad, sitting on a rooftop during a cold, blue sunset
Levis Strauss i had the same exact thought before reading your comment.
So relatable
Goddamnit, i just quit. But this comment just really made me wanna smoke
All alone with the feelings while playing this song on my headphones
good luck getting cancer, fully supports ya
My eyes are full of tears from reading all the stories in the comments. And i keep replaying the song with every story I read. I wish all the happiness and love to all of you! I pray and hope that y’all will find true happiness in this world. :’)
Thank you. I wish you true happiness as well.
Im still trying to find the true happiness are, hope you find it
amien
You as well 😘
Aww thank you so much and I wish the same.
This song means so much to me... my father used to listen to George Michael’s version when I was a little girl. Then he left us and made another family... every time I hear this song, it reminds me of him. In one side, it makes me think of how useless it is to want to be loved by someone who abandoned us and doesn’t even call back. In other side, it resonates with myself, like an inner talk. In times when I was very depressed, this song was like me singing it to myself. “I can’t make you love me if you don’t”... saying you can’t make yourself love yourself if your heart doesn’t feel it. At least nowadays I’ve learned to love myself.
But still this song... makes me cry every time.
Love this version.
7 years, 7 years that I've known him.
It hurts to admit, that I was always the one that loved him more. Always.
Its been a while, but I admit that im still utterly and hopelessly in love with you.
My heart hurts with the thought that you're out there happy, with someone else.
I'm still stuck in the hope that maybe someday, you'll love me.
But you wont, cause I cant make you love me.
Does he love you rn?
Days turned into months and months into year still in love with you.
Dude have you got Instagram?
days turned into months and months into year and i still think of you
@@melodie599 days turned into months. Months into years. But still you didn't turn me
Tube Tacular 😂😭 omg this the best I’ve ever read
:(
Listening the song and reading comments is just like movie... thanks those who shared their stories...
exactly, the people here are very talented
This comment section is the best so far. Not like the others, they just comments the year they've heard it just to earn likes
it really sucks when you fall for someone that wants nothing to do with you
Dear person whoever reads this,
Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day, because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society build up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy live. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way..I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this than please never forget to breath and smile.
Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs.
Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one.
I love you and send you hugs.
You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you.
YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN.
I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC.
You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice.
You’re beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is.
Please don’t starve yourself. Please eat, I know it’s hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN.
I WISH I COULD HUGH YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO.
It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you.
I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go.
I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you trough my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.??
I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night.
If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you.
If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits.
If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed.
And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :)
Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world.
Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out.
Did anyone asked you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up.
I am sorry you feel misunderstood.
But anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :).
Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?!
- The stranger that cares about you more than anything.
I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay.
This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with love, you deserve it.
And in case no one told you today, again, I am so proud of you.
I hope you will remember my words- becho :)
Until tomorrow, my friend :)
thank you so much
I read it all and just thank you. You made me feel better love you becho
thank you
thank you.
Oh my god, your words make me so much cry but your so right, thanks you
It hurts. I've forbidden myself to love, yet i still have fallen in love with someone whom can't love me back.
Have you ever tried cheese PIZZA??
oh lord. same :(
I had a friend last year
I've known him when school started. He treated me so well
I felt like I was protected. Every morning I waited so badly to see him. Talk to him. We were studying in the same class for three months. He was always playing with my hair .making me laugh and looking at me with those amazing eyes .he was so pure and gentle with me until he died in an accident.. And now after a year I'm afraid i'll forget him and he'll be just another someone I lost.
I don't want that to happen. I'm too afraid that i'll let him go Someday. I can't do that
Remember, letting go of the past isn't letting go of the memories. Letting go of the person isn't forgetting that person.
@@rainautumn9114 Mhm :)
wow. my condolences. and u probably wont.
I used to thing that moving on will make me a bad person. I couldn't imagine living without regretting that he is not near us.But one day I just wake up and it wasn't there anymore and somehow I didn't fell bad about living without him. That doesn't mean that I forgot him... noo I still see him everywhere it just got easy going through the day without having a "moment".
What hurts the most is having this person that you care so deeply about send you this.
he was my everything.
I don’t want to let go of what we had.
I don’t want to forget our memories.
He told me he would never leave.
There was this boy... wait no there wasn't
im still single
Reacted sad
mel rae ???
I think I know how you feel...
Felt that
Crying at 1:30am because of this song, the stories in the comment section and remembering my own haunting stories of heartbreak. I sit here with a heavy heart but this song explains my emotions so well. Beautiful song to bring about this much emotion.
I hope you may find peace and happiness 💕
Omg.. me too. I even screenshot the time for proof.. lol.. what a coincidence..
I fell in love with this beautiful man that I met at my high school. He was kind and sincere. I fell for the way he spoke. I fell for the way he looked into my eyes randomly and I melted inside everytime though I’m pretty sure he had no clue. Always looked for ways to impress him. Hah. My feelings started to grow within time and I thought maybe he feels for me too but...
Later I came to know he was engaged with someone else. But that didn’t stop my heart from feeling for him. He had other lots of girls flirting constantly trying to catch his attention even though they knew he was taken and he was always disinterested in anyone of them, even the pretty ones. No, I never did that cause I was scared which is not like me. Cause Im usually very bold. But then we separated due to different classes after junior year and I was broke but I was moving on.
But due to some reasons I changed classes and guess what, he was in my class. After so long I got to see his lovely face smiling while entering the class and he noticed me. I fell again. Hard. Those eyes. I shall never forget the way our eyes met. But I know I’m just another girl crushing hard on him. I’m no special. The woman in your life is lucky and I hope she gives you all the happiness that you deserve. Just seeing you in class is enough for me. I’ll never see your face again after this year after high school ends. But those moments, your smile, your eyes, the way you looked at me, everything about you..I shall never forget them. For now, I’m happy watching you from distance. I’m trying my best not to feel for you and maybe you know or you dont but it’s hard for me to just stop. All I know is that the memories shall stay in my heart forever even though you shall forget me eventually..
I feel you :') In my case the guy couldn't help but smile lookin at me and his eyes used to sparkle everytime he looked at me and no matter how rude he was..he was never rude to me.But it's all gone now and I..was too late to realize I had fallen for him.Just think how could you forget even more..when you know you had a chance and now you just don't.What an irony..I didn't feel a thing for him once and now I can never feel for anyone else but him!
sarah irina Things are going to be better, trust me. Even though it’s hard for now and seems impossible. I’m trying to move on myself but I wish I knew if he felt smthg for me too everytime he looked at me.
I love this song because it’s pure emotion. There’s no underlying intent of “I’ll do anything to get them” or “They will love me eventually.” And I really like that. It’s just singing about the pain of a one sided love, and it’s fucking beautiful. I don’t even directly relate to this song at the moment, but it still hits hard and you can feel that respectful sadness. I don’t know how to explain it, really. It’s a beautiful song with equally beautiful vocals. Also, the background picture is amazing. The photography, the mood, the imagery itself. It’s chaotic and peaceful and beautiful and deep all at the same time, which combines beautifully with the song. Absolutely incredible.
I love the photo. It looks like somethig bad is going on like a disaster, but at the same time it's so comforting.
I find it peaceful, like a stop in time
Listening to this song feels like you just wan't to escape life and run away till you found peace.
I find a destroyed pylon quite comforting. Almost symbolism of cutting out the buzz and just enjoying Mother Nature. I want to put a mattress on the back of a pick-up and lie with the one who knows who he is, and watch it burn. Together.
Does anyone know how and where to get it from?
Was it just me who noticed comments like There was this boy, The boy I liked, etc? Anyway, the music is good. Too bad that most of the people liked their friend or bestfriend, but the feeling isn't mutual. That is so sad. I hope you'll find your happiness who will love you dearly.
And there's barely any comment like 'there's this girl I liked' or 'there's this girl I'm madly in love with..'
@@juniper10 True. Haha. I felt like they intentionally did it with a real story. Lol
@@juniper10 theres this girl im so in love with
Jk i like the song tho
wish we could've met for the first time again, wish we could fall in love all over again. but then again you were never mine.
This video popped on my TH-cam after years. Listening to it after so many years really makes me wonder how life has changed over the course of years and how this song still hurts but for different reasons
I love him, even though he doesn't love m back. Its hurts but I don't care because I'll wait for him. He's the first guy I've ever loved. Maybe I'm not in love....I just want to be loved. Maybe I need someone to hold me close and tell me they'll be there for me. Maybe I need a hug from a person that means most to me.
I wish everyday for him to maybe think of me as more than a friend.
I know that your never going to read this but I love you more than everything on this world
- one sided love.
One-sided love is d hardest dear...just confess to him
I was in a toxic 9 month relationship with this boy. I loved him, I was always there for him, never kept him wondering, never lost my loyalty, never hurt him, never did anything wrong to him.
I spent that whole year investing everything into him, giving him all my love to where I didn’t have any left, none for me, none for my friends, none for my family
He manipulated me to get what every teenage boy is searching for. After months of pure pressure, I finally gave it. I though it would bring us closer together and maybe he would soon feel for me as strongly as I did for him. But instead he became distant. Stopped texting me back, stopped trying to hang out, stopped trying to love me.
I tried everything in my will power to gain him back but it just broke me and I went into a very deep depression. I stayed up every night with barley any sleep just crying because I knew I was going to loose him and I knew he didn’t really love me. Pretty soon after that he broke up with me over text. I was broken but I saw it coming, I wish I could’ve prepared more for it.
Come to find out the whole 9 months me and him were dating he was cheating on me, and I never knew.
This happened a few months ago in September. I haven’t completely moved on and I still have major trust issues but I’m finding my way. I was broken but everyday I’m becoming more and more healed. My advice for getting over a person is to break all contact with them. That’s the biggest thing.
Just remember, your intuition never lies, don’t give into pressure, and don’t fall for someone who hasn’t fallen for you.
❤️❤️much love
Lexi Gillum we have a pretty much the same situation. dont worry, God has greater plans for us
I feeel the same now.. At this point of tym am feeling the same..am in a trouble now..
Lexi Gillum May GOD Bless❤️
I can relate to the whole thing. It's just he got me pregnant and left. Blocked me from everywhere. Tried texting, calling, mailing for like a year but. I feel dumb. I loved him so much.
Isha Shelare ❤️May GOD Bless❤️
Wow this comment section is a book in itself.....tears of joy and sorrow....my personal thanks to everyone who's contributed to it...bearing their heart and being something that's so tough to do....that is be vulnerable....it's safe to say this song has pierced all of us alike.... THANK YOU
i wish i could find someone who would love me for who i am, not what i would do for him.
This fits perfectly for a walk in a snowy quiet forest ✨🌨️❄️❤️
This reminds me of my best friend. She moved to my school in 5th grade. We instantly connected. We were inseparable. We were like sisters. We grew up together. I remember going to school carnivals and eating too much candy we'd get sick but laugh our butts off when we got home. I remember going on long roadtrips and stopping at almost every rest spot because she "had to pee" but all she really wanted to do was go around and pet all the dogs. We used to stay up late and tell each other secrets. As we grew she got more sad and her parents split. Everything was going wrong in her life and according to her I was her only right thing. I remember us hugging all night and crying into each other's shoulders. Later on my parents split. Everything was falling apart. One night we went to a boat dock and sat up staring at the stars. We laughed so hard we couldn't breathe. I remember her having the biggest smile and her doubling over because her stomach hurt from laughing so much. About a month later her mom died due to cancer. She was reckless. She dug herself in the deepest hole yet and I didn't know what to do. I was sitting on my couch at 12 am. My mom was out late on an extra shift. My friend texted me a long paragraph explaining why she couldn't handle it anymore and how she wasn't supposed to be here. She told me she wasn't happy and felt like she deserved the worst. I panicked and ran out the house and biked miles to her house. I remember running in and seeing her drunken dad spread out on the floor and the messy room around him. I ran upstairs to my friends room and I saw her on the floor with blood surrounding her. I remember falling to the ground and crying until the neighbors heard (they were really close with my friend's dad) and they came running in. They called an ambulance and took her away from me. I couldn't even go to school but I had to. It's been 3 years since that happened. Now I just look up at the stars and break down in tears. I just want to hold her again and laugh with her. I love you so much Kylee
Time heals...
I just wanna tell you ..that you are an amazing person and that she would be very very proud of you today
If only she loved me just an inch of how much I love her...but I guess I'll spend my life alone, It's pointless if it's not with her, it would be just someone replacing her, I don't know, maybe someday I'll meet my true soulmate
Yeah man it I think have the same broke up and feelings maybe someday we'll be loved and adored
I wonder
How it feels to be loved by someone truly inside and outside..
There was this boy.. we were best friends since the 7th grade.. he was amazing, he was incredibly talented with his words. when he made me laugh I would get this warm feeling inside and know that he was the one person I wanted to share my life with. he was insecure, but the sweetest and most honest person ever. he was my best friend. I was in love with him. he only knew I liked him.. not loved. he and I both went our ways and I never got to say goodbye. I still miss him and I still have hope we would meet in the future. but everyone around me keeps telling me to just move on. so I did but I still think of him. he was my best friend. And I bet he doesn't miss me like I miss him.
I have millions of journals with letters written towards him and journal entry's of when I was in middle school. talking about my favorite day and what he did and how I loved him so much.
You should send those letters to him.
GIZMO yeah I should but its been 2 years. hes moved on and have to too. its pretty sad to admit that and I just realized how long its been since we have last seen each other. if the day comes we see each other again, maybe ill tell him. maybe ill show him the letters, but right now I think its best if I just let the past go and focus on the people who, actually love me.
@@aacrvbbv Yeah, as sad as it is, some people come and go in your life. But you're right for focusing on the people that love you right now in your life. :)
I went through something similar.... I met this boy in 7th grade...I liked him-maybe even loved. And he felt the same way back. I wasn’t allowed to date, so instead of telling him the truth, I lied and said I no longer felt anything towards him. It was a hard pill for him to swallow but we eventually stopped talking. Two years pass, and we are in high school. He’s still on my mind everyday. He asks me to homecoming. I decline. But I still felt the butterflies whenever we spoke. Two more years pass, still barely talking, only a couple of texts for class and such. I don’t think about him as much anymore. Prom comes and we’re going with different people. He texts me before the event, asking for a picture at prom. And i am taken aback, and those feelings I stored so deeply into a corner creep back. I see him on prom night and he starts to walk towards me, but I avoid him the whole night. we slow danced with our partners and accidentally meet eyes for one second before I averted my eyes. That night at an after party I worked up the courage and we got our picture. A year later, we now go to the same college. The day of orientation, he drove me home. But my feelings are gone and I don’t think about him anymore. Only curiosity of what could’ve been.
Sorry I wrote my entire story on here but in short- do what your heart wants. I spent years ignoring what I felt for that boy and I still wonder. I haven’t dated anyone since him because no one treated me better than he did.
K Sabellano damn that's sad 💔 my best friend I was in love with asked me to homecoming. well he was. but he never did. and its sad cause before I met him I hated the thought of dancing. but after meeting him, I knew I wanted my first dance to be with him. he asked me out our sophomore year, I didn't give him a response and everyday I wonder and daydream what it would've been if I did give it a chance. your story is similar to mine. but the only problem is that, he liked you back. I won't ever know if he liked me back. and its sad. cause I will go through life holding onto feelings for a person who doesn't feel the same way. and no matter what happens, no matter who I meet, I know those feelings will never go away.
I have no one else to tell this too, so yeah I’ll just let my feels loose.
On August 2, 2017 at 11:33, I met this girl... I had knew her before because of a friend who had liked her. I’d play around with my friend saying stuff about her and getting him mad. I knew her brother and I was, I’d say a decent friend to him, I’d also joke around his sister. One night I’m off on vacation and noticed I had this girl on Snapchat, she had post a comment of some sort. She was sad, I messaged her... She immediately responded and was furious for me responding, aha it wasn’t anything related to me playing around with my friends or anything. But wow! I fell in love with this girl. I’d had been in a depressed place for a while in my life until she arrived to brighten it. She was perfect, sweet, making me feel something I’ve never felt before. It made me actually really scared and happy to be here. But, here’s the catch, she was a freshman in high school... I was a senior. She had told me a few days after we met. I didn’t care and she didn’t care. We’d have long conversations at night about the most randomness things, but it was perfect! It was beautiful to be in this place. School was coming around again and we were both so shy to see each other in person for the first time. I saw her one day at lunch when I was getting my food, across the tables she was freaking out and I as well did. I wasn’t able to come up to her. But she told me she had crazy butterflies over me. Also, her parents didn’t know anything about me... We stopped talking for a while (a month) because of this specific reason that really it shouldn’t be a reason. Aha. But her birthday was coming around, so I decided to message her wishing her birthday to be well and good, it was dry. But I had still big feelings for her! Two months later of non talking, valentines was coming quick. My school did this thing where you can buy roses for three dollars and that was one rose, I bought a dozen roses. It was anonymous, but she immediately knew it was me, and was so happy. Keep in mind we had not talked in person yet after being back in school for a while now. But she messaged me saying how happy she was. That was it again for another two weeks it was complete silence from both of us again. I remembered being in class thinking about her so much and I randomly got the need of talking to her, so I ditched my 6th period early and went on a search for her. I saw her walking out of her class and boom. I said “Her name” she turned around and saw that it was me standing there. She immediately covered her face with her hair, she could’ve barely talked, it was like she was going to have a panic attack. But gosh, she looked beautiful up person than the distance we’d have. She was sweating, stuttering all her words and it was adorable. We talked for a bit, but after that she messaged me once I got home with the most unforgettable essay. It said she had never felt this way for any other guy and the reason she stopped talking to me was because she was scared of me graduating and leaving high school. She didn’t want high feelings for me...She was happy and scared, same way I was. She was a queen! We continued speaking in person for another month, FINALLY. Since the beginning I had always wanted her to go to prom with me, we talked about it as a joke when we first met considering how weird it’ll be for a senior and a freshman to go together, but I wanted it now. One day I tell her to meet me in the NPR building, it was a room with a piano and tables around. I proposed to her to go to prom with me with a huge poster and ofc the piano. She walked in and was freaking out again, she told me “You’re giving me butterflies again! Like the first time we saw each other!”. She said yes, we had our first hug... I asked if I could’ve have a kiss, we kissed, she was really red. She tightly hugged me again. I walked her to her class after and again she gave me another tight hug. But remember she hadn’t told her parents about me yet. She told me that it was time for them to know who I was. They were happy to know I invited her, but they weren’t too sure who I was, so they invited me to go see “The Avengers” when it came out. I was scared balls! They met my parents and she as well, was really awkward for both of us. I had spent a great time with them, we ate, and her dad helped me choose my outfit (tux) for prom that day. I felt like we connected. Aha. Though the most unexpected thing happened the next day, she was mad? Sad? Frustrated? I really don’t know! But it had seemed like she regretted saying yes to me. I decided to ask her what was wrong a day before prom. I came up to her and saw that she had done her nails perfectly getting ready for prom the next day, but I asked what’s wrong. She says “nothings wrong”. It’s common for people to say that when they want to hide something... I couldn’t say bye to her that day, I couldn’t and I didn’t. We both left saying nothing. The next day for prom I had ordered this Stretched hummer, I had always told her I got a normal limo, I surprised her in front of her house with it. I don’t think it was a good idea... But gosh damn she was beautiful! She was the star light of prom. We took pictures in front of her house and moved on to a new location to take pictures. I told her that we might go to Denny’s after prom to go eat, she was excited. We both ignored what happened the day before, when I tried asking what was wrong. But everything seemed perfect! We took a lot of pictures going to prom inside the hummer. She seemed happy and that was all that mattered to me. We danced for a bit and suddenly her mood changed again. We were with my group of friends that i introduced to her when I first proposed, but they all agreed something was going on with her. She was happy and all, and suddenly she was mad at everyone, specially me. We slowed danced, but it wasn’t quite what I wanted, the ride back home was so different to when we were going to prom. Everything seemed dead. We got to Denny’s and she gave me one last hug and said she had a great time. The hug felt as if it were the last... her dad was already waiting for her at Denny’s and took her home. I asked him if she wanted to come in and eat with us, he said “No I think she’s fine”. I thanked him for letting her daughter go to prom with me. He said “Yeah”. I thought we had connected... After prom she didn’t respond to me for a week. She gave me a reason to why she didn’t respond anymore, she didn’t have a charger... I responded, but since then I have been left on delivered for now 9 months. I think about what I had done wrong that night, was it anything I said? Was it in anyway that I touched her made her feel insecure? I have been blaming myself for a long time now. I’ve graduated, looking out to the crowd to see if she were there, she wasn’t. I have no idea what happened, everything was going great! She was happy! Excited! Nervous! And shy all for me. I was crazed by her. We talked about my graduation, but like I said she wasn’t there. I have gone to my old school a couple of times hoping to see her after school in our old spot. She’s not there. But I did see her once, I was coming up to her and immediately she speed walked out. I was destroyed! Why was she doing this??? I have many friends who still haven’t graduated and I gave one of them a letter to give to her since she didn’t want to see me. My friend said that she had given the worst response ever. She said she rolled her eyes and said “Oh great” and walked away with the letter. I was destroyed! That was about a month ago. I wonder where did I go wrong, why she went like this, when did I hurt her, who told her lies about me? I blame myself and question myself day and night. It’s been 9 months and my depression has been killing me again. Where’d had she gone? Listening to these types of songs helps me and relates to me so much. Valentines is coming up again and it’s been a year since we first talked in person seeing her adorable freaking out face. I haven’t seen her in so long, I don’t know how she even looks likes now. I wish I could’ve said happy birthday to her back in November. I wish I could see her again and ask her personally what happened that night. This valentines is going to be a damage breaker for me. I want to do something anonymously for her again...
If you read that entire long story, thank you! It means so much for me. If you could help me with advice/help I will be happy to know what to do. Sorry if there’s any misspells or grammar errors.
My god... this is just hard, remember that someone loves you, always. Keep up ❤️
Man, that's really rough and I'm sorry you have to go through this. From what I can tell, it doesn't seem like anything you did, you seem like a great guy. My uneducated guess would be that her parents might have stepped in somehow, which would really stink. All the best to you, friend, and I pray that the right person will come to you soon
I'm so so sorry for you. You deserve to be loved and you are. There will be someone for you. I promise. Keep your head up man, you got this.
I hope you’re doing better. My advice is to try to stop answering the questions of why she left and why she seemed angry. Sometimes feelings just stop. There’s no explanation for it and it hurts like hell but you can’t fix it. Honestly if you need to talk just let it out to your friends and family or even a stranger ready to listen. I find that it helps letting it out and be heard.
I can relate to this.... something similar happened with me a few years ago....it was all magical until the moment it just got over and silence fell everywhere.....the reason for her acting as such can be many like family pressure , rumours , just falling out of love etc....but u don't need to justify her actions.....it's hard but as time goes on u ll learn to let go of her....we both cared for them deeply and went overboard to make em happy but sometimes some people just aren't right for us....maybe it was just a stroke of luck u made tht connection....u deserve someone better.....someone who can love u the same amount u did....all u can do for now is keep moving on in hopes of something better....tht's what life is about.... stashing experiences and living for a better tomorrow....good luck mate
I love how every time you listen to these songs it takes you back where first listened to it , the feelings it brought 🤍
dear you, if you ever see this comment,
just know that i've never felt like this to
anyone before, i like you too much.
I remember my ex boyfriend. we were together for four years and through ups and down i loved him deeply. I was ready to start my family with him but we grew apart and we broke up. Its been four years now and yet crazy as it may seems I've never stop loving him. I hope someday our path crosses again and start over but now that he has a new girlfriend and he has completely moved on , I told myself its all just a wishful thinking. I pray to God that someday i can put my past behind and love someone else as much as i have loved him.
I know that nobody will read this, but maybe it's better.
And in advance sorry for mistakes.
For me this song has special meaning, because I'm that another side he is describing. I know that my friend fell in love with me, even though she didn't told me that, and lyrics perfectly describes what she can feel, and I'm so sorry because I know she is such a good and pure-hearted person and I hurt her because of this love. I really would like to love her back and I'd do everything if I could to just fall in love with her but I simply can't and it's killing me inside. She is like an angel and I have never wanted to hurt her. I don't know why I'm writing this. Maybe I just try to release this stupid feeling of disappointing her. I'm so sorry, I hope you would find someone better than me.
that's sad 💔
you're a good person ... at least you can feel and trying to not hurt her ..
hope the best for both of you
bs : sorry if I make any mistakes in writing
I understand how you feel. My good friend had a huge crush on me but knew I would be a better match with the guy I’m in a relationship with now. he basically gave me away. He told me that his friend liked me and that I should go for it, he confessed how much he loved me but knew that we were a match. He let me go and helped his friend, for us to be together.
@@meganedeslauriers3396 I m tht friend who gave u away rn...and it sucks...
Nobody's perfect, you are you. Enjoy your run till it lasts, go tell her that she's the one for you. Nobody's better than you bro don't undermine yourself.
I'm doing the same. I always question myself why i didn't fall for his love. He's so beautiful human with warm heart but i just couldn't love him. Sometimes I want to just go for him just to make him happy and then it'll be like idk this feeling of disappointment is so killing me. I'm loosing my best friend and I'm not able to do anything.
The great thing in TH-cam is when you randomly tap on any random song and soon you realize that the songs talks about a moment happened with you in real life, starting to touch the deep of your heart, ends up with tears on your cheek 😢
"...don't even try..." got Me...so selfless yet it can be an excruciating gift to give; true love.
You guys are so strong. Really, just scrolling through this comment sections makes me realize how painful life can be, how painful loving someone can be, but you're still there. With them. Maybe sometimes not for the best, but it says a lot about you either way.
Kind of wish I had some story to tell. The only relationship I've ACTUALLY been in ended short. I broke up with her because I didn't want to hurt her...and I didn't want to be hurt by her. Petty, I know. But I think it was for the best.
You are lucky that you do not have a story to tell. You have not been hurt the way that lots of us have, and for that you should be happy:)
This version is comfort itself. Somehow it reminds me of how we used to take care of toys made out of glass, so we would touch it mildly, carefully, not to brake it, exactly in the same way as the song touches our emotions❤️
My favorite comment here
Yesterday my boyfriend said that he doesn’t know if he really loves me. It’s hurts so much, because i know i do love him.
: (
:(((
Just him how much you do
Heyy... how are u
This has the purest comment section I have ever seen. It makes my heart warm.
for someone who has never loved anyone, i really wanna be loved and love someone someday.
i guess i havent met the one yet.
I feel you . It's like you are not made to love someone , everytime you think that it is your chance , you realise that is just you dreaming. ..
I have this crush on my friend, and he just lets me hug him whenever i feel sad, anxious or happy... hes still the same cheerful and motivative friend i first knew of, but i started moving away when this other girl started being close to him, the way we are... and that girl is our friend which made me think of the reason to just be quiet and start pretending i dont have feelings anymore. It truly hurts whenever i see them together, seeing them smile at each other, be all ‘sweet’.... their smiles at there faces, his smiles i want all by to myself- that of course will never happen. I just really hope i stop having this feelings towards him, that one day, when i wake up.... i wont have to go over the process of crying in our school ladies’ room and go back to our classroom with a smile on my face like nothing bad is happening to me emotionally.
Girl you better get that boy. But then again, be careful. It's hard to be friends again if something goes wrong. I have personal experience lol. But if you really enjoy him in your life give it more time. You may move on, he may end up not getting with her, or something else. Who knows? Trust your gut. ✌😊
KB H!!! :< an update for you- ive been moving away and i think theyre getting closer knowing that she likes him too.... and i tried being clingy to him just today and it made my heart swell, hes also happy too hihihi but, for now i guess ill just focus on my study, the sad thing about this is that he might move to another school because of some problems so im still giving it time. The good news is, the girl is moving too on another course or school (hoping she’ll go far away to wherever i wont see her plastic face) and that im hoping he wont be moving. To be short, im just enjoying the times i can still see him, im also happy that im able to cope up that im not sad anymore whenever i dont get to be with him, that just seeing him only makes me smile.
i love you , i hope something great happens to you and dont worry everything will be alright .. i feel you
Wish you all the best in the world💜
Wow! This comment made me so sad. You must hurt really bad. I've never been in love so I don't know what it's like. But even if this goes nowhere, know that you'll find someone great someday and you would cherish this crush and maybe years later you two would laugh about this. But most importantly, I hope you find happiness within yourself. :)
When you have a feeling but she's an angel and you know you're never that Worthy never enough to be on her side .. so you just counting down days to see her goodbye
Reading these comments... man, people have gone through a looot... thanks for sharing your stories. I actually don’t have a big story to share. I’m just living my life, spending time with friends and family, trying to achieve my goals and dreams... I’m in high school. So far I have had two crushes. I loved the first boy for 3 years... he was a fuckboy (I think he wanted to date me just because everyone in my class liked me and he wanted to prove to them that only he can have me...) we dated, we broke up, we talked, we flirted, he kissed me on my bday after 1 year of separation... When we found out we have both gotten into the high school we wanted to we snuck out of school without even taking our phones... we went on a walk, talked, just sit on a bench... And a week after that he stopped talking to me?! He started hanging out with the girls I told him I didn’t like because of their attitude towards me, started fighting with everyone about anything, started smoking and not paying attention to anything... I tried to talk to him but he just ghosted me and I thought if I gave him time he would come and talk to me... but he got worse and I realised he was toxic and I should let go... It was hard cuz we’re in the same school and we travel with the same bus... but we don’t talk. Anyway, now I kind of like a boy that is the total opposite of my type. I always end up with the fuckboy... I’m just analysing the situation rn but I’m starting to catch reallll feelings and idk what to do cuz I’m shy af and his one year older so we only meet in the morning and in the big break? Some advice? (Thanks if you have read it to the bottom, my English is very bad) ❤️
Hope you are doing fine by now
I’m drinking to this tonight.
yessir
Same
Me too
Some good old rum with this song
Saaaame.
[this is longish]
Im a guy and Bi just to make it clear
I started University in September and was struggling with depression, not from university from life experiences and my flatmate consoled me when she noticed me having a breakdown in the kitchen, and from then i didn't feel lonely, she also has depression and she told me about times she felt like giving up, my feelings for her grew, the way she smiled and didn't have a clue how to cook and needed my help for it made me feel great that i felt needed.
One night she left the flat and sent me a picture of a lit up bridge, and i instantly jumped up got dressed and ran to the bridge (its a notable bridge where I'm living), i got to the bridge and she instantly asked why i was there, i simply responded with "i care that why, i dont want you to do something you cant take back" we walked back to the flat together.
over the next few weeks i helped her deal with her depression, and one night she asked if i had feelings for her, and i admitted that i did she admitted her feelings and that she wanted to try and build a relationship, so for the next 4 weeks we worked on the relationship, it felt like i was high above these clouds that were as black as night before but now a bright, until the first week of December when she messages me telling me that she has been talking to someone else and feels that she sees it going somewhere with him, at that point whatever was holding me up gave in and i fell back into the darkness.
This feeling grew that i had done something wrong or that i would never be able to stay out of this dark pit, so i grew to hate myself that i had done something to mess it up, you see i get too attached to people, so when i was talking to a guy on tinder who was really nice and seemed to be my type, and she turns round and tells me how she feels i gave up on this guy.
it hit me the most Christmas eve, a song came on about heartbreak i broke down, but i buried the tears(The man code required it) then i saw her share a post tagging the guy she was talking about saying "you know you done good when yourself a guy that helps at your lowest", that chipped the dam walls a bit too much and Man code no longer applied.
I woke up Christmas day knowing that the thing i really wanted wouldn't be there, but i took solace in the thought that i helped her when she was at her lowest and helped her reach her happiest she has been.
i think that it might have compromised my willingness to try for a relationship, but im managing, im channeling my emotional distress into Writing a story(not sure of the format yet)
Thanks for reading
i just needed to unload.
keep going 🌟
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I pray that you find yourself, and find someone worth loving...you will. You seem like a lovely person, and I don’t know you but I want the best for you ❤️
Wow. You are a beautiful person. I feel compelled to tell you that. Keep going, that's what to do. Also, you seem to doubt your self /worth a lot, that's okay, okay? But you know you are a good person, so do what it is you want to do, despite the doubts.
About your depression, it's really tough, right? I'm sorry you have to go through that. But it's okay. To remain strong is to remain alive, someday will come and you will be grateful for feeling alive, yes. Be around only those that don't worsen it for you. Good people.
I wish you the best. It's yet to come.🖤💗
@@lydiaolamibo7643 wow thanks, this was a pretty good thing to wake up to and i appreciate it a lot.
i got chills down my spine when i hear his voice.
I love the comments section in videos like these. Everyone's so honest and open.
I used to feel this way for the longest time. I was in love with a girl I knew had never loved me back. She even had a boyfriend the whole time, but still I could not change the way I was feeling. I knew that I would have to make the step and let her go eventually. The crazy thing is, no matter how much I told myself that there was no hope whatsoever for the two of us, I just couldn't.
At some point we lost touch as we simply no longer met or wrote to each other. I must admit that during that time, I had successfully pushed myself towards not thinking about her anymore. I forgot about her and what she had meant to me. It was only recently, after about half a year of not seeing her a single time, that I met her again. The moment she talked to me was everything at once. I felt all the emotions that had connected me to her, that had made me fall in love with her, and for a second, I was back at that exact same place where I had seen her for the first time. But I also felt distance, as if we had both grown into totally different individuals during such a short time.
It was on the way back home that she told me she was planning to move to a different country, where her boyfriend was living, to start working there. I felt as if someone had just punched me into my face with all their force and knocked me all the way down to the floor. So I went home, heartbroken once more, and just sat still for a while. Then I put on this song, and for the first time I genuinely felt there was no hope left of ever being with her.
As painful as it was, I'm grateful for that moment because it made me realize that I would never make her love me, and that it was okay. Sometimes letting go is only for the better, no matter how much your heart is telling you not to.
dear crush,
im sorry i was trying so hard to make you mine.i should have realised sooner you weren't interested before i ended up getting hurt.
thvlmαα plenty fish in the sea
Why would you feel sorry for falling in love.
Its so me, omg :'(
I wasting so much time just bc one person.
Eric Deda but also trash. A lot of trash in the sea
I can't make you love me but you can't make me stop loving you either😌😌
Its like she will never understand how much i feel for her, and it hurts so much. Its like I will do anything ANYTHING for her but she wont do the same. But i m just happy i can love her.
The comment section for this video is mostly
1.) love/relationship confessionals and
2.) comments about the comments section
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So I like this boy...
After we started to talk, I felt that maybe we could be something more than friends, but guess what, that didn't happened.
He like another girl. I didn't know this and I told him my feelings about him. Of course he said no, but he did it in such a kind way that hurts me more than I could've ever imagined.
I know he doesn't have feelings for me, and it doesn't matter how much I want him to... I can't make him love me.
The worse part is that I want to, at least, be his friend... And he want that too.
But is so hard for me to see him trying to impress another girl, to see him wear nice shirts for another girl, to see him making jokes and trying to make laugh another girl...
It's ok, isn't it? It will pass with time's help... Isn't it?
I feel ya, even though it sucks and hurts so much it WILL be ok. And not the 'ok' adults will tell a kid, an actual 'ok'. You'll find someone else who you will love even more. God only knows who we end up with.
It's OK. It WILL pass with time's help.
same, but i'm still fighting for him
Same situation for me. a girl and I became literally the best friend and there's nothing we don't know about each other. that's how much we got close. She started hooking up with a fuckboy to forget about her ex who hurt her a few months ago, but then she caught feelings for the fuckboy too. he doesn't like her. I used to keep my feelings for her to myself but recently I told her. She said she thought about us being a thing, but she didn't say more. I have been hurt in the past too, and she is the first girl I ever thought out being a thing with after my last relationship which was 2 years ago... I never thought i would fall for someone again. now i want her so bad but she probably doesn't like me that way. the way she act around me sometimes makes me think i still got a chance. but i get disappointed that she hasnt given me the answer.
Move on , leave him . He doesnt value you. You will only hurt yourself being his friend
I'm so heartbroken...💔 that's a well fitting song...
The special person in your life who you’ve thought you’ll grow old with, fell out of love with you is one of the most painful thing anyone would never want to experience. It will make you question your whole existence, your worth. Sucks how we’ll never know how long will a person love you and how long a person will stay in your life. Guess it’s all trial and error til’ you meet “the one”
Met a girl in my freshman year of college and immediately loved the vibe that she brought to me. She was cute, smart and hard-working. An independent person that could take care of herself. Amazing to me. And we hit it off instantly. We went to different colleges but had a mutual friend. After two months, She decided to become a marine and our relationship became long-distance. I traveled the fifteen hour drive to her boot camp graduation. Took weeks off of work unpaid. Sent her letters. Cried. Cheered her on. And then we broke up. I was crushed. Then we got back together. Another two weeks off unpaid while trying to pay for school and rent. Then she got shipped to Japan. A year of long-distance. Working two jobs to save money to got to Japan. We split it between flights and hotels with me paying for hotels. I spent thousands of dollars for her to text me two weeks after I was just with her to text me in the morning that she didn’t want to be in a long-distance because she “misses me too much” but also wants the freedom to do whatever. Two years of time, effort, care and money gone and I couldn’t even get it any better than a text. That was two days ago
I hear you. I hear you.
Are you okay now?
I don't know what to say exactly but i gotta tell you that you are gonna find smn much more amazing,despite of what you may believe..she might not have been the one
This makes me think of what I’m missing . Reading comments and seeing people talk about a person , mine lies somewhere different . It makes me think of how many times I’ve been let down , and how many times I’ve come close to having something good and then it’s been taken from me . But it also makes me think of what is to come , almost like I’m waiting for someone to come along , someone who at first I don’t see as the one , but over time they gain my trust and I’m sure they will give me everything I need . It makes me think of the things that I could have , yet It makes me dwell on what i have lost . Such a powerful song .
I wanted to get a good 8 hours sleep, but then I started to listen to this kinda music... Now I got 4 hours left... 😆🤗
This comment section has so much pain in it, and i'm so truly sorry for all the things you guys have to go through. I'm in a lovely relationship now... but I know what it feels like to be hurt. I hope you may find the same luck I have now, and that it stays en makes you happy forever. If there is someone you love out there, please tell them
😫😫my feelings exactly
Thank u for those kind words ❤
Lem Lem ♥️
Rani Al Danaf ♥️
i met this boy when i was 13. we were in the same class. i have always been the ugly tomboy kid in that point in life. but when i was in my 7th grade, i started caring about how i look and somehow become a little attractive. and that’s when guys started showing me interest. but i always had this guy whom i liked a-lot. he was always the cheerful, outgoing, funny guy. he was cute and always smiling. thats how i saw him. and once in class, i had an issue with another guy who was so annoying me. and teacher was talking about it and my crush stood up for me. defending me. all these things made me feel like he liked me too.
he knew i liked him. it was pretty obvious. but i never told him how i felt until it was an year later, when i was 14. i was getting frustrated bc he wouldn’t reply to me. it was at that time when everyone was getting their first facebook accounts. and i waited so long for him to get one. and once he did, i would wait for hours and hours to get a chance to talk to him. and one day, i confessed to him bc i was so irritated for some reason. and he said he already knew that i liked him.
thats when we started getting close. we talked a-lot and that’s when he first shared something to me. i felt amazing. i felt magical. but it was always short. after few months, he left me. i was heartbroken but also mad. so i tried moving on from him and ignored him in school as well. but again he came back to him. he wanted me and tried to get me back. but i sticked to my beliefs and didn’t agree. until he was leaving the town for an year. that broke me even more.
i thought to myself, why hide my feelings? so we got back again. but that was just two months before he left the town. the last exam day at school, he said he wanted he wanted a hug from me. we would always share songs and we never really talked much irl. but it was only bc of me.. i was extremely insecure. and i felt i was too ugly for him. that i didn’t even have the courage to have eye contact with him. i had acne, wore blue glasses, and was so ugly. that was when i was 15.
but, at the last day, i saw him and i hid when i saw him. bc my heart was beating rapidly and i was so scared to face him. and when i got back home, i cried. i felt miserable. i don’t know how to explain how i felt. but i went straight up to my room. in my uniform, i lay on my bed and cried while staring at the ceiling. knowing that i will have to live without seeing him and secondly bc i felt very disappointed in myself. bc all he wanted was a hug.
so, few months passed. and we were in two different places. he and i were getting problems again. he would keep my messages unread while he posts on facebook, when that was the first time he got online after two months of going abroad. so this time i decided to break it off. i felt very useless in his life. and after that, i got into my first relationship after trying to move on from him. all my friends suggested i should be in a relationship to move on. it was the worst advice, bc i ended up hurting the guy i was in the relationship as well.
and again, after months of not talking. me and him got back when we were 16. and yet again, he left me. but this time it was different. he fell for my closest friend of that time.
thats when i knew that i was building up on my own false hopes and love that made me so blind. it hurts me so much to know all my innocence and naiveness has been wasted on him. the first night we actually met and talked was on the school fair of 2014. it was so pure. i felt like you loved me too. but you didn’t.
now i am almost 20, and the pain of this still keeps me awake at night. i am still haunted by his memories. i can’t get myself to see another guy because i’m scared. i’m scared i might lose another part of myself.
now i’m independent on my own. i work and i study as well. i have achieved a-lot in my life. but in those windy warm nights, i look out the sky and play this song and reminisce about all we had. even if i loved you, i can’t be with you.
i am stronger than what i was. i am glad i didn’t go back to you after so many years.
I- me too sis me too :(
Mara Rosa thank you for reading. i thought no one would.
don’t feel bad honey, you deserve a-lot more in life. and i hope you get that. i wish you get yourself to be completely fulfilled with alot of joy and love.
@@shi2222 💕💕
This hits me alot bc i met this guy in fifth grade at church we became really close we would sit next to eachother during service and during bibble school with my favorite lady there is was amazing.. Then a year past but we didnt talk bc I stoped going to church.. Then I was in seventh grade with him and he was in most of my vlasses we started to talk again I told him to video call me one day to study and he said ok and when i got home I waited fkr about an hour and i recieved the call and I answered and he said before we start I have to tell u something I said ok I'm listening he said "I like u alot Sunni" I started to tear up and I said I like u too and tbh I love u but things went down hill fast for us and I'm 14 years old now with a beyond broken heart and im my lowest point yet bc without him I feel like nothing litterly I had to move schools bc it hurt to even hear his name or look at him I walked out of school a coulle of times bc of it
I feel like singing this to someone I've never even met.
I used to ball my eyes out listening and thinking about my ex. The present can sometimes suck and feel like things will never get better. But I’m so happy now, I thought I’d just come back and share to those who needed to hear something positive right now. You’re loved. Please keep staying strong.
It’s been so long since I listened to music like this and as soon as I heard the first note my heart skipped a beat with so much emotion....thank you
It sucks when you love a friend and that friend doesn’t love you the way you do, Is so sad because there are two sides of you which are constantly fighting, one side tells you to keep your emotions hidden and just forget them and the other side of you just wants to tell the other person how much she/he makes your belly get butterflies.
This song is very beautiful and relatable.
There was this girl that I met about 2 years ago. We quickly became really good friends, and it felt amazing knowing that I had someone wonderful in my life. We would talk for hours and never get bored, we would jam out to music, we would make each other laugh. She made my life 10x more exciting. As time went by, we became closer and closer with one another. Before we knew it, the school year ended and it was summer break.
We would email each other daily, explaining how our day was and how we were so excited for school to start up so we could see each other again. We would talk and talk and talk, never stopping unless we had stuff to do or we just fell asleep. With time, summer passed and school started again.
Classes were harder, people were different, I had to meet new people... but we still had each other. We purposely sat together in almost every class, and we had each other's backs. I got to meet her old friends from elementary, and it was a struggle for me fitting in. They would talk about the good times they had and I would awkwardly sit, listening to their wonderful stories. I felt like I wasn't really a part of their conversations. I was just.... there. I didn't really have anyone to talk to because I was afraid to branch out and make new friends. I was used to knowing a majority of people and having my sweet friend group that I was a part of in elementary (a lot of my friends went to another school because of where they lived and the bus schedules for the school). I fought through my feelings of loneliness just so I could stay with her, just so I could be her friend.
Slowly I started to learn she was going through tough times. There would be days where she would shut me out and never explain what was going on. I didn't know how to help. I've never been in a situation like that before, so I would let her be on her own to recuperate. I thought it was a phase, and I regret thinking that now. Somedays I think, "What if I did try to help her? What if I tried different things and just talked to her?" Other days I just think it all happened for a reason. She would gradually shut me out more and more, and during these times she would hang out with other people. I didn't think much of it because I didn't want to come off as rude and selfish because she was with them, but it hurt knowing that she would shut me out, talk to other people, and come back acting as though nothing happened.
Soon I started getting into the mindset that I did something wrong. The times she would hang out with me, she would break out into random outbursts of anger, she would make me do most of her schoolwork, and would constantly get after me for little things I did. I tried my best to please her, doing things she wanted me to do, giving her things we wanted. It was horrible.
During this time, I got back in touch with a boy who I liked a lot. We would talk about how we missed each other, we asked how school was going, and just mentioned bizarre stuff that randomly came up in conversation. I realized my mood was changing after talking with him for a few days. I would come to school with a real smile across my face. I was always happy, and life seemed exciting again. I would slowly mention him to my friend, but she never bothered hearing me talk about him. It was like I had to keep the things I wanted to share to myself. I hated it, but it made her happy. So, the moments I had to myself, I would just think about what she would say if I ever had the chance to talk about him.
Weeks went by, and I slowly started telling him everything that had happened. He would constantly tell me to stop talking to her, that she wasn't a good person and she was manipulating me, but I didn't want to believe it. I was stuck thinking about the sweet and kind person she was the year before and not the person she was now. I told him I would try and figure things out, and we would leave it at that.
One day I had the nerve to mention him, and she stayed silent for a little bit. I thought it was a good thing I at least said something, but I quickly changed my mind once she spoke up. She quickly grabbed my arm and told me to never talk about him again. I was hurt by this, but I brushed it off. I wish I hadn't. I would sit in silence everyday pained by the thought of never being able to say anything around her. She became more and more distant with every passing second. There were days where she would miss school along with her other friends to hang out together. I found this as a hint to talk to other people and attempt to make new friends. The thought of doing this was scary, but it was necessary. I couldn't go another day of being trapped in my lonely, miserable life at school. I soon found a group of people that loved the same things I did. This made me ecstatic. I finally had people who made me laugh for no apparent reason and who would invite me to any little story they could think of. A few days later, she confronted me furiously. She asked how I could quickly replace her, but that wasn't the case. No one could replace her, ever. I told her it wasn't like that, that I just wanted to make new friends. She walked off without another word.
Was this another mistake too? I would constantly ask myself that. No matter how happy I was, that question always lingered in my head. Things got to the point where my science teacher had asked me if everything was alright. I would always smile and say, "Yeah, she's just going through stuff right now." Oh how I wish my teacher could see through my fake smile. To the pain I was showing in my eyes.
Something soon happened that shifted the entire mood of the classroom. People started targeting me about not doing anything, about not caring for our friendship. But they didn't know that I tried. I tried changing into the person she wanted me to be, I tried doing everything she wanted me to do. I kept my feelings bottled up, and I knew I would burst into tears soon. But I couldn't do that. That would make me look weak, so I stood there and let their words slice through my heart. Things got to the point where I had to talk to the school counselor. I told her everything that had happened between us. I told her how she would shut me out with no explanation, how she told me to do certain things for her, and the rare times she would actually hit me. The counselor asked how I was feeling, and my voice cracked trying to explain everything. This was a safe spot to be vulnerable, so I let out everything i kept to myself. It felt good to cry, to feel the tears make their way down my cheek. The counselor called for her to come in and we had to talk through everything. I kept my face down to try and hide my tears, but it wasn't needed. She had her back faced to me, and looked like she didn't really care about what was going on.
To this day, we haven't talked to each other. I gave up trying. She was such an amazing person, but she let open a side I wish I never had to see. She's doing fine now with her group of friends, and she seems happier than ever. I still think about the things we did together, and how I'm going to miss the old her. I wish things were different, but I can't change anything that had happened. As for me, I'm doing better now. I still sometimes have the urge to cry just thinking about the end of our friendship, but I'm working on it.
Sorry for this huge thing, I just thought it would help me by actually talking about it. I know this song is meant for something else, but I wanted to share what I went through. Anyways, I hope everyone has a wonderful day/night, and that I hope you don't go through the pain I went through
I hope you are doing fine now
been 5 years looking for someone who will love me inside and outside
I have loved the same person for 5 years... I really love him but circumstances are not the right ones, he means everything to me. I hope one day he remembers all the things we had and thinks the same about me 💔
Abril Hdez I went through the same thing. I loved this guy for 5 years, all throughout half of elementary and middle school, the beginning of high school. I’m way past him now but honestly all you can do is move on. All the wasted tears and heartbreak for someone who’s never even acknowledged you, it’s not even worth it at this point. You’ll find someone that will make everything worthwhile. Someone that lights you up like you’ve never been lit up before. I promise. It takes time, yes. But eventually someone will come along and give you the feeling you’ve been longing for and until then, hold yourself up. Because rn, you’re what you’ve got to hold onto.
@@sharlinaybanez8113 Thank you, it's been a while since I "let him go". It was difficult for me, since we really connected with each other; I know I will always love him no matter what, he was my first love and will always have a special place in my heart, ik it was time to move on... Thanks for your words, I really appreciate them
Stumbled upon this song, and I’m crying.
I’m 18 and I’ve never dated and from a relatively protective Asian family background. Nothing bad about it, it’s great but, it makes things like falling in love, somehow more difficult.
I don’t know what I should do with these feelings I have for this boy. We’ve known each other for a number of years but our relationship is always undefined. We never text but some nights when we’re together, it seems like he could give me the whole world, and when the next day comes, it’s like I’m just another person to him.
I often wonder what I mean to him, because he’s not afraid to show physical contact around me and he goes around telling people I’m pretty. But I never feel like he’s really let me into his world. I sometimes feel like a child he has to protect.
Last year, I was so frustrated with these feelings. This year, I found a little more peace and freedom to behave normally around him. And I think he’s opened up a little too. We have nice times together without me having to feel suffocated or pretentious.
Because of how I’m coming to terms with how we are now, I don’t want to do anything that would come between this. And I don’t think I’m ready for anything serious yet either.
As I grow older, I don’t really feel like I want those crazy love stories anymore. I just want to love one man for the rest of my life, even if it’s quietly, at least it’s comforting. So I want to be sure.
I know I’m still young, but is it problematic that I think I wouldn’t mind if he would be that one person? Perhaps I just don’t know yet, but I’ve never felt like this for someone ever in my life, and I have this feeling that I never will again.
It’s somewhat hard to really convey all these here, my thoughts are everywhere. But seeing everyone’s comments, I thought this should belong here.
Thank you guys, let’s have a good 2019 ❤️
I've known this person for over 10 years, gone through every heartbreak of hers. I've always wanted to tell her how I felt especially after I had a brain surgery, I had a "dream" during that surgery that felt so damn real. In it, I was working and successful and I was with her all the way. Now that she's single, I still can't bring myself to tell her how I feel for the fear that I might lose her if my dream was wrong. Now, we talk every week on the phone and she'll reply me constantly unless she's busy but that doesn't matter, I just don't want to be too pushy with her or make her feel something else. Maybe, one day I'll tell her how I feel about her but I guess for now, I'll just be there for her as long as she needs me to. Even if everyone else thinks she's not the best, I'll always see the sun shining out of her.
did you ever tell her?
That fucking smile, those eyes. My heart was split in half. I felt intense pain and I cried a lot but now I've gone numb. You were perfect. I'm nobody, nothing. Two days have passed and you already forgot about me, after all this wonderful time. Thank you.