Billionaire David Rubenstein on the Key Principles to Truly Becoming the One in Control
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 พ.ค. 2024
- Do you think you have what it takes to become an empowering, inspiring, and motivating leader? Are you looking for ways to improve your leadership skills so that you can make a larger impact on the world? On this episode of Impact Theory, Tom Bilyeu is joined by author and Co-Founder and Co-Executive Chairman of ‘The Carlyle Group’ David M. Rubenstein to discuss such matters and more as they explore what it takes to become a leader and how you can start leading more in your daily life.
They discuss the core principles of what makes a good leader, how wealth during your youth can stifle your progress, how hardships and failures are key to becoming a good leader, how success and happiness are tied, why persuasion is key to any great leader, what we can learn from Abraham Lincoln’s leadership, what the American DNA is and how it creates natural leaders, the power of reading, why you should become a master of one skill, and much more.
Order David’s book, ‘How to Lead: Wisdom from the World's Greatest CEOs, Founders, and Game Changers’: amazon.com/dp/1982132159/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_1Fo-FbKZ6NMY4
SHOW NOTES:
Leadership | David boils down what leadership truly is and how to develop it. [0:04]
Core Principles | David reveals the core principles of developing true leadership. [3:26]
Journey | David shares his journey and a brief overview of his life of leadership. [4:46]
Growing Up | David reveals what made him hungry for success during his youth. [7:05]
Wealth | David reveals the pitfalls of being born into a wealthy and prestigious family. [8:50]
Hardships | David reveals how he raised his children without spoiling them. [9:38]
Success | David reveals the things that leads people to become successful. [11:39]
Happiness | David breaks down the difference between happiness and fulfilment. [12:41]
Persuade | David reveals how he set his kids up to be successful in their pursuits. [13:19]
Lincoln | David reveals why Lincoln has been so influential in his life. [15:06]
War | David reveals how Lincoln held America together during The Civil War. [17:18]
History | David reveals the importance of preserving and honoring history as it is. [19:15]
American | David reveals what he believes it means to be American. [22:00]
DNA | David reveals how the American DNA is serving DNA today. [26:26]
Creeds | David reveals what he thinks are the most important principles to America. [28:51]
Jefferson | David shares the story of Jefferson writing The Declaration of Independence. [30:13]
Fixing | David reveals how we can contribute to fixing America’s flaws. [33:59]
Circle | David reveals how Lincoln surrounded himself with people smarter than him. [35:20]
Persist | David reveals how Lincoln lead by taking criticism and being challenged. [37:04]
Spirit | David reveals how we can awaken the spirit of America we need. [38:20]
Reading | David reveals the importance and power of reading. [40:14]
Specializing | David reveals why you should focus and develop only one skill. [41:05]
Love & Passion | David reveals what drives him to do the things he loves. [42:30]
Youth | David reveals that all leaders have an impactful youth or childhood. [44:05]
Failure | David reveals how he talks to himself when he fails. [44:56]
Forward | David reveals why leaders are necessary to moving us forward in history. [46:23]
Unity | David shares why he builds bonds ‘across the aisle.’ [47:00]
Themes | David reveals the themes that push people to become extremely successful. [48:38]
Connect | David reveals how you can continue to follow him and learn from him. [49:23]
QUOTES:
“If you grow up in an extremely wealthy family, if your father is worth $10-billion dollars, you might not have the drive to do the kind of things you need to do to win a Nobel Prize or a Pulitzer Prize or something else. If you grow up in a modest family, you know if you’re going to get anywhere in life, you’ve got to do it on your own.” [6:33]
“You can’t be insecure. If you’re insecure, you surround yourself with people that are not that good, and great people surround themselves with people that are smarter than them.” [36:54]
“…you have to have a vision of where you want to go, you have to persist in it, you have to be willing to overcome failures, and not be afraid of making a mistake.” [49:16]
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The internet is a great place. I can literally have a conversation with a billionaire and pick his mind apart for free.. Wow! Thank you for this convo, David and Tom.
I swear
Yes exactly! Finding Tom has been such a mind opening experience for me... he's opened the door to hearing people I wouldn't normally be able to have a conversation with. Thank you Tom and team!
lol, it is true. you cant go anywhere in real life and eavesdrop on billionaires' conversations
yes, I agree, I watch from France , Internet is such a treasure for that.
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"If you grow in a modest family you know if you are going to get any where you have to do it yourself."David Rubenstein
The 1% who's reading this may all your dreams come true.
"You can’t be insecure. If you are insecure, you surround yourself with people that are not that good, and great people surround themselves with people that are smarter than them."
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I’ve driven for David. He’s even as talkative in person in The Limo as we drove from Boston to Cambridge... Such a pleasure... Shalom David!
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Jottings:
- Theme: Leadership
- Convincing others to follow leaders views.
- Qualities:
- Luck
- Hard work
- Persistence
- Focus
- Cooperate
- Communicate
- Ethical
- Humility
- Rising to occasion
- Strong desire
- Success = Happiness
- Persuasion: via orally, writing, setting example
- Best Leader: Abraham Lincoln: kept country together, freed slaves(did with humility)
- Best country: America: Free Speech, Equality
- Great people surround themselves with smarter people.
- In business, leaders need to make decision (don't wait for consensus), foot down, persistence.
Every time David's video pops up it makes my day, such brilliant and intelligent individual with numerous achievments and value built throughout his life. Good wishes from Lithuania!
Great interview Tom. This guy is extremely well read and educated,, a common theme amoung successful people
“You Are the Master of Your Attitude. You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control the way you think about all the events. You always have a choice. You can choose to face them with a positive mental attitude.”
Roy T. Bennett
Maybe you just have a “feeling “ that you can always control your attitude... or that you can choose to have whatever attitude you feel comfortable with. This is as a result of your genes and up to date conditioning ..both of which are outside of your control. What you feel you are able to do may not be the experience for others as their genes and conditioning are different. For example felt I could choose to write this rather than not write it. But also realising it really doesn’t matter that I did or indeed if I hadn’t. Like your choosing to call yourself Motivation and self improvement. Who is being motivated and what improvements do you need? Its called buying into the arrival myth ...if I do this or get that I will be more complete.... and you will go on doing this having never arrived, until your final breath.
All these bullshit quotes are meaningless until it's backed up a real event.
As a black woman, I was getting angry hearing him praise Lincoln. But, then he acknowledged the racial truths & his own priviledge. I am astounded at his balanced views. It seems so few rich whites can admit what he did. Quite a refreshing & shocking interview. Can't wait to look up his book.
Can you please explain that about Lincoln? Hollywood is selling the idea that he freed you from slavery. It's everywhere, at least in Europe.
@@ohenryable He did free us from slavery, but that was not his mission. His mission was to not have the country split in 2 under his presidency. That's what he cared about. He even said that he didn't care whether we stayed slaves or not as long as the country doesn't split. He also gave speeches where he made the crowd laugh at the idea that black ppl could b considered equal to whites. There was no way we were as "human" as whites in his view.
@@kimberlyv3283 Thanks. As usual, Hollywood painting rosy the dark sides of American history. It's the same here in UK with Churchill. Thanks again.
@@ohenryable You're welcome. You've piqued my interest with Churchill. I'll have to read up on him. I do remember hearing that he wasn't as amazing as he is held up to be.
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David Rubenstein, proof that financial success and grace may go hand in hand, to say nothing of his great intelligence and thought-provoking philosophical perspective well-grounded in the common sense - a National Treasure.
I am so happy I found impact theory online. So smart. You and your wife are such an inspiration and so much fun to watch.
You! Yes you reading this right now. No not some random person but YOU! I'm sending this message to YOU! Everything that has hurt you is over. Every test you've been put through, you have survived. You might not be exactly where you were aiming to be but today marks the start of your new life. Your mindset shifted to such a high level that it vibrated on a frequency that brought you right here. The universe has a way of taking you exactly where you want to be, at the perfect time and all that is required, is for you to align your mind. NOW, you're on the right track. Watch this over and over until it sinks in and share it with the people you want a better life for and heal and grow together. You're blessed and the new chapter of your life just started! No more negativity. No more sadness. Forgive yourself and learn to love who you've always been so you can sore to the highest level of yourself. This is awesome and I'm so excited for what's about to happen to you over the next few days. Wow! You really made it to this place.
*Remember to eat right, get enough sleep and EXERCISE!* 🙏
Especially in times like this (covid). It is imperative! (Wow, I’ve never used that word 😄)
True. Any thoughts about the video?
@@beemo9 gonna be honest: I haven’t watched it yet. Just wanted to give my 2 cents 😊🙏
Thats a fun one IMPERATIVE!!! more than just IMPORTANT..... hehehe
David Rubenstein Sir's every word creates huge positive difference
I worked with David in the Carter White House (as an EA). He was the nicest guy in the building and always a perfect gentleman.
Phew - probably the most questions ever asked by Tom due to the short, succinct answers by his guest. Well done to keeping the energy, flow and structure continuous and engaging - quality interviewing.
I have worked for 2 years in U.S.. It was the first time when I felt so "aligned" with a country's spirit and people. I actually dream about it at least once a week. A part of my soul definetly is American. Thank you so much for this interwiew. And yeah, as he says, we'll se what happens in 4 years, when David Rubensten will be old enough to be a candidate at the U. S. Presidency 😅🇺🇸🍀🤟!
Be legendary!! Dear Impactivists :)
FROM THE WAY HE SPEAK , DAVID HAVE A FIRM GRASP OF HISTORY. A TRULY LEARNED MAN.
Leadership is so important. I hope everyone is blessed by this
David Rubenstein amazing!!! I watch he's show on the Bloomberg chanel always including re-runs :-))
Thank you so much Mr. Rubinstein!!! Its awesome to hear a successful person share their leadership skills with us👏 😊 And great to hear how happiness spans all of the socio-economic scale, we can fulfill our dreams!!!.. N thank you Tom for doing such beautiful interviews.... its lovely that we can share ideas 💡 with each other on how to pave a beautiful new world of sharing our thoughts on history and inspire one another to our best selves!!! I feel extremely blessed to be able to rely on hope and compassion 🙏 ❤ 🙌 to see our world as BEAUTIFUL 😍.... LOVE AND PEACE ALL!!!
One of the best interviews I have ever heard
Arguably the best thing is starting in a poor family and becoming rich. The "best" motivation is knowing first hand what it means when something essential is missing
Most Underrated comment
So much wisdom from Mr. David. His interviews too are one of the best..
The amount of research Tom does on his guests is commendable!
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I am always amazed at how Tom structures his questions, always on point and well thought through.
WOW! Who is this guy! He shines wisdom, I loved this so much 🧠🙏🏼
agreed
Just an important figure in finance...🙄🙄
It says right there.. David rubenstien or however you spell it
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Founder of the The Carlyle group. It’s also a public company that trades under: CG.
Listening to David is refreshing.
“Must do” is a great motivator.
Thank you Tom for so many cool Videos. You really changed my Life.
Tom ! Thanks for putting in the work to host such great guests.
Your channel is a beacon of light on the worldwideweb.
Cheers to you my good man!
Such an interesting perspective from an intelligent man 💫 Behind the curtains of the heros and history, it's usually young, wealthy, white men who procrastinated, forgot dates, and viewed humans as property 🙃 Usually we think everything was so intentional, poetic, and methodical, and it's typically not. Ironically enough, these stories inspire me. Makes me think about what we can accomplish when we really try 😏 Tom, I will forever love your interviewing style and thoughtful questions 🙏🏾 Thanks for having him on!
I loved this guy in the 3 Amigos and The Jerk in 1979. Hilarious!
This guy is so wild and crazy 😜
OMG yes he totally resembles him in full character😂
Thanks Tom for bringing us this content. I hope you and your wife have a wonderful 2021.
Greetings from Costa Rica
This is one of the most interesting, informative interviews that I've seen on this channel. Very good! 😊 thanks.
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Relentless value, Tom!
David Rubenstein is a great interviewer and interviewee. He reads about 100 books a year. It's no secret why he knows a lot.
Thank you for putting the quotes and bookmarks underneath! Really helpful :)
Man this guy is giving the truth raw and uncut I love it!
We each have been given a sphere of influence, or a community of love to bring action and service to our world
Thanks, Tom! Love how my Amazon cart is filling up with books after interviews of Impact Theory! :))
🙌 Focus on finding what YOU want. Becoming more self-aware through self-reflection is key, take time to be alone and meditate on it.💥
Thanks a lot for always sharing such a knowledge...and amazing vision
The core of leadership starts with you as an individual. Your self-leadership! It is the same with the much-discussed word "Sustainability" and the meaning of it. Here the same thing applies, the core of Sustainability starts with you and me. If you as a person don't function in any way. Nothing else matters! It is also surprising to see that Social skills and intellect seem to be gone. Most people are screaming at each other. #be #intellectually #curious #selfleadership
Love to see Mohnish Pabrai and Naval in your show..David is one of my Favorite
Thank you. It takes a great man to be humble.
You never disappoint with your guest, love to hear your channel!!!
thank you so much
i am big fun of Impact theory.
Very interesting interview. Lots of wisdoms.👌👌👏🏾👏🏾
💯♥️ Thank you. Great interview. Not expected!
Persuasiveness is only a positive trait if you have the wisdom to set a direction worth following. That's harder than persuading people.
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Sir! You are doing great .keep it up.
Your channel helps us to listen great person on this globe.
Thank you for the interview, Tom! It's good to listen to you talk.
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NEEDED THIS.
Yaay! Diving into this content 😊
I'm looking forward to meeting an opportunity to meet a mentor and be a mentor..... I've learned lately how very important that skill is..... people who need people..... LUCKIEST PEOPLE, hehe By Babs
Best episode ever ❤️🙌🏿
Wow! Who is this educated old school men. It is pleasure to listen to him. I did not know men educated like that still exist. 🙏🙏
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It makes me want to write A book about How to live in Britian. Not even British yet, yet I see a good quality life here.
Wonderful interview, simple to understand what he is saying , thank You Tom 💪💪👂
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Very informative and entertaining interview.
One of my idol, he is very humble and funny af
Great interview.
Two legends ☺😍
U.S.A. ....sweet! Happy 2021!!
Great Work and An Amazing Content ! I really appreciate it.
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Very engaging video from beginning to end.
Awesome shirt Tom.
Gem of wisdom.
Thank you tom
What a great episode Tom 😱
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love this guy!
Been waiting for this Tom. Thanks so much. It’d be awesome if you could interview Sean Carter (Jay Z)
Tom let the juices flow brotha ! =)
thank you so much bro this means alot to me , hope you can give a talk at a unversity group
This was a great 👍 video, thanks for sharing!
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great sharing my friend
Thanks for giving your proceeds because you sure don't need it hope more ppl did that
Super interesting 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻💖🌷
51 minutes passed away very very quickly. I think I can watch him for 3 hours
A great pep talk.
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The beginning was great but slowly felt it was turning into 'America is great' campaign. US has its pros for sure but the flaw is to see the greatness in every country, to take opportunity to succeed. The world is vast and people come at times also because jobs are not available (full in other countries where people are more educated than USA). So it really depends. I didn't see the relevance to the topic on what the title says after listening, just felt more blessed than I'm open minded to everyone. Great speaker however, and it's nice he feels very patriotic especially when other countries don't have certain blessing like US.
This guy was gooooood
Him: in other words “I’m baggs deep rich today compared to when I first had kids” 😂
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There was no "pop" in this chitchat the info was limited with no elaboration or expansion. Could've got this info scrolling thru fb. Still this channel is very shifting for those looking to evolve in self and lifestyle!
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Legend...
Top gentleman!
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Thanks 🙏 for success god.bless us
I agree with coming from humble beginnings. Any parents out there who have become successful have any tips on how to raise their kids to have the same hunger.? I'm struggling with this. Thnks!
I spent a ton of time with my 3 children and I fought my husband for it, we are divorced after 37 years, he always cheated. We bought a house. That's about it. But we had some vacations, a few nice cars. I showed them love and made them do homework, my claim to fame is that we got them into church, albeit late, and brief. one is still a believer, 2 are atheists. One is a USC graduate in computer engineering, got straight A's for his bachelors degree onwards. The other son is a nurse and married a teacher, just bought a house down the road. Life today is. very hard, do your best when it comes to your children, research and ask questions, don't give up. My last child is a bartender, she has traveled a lot but now home due to Covid. But I have few regrets in raising them. I took them to every park, every theme park, every major attraction in our state, we played sports, we shopped, we ate out, we talked, I kept my eye on them but I let them do a lot on their own (more than most), I did not over schedule them, all their friends hung at our house, I fed them lots and they kept coming back, we laughed and laughed whenever we COULD. But we were not criminals or liars, school was priority and I made them think it was fun but it really was not in public school its a war zone.but they survived and are stronger and happy for it. Now days, not sure I would force public school on them, at least not in our district.
Let them be.
General parenting: Read to them. Spend time, set boundaries, love your spouse, set an example of self care. Expect greatness. Take them to the church of Jordan Peterson. Tom is next!
Why do your kids have to have a hunger? If you are wealthy, maybe they become the poets, the teachers, the healers, the farmers that are needed.
Let them be who they are. Don’t be stingy with money.
Great talk! Try get Chamath Palihapitiya as your next guest.
The people who can't leave don't because they can't afford to. The US government charge so much to renounce your citizenship if that is what you want to do
He kinda sounds like Kevin O'leary in interviews
Negative events are not permanent unless we accept it/them as such. Apply the old adage, whether you believe you can or can't, you're correct. It's truly a matter of perception/attitude/mindset.
Steve Martin's older brother really needs to lighten up...
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Great!
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Good evening world 🌍😊
Tom! I think there's something wrong with TH-cam liking your channel! I have the bell on but I haven't received any video updates for months, nether they show them to me in new uploads/digest on youtube :(((
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