I definitely think that learning to be selfish with yourself when dating in your 20s is important because you also know when to leave. There's no need to bekezela in your 20s!! Another thing is, it's okay to start again, I'd rather be asking someone new what their favourite colour is- as exhausting as starting again is, I think it's better than settling and losing yourself in the process just because you're afraid of starting again. And I agree with the comparison chat, it's kind of unfair to expect designer bags from someone you went into a relationship knowing what their financials looked like and expecting them to live up to standards you see on social media.
What life taught me is that no one cares what you do or what you think, problem is that we insinuate on what people think forgetting what we stand for. And one other thing I've learnt is that expectations are the reason for heartbreaks, we expect a lot from people and that can kill the good in others.
Bathong Balepi and Piet 😭😭😭 you mean I've been doing this whole dating thing wrongly 😭😭💔 but I'm glad you clarified a couple things for some of us because dating is so confusing 😹😹 thanks guys!!
To think ppl call me a fool for leaving a relationship where I was cheated... I mean he was not sorry when I was clueless, now that I know.. o sorry... aowa bagaetsho🙅🏽♀️ Someone cheating can never be a mistake🤞🏽they choose to do so. Girls wake up... vuuuuuuukaaaaa🤟🏽🤟🏽🤟🏽
O bona kgang ya comparison don’t do it you’ll scam yourself 🤞🏾 I have been with my partner for theeee longest time. When we started dating my friends would tell me ke isa kae nthobele pensele 🤣😂 le gone a nna ko Mahalapye kele le gabs 🤣🤣 I dated my nthobele pensele ba jola le bo guy ba di citi golf ba bechetswa left right and centre yes pelo ne e tswa. Theyd tell me leave him yall aren’t compatible gaana madi nywe nywe. Ask me now how many relationships have they been in since then and am i still with my nthobele pensele ❤️😂
my self i believe gore trust is like a mirror guys, u break it u cant fix it again 🤞period... re emetse part 2 of diz same topic batho bame... lovvvvv yahhhhh 😍💕😍💕😍
10:54 Sometimes tota we are just having X rated Fun, rona batho ba bangwe ga ra tshameka mantwaneng because of english medium so you know the vibes smash & dash till your 30s
@@achatwithgoitse yeah it sounds nice mara still.🧐. i'll accept the talking stage not dating.☺😂whats the point gape of dating go ntse go na le the talking stage?
I feel like you guys mentioned a lot of things that I did in my past relationship.. I lost myself in my relationship and I didn't know who I was becoming I allowed him to hurt me and I thought that was my idea of love... When he left my heart broke and I became so lost.... I am still healing but I am now afraid to love again.
When he said don't stick to one person o leng gore o go suputsa a be a go suputsa,a be a go suputsa, abe a go suputsa abe o tswa o thuntse😂😂😂😂I tlhokofaled🤞🤞🤞🤞😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I feel like dating is just getting to know each other ... like ATI said ga gona definition But with relationship you are all in bf and g I personally believe a formal relationship starts 1st with dating
Honestly dating multiple people is not ideal. It prevents you from "getting to know" someone as you will be comparing them with the other people you are dating. Just date one person if it does not work reflect on it and move on.
I'm that one girl who has been in a 5 and half year relationship. It ended. I got into the relationship/dating zone since form1😂LMAO. He was my first boyfriend, my first kiss and my best friend at the time. My virginity? 😌😂childddd it's with meeee 😂😂 I'm 20 😂
When Piet said, “long lasting relationships come with a lot of forgiveness, HA GO TEWE O CHEATIWA”
highlight that!!
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Luv that!!
I definitely think that learning to be selfish with yourself when dating in your 20s is important because you also know when to leave. There's no need to bekezela in your 20s!!
Another thing is, it's okay to start again, I'd rather be asking someone new what their favourite colour is- as exhausting as starting again is, I think it's better than settling and losing yourself in the process just because you're afraid of starting again.
And I agree with the comparison chat, it's kind of unfair to expect designer bags from someone you went into a relationship knowing what their financials looked like and expecting them to live up to standards you see on social media.
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!!!! I absolutely agree with you. It's hard to start over but it won't kill to try it
AND THATS ON FACTS! 🗣
@@BalepiMosweu hii balepi💜may I please ask where you bought your hoodie
Comparison is the thief of joy ma'gang
Thato Rampedi and Mo are my favs 😭❤
Nna ke ikopela another video on this topic! 😫🙏. Going in detail with the difference between dating and being in a relationship. Cause I’m soo confused
Bathong am I the only one who wants a whole series on this topic because wow!❤ argh mahn this has been sooo informative!!
You know what, THIS WHOLE VIDEO IS FACTS! period.
What life taught me is that no one cares what you do or what you think, problem is that we insinuate on what people think forgetting what we stand for.
And one other thing I've learnt is that expectations are the reason for heartbreaks, we expect a lot from people and that can kill the good in others.
First. 🌚❤️❤️❤️
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real ones ❤️😂
Bathong Balepi and Piet 😭😭😭 you mean I've been doing this whole dating thing wrongly 😭😭💔 but I'm glad you clarified a couple things for some of us because dating is so confusing 😹😹 thanks guys!!
Tota there's no right or wrong waitse 😂😂 re betsa trial and error in this life thing babes😂❤
we got you tsala ❤️😂
'people have made it OK to struggle in a relationship' I felt that
#NotificationGang 💃🏽
Congratulations on 5K 🥳🥳🥂
Thank you so much!
Loved it❤❤❤❤❤Balepi re kopa Smash or Pass on Botswana/S.A Celebs w/ yo girls Botho, Lissa,Thabile and Nancy🤭❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oooouu yessss
Energy... 😂😂1️⃣0️⃣0️⃣ Awesome vid guys!!!
It's the vibes and energy for me⚡⚡🤩❤️
To think ppl call me a fool for leaving a relationship where I was cheated...
I mean he was not sorry when I was clueless, now that I know.. o sorry... aowa bagaetsho🙅🏽♀️
Someone cheating can never be a mistake🤞🏽they choose to do so. Girls wake up... vuuuuuuukaaaaa🤟🏽🤟🏽🤟🏽
Mapele so vele dating le relationship ke dilo tse di different iyoo👀😂😂 re mo session ka yii 🤞🏿
waitse gore keng we need you two to have chats like this once in a while with us you know
the vibe and advice... go bata BALEPI AND PIET 101
Being selfish is actually ideal cause when you’re kind, you’re taken for trash and people think they can do as they want.
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I used to love Zibo sooo much and I still do, now you are my favorite TH-camr gosh😍😍😍😍😍Piet is a whole moood chille🔥‼️
Thank you❤
My people Bathong😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
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I really enjoyed this video!❤️ & Congratulations on 5k subscribers sis 🥂‼️Love from 🇿🇦
Piet and Balepi are a vibe yohhh😫❤️nyaa we need more of these videos with guests 😤❤️
Go hedile ka bonako yang, please make it a series 🤲🤲🤲🤲
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😃🤣🤣 GA GOTEWE O CHEATIWA!!! 😂😂😂 Haish! Came across the comment b4 watching this part, hilarious and very important 😂😂😂🤣
O bona kgang ya comparison don’t do it you’ll scam yourself 🤞🏾
I have been with my partner for theeee longest time. When we started dating my friends would tell me ke isa kae nthobele pensele 🤣😂 le gone a nna ko Mahalapye kele le gabs 🤣🤣
I dated my nthobele pensele ba jola le bo guy ba di citi golf ba bechetswa left right and centre yes pelo ne e tswa. Theyd tell me leave him yall aren’t compatible gaana madi nywe nywe.
Ask me now how many relationships have they been in since then and am i still with my nthobele pensele ❤️😂
I know das right🥺🥺
love it 😂🔥
wow❤️❤️
i really loved this guys❤️❤️❤️
keep it up babes
I been waiting for this video🤩❤
Interesting perspectives 😍😍 please invite him again next time 😂
Tell Her 😂🗣
The "come to my house". Broo!!!!!!
kana "go tla nna yang nne mma" urgh!
Yall’s are such a vibe,thanks for the reloeducation 😍❤️
my self i believe gore trust is like a mirror guys, u break it u cant fix it again 🤞period... re emetse part 2 of diz same topic batho bame... lovvvvv yahhhhh 😍💕😍💕😍
bathong wena, we need a name for us subbies 🥺💜
Tota mme thanks for talking about this! ♥️💫
Yesss⚡️ If you’re done, you’re done 👏🏿👏🏿
I’m late arghh😔💔but I’m most def loving the new TH-cam channel icon 🥺❤️you’re so beautiful ma’am 😤
Love the content Ma'am❤️
Y'all are a vibe💃💃❤️❤️
When he said etla mo Africa😂😂😂 I died🤣
This was soo nice man 🥺❤️❤️🤍
'' people have made it okay to struggle in a relationship''😢😢😢😢😢
piet is such a vibe 😭😭
This channel has grown, very proud of you!❤️keep it up ml
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Thank you for this video🤣🤣 love the 2 of you ❤️
10:54 Sometimes tota we are just having X rated Fun, rona batho ba bangwe ga ra tshameka mantwaneng because of english medium so you know the vibes smash & dash till your 30s
Everything that was said in this video is facts! I enjoyed it so much ❤️❤️
The whole time I was like “mhhhmm” “yup” 😂😂
Wankakeeetsa 🥺❤️ 5K babeee❤️
Yes mayum🥺
So there’s a difference between dating and being in a relationship? Well fuck shit! I didn’t know 🥴. Thanks. 💫
A lot need to listen to thse because most of the people in Bw really dont understand wat dating is especially in Gabs yoooo!!!!!!
Notification gang ❤️❤️❤️🤞🏽
❤❤❤Balepi is just a very unique person
Piet is also a vibe❤❤❤
From 12:20-12:50, y'all got me there. What you said is very insightful I must say.
I feel this needs a part 2 🤞🏻
The "o ncheka leng part"😂😂😂😂
Balepi's Skin😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤
Are "A Go Shapa Ka Di Nick Nacks" 😂😂😂
Thank you tlhe sweetie 🥺
🤧🤧🤧 go ne go batla mini series on this waitse ❤️
Go batla a Piet & Balepi section 😂🔥🔥
Dating le se mo relationshiping ahh...
Life is too short for dating.. A di thubeng hela dipelo bagaetsho 😅💯
🤣 ga o e itse heartbreak.... but I get u, nna a re e itse dating. Mme ke tlo e ithuta 🤞🏾. Sounds nice 😂🤣😅
@@achatwithgoitse yeah it sounds nice mara still.🧐. i'll accept the talking stage not dating.☺😂whats the point gape of dating go ntse go na le the talking stage?
Please bring Piet the Dj back🥺❤️
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Balepi tlhe mma make Piet a regular ❤️❤️
I agree❤❤❤❤❤❤
I feel like you guys mentioned a lot of things that I did in my past relationship.. I lost myself in my relationship and I didn't know who I was becoming I allowed him to hurt me and I thought that was my idea of love... When he left my heart broke and I became so lost.... I am still healing but I am now afraid to love again.
Never be afraid to love again. There's so much out there to receive, you just need to let go of the past and move forward for you
tommoro is another day open your eyes my dear
you can always start afresh . don’t let know one make you think twice about that. PROUD OF YOU!
Hee guys go na le long distance ha e leng teng. 😭
🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯 Balepi’s skin
Thank you miss ma'am 🤪
Bo ngwanaka 🥺😂❤️
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I should really get the Trouble hoodie. It looks good on you Balepi🥺❤.
You definitely should! Super comfy as well🥺
@@BalepiMosweu P350 akere?
When he said don't stick to one person o leng gore o go suputsa a be a go suputsa,a be a go suputsa, abe a go suputsa abe o tswa o thuntse😂😂😂😂I tlhokofaled🤞🤞🤞🤞😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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So guys! You can date someone and not be in a relationship with them.?
yes ma’am . 🤞🏾
Mona video ye e nkakantsha thata.
Bathong 😭😭😭😭😭😂
First one here 😀😀
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So ex go tewa mang? The person you dated! Or the person you been in a relationship with? Or go raya gotlhe hela?
Tota it depends on what you believe in babes
someone you were in a serious relationship with !
hey balepi im new to the channel and im🙌 enjoying my self here 👌😍🤣😃
Bo sbwl 😂😂😂 “re tswa metsimotlhabe” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Everything is well said ma'am ❤
Gang gang❤️
“Tla mo Africa..”😂😂😂😂😂
Here I’m at 00:27am😭😭😭❤️mme hela it’s definitely worth it☺️
"A go shapa ka Nik naks le oros"😭😭
Piet🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
my real one ❤️🤞🏾
Ae tlhe banna eseng metsimotlhabe😂😂😂
I feel like dating is just getting to know each other ... like ATI said ga gona definition
But with relationship you are all in bf and g
I personally believe a formal relationship starts 1st with dating
LOVED THIS...
16:45 The homie typa girl friend not "influencers" that think re to ba bolaisa soft life!
11:46 Toxic maybe the way your hands keep pointing to Trouble, I think its a sign
12:18 I could tell
This video just states facts🥰
Gtwe u have a friend keene Masego 🤣🤣🤣Bthong weeh yall l bua ka nna
Sorry babes 😂😂😂❤
Ah no Today ke commentile and the award goes to.....
A re he's leaving 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😭😭😭💀💀💀😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
Out the door ngwanaka 😭😭😭😭😭
Honestly dating multiple people is not ideal. It prevents you from "getting to know" someone as you will be comparing them with the other people you are dating. Just date one person if it does not work reflect on it and move on.
"Ba tlaa go rutha" 😂😂😂💀 that had me the whole video
Yoh guys so muchbtruth😳😳😳🙆♂️😭
2.0 hle😭😭
Learnt a lot from this video❤️
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Ohh Boy . so i have been going about this wrong all along😕🤦♀️
At 3:22 😭😭😭
33rd😐💕
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I'm that one girl who has been in a 5 and half year relationship. It ended. I got into the relationship/dating zone since form1😂LMAO. He was my first boyfriend, my first kiss and my best friend at the time.
My virginity? 😌😂childddd it's with meeee 😂😂 I'm 20 😂
I know that's right gworl🥺🥺 do it at your own time
Do Piet even have to introduce himself? 😂♥️
Superstar 😂😂😂
🥴🥴🌚🌚
Dating is the real PANDEMIC. 🥴
Such a mess. A fun mess. 😂
Literally 😂😂💕
surely 😂
09:50 - 10:50🔥😂😂😂💞