Martell can never take accountability, he rarely answers a question directly. But yet he tries constantly to demonize melody. He did her so wrong and is still trying to humiliate her.
Martel truly explained a narcissistic husband. He needs a lot of help cause it's pretty sad. Melody did the Best for herself and her children. Now narcissism makes complete sense to me.
No he didn't when I saw the part when he told Martell he loved coleslaw I knew he's heart is just ugly he has something against Mel. And Martell was loving every moment of it
@@praise874 thank you for catching on that....I haven't even watch this crazy but that short clip of him saying Martell love that girl. I lost all hope. It doesn't even surprise me when people don't catch on to shady hateful stuff like this...he is very mean
I swear he has antisocial personality disorder….cause Chile his behavior isn’t normal and the only thing he seems to care about besides himself is the kids
I agree. I don't know any of these people and have never watched the show lol but this was entertaining. Melody is a very strong and feminine woman for handling him so eloquently. Wow! Where's Part 2? Lol
Martel is a sociopath. It’s actually quite frightening. May God continue to give Melody strength she needs it...and I truly admire how she stands up to him. Notice how he retreats...every-time she brings facts?...and how he also is very careful in how he responds to Carlos?...Carlos showed him up. Trust me he was seething inside 😊
Like I get scared for her. She needs to move out of town and she needs a restraining order cause I just see him getting worse and worse and he doesn’t want her but is obsessed??
OMG!! I just commented this! I have one in my immediate family and he is the exact same. All sociopaths are narcissists but not the other way around. Its traumatizing to have this kind of mate & sibling.
What Martell doesn’t understand here is that people dislike him not for being himself but because he was an unfaithful husband being featured on a show that was supposed to be about strong marriages. The core audience demographic is southern and female and they hold marriage and the sanctity of commitment close their hearts. Mel is the fan favorite and not only was he unfaithful he had a side baby for the side chick. Martell is only upset because he’s a double negative; No one respects a fraudulent a ss sloppy cheater at the end of the day 😉
@@dougedoug2105 Interesting. Let's look at it this way. Wherever the show airs people are watching. So that is not necessarily correct. You just stated that females from the South place more value on a committed marriage than other states or countries and everyone else is exempt and don't have these values as well? Please think outside the box it's a Big World. Let's get down to the core of things being displayed. I'm not sure if this is reality or just a semi soap opera we all have our faults. It's the behavoir and pattern that is cringeworthy with Martel consistently. His lack of discernment, double-mindeness and "spirit of confusion" is the real issue at hand within his soul and it's not just a southern thing or a male/female thing it is inside your heart and therefore on your mind and then the actions of the things to come from that. In actuality, it is a good lesson for us to learn from this and recognize the trait's and when someone is screaming for help because they have lost their way. When will look-up, the words, discernment, double-mind and spirit of confusion we gain a better understanding of these things and what comes from it. No disrespect to you in anyway. I believe in Each One..Teach One and try at best to Grow from the Love inside our own hearts.🙏🏽KEEP THE FAITH🙏🏽
Martell leaves his home during the pandemic, with the possibility of infecting his family. Baby, that level of selfishness is unmatched. Give ‘em hell Carlos!
Martel is a master narcissist. One of his tactics is to always get people to defend themselves and to have to set the records straight. That enables the conversation to never focus on what he has done. When he spews lies or tries to misrepresent the truth it is him trying force a person to defend themselves. Then he steadily stays attacking with the accusations. In the end you end of defending yourself the whole time and he sits there smirking and attacking.This is a TV show, but in real life you should just walk away and not defend yourself and let the say and believe whatever they want because getting to the "truth" is not their goal anyway. They just want to stay attacking. You notice how soon as Melody clears up one truth, he quickly pivots to another story, to make sure it never returns to him defending himself.
that is SUPER insightful, sis. & 100000% accurate. esp since narcs tend to try align themselves with upstanding, successful people to whom their reputation & integrity are important so that tactic can EASILY work if you are not aware of they are doing: DEFLECTING & LYING. & they NORMALLY call YOU what THEY ARE & accuse YOU of what THEY did.
In that playback, Martell mentioned that he only wanted to be back with Melody for the kids. Why do people do that?! Your children are not interested in being around miserable parents!! STAHP!
If Martell was worried about his kids like that he wouldn’t of messed up their family unit . Kids love their father but it’s something about momma that’s unmatched…they would’ve ended up resenting him had they stayed together for all the hurt he put her through. I’m glad she’s over him
It’s for selfish reasons. They want to be around their children everyday. You can’t be around your kids everyday if you’re in separate homes. They aren’t thinking about the kids at all.
He wants her back to control her. He doesn’t want her to be happy. And he wants to make it seem like he’s a good person and father to his kids….he doesn’t really care about them just his image.
Carlos: Where were you going? Martel: To the gym. Carlos: The gyms were closed. Martel: My gym wasn't. Carlos: Martel, were other things open that you were going to see? Me: LEGS!!! 😂😂😂
I wish all the healing and happiness for Mel....that KARMA hitting Martel in all sorts of ways. Her happiness is going to be his insanity until he addresses his issues. Keep shining Melody💯
Not true....this happens all the time and almost always come out on top in the long run. It takes a lot longer for men, but intelligent men do even better because it's sink or swim for men. Women are catered to in these situations, which doesn't help women improve themselves.
The proof is in the pudding... Mel is already coming out on top; Martell doesn’t know which way is up; he has deep rooted issues; even Mel said to him in an earlier episode that something is really wrong with him... she nevertheless loved him until she couldn’t do it any longer.
@@latashahuts7241 Have you ever heard of reactive abuse? It occurs when a victim has been abused for so long and they have a reaction to the abuse and their abuser. When this occurs the abuser will turn the tables and SWITCH the blame to the victim for what the abuser has actually done!! Narcissists are MASTER MANIPULATORS and architects of deception!! Narcissists will have the victim thinking that they are the cause of everything while the narcissists actually set out to orchestrate the chaos in the relationship and it’s ALL BECAUSE they get off on it!!! Martel is a NARCISSIST! If Melody cheated she very well felt she was entitled to do so after all of the emotional and psychological abuse she put up with. It’s SUPER SAD to see her react to him because all he does is look for ways to trigger Melody and publicly shame and demoralize Melody. This kind of emotional pain hits you before you even known what has happened to you. Martel “dresses” himself in suits but his actions show that he is truly CLOTHED IN EVIL!!! Melody didn’t make all those babies to set out and destroy her marriage!!! But the truth when a victim is repeatedly exposed to horrid abuse they are bound to have some of that ugly behavior affect their own behavior. Melody is a VICTIM!!!! Any “wrongdoing on her part was out of reaction to the circumstances she was facing.
Martel will blame Mel, the show, the priest who didn't pray hard enough, probably God not answering the prayers (as though the commandment on adultery was not his to obey if he had the will to), the side chick he couldn't keep away from etc. Everyone else is to blame but Martell. He can never take responsibility for his actions and the consequences they came with.
The way Martell tried to humiliate Melody was trifling as all get out!! Whatever she did/ did not do in their bedroom or with any other man was not for him to display. Their children suffer as well as Mel. The bad memories of how he hurt her, they will remember. It’s amazing to see how bitter and miserable he REALLY is but tries to deflect, all of the time!
Yes Martell, sank so low putting it out there!! disgraceful..You look like the fool Martell not Melody..That's the mother of your 4 children ..Fool that he us ..BTW Martell get a bigger suit man and stop pulling it down
And then to fast forward to today and learn that it was a scandal that Martell and his baby mama were planning to take Mel down with that video on a website...and the man in the video is MARTELL.smh
Arionne literally hates Mel as if Mel is the one that screwed her husband for five years and had a baby by him. Martell has been feeding her lies and she chose to believe them. Arionne is mad at not only Mel but Own TV because they won’t allow her to film. She says that they’re creating this false narrative about her. She’s not even spoken about in the show and there is no false narrative. The truth is in the baby that she had with Martell.. Martell and Arionne are a piece of work. Mel has been flourishing ever since she left Martell and neither Martell or Arionne can stand it. Martell wants to drag Mel in the mud where he is.
This chick clearly knew this man was married and had a whole family..she wasn’t acknowledged then and is not going get acknowledged now..she got what she wants and that is the baby and the loser Martel..He still wants Mel..and she ain’t going! I’m so happy for her..
Yes. Martell knows Arionne will watch this. He tries to choose his words carefully but can’t keep up with his lies. Arionne, how does one go from being a peasant to a whole restaurant? Martell will say anything to win battles. Melody won the war!
@@maidenname.bdayandmooney467 Exactly. The Player who just got Played and had no clue to the Rules of the Game? It reminds me of an old skool song by the Marvelettes. I miss those old school songs because there was a clear message in the story being told. It kept a lot of people on solid ground and happy and your parents, the church and village were on top of it. Thank heaven for great writers. Telling the story of the struggle to get us where we are. The message was strong and the presence of black unity was in full force and effect we were so united all across the 50 states. Sorry, I digress a little but the story of a family being torn a part was mostly unheard of until around the 70's. It was devasting and removed many of father's from the community some were replaced but many were not. It pains me to see separation based on a choice someone else made. " THE HUNTER GET'S CAPTURED BY" GAME
Baybyyyyyyyyy!! This host is EVERYTHAAAANG!! If “ let me fill in the Gaps for you” was a person!!!!! You know it’s a good reunion when you don’t even Watch this show but enjoyed the reunion and caught up😂
@@nicolem2877 I’ve noticed that as well.. Which is ok, because we all articulate differently. The way he speaks and behaves…especially when he gets upset, is of a child- like manner. Mel was definitely the brains and the voice. He should have had more respect for what aspects she brought to the relationship.
Martell is doing and saying anything derogatory to harm Melody because she DIVORCED him, and won't take him back. Melody is the brains in this family. In reference to the young lady who had the affair and baby with Martell, she's not made at Melody, shes mad because Martell has dropped her. SHE CAN'T HOLD A CANDLE TO MELODY.
Martell can’t admit he messed up. Good for Mel for moving on. It’s not easy but it’s the healthiest for her and most importantly for her babies. Martell is not deserving of Mel.period
He cheated had another baby with this woman and he could not let this woman go. Melody was long suffering with Martell, she needs to find a man that really loves her. It was not Martell.
@Frida Flower At this point in time Mel is falling in Love with Mel and her children. Mel will stick with the Vision she has with full force and accomplish her intended goals. I think she will have a lifetime of suitors, but no marriage for Mel until she completes her mission of accomplishment. Marriage is the last thing on her mind for her she will be busy working with very little time to nurture a relationship anytime soon and discover that she is better off on her own. There is nothing wrong with being single her children will fill the void and a honorable suitor will be the icing on the cake. It really is a good life and it is the "Quiet Storm." Please believe that. Keep the Faith and carry on with a kind and loving heart.⚘⚘⚘🙏🏽
Martell needs professional help. It's disappointing to watch him speak. He keeps telling everyone to "Stop" when he doesn't want to hear what they have to say. Grow up!
No he doesnt, he needs to be left to dry. Professional help won’t work bc all he’ll do is spend most of the time trying to victimize himself and pretend he gets it for kudo points.
Martell ruined his family to satisfy his self and will be explaining his self to kids for life because they are clearly hurt and as different stages come in life they are going to feel something 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Martell needs to admit he is a cheater. Melody is trying to move on and he keeps trying to put her down. He is surprise Melody had the strength to leave him just giving birth to their baby. Martell should try to make it with his new baby mother. He cheated on Mel with her so he should be satisfied with his choice.
Yoooo this show is soooo underrated. I am in tears at all their personalities on display. Marsau is def a favorite. The looks and the eye rolls and the quick comeback in the matter of fact tone. People don't like him but he be speaking straight facts and is a poster child for unbothered. Melody voiceeee when she ask Kimmie "Did Martell just accuse his friend of calling his ex wife?" Pahahahahhahahahaha. I am sooo proud of Mel. She is sooo adorable. Martell dumb tail a FOOLLLL or should I call him Nabal, LOLOL Be goneeee! Omshineeeee Kimmie sweating praying they don't say anything crazy. Tisha looking just as nervous and dense, LOLOL. MarteLLLL what can I say about him except he has put what a narcissist says and looks like on prime time for the world to see. Mel's shade be sooo hilarious and I am amazed at how she handles herself with respect while giving shade to show how delusional and narcissistic this man is. She is bout her own business and his lil tight suit, arrogant, delusional tail has no clue. I can't stand him. HE IS A LIARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR to HIS CORE, ahhahahahahahahhahaaa. Overall, they minus Martel are funny, likeable people and I wish them all EXCEPT THE FOOL the best.
I think Tisha’s dress would’ve been ok if the hair hump wasn’t there- she should’ve let the dress be the “pop” and not the hump lol A long ponytail with her hair pulled back or swooped with a side part would’ve suited that over the top dress. Idk as a hair stylist & Mua I wish I could have helped lol
@@donnayoungt3826 she's definitely innocent. He cheated for 5 years and had a baby. She separated from him and got head. Well even if they separated and she slept with someone else. That'll never match what he did. She separated never went back and divorced him. So, yeah
Tracie Mathews just asking if you missed the part where she moved out separated and then got back together I am not sure if the meaning of marriage rings in peoples head but separated or not if you are not divorced you are still married I am not excusing what he did but she also allowed it , I am not a woman scorned so I could care one way or the other but lol just saying damm she met a man quick let him eat out the box but could not remember if she licked the lollipop lmaoooooo just pausing let me catch my breath
@@donnayoungt3826 she never said she wasn't married. I most definitely understand separated divorced and married. My point is she filed left and was with the intent on moving on. She found out she was pregnant and moved back. Yeah okay and.... now they're divorced and he's still mad. Plus, he's trying to make what she did on the same level as him. It's not.
Baby Kimmi YESSS!!! Tisha walked out like “I’m HERE” stunning! 😍 Her level up and growth this season has been amazing to watch. I’m so proud of her. Ofcourse Martell wish he wasn’t on tv because he didn’t want to be exposed. What was in the dark lit up like a Christmas tree for the world to see. But you did it to yourself boy. He blames Melody for everything even his immaturity in cheating. He didn’t want Mel to read the comments because his mistress was in the comments. Martel doesn’t realize his children will see how he treated their mother. He wanted her to talk to the women like his grandma who let his grandpa cheat in peace while she suffered in silence. He’s an entire circus all by himself.
@@tamekabarbour2157 one thing that I can’t stand is a pressed hater. If they can’t see the success in others we already know they can’t see it in themselves.
This guy in a blue , Melody ex-husband is sick in a head..🤦♀️ I pray for her because she got a lot on her plate.. I love how Kimmy articulates. I've always been supportive of Melody. Overall I loved the reunion.
Melody handled herself with grace I felt her pain when she said she hate being in Huntsville she feels humiliated in her own city i under when she said she just want to leave being in that place is a reminder of all the hurt and pain leaving wound give her a chance to start over and put that place and mess in her rear view
It was so messed up that Mel had to sit there and recount any type of intimacy she's had with other men AFTER her and Martell had already separated. Like she's the one who can't be trusted, when Martel has cheated through the entire marriage AND had a baby on her. Like wtf?? The nerve.
@@BeautyLoves88now look where we are,that whole tape he said he had of her. He tried to set her up,so freaking sad. He's so pathetic and so is his bird brain. She actually watched a video of him and Mel,showed other people and talked about it.
Martell is if misery loves company was a person. He is such a lowlife. The host kept it real and Martell couldn't handle it. This is how a man check another man when he is clearly in the wrong.
@@SagPurpleMoon He’s going as low as possible to get a reaction out of Mel & the sad part is he can’t see that’s it’s driving a bigger wedge between them.
Martell was reaching by trying to do all he can to make Melody look bad. So, he has a recording on her for one occasion? 🤔 he should have been keeping receipts on his own 5 year infidelity smh
I remember hearing about this show before the promo trailer came out and Martell’s infidelity was already in circulation from Huntsville to Atlanta and the small surrounding cities/metro areas
@@matildab98 no. Because Mel left him. But apparently they had already signed the contract for the show and Mel no longer wanted to do it but Carlos talked her into continuing to film the show. I think she would have left. She never wanted the public embarrassment.
Carlos is an amazing host! Bet these people thought he wasn't gonna be hard on them cause he was their friend. LOL Can't wait for part 3 of the reunion! You go, Carlos!
I keep pinching myself and asking if the Martel-Melody story line is real. I mean, is this guy serious? It sounds like he isn't even committed to his Whole Restaurant - too worried about what Melody is doing.
Yup, my ex fiance is just like him. The side baby included. Narcissist will do a number on you. At least his antics are documented on TV giving her validation that she's not the crazy one. They never admit to anything and constantly deflect. I feel for her bc she has to see him to continue on the show.
Isn’t it interesting how quickly Marsau could find some get right , and some much needed respect for his wife on t.v. Especially after she informed him on national t.v that if she ever found out that the rumors were true she would get him for every dime he had… Just saying 😎For where your treasure is , there will your heart be also. (Matt.6:21)
First off they all looked nice. Kimmi is by far the realest and my favorite. I felt bad for Melody when they were talking about the side chick because he clearly loved this girl and that would be hurtful to hear your ex speak about his side chick. I’m just happy it’s over for her. Go be with her. Melody is just fine.
That's why I stand firm on "Never trying to work something out with anyone once they cheated". You teaching them it's okay to cheat on you and all will be forgiving. Nope!
Melody was the brain in that marriage. That is very clear.
Exactly...May as well earn money for your own work coz...it gets jacked and posted on here anyway!
SO CLEAR!! Martell is so dumb it's sad!!
Now he has to rely on coleslaw to get him on track. That's never gonna happen Martell!
Yes i love the way Melody is carrying herself
Remember when he told her he gave her an amzing life? I had no idea it was really the other way around. SMH
I love how Martell believes that the show ruined his marriage instead of his years of cheating lol
Thank you, he cheating before the show
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I thk if it wasn't for the show melody would have forgiven him
@@hawihawi9260 she did forgive him. Then came Malani. Then she found out he was still cheating.
Him and Kurk from love and hip hop. They both be acting like the side chick and side babies wasn't the problem.
OWN was SO SMART to post this reunion on here. Andy, take notes!
It leaves the people who don’t watch wondering about the show and ready for the next season. Very smart move!
Plus they might as well get the views...everyone is looking for it online!
In
Yes
Own doesn't post the shows tho. Thank you all who do kudos.
Carlos is hosting the hell out of this reunion show y'all! This is what we need in a reunion.
P PPP
He need to host housewives
Martell can never take accountability, he rarely answers a question directly. But yet he tries constantly to demonize melody. He did her so wrong and is still trying to humiliate her.
Narcissistic people rarely do.
My thoughts exactly
Can’t expect anything different. It’s just upsetting how a grown man blames everyone for his mistakes but himself. Tough🤦🏽♀️
Martel truly explained a narcissistic husband. He needs a lot of help cause it's pretty sad. Melody did the Best for herself and her children. Now narcissism makes complete sense to me.
@@citygirlingraham that abandonment trauma is real
Martell is soooooo unlike-able…the fact that Melanie doesn’t have an assault charge dealing with that fool is commendable!!!!
I agree 100%. He is disgusting.
Jay you ain’t lying. I would still be locked up, lol.
PREACH!!!!!!
😅😅😅
Jay B yu mean murder charge right?Lol
Carlos killed this hosting. He should forever be the host!!
Carlos ain’t come to play no games honey. I loved it!
He is way too much too busy trying to be a messy queen he didn't get questions asked. He left the Scott's hanging on the floor
Nope. He was cruel and insensitive
No he didn't when I saw the part when he told Martell he loved coleslaw I knew he's heart is just ugly he has something against Mel. And Martell was loving every moment of it
@@praise874 thank you for catching on that....I haven't even watch this crazy but that short clip of him saying Martell love that girl. I lost all hope. It doesn't even surprise me when people don't catch on to shady hateful stuff like this...he is very mean
Yall pray for Martell. He doesn't think that he's done anything wrong. THE MAN NEEDS HELP!!
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I swear he has antisocial personality disorder….cause Chile his behavior isn’t normal and the only thing he seems to care about besides himself is the kids
@@ruquiamulamba6169 kids should think about the kids
You can't help narcissists at all.
Yes he does smh
If “I didn’t know what I had until I lost it,” was a person- it would be Martell. Smh!
LMAO!!!!! This is so true, he thought Mel would NEVERRRRRR leave him.
He is beside him self 😂
He gone hurt forever
Facts!
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I luv how melody handles herself. He is trying his best to make her look so bad but it’s not working. 😂😂
Yes honey yes
I agree. I don't know any of these people and have never watched the show lol but this was entertaining. Melody is a very strong and feminine woman for handling him so eloquently. Wow! Where's Part 2? Lol
Smh im telling you
just like my husband that's what narcissist does best
But a wrong is a wrong he may be a serial cheater but she cheated as well.
“I’m not a cheater at heart”.
I’m too dead!!!🤣😂🤣😂
I had to rewind it. Because I thought my ears were deceiving me.
@@mspayne32 chiiilllee!!! Same!!!
I ask myself what is cheater. Lord that Martell needs a lot of help. Not counseling from God
@@natouly22 he needs Jesus! Lol
The fact that boys in my generation will act the same way is 😱
Martel is a sociopath. It’s actually quite frightening. May God continue to give Melody strength she needs it...and I truly admire how she stands up to him. Notice how he retreats...every-time she brings facts?...and how he also is very careful in how he responds to Carlos?...Carlos showed him up. Trust me he was seething inside 😊
Like I get scared for her. She needs to move out of town and she needs a restraining order cause I just see him getting worse and worse and he doesn’t want her but is obsessed??
OMG!! I just commented this! I have one in my immediate family and he is the exact same. All sociopaths are narcissists but not the other way around. Its traumatizing to have this kind of mate & sibling.
You're so right. There is one point when you can hear Martell draw in air quick. I can tell he was trying to hold his tongue. He knew better.
Yep!!
“Martell said it, that’s how you know it’s not true” 😩🤣😩 that burnt Martell’s soul. Good job Marsau 👏
What Martell doesn’t understand here is that people dislike him not for being himself but because he was an unfaithful husband being featured on a show that was supposed to be about strong marriages. The core audience demographic is southern and female and they hold marriage and the sanctity of commitment close their hearts. Mel is the fan favorite and not only was he unfaithful he had a side baby for the side chick. Martell is only upset because he’s a double negative; No one respects a fraudulent a ss sloppy cheater at the end of the day 😉
Marsau most likely said that Kimmie was a sidechick.
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@@dougedoug2105 Interesting. Let's look at it this way. Wherever the show airs people are watching. So that is not necessarily correct.
You just stated that females from the South place more value on a committed marriage than other states or countries and everyone else is exempt and don't have these values as well? Please think outside the box it's a Big World. Let's get down to the core of things being displayed. I'm not sure if this is reality or just a semi soap opera we all have our faults. It's the behavoir and pattern that is cringeworthy with Martel consistently. His lack of discernment, double-mindeness and "spirit of confusion" is the real issue at hand within his soul and it's not just a southern thing or a male/female thing it is inside your heart and therefore on your mind and then the actions of the things to come from that. In actuality, it is a good lesson
for us to learn from this and recognize the trait's and when someone is screaming for help because they have lost their way. When will look-up, the words, discernment, double-mind and spirit of confusion we gain a better understanding of these things and what comes from it. No disrespect to you in anyway. I believe in Each One..Teach One and try at best to Grow from the Love inside our own hearts.🙏🏽KEEP THE FAITH🙏🏽
A broken marriage is painful but I'm happy for Melody. A cheating and non remorseful partner is scary.
A cheating man is called a cheater
I really hope she gets the “Ciara blessing”. She deserves it! 😂
Whether a cheater is remorseful or not is still scary. The fact someone would hurt the person they were supposedly love and cherish is scary.
RIGHT
MARTEL doesn't take responsibility. Accountability for his actions. But is the main one that wants everyone to be honest.
Right
I agree I was just about to say that
Make it make sense Martel!
That's what Narcissist do🤷🏽♀️
His mother enables him and upholds him no matter what.
Martell acts like a teenager 🤦🏿♀️ it’s actually cringe-worthy watching a man his age behave like that. He should be embarrassed.
Who does not have any self control
Melody entered the space so gracefully 💜
Considering the rude introduction by the host.
@@AlmetyaCOliver exactly! she need to actually get him together for some of the mess he was doing
Martell is a piece of work. I am so glad Melody is not with him anymore. He never wants to admit to his faults but wants to accuse her of so much.
We are just on TH-cam commenting about how annoying he comes off. Just imagine what Melody went through..
@@jamesgibson3716 whew chile I'm glad she's moved on
Yes, a full and part time job.
Right
Martell is the most disrespectful and delusional person I've seen in reality t.v.
Him and my husband is neck and neck
@@stillnessinme9195 ha ha ha.. 😂
@@stillnessinme9195 🤣🤣🤣 Hey at least you are honest. Some women would blame themselves.
Same!!!! Never seen someone like him! It’s irritating!!!
He beats Stevie J easily.
Melody you are the real MVP!!!!! Beautiful, smart, good mother and does not let a man get her out of character! you go girl!
she got out of character a few times on the show but she is over it been there done that. that's why it don't effect her
The reactions for him being the host is everything
Tells you everything! The ppl with nothing to hide are happy for him. The others... disappointed & stressed. Lol
@@amyj4438 LMAO Martell looked stressed lol
Martell leaves his home during the pandemic, with the possibility of infecting his family. Baby, that level of selfishness is unmatched. Give ‘em hell Carlos!
Let’s do the math “ when is your sons birthday” kills me everytime 😆
Martel is a master narcissist. One of his tactics is to always get people to defend themselves and to have to set the records straight. That enables the conversation to never focus on what he has done. When he spews lies or tries to misrepresent the truth it is him trying force a person to defend themselves. Then he steadily stays attacking with the accusations. In the end you end of defending yourself the whole time and he sits there smirking and attacking.This is a TV show, but in real life you should just walk away and not defend yourself and let the say and believe whatever they want because getting to the "truth" is not their goal anyway. They just want to stay attacking. You notice how soon as Melody clears up one truth, he quickly pivots to another story, to make sure it never returns to him defending himself.
Wow thank you for putting that into prospective and I see that so clearly now
Yes. A true narcissist.
that is SUPER insightful, sis. & 100000% accurate. esp since narcs tend to try align themselves with upstanding, successful people to whom their reputation & integrity are important so that tactic can EASILY work if you are not aware of they are doing: DEFLECTING & LYING. & they NORMALLY call YOU what THEY ARE & accuse YOU of what THEY did.
Andy Cohen needs to take notes. THIS is how to host a reunion! 👏👏👏
Agreed
That what I said! Carlos wasn't playing with them
Agreed...Black Excellence at it's Finest! Sending ❤ from Canada 🇨🇦
It’s the host here, in the past the reunions for this have not been good.
Andy actually he asked Erica hard questions. LOL
Babyyyy Melody is giving me bawdy.... She got that grown woman spread going on and I'm here for it...we see you trying not to stare Martel
😂😂😂
I’m so proud of Mel🙏🏿you can tell she’s over him
In that playback, Martell mentioned that he only wanted to be back with Melody for the kids. Why do people do that?! Your children are not interested in being around miserable parents!! STAHP!
If Martell was worried about his kids like that he wouldn’t of messed up their family unit . Kids love their father but it’s something about momma that’s unmatched…they would’ve ended up resenting him had they stayed together for all the hurt he put her through. I’m glad she’s over him
It’s for selfish reasons. They want to be around their children everyday. You can’t be around your kids everyday if you’re in separate homes. They aren’t thinking about the kids at all.
He wants her back to control her. He doesn’t want her to be happy. And he wants to make it seem like he’s a good person and father to his kids….he doesn’t really care about them just his image.
He had his kids every other week and the part that's missing is Melody. He just can't bring himself to say it.
What’s STAHP
😅😅😅 when carlos said lietisha & but head trends every week Melody said " because of the Hotls" 😅😂 I love it ❤
Carlos: Where were you going?
Martel: To the gym.
Carlos: The gyms were closed.
Martel: My gym wasn't.
Carlos: Martel, were other things open that you were going to see?
Me: LEGS!!! 😂😂😂
Lmfao great depiction 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Haaaa😂😂👊🏿You better know it!!
Haha
A narcissist
Latisha that wig and dress is a no for me sis😂🤣😂
For all of Us.
Is the wig receding?
Just a hot mess
@@alabamabornball9957 chiiiiillle it’s doing the moon walk😂🤣😂
Just horrible
@@vikingrolloishot1789
😂😂😂😂
I wish all the healing and happiness for Mel....that KARMA hitting Martel in all sorts of ways. Her happiness is going to be his insanity until he addresses his issues. Keep shining Melody💯
Not true....this happens all the time and almost always come out on top in the long run. It takes a lot longer for men, but intelligent men do even better because it's sink or swim for men. Women are catered to in these situations, which doesn't help women improve themselves.
Wowwww! So true and beautifully said
The proof is in the pudding... Mel is already coming out on top; Martell doesn’t know which way is up; he has deep rooted issues; even Mel said to him in an earlier episode that something is really wrong with him... she nevertheless loved him until she couldn’t do it any longer.
This
Preach
Whew Martell is such a dog🥴 I’m glad Melody had the strength to leave because she dodged the bullet of spending a lifetime with a narcissist.
A big one!
AMEN!!!
Melody is big cheater too!! She is so fake. She wants to blame everything on Martell. I don’t believe her at all.
@@latashahuts7241 Have you ever heard of reactive abuse? It occurs when a victim has been abused for so long and they have a reaction to the abuse and their abuser. When this occurs the abuser will turn the tables and SWITCH the blame to the victim for what the abuser has actually done!! Narcissists are MASTER MANIPULATORS and architects of deception!! Narcissists will have the victim thinking that they are the cause of everything while the narcissists actually set out to orchestrate the chaos in the relationship and it’s ALL BECAUSE they get off on it!!! Martel is a NARCISSIST! If Melody cheated she very well felt she was entitled to do so after all of the emotional and psychological abuse she put up with. It’s SUPER SAD to see her react to him because all he does is look for ways to trigger Melody and publicly shame and demoralize Melody. This kind of emotional pain hits you before you even known what has happened to you. Martel “dresses” himself in suits but his actions show that he is truly CLOTHED IN EVIL!!! Melody didn’t make all those babies to set out and destroy her marriage!!! But the truth when a victim is repeatedly exposed to horrid abuse they are bound to have some of that ugly behavior affect their own behavior. Melody is a VICTIM!!!! Any “wrongdoing on her part was out of reaction to the circumstances she was facing.
@@Mylife-g2z1g On point!
Martel will blame Mel, the show, the priest who didn't pray hard enough, probably God not answering the prayers (as though the commandment on adultery was not his to obey if he had the will to), the side chick he couldn't keep away from etc. Everyone else is to blame but Martell. He can never take responsibility for his actions and the consequences they came with.
His barber, the UPS driver, the cashier at Publix, etc, it’ll never be his fault🤦🏾♀️
You’re right. But watch God work. Martell is at the beginning of his fall. He’s going to get broken down until he knows.
@@busridingchick1063 the Walmart cashier, the janitor , the crossing guard.
That dude in the blue suit is a piece of work...
Right!!!! Don't forget shady hateful and annoying
"Somebody performed it on me and I told you about it"!!!! Love it
Lol 😂 but her acting like she can’t remember if she did umm she did but that’s her business
@@aleshiaball7355but she said let her hear the recording and NOBODY SAID ANYTHING
Kimmi is the sister and friend we all needs in our lives ✅❗️❗️
So True...I love Kimmie!
At times. I used to love her but I see she's nice nasty. She has funny ways too.
AMEN.. Keep it real Kimmie! Even if she in her feelings her honest and str8 forward. She plays it str8!
@@ET-hc4wl sHE IS JUST A HONEST PERSON AND SAYSWHAT SHE MEANS, SHE ISNOT LIKE MAMA DEFENDED TISHA.
Hell yes 💯
The way Martell tried to humiliate Melody was trifling as all get out!! Whatever she did/ did not do in their bedroom or with any other man was not for him to display. Their children suffer as well as Mel. The bad memories of how he hurt her, they will remember. It’s amazing to see how bitter and miserable he REALLY is but tries to deflect, all of the time!
Exactly! why humiliate your kids mom on national tv and honestly embarrassing yourself as a man as well.
Yes Martell, sank so low putting it out there!! disgraceful..You look like the fool Martell not Melody..That's the mother of your 4 children ..Fool that he us ..BTW Martell get a bigger suit man and stop pulling it down
The show displays his infidelity (which she comments on weekly) why not display hers?
And then to fast forward to today and learn that it was a scandal that Martell and his baby mama were planning to take Mel down with that video on a website...and the man in the video is MARTELL.smh
@@popwisdombrandivaRight!!!!
Whoever did Tisha’s hair must really hate her lmaoooo 🤦🏾♀️😂
I said the same thing. lol
I bet she paid alot for it too 😔
Indeed
Wanda's beautician did it 😆
😂😂😂😅
Arionne literally hates Mel as if Mel is the one that screwed her husband for five years and had a baby by him. Martell has been feeding her lies and she chose to believe them. Arionne is mad at not only Mel but Own TV because they won’t allow her to film. She says that they’re creating this false narrative about her. She’s not even spoken about in the show and there is no false narrative. The truth is in the baby that she had with Martell.. Martell and Arionne are a piece of work. Mel has been flourishing ever since she left Martell and neither Martell or Arionne can stand it. Martell wants to drag Mel in the mud where he is.
Allllll of this. Yes ma'am!
This chick clearly knew this man was married and had a whole family..she wasn’t acknowledged then and is not going get acknowledged now..she got what she wants and that is the baby and the loser Martel..He still wants Mel..and she ain’t going! I’m so happy for her..
Yes. Martell knows Arionne will watch this. He tries to choose his words carefully but can’t keep up with his lies.
Arionne, how does one go from being a peasant to a whole restaurant?
Martell will say anything to win battles.
Melody won the war!
@a.b they were messing around for 7 years
It's the head tilt from Mel when Carlos asked Martel... "do you think you will still be married if it wasn't for the show." LOL!!!
No cause he's a player
@@maidenname.bdayandmooney467
Exactly. The Player who just got Played and had no clue to the Rules of the Game? It reminds me of an old skool song by the Marvelettes. I miss those old school songs because there was a clear message in the story being told. It kept a lot of people on solid ground and happy and your parents, the church and village were on top of it. Thank heaven for great writers. Telling the story of the struggle to get us where we are. The message was strong and the presence of black unity was in full force and effect we were so united all across the 50 states. Sorry, I digress a little but the story of a family being torn a part was mostly unheard of until around the 70's. It was devasting and removed many of father's from the community some were replaced but many were not. It pains me to see separation based on a choice someone else made.
" THE HUNTER GET'S CAPTURED BY"
GAME
Let's Go Mel!!! Love how she stayed a Lady and Truthful👏👏👏
He just can't take what he dishes out!!! I'm so glad she's done!
Baybyyyyyyyyy!! This host is EVERYTHAAAANG!! If “ let me fill in the Gaps for you” was a person!!!!! You know it’s a good reunion when you don’t even Watch this show but enjoyed the reunion and caught up😂
this the comment because BABYYYYY this was juicy and this is my first time watching this show
Martell can’t even formulate a complete sentence!! That’s how you know he be lying!! SMH!!
No he just inarticulate.
@@nicolem2877 true but it can be both. He can form a sentence when he's throwing shots
@@nicolem2877 I’ve noticed that as well.. Which is ok, because we all articulate differently. The way he speaks and behaves…especially when he gets upset, is of a child- like manner. Mel was definitely the brains and the voice. He should have had more respect for what aspects she brought to the relationship.
Melanie said, “I’m not in competition with anybody!” I felt that. Stay classy Mel 💄 💅🏽 👸🏼
I don’t blame melody for doing anything
Martell is doing and saying anything derogatory to harm Melody because she DIVORCED him, and won't take him back. Melody is the brains in this family. In reference to the young lady who had the affair and baby with Martell, she's not made at Melody, shes mad because Martell has dropped her. SHE CAN'T HOLD A CANDLE TO MELODY.
@@dalewhite6789 I wholeheartedly agree. Mel is the prize.
Martel, Melody does NOT want you anymore. Leave that beautiful woman alone!!!!
Martell can’t admit he messed up. Good for Mel for moving on. It’s not easy but it’s the healthiest for her and most importantly for her babies. Martell is not deserving of Mel.period
He cheated had another baby with this woman and he could not let this woman go. Melody was long suffering with Martell, she needs to find a man that really loves her. It was not Martell.
Once she does he will go crazyyyy 😂
@Frida Flower At this point in time Mel is falling in Love with Mel and her children. Mel will stick with the Vision she has with full force and accomplish her intended goals. I think she will have a lifetime of suitors, but no marriage for Mel until she completes her mission of accomplishment.
Marriage is the last thing on her mind for her she will be busy working with very little time to nurture a relationship anytime soon and discover that she is better off on her own. There is nothing wrong with being single her children will fill the void and a honorable suitor will be the icing on the cake. It really is a good life and it is the "Quiet Storm."
Please believe that. Keep the Faith and carry on with a kind and loving heart.⚘⚘⚘🙏🏽
Martell needs professional help. It's disappointing to watch him speak. He keeps telling everyone to "Stop" when he doesn't want to hear what they have to say. Grow up!
Narcissistic behavior 😩 no one will win with him
Real quick!
No he doesnt, he needs to be left to dry. Professional help won’t work bc all he’ll do is spend most of the time trying to victimize himself and pretend he gets it for kudo points.
@@thtpeacechic Mhhh, exactly!!👏🏾👏🏾
Talk about his wife she was cheating to ... Don't matter who started!!!!
They ALL looked amazing! That teal suit the host had on was EVERYTHING!
Martell ruined his family to satisfy his self and will be explaining his self to kids for life because they are clearly hurt and as different stages come in life they are going to feel something 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
He won't take accountability
He will guilt trip them. Narcissistic people are narcissistic parents
@@margarettasheart6967 whew chile.. 🎯
The most hurt Martell will feel is when those babies get older no worries Mel protect those babies because this man is sick in the head.
The children are going to feel about Martell the same way Martell feels about his father.
He said that he thought that him and Melody was going to be together forever. Proof that he had no plans on leaving her for Arionne.
Great Point!!!!
Oh No Martel you are responsible for everything that happens in Your life. We all are
Coming back years later it’s crazy to see how he was trying to set the stage for the revenge p
Martell needs to admit he is a cheater. Melody is trying to move on and he keeps trying to put her down. He is surprise Melody had the strength to leave him just giving birth to their baby. Martell should try to make it with his new baby mother. He cheated on Mel with her so he should be satisfied with his choice.
The way Martel cut his eyes when Mel walked out.. He really tried to break that woman but did not prevail because she is God’s child period..
LaTisha..errr who did your hair makeup and frew frew wardrobe ...sheeezzz. Such a pretty woman, they didn't showcase it fully.
Yoooo this show is soooo underrated. I am in tears at all their personalities on display. Marsau is def a favorite. The looks and the eye rolls and the quick comeback in the matter of fact tone. People don't like him but he be speaking straight facts and is a poster child for unbothered. Melody voiceeee when she ask Kimmie "Did Martell just accuse his friend of calling his ex wife?" Pahahahahhahahahaha. I am sooo proud of Mel. She is sooo adorable. Martell dumb tail a FOOLLLL or should I call him Nabal, LOLOL Be goneeee! Omshineeeee Kimmie sweating praying they don't say anything crazy. Tisha looking just as nervous and dense, LOLOL. MarteLLLL what can I say about him except he has put what a narcissist says and looks like on prime time for the world to see. Mel's shade be sooo hilarious and I am amazed at how she handles herself with respect while giving shade to show how delusional and narcissistic this man is. She is bout her own business and his lil tight suit, arrogant, delusional tail has no clue. I can't stand him. HE IS A LIARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR to HIS CORE, ahhahahahahahahhahaaa. Overall, they minus Martel are funny, likeable people and I wish them all EXCEPT THE FOOL the best.
100% accurate!!
You should write show reviews lol 😂
I think Tisha’s dress would’ve been ok if the hair hump wasn’t there- she should’ve let the dress be the “pop” and not the hump lol
A long ponytail with her hair pulled back or swooped with a side part would’ve suited that over the top dress. Idk as a hair stylist & Mua I wish I could have helped lol
LOLOLOL...I was like it look like they didn't get time to lay the wig all the way down over her ponytail rotf
Tisha's my girl but this whole look is a big mess
It’s hard with that dress. If she wore a bun up top she would’ve given me BAPS 😂
It was the dress. Tisha is soooo much better than that. Something simple would of been alot sexier on her
@@hollymccarthy4701 agree the first reunion she looked amazing!
YALL SEE HOW HE DODGED THE “let me hear the recording “ QUESTIOOOOOOOOOON😫😫😻
Martell honestly behaves his own lies. He makes me nauseous.
Melody is my favorite I feel the show gave her the courage to leave this fool Her fans have helped her a lot thank God for us
I can't stand Martell... Feels like he cheated on me too😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅🤣😂💀☠
😂😂😂😢 girl !!!!! Like fr fr
Right 😂😂😂
I love how Melody was happy about him hosting ❤🙂
“ Imma be real specific , someone performed it on me , and I told you about it“ lmfaoooooo Melody is a savage !!😂😂😂
I that means she is not innocent as she has been saying
@@donnayoungt3826 she's definitely innocent. He cheated for 5 years and had a baby. She separated from him and got head. Well even if they separated and she slept with someone else. That'll never match what he did. She separated never went back and divorced him. So, yeah
Tracie Mathews just asking if you missed the part where she moved out separated and then got back together I am not sure if the meaning of marriage rings in peoples head but separated or not if you are not divorced you are still married I am not excusing what he did but she also allowed it , I am not a woman scorned so I could care one way or the other but lol just saying damm she met a man quick let him eat out the box but could not remember if she licked the lollipop lmaoooooo just pausing let me catch my breath
@@donnayoungt3826 she never said she wasn't married. I most definitely understand separated divorced and married. My point is she filed left and was with the intent on moving on. She found out she was pregnant and moved back. Yeah okay and.... now they're divorced and he's still mad. Plus, he's trying to make what she did on the same level as him. It's not.
No somebody performed it on me and I told you about it”-Melody for the win 😎😂
Alright Carlos👏🏽👏🏽 You sure know how to make a player squirm.. Mr. I’m about my kids.. 🤦🏾♀️
“So imma real specific, somebody performed it on me and I told you about it.” And MIC DROP! Go Mel!
Baby Kimmi YESSS!!! Tisha walked out like “I’m HERE” stunning! 😍 Her level up and growth this season has been amazing to watch. I’m so proud of her. Ofcourse Martell wish he wasn’t on tv because he didn’t want to be exposed. What was in the dark lit up like a Christmas tree for the world to see. But you did it to yourself boy. He blames Melody for everything even his immaturity in cheating. He didn’t want Mel to read the comments because his mistress was in the comments. Martel doesn’t realize his children will see how he treated their mother. He wanted her to talk to the women like his grandma who let his grandpa cheat in peace while she suffered in silence. He’s an entire circus all by himself.
@@NotYourTypicalNegro worry about yourself, you can’t level up minding another woman’s level up.
@@iamDavidaRose Pahahahhahhaahhhaahahaa hilariousssss. Best response ever, LOL
@@tamekabarbour2157 one thing that I can’t stand is a pressed hater. If they can’t see the success in others we already know they can’t see it in themselves.
I thought tisha looked great. I just wish her wig wasn’t so severe. Martel will always be Martel…know one Chile Chaulk it up to a lost cause. Lol
@@thtpeacechic yeah that’s the only thing I didn’t care for, it gave jersey shore. But other than that she looked so cute.
I honestly LOVE the fashion from this cast! They stay consistently classy and fab
This guy in a blue , Melody ex-husband is sick in a head..🤦♀️
I pray for her because she got a lot on her plate..
I love how Kimmy articulates.
I've always been supportive of Melody.
Overall I loved the reunion.
For real…..
He did a fantastic job with hosting
Baby Carlos got mr.holt all the way together .no gym we're open busted
The smirk when he said “to the gym” I want to pop him so badly.
Melody handled herself with grace I felt her pain when she said she hate being in Huntsville she feels humiliated in her own city i under when she said she just want to leave being in that place is a reminder of all the hurt and pain leaving wound give her a chance to start over and put that place and mess in her rear view
Kimmi is my favorite. Period.
Yes yes yes Carlos king, please host every reality show for me. You gave what needed to be given.
Martell making himself look stupid on national television and he's straight up a liar.
It was so messed up that Mel had to sit there and recount any type of intimacy she's had with other men AFTER her and Martell had already separated. Like she's the one who can't be trusted, when Martel has cheated through the entire marriage AND had a baby on her. Like wtf?? The nerve.
smh….carlos was CLEARLY on a mission to hurt mel’s feelings & uplift martell this reunion
@@BeautyLoves88now look where we are,that whole tape he said he had of her. He tried to set her up,so freaking sad. He's so pathetic and so is his bird brain. She actually watched a video of him and Mel,showed other people and talked about it.
Martell silence speaks everything.
Martell's whole being says a lot!🤭🤮
Martell wanted things to remain private because he would have ab*sed her into staying. She wouldnt have the support she has. So proud of her xx
Martell is if misery loves company was a person. He is such a lowlife. The host kept it real and Martell couldn't handle it. This is how a man check another man when he is clearly in the wrong.
Carlos needs to host most reunions because he always asks the right questions ! Shaun on 90 Day fiancé is also a great host .
it’s extremely disrespectful to talk about what your ex wife & the mother of your children might be doing in the bedroom. Gross.
Same thought over here!🤷🏾♀️Why would he even go there? Oh I know, he’s BIG MAD!!
@@SagPurpleMoon He’s going as low as possible to get a reaction out of Mel & the sad part is he can’t see that’s it’s driving a bigger wedge between them.
She speaks on his life 🤷🏾♀️
It's September 2024. Still Watching & LOL...
He's trying to humiliate her even though he's at fault! Glad she moved on.
Martell was reaching by trying to do all he can to make Melody look bad. So, he has a recording on her for one occasion? 🤔 he should have been keeping receipts on his own 5 year infidelity smh
I remember hearing about this show before the promo trailer came out and Martell’s infidelity was already in circulation from Huntsville to Atlanta and the small surrounding cities/metro areas
So in other words, like Martell said “if it wasn’t for the show they would still be married.”
@@matildab98 That's probably the only truthful thing he's said in all 3 seasons.
@@matildab98 no. Because Mel left him. But apparently they had already signed the contract for the show and Mel no longer wanted to do it but Carlos talked her into continuing to film the show.
I think she would have left. She never wanted the public embarrassment.
Carlos is an amazing host! Bet these people thought he wasn't gonna be hard on them cause he was their friend. LOL Can't wait for part 3 of the reunion! You go, Carlos!
I keep pinching myself and asking if the Martel-Melody story line is real. I mean, is this guy serious? It sounds like he isn't even committed to his Whole Restaurant - too worried about what Melody is doing.
Yup, my ex fiance is just like him. The side baby included. Narcissist will do a number on you. At least his antics are documented on TV giving her validation that she's not the crazy one. They never admit to anything and constantly deflect. I feel for her bc she has to see him to continue on the show.
MARTELL‼NARCISSIST one word‼🤡
Isn’t it interesting how quickly Marsau could find some get right , and some much needed respect for his wife on t.v. Especially after she informed him on national t.v that if she ever found out that the rumors were true she would get him for every dime he had… Just saying 😎For where your treasure is , there will your heart be also. (Matt.6:21)
Tisha is real smart, just a little bit of an airhead.
The host is so respectful and insightful. Great job facilitating conversations in a constructive fashion.
I didn’t watch this season but this reunion was everything. Great job Carlos!
First off they all looked nice. Kimmi is by far the realest and my favorite. I felt bad for Melody when they were talking about the side chick because he clearly loved this girl and that would be hurtful to hear your ex speak about his side chick. I’m just happy it’s over for her. Go be with her. Melody is just fine.
Melody story ain't never changed like her not she keep it real
I love Kimmie & she loves the word, “conversation”, lol!
That's why I stand firm on "Never trying to work something out with anyone once they cheated". You teaching them it's okay to cheat on you and all will be forgiving. Nope!
Sometimes I wonder how Melody married him for so long. Martell has a mind of a child. "Am not a cheater at heart." TF. and goes on and have a child.
"Martell said it,so you know it ain't true!" LOL HILARIOUS