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  • Sharing my birth story for everyone who requested it. I wanted to show a much of it as possible instead of just sitting and talking about my birth experience so it’s a raw video that captures a lot of the emotions I was feeling at that time. If you have any questions please leave them in the comments below.
    West Middlesex hospital birthing center birth experience.

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  • @mehakzehra9154
    @mehakzehra9154 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I got some courage after watching this vlog I hope me Bhi isi terha brave rahon insha'Allah

  • @areejhasan7526
    @areejhasan7526 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Bht himmat hai ap main ..mujhe apna time yd agaya 1 year phly uuuufff mujhse tou hila b nahi jarah tha or ap vlog shoot kr rhi thi MashAllah 👏👏😍

  • @Aqsamunir-mm7qb
    @Aqsamunir-mm7qb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    U r soooo lucky for living this life style 🥰🥰🥰

  • @SobiaIrfan-q7l
    @SobiaIrfan-q7l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MashaAllah brave lady congratulations 🎉🎉main aj 5th November ko first time ap ka vlog dhk rhi hun and I like u sister ‘love baby from uk

  • @AllahuAkbar0505
    @AllahuAkbar0505 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yaar ur just simply awesome and ur the carbon copy of janvi Kapoor ❤

  • @saroshsubhan29
    @saroshsubhan29 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    9:23 Ali bhai snoring is another visual representation of the father’s contribution in the baby birth😅

  • @saroshsubhan29
    @saroshsubhan29 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ma Shaa Allah May Allah give you and your baby Araiz a healthy and happy life Ameen ❤so happy for the beautiful little family 😍

  • @Clumsymomy
    @Clumsymomy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I am also due on December.
    Kindly please please make a vlog on how to stay positive during labour.. you dint throw any tantrum during contractions..
    One of the calmest birth vlogs ive ever seen.

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I was practicing breathing exercises and doing yoga throughout my pregnancy. I used those same techniques during labour and it really helped. Because screaming and panicking actually makes it worse as that energy is being wasted.

    • @artsysugar2892
      @artsysugar2892 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mee tooo due in December ❤

    • @Heenakhan_15
      @Heenakhan_15 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I did same for my son 13yrs ago 😊😊😊 ​@ramshooza

  • @hinazeeshan1801
    @hinazeeshan1801 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Thank you for not putting the part where women actually do the deed.. the push part .. some things are personal and not for everyone to share with. From how you appeared throughout I was thinking you were gonna get a baby girl but a boy is equally as precious ❤️.. Mubarak ho!

  • @ssk7283
    @ssk7283 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your mother's great. Matlab aap ki stories pr aur sab jagah unko itna kuch banate huwe dekha hai. Please tell her to make a channel and share her thoughts. Looks so young. I am so inspired by her snippet. Ji jesa hona chahiye wese karte huwe unhe dekha hai. Lucky you

  • @faikanaaz2228
    @faikanaaz2228 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video reminds me of my delivery😭I think our hospitals are same but different birth stories.Your hospital was west middlesex hospital I think.Atleast they discharged you after 4 days but to me they discharged after 8 days..even mine was a normal delivery. I was in labour pain for 24hrs...but they where very cooperative. My baby is now 5 months and i think i will never forget the journey from getting admitted to the hospital until discharged and i love how they take Care of mums. Seeing your video reminds me of my mum who was here to take care of me.she was here in UK foe 1½ month.Mums are the only one on whom we can rely upon and I also saw you during your ultrasound appointment..you were with your friend but until i realize who you are, you left the hospital😅and also congratulations to you and your family may Allah swt ease pain of every women during the labour pain.Ameen

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Woah small world! The team at West Middlesex is indeed very very supportive. And yes you must’ve seen me with my sister at my 16 week appointment!

  • @GDInspirations
    @GDInspirations 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    MashAllah love your positive attitude ❤ congratulations again. You are giving me hope and courage!!!

  • @bismu682
    @bismu682 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MashaAllah ramsha salute to you nd all moms ❤ jo sb dard hasty huy tolerate krleti hain we girls are so damnnn strong ❤

  • @sheezasiddiqui4927
    @sheezasiddiqui4927 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    MashaAllah best most awaited video

  • @sidrayunus5177
    @sidrayunus5177 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The shape of u're pregnant tummy reminded me of my last pregnancy of my son Ali..... 12 years back......baby boys r mostly up in the tummy....... Congratulations and best of luck on the hard journey of being a mum dearie🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 but don't worry Allah ghayab Sy himmat detain hain

  • @mehreensadaf6492
    @mehreensadaf6492 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mashallah.. beautiful daughter of beautiful mom❤❤❤brave brave girl ❤❤❤

  • @deliasimms4499
    @deliasimms4499 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey, you gave birth at west middlesex hospital ! They are excellent. Im really happy for you. I had a c section but they were amazing. That birthing suite is really nice.

  • @maryamsattar8739
    @maryamsattar8739 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Congratulations, the video was enjoyable because of no background music. Also, a little reminder to always say Inn sha Allaah for future. Lastly, may Allaah make this baby a reviver of sunnah, a righteous man and coolness of his parents eyes. Aameen x

  • @maryumnawaz6170
    @maryumnawaz6170 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ma sha Allah you are sooo strong ❤❤ Congratulations on your baby boy ❤❤❤

  • @SugrabegumSiddiqui
    @SugrabegumSiddiqui 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Uff This reminds me of mine delivery. I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl around 2 months ago. Can't imagine the pain I went through. I had emergency c section after 32 hours of long labor pain. We women's are so so strong MashaAllah ❤ btw congratulations to your whole family 🎉

    • @aleenak6747
      @aleenak6747 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      of my delivery*

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for sharing your story. More power to you, super mom ❤

  • @shabanabegum7119
    @shabanabegum7119 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    How come everything.. Ur preg and delivery just looked like a piece of cake... 😮even ur face during labour and after baby looks so fresh.never ever seen anyones preg like this. .. Just wow

    • @GDInspirations
      @GDInspirations 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That’s the mindset one needs for a battle lol that’s why so many doulas and midwifes say it’s all a mind game

    • @saverasavera3652
      @saverasavera3652 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ladies in PK throw themselves 0n bed, dont workout neither during preganncy nor post, doesnt shower and freshen up which is why they are the way they are.

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GDInspirations100%! It’s all a mind game. I was doing breathing, pointing and visualization exercises the entire time and it made it super easy to cope

    • @bushrarehman1716
      @bushrarehman1716 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Epidural magic😂😂

    • @GDInspirations
      @GDInspirations 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bushrarehman1716she was late for epidural please… there are positive birth stories but unfortunately our Pakistani women love to spread rumours and scare other women of labour they make a whole negative mindset around labour and when someone comes out with a positive mindset they downplay their effort by saying “epidural magic” lol

  • @sadiakhan-r7q
    @sadiakhan-r7q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you are one brave girl ! MaShaAllah

  • @saverasavera3652
    @saverasavera3652 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I've heard crazy birth experiences with the NHS but yours looked amazing, put my mind to ease

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I got very lucky indeed

    • @deliasimms4499
      @deliasimms4499 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please ignore horror stories. I had an excellent birth under the nhs

    • @ayeshaehsan9019
      @ayeshaehsan9019 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Crazy birth experience wahn hn jahn muslim community zayda jahn English log zayda hn wahn hospital bht achy hn or rush b nhi zayda

  • @BakhtawarAbdullah-w2f
    @BakhtawarAbdullah-w2f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You made it sound so easy but I know what you went through. The fact that you didn’t even get any pain relief 😢

  • @siffatrukhsar7445
    @siffatrukhsar7445 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awww masha Allah 🥹 m so happy for u plus just let us knw that swelling on nose disappears or not ?

  • @saverasavera3652
    @saverasavera3652 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank u for sharing Ramsha!! congratulations

  • @Cookandvlogsuk
    @Cookandvlogsuk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    How did u stay positive throughout your pregnancy.
    I was so nervous from the beginning ended up loosing the pregnancy.

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s all a mind game. Start doing yoga and telling yourself that you will have a positive experience no matter what

  • @manhalsiddiqui6624
    @manhalsiddiqui6624 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are so strong! ما شاء الله
    May Allah grant your baby good healthy and all the happiness! آمين
    🫣🤍

  • @ranaminahil2412
    @ranaminahil2412 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was in labor for almost 40 hours but pushed for like 20 mins. the labor part was so exhausting as I couldn’t get any sleep form2 days so I could literally understand ur situation.

  • @sehrish_lifestyle
    @sehrish_lifestyle 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow mashallah ❤ itni himat kahan se ati hai ?? Ye sb dekh k toh ese lag raha sb bht easy hai 😂😂😂😅

  • @nehashahzad6809
    @nehashahzad6809 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    At which week you were in labor?

  • @AreebasCorner
    @AreebasCorner 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My baby was also born on September 17th! He was due one September 22nd. 😅

  • @hareemWasi
    @hareemWasi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So you dailated without any cut ??

  • @Yunzie22
    @Yunzie22 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really hats off to my mother who pushed 3 girls oh god! Anyways congratulations to you and your family masha Allah masha Allah masha Allah and Allah huma barik!!!

  • @marvi2427
    @marvi2427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s Birmingham?

  • @ash.a8412
    @ash.a8412 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stitches ki pain kitny days rhe apko r ap ti blkl mashaAllah fresh lug rhe .how to deal with stitches pain??

    • @ahsanshafeeq4992
      @ahsanshafeeq4992 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Isko to lg ra h k stitches b ni aye jis tra ye chal phir rahi h. Stiches ki pain to boht hoti h beth ni skta banda

  • @anamnazidg8519
    @anamnazidg8519 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MashaAllah MashaAllah boht boht Mubarak ❤❤

  • @misbahmahmood1203
    @misbahmahmood1203 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was waiting for the time when baby will pop out of you😂

  • @Maya22772c
    @Maya22772c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video is wholesome ❤️

  • @everydayspecial378
    @everydayspecial378 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mashallah 🥰 😊❤❤❤

  • @fatimavali1053
    @fatimavali1053 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What’s that thing you put in water? And what’s the story behind it?

  • @bismamubushar490
    @bismamubushar490 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    At what week you delivered?

  • @Reem-yw4oh
    @Reem-yw4oh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why in UK they dont admit till last minute?

  • @anisausman7432
    @anisausman7432 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Despite being 10 cm dilated you spent 16-18 hours just in pushing 😢 the baby. How difficult it must be.

  • @amnaghulamrasool3905
    @amnaghulamrasool3905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Iam going to give birth in start of December at queens hospital. Can you tell me if they provide anything over there. What are the must have items in ur hospital bag. Iam new to london so have no idea

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Our hospital provided us with a maternity bag checklist so check with your midwife if she has any resource specific to your hospital. I have also uploaded what I packed in my hospital bag in my shorts so you can check that video out as well

  • @sanayalikhan
    @sanayalikhan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How are you dealing with stretch marks ?

  • @HassanMustafa2K17
    @HassanMustafa2K17 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are such brave girl Masha Allah . It reminds my baby girl birth 8 hours contractions ufffff

  • @aroofa-c1r
    @aroofa-c1r 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Was the birthing easy , I mean Compared to other people's experiences you've heard of how long did the contractions last until the pushing session started. Sorry just asking because I am also 2 months pregnant and really scared of what going to come in the next 7 months.

    • @Uroosa_talha
      @Uroosa_talha 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😮

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I had 18 hours of contractions before I started pushing. The pushing lasted 2 hours so a total of 20 hours of labour

  • @saverasavera3652
    @saverasavera3652 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ali's snores🤣

  • @lifeaftermarriage4038
    @lifeaftermarriage4038 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm five months pregnant nd I'll make sure show this vlog before going to delivery that how do with baby

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do practice breathing exercises and start doing yoga

  • @Noorshortsnoor
    @Noorshortsnoor 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Today is the first day of 6th month and quite nervous but very confident that delivering the baby is not going to hurt much idk im in delusional 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @SawairaKainat
    @SawairaKainat 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hmen to direct c section mein dal dia jata he 😂😂 dara dara k k baby mar jaiga 😵‍💫😵‍💫 Pakistan and specially Peshawar 😤😤😤

  • @Arijaved121
    @Arijaved121 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you please tell cute small sa baby cot kaha se lia hai and what it is called ?

  • @ayeshavlog9201
    @ayeshavlog9201 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's a c section or normal Dilvery I can't understand but you gave me courage

  • @fatimaiqbal2677
    @fatimaiqbal2677 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Share your experience of eating dates and okra water. Did they help in labor or dilation?

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can’t be sure if that was what helped but I did have natural delivery so maybe they did work

  • @docmahoo473
    @docmahoo473 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Has marium flower helped you???

  • @bakhtawarrazzaq9836
    @bakhtawarrazzaq9836 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ammarah is right legends are born on the 17th is September. Bakhtawar Razzaq aka me was also born on the same date 28 years ago

  • @mirhina8727
    @mirhina8727 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My edd is on 12 march inshah Allah can anyone tell me what is best nvd or lscs?

  • @SayedaLubabahAbdullah
    @SayedaLubabahAbdullah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aapne pani men kya bhigoya he...or kyun bhigote hen

  • @adilaumar9837
    @adilaumar9837 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mashalllah congratulations

  • @rifahtasfiasuprova2849
    @rifahtasfiasuprova2849 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can you please share your experience of the stitching and what worked best for you while pushing?
    Also do you suggest something or advice something from your experience of labor pain till delivery that you think you should have done differently?

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I got quite a few second degree perineum and labial tears. The midwife had to call the doctors for the stitching because they couldn’t do it.
      One thing I would’ve done differently was to push for another check instead of going home. That way I could’ve gotten pain relief in time as pushing without any pain relief was a horrible experience. I felt like all my bones were being crushed over and over again

  • @afsanakhan6875
    @afsanakhan6875 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Legends are born and the girl mentions modi. 😑😑😑

  • @laibarana491
    @laibarana491 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mera b normal tha but wasn't getting labour pain 40 weeks ho gaye thy dr gave me tablets to create labour pain was on labour about 7 hours nd aj 4th day h still itna dara hui hn

  • @erumnew5481
    @erumnew5481 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    2:16 name of this please

  • @saverasavera3652
    @saverasavera3652 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    please regarding the actual birth part a bit more if thats ok, like the pushing, the tears and stitches, how bad were they

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I got a lot of second degree tears and had to be stitched up for almost an hour!

  • @YoutuberNoor7866
    @YoutuberNoor7866 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pregnancy phase me naak q Moti hojati hai
    Koi batayega

  • @saniaaamer3827
    @saniaaamer3827 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Born my baby in 19 October in c section.

  • @swathestics
    @swathestics 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shuker hay bhae paida hogia bacha pichly 1 saal say pregnancy content dekh rhy thy

  • @lifeflavours6252
    @lifeflavours6252 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Itna hosla.omg

  • @aamnarizwanjafrani880
    @aamnarizwanjafrani880 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MASHAALLAH may Allah bless you all

  • @fizzagmm
    @fizzagmm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolute rubbish, how could you record yourself while going through the most troubling situation. People are surreal!

  • @kaneezfatima9329
    @kaneezfatima9329 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mama ki cup cake recipe?

  • @ahsanshafeeq4992
    @ahsanshafeeq4992 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Isko dekh k to lg hi ni raha k is ny baby dlvr kia h. Hum jesi to marny wali hojati h

  • @lifeaftermarriage4038
    @lifeaftermarriage4038 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Make sure to actives like you

  • @rameennasir7741
    @rameennasir7741 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    10:42 you are having white hairs so soon 😮😮😢

    • @amjadparvez3518
      @amjadparvez3518 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Main 24 sal ki hu or mery white hairs 8 sal se h or baht ha ab zada ho gay h

  • @lifeaftermarriage4038
    @lifeaftermarriage4038 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For you mashallah nd for me inshallah

  • @truthalltheway6791
    @truthalltheway6791 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jitnay marzi modern ban jau, food in plastic ka dabba and plastic bag will stay the same😂😂😂😂. How did hospital allow that ring on the baby??? Babies can swallow that. They can get get scratched 😮

  • @mariacorner1
    @mariacorner1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How did you manage to feed your baby on the first night without a midwife? 🥹 I'm going to be a first-time mom soon InshaaAllah but I'm so worried about how I'll take care of such a tiny, delicate baby without help🥲
    I can't even imagine touching such a small and fragile newborn

    • @ramshooza
      @ramshooza  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The midwife helped position him and got him to latch and then I took it from there.

  • @yutazen2262
    @yutazen2262 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    in which week you delivered??