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  • Here on For A Living, we highlight Miranda, a mortician at Milward Funeral Directors in Lexington, Kentucky. Her initial fear of death led her to a career of embalming bodies. Press play on For A Living to learn about a young woman's experience in the funeral business!
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  • @refinery29
    @refinery29  ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Want to learn more about the death industry? Check out "We Transform Human Remains Into Soil For a Living" on Refinery29: th-cam.com/video/DfnJ8XZtQ1U/w-d-xo.html

    • @realemonful
      @realemonful ปีที่แล้ว

      You do understand that the true affects after death do take place after you die and you face the consequences of the actions you took in life, right?

    • @horustrismegistus1017
      @horustrismegistus1017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's visibly more interested (in literally every single movement, mannerism, and scene), in SEEMING HOT and DIMURE than she is in describing what she does. This woman very highly fancies herself

    • @areyou5958
      @areyou5958 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you talk about testimonies of evil spirits and sigils in the mortuary? Maybe some dead people had tattoos

    • @reverseoblationrun
      @reverseoblationrun 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unfair if we allow female to bath death male body (when the reverse hypocrit mainstream always b itching s3xism). Men with men too then, esp this is asian female who always complain about men mortician on female corpse.. Fyi many asian nurse photo touch nak d boy in an innap way during circum here

    • @reverseoblationrun
      @reverseoblationrun 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mainstream & media always whinning if male bath female corpse, yet this female okay if her Male fam member's corpse been bath touch by female mortician, hypocrisy

  • @Destinyrose1
    @Destinyrose1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21697

    “They haven’t talked back yet” girl i hope tf not

    • @fmfdocbotl4358
      @fmfdocbotl4358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +621

      I always talked to them too. 20 yrs in the medical field, I felt honored to take care of them

    • @aaronfrazier524
      @aaronfrazier524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Lmao

    • @er3068
      @er3068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      😂😂

    • @sallymaskell3287
      @sallymaskell3287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @hannamendoza2528
      @hannamendoza2528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Hahahaha same same gurl

  • @rileyfreeburn4843
    @rileyfreeburn4843 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50072

    We all need to ask ourselves why are we watching this

  • @patrickcooper209
    @patrickcooper209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +996

    When my dad passed, he looked 98, he was actually 78. When the funeral home was finished, he looked like he was 50. It was an amazing comfort. He didn't look sick, in agony, scared. Amazing people

    • @antoniasmith8390
      @antoniasmith8390 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      The opposite happened to me. Last week my dad died and he died at 47 his bday is actually been today. He died looking his age and the mortician somehow made him look older and wider in the face something was wrong with his nose too. It’s was a difficult experience

    • @expyres
      @expyres 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      that must have been very disheartening, I'm sorry. @@antoniasmith8390

    • @smollilbean
      @smollilbean 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​​@@antoniasmith8390 that's devastating. Sorry for your loss. Love and well wishes to you. My dad just turned 50 this makes me want to appreciate him more😥 I'm so attached to my parents i feel like I'd want to die with them too.. no way i could EVER cope wity loosing them tf

    • @shaynewheeler9249
      @shaynewheeler9249 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @Teenie-mg8xn
      @Teenie-mg8xn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can't say the same for when my mom passed the funeral home that had her did a bad job and that's why I've been thinking of going into mortuary science to make families have the experience you had with your dad.

  • @SnowFamilyOf4
    @SnowFamilyOf4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +541

    What a strong beautiful woman. I had a stillborn son, my family spent 24 hours w his body then the mortician took him. She had her baby mortuary in her home. It was such a lovely place we dropped off his clothing. She sang to him while she dressed him. Everything was done so kind and beautifully. Takes a special person.

    • @KingsMom831
      @KingsMom831 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      That’s devastating, I’m so sorry for your loss.

    • @SnowFamilyOf4
      @SnowFamilyOf4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@KingsMom831 Thank you for your kindness.

    • @tegridyfarms9972
      @tegridyfarms9972 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      💕 Thank you for sharing.

    • @angeladorsett1159
      @angeladorsett1159 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sorry for your loss, my grandson was stillborn,😢 I lost a son from cancer .

    • @SnowFamilyOf4
      @SnowFamilyOf4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@angeladorsett1159 im so sorry hunny, that pain takes your soul apart. Sending our love to your family.

  • @emmydon62
    @emmydon62 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4628

    this is what self-quarantine has done to my recommended

    • @jhog76
      @jhog76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same 🤣

    • @mzrms
      @mzrms 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Becca Donovan yes I was like how did my recommended videos get here 😆 looks interesting though.

    • @shannonlynn1317
      @shannonlynn1317 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤷‍♀️

    • @jenehardy7750
      @jenehardy7750 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Becca Donovan swear 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @ringtailarts4834
      @ringtailarts4834 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @virudshigaap5558
    @virudshigaap5558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13964

    she’s in a business that everyone’s dying to get into.

  • @jessicacorbin3111
    @jessicacorbin3111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    If I never seen this video I would have never taken the step to start mortuary school. Here I am now with 6 weeks until graduation!! Thank you so much you really inspired me

    • @lillybanks6999
      @lillybanks6999 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How’s it going?

    • @koko1144
      @koko1144 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      congratulations and how is it going !!!!

    • @shippermd
      @shippermd ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congrats and please Update us! :)

    • @jazmineworthy2010
      @jazmineworthy2010 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤️❤️

    • @jessicacorbin3111
      @jessicacorbin3111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      It’s going great. I’m glad I finally made that decision and got it done.

  • @puggynugz922
    @puggynugz922 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    My mom looked so beautiful in her casket. I wanted to take a photo but didn't for fear of judgment. I regretted that for a while, but don't now because I remember so much more of her than just that day of deep pain.
    I have to say I adore your retro style as it suits you very well. You are a credit to your profession.

    • @mekdeaimero6204
      @mekdeaimero6204 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So sorry for your loss😞 hope that you are doing ok now 🙏 ❤️ 😊

    • @barbcarey882
      @barbcarey882 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I took a pic of my Mom

  • @gachawatching1715
    @gachawatching1715 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6312

    Miranda talking to dead body: Your hair looks pretty
    Dead Body: Thanks!
    Miranda: Aw Hell naw

  • @shuttersnap3798
    @shuttersnap3798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4019

    Is no one gonna talk about the fact that she has a cup literally labelled "EMBALMING FLUID"

    • @ariba2917
      @ariba2917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @Angee Nix 316 people likes his comment so he isn't the only one..

    • @Feromonix
      @Feromonix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      So no one gonna touch it .. clever 😁

    • @dougiequick1
      @dougiequick1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Typical sort light humor common to many professions if you ask me...like Plummers with Roto Rooter coffee cups

    • @dyn.6030
      @dyn.6030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Angee Nix no I did too ur the only one who didn’t notice it 🤢🤮

    • @RemiMW
      @RemiMW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Noticed and thought it was funny and clever because it’s related to her job? Reminds me of haunted houses with feeling boxes that say “brains” “intestine” “eyeballs”

  • @tegridyfarms9972
    @tegridyfarms9972 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I wanted to become a mortician since I was a teenager, but I ended up going into nursing instead (secondary to life events which would take too long to explain). After nursing for almost 20 years, I’m feeling so burned out and seriously considering a career change. I think it’s time for me to go back to school and follow my true calling!
    Bravo to this lovely lady, and bravo to the maker of this short video. It was VERY well done. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @vulnikkura
      @vulnikkura ปีที่แล้ว

      What are you thinking of?

  • @madihaleigh
    @madihaleigh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I’m enrolling into mortuary school in the fall of 2023. I love this video so much! Very fascinating 🥰

    • @ccn9001
      @ccn9001 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was just accepted for this fall 2022. I'm very excited.

    • @ee-di3ox
      @ee-di3ox ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ccn9001 congratulations!

    • @koko1144
      @koko1144 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg sameeeee where???

  • @blessingngozi1695
    @blessingngozi1695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3961

    Imagine she is doing someone's makeup and then they just say"oh this isn't really my color do you have something brighter"

  • @avaao9356
    @avaao9356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4440

    IMAGINE driving home with a dead body in the backseat I-

    • @marianek8126
      @marianek8126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      🤧and the scary thing is that thinking that THE BODY WILL MOVE!😵

    • @philfromthefuture
      @philfromthefuture 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Every weekend with my friends After the bar tour

    • @Retrochap
      @Retrochap 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      If this will do or die challenge for me then sure but I have to keep an eye on the body if it moves or comes closer to me every time I look away while driving 😂😂😂

    • @ssam9981
      @ssam9981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@philfromthefuture i swear the best comment lol

    • @6688ya
      @6688ya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eminem had his on the front passenger seat

  • @katm5903
    @katm5903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    After nursing for almost 18 years and watching people transition, it really makes you think about the same things. This last two years of Covid has really thrusted all of this in people's faces. It has been insane. I am not sure I could do this side of the work, but I greatly appreciate those that can.

  • @franziska919
    @franziska919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8021

    I feel like you could turn this into the coolest Netflix series of 2019

    • @crybaby3430
      @crybaby3430 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Lol I would binge watch it every day

    • @MakeupByMayas
      @MakeupByMayas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      There's a show about a funeral home business on Netflix called The Casketeers! I really enjoyed it

    • @MakeupByMayas
      @MakeupByMayas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@crybaby3430 There's a show about a funeral home business on Netflix called The Casketeers! I really enjoyed it

    • @MakeupByMayas
      @MakeupByMayas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@dootdoot94xo44 There's a show about a funeral home business on Netflix called The Casketeers! I really enjoyed it

    • @triceMMJr
      @triceMMJr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Casketeers on Netflix

  • @ThanhNguyen-sk6uc
    @ThanhNguyen-sk6uc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7520

    I feel like she could be someone from American horror stories.

    • @irmaamaya9102
      @irmaamaya9102 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thank you!!

    • @iitskeykey1803
      @iitskeykey1803 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      literally! they need someone like her. sally is my favorite from AHS but this girl could be right up there

    • @gae6495
      @gae6495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I KNOW RIGHT

    • @angelgabriel7448
      @angelgabriel7448 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha

    • @stevensgold
      @stevensgold 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      its like she's hiding something fetish

  • @amycrowe8243
    @amycrowe8243 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    From someone who has lost both of my parents, your care and thoughtfulness mean so much. Thank you.

    • @macywood4619
      @macywood4619 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same for me now! It’s devastating!

  • @EyalNahal
    @EyalNahal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I really loved to watch this lady. What I do appreciate the most is her attitude while doing her job: her look is really awesome, she enjoys her own look, she is really committed, humble and nice. These is really rare to find not only in morticians but people in general.

  • @elijahcaldona7690
    @elijahcaldona7690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3536

    I like how she enters the casket room like she's doing a Vogue 73 Questions.

  • @mrguy6934
    @mrguy6934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8320

    When my ex wife died from the ravages of melanoma there was nothing left of her. The embalmer made her look so good and that's how my kids remember their mom. These people are truly a blessing. Thank you

    • @nisamert2372
      @nisamert2372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      god will bless you and your kids ❤

    • @kate-loves-bagsshoes1063
      @kate-loves-bagsshoes1063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Rest on Mrs

    • @bruh-uj2de
      @bruh-uj2de 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I’m so sorry

    • @jasonosborne2222
      @jasonosborne2222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      I'm so sorry. My mother died from melanoma in 1987 when she was only 38 years old. Sadly, the funeral home did not make her look so good.

    • @awake8925
      @awake8925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      May her dear soul rest in peace

  • @4n0mar
    @4n0mar ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As someone who works in the industry. I LOVE YOU.. so much respect for the loved one. I'd love to work for s funeral home like this! The fact that the families can actually SEE the casket option is just perfect for me.
    Doing kids is what stops me from becoming an embalmer, but I'm still looking more into it & getting more input from ppl

  • @Ap9leJacks-wy3pq
    @Ap9leJacks-wy3pq ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She’s actually inspirational. Everything she said is actually so professionally said & cares about. Hope she hasn’t had them deceased talk back. Damn

  • @noeescobar5274
    @noeescobar5274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10173

    the topic:💀🔪💉
    the energy:🤩🍭🌸

    • @kkyzz
      @kkyzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      yes

    • @tealx2014
      @tealx2014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No good reason!!!

    • @Chcolt_Muffin
      @Chcolt_Muffin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Hotel:trivago

    • @alladreamwedreamed
      @alladreamwedreamed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Her look is impeccable 💅👗

    • @willkiser3926
      @willkiser3926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She's absolutely stunning.

  • @jaideheta6821
    @jaideheta6821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8492

    "its not the dead that can hurt you, its the living." Well said!

    • @XxXXxxXXxx78
      @XxXXxxXXxx78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      I am 4th generation funeral home worker and my grandfather used to say this all the time. Personally, I've never had an issue with a dead guy. A living one? All the time

    • @paudsmcmack3117
      @paudsmcmack3117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      My mum always said, fear the living not the dead

    • @baileygreen2324
      @baileygreen2324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You can’t heal what you don’t reveal

    • @captainkeyboard1007
      @captainkeyboard1007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I agree with you and I believe it. The dead are innocuous. I am more afraid of the living people who can hurt, harm, even kill, especially when they do not possess of the love of Jesus Christ in their hearts. As a teenager, I have seen corpses in the funeral home, even in the preparation room. The dead were not so scary as some of the living people walking around.

    • @ShadNex
      @ShadNex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They all say that line

  • @tigalbaby
    @tigalbaby ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your community is extremely fortunate to have someone with your temperament , aptitude and compassion to assist them in their time of loss. Hope others in the industry can emulate you and recognize that that they need to be pillars of support during a family’s difficult grieving period. It’s a job that few of us can do .

  • @rhwinner
    @rhwinner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I worked in a mortuary, this brings back memories. Most people will benefit from being exposed to end of life matters. We are so alienated from death in our modern culture.

  • @brendalaprince9214
    @brendalaprince9214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2989

    She's acting like she's shoe shopping in that casket room.

    • @4shoman738
      @4shoman738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😂☠️

    • @diynerd4095
      @diynerd4095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LoL

    • @randomstuffs5982
      @randomstuffs5982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @halcasey3461
      @halcasey3461 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree! No piety!

    • @tammypoirier487
      @tammypoirier487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She is enjoying every minute of it..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @missj8704
    @missj8704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3431

    She's like a Disney princess giving a tour of her kingdom

    • @alicia6956
      @alicia6956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      right...

    • @lillmzraw8730
      @lillmzraw8730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Oh hell tf no

    • @lestatlovebot
      @lestatlovebot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      um.. at least you tried.. your on the right lines but maybe not.. uh

    • @kiwitoothpick9351
      @kiwitoothpick9351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She makes a ton of cash so

    • @rileymmburke
      @rileymmburke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BAHAHHAHA

  • @johnhenryholiday4964
    @johnhenryholiday4964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I considered being a funeral director.... the closer I got to actually doing it the less I wanted it as a vocation.... This woman has my deepest respect as she is very professional in her approach and presentation.... Thank You Amanda.... Your awesome....

  • @ahjort100
    @ahjort100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It’s comforting to know there are people out there like her who are driven to ensure human dignity even in death! Well done!

  • @mylah5933
    @mylah5933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3035

    Miranda on a date:
    Her date: “So, what’s your body count?”
    “.......”

    • @EMPRESSALYXIS
      @EMPRESSALYXIS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂😂😂

    • @EMPRESSALYXIS
      @EMPRESSALYXIS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mylah5933
      @mylah5933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      noru noru like how many ppl you F-ed

    • @jadedpro
      @jadedpro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How many people u slept with

    • @bracefacebaby9287
      @bracefacebaby9287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MissLaceyNoel
    @MissLaceyNoel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12274

    I like her. She respects the dead and doesn't seem to just see dollar signs and a body. Lord knows we need these people.

    • @shellyrae777
      @shellyrae777 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Lacey Noel I was thinking the exact same thing!

    • @hoijink.9252
      @hoijink.9252 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ikr!

    • @karenmeehan999
      @karenmeehan999 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      It says at the start that it's 16 billion a year.

    • @opheliac6379
      @opheliac6379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @cerulean Konie...My Dad was making $150,000 a year before he retired. It's not about the money though. If I went into it, I'd make barely $40k a year. My Dad would do so many funerals a year at no charge or help people out anyway possible. He ran these funeral homes, but did right by the families. How can you overcharge someone when they are grieving? Most in the business HATE the financial aspect. I work in an ER & hate asking for copays! I grew up in the business. It's not as bad as you all think! Directors will work with you. My Dad did so many pro bono...he was pushed to retire.

    • @ebe7157
      @ebe7157 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      It's not the morticians that are greedy bastards. It's the funeral home owners and directors. Avoid chain mortuaries. Absolute fucking vultures.

  • @bubbagarza4401
    @bubbagarza4401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Imagine the lady pulling up to pick up your dead grandma comes in this 💀 1:35

  • @xtin_the_jeweler
    @xtin_the_jeweler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    what a lovely girl ! everything about her is so adorable. god bless her soul we need more people like her on this earth

  • @Stanats
    @Stanats 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2917

    My grandma passed on a week ago today. I took care of her hair,makeup,and nails. I didn’t want a stranger getting her ready. Never done it before on someone who passed on but I was told by family that she looked really good. I felt good also taking care of her. She took care of me in life so in death I took care of her.

    • @Jewelstarr208
      @Jewelstarr208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Juliana Maio bitch go some where else and spread hate

    • @staletylernol3611
      @staletylernol3611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Juliana Maio get out of here with that negativity 😒

    • @st-lu6ss
      @st-lu6ss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @Juliana Maio Y'all be so damn weird sometimes. It's her fucking grandma and she wanted to serve her in a respectful way to give back for what she did when living. Y'all find any way to hate and it's so damn annoying. If you got a reason to why you submitted that, tell us. Quickly. Cause this is not what we finna do.😐

    • @micholakinola1053
      @micholakinola1053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      God bless you

    • @andicarusfell8387
      @andicarusfell8387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Juliana Maio Go fuck yourself

  • @scarlettcorbett6719
    @scarlettcorbett6719 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3899

    Imagine if she saw a ghost
    Ghost : BOOO
    Her : Oh hi Jeremy
    Ghost : Oh hi Miranda how’s life
    Her : How’s your...opps

  • @DET.RACHELM
    @DET.RACHELM ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Seems like she cares about a person's loved one more than some of the people who are actually related. She definitely has a beautiful soul. 💜💜💜💜

  • @juliann8555
    @juliann8555 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love her fashion on & off the job. She is a trailblazer and a true gift to the family's she serves. Bless up!!

  • @dailyllamagirl2448
    @dailyllamagirl2448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7182

    I would like to do this, but the fact you’ll come across kids and babies would shatter me, all my respect to this lady!!

    • @amnamohsinakeemadam9928
      @amnamohsinakeemadam9928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      So right you spoke my mind

    • @user-uv7nd4zk1d
      @user-uv7nd4zk1d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Somehow im not spooked by seeing kids get hurt even my little brother

    • @ghallanajem7743
      @ghallanajem7743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      Brescia yeahhh you sure you dont need help?

    • @dannyphantom5623
      @dannyphantom5623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Brescia uhhhh she’s talking abt more than hurt

    • @mandysimcupido7193
      @mandysimcupido7193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I totally agree

  • @onionyeoja
    @onionyeoja 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11933

    She found something she's good at and she's making a difference by pursuing her passion. I respect that.

    • @ilse5167
      @ilse5167 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tako Yaki do you know you got so many likes

    • @yaz9450
      @yaz9450 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ilse ummm... probably
      Don't you think

    • @ilse5167
      @ilse5167 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      asmr lover i think so too but maybe he or she didn’t

    • @yaz9450
      @yaz9450 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ilse because they get notifications when someone likes their comment or when someone replies to their comment, so that's why I said that

    • @ilse5167
      @ilse5167 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      asmr lover oh i don’t have that like thing lol

  • @qd4051
    @qd4051 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for your compassion and love in taking care of the deceased. Your warm and lovely outlook surely brings great comfort to their relatives.

  • @mexikunt
    @mexikunt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3440

    She kind of creeps me out but I'm also fascinated by her aesthetic.

    • @sandymurphy5867
      @sandymurphy5867 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      WHERE'S MY WIG kinda a weirdo. and she's ugly too

    • @rex5968
      @rex5968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same

    • @sarahjenkins8139
      @sarahjenkins8139 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      911 likes hmmmmm

    • @BxCortez2050
      @BxCortez2050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@sandymurphy5867 ..come on now stop that shes awesome

    • @sandymurphy5867
      @sandymurphy5867 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Curtis Stapleton werido

  • @Liz-he2ke
    @Liz-he2ke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3467

    Did she say “I’m heading to go get the deceased that expired”.... what in the blue hell

    • @olgaehernandez57
      @olgaehernandez57 4 ปีที่แล้ว +206

      The word she used was decedent..(that yes,means a dead person)...but she added just expired..to mean was like not long ago,recently.

    • @arthurvanessen5390
      @arthurvanessen5390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      Mama's Kitchen that’s not a joke, doctors in the medical field use that term too, even when telling a family that their loved one died 😳

    • @mariarivera4197
      @mariarivera4197 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @BKG0227
      @BKG0227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I thought it was strange too haha It’s a little more dignified I guess🤷🏻 at least she didn’t say “I’m gonna go haul a dead women around”

    • @dominiquemercado346
      @dominiquemercado346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I remembered I went to the cashier to sign some signature for my cousin's burial and then the cashier told me that "oh tha one that EXPIRED?" i was so freaaaking mad and I literally slap the cashier lop

  • @kaylejackson8363
    @kaylejackson8363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for taking the time out of your day to share your amazing experience and your education with me about being a mortician.

  • @dama_shares
    @dama_shares 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wonderful, authentic, informative presentation. This young lady is so cool. I love her realistic and mature way of viewing things and especially how she sees the art in her work. My mother always taught me that "death is a part of life." I love that Miranda is living her own life in a way that celebrates her unique vintage style and that she is soft, sweet and gracious. I can identify with this!

  • @destany9591
    @destany9591 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7074

    I like her style. Looks like she walked off of a 1950s magazine right into modern times.

    • @margarbieadams8200
      @margarbieadams8200 6 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Destany ikr she rocks it

    • @destany9591
      @destany9591 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Margarbie Adams yes!

    • @liluhg
      @liluhg 6 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      And she is sooo elegant 😍

    • @jenya-was-here
      @jenya-was-here 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      More 1960's imo, no?

    • @user-lq6hd5bl7g
      @user-lq6hd5bl7g 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Destany ikr she looks great too

  • @shellyedmb117
    @shellyedmb117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3084

    She's embalmed my grandmother and grandfather. They put on great funerals. Nice ppl. Lovely place.

    • @megansampson5445
      @megansampson5445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      it's always a good comfort to know those who take care of our loved ones are passionate about their work and take care of the families and people they are serving. She seems really nice.

    • @carlosvazquez7437
      @carlosvazquez7437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I NOT SAYING SHE DOESN'T HAVE SKILLS IT'S JUST I DON'T KNOW I JUST FIND HER JUST A TAD MORBID

    • @brendapatrickwilson9545
      @brendapatrickwilson9545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thats great and all but i wouldn't want someone touching me after playing with witchcraft or my family just very disturbing behavior id fire her

    • @frenchustube
      @frenchustube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@carlosvazquez7437 What did you expect? that she dress and act like Big Bird?

    • @justinzeltsman6302
      @justinzeltsman6302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      sorry for your loss

  • @MCRmaryX
    @MCRmaryX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve been considering going back to school to be a funeral director and embalmer. I’ve watched your video so many times and each time I watch it I want to just go for it. Thank you for what you do.

  • @StaceyyOopsiedaisy
    @StaceyyOopsiedaisy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤ this deserves love and praise! Thank you for what you do for the families of the deceased x

  • @kendrasheart
    @kendrasheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4803

    This girl is so respectful and she seems so caring. I wish everyone that dealt with our loved ones bodies could be like this also

    • @icebiirb9440
      @icebiirb9440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      They are, most funeral directors and morticians are very good people, being people whos jobs are dedicated to giving families those last few moments with loved ones.

    • @IwasBlueb4
      @IwasBlueb4 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ur wrong and so r the 3.8 k who liked ur comment..ur all v naive

    • @mcmlxii4419
      @mcmlxii4419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@IwasBlueb4 I agree. I didn't find this woman caring or particularly respectful at all. To me she just seemed weird and a little full of herself.

    • @jotham777
      @jotham777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Except she demeans men in the industry. She more than implies that men can’t help those grieving.
      Would you praise a male mortician who suggested that female morticians don’t have what it takes to care for those grieving?

    • @mcmlxii4419
      @mcmlxii4419 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Anonymous Humanbeing Why the unnecessary apostrophe? The word is "cameras".

  • @followmeonrobloxmynameisip5970
    @followmeonrobloxmynameisip5970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2454

    She looked like she is from the 50's ... I love it❤️❤️

    • @abrianna3651
      @abrianna3651 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i will follow you on roblox my roblox name is raynalove1 and SAME!!! i loveeeeee her style!!!!!!!!

    • @kiahshort1165
      @kiahshort1165 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      666th like

    • @AjieA
      @AjieA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      FR

    • @nunubooboo4199
      @nunubooboo4199 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      An she looks weird

    • @christophermaine4085
      @christophermaine4085 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      She kinda looks like Jackie Kennedy almost

  • @Neferterri
    @Neferterri 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She’s awesome.
    I just graduated mortuary school. Taking my boards next week. Can’t wait to get out there and help families out 🌸

  • @rian7680
    @rian7680 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love her looks she's got that vintage pastel macabre vibe

  • @lindalicata8303
    @lindalicata8303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2261

    Lost my father on March 28th. He was 97 years old. He looked like he was sleeping. They did a good job. He was wearing a Italian Suit. RIP Francesco Licata. You are with Mommy now. God Bless.

    • @niaavhs
      @niaavhs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Linda Licata r.i.p to your dad! he lived a long life.

    • @icrymatchatears2857
      @icrymatchatears2857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      i hope he's in peace

    • @FrogKing77
      @FrogKing77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      😢 rip

    • @archagoodwill271
      @archagoodwill271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Rip i hope

    • @connierich7230
      @connierich7230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      He lived a nice long life, and the fine italian suit tells me your dad was a very classy man! RIP Mr. Licata.

  • @lifewithsy7950
    @lifewithsy7950 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2328

    "They haven't talk back yet"
    Me:😶 tf

  • @greygarden485
    @greygarden485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lovely video. Refreshing to see someone who truly loves their job and puts love and compassion into her passed on client. Just beautiful!!

  • @LuLu24Ayo
    @LuLu24Ayo ปีที่แล้ว

    Same story as many here, my grandfather passed after a six year battle with the effects of a stroke, when he passed he looked very tragic, when we viewed him he looked like the granddaddy I saw when I was a child, my mom was in awe, it was her father.
    It ignited my interest in this career. I have the heart for it.

  • @Amar_Sapam
    @Amar_Sapam 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1866

    "Sometimes I talk to them but they haven't talked back yet" I love this woman ♥️♥️♥️

    • @vickielynn1597
      @vickielynn1597 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That was funny but wierd. LOL.😂

    • @issya9595
      @issya9595 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I said the same thing to someone recently while working!

    • @enockkaisala1936
      @enockkaisala1936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and thats psycho

    • @rachaelortiz3960
      @rachaelortiz3960 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She disrespectful

    • @erikbriela3777
      @erikbriela3777 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      666th liker .-.

  • @cmedyugrrerukn7817
    @cmedyugrrerukn7817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2784

    She’s like living in 1942 or something like, she looks old fashioned.

    • @shirley6070
      @shirley6070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      Vintage style not vintage values

    • @salinawhite7669
      @salinawhite7669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      DID YOU EVER find surprised WHEN dressing up dead body ALL OF A sudden THAT THEY was alive

    • @salinawhite7669
      @salinawhite7669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thinks THAT MY PARENTS WAS still alive WHEN funeral home came OVER took THEIR'S BODY THAT'S WHY I ASKED IF YOU EVER found THEM still alive

    • @fairycringemother964
      @fairycringemother964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      More like the 60s

    • @cherylcoomes6739
      @cherylcoomes6739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr lol

  • @ashtynsmith17
    @ashtynsmith17 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i live in lexington currently and have been thinking about going into mortuary science (hence why i'm watching this)
    it feels like a sign..

  • @harowil3
    @harowil3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should be commended for your straight-forward yet sensitive look into the work you do, I have tried for years to get a mortician to be able to understand the basics of death. They are not used to or have the desire to see the reality of someone completely being committed to preserving the dignity and essence of their life and soul and how the body is the encapsulation of the entire history of a. Human being! Your outlook, expressed by your words, seemingly are an exception and for that I thank you!

  • @shrutismitanaik8444
    @shrutismitanaik8444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2884

    "I might even talk to them sometimes"
    "They haven't talked back yet"
    Fuck

    • @b.d6642
      @b.d6642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      I don't know what about her but i wouldn't want them to talk back

    • @halos4124
      @halos4124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Yet.....

    • @yorsecretstalker3558
      @yorsecretstalker3558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂

    • @raymondmiller5098
      @raymondmiller5098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      After "the first one talks back" it might be prudent to reconsider your evening alcohol consumption...

    • @lizziecn2729
      @lizziecn2729 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @Philicia0413
    @Philicia0413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7782

    I've noticed that all morticians have a peculiar fashion sense lol they almost always look to be in the wrong era

    • @Loganon2wheels
      @Loganon2wheels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +687

      Most of them could be actors, they are so professional, well spoken, and dress nicely. It seems like they have a better view on life than someone who doesn't work with people who have passed.

    • @aaa-tm5kv
      @aaa-tm5kv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +296

      i'm studying to be one and i'm a tradgoth / 80's goth lol

    • @majie1018
      @majie1018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      They dress not to kill, but to look creepy.

    • @GreekHandofThanatos
      @GreekHandofThanatos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@aaa-tm5kv I’m fixing to begin my college career this fall to become a Medical Examiner, but I’m hoping to get started working with death by getting a job at a funeral home first, while going to college.

    • @Julia-ln5og
      @Julia-ln5og 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      They aren't but rather we are

  • @winxies1502
    @winxies1502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She is an inspiration. Such a calm job. Rather deal with the dead then the living. 🙄

  • @gowiththeflo8742
    @gowiththeflo8742 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mom passed away recently (not covid related) and as with the passing of any loved one, the grieving family and friends are overwhelmed with going through the emotions of their loss.
    I was so relieved that the funeral mortician/beautician took care of my beloved mom and best friend with dignity and the respect she well deserved. She looked stunning. My dearest mom looked elegant and lovely. A real Grace Kelly. Mom always looked so beautiful and her skin was impeccable. We were so grateful that they made mom's last makeover look like a sleeping beauty.

  • @morningboy_
    @morningboy_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2652

    She looks the part as well. She looks like she lived over 100 years and takes the life that the bodies could’ve have lived and add them to her lifespan-

    • @carolinv.4633
      @carolinv.4633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      They should make a movie out of this!

    • @malafi3gn354
      @malafi3gn354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      ok movie idea

    • @user-nubiangoddess
      @user-nubiangoddess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She looks older than 30 also

    • @bangtan.mp4747
      @bangtan.mp4747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      jk rowling: "WRITE THIS DOWN, WRITE THIS DOWNN-"

    • @haiky8104
      @haiky8104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      hOLD ON MAYBE YOU'RE ON TO SOMETHING-

  • @14kruitben
    @14kruitben 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2644

    Nobody has said anything about her amazing style! Love the 1950's vibe she has got going on!

    • @kaktees
      @kaktees 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      14kruitben yeah! Not everyone can pull it off imho

    • @ACommeAnita
      @ACommeAnita 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Yes, she looks beautiful

    • @Sophsenn
      @Sophsenn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      14kruitben her glasses are gorgeous

    • @babapood
      @babapood 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      14kruitben sameee

    • @cassif19
      @cassif19 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was reading the comment section just to find a comment about her style. She's gorgeous

  • @VictoriaMarch13
    @VictoriaMarch13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish this were way longer! I would love to hear and see more from her. She's awesome!

  • @YoungoneYoung-lm4xe
    @YoungoneYoung-lm4xe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your professionalism and compassion towards the deceased and the loved ones left behind.

  • @sinisterone4673
    @sinisterone4673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4619

    I feel like Netflix could make a killer series out of this

  • @flashtheguardian8501
    @flashtheguardian8501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3004

    The way she walks,touch's things and acts she like a female villan in a movie. There is something about her for sure edit..... ( 13/10/2020)thanks for the 693 likes guys appreciate

  • @andreajones7078
    @andreajones7078 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This has been the most beautiful vid I have ever watched on TH-cam. I too work with the deceased and their families. It's not for everyone and I take great pride in nurturing the angels.

  • @chrisunderwood1614
    @chrisunderwood1614 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just lost my father & knowing that the folks at the mortuary would treat him with dignity & respect was paramount to our family. Ty for proving there are beautiful wonderful souls in your business. I wish love & happiness. You are doing God's work❤

  • @SacredFire777
    @SacredFire777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2048

    She looks like she could have lived back in the fifties or sixties.

    • @megansampson5445
      @megansampson5445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      an old soul

    • @TaylorKnightCosplay
      @TaylorKnightCosplay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It’s called vintage

    • @rubenpretorius3436
      @rubenpretorius3436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Vampire or immortal

    • @nxghtghost8560
      @nxghtghost8560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@rubenpretorius3436 lol no she just dresses in a very vintage style

    • @dgef
      @dgef 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thats her style
      'retro chic'

  • @spacediof
    @spacediof 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6394

    People are saying she’s weird but I disagree...she just has a job not typical to most that she’s passionate about🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @thaliasghost
      @thaliasghost 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I don't think she is weird, I just think she is annoying. She is shallow and thinks because she dresses like a 50s housewife turned goth it makes her special.

    • @spacediof
      @spacediof 6 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      thaliasghost You sound miserable but okay.

    • @thaliasghost
      @thaliasghost 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Don't psychoanalyze strangers. It's allowed to have a critical mind and opinions. You thinking somebody has to be miserable when they do means that you probably are incapable of critical thought. See what I did there. Her work revolves around death. That's the least place where you should be into outward appearance. We all leave the world the way we came. Naked. I don't want somebody who gets her self esteem from her clothes and make up to deal with my dead body, simple. She's not weird at all.

    • @taylarmaiden5832
      @taylarmaiden5832 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Right It don’t even matter as long as she getting that shmoney 😂

    • @stephenpayne7487
      @stephenpayne7487 6 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      thaliasghost you said "She's shallow and thinks bc she dresses like a 50s housewife she's special" then turned around and said "don't psychoanalize strangers" practice what you preach!

  • @hollygarfield123
    @hollygarfield123 ปีที่แล้ว

    bro ive been studying environmental science for three years and this videos making me rethink my entire career path

  • @sofeygoree4263
    @sofeygoree4263 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mad respect for ur job 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👍🏽

  • @rhiannon0008
    @rhiannon0008 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1323

    Everything about this just seemed like a Netflix series already

    • @ryder4709
      @ryder4709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      sadly the closest thing I've seen is a show called "The Casketeers" and that's no where close to a decent series, its hella boring

    • @usenotfound168
      @usenotfound168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A show called a hunting of hill house

    • @miss_shaant
      @miss_shaant 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ryder lol I tried watching it but I felt like it’s more about his family rather than what they do.

    • @shaeeok
      @shaeeok 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      They should make it one just on being a Mortician

  • @ojustambe1918
    @ojustambe1918 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1175

    “ I am not afraid of being a comfort to someone that most people would be afraid to comfort.” Wow that hit me hard!

    • @dude4054
      @dude4054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I lost about 34 brain cells trying to read this

    • @jamiedavids1905
      @jamiedavids1905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dude4054 same 😂

  • @sherriv4860
    @sherriv4860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love her! Her personality and style is so original and cool😍

  • @itsjoanne.x
    @itsjoanne.x ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good video. I said my last goodbye to my grandad today and he looked so beautiful in the blue outfit they put him in. He died Monday 16th January and his funeral is next week on Monday. Xx

  • @prishashetty4516
    @prishashetty4516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1828

    "Whatever happens should happen with respect and dignity " wow so beautiful !!!

  • @endangeredmexican9644
    @endangeredmexican9644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1756

    Everyone gangsta till she sneezes and the corpse says "bless you"

    • @PokePrince
      @PokePrince 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Naaaaah 🤣🤣🤣

    • @userNOTfound1-3
      @userNOTfound1-3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      bruv😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bibi-ut3sl
      @bibi-ut3sl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yowwww😭😭

    • @user-zg5ej3yh1y
      @user-zg5ej3yh1y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes and wets herself at the same time

    • @nexity.
      @nexity. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I WHEEZED 😭😭

  • @dn7200
    @dn7200 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s the comforting aspect of the business I love the MOST!

  • @Robsav-yx6vi
    @Robsav-yx6vi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you. What you do is very special. Please always know
    Your respect and professionalism will always be appreciated.

  • @JovencitaBella15
    @JovencitaBella15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1901

    This looks like a scary movie waiting to be released..

    • @carolm7037
      @carolm7037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jovencita Bella it feels creepy!

    • @nichollsalazar6413
      @nichollsalazar6413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right! Like American horror story episode.😬

    • @nr-xb4ry
      @nr-xb4ry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      watch the autopsy of jane doe on netflix!

    • @punkalien4896
      @punkalien4896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I would totally watch that movie tho

    • @desireelovely2002
      @desireelovely2002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jovencita Bella so I’m gonna guess you haven’t seen the autopsy of Jane doe-

  • @lindab7465
    @lindab7465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +880

    She's basically a Tim Burton character and I love it

  • @brooter1
    @brooter1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing this. My dad passed away 2 days ago and I found a comfort in this.

  • @rogerkings9168
    @rogerkings9168 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for showing compassion and care for loved ones

  • @SwirlyisCool
    @SwirlyisCool 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2811

    Is it just me or the female morticians I've gotten to know tend to have a vintage-looking style of sort? Like it feels like it's a requirement to have if you want to be a mortician and you identify as female. :P Not gonna lie it's a nice aesthetic to mix with the theme of death.
    Edit: so many likes! Ty!

    • @royhsieh4307
      @royhsieh4307 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I think it's the nature of the job u won't know what kind of extra family member will show up at the funeral you wanna be as professional or traditional as you can without looking too much dollar sign involved. Kinda like dignity and respect all mixed together in a politically correct package and vintage is the way to go

    • @_roqui_
      @_roqui_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      I think it's just a trend! Its either the vintage babe or the goth chic like Abby from law and order! People also get into fields they feel reflects their personality or sense of style!!

    • @lt-so9vm
      @lt-so9vm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      " a nice aesthetic to mix with the theme of death." what the actual hell is wrong with you??

    • @rgp1289
      @rgp1289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ZilloCars I plan on being a mortician, i am a female, and don't dress vintage lol.

    • @ehno4913
      @ehno4913 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr

  • @this_mfr
    @this_mfr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1181

    A family friend recently took his life by gunshot. The family wanted to have a viewing and I was COMPLETELY against this, doing everything I could to explain that this is the last image in their minds they will have of him and it will not be pretty.
    They went ahead with the viewing and I could NOT believe how well the funeral home was able to make him look just fine. There was a small scar across one portion of his head, but that was it. They went into complete detail filling the missing bone and areas of his skull, adding fake hair that matched his, and making him completely presentable.
    In the end, I was very happy the family went ahead with the viewing. They received the closure they needed and I am at awe at the work these morticians do.

    • @huhh6969
      @huhh6969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I saw a similar case like this of Ronnie Mcnutt. Hope everyone is doing well in the family, it must be hard for everyone right now.
      RIP to your family friend and also, may his family be okay☮️☮️☮️

    • @igorsmart8078
      @igorsmart8078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I guess if that gunshot would've been from shotgun, filling missing bones unfurtunetly would be much, much more problematic. Anyway...from my perspectice it matters how person lived his life, not how pretty he is in a coffin on a funeral.

    • @sahrinawilliams7440
      @sahrinawilliams7440 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@igorsmart8078 my grandpa just killed himself with a shotgun yesterday. Not sure how they are going to fix that...

  • @loriwoloshyn7266
    @loriwoloshyn7266 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There's always a demand for this trade. It's not for the faint of heart, and takes a special kind of person, that hopefully treats the deceased with respect.

  • @izzybean9085
    @izzybean9085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel what people need to understand is...whether you feel its unnecessary or not, it might help a grieving family. It might help a parent see their child one more time or vice versa. Some people need this closure to help them cope with the grief of losing a beloved. You can call this job 'useless' or 'a waste of time' but its just not your way of coping with death and thats fine! But this is still a respectable profession that like it or not people will still choose because they want to see their loved ones before burying them. Totally fine if you don't want to be embaled or if you don't want a funeral in general. Thats great! But don't belittle the field that helps people overcome grief at least a little bit.
    Also don't find a chained funeral home if you do choose to. I will agree some places will take advantage of grievers but almost all the funeral homes I've seen have been extremely respectful and extremely helpful with families and their finances and needs.

  • @unnotxcedrie
    @unnotxcedrie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1382

    “They haven’t talked back *YET* “

    • @jokerking1251
      @jokerking1251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Wait they will dont run

    • @jimjim1181
      @jimjim1181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Use the ouiji board?

    • @stinkerbellsm0m
      @stinkerbellsm0m 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Classic_Rock Richards_ I love your profile picture

    • @CertifiedBoii_8
      @CertifiedBoii_8 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      *HOLD UP*

    • @stinkerbellsm0m
      @stinkerbellsm0m 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am I the only one that thinks this is interesting and exciting? 😂

  • @kiing.josiiah.reaacts1675
    @kiing.josiiah.reaacts1675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1297

    I feel like this would be the coolest Netflix series!

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      +king.josiiah.reaacts1 We agree!

    • @janetjohnson5475
      @janetjohnson5475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      There is a show on Netflix called The Casketeers. It's about a family that owns a funeral home. It's a really cute tv show and respectful.

    • @janetjohnson5475
      @janetjohnson5475 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Netflix show..The Casketeers..super cute tv show!

    • @gcopter1963
      @gcopter1963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Way ahead of you...Six Feet Under...

    • @janetjohnson5475
      @janetjohnson5475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gcopter1963 Oh my that's an old one but a great show. The others tho are reality shows so different.

  • @princekalika4147
    @princekalika4147 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow today I saw humanity and humility, God bless you lady.

  • @illstuffamattresswithyou5657
    @illstuffamattresswithyou5657 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a Funeral Director/Embalmer…she is amazing in her message

  • @Gacha_vivi978
    @Gacha_vivi978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1440

    She's like a long lost cousin of the Adams family

    • @Gacha_vivi978
      @Gacha_vivi978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Sandra Kenny stop doing crack or whatever shit you're on, you're literally commenting nonsense.

    • @bungan7197
      @bungan7197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love that movie

    • @birb2197
      @birb2197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Sandra Kenny yo what are you on, you seem to be in the clouds

    • @andreamtz.7316
      @andreamtz.7316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Gacha_vivi978 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @melladodyemmy7
      @melladodyemmy7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh 🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂😂