When MARRIAGE is Tough

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 พ.ค. 2024

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  • @ribreeze
    @ribreeze 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    Someone in the internet once said "Getting married is easy, being married is hard, but staying married is beautiful."
    Stay strong guys.

  • @spongebob3857
    @spongebob3857 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +220

    I might be wrong saying this but this is my personal opinion! Please donot share your marriage issues to public when it can be mend.. this will be more harmful to your relationship and marriage!! He cannot be in your control but YOU can control You.. therefore do right things... From a concerned viewer

    • @BobMarley-ic8ol
      @BobMarley-ic8ol 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      sharing lessens your burden

    • @spongebob3857
      @spongebob3857 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      @@BobMarley-ic8ol yeah maybe to your family, friends, relatives !! Not public.!

    • @ching2443
      @ching2443 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yea you're absolutely right... something's need to be kept private and taken care of privately coz lots of relationship are broken these days who shows their lives constantly on social media...

    • @thorinokenshield4722
      @thorinokenshield4722 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree

    • @kino9978
      @kino9978 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Probably a manufactured drama for views.

  • @chemnyu6198
    @chemnyu6198 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    If you have problem with him, leave him or sort things out in PRIVATE. But don't exploit him publicly. Every individual has a right to privacy, so respect his privacy as well.
    This is a big red flag to me.

  • @SaBa-ro7yn
    @SaBa-ro7yn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Nabam, I’m getting more and more impressed by you! You’re handling life so maturely.
    Tip: working out when you feel down is brilliant as it makes you think of something else even if halfheartedly + will get you back to being fit.
    Try to walk a lot, if you can. And let him work through his mood, talk to him when he’s back to normal and ask him what he’d like you to do for him when he’s down. Good luck!
    BTW, thank you for those shots of the dogs 😍

  • @supergirlgg4430
    @supergirlgg4430 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You’re such a strong lady! ❤️ Marriage is not a bed of roses and it’s okay you’ll get it through that rough patches in marriage is only a lesson for partners to understand his/her partner. ❤ it’s okay everyone has their own bad days and its normal sis!

  • @binagurung4988
    @binagurung4988 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    We must think 1000 times before fixing our mind to settle down from all angles. We should always listen to our parent's advice first.

  • @chandaajayshetye3309
    @chandaajayshetye3309 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Nabam when he cools down. Ask him what worries him. Live and let live ❤Some time we need space😘 Just trust god everything will be fine. God bless 😇

  • @lmungray
    @lmungray 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Nabam I agree with you, marriage is not easy, it's tough. And yes the effort needs to be put up from both the sides. When one partner is low the other needs to back up and vice versa. ❤

  • @Tanubasar
    @Tanubasar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You said it, it’s “hard” like a rock. Married couples are like one soul in two bodies. If one person is suffering the other one automatically starts showing the same symptoms.
    Take care Di ❤

  • @yuunaamera
    @yuunaamera 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are a brave girl 🥹 I almost teared up towards the end
    Be strong my girl

  • @temsuyangla
    @temsuyangla 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It happens each and every marriage life, life goes ups and downs... be patient and wait, he'll be okay, Love u both❤i knw u r a strong woman, keep smiling 😊

  • @Jiggy_Z
    @Jiggy_Z 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yes plz I can’t stress this enough that how important it is to focus on yourself. When you focus on you and bettering yourself everything nice attracts automatically to you. And I get that your partners mood directly affects yours but at the end of the day they are their own person and you’ve to let them deal with their shit on their own unless they ask for help ofc

  • @adaariina7175
    @adaariina7175 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its a good decision that you are going to focus on yourself. Keep yourself busy and focus your thinking on how to be more beautiful. By doing so, gradually he will start focusing on you. Because he will notice that you are changing and he will try to game up his magic to attract you back.

  • @LikhaNem-qw8eu
    @LikhaNem-qw8eu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless you sister i wish everything is getting well soon how heard to be painful because you leave everything, family, parents , relatives only for him one of hardest things is you are in another country 😢😢😢

  • @ObiTawsik
    @ObiTawsik 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    it is hard & a good relationship will always have fights ❤ stay bless both of you & miss you 🤍🤍🤍

  • @Tripurasamatola2356
    @Tripurasamatola2356 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agreed with you.. marriage is not easy but..stay strong

  • @diksheetaC
    @diksheetaC หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Didi I can understand that you are going through a lot, but stay strong 🔥. And in my opinion it's better not to share every little detail of your relationship publicly, which might hurt your partner... communication with your partner is the key!!

  • @s.sang.
    @s.sang. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Keep going.... Keep working out for ur own betterment... nobody is going to help u better than u.... Trust in God for ur life's journey & Never give up...

  • @esthertame7096
    @esthertame7096 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sisi... Dil bada karke rahiye. Jindagi bohot lambi hai apas me ekdusre se pyar or izzat se rehna hai tabhi life achii se kategi.

  • @silawannamunglang
    @silawannamunglang 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very true i can’t understand your feelings…samajh saktai (maan kharab aur din kharab aur mentally disturb hojane wala baat jo aapne sahi kaha) lekin aap jiju ka behaviour se maan chota mat kijiye…woh thik hojayega kuch overthink kar raha hoga. Take care and stay happy always 🫶🏻❤️

  • @Pimpytachang
    @Pimpytachang 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    M a newly married too. My mom is Nabam too. Sending you hugs & lots of love. Sis stay strong m sure it will be hard for you in a foreign land away from family & relatives. Sometimes men are moody and so are we, it’s better to give space to each other and not depend emotionally too much on your partner. The best is you can continue to keep loving yourself more & work on yourself. Loving yourself is really beneficial overall & for the relationship.

  • @Lochapizi
    @Lochapizi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Give him little space and focus on yourself ❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @hyunatai2747
    @hyunatai2747 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes it is hard but it is also part of life... So just go with the flow

  • @MrSeemaseema
    @MrSeemaseema 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Both of you Stay Strong ✌🏻

  • @reenatyagi9367
    @reenatyagi9367 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Yes... According to psychology of humans at first Humans in Early stages have Sense of curiosity,Sense of strangers thing,Sense of excitement which overshadow the potential issues and reality...After getting known to each other these is the later stage where Sense of Curiosity,Stranger thing, Excitement,Busy in Something..ends so at first what we see good conversation may not find at last...But there are some friends and partners who will continue to have good conversation even in later stages...Those are the people with Commitment, Compatibility, Communication, Adaptability,Emotional intimacy....These happens in friendship and relationships...just Accept it nabam thank you for sharing this with your channel you shows the respect that your viewers have to know what is the marriage in reality...we are all with you don't let down....♥️

  • @Nozemikhu
    @Nozemikhu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    COMMUNICATION and Emotional intelligence is the key to healthy marriage life

  • @lassnxtdoor8649
    @lassnxtdoor8649 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I hope u see the pattern in his mood swings and let it not affect you. Once or twice in a while is ohk but having it every week is not healthy for long term. Maybe you guys can sit down and talk about it, like one to one interaction. Just saying so that both of you can thrive in a healthy relationship. 😊

  • @binitadkhar4412
    @binitadkhar4412 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don’t worry .. everything will be ok,part of life

  • @Iamnew631
    @Iamnew631 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like your feeling😊keep it up

  • @jennniee
    @jennniee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Couple looks like brother and sister 😂😂😂❤❤❤love from Nagaland

  • @minthungrekhu
    @minthungrekhu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Up n down hotai he hai stay strong n love each other ❤

  • @drema8238
    @drema8238 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I feel you di but don’t feel sad but share this with your family dear it’s not good to share in public because nazar is real be strong di but share with your family and all ha do be strong

  • @nnk2915
    @nnk2915 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Every cloud has a silver lining.

  • @Longs91
    @Longs91 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OMG...I didn't notice you too much healthy 😂 love from Nagaland ❤

  • @himanshusingh5214
    @himanshusingh5214 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You can talk to professional marriage counselors who have seen hundreds if not thousands of cases. They will spot the problem and provide a solution. If one counselor doesn't work, you can go to the next. Friends, family and the internet may not provide the best advice because these people have limited knowledge and every case is unique.

  • @aerina1560
    @aerina1560 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lots of love from me di❤.A silent viewer ,Hope u will win in life and overcome everything💓.

  • @PeeRiba-zp6fq
    @PeeRiba-zp6fq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Apko dekhkar Garmi tho nahi dekhta hai because you are looking so cool n cute 😘

  • @Emma1234-b6w
    @Emma1234-b6w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Probably he is too stress may be office work dealing with clients and all . Bhaiya did lose his weight . May be coz of that he is too exhausted . Its oaky di he wilk be fine just give him some space & you too take care of your mental health . 😊♥️

  • @rubyfernandes8635
    @rubyfernandes8635 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hope Kim feels better and you both make up with a romantic dinner... Never let the Romance in your marriage die !.. Take care of yourself Nabam and get your health back on the right track 😊

  • @rakhibini5021
    @rakhibini5021 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I feels ur inside felling ....i know u missing ur family vry hard on this suitation....

  • @Buu_Boo
    @Buu_Boo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pls dont take it wrong but if someone's partner doesnt communicate, gives silent treatment and its affecting the other person mentally over and over again its not healthy. Please take care of yourself and put yourself first😊

  • @apidupingduping3827
    @apidupingduping3827 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Di don't worry jiju ka mood ko thora time dedo.... let it be stay healthy ❤❤❤❤ lots of love from arunachal

  • @Lily_telli
    @Lily_telli 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hope kim jiju is fine 😢 really sad to you like this Di
    Apki nature itni happy nature but aj aise Dekhi ki dil dhuk gayi 😢😢😢 sending you lots of love

  • @Nobodyrule6407
    @Nobodyrule6407 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Stay strong didi❤

  • @poporo515
    @poporo515 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ate , i jst wanna say ki whatever problems u might be facing right now, it will eventually fade away. So i hope u stay positive as always🤗✨❤️ ....and may god bless kim jiju and u both🫶🏻

  • @MrTruth-sx5re
    @MrTruth-sx5re 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ghar ghar ki kahani hai, everything will be Allright.

  • @ajumruba8951
    @ajumruba8951 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We love you jiju ❤❤ and di also ❤❤

  • @sanjubasumata6621
    @sanjubasumata6621 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I like people like you not hiding behind the media

  • @abenlatinu7824
    @abenlatinu7824 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Always remember that life is not a bed of roses

  • @violinakhakhlari5290
    @violinakhakhlari5290 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hope everything will be fine ❤

  • @nellkadu6323
    @nellkadu6323 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Exactly marriage is not an easy 😞

  • @user-qt5rn5nd7i
    @user-qt5rn5nd7i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Take care❤

  • @hyunatai2747
    @hyunatai2747 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    U r looking so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mungdaal6343
    @mungdaal6343 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Soldier soldier song meh Sunny ka bhai Bobby tha 😝

  • @Johogadekhajayega_111
    @Johogadekhajayega_111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sister set your mind positively and jab dukh hoga jor jor se gaana gao. Atcha lagega. My best friend just recently arrived Mexico to stay with her Husband. Meet her if possible, she’s so full of positive energy and very Bindass. I will share you their restaurant name, its Everest curry house, with Indian and Nepal flag in the restaurant. It’s in Blvd Marin Centro-downtown, Cabo San Lucas, Baja California Sur. Uska nam Priya hai ha😊

  • @rangitakino6116
    @rangitakino6116 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Soldier Soldier meethi batein bol kar ushme toh Bobby deol h Sunny deol nhi😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @rinasubba4944
    @rinasubba4944 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Kuch nahi sister time do ❤im from itanagar

  • @crosszero1194
    @crosszero1194 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Kia game khlta h😂😂❤

  • @Timchiken12345
    @Timchiken12345 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Not bashing…but those who watch k drama n dream all Korean guy is lovey dovey. Nop sis wake-up from the dream . They are horrible to be get married. With personal experience…my sister got married and her life is in misery…I have stay with them my sis is naïve she didn’t told me anything about them but when I started seeing him …he always on bad mood without any reason and believe my sister to understand him without any explanation, what she have done . She’s didn’t share anything with our parents ….because of hype of so called Korean drama love story. He himself says we all are great pretender. I hope and pray you never go through like my sis . Stay strong..my sis is staying with him for their babies. Please take your time before giving birth….they will show you different types of faces when you give birth… grumpy mood is just beginning watch out . Stay strong

  • @dy9683
    @dy9683 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Didi ap bhi job krke khud ko busy rakho tab itna farak nhi parega uska mood swings se. Mra khayal se ap uspe jyada emotionally dependent hogya isliye aise ho rha hai. Keep yourself busy. Take care 💗 Lot's of love from Arunachal Pradesh ❤

    • @Hey_puppets
      @Hey_puppets 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Women sometimes over expect things from men
      For woman , may her man is her world but ain't applicable for vice versa

  • @RozysangtamRozy
    @RozysangtamRozy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi new subscriber ❤❤

  • @cprijesh
    @cprijesh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Tell him to stop computer or give councelling.
    These gamers without proper sleep can create mental un stability.
    Tell him to practice yoga also .

  • @yasminrohman5743
    @yasminrohman5743 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ba moi apunar vlogs saw bur apunar vlogs sai val laga

  • @mylittleworld3408
    @mylittleworld3408 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aap dono kiya profession mein ho?

  • @banakludellang7915
    @banakludellang7915 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sachmey bohut taklif hota hai jab apka partner ka moob off hota, pata nhi chalta ki kyu kya kab kese kiski wajah mood off hojata hai aur 2 3 days kliye baat karna baan kar deta hai hum se...

  • @karsanganju7721
    @karsanganju7721 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    N isSometimes aap apki Blog bana teh samai usko bhi bhat karne dijiye, taki aur ghul mil sake ,usko bhi aacha lagenge shayad, vo bhi apki life of part Hena..!

  • @kusumsonar9542
    @kusumsonar9542 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What is the name of this Mexican song u use ??

  • @ching2443
    @ching2443 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just don't be blind with love stay gurded all the time it will
    save you from any possible heartaches ...work on yourself not to impress him but khud atcha feel hoga...if possible
    don't put too much about
    private things on internet talk
    with your family but not here.

  • @movieexplanation3562
    @movieexplanation3562 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Didi Sunny Deol nahi Bobby Deol 😂

  • @duiyapenangbia8770
    @duiyapenangbia8770 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Aate you need to do GYM .aate when jiju cool down ask him what worries ,sometimes we need some private space. Mood off mai deker achanahi laga care kro khud ko or jiju ka b

  • @BobMarley-ic8ol
    @BobMarley-ic8ol 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    have u thought, you might be 1st arunachalee in mexico😏.

    • @SaritanangNang
      @SaritanangNang 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes she is i think 😅

  • @manishagvasava8100
    @manishagvasava8100 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please be a strong averting is good good okay 🙏😊😊😊😊😊🌹

  • @NayanaPatel-zl5yg
    @NayanaPatel-zl5yg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful 😍sympathy😥

  • @crystaldecodes_98
    @crystaldecodes_98 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1:29 can someone tell me the name of this song...😅

  • @binitadkhar4412
    @binitadkhar4412 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💕💕💕💕

  • @mlplayer7432
    @mlplayer7432 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Even I have this sudde mood swing problem want to b isolated n lonely around people....cook him nice food , give him space when he seems ok talk to him calmly n ya let him talk u just hold ur patience...... My mummy always advice me this when u r married n if either u or ur spouse going through a tough phase u only need to do is having patience n heart to heart communication

    • @temsuyangla
      @temsuyangla 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤

  • @nanuuli490
    @nanuuli490 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @azilumazi332
    @azilumazi332 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @minakshisutradhar704
    @minakshisutradhar704 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-bq7dw4fm7w
    @user-bq7dw4fm7w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💚💚💚

  • @TabaZirjo
    @TabaZirjo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yea tho Kam hai,..koi koi shaadi sudha log haar din WWE Wrestling kertae ek dusre k sath,...

  • @rampimodi169
    @rampimodi169 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @Mwarrior-io7wf
    @Mwarrior-io7wf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You better try to understand their culture.. Spend some quality time with his family especially parents...

  • @BobMarley-ic8ol
    @BobMarley-ic8ol 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    hows ur mental health now ( in %)❤

  • @mbagang530
    @mbagang530 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Kim Jiju acha se nahin sone ke karan mood off hota hoga

  • @alicegongo-im7xl
    @alicegongo-im7xl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You have become very healthy..when our physique becomes like that we look more like aunty..

  • @sauravlahiry6951
    @sauravlahiry6951 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    hi didi and jiju, aap dono ki shaadi 100 years tak chalegi. GOD has confirmed it. 100 %

  • @SaritanangNang
    @SaritanangNang 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    😢😢😢

  • @hellopeople12
    @hellopeople12 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m worried for you dii❤😢

  • @bt.6226
    @bt.6226 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's a symptom of divorce be prepared for yourself lady

  • @robinlau9446
    @robinlau9446 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @Kayu07
    @Kayu07 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SELF❤🎉

  • @sian4480
    @sian4480 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Aapna arunachal me hi shaadi karna hai jitna k pop hai utna aapna yaha bhi hai enjoying karne jaga bhi bahot hai Bollywood gaana sunkar mazaa le sakta hai aapna yaha . Jo bhi ho apne to apne hotey hai 😊

    • @Lily_telli
      @Lily_telli 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please apna advice apna please pas rakho 😂 apna Arunachali me shaadi karo seems 😅

    • @sian4480
      @sian4480 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Lily_telli bahar ka dunya dekh ne mein acha ho sakta hai per aapna wala feel aapko apna hi jaga se acha koi or nai 😊

    • @Lily_telli
      @Lily_telli หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sian4480 Even if you marry your own people, it’s not necessary for everyone to have the same thoughts. I think she’s happy 😃

  • @liyirriba3444
    @liyirriba3444 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dear nabum sister apko koun dussra country mein marriage karne ko bola tha aap aise bhi bohut pyari hai smart hai ....sach boloon bohut loss lgta hai apko dekke jo bhi ho god bless both of you 😊

    • @Lily_telli
      @Lily_telli 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Toh kya 2nd ya 3rd ya 4th main shadi 😅kare nabam ? And so funny 🤣 itna sab kuch taunt marne ka badh god bless you bolta hai 😂 ? Tumlog god god bolke 2nd 3rd maiki chala jao
      She’s very happy 😃 you don’t need to advice her she’s having her best life tum Arunachal main bet bet thik se comments karte raho

  • @karantaba575
    @karantaba575 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aare jab ap jese log har din jagra karne lak jao geh tho ,hum sab ka kiya hoga 😢🙏

  • @nabamesst
    @nabamesst 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sister what is your real name?..

  • @ymz..babaengligalig8827
    @ymz..babaengligalig8827 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💕🙏💕

  • @manishagvasava8100
    @manishagvasava8100 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi mam 🙏😎😎😎😎😎

  • @kyikyilhamo5377
    @kyikyilhamo5377 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear if he arguing for small things then there is crack formed in your marriage life....

  • @airboy0802
    @airboy0802 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂