Clarifying here for some men who seem to think women are entitled for wanting men pay for their meals: I make fun of entitled women (and men) who have delusional demands, not girlfriends who think it would be nice if their boyfriend would treat them to a waffle😂.
When my toddler lost one of his favorite stuffed animals, I ordered another one and told him his buddy went on vacation to visit his sick aunt. I tracked the package and gave him updates, then threw a welcome home party when the stuffie arrived 😂
Regarding the first lady, I’m actually glad he exposed himself because dudes that act like him are dangerous. I’m happy he acted like a maniac before she went out with him. That was a save.
Yeeaaaah, he was an asshole and behaved badly. But it's still not okay doxxing people and spreading their pictures, names or details online to publicly shame them. You're now offending their privacy. You can also be sued for that in some cases, if they suffer losses because of the negative publicity. If they did something threatening or illegal, you should go directly to the police with your evidence, not TikTok.
That Toot guy handled that very gracefully. He didn’t make excuses, blame someone else, or lie. He laughed at himself. That’s the best way to handle those situations. Both of my kids chose a blanket that was hand made by a Great Grandma. No way to replace them. Both of them lost their blanket when they were between 6 and 7. Oceans of tears.
Toot guy is darling, and if I was younger he'd be my type! That's husband material, right there. A guy who can face absolute embarrassing humiliation and laugh about it!
Also it's very common to fart while exercising, because of the pushing motion, same reason why it's often for women to poo while giving birth, so I'm pretty sure a lot of people have tooted while exercising, it's only human, nothing to be ashamed about. I don't go to the gym for general social anxiety, but when I exercise at home I for sure toot a lot, and so does my husband. If you toot at the gym and someone makes fun of you, look at them weird like they're stupid, cause they've probably done it too in the past. No worries people, toot freely! (also when he said it got worse I was 100% sure he was gonna say that later he went home and found out he hadn't just tooted, but straight up sharted, and for sure everyone in the locker room had seen it when he changed his pants cause he was in white boxers or something lmao)
When I was adopted I came with one toy a gray elephant with a rubber band tail. My parents tried to save it for me but unfortunately they were devastated it got chewed up when some mice got into the box it was in. When I turned of all things 21 they got me handmade a beautiful gray elephant with a red curly tail just The same size which surprised me it had been a big thing no wonder why my mama tried to save it because back then stuffed animals were small and this was a big elephant It must have been as big as I was I guess it had been the only thing the police had been able to save. My favorite toy and I still have it is a very old very old sambo's the restaurant tiger that I played with until it's practically hairless from Gund toys with green eyes and my dad called me tiger I think that was my first toy from them and I still have that to this day
My sister was an incubator baby. She still has the stuffed animal (it was a bunny rabbit) that was given to her when she was in the hospital. That was 62 years ago and you can tell by looking at it now, it has seen better days! Kind of like the one the girl is holding in the 2nd picture!
First guy isn't just a creep, he's also a stalker. SO he thought that he can try and "Hook up" with a random woman, try and bribe her with empty promises of "Financial support" and THEN basically find a way to call her again by somehow STALKING her on her pages or something, then verbally assault her when she rejects her? Lady, I HOPE you tipped the cops off about "Julius" and his actions after that! He just sounds like a toxic "Nice Guy"!
Women and quite a few Men on every social media platforms have hunting for this guy.... Actually a few people found him and put his information out there. He threatened assault and that can't be taken lightly!
The guy who lifts weights was so sweet and funny. Somehow you like him even more afterwards. No toxic masculinity, just good self esteem, self worth and a great sense of humor ❤
I wasn’t a stuffed animal or blanket person. I was the dog’s favorite kid. She followed me everywhere. She was a terrible dog, flunked out of obedience school and everything. It’s the funniest thing to me thinking back: the only person who could control this absolute menace of a dog was a little girl. You don’t need a stuffy when you got a fluffy.
@@ellabryant4976 Way to miss the joke playing off the point of why the video was even shared! 😂 They were teasing about what the Chinese girl was saying to him in the video. You know, when she was telling the one decent guy she'd met on the app that she hadn't met ANY handsome guys yet. In context, most people realize she likely didn't mean it as a commentary toward him... or did she???
I couldn't stop admiring how awesome the goth looked as she told her story. Good on her for defending herself. And that one guy who knew Chinese? He was so cool....and I daresay handsome in a humble way. He even stayed nice even as the conversation turned awkward. I'd be friends with that guy.
The guy speaking Chinese looked decent, I would have dated him. Also, the girl didn't look like a supermodel. they were both about average/ normal looking in my opinion. I could picture them together 😊
Pro tip for parents: When your child has chosen it's preferred stuffed animal, go get at least 3 to 5 other ones from the exact same brand and model. So over the years you can replace it and say you washed it, or maybe even got it to the puppet doctor/stuffed animal doctor and have it healed again. When you do not use all of them, still keep at least one for when your child is an adult and will appreciate and be thankful you still have THAT stuffed animal for him/her.
To add on to this, also make sure you NEVER tell them you replaced the stuffy even if they are an adult lol, it’ll hurt their heart. And if you never mention replacing them they probably won’t ever realize🫶🏻
mine didn't do that. Money was tighter for my family when I was a kid due to my mom leaving her teaching job to be home with the kids full-time, so instead we were taught to understand that the things we have don't last forever and to treasure and protect what we have in the time we have it. Mom taught us all how to patch holes in our stuffed animals, how to wash our toys first by hand then by washing machine, and how to properly block would-be thieves from taking our toys without our permission. It was a good life lesson to teach us while we were young, but I will admit it did make us more "selfish", "territorial" and "rude" in public eyes because we were unwilling to let the other kids in kindergarten take whatever they wanted away from us before we were done with them. Luckily we weren't really bullied for that, because while Mom was teaching us how to protect and care for our toys, Dad was teaching us how and where to throw a punch.
I have the same Woofie for 35 years. He went thru heck and back with me. My youngest started wanting his own woofie, so I gave him a similar one (stuffed german shepherd dog)
I have almost all my childhood stuffed animals. Just took care of them. None “died” except one I set on top of a lamp which accidentally caught it on fire.
I love the self deprecating humor of the gym guy. I love that he is so open about it and that he can handle that and be okay! I am super grateful because I have gym-intimidation, and now I can go to the gym and if I can get through a workout without farting like a horse I’m gonna feel OK about myself. 🤣🤣🤣
i think the interaction at 11:55 was actually really sweet. She was happy he spoke her language, he understood that she wasn't interested & was still trying to be polite and not push it. also im definitely a blanket kid! actually kinda have one now 😅
Yes, he was so lovely. When she kept saying no handsome men you could see his disappointment even though he was trying to hide it. Poor guy. Life is hard and finding a partner even harder. Xx
Any girl would be lucky to get a sweet guy like him 🥰. He handled it so well, and that made me feel even worse for him. Young man, if you’re looking at this, you are a catch. Any girl would be lucky to be with you! Really! I wish you met my youngest daughter 😊.
My childhood stuffed animal is a handmade bunny from my Gram who had a dress (and even bloomers!). My mom had learned to sew too so she could make repairs when she could, and if she couldn't, there was Gram. (The clothes really helped keep Bun safe from general wear and tear, too.) Eventually, I got old enough to learn that if I wanted to keep this special friend safe, I had to be careful to keep him clean and intact. Bun sits on my nightstand and is there for hugs when times are hard. He was at my wedding, too!
I think the big problem, the only problem, with the Waffle House scenario is that the boyfriend became angry with his girlfriend over something of which she had ABSOLUTELY NO CONTROL. This is a red flag. A big red flag. One can only control their own actions. One cannot control the actions of a stranger. Ever. There is no telling what may happen in any given situation. She was fine with paying for her food. Someone else decided she wasn’t going to. That’s it…and, at Waffle House. That’s not exactly an Indecent Proposal kind of venue. Honestly.
Of course she has control over it she can decline and inform that she won´t accept any payment of her food from strangers. How would she feel if she goes to eat with her boyfriend and see some strange girl giving him attention and paying his bill over and over? I mean girl can do whatever she want and accept anything coming her way, but to not understand why the boyfriend was mad at that scenario? Really? Maybe he was struggling with money at the time and was also out of control in the situation and then he has to watch his girlfriend put him on the side line as soon as some other dude came in flying for her attention. Again girl has every right to make her decisions and choose to let other man paying her bills in front of her "boyfriend", but that she don´t understand why that scenario make her "boyfriend" mad is bananas! For me that would be a red flag on her because from that moment i know instantly that if i struggle in life she will just jump ship at the first oportunity and leave me stranded!
I am 70 and my husband 75. In a box in our cupboard we have two very, very tattered stuffed dogs we had as children. We have downsized and moved several times but our dogs remain. Unfortunately we are becoming as ragged as they are.🤣
Can confirm that the meanest people go out of their way to appear “nice.” My mom is a malignant narcissist and she ends every interaction/email/voicemail with “Love and Light ✨”
@@Kronx1970Unfortunately narcissists are so good at their web of lies that they can appear the most caring victims imaginable to everyone beyond their victims. Hugs. I hope both of you make peace with the damage they have done and no longer have them in your lives. ❤
To everyone she is a wonderful, kind, thoughtful person, to me her daughter, she is a she devil. She is a "2 week wonder" after 2 weeks, she is bored of you. Only way i can breath now is by moving out of the county and blocking her phone. Hard but worth it...
My Dad bought me a little brown stuffed dog for my first Christmas. I was 8 months old. Never named beyond “my dog” it went everywhere I did until I was a tween. My dog is in great condition except for a hole in one floppy ear where a bell used to live. My dog rests on my pillow ‘til this very day. I’m 70! 🇨🇦🖖🏻🇨🇦
I'm 62, and I still have the bunny I got for Easter 60 years ago. Better yet, I have the color Polaroid pic of my toddler self holding her when she was brand new when she was shiny and yellow and we were about the same size. I named her "Yellow Bunny", not very original but I was not quite 2 years old when I got her. My mom tried to throw her away several times when I was older, but I had some kind of psychic connection to this thing and dug her out of the trash every time. Mom finally gave up. Especially when she saw how angry I was at her for disrespecting my bunny! Mom decided that wasn't the hill she was willing to die on. Now her fur is rubbed off, she's mostly grey, her once pink ears that stood straight up hang limply in tatters, and her eyeballs fall out if I'm not careful. The older we get, the more we look alike! She lives on my headboard and when I'm feeling particularly despondent, I hug her and cry. I know it's ridiculous, but if my house was burning, she's one of the first things I'd stuff in my bug-out bag. I think it's because I've lost so much, and so many loved ones in my life and she's the only constant who is still with me.
@@LazyIRanchIf you're interested, there are people who specialize in restoring soft toys and take extra care with washing and repairing them. I kept just a few stuffed animals from my early childhood and have them stored away safely. I'm in my mid 30s and I have quite a collection of collector plush these days, and a bunch I sleep with because of chronic pain. The Squishmallows that have gotten kinda grubby are going to be carefully unstitched at the turning hole, unstuffed, washed and dried, and restuffed. My mom and grandma taught me how to sew when I was young and wanted to learn (the Beanie Baby era) so it will be no problem for me to do it myself, but I know that not everyone can do that.
@@LazyIRanchIf you're interested, there are people who specialize in restoring soft toys and take extra care with washing and repairing them. I kept just a few stuffed animals from my early childhood and have them stored away safely. I'm in my mid 30s and I have quite a collection of collector plush these days, and a bunch I sleep with because of chronic pain. The Squishmallows that have gotten kinda grubby are going to be carefully unstitched at the turning hole, unstuffed, washed and dried, and restuffed. My mom and grandma taught me how to sew when I was young and wanted to learn (the Beanie Baby era) so it will be no problem for me to do it myself, but I know that not everyone can do that.
@@Just1Nora I can sew well, I used to work as a tailor in my 20s. I like her "patina" and I have stitched up any holes where the stuffing could fall out. Since I'm worse for wear and have several scars myself, I feel like we are a good match!😃
Definitely a blanket kid! I took my childhood blanket everywhere. And just two weeks ago, it got left in puerto rico. that was the end of a 24 year long journey together. Rest in peace blankie, you will surely be missed 💕💕💕💕💕
Not me who lives in Puerto Rico and would love to find your blanket to wash it and send it back However, at least you keep the memories, and I know that's the most important thing! 🥰
For the first five years of my life, I was raised by my grandparents. My mother (who held me a grudge) was physically and mentally sick. My Grandfather bought me a black and white teddy bear with a yellow bow on my third birthday. I loved that bear. After my mom recovered my parents decided to move to a different state and took me and my brother with them. My so-called father thought a five year old boy was too old to have a teddy bear. As we were driving he took him out of my arms and tossed him out the window on I-70. Even after half a century I could not forgive them.
so sorry that was mean I still have them and I'm in my 50's my sister just got my niece who always used to love going to build a bear when she was little and she had someone make a special bear for her 21st birthday using one of her late father's shirt and pants to make a bear it even has a tie made from the shirt so why don't you get a bear your never to old and it might make you feel a little better
I'm so sorry! I have a purple bear who was with me from 1 year old. I still have her decades later. She is very special to me and I couldn't imagine the pain of having your special bear thrown out the window like nothing.
In China it's not a big deal. In her view, it wasn't shade, it was just a normal conversation 😂 He probably knows that too, seeing how he didn't react to it
Oh, the guy who spoke Chinese? So, so adorable and special. Young ladies out there, don’t overlook this CUTE, FINE young man. He’s absolutely kind, understanding, and CUTE, gosh darn it. He deserves everything that he is, kind, sweet, and absolutely adorable!! Young man, you did your momma proud 😊!!
The Chinese girl just didn't get it. She needs to stop looking for the "handsome guys" and go for a great guy that she can talk, laugh and connect with. Like the awesome guy who can speak Chinese! Plus, I think he was handsome and definitely cute !
@@TopHatNatNot even sure she meant it as a dig towards him, or even that she didn't recognize that he's pretty cute. She lit up so much when he could talk to to her. I legit think iTs possible that she was so happy to be able to speak genuinely with someone, that she explained her overall experience, and it didn't necessarily have anything to do with the guy she was talking to
Just this week at my gym, there was a guy doing crunches and stuff on the floor and he baked up a MASSIVE air biscuit that I swear the whole gym heard… but everyone was so cool and polite and pretended like they didn’t hear. A man’s dignity was spared that day.
Farting is a natural side effect of working out. Everybody who works out regularly has done it and has been around when it happens to other people. You just accept it and move along.
When I was a child I always had knives ever since I could first remember! I liked having lots of pockets too, so I could carry survival stuff just in case I’m stuck in the woods, but at the time we lived in a city! LOL Yeah, I was a weird kid…. I guess I still am. At least I learned about fighting off bullies at a young age!
The first one reminds me of that girl, just laughing in the dude’s face when he’s crying about getting caught cheating it’s the same energy and I love it I’m so here for it
I’m a 43 year old man and people perceive me as a stereotypical union utility lineman and I very much remember loving Judy my sock monkey and not being allowed to take her to the hospital at 10 ish to get stitches because “I was too old for a stuffed animal” and I still think of that as a parenting mistake by my father and raised my kids better
My mom's opinion on my stuffed animal was "When she doesn't need it anymore, she'll put it away herself." ETA: Both of my parents probably would have fought anyone who tried to take my stuffed animal from me lol
Yeah, my step-dad did the same to me. I slipped and busted my chin open when I was little, probably about 8, and I just wanted to bring my floppy little giraffe with me because I was scared of the ER. I can't remember why he took it away, but I just remember being really upset about not having it with me in the waiting room. I think the only reason I remember this, beyond the scar, is because of how much worse he made the situation. It went from scary but manageable, to actually traumatic. I'm 23, and I still have issues with that night. I'm glad you're doing better than your folks on that. Kids are never really too old for comfort items, especially if they're hurt.
@@thetardyowlvg9155My parents took the same approach. In high school I had my first serious relationship, lasted over five years, and after the first year or two I no longer needed my blanket. I still like to have satin blanket binding to rub between my fingers when I'm stressed though.
I was in a horrible car accident at 12 and my parents arrived at the hospital with a stuffed bunny and I will never forget holding onto that stuffie for dear life.
Oh darling, I'm an old lady who makes sock monkeys, and I would have been delighted to be Judy's plastic surgeon if I'd known you! I made a few special monkeys back when I was really into it. One of my favorites was for a little boy whose mother contacted me through eBay where I sold mine. Her sweet little boy had Down's and he only liked wearing striped t-shirts. She sent me a pic, and I found fabric exactly like his favorite shirt. He was also wearing a ball cap, so I made that too. I didn't usually make custom monkeys, but made an exception for that little guy. She emailed me a pic of him holding that monkey and looking so happy, and that made ME happy. I made a special one for my older brother who (thankfully) has a good sense of humor. His monkey had "Billy Bob" teeth, oversized ears, and a goofy expression. When my brother was a kid, he had very crooked bucked teeth and huge ears. Braces fixed his teeth, and he grew into the ears (and grew his hair longer) and became a handsome man. His monkey had a t-shirt too, on which I painted a white Flying V Gibson guitar (like the one my brother played in his rock band in his 20s). That monkey was his Xmas gift from me, and I was 1500 miles away when he opened it. I wish they had taken video. My SIL tried to describe their reaction, but she couldn't stop laughing. I made my 82 year-old aunt a "pretty" monkey with a frilly dress, red lips, and long eyelashes. She loved it, and when her Alzheimer's took over, she treated it like it was her baby.🥲 There's no such thing as being too old for a sock monkey, IMO!
16:28 best thing i've heard from Charlotte: "Be wary of the people who spread kindness like confetti. Those are the people that hide how mean they are in real life". That should be an official quote.
@@micktrinus There's a difference and I think a word with them about feeling uncomfortable about the attention bombing will sort it out one way or another.
*sitting in silence* There's a difference between trying to be a light in a dark world and being saccharine sweet with hollow compliments. Everyone deserves kindness. Even those with ugly hearts.
I was dog kind of person, slept with him, ate with him, ran around outside with him. When I was born he was 3y/o and died when he was 16. He was the best boy.
9:11 Vanesa just created her own "emotional damage" video, by making a compilation of "emotional damage" videos. That's what I call commitment. Tha's next level.
Some people who may come across as overly friendly or nice are also people who were horribly abused as adults and children. Those are my people. I know what it's like to not hear kindness, see love, and feel visible, and I also know what it's like to invisible. I'm sure I'm not the only person out there who is overly kind & friendly because we know what it's like to never feel the sun on your face. Sending support, love, and kindness from Lexington, Michigan, USA
It's so nice to hear someone else who understands what it's like...What's it's like to be raised in a cold home/environment. You never want anyone to go thru what you went thru, so you are always careful with your words, considered with their feelings. It's also very easy to become a people pleaser and a push over...I come to the point where I'm exhausted from putting everyone else before me...working on that now.Sending all my love from Toronto Canada🙏❤️🌹
OMG!!!!! I found my people!!!!! I was going to say something similar. Those of us who have experienced either childhoods or even lifetimes of abuse are often (not always -- as the saying goes - hurt people hurt people) the most kind and empathetic. I often say that I've experienced enough ugly in this world, that I don't want to add to it. So, I try to be as considerate of others as I can without compromising my integrity.
You all are my people. But I must admit, as the world gets colder and less people reciprocate, it’s getting harder. I hope it’s temporary and I’m not changing.
My oldest boy had a blanket he dragged around everywhere. We had to wait for a nap to throw it in the washer. It got torn and the next time we were at my Mom’s house she offered to sew it up for him. I took a picture of him standing next to her at the sewing machine just bawling while she worked on it. It was her favorite picture!😂 Also, that sweet young man who took the extra effort to speak in that girl’s native language to make her feel at ease deserves the sweetest woman in the world who will cherish him. He was cute! Get yourself a sweet man, girl. Those “handsome” looks fade, sweet lasts forever!
When i was a kid i had a limited edition Fievel Mouskewitz stuffie from when An American Tail came out in 1986. I loved that thing, i even named my cat Fievel! A family member sent it to me from either America or Canada, i cant remember (im in UK). I had that thing until i was an about 25 and then it got lost in a house move. I was devastated. My husband managed to track one down online from America a few years ago, which was no small feat and bloody expensive too since it was in basically new condition, and surprised me with it on Christmas day. Absolutely magical! I cried so much lol. Now my cat Fievel and my stuffie Fievel both sleep with me every night ❤
My childhood “stuffed animal” was a literal towel. A pink towel that we got at a Memorial Day sale at Kohls because I thought it looked so soft and refused to put it down. I walked around in a delusion calling it pink blankie and would meltdown if my siblings called it a towel. I still have it. But I use it as a towel 😂
My baby blanket got chewed by my dog, but I took it everywhere until I visited my dad who didn't know me well. He threw it away, thinking it a rag. This is when I learned my dad didn't love me. I never trusted him again. Thank God I still have my Teddy. (edit: and I have an amazing Mom who makes up for all the rest with her love.)
Pro Tip: When your kid chooses their favorite stuffed animal, buy 2 replacements, and when one needs to be washed, swap it out for another so that all three wear evenly, and the kid doesn't even notice when one gets damaged and has to get thrown away.
OR if your kid's stuffy gets fumigated because you forget it under the bed during routine spraying, she doesn't end up sobbing hysterically. (True story - thankfully my grandmother had an identical one she ordered herself, and two days later I was presented with my cat's "twin sister" who came to comfort me.)
What a psycho. The first story I cannot believe the audacity! Bro was really trying to lose his shit on her just for not answering him right away. This is why we hesitate to give out our numbers. Because of men like this.
THIS....This is a perfect example of a "Nice Guy": Goes from being "Polite and innocent" to being a toxic, insecure and entitled stalking creep who just thinks with his penis instead of his brain!
@cristela4034 how tf is giving someone their number meaning they're EASY!? that is a bizzare mindset. They're the ones going up to sometimes multiple women asking for their number, how hypocritical would it be to delude yourself into thinking the women *you* asked into talking with you, is easy?? Wouldnt that make him more desperate than anything else if you use that same mindset even if he was not a creepy guy? Plus, some people give their number out because they feel forced to. Strange that you would blame the lady in this situation who clearly didnt give him the time of day when it was the guy making all those weird advances and not stopping even when she blocked him. Thats creepy stalker esque behaviour from that guy, not a woman being easy.
@@cristela4034Have you seen what happens when we say no? I've been called a "Stuck up, b**ch," followed by a car full of men through a parking lot, followed to my car and harassed...all for saying, "No, thank you."
@@cristela4034 yikes, giving a phone number doesn't make you easy. you need to go outside and touch some grass. just because a woman talks to you doesn't mean she wants to be with you that way.
The last one is SUPER TRUE!! I live in a beach city in Cali, and went to an event in West Hollywood PRIDE2023. I met a famous lesbian who promotes positivity + awareness X 1000. She makes it seem as though she is approachable and overall open. I saw not 1, but 5 "regular" people approach her throughout the night and she was RUDE. No smiles, no positive reaction. Very much "Eww Face". A "somebody" she DIDN'T know (they said "nice to meet you") walked up to her and she had the biggest fakes smile. All laughs and shit. Needless to say...I never went to say hi and THANK HER for her "positive videos that helped me in bad time". NEVER MEET YOUR EVERYDAY HERO'S. No matter how small. Still sad about it
I thought he was super cute and he spoke her language. I’ve been in his situation plenty of times where my male friends didn’t find me attractive because I was to nice lol🤦🏽♀️🤣
@rheahorvath9274 are ypu demented? Not everyone finds every guy cute. People gave preferences and you call her a skank for that? You sound like a nice guy.
I thought I lost my childhood stuffed monkey. My sister found it last year and mailed it to me. It's so worn out, and it has drawn on eyelashes (I wanted to make him look pretty). I still love it and he is now displayed prominently on the dresser in my bedroom. Edit: I am 47 years old.
My childhood bear is sitting in my bedroom and my baby blanket is in my nightstand for when my stomach hurts. I know it’s psychological, but I swear I feel better when the blanket is on my tummy. 😂😂😂
The “Mistaken Ankle video” was hilarious. 😂😂😂 Every time I see something foreign on my body, I’d take a video like this and send to my sister for her diagnosis instead of going to the doctor first. Lol. 😂😂😂😂
For the video of the lady with the gym guy. That guy actually has a record of assault and violence so she dodged a bullet. I know this because there was a man who duetted her video and found the guys mugshot
This is why many of us don't give our numbers out, not even to workmates or acquaintances or even "potential" friends until we know the situation. Can't trust anyone anymore.
My childhood stuffed animal was a Teddy Ruxpin. Our new house burned down the day after we moved in. I found Teddy on the lawn burnt, soaked and missing an eye and his bottom jaw. TRAUMATIZED! I'm 45 years old and I still want a new Teddy. 🥺
Agreed on the stuffy replacements. My daughter was very attached to "Molly Doll" and she was flabbergasted one day when I opened up the closet and the bag that held 7 other "Molly Dolls" fell out and spilled on the floor. She suffered emotional damage.
This woman has the best sense of humor. Those reactions with the look. Hilarious. Great content. Editing is always good as well. Making the funny even more epic.
Back when I used to be pretty Goth and got told I must be a devil worshiper. I loved pulling out that Gothic originally meant godly love or the love of God. It's extra funny since I'm Christian. I just love when people Assume things!
That last story was so true! If someone is way too into spreading positively, they are probably super mean. I avoid people like that for this exact reason. I know one girl who makes her voice high pitched when she wants to sound nice, but then she finds ways to say she thinks you are a POS without actually saying it. Super messes up.
It's similar with people that post stuff about how fake their friends are and all that jazz. I had a friend like that and after she moved she stopped talking to all of her old friends and won't even tell us when she visits our town any more and yet would post stuff on how we are fake and didn't care about her. I once accidentally walked into her at the mall here and when she spotted me she had the most awkward and embarrassed facial expression
I actually cuddled and traveled across the country with my childhood stuffed animal and it is perfectly intact. I took care of it, kept her clean and I wouldn't get her dirty if I could help it aside from the occasional spills or drops in mud puddles. My stuffed animal is definitely sturdy and she now belongs to my daughter who cuddles with her every night ❤
Full disclosure: my husband threw away my blankie. It was so thin that you could read through it, and that was when it was doubled. My mum had cut it in half when I was a little girl so it could be washed, but I didn’t think it smelled right after it was washed…lol. Anyway, I was 19 years old when my husband tossed it out, and he did it on the sly. I’m still not over it. I’m 61 years old now. 😂😂😂
My daughter (36) is still traumatized when I threw away her snuggle blanket after it shredded in the washing machine. This was when she was 16. She brought it up just last week on our family vacation. 😮
I can relate... Kinda.. I miss mine, folks tossed it. We had some serious history together my blankie and I. Played outside together making mud pies, shared tears, fevers, Flu's, Food and when I lost my first tooth we found out that you got money for them as a creepy currency.. Well the next 3 days in a row I buried my face in my blankie and tore one out every night because I wanted to buy candy And of course I had just found the mecca of candy funds... For the low price of just a little pain and a few pearly whites My teacher however didn't find the teeth suddenly missing kosher and actually accused my parents of abuse 😅 oops sorry Mom and Dad... So we shared blood sweat and tears... And my folks just threw it away like it was some blanket left over from the black plague I'm still salty... And in 20 years ill still be salty Much love to you!
My ex-brother-in-law threw away ALL of my sister’s stuffed animals. That was my first clue that he was avtually EVIL! And the reason that there are about a thousand stuffed animals that belonged to my now grown kids in my garage!
Fun fact about traveling and getting stopped. My mom and dad (before he passed) went to visit Denmark. They were both Danish citizens, dad growing up there and mom's parents had grown up there and later moved to Sweden. So legally, both of them were citizens. Mom got stopped at the harbor and wasn't allowed on because her ID wasn't good enough to travel on (whole family has visited Denmark before on regular IDs several times as we grew up, due to different citizenry getting passports and IDs were a lot more expensive, so no passports), she needed the new EU national ID. Dad was allowed on because of his driver's license though, but he obv wasn't gonna strand my mom alone. So they went on like a three hour car trip to the harbor, only to have to go straight back home lmao. They later just applied for Sweden citizenry and got new IDs because it was cheaper than getting passports and went on their vacation the next year.
Yeah, that's what I thought. I think she was just so excited to meet a nice guy who could also speak Chinese, that she didn't realize what she was saying. At least I hope...
I dont get this. Is she supposed to pretend to be attracted to him and lie? Is she expected to flatter him and suck up to him if she isnt attracted to him? Seems kinda silly and insecure of people to expect everyone to be attracted to them all the time
@@theemeraldhour No I think she's just not that great at English yet and didn't realize how her comment came off (plus she seemed flustered by the other conversations she'd just had with racists). In most cultures accidentally insulting someone would be seen as a faux pas whether intentional or not. Even if she thought he was ugly she seems polite enough not to leave him with the impression she thinks so.
It works the other way too. People who are trying to be super giving are usually assholes, and the people who say "Dont be like me, I'm an asshole." have hearts of gold. 😆
Toot toot guy I just spend a half hour searching through my Charlotte Dobre binge sesh last night to find this and send it to a friend. I just watched it 3 more times. The way he tells the story and laughs and the “toot toot”. So funny. I applaud this man. He undid some of my emotional damage thru laughter 😂
I had a pink and white blanket that was aptly named Cozy, made for me by a female friend of my mother who use to make children’s blankets for kids with cancer. She would focus on making them with very soft fabrics with thin fluffy cotton inside in order to make them a comfortable as possible. I’m high functioning, so this blanket was a huge comfort for me growing up.
My favorite stuff animal was a panda and I left him on a subway train when I was 5. I was heartbroken. At 31 my mom gifted me a stuffed panda. I couldn’t believe she remembered and it made me super happy.
I’ve had my plushie since I was 4 and it went everywhere with me. I stopped sleeping with it when it felt right (around high school) and it stayed on my bed for some time until my baby sister saw it and loved it. My parents said it was a cute idea for me to give it to her, and for a few months I debated on it. One day I agreed because I wasn’t using it anymore and I was older. The moment I gave it to her she hugged it and I started bawling my eyes out. So much so, that my baby sister gave it right back and said “yours” and never asked for it again.
For the first tik tok if the phone says Unknown Caller it's a new number, but if it says No Caller ID there's a good probability that the number is in your contacts but the caller specifically called with some kind of ID blocker like *67 or a third party app, it can also say private or anonymous if they use *67 to block their ID on your phone. Hope this helps stay safe and petty out there y'all.
I have my phone set to automatically block anonymous callers. Stopped a LOT of scam calls. I'm old and ugly and live like a hermit now, so I don't have to worry about stalkers anymore.
Going through a bad phase in life. Your vids always make me feel good about myself. Like Idk its a weird feeling that all of the ppl out there who watch you I feel a sense of togetherness along with Charolette So yeah idk I feel kind of loved in a wat its like meeting a friend everyday whenever I watch your vids. Thanks everyone and Charolette you too. XOXO
Keep going. If you keep walking, eventually, things will start to turn around. Might not feel like it right now, but things will get better for you - whether it's grief you're going through, or a job issue, a breakup, or anything else. Hang in there. You've got this. Take care now.✌
I was a blankie person. My aunt made it so expertly that it never fell apart, so I still sleep with it, and I'm in my 30s. And I AM NOT ASHAMED! As a kid with terrible anxiety, it helped to have something soft to cuddle with every night, and I just got used to it along the way. It now has multiple functions, including using a corner of it as a sleep mask in the morning, and being used instead of a pillow to prop my head up in bed. I literally have never learned how to prop up my head comfortably with anything else until recently, when I got a flat squishmallow. Blankies for life.
Even being super young I always tried my best to keep my stuff in mint condition (still played & enjoyed the heck out of them, just wasn't careless). I saw how all the other kids disrespected their toys & couldn't fathom it. I also picked patterns up early that a lot of stuff I liked didn't stay in store for long so I knew if it got destroyed I probably couldn't replace it. I was definitely a weird child, but still see nothing wrong w/ it😅
I worked as a "operator standing by" for a large travel group... International, (Italy, and ONLY Italy, but my office was located in NYC) Y'all would not BELIEVE the number of calls that were complaining, and demanding refunds, because they showed up with expired passports, or DIDN'T HAVE a passport. 🤦🏼♀️ One woman b*tched me out because her passport was expired, but her husband's wasn't, and he went without her. Like that was MY fault! We simply booked the trips. We gave them ALL the info.. including "Passport is required for international travel". And this lady yelled at ME! I wasn't even the one that booked her vacation. She was SO nasty. I am sure her husband had a better time without her.
@@Zardox2Some people just can't handle having consequences for their own actions and take accountability. 😒 Sometimes I feel like narcissism is the biggest pandemic we have to deal with.
When I was a kid, I had this stuffed bear named AG. He was my best friend ever!! Me and my mother would "make him talk" and animate him, making my childhood hilarious and entertaining! I think I still have AG tucked away somewhere in my mother's closet. He's lost 75% of his fur, had eye replacement surgery, as well as a brand new nose, and some fur grafting patchwork on his bare bear bottom. I miss my childhood friend! 😢
11:10 Love what Charlotte focuses on. I focused more on the bf getting mad at the girl, that's a red flag right there. A secure man would actually laugh it off, be proud his girl is hot, and be glad that some money was saved.
@@silentsaturn7604 No, I didn't miss the point you mentioned. If you read my post again, I said "I focused more on..." Please read carefully next time. :)
@@charlesedward5047 Maybe watch carefully, not only is that bit not the point of the video it's also not what Charlotte focuses on, she focused on "if you don't pay for me, someone else will". It's a bad take all around.
@@silentsaturn7604 OMFG...read my comment carefully. I know what the point of the video is. Once again, I said "I focused MORE on..." which means I zeroed into the part where the girl said that the bf got mad, not ignoring the rest of the video. And also, me saying "Love what Charlotte focuses on" and giving a time stamp is me acknowledging exactly what you said: "if you don't pay for me, someone else will." Please, for the love of everything, take the time to read correctly.
I was super into stuffed animals as a kid! When I went to sleep at night I didn't want any of them to feel left out, so I would pile as many as I could into my arms. 😂
This makes me glad there were so many goth kids in my highschool lol there were so many we had no choice but to get to know each other. They're literally just regular people lmao idk why anyone would assume they're "devil worshipers".. one of my highschool goth friends went by the name Lucifer.. which literally started as a joke bc old people at the mall would yell at them that they're Satanists 😂
Ironically I'm a witch that is also Goth and being either doesn't mean you worship Satan 😂 I mean you can but mostly I just listen to Metal sometimes and like playing with dark makeup on the weekends when I'm not working my job as an x-ray technologist. 🩻 ☠️ 💀
My first childhood toy was a tiger, called Rajah. 🐅 He's not in perfect nick but pretty good for 30+ years. My Mum was super lucky I didn't damage it cause we couldn't replace it less than 1 year after receiving it. I cuddled him every night, but took care of my toys because I was taught at a young age that special things couldn't be replaced. For Vanessa's bad ankle bite, I'm also allergic to mosquitoes, Calamine lotion and Betadine work great to ease the itch from mozzy bites.
I still have my childhood stuffed animal, he's a Kissme TY bear. His fur is faded, he's much flatter from years of hugs, and his nose isn't soft anymore but I still love him.
I'm 52 and still have my first teddy bear. I also have a large stuffed Eeyore that lives on my bed. I'll always love stuffed animals! Have an awesome day Charlotte and Tater Tot Squad 🥔❤️
Oh Melanie, I understand 100%, and you need to hang on to your bear! It's been with you through a lot. I'm 62, and I still have the bunny I got for Easter 60 years ago. Better yet, I have the color Polaroid pic of my toddler self holding her when she was brand new when she was shiny and yellow and we were about the same size. I named her "Yellow Bunny", not very original but I was not quite 2 years old when I got her. My mom tried to throw her away several times when I was older, but I had some kind of psychic connection to this thing and dug her out of the trash every time. Mom finally gave up. Especially when she saw how angry I was at her for disrespecting my bunny! Mom decided that wasn't the hill she was willing to die on. Now her fur is rubbed off, she's mostly grey, her once pink ears that stood straight up hang limply in tatters, and her eyeballs fall out if I'm not careful. The older we get, the more we look alike! She lives on my headboard and when I'm feeling particularly despondent, I hug her and cry. I know it's ridiculous, but if my house was burning, she's one of the first things I'd stuff in my bug-out bag. I think it's because I've lost so much, and so many loved ones in my life and she's the only constant who is still with me.
I'm 23, and I'm still holding on to a few of my stuffed animals. They kept me going through thick and thin as a kid, so I've got a lot of emotions tied up on them. I've got a floppy giraffe, and my Papa Bear. I learned to hand sew just to fix them up when they got damaged when I used to play with them. I'm holding on to those for as long as I can.
I still kept my stuffed animals and my sister's stuffed animals.(we moved a lot so there was a lot of yard sales and my sister's are all older) So whenever they come to my home we'll reminisce and I'll bring out their favorite stuffed animal.
Fifty seven and still love stuffed animals on the bed... ...and so does my new puppy btw! He's particularly fond of a white and purple Unicorn that a very good Friend who passed away last year gave me!
Oh, I love the stuffed animal story. Here is mine. When I was a baby, my grandmother made me a stuffed animal that looked kind of like a rat. Being creative, I named it Rat. At eighteen months, my mom and dad were having marriage problems, so my mom was driving like twelve hours to leave me with my grandmother while they sorted things out. On the way, I accidentally dropped Rat out the window. I was beside myself. I couldn't stop crying. It would be insane for my mom to try and stop on the freeway to find my Rat, so she did the next best thing. She pulled over, got on a pay phone, called my grandmother and told her the situation. My beloved Granny got right on the sewing machine and my mother told me that Rat was going to meet us at Granny's house. That's how ya do it! This was 1972 FYI, so ya know, the dark ages.
I was an only child until I was 6 & had many stuffed animals. I loved them much more than dolls, BUT my red blankie was my bestest friend. I still have it to this day! I remember one road trip we got two hours down the road and realized I forgot it. My parents actually turned around to go back to the house to get it cuz I was devastated 🤣 nowadays I can't believe they actually turned around for me; true love or truly crazy, heck if I know 😆
The first woman, taunting and laughing at that weirdo, is putting herself in extreme danger. Don’t taunt crazy people if you aren’t able to dodge their knifes.
I think she was in danger either way. The fact that he didn’t know where she lived was good sooo I don’t think she had to worry about “dodging their knives” just yet. Obviously cases like this could escalate but luckily everything here worked out afterwards
They met at the gym..I hope she didn't return there since this type of man could be delusional enough to wait for her there. It can get dangerous for sure.
@@lea88pu it is scary dealing with ppl like that . More than we realize men and woman actually lash out and get physical if not to the person who is taunting them. then someone they love . Working in emergency health for 20 years I saw this over and over .. taunting the weirdo makes you wrong , and gives them something valid reduce their time with at sentencing.
I‘m a digital artist who got contacted by positivity influencers ✨ These two were the worst: so similar by the way they could’ve been sisters 😂 one of them got 100k and the other half a million followers on Instagram 5 years ago. Both of their aesthetics were all white, luxury lifestyle. You know the kind. One of them wanted me to draw her profile pic while the other wanted a portrait of her for her charity. None of them wanted to pay me but they thought it would’ve been a great chance for me to work with them and to be seen 🙄 Anyway I said no and suddenly I‘m just an business amateur and idiot to them. They got real mean real fast 😂 My motto ever since then is: if she’s wearing all white, always, make a big turn 👍🏻
Similar thing happened with me...I'm new to this and some account almost forced me to pay so that I can get follower on instagram. I said no, then she called me dumb and told you are yourself loosing this deal...I told her f off and blocked her and reported for harassing me. I would honestly have less follower rather that wasting money to buy follower..ik I'm miser.
The first story reminds me of something that happened to me a month ago. A man approached me while I was waiting for a train, and started chatting. I have always been very polite, and I don't necessarily have an issue with having a nice chat with a stranger, so I was friendly and polite in return. He asked if I had a boyfriend, to which I said yes, and he continued to steer the conversation towards getting my number. Unfortunately we were getting on the same train, so I ended up stuck in this conversation for about 20 minutes before (thank god) I had to get off to change trains. I did everything I could to explain why I didn't want to give him my number, and even why he shouldn't want it anyway, but he kept insisting that we could have some great "friendship". Throughout this, I remained polite and friendly because he was 'friendly', and the most confrontational thing I said was in response to him saying he respects women (I said that surely if he respects women, he'd respect that I don't want to give him my number). I ended up caving, because I'd never been in that kind of situation before and could only hold out for so long. Once I was off the train, and on the whole journey home (two more trains), I could only think about two things: a building anger at *myself* for not being strong and shutting him down, and the unignorable fact that if he wanted to follow me all the way back to the flat I live in alone, he could. It took me getting home and talking to my boyfriend and our male friends to make me realise that I shouldn't be angry at myself for this. I was raised to be polite, and something of a people-pleaser. I was never taught to stand up for myself, and as an overweight, not very attractive, person I never thought it was a situation I'd need to prepare myself for. During the whole conversation, I hadn't had a moment to process what was happening and decide what I wanted to do about it, so I was just stuck in 'be nice'. It really drove home for me the concept of men not accepting 'no' as an answer. Obviously it's not all men, but it is enough. The guy who harassed me likely didn't even realise he was doing anything wrong. I genuinely don't believe he had malicious intentions, but that doesn't make what he did okay, and that's a pretty concerning realisation. Some people think they are just being romantic and persistent, but in reality they are harassing someone who has already expressed that they're not interested, making them at best uncomfortable and at worst scared for their safety.
Romantic movies normalize chasing women. Many movies start with women saying no, and men persisting and winning them over. I'm sorry but The Notebook is extremely toxic. For example, the dude literally threatens to kill himself if she keeps denying him, and she giggly caves to that idiotic emotional manipulation, WHAT??
As women, we're conditioned to "be nice" and polite to everyone. It will take several generations for us to evolve into setting proper boundaries for ourselves. When my younger sister was harassed for her number, she would give the number for the local tourist lake boat dock. I always thought that was genius!
I'm sorry that happened to you. When in that situation and just safely walking away isnt an option I give them my husband's number 😂 I gave out his number when we were just dating as well lol he knew I did it and gladly took those calls
And I quote "...and as an overweight, not very attractive, person..." Sister, don't put yourself down. We are all Queens, we are all attractive, beautiful, and look exactly like we were meant to. I know it's hard to internalize that, but tell yourself every day that you are a beautiful Queen, and you deserve all the good things in life. Take care
This is were girls like you piss me off... _"I genuinely don't believe he had malicious intentions"_ ... You told him you had a boy friend. You told him you did not want to give him your number. You feared he'd follow you home if you "didn't give him your number". _Do police not exist where you live? Security guards at a nearby establishment? A crowd of people, ANYWHERE!?_ Any case... back to my original point. HE CLEARLY HAD MALICIOUS INTENTIONS. *He wants to phuck you even if it means disturbing your life* . Do better. If the conversation is in a respectful state, ask *_"why do you insist on harassing me?"_* . Be clear. If it's gone passed respectful, then you are already in a dangerous situation... GET LOUD. BE READY TO GET PHYSICALLY VIOLENT.
When my son was old enough to have a fav stuffy… I bought 4 and kept them in my closet. One day when we were moving we found them wrapped in plastic. He screamed the closet gave birth to my fav dragon, now he has brothers and sisters. So cute!
Was having a bit of a rough morning until I got the notification for a shiny new Charlotte video. Thanks so much for your consistency and your dedication to bringing joy to all of us tater tots. We love you, you glorious Petty Potato Queen 🥔🤘🖤
For the blankie thing my grandma said for my dad and his sister she would just give them a pillow case to cuddle with and get attached to. If they went on a trip and forgot it and the kid was crying well guess what the hotel has a pillowcase for them😂 and u can always buy more. I have a blankie that I still have but I will definitely be giving my kids pillowcases😅Love grandma❤
I was a stuffed-animal hoarder as a kid. And I was super careful to keep the majority of them clean. …holy crap… my OCD started sooner than I thought! Our Petty Queen teaches us AND leads us to self discovery 😯 ❤
During my freshman year of college, i saw this guy with 4 suitcases trying to carry them by himself, so i offered to help bring them to his dorm. Afterwards he asked for my snapchat and later sent me a shirtless pic of him in bed after midnight. I decided to wait until the next morning to respond and he got so mad that i didnt respond to his thirst trap immediately?? So i blocked him and told all my friends to avoid him lol
Soon as my daughter showed that a stuffed was the one I bought an extra and swapped them out occasionally (it has to have a certain scent). This was also important because she choose one my Grandpa go her from some specialty shop and I probably couldn’t find another now; this was 15 yrs ago for context. She still has both and still takes them when she stays places.
Clarifying here for some men who seem to think women are entitled for wanting men pay for their meals: I make fun of entitled women (and men) who have delusional demands, not girlfriends who think it would be nice if their boyfriend would treat them to a waffle😂.
People are soooo funny when they’re delusional 😊
Also, I’m a blanket person to answer that question. Still have mine and it’s in strings at this point 😂
People will find a reason to be offended about anything 😂 bunch of miserable asshats lol
Sounds like a bunch of delusional people who don't watch you and just judging solely off of this one video
If they were dating only, it would be different. Once he becomes a boyfriend, he can spring for her waffles every now and then.
When my toddler lost one of his favorite stuffed animals, I ordered another one and told him his buddy went on vacation to visit his sick aunt. I tracked the package and gave him updates, then threw a welcome home party when the stuffie arrived 😂
That’s adorable!!
Parenting Pro! 👏👏👏👏👏
That’s smooth man. A+ parenting
Best Mom ever!! Bravo!! 💖⭐️💐
I hope you got a few of them & swapped them out daily stop they'd all age the same, then if he lost one, no biggie, just 1 less in the rotation!
Regarding the first lady, I’m actually glad he exposed himself because dudes that act like him are dangerous. I’m happy he acted like a maniac before she went out with him. That was a save.
Exactly! Imagine if he actually spent money on her.. he would feel entitled that she owed him
Plus now, if something were to happen to her, the police would have his picture.
Yeeaaaah, he was an asshole and behaved badly. But it's still not okay doxxing people and spreading their pictures, names or details online to publicly shame them. You're now offending their privacy. You can also be sued for that in some cases, if they suffer losses because of the negative publicity. If they did something threatening or illegal, you should go directly to the police with your evidence, not TikTok.
Yeah...
Right? He couldn’t even pretend to be normal for at least a couple of dates?
That Toot guy handled that very gracefully. He didn’t make excuses, blame someone else, or lie. He laughed at himself. That’s the best way to handle those situations.
Both of my kids chose a blanket that was hand made by a Great Grandma. No way to replace them. Both of them lost their blanket when they were between 6 and 7. Oceans of tears.
Toot guy is darling, and if I was younger he'd be my type! That's husband material, right there. A guy who can face absolute embarrassing humiliation and laugh about it!
haha i workout and i always toot, especially when i do for abs 😔😂
At least he didn’t shart himself.
Also it's very common to fart while exercising, because of the pushing motion, same reason why it's often for women to poo while giving birth, so I'm pretty sure a lot of people have tooted while exercising, it's only human, nothing to be ashamed about. I don't go to the gym for general social anxiety, but when I exercise at home I for sure toot a lot, and so does my husband. If you toot at the gym and someone makes fun of you, look at them weird like they're stupid, cause they've probably done it too in the past. No worries people, toot freely! (also when he said it got worse I was 100% sure he was gonna say that later he went home and found out he hadn't just tooted, but straight up sharted, and for sure everyone in the locker room had seen it when he changed his pants cause he was in white boxers or something lmao)
When I was adopted I came with one toy a gray elephant with a rubber band tail. My parents tried to save it for me but unfortunately they were devastated it got chewed up when some mice got into the box it was in. When I turned of all things 21 they got me handmade a beautiful gray elephant with a red curly tail just The same size which surprised me it had been a big thing no wonder why my mama tried to save it because back then stuffed animals were small and this was a big elephant It must have been as big as I was I guess it had been the only thing the police had been able to save. My favorite toy and I still have it is a very old very old sambo's the restaurant tiger that I played with until it's practically hairless from Gund toys with green eyes and my dad called me tiger I think that was my first toy from them and I still have that to this day
My sister was an incubator baby. She still has the stuffed animal (it was a bunny rabbit) that was given to her when she was in the hospital. That was 62 years ago and you can tell by looking at it now, it has seen better days! Kind of like the one the girl is holding in the 2nd picture!
Now it's the bunny that needs to be incubated 😄
First guy isn't just a creep, he's also a stalker.
SO he thought that he can try and "Hook up" with a random woman, try and bribe her with empty promises of "Financial support" and THEN basically find a way to call her again by somehow STALKING her on her pages or something, then verbally assault her when she rejects her?
Lady, I HOPE you tipped the cops off about "Julius" and his actions after that! He just sounds like a toxic "Nice Guy"!
Also, thinking that “I’m not single” is a flex?!? 😂🙄🤔too bad he WAS cute before all that sh-t
Bro, this is why I just avoid people all the time and just don't interact with anyone. #social introvert for life.
@@Reesispiecisbroooo fr the way he tried to use that she was single as an insult against her is so embarrassing 😂
Women and quite a few Men on every social media platforms have hunting for this guy....
Actually a few people found him and put his information out there. He threatened assault and that can't be taken lightly!
@yasminxx9329 deadass being single has been used as a bad thing. She can single whenever she wants to be
The guy who lifts weights was so sweet and funny. Somehow you like him even more afterwards. No toxic masculinity, just good self esteem, self worth and a great sense of humor ❤
I want to follow him!
He is KING!!! Such self acceptance! He is the guy I would want to date! I mean, he didn't mean to let it loose. Humility.
TOTES!!!!
I wasn’t a stuffed animal or blanket person. I was the dog’s favorite kid. She followed me everywhere. She was a terrible dog, flunked out of obedience school and everything. It’s the funniest thing to me thinking back: the only person who could control this absolute menace of a dog was a little girl. You don’t need a stuffy when you got a fluffy.
Doggo knew who the REAL pack leader was. 😉
The guy who spoke Chinese actually studies many different languages! He’s really fun to watch!
I felt so bad for him, he looks great 🥹
He was soo cute!
Shame he not handsome!
@@kingkru007wtf kinda comment is this, the unnecessary disrespect 💀
@@ellabryant4976
Way to miss the joke playing off the point of why the video was even shared! 😂 They were teasing about what the Chinese girl was saying to him in the video. You know, when she was telling the one decent guy she'd met on the app that she hadn't met ANY handsome guys yet. In context, most people realize she likely didn't mean it as a commentary toward him... or did she???
I couldn't stop admiring how awesome the goth looked as she told her story. Good on her for defending herself.
And that one guy who knew Chinese? He was so cool....and I daresay handsome in a humble way. He even stayed nice even as the conversation turned awkward. I'd be friends with that guy.
The goth girl actually has her own youtube channel! I believe its drama kween
@@phatanus yes! I watch her too. she's awesome.
She has an amazing channel ❤❤❤❤ 😂 love her so much!!
@@phatanusyes it is! ❤
The guy speaking Chinese looked decent, I would have dated him. Also, the girl didn't look like a supermodel. they were both about average/ normal looking in my opinion. I could picture them together 😊
For the guy lifting weights... Dude, when you laugh, everyone laughs with you. You made a lot of people laugh today!!! Thank you for that!
I laughed so hard my ass laughed too!
Plus he gets extra points for the lift, cause we know he's really pushing!
Right? He's cute tho and is laughing about himself afterwards.
That was the best, I'd have nothing but respect if someone posted it.
Pro tip for parents: When your child has chosen it's preferred stuffed animal, go get at least 3 to 5 other ones from the exact same brand and model. So over the years you can replace it and say you washed it, or maybe even got it to the puppet doctor/stuffed animal doctor and have it healed again.
When you do not use all of them, still keep at least one for when your child is an adult and will appreciate and be thankful you still have THAT stuffed animal for him/her.
To add on to this, also make sure you NEVER tell them you replaced the stuffy even if they are an adult lol, it’ll hurt their heart. And if you never mention replacing them they probably won’t ever realize🫶🏻
mine didn't do that. Money was tighter for my family when I was a kid due to my mom leaving her teaching job to be home with the kids full-time, so instead we were taught to understand that the things we have don't last forever and to treasure and protect what we have in the time we have it. Mom taught us all how to patch holes in our stuffed animals, how to wash our toys first by hand then by washing machine, and how to properly block would-be thieves from taking our toys without our permission. It was a good life lesson to teach us while we were young, but I will admit it did make us more "selfish", "territorial" and "rude" in public eyes because we were unwilling to let the other kids in kindergarten take whatever they wanted away from us before we were done with them. Luckily we weren't really bullied for that, because while Mom was teaching us how to protect and care for our toys, Dad was teaching us how and where to throw a punch.
I have the same Woofie for 35 years. He went thru heck and back with me. My youngest started wanting his own woofie, so I gave him a similar one (stuffed german shepherd dog)
Such great advice because ‘Mister Fister’ got diarrhea all over his little Jean suit and there was no cleaning him and he was discontinued😢
I have almost all my childhood stuffed animals. Just took care of them. None “died” except one I set on top of a lamp which accidentally caught it on fire.
I love the self deprecating humor of the gym guy. I love that he is so open about it and that he can handle that and be okay! I am super grateful because I have gym-intimidation, and now I can go to the gym and if I can get through a workout without farting like a horse I’m gonna feel OK about myself. 🤣🤣🤣
But there is a rule my father taught me…..never trust a fart.
i think the interaction at 11:55 was actually really sweet. She was happy he spoke her language, he understood that she wasn't interested & was still trying to be polite and not push it.
also im definitely a blanket kid! actually kinda have one now 😅
Yes, he was so lovely. When she kept saying no handsome men you could see his disappointment even though he was trying to hide it. Poor guy. Life is hard and finding a partner even harder. Xx
I don't think she meant it hurtfully and just didn't realize how it came across.
I thought he was attractive too! Very sweet and kind
Any girl would be lucky to get a sweet guy like him 🥰. He handled it so well, and that made me feel even worse for him. Young man, if you’re looking at this, you are a catch. Any girl would be lucky to be with you! Really! I wish you met my youngest daughter 😊.
He does a lot of these kinds of videos speaking different languages with strangers, he's really wholesome
“Are you ready to get your emotions damaged” They already are so it can’t get any worse 💜
Girl same😅🤍
Hope you both get better
Twinsies 😩
Yes indeed, 😊
(*’ｰ’*)
My childhood stuffed animal is a handmade bunny from my Gram who had a dress (and even bloomers!). My mom had learned to sew too so she could make repairs when she could, and if she couldn't, there was Gram. (The clothes really helped keep Bun safe from general wear and tear, too.) Eventually, I got old enough to learn that if I wanted to keep this special friend safe, I had to be careful to keep him clean and intact.
Bun sits on my nightstand and is there for hugs when times are hard. He was at my wedding, too!
I think the big problem, the only problem, with the Waffle House scenario is that the boyfriend became angry with his girlfriend over something of which she had ABSOLUTELY NO CONTROL. This is a red flag. A big red flag. One can only control their own actions. One cannot control the actions of a stranger. Ever. There is no telling what may happen in any given situation. She was fine with paying for her food. Someone else decided she wasn’t going to. That’s it…and, at Waffle House. That’s not exactly an Indecent Proposal kind of venue. Honestly.
Exactly.
"Indecent Proposal" at a Waffle House! 🧇 😂
yeah. It's an red flag factory
Also, what a stupidly inconsequential thing to be mad about. Literally who cares?
Of course she has control over it she can decline and inform that she won´t accept any payment of her food from strangers. How would she feel if she goes to eat with her boyfriend and see some strange girl giving him attention and paying his bill over and over?
I mean girl can do whatever she want and accept anything coming her way, but to not understand why the boyfriend was mad at that scenario? Really?
Maybe he was struggling with money at the time and was also out of control in the situation and then he has to watch his girlfriend put him on the side line as soon as some other dude came in flying for her attention.
Again girl has every right to make her decisions and choose to let other man paying her bills in front of her "boyfriend", but that she don´t understand why that scenario make her "boyfriend" mad is bananas!
For me that would be a red flag on her because from that moment i know instantly that if i struggle in life she will just jump ship at the first oportunity and leave me stranded!
I am 70 and my husband 75. In a box in our cupboard we have two very, very tattered stuffed dogs we had as children. We have downsized and moved several times but our dogs remain. Unfortunately we are becoming as ragged as they are.🤣
Can confirm that the meanest people go out of their way to appear “nice.”
My mom is a malignant narcissist and she ends every interaction/email/voicemail with “Love and Light ✨”
My mother was similar and the tough part was if I tried telling anyone the mean stuff she did to me, no one believed it.
@@Kronx1970Unfortunately narcissists are so good at their web of lies that they can appear the most caring victims imaginable to everyone beyond their victims. Hugs. I hope both of you make peace with the damage they have done and no longer have them in your lives. ❤
To everyone she is a wonderful, kind, thoughtful person, to me her daughter, she is a she devil. She is a "2 week wonder" after 2 weeks, she is bored of you. Only way i can breath now is by moving out of the county and blocking her phone. Hard but worth it...
My stepfather was always nice to people - until they realized he was an alcoholic, narcissist. He’s been gone 20 years. My mom and I are a lot better.
Damn. I just said the same exact thing on a totally different TH-cam channel!
Spooky!!!😂❤😂
I was smart. My son loved his stuffed deer, so I bought 4 of them. He never lost it and now he has a deer family. 😁❤️
My Dad bought me a little brown stuffed dog for my first Christmas. I was 8 months old. Never named beyond “my dog” it went everywhere I did until I was a tween. My dog is in great condition except for a hole in one floppy ear where a bell used to live. My dog rests on my pillow ‘til this very day. I’m 70! 🇨🇦🖖🏻🇨🇦
I'm 62, and I still have the bunny I got for Easter 60 years ago. Better yet, I have the color Polaroid pic of my toddler self holding her when she was brand new when she was shiny and yellow and we were about the same size. I named her "Yellow Bunny", not very original but I was not quite 2 years old when I got her.
My mom tried to throw her away several times when I was older, but I had some kind of psychic connection to this thing and dug her out of the trash every time. Mom finally gave up. Especially when she saw how angry I was at her for disrespecting my bunny! Mom decided that wasn't the hill she was willing to die on.
Now her fur is rubbed off, she's mostly grey, her once pink ears that stood straight up hang limply in tatters, and her eyeballs fall out if I'm not careful.
The older we get, the more we look alike!
She lives on my headboard and when I'm feeling particularly despondent, I hug her and cry.
I know it's ridiculous, but if my house was burning, she's one of the first things I'd stuff in my bug-out bag. I think it's because I've lost so much, and so many loved ones in my life and she's the only constant who is still with me.
That is so cute and heartwarming!
@@LazyIRanchIf you're interested, there are people who specialize in restoring soft toys and take extra care with washing and repairing them. I kept just a few stuffed animals from my early childhood and have them stored away safely. I'm in my mid 30s and I have quite a collection of collector plush these days, and a bunch I sleep with because of chronic pain. The Squishmallows that have gotten kinda grubby are going to be carefully unstitched at the turning hole, unstuffed, washed and dried, and restuffed. My mom and grandma taught me how to sew when I was young and wanted to learn (the Beanie Baby era) so it will be no problem for me to do it myself, but I know that not everyone can do that.
@@LazyIRanchIf you're interested, there are people who specialize in restoring soft toys and take extra care with washing and repairing them. I kept just a few stuffed animals from my early childhood and have them stored away safely. I'm in my mid 30s and I have quite a collection of collector plush these days, and a bunch I sleep with because of chronic pain. The Squishmallows that have gotten kinda grubby are going to be carefully unstitched at the turning hole, unstuffed, washed and dried, and restuffed. My mom and grandma taught me how to sew when I was young and wanted to learn (the Beanie Baby era) so it will be no problem for me to do it myself, but I know that not everyone can do that.
@@Just1Nora I can sew well, I used to work as a tailor in my 20s. I like her "patina" and I have stitched up any holes where the stuffing could fall out. Since I'm worse for wear and have several scars myself, I feel like we are a good match!😃
Definitely a blanket kid! I took my childhood blanket everywhere. And just two weeks ago, it got left in puerto rico. that was the end of a 24 year long journey together. Rest in peace blankie, you will surely be missed 💕💕💕💕💕
Not me who lives in Puerto Rico and would love to find your blanket to wash it and send it back
However, at least you keep the memories, and I know that's the most important thing! 🥰
@@meghancipher6186please share the blankie reunion if this happens
Had the same stuffed bear for 31 years. He still goes everywhere with me
For the first five years of my life, I was raised by my grandparents. My mother (who held me a grudge) was physically and mentally sick. My Grandfather bought me a black and white teddy bear with a yellow bow on my third birthday. I loved that bear. After my mom recovered my parents decided to move to a different state and took me and my brother with them. My so-called father thought a five year old boy was too old to have a teddy bear. As we were driving he took him out of my arms and tossed him out the window on I-70. Even after half a century I could not forgive them.
Shame on them, that’s heartbreaking
so sorry that was mean I still have them and I'm in my 50's my sister just got my niece who always used to love going to build a bear when she was little and she had someone make a special bear for her 21st birthday using one of her late father's shirt and pants to make a bear it even has a tie made from the shirt so why don't you get a bear your never to old and it might make you feel a little better
@@MsKaz1000 Ohhh that's such a sweet idea!!!
Vile!!!
I'm so sorry! I have a purple bear who was with me from 1 year old. I still have her decades later. She is very special to me and I couldn't imagine the pain of having your special bear thrown out the window like nothing.
I felt so sorry for the guy speaking to the Chinese girl. He was even speaking her language, Id be so impressed if I was her.
Shallow people come in all languages.
In China it's not a big deal. In her view, it wasn't shade, it was just a normal conversation 😂 He probably knows that too, seeing how he didn't react to it
Oh, the guy who spoke Chinese? So, so adorable and special. Young ladies out there, don’t overlook this CUTE, FINE young man. He’s absolutely kind, understanding, and CUTE, gosh darn it. He deserves everything that he is, kind, sweet, and absolutely adorable!! Young man, you did your momma proud 😊!!
AMEN!!!
And he was so sweet to the girl he was talking to, even though she basically said he wasn't handsome. ❤
I thought he was so cute too! She was kinda dense, so move on sweet face!
The Chinese girl just didn't get it. She needs to stop looking for the "handsome guys" and go for a great guy that she can talk, laugh and connect with. Like the awesome guy who can speak Chinese! Plus, I think he was handsome and definitely cute !
@@TopHatNatNot even sure she meant it as a dig towards him, or even that she didn't recognize that he's pretty cute. She lit up so much when he could talk to to her. I legit think iTs possible that she was so happy to be able to speak genuinely with someone, that she explained her overall experience, and it didn't necessarily have anything to do with the guy she was talking to
Just this week at my gym, there was a guy doing crunches and stuff on the floor and he baked up a MASSIVE air biscuit that I swear the whole gym heard… but everyone was so cool and polite and pretended like they didn’t hear. A man’s dignity was spared that day.
"Air biscuit" 😂
Farting is a natural side effect of working out. Everybody who works out regularly has done it and has been around when it happens to other people. You just accept it and move along.
Women can also fart from the vagina, extra to the regular farts... 🥴
Laughing at toxic men really is the best thing for them, at least from a distance . Stay safe, y'all
Carry mace on you and In case if mace doesn't work on some people, (which it doesn't)always carry a backup of bear spray.
They make real cute tasers these days 😉
@@Chelaxim I like it!
@@Katieopolis they're not legal in my state 😤
Especially when they are in your face and screaming at you.
When I was a child I always had knives ever since I could first remember! I liked having lots of pockets too, so I could carry survival stuff just in case I’m stuck in the woods, but at the time we lived in a city! LOL
Yeah, I was a weird kid…. I guess I still am. At least I learned about fighting off bullies at a young age!
The first one reminds me of that girl, just laughing in the dude’s face when he’s crying about getting caught cheating it’s the same energy and I love it I’m so here for it
I’m a 43 year old man and people perceive me as a stereotypical union utility lineman and I very much remember loving Judy my sock monkey and not being allowed to take her to the hospital at 10 ish to get stitches because “I was too old for a stuffed animal” and I still think of that as a parenting mistake by my father and raised my kids better
My mom's opinion on my stuffed animal was "When she doesn't need it anymore, she'll put it away herself."
ETA: Both of my parents probably would have fought anyone who tried to take my stuffed animal from me lol
Yeah, my step-dad did the same to me. I slipped and busted my chin open when I was little, probably about 8, and I just wanted to bring my floppy little giraffe with me because I was scared of the ER. I can't remember why he took it away, but I just remember being really upset about not having it with me in the waiting room. I think the only reason I remember this, beyond the scar, is because of how much worse he made the situation. It went from scary but manageable, to actually traumatic. I'm 23, and I still have issues with that night.
I'm glad you're doing better than your folks on that. Kids are never really too old for comfort items, especially if they're hurt.
@@thetardyowlvg9155My parents took the same approach. In high school I had my first serious relationship, lasted over five years, and after the first year or two I no longer needed my blanket. I still like to have satin blanket binding to rub between my fingers when I'm stressed though.
I was in a horrible car accident at 12 and my parents arrived at the hospital with a stuffed bunny and I will never forget holding onto that stuffie for dear life.
Oh darling, I'm an old lady who makes sock monkeys, and I would have been delighted to be Judy's plastic surgeon if I'd known you!
I made a few special monkeys back when I was really into it. One of my favorites was for a little boy whose mother contacted me through eBay where I sold mine. Her sweet little boy had Down's and he only liked wearing striped t-shirts. She sent me a pic, and I found fabric exactly like his favorite shirt. He was also wearing a ball cap, so I made that too. I didn't usually make custom monkeys, but made an exception for that little guy. She emailed me a pic of him holding that monkey and looking so happy, and that made ME happy.
I made a special one for my older brother who (thankfully) has a good sense of humor. His monkey had "Billy Bob" teeth, oversized ears, and a goofy expression. When my brother was a kid, he had very crooked bucked teeth and huge ears. Braces fixed his teeth, and he grew into the ears (and grew his hair longer) and became a handsome man. His monkey had a t-shirt too, on which I painted a white Flying V Gibson guitar (like the one my brother played in his rock band in his 20s).
That monkey was his Xmas gift from me, and I was 1500 miles away when he opened it. I wish they had taken video. My SIL tried to describe their reaction, but she couldn't stop laughing.
I made my 82 year-old aunt a "pretty" monkey with a frilly dress, red lips, and long eyelashes. She loved it, and when her Alzheimer's took over, she treated it like it was her baby.🥲
There's no such thing as being too old for a sock monkey, IMO!
16:28 best thing i've heard from Charlotte: "Be wary of the people who spread kindness like confetti. Those are the people that hide how mean they are in real life". That should be an official quote.
Yeah lovebombing is a red flag. I realised I'd done this myself when I was younger and was glad to have been taught about how toxic it is.
Or...OR, they're actually kind people.
@@micktrinus There's a difference and I think a word with them about feeling uncomfortable about the attention bombing will sort it out one way or another.
Right! And just to add, I roomed with a goth during college, and she was hands down the most genuinely sweet and loving person.
*sitting in silence*
There's a difference between trying to be a light in a dark world and being saccharine sweet with hollow compliments. Everyone deserves kindness. Even those with ugly hearts.
I was dog kind of person, slept with him, ate with him, ran around outside with him. When I was born he was 3y/o and died when he was 16. He was the best boy.
9:11 Vanesa just created her own "emotional damage" video, by making a compilation of "emotional damage" videos.
That's what I call commitment. Tha's next level.
Who is Vanesa? 😂
Some people who may come across as overly friendly or nice are also people who were horribly abused as adults and children. Those are my people. I know what it's like to not hear kindness, see love, and feel visible, and I also know what it's like to invisible. I'm sure I'm not the only person out there who is overly kind & friendly because we know what it's like to never feel the sun on your face. Sending support, love, and kindness from Lexington, Michigan, USA
It's so nice to hear someone else who understands what it's like...What's it's like to be raised in a cold home/environment. You never want anyone to go thru what you went thru, so you are always careful with your words, considered with their feelings. It's also very easy to become a people pleaser and a push over...I come to the point where I'm exhausted from putting everyone else before me...working on that now.Sending all my love from Toronto Canada🙏❤️🌹
OMG!!!!! I found my people!!!!! I was going to say something similar. Those of us who have experienced either childhoods or even lifetimes of abuse are often (not always -- as the saying goes - hurt people hurt people) the most kind and empathetic. I often say that I've experienced enough ugly in this world, that I don't want to add to it. So, I try to be as considerate of others as I can without compromising my integrity.
You all are my people. But I must admit, as the world gets colder and less people reciprocate, it’s getting harder. I hope it’s temporary and I’m not changing.
Sending much love to you back! -one of your people 😊❤
My oldest boy had a blanket he dragged around everywhere. We had to wait for a nap to throw it in the washer. It got torn and the next time we were at my Mom’s house she offered to sew it up for him. I took a picture of him standing next to her at the sewing machine just bawling while she worked on it. It was her favorite picture!😂
Also, that sweet young man who took the extra effort to speak in that girl’s native language to make her feel at ease deserves the sweetest woman in the world who will cherish him. He was cute! Get yourself a sweet man, girl. Those “handsome” looks fade, sweet lasts forever!
When i was a kid i had a limited edition Fievel Mouskewitz stuffie from when An American Tail came out in 1986. I loved that thing, i even named my cat Fievel! A family member sent it to me from either America or Canada, i cant remember (im in UK). I had that thing until i was an about 25 and then it got lost in a house move. I was devastated. My husband managed to track one down online from America a few years ago, which was no small feat and bloody expensive too since it was in basically new condition, and surprised me with it on Christmas day. Absolutely magical! I cried so much lol. Now my cat Fievel and my stuffie Fievel both sleep with me every night ❤
My childhood “stuffed animal” was a literal towel. A pink towel that we got at a Memorial Day sale at Kohls because I thought it looked so soft and refused to put it down. I walked around in a delusion calling it pink blankie and would meltdown if my siblings called it a towel. I still have it. But I use it as a towel 😂
ALWAYS know where your towel is.
That's amazing
My baby blanket got chewed by my dog, but I took it everywhere until I visited my dad who didn't know me well. He threw it away, thinking it a rag. This is when I learned my dad didn't love me. I never trusted him again. Thank God I still have my Teddy. (edit: and I have an amazing Mom who makes up for all the rest with her love.)
Pro Tip: When your kid chooses their favorite stuffed animal, buy 2 replacements, and when one needs to be washed, swap it out for another so that all three wear evenly, and the kid doesn't even notice when one gets damaged and has to get thrown away.
OR if your kid's stuffy gets fumigated because you forget it under the bed during routine spraying, she doesn't end up sobbing hysterically. (True story - thankfully my grandmother had an identical one she ordered herself, and two days later I was presented with my cat's "twin sister" who came to comfort me.)
What a psycho. The first story I cannot believe the audacity!
Bro was really trying to lose his shit on her just for not answering
him right away. This is why we hesitate to give out our numbers. Because
of men like this.
Maybe don't give your number to rando men in the first place, that way they won't think you're easy and treat that way.
THIS....This is a perfect example of a "Nice Guy": Goes from being "Polite and innocent" to being a toxic, insecure and entitled stalking creep who just thinks with his penis instead of his brain!
@cristela4034 how tf is giving someone their number meaning they're EASY!? that is a bizzare mindset. They're the ones going up to sometimes multiple women asking for their number, how hypocritical would it be to delude yourself into thinking the women *you* asked into talking with you, is easy?? Wouldnt that make him more desperate than anything else if you use that same mindset even if he was not a creepy guy?
Plus, some people give their number out because they feel forced to.
Strange that you would blame the lady in this situation who clearly didnt give him the time of day when it was the guy making all those weird advances and not stopping even when she blocked him. Thats creepy stalker esque behaviour from that guy, not a woman being easy.
@@cristela4034Have you seen what happens when we say no? I've been called a "Stuck up, b**ch," followed by a car full of men through a parking lot, followed to my car and harassed...all for saying, "No, thank you."
@@cristela4034 yikes, giving a phone number doesn't make you easy. you need to go outside and touch some grass. just because a woman talks to you doesn't mean she wants to be with you that way.
The last one is SUPER TRUE!!
I live in a beach city in Cali, and went to an event in West Hollywood PRIDE2023. I met a famous lesbian who promotes positivity + awareness X 1000. She makes it seem as though she is approachable and overall open. I saw not 1, but 5 "regular" people approach her throughout the night and she was RUDE. No smiles, no positive reaction. Very much "Eww Face".
A "somebody" she DIDN'T know (they said "nice to meet you") walked up to her and she had the biggest fakes smile. All laughs and shit. Needless to say...I never went to say hi and THANK HER for her "positive videos that helped me in bad time". NEVER MEET YOUR EVERYDAY HERO'S. No matter how small.
Still sad about it
I LOVE him for using his toot episode to make others feel less awkward at the gym. Bless him!
The Chinese speaking guy was absolutely adorable.
yeah, he was nice, understanding and cute. Maybe he wasn't a "hunk" but he seemed decent.
Scank wasn't worthy of him!!!!!!!!!!
I thought he was super cute and he spoke her language. I’ve been in his situation plenty of times where my male friends didn’t find me attractive because I was to nice lol🤦🏽♀️🤣
@rheahorvath9274 are ypu demented? Not everyone finds every guy cute. People gave preferences and you call her a skank for that? You sound like a nice guy.
Agree
I thought I lost my childhood stuffed monkey. My sister found it last year and mailed it to me. It's so worn out, and it has drawn on eyelashes (I wanted to make him look pretty). I still love it and he is now displayed prominently on the dresser in my bedroom. Edit: I am 47 years old.
My childhood bear is sitting in my bedroom and my baby blanket is in my nightstand for when my stomach hurts. I know it’s psychological, but I swear I feel better when the blanket is on my tummy. 😂😂😂
The last video was the best! I love her makeup trick. I want her tutorial on how to get that look. She wore her black lipsticks well.❤
The “Mistaken Ankle video” was hilarious. 😂😂😂 Every time I see something foreign on my body, I’d take a video like this and send to my sister for her diagnosis instead of going to the doctor first. Lol. 😂😂😂😂
The fact that the first lady laughed him out is HILARIOUS. I would also report his dumb arse to the gym. He's a sicko 😳
For the video of the lady with the gym guy. That guy actually has a record of assault and violence so she dodged a bullet. I know this because there was a man who duetted her video and found the guys mugshot
She’s an idiot for giving him her number!
This is why many of us don't give our numbers out, not even to workmates or acquaintances or even "potential" friends until we know the situation. Can't trust anyone anymore.
Very true words.
My childhood stuffed animal was a Teddy Ruxpin. Our new house burned down the day after we moved in. I found Teddy on the lawn burnt, soaked and missing an eye and his bottom jaw. TRAUMATIZED! I'm 45 years old and I still want a new Teddy. 🥺
Hugs
Agreed on the stuffy replacements. My daughter was very attached to "Molly Doll" and she was flabbergasted one day when I opened up the closet and the bag that held 7 other "Molly Dolls" fell out and spilled on the floor. She suffered emotional damage.
This woman has the best sense of humor. Those reactions with the look. Hilarious. Great content. Editing is always good as well. Making the funny even more epic.
As a guy, it's nice being called a "prize" for once. Also, Charlotte's laugh needs to be famous. It's the best laugh I've ever heard lol
Agree❤
Hear, hear!
Not to mention her amazing voice!
Back when I used to be pretty Goth and got told I must be a devil worshiper. I loved pulling out that Gothic originally meant godly love or the love of God. It's extra funny since I'm Christian. I just love when people Assume things!
That last story was so true! If someone is way too into spreading positively, they are probably super mean. I avoid people like that for this exact reason. I know one girl who makes her voice high pitched when she wants to sound nice, but then she finds ways to say she thinks you are a POS without actually saying it. Super messes up.
It's similar with people that post stuff about how fake their friends are and all that jazz. I had a friend like that and after she moved she stopped talking to all of her old friends and won't even tell us when she visits our town any more and yet would post stuff on how we are fake and didn't care about her. I once accidentally walked into her at the mall here and when she spotted me she had the most awkward and embarrassed facial expression
In the first story, I love how he dropped the you don't date black men card as a last effort to guilt her into dating him.👀
Vanessa really included her own emotional damage 🤣
I actually cuddled and traveled across the country with my childhood stuffed animal and it is perfectly intact. I took care of it, kept her clean and I wouldn't get her dirty if I could help it aside from the occasional spills or drops in mud puddles. My stuffed animal is definitely sturdy and she now belongs to my daughter who cuddles with her every night ❤
Full disclosure: my husband threw away my blankie. It was so thin that you could read through it, and that was when it was doubled. My mum had cut it in half when I was a little girl so it could be washed, but I didn’t think it smelled right after it was washed…lol. Anyway, I was 19 years old when my husband tossed it out, and he did it on the sly. I’m still not over it. I’m 61 years old now. 😂😂😂
My daughter (36) is still traumatized when I threw away her snuggle blanket after it shredded in the washing machine. This was when she was 16. She brought it up just last week on our family vacation. 😮
@@theresaallen8889 I completely understand
I can relate... Kinda..
I miss mine, folks tossed it.
We had some serious history together my blankie and I.
Played outside together making mud pies, shared tears, fevers, Flu's, Food and when I lost my first tooth we found out that you got money for them as a creepy currency.. Well the next 3 days in a row I buried my face in my blankie and tore one out every night because I wanted to buy candy
And of course I had just found the mecca of candy funds... For the low price of just a little pain and a few pearly whites
My teacher however didn't find the teeth suddenly missing kosher and actually accused my parents of abuse 😅 oops sorry Mom and Dad...
So we shared blood sweat and tears... And my folks just threw it away like it was some blanket left over from the black plague
I'm still salty... And in 20 years ill still be salty
Much love to you!
Fire ruined my baby blanket, it was too small to even use but my mom cried about it being gone.
My ex-brother-in-law threw away ALL of my sister’s stuffed animals. That was my first clue that he was avtually EVIL! And the reason that there are about a thousand stuffed animals that belonged to my now grown kids in my garage!
Fun fact about traveling and getting stopped. My mom and dad (before he passed) went to visit Denmark. They were both Danish citizens, dad growing up there and mom's parents had grown up there and later moved to Sweden. So legally, both of them were citizens. Mom got stopped at the harbor and wasn't allowed on because her ID wasn't good enough to travel on (whole family has visited Denmark before on regular IDs several times as we grew up, due to different citizenry getting passports and IDs were a lot more expensive, so no passports), she needed the new EU national ID. Dad was allowed on because of his driver's license though, but he obv wasn't gonna strand my mom alone. So they went on like a three hour car trip to the harbor, only to have to go straight back home lmao. They later just applied for Sweden citizenry and got new IDs because it was cheaper than getting passports and went on their vacation the next year.
You just know that the Chinese girl will reflect on that conversation later and realize what she said and be horrified.
I hope so, the dude handled it so well too.
Yeah, that's what I thought. I think she was just so excited to meet a nice guy who could also speak Chinese, that she didn't realize what she was saying. At least I hope...
That guy slipped in "racist" so casually, she didn't even realise that it was her. Self reflection is not a trait I'd associate with such people.
I dont get this. Is she supposed to pretend to be attracted to him and lie? Is she expected to flatter him and suck up to him if she isnt attracted to him? Seems kinda silly and insecure of people to expect everyone to be attracted to them all the time
@@theemeraldhour No I think she's just not that great at English yet and didn't realize how her comment came off (plus she seemed flustered by the other conversations she'd just had with racists). In most cultures accidentally insulting someone would be seen as a faux pas whether intentional or not. Even if she thought he was ugly she seems polite enough not to leave him with the impression she thinks so.
It works the other way too. People who are trying to be super giving are usually assholes, and the people who say "Dont be like me, I'm an asshole." have hearts of gold. 😆
Toot toot guy I just spend a half hour searching through my Charlotte Dobre binge sesh last night to find this and send it to a friend. I just watched it 3 more times. The way he tells the story and laughs and the “toot toot”. So funny. I applaud this man. He undid some of my emotional damage thru laughter 😂
I thought of sending the tik tok vid but with Charlottes laughing and the edits. Gold
I had a pink and white blanket that was aptly named Cozy, made for me by a female friend of my mother who use to make children’s blankets for kids with cancer. She would focus on making them with very soft fabrics with thin fluffy cotton inside in order to make them a comfortable as possible. I’m high functioning, so this blanket was a huge comfort for me growing up.
That Chinese girl with "I haven't found any handsome boys" was a real emotional damage. I felt that.
My favorite stuff animal was a panda and I left him on a subway train when I was 5. I was heartbroken. At 31 my mom gifted me a stuffed panda. I couldn’t believe she remembered and it made me super happy.
I’ve had my plushie since I was 4 and it went everywhere with me. I stopped sleeping with it when it felt right (around high school) and it stayed on my bed for some time until my baby sister saw it and loved it. My parents said it was a cute idea for me to give it to her, and for a few months I debated on it. One day I agreed because I wasn’t using it anymore and I was older. The moment I gave it to her she hugged it and I started bawling my eyes out. So much so, that my baby sister gave it right back and said “yours” and never asked for it again.
AWWWWWWWWW, that is so cute!!! Adorable that she saw it hurt you to lose it and gave it back. A+ sibling relationship!
For the first tik tok if the phone says Unknown Caller it's a new number, but if it says No Caller ID there's a good probability that the number is in your contacts but the caller specifically called with some kind of ID blocker like *67 or a third party app, it can also say private or anonymous if they use *67 to block their ID on your phone. Hope this helps stay safe and petty out there y'all.
I have my phone set to automatically block anonymous callers. Stopped a LOT of scam calls. I'm old and ugly and live like a hermit now, so I don't have to worry about stalkers anymore.
Going through a bad phase in life.
Your vids always make me feel good about myself. Like Idk its a weird feeling that all of the ppl out there who watch you I feel a sense of togetherness along with Charolette
So yeah idk I feel kind of loved in a wat its like meeting a friend everyday whenever I watch your vids.
Thanks everyone and Charolette you too. XOXO
Sorry to hear that you are going through a rough time. I am certain better times will come, too. Wishing you all the best.
Keep going. If you keep walking, eventually, things will start to turn around. Might not feel like it right now, but things will get better for you - whether it's grief you're going through, or a job issue, a breakup, or anything else. Hang in there. You've got this. Take care now.✌
"what kinda person were you?" Was a menace 😂😂😂 taking care of me went pretty eventful each encounter 😂😂😂
I was a blankie person. My aunt made it so expertly that it never fell apart, so I still sleep with it, and I'm in my 30s. And I AM NOT ASHAMED! As a kid with terrible anxiety, it helped to have something soft to cuddle with every night, and I just got used to it along the way. It now has multiple functions, including using a corner of it as a sleep mask in the morning, and being used instead of a pillow to prop my head up in bed. I literally have never learned how to prop up my head comfortably with anything else until recently, when I got a flat squishmallow. Blankies for life.
Even being super young I always tried my best to keep my stuff in mint condition (still played & enjoyed the heck out of them, just wasn't careless). I saw how all the other kids disrespected their toys & couldn't fathom it. I also picked patterns up early that a lot of stuff I liked didn't stay in store for long so I knew if it got destroyed I probably couldn't replace it. I was definitely a weird child, but still see nothing wrong w/ it😅
Who goes to the airport and plans a trip with an expired passport... thats like the first thing you check
Teens who’s dad is dead and maybe don’t have an experienced person giving them guidance?
I worked as a "operator standing by" for a large travel group... International, (Italy, and ONLY Italy, but my office was located in NYC)
Y'all would not BELIEVE the number of calls that were complaining, and demanding refunds, because they showed up with expired passports, or DIDN'T HAVE a passport.
🤦🏼♀️
One woman b*tched me out because her passport was expired, but her husband's wasn't, and he went without her.
Like that was MY fault!
We simply booked the trips.
We gave them ALL the info.. including "Passport is required for international travel".
And this lady yelled at ME!
I wasn't even the one that booked her vacation.
She was SO nasty. I am sure her husband had a better time without her.
@@Zardox2Some people just can't handle having consequences for their own actions and take accountability. 😒 Sometimes I feel like narcissism is the biggest pandemic we have to deal with.
@@Zardox2 somehow I get the feeling it was the hubby that booked the tickets knowing of her expired passport 😉😏
A 17 year old boy, that’s who 😂
When I was a kid, I had this stuffed bear named AG. He was my best friend ever!! Me and my mother would "make him talk" and animate him, making my childhood hilarious and entertaining! I think I still have AG tucked away somewhere in my mother's closet. He's lost 75% of his fur, had eye replacement surgery, as well as a brand new nose, and some fur grafting patchwork on his bare bear bottom. I miss my childhood friend! 😢
11:10 Love what Charlotte focuses on. I focused more on the bf getting mad at the girl, that's a red flag right there. A secure man would actually laugh it off, be proud his girl is hot, and be glad that some money was saved.
You miss the point where the girlfriend didn't mind this reaction, so she could blackmail him into being her free meal ticket though.
True, but also mention she’s a toxic red flag too thinking she doesn’t have to pay for her own sh*t
@@silentsaturn7604 No, I didn't miss the point you mentioned. If you read my post again, I said "I focused more on..." Please read carefully next time. :)
@@charlesedward5047 Maybe watch carefully, not only is that bit not the point of the video it's also not what Charlotte focuses on, she focused on "if you don't pay for me, someone else will". It's a bad take all around.
@@silentsaturn7604 OMFG...read my comment carefully. I know what the point of the video is. Once again, I said "I focused MORE on..." which means I zeroed into the part where the girl said that the bf got mad, not ignoring the rest of the video.
And also, me saying "Love what Charlotte focuses on" and giving a time stamp is me acknowledging exactly what you said: "if you don't pay for me, someone else will." Please, for the love of everything, take the time to read correctly.
"Don't double text!"
My anxious ass: "but how else will I double check to see if they don't like me????"
🤣
I was super into stuffed animals as a kid! When I went to sleep at night I didn't want any of them to feel left out, so I would pile as many as I could into my arms. 😂
14:10 is such a rare way to talk 😂 ive only seen me, my brother and my mum doing it amd every time i hear someone doing it, i feel connection 😂
This makes me glad there were so many goth kids in my highschool lol there were so many we had no choice but to get to know each other. They're literally just regular people lmao idk why anyone would assume they're "devil worshipers".. one of my highschool goth friends went by the name Lucifer.. which literally started as a joke bc old people at the mall would yell at them that they're Satanists 😂
My goth friends and Atheist friends have actually treated me better than my fake Christian friends and family 🤷🏽♀️
Every satanist I've met has literally been the nicest person, including my mum 😂
Ironically I'm a witch that is also Goth and being either doesn't mean you worship Satan 😂 I mean you can but mostly I just listen to Metal sometimes and like playing with dark makeup on the weekends when I'm not working my job as an x-ray technologist. 🩻 ☠️ 💀
@@lorrainemcgrail6315 ❤ 💯
goths are perfectly nice people as long as you don't get all judgey and crap
I came here because I am feeling my depression and I thought hey maybe a damaged emotion would be better than this. And it was! Thank you so much!
My first childhood toy was a tiger, called Rajah. 🐅
He's not in perfect nick but pretty good for 30+ years.
My Mum was super lucky I didn't damage it cause we couldn't replace it less than 1 year after receiving it.
I cuddled him every night, but took care of my toys because I was taught at a young age that special things couldn't be replaced.
For Vanessa's bad ankle bite, I'm also allergic to mosquitoes, Calamine lotion and Betadine work great to ease the itch from mozzy bites.
I still have my childhood stuffed animal, he's a Kissme TY bear. His fur is faded, he's much flatter from years of hugs, and his nose isn't soft anymore but I still love him.
I'm 52 and still have my first teddy bear. I also have a large stuffed Eeyore that lives on my bed. I'll always love stuffed animals! Have an awesome day Charlotte and Tater Tot Squad 🥔❤️
Oh Melanie, I understand 100%, and you need to hang on to your bear! It's been with you through a lot.
I'm 62, and I still have the bunny I got for Easter 60 years ago. Better yet, I have the color Polaroid pic of my toddler self holding her when she was brand new when she was shiny and yellow and we were about the same size. I named her "Yellow Bunny", not very original but I was not quite 2 years old when I got her.
My mom tried to throw her away several times when I was older, but I had some kind of psychic connection to this thing and dug her out of the trash every time. Mom finally gave up. Especially when she saw how angry I was at her for disrespecting my bunny! Mom decided that wasn't the hill she was willing to die on.
Now her fur is rubbed off, she's mostly grey, her once pink ears that stood straight up hang limply in tatters, and her eyeballs fall out if I'm not careful.
The older we get, the more we look alike!
She lives on my headboard and when I'm feeling particularly despondent, I hug her and cry.
I know it's ridiculous, but if my house was burning, she's one of the first things I'd stuff in my bug-out bag. I think it's because I've lost so much, and so many loved ones in my life and she's the only constant who is still with me.
I'm 23, and I'm still holding on to a few of my stuffed animals. They kept me going through thick and thin as a kid, so I've got a lot of emotions tied up on them. I've got a floppy giraffe, and my Papa Bear. I learned to hand sew just to fix them up when they got damaged when I used to play with them. I'm holding on to those for as long as I can.
I still kept my stuffed animals and my sister's stuffed animals.(we moved a lot so there was a lot of yard sales and my sister's are all older) So whenever they come to my home we'll reminisce and I'll bring out their favorite stuffed animal.
Fifty seven and still love stuffed animals on the bed...
...and so does my new puppy btw! He's particularly fond of a
white and purple Unicorn that a very good Friend who passed away last year gave me!
Oh, I love the stuffed animal story. Here is mine. When I was a baby, my grandmother made me a stuffed animal that looked kind of like a rat. Being creative, I named it Rat. At eighteen months, my mom and dad were having marriage problems, so my mom was driving like twelve hours to leave me with my grandmother while they sorted things out. On the way, I accidentally dropped Rat out the window. I was beside myself. I couldn't stop crying. It would be insane for my mom to try and stop on the freeway to find my Rat, so she did the next best thing. She pulled over, got on a pay phone, called my grandmother and told her the situation. My beloved Granny got right on the sewing machine and my mother told me that Rat was going to meet us at Granny's house. That's how ya do it! This was 1972 FYI, so ya know, the dark ages.
how cute ^^
Blanket! And the emotional damage when I lost it still haunts me 25 years later
I love how chill the gym fart dude was lmfao!
His new name is, "Gym Fart Dude!!"
I was an only child until I was 6 & had many stuffed animals. I loved them much more than dolls, BUT my red blankie was my bestest friend. I still have it to this day! I remember one road trip we got two hours down the road and realized I forgot it. My parents actually turned around to go back to the house to get it cuz I was devastated 🤣 nowadays I can't believe they actually turned around for me; true love or truly crazy, heck if I know 😆
The first woman, taunting and laughing at that weirdo, is putting herself in extreme danger. Don’t taunt crazy people if you aren’t able to dodge their knifes.
I think she was in danger either way. The fact that he didn’t know where she lived was good sooo I don’t think she had to worry about “dodging their knives” just yet. Obviously cases like this could escalate but luckily everything here worked out afterwards
They met at the gym..I hope she didn't return there since this type of man could be delusional enough to wait for her there. It can get dangerous for sure.
@@lea88pu it is scary dealing with ppl like that .
More than we realize men and woman actually lash out and get physical if not to the person who is taunting them. then someone they love .
Working in emergency health for 20 years I saw this over and over .. taunting the weirdo makes you wrong , and gives them something valid reduce their time with at sentencing.
Agreed. Zero interaction is the way to go
I hope she stays safe. Men like that are scary. Taze him in the balls!
I absolutely LOVE the Fart Guy !! ❤ And the Chinese girl really f'd up not getting to know that really sweet multilingual guy !! ☹️
8:24 Mom be rocking the bucket hat tho'... I wanna get one now. Lol
I‘m a digital artist who got contacted by positivity influencers ✨
These two were the worst: so similar by the way they could’ve been sisters 😂 one of them got 100k and the other half a million followers on Instagram 5 years ago. Both of their aesthetics were all white, luxury lifestyle. You know the kind. One of them wanted me to draw her profile pic while the other wanted a portrait of her for her charity. None of them wanted to pay me but they thought it would’ve been a great chance for me to work with them and to be seen 🙄
Anyway I said no and suddenly I‘m just an business amateur and idiot to them. They got real mean real fast 😂
My motto ever since then is: if she’s wearing all white, always, make a big turn 👍🏻
"White Trash Wedding" by the Dixie Chicks.
Similar thing happened with me...I'm new to this and some account almost forced me to pay so that I can get follower on instagram. I said no, then she called me dumb and told you are yourself loosing this deal...I told her f off and blocked her and reported for harassing me. I would honestly have less follower rather that wasting money to buy follower..ik I'm miser.
Had a few NFT bros try to use my art.
I didn’t even ask for details. Just blocked them immediately
The first story reminds me of something that happened to me a month ago. A man approached me while I was waiting for a train, and started chatting. I have always been very polite, and I don't necessarily have an issue with having a nice chat with a stranger, so I was friendly and polite in return. He asked if I had a boyfriend, to which I said yes, and he continued to steer the conversation towards getting my number.
Unfortunately we were getting on the same train, so I ended up stuck in this conversation for about 20 minutes before (thank god) I had to get off to change trains. I did everything I could to explain why I didn't want to give him my number, and even why he shouldn't want it anyway, but he kept insisting that we could have some great "friendship". Throughout this, I remained polite and friendly because he was 'friendly', and the most confrontational thing I said was in response to him saying he respects women (I said that surely if he respects women, he'd respect that I don't want to give him my number).
I ended up caving, because I'd never been in that kind of situation before and could only hold out for so long. Once I was off the train, and on the whole journey home (two more trains), I could only think about two things: a building anger at *myself* for not being strong and shutting him down, and the unignorable fact that if he wanted to follow me all the way back to the flat I live in alone, he could.
It took me getting home and talking to my boyfriend and our male friends to make me realise that I shouldn't be angry at myself for this. I was raised to be polite, and something of a people-pleaser. I was never taught to stand up for myself, and as an overweight, not very attractive, person I never thought it was a situation I'd need to prepare myself for. During the whole conversation, I hadn't had a moment to process what was happening and decide what I wanted to do about it, so I was just stuck in 'be nice'.
It really drove home for me the concept of men not accepting 'no' as an answer. Obviously it's not all men, but it is enough. The guy who harassed me likely didn't even realise he was doing anything wrong. I genuinely don't believe he had malicious intentions, but that doesn't make what he did okay, and that's a pretty concerning realisation. Some people think they are just being romantic and persistent, but in reality they are harassing someone who has already expressed that they're not interested, making them at best uncomfortable and at worst scared for their safety.
Romantic movies normalize chasing women. Many movies start with women saying no, and men persisting and winning them over.
I'm sorry but The Notebook is extremely toxic. For example, the dude literally threatens to kill himself if she keeps denying him, and she giggly caves to that idiotic emotional manipulation, WHAT??
As women, we're conditioned to "be nice" and polite to everyone. It will take several generations for us to evolve into setting proper boundaries for ourselves. When my younger sister was harassed for her number, she would give the number for the local tourist lake boat dock. I always thought that was genius!
I'm sorry that happened to you. When in that situation and just safely walking away isnt an option I give them my husband's number 😂 I gave out his number when we were just dating as well lol he knew I did it and gladly took those calls
And I quote "...and as an overweight, not very attractive, person..." Sister, don't put yourself down. We are all Queens, we are all attractive, beautiful, and look exactly like we were meant to. I know it's hard to internalize that, but tell yourself every day that you are a beautiful Queen, and you deserve all the good things in life. Take care
This is were girls like you piss me off... _"I genuinely don't believe he had malicious intentions"_ ... You told him you had a boy friend. You told him you did not want to give him your number. You feared he'd follow you home if you "didn't give him your number". _Do police not exist where you live? Security guards at a nearby establishment? A crowd of people, ANYWHERE!?_ Any case... back to my original point. HE CLEARLY HAD MALICIOUS INTENTIONS. *He wants to phuck you even if it means disturbing your life* . Do better. If the conversation is in a respectful state, ask *_"why do you insist on harassing me?"_* . Be clear. If it's gone passed respectful, then you are already in a dangerous situation... GET LOUD. BE READY TO GET PHYSICALLY VIOLENT.
That guy speaking Mandarin was a cutie! 💕
yeah, I agree. He was nice and understanding, too.
When my son was old enough to have a fav stuffy… I bought 4 and kept them in my closet. One day when we were moving we found them wrapped in plastic. He screamed the closet gave birth to my fav dragon, now he has brothers and sisters. So cute!
Was having a bit of a rough morning until I got the notification for a shiny new Charlotte video. Thanks so much for your consistency and your dedication to bringing joy to all of us tater tots. We love you, you glorious Petty Potato Queen 🥔🤘🖤
Thank you for being here my darling
14:00 Prank caller is just an A$$hat for doing that kind of prank call. That's not a prank. That's just evil abuse.
Charlotte telling us not to triple text but later in the video triple texts Vanessa 😂. Love your videos!
It's different for friends, tho~ ☺
For the blankie thing my grandma said for my dad and his sister she would just give them a pillow case to cuddle with and get attached to. If they went on a trip and forgot it and the kid was crying well guess what the hotel has a pillowcase for them😂 and u can always buy more. I have a blankie that I still have but I will definitely be giving my kids pillowcases😅Love grandma❤
I was a stuffed-animal hoarder as a kid.
And I was super careful to keep the majority of them clean.
…holy crap… my OCD started sooner than I thought! Our Petty Queen teaches us AND leads us to self discovery 😯 ❤
"If I catch you triple texting someone Sharklotte will bite you" - dire warning from the potato queen . 😊 .
During my freshman year of college, i saw this guy with 4 suitcases trying to carry them by himself, so i offered to help bring them to his dorm. Afterwards he asked for my snapchat and later sent me a shirtless pic of him in bed after midnight. I decided to wait until the next morning to respond and he got so mad that i didnt respond to his thirst trap immediately?? So i blocked him and told all my friends to avoid him lol
Soon as my daughter showed that a stuffed was the one I bought an extra and swapped them out occasionally (it has to have a certain scent). This was also important because she choose one my Grandpa go her from some specialty shop and I probably couldn’t find another now; this was 15 yrs ago for context. She still has both and still takes them when she stays places.