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  • @ليناوصاف
    @ليناوصاف 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My boyfriend died two weeks ago and I can't keep living like this anymore I want to help myself heal 😫 but it's too overwhelming 💔 the pain is awful I miss him I miss the connection I even miss the moments we never had the chance to have, I'm crying less I guess because I stopped looking at our videos
    Islem bendada rest in peace 💔I love you i miss you every day I miss everything about you
    your death was so shocking , everything is so meaningless now

    • @lindavernon8051
      @lindavernon8051 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My husband died on December 23rd. And what helped me the most was a thought that came to me. He misses me as much as I miss him. That thought soothed me. It’s not just me missing him. He’s missing me too. I know it sounds silly, but now we’re just in a long distance relationship, both loving each other from where we are. My heart goes out to you. I know what you are feeling. But you’re going to be okay and I’m going to be okay. We’re going to be okay.❤

    • @sandraainsley2574
      @sandraainsley2574 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's so beautifully spoken. I agree. I feel my heart feeling him feel me .He died last week.I sense that he and are feeling each other's love and of course shock. I talk to him too. Thank you ❤

  • @P.L.M.
    @P.L.M. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My husband passed on June 19, 2021. He was on Hospice for 6 months with hepatic cancer. I would have not survived this without Hospice. He went down to 100lbs but when he passed it was the WORSE BLOW imaginable.

  • @helenjekelle1293
    @helenjekelle1293 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much Dr. Wolfelt for these great thoughts. I lost my son, Aminu, my only child six months ago and the pain has been excruciatingly unbearable.. Thank you so much for helping me make sense of the death of my precious son. Finding caring friends is so difficult in a country where grief is considered personal. I find so much consolation in your thoughts. Helen

    • @congac33
      @congac33 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Helen, I feel your pain, literally! I lost my 25 year old son, namesake and only child on 4/12/23. He left the house to play basketball, something he'd done thousands of times while growing up. He collapsed on the court and could not be revived. It was found that he suffered from Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy. A three sport athlete in HS, avid snowboarder, but he never came home from going to play basketball.
      Bobby was the center of my universe and love of my life. I find myself questioning what my purpose in life is now, but I'm doing my best to stay strong for Bobby.

  • @valiantval6539
    @valiantval6539 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you ,thank you so much, I am sat here in tears because I have listened to so many of these kind of videos and yours has truly truly helped me so much. I lost my husband after 61 years of marriage 6 months ago and the loniness is unbearable, butyou have made me see I am going in the right direction.

  • @gregehlert2349
    @gregehlert2349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your work is ESSENTIAL for those who are in grief and those who want to love them well. I had the privilege of hearing from you personally as you presented in Greeley over 7 years ago. Your resources on grieving a suicide were very helpful. Thank you for your powerful and important work!

  • @selectedFH
    @selectedFH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Dr. Wolfelt for the important work you do. We appreciate you!

  • @rosettesciberras3475
    @rosettesciberras3475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. Loss of an adult child.

  • @doloresu4040
    @doloresu4040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Alan. This clip and your work are greatly appreciated.

  • @Gilion100
    @Gilion100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I lost my son who was 14 on 22nd December 2022 . Iam pained to the maximum.

  • @sunriseschubert4391
    @sunriseschubert4391 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My mother passed away in October 6 2022 and I'm heartbroken 😭💔.

  • @DJK-cq2uy
    @DJK-cq2uy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Perfect

  • @eemouawad
    @eemouawad ปีที่แล้ว

    Here, death is considered a public social event, nothing personal as it should be.