Broken-Hearted Optimist: Finding Hope Through Heartache

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  • @judyford5582
    @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +427

    This morning I've read all your generous comments,. Thank you. I'll for sure continue reading all comments. You've given me laughter and tears, smiles and giggles. Isn't it inspiring that we can feel connected to people we've never met?

    • @thenightporter
      @thenightporter ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Judy, you are the same age as my mom. She too is a wise and kind woman and is very important to me. 👭. Thank you for sharing your story.
      I completely agree that people are craving connections. I think part od the problem is that people are too "busy" with work or putting their kids in all kinds of sports, to the point that always being "busy" prevents us from being in the moment, to reflect, to observe and embrace the world around us. I believe that some of us design our lives that way for that very reason -- to shut out the feelings of sadness, to be so busy that we dont have the time to face and work through those feelings.
      It would be so nice to visit with you, to go for a nature walk.
      Happy Birthday! ❤ from the Twin Cities.

    • @rprprpp
      @rprprpp ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You are a lovely and inspiring person. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @rjrod6381
      @rjrod6381 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Judy. I really love personalities like yours. Thank you. A beautiful film, beautiful words. 🙏💚

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wonderful that you are taking the time to read the comments, it means a lot to us. We totally agree, it is wonderful that we are all connected, no matter where we live. It is beautiful to read how many viewers have been touched and encouraged by your story. Much love to you, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @estrela3889
      @estrela3889 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I love your doodllosophies and the bits of drawings I could see! Your thoughts and your presence are inspiring and bright, thank you for showing up to Life. And thank you for speaking the Truth: life is difficult and wonderful.

  • @207laine
    @207laine ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I went to my first art class in my 50s. My husband died suddenly about 2 years into my classes. He had just lost his life insurance policy due to a non related health issue. I supported myself until I reached retirement age by both selling my art and teaching others to paint. It truly gave me a reason to live.

    • @sherrytzasherrytza4793
      @sherrytzasherrytza4793 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you for sharing your lovely story. It inspired me. ❤

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What a heartbreaking loss for you and what an optimistic spirit you've created . Love and art are connected! Thank you for giving me peek into your life story.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for sharing what happened. So wonderful that you could pick up the pieces, carry on and find purpose in your life. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @esthers9140
    @esthers9140 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I'm struggling and I'm lost and..I feel numb and have a hard time crying.
    I lost my husband October 27th 2023. He was 67 years old and passed from brain cancer. I married him when I was 19 we were married for going on 41 years. In July of this year my 65 year old sister passed away. She was more like a mother to me. I am sorry for anyone who loses someone they love❤

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My heart reaches out to you. The loss of your beloved ones---sister and husband both---is so fresh in your heart and soul that numbness takes over, like a coat of protection over the shock of it all. Your heart is breaking, crying on the inside while going through the motions. Waiting, waiting tears will come, beautiful memories will arise. Go easy.

    • @annettenoga6182
      @annettenoga6182 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So sorry for your lost. May the memories of your loved ones sustain you during this most difficult time. Be kind to yourself knowing their love forever lives in your heart.💖

    • @julieearles5304
      @julieearles5304 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ♥️♥️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you for writing to us. So hard to lose two beloved people in such a short period. We can imagine that you feel numb. May you, with time, be able to share those tears that are building up inside and express your sadness outwardly. Give yourself time, be kind to yourself.
      Here is a video that speaks about mourning, maybe it can help you - ‘Through The Storm’ - (th-cam.com/video/tB98ldnUcTE/w-d-xo.html). Sending you much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @Justinep2023
      @Justinep2023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @bluegirl4079
    @bluegirl4079 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    So profound. We never "get over" losing someone. The grief becomes a constant companion. For me it has made me appreciate and value each day I live on this earth, especially those I love.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We are glad her message spoke to you deeply. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We can not fix our broken heart. We can love our broken heart. Even with our broken heart there is so much in this world to love. Here's to love in all its forms.

  • @MsGaella
    @MsGaella ปีที่แล้ว +88

    You say, “you cannot fix your broken heart. You can only love your broken heart“
    This is SO healing for me. Thank you thank you🙏❤️🙏

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We are glad to hear that her story resonated so deeply with you. Sending much love. Justine and Michael 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Quiet relief resides in loving a broken heart.

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @judyford5582 Thats beautiful.

  • @kimcunningham2107
    @kimcunningham2107 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I lost my husband and he was my best friend. It stopped me in my tracks but now I live my Life to the fullest in honor of him. 💜💜💜

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hold you in my heart.

    • @kimcunningham2107
      @kimcunningham2107 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@judyford5582 ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So good that you could find your way again after the loss and live a full life now. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @levmoses742
      @levmoses742 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So good you’re honoring the life you have left, and sweet you have his memory with you!

    • @kimcunningham2107
      @kimcunningham2107 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@levmoses742 ❤️

  • @MissBeeGood
    @MissBeeGood 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I lost my husband 8 years ago. He didn’t die but our marriage did when he left me for a woman half my age. We were together 21 years and he was my best friend. I have been lost since and struggle to let people get close to me. I think my heart is still broken and having watched this realise it always will be. I don’t have children and think I’ll probably always be alone. Am grateful for friends and the few family members I have. My pets give me comfort but my beloved dog Archie died last year which further shattered my heart. This video sure made me cry but it was a good release. Judy is an inspiring lady. Thank you for this video.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your words touch us deeply, so much sadness and pain. We are glad that we could share Judy's message with you and you were able to cry some tears - sometimes we need that. May her words help and carry you as you go forward.
      Maybe this video can be a help too - ‘Through The Storm’ - (th-cam.com/video/tB98ldnUcTE/w-d-xo.html). Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Within you lies a deep well of untapped potential. You are not who you think you are, you are not who others think you are , you are much much more. Yes heart is broken and your heart is full of love to share. Here is a little assignment I like doing. Try this: In a journal begin writing two lists; One entitled: I like____ and one entitled: I love_______(fill in the blank). Turns out my list is very long and I imagine yours will be too. Your lists can lead you toward a healing direction. My love to you.

    • @cendrinerey5756
      @cendrinerey5756 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Douces pensées pour vous 💝

    • @theresaboock6758
      @theresaboock6758 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m so sorry. I lost my husband of 32 yrs, he also transferred his love to another 14 yrs ago. He was my best friend, the betrayal was brutal. I expect my broken heart will never heal, but I have grown and gained a sad wisdom and empathy.

    • @sallymitchell6423
      @sallymitchell6423 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m sorry to hear that you feel so sad. I felt inspired to share a poem I wrote, maybe you can resonate in some way, maybe find a little healing.
      I am me
      I own myself
      I am not me because of you
      Or in spite of you
      My roots run deep
      And my branches reach high
      I am secure
      Dependent only on the earth to sustain me
      And on God to sustain the earth
      I have enough
      I give enough
      I am enough

  • @kerstinmiller223
    @kerstinmiller223 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This is a beautiful comment section, probably the most soul-touching one I’ve ever read. Sending love to everyone reading this. ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We thank you for your kind message, so happy that the various comments meant so much to you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Our hearts have enormous capacity for love, even for those we have not met. Thank you.

  • @TheJJmags
    @TheJJmags ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I can relate to her so much, I became a young widow last year at 34 and my husband was just like hers so handsome and my everything! And like her I am a broken hearted optimist ❤

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh I'm so sorry and sad for your loss of your handsome husband. Even as your heart is breaking I know for sure that good things are coming your way. I believe for you and I believe it for me.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What can we say... so sad to read your message. May Judy's words help and encourage you on your road ahead. Sending you many hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @jonathankipp2784
    @jonathankipp2784 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I watched this two weeks ago and have not been able to get this sweet lady out of my mind. And while I don't go around talking about what I learn in these films with my loved ones, I found myself sharing some of the wisdom she shared with me. Her explanation of experiencing ongoing grief while still loving life at the same time, well, may be life changing. Laughter and tears go together. Why has nobody ever explained this to me before? What a gift... what a gift I can give my children as they face their own heartaches as they trounce into adulthood. 'You cannot fix a broken heart. You can only love your broken heart." Thank you.

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Reading your comments this morning, I'm smiling. Means so much to me that you are passing on my words to your children. Here's a doodle-osophy: "It's good luck to be light hearted." My best wishes. Judy

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Deep, very deep. So special that Judy's message was so profound that you feel strongly to share it with your children. Thank you so much for telling us how much this meant to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @marianneszalaga2021
      @marianneszalaga2021 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤ liefde voor iedereen

  • @NN57143
    @NN57143 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This content is priceless. Thank you so much for sharing with us this beautiful woman and her huge heart and amazing wisdom. I would also like to acknowledge the choice of background music. It is a lovely accompaniment. Just enough and not intrusive. 🎶🎼🎵

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for your encouraging and kind message, we appreciate it a lot. We are so glad that we can share these videos with you, lovely to have you with us on our journey. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So much in the this world to love, birds signing, flowers, smiling faces, tears and music. Here's to sharing love.

  • @gallovidian2151
    @gallovidian2151 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    "I don't know if it's true, but it makes me feel better to believe it"" - this.

    • @justinxxd
      @justinxxd ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have learned that about a lot of things in my life.

    • @nancysmith3400
      @nancysmith3400 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well I think believing that if “the TRUTH will set you free” makes you feel better, it’s True!!! I believe it 100%!!! You are an Inspiration, thank you so much 🤗💜

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice that these words were valuable. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @Xica448
      @Xica448 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen❤

    • @Xica448
      @Xica448 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What tender, refreshing inspiration. Thank you sweet lady

  • @lindaedwards7840
    @lindaedwards7840 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you so much for this video, My partner died suddenly in 2022, he died alone in his work place. I know he is at peace now, I feel him around me from time to time, we had the same attitude for living, make the most of each day. I do appreciate each day. I miss him. Blessings to all. 💚🌹🙏

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for opening up and sharing your sadness. We are sorry to read that your partner passed away. It's not easy to lose a person we loved. Glad you can feel his presence at times, may that give you peace and strength for every new day.
      This a video which might also speak to you/help you: ‘Through The Storm’ - (th-cam.com/video/tB98ldnUcTE/w-d-xo.html). Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @lindaedwards7840
      @lindaedwards7840 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank-you
      Your message is very much appreciated blessings to you both.xx

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I 'm am sorry for the loss of your beloved one! He has a permanent place in your heart, his love remains. My heart reaches out to you Linda.

    • @lindaedwards7840
      @lindaedwards7840 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hugs and Blessings to you, x

  • @Aspen_stitcher
    @Aspen_stitcher 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    "Celebrating everything is what it means to be alive" is one of the most profound statements I have ever heard. A beautiful story of a beautiful person!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Lovely. We are glad you enjoyed the message she shared. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @BaseballBae0
    @BaseballBae0 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The human experience is the human experience. Our differences are beautiful and fascinating and should be embraced, but our similarities are such magical reminders that we all come from the same stardust.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for watching and sharing these beautiful thoughts. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @BaseballBae0
      @BaseballBae0 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ReflectionsofLife 💗

  • @kathleensteeves488
    @kathleensteeves488 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    There is a great song in that statement “ I never get enough of those I love” 😊

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What wonderful suggestion. 🤩 A song or a poem. So much in this world to love. Flowers, Birds, A cup of tea with a friend, smiles, kind words.......

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love this idea! Who knows, maybe Judy will indeed use her creativity to turn it into a poem?! Warm hugs to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @karenhumphreys6316
    @karenhumphreys6316 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well done you beautiful Lady xxx everyone says ‘let it go’ ‘get over it’s…. But you have told me a truth today! ‘You can’t heal a broken heart 💔 but I can nurse it & love it’s…. This is TRUTH ❤ THANK YOU 🙏🏼 & God bless you & your daughter 🩷🌅💯💌

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Touching words. We are really glad that her message was so valuable. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your kind words. touched my heart.

  • @nkinyori
    @nkinyori ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "There's no heaven without my daughter." Now I'm crying😭😭

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, very touching words. Sending you a big hug. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Lanclasscan
    @Lanclasscan ปีที่แล้ว +76

    So poignant and soothing to realise how precious our time is here on earth. Love from Canada.

    • @paulduffy7572
      @paulduffy7572 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm full of tears just thinking that I have been on the earth 51 years I'm so lonely my heart is blessed but broken I Pray that I can love again it's been a long time I'm so honest I don't know how to wake up I can't get out of bed please help me I can't do this anymore

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Lovely message, thank you. Sending you warm hugs from South Africa, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      @paulduffy7572 Thank you for watching this video, allowing it to touch. Maybe you should reach out for some support, some help, etc. in your area and share your sadness, worries and needs so that you will be able to change your situation and go forward more positively. We trust you will be able to change your situation. Wishing in you all the best. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is so true .

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@paulduffy7572 I am almost 80. You are only 51. In my thinking you're a youngster. Which means that you can discover what it means to love and be loved. Begin by reading this poem I wrote. Read it out loud to yourself every single day.
      Vicious Circle
      by Judy Ford
      Trust that you are lovable,
      even when there is no
      apparent evidence that you are.
      You are lovable
      even with your limitations.
      Accepting limitations
      does not diminish lovableness.
      It is the opposite.
      When we make peace with our limitations
      we become more lovable, and
      as we become more lovable
      we become more loving toward others,
      and then we become even more lovable.
      This is one of the most
      rewarding
      vicious circles
      we can fall into.

  • @PhilAlumb
    @PhilAlumb ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Life is strong and Fragile...And limited.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And so much in this world to love!

  • @kristinan.3681
    @kristinan.3681 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Lost my 21 year old son 8 months ago. I will watch this again and again. I too am a broken hearted optimist. Thank you, Judy.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It saddens us to read that you lost your son. So thankful Judy's message meant much to you, may her words carry you in the days to come.
      Maybe this video can also be a help: ‘Through The Storm’ - (th-cam.com/video/tB98ldnUcTE/w-d-xo.html). Wishing you all the strength you need for every new day and sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @EdDiaz
    @EdDiaz ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I want to have coffee with this lady. I feel like I have known her all my life. So full of authentic wisdom. Thank you🙏❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your words speak volumes... Glad her words meant so much to you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'll order a Vanilla Dry Cappuccino and we'll have conversations. Thank you

  • @LLM263
    @LLM263 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This brings me hope 🙂. Just 3 years since my husband passed away at the age of 58 suddenly ! I can relate to exactly what Judy was speaking of word for word. I often have mixed feelings about spending the next 20 or 30 years or so without my husband, but you Judy bring me optimism & hope going forward 💕 THANK YOU!!

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh sweet one. I'm sorry that your beloved is no longer by your side. When we lose someone we love we learn to wrap our hearts in the love they left behind. We learn to live with the joy of being loved. Much love to you.

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry for the loss on your beloved husband. When we lose some we love, we learn to focus on the love they left behind. Love is eternal and as life continues we learn to wrap our heart in the love that they left us. Sending warm thoughts to you.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Touching words. We are so thankful that Judy's words bring you hope after losing your husband so suddenly three years ago. May you feel surrounded by love.
      Maybe this video can also help you along the way: ‘Through The Storm’ - (th-cam.com/video/tB98ldnUcTE/w-d-xo.html). Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @migdaliarosado4137
    @migdaliarosado4137 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Truth will definitely set you free ❤ lovely lady

  • @DevineAmara
    @DevineAmara 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    🎯💯🎯💯🎯💯🙏💖🌞🌈 "Tears & laughter go together".✅️ Yes, we can & DO/are designed to hold BOTH- pain & joy, sorrow & happiness, broken hearted & loving kindness, within. The only limits that exist are the ones we put on ourselves. The joy heals the pain... happiness heals sorrow.... laughter disempowers fear... the darkness exposes the light. Become loving kindness. Its what we all are here on Earth to experience & learn. Thank you for these beautiful reminders & soul food. 🙏💖🌞🌈

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lovely words. So happy that we are able to share these stories with you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      So much in this world to love....birds, flowers, smiles, laughter, tears, ice-cream, sitting, strangers who write sweet comments et cetera. Thank you for your words.

  • @hector00atm
    @hector00atm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You do can fix a broken heart. Broken things can heal

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching and sharing this view. For some it maybe can but a scar will always be there. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much in this world to love! 😍

  • @anthonydavies6021
    @anthonydavies6021 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    A little gem so much wisdom from this charming lady. I especially liked it when she says "I get funnier and sadder as I grow older". As a granddad I really enjoy being the silly one in the family! Thank you as always for ten minutes of pure celebration of being alive.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful message. So happy that you enjoyed the time listening to Judy. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your grandchildren are indeed fortunate to have a silly granddad.

  • @rubberbiscuit99
    @rubberbiscuit99 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "These are my doodleosophies."
    Tickled me. Thanks, Judy. ☮️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lovely message, thanks so much. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm delighted that you enjoy my doodlesophies.

  • @alainleblanc8007
    @alainleblanc8007 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    How lucky am I to have stumbled on this video. I am listening and watching with a tear in my eye and a smile on my face. If I may say, Judy, you are a absute beautiful women, you exude love. Thank you🌻

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What a lovely message, thank you. We are so glad you came across this video. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tear in your eye and smile on your face. Thank you for sharing that.

  • @Pat_Nu
    @Pat_Nu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤️❤️❤️ Lovely things she has said. Thanks for sharing nice nice things in life...Celebrating everything is what it means to be alive.❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beautiful message, so glad you appreciated what Judy shared. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @d.c.603
    @d.c.603 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    A seed-a need. Go-grow-know. Thank you. Beautiful story at the right time for many 😢😂❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So happy that you liked Judy's message. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you....lots of love seeds to plant.

    • @d.c.603
      @d.c.603 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@judyford5582 🌄

  • @paulinawaas9204
    @paulinawaas9204 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "I do not know if it's true, but it makes me feel better to believe..." Very loving... yes, why compare ? Amazing drawings! At 80, you do not have a reason to be happy! Just be!

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So much in the world to celebrate'--birds, smiling faces, the moon and sun, kind comments from strangers, walks laughter and tears😄

    • @paulinawaas9204
      @paulinawaas9204 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Being alive is the greatest happiness and you are truly beautiful... "laughter and tears go together!"

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💚

  • @ChristineLisle
    @ChristineLisle 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    beautiful ❤️ out of the mouth of babies
    yes I know those feelings
    my husband passed age 31
    still miss Allan
    our girls where 10 and 5

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We can imagine that her words spoke to you deeply. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So much in this world to love! Here's to your love for Allan. It is beautiful that you miss Allan, your reflections of how much you loved. May his love surround you.

  • @ElizabethLovegrove-cm1bb
    @ElizabethLovegrove-cm1bb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love these stories my spirit grows with each one … thank you ❤❤❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome. So happy they mean so much to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @sl9991
    @sl9991 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    As always, the universe delivers. I have always loved your video stories. I lost my beloved dog of sixteen years this month and am broken hearted and questioning everything just like Judy. Watching this and listening to her thoughts and philosophies helped. My broken heart won’t heal, but we must continue on amidst all the wonder of it all. I am NEVER disappointed with your content, but this particular video was poignant for me and I think my beloved Loki sees my grieving and somehow managed to send this to me. I’ve prayed to him to send me signs and low and behold, here is another one. Thank you so much. . . Once again. Much love 💕

    • @6gorks
      @6gorks ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Deepest condolences for your loss. "Broken hearted optimist", it seems we are all in this group together. Without cracks, the light can't get through; something to ponder.

    • @thenightporter
      @thenightporter ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My heart hurts for you. I have been there too. I still talk to my darling doggie every day --- on walks, making dinner, going to bed, waking up. ❤

    • @sl9991
      @sl9991 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@6gorks Thank you for your kindness. I agree, I love that quote about the cracks and the light getting thru.

    • @sl9991
      @sl9991 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thenightporter Thank you for your kind reply. I’m so sorry you have also experienced this sadness and grief and wish you continued healing. I suppose it is the cost of loving well, isn’t it?

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sweet so soft. What a wonderful loving companion Loki was. Such a connection never dies, you can feel Loki in your heart. I believe good things are coming your way. I believe it for you and for me.

  • @ilovemichigan-1111
    @ilovemichigan-1111 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel this within every cell of my body. My story is different but so similar in how it affected us 🙏💜 This is so healing ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wonderful that her words touched you so deeply and that her words were healing. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much in this world to love and that includes loving and appreciating who we are and who we are becoming.

  • @maxaudibert5793
    @maxaudibert5793 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Death is coming! And life should be celebrated every day! What beautiful words. Thank you from a small village in East Greenland!

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've never visited Greenland and now I feel as if I have a heart connection with you. A wonderful day to you.

    • @maxaudibert5793
      @maxaudibert5793 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you I feel honored@@judyford5582

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad her words resonated with you. Yes, we should appreciate and celebrate each day. Sending you warm hugs to East Greenland from South Africa. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @kariskogstadlita8085
    @kariskogstadlita8085 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Words of wisdom ,just what i needed today .THANK YOU 😍🤩Have a beautiful day 🤗🤗🤗

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Great. Glad her message was just the right thing for you today. Have a lovely day, sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @kariskogstadlita8085
      @kariskogstadlita8085 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Justine and Michel ,warm hugs back 🤗

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So much in this world to love. Birds, moon and stars, laughter, tears and smiling faces.

  • @lindastangelo1636
    @lindastangelo1636 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Judy, you spoke to my soul..... how lucky your daughter is to have such a wise mother. I wish you were my neighbor because I would love to laugh with you. I am a bit younger than you... 67, but understand how you start realizing that death is coming..... everyone hides from it, but we live with it every day. I am thankful every night when I close my eyes, I had another beautiful day on this glorious planet. I love your doodles... they brought a smile to my heart. I know this is a video I will watch more than once. Judy, I hope you have the loveliest of times, spent with your daughter each and every day ❤.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Such touching words, glad Judy's message spoke to you so deeply. May the video be special every time you watch it. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @victoriazajchowski9257
    @victoriazajchowski9257 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm just getting over a heart attack, which I consider a physical enactment of my broken heart, but it has given me such a wonderful, amazing new perspective on life. Being ill has brought me clarity (maybe having more oxygen to my heart has helped). Bless you for your wonderful video and sentiments.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are so glad you are doing better again and that you feel that you have a new perspective on life. May you discover many more wonderful things as you go along. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      With your new perspective I am certain that good things will continue your way.🤟

  • @collectdailydoseofinspiration
    @collectdailydoseofinspiration 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    “We must celebrate!” Yes, yes, wholeheartedly yes!!! Downloaded this for the days when my cracked heart squeaks, rather than sings… Thank you for this inspiring message for us all! I love you, Judy! ❤

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So much in the world to love and celebrate: Flowers, birds, kindness, grapefruit, smiles, dancing, singing et cetera. 😍

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your words are touching. May Judy's message lift you up on those difficult days. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @malgorzatakrol9633
    @malgorzatakrol9633 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Życzę tej pieknej pani wielu lat w zdrowiu i radości w zyciu. Serdecznie pozdrawiam wszystkich oglądających❤❤❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your beautiful message. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @HomeEF
    @HomeEF 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My husband died young too. After 26 years of his part from this life , I am okay ♥️

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Here's to love in all forms! It is good to be okay! So much in this world to love. Thank you for your comment.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing. Glad you feel that you are feeling ok now. There is no fixed time when this moment will come, we are all different. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @mountainbruum3431
    @mountainbruum3431 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Meaningful message. I also consider myself a broken-hearted optimist. Indeed, the LIGHT comes in only through the cracks. It's in brokenness that we find our wholeness.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beautiful words that perfectly echo the story that Judy shared with us. Thanks for sharing this message here with us. Judy does read all of these comments, so your words will reach her. Big love. Justine and Michael 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Finding ourselves through the brokenness. Yes. thank you for sharing.

  • @Mary-mj9mf
    @Mary-mj9mf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Oh my Judy what wonderful statements and questions you have posed. I particularly love your "What are we doing here and why are we dying???'' I must admit I laughed so loudly at that - my tea spilled. Please when you find out come back and tell us. You are simply a joy xx

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      There's so much in this world like love and celebrate : laughter, birds, smiles, flowers. I like making lists of things I like. I imagine you laughing and I celebrate you.🥰

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wonderful that the message Judy shared meant so much to you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @MonikaGajewska_Art
    @MonikaGajewska_Art 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I could watch your videos for hours. I discovered your channel already 2 years ago and since then I am your huge fan. Your videos inspired me in so many ways. Thank you for that! 💚💚💚

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for your kind and encouraging message. We are so glad that our videos mean so much to you. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much in this world to celebrate: sunshine and eclipse and birds and flowers and smiles and the list goes on. Thank you for sharing your comment.

  • @dorotejavidic960
    @dorotejavidic960 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am happy for no good reason❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much easier that way! Happiness is so much easier when I focus on the every day blessings, for me that's birds, smiles, trees, the moon, the stars ,tears, kind words. et cetera...

  • @fedeio9381
    @fedeio9381 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you very much, this video, Jude, is so heart opening. To be so kind and simple, truth. I crave for this simplicity and authenticity. I experience in me the constant fight between darkness and light, and how easily the heart get closed again. In these moments, to see these videos, is like a balm for my soul, a little internal shift happen.
    Thank you Justin, Michael and Jude

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're very welcome. We are so glad Judy's message meant much to you. May her words help, carry and inspire you in difficult moments. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Trust the unseen forces helping us on our way.

    • @fedeio9381
      @fedeio9381 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@judyford5582❤🙏🏻 THANK YOU

  • @lifeslessons9889
    @lifeslessons9889 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I woke at 4am and this was starring me in the face… I needed this today as my only son and I chatted about upsets and loss . I lost his father my husband too at a very early age . A broken heart that NEVER repairs it’s been 27 years now … the pain that sometimes emerges. Love continues. ❤in that pain .

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว

      Take gentle care of your broken heart. Good things are coming for you and coming for your son. I believe for you. I believe for him. I believe it for me.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing a bit about your life, we are glad that we could share Judy's message with you. May her words encourage, inspire and comfort you. Sending you and your son much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @danag812
    @danag812 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This woman gets it. She is wise and delightful. Her daughter is so lucky. Love the doodles ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for your kind words, glad you enjoyed it. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @LodewykDeVilliers
    @LodewykDeVilliers ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Lost all my loved ones, many days I feel lonely but never alone, their spirits keeps me company and I can feel free to talk to them anytime ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry to read about the loss of all your loved ones. But so wonderful that you always feel their presence and talk to them. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @LindaBDubois
      @LindaBDubois หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's beautiful to talk out loud. You are never alone... 🌹💖

  • @eva9539
    @eva9539 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's a pleasure. Thank you for watching. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @dinocorreia1202
    @dinocorreia1202 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    There's no shame trying to be healed by tears or to realized how we are so broken that we can't realize how this huge puzzle of Life tell us every single day the importance of all it happens to us ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your comforting message. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Mammi80
    @Mammi80 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love the new name! from green renaissance to reflections of life❤ all of your stories keeps me grounded & appreciate life.Thank you for sharing all the wonderful, inspiring stories!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so welcome, we are so happy you enjoy the different videos and also our new name. Good to have you with us on our journey. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @newearth2920
    @newearth2920 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Oh, thank you all so much. I love this woman. She made me laugh and cry! Irony. I definitely wasn’t expecting that!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      We are glad that we could share Judy's story with you. Thank you for being open and taking it all in. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @debbiekoortzen1154
    @debbiekoortzen1154 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are the most beautiful and inspiring woman. I loved listening to your story, I am truly sorry for what you have lost. I admire you for how incredibly brave you are. Thank you. ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She truly is a woman who knows how to live and love, and to celebrate the fullness of life. We're glad that you enjoyed her story. We send you love. Justine and Michael x

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much in this world to love--flowers, birds, the sky, strangers, smiles, laughter, tears, et cetera. 😃thank you for your kind comment.

  • @luzgomez1061
    @luzgomez1061 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Honey, you´ll always be with your daughter... A part of her is inside of you and a part of you is inside of her... Enjoy every single moment you have with her, touch her, feel her... The time when you will be pure energy will arrive sooner or later. But, for now, embrace your life! Thank you so much for sharing, you make my days brighter and brighter...

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Such touching and encouraging words, thank you so much. We are glad these videos make your days brighter. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes, we 're connected. Over the years I said to my daughter, "You're job is to take the best of me, improve on it and become better," She has done that for sure! That's the way it is meant to be. That's evolution.

  • @elesganharamnaloteria
    @elesganharamnaloteria 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How much wisdom. What an example of authenticity. The way she lives and is happy is inspiring. Thank you for sharing.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are welcome. We are glad you enjoyed listening to Judy's story. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your comment. So much in this world to celebrate: birds and blue skies, smiles, laughter and tears, ice-cream and apples et cetera. Here's to a wonderful May.

  • @ShellyBomb
    @ShellyBomb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Judy for this beautiful life lesson ... 🤍 🤍 🤍

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are welcome. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @ShellyBomb
      @ShellyBomb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ReflectionsofLife Warm hugs to you both, as well ... ❤️‍🩹

  • @marjoleinvanderperkmusic6601
    @marjoleinvanderperkmusic6601 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Broken hearted optimist. Love it so much. Her voice is so warm and poetic.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your kind words, so glad you enjoyed listening to Judy. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your response. Touches my heart.

  • @deborahjohnson3876
    @deborahjohnson3876 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Understanding that joy and grief are two sides of the same coin is much easier to say than to do. Judy does it with such beauty and grace. Thank you for another lovely video. It is well timed as the holidays tend to be an emotional time for people dealing with loss. Bless you and your work. ❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Such a beautiful and sensitive message. Thank you for your kindness. We hope Judy's message can carry and help people when the days are difficult and hard to bear. Sending you much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @petergarayt9634
    @petergarayt9634 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Humanity has broken my heart but I'm still optimistic it will heal it as well.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing your pain. May you experience healing, try and stay positive. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much in this world to love! 🤩

  • @rebeccacollins1218
    @rebeccacollins1218 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Beautiful truths. Love the "doodleosophies"! She doesn't give herself enough credit: she has a beautiful, unique talent, so comparisons to others are impossible. Art has no standards other than those imposed by biased humans.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed her message and artwork. Thank you for all the kind words and encouragement. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! I agree with you! Thank you for the reminders. Your must have a creative streak?

  • @rebeccajourney3183
    @rebeccajourney3183 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I should have known it was Green Renaissance! Once again, a beautiful story beautifully presented❤❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for enjoying our work Rebecca. And if you missed the announcement - we recently did rebrand our channel - you can read all about it here - th-cam.com/users/postUgkxbdJjJaqS2LFHgMw5-G_jXfO1efhqfS4R
      Warm hugs to you. Justine and Michael x

  • @Oreo-s1f
    @Oreo-s1f ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I felt like these were my words and I cried with joy and glory in my heart, the preciousness and the miracle of being is usually overlooked, but it is there all the time.

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes. So much magnificence in being alive. Thank you for your comment.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      So, so happy you enjoyed listening to Judy, that they spoke to your heart. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @livingcooking4659
    @livingcooking4659 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    After losing my mom, I had a hard time coping... Soon I will be visiting my dad and make sure to spend time with him while there is still life. Thank you for sharing.. Life is precious.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We are sad to read about the passing of your mom. Never easy to lose a person we love. Wishing you a valuable time with your dad.
      Maybe this video can also help you to deal with the loss of your mother: ‘Through The Storm’ - (th-cam.com/video/tB98ldnUcTE/w-d-xo.html). Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      . I'm sorry for your loss. I know for certain that Love does not go away. Love resides in us and surrounds us.

  • @jcsrst
    @jcsrst ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The stories on this channel are the most wonderful and amazing I've ever heard! You are doing God's work❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your kind and encouraging message. We appreciate it. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @imsuperblessedjuanitagagia2059
    @imsuperblessedjuanitagagia2059 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Superblessed with gratitude 🙏
    Watching all the way to the end is the only way... I never want it to end. Absolutely amazing 👏 😍

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much, glad it was so special. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @rebeccajourney3183
    @rebeccajourney3183 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing your story. I have been in tears this morning but have experienced some good laughter too. I lost my husband 13 years ago from a sudden and unexpected heart attack. Robin was the love of my life❤ I like your artwork, and I am smiling😊

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry to hear of you loss. It is never easy, and as Judy shares, the pain remains as a reminder of the true depths of our love and loss. And yet, we learn to appreciate and celebrate all the beauty that life shares with us too. Sending very warm hugs, filled with kindness and care. Justine and Michael x

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As you surround yourself in the love that your husband left you, good things will continue to come your way. Thank you for your comment.

  • @longlost8424
    @longlost8424 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    love isn't just a feeling, its a choice..... we all choose to allow ourselves to love, and to understand that this choice has connotations within the experience. knowing that in a relationship, one of the parties will end up being the first to go, barring any catastrophic loss such as a car or plane crash. I to have lost, unfortunately multiple times (2 relationship ends due to cancer) in my life, but I've chosen to go on, to move beyond the loss and sorrow. today (I'm 61) my relationship has its ups and downs (as they all do) yet I continue to choose to face this life with the possibility to experience all the love in the world. I never miss the chance to tell those who matter that I love them, because eventually we will experience the last time that we see them.... of this, I don't plan on changing anytime soon..... this is the only life we get, so choose to love regardless of external (or internal for that matter) forces that may seem challenging. in the end, love is worth it, I assure you.......

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful and interesting thoughts to ponder on. May we have a positive attitude and rise beyond the struggles and losses we all experience and love ourselves and share love. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @pattypichardo6518
    @pattypichardo6518 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Que dama más bella!! Quisiera darle un gran abrazo y decirle lo encantadora que es. Y la sabiduría en su vida y en la forma en que lo dice... Es una niña dulce y llena de vida y arte... Me encantan sus garabatos como dice ella, es arte que me fascinó. Hablemos personas que vivimos así, con el corazón rotó pero celebrando con amor este bello milagro que es la vida... Gracias por este maravilloso canal, lo disfruto con todo mí corazón!! 💝🌹

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So many lovely and kind words in your message, thank you for sharing. We are so glad you enjoyed this video with Judy. Nice to have you with us on our journey. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your kind words! So much in this world to love

    • @pattypichardo6518
      @pattypichardo6518 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@judyford5582 es usted una preciosa dama, le envío un gran abrazo desde la ciudad de México, me encantan sus dibujos, me enamore de su arte!! Le agradezco infinitamente por escribirme es un detalle muy lindo para mí!!
      🙏💝🌹

  • @KatjaEmmery
    @KatjaEmmery ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This beautiful woman gives me goosebumps, tears of emotion and a big smile. All in all, this is a completely awake person at the time of life and not like so many of us, only waking up at the finale, or even worse: slipping sleepily into death. Even without her explanation, her story would be brought out by the incredibly well-chosen music in this film. Well done! ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much for sharing these beautiful and encouraging words. So glad her message resonated with you so deeply. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @SBintHennigan-u2l
    @SBintHennigan-u2l 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Celebrating with and for love

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beautiful, thank you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @green5349
    @green5349 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Warm hugs from us dear Judy and also to Reflexions of life team. I watched it with my little daughter and we felt so connected with you and couldn't agree more. Life is a miracle, it has to be celebrated and all our crisis and difficult times on the journey are also so very important. Thank you so much.💚

    • @LeaettaTiley
      @LeaettaTiley ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Teri…you are my gift I give myself…What a journey🌺🌺🌺 2:42

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful that you watched the video with your little daughter, this touches us. May Judy's words inspire you to enjoy and celebrate life together. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @HVM555
    @HVM555 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's only been most recently I discovered your videos. Came at the right time. Nothing is a co- incidence. Kudos to all these people who are leaving a mark for me to hold dearly in my heart.
    Please keep making them. I am 73 and live alone with my cat. I do not own a TV, but I listen to CD, podcast and music on TH-cam. The filming is done so gracefully. Thank you. Love, Australia. 🙏💜🙏💜

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are so happy that you discovered our videos, a warm welcome to our channel. It's wonderful that the various stories mean so much to you, we certainly plan to share many more. And we appreciate your kind and encouraging words regarding our work, they mean a lot to us. Sending you warmest of hugs from South Africa. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @WorldWideWebObserver
    @WorldWideWebObserver ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you sweet lady. She and her cute & quirky art made my broken heart smile.💐

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      So wonderful that the video made you smile. Lovely. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Descrilbing my art quirky makes me laugh. It is quirky, thanks for noticing. 😉

  • @Ilkaoliver
    @Ilkaoliver 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She is inspiring.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That is wonderful. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @youtubehero4442
    @youtubehero4442 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "You cannot fix your broken heart. You can only love your broken heart. "

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much in this world to love. Birds and flowers, laughter and tears, sitting and smiling 🐦🌷

  • @lindamcglew9039
    @lindamcglew9039 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very very moving. What a beautiful woman and such an inspiration to me. Thank you .

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome, we are so grateful that her words meant so much to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Linda, thank you for your kind comment. Reading it now I am smiling. So much in this world to love😍😍

  • @sonialandry1039
    @sonialandry1039 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ✨Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful ✨

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you do much, so glad you liked it. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford7584
      @judyford7584 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your message touches me.

  • @НатальяТр-л6ж
    @НатальяТр-л6ж ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Какая прекрасная мудрая мать! Всем бы таких.
    Спасибо за ваш красивый и важный труд

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome, thank you for your encouraging message. We are glad you liked the message Judy shared. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much in this world to love! 😍

  • @margaretek5350
    @margaretek5350 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you she is an angel with skin on! Uplifting and pure! 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Such lovely words, thank you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @marthareyes4024
    @marthareyes4024 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lovely lady.
    Im so happy for her that she has her daughter.
    My daughter and I have a very close relationship also and I dont know what I would do without her love and help.
    She truly is the best friend I have ever had in my life.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Beautiful. Lovely that your daughter is such a wonderful friend to you as well. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @lucyh8630
    @lucyh8630 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love the Green Renaissance videos and for me, this is one of the most inspiring and beautiful I’ve seen. I laughed and cried with you, Judy ❤️ while watching on a bus 😁 Thank you for sharing your broken heart, your wisdom and love for life.
    My mum died 10 years ago when I was 25 - my heart is definitely still broken and always will be.
    And I’m learning gradually, that this broken-heartedness is a gift - to love authentically and live fully.
    What a beautiful bond between you and your daughter. I love that your final wish is for her to live beyond you, and to celebrate.
    I will come back to this video - it’s an education!
    And now, to make the most of my day! 😃

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh Sweet One, Thank you for a little glimpse of your life story. I cry too for the loss of your mother at such a young age. Please know that she is in your heart forever.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We appreciate your touching and encouraging message, so glad Judy's words resonated so deeply with you, that her message was so special. May her words give you comfort having experienced the loss of your mother. Wishing you all the best for the road ahead. Sending you much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @СветланаИванова-г3у5ф
    @СветланаИванова-г3у5ф 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    БЛАГОДАРЮ!!!🙏😊🤗

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are welcome. Thank you for watching. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Here's to love in all it's forms.

  • @DavidCodyPeppers.
    @DavidCodyPeppers. ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dreaming of Heaven is beautiful and true,
    as we all should do
    and when we will imagine this place, our life
    with the same delight
    we will finally be free,
    righteous indeed.
    Peace and Blessings to You and Yours.
    David Cody Peppers.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for these lovely words. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @glennm5062
    @glennm5062 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Heart broken optimist. I have hardly related to anything so deeply. My entire perspective on life changed when I lost my parents. It's terrible that I lost them so early in life but sometimes I'm grateful I have had this perspective shift so early. I now have a lifetime to spread optimism and love.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Deep and touching message. We are thankful that Judy's words meant so much to you. May her words carry and inspire you. Keep on spreading optimism and love, that's so important. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @LindaBDubois
      @LindaBDubois หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm with you... 🫶🏼🌹

  • @warsankoshin3465
    @warsankoshin3465 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a joyful butterfly 🦋 💖
    Judy gives me hope that despite heartbreak and trauma, we can age with grace, optimism, hope, and humour. I love her light. It shines through powerfully and illuminates the way. ❤❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      So touching. Wonderful that her message was an encouragement to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว

      Within each of us are deep wells of untapped potential. I believe that good things are coming your way and I believe it for me.

  • @may-maytanymaytany_s3417
    @may-maytanymaytany_s3417 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤thank you

  • @Ana113b
    @Ana113b ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She is one of the most wonderful people I have a privilege to hear speak.❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      That iso wonderful, thank you for sharing. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My goodness! I appreciate your comment. Thank you

  • @kmbrco
    @kmbrco 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely wonderful!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad you enjoyed the video. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much in this world to love! Thank you for your response.

  • @rachidbennaji2034
    @rachidbennaji2034 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    inspirational person for our generation and the next with a pure soul ❤️🙏

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful words. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @lady-eme
    @lady-eme หลายเดือนก่อน

    "laughter and tears go together" 💯

  • @lorill2631
    @lorill2631 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Beautifully done, produced and executed… and the wisdom and words beyond my expectations…

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, thanks a lot for your lovely and encouraging message. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @ramblingrahema2125
    @ramblingrahema2125 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I REALLY appreciated this! Very deep and warm and meaningful and real and beautiful. 💛

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your lovely words. We are glad her message meant much to you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And I appreciate your loving comment. So much goodness!

  • @jeremytorgersen
    @jeremytorgersen ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Warm and inspiring interview, I appreciate this reminder to embrace tears and laughter at the same time.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy her message resonated with you, thank you for watching. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @carmenschneider1627
    @carmenschneider1627 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Broken Heart Woman it was so healing to listen to you and your Wisdom, love your doodels and Paintings ❤❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beautifully written, thank you. Glad her words spoke to you deeply. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @carmenschneider1627
      @carmenschneider1627 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ReflectionsofLife I have a question in which country are this Videos made?

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @carmenschneider1627 - We always include the location of filming in the write up below each film. This film, that we're commenting on, was filmed in America. But we (the filmmakers) live in South Africa, so most of our stories are based here in our home country. I hope that this helps. Hugs. Justine. x

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much in this world to love: Birds, trees, smiles, laughter, tears, chocolate, full moons, love, dandelions and doodles et cetera, et cetera. Wishing you much happiness.

  • @kelly889
    @kelly889 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "They say love is only equal to the pain." (A line from the song Let Somebody Go ❤ by Coldplay/Selena Gomez). A song for you Judy. Judy I love your broken hearted optimism 💔. Sorry for your loss of the man of your dreams 😥 but thank you for reminding us to celebrate being alive. Great vid guys, your film making is sublime. Well done again 👏👏🙏

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lovely and encouraging message, thank you. Glad her words meant a lot to you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So much in this world to love, dogs and flowers and birds et cetera. 🤩

  • @ninajhun228
    @ninajhun228 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow!!
    Truly eye opening words coming from a beautiful human being that speaks from life experience and present. Thank you.

    • @judyford5582
      @judyford5582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your words touch my heat. I'm smiling and thankful for strangers with kind words.,

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We're so glad that this story resonated with you. Sending hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @ineslucaroni5508
    @ineslucaroni5508 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Grazie dall' Italia..Dio ti benedica..GRAZIE di questa tua testimonianza 💓🙏👏💓❤❤❤😊

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy that Judy's story spoke to you deeply. Sending you warm hugs from South Africa, Justine and Michael. 💚