Jennifer Lopez's TOXIC and TRAUMATIC Relationship with Diddy (INTIMIDATION and CONTROL)

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  • @suras8984
    @suras8984 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +203

    I remember reading Jlo explaining why they ended in the early 00's when I bought a magazine with her on the cover. I was able to find it. ”It was the first time I was with someone who wasn’t faithful,” J. Lo tells Vibe magazine. ”I was in this relationship with Puff where I was totally crying, crazy and going nuts, it really took my whole life in a tailspin.
    During Lopez and Combs’ relationship, there were reports that she would hunt him down and knock on hotel room doors looking for him. ”I can’t remember right now, but I won’t say it didn’t happen,” she tells Vibe. ”I never caught him but I just knew. He’d say he was going to a club for a couple of hours and then never come back that night.”
    Lopez says that she and Combs split so often that he didn’t believe it when she left him for good in February 2001. ”I had to think, do I want to be home with kids in 10 years wondering where somebody is at three in the morning?”

    • @Chrystal_A
      @Chrystal_A 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Now this is eye opening!! I wish I could see the magazine and her interview with vibe itself! 😮

    • @Chrystal_A
      @Chrystal_A 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      She’s right about that with the ending quote you put!!!

    • @brokenbylana
      @brokenbylana 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      She got what she asked for because that's what she put her first husband through! Cheated on Ojani with Diddy.

    • @athenaargyropoulos5988
      @athenaargyropoulos5988 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for looking this up and sharing

  • @Ann2046-mindful
    @Ann2046-mindful 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +639

    Jlo's mother was very vocal about not liking Diddy. Her family was too involved for him to take advantage of her.

    • @Igboman87
      @Igboman87 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Word on the street is colorism was a factor, Kim Porter also supposedly hated JLO because of racist remarks she made towards Kim and her children.

    • @TiaLia-ym1om
      @TiaLia-ym1om 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Didn't she run away from home at 15 years old??

    • @Juliana-rk2nx
      @Juliana-rk2nx 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      @@TiaLia-ym1omyes but then once she made it, her family joined her side. She only ran away because her family didn’t believe she could make it big since she was latina :/

    • @TiaLia-ym1om
      @TiaLia-ym1om 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Juliana-rk2nx 🤔

    • @Ann2046-mindful
      @Ann2046-mindful 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@TiaLia-ym1om I have never heard that before but, her mother always came across as controlling.

  • @quick_brown_fox
    @quick_brown_fox 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +783

    I think we’d be shocked at how a lot of celebrities treat their spouses or significant others

    • @ayelmqo
      @ayelmqo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      Fr look at Brad Pitt

    • @LoudieD123
      @LoudieD123 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      Or even Justin Bieber, yikes. 😬

    • @soaf1985
      @soaf1985 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      Exactly. Which is why I don't understand why people have "couple goals". You never know what goes on behind closed doors.

    • @CosmicKindness
      @CosmicKindness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Except for me because I see through that s*** and I stay away from celebrities for this reason they treat people like absolute trash cuz they think they're above everybody else it's time for them to fall if they act like that

    • @charlieiris28
      @charlieiris28 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Not just celebs...

  • @JuliaShalomJordan
    @JuliaShalomJordan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +989

    I personally think Diddy wants to destroy beautiful women because he wants to BE one.

    • @heatherulm8587
      @heatherulm8587 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      Was just thinking this!

    • @nicossbots
      @nicossbots 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      like many men...attractive women get treated like sh1t too

    • @antofashionbeauty
      @antofashionbeauty 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      Hahaha foreal its must be that cause he's really insane

    • @gabrielleleclair7254
      @gabrielleleclair7254 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      YES! Can’t you picture him posing in his mirror in lingerie? And making people watch him do it?

    • @barbaramay9288
      @barbaramay9288 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Yes

  • @saijanaswamy7210
    @saijanaswamy7210 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +519

    he's narcissistic. anyone who's dealt with narcs will recognize this behavior

    • @EnidWellness
      @EnidWellness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      💯

    • @anneliekouremenos449
      @anneliekouremenos449 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Yes. And they are never "in love" they are fixated on obtaining or ruining something that person has.

    • @saijanaswamy7210
      @saijanaswamy7210 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anneliekouremenos449 yes!! They don't care. Hard reality but they don't. We're just supplies to them. The fact that they can shamelessly do the things they do to you over and over and over regardless of how much they hurt you everytime says it all

    • @Puuws
      @Puuws 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      depends on the one your dealing with. A lot can feel a lot of infatuation and are codependent too, believing the other is their saviour, so the intensity and hunger is real. Its just the way they go about it that is toxic or it becomes toxic when they see noone can save them and they become indiffrent to a level you cant fathom@@anneliekouremenos449

    • @HennyDouble
      @HennyDouble 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hot take: puff daddy is narcissistic

  • @Cholulasmom
    @Cholulasmom 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    I think what you said should be rephrased. A man doesn’t cheat because a woman isn’t good enough, a man cheats because he isn’t good enough

    • @parker1804
      @parker1804 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen to that🙌🙌🙌

    • @basket.8case
      @basket.8case 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      realistically it can be both

  • @Bigohno0
    @Bigohno0 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +311

    It's crazy that whenever someone is outed as toxic/abusive/evil you'll find that people have been out here trying to warn us for years... Anyways, thanks for another great vid *S L O A N* you da best ❤

  • @maganmunoz8048
    @maganmunoz8048 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +258

    JLo knew what he was up to. She just had to go through with it because you do whatever it takes to be top of the charts.

    • @arnelabih1845
      @arnelabih1845 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree

    • @arnelabih1845
      @arnelabih1845 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@LAWoman323213lol yesss

  • @shadowbanned6358
    @shadowbanned6358 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +285

    All the money in the world but no one truly cares for him or loves him and it seems like he hates himself. Sounds like hell. I have no sympathy either.

    • @mzion4686
      @mzion4686 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Facts!!!

    • @WRLDofHRT
      @WRLDofHRT 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      🎯

    • @EnidWellness
      @EnidWellness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      💯

  • @spicytomango
    @spicytomango 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +143

    About the shootout, the woman who got shot in the face identified Diddy as the first shooter. Another victim plus a couple of witnesseses confirmed this but the blame fell on his rapper Shine even though none of Shine's bullets matched those recovered from the victims. I swear Diddy changes his name after every scandal

  • @YouTub3r
    @YouTub3r 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +281

    I think there is going to be Surviving P DIDDY documentary coming in the near future. This guy has one hell of a sketchy past!

    • @zanderisamazing5043
      @zanderisamazing5043 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Think 50 cents is going to make one. I'm here for it

    • @Catwoman748
      @Catwoman748 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@WynnWynn-gl3fkSurviving JLo

    • @ImenBen12
      @ImenBen12 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      100%, I encourage anyone interested in what's happening in hollyweird to watch Jaguar Wright!

    • @_fromthedivine_
      @_fromthedivine_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree

    • @bertism88
      @bertism88 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      They already have one it's called surviving diddy

  • @xxo8888
    @xxo8888 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

    I don't think jlo was his all time love. That man can't love. It seems more like he's chasing the fame he had when they were the "it" couple and all the attn that came w it

    • @Hippieluv88
      @Hippieluv88 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      💯

    • @caramelbilquees
      @caramelbilquees 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He said he loved Kim more so he couldn't be with Jennifer sounded like Kim's his all time love

    • @Ikheetgeenbob
      @Ikheetgeenbob 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@caramelbilqueesand he likely killed her too..

  • @hybridangel3403
    @hybridangel3403 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    She knew her self worth.

  • @youngrichskinnyladymaxxine294
    @youngrichskinnyladymaxxine294 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +195

    Diddy used JLO and JLO used Diddy for a come up in the music industry they used each other

    • @themarsvoltaxo
      @themarsvoltaxo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      How ? When she gained mega stardom from Selena ! She was more famous than Diddy at that time & still is lol

    • @beccagilliard707
      @beccagilliard707 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@@themarsvoltaxonaw, at that time, "puff daddy" was known more than "j lo"

    • @themarsvoltaxo
      @themarsvoltaxo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@beccagilliard707 no he wasn't

    • @themarsvoltaxo
      @themarsvoltaxo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@beccagilliard707 you're bugging

    • @beccagilliard707
      @beccagilliard707 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@themarsvoltaxo um yeah he was
      ima not saying she was unknown at tha time but he had hella more fame then her, at that time.

  • @katharinaaaa
    @katharinaaaa 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    It was a PR relationship. She was a C list actress before Diddy, he got her a record deal and catapulted her into stardom, she gave him red carpet moments and glam, they became a power couple and broke up officially when it became bad PR after his arrest.

  • @spanishjazz
    @spanishjazz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    He didn't abuse her because She had family support that got her out

    • @pocahontasprincess4197
      @pocahontasprincess4197 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I don't think Cassie was lacking of that family wise. Filipinos are very family oriented so are Mexicans, so the comment above is senseless.

    • @dayday8984
      @dayday8984 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mexicans? Jlo is puertorican!​@@pocahontasprincess4197

  • @arabicmusiclady1428
    @arabicmusiclady1428 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +178

    I honestly find this relationship to be weird. They just didn't seem to be compatible with each other. He was probably more into her sexually than she was into him. She probably just dated him so he could help her get more successful in her music career back in the late 90s and early 2000s. She was getting into the R&B music scene and needed famous black artists to help her get popular with R&B music lovers as well as rap music lovers. So, this relationship wasn't a real love-type relationship. Both were using each other for popular gains and nothing more. Plus, Jennifer doesn't seem like the type who would go after black men for serious relationships or marriages, even though it benefits her financially and her career.

    • @c.michelle3538
      @c.michelle3538 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      I always thought it was for publicity too.

    • @Alma-999
      @Alma-999 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Yes, you're right! She ripped off a lot of our brothers and sisters of their music just to get to the top and she still does

    • @Aliiiita
      @Aliiiita 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I 100% agree!

    • @themarsvoltaxo
      @themarsvoltaxo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Puffy was obsessed with her & courted her so how tf was she with him just to get her career popping ? She was famous waaaay before she got with him & if anything she got HIM more famous lmao

  • @rickynyc4
    @rickynyc4 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I always thought they were an odd couple. She always looked uncomfortable and visibly nervous in interviews together and pictures. No wonder her mother and father suspected something was up with Diddy. They sensed that man was a demon from day one.

  • @cdaffern4707
    @cdaffern4707 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    The cops were unprofessional making a personal opinion about someone's appearance public, a factor that was nothing to do with the case, who in their right mind says; "She is supposed to be stunning but she was kind of meh up close." What douche-bags.

  • @dergrimme9772
    @dergrimme9772 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    She said "at first, I didn´t like him at all - but then i got to know him..." ... her intuition was right until he had the opportunity to gaslight her

  • @Bcgirl92
    @Bcgirl92 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    The fact that the cops had to say she was a good looking woman but looked pretty plain Janeish.... uhhhhh. Not the fucking priority guys, multiple people were shot and a woman in the face.

  • @VampireQueenBrittany
    @VampireQueenBrittany 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    He needs glasses if he thinks Cassie resembles JLO, I do not really see any similarities to her. Anyway, Mr. Diddles needs to be in prison.

    • @JennJennJ
      @JennJennJ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha 😂😂😂 Mr. Diddles, is this his prison b!tch name?

    • @EnidWellness
      @EnidWellness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      There have almost identical features

    • @JennJennJ
      @JennJennJ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Mr. Diddles 😂😂😂

    • @rickynyc4
      @rickynyc4 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@EnidWellness No they don't. As someone whose family is directly from Greece, even though J.Lo doesn't look 100% white, she still looks more on the european side. Cassie has much bigger lips, nostrils, wider nose and darker skin complexion (Jlo is naturally paler with pink undertones she just uses lots of bronzer and self tanner). I think both are beautiful though.

    • @Draniula
      @Draniula 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True,I think Cassie is tons more beautiful.

  • @angelicagaglio7034
    @angelicagaglio7034 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    When will this guy finally be in jail?? Like what needs to happen

  • @klaimster3184
    @klaimster3184 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    Can you do a video of how toxic Jlo is to her employees better.

    • @Chris-fq4fs
      @Chris-fq4fs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Thank you! And how she got credit for songs that other artists sang. She was basically a Milli Vanilli act, lip singing her entire music career.

  • @Whitney_Not_Houston
    @Whitney_Not_Houston 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Sloan talks about a woman getting shot in the face and then says “ouch”…. It’s horrible someone was shot but Sloans “ouch” made me chuckle 🤭

  • @Misbehavedcollection
    @Misbehavedcollection 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

    Diddy with all that money didn't think of fixing his jaw line and chin 😂

    • @sierraxx9979
      @sierraxx9979 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Omg 😩😂😂😂

    • @BrittanyHunter-f6w
      @BrittanyHunter-f6w 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      That mugshot profile view was hilarious 😂😂😂

    • @anjelicavasquez239
      @anjelicavasquez239 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Underdeveloped face ass....

    • @zamorapakalolo6699
      @zamorapakalolo6699 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂

    • @cookiegirl891
      @cookiegirl891 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Omg I was thinking the same shit !!!!! 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @NancyH25
    @NancyH25 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Let’s be honest, JLo isn’t the best at choosing men.

    • @biancarodriguez4614
      @biancarodriguez4614 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      True 🫥🫥

    • @danidiaz2377
      @danidiaz2377 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Let’s be honest 99 percent of the worlds population can’t choose good men cuase most of them ain’t good

  • @tomnorth1329
    @tomnorth1329 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    Sloan, study Narcissistic behavior and you will see a pattern amongst all the abusers. You could help others by exploring Narcissistic behavior disorders and addressing the abuse through the narcissist lexicon. Fantasy, love bombing, discards, flying monkeys, triangulation and narcissistic rage. For example, maybe Diddy fanaticized Cassie as another J-Lo but had to discard and humiliate her when he realized his inner fantasy did not match reality. Explaining the complex world of narcissistic behavior will benefit everyone.

    • @Ash-gj2lf
      @Ash-gj2lf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Exactly. They’re all the same.

    • @LLB1122
      @LLB1122 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you want to know more about narcissism go check HG Tudor (he is a narcissist himself so he explains everything very well).

    • @tomnorth1329
      @tomnorth1329 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Take a deep dive into the Dark Triad of Personality disorders and you will see all the patterns emerge. Narcissism is just one of the disorders of the Dark Triad. Also, realize people are on the spectrum for Dark Triad (Cluster B) disorders. You are exposing people high on the spectrum who either harm themselves and/or harm others.

    • @jamilynn3232
      @jamilynn3232 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! Narcissism, Sociopathy & Psychopathy 101 would benefit everyone! They should be a mandatory class in school. Identifying red flads and manipulation.

    • @indiracastner2245
      @indiracastner2245 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great pt, good advise

  • @Sharon-kl3by
    @Sharon-kl3by 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    Instead of sharing celebrities stories look into the deaths of celebrities who had dirt on Hollywood. But stay safe xx

    • @JT-dt9lp
      @JT-dt9lp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For example ?

    • @Sharon-kl3by
      @Sharon-kl3by 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@JT-dt9lp Joan Rivers, Anne Heche, Jeffrey Epstein, Matthew Perry, Whitney Houston, Michael Jackson, Dr David Kelly, Julian Assange, whistleblowers....

    • @jusjil
      @jusjil 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      The Anne Heche story is crazy! Also the story of the guy I think Tom Hanks arranged to be ‘86… another crazy story with so many moving pieces.

    • @vilerat-m8t
      @vilerat-m8t 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Sharon-kl3byJeffrey epstein was the dirt itself to be real

    • @LanieHeller
      @LanieHeller 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@jusjilKappy!

  • @emilygooner9697
    @emilygooner9697 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    What a lucky escape Jen had 😢

  • @TaterTot_6717
    @TaterTot_6717 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I don't even understand how the man landed these women... he ALWAYS looks like he was asked a question he'll never know the answer to 😂

    • @elasolovey986
      @elasolovey986 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The sunglasses aren't helping him either. 😂 But R. Kelly was also always wearing one. I think these abusive men tried to hide their empty looking eyes.

  • @jusjil
    @jusjil 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    OMG SLOAN! What the ex bodyguard said about how JLo went all out for Puff’s birthday is true! I was working that night in the VIP at Club 320 (not 321 lol) on Lincoln Road for his birthday party. This was about 2000. Then after another time, he came back to the club without her and he didn’t act like he was with JLo. I remember at the time being mad lol, like he was taking her for a sucker. Well she got the last laugh!!!!

  • @Ashley-lw2vu
    @Ashley-lw2vu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Yesssss. THIS is the Diddy story I've been waiting for. 🎉

  • @Dawn-zo2ny
    @Dawn-zo2ny 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    i don't know much about J-Lo, but when i heard she hires people to electrocute animals for her fur farms, for her clothes line, i have a major issue with her...

    • @lorenapaniagua1271
      @lorenapaniagua1271 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is disgusting of her

    • @FirstnameLastname-nx1oh
      @FirstnameLastname-nx1oh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That’s too funny and silly to be true

    • @Dawn-zo2ny
      @Dawn-zo2ny 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@FirstnameLastname-nx1oh~ Weird response, and reveals your insensitivity to animals...

    • @patreeya2279
      @patreeya2279 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I love animals. And i have jlo clothing line. It’s definitely not a real fur. It was sold at Kohl’s and not a luxury brand or something

    • @Dawn-zo2ny
      @Dawn-zo2ny 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@patreeya2279 ~ Thanks...Years ago, i heard that she had fur farms, but because i don't really know, i'll probably erase this...i Googled about it and there is at least one fur coat that she sells for $1399, in the pics in this link and she wear other designers....i don't have time look further into it...Thanks...www.google.com/search?sca_esv=55279a4d145eadbb&sca_upv=1&sxsrf=ACQVn09mMgyhQ8ZkcEXgTPBR1dZ6UlZUzw:1709381516823&q=jennifer+lopez+fur+coat&tbm=isch&source=lnms&sa=X&sqi=2&ved=2ahUKEwjb4eGwxtWEAxW4KFkFHecKAb0Q0pQJegQIDhAB&biw=1164&bih=578&dpr=1

  • @bushraabdullah3208
    @bushraabdullah3208 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Cassie looks absolutely nothing like JLo to me.. am I the only one?

    • @oh.em.gigi_
      @oh.em.gigi_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Cassie looks like Aaliyah and he was in love with Aaliyah too.

    • @bushraabdullah3208
      @bushraabdullah3208 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She does look like Aaliyah! But i never knew he liked her too

    • @oh.em.gigi_
      @oh.em.gigi_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@bushraabdullah3208yeah allegedly he was jealous of R.Kelly being with Aaliyah cause he wanted her too.

    • @darleneparsons8536
      @darleneparsons8536 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Cassie is more prettier then JLO.

    • @hotfudgecake
      @hotfudgecake 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think it's literally just their eye shape

  • @courtney5113
    @courtney5113 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Sloan STAYS exposing diddy 🔥

  • @rage_roxy421
    @rage_roxy421 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Crazy to think they were together, so young too!

    • @dame6584
      @dame6584 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Jlo was over 30...

    • @EnidWellness
      @EnidWellness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not so young

  • @melanierafael1745
    @melanierafael1745 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Jlo was messing around with him KNOWING he was still with Kim

    • @diva80
      @diva80 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      JLo knew what she was getting into and used him as he used her.

  • @bulalingcayicibi3062
    @bulalingcayicibi3062 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I can sense that Ciara and JLO are very strong willed woman in the entertainment industry. They give me strength, determination, resilience and stubbornness.

  • @TheModelpreneurCoach
    @TheModelpreneurCoach 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    So Jlo's song "Love Don't Cost A Thing" is apparently about her relationship with Diddy and him trying to get her back by buying her gifts instead of treating her right.

  • @yepisaidit1507
    @yepisaidit1507 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Why do people say they look alike!?? Jlo is not near as gorgeous as Cassie.
    Cassie really could've been a stunning super model if she didn't end up with him..

  • @ElPatron42069
    @ElPatron42069 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Sloan! My brotha! I salute you for taking the time to dig and find all of this evidence, and presenting it to us to make our own decisions

  • @coalandre9198
    @coalandre9198 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    He did control her, and after the gun and jail incident. Her team got her away ,asap

  • @VidWatcher01
    @VidWatcher01 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Well Diddy is beyond a narcissist

  • @zamorapakalolo6699
    @zamorapakalolo6699 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Glamorous relationship, where? That was a ghetto hot mess.😂

  • @denise4911
    @denise4911 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    My favorite TH-camr❤️❤️ every time you post a video I click it no matter who it’s about 🙌🏾❤️

  • @MummyBrown
    @MummyBrown 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Cassie looks nothing like JLo. She is the spitting image of Zendaya. Stunning.

    • @zamorapakalolo6699
      @zamorapakalolo6699 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Why can't Cassie just look like Cassie?

    • @MummyBrown
      @MummyBrown 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zamorapakalolo6699 💯

    • @hotfudgecake
      @hotfudgecake 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Cassie. looks like Cassie. lol and she's one of the most beautiful ladies ever she's like perfect

    • @MummyBrown
      @MummyBrown 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@zamorapakalolo6699 Amén to that. Stunning.

  • @smartmarketing173
    @smartmarketing173 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Well, JLo has a rep for being passed around a lot in her ambition/thirst for fame so maybe she was just glad to have Diddy (Puff at the time), elevate her to an unprecedented level and boost each other’s earnings

  • @annabellniemegeers1247
    @annabellniemegeers1247 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Great video (as always) but OMG could you maybe talk about the Epstein case and all the names that were in the court documents? I just have so many questions!

  • @sj3695
    @sj3695 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    What diddy did to shyne was dispicible and so evil. Pinning a charge on your young artist who was just signed. And then he was deported. Diddy is disgusting

  • @agnes466
    @agnes466 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Diddy is a definition of a malignant narcissist in action.

  • @Love_SumLotta
    @Love_SumLotta 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    I will never forget how Shyne took the bid for him. I am glad he's thriving now but Shyne was done so dirty.

    • @Bigohno0
      @Bigohno0 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Fax💯

    • @emilygooner9697
      @emilygooner9697 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who that?

    • @Bigohno0
      @Bigohno0 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He is, or was, a rapper. He's the person convicted of the nightclub shooting. So you may know of Notorious BIG / Biggie Smalls the rapper sadly murdered just as he was blowing up. BIG was under Diddy's Bad Boy record label. After his death, Diddy signed Shyne expecting him to be the next star. Shyne is from same area of NY and has a similar voice/tone to Biggie. Different and uniquely talented, a great rapper in his own right, but the way most people see it is Diddy essentially only signed him to fill BIG's shoes, he thought he'd have the same mainstream appeal. Just as Shyne's career would've been about to take off, Diddy gets him into this drama at the club, then turned his back on him and let him take the fall.

    • @Bigohno0
      @Bigohno0 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      After Shyne's release a few years back, he went to Belize (I think was deported there) which is where his father originally comes from. Shyne got into politics. I believe his father was already a high-level politician. Anyway since release I'm pretty sure Shyne hasn't touched music again. But reportedly was doing a lot of positive things for Belize. Not checked in on the whole situation for some time....

    • @Love_SumLotta
      @Love_SumLotta 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@Bigohno0 Yes this is all correct. He’s doing very well for himself now which is awesome.

  • @inreality100
    @inreality100 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Now that this whole case about Diddy is out, sometimes I do wonder if that movie Enough that JLo was in had anything to do with their relationship but it could’ve just been a simple movie too.

    • @jenaristagno2414
      @jenaristagno2414 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She also wrote a song for the movie called alive look it up seems legit now

    • @inreality100
      @inreality100 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jenaristagno2414 I didn’t even know that. I definitely look into it

  • @I-Am-Alexis
    @I-Am-Alexis 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Off topic, but can we appreciate how beautiful Sloan’s curls are ❤?

  • @Jake.03-g3k
    @Jake.03-g3k 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Diddy is something else.

    • @EnidWellness
      @EnidWellness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Spelled demon wrong

    • @vilerat-m8t
      @vilerat-m8t 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      meaning the devil in a human body

  • @krazykdon
    @krazykdon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    They say jayz is 1000x worse

  • @DF-dd5nf
    @DF-dd5nf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Yeah, they didn't stay together because both of them are Narcissists, therefore he knew that he would not be able to control her. I think Kaney West are doing similar things to Bianka, meaning things which he wasn't able to do to Kim, because she didn't allow him as they are also both of them Narcissists.

    • @nikteezi
      @nikteezi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      THAT part! With a narcissist, you either walk that dog, or it will walk you. When two of them collide, someone usually leaves limping. She prolly really injured him by dropping him first.

    • @kerimanasilasila174
      @kerimanasilasila174 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That part. Plus they both attention whores 😂😂😂

    • @aeh3253
      @aeh3253 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Kim a narcissist too?

    • @nicole11114
      @nicole11114 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So Bianca didn't know about Kanye personality before getting with him? Oh, please.

  • @a-graceee
    @a-graceee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    the fact their houses in miami are so close to each other too, so creepy 😭😭(i did a mansion boat tour im not a stalker yall 😂)

  • @shadensaeed4487
    @shadensaeed4487 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    She left him after she got what she wanted from him.. she isn't that innocent

  • @ShanelWilliams-yf2dg
    @ShanelWilliams-yf2dg 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    They met in 1997 when she featured in his music video Been Around The World

  • @aprilsmith5591
    @aprilsmith5591 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Am I the only one who thinks that jlo and cassie look nothing alike

  • @keeleehudson
    @keeleehudson 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    JLO knew he was terrible for her image.

  • @graciemac795
    @graciemac795 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Diddy wants us all to believe he left JLo because he still Loved Kim but those of us who lived during this time remember the truth!
    JLo left Diddy after he got caught up in the gun scandal- she ain’t want no parts of that! Plus, she was in love with someone else right afterwards, like she always does til this day.

    • @reggwatrous
      @reggwatrous 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wrong! SHE WENT BACK FOR 2 years!

  • @doingmybest222
    @doingmybest222 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Giving Glory to God for getting away with violence… you will answer Him sooner than you thought now

  • @Kelli5555
    @Kelli5555 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thats such BS that diddy had a
    Gun in his car and still got off the chargers. Karma needs to catch up with this man.

  • @AJ-uc8ow
    @AJ-uc8ow 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I love that Wendy interview!!!

  • @CindyHuot
    @CindyHuot 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    There is only 1 place for sean combs & that is JAIL!!! JLo is with the man she was meant to be with!!

    • @kerimanasilasila174
      @kerimanasilasila174 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Gurlll Ben ain't it. Watch maybe this year they get a divorce.

    • @Igboman87
      @Igboman87 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I think Marc Anthony was her best match.

    • @CindyHuot
      @CindyHuot 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Merc Anthony had an affair on JLo

  • @iyoniabrown6434
    @iyoniabrown6434 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Cassie got treated like she did because in the beginning did he promise to give her a career so she probably thought dating him would make her a huge star opposed to J Lo already being a star and having way more people behind her he knew he couldn’t pull a move like that Cassie was young at the time opposed to jLo being older and more experience

  • @SweetAudrey91.
    @SweetAudrey91. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Wow that's so fucked up that he got 10 and Diddy got nothing

  • @dopeblacktherapist
    @dopeblacktherapist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I can't stand Diddy's mouth idk what it is lol

    • @cookiegirl891
      @cookiegirl891 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He got that recessive mouth gene 🤣

  • @Valxo
    @Valxo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I'm happy JLO escaped him 💓

  • @alikat9lives
    @alikat9lives 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I've been patiently waiting for this! I knew you'd cover this relationship eventually ❤

  • @ninjakitty8944
    @ninjakitty8944 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Reminds if of the movie Enough. Jlo is physically fit and looks like she knows how to fight. My guess is he knew she could knock him out. Im so glad she got away from him.

    • @koraymamoreno570
      @koraymamoreno570 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I swear me and my friend were saying the same shit and I was looking for this same comment

    • @andrealeon3979
      @andrealeon3979 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Nah a man who wants to hurt someone will unless they are literally bigger than them and super skilled in fighting

    • @ninjakitty8944
      @ninjakitty8944 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@andrealeon3979 I’m a pretty skilled fighter…but I’m sure we’d need two ambulances. One for me AND one for him 😆

  • @kenyaouko7388
    @kenyaouko7388 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thanks Sloan I was curious to see how he was with Jlo because it felt like she wouldn't let him beat on her like that. She was too famous and that would've definitely ruined Puffy image

  • @AdamIshak01
    @AdamIshak01 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Honestly the theory of Diddy abusing Cassie the way he did cause she was a JLO look alike and he couldn’t actually do anything to JLO makes sense.
    A lot of abusers and murderers have victims who resemble a partner, sibling, parent, etc who they feel slighted by and/or triggered from. Ed Gein’s victims looked like his mom, Ted Bundy’s victims were a scapegoat for his ex girlfriend since they all had the same brunette and hair cut as her, John Wayne Gayce killed men and children he found attractive (whether they were straight or gay themselves didn’t matter to him) but was struggling with the fact he was gay, H.H.Holmes mainly killed women because they always rejected his marriage proposals and mocked his appearance, the Russian Werewolf serial killer Mikhail Viktorovich Popkov started killing women because he thought his wife was cheating on him and didn’t want to hurt his wife for his daughter’s sake because after all that was her mom, so he started to clean the world and punish other “loose women” instead, Aileen Wuornos killed men who looked like her rapist and father, it’s not confirmed but it’s theorized Gertrude Baniszewski hated, tortured and killed and made sure Sylvia Likens had a brutal death, was because she was projecting her self hatred on Sylvia since she was everything Gertrude and her children were not, and there’s so much more.
    So yeah that’s the most logical part about any of this. Logical but still sad. If they can’t get back at the *exact* *person* who wronged them, they’ll use replacements/stand-ins/lookalikes instead to fill that void.

  • @Beeeeeeeeeeep2121
    @Beeeeeeeeeeep2121 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I get so excited when I see you post something new

  • @elmin82
    @elmin82 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    they're both narcisists ..

  • @d_great_catsby1462
    @d_great_catsby1462 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The fact that he controlled her during her work with Matthew McConaughey and that was just a working kiss were just strange. Glad she's left him.

  • @tyara.collins
    @tyara.collins 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This just looks like a case of you scratch my back I’ll scratch yours. Looks like they were using each other 😂😂😂

  • @ScratchCatReikiASMR
    @ScratchCatReikiASMR 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I feel bad for JLO in a way… she really just never found her true love. Not even with Ben. I think she’s not good at being alone and so she always is with someone, even when they’re not good for her. Her movie shows she is aware she’s somewhat addicted to being in love or finding “the one”

  • @missoliviajordan
    @missoliviajordan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Diddy and Jennifer actually met on the set of his Been Around The World music video in 1997. He also introduced Jennifer to her manager and was a part of the making of her album and the concept of her first music video.

  • @JanaOch_nicka
    @JanaOch_nicka 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    JLo is one of the least talented singers in the industry... What do you think? How did she get such a big career? How did she receive invitation to the black culture? Who was the gatekeeper who let her in? I truly recommend you listening to Jaguar Wright's interviews. I'm curious if there are any tapes where JLo has proven her true talent.

  • @eminkenfack8902
    @eminkenfack8902 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How we just to think about Diddy back in days is all gone now , I think many of us look Diddy down after all what we heard about him.

  • @danielleb7991
    @danielleb7991 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    They used each other. Diddy stole numerous songs from various artist like Mariah Carey, Ashanti, and other artists for Jlo’s first album. Look it up. He’s a narcissist and thought he could control one of the “biggest” stars in holllywood. I don’t care for Jlo’’s acting or singing but I’m glad she got away from that monster.

  • @sweetestsavage8817
    @sweetestsavage8817 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Wild opinion but but I think Cassie is way prettier than J Lo. Also, I think he did things to J Lo too, but she left before it escalated. She had a career independent of him as well, unlike Cassie so that saved her. I also believe she is not forthcoming of being abused by a BM to keep her image and reputation intact. Even though times have advanced, there are still some people who don't believe in interracial relationships who would say she deserved what happened to and that she was damaged goods. It's messed up, but this is what we're currently dealing with. J Lo is insanely rich so she doesn't need any more from him to rebuild her with lost revenue like Cassie does. She's very brave for speaking her truth and making Puffy pay. She's a sweet soul and never gave me a mean girl vibe. I'm rooting for her with her new family too

  • @hinarangichurch1416
    @hinarangichurch1416 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    J Lo is just as sneaky

  • @Rebeccadelgomez
    @Rebeccadelgomez 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    lol JLO has been passed around so much…

    • @dagooddabaddaugly3158
      @dagooddabaddaugly3158 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      So Has been Sean honeyPee..It's a requirement to get in.. Even Children have to....Eventually.

    • @daughterofeveandhateroflil2683
      @daughterofeveandhateroflil2683 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's why many former cast members of "In Living Color" called her "J.H0" for the socioeconomic reason
      😂🍵💅🏽

    • @MariaVirgo-ck5ck
      @MariaVirgo-ck5ck 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂

  • @amor797
    @amor797 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    She isnt an angel... her two first husbands had a lot to expose on her

  • @victoriadream
    @victoriadream 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    im glad u did this video.. j. lo was my rolemodel growing up & i never liked puff daddy for her. i was disgusted @ their relationship and i was only 12 years old.
    when he put her in that club situation, i felt kind of psychic… something abt him was just extremely unattractive to me.
    i met diddy in 2014 & it was an awkward encounter. he had me dismissed from the studio @ big sean’s house upon his arrival because i did not stand at attention like the other yes-men (all men btw) when he entered the studio space. big sean was nervous..
    diddy stood in front of me while inwas seated & proceeded to shake my hand, while I also had a vision of him making a phone call & saying “take him out” and there was an explosion in my vision…while i was sitting down & he was shaking my hand & he asked who i was - i provided my stage name & he told “ze” (big sean’s flunky) to escort me out of the space. (i told 88 keys - who was the person who invited me to sit in on big sean’s studio session & he told me he would not be able to invite me to any future session where running into diddy would happen again. i took it a bit personal but now see he was protecting me.)
    i reached to get my purse & my oz of weed i brought to share w big sean & he told me to leave everything & o would get it back soon enough.
    i made sure to grab my purse & they held my capsule of trees & i wasnt happy abt it…
    i sat just outside the studio door & kept knocking every 15 mins for abt 3 hours asking if incould get my weed back, while the smoke could be seen coming from under the door…
    by the time they gave me my capsule back.. there was a half of a gram of weed left inside - there was originally 28oz inside….
    never liked the man.
    glad j. lo made it out..
    sorry about cassie yall, but all the red flags were there.

  • @Shamanicjourney7
    @Shamanicjourney7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Tommy M. wanted puffy to take her to the next level.

  • @phoenixmoon3
    @phoenixmoon3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m gonna act like I know them for a minute. I was there for this. Ok on MTV- but Lawed- Her people got her out of that the second he was at that club with a piece. I was wondering if you are gonna talk about this. Ooooh thank you. 💜

  • @ericacruz8261
    @ericacruz8261 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hopefully one day, jlo will write a book about her life💜

  • @dark41969
    @dark41969 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great show. Please do a piece on diddy's abuse of men & boys. Ex: Usher or diddy's appearance on drink champs TH-cam show.

  • @pocahontasprincess4197
    @pocahontasprincess4197 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Jlo mom had and has the intuition regarding Diddy! I think Jennifer had the upper hand against Diddy is because she was older than Cassie, more experienced with men and their tactics, and the so call relationship was a public stunt strategy.

  • @eliseclairelaure
    @eliseclairelaure 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He didn't work on her video "if you had my love". She was a dancer and danced in his video called "been around the world" in 1997.

  • @winnie71122
    @winnie71122 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    JLo is apart of the machine....she knew what was up...she is not a victim. She's a horrible person too....they all are!

  • @Daisy-de6fh
    @Daisy-de6fh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Every woman he meets all say they didn't like him in the beginning.

  • @mrs.merrijaynes8042
    @mrs.merrijaynes8042 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I remember when that shooting incident happened and it was after that shoot out that she broke up with him and they were no more...if remember correctly she stuck with him through the trial and as soon as that was over she was gone

    • @peggypeggy4137
      @peggypeggy4137 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I can't say I blame her for getting out of Dodge.

    • @mrs.merrijaynes8042
      @mrs.merrijaynes8042 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @peggypeggy4137 absolutely!!

  • @Elaine-j3i
    @Elaine-j3i 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    People would have noticed the abuse if it was Jennifer Lopez.

  • @reggwatrous
    @reggwatrous 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She would go around and try to find him…talk about Needy Much!