Dad Doesn't Lift a Finger To Help Around The House | Jo Frost: Family Matters | Real Families
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- This week is talking too two families, one where the mum feels more like a doormat than the mother of the house, but is this because of a family affair? And another where violent behaviour has led a mum scared of her own son.
Family conflicts are usually kept behind closed doors - until now. Fresh from her role in Supernanny, Jo Frost brings her experience to a new talk show format.
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The mother needs to stop being a victim and start being a mother and the head of her household
Yes
I agree - she needs help to be taught how to be that
@@angelamcclelland7498 its a mess. She seems completely broken down. Probably by the relationship
Amelia: "When my sister's nice, she's really nice. But when she's bad, she's evil!"
Jo: "What makes her evil?"
Amelia: "She makes us tidy up"
I'm sorry that was hilarious 😂
Her sister is like the second parent....
She give love and disapline
Yep.
Dad starts a relationship with a facebook stranger, tells daughters he wish they we're dead, then begs to come back.
Almost in the end ....mum confessed that she was a cheater. What a mess couple.
@@zenithorton5433 I disagree.. you dont see/hear the differences between the two situations?
I wouldnt want him back
What awanker Get anew real Man 👨
They are better off without him
the man in the first one got me so annoyed swearing in front of kids and tbh i don't think i would want him in my family again
I really feel for the first lady she deserves better
Dawn Finch yep an affair and a brat
I feel sorry for the second one more as she’s a single parent her dad has neglected his son
She knew what she was marrying into. She knows exactly what is going on and has no problem with it. Just keep that check coming.
Why? Why does she deserve better? She deserves nothing just like she gave nothing to the United States of America.
@@patriciaceja6112 Um...this is a British show! And she does deserve better-her husband doesn't have a clue!
I hve NEVER understood how a child gets to the point of hitting n spitting on the mum🤔
that 16 y/o should not b responsible for her mother's emotional wellbeing or be raising her sister. that's neglect.
He wants to get back to the family because his side chick dropped him. Now he realized he made a mistake, REALLY?
"it makes me feel as if I'm not adequate as a parent"
*Because you're not!!!!!*
Joe frost is the best nanny ever
These parents need to a grip of them selfs and their kids
Agreed! I 💗Jo.
When my parent strength is low, I watch anything Jo😊
Jo is a psychologist, don't you think Agnetha?
So Andrew goes off and has an affair that CLEARLY failed and now needs a roof over his head. Man's a fecking waste of space and its hurting the children.
How is he a soulmate if he does nothing?
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This man is so vague in the way he talks about what he needs to do: "Grow up," "be a father." What does that look like? He clearly has no interest in making any real change.
I am my sons only parent. I don't feel guilty for that because I'm not the one that made that decision. And I'll be damned if that means I will let my kid spit on me, hit me, mock me, or cuss me out!! That would NEVER HAPPEN!! As a single mom I raised a firefighter and a, soon to be, police officer. A man walking out on you amd your kid is no excuse for the way these children are being raised.
I am glad these mums contacted super nanny Jo I am sure things will be right for this mums.
he is never of his phone in vid and turned screen away from cam that says he up to no good
As a species, I am shocked that we have been around for millions of years.
Right?! Haha! I laughed when I read your comment but then I got real serious when I realized how right you are!
But parents do not parent. Immaterial of how many years , lazy is lazy!
The first dad, is a liar, dishonest, and do not deserves to have a family.
I jxt get angry hearing a grown up woman says my 2-10 old is the boss . seriously pls if u are not ready to step up to be a parent I jxt think u should not give birth. If u feel sorry for him then step up to make him or her a better child or person
Gawd who would want to be with a guy like that. He is not only selfish and dumb he most certainly isn't eye candy. People do NOT have the right to bring children into the world and then go on about what you want when you want it. Your children come FIRST.
Forgive ,unite and be strong, stand up and be ( that) mom and dad.
Ok the 2nd mother need to ✋ because he is going to be in jail before he turn 13 she letting him do this and this child knows it are kids are smarter then we think
Who would have an affair with him , he's like a teenager.
I wonder what Jo would tell an adult man who finally has a son of his own how to handle his temper that he developed because of how his own father abused him. How far back do you go or do you just say once an adult just get over it and focus on the child? He has such a bad temper and I feel bad for his son.
Everyone is talking about the first family and dad but the second one is worst because the dad isn’t there at all
The pathology of these ones is strong, Master...
Some parents shouldn't be married.
Strange that follow through stuff really many years ago (I'm 63) my mother and father would never dish out any punishments but my brother and I would listen to them anyway well most of the time.
I feel sorry for the parents too...we can't always blame them for their children's behaviour.....
The dad is a nightmare but it could be worse. I hope the best for the children and mom, they will better off with him at arms length but with set rules and guidelines and a handy calendar to set the kids expectations for his visits or nights over. BTW, screens will be the death of the family unit in my opinion. Hubby and I don't have cells and won't.
Andrew acting like he's messed up as a father but he's gonna make things right. Kids are 16, 11, and 8. Its way too late. The first 3 years are the most important in a child's development, followed by 3-5, then 5-8. These kids are already set on their path. Change is now up to them. Parental influence, even for the 8 year old is just not as important now.
Dear Lord-
I've never said this about a parent before, because I honestly do believe it's improper to judge and critique other parents, but my goodness!!... "Mum" Jenny.... what a waste of space! What a pathetic excuse of a parent, ffs 🤦♀️
That poor young woman has way too much on her shoulders
This was me and all I did was pray a lot to God, trust God, put my faith on God and cried to God. God changed it all. All praise and glory to my Lord Jesus Christ ❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼
Love the programme. Well done.
Bet the other girl dumped and he had nowhere else to go thats why he came back.
Jo Frost and Dr Phil should have a show together...
Every child needs a daddy that's main reason why children act out. They also don't feel their feelings are validated
Dramatic music too loud to hear dialogue
Amelia Gibb needs to improve her own behavior! Behave herself!
Seems to me this lady blames him for EVERYTHING!!
I mean why would you walk out on your wife. After 20 Years. It just doesn't make any sense at all
Send Andrew back to the manufacturer 👉🏾
I am not normally a fan of corporal punishment, but I really think handcuffs couldn't hurt. Can't use your hands properly, no hands for you!
So the dad in that first family thinks it's okay to tell one of his daughters that he wishes she were dead and his other daughter to get away from him? Probably best he doesn't live with them tbh
the mum is just as bad, i wouldn't have spent as much time getting back with him as opposed to making a huge fus
Mum and dad were very naughty. Who needs discipline are the parents.
Factz
I Like Any show with Jo Frost
I wouldn't allow him around my kids after that.
crappy father. mum is codependent. she said she lost "her best friend" but immediately says he never helped her with the children or around the house.....maybe she needs new better quality friends
I can't even watch this, that first "dad" makes me so angry.
He's just UGGGGAAAA!! 20 YRS!
I know right. If I was her I wouldn't go back to him for any amount of money.
He has caused so much chaos in that house and he wonders why he gets no respect from his family. He has no respect for himself. You reap what you have sown. Live with the consequences now.
He's either REALLY dumb or a complete narcissist, it's like he genuinely cannot see himself for what he really is and doesn't care enough bout his kids and wife to put any real effort in, complete loser 😔
That man is real quick to point out other people’s mistakes. That poor teenage daughter, she needs to wipe her hands of him. They all do.
He says i do all this but he does nothing.
Agreed!! My bio dad is a scumbag & cutting ties when I was little was the best thing I ever did, so many less headaches.
Yes, when his wife was talking about changes she need to make, he had the gall to suggest things to her! He can't do any better than "grow up" and "be a father" for himself -- no specifics at all.
It amazes me that the first “dad” being as vile and selfish as he is was able to raise such a well-spoken, mature and independent 16 year old girl
The mom raised her
That’s because he DIDNT raise her.
That's the mother who has done that. He didn't bother to bring her up
The mom did that! Not he
Because she's had to step up and take his place from a very young age.
People really shoudl have to pass a baby and parenting class before being able to have kids
It just happens to them. "Hey, there's a sudden baby! What to do with it then? Raise it??? Noooooo, you're kidding me!".
Folks should also not jump into a sexual relationship .... when they don't need kids! .... or have a good partner!
Totally agree! You should have to do a class to ensure you can actually look after a child before you have one
Yet you need a license to drive a car..... 🙄 At least here in the US there are places to drop the little bastards off without being prosecuted.
The first dad was so red in the face.
Dad number 1 just wants his easy life back. He's a loser.
I hope Lisa knows how smart, intuitive, able to keep her head up and has clear goals. She is beautiful too. Love their hair. I love how they can get their points across clearly without yelling.
That first couple, I don't believe a word than looser dad said!... He was probably dump by his mistress because she realised he was a looser and now he is coming back because he needs somebody to take care of him!... Second mom, your son throws his toys at you, he loses his toys!... And send him to a boarding school for problem children...
To send the kid to a boarding school will make his behavior worse. It will make him think that the mum wants to abandon him. Never a good idea unless he wants it.
I grew up with a very bad parenting system. my mother went above and beyond to love and support me and disciplined me as best as possible. my dad was lazy, abusive and made excuses for everything he did. as soon as he left, I stopped misbehaving, being disrespectful, tantruming. I started laughing more and trusting my step-dad, who I now call dad. The father in the first family needs to be cut off from this family. its obvious he'll never change and will continually make excuses. That's unfortunately the real truth of it all.
I work in a public family place, and every single day I see the same thing over and over and over. Parents pecking away at their cell phones, children screeching for their attention, finally acting out just to get the negative attention. Even I, the person who is helping them have to beg for their attention. Those cell phones are more important than life to some people, like maybe this guy...
these are children themselves
Despite what Andrew says he still seems really detatched, like he is reading from a script. Mum needs therapy, and possibly antidepressants.
Yeah he showed zero emotion even in his voice 😬
The dad needs to put that phone up and pay attention to his family. I hate how cell phones have took over everyones lives. Children are raising themselves cause parents are on the phones and could care less whats going on except what they will see on fb or youtube. Its so sad.
Says the one on TH-cam 🤣
But I agree with you!!!!! When I was growing up I had so much fun with my imagination :)
What a disgraceful dad.
They better watch it or they’re going to lose Lisa in the not too distant future. She’ll get a boyfriend and move in with him just to get out of that house. Ironically, parentified girls often become teen moms.
Having a studio audience adds nothing, and in fact detracts.
And it’s quite disgraceful really.
I remember the days when your mother only had to look at you and you behave, knowing you're in trouble when you get home. I grew up just fine with respect for my mother. A little correction when a child misbehave really goes a long way.
I'm still a child and I know to behave when my dad gives me the look.
Bunny Whisperer and be consistent. Also follow through so don’t pick ridiculous punishment or discipline that you know you will fail for you and/or the child. Like no playing outside for a week. Ok torture yourself as well as making sure you child won’t have exercise and more than likely act up again. Be smart, be consistent and love your kids enough to model the behavior you want them to follow.
Story of when I was little bunny whisperer, when your mother or father gives you that look you know the consequences if you don’t get your act together.
Once my mother had dark sunglasses on when she gave me the look and I got it!!!
@@trishayamada807 yeah, the punishment could be no playing outside tomorrow, not for the whole week.
Why you'd dismiss the 16 year old? "Now that the kids are gone." Shes the most adult person in that family.
She is; Lisa is a very mature 16 year old.
@@gillianbrookwell1678 she has no choice.
Because the girl has already gone through a lot, and Jo doesn't want to cause more damage with the whole situation. I have been in that position before, and I really wished I had not been placed in the middle.
Growing up in the 70’s my Mama would have removed my teeth from my head if had EVER SPIT at her. For ANY REASON!
Bet the dad went back because girlfriend got sick of him.
Yeah. Back on the apps no doubt!
I've never seen someone dodge responsibility by blaming themselves before, how's he doing that, saying its his fault, but still dodging blame?
Narcissistic behavior.
@@ilovehorses5714 Absolutely. Terrifying and pathetic.
This family would be better off if he went back to mommies basement with his phone and computer! 🤮
"I'm a doormat"
What a mood
It drives me insane that he says Lisa never talks to him yet he cuts her off almost every time she tries to… no wonder you don’t hear her cause you don’t let her speak! Also he says he doesn’t understand why people think he’s inadequate parent yet it’s very obvious, does he not see the video of himself “trying to parent” with his phone in his face while he’s not even paying attention to his kids?!
Makes me cringe so bad to hear a 40somethin man say 'i need to grow up'
He's pathetic
I'm 71 years old and never wanted anything more than that my parents could stay together and we have a happy and peaceful life. My childhood wasn't bad and they certainly didn't fight all the time, but when they did it was awful, then my dad would leave for a period of time. They divorced and remarried 3 times. I had decent step-parents, but as I said, I wanted nothing more than to have my own parents together for the rest of our lives. P.S. In the end, they had a long time affair with each other till my dad's death in 1994.
I so wish life, relationships, were easier! .... Dysfunctional families are more the norm today than ever?
This family would be better off if he went back to mommies basement with his phone and computer! 🤮
The husband in the first one is AWFUL....
Kids will definitely act out as a coping mechanism and most of all a definite cry for help
If I ever bit or spit at my mom, I would get a quick, firm smack on the mouth. It taught me fast not to do that.
Discipline needs to start right from the beginning: when they are very little!! Discipline shows your children, how to be a decent human. Lack of it branches off: into every area of their lives.
Children can sence when their are problems and no stability. Kids will sence this
Can we just talk about what a phenomenal person Lisa is? What a lovely girl! She deserves the world!
oh this guy is piece of lie...he is saying he wants a chance just to make them look bad....he knows he is lying
That dad wasn't trying at all. He wasn't worth the time, energy or words. He kept saying he knows he's wrong but it's all just show. He just doesn't want to go back to his "mum's house." lol
As great as having a father is, you can live a great and fulfilling life without one. If he continues to fail, understand you don't need him.
Start the discipline as soon as they can move around..U teach them the stove is hot ,plug ins r bad ,exc exc.., and this doesn't become an issue! I tell u what , my kids wouldn't dream of treating me this way jus like I didnt my mom! WE ALL KNEW BETTER!! I have grandbabies now that also will not be acting a fool either! No exceptions!
is there a conclusion to theses families problems did they actually do anything to help and if so did it actually do anything like on supernanny she goes back and sees how things are weeks later after helping them
Yes, a follow up would be nice
He is not adequate as a parent. Let's just accept he's got that right. He doesn't even acknowledge that he was a cheating pack of potato.
17:43 love how when Andrew blames Lisa, Trisha stands up for her ❤ I really feel bad for her and Lisa.
Men who grow up beating women ,and being aggressive starts with the mother. Let him know that being aggressive is not okay even if u are his mother.
Jo is so amazing
I hope 1st lady gave him the freedom he so desired previously. Explain how hinges on a door work, they allow the door to swing both ways. Then she needs intensive therapy. Her ideal man/soul mate? A person who was/is dismissive of her and the children. A man who couldn't really care less about raising his kids? But yet he still feels they should respect and love him? You picked him, you helped not raise Milli appropriately. Thinking and acting like a doormat got you in this situation. Ever heard the saying that if you let people wipe their feet on the way in, they'll wipe their azz on the way out? 🙄
The poor first lady! Ugh! I've heard her story from other ladies, too! Terrible! 😢🙏❤️ Husband is immature & selfish.
Take the TV out of the children's room. Kids will obviously watch something that's totally not the kind of program they should be looking at. Be aware of what your child is watching and listening to.
How can the "dad" Andrew thing that it is okay to have an affair behind his wife's back and also to swear at his 7-year-old girl like that is absolutely disgusting !!!
That poor 16 year old lass has way to much on her shoulders
Arthur's mother is lazy. For an "easy"life. He will be in jail by 14. She has only had 5 or 6 nights off in his life. What did she think having a kid would mean?
Exactly she’s pathetic
This is literally the British version of Dr. Phil!
Girl of Many Vloggities that would be Jeremy Kyle
As Dr. Phil would say of these children, you got the tail wagging the dog.
I have 3 traumatised,children from abuse from their father and one with exceptional special needs as a result of a very rare genetic gene mutation and have never had these problems. Be there for your children, regardless of your needs. It pays off in the end.
Your an amazing mum your kids are blessed to have you
Loved this. I had no idea Jo had a talk show. She is so good at it. 🥰😍🤩😘
The First Lady needs a medal feel so sorry for her
I’m amazed that the first dad, Andrew, ever even got laid. What a dough ball.
Haha my thoughts exactly ! 🤢
It’s a big problem when the child has a stronger will than the parent. (I’m referring to the second family). This episode is a few years old and I’m wondering how they’ve made out. How much can a parent do when coached with some general guidelines? That timid, beaten mother was in a very bad headspace; I hope her sister could coach her through the process.
$100 dad 1 continues to do FA and blame everyone else
The first family is exactly my life but i have no siblings my dad is a naracissist and gives love with money and i dont want money i want love and time no fighting 😔