Hoarders ❤️ Minimal Mom | Whole House Declutter | Mega March Motivation
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- It’s Tossy Tossy Time!! So excited to be apart of the Mega March Motivation with Dawn the Minimal Mom, Clutterbug and many other amazing Creators!!! From March 1st thru March 7th this week’s theme was a Whole House Declutter!! Seeing that I’m a recovering hoarder, I had to start where I was! So I went into each room and Decluttered what was easy decisions to let go of!! Please look for more Mega March Motivation coming this week!!!
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Certainly no need to 'compete' with the others, you are doing such an amazing job already against your own progress! Remembering what those rooms looked like before vs now really highlights your hard work and growth.
I like the fact that you recognize where you are on the hoarder spectrum. From a 4 to a 2/3 Is great. You know your limits and when to say when. You precevered and did you decluttering in your own way. Keep it up!
It's so nice to have you in this playlist to remember that we don't have to be at the "Minimal mom" stage to do a whole house declutter. Thank you so much for your good words and the inspiration you give me every time I watch your videos! You're with the big ones now, you are as valid as they are. We need you to show the world that it's possible at any stage to declutter and do some progress. Thank you!
All I wanted to say to you at the begenning of this video : " You go girl! Don't doubt yourself, you can do it!"
I found you on the Mega March playlist. I love that we can make a difference in our homes at whatever level we are at. Thanks for sharing!
I have been in a negative mindset this week and I actually used this video to help me tidy up my kitchen and living room.
I can't believe how far you have come in this process. The whole house declutter in that amount of time? Wow, wow, wow,
Thank you love 🤩♥️😘🌟 I definitely keep like a different girl than I started!! And it’s all because you were my friend & kept me encouraged during this journey 💗 Thank you!!
I feel like decluttering one small area that is maybe something you've been putting off, in each room, would be a good place to start when you are overwhelmed for any reason.
You go girl! So great that the boys are also getting on board. And you even pulled out things you not have before.
Thank you so so much ❤️🙏🏻❤️ I really am grateful you are my friend 🌟
I didn’t know that even tossing trash is too much for some people. I can’t imagine since I’m super organized, but I think it’s amazing how far you’ve come...
Yes! It’s called Squalor Disorder. They hold onto trash and it hard to let go of it. Not all hoarders have squalor disorder but all people with squalor disorder have hoarding disorder 🙏🏻💜
Decluttering is about progress not perfection and you are certainly making progress. My biggest problem is putting off small tasks and sitting stuff down to deal with later. I’m constantly reminding myself to finish tasks rather than putting them off. For mail try to get into the habit of dealing with it each day rather than letting it pile up. Getting off mailing lists for stores can cut down on catalogs and coupons that trigger us to buy unnecessary things. And there are websites that will remove you from getting things like pre approved credit card offers. Between those things and getting my bills and such online I hardly get any mail anymore and less paper coming in is wonderful. It’s wonderful that you are helping your local women’s shelter! Keep up the great work! ⭐️
I love the hearts on the doors!!
Wow, all that hard work for the past three years has really paid off! You are doing great, totally amazing!
De-cluttering is so difficult for me mostly because, oddly enough, it is an emotionally overwhelming task and so many things need to be "let go" of in the right way. It can definitely drain you even if it's not a physically demanding task.
Nicely done! It will get easier and easier!
Hooray!!! I can see it already!! It does get easier!!!
I love the Valentines words of affirmation that you do for your boys. Most men have words of affirmation as their love language so this is very meaningful as a boy mom!!!
You’re inspiring! Please keep sharing. People are at all levels and I appreciate you walking us through this. I found your from Dawn’s playlists. Subscribing now. ❤️
You did great no anxiety in your voice snd your tosdy pile was huge congratulations 👏💜
You are a such inspiration keep them coming please
Keeping it real. You have come a long way. I love seeing the progress.
Thank you so much my beautiful friend 🙏🏻❤️🌟💜🦄
Your bedroom is already looking great! Can't wait to see it painted and decorated. Well done. 👏🏽💖
OMG Miss Heart ❤️ I can’t believe you did the whole house and the size of each pile from each area was huge. You went through the house with such ease. Your house really is looking great, well done 👍👏 take a bow 🙇♀️ The boys are doing a fantastic job keeping their rooms 👏👏👏 I’m so glad you said to start where you are, that helped me greatly, thank you. As always your thinking of others and it’s a great charity your collecting for too, your heart ❤️ is so big, kind, caring and loving. I feel blessed and thankful for you being in my life through the wonder of technology. Stay safe and healthy. Mary, Joes wife 👏👍🙇♀️💐🦄🥳
Your home looks amazing you’ve come so far xx well done 👍
Hooray for you! I've been going through my hoard in my basement. Wow! I've been at it for 2 months straight. I'm on my 3rd month now and am very proud of the progress I've made but still have so many rooms left to sort out. OMG! It sure is overwhelming. When I heard you say 3 years, I cringed. But in reality that's probably how long it will take me too. After all, we still have lives right?! LOL
You are absolutely right 💞 I am so incredibly of you for cleaning out your basement!! I am cheering you on every step of the way!!! You are an inspiration to many 🌟🌟
@@ahoardersheart Thank you for your encouragement! :-)
Awesome video! I just found you in January through the Minimal Mom. You have really inspired me. Thanks for putting so much time into helping others declutter. Especially love the gift card holder idea!
Great Job
You are amazing, you are a professional, you are capable!! Yes you can do it!
I’ve been watching you for a long time. I’m so proud of you.
December 2023. I keep tossing stuff out, 25 items each day. I never had much, but I want less clutter. There are whole pieces of furniture we don't use or need.
The furniture belonged to my in-laws so my husband wants it. Tina, Al's wife
Those hearts are adorable! Nice job! So sweet!
I've been trying to clean out our basement storage space. I do at least an item or two a day and list on marketplace or freecycle and the space is really opening up without getting overwhelmed and I'm actually getting some cash in my pocket!
Your doing amazing. I am so glad to have gotten to be on this journey with you. 💕
Ok you did so amazing. Im so proud of you friend.
I really like your version! It is so motivating 💜
Awe, thank you so so much ☺️🙏🏻❤️
Wow! You are amazing!
I enjoy your videos!
So glad to see you finally giving to a good charity
You are awesome
Wash up those new blankets and use them! He wanted you to enjoy them! You can think of him every time you snuggle up with one on the couch!
I think it's a good idea to have a small trash can in each room
I was looking forward to bedroom video but... This one will work 😇💪
Lol!!!! Thank goodness!!!! 🙏🏻🦄💜🌟
You’re knocking it out of the park!
You are so much better at decluttering than me! Great job!!
Awe!!! I bet you are pretty amazing declutter too!! We got this 🦄💜🌟🦄💜🌟
Wow good Job! You‘ve done so good. :)
Maybe you should do this every once in a while, like once a month. Cleaning ups the Hotspots and walking through the house declutter what is obviously trash, like empty boxes or bags.
You do Amazing, Greets from Germany :)
Good for you
Your house looks pretty good, miss Heart :)
Woohoo!!!! That was good
You got this
Consider seeing if someone takes amazon packaging on your towns buy nothing page. It doesn't recycle and someone may reuse it for their business
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Do you do a "tossy tossy" pile for the purpose of your video or is that a strategy you use for mental health purposes while you declutter?
Just a reminder that if anyone wants to join the Heart Healers discord and build our community even more, here is the link! discord.gg/3hFB5srzdG
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Have you thought about maybe putting the extra blankets in the linen closet and letting your husband put some of his items from the floor into the ottoman?
Great job
If there is one thing I learned about you by following you in your journey, it is that you can do absolutely anything you set your mind to! You're amazing
I appreciate your take on this video idea. You know, most viewers are not profeshional cleaners either, so they nead to see EXACTLY THIS! "Just start where you re at". And lets do it.
Lots of love from switzerland💛
Thank you my beautiful friend 🙏🏻🦄💜🌟
Girl I love this! My mom and dad have this disorder. I’m so thankful to watch and get insights into the process (you are so very encouraging and thorough!) thank you!!!!
I love your laugh!
Awe 🤩🤩 Thank you so so much!! Yes, I want everyone to understand the disorder better because it stems from our anxiety, depression, PTSD, OCD, etc. Those are the mental issues at the root of the stuff ❤️🙏🏻❤️
@@ahoardersheart yes mamm! Thank you 😊 it’s super helpful
I have this disorder and yr energy and big heart are so inspiring!
(Not that I do any! I just perve on yours! 🥰🐨🦘🦘🦘)
A fabulous house declutter. See you CAN do it... your past decluttering has made you sooo strong xxx
Awe!!! Thank you so much my friend 🦄💜🌟🦄💜🌟
It’s not the perfection that inspire us, but your process and progress❤️
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. We’re all so proud of you💕
Really great to see the kids decluttering their own spaces! Here's a suggestion -- could each of them have a recycling bin in their rooms as well as a trash basket? Then they could get into the habit of dumping them into the big curbside recycling bin weekly, or as soon as the bins are full. Also -- might be a good idea to institute a rule of no food or drinks (except water) in the bedrooms. Their future roommates and spouses will thank you!!!
My husband was brought up by a mother who had him do chores and as his wife later, I really appreciate that.
I want to be that same MIL. I don't want my DIL's to hate me! And I love seeing them independent and pitching in!
My fiancé had a mother who made him do chores all the time, and he absolutely hates doing them now. So don't overdo it 😅
@@shasita3361 right now my 5 yr old loves helping and they like having jobs for the most part. But I don't think I'm doing too much, even when they sigh from not getting to do what they want because we are tidying up the house. Lol
I didn't make the mess myself. Lol
That's so cool you give to domestic abuse shelter. I was in one twice with 3 kids. Once for 5 months and another time for 2 months . it was a godsent. I could of never left my ex without it.
Well done. You have such a different perspective, you compliment this line of TH-cam women. You are so valuable to people. Don't underestimate yourself.
awww so glad you showed your boy's rooms and how they are working on keeping them decluttered that's so wonderful. Great job!!
NO WAY DID YOU DO THE WHOLE HOUSE IN ONE GO?!!!!!! :D not that I didn’t think you could, but hun, you SMASHED IT! I’m SO excited to see this video!
I found your channel after the January paper clutter video and the collab series then. I could actually relate and make progress with my own paper because of you. I’ve started watching from the beginning and am at June 2019...
Having just come from laundry room part 7, I don’t know if you realise the leaps and bounds you’ve come on over the past few years! You can be so proud of yourself for leading you and your family to be able to create this video and declutter with the best of them! Thanks for bringing such joy and hope to those of us who are from from naturally minimalist (but by gosh we will be! :’) ) sending love from the U.K.!
what an amazing idea to partner with the women's shelter. if there are gift cards that have been sitting around or aren't for places you know you want to go soon, those could get donated to the women's shelter too! that would be a beautiful way to pay it forward. even things like the new blankets you showed in your storage bench would be great for that charity, not if it's TOO sentimental of course, but if you could see yourself passing the joy on :)
Yes! My local YWCA women’s shelter loves cozy blankets and blank journals for kids fleeing violent homes with their moms.
I think I remember you saying that you wanted to do a better job at keeping things neat this year. What a perfect way to do it! You got a lot done in this video! Of course I don’t know how long it took to do! It must be so satisfying to have the main rooms looking so good so much of the time. Way to go!
The only one you should be competing with is who you were yesterday. ❤ Different types of encouragement resonates with different people. You reach people that the others may not in quite the same way.
Everybody you mentioned in your video, while not hoarders or even typical hoarders, took years to become what they’ve become also. You’re not behind in your declutter, your just behind in your learning & practice. You’ll be fine, over time.
Great job!! I have a suggestion for a challenge. Spend the time going through each space, basement included, and just pull out all of the unused and unnecessary cardboard (boxes, containers, etc) and all of the unused and empty plastic bags. Then recycle it all that day as well. Probably a good challenge a day or two before your recycling is picked up. Bags can go to most grocery stores. I think that you will be amazed at how much will go and help you continue to declutter the spaces. I know that I would love to see that! Keep up the great work!!! 🦄 💜
NOW, this is So Very Impressive. Here who see you Great Progress, can see how much you have Truly Heal. I would have had a panic attack. You full of Grace attack everything so patiently. You are an excellent example of what can happen if you try and get the support. You are helping my family and Especially Me. Thank you for Sharing.
Great! I think one thing you contribute is a working mom perspective. I can hear some saying, but I work, I cannot keep my house tidy. You go, girl. And congrats on recovering from hoarding. I hope you get picked as a consultant on one of those shows. I think there is trauma when people come and gut their house in a weekend.
Girl I love the I can do it! And non comparison! And start where I am! Love love ❤️
I just love reading your messages, you know that 🦄💜🌟 Thank you!!!
@@ahoardersheart I’m glad! Your an encouragement! What a blessing thank you.
Omg I'm such a freaking dumb ass. I have mail all over my table and never thought of putting it in a basket 🤦 thanks for the idea.
You were included in the January series and now you get to be a part of this March series.Happy for you friend.❤️
Darling, that was amazing! You just kept going! And you know you are exactly right-you look at your journey not of the others. Exactly the same thing I tell my students.
Every little bit helps toward an easier to clean house. You did a great job finding things in each room to declutter!
Absolutely!! You are 💯 right on that 🦄💜🌟🦄💜🌟
Amazing work!! You've come so far in your journey already and I'm so excited to watch your progress :)
And wow! Congrats on over 15'000 subscribers :) 😍
Yay, I'm feeling better already. I've been feeling poorly over the weekend but now I get to see your video. I've even been back through some old videos, just because you make me feel better. Just so you know "YOU CAN DO ANYTHING". Sending you huge hugs. XXX
If you don't use or need the bathroom why you don't make a closet and use that space wisely 😊🙂...... well just a thought....
Just found your channel from Dawn’s channel. I am so proud of you!! You are doing a GREAT job! Keep going, girl!!
You are such a brave woman, my upstairs where people come to is great.... but our basement is one hot mess and my husband doesn't like to get rid of anything! We have a hoarders path because I have so much of my backyard stuff in the basement because I have no place to put it outside, but this summer we are putting up a SHE shed just for my stuff because my husband has two sheds full OMG. This summer is our goal, I have already started my spring cleaning in the house and then when it warms up... we are hitting the backyard and garage and it is FULL to the rafters...
Love this.. It's so true.. Just take a set amount of time you have available. Run-through the house and grab what is quick and easy to declutter... Amazing what you ladies are finding in such a short time!
Well done.. I think I will try and incorporate this style of decluttering 1x a month.. It is a great way to keep going or to maintain a decluttered house!
We’re all still learning. Habits form from practice. Ive been watching the play list as I make my rounds tidying, deciding what goes and what stays,
Enjoyed this so much. Good to know I’m not alone with the OCD hoarding struggle! 💕
Oh my goodness! I have been watching your oldest videos and decided to jump ahead while watching this playlist. This is amazing. You are such an inspiration!
You’ve come so far! Thank you for sharing your thought process with us.
I discovered your channel because of Mega March Motivation just a couple days ago. I have been watching starting at your oldest videos and am currently halfway through your children's bedroom they sleep in. Because of your videos I found myself going through my mail that I have piled up everywhere last night and now have an organized area and this morning while doing my makeup I stopped in the middle and went through my makeup to get rid of the old and organize it. I have a lot of the attachment issues that you do and I found you so relatable that I am finding the confidence in myself to go through my house. The hardest part for me is that my husband is worse than I am about attachment to items but he works a lot so I can't go through things with him and when he's home he doesn't want to go through it. Any advice on how to get our house cleaned up? I can't live with the piles. We have an 11 month old who is all over the place and I want to be able to feel comfortable not watching him every second of the day in our house.
Thanks for reminding me that it doesn’t have to be “all or nothing.” I did a little bit in each of our main living spaces. I’ve decided it’s going to be my goal to give away five things each week in March on my community giving page.
It’s just a fast declutter. The low hanging fruit. The first video was in January. This is the second.
How about a recycling spot. It doesn't need to be complicated. I keep a big tote on the laundry room where anyone in the house puts what they think can be recycled there and each friday, the day the recycler/waste picker comes I segregate true recyclables from trash and give him the recyclables. That way your house doesn't look cluttered and you still make sure to correctly recycle things. I have also found very useful to post what I want to let go as fast as possible to get it out of my house fast.
The thing I like about these group events is that there is something that encourages or helps someone. Each person is different in how they come at things and are at different places on their journey. Thank you for your courage and I am glad you realized you don't have to be them, you have to be you. You help many people that cannot relate to anyone else.
i don't believe that keeping things out of the landfill has anything to do with OCD. It is the responsible thing to do. Good for you!
omg that was so awesome!! that would've overwhelmed me and i am not a hoarder so you helped me get motivated to do the same!!❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so so much ❤️🙏🏻❤️
Beautiful! I love your talking it through! So helpful girl!
As a non American who doesn’t understand the cultural need to decorate specifically for every religious, commercial or seasonal event, it seems to me that most of the clutter comes from these items. If you eliminated all the decorations for all the commercial events (valentines, st Patrick’s etc) you’d have less of a hoard. I watch a lot of declutter videos and I’m always amazed at the huge amount of Christmas decorations that Americans have in their homes. Now that I know you also decorate for even less significant holidays my mind boggles. No criticism intended - just an observation.
Caiomhe while this may be true of some people many of us American's do not decorate for every holiday/event or even to the scale that Ms Heart does. While holiday decorating clearly brings her happiness, I agree that the amount of decor is a major contributor to her clutter. I am sure as she continues to improve in her hoarding she starts to scale back on what she displays for the holidays. She has come a long way in the time she has been on TH-cam.
Yeh as someone from the UK I've noticed this too. We basically just have a xmas tree and a couple decorations for xmas and then a few bits for Halloween but thats it 😅 each yo their own but you do make a good point
When winter is so long and cold and dark, as it is in most of north America, putting up some decorations for those minor holidays helps remind you time is not standing still and spring and daylight will come again. The change in decorations from Halloween to easter is like a countdown to summer. I lived in an area that was cold and snowy from October 1 until April 30 most of the time, decorating helps break up the white.
@@jennifermclelland6877 ah, very interesting - yes I see the purpose now. Thanks. 😊
Is that also true of other colder countries such as the UK, Russia and the scandi countries?
Yes its true here in Scotland too. Its bleak from end of October until March. Each to their own 🤷♀️ decluttering is figuring out what really brings you joy and what you can live without and thats different for each person
Thanks for the reminder that we can always just start where were at! Progress not perfection!
you are doing so much better as a viewer I can see your growth in letting go and making decisions quicker. way to go
You can really see your improvement from the first video you made. I have a suggestion, maybe you could focus on refusing more and I think that will help with your hording as well as with your anxiety, refusing means: You cancel mail subscriptions and you get them digitaly only, youd dont ask for printed receits, you dont take flyers, you dont take plastic bags (if you forget your fabric bag you chose to take the items with your hands), you refuse any kind of plastic straws or cups, and you ask people around you to not give you more stuff has gifts only experiences are accepted has gifts.
You're such an inspiration! Great work