No contact is a perfect strategy to move on from your ex,, to have nothing to do with your ex, so yes no contact always work,, that's why it's better to move forward than going back with ex
It does work 100% if you work yourself and just go no contact no begging bs get on your grind they will notice and 9/10 they reach out within afew months but then the choice is yours weather you want them back or not and most of the time you wouldn't want them back as you improved yourself so much yet they are still the same damn person, hope that helps move on ppl!
Spartacus Fortune I didn’t reach out to her after the break up she hit me up saying hey 3 days after the break up but I haven’t begged or pleaded her to come back, but I do want her back what should I do
No contact does not work if they feel like they have been neglected during the relationship. This is coming from a girl's perspective.... But no contact works if you wanna move forward....
Another piece of advice is not to block, but to unfriend them from any and all social media. If they can't keep tabs on you it'll bother them even more and they'll want to know if you've moved on. Social media is the same as contacting them
This Dude is Like my Favorite NBA Player of the "NO CONTACT METHOD" I'm still laughing about him saying "Imma teach y'all some Advanced Shit that no other realationship Coach Teaches lol.
I begged for 1 week after and for sure pushed him away more. I am sure he thinks I am psycho now. I am basically screwed I don't think no contact will work for me, it is a lost cause :,( Whatcha think?
Hey, we've all been there. We've all screwed up. But that's the past. You should learn from that and forgive yourself, okay? From now on, work on yourself. F*k them if they don't want to be with you. Just tell yourself you're too special to be with them. Know your self worth. You've tried, you've begged, but now is the time to stop trying. I've learn some things over the past few months after our breakup. I begged for almost two months and let me tell you , you need to stop now before it's too late. The first step to get your ex back is to move on. If you don't like the sound of that then let's just use the word 'move forward'. Go no contact ASAP. Trust me there's no use of begging anymore. You've done enough work. Rest. Just apologize and never talk to them again. Good luck :)
Hazeem I appreciate team fortune doing work. Truth is hazeem is right. Because you are too good for him. And its only a matter of time before he sees it and its too late. Hold your head up be strong and show the whole goddamn world who the fuck you are
Today is 30 days no contact, and he hasn't texted me or even tried to contact me :( I begged for 1-2 weeks before I started no contact...Do I just keep going no contact or text him something as friends would talk and not be needy. Like Whats up or what r u doing randomly ? I want our friendship back I dont care about a relationship now
This is a little bit of a let down, Sparty. Not the information you reveal in this video, but the fact that in an older video you mention that the chances of no contact working to get your girl back are "150%". There's also the video you have in regards to writing an ex a letter where you suggest letting them know you will no longer be making an effort to reach them, while at the same time in a reply to another comment you say that doing that would come off as a "cry for attention". I'm not here to slander you or talk shit in any way. In all honesty man I really enjoy most of your content and topics of discussion and I know you haven't been doing this for very long. For future reference I just think it would be beneficial to not only the longevity of your channel, but also your subscribers to have more consistency in the subjects you cover on this channel. I hope you don't perceive this as a means of tearing you down but rather take it as constructive criticism. Best of luck bro.
I begged for about two weeks she cut me off and then I continued to just try to talk to her with no responses from her and then I gave up wrote her a letter about how i felt without begging at all just telling her how I felt about her and us mailed it and I'm doing me now. I know i shouldn't have begged and I don't know why i begged for so long but I know I'm an alpha male and she knows it too. ego took a hit though being broken up and from the begging but it will all resolve itself. and she will see theres no one better than me i know that for a damn fact
@@goon2941 went through another one last year and it made me realize women arent worth much but talking to and spending time with. they move on when they want. talk and have fun. thats what I've been doing for the last year. dont take women serious maybe then youll find someone that you can actually be on the same vibe with
what if I begged and pleaded for like a month and then stayed in contact for another month (he kept telling me every time I texted him saying we would talk and we never did) ... whAT DO I do? we dated for a year.
Sparty I broke up with my ex a month ago and she’s already with a new guy and whatever. For the first two weeks I was being a little pussy and kept begging her and things like that and I fear I don’t think I’m gonna get her back. Last week she contacted me and we talked for about 2 days and she told me how she’s gonna respect the person she’s talking too and block my number. I told her that’s cool and that she could that it doesn’t bother me. She hasn’t texted me back and I’ve been enjoying my time away from relationships but there’s times I miss her, she’s going to school in Pennsylvania and told me she’s not coming back home to New York this summer because she’s gonna complete her summer courses (and be with her new guy). You think there’s a chance of getting back together?
If he/she truly loves you they will come back .stop to contact because it really is just begging give them time and stop to think about them . Focus on what you can control and improved version of yourself hit the gym buy some new clothes etc. .The hope is really the killer it best to think off the worst scenerio that they wont be back and the healing process is quicker. Also stop to look at the social media because just one post can set you back fucking months
Idk what to do ...my ex won’t text me at all & I haven’t texted at all either. But now he’s made an excuse to see me. It’s annoying bc he has no intention of getting back together but I can’t refuse the meetup bc it’s really important .. -__-
Spartacus Fortune I agree, but it’s for something important. I don’t wanna get into detail but it’s sort of unavoidable. I just don’t want to be awkward or emotional round him.
Hey me and my ex were together for 2 and a half years and he broke up with me because I was emotionally unstable I got him back but then he broke up with me again a week later. He called me and we talked and I asked if there was ever a chance we would get back together and he said he’s not ready for a relationship he wouldn’t be a good bf right now and then I asked if it’s possible and he said definitely. I don’t know if I should go no contact bc I don’t want him to lose anymore feelings that he already lost for me I’m gonna work on not being too available but should I stay friends and then build from there or should I just let him go ?
Be friends & build you will be able to look everything in a new light & start fresh friendship is always better that way your taking it slow & learning each other again.
Never take ex back after rebound definitely go NC forever on her ass. If she decide to come back treat like sex playmate that's it nothing more! You have to understand rebounds dont go away so if you do go back in a relationship with your ex if you screw up 1 time, guess who she's gonna call behind your back.
So me and my ex were talking afted no contact and she stopped talking to me because she said she doesnt feel the same. But she said she will contact me on my birthday. What does that mean? Sound like a mind game to me.
I didn’t mess with her 24/7 but not gonna lie I did hit her up A few times but I’ve stopped now it’s been A month and I just been working on myself going out with other girls still haven’t heard from my ex tho and still blocked except on Facebook and snap
You just have to forget about her and move on with your life. It's a matter of luck if she comes back. If she's meant to be with you, she'll come back.
Sparty so me and my ex of 2 years broke up technically in Janurary but we never gave each other our belongings back. We kept talking every now and then and sleeping with each other a few times a month but then recently (last week) we slept together for 2 days and then I got sent a picture from my friend of Her and this guy she rebounded with last time we broke up. I lost my shit on her and returned everything of hers and grabbed all my things...She was crying saying its nothing and loves me but dosnt want to work things out...So now im on a week of no contact and she still lurks on my social media but my question is what do i do if she goes back to a rebound from last time...also she does suffer from severe anxiety and depression if you can answer how to deal with an ex like that i'd appreciate it.
Bro you cant be mad about the rebound. You gotta be better than the rebound. The truth is she is using this guy as a lifeboat in case the relationship fails. Doesnt seem like shes full on invested with you and thats something you gotta bring up to her. If shes not then why try to work it out.
So now I don’t text her? Anything or just carry a light conversation? Or i have to follow no contact She always say this after hookup She is fealing weird/awkward What should i tell her when she say this? Help brother
Hey Sparty,what do you think about this?My ex and I broke up around 2 months ago.She ended up blocking me on every social media and my number as well.I begged and shit for the first two weeks.I later found out she was fucking/dating one of her co workers so I was started doing NC.She ended up unblocking me and messaging me around day 35 of NC but for what seemed to be an excuse to talk.Later on though that same day she blocked me again and She hasnt messaged since.What do you think/any advice?
You say no contact doesn’t work if you begged for a month well what if I did beg for a month but it was once or twice a week trying to talk about the relationship. So you’re saying I’m screwed.
Sparty it's been 3 months since i broke up with my ex ..... She was being bitchy and disrespectful, so I was the first one to break up with her ..... She told me never to contact her anymore.... So I m not planning to contact her, but i still miss her.... We R still friends in facebook Will no contact work to get her back ,even if i was the 1st one to breakup ?
Fahim Ahmed sure dude. Their brain will know the second you actually forget about them. When you forget about them the girl wants you again. Its a phycological trigger that goes off
Ok I'm new to your channel I watched the video & I liked it I have a question I was friends with my ex she was with cool with being friends with me for a time being because that's what I wanted on top of that my father was in the hospital had lung cancer during this time she was really with me & I really appreciated it so we remained good friends until she started catching feelings for me more then usual then he passed two weeks ago so then we had the funeral & everything she didn't go I didn't want her too any ways later on in the week she wanted to be with me so I spent the night we didn't do much really but then she wanted be with me again but I felt she wasn't really real so I said no so then she was hurt then she said she wanted time from me then said don't toss her to the side but then we didn't speak so then 6 days later I reached out to her & apologized but then she started asking things like well why did you touch on me & stuff I said because it was in the moment then I told her I want her back she said nope I'm good don't worry about me at all said like what going to happen in this situation? Will she come back?.
Brother can you tell me? I done hookup with girl and after that i make conversation worst and she blocked me. But after 15 days she unblock me after i say little words. So what can i do? Now in 15 days we didn’t talk just talk on 15th day and i want that girl made on me again. She even enjoyed hookup a lot. Just saying exams are issues How can I start conversation? Now? And what to do?
What do you do if you get a GF during no contact and she’s dope aff but you still miss your ex because of the history and you know she’s going to contact you. 🤷🏻♂️???
Drake Rivers You should probably tell her that you can’t do anything serious right now bc you are not fully available emotionally. I understand bc it helps a lot to have someone there, helping you move on. I see nothing wrong with not being fully in, as long as she knows.
No contact is a perfect strategy to move on from your ex,, to have nothing to do with your ex, so yes no contact always work,, that's why it's better to move forward than going back with ex
Hey sparty! Guess what, i got my ex back! You are the man sparty
Hazeem I hey so during the break up did she block you??
Hmmm.. 3 and half months ago she told me that she don't love me anymore and that she don't love me anymore. 😕 Determined to move forward
How long we're yall apart?
Ppl forget that No Contact is a Marathon not a Sprint? #FACTS💯
It does work 100% if you work yourself and just go no contact no begging bs get on your grind they will notice and 9/10 they reach out within afew months but then the choice is yours weather you want them back or not and most of the time you wouldn't want them back as you improved yourself so much yet they are still the same damn person, hope that helps move on ppl!
MK Dons absolutely bro
I treated my x like shit./...cheated on her, but she was a good girl just boring, if she ever contacts me ill be shocked.
Spartacus Fortune I didn’t reach out to her after the break up she hit me up saying hey 3 days after the break up but I haven’t begged or pleaded her to come back, but I do want her back what should I do
No contact does not work if they feel like they have been neglected during the relationship. This is coming from a girl's perspective.... But no contact works if you wanna move forward....
Please elaborate a little ?
Elaborate
elaborate
@@donshifty it’s more useful for you than it is for them
@@danitaaaas yea u said that already, i mean from a woman’s perspective why is that?
Shout out from South Africa Sparty! Love the content
I have NO clue how an ex knows...you cannot fake being over an ex. The minute you really are they know and often reach out. It's so crazy.
This Is Not Happening its a sixth sense
Another piece of advice is not to block, but to unfriend them from any and all social media. If they can't keep tabs on you it'll bother them even more and they'll want to know if you've moved on. Social media is the same as contacting them
This Dude is Like my Favorite NBA Player of the "NO CONTACT METHOD" I'm still laughing about him saying "Imma teach y'all some Advanced Shit that no other realationship Coach Teaches lol.
Mr. GG fuck yea bro
watch only Coach Corey wayne art of love and sparty they know better
LOLOL so true. I love him too!
Dont let them back to your life !!! If she/he really loves you, in the first place they will not leave youuuuu !
bro. i love it how he just be like... sup pimp! bro i luv this dude.
It worked on me am healing vomit the tumour out from my body it's beautiful and perfect it's his loss 😃👍👌
He said he likes me but dont want a relationship
I play golf too Sparti lol. It’s great.
I begged for 1 week after and for sure pushed him away more. I am sure he thinks I am psycho now. I am basically screwed I don't think no contact will work for me, it is a lost cause :,( Whatcha think?
Go no contact and mean it.. dont even reach out
Hey, we've all been there. We've all screwed up. But that's the past. You should learn from that and forgive yourself, okay? From now on, work on yourself. F*k them if they don't want to be with you. Just tell yourself you're too special to be with them. Know your self worth. You've tried, you've begged, but now is the time to stop trying. I've learn some things over the past few months after our breakup. I begged for almost two months and let me tell you , you need to stop now before it's too late. The first step to get your ex back is to move on. If you don't like the sound of that then let's just use the word 'move forward'. Go no contact ASAP. Trust me there's no use of begging anymore. You've done enough work. Rest. Just apologize and never talk to them again. Good luck :)
Hazeem I appreciate team fortune doing work. Truth is hazeem is right. Because you are too good for him. And its only a matter of time before he sees it and its too late. Hold your head up be strong and show the whole goddamn world who the fuck you are
Thank you guys for the pep talk and advice it really made me feel better and to help me move on! :) You rock 👊
Crystal Krinkles listen to f**k you by lily allen. It helps me sometimes ;)
6 people who begged and pleaded watched this video
Today is 30 days no contact, and he hasn't texted me or even tried to contact me :( I begged for 1-2 weeks before I started no contact...Do I just keep going no contact or text him something as friends would talk and not be needy. Like Whats up or what r u doing randomly ? I want our friendship back I dont care about a relationship now
Miranda Hane your not ready for a friendship
Miranda Hane not until ur over him
Spartacus Fortune Okay so just keep going with no contact? Thank you for helping me btw :)
Miranda Hane absolutely u got it
This is a little bit of a let down, Sparty. Not the information you reveal in this video, but the fact that in an older video you mention that the chances of no contact working to get your girl back are "150%". There's also the video you have in regards to writing an ex a letter where you suggest letting them know you will no longer be making an effort to reach them, while at the same time in a reply to another comment you say that doing that would come off as a "cry for attention". I'm not here to slander you or talk shit in any way. In all honesty man I really enjoy most of your content and topics of discussion and I know you haven't been doing this for very long. For future reference I just think it would be beneficial to not only the longevity of your channel, but also your subscribers to have more consistency in the subjects you cover on this channel. I hope you don't perceive this as a means of tearing you down but rather take it as constructive criticism. Best of luck bro.
Chris Pierce true
It is a numbers game, it increases your chances. But it is the best strategy.
Sparti is funny hahaha
I begged for about two weeks she cut me off and then I continued to just try to talk to her with no responses from her and then I gave up wrote her a letter about how i felt without begging at all just telling her how I felt about her and us mailed it and I'm doing me now. I know i shouldn't have begged and I don't know why i begged for so long but I know I'm an alpha male and she knows it too. ego took a hit though being broken up and from the begging but it will all resolve itself. and she will see theres no one better than me i know that for a damn fact
Is she with you?
??update??
Update ?
@@goon2941 went through another one last year and it made me realize women arent worth much but talking to and spending time with. they move on when they want. talk and have fun. thats what I've been doing for the last year. dont take women serious maybe then youll find someone that you can actually be on the same vibe with
@@MarshallSmith27 damn bro I’m sorry to hear that, but did the original girl ever reach out during no contact ?
what if I begged and pleaded for like a month and then stayed in contact for another month (he kept telling me every time I texted him saying we would talk and we never did) ... whAT DO I do? we dated for a year.
Update?
Great video Sir.
Sparty I broke up with my ex a month ago and she’s already with a new guy and whatever. For the first two weeks I was being a little pussy and kept begging her and things like that and I fear I don’t think I’m gonna get her back. Last week she contacted me and we talked for about 2 days and she told me how she’s gonna respect the person she’s talking too and block my number. I told her that’s cool and that she could that it doesn’t bother me. She hasn’t texted me back and I’ve been enjoying my time away from relationships but there’s times I miss her, she’s going to school in Pennsylvania and told me she’s not coming back home to New York this summer because she’s gonna complete her summer courses (and be with her new guy). You think there’s a chance of getting back together?
Did she came back ??
If he/she truly loves you they will come back .stop to contact because it really is just begging give them time and stop to think about them . Focus on what you can control and improved version of yourself hit the gym buy some new clothes etc. .The hope is really the killer it best to think off the worst scenerio that they wont be back and the healing process is quicker. Also stop to look at the social media because just one post can set you back fucking months
Idk what to do ...my ex won’t text me at all & I haven’t texted at all either. But now he’s made an excuse to see me. It’s annoying bc he has no intention of getting back together but I can’t refuse the meetup bc it’s really important .. -__-
Allison Mendez then you dnt meet up if theres no sexual chemistry involves
Spartacus Fortune I agree, but it’s for something important. I don’t wanna get into detail but it’s sort of unavoidable. I just don’t want to be awkward or emotional round him.
Be cool around him..
Petros Giorgallis Is there anything I could do when we see each other that would make him want me back ?
Allison Mendez as I said dont get nervous be calm be nice be cool don't be like(omg omg i see him again shall I talk to him)
Hey me and my ex were together for 2 and a half years and he broke up with me because I was emotionally unstable I got him back but then he broke up with me again a week later. He called me and we talked and I asked if there was ever a chance we would get back together and he said he’s not ready for a relationship he wouldn’t be a good bf right now and then I asked if it’s possible and he said definitely. I don’t know if I should go no contact bc I don’t want him to lose anymore feelings that he already lost for me I’m gonna work on not being too available but should I stay friends and then build from there or should I just let him go ?
Be friends & build you will be able to look everything in a new light & start fresh friendship is always better that way your taking it slow & learning each other again.
Any update about your relationship?
Is this OK going no contact? When she is in rebound relationship?. Because my ex is now in rebound relationship just after broke up with me.
forget about her man, best option to do.
Never take ex back after rebound definitely go NC forever on her ass. If she decide to come back treat like sex playmate that's it nothing more! You have to understand rebounds dont go away so if you do go back in a relationship with your ex if you screw up 1 time, guess who she's gonna call behind your back.
So me and my ex were talking afted no contact and she stopped talking to me because she said she doesnt feel the same. But she said she will contact me on my birthday. What does that mean? Sound like a mind game to me.
I didn’t mess with her 24/7 but not gonna lie I did hit her up A few times but I’ve stopped now it’s been A month and I just been working on myself going out with other girls still haven’t heard from my ex tho and still blocked except on Facebook and snap
I begged for 10 days...will my ex come back after no contact?
Does she came back ?? ♥
@@iamzaididrishi nope bro
You just have to forget about her and move on with your life. It's a matter of luck if she comes back. If she's meant to be with you, she'll come back.
She leaved me today, after four years of relationship. I just want atleast she realize her fault...
@@iamzaididrishi it won't happen right away because now she's thinking it's all your fault
Sparty so me and my ex of 2 years broke up technically in Janurary but we never gave each other our belongings back. We kept talking every now and then and sleeping with each other a few times a month but then recently (last week) we slept together for 2 days and then I got sent a picture from my friend of Her and this guy she rebounded with last time we broke up. I lost my shit on her and returned everything of hers and grabbed all my things...She was crying saying its nothing and loves me but dosnt want to work things out...So now im on a week of no contact and she still lurks on my social media but my question is what do i do if she goes back to a rebound from last time...also she does suffer from severe anxiety and depression if you can answer how to deal with an ex like that i'd appreciate it.
Bro you cant be mad about the rebound. You gotta be better than the rebound. The truth is she is using this guy as a lifeboat in case the relationship fails. Doesnt seem like shes full on invested with you and thats something you gotta bring up to her. If shes not then why try to work it out.
If anything, from my experience depression and anxiety keeps you from going out and doing things. Fuck her bro.
Totally agree with you bro
It's work when u work on yourself ..
So now I don’t text her? Anything or just carry a light conversation?
Or i have to follow no contact
She always say this after hookup
She is fealing weird/awkward
What should i tell her when she say this?
Help brother
Hey Sparty,what do you think about this?My ex and I broke up around 2 months ago.She ended up blocking me on every social media and my number as well.I begged and shit for the first two weeks.I later found out she was fucking/dating one of her co workers so I was started doing NC.She ended up unblocking me and messaging me around day 35 of NC but for what seemed to be an excuse to talk.Later on though that same day she blocked me again and She hasnt messaged since.What do you think/any advice?
Ixayan Rios i say stop worrying about her. Lethet put in the work
You say no contact doesn’t work if you begged for a month well what if I did beg for a month but it was once or twice a week trying to talk about the relationship. So you’re saying I’m screwed.
Sparty it's been 3 months since i broke up with my ex .....
She was being bitchy and disrespectful, so I was the first one to break up with her .....
She told me never to contact her anymore....
So I m not planning to contact her, but i still miss her....
We R still friends in facebook
Will no contact work to get her back ,even if i was the 1st one to breakup ?
Any update in your situation?
no contact is for people who got DUMPED ! if you are the dumper it is your responsability to text her FIRST , cause YOU broke up. it's common sens
What Do You mean by girls have a sixth sense? Can you make a video about this ?
Fahim Ahmed sure dude. Their brain will know the second you actually forget about them. When you forget about them the girl wants you again. Its a phycological trigger that goes off
Spartacus Fortune Is this Telepathy 😂😂😂
Ok I'm new to your channel I watched the video & I liked it I have a question I was friends with my ex she was with cool with being friends with me for a time being because that's what I wanted on top of that my father was in the hospital had lung cancer during this time she was really with me & I really appreciated it so we remained good friends until she started catching feelings for me more then usual then he passed two weeks ago so then we had the funeral & everything she didn't go I didn't want her too any ways later on in the week she wanted to be with me so I spent the night we didn't do much really but then she wanted be with me again but I felt she wasn't really real so I said no so then she was hurt then she said she wanted time from me then said don't toss her to the side but then we didn't speak so then 6 days later I reached out to her & apologized but then she started asking things like well why did you touch on me & stuff I said because it was in the moment then I told her I want her back she said nope I'm good don't worry about me at all said like what going to happen in this situation? Will she come back?.
will you please make a video on like to get her back from a message like a note
Ay I’m a golfer man. Lol.
Brother can you tell me?
I done hookup with girl and after that i make conversation worst and she blocked me. But after 15 days she unblock me after i say little words. So what can i do? Now in 15 days we didn’t talk just talk on 15th day and i want that girl made on me again. She even enjoyed hookup a lot.
Just saying exams are issues
How can I start conversation? Now? And what to do?
anurag rao would have her reach out to you. Wouldnt reach out to her
Man no contact does work 100
What do you do if you get a GF during no contact and she’s dope aff but you still miss your ex because of the history and you know she’s going to contact you. 🤷🏻♂️???
Drake Rivers You should probably tell her that you can’t do anything serious right now bc you are not fully available emotionally. I understand bc it helps a lot to have someone there, helping you move on. I see nothing wrong with not being fully in, as long as she knows.
Ah don't pop the collar though bro. You're better than that.
Can we follow you on instagram:)
Ash S of course 🤙🏼
Spartacus Fortune What is your instagram :)
Ash S @SpartacusFortune. @Fanikos is my personal
Alpha males..don't play golf...
Alpha males do nothing
They just enjoy the fuck out of their life
will you please make a video on like to get her back from a message like a note