Amazing advice. Shkoyach! I NOW cannot wait to suggest/help my son-in-law deal with a loss. My daughter lost her wedding ring last week. The ring was her mother-in-law's family heirloom. You can imagine how she feels/felt when her husband said, "You lost it, and I told you so."
🌸 lost a friendship when intervened in a family dynamic that was grossly harmful. Especially when the child was newly diagnosed with a metabolic issue & was dealing with managing at that exact moment. It was 💔 sometimes it’s the price we pay for speaking out for a more vulnerable person… thank you ⭐️
Thnx for the word bro. I feel that one of the most meaningful and important parts is to actually do these things with love from the heart. Far too many people say the right things but their intentions are clouded by the hatred and anger that runs through their mind and heart.
5:50 you should’ve said some thing 100% I didn’t even realize the way I was treated as a child was abuse until I was 30 didn’t get out of that environment until I was 33. I finally stop talking to that part of the family this year I’m 43. They knew discipline they did not know how to comfort, nurture, encourage, or have faith. It was shameful. I was that kid i’m 43 now and I’m finally figuring out how to have autonomy of my life & Learning how to adult. But thanks for finally speaking up for me. 10:39 your videos have been a big motivator for me over the past year. 14:43 that part! 16:36 that part of the family had a rage problem and I was just a kid. 18:23 🙋♀️ 19:09 i’ve learned how to speak out better over the years. I’ve even met people that Oregon love and compliments unconditionally, Compassion But not so much was given when it came to education, culture, creative outlets, constructive criticism. I have often found myself faced with adversaries that fit that group I don’t know if there’s a word for that. Although, 20:39 I made up a procedure. I call it, the cranial rectal realignment. There was a funny motto tagline I don’t feel comfortable posting here. 😅 you’ll figure it out. Someday I’ll figure out what I am.
Take long walks surrounded by nature and under the sun with good nutrition and most problems go away! Connect with your Higher Self! Nature is very healing for everyone! Music is very healing too!
I have a 33 year old daughter with 'issues', at 70 I'm broken and troubled supporting her for so long. She blames me for all, insults, twists truth, even physically abusive towards me. Tried so hard to help. Just don't know what to do to help her anymore. Please pray for her mental, emotional, spiritual and physical healing 😢😢😢😢
Try to get more people involved. Hopefully someone will be able and willing to help out. If u feel in physical danger you can call or even text 911. Carrying such a difficult situation alone is very very difficult. You can only do your best. Praying things get easier and better. Praying you manage to get help so you dont carry this alone. Good luck
Help her to heal her brain 🧠 with vitamin D3, MK7, Omega 3, extra virgen olive oils, vitamin B12… maybe she needs good nutrition and exercise under the SUN I don’t think her behavior has nothing to do with her childhood but the state of her brain! Maybe, she needs 3 months in the Yucatán peninsula eating fish and going into the ocean every single day! She needs plenty of minerals… I think!
Thanks, Rabbi. I was given by Hashem bipolar disorder, bad skin with constant migrating sores, wet eczema, undefined blood infection, repetitive broken bones and fractures that refuse to heal, and a family who thinks my constant physical and mental pain is a cross on them to burden and afflict them. They don't try to help me bandage the wounds i have that i cannot reach to bandage, they cuss me for my grumbling to God about why He had to afflict me and only me so... i live in the southeast where it is always hot and humid with biting insects year round. My daily pain is enough to drive me to sometimes wish i could take "the ever open door" (i.e. suicide) it is the very thing demons try to attack and tempt me with. But why my family complains and shames me instead of offering or actually doing physical help with tasks, that i cannot put into words. I help them physically, monetarily, emotionally support them, but they each refuse to help me. Catholicism says i'm serving out my purgatory while i live here instead of in all its intensity after death. Loving my family in this state and during their treatment of me so is Charity i have so much difficulty doing and continuing to do. What does Hassidism say about living in a life situation like this? I keep farming, doing artwork, serving as a singer at church even as it is an extra chore to prepare and give the music for others' experiences and prayers to be better elevated to heaven. What advice do you have, Rabbi?
1:15 min in i’m already going to call it because I’ve lived it, generational trauma, attempting to live by the standards, and please people with generational trauma will continue to break them down until they stand up to the generational trauma, which often causes families to break up or die out. But, let’s see where he goes with it. I’m curious.
3:29 I guess that would all depend on if the editor themselves has spirit and integrity. I’ve never even attempted to write a book in my life but whenever trying to follow my calling, use my creative gifts, I have been met with many editors, critics making judgments. The dynamic gets dangerous if that person is also in a place of financial control.
If I have guilt, shame and regret despite making ammends repeatedly for my wrong behavior to my children, what do I do with that? I was damaged when i had bad behavior. I acted out of horrible fear. But my guilt and shame are still there. I dont think i was fully forgiven by my daughter and feel like i deserve what i get. My soul aches. My son is different and he understands. I put them through some mental hell in my eyes. Its so sad and im so sorry and made changes and sought help.
In the Quran, verse 2:11 of Surah Al-Baqarah (The Cow) says, "And when it is said to them, 'Do not cause corruption on the earth,' they say, 'We are but reformers'".
Having a difficult time. At an AA Meeting, a person came in very drunk and then drove home. I did not want to call police because he was at least trying to get help nor did I want him to hurt or kill anyone including himself. He did not five up the keys.
I have a question: does Judaism or Hasisdism or Talmudism or whatever judaistic religion or philosophy have an idea of love of every human being like Christianity has?
I tell People how l feel about them.if they hv offended me time and time again, no more being nice. 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏l.hv more RESPECT FOR ANIMALS THAN PEOPLE,HUMANS SHOULD BE DISCUSSTED WITH THEMSELVES. IM.WAITING FOR EVERYONE S BACKLASH AGAINST ME,I HV BEEN THROUGH HELL WITH PEOPLE, I ONLY LOVED MY PARENTS AND PETS,EVERYONE ELSE I WILL NEVER TRUST
Thank you Rabbi
Rabbi, this episode is a gold mine. Thank you
Thank you Rabbi Jacobson!!💪✡️🙏❤️🔥🎶
Amazing advice. Shkoyach!
I NOW cannot wait to suggest/help my son-in-law deal with a loss. My daughter lost her wedding ring last week. The ring was her mother-in-law's family heirloom. You can imagine how she feels/felt when her husband said, "You lost it, and I told you so."
Thank you for your wise words. You have helped me.
Thank you, Rabbi. The Jewish way of upbringing is beautiful.
Such a wise and thoughtful man, your videos are so interesting and thought provoking.
🌸 lost a friendship when intervened in a family dynamic that was grossly harmful. Especially when the child was newly diagnosed with a metabolic issue & was dealing with managing at that exact moment. It was 💔 sometimes it’s the price we pay for speaking out for a more vulnerable person… thank you ⭐️
People tend to judge people the ay they judge themselves ❤
Not always. Sometimes there's a point to be made but yeah, there's a lot of projection.
A lot of people project or they want to make a point depending what's at sake.
1million percent correct ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you Rabbi and team ❤fantastic advice and wisdom I needed to hear this message today ❤
Great advice!
Gracias Rabbi Jacobson!
when i say Bits and you ..Surface Scrub , plus a tidal ware ...80 mill in 20 mins ...NOT EVEN HISTORY LEFT OF YOPU BOY 'S ...
Thnx for the word bro. I feel that one of the most meaningful and important parts is to actually do these things with love from the heart. Far too many people say the right things but their intentions are clouded by the hatred and anger that runs through their mind and heart.
5:50 you should’ve said some thing 100% I didn’t even realize the way I was treated as a child was abuse until I was 30 didn’t get out of that environment until I was 33. I finally stop talking to that part of the family this year I’m 43. They knew discipline they did not know how to comfort, nurture, encourage, or have faith. It was shameful.
I was that kid i’m 43 now and I’m finally figuring out how to have autonomy of my life & Learning how to adult.
But thanks for finally speaking up for me. 10:39 your videos have been a big motivator for me over the past year.
14:43 that part!
16:36 that part of the family had a rage problem and I was just a kid.
18:23 🙋♀️
19:09 i’ve learned how to speak out better over the years. I’ve even met people that Oregon love and compliments unconditionally, Compassion
But not so much was given when it came to education, culture, creative outlets, constructive criticism.
I have often found myself faced with adversaries that fit that group I don’t know if there’s a word for that. Although,
20:39 I made up a procedure. I call it, the cranial rectal realignment. There was a funny motto tagline I don’t feel comfortable posting here. 😅 you’ll figure it out. Someday I’ll figure out what I am.
Take long walks surrounded by nature and under the sun with good nutrition and most problems go away!
Connect with your Higher Self!
Nature is very healing for everyone! Music is very healing too!
Thank you I needed to hear this.
Absolutely. No wine. Nada.
I have a 33 year old daughter with 'issues', at 70 I'm broken and troubled supporting her for so long. She blames me for all, insults, twists truth, even physically abusive towards me. Tried so hard to help. Just don't know what to do to help her anymore. Please pray for her mental, emotional, spiritual and physical healing 😢😢😢😢
I will pray for you. I can relate so much. Brings tears to my eyes 😢
@PURPLEHAZE30000 thank you 😊
Try to get more people involved. Hopefully someone will be able and willing to help out. If u feel in physical danger you can call or even text 911. Carrying such a difficult situation alone is very very difficult. You can only do your best. Praying things get easier and better. Praying you manage to get help so you dont carry this alone. Good luck
seek a professional maybe somethings you do are wrong. don't assume it's all the other person's fault.
Help her to heal her brain 🧠 with vitamin D3, MK7, Omega 3, extra virgen olive oils, vitamin B12… maybe she needs good nutrition and exercise under the SUN
I don’t think her behavior has nothing to do with her childhood but the state of her brain!
Maybe, she needs 3 months in the Yucatán peninsula eating fish and going into the ocean every single day!
She needs plenty of minerals… I think!
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Problems between nations
Thanks, Rabbi. I was given by Hashem bipolar disorder, bad skin with constant migrating sores, wet eczema, undefined blood infection, repetitive broken bones and fractures that refuse to heal, and a family who thinks my constant physical and mental pain is a cross on them to burden and afflict them. They don't try to help me bandage the wounds i have that i cannot reach to bandage, they cuss me for my grumbling to God about why He had to afflict me and only me so... i live in the southeast where it is always hot and humid with biting insects year round. My daily pain is enough to drive me to sometimes wish i could take "the ever open door" (i.e. suicide) it is the very thing demons try to attack and tempt me with. But why my family complains and shames me instead of offering or actually doing physical help with tasks, that i cannot put into words. I help them physically, monetarily, emotionally support them, but they each refuse to help me. Catholicism says i'm serving out my purgatory while i live here instead of in all its intensity after death. Loving my family in this state and during their treatment of me so is Charity i have so much difficulty doing and continuing to do. What does Hassidism say about living in a life situation like this? I keep farming, doing artwork, serving as a singer at church even as it is an extra chore to prepare and give the music for others' experiences and prayers to be better elevated to heaven. What advice do you have, Rabbi?
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Dear Rabbi, What about when you do confront in a civilized manner and they lie?
1:15 min in i’m already going to call it because I’ve lived it, generational trauma, attempting to live by the standards, and please people with generational trauma will continue to break them down until they stand up to the generational trauma, which often causes families to break up or die out.
But, let’s see where he goes with it. I’m curious.
3:29 I guess that would all depend on if the editor themselves has spirit and integrity. I’ve never even attempted to write a book in my life but whenever trying to follow my calling, use my creative gifts, I have been met with many editors, critics making judgments. The dynamic gets dangerous if that person is also in a place of financial control.
If I have guilt, shame and regret despite making ammends repeatedly for my wrong behavior to my children, what do I do with that? I was damaged when i had bad behavior. I acted out of horrible fear. But my guilt and shame are still there. I dont think i was fully forgiven by my daughter and feel like i deserve what i get. My soul aches. My son is different and he understands. I put them through some mental hell in my eyes. Its so sad and im so sorry and made changes and sought help.
In the Quran, verse 2:11 of Surah Al-Baqarah (The Cow) says, "And when it is said to them, 'Do not cause corruption on the earth,' they say, 'We are but reformers'".
Having a difficult time. At an AA Meeting, a person came in very drunk and then drove home. I did not want to call police because he was at least trying to get help nor did I want him to hurt or kill anyone including himself. He did not five up the keys.
I have a question: does Judaism or Hasisdism or Talmudism or whatever judaistic religion or philosophy have an idea of love of every human being like Christianity has?
I tell People how l feel about them.if they hv offended me time and time again, no more being nice.
😂😂😂😂❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏l.hv more RESPECT FOR ANIMALS THAN PEOPLE,HUMANS SHOULD BE DISCUSSTED WITH THEMSELVES.
IM.WAITING FOR EVERYONE S BACKLASH AGAINST ME,I HV BEEN THROUGH HELL WITH PEOPLE, I ONLY LOVED MY PARENTS AND PETS,EVERYONE ELSE I WILL NEVER TRUST
Love one another l meant,HUMANS can t Love each other
آگ غیرت سے قفس کو دوں ہوں چاروں اور سے
ایک دو گلبرگ جب باد سحر لاتی ہے میاں
grand I send an email.
Thank You Rabbi