Q1: Your husband DOESN'T value or respect you! If this is okay with you, then stay! Do YOU value yourself?! NEVER let the fear of divorce keep you in a marriage that makes you doubt yourself and devalue yourself when you have already done your best and contribute more than your share! You are educated, have a well-paying job, are capable, so why are you with a cheater?! Do you really need such a man in your life?! Answer these questions and others pertaining to your mental and emotional health in your marriage and you will know your answer.
Q1: Stop doing things for him. He is taking you for granted because he knows you will never leave. It's interesting that this story came out the same day. Please listen to it. "Koj Niam aw hnuib no kuv mus yuam kev lawn" 1/13/2025
Q1. My dad is a cheater and treated my mom poorly. My mom is a super woman and does everything, but the more she does the more he forgets her. Ask yourself, do you want to be like this forever? If not, it's never too late to start over. I know it's not easy to pack up and leave; I am a 42 year old daughter and I wished and wished that my mom would just leave. I can tell you one thing for certain, she's not happy and finally admits she's wrong for sticking around this long. They are now in their 70s, and can't stand each other.
My mom was the same. She was an independent woman who never waited on my dad to get things done. But yet my dad was ungrateful. After he went to nplog and got a niam mos ab, my mom finally kick him out. Now his life is nothing to close to what he used to have it good. These types of men tsis sawm zoo! They deserves a bad woman that treats them like sh1t. Lawv tias li nyob zoo2 xwb.
#2. You don’t even stand up for yourself. Why should she? You said she’s your best friend but I think you meant to said she’s your best devil’s advocate. Get rid of the devil!!
Q1: because you are too good that why he treated you like that. Stand your ground. Stop paying for everything. It doesnt matter what your worth if you don’t love yourself no one will. You need to let him go.
Q1 It’s because you are so good, he doesn’t respect you. Learn to love yourself. 2 can play that game. It’s not about you and the things you are not enough. Leave, so he can know how good you are.
Q2: Your friend is a fake friend. A true friend will love and support you through thick and thin without criticism. She's jealous and will hurt you to make herself happy and look good.
1. Sister, know your self-worth. You are an educated woman who does not need "love" from a man like your husband. Don't doubt your worth just because he's unfaithful. You are more than enough. Letting him back into your life after his "mistake" only allows him to continue doing so. A man who loves you would never cause such pain and heartache. Put your foot down and let him go. You don't deserve to suffer. Find someone who will truly love you for all your beauty and flaws. Good luck, Sister!
Q:1 yog muaj tseeb li koj hais ces koj ntsuas koj lub neej yog mus taus lam ua cav lwj sib ib nyob..yog uv los yuav tuag li no ces muab ntsaws thoob khib nyiab xwb es koj thiaj li kaj siab nawb mog
Q1: HAVE SOME SELF WORTH! No one will want to love you if you don’t love yourself! You deserve better. A GOOD NIAM TSEV does not keep a man. A man will be good to whoever they want to be good for, and that’s not you. Leave and go find your own happiness. Go love yourself and find your self worth! There’s a bigger world out there. Your kids will understand when they get bigger. You cannot fully love your children and give them the best without being the best version of you physically and mentally. It’s 2025 we don’t need a man. You deserve better sister. Life is too short to spend it with a man who’s treats you like sh*. You wouldn’t want your daughter thinking that’s how a women should be treated or son to think it’s ok to treat a women like that. Be an example for them!
Q1: your husband knows you will always forgive him so there is no risk of losing you. Once you respect yourself and show him it's not ok, he will stop, but if I were you, just leave that cheater.
Q1: He cheats because you allowed him to treat you like that. Let him go. You deserve better than that. Love yourself please! Never let a man step on you like that.
yam nov yog yam outside of your control circle lawm na sister aw.. Poob rau qhov "hloov txiv tshiab" or "sib kho" but nco ntsoov everything "nyob ntawm koj xwb". In hmong ways kho ces.. 1. do your homework (sau nws/koj daim list qhov zoo/tsis zoo). And you like your life together to be like. 2. Make time in beautiful nice and quiet place just the two of you, talk about it. 3. "Kwv tij cov coj noj coj ua/good idols ones" kho. 4. Kwv tij again but remaining neej tsa involved next time. 5. Neej tsa. 6. Now usually 'everything belong to you' you can decide whether you stay or leave. "Loving yourself more than you love him so you are not hurting sister!.."
First question, lady the way you describe yourself, you are a perfect person, better than anyone else, including your husband. I think that is the problem for you. We man don't like a lady who thinks she perfect and nothing to change. I think it is your attitude of being too perfect. You want us to point what is your yuam kev, mistakes. We cannot honestly tell you what is your mistakes because within the short a few minutes of your facts, you did not give us a single fact of your fault or mistake. You only blame your husband and that you did everything right. As an educated person as you described yourself, you know well that there are 2 sides to each story. You only provided one side here. In addition, educated person don't reveal their private marriage problem to strangers on youtube and ask strangers to give you advice that can breakup your marriage. You were tough enough to get your high education and good job all by yourself, use it wisely also to manage your own family decisions well. Perhaps, you need private professional marriage counseling, I hope your high education made you aware that marriage counseling is available out there. After many sessions, maybe the professional counselor can address what is your mistakes. Even professional counselor will not give you the advice only after a few minutes of your one sided facts.
Q1: No matter how good you are, if he does not love you, he will not love you. Someone once told me, "you get what you tolerate." You accept and forgive his behaviors. You continue to be with him leading him into disrespecting you because he knows you will never leave even after all the cheating and disrespect. YOU DO NOT RESPECT YOURSELF AND BOUNDARIES, THAT IS WHY HE DOES NOT RESCPECT YOU. Pick yourself up, focus on yourself, spend that money on you, all about you, and leave. Cut that access to you. Once he lose access to you, he will feel it. But cut that access to you for you!
Story 1- you have become your husband's mother because you did everything for him. Since he's got everything. He is cheating because it gives him a rush and a sense of control. Story 2- koj tus phooj ywg tsis ncaj cees, thiab nws yog tus phooj ywg siv koj nrag koj zog xwb. She not a true friend. And she the jealous type who has to be the center of attention. You are her friend with benefit.
Q1. Sister, in America men don’t like niam tsev anymore. They like niam dev only. If you could be a niam dev then your husband will never leave you. Haven’t you heard stories from niam tsuab teev and niam neej vam.
Q#1. Dear sister, I think you love your husband too much and forgot to love and see your self-worth. You may be the smartest and best wife, but you can never satisfied a a cheating husband. If you want to be happy with no regrets, you will need to decide on what us best for your mental health. If you were to die tomorrow, would you be happy living this life you have now? I pray that God bless you and heal your brokenness. 🙏
Question #1. We live in America and all I can tell you is that Don’t let that loser treat you like dirt. You need to value yourself and respect yourself and teach that loser a lesson. Do Not Waste Your Time On That Loser anymore. You deserve a better man than that loser!
Qhov tseeb nyob ntawm koj tus txiv, nws thiaj paub tias yog vim li cas nws thiaj li cheat. Peb tsuas nov koj sab xwb, tsi nov koj tus txiv sab. There’s always 2 side yo a story.
Q1-If you don't have children then just move on.If you have children then wait to talk to his parents. I feel sorry for your heartbreaking life.Cheater won't change till they get cheated from his girlfriend or endup being homeless.
For Q#1: Tsuav qhov koj ua niam dev rau nws. Men likes a niam tsev for the world but niam dev at night for him. You just need to love yourself, take care of your health and your body. If you are on the chubby side, then maybe eat healthier and do regular exercise. If you are too slim then add more weight. Love yourself self before you expect your husband to love you.
Q1. You will regret it if you don't leave those kinds of people. You may have everything a man could ask for, but for sure, you don't meet your significant other needs or that is who he is. Know your boundaries and have self-respect if you are a good person. You don't fit in sh...hole like him.
1st story: your husband is just a cheater. Ua li lawv hais noj mov sab nrauv yeej qab tshaj. He doesn’t value you as a good wife, you got to leave him for him for a while so he can see how life is without you.
1: You obviously don’t need him in your life. He’s only dragging u now. Leave him while u can go and start a new life with someone who will love, appreciate and respect you. 2: Your so-call friend is jealous of you and you need to not be her friend anymore.
#1 Yuav Kom koj tus txiv pom koj zoo CES yuav tsum CIA koj yuav tsum tsis txhob yog NWS Tus poj Niam xwb ES koj yog Luag lwm tus sab tod Tus poj es NWS thiaj pom koj zoo koj thiaj muaj nuj nqi rau NWS xwb vim koj muab txhua Yam ua Thiab paub tas lawm CES NWS tau2 zoo Kev nyuaj Siab NWS tsis paub txog CIA NWS Tau lwm tus los nyob ntawv NWS ib sab CES yuav pom qhov phem los txuam qhov zoo xwb os 😅
Q1, yog muaj li koj cov lus hais ko sister tej zaum tim koj lawm vim koj pheej cia koj tus txiv tham hluas nkauj. Yog koj tsis txaus siab rau koj tus txiv tham hluas nkauj cia li coj koj tus txiv mus rau nws niam, txiv Thiab cov Kwv tij hais, yog tom qab hais tag tsis yuav koj tus txiv yeej tsis hlub koj tiag
Tsis paub qhia koj, lub neej yog koj lub - tab sis seb koj tus txiv tib koj li cas, los hais rau koj tias koj tsis zoo qhov twg nws nyiam kom koj ua li cas thiaj haum nws. Yog yus paub tias muaj ib qho yus ua tsis haum nws ces neb yuav tau sib tham seb neb yuav sib kho li cas. Kev xav xwb yog yus ntseeg yus tus kheej tias yus ua zoo txhua yam tab sis tus txiv yeej tsis yog ib tug txiv tab cuab ces yus txhob nyob ib lub neej lwj siab yus tau yus niam lawm siv yus txoj kev ntse rau yus lub neej txhob tos tus txiv zoo li koj tus txiv nws pab tsis tau koj.
Question1: txivneej yog hlub pojniam tiag2, nws tus pojniam nyob hauvtsev ua nothing los tus txiv yeej hlub lawm. you’re not the problem. You do more than enough for you2.
1Q: Your husband never love you from the beginning. He’s probably with you because of your income and support. Love yourself and leave him. You deserve better.
Story 1 - Koj yog ib tug poj niam muaj peev xwm thiab ua tau yuav luag txhua yam rau koj tus txiv thiab nws tsev neeg, tab sis koj yog hom poj niam ua tas lawm los muab delete tas rov tom qab. Koj yuav tau qee qhov koj pheej muab erase ntawv txhob erase ntxiv lawm. Story 2 - Lawv qhuas koj ces ho khib koj tus best friend los twb vim yog koj khav theeb zog rau nws ces nws thiaj tau degrade koj xwb.
I agree my mom is in same situation like your mom cheater always cheated no matter what and doesn’t matter how good or how super woman you are it’s not easy but just leave it’s not you it’s his nature he was born like that
Q1: The sad reality is he does not truly love you. Behavioral changes only take place if he deeply wants you to be happy and he's indifferent to your happiness. Cheating is a choice of his. He will only know your worth when he can not use you anymore. Leaving is also a choice you have. Don't wait until another woman is pregnant with his child or he gets a 2nd wife. Love yourself!
I can't believe a smart woman like you would let him treat you that bad. It's your fault to let him treat you that bad. He's being like that because you allow him to. It's time to stand up and show him that if he can't change then change him (new husband). 1 tug neeg ntse ntsuav li koj es tseem yuav mus khuv xim tej tug txiv dev li ntawv ua dab tsi. Tus neeg zoo li ntawv tsis sawm zoo. Nws tsuas xav ua txiv dev xwb tsis xav ua neeg.
Response for the Niece, good for keeping your distance. I would just keep your distance and don’t go to events when they’re there. If you have to, stay far away not in sight from him. It won’t last long anyways so it shouldn’t be long.
Q#1: Viv Ncaus kuv taug koj txoj kev kiag lij nhub no.....kuv kuj nyob ib twg educationed person like you too. I make over 125 thousands a year but I can't leave my cheating husband. He's been cheating for the last 15 years. My problem is I'm afraid of the unknown. 😢😢
vim koj yuav tau txiv aub txiv dev es nws xav kom tau tsoob txhua tus pojniam lub cev hos tus pojniam twg zoo nkauj los nws xav kom nws tau plev, neeg txim txiaj ces ib tug xwb los nws yeej txaus siab hlo hlub lawm.
#1 Koj yog ib tug zoo niam tsev lawm tiam sis Koj puas yog ib tug zoo niam dev. Txiv neej ces vam kom yus yog ib tug niam dev rau lawv xwb na. Yog Koj ua tsis tau ib tug niam dev rau nws then give him and ultimatum, value yourself, don’t need to stay for a husband like that. #2: stay away from friends like that. They have no respect for you . They will throw you under the bus when troubles comes
#2 Well maybe she is a straighout person. You maybe a serious person. If you don't like it change your friends or tell her you're hurt and dislike it. Sometimes people don't know until you tell them.
#1 research trauma bond. Hopefully you with this knowledge, you can understand yourself better. #2 My advice is to confront her nicely. Ask her why she talks down about you every time some one compliments you. It could go either way, be prepared to either have a new enemy or an even closer friend.
Q1. Why would you disrespect yourself that much and allow him to do that to you? Move out and move on. Show him how much you love yourself. Stop wasting time. Pack and leave
Q#1 it’s because you do everything he doesn’t have any to do now you sed up job or work for him every day that today do this.Tomorrow you do that for family honey to has no idea or ways to go cheating you me ntxhais
Question #1: he knows you can’t leave so he will continue to treat you like that. Respect yourself enough to walk out, or kick him out. He made it very clear that he doesn’t love you. Even outsiders see that, but you are in denial. Q#2: she’s a frenemy. Cut her loose and find new friends. I had friends like her too and I don’t talk to them anymore.
Ntshe koj tus txiv no nws tsis ntshaw ib tug zoo niam tsev os nws ntshaw ib tug niam dev xwb. Yog npaum ko ces tso plhuav nws mus tsis txhob yuav lawm os tus mi niam tsev aw muaj peevxwm npaum ko es cas yuav nrog ib tug neeg nyob es saib tsis tau yus tsis hwm yus li nas. Tus txiv li ko yog koj muab tso ces kawg ua txiv dev liam lawm xwb os
Last secret about auntie's husband txiv mos ab. You should distance yourself from your auntie and her txiv mos ab. Don't tell your auntie because she's delulu. She will only think you are after her txiv mos ab.
#1. It's not about how good you are but how valuable you are. You have zero worth if you let him walks all over you. You have zero worth if you have no boundary and NO deal breaker. He does what he does because you continuously enable him to. He knows you will never leave him, so he continues to do it. Txhob ntshaw 2 txiv thiab lau. You are doing this to yourself. Stop being his doormat, so he will treat you better. It's all about how you value yourself.
Q2, you need to leave your "friend" behind. She's already sabotaging you. Big betrayal is coming to the surface soon. She may already be sleeping with your husband. The jealousy is because she's already competing with you. Guard your back and silently distance yourself, then cut all contact. I've been there with a jealous friend and she eventually betrayed me big time. Don't wait until that day like me. She's your no. 1 enemy, not your friend. You know the phrase about keeping your enemy closer? Yip. She's keeping you close until she's ready to take the fatal bite. Good luck.
Koj yog ib tug Niam tsev ua plab zais zais los. Koj tsis tau txawj npau qau ne. Koj ua tau Niam tsev tab sis Koj tseem ua tsis tau tu Niam dev. Koj tus txiv nyiam tus Niam dev thiab ho. Txiv neej xav tau tus niam dev thaib nyob hauv txaj. Yog Koj muab nws do ko nws zog tag nrho ces kawg nws hlub Koj xwb ma. Txiv mos b es Puas muaj plaub qau ma.
Q1: sorry this may hurt your feeling but the problem is YOU!! He walk all over you because you let him. He knows you will never leave him that’s why he always cheated on you. Q2: She’s not a good friend. If you don’t like the way she treated you, you need to let he know.
Question#1. Qhov koj ua tau txhua yam es koj tus txiv tseem pheej mus deev, mus tham lwm tus es tsis nav thwm koj los vim koj tsis hlub thiab tsis nav thwm koj tus kheej ne. Tus neeg coj li koj tus txiv dev ntawm ko mas koj yuav tau qhia cai rau nws kom nws paub koj tseeb me ntsis. Yog ho qhia tsis tau cai rau nws ces muab nws tshem tawm hauv koj lub neej mus vim you deserve better than that. Txhob yug los nkim tiam os lady.
Tsi Yog koj tsi txhawj los Yog ua tsi tau zoo. Nws tsi hlub koj xwb. Cia koj txoj kev zoo los hlub tu kheej. Move on and enjoy your own money with someone else new.
Q1. We don't know what it's like to be in your marriage. We don't know you well. So many of our advices may not be right. You probably know why he's cheating because you know him best. And you just got to take it as a fact that you both are not the same person anymore. You just got to let the txiv dev go so that you can grow more for yourself. Maybe there's part of you that no longer is attractive to him either. 🤷🏻♀️
Q1: Sister, you may be a good housewife and make a lot of money, but you lack confidence and self-respect. Know your worth
Hais yog tshaj li lawm.👏👏👏
Q1. KNOW YOUR WORTH
1. Lady, it doesn't matter what you do, he will never change. Just move on
Q1: Your husband DOESN'T value or respect you! If this is okay with you, then stay! Do YOU value yourself?! NEVER let the fear of divorce keep you in a marriage that makes you doubt yourself and devalue yourself when you have already done your best and contribute more than your share! You are educated, have a well-paying job, are capable, so why are you with a cheater?! Do you really need such a man in your life?! Answer these questions and others pertaining to your mental and emotional health in your marriage and you will know your answer.
Q1: You may be perfect in every other aspect, but what about the bedroom? Intimacy could be the reason why he cheats.
Q2: that's not a friend. She is secretly jealous of you. Given enough time, you will start to hear what she says about you behind your back.
Q1: Stop doing things for him. He is taking you for granted because he knows you will never leave. It's interesting that this story came out the same day. Please listen to it. "Koj Niam aw hnuib no kuv mus yuam kev lawn" 1/13/2025
Q1. My dad is a cheater and treated my mom poorly. My mom is a super woman and does everything, but the more she does the more he forgets her. Ask yourself, do you want to be like this forever? If not, it's never too late to start over. I know it's not easy to pack up and leave; I am a 42 year old daughter and I wished and wished that my mom would just leave. I can tell you one thing for certain, she's not happy and finally admits she's wrong for sticking around this long. They are now in their 70s, and can't stand each other.
My mom was the same. She was an independent woman who never waited on my dad to get things done. But yet my dad was ungrateful. After he went to nplog and got a niam mos ab, my mom finally kick him out. Now his life is nothing to close to what he used to have it good. These types of men tsis sawm zoo! They deserves a bad woman that treats them like sh1t. Lawv tias li nyob zoo2 xwb.
Q2.She’s not your friend, with friend like that you don’t need enemies
Q2. Leave that friend, Best friends don't do that to each other
1:A cheater will be a cheater no matter what you do. You know the answer to your question.
Q1- ladies, we men don’t like super niamtsev. That’s too much. We loved normal women with super niamdev.
#2. You don’t even stand up for yourself. Why should she? You said she’s your best friend but I think you meant to said she’s your best devil’s advocate. Get rid of the devil!!
Thanks for a good laugh, Mr. Engineer 😂😂😂
Q1: because you are too good that why he treated you like that. Stand your ground. Stop paying for everything. It doesnt matter what your worth if you don’t love yourself no one will. You need to let him go.
Q1 It’s because you are so good, he doesn’t respect you. Learn to love yourself. 2 can play that game. It’s not about you and the things you are not enough. Leave, so he can know how good you are.
Q2: Your friend is a fake friend. A true friend will love and support you through thick and thin without criticism. She's jealous and will hurt you to make herself happy and look good.
1. Leave leave leave sometimes when we do too much they take advantage of it
Leave!!
1. Sister, know your self-worth. You are an educated woman who does not need "love" from a man like your husband. Don't doubt your worth just because he's unfaithful. You are more than enough. Letting him back into your life after his "mistake" only allows him to continue doing so. A man who loves you would never cause such pain and heartache. Put your foot down and let him go. You don't deserve to suffer. Find someone who will truly love you for all your beauty and flaws. Good luck, Sister!
Q1: a cheater is always a cheater. No matter what you do he will always cheats on you. Listen to your heart what he tells you.
Q1: One side of story!
2nd question, leave that friend. She will be the first to backstab you when you have an enemy.
Q:1 yog muaj tseeb li koj hais ces koj ntsuas koj lub neej yog mus taus lam ua cav lwj sib ib nyob..yog uv los yuav tuag li no ces muab ntsaws thoob khib nyiab xwb es koj thiaj li kaj siab nawb mog
lol the story about the fake engineer 😂
Q1: HAVE SOME SELF WORTH! No one will want to love you if you don’t love yourself! You deserve better. A GOOD NIAM TSEV does not keep a man. A man will be good to whoever they want to be good for, and that’s not you. Leave and go find your own happiness. Go love yourself and find your self worth! There’s a bigger world out there. Your kids will understand when they get bigger. You cannot fully love your children and give them the best without being the best version of you physically and mentally. It’s 2025 we don’t need a man. You deserve better sister. Life is too short to spend it with a man who’s treats you like sh*. You wouldn’t want your daughter thinking that’s how a women should be treated or son to think it’s ok to treat a women like that. Be an example for them!
Q1. You got the wrong guy for a husband. He took you for granted. The only way he will learn is for you to leave.
Q2: those are not true friend. Don’t be friend with her anymore
If you are as smart as you said you are, you would never let anyone let alone your husband treat you like this.
Q1: koj tus txiv xav tau 1 tus niam dev na
Q1: your husband knows you will always forgive him so there is no risk of losing you. Once you respect yourself and show him it's not ok, he will stop, but if I were you, just leave that cheater.
Q1: He cheats because you allowed him to treat you like that. Let him go. You deserve better than that. Love yourself please! Never let a man step on you like that.
yam nov yog yam outside of your control circle lawm na sister aw..
Poob rau qhov "hloov txiv tshiab" or "sib kho" but nco ntsoov everything "nyob ntawm koj xwb".
In hmong ways kho ces..
1. do your homework (sau nws/koj daim list qhov zoo/tsis zoo).
And you like your life together to be like.
2. Make time in beautiful nice and quiet place just the two of you, talk about it.
3. "Kwv tij cov coj noj coj ua/good idols ones" kho.
4. Kwv tij again but remaining neej tsa involved next time.
5. Neej tsa.
6. Now usually 'everything belong to you' you can decide whether you stay or leave.
"Loving yourself more than you love him so you are not hurting sister!.."
Why do women do this to themselves, always blaming themselves for not good enough when their husbands cheat?
Q1: Sounds like you spoil him too much and he doesn't appreciate you. You need to wake up and know your worth and stand your ground.
Vim koj tus aunt muaj khoom POV haum zoo ne😅
First question, lady the way you describe yourself, you are a perfect person, better than anyone else, including your husband. I think that is the problem for you. We man don't like a lady who thinks she perfect and nothing to change. I think it is your attitude of being too perfect. You want us to point what is your yuam kev, mistakes. We cannot honestly tell you what is your mistakes because within the short a few minutes of your facts, you did not give us a single fact of your fault or mistake. You only blame your husband and that you did everything right. As an educated person as you described yourself, you know well that there are 2 sides to each story. You only provided one side here. In addition, educated person don't reveal their private marriage problem to strangers on youtube and ask strangers to give you advice that can breakup your marriage. You were tough enough to get your high education and good job all by yourself, use it wisely also to manage your own family decisions well. Perhaps, you need private professional marriage counseling, I hope your high education made you aware that marriage counseling is available out there. After many sessions, maybe the professional counselor can address what is your mistakes. Even professional counselor will not give you the advice only after a few minutes of your one sided facts.
1. You already answered your own question. You have done everything for him and done everything to his liking. You forgot about you.
Q1 : Viv ncaus vim koj muab nws saib muaj nqis dhau lawm, nws xav tias koj yeej yuav khiav tsis taus nws, nws thiaj pheej ua phem tag li rau koj xwb. Tus txiv tsev zoo li koj tus koj tsis tsim nyog saib kom muaj qhis thiab txhob saib nws li nws yog tus king, nws thiaj saib taus koj nawb.
Q1: No matter how good you are, if he does not love you, he will not love you. Someone once told me, "you get what you tolerate." You accept and forgive his behaviors. You continue to be with him leading him into disrespecting you because he knows you will never leave even after all the cheating and disrespect. YOU DO NOT RESPECT YOURSELF AND BOUNDARIES, THAT IS WHY HE DOES NOT RESCPECT YOU.
Pick yourself up, focus on yourself, spend that money on you, all about you, and leave. Cut that access to you. Once he lose access to you, he will feel it. But cut that access to you for you!
Story 1- you have become your husband's mother because you did everything for him. Since he's got everything. He is cheating because it gives him a rush and a sense of control.
Story 2- koj tus phooj ywg tsis ncaj cees, thiab nws yog tus phooj ywg siv koj nrag koj zog xwb. She not a true friend. And she the jealous type who has to be the center of attention. You are her friend with benefit.
Q1. Sister, in America men don’t like niam tsev anymore. They like niam dev only. If you could be a niam dev then your husband will never leave you. Haven’t you heard stories from niam tsuab teev and niam neej vam.
Q#1. Dear sister, I think you love your husband too much and forgot to love and see your self-worth. You may be the smartest and best wife, but you can never satisfied a a cheating husband.
If you want to be happy with no regrets, you will need to decide on what us best for your mental health. If you were to die tomorrow, would you be happy living this life you have now?
I pray that God bless you and heal your brokenness. 🙏
1. Koj ua tau txhua yam tag nrho lawm tabsi txivneej nyiam kom tau tus pojniam yaim noj nws sau lub txaj. Mus ua rau nws ces nws yeej tsis mus lawm.
Question #1. We live in America and all I can tell you is that Don’t let that loser treat you like dirt. You need to value yourself and respect yourself and teach that loser a lesson. Do Not Waste Your Time On That Loser anymore. You deserve a better man than that loser!
Q1 - You have trauma bond. Focus on saving yourself and not your marriage.
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Vi cause koj txias nws tsi txau xwb kav tsi txag nwg kom tuag xwb os
Qhov tseeb nyob ntawm koj tus txiv, nws thiaj paub tias yog vim li cas nws thiaj li cheat. Peb tsuas nov koj sab xwb, tsi nov koj tus txiv sab. There’s always 2 side yo a story.
Q1-If you don't have children then just move on.If you have children then wait to talk to his parents. I feel sorry for your heartbreaking life.Cheater won't change till they get cheated from his girlfriend or endup being homeless.
Q1. Tiam no cov txivneej/txivtsev tsi xav tau tus super niam tsev lawm, lawv xav tau ib tus super niam dev lawm xwb os.
2 koj tsis txhob ua phooj ywg nrog tus neeg zoo li ntawd yuav zoo dhau vim kuv twb siv los lawm
For Q#1: Tsuav qhov koj ua niam dev rau nws. Men likes a niam tsev for the world but niam dev at night for him. You just need to love yourself, take care of your health and your body. If you are on the chubby side, then maybe eat healthier and do regular exercise. If you are too slim then add more weight. Love yourself self before you expect your husband to love you.
Q1. You will regret it if you don't leave those kinds of people. You may have everything a man could ask for, but for sure, you don't meet your significant other needs or that is who he is. Know your boundaries and have self-respect if you are a good person. You don't fit in sh...hole like him.
1st story: your husband is just a cheater. Ua li lawv hais noj mov sab nrauv yeej qab tshaj. He doesn’t value you as a good wife, you got to leave him for him for a while so he can see how life is without you.
2? U don't need a friend like her, she's a not a friend just a fake friend.
1: You obviously don’t need him in your life. He’s only dragging u now. Leave him while u can go and start a new life with someone who will love, appreciate and respect you.
2: Your so-call friend is jealous of you and you need to not be her friend anymore.
#1 Yuav Kom koj tus txiv pom koj zoo CES yuav tsum CIA koj yuav tsum tsis txhob yog NWS Tus poj Niam xwb ES koj yog Luag lwm tus sab tod Tus poj es NWS thiaj pom koj zoo koj thiaj muaj nuj nqi rau NWS xwb vim koj muab txhua Yam ua Thiab paub tas lawm CES NWS tau2 zoo Kev nyuaj Siab NWS tsis paub txog CIA NWS Tau lwm tus los nyob ntawv NWS ib sab CES yuav pom qhov phem los txuam qhov zoo xwb os 😅
Q1, yog muaj li koj cov lus hais ko sister tej zaum tim koj lawm vim koj pheej cia koj tus txiv tham hluas nkauj. Yog koj tsis txaus siab rau koj tus txiv tham hluas nkauj cia li coj koj tus txiv mus rau nws niam, txiv Thiab cov Kwv tij hais, yog tom qab hais tag tsis yuav koj tus txiv yeej tsis hlub koj tiag
Tsis paub qhia koj, lub neej yog koj lub - tab sis seb koj tus txiv tib koj li cas, los hais rau koj tias koj tsis zoo qhov twg nws nyiam kom koj ua li cas thiaj haum nws. Yog yus paub tias muaj ib qho yus ua tsis haum nws ces neb yuav tau sib tham seb neb yuav sib kho li cas. Kev xav xwb yog yus ntseeg yus tus kheej tias yus ua zoo txhua yam tab sis tus txiv yeej tsis yog ib tug txiv tab cuab ces yus txhob nyob ib lub neej lwj siab yus tau yus niam lawm siv yus txoj kev ntse rau yus lub neej txhob tos tus txiv zoo li koj tus txiv nws pab tsis tau koj.
Question1: txivneej yog hlub pojniam tiag2, nws tus pojniam nyob hauvtsev ua nothing los tus txiv yeej hlub lawm.
you’re not the problem. You do more than enough for you2.
1Q: Your husband never love you from the beginning. He’s probably with you because of your income and support. Love yourself and leave him. You deserve better.
Story 1 - Koj yog ib tug poj niam muaj peev xwm thiab ua tau yuav luag txhua yam rau koj tus txiv thiab nws tsev neeg, tab sis koj yog hom poj niam ua tas lawm los muab delete tas rov tom qab. Koj yuav tau qee qhov koj pheej muab erase ntawv txhob erase ntxiv lawm. Story 2 - Lawv qhuas koj ces ho khib koj tus best friend los twb vim yog koj khav theeb zog rau nws ces nws thiaj tau degrade koj xwb.
I agree my mom is in same situation like your mom cheater always cheated no matter what and doesn’t matter how good or how super woman you are it’s not easy but just leave it’s not you it’s his nature he was born like that
Q1: The sad reality is he does not truly love you. Behavioral changes only take place if he deeply wants you to be happy and he's indifferent to your happiness. Cheating is a choice of his. He will only know your worth when he can not use you anymore. Leaving is also a choice you have. Don't wait until another woman is pregnant with his child or he gets a 2nd wife. Love yourself!
I can't believe a smart woman like you would let him treat you that bad. It's your fault to let him treat you that bad. He's being like that because you allow him to. It's time to stand up and show him that if he can't change then change him (new husband). 1 tug neeg ntse ntsuav li koj es tseem yuav mus khuv xim tej tug txiv dev li ntawv ua dab tsi. Tus neeg zoo li ntawv tsis sawm zoo. Nws tsuas xav ua txiv dev xwb tsis xav ua neeg.
Response for the Niece, good for keeping your distance. I would just keep your distance and don’t go to events when they’re there. If you have to, stay far away not in sight from him. It won’t last long anyways so it shouldn’t be long.
Q#1: Viv Ncaus kuv taug koj txoj kev kiag lij nhub no.....kuv kuj nyob ib twg educationed person like you too. I make over 125 thousands a year but I can't leave my cheating husband. He's been cheating for the last 15 years. My problem is I'm afraid of the unknown. 😢😢
Q1: sister ib txhia txiv neej mas tseev koj yog niam tsev, niam tsev siab thiab zoo nkauj tabsis koj tsis yog niam dev rau nws.. muaj ib feem ntawm peb cov txiv neej hmoob mas yog cov nyiam ua hluas ces yog siab phem tsis xav tab cuab tsis xav hlub koj lawm vim nws lub hom phiaj thiab tus cwj pwm hloov xwb..zaum kiag nrog nws tham ask kiag koj cov questions koj need paub los ntawm audience no rau nws es seb nws teb li cas kiag ntag..
Q1. Get out of the marriage if you're unhappy. Dont be in denial he doesn't love you.
Q2. It's obvious she isn't your best friend. Don't be in denial.
Q1.cov niag txiv neej tsw sawm zoo.nyiam niam dev tsw xav tau niam tsev na koj tsw paub lov.koj ua kiag ib tug niam dev. txhua2 mo tsw pub dim caig koj niag txiv nyob taug2 lawm mas😅😅😅😅
Q2.koj niag phooj ywg kom koj khiav kom deb2 tsw tas ua viv ncaug mug lawg.nwg tsw txhawb koj yog koj lub neej zoo tshaj nwg2 yuav tshuav kom koj neej puag koj puag paub
Koj txhob saib koj tus kheej tsis muaj qis Cov txiv neej zoo li yog koj tsis ncaws pov tseg ces nws muaj2 plhus
Men do not like superwomen especially if you make more than them. Keep low profile is the best
#1 koj zoo txhua yam lawm. Seb kev ua niam txiv saum txaj koj muab puas tau txaus nws siab xwb. Tsis li ces nws yog ib niag txiv xyob txhiaj lawm xwb.
vim koj yuav tau txiv aub txiv dev es nws xav kom tau tsoob txhua tus pojniam lub cev hos tus pojniam twg zoo nkauj los nws xav kom nws tau plev, neeg txim txiaj ces ib tug xwb los nws yeej txaus siab hlo hlub lawm.
#1 Koj yog ib tug zoo niam tsev lawm tiam sis Koj puas yog ib tug zoo niam dev. Txiv neej ces vam kom yus yog ib tug niam dev rau lawv xwb na. Yog Koj ua tsis tau ib tug niam dev rau nws then give him and ultimatum, value yourself, don’t need to stay for a husband like that.
#2: stay away from friends like that. They have no respect for you . They will throw you under the bus when troubles comes
#2 Well maybe she is a straighout person. You maybe a serious person. If you don't like it change your friends or tell her you're hurt and dislike it. Sometimes people don't know until you tell them.
Tej zaum koj yog ib tug niam tsev zoo heev lawm tab sis koj tsuas txawj ua niam tsev xwb.
Tab sis ntshaw koj tsi txawj 72 thaj.
Peb txiv neej xuj nrog tus txawj 72 thaj nyob.
#1 research trauma bond. Hopefully you with this knowledge, you can understand yourself better.
#2 My advice is to confront her nicely. Ask her why she talks down about you every time some one compliments you. It could go either way, be prepared to either have a new enemy or an even closer friend.
Q1. Why would you disrespect yourself that much and allow him to do that to you? Move out and move on. Show him how much you love yourself. Stop wasting time. Pack and leave
Q1. Koj tus txiv hmoov tag lawm, tej zaum koj tus txiv mus ntsib cov poj laib txawj txuj ci lub yaim lub kiv haib dhau lawm pob
koj yeej zoo niam tsev lawm saib koj puas tau ua tau tus niam dev mas. Ntshe tshuav qhov ntawv saum txaj saum chaw koj ua tsis tau li nws siab os.
#1…… He is a womanizer, there’s no way he’ll change, it’s in his blood. you have to love yourself and do good for you.
Q#1 it’s because you do everything he doesn’t have any to do now you sed up job or work for him every day that today do this.Tomorrow you do that for family honey to has no idea or ways to go cheating you me ntxhais
Question #1: he knows you can’t leave so he will continue to treat you like that. Respect yourself enough to walk out, or kick him out. He made it very clear that he doesn’t love you. Even outsiders see that, but you are in denial.
Q#2: she’s a frenemy. Cut her loose and find new friends. I had friends like her too and I don’t talk to them anymore.
#2 Tus phooj ywg zoo li ko CES Tsis yog phooj ywg zoo tsis yog phooj ywg hlub NWS tsuas yog phooj ywg noj Thiab phooj ywg thuam Thiab phooj ywg Rhuav xwb xum tsis ua phooj ywg nrog li THIAJ Tsis nkim sij hawm OS 😅
#2 koj tus phooj ywg nws yog phooj ywg noj thiab phooj ywg nrhuav koj xwb muab lawv mus tau lawm mas
Q2. Txav deb2 ntawm nws xwb zoo dua
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love story 2. lolololol
#1: your biggest mistake is staying with a cheater. Move on, you’re late.
Ntshe koj tus txiv no nws tsis ntshaw ib tug zoo niam tsev os nws ntshaw ib tug niam dev xwb. Yog npaum ko ces tso plhuav nws mus tsis txhob yuav lawm os tus mi niam tsev aw muaj peevxwm npaum ko es cas yuav nrog ib tug neeg nyob es saib tsis tau yus tsis hwm yus li nas. Tus txiv li ko yog koj muab tso ces kawg ua txiv dev liam lawm xwb os
Last secret about auntie's husband txiv mos ab. You should distance yourself from your auntie and her txiv mos ab. Don't tell your auntie because she's delulu. She will only think you are after her txiv mos ab.
#1. It's not about how good you are but how valuable you are. You have zero worth if you let him walks all over you. You have zero worth if you have no boundary and NO deal breaker. He does what he does because you continuously enable him to. He knows you will never leave him, so he continues to do it. Txhob ntshaw 2 txiv thiab lau. You are doing this to yourself. Stop being his doormat, so he will treat you better. It's all about how you value yourself.
Q2, you need to leave your "friend" behind. She's already sabotaging you. Big betrayal is coming to the surface soon. She may already be sleeping with your husband. The jealousy is because she's already competing with you. Guard your back and silently distance yourself, then cut all contact. I've been there with a jealous friend and she eventually betrayed me big time. Don't wait until that day like me. She's your no. 1 enemy, not your friend. You know the phrase about keeping your enemy closer? Yip. She's keeping you close until she's ready to take the fatal bite. Good luck.
Koj yog ib tug Niam tsev ua plab zais zais los. Koj tsis tau txawj npau qau ne. Koj ua tau Niam tsev tab sis Koj tseem ua tsis tau tu Niam dev. Koj tus txiv nyiam tus Niam dev thiab ho. Txiv neej xav tau tus niam dev thaib nyob hauv txaj. Yog Koj muab nws do ko nws zog tag nrho ces kawg nws hlub Koj xwb ma.
Txiv mos b es Puas muaj plaub qau ma.
First story: leave, he just don't love you. Come marry me
Q1: sorry this may hurt your feeling but the problem is YOU!! He walk all over you because you let him. He knows you will never leave him that’s why he always cheated on you.
Q2: She’s not a good friend. If you don’t like the way she treated you, you need to let he know.
Question#1. Qhov koj ua tau txhua yam es koj tus txiv tseem pheej mus deev, mus tham lwm tus es tsis nav thwm koj los vim koj tsis hlub thiab tsis nav thwm koj tus kheej ne. Tus neeg coj li koj tus txiv dev ntawm ko mas koj yuav tau qhia cai rau nws kom nws paub koj tseeb me ntsis. Yog ho qhia tsis tau cai rau nws ces muab nws tshem tawm hauv koj lub neej mus vim you deserve better than that. Txhob yug los nkim tiam os lady.
Tsi Yog koj tsi txhawj los Yog ua tsi tau zoo. Nws tsi hlub koj xwb. Cia koj txoj kev zoo los hlub tu kheej. Move on and enjoy your own money with someone else new.
No you are a good wife but you just married a wrong guy. It's time for you to do what he did.
Q1. We don't know what it's like to be in your marriage. We don't know you well. So many of our advices may not be right.
You probably know why he's cheating because you know him best. And you just got to take it as a fact that you both are not the same person anymore.
You just got to let the txiv dev go so that you can grow more for yourself. Maybe there's part of you that no longer is attractive to him either. 🤷🏻♀️
1st question..are you rich and have a hot body? If so leave him and come to me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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