I just got finished reading Ciara's prayer. It's ironic how women want unconditional love from men yet a women's love comes with a variety of requirements and conditions.
Ciara has been ran thru by dudes in the industry like bow wow 50 cent future ect ect now her career slowed down she married Russell Wilson who has been her friend for years before it was Mr and Mrs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@torachan23 my mom used to tell me this all the time as well! But if you know you have a good woman, there’s no need for this man! You can actually cause problems in the marriage by suggesting this
Kevin's three basic tenets for women (as I've come to understand): 1- Don't have kids before you get married, 2- Don't look down on (or pass) average, blue collar men (high value doesn't necessarily mean high earning), 3- If you have issues, seek professional therapy. And I'll add a couple of my own: 4- Be aware (and realistic) that you have competition out there. 5- It's okay to be wrong sometimes...it really, really is.
For point #2. I believe you meant to say high earning doesn't mean high value. (You said the opposite). If you listen to Kevin's content, you'll hear him repeatedly state that in order to be considered high value, the earning component must be part of it (typically $10,000 USD/month). I would even go on to challenge (personally) the point re. therapy. When we see so many people go to couples therapy, where the "Duluth Model" is applied (woman always considered to be victim), coupled with radical feminism and Marxist ideologies overtaking the humanities (psychology) programs. That therapy in this day could be counter productive. As Jordan Peterson once stated, "...the only right wing psychologists are in this room, sitting in this chair..." (referring to himself).
@ChowChow ; usually, the women who called Kevin equated high value with high earning. And a lot of them were talking mid 6 figures and above. As for therapy, of course, it isn't always 100% successful, but it's probably helped more than it's hindered. It's like a discussion I had several months ago with a few friends, where I surmised that people with higher education stand a greater chance of success in life. I received pushback about it, with some of them saying they knew highly successful people who never attended college. As with therapy, there are always exceptions, but the truth is they agree with my viewpoint, especially when I pointed out how they stay on their kids about making good grades.
High value STARTS with high earning men. A man that takes care of family and is a good person is considered high value to the individual not the group.
I’m a married woman and I’ll tell you, Mr. Samuels is not playing. He is telling us the truth. I used to be delusional like these women but I took a break from dating and sat myself on time out to figure out what I was doing wrong. How to self-improve, how to level up on my skills as a potential mate, and do the real work to look at myself honestly. I’ll tell you - when I was good and ready to get dating again, I met two kind men in a row who proposed to me. My husband and I are living happily and truthfully in what marriage is. And no he is not my partner.
Yep, even as a young man I had to look where I was being delusional at before seeking out a wife. Its a process we as humans need to go through, however as KS shared men are forced to go through this realization at some point. While many women never do, so congrats to you for being able to self-reflect and realize where you had to work on as a woman verses using the leverage you has a woman to be victim in all situations.
Black women don't need therapy, because every one of the mistakes they're willing to acknowledge is due to them being young. I have a feeling that being young means anything that happened in the past.
It's the same with current videos where TikTok videos are sampled and a commentary is given from a male perspective ... The sampled TikToks always have the w∆man rambling for three minutes about random, irrelevant stuff and being vague about the actual issue she said she would elaborate about...the whole time while applying her make up or fidgeting with her hair...
ONE DAY, Kevin will be awarded a Presidential Medal of Freedom for the transformation, and impact on Blk America. Hated by some now in 2022, but applauded 15 years from now!
His content, quality of information and his depth, knowledge and insight aswell as his high quality communication skills make him highly valuable not just to the black community but to relationship dynamics in general
@@coolassclay Agreed. She hasn’t figured out how to appeal to her (desired) target market. It’s like a car dealership talking about I want...because…we deserve. Without answering the buyer’s question of what’s in it for me that dealership is going stay overstocked.
Good, sound minded, mature women know what they want, why they want it and why they deserve it. These statements are about nothing more than a person's attempt to become self aware. Without self-awareness, you will never make anyone a good spouse. That stands for men as well as women.
False., he just has a public platform., but men has been doing it., its ridiculous to say he is the only one., I've been saying this for a decade. I'm not on TH-cam doing it though.
I can't see how they don't see or understand that bc it's so obvious if your listening to the complete msg 🤷🏾♀️ And really just touched my heart bc his safety could be at jeopardy basically being a black man underground leader ijs 💭. Lol at the Christian that showed her body pic 🤣 some ppl lol can't make this up
I think dads know when their daughters will be married. My daddy kept saying, “you gotta learn to do this. You’re going to be a wife. You have to do that. You’re going to be a wife.” He never raised me to be independent.
Speaking as an imperfect black man with no kids good job and is prioritising life and marriage who has tried like hell to seriously date a black women with two kids from two different baby fathers I know from first hand experience that attaching yourself to someone who doesn’t accept the reality of their situation and the impact that would have on a man with no attachments will send you to an early grave when they are driven by hurt and emotions. Having invested time money and resources into her and her kids she walked away “so she could find the best person for her”. I didn’t have a father figure and I can’t stress enough how grateful I am for Kevin and his content. 😌
Same thing happened to me bruh! Only thing was I left because I followed my gut. Long after the dude she be fucking with called me and told what was going on, trying to blow up me and her relationship because he's now having problems with her, not knowing that I already checked out months prior.
Honestly some people just don't want to succeed in life and it's like a pattern of self sabotage. 🙃. If they can't accept the responsibility and the reality of their own situation at some point it becomes enabling of destructive behaviour. Congratulations on doing well it's not easy when you don't have a father or a stable family you don't have an example to follow
Me and my wife have been married for 20 yrs and we just had our first grand child a beautiful girl family mean’s the world to me. We need more family in our Community point blank
I’m Haitian. In Haiti, women are covered by a man. else they are in physical danger. Basic electricity is not available 24hrs. Soon as they take that 3hr flight, they become “independent”, and “modern”.
@@cpauguste 100% bro - They get sucked in by a false ideology of modernism/feminism in this country, and have destroyed their own opportunities to build wealth in the process. They have become the government within our household - smthing they wldnt dare being back home. Fen’m lakay sa yo divòcé avec grangou, protection. Really, they don’t hate men, they hate themselves, and nature.
The mexicans value their neighborhoods and have this self pride about themselves that black folks dont have thats why a mexican can come here dirt poor and within 20 years them and their family are THRIVING in america
@@juswavvy9634 Ahhh that's bullshit. I've seen alot of slummy hispanic neighborhoods full of drunk, wife beating, men. Black people are always talked down to this way, which is one of the reasons for all this self-hate we have. Seeing the way some of those people live I say it's less about self pride and "decent neighborhoods" and more about them simply staying on code. Whether it be fear of deportation, or some sort of cultural rules, they don't involve "Gub-ment Zaddy" in their domestic affairs, while we're quick to do it and will break up our homes in the process. But the old "Hard working Mexicans have more self respect and decency than black people" narrative is dated and not true.
@thatescalated quickly 👏👏👏 Well... that escalated quickly! 😆😂 Yeah, my family busted their ass and came here legally. And the ones that do come here illegally work hard and contribute to the community. They don't blame society for any short comings.
@@Polostar79 “Mexicans doing jobs today that black folk did 50 years ago” The jobs shouldn’t be available for them to take. The black community doesn’t believe in skill & trade anymore. Imagine if young boys were encouraged to be carpenters, or electricians upon graduation? Just my thoughts….☀️
Last caller is dangerous. When a women does wrong and wrecks her marriage , she blames the man. They crazy enough to paint a narrative of abuse and domestic violence to make themselves look like a saint.
Super scary!! If it was an "accident"! Why are you separated. Some moms have a weird thought that if they are there, nothing happens to the child. Stupid!!
She just created a son husband choosing a 2 yr old over an adult. Imagine putting that level of responsibility on the word of a two-year-old because when that child's grown she will turn around and blame the two-year-old the saying miss truths rather than her be responsible as a parent
Yeah this one was actually terrifying this man did nothing but she acts like she's the wife and owes her a better explanation than the one he gave... so far a simple mistake and it could've been an innocent accident now he hast to be punished not only by losing his wife but his kids as well?
@Tru 100% agree! Disney is the covert MK Ultra mind control at the toddler stage of children s existence. The Disney TV is a serious mind f*ck! They know exactly what they are televising to the children.
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Ciaras pray is hers. Most women have no business praying her prayer 🤲🏾. Most women should probably pray for the strength and discipline to loose weight, fix their attitude and learn to submit/cooperate with a man. Basically average women shouldn’t be praying for a Russell Wilson when they look like their name is Russell or Wilson 🤷🏿. Good luck sisters. Love y’all
I like how he left the one woman on the chat and she gained realization thru the process of perception of the others. Please remember this is not meant to break down, it is meant to realign
This prayer is asking to be rescued from bad choices. These women never consider what a man wants or needs, just them. Not to mention they always forget Ciara had to prove herself and go celibate to get that ring.
@@dezifabulous7592 the point being is that after living the life she wanted (no accountability for her actions or to anyone) once she realized she was getting up there in age and she couldn't continue the way she was going, all of a sudden she wants guidance from God. But not even that, she just wants God to give her what she wants. Nuh ugh ugh it don't work like that 😂
Don't you know that's because every woman is an utter goddess who every man should be grateful to receive? On a real note women have literally never been worse to be around or worse for society.
Yeah. What is she offering him? How hard would it have been to include a line or two like "I would give him my heart, body, mind, and soul freely without question or hesitation." And/or "I look forward to the day when I will publicly vow to be his to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, and for richer or poorer until death do us part. Divorce is not an acceptable option for me as I have vowed to stay until death. I want to make that vow to him in front of my community, friends, family, and God. Should any of them notice that I am failing to live up to that vow in any way, I want them to hold me accountable to it and correct me so that I will improve." You know, something like that would have been nice...
This was a really good show. Salute to KS. Great dialogue with each of the Women. I love these IG Streams they are the best (100% of the women on camera with audio). The TH-cam Streams used to be the best but's now it's unpredictable (we gladly pay to be members, but the women are often hidden, and without audio). Maybe the TH-cam Streams will improve.
As a man approaching 60 when Kevin said " when your 65 who's gonna take care of you" Then the young going girl smuggly said why can't they take care of themself. Getting older has let me see how someone like my ageing mother who's always been very independent can no longer take care of herself. She can no longer take out the garbage, clean her animals litter boxes or even bend over to put on her socks. After her my father passed away if she didn't have her children she'd be in big trouble.
I can't express how much kevin spoke for me today. In each conversation it almost bought tears to my eyes. Telling the mother at the end who keeps saying my Son, connecting it to black women thinking they have ownership over black men in general. Just absolutely phenomenal. Therapeutic.
KS will never go hungry again! Women are in a long line waiting to look foolish in public. These ladies are as good as cash in the bank. I wish I had this hustle first.
Passing on the lineage means having marriage, family, and children, as well as passing on tradition and generational wealth. I see why Kevin goes hard.
If you’re looking for unconditional love, look to God and also love yourself. You cannot expect perfection from another human being and expect them to fill voids that only God can. Your relationship goals should be to build a life together and add to each other’s happiness that you already had prior to the relationship. There’s nothing wrong with praying for God to send a great husband/wife for you, but make sure you also pray that you are ready for it and ready to appreciate and understand all that comes with it, good, bad and in between.
When someone makes the argument that something has to apply to everyone in the world for it to be a common problem, you know they’d argue for hours on end in circles just to justify what it is about the problematic topic that applies to them. They know it’s holding them back but they have to justify it anyways because their entire self esteem relies on it.
I can relate to what Kevin is saying about the family. I’ve always wanted to have my own family (husband and kids) but it just hasn’t happened yet. Last year it really hit me that I don’t have a family. Yes I have a mom and dad and siblings but now that we’re adults- they are not my family. My mom has her kids and grandkids, my sisters have their kids and their own life that’s built around their kids, my cousins have their husbands and their kids. They can’t just make decisions because they have families and move as a unit, they can’t just go out without permission, we can’t just have girls day because people have their own lives. During the holidays, although we all came together, they were sitting next to their kids and significant others- waking up next to them or spending time that I couldn’t intrude on. When they make decisions, they make decisions on what will be best for THEIR family, not me because they are their own unit, I’m just an extra wheel. I got sick and it hit me that I still had to list my mother, sisters and cousins as my emergency contact. As much as they cared for me- no one was there to give me a massage, make soup, and be by my bedside. What would have happened to me at 70 years old with no family of my own. It’s not just about someone caring for me but I pour so much into others and extended family that I want to do that for my own family. I’ve always been very super pro family and wanted kids and a husband for as long as I can remember. I look forward to the day I can be a wife to my husband, raise our children and build our family legacy and lineage together. Not because of loneliness but because I want my own family and it doesn’t matter how many birthdays I attend, how many baby showers, how many godchildren I have, they are not my family. I have my own prayer and I am getting ready to be a wife and a mother to my children someday, to give them all of this love ❤️
This is true, been there and now happily married expecting our first baby in June. It’s good that your thinking is positive and intentional, what your mind attracts, the universe will provide, my prayers became more purposely, specific and focused when I’ve understood that live is meaningless when it’s not shared. Your mom, dad, brother and sister is a part of your family that your parents built, not through you. Kevin is right, and he knows it.
I get what you’re saying. But you think if you get seriously sick a husband would be there to take care of you? Or you think you’re kids would? Husband no, kids maybe if you have a girl.
@@lovingsamantha9443 I’d advise you to have some open and honest conversations with your married women relatives. A serious relationship or marriage can be the loneliness for women. A man isn’t going to be up under you like that. He will continue to live his life and it just becomes more work for you.
She says he's not in jail now but being investigated? But he get visitation rights? What's the truth? I truly wish women in general wouldn't try so hard to win. Notice how the plot thickened when KS started dissected her bullshit.
My kid got out the house while we were out. My oldest teen son wasn’t payin attention to her and my 2 year old got out with the dog. Neighbors found her police came and we courts never got involved. CPS had a little investigation just to make sure we added child locks and stuff and that was it. That lady is full of shit for an accident.
Remember this Black men.... THESE are the women who look down on YOU 🤯🤯 The Average middle income brother. THESE WOMEN think you are beneath them🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
So very thankful for Kevin. He has opened my mind up to much more perspective on how women Modern Women act I needed clarity and confirmation he’s giving very informative information on women. Certain thoughts I’ve always wondered and things I’ve needed confirmation on. This man in a genius I look at him like a mentor. keep doing the awesome work Kevin! the Men! Are behind you. Salute to you brother! ✊🏾 thanks for giving the men a voice!
The woman at 1:08:00 mirrors exactly what happened in my first marriage. My son's mom said I was beating our son (no proof, no police report). We went to court, I had proof of her neglect of him. She would leave him by himself while she smoked (she admitted to it). Got drunk around him with strangers in the house etc. I show the judge the pictures, texts, emails (as I was deployed) and she still got custody. Court order was she couldn't move further than an hour away from me so I could visit. She claimed she was afraid for our son's safety and left the state against court order. I went back to court to have her be held to the court appointed agreement and the judge said I was being vindictive and to not return to court. Fast forward to 11 years later, my son wants nothing to do with me as his mom didn't allow me to have communication (not for a lack of trying) with him but within the last 2 years any time there's an opportunity of me coming into finances I get a call. She expects me to only be there financially not physically.
@@shellsopinion5837 Men don't have the luxury of time! Time is not promised to anyone and the key word in my Brotha's testimony was that he was deployed which definitely means he's in the military. I'm a veteran and experienced the same BS.. time is not kind to a good Dad whose kids are fed lies that are reinforced by their mother's feelings..
This man has the patience of a God. How he sits and dialogues with some of the most frustrating and insufferable women is incredible. I don't know how he does it. Maybe it's his silver fox years but I just could never. Lord.
Been watching quite a few of his videos and I am also highly impressed with his level of patience!! I don't know how many times I would have lost it on these women! WTF. He is speaking plain ass English and they STILL dont't listen.
Sometimes I can't even finish listening. I'll switch to music or something and finish listening later. The 2nd hand embarrassing cringe gets too much for me to handle.
The girl in the blue Hoodie was the "manifestation" of "not me". Constant deflections, "oh so you mean in general", "oh so you're talking about women who don't make money", so on and so forth. I mean, she started to fall in line and actually listen eventually, but Stay away from rebels gentlemen.
@@roleah7576 see but that's the problem with rebels though, you're notorious for "taking perspectives into consideration", but rarely actually changing yourself. Men want peace and cooperation, we don't want to come home to be challenged and debated with. When we tell our women something we want them to actually listen not just take what we said "into consideration", sit on it for a week or a month, and then possibly maybe finally do what we asked in the first place. Easy example is Ms.Wong in the last 1 on 1 talk with Kevin. The entire time she was "listening and taking into consideration", she was "nice" she was respectful, she wasn't rude in any way, but at the end of the day she still chose to keep her previous beliefs. In one ear and out the other. It's like talking to a wall. A nice wall sure, but a wall nonetheless.
She was so annoying. She LOVED dropping “oh you’re talking about women who “don’t” make money” or subtly mentioning she’s a homeowner. Showing off her home office. These women loves sharing shit nobody cares about to make themselves feel good
The government will believe it anyways because they know women tell the biggest lie to hurt a man to get benefits of controlling the kid’s thoughts & actions 😬😬
I don't always agree 💯 percent with Kevin's Narrative, However This topic right here he was 💯💯💯 percent On point!!!👍🏾 Great Job on getting this topic out in front for discussion👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
God make me worthy of a husband 👋👋👋I could shout. Kevin a prophet and a priest on the low. Lol. That will be my prayer. He is so right. stop giving men babies without marriage and we wouldn't have to pray that prayer. Preaaaaaach.
If you have to keep saying "but" everytime after you say "I understand" then you really don't understand. Getting divorced because the kid got hurt is psycho level extreme. Children get hurt literally all the time every day in relationships. Kids on a regular basis jump off of things that are too high, they run into walls, they drop things on themselves, they run too fast sometimes straight into a wall. This is stupid. She's literally just saying "I'm mom, my kid got hurt, I don't know what happened, but I'm going to completely blame my husband and go to psycho levels of vindictive by divorcing my husband just to spite him even though he's not a threat to my children in reality and it all may have been a mistake, but who cares, I'm mom".
Just an incredibly good show. Learned some things, these modern women think their jobs and money can replace the practical value of a man. You don't only need a lot of money to survive when you're 65+ you also need someone to be with you in case you collapse, have a heart attack or are simply choking. Marriage is a practical choice.
The Ciara prayer is extremely juvenile and shallow. To me it's about as logical as the *"Dear Diary, let me tell you about my day..."* lol! Just make believe.
What got me the most out of Ciara’s prayer was 1. referring to wants AND needs in the blanket of “everything” in a husband. I enjoy that my husband doesn’t give me everything I want.. in turn it requires consistent growth on my part, and in my walk with God; also, he’s worried about sustaining our worldly NEEDS, along with his own relationship with God.. So that’s all I’m grateful for!! That’s what makes me happy. My wants aren’t even really my concern.. we have two kids, my wants are out the window. I’m happy cause our needs are met physically. I have room to teach our children life skills, to fill their intrinsic needs! That’s literally enough for me to praise, and serve him in private + public, as I do Jesus in my closet.. which is commanded of me. Not recommended if he act “right”, commanded. Point blank. *Submit myself unto my husband as I do unto the lord* Which goes into my next red flag in this “prayer” 2. I don’t put my kids above my husband.. he eats first unless he’s busy and waits to eat. And before people ROAST me; this is not a situation where children are in danger! it’s cause when I’m elderly my kids will be off in their own relationships, building their own lives. They need to see me respecting my husband! SERVING him, and to see him loving me.. it also gives them a view of “hierarchy” and allows kids to know their place, a child. Not a “lil momma” or a “man of the house”.. it teaches them to respect people, too. It does many many things. I get trash talked a lot by family members, other women.. I don’t need it. Cause I see those dynamics play out in real time; and it really screws kids up. I’m happy to focus on the inter works of the children and the household. Some view it as a prison. I’m unsure why. Cause it’s peaceful! It’s better than having to hunt AND gather.. I mean come on.
Ciara getting married to Russell Wilson after she was Futures 8th baby Momma was the worst thing that could have happened for Black Men. Now woman have a perfect example to use to say it’s possible and there is no convincing them otherwise.🤦🏾♂️
Between 2002-2019 about 10 million black kids were born. 78% out of wedlock. 32% had kids by multiple BM out of that 32%, 20% 4 kids and 16% 5+ kids and 42% of the 32% never cohabited or committed to the women in question. And 60% of these 32% have been incarcerated. 3-5% of black men (superspreaders) fathered over 3 million kids So when people say men ain’t sh*t, it is the men that these degenerate women pick. A small percentage of black men.
@@LorelleG1 he dont know any better. But any woman who lays with a man who openly paints his self as a womanizer is trash. We see them on social media all the time complaining that men aren’t doing their part even though there was 7 examples of women before who she could of studied the outcome. But you know emotions and feelings rule at the end of the day with them.
All men have to do is point out that Russell Wilson is worth more than $250 million dollars! That's one quarter of a billion. If that's what women want, good luck. Less than 1% of Americans have that kind of money. But keep trying.
Whoa. Kevin is right. We don’t listen and struggle to follow conversation, or accept accountability; which is why we try to redirect conversations in circular and abstract ways. And when you get more than one of us together, it’s a mess. The second caller feels like a bad joke. 😢
the delusion of the baby momma who thinks she is going to be a judge when she doesnt even know what it takes to get there is incredible, self-awareness is dead.
My Mom was a traditional wife to my Dad. She taught me how to be a wife but she also taught me to be independent and not depend on a man. She thought she was doing something wrong because she started listening to Oprah. Lol. However my Dad was my best friend and he taught me the real roles of men and women. He is deceased now but I thank God everyday for him. And for my Mom too. It's just she had a Disney fantasy of the world that just doesn't exist.
@@valeelghaouth6904 My Dad taught me to listen and be lead by a man. That it was my duty to be his support emotionally and financially. He never mention love. He advised me to get with a man with a good work ethic and build with him. His favorite thing to say to me was that a man wants a woman that is soft. Because at the end of the day a man's home and wife should be his peace. Every real man is the King of his castle and he takes care of his wife and children. My Dad did not let my Mom pay any household bills once she started working for herself when my siblings and I got in middle school. My Mom was happy in her marriage but felt like she missed out on some things being a wife and mother. I tried to be the career woman, wife, and mother. However something went lacking; my health. I began to have all kinds of issues and all the doctors would say was I was doing too much and I had to make some changes. I chose my family over my career and I do not regret it.
@@missmargmillionaire6421 It make sense to the persons it's suppose to make sense to luv. Ciara's prayer didn't make sense to me, but to some it did. Everything isn't for everybody.
That last woman... This is why us men have to be careful.... I hurt myself as a kid so many fing times... I literally jumped off a 2 story balcony on to pillows. If I was hurt, and my dad was watching me, this spiteful woman would ruin my life. Kids who grow up without dads are targets....
We was jumping off 2 story buildings in Chicago. I thought only me and my friends were that stupid. Ninja movies had us jumping with sticks in the back of our shirts 😂😂😂🤺
"Feminism has done what slavery couldn't do; and that is destroy the black family": thank you, KS for speaking truth to our community. May the Most High Yah continue to bless and keep you.
One of his shows he talked on how modern women are now masculine and mixing that with our emotional nature has created chaos for us. We are forever on edge bc we can’t operate with those two imbalanced traits, goes against our nature. We’re forever ready to snap. It was so dead on.
Hmm Mr Samuel I have been addicted to your content for about just over a year now married over 23 years now and I just want to say thank you Sir for your contributions to the black community 👍 God bless you Sir and the womb that brought you into this world there's so much knowledge in your content I wish I had this knowledge 20 years ago that I have now the black community must see it as very urgent to pray 🙏 for that almighty God will keep you cause I know even the very demons in high place are mad at you but I think God got cover keep up the excellent work Sir love and respect 💯
It's just odd how dishonest women really think reality will bend to their will.. They have no concept of natural law...Madness. Egos and self deception is possibly the greatest sin
For the women who are still confused, here's the problem men have with Ciara's Prayer: What is she offering him? How hard would it have been to include a line or two like "I would give him my heart, body, mind, and soul freely without question or hesitation." And/or "I look forward to the day when I will publicly vow to be his to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, and for richer or poorer until death do us part. Divorce is not an acceptable option for me as I have vowed to stay until death. I want to make that vow to him in front of my community, friends, family, and God. Should any of them notice that I am failing to live up to that vow in any way, I want them to hold me accountable to it and correct me so that I can apologize to him for my failing and improve." You know, something like that would have been nice...
The woman with the kids at the end is full of it. She said they've been separated for a year, which means the 2-year old was a year old at the time of the incident. Sounds like the kid hurt himself and this woman believes her husband hurt the kid. The court isn't going to take a year to lock you up over abusing a child. The child got hurt by accident and she blamed the husband. She's a damn lie. How can the court say he can't be around the kids and the court didn't issue an order for supervised visitation AND he still gets to see his kids. Girl bye. She wants to leave, let her.
I'll say it once and I'll say it again, being a stepdad or a stepmother is a FRUITLESS endeavour and you are a FOOL to willingly do such a thing. You'll never get the same respect, you'll never be the first priority, and you'll never be truly content.
I wish everyone would stop saying "cheating" and call it what it really is...ADULTERY! That is the deal breaker to breakoff the marriage. "Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultery" is a sin against the Lord Yahweh! Stop minimizing adultery to cheating! Marriage is not a game. It is a holy union. "What Yah has put together, let no man put asunder."
@@TheAdamSmasherMultiverse Keep watching. The woman stepped back and you could see she had ginormous ti**ies, I think she was shooting her shot at Mr Samuels
I just got finished reading Ciara's prayer. It's ironic how women want unconditional love from men yet a women's love comes with a variety of requirements and conditions.
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@@daughterofYAHWEH what was?
Ciara has been ran thru by dudes in the industry like bow wow 50 cent future ect ect now her career slowed down she married Russell Wilson who has been her friend for years before it was Mr and Mrs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Gotta reverse 🔄 the game on them
Kevin Has changed my life and mindset. I carry myself so much better as a Man and I'm getting married July! Thanks Kevin!
Make sure you protect yourself legally and get DNA tested on every kid you have
Bless you. Bro. Congrats to you
@@torachan23 my mom used to tell me this all the time as well! But if you know you have a good woman, there’s no need for this man! You can actually cause problems in the marriage by suggesting this
Congrats!
@@reese85 if those things cause problems, she is not a good woman.
Kevin's three basic tenets for women (as I've come to understand): 1- Don't have kids before you get married, 2- Don't look down on (or pass) average, blue collar men (high value doesn't necessarily mean high earning), 3- If you have issues, seek professional therapy. And I'll add a couple of my own: 4- Be aware (and realistic) that you have competition out there. 5- It's okay to be wrong sometimes...it really, really is.
Facts!!
For point #2. I believe you meant to say high earning doesn't mean high value. (You said the opposite). If you listen to Kevin's content, you'll hear him repeatedly state that in order to be considered high value, the earning component must be part of it (typically $10,000 USD/month).
I would even go on to challenge (personally) the point re. therapy. When we see so many people go to couples therapy, where the "Duluth Model" is applied (woman always considered to be victim), coupled with radical feminism and Marxist ideologies overtaking the humanities (psychology) programs. That therapy in this day could be counter productive.
As Jordan Peterson once stated, "...the only right wing psychologists are in this room, sitting in this chair..." (referring to himself).
@ChowChow ; usually, the women who called Kevin equated high value with high earning. And a lot of them were talking mid 6 figures and above. As for therapy, of course, it isn't always 100% successful, but it's probably helped more than it's hindered. It's like a discussion I had several months ago with a few friends, where I surmised that people with higher education stand a greater chance of success in life. I received pushback about it, with some of them saying they knew highly successful people who never attended college. As with therapy, there are always exceptions, but the truth is they agree with my viewpoint, especially when I pointed out how they stay on their kids about making good grades.
High value STARTS with high earning men. A man that takes care of family and is a good person is considered high value to the individual not the group.
@@chowchow2386doubted you at first but I believe you are correct
Kevin - “Tonight’s topic is about the alphabet.”
Every caller - “Hi! I don’t like the number 7.”
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And they say men are the dumb ones. Hmmmm… lol.
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I love this analogy!
I’m a married woman and I’ll tell you, Mr. Samuels is not playing. He is telling us the truth. I used to be delusional like these women but I took a break from dating and sat myself on time out to figure out what I was doing wrong. How to self-improve, how to level up on my skills as a potential mate, and do the real work to look at myself honestly. I’ll tell you - when I was good and ready to get dating again, I met two kind men in a row who proposed to me. My husband and I are living happily and truthfully in what marriage is. And no he is not my partner.
We need more married women like yourself to tell the women who has been fed the feminist movement lies....you and husband and family are truly blessed
God bless. Hope your marriage is prosperous forevermore
you took responsibility
This is really true, agree with you.
Yep, even as a young man I had to look where I was being delusional at before seeking out a wife. Its a process we as humans need to go through, however as KS shared men are forced to go through this realization at some point. While many women never do, so congrats to you for being able to self-reflect and realize where you had to work on as a woman verses using the leverage you has a woman to be victim in all situations.
It never ceases to amaze me how these ladies have a whole ass story for a single yes or no question
Black women don't need therapy, because every one of the mistakes they're willing to acknowledge is due to them being young.
I have a feeling that being young means anything that happened in the past.
It's like they can't help themselves and it's their biggest problem! Least answer the question then ramble on!
Shit is mad annoying 😒
ask yes or no question
gets wall of noise response
interrupts wall..."is it yes ...or....no?"
well it's yes and no and let me tell you why ...
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It's the same with current videos where TikTok videos are sampled and a commentary is given from a male perspective ... The sampled TikToks always have the w∆man rambling for three minutes about random, irrelevant stuff and being vague about the actual issue she said she would elaborate about...the whole time while applying her make up or fidgeting with her hair...
ONE DAY, Kevin will be awarded a Presidential Medal of Freedom for the transformation, and impact on Blk America. Hated by some now in 2022, but applauded 15 years from now!
Agreed....but he needs/deserve his roses now...
Let’s hope it doesn’t take that long. 😉
Lol 😃😃😃😃😃 really? OK 😃😃😃😃
Right
His content, quality of information and his depth, knowledge and insight aswell as his high quality communication skills make him highly valuable not just to the black community but to relationship dynamics in general
3 Part Prayer:
What I want…
Why I want it…
Why I deserve it…
All about ‘I’
That "prayer" wouldn't fly with an alpha male. An alpha male would easily rebuke that prayer and move on to a more submissive woman.
@@coolassclay Agreed. She hasn’t figured out how to appeal to her (desired) target market. It’s like a car dealership talking about I want...because…we deserve. Without answering the buyer’s question of what’s in it for me that dealership is going stay overstocked.
Good, sound minded, mature women know what they want, why they want it and why they deserve it. These statements are about nothing more than a person's attempt to become self aware. Without self-awareness, you will never make anyone a good spouse. That stands for men as well as women.
Bro u hit that nail on its Head 💯🤙🏾 ON GOD
🎯🎯🎯🎯!!!!
He defended men with so much passion, gave men so many tools to stand their ground. You'll be missed Mr. Samuels
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He defended men BUT was just as harsh with men... He always told men to work at least 60hrs a week and then improving themselves
Kevin is doing things that no one else has done. No one has stood up to BLK women or stood up for BLK men the way Kevin has.
Never he is only one!!
Exactly! KS gives me so much hope. 🙏
Facts. 💯
False., he just has a public platform., but men has been doing it., its ridiculous to say he is the only one.,
I've been saying this for a decade. I'm not on TH-cam doing it though.
Pastor Stephan Darby did it first!
KS really cares about keeping the black family together. His passion shows.
Absolutely
I agree as well❤️
@Cedrick Carson black women have a harsh reality coming very soon. It's going to crush many.
I can't see how they don't see or understand that bc it's so obvious if your listening to the complete msg 🤷🏾♀️ And really just touched my heart bc his safety could be at jeopardy basically being a black man underground leader ijs 💭. Lol at the Christian that showed her body pic 🤣 some ppl lol can't make this up
I agree!! I told my husband that I don't understand why he's getting so much hate.
I think dads know when their daughters will be married. My daddy kept saying, “you gotta learn to do this. You’re going to be a wife. You have to do that. You’re going to be a wife.” He never raised me to be independent.
“First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.” Kevin is marching to victory.
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Don’t you have someone to kill? Edgar Friendly lol
A lot of ppl won’t get this
How about instead of praying the "Ciara prayer" you pray for wisdom and discernment on choosing the right man to have a kid with and build a family.
Periodt‼️
You would think that would be the logical place to start, especially for such an important set of decisions.
Naaa that would actually require work and originality so they’d pass it up.
@@diegomagellan that's also true
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Feminism and textbooks did what slavery and Jim Crow couldn't do. Break up the black family. Priceless. Preach Kevin.
Speaking as an imperfect black man with no kids good job and is prioritising life and marriage who has tried like hell to seriously date a black women with two kids from two different baby fathers I know from first hand experience that attaching yourself to someone who doesn’t accept the reality of their situation and the impact that would have on a man with no attachments will send you to an early grave when they are driven by hurt and emotions. Having invested time money and resources into her and her kids she walked away “so she could find the best person for her”.
I didn’t have a father figure and I can’t stress enough how grateful I am for Kevin and his content. 😌
Same thing happened to me bruh! Only thing was I left because I followed my gut. Long after the dude she be fucking with called me and told what was going on, trying to blow up me and her relationship because he's now having problems with her, not knowing that I already checked out months prior.
Honestly some people just don't want to succeed in life and it's like a pattern of self sabotage.
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If they can't accept the responsibility and the reality of their own situation at some point it becomes enabling of destructive behaviour.
Congratulations on doing well it's not easy when you don't have a father or a stable family you don't have an example to follow
God bless you, you will find a woman who is deserving of you
2 kids 2 different baby pappy's, that's where you messed up at right there brother. But shit we live and learn. Bet you won't do that again lol
So has she tried to come back?
This was probably the best show ever. He got to hit all the major types of modern women in one shot. 🔥🔥🔥
Facts 💯💯💯
Bruh… you can’t make this shit up.
Me and my wife have been married for 20 yrs and we just had our first grand child a beautiful girl family mean’s the world to me. We need more family in our Community point blank
I’m Haitian. In Haiti, women are covered by a man. else they are in physical danger. Basic electricity is not available 24hrs. Soon as they take that 3hr flight, they become “independent”, and “modern”.
I’m Haitian too and you’re exactly right lol. They move to America and they change lol
@@cpauguste 100% bro - They get sucked in by a false ideology of modernism/feminism in this country, and have destroyed their own opportunities to build wealth in the process. They have become the government within our household - smthing they wldnt dare being back home.
Fen’m lakay sa yo divòcé avec grangou, protection.
Really, they don’t hate men, they hate themselves, and nature.
True. I’m from Haiti.
Tell a Haitian guy to move my way. He can be whatever kind of modern kang he wants over here with me. 😂
@@kam.kam. I don’t think we understand your reply too well… care to explain?👍🏿
The line about hispanic folks replacing us sent chills down my spine. Black folks don’t understand..
The mexicans value their neighborhoods and have this self pride about themselves that black folks dont have thats why a mexican can come here dirt poor and within 20 years them and their family are THRIVING in america
@@juswavvy9634 Ahhh that's bullshit. I've seen alot of slummy hispanic neighborhoods full of drunk, wife beating, men. Black people are always talked down to this way, which is one of the reasons for all this self-hate we have. Seeing the way some of those people live I say it's less about self pride and "decent neighborhoods" and more about them simply staying on code. Whether it be fear of deportation, or some sort of cultural rules, they don't involve "Gub-ment Zaddy" in their domestic affairs, while we're quick to do it and will break up our homes in the process. But the old "Hard working Mexicans have more self respect and decency than black people" narrative is dated and not true.
@thatescalated quickly 👏👏👏 Well... that escalated quickly! 😆😂 Yeah, my family busted their ass and came here legally. And the ones that do come here illegally work hard and contribute to the community. They don't blame society for any short comings.
@thatescalated quickly Mexicans doing jobs today that black folks did 50 years ago doesn’t equate to working harder.
@@Polostar79 “Mexicans doing jobs today that black folk did 50 years ago” The jobs shouldn’t be available for them to take. The black community doesn’t believe in skill & trade anymore. Imagine if young boys were encouraged to be carpenters, or electricians upon graduation? Just my thoughts….☀️
Last caller is dangerous. When a women does wrong and wrecks her marriage , she blames the man. They crazy enough to paint a narrative of abuse and domestic violence to make themselves look like a saint.
These streets will give her a reality check soon enough...she thinks the grass gonna be greener on the other side.
Super scary!! If it was an "accident"! Why are you separated. Some moms have a weird thought that if they are there, nothing happens to the child. Stupid!!
She just created a son husband choosing a 2 yr old over an adult. Imagine putting that level of responsibility on the word of a two-year-old because when that child's grown she will turn around and blame the two-year-old the saying miss truths rather than her be responsible as a parent
Yeah this one was actually terrifying this man did nothing but she acts like she's the wife and owes her a better explanation than the one he gave... so far a simple mistake and it could've been an innocent accident now he hast to be punished not only by losing his wife but his kids as well?
@@JDMHaze yeah it’s fkd up
The Love before marriage is a concept straight out of Disney
That is love the feeling. The love or natural affection, the doing is more mature and difficult.
Feeling vs duty and legacy....helpmate vs modern feminism...
Amen bruda, so true
@Tru 100% agree! Disney is the covert
MK Ultra mind control at the toddler stage of children s existence. The Disney TV is a serious mind f*ck! They know exactly what they are televising to the children.
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Ciaras pray is hers. Most women have no business praying her prayer 🤲🏾. Most women should probably pray for the strength and discipline to loose weight, fix their attitude and learn to submit/cooperate with a man. Basically average women shouldn’t be praying for a Russell Wilson when they look like their name is Russell or Wilson 🤷🏿. Good luck sisters. Love y’all
The last part was a good one, a good play on words. Kudos and peace
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the last part
It’s hard because they’ve had all this freedom and don’t know what to do with it
Top tier comment 🔥🔥🔥🙏🏾🤲🏾
Book of Obadiah
Book of Titus
Book of Philemon
Book of Leviticus
Kevin's episodes make my day and make me greatful for passing on alot of women with the modern mindsets.
I like how he left the one woman on the chat and she gained realization thru the process of perception of the others. Please remember this is not meant to break down, it is meant to realign
It's like a miracle how that happens.
This prayer is asking to be rescued from bad choices. These women never consider what a man wants or needs, just them. Not to mention they always forget Ciara had to prove herself and go celibate to get that ring.
Russel Wilson is eating Future's scraps.
@@toomuchtruth and bow wow and 50 cent and the intern and the bouncers at clubs she probably used to visit. All that
@@youtubehatestruthtellers8065 don't forget the 1997 Denver Broncos.
You should go back and reread it, because that's not what the prayer is saying at all.
@@dezifabulous7592 the point being is that after living the life she wanted (no accountability for her actions or to anyone) once she realized she was getting up there in age and she couldn't continue the way she was going, all of a sudden she wants guidance from God. But not even that, she just wants God to give her what she wants. Nuh ugh ugh it don't work like that 😂
His interviewing skills have got to be the greatest of all fuckin time. No question! 🙌🏾🙏🏾👏🏾
Salute to the God for all the work he puts in.
In the UK 🇬🇧 we see and hear you loud and clear.
I wish you health and longevity on the road ahead.
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High 5 from the 🇬🇧
Im glad someone is able to talk about these concepts
That second caller… the more I listened, I was thinking it CANNOT get any worse, but she proves me wrong phenomenally
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Listen
Literal tears laughing
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she said she know's a surgeon that's 26yrs old.....I'll be damn
I'm still baffled. This poor idiot really thinks she's going to become a judge.
@@jghifiversveiws8729 Poor lil Tink Tink gotta have dreams too.
Kevin has opened my eyes in so many ways from self improvement to what is acceptable behavior for serious men who are focused on bettering themselves
Her prayer makes no mention of her being the type of woman the man she desires desires.
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Don't you know that's because every woman is an utter goddess who every man should be grateful to receive?
On a real note women have literally never been worse to be around or worse for society.
Yeah.
What is she offering him? How hard would it have been to include a line or two like "I would give him my heart, body, mind, and soul freely without question or hesitation."
And/or
"I look forward to the day when I will publicly vow to be his to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, and for richer or poorer until death do us part. Divorce is not an acceptable option for me as I have vowed to stay until death. I want to make that vow to him in front of my community, friends, family, and God. Should any of them notice that I am failing to live up to that vow in any way, I want them to hold me accountable to it and correct me so that I will improve."
You know, something like that would have been nice...
This was a really good show. Salute to KS. Great dialogue with each of the Women. I love these IG Streams they are the best (100% of the women on camera with audio). The TH-cam Streams used to be the best but's now it's unpredictable (we gladly pay to be members, but the women are often hidden, and without audio). Maybe the TH-cam Streams will improve.
As a man approaching 60 when Kevin said " when your 65 who's gonna take care of you" Then the young going girl smuggly said why can't they take care of themself. Getting older has let me see how someone like my ageing mother who's always been very independent can no longer take care of herself. She can no longer take out the garbage, clean her animals litter boxes or even bend over to put on her socks. After her my father passed away if she didn't have her children she'd be in big trouble.
I can't express how much kevin spoke for me today. In each conversation it almost bought tears to my eyes. Telling the mother at the end who keeps saying my Son, connecting it to black women thinking they have ownership over black men in general. Just absolutely phenomenal. Therapeutic.
My ex would always say her son and i would correct her that he is our Son.
Sad...
Proverbs chapter 31
KS will never go hungry again! Women are in a long line waiting to look foolish in public. These ladies are as good as cash in the bank. I wish I had this hustle first.
You can still get it. Since by your own admission, they are a lot such women out there.
@@juniorleslie4804 Yep, endless supply. Go to your thing. KS just makes it look easy.
This is much more than a hustle, if you missed that, you lost already.
Hustle ,Hustle trying to help the Black community buy tell people the truth is a Hustle, man you have emotional damage to think that.
That's subjective cynicism, not objective Sir.
Passing on the lineage means having marriage, family, and children, as well as passing on tradition and generational wealth. I see why Kevin goes hard.
Kevin dropped a fact people can not rise no higher than the moral position of our women
The Honorable Elijah Muhammad taught this/the Nation of Islam has taught this principle since the 1930s.
@@SunFromBrooklyn73 teach on that dear brotha
Preach! This is the type of talk that needs to be heard in the churches.
Amen and Amen!!
Real truth about the natural world would mean less tithes. So, it won't happen.
If you’re looking for unconditional love, look to God and also love yourself. You cannot expect perfection from another human being and expect them to fill voids that only God can. Your relationship goals should be to build a life together and add to each other’s happiness that you already had prior to the relationship. There’s nothing wrong with praying for God to send a great husband/wife for you, but make sure you also pray that you are ready for it and ready to appreciate and understand all that comes with it, good, bad and in between.
The level of love that kevin have for his people is beyond this world...but they consider him the bad guy because he tells them the truth!!!
When you not pandering and simping of course you're a bad guy lol
@@traindawg21 kevin should close his show with the scarface scene when he said: say goodnight to the bad guy.
He really doesn't have love for his people.
Facts
They will continue to suffer
When someone makes the argument that something has to apply to everyone in the world for it to be a common problem, you know they’d argue for hours on end in circles just to justify what it is about the problematic topic that applies to them. They know it’s holding them back but they have to justify it anyways because their entire self esteem relies on it.
Bars 👍🏾
How did you put that into words? That's deep! Women don't normally generalise.
Because unicorns exist....lol
Love is a choice and happiness comes from within. It’s your own responsibility, if you’re in a marriage you gotta abide by the contract
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Damnation alley fritzed up twisted
This conversation is soooooo over due thanks my brother for bringing this dialogue to the world....Awesome job.
I can relate to what Kevin is saying about the family. I’ve always wanted to have my own family (husband and kids) but it just hasn’t happened yet. Last year it really hit me that I don’t have a family. Yes I have a mom and dad and siblings but now that we’re adults- they are not my family. My mom has her kids and grandkids, my sisters have their kids and their own life that’s built around their kids, my cousins have their husbands and their kids. They can’t just make decisions because they have families and move as a unit, they can’t just go out without permission, we can’t just have girls day because people have their own lives.
During the holidays, although we all came together, they were sitting next to their kids and significant others- waking up next to them or spending time that I couldn’t intrude on.
When they make decisions, they make decisions on what will be best for THEIR family, not me because they are their own unit, I’m just an extra wheel.
I got sick and it hit me that I still had to list my mother, sisters and cousins as my emergency contact. As much as they cared for me- no one was there to give me a massage, make soup, and be by my bedside. What would have happened to me at 70 years old with no family of my own. It’s not just about someone caring for me but I pour so much into others and extended family that I want to do that for my own family.
I’ve always been very super pro family and wanted kids and a husband for as long as I can remember. I look forward to the day I can be a wife to my husband, raise our children and build our family legacy and lineage together. Not because of loneliness but because I want my own family and it doesn’t matter how many birthdays I attend, how many baby showers, how many godchildren I have, they are not my family.
I have my own prayer and I am getting ready to be a wife and a mother to my children someday, to give them all of this love ❤️
This is true, been there and now happily married expecting our first baby in June. It’s good that your thinking is positive and intentional, what your mind attracts, the universe will provide, my prayers became more purposely, specific and focused when I’ve understood that live is meaningless when it’s not shared. Your mom, dad, brother and sister is a part of your family that your parents built, not through you. Kevin is right, and he knows it.
I get what you’re saying. But you think if you get seriously sick a husband would be there to take care of you? Or you think you’re kids would? Husband no, kids maybe if you have a girl.
@@myisglim7801 it’s nothing just the sick part but it’s having someone in general. Who knows what will happen but I choose not to be a pessimistic
@@lovingsamantha9443 I’d advise you to have some open and honest conversations with your married women relatives. A serious relationship or marriage can be the loneliness for women. A man isn’t going to be up under you like that. He will continue to live his life and it just becomes more work for you.
This ish is getting tiresome. Chix with multiple kids by multiple dudes making outrageous demands
And then blame the men for all of it lol
There's so many of them
A lot
She says he's not in jail now but being investigated? But he get visitation rights? What's the truth? I truly wish women in general wouldn't try so hard to win. Notice how the plot thickened when KS started dissected her bullshit.
Right. That's f-d up. Something is fishy
My kid got out the house while we were out. My oldest teen son wasn’t payin attention to her and my 2 year old got out with the dog. Neighbors found her police came and we courts never got involved. CPS had a little investigation just to make sure we added child locks and stuff and that was it. That lady is full of shit for an accident.
@@Iben_arrogant how old was the teenager?
@@leonhenry4861 my oldest is now 13 so at the time he was a “preteen” I guess. He was 12 when it happened.
Women’s emotions is very dangerous to men & kids remember that when it comes to accusations
When the lady said I wouldn't know I'm not a 100 years old I fell off the chair 🤣
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As Kevin often says you cant make this shttt up..
Remember this Black men.... THESE are the women who look down on YOU 🤯🤯 The Average middle income brother. THESE WOMEN think you are beneath them🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Let me do what they want. I'm not gonna let a loser, man or woman, hurt my feelings while I'm out here winning.
Right!! And they weigh 230lbs lmao the nerve
They can’t even smile at us, but they want sex only and money
So very thankful for Kevin. He has opened my mind up to much more perspective on how women Modern Women act I needed clarity and confirmation he’s giving very informative information on women. Certain thoughts I’ve always wondered and things I’ve needed confirmation on. This man in a genius I look at him like a mentor. keep doing the awesome work Kevin! the Men! Are behind you. Salute to you brother! ✊🏾 thanks for giving the men a voice!
Facts over feelings. KS speaks the blunt truth
Brothers stay on your purpose and chase your dreams..
Facts
The woman at 1:08:00 mirrors exactly what happened in my first marriage. My son's mom said I was beating our son (no proof, no police report). We went to court, I had proof of her neglect of him. She would leave him by himself while she smoked (she admitted to it). Got drunk around him with strangers in the house etc. I show the judge the pictures, texts, emails (as I was deployed) and she still got custody. Court order was she couldn't move further than an hour away from me so I could visit. She claimed she was afraid for our son's safety and left the state against court order. I went back to court to have her be held to the court appointed agreement and the judge said I was being vindictive and to not return to court. Fast forward to 11 years later, my son wants nothing to do with me as his mom didn't allow me to have communication (not for a lack of trying) with him but within the last 2 years any time there's an opportunity of me coming into finances I get a call. She expects me to only be there financially not physically.
Same thing happened to me. Those parental agreements only work for the father.
Daaah😦
Give it more time. When your son matures more he will seek you out for a relationship and the truth.
Too hell with both of them then .
@@shellsopinion5837 Men don't have the luxury of time! Time is not promised to anyone and the key word in my Brotha's testimony was that he was deployed which definitely means he's in the military. I'm a veteran and experienced the same BS.. time is not kind to a good Dad whose kids are fed lies that are reinforced by their mother's feelings..
“YOU BELONG TO ME! THE KIDS BELONG TO YOU AND I BELONG TO GOD” IM AT WORK AND KEVIN HAD ME YELLING HAHAHAH YESSS GODFATHER TELLEM!!!!!!
love when he says that lol
Kevin always hits the nail on the head and leave women very speechless with the most simplest words
Oooo this a good one I’m super glad he got some regular girls on here today. These conversations be sooooo good. I love watching.
The Godfather is truly a gem in the black community. We need MORE to have these open canid conversations in our communities
When you can’t hold a woman accountable even within a conversation you have real problem.
The world never holds women accountable
@@FalaqX western world. This don’t fly in west Africa
This man has the patience of a God. How he sits and dialogues with some of the most frustrating and insufferable women is incredible. I don't know how he does it. Maybe it's his silver fox years but I just could never. Lord.
@Deji D I was saying the same thing.
I just don't have the capability, it always ends in a dead-end, I don't understand how he's able to move the conversation along so effectively
Been watching quite a few of his videos and I am also highly impressed with his level of patience!! I don't know how many times I would have lost it on these women! WTF. He is speaking plain ass English and they STILL dont't listen.
Sometimes I can't even finish listening. I'll switch to music or something and finish listening later. The 2nd hand embarrassing cringe gets too much for me to handle.
@@juniorjames7076 💥Maaaaan....🤦🏾♂️💥💯
This why I don’t mind giving money to his channel. He puts up with so much and I know this has to be stressful
The girl in the blue Hoodie was the "manifestation" of "not me". Constant deflections, "oh so you mean in general", "oh so you're talking about women who don't make money", so on and so forth. I mean, she started to fall in line and actually listen eventually, but Stay away from rebels gentlemen.
@@roleah7576 see but that's the problem with rebels though, you're notorious for "taking perspectives into consideration", but rarely actually changing yourself. Men want peace and cooperation, we don't want to come home to be challenged and debated with. When we tell our women something we want them to actually listen not just take what we said "into consideration", sit on it for a week or a month, and then possibly maybe finally do what we asked in the first place. Easy example is Ms.Wong in the last 1 on 1 talk with Kevin. The entire time she was "listening and taking into consideration", she was "nice" she was respectful, she wasn't rude in any way, but at the end of the day she still chose to keep her previous beliefs. In one ear and out the other. It's like talking to a wall. A nice wall sure, but a wall nonetheless.
Banger..👌
That woman was just a brat. She's ran through and playing make believe...I see a dog in her future and the poor thing will probably be neglected.
She was so annoying. She LOVED dropping “oh you’re talking about women who “don’t” make money” or subtly mentioning she’s a homeowner. Showing off her home office. These women loves sharing shit nobody cares about to make themselves feel good
The woman with the two kids, who said her husband hurt their child is not telling the whole truth! Sounds like there is more to that story.
Right! 2yr old kids always falling and hurting themselves... smh
She straight up just lying that it
The government will believe it anyways because they know women tell the biggest lie to hurt a man to get benefits of controlling the kid’s thoughts & actions 😬😬
I don't always agree 💯 percent with Kevin's Narrative, However This topic right here he was 💯💯💯 percent On point!!!👍🏾 Great Job on getting this topic out in front for discussion👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
HIs narrative is doing anything possible to make our community thrive and prosper again. You're against that?
God make me worthy of a husband 👋👋👋I could shout. Kevin a prophet and a priest on the low. Lol. That will be my prayer. He is so right. stop giving men babies without marriage and we wouldn't have to pray that prayer. Preaaaaaach.
They wouldn’t get benefits otherwise.
Men should be talking to other men about being more responsible
If you have to keep saying "but" everytime after you say "I understand" then you really don't understand. Getting divorced because the kid got hurt is psycho level extreme. Children get hurt literally all the time every day in relationships. Kids on a regular basis jump off of things that are too high, they run into walls, they drop things on themselves, they run too fast sometimes straight into a wall. This is stupid. She's literally just saying "I'm mom, my kid got hurt, I don't know what happened, but I'm going to completely blame my husband and go to psycho levels of vindictive by divorcing my husband just to spite him even though he's not a threat to my children in reality and it all may have been a mistake, but who cares, I'm mom".
This crazy
It was an excuse to leave him.
She sounds nuts. She left her husband for what…suspicion??
@@nikkirose4124 literally left based solely on suspicion...psycho is an understatement.
There’s def key motive/info missing…likely benefits the mother.
Just an incredibly good show. Learned some things, these modern women think their jobs and money can replace the practical value of a man. You don't only need a lot of money to survive when you're 65+ you also need someone to be with you in case you collapse, have a heart attack or are simply choking. Marriage is a practical choice.
These women saying Ciaras prayer in a red room, wearing black robes with candles 🕯 🤣
Yikes
Is that some type of real ritual you are describing?
The Ciara prayer is extremely juvenile and shallow. To me it's about as logical as the *"Dear Diary, let me tell you about my day..."* lol! Just make believe.
While sacrificing a chicken and rubbing the belly of a 2yr old cat😆😆
The Derrick Wilson was sending me
Yup. Derrick is definitely the man of her prayers
What got me the most out of Ciara’s prayer was
1. referring to wants AND needs in the blanket of “everything” in a husband.
I enjoy that my husband doesn’t give me everything I want.. in turn it requires consistent growth on my part, and in my walk with God; also, he’s worried about sustaining our worldly NEEDS, along with his own relationship with God.. So that’s all I’m grateful for!! That’s what makes me happy.
My wants aren’t even really my concern.. we have two kids, my wants are out the window. I’m happy cause our needs are met physically. I have room to teach our children life skills, to fill their intrinsic needs! That’s literally enough for me to praise, and serve him in private + public, as I do Jesus in my closet.. which is commanded of me.
Not recommended if he act “right”, commanded. Point blank.
*Submit myself unto my husband as I do unto the lord*
Which goes into my next red flag in this “prayer”
2. I don’t put my kids above my husband.. he eats first unless he’s busy and waits to eat.
And before people ROAST me; this is not a situation where children are in danger!
it’s cause when I’m elderly my kids will be off in their own relationships, building their own lives. They need to see me respecting my husband! SERVING him, and to see him loving me.. it also gives them a view of “hierarchy” and allows kids to know their place, a child. Not a “lil momma” or a “man of the house”.. it teaches them to respect people, too. It does many many things.
I get trash talked a lot by family members, other women.. I don’t need it. Cause I see those dynamics play out in real time; and it really screws kids up.
I’m happy to focus on the inter works of the children and the household. Some view it as a prison. I’m unsure why.
Cause it’s peaceful!
It’s better than having to hunt AND gather.. I mean come on.
Ciara getting married to Russell Wilson after she was Futures 8th baby Momma was the worst thing that could have happened for Black Men. Now woman have a perfect example to use to say it’s possible and there is no convincing them otherwise.🤦🏾♂️
Between 2002-2019 about 10 million black kids were born. 78% out of wedlock. 32% had kids by multiple BM out of that 32%, 20% 4 kids and 16% 5+ kids and 42% of the 32% never cohabited or committed to the women in question. And 60% of these 32% have been incarcerated. 3-5% of black men (superspreaders) fathered over 3 million kids
So when people say men ain’t sh*t, it is the men that these degenerate women pick. A small percentage of black men.
And that's the real issue taking one example of something to be generalized in every scenario
Russell is a 🤡 and an archetype for a Beta Male
@@LorelleG1 he dont know any better. But any woman who lays with a man who openly paints his self as a womanizer is trash. We see them on social media all the time complaining that men aren’t doing their part even though there was 7 examples of women before who she could of studied the outcome. But you know emotions and feelings rule at the end of the day with them.
All men have to do is point out that Russell Wilson is worth more than $250 million dollars! That's one quarter of a billion. If that's what women want, good luck. Less than 1% of Americans have that kind of money. But keep trying.
I'm 52 and in a relationship & I appreciate 🙏 your P. O. V.
We keep score on MARRIAGES!
Whoa. Kevin is right. We don’t listen and struggle to follow conversation, or accept accountability; which is why we try to redirect conversations in circular and abstract ways.
And when you get more than one of us together, it’s a mess.
The second caller feels like a bad joke. 😢
It's hard to watch, its scary, I just told my husband the future of this world doesn't look bright..God help us
I've said dor at least ten years, women have lost their way and don't realize we hold the future in our wombs..smh we are failing as a collective
the delusion of the baby momma who thinks she is going to be a judge when she doesnt even know what it takes to get there is incredible, self-awareness is dead.
Poor thing - She was so all over the place. Two parent home and still no guidance....sad...
Maybe Kim Kardashian is inspiring to her, Kim thinks she's going to pass the bar with just a high school diploma 🤔
@@monacoofthebluepacific2571 I'm dead🤦♂️😄
@@clevagaines4313 she definitely was it was tough to watch what was going to unfold next..
One of your best ever brother!!! Hitting all of the major talking points.
Mr Samuels is putting word and action to what we are all thinking!
My Mom was a traditional wife to my Dad. She taught me how to be a wife but she also taught me to be independent and not depend on a man. She thought she was doing something wrong because she started listening to Oprah. Lol. However my Dad was my best friend and he taught me the real roles of men and women. He is deceased now but I thank God everyday for him. And for my Mom too. It's just she had a Disney fantasy of the world that just doesn't exist.
Can u elaborate what did ur dad taught you?
@@valeelghaouth6904 My Dad taught me to listen and be lead by a man. That it was my duty to be his support emotionally and financially. He never mention love. He advised me to get with a man with a good work ethic and build with him. His favorite thing to say to me was that a man wants a woman that is soft. Because at the end of the day a man's home and wife should be his peace. Every real man is the King of his castle and he takes care of his wife and children. My Dad did not let my Mom pay any household bills once she started working for herself when my siblings and I got in middle school. My Mom was happy in her marriage but felt like she missed out on some things being a wife and mother. I tried to be the career woman, wife, and mother. However something went lacking; my health. I began to have all kinds of issues and all the doctors would say was I was doing too much and I had to make some changes. I chose my family over my career and I do not regret it.
This whole comment made no sense
@@missmargmillionaire6421 It make sense to the persons it's suppose to make sense to luv. Ciara's prayer didn't make sense to me, but to some it did. Everything isn't for everybody.
That last woman... This is why us men have to be careful.... I hurt myself as a kid so many fing times... I literally jumped off a 2 story balcony on to pillows. If I was hurt, and my dad was watching me, this spiteful woman would ruin my life. Kids who grow up without dads are targets....
Facts we use to jump off the highest parts of trees on to old couch cushions.
I did worst to myself as a child...
Imagine marrying that lady, then been a stepdad to those children.
Stay safe kings
Don't marry single mothers
😡😡😡 damn right! This woman is easing little black boys! She’s about to create some little bangers or busters! Not men. 😡😡😡
You should never get with a woman who wasn't raised with a father
We was jumping off 2 story buildings in Chicago. I thought only me and my friends were that stupid. Ninja movies had us jumping with sticks in the back of our shirts 😂😂😂🤺
Thank you Kevin for speaking the truth R.I.P. KS
And when she shows up to the family function and she's single there's a reason why she's single🔥🔥🔥
Single family hanging out with single family lmao the hoes with the hoes
"Feminism has done what slavery couldn't do; and that is destroy the black family": thank you, KS for speaking truth to our community. May the Most High Yah continue to bless and keep you.
One of his shows he talked on how modern women are now masculine and mixing that with our emotional nature has created chaos for us. We are forever on edge bc we can’t operate with those two imbalanced traits, goes against our nature. We’re forever ready to snap. It was so dead on.
Hmm Mr Samuel I have been addicted to your content for about just over a year now married over 23 years now and I just want to say thank you Sir for your contributions to the black community 👍 God bless you Sir and the womb that brought you into this world there's so much knowledge in your content I wish I had this knowledge 20 years ago that I have now the black community must see it as very urgent to pray 🙏 for that almighty God will keep you cause I know even the very demons in high place are mad at you but I think God got cover keep up the excellent work Sir love and respect 💯
It's just odd how dishonest women really think reality will bend to their will.. They have no concept of natural law...Madness.
Egos and self deception is possibly the greatest sin
No where in her prayer does it mention her being the kind of woman the man she want wants.
Damn I was about to comment on that one
Rip Kevin, thanks for the wisdom
This was epic. If I had to recommend one episode for a newbie to watch, it might be this one.
"The first business is family" 🎯
Facts upon facts🧐
Baby mama w/ two boys by two different men, yellow long nails, unemployed hairstylist, & the future of the black community 💔
It’s ova fellas
Thank You Mr. Kevin R Samuels for all that you for Black Men & Women.
For the women who are still confused, here's the problem men have with Ciara's Prayer:
What is she offering him? How hard would it have been to include a line or two like
"I would give him my heart, body, mind, and soul freely without question or hesitation."
And/or
"I look forward to the day when I will publicly vow to be his to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, and for richer or poorer until death do us part. Divorce is not an acceptable option for me as I have vowed to stay until death. I want to make that vow to him in front of my community, friends, family, and God. Should any of them notice that I am failing to live up to that vow in any way, I want them to hold me accountable to it and correct me so that I can apologize to him for my failing and improve."
You know, something like that would have been nice...
Hell yeah something anything like what you so eloquently wrote. However, seems to be a whole lot of me me me...
Who cares? I’m sure Russell is getting all of that and more.
@@carl5438 thanks. I'm glad you liked it. It was intended as an addition to the original.
Ciara said what she wants, the men also have the right to say what they want as well.
@@msgrace7414 Yes, but men have virtue and honor, something obviously alien to someone like you
I’m learning from Kevin everyday!! I’ll be a better women by the end of all his lessons
The woman with the kids at the end is full of it. She said they've been separated for a year, which means the 2-year old was a year old at the time of the incident. Sounds like the kid hurt himself and this woman believes her husband hurt the kid. The court isn't going to take a year to lock you up over abusing a child. The child got hurt by accident and she blamed the husband. She's a damn lie. How can the court say he can't be around the kids and the court didn't issue an order for supervised visitation AND he still gets to see his kids. Girl bye. She wants to leave, let her.
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I support everything he has said. Spot on brotha spot on.
"What feminism did to the black community, slave masters couldn't even do". -KS 💯💯💯💯
He preaching preaching 🙏🏾 bro 💯
I hear a lot about Ciara’s Prayer, but when Kevin asks directly about it, the women don’t want to go anywhere near it.
Just an observation.
Like when he asks the dress size and they go excuse me ha ha ha
I love his passion for Black families.
I'll say it once and I'll say it again, being a stepdad or a stepmother is a FRUITLESS endeavour and you are a FOOL to willingly do such a thing. You'll never get the same respect, you'll never be the first priority, and you'll never be truly content.
I am a Stepmother it is not for the weak at heart.
@@Eklectic_Afro You should inform younger females about your experiences
@@day-me-inmoodley3283 that part.
I wish everyone would stop saying "cheating" and call it what it really is...ADULTERY! That is the deal breaker to breakoff the marriage. "Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultery" is a sin against the Lord Yahweh! Stop minimizing adultery to cheating! Marriage is not a game. It is a holy union. "What Yah has put together, let no man put asunder."
It is a biblically acceptable reason to divorce but it never says you HAVE to! Marriage is not a game... you shouldn't just quit after a bad roll🤷🏾♀️
25:48 "A people can rise no higher than the moral position of its women"
Fact, fiery fact! 🔥
Bombshell
@@TheAdamSmasherMultiverse Keep watching. The woman stepped back and you could see she had ginormous ti**ies, I think she was shooting her shot at Mr Samuels
Kevin is showing us what we have been dealing with
I thought it was just me?
WE already know what we've been dealing with. He's showing the WORLD
@@FalaqX *FACTS!!*
@@FalaqX the world already knows , they just sit back and watch us destroy each other on every level .