That’s because how a narcissist will manipulate you into believing everyone else is wrong and make you believe you only have each other. I no that my ex did same to me and cheated on me multiple times for months. I found out around same time Ariana found out. So this story is so close to home. The way he shouted at her like was her fault. Yep my ex did that to me to even tried to make me feel bad for the other women.
i'm rewatching, the amount of times she steps in to defend him is a whole lot, didn't do her any good in the long run, learning lesson for the rest of us
@@bunnykinssmileAriana hizo lo mismo, ella se metió con Tom cuando él sostenía una relación de muchos años con Kristel!!!! Y no le importó el sufrimiento de esta. Esto no es criticable, lo criticable es que den tantas explicaciones. Si se mostrarán firmes y seguros nadie diría más nada, pararían los insultos pues quién quiere obligar a otro ser a estar contigo??? Eso es algo que fluye o no. Su relación ya estaba muy desgastada. Por otra parte James está dolido porque Raquel estuvo con él en otro tiempo y la chica es muy atractiva además siempre se le ha notado cierta envidia hacia Tom Sandoval.
anytime he tries to justify himself like when he talks about being 40, the intonation of his voice reminds me of kelso saying "damn jackie i can't control the weather!"
Ariana actually enabled Tom’s behavior by not calling him out for a very long time on his bad behavior. What I don’t like is because it has now happened to her this is so bad (which it is) but what about when he was disrespectful to others? She should have left him a long time ago. But because comfort was the focus she stayed with someone who would eventually treat her the way he treated others.
I definitely knew that they both lied about miami girl just because Ariana didn't want to look stupid, especially when Kristen came at it so hard, i think that Tom came clean to her when they briefly left sur and then they came back with the plan that they deny it and she trusts him, but its only because she didn't want anyone to say i told you so, she pretty much allowed him to get away with crappy behaviour and then wonders why he cheated with Raquel, especially when they did a similar thing to Kristen, she was still in the same friends group as Ariana so its not a hard jump for him to do something like that, it doesn't make it right as he should of broken up with her not cheated on her, but she has a short memory because she basically cheated on him with Lala in front of him and he couldn't do anything about it but go along with it, imagine if he had gotten a bj from Schwartz in front of her, she would of played the victim but because it was just two girls he was supposed to shrug it off which must of hurt him because they weren't being intimate at that time and she allowed Lala to touch her in ways he wanted to and that must of been not nice for him deep down, so they both blurred the lines with stuff, i don't in any way condone what they did because theres no excuse for it, but they should of called it quits right back when he cheated the first time
I can't believe that Tom took Kristen out to a restaurant that literally only had one item for a vegetarian, thats wild especially since you know that she is a vegetarian since she was 11 years old
Ariana knew all of this like for a long ass time them is like crying and telling the misstress and the rest of the world their she's the victim. He never took sides for her.
Ariana never wanted to believe that Tom was doing shady things. Even if her friends would try to tell her she would defend him.
That’s because how a narcissist will manipulate you into believing everyone else is wrong and make you believe you only have each other. I no that my ex did same to me and cheated on me multiple times for months. I found out around same time Ariana found out. So this story is so close to home. The way he shouted at her like was her fault. Yep my ex did that to me to even tried to make me feel bad for the other women.
@@bunnykinssmile I hope you’re away from him and building a wonderful new life without him.
He will always be miserable, but you don’t have to be!
i'm rewatching, the amount of times she steps in to defend him is a whole lot, didn't do her any good in the long run, learning lesson for the rest of us
Sometimes love does that to you…
@@bunnykinssmileAriana hizo lo mismo, ella se metió con Tom cuando él sostenía una relación de muchos años con Kristel!!!! Y no le importó el sufrimiento de esta. Esto no es criticable, lo criticable es que den tantas explicaciones. Si se mostrarán firmes y seguros nadie diría más nada, pararían los insultos pues quién quiere obligar a otro ser a estar contigo??? Eso es algo que fluye o no. Su relación ya estaba muy desgastada. Por otra parte James está dolido porque Raquel estuvo con él en otro tiempo y la chica es muy atractiva además siempre se le ha notado cierta envidia hacia Tom Sandoval.
Stassi's booksigning. That was a HUGE red flag.
That was when his mask started to really slip, like it fell off and he couldn’t put it back on properly again
@@annad9534 Well said. And he went after Schwartz too.
That was red flag central
And when he emotionally blackmailed her into letting him piggyback on her book
Well said 👏
Imagine taking your vegetarian girlfriend to Korean bbq. He’s a psycho
So evil
PSYCHOTIC
LOL that was really sick in the head 😂😂😂
Holy shit the bulldozer conversation is so dark
Imagine how sad her father would feel if he saw this.
The title should be renamed to : A Guide to Recognize Patterns of Narcissism.
Dead weight be gone. Ariana was too emotionally intelligent for him. He was too jealous of her success Love u Ariana ❤
I died laughing at the worm with a moustache sitting on toms shoulder. 😂 serves him right!
anytime he tries to justify himself like when he talks about being 40, the intonation of his voice reminds me of kelso saying "damn jackie i can't control the weather!"
The way he uses disgusting language to Ariana & ALL women speaks volumes of Sandoval's character....
My advice...ALL girls....RUN for the hills.
Ariana actually enabled Tom’s behavior by not calling him out for a very long time on his bad behavior. What I don’t like is because it has now happened to her this is so bad (which it is) but what about when he was disrespectful to others? She should have left him a long time ago. But because comfort was the focus she stayed with someone who would eventually treat her the way he treated others.
Ariana is not manipulative, so she never saw this side to him… But damn he lied sooooo much
On the back of Jax’s door is exactly the same picture frame as on friends on Rachel and Monica’s apartment.
Ariana is always so negative. I’m watching reruns 🙈
He’s a narcissist for sure. He couldn’t be there for her on her birthday.
I’ve never seen a t-shirt with popsicle prints all over it 😬
that t-shirt looks like something that a 5 year old would wear 😂😂😂😂
Narcissistic Abuse 101
I definitely knew that they both lied about miami girl just because Ariana didn't want to look stupid, especially when Kristen came at it so hard, i think that Tom came clean to her when they briefly left sur and then they came back with the plan that they deny it and she trusts him, but its only because she didn't want anyone to say i told you so, she pretty much allowed him to get away with crappy behaviour and then wonders why he cheated with Raquel, especially when they did a similar thing to Kristen, she was still in the same friends group as Ariana so its not a hard jump for him to do something like that, it doesn't make it right as he should of broken up with her not cheated on her, but she has a short memory because she basically cheated on him with Lala in front of him and he couldn't do anything about it but go along with it, imagine if he had gotten a bj from Schwartz in front of her, she would of played the victim but because it was just two girls he was supposed to shrug it off which must of hurt him because they weren't being intimate at that time and she allowed Lala to touch her in ways he wanted to and that must of been not nice for him deep down, so they both blurred the lines with stuff, i don't in any way condone what they did because theres no excuse for it, but they should of called it quits right back when he cheated the first time
Jax clearly all coked out 7:20
This actually shows Ariana being misogynistic and a liar.
He's so hot so.....
A guide to “Hayu” red flags.
outch..
Wow she’s lucky to have a dad who told her things like that. My stepdad had to be drunk to even mention he cared about us
This video needs to be way longer.
want a part 2? 👀
@@Hayu yes
I can't believe that Tom took Kristen out to a restaurant that literally only had one item for a vegetarian, thats wild especially since you know that she is a vegetarian since she was 11 years old
Tom: im always gonna be here for you......... BUT apparently were gonna be crushing shit w bulldozers 🤪🤪🤪
Right? What a complete moron lmao
He’s like a child in a man’s body. That was so inconsiderate.
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😂😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️💩💩💩💩
Poo poo head!
The way he can boldly lie is demonic
he wanted to smash stuff with a bulldozer than be with his gf??💀
Whose dad’s anniversary was coming up
Hahaha
@@caitlinbrennan9039 I think they were talking about kristen
@@chicka-chickaslimcheyney2914 no they weren’t
@@chicka-chickaslimcheyney2914 nah i was talking about ariana
Wow so Ariana mum had a feeling about Tom
Definitely!🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
He is childish man.. not ready for a relationship with anyone
Please also do one for all the hypocrites on this show too including Lala who is trying to rewrite history about her past
Ariana knew all of this like for a long ass time them is like crying and telling the misstress and the rest of the world their she's the victim. He never took sides for her.