As an Orthodox Christian I completely agree, especially since this is the norm in my culture. However I wouldn't comment "I love her so much" haha, this would be immoral.
it is a big role in a relationship, but it's definitely not a priority because we clearly witness men who cheat to satisfy the sexual desires that their current partner can't please and still live happily with them, yet same thing happens to a woman but they tend to just completely find a person unattractive after a while if they don't please them sexually, sara basically describing befriending a person before any sexual acts to which eventually can lead to both a stronger connection or a deterrent
I 100% agree with Brad. An adult can defend themselves and is more capable of understanding how/why a bad event happened. A dog is defenseless and is unable to comprehend cause and effect. It's like a baby in my eyes. Although I would value a baby over a dog.
I completely relate to Sara. I prefer not to wear makeup but when I’m feeling down emotionally or the way I look, doing my makeup and caring how I dress will affect positively how I feel the rest of the day. It must be so hard being in this kind of spotlight. Sara you’re gorgeous and one of a kind. Continue to guard your heart ❤️
@@LheaWhyteget what ur saying but just bc its the job u choose doesnt mean that parts of it cant be ass. Like just because u choose to work on a farm doesnt mean plowing the feilds isnt unpleasant
@@LheaWhyte im not comparing anythjnh ab them other than the fact that they are jobs and both have upsides and downsides. Im not saying podcasting is as hard as farming by any means, its simply an analogy not a comparison
Brad you have the ability to be a massive role model in this space because your older and have been through hardship and grinded your way into your position. Make sure you guide the younger gen in the right direction because sara is very influenced by your opinion. Great pod
I love listening to Sara trying to explain what it’s like to be a woman. Men’s hormones reset every morning and a woman’s change every 28-30 days. Some days are just eh
Sara...same thing I said in Insta? I just want to say that the morals you showed today on the pod and how passionate you are about what SHOULD matter in a relationship? Is so damn refreshing to me! Keep being you, please!
Hate to burst your bubble but she's a fake. She's not who she says she is, she contradicts herself many times like on the streams with Sneako on both Rumble and TH-cam, her behavior around a guy like that was clear as day, she likes men who treat her like shit, objectifies her and lives a "bad" lifestyle such as Sneako.
57:51 I agree with Sara. There are guys who are into both kinds of relationships with women. But for me, the one I decide to spend the rest of my life with, I want them to be a pretty authentic person. It’s called raising your standards 🤙🏼 PS. Sara keep being you, don’t let anything change you
I was in a 7 year relationship that started with no sex for the first 6 months, I proved to her that I wasn’t just trying to hit it and quit it. That was hard to do but there’s still men that genuinely want more than just sex.
For me to do that, the girl would have to be a virgin or had maybe 1 relationship where she also did the exact thing with that person, and i'd have to truly believe her, i would know by judging her character and watching her lifestyle very closely. Anyway, for me when i truly like/love a girl i don't even think about having sex with her whatsoever, i see sex as a secondary outcome if we were to be in a relationship, because my natural instinct towards a girl who i love is that i want to show her love and affection by treating her nice and being there for her, and protecting her. Then there's girls who i see as only short term girls that are pretty much only good for sex based on their behavior and persona.
59:35 I agree with Sara. When I was younger I thought the way Brad is saying men are. As I got older I realized it wasn’t that important in a relationship. And once I realized I’m more of an emotional person than a physical person my relationship got way better and when sex comes to play it is 100% better.
As a “homeless” person living outta their car, I could never beg for money. Nothing against those that do but I’d rather them get it then me. Pride is a hell of a thing. But I’d rather get it on my own and still give back to those worse off then take hand outs. Edit- I have 2 dogs also and trust, they are living better on here then I am. They are beyond spoiled and are the best motivators to keep me moving towards buying my own place again. 💪🏽
@@b23beatz Foreal I’m a grown man but this dude sneako actually gives real good life advice unlike these other TH-camrs These females just can’t handle it now a days.
10:30 I think Sara is going through a metamorphic period. And we’re gonna see her be more & more herself. And she knows it too. Best of luck in your journey Sara
My honest opinion is bc she sees all the IG “models” getting all these attentions on looks and I’m sure she feels insecure about that…females put so much pressure on each other on who is the prettiest and who gets the most from Men bc of those looks. It’s like a flex between girls to be able to say oh I get these things from men bc I’m prettier.
@@Daniel-1-1-1 I see where you’re coming from, but I don’t think Sara’s objective is to be another “ig model”. She carries herself like much more than just a pretty face…but I definitely see where you’re coming from.
@@Nelkstreams couple times she posted pics of herself like those IG models and it’s definitely not her and I think she realized it and stopped…I think the pressure gets to females here and there but very few can overcome it and I think Sarah will and come out good in the end.
Brad's slept around too much and he has a dopamine dept and needs a certain level of dopamine high. He needs to rewire his brain. Majority of the men don't need to do that whether they are moral or not PERIOD. BTW I am a man 220 pounds mostly muscles. Sara you are mostly right, dont let this people spoil you
You made such a good point about the dopamine debt! It was either in a pod or zoo vid he mentioned how he’s had a threesome before. I was like 💀 because once you start going to those limits, it’s like, what’s next? What else do you need to be satisfied, a foursome? I think when people go to the extreme with sex , there’s really no coming back from that and a traditional, long lasting relationship is something that won’t satisfy them.
She really is smart, and beautiful! Comes across with class and good values. Someone will be a very lucky person when they cross paths with this beauty
As a guy that is waiting until after marriage, I can confirm that not all guys base at least a part of their opinion about a partner on sex. I believe connection both verbally (good communication) and emotionally are what matters the most. And yes appearance matters somewhat. Partly because you want to be with someone you enjoy looking at for the rest of your life. I mean it’s a long time potentially. And partly looks matter to a degree because if someone is not taking care of themselves then they probably won’t be good at taking care of their spouse and children. So I would say Sara is at least mostly right on the subject. Some of us guys are deep enough that we would even still marry a girl that we couldn’t ever sleep with if we had that true connection with her that we all crave. Reproductive urges and the natural instinct to spread seed are in every guy. But some guys grow to where they control what urges they allow and what they decide is most important to them.
I get what Brad is saying but I think the caveat is that it depends on the woman the guy is considering. There’s women I’ve considered being with without considering the sexual aspect. Some women you align with so well that the sex part doesn’t even matter, better yet you just know the physical aspect is going to be off the charts cause you have that kind of connection with them. With these type of women I feel like the sex is such an afterthought.
Thanks for these great shows. I really enjoy watching them. I watch them while going through my chemotherapy treatments. I try and save up a few and then watch them.
Sara you're right there are a lot of men like how you say but it's hard to find where those type of people are. I am that way and I was lucky to find someone with the same moral mindest and energy
Dated my wife 4 years before we got married. She became disabled and the medicine basically made her a vegetable. Last two years she accused me of cheating. I had never been with another woman. Yeah Sara isn't wrong. I stood on my morals and still got screwed. She did the same thing to her last husband.
You having your morals and standing on, that is not for other people but for yourself, of course, but it also divides the people who are really there for a long time and not a good time
Taxes are ridiculous in CA you're paying 48.3 % in taxes in the million dollar bracket. I think that having a friendship where you can be intimate is the best way for a relationship to work. I watch/listen to the podcast because of Sarah. You are interesting and sweet.
Sarah there are alot of Men who want a nice Hallmark Lady also you keep being you. You are like a Unicorn among most people your age that is what makes you special remember that always. Real intamacy is so much better than just a physical fling thing.
Love and connection outweighs the “quality of sex” every time. If I am in love with someone what happens in the bedroom falls way down on the list. I am in love with them, of course that would be the case. We atomise people into “qualities”, sexual or otherwise. Love is far more powerful than such categorisation.
Sara realising a life of going to the gym everyday to make content is not really fulfilling for someone like her, she’s better than that, she needs to do something else 🤦♂️
I agree with Sara, Brad is my guy, I support/ defend him on basically everything ( I hope to meet him one day) but I am waiting til marriage, I want to have sex with a lot of women, but as a God fearing man I choose not too, I will not lose control, I win and I am saving the sexual experience for my wife, I’m not choosing my wife based off of sex, sex is supposed to be to create a child and have intimacy with another human being, to bond you with that other human being, a marriage without sex, does not last long at all, A couple that is not having sex start getting angry with each other quicker, they start arguing. because they’re not as close. I have dated a woman before and I did not f*ck her, and I would die for her, I truly wanted the best for her, I wanted her to be my wife, she was the sweetest, funny, smart, beautiful, and most importantly, she had a relationship with God. So if the lovely lady Sara happens to read this, don’t give it away just to find a husband, there are Christian men making money, tall, strong, handsome men that will treat you how you’re supposed to be treated, that don’t need you just for sex, now you also have to put something into the relationship of course, being a good person in general. Being a caring, sweet, funny, reserved, Godly woman will get you the man you want, pray and ask God, he will provide, he always does, he may not provide you exactly exactly what you want, how you want it but in the end, it’s what is best. I enjoy listening to mommy and daddy talk very much each week, please keep up the good work, from my hard heart I truly say, I am very appreciative to everyone making this podcast possible🫡
"I have dated a woman before and I did not f*ck her, and I would die for her, I truly wanted the best for her, I wanted her to be my wife, she was the sweetest, funny, smart, beautiful, and most importantly, she had a relationship with God." Why didn't it work out with that girl?
@@nathanholden3098 I don’t remember saying “post nut clarity” is not a thing, I’ve just read through my comment again to make sure, and I did not say anything of the sort, I have experienced “post nut clarity” and have not had sex, there are ways to achieve “post nut clarity” without having sex.
I 100% agree with Brad on the dogs vs humans thing in the beginning. I think most would. Animals are defenseless and blameless so when they're hurt, there really is no excuse for it. I think it's weird that Sara would rather see an innocent animal hurt than a grown ass man or woman.
@@imthel0rd There is no such thing as an innocent person unless they're a baby. That's like saying there is a person who hasn't committed a "sin" in religious terms. Humans are parasitic in nature. We destroy and curate the land. We kill and eat the animals. We hunt them for sport. We lock them in cages and small water tanks for our amusement. We perform horrible fatal experiments on them. We commit unspeakable atrocities against each other. We take and take and take and rarely do we give anything back to the planet or environment. Our purpose in life is to serve ourselves. Humans are despicable in nature. The same can't be said for animals. They run off instincts and are just surviving. Even when they hunt or attack other animals or people. They were just doing what their survival instincts told them to do.
16:04 To answer Sara’s question: Juice Wrld was one of the best freestylers. He could’ve made hits from just freestyles (which he did) so he had A LOT of unreleased music from when he would go to the studio and mess around. His team is just releasing all of it now periodically
Sara, You need to quit being so hard on yourself about what you look like! You look great woth or woth out the make-up whice you don't wear to much at all!! Your body in on point regardless what all the negative comments about you are!! Keep your head up!
I don’t care for the sex as long as the women appreciate and sees what he does to provide as a person and how he is towards her for her to do it upon herself to wanna have sex even if he has to wait. It would be well worth it.
Bro I remember watching your grand opening opening back when I was like 19-20ish opening your gym now it’s a networking HOTSPOT. I’ve been going through some hard shit lately but you’ve been a huge inspiration from fitness to upgrading in general. Thank you for the content bro 🙏🔥
I feel like women don't really need sex but for guys its a really important part of a relationship be it in a marriage or dating. To be honest sex is the main way to see if your into that person everyone has a level of sex drive ranging from a month, a week, a day or somewhere in between most people don't really talk about what there level is. Depending on there partner that could be a big issue you can also learn alot from a person from how they have sex are they adventurous, do they lay like a fish when you do all the work, are they unskilled, are they passionate. I wouldn't base the whole thing about someone on the first night but after a couple times you get a rough idea how they are and can base whether or not there worth your time to pursue the relationship.
I’m a Christian guy. But my view is sex is important but you can always help the girl get better at sex. You can’t help her view on how she treats people like how she is a genuine person. So I am definitely more of Sara’s side
To brads point on men saying weather sex is make it or break it, as someone who hasn’t slept around to much when i have really bad sex it usually makes me not into the woman as much so i agree that sex can change it a lot but, i look for personality over everything and will not try with someone if ik i cant get along in the ways i think are just
I am a guy and I do not base my relationships on sex. I base them on values, beliefs, etc. Because of this, I’ve been single 2+ years since it’s rare to find someone worth the time.
Brad is right about the homeless faking being homeless too. Not all but some. That happens here in North Carolina too!! I was at Walmart the other day and I saw a homeless couple walking at the end of the parking lot, and then get into a nice Toyota Camry whilst throwing their cardboard signs in the back and driving off. 😂 then I’ve seen that same couple BACK the next day and set up their cardboard signs!
I mean me personally i think sara is right i could care less ab it bc u can always change it or make it more enjoyable if u just communicate it. But I dont really need it, i just need to some love tbh
I think sex is the closest you can get to one another, so wanting to go there before marriage I can see is appealing. Waiting before marriage teaches you faith.
The thing is it is never black and white with the intimacy comments because in a way it matters to a certain extent, but the most important thing is the character of a woman. If this is a potential life partner the values need to align and how well/easy it is to communicate with her. The sexual chemistry can be worked on and something that can get better and better over time. But if she doesn’t have values, isn’t a kind person and the time you spend with each other is dreadful then it’ll never work.
Body dysmorphia is real and personally I go through that too, I feel like it should be taking more serious then it has been because a person could be looking their best but with body dysmorphia it will have them thinking the opposite. So I feel like as a gym bro you got the responsibility to make a simple comment that could save a person or motivate them to keep going
It makes me sad that Sara feels that way about the gym nowadays in comparison to when she first started. You and Brad should definitely try to start a segment where you are training hard in the gym with little banter.
It would be very demoralizing if everytime you hit the gym, people tell you to stop working out cuz you look uglier lol. In reality, she just need to train legs
Yea imma have to disagree about men needing to have sex before they know the relationship will last. I think there are women and men that think that way and culture makes it seem everyone and their mother does also. I think physical attraction is a good thing of course but is the person going to support your goals are they going be with you for the long term are they selfless are they gentle are they nurturing. Do they smell good do they believe in Christ. I think the meat and potatoes of a person some are mountains and hills more important than the sex of course it plays a factor don’t get me wrong but it’s not the determining one to a successful and life long relationship.
The life of a dog ranges from 10-20 years. I’ve seen a dog live up to 18 and he was still goin strong but was put down bc he was expected to die years before. A kid on the other hand, a human lives wayyyy longer. Can make up to 100 years. A day of a human is a week worth for a dog. So I def see brads pov.
My take on the discussion at 56 min: I’m a very social 24 year old guy from the Netherlands, love to go out and meet new people, and I’m not too shy to chat with girls. But I have always been committed to my genuine belief in bible and so I’m waiting with sex until marriage eventhough that’s very strange in my social circles. I do notice however that it makes it difficult for me to approache girls whom I find attractive because I assume them to think I’d approache them with different intentions, I still need to learn a lot in this. But I’m super confortable with my stance in this, it doesn’t require any discipline or self manipulation, because of my convictions. So yea, there are definetely many more guys like me out there, my 2 brothers for instance whom also waited till marriage in their late 20s. What Sara said is spot on, it’s gonna be hard to find in certain circles like in LA but I feel like many cities with out-going culture. Ps, I love this podcast
I wish I could be friends with Sara. Girl and I have a lot in common with stuff we are going through as ladies in our early 20s who aren’t trying to sleep around and just want a normal and decent relationship. I however couldn’t imagine doing dating life in LA. I am in the Midwest so instead of everyone hooking up, everyone my age is basically already married or even has kids. But when I go to visit family/friends I grew up with out east, if I’m not making 6 figures, dating a bunch of guys, and looking like a model, I am not good enough there either. So at the end of the day, you’ll never please anyone. Just live with what is in front of you now and God will give you what you need at the appointed time. I hope and pray both Sara and I can find our “fairytale men”😂 But girl to girl - I do think it’s important to get yourself mentally ready for another person too. I think Sara has good intentions and values but just from hearing her mental health in this episode, seems like she needs to learn how to take care of herself first so she can be the person the guy she wants would want to marry. Love the pod, interested to see how things turn out in 2024 and streaming ;)
I feel like Brad like Sara he like the type where he be tellin her about how horrible every guy is no matter what cause he wants her to stay single date her Brad yall really meant for each other
Bring someone with a different perspective. You were talking about sex and marriage and men, I think someone who lived most of their life in another country would be able to let u see outside LA. Sara's right by saying that a lot of people (outside of America cause America is something) actually follow their religions and have morals etc etc.
Brad wanted some answers ab relationships… I’m 20 years old, Christian, and have had barely 5 month of my life w out a gf since puberty and never once had intercourse. Soon to hopefully be engaged and excited for that wedding night🤙🏽✝️🙏🏽
Well bradly i think sara's right on this one it depends on your region in most of the countries other than us canada and europe the normal thing is to get married than being in a relationship and yes guys do get horny and alot of them fall for it but it doesnt mean that they priorities sex over a good girl to spend your life with, its easy to fix sex but would you be able to spend your life with that woman thats the question
I want to say that earlier in life how the sex was played a huge part in my choice. But as you get older I want to say that sex is important but an actual connection between 2 people is more important which can also affect how the sex is.
She’s literally just existing talking in a podcast for her job. Y’all can’t complain if you watch all the content with her in it. You are free to skip this podcast and watch Bradley’s raw talk podcast only. If it was a guy who had the same come up as Sara and talked like she is then you wouldn’t be saying anything negative. Y’all just losers with average unfulfilled lives who just hate on Sara because you’re not attracted to her or don’t like that she isn’t soft spoken. Even though she doesn’t act like a ho3 it’s still a problem for you.
dogs>kids any day , I agree with brad but I also dont want to have kids and want to have 10 dogs also agree with Sara sometimes a nice outfitt and makeup makes me feel better otherwise if im unkept for several days basically a ball of trash in bed - I feel horrible - first few days its ok but if I continuously keep dressing down and no makeup It gets depressing.
No guy would want to start a relationship with a girl who does a podcast with brad and goes to his gym, works for his company, talks about her life online all the time
Tell Brad to look up the schnacky family who are a Christian family on social media that will very much back Sarah up,maybe you should invite one on they live near Miami.
I don’t think what you do is “physically” taxing, but it’s “mentally” taxing b/c if you have to do w/ trolls & shit comments… mental is just as heavy physical. Stay strong!
Shes so freaking smart and brave and CORRECT about not doing -it- before marriage. Broooo, I love her so much.
As an Orthodox Christian I completely agree, especially since this is the norm in my culture. However I wouldn't comment "I love her so much" haha, this would be immoral.
57:57
“Can you get this smoke away from me, I have asthma” KILLED me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
how much
If that killed u then better go to therapy
Sara is a breath of fresh air. She’s genuine and honestly seems like a good person. Keep being yourself and doing your thing.
shes irrational
Really? Bc I’m only 5 mins in, first episode ever and she just laughed at homeless people and their income. Not sure how old you are
💯 Sara keep it up you’re a cack 🤣
Brad speaks from a man who isn’t looking for a family and is still in his play state but a man who wants one won’t prioritize that , Sarah is right
you are just wrong😂
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it is a big role in a relationship, but it's definitely not a priority because we clearly witness men who cheat to satisfy the sexual desires that their current partner can't please and still live happily with them, yet same thing happens to a woman but they tend to just completely find a person unattractive after a while if they don't please them sexually, sara basically describing befriending a person before any sexual acts to which eventually can lead to both a stronger connection or a deterrent
polygny is the only way since hypergamy is endless.@@haveyouseengeorgehennen
@@GS-1024 Never said it was a rule bro , I must have triggered you
A lot of people have more empathy towards dogs than people in general because of their loyal and unconditional loving nature.
I 100% agree with Brad. An adult can defend themselves and is more capable of understanding how/why a bad event happened. A dog is defenseless and is unable to comprehend cause and effect. It's like a baby in my eyes. Although I would value a baby over a dog.
Animals over humans
Animals over humans
Honestly, I don’t see how Sara not cuffed she funny asf and that personality is everything lucky guy who ever ends up with her.🔥🔥
I honestly enjoy these two's friendship. Truly beautiful
I completely relate to Sara. I prefer not to wear makeup but when I’m feeling down emotionally or the way I look, doing my makeup and caring how I dress will affect positively how I feel the rest of the day. It must be so hard being in this kind of spotlight. Sara you’re gorgeous and one of a kind. Continue to guard your heart ❤️
Thats pretty much everyone
Hard to be in the spotlight 😂😂 she literally chose to do this as a career lol!
@@LheaWhyteget what ur saying but just bc its the job u choose doesnt mean that parts of it cant be ass. Like just because u choose to work on a farm doesnt mean plowing the feilds isnt unpleasant
@@danesimonson1672 yes because plowing fields is comparable to sitting talking shit into a mic as a job 😂😂
@@LheaWhyte im not comparing anythjnh ab them other than the fact that they are jobs and both have upsides and downsides. Im not saying podcasting is as hard as farming by any means, its simply an analogy not a comparison
Brad you have the ability to be a massive role model in this space because your older and have been through hardship and grinded your way into your position. Make sure you guide the younger gen in the right direction because sara is very influenced by your opinion. Great pod
I love listening to Sara trying to explain what it’s like to be a woman. Men’s hormones reset every morning and a woman’s change every 28-30 days. Some days are just eh
Woah is that true about men's resetting every day??!?
That’s some bs
@@lns4life yes ! It’s all about the cycles of our hormones regulating, Buddy down there didn’t pay attention on class.
Sara...same thing I said in Insta? I just want to say that the morals you showed today on the pod and how passionate you are about what SHOULD matter in a relationship? Is so damn refreshing to me! Keep being you, please!
Hate to burst your bubble but she's a fake. She's not who she says she is, she contradicts herself many times like on the streams with Sneako on both Rumble and TH-cam, her behavior around a guy like that was clear as day, she likes men who treat her like shit, objectifies her and lives a "bad" lifestyle such as Sneako.
57:51 I agree with Sara. There are guys who are into both kinds of relationships with women. But for me, the one I decide to spend the rest of my life with, I want them to be a pretty authentic person. It’s called raising your standards 🤙🏼 PS. Sara keep being you, don’t let anything change you
I was in a 7 year relationship that started with no sex for the first 6 months, I proved to her that I wasn’t just trying to hit it and quit it. That was hard to do but there’s still men that genuinely want more than just sex.
For me to do that, the girl would have to be a virgin or had maybe 1 relationship where she also did the exact thing with that person, and i'd have to truly believe her, i would know by judging her character and watching her lifestyle very closely. Anyway, for me when i truly like/love a girl i don't even think about having sex with her whatsoever, i see sex as a secondary outcome if we were to be in a relationship, because my natural instinct towards a girl who i love is that i want to show her love and affection by treating her nice and being there for her, and protecting her. Then there's girls who i see as only short term girls that are pretty much only good for sex based on their behavior and persona.
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Sara's facial expression tells me she is not totally okay, I don't know if y'all seeing it or I'm just overreacting
59:35 I agree with Sara. When I was younger I thought the way Brad is saying men are. As I got older I realized it wasn’t that important in a relationship. And once I realized I’m more of an emotional person than a physical person my relationship got way better and when sex comes to play it is 100% better.
Bradley is completely right on the animal vs human getting hurt!! Dogs/cats/pets/other small animals are vulnerable, like children!
As a “homeless” person living outta their car, I could never beg for money. Nothing against those that do but I’d rather them get it then me. Pride is a hell of a thing. But I’d rather get it on my own and still give back to those worse off then take hand outs.
Edit- I have 2 dogs also and trust, they are living better on here then I am. They are beyond spoiled and are the best motivators to keep me moving towards buying my own place again. 💪🏽
Not going to lie sounds like Sara is mildly depressed/having a quarter life crisis
Ever since sneako ghosted her dumbass since she wanna yell at him in front of millionaires she’s been real depressed
@@JemzSAu a grown man following sneako…
@@imthel0rdI'm a grown man too the fuck?😂 Sneako is 26 he ain't a kid
@@b23beatz Foreal I’m a grown man but this dude sneako actually gives real good life advice unlike these other TH-camrs
These females just can’t handle it now a days.
😂😂😂
10:30 I think Sara is going through a metamorphic period. And we’re gonna see her be more & more herself. And she knows it too. Best of luck in your journey Sara
My honest opinion is bc she sees all the IG “models” getting all these attentions on looks and I’m sure she feels insecure about that…females put so much pressure on each other on who is the prettiest and who gets the most from
Men bc of those looks. It’s like a flex between girls to be able to say oh I get these things from men bc I’m prettier.
@@Daniel-1-1-1 I see where you’re coming from, but I don’t think Sara’s objective is to be another “ig model”. She carries herself like much more than just a pretty face…but I definitely see where you’re coming from.
@@Nelkstreams couple times she posted pics of herself like those IG models and it’s definitely not her and I think she realized it and stopped…I think the pressure gets to females here and there but very few can overcome it and I think Sarah will and come out good in the end.
@@Daniel-1-1-1 she’s reading this rn bro being like why these guys narrating my life 😂
Brad's slept around too much and he has a dopamine dept and needs a certain level of dopamine high. He needs to rewire his brain. Majority of the men don't need to do that whether they are moral or not PERIOD. BTW I am a man 220 pounds mostly muscles. Sara you are mostly right, dont let this people spoil you
bro said period lmfao
You made such a good point about the dopamine debt! It was either in a pod or zoo vid he mentioned how he’s had a threesome before. I was like 💀 because once you start going to those limits, it’s like, what’s next? What else do you need to be satisfied, a foursome? I think when people go to the extreme with sex , there’s really no coming back from that and a traditional, long lasting relationship is something that won’t satisfy them.
Bro it’s because ur on steroid make ur balls small
Sara gets hotter by the ep😅🥵😫
To me she looks like a disney bird turned human. But get after it bro.
Gay comment
Nah her teeth get me every time frl.
Really? i think she looks like a little boy with big arms
She really does 😮💨🔥🔥🔥
She really is smart, and beautiful! Comes across with class and good values. Someone will be a very lucky person when they cross paths with this beauty
As a guy that is waiting until after marriage, I can confirm that not all guys base at least a part of their opinion about a partner on sex. I believe connection both verbally (good communication) and emotionally are what matters the most. And yes appearance matters somewhat. Partly because you want to be with someone you enjoy looking at for the rest of your life. I mean it’s a long time potentially. And partly looks matter to a degree because if someone is not taking care of themselves then they probably won’t be good at taking care of their spouse and children. So I would say Sara is at least mostly right on the subject. Some of us guys are deep enough that we would even still marry a girl that we couldn’t ever sleep with if we had that true connection with her that we all crave. Reproductive urges and the natural instinct to spread seed are in every guy. But some guys grow to where they control what urges they allow and what they decide is most important to them.
massive mistake ......one of the most important decisions in your life and your just going to risk it,. sex is really important man
Honestly enjoy the candid conversations about taxes and the stresses of being a media personality.
Sara’s right. I’m a man who looks beyond just the sex life. It’s about how you spend each moment good or bad.
Me too brother
Yes. Real love and feelings as well as being a good couple with respect and morals❤️
You’re a capper
So y’all are telling me if she starfishes every time you’d be happy? And i mean that with all due respect
Let’s be honest, you’re a man that hasn’t had a lot of sex, that’s why you say that.
I get what Brad is saying but I think the caveat is that it depends on the woman the guy is considering. There’s women I’ve considered being with without considering the sexual aspect. Some women you align with so well that the sex part doesn’t even matter, better yet you just know the physical aspect is going to be off the charts cause you have that kind of connection with them. With these type of women I feel like the sex is such an afterthought.
Great perspective.
This comment needs to be pinned. So well said.
Stop hating on Sara, grow the fuck up and treat others how you want to be treated
Sara you deserve the best ❤
Thanks for these great shows. I really enjoy watching them. I watch them while going through my chemotherapy treatments. I try and save up a few and then watch them.
Brad is soooo right I hate seeing dogs get hurt breaks my heart. But seeing another human get hurt for some reason it just doesn’t feel as bad at all.
Sara you're right there are a lot of men like how you say but it's hard to find where those type of people are. I am that way and I was lucky to find someone with the same moral mindest and energy
They are the perfect Ying Yang duo, the perfect big bro lil sis combo. They respectfully check each other.
Dated my wife 4 years before we got married. She became disabled and the medicine basically made her a vegetable. Last two years she accused me of cheating. I had never been with another woman. Yeah Sara isn't wrong. I stood on my morals and still got screwed. She did the same thing to her last husband.
I'm sorry to hear that.
She's probably just projecting. See if she's not her who's cheating.
@@Eclipsar369how can she cheat when she's disabled and vegetative
@@RushinVr6 Just came off the meds for some 420 med. She has cprs is you care to know.
You having your morals and standing on, that is not for other people but for yourself, of course, but it also divides the people who are really there for a long time and not a good time
Taxes are ridiculous in CA you're paying 48.3 % in taxes in the million dollar bracket.
I think that having a friendship where you can be intimate is the best way for a relationship to work.
I watch/listen to the podcast because of Sarah. You are interesting and sweet.
Sarah there are alot of Men who want a nice Hallmark Lady also you keep being you. You are like a Unicorn among most people your age that is what makes you special remember that always. Real intamacy is so much better than just a physical fling thing.
The chemistry between you both is jokes. Love it 🤙
Reminds me of how me and my ex were/are
Love and connection outweighs the “quality of sex” every time. If I am in love with someone what happens in the bedroom falls way down on the list. I am in love with them, of course that would be the case. We atomise people into “qualities”, sexual or otherwise. Love is far more powerful than such categorisation.
Sara is gorgeous and smart. Dont get caught up in the negativity. Real people respect you. 🙏 losers talk crap or stalk you 😆
He likes her natural 😂
Sara realising a life of going to the gym everyday to make content is not really fulfilling for someone like her, she’s better than that, she needs to do something else 🤦♂️
“Not evasion, im just not gonna do it” 😂😂
I agree with Sara, Brad is my guy, I support/ defend him on basically everything ( I hope to meet him one day) but I am waiting til marriage, I want to have sex with a lot of women, but as a God fearing man I choose not too, I will not lose control, I win and I am saving the sexual experience for my wife, I’m not choosing my wife based off of sex, sex is supposed to be to create a child and have intimacy with another human being, to bond you with that other human being, a marriage without sex, does not last long at all, A couple that is not having sex start getting angry with each other quicker, they start arguing. because they’re not as close. I have dated a woman before and I did not f*ck her, and I would die for her, I truly wanted the best for her, I wanted her to be my wife, she was the sweetest, funny, smart, beautiful, and most importantly, she had a relationship with God.
So if the lovely lady Sara happens to read this, don’t give it away just to find a husband, there are Christian men making money, tall, strong, handsome men that will treat you how you’re supposed to be treated, that don’t need you just for sex, now you also have to put something into the relationship of course, being a good person in general. Being a caring, sweet, funny, reserved, Godly woman will get you the man you want, pray and ask God, he will provide, he always does, he may not provide you exactly exactly what you want, how you want it but in the end, it’s what is best.
I enjoy listening to mommy and daddy talk very much each week, please keep up the good work, from my hard heart I truly say, I am very appreciative to everyone making this podcast possible🫡
But the thing is how can you tell us post nut clarity isn’t a thing if you’ve never had sex??
"I have dated a woman before and I did not f*ck her, and I would die for her, I truly wanted the best for her, I wanted her to be my wife, she was the sweetest, funny, smart, beautiful, and most importantly, she had a relationship with God."
Why didn't it work out with that girl?
@@nathanholden3098 I don’t remember saying “post nut clarity” is not a thing, I’ve just read through my comment again to make sure, and I did not say anything of the sort, I have experienced “post nut clarity” and have not had sex, there are ways to achieve “post nut clarity” without having sex.
Watching Sara cook is a top 5 bucket list thing to do
I 100% agree with Brad on the dogs vs humans thing in the beginning. I think most would. Animals are defenseless and blameless so when they're hurt, there really is no excuse for it.
I think it's weird that Sara would rather see an innocent animal hurt than a grown ass man or woman.
the person could be innocent too tho.. idk if a human life is less than
@@imthel0rd There is no such thing as an innocent person unless they're a baby. That's like saying there is a person who hasn't committed a "sin" in religious terms.
Humans are parasitic in nature. We destroy and curate the land. We kill and eat the animals. We hunt them for sport. We lock them in cages and small water tanks for our amusement. We perform horrible fatal experiments on them. We commit unspeakable atrocities against each other. We take and take and take and rarely do we give anything back to the planet or environment. Our purpose in life is to serve ourselves. Humans are despicable in nature.
The same can't be said for animals. They run off instincts and are just surviving. Even when they hunt or attack other animals or people. They were just doing what their survival instincts told them to do.
I agree with Brad I care about my dog more than ppl
16:04 To answer Sara’s question: Juice Wrld was one of the best freestylers. He could’ve made hits from just freestyles (which he did) so he had A LOT of unreleased music from when he would go to the studio and mess around. His team is just releasing all of it now periodically
Lowkey shes disrespectful for that comment. She lacks hip hop culture.
@@leobeanie not that deep bro
your mom not that deep
@@J_Jayyyy
I heard Sarah can boil the meanest pot of water....
Sara, all I’m saying is I totally feel you on the taxes. You aren’t alone girl. Just remember that when you wake up & don’t feel 100% on those days. ❤
Also please watch the episode of Schitts Creek where David talks about write offs 🤣
Sara, You need to quit being so hard on yourself about what you look like! You look great woth or woth out the make-up whice you don't wear to much at all!! Your body in on point regardless what all the negative comments about you are!! Keep your head up!
Sara is killing it hope you see this keep it up your brad raw gear team good job guys 🎉💪👍💰✅
There should definitely be more conversations about taxes
*they would make a great couple*
"cuz i dont really need that 100k" i want to live that life lol
Sara literally so cute wtf
Dude you guys are HILARIOUS!! This is seriously the best podcast ever!!
I don’t care for the sex as long as the women appreciate and sees what he does to provide as a person and how he is towards her for her to do it upon herself to wanna have sex even if he has to wait. It would be well worth it.
😂😂😂😂 Sara "I'm kinda down" I feel u girl
Sara is right, SEX DOESNT DETERMINE THE RELATIONSHIP
Yes it does. Do you think people cheat and hold hands?
Bro I remember watching your grand opening opening back when I was like 19-20ish opening your gym now it’s a networking HOTSPOT. I’ve been going through some hard shit lately but you’ve been a huge inspiration from fitness to upgrading in general. Thank you for the content bro 🙏🔥
Btw Sara is a mf GGGG especially after realizing how fucked up taxes are lmao. Hopfully I get to visit one of the gyms sometime next year 🔥
Yo low key. Those pants your wearing Sarah . The gray ones with the stitching , look freakin fire on you 🔥
I feel like women don't really need sex but for guys its a really important part of a relationship be it in a marriage or dating.
To be honest sex is the main way to see if your into that person everyone has a level of sex drive ranging from a month, a week, a day or somewhere in between most people don't really talk about what there level is. Depending on there partner that could be a big issue you can also learn alot from a person from how they have sex are they adventurous, do they lay like a fish when you do all the work, are they unskilled, are they passionate. I wouldn't base the whole thing about someone on the first night but after a couple times you get a rough idea how they are and can base whether or not there worth your time to pursue the relationship.
I’m a Christian guy. But my view is sex is important but you can always help the girl get better at sex. You can’t help her view on how she treats people like how she is a genuine person. So I am definitely more of Sara’s side
To brads point on men saying weather sex is make it or break it, as someone who hasn’t slept around to much when i have really bad sex it usually makes me not into the woman as much so i agree that sex can change it a lot but, i look for personality over everything and will not try with someone if ik i cant get along in the ways i think are just
also im from ohio in the middle of nowhere and most men think the same as brads point in my opinion
One of my favorite episodes ❤
I am a guy and I do not base my relationships on sex. I base them on values, beliefs, etc. Because of this, I’ve been single 2+ years since it’s rare to find someone worth the time.
Brad is right about the homeless faking being homeless too. Not all but some. That happens here in North Carolina too!! I was at Walmart the other day and I saw a homeless couple walking at the end of the parking lot, and then get into a nice Toyota Camry whilst throwing their cardboard signs in the back and driving off. 😂 then I’ve seen that same couple BACK the next day and set up their cardboard signs!
Sara is 100% right I’m on her side about this one, … and I’m 110% man
I need Sara in my life
I mean me personally i think sara is right i could care less ab it bc u can always change it or make it more enjoyable if u just communicate it. But I dont really need it, i just need to some love tbh
I think sex is the closest you can get to one another, so wanting to go there before marriage I can see is appealing. Waiting before marriage teaches you faith.
The thing is it is never black and white with the intimacy comments because in a way it matters to a certain extent, but the most important thing is the character of a woman. If this is a potential life partner the values need to align and how well/easy it is to communicate with her. The sexual chemistry can be worked on and something that can get better and better over time. But if she doesn’t have values, isn’t a kind person and the time you spend with each other is dreadful then it’ll never work.
Taxes equal depression for small business owners. Don’t let it bring you down. Keep your head up.
It be fucking with me fr. Still getting the hang of it but hoping for better days
Body dysmorphia is real and personally I go through that too, I feel like it should be taking more serious then it has been because a person could be looking their best but with body dysmorphia it will have them thinking the opposite. So I feel like as a gym bro you got the responsibility to make a simple comment that could save a person or motivate them to keep going
Sarah is slowly transitioning into becoming more feminine (I hope)
And I’m here for it.
Cause of nick
@@irvinmora7936 sneako***
WTFFF is wrong with yall and these comments. She’s always been feminine. Cut the crap.
Let her LIVEEEEE
As a girl it just feels nice to feel and look pretty and be in our femininity, he’s just not used to seeing makeup on her.
It makes me sad that Sara feels that way about the gym nowadays in comparison to when she first started. You and Brad should definitely try to start a segment where you are training hard in the gym with little banter.
It would be very demoralizing if everytime you hit the gym, people tell you to stop working out cuz you look uglier lol. In reality, she just need to train legs
Or just focus on training and not recording the shit every time. Content creation is bad for the mental state when it's forced.
I agree with Brad about the homeless dog thing 100% and yes I have always said I would rather see a person get hurt than a dog
No sex before marriage for me
Brad I literally think about the Roman Empire at least 4 times a day too and how different life used to be 😂😂😂
Yea imma have to disagree about men needing to have sex before they know the relationship will last. I think there are women and men that think that way and culture makes it seem everyone and their mother does also. I think physical attraction is a good thing of course but is the person going to support your goals are they going be with you for the long term are they selfless are they gentle are they nurturing. Do they smell good do they believe in Christ. I think the meat and potatoes of a person some are mountains and hills more important than the sex of course it plays a factor don’t get me wrong but it’s not the determining one to a successful and life long relationship.
The life of a dog ranges from 10-20 years. I’ve seen a dog live up to 18 and he was still goin strong but was put down bc he was expected to die years before. A kid on the other hand, a human lives wayyyy longer. Can make up to 100 years. A day of a human is a week worth for a dog. So I def see brads pov.
I agree Sara 👍
My take on the discussion at 56 min: I’m a very social 24 year old guy from the Netherlands, love to go out and meet new people, and I’m not too shy to chat with girls. But I have always been committed to my genuine belief in bible and so I’m waiting with sex until marriage eventhough that’s very strange in my social circles. I do notice however that it makes it difficult for me to approache girls whom I find attractive because I assume them to think I’d approache them with different intentions, I still need to learn a lot in this. But I’m super confortable with my stance in this, it doesn’t require any discipline or self manipulation, because of my convictions. So yea, there are definetely many more guys like me out there, my 2 brothers for instance whom also waited till marriage in their late 20s. What Sara said is spot on, it’s gonna be hard to find in certain circles like in LA but I feel like many cities with out-going culture. Ps, I love this podcast
29:47 SHE FINALLY ADMITTED IT!!!!!
Good catch lmaoo
25:30 I think she’s right, keep your head up Sara 🎻
I wish I could be friends with Sara. Girl and I have a lot in common with stuff we are going through as ladies in our early 20s who aren’t trying to sleep around and just want a normal and decent relationship.
I however couldn’t imagine doing dating life in LA. I am in the Midwest so instead of everyone hooking up, everyone my age is basically already married or even has kids.
But when I go to visit family/friends I grew up with out east, if I’m not making 6 figures, dating a bunch of guys, and looking like a model, I am not good enough there either.
So at the end of the day, you’ll never please anyone. Just live with what is in front of you now and God will give you what you need at the appointed time.
I hope and pray both Sara and I can find our “fairytale men”😂
But girl to girl - I do think it’s important to get yourself mentally ready for another person too. I think Sara has good intentions and values but just from hearing her mental health in this episode, seems like she needs to learn how to take care of herself first so she can be the person the guy she wants would want to marry.
Love the pod, interested to see how things turn out in 2024 and streaming ;)
I feel like Brad like Sara he like the type where he be tellin her about how horrible every guy is no matter what cause he wants her to stay single date her Brad yall really meant for each other
Bring someone with a different perspective. You were talking about sex and marriage and men, I think someone who lived most of their life in another country would be able to let u see outside LA. Sara's right by saying that a lot of people (outside of America cause America is something) actually follow their religions and have morals etc etc.
Brad wanted some answers ab relationships… I’m 20 years old, Christian, and have had barely 5 month of my life w out a gf since puberty and never once had intercourse. Soon to hopefully be engaged and excited for that wedding night🤙🏽✝️🙏🏽
I’m gonna bring an scale to Brads gym, to see if legitimately if he’s 260 pounds.
bring the DEA as well
Nah he’s been losing hella weight, he’s boxing now, probably 250 now. And he’s fasting and only drinking Bone broth. He definitely shrinking
Well bradly i think sara's right on this one it depends on your region in most of the countries other than us canada and europe the normal thing is to get married than being in a relationship and yes guys do get horny and alot of them fall for it but it doesnt mean that they priorities sex over a good girl to spend your life with, its easy to fix sex but would you be able to spend your life with that woman thats the question
Sara you go girl !
I want to say that earlier in life how the sex was played a huge part in my choice. But as you get older I want to say that sex is important but an actual connection between 2 people is more important which can also affect how the sex is.
Sara acts like she the shit now it’s so funny 😂
She never was accepted before and now is narcissistic.
She’s literally just existing talking in a podcast for her job. Y’all can’t complain if you watch all the content with her in it. You are free to skip this podcast and watch Bradley’s raw talk podcast only. If it was a guy who had the same come up as Sara and talked like she is then you wouldn’t be saying anything negative. Y’all just losers with average unfulfilled lives who just hate on Sara because you’re not attracted to her or don’t like that she isn’t soft spoken. Even though she doesn’t act like a ho3 it’s still a problem for you.
@@cookiesarelikecream you’re right . Leave sara alone . All you do this bullying sara .
dogs>kids any day , I agree with brad
but I also dont want to have kids and want to have 10 dogs
also agree with Sara sometimes a nice outfitt and makeup makes me feel better otherwise if im unkept for several days basically a ball of trash in bed - I feel horrible - first few days its ok but if I continuously keep dressing down and no makeup It gets depressing.
Sara needs to consider different types of content that balances out the social shit. Go for a hike and vlog or do food reviews...change it up
No guy would want to start a relationship with a girl who does a podcast with brad and goes to his gym, works for his company, talks about her life online all the time
Tell Brad to look up the schnacky family who are a Christian family on social media that will very much back Sarah up,maybe you should invite one on they live near Miami.
Where do you get your bone broth from ?
Sarah: we can get matching tessies 🥰☺️
Brad: that sounds fu**ing lame
😂
I don’t think what you do is “physically” taxing, but it’s “mentally” taxing b/c if you have to do w/ trolls & shit comments… mental is just as heavy physical. Stay strong!