4 THINGS A MAN SHOULD HAVE BEFORE YOU MARRY HIM-APOSTLE JOSHUA SELMAN

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  • @karenkimberly7605
    @karenkimberly7605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +610

    4 must haves in order!!
    1. God Fearing
    2. Must submit to an earthly authority
    3. Have passion for you
    4. Never marry an irresponsible man

  • @vickev1254
    @vickev1254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +952

    *God fearing*
    *Submit to authority*
    *Have passion for you*
    *Be responsible man*

  • @Plmmy
    @Plmmy ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Am a 41yr old single mom of 4kids n am truly trusting God for a life partner....may Jehovah have mercy on me in this area n grant me my desire Amen.

    • @user-tl1vs5dl3x
      @user-tl1vs5dl3x 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Doer will do it for you

    • @amaansah
      @amaansah 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen. May God hear this prayer for us all in Jesus's name. Amen

    • @umusankohkamara
      @umusankohkamara 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen

    • @chimfwembebwalya6425
      @chimfwembebwalya6425 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very true

  • @aderinsolakemyt2127
    @aderinsolakemyt2127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Lord I can’t do this alone.. Plss help me locate the right man of your choice.. am tired of being single😩
    Befr this year runs out,plsss hear my prayers and bless me with a God fearing man

  • @kingsleychukwuka1417
    @kingsleychukwuka1417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1249

    My future wife will enjoy me......because we live in the word of God and make it a part of our life I can't wait to meet her.

  • @amark102
    @amark102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    My future husband wherever you are,you better get prepared.😂😂😂😂I am soo in love with this preaching.
    God fearing is not praying for 8hours or be a pastor but that doesn't mean you are God fearing

    • @annkariuki4007
      @annkariuki4007 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My future husband waiting

    • @TheSongPreacher-soundking123
      @TheSongPreacher-soundking123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I got this song from story of the prodigal son,
      (Luke 15:11-32)
      Story of Joseph and his brothers, (Genesis 37:2-50:26)
      We conquer by forgiveness and Love
      Luke 6:37
      ✍🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿

  • @NehJenet
    @NehJenet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    There's nothing as beautiful as building a relationship in Christ Jesus, may God locate me to that man that knows the value of marriage and embrace God. 🙏

  • @MsMol226
    @MsMol226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I didn't grow up in a Christian home, my parents didn't train me, but when I was born again the sanctification of Christ changed my heart. Now I'm faithfully walking with Christ. Thanks to God my church supports me and my children. There's nothing like Gods love and protection. Amen!

  • @rondamorrow4468
    @rondamorrow4468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    The fear of God should be number one in any man or woman's life.

    • @michellelo8662
      @michellelo8662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      1

    • @Nikki-wm2yd
      @Nikki-wm2yd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It should but it's not because we are fallen. Can't know about that fear if you never come to Christ

    • @smallyrhodes7433
      @smallyrhodes7433 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true..Amen

    • @TheSongPreacher-soundking123
      @TheSongPreacher-soundking123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this song from story of the prodigal son,
      (Luke 15:11-32)
      Story of Joseph and his brothers, (Genesis 37:2-50:26)
      We conquer by forgiveness and Love
      Luke 6:37
      ✍🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿

    • @fredaowusu-agyapong421
      @fredaowusu-agyapong421 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very important. I personally feel like a lot of people use the fear of God interchangeable with faith in God . Those kind of people definitely dangerous .

  • @leoniemattison4729
    @leoniemattison4729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    Here is what I got from this excellent pre-marital training video are. I am a single woman, and I sincerely appreciate how he outlines the four qualities we must look for in a devout Christian man before marriage:
    1) GOD FEARING: The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.
    Read: Proverbs 9:10
    Ask: Are you right with God? This will reveal his heart.
    2) SUBMITTED TO EARTHLY AUTHORITY: Accountability is key here! This man has people (mentor, friends, spiritual leader) in his life who counsels him and can vouch for him, his values, and his purpose.
    Read: 1Peter 5:5
    Ask him: Who provides you with counsel, mentorship, or spiritual guidance? Can I meet him or them?
    3) LOVES & HAVE PASSION FOR YOU: This is beyond physical appearance; your inner and outer beauty gives him deep unexplainable contentment, and yet you can maintain self-control. Your being occupies his heart, but he will not awake your love unless he's ready to make you his wife. He is attracted to you but not in a lustful way.
    Read: Proverbs 3:15
    Ask: Do you love me, passionately? What keeps your passion for the things you love?
    4) DEMONSTRATION OF RESPONSIBILITY: He is aware of the cost dimensions of life. He has a can-do attitude versus a recipient attitude. He knows his place as the head of the household. An overpampered man expects his wife to pick up where his mother or housemaid stopped. Often they're lazy; he has never really lived alone or had to pay bills. He also might be a job hopper, doesn't know his purpose in life, and make juvenile excuses for his lack of growth and development. He's just not prepared for marriage.
    Read: Luke 14:28
    Ask: What is your purpose? What have you accomplished in the past 12 months? What are your top three short-term and long-term goals?

  • @nobantumaisela2911
    @nobantumaisela2911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    I nearly fell in a trap, with a pastor who emotionally abused me. Now it makes sense he believed in Christ, but did not fear God. 💔💔💔

    • @abenabecks
      @abenabecks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm sorry about that dear. It is well

    • @nanaoseiampadu528
      @nanaoseiampadu528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sorry about that May God restore ur heart

    • @georginaanum7612
      @georginaanum7612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s soo sad to be emotionally abused my pastors.. had a fair share . Sorry about it and I believe it’s a lesson learnt.

    • @clairesokindy3303
      @clairesokindy3303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Be strong in the Lord. Keep fixing your eyes on him he will give you the desires of your heart.

    • @angellalahoe3186
      @angellalahoe3186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That mke 2 of us

  • @destinykiki1
    @destinykiki1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    How I wish every single woman has a chance to listen

  • @gloriacooper5670
    @gloriacooper5670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Always been my wish to marry a God fearing man

  • @oluwatosinhammed608
    @oluwatosinhammed608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The fear of the lord is the beginning of wisdom.....

  • @ericnekezehererra7253
    @ericnekezehererra7253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    I'm grateful Sir for this message
    I will be God fearing
    I will submit to authority
    I will have passion for my wife and I will be responsible.
    I pray the Spirit of the living God leads to be able to live this life not to just please my wife and family but most importantly, God.

    • @sisteroflight
      @sisteroflight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Eric God bless you to be and keep these Godly Christian Characteristics in Jesus' Name to God be All the Glory. Amen

    • @preciousgeorge4460
      @preciousgeorge4460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen. Gods grace is sufficient 🙌🙌🙌

    • @altheagrant3618
      @altheagrant3618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen

    • @faithwanjiku4749
      @faithwanjiku4749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameeeeen

    • @angelaagnesambrose9252
      @angelaagnesambrose9252 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      May Holy Spirit help you through in Jesus Name Amen 🤲🙏

  • @melodylerato9799
    @melodylerato9799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Passion is an adjective that qualifies the extent of love ❤ " Selah !! Any man with no passion for his wife is guaranteed to be unfaithful.

  • @francesogechi693
    @francesogechi693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    God is the only matchmaker.

  • @barisipretty3902
    @barisipretty3902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    God please see me through
    I need my own husband
    Before this year end
    Show me mine Lord 🙏🙏

    • @nakazzirose
      @nakazzirose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      God has heard you already. And His Angels are on the way. Don't get tired of waiting on The Lord

    • @sandrahbritty6535
      @sandrahbritty6535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @carolinemuseka9924
      @carolinemuseka9924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here

    • @babyhamisi5331
      @babyhamisi5331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameen ameen ameen

    • @mercyzita
      @mercyzita 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      May God Grant our heart desires.

  • @kipropchemtai1036
    @kipropchemtai1036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    I'm 35 Years single with no child too. I submit to the apostles teachings faithfully and I hope to get a husband who submits to his teachings and has the above qualities. We're never too old to learn.

    • @nicolinetafang6853
      @nicolinetafang6853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      True

    • @romonaokoola2991
      @romonaokoola2991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      May the Lord grant you the desire of your heart.

    • @harrietabenaadjin9006
      @harrietabenaadjin9006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      My dear I don't know you but let me tell you get ready because God has already heard your prayers I'm not married either but u older than me. but I pray that yr by this time will be married not just married but you will have a man your heart will desire God bless you. I know you will come to testify wat the lord has done for you on this platform.God richly bless you.

    • @saudapatricia774
      @saudapatricia774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I DONT KNOW WHAT ICAN SAY BUT AM FOCUSING UNTO GOD......@31YRS

    • @ishayaemmanuel7733
      @ishayaemmanuel7733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      God Almighty will surprise you in an unusual way🙏

  • @afonilizatirla
    @afonilizatirla ปีที่แล้ว +16

    2 years and this is just what i needed to listen to as i enter into this engagement period

  • @estherohue7786
    @estherohue7786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Dear Lord i know I've made mistakes in my past
    Please help me and bless me with that man with the fear of God in him please Lord direct me to the CRO(Chief responsibility officer of my life)🙏

    • @hannahoyeneye5277
      @hannahoyeneye5277 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here
      Help me God 🙏

    • @keneshia971
      @keneshia971 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you pastor this word make see more and iam allowing the Lord to bless my life with that blessed husband.

  • @julietnwaigwe4951
    @julietnwaigwe4951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    MAN OF GOD YOU HAVE SAVED ME FROM A RELATIONSHIP WHICH WOULD HAVE LED ME TO A K LEG DESTRUCTION THANK YOU FATHER .
    MAY THE LIVING GOD GIVE ME MY DESTINY HUSBAND IJN AMEN.

  • @doratampuri7005
    @doratampuri7005 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I was beaten for so many years until I ran away to save my life from a polygamous marriage. Now I am married to Jesus and his word and the Holy Spirit. May God bless Apostle Selma for this powerful message. Thank you God.

    • @ayomidebalogun2500
      @ayomidebalogun2500 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sending you love and hugs ♥️🫂🫂🫂

    • @VuyiswaFiyani
      @VuyiswaFiyani 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ayomidebalogun2500 🙏🙏

  • @bongimoyo
    @bongimoyo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Listening to this as 2023 comes to an end. Thank you man of God, I am being schooled and remoulded. I am 39, battling an anti marriage spirit in my family lineage, sometimes I feel its a battle unbeatable. Its hard.

    • @heavenly_237
      @heavenly_237 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      May the Lord I serve bring you a testimony of marriage. Wish you well.

    • @chiomalovelyn
      @chiomalovelyn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      May God visit you and your family this 2024 in Jesus mighty name amen 🙏

    • @cocosmith12
      @cocosmith12 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      not only you Sisi keep believing in God and keep praying and keep your body clean as it is a temple of God.our time are coming in Jesus name ❤

    • @mbmfoods3823
      @mbmfoods3823 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I fought this as well. And truly God is my witness since I joined mfm ministry Dr olukoya Daniel my life has acquired a lot of change

  • @soniaemmanuel1500
    @soniaemmanuel1500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I wish I came across this message before I entered into a toxic marriage 😢

  • @margykenya6894
    @margykenya6894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Wow I'm very lucky Young girl God loves me He made me watch this I was about to make the worse decision Thanks Dad.

  • @obihozioma8127
    @obihozioma8127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Heavenly Father pls help me meet my own God fearing spouse before this year runs out, give me a man that's responsible and will be passionate about me.
    I'm ready to settle down oh Lord 🙏

    • @martinmbah3437
      @martinmbah3437 ปีที่แล้ว

      You will settle down with your heavens best, this year.

  • @matthewigboke5190
    @matthewigboke5190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    GLORY BE TO GOD...
    Oh LORD MY GOD! Please Lead All Our Youths To A GODLY MARRIAGE Filled With JOY.

  • @affirmationmoments718
    @affirmationmoments718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Wow...this confirms my break-up with an Ex. I made the right decision. Hallelujah 🙏

  • @RestAreaCrew
    @RestAreaCrew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Facts: Over pampered men!!!
    I should have listened to this 5 years ago. It's never too late though.

    • @joanamallah1336
      @joanamallah1336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel you... I should have listened to this 10 years ago

    • @DesireISali
      @DesireISali 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are right, it is never too late. Remember Apostle also said if the deed is already done you must labor in prayer, because GOD is the knower of all hearts.

  • @akuffonancyasa4715
    @akuffonancyasa4715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m delivered from ignorance and blessed with this message

    • @oyeneyebukola898
      @oyeneyebukola898 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am really blessed tonight.
      Thanks Dad!

  • @Joepetersmuteya
    @Joepetersmuteya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Listening to this after a year of being posted... It still was able to encourage me as a man about to get married. I am learning on how to be a good man for my wife to be, God bless you sir...

  • @sweettreatsoverload4296
    @sweettreatsoverload4296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +579

    1. God fearing man, faith filled, born again but not God fearing must have reference of God. Men should summit to the ways of God in all matters. You must train up your child, not live with them only show them.
    2. Must summit to authority an elder, pastor, mentor. You are safe. Must receive wise counsel. He must show you the authority figure in his life. He must be accountable to someone.
    3. Must have passion for you. If he has no passion for you he will be unfaithful to you. .
    4. Never marry an irresponsible man. Some men have been over pampered. Irresponsiblity leads to lazzyness . The willingness to press beyond comfortableness.

  • @mamotsebobelo4111
    @mamotsebobelo4111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have been in tears in my marriage.now i pray to find cloger and move on..and follow Christ Jesus Amen..

    • @cindymarchan7058
      @cindymarchan7058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here,always crying abused and cheated on

  • @giftedward6660
    @giftedward6660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lord I can't do this alone 😭
    Pls help me locate my own husband
    The one whom you choose for me 🙏😭 a blessed and a God fearing man before this year runs out amen 🙏

  • @cynthia9978
    @cynthia9978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    With tears in my eyes, I am 34
    Have lived a good life
    Am still single and I have been without a man for long waiting for the right man (God help me)
    God help me to marry a man that will always put me first and love me no matter what, a man that will give me peace of mind.
    I will do even more for him, respect and love him to a fault
    God please grant me this before the end of first quarter of this 2022 .........Amen🙏

    • @igweuchennauchenna
      @igweuchennauchenna ปีที่แล้ว

      God will help you

    • @igweuchennauchenna
      @igweuchennauchenna ปีที่แล้ว

      I am single I need a good wife

    • @raimworld6988
      @raimworld6988 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sister how come we can't view your pix

    • @heavenly_237
      @heavenly_237 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God will come through for you.

    • @steveigiebor1020
      @steveigiebor1020 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Lord will bless you with your destiny partner

  • @LASONYARWOODS
    @LASONYARWOODS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yes the man I loved , whom I meet in church and married. As soon as I married he changed, stole from me, dragged my name through the mud, tried to tear down everything I accomplished. Then when I could not provide for him anymore , he beat me and set me on fire. God spared my life. Lord I wish I could have had this teaching from my pastor. Instead I chose wrong and suffered so much, because I believe God would change him if I just keep fasting and praying. But today I am free. Thank you man of God.

    • @amycruz0x
      @amycruz0x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You will be fine dear

    • @mpendulongwenya2438
      @mpendulongwenya2438 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      LASONYA R. WOODS sorry sister our God is faithful He is going to heal you.

    • @daphineawino134
      @daphineawino134 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh sorry my dear

    • @godwinchidi9439
      @godwinchidi9439 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's well with you,i know how you feel

    • @atunwabukola3550
      @atunwabukola3550 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's well dear

  • @charmainewilliams7526
    @charmainewilliams7526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Lord am waiting on your timing to meet my husband because your timing always the best

    • @novlettecoleman3395
      @novlettecoleman3395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very timely message. Blessings

    • @maurenawhite5087
      @maurenawhite5087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I BELIEVE RECEIVE and CONNECT, DISTANCE is no BARRIER IN the REALM OF the HOLY SPIRIT. THANK you JESUS CHRIST and thank you Apostle Joshua.

    • @jasonmontella5812
      @jasonmontella5812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His time is the best

    • @shalomtirado900
      @shalomtirado900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dont Give Up. GOD is Faithful, HE is ALWAYS on time. And worth waiting for. Amen. Ask GOD to give you " Contentment in being Single in Christ until HE brings you 2 in each others lives. Amen. 💖

    • @rohan_gmuzic
      @rohan_gmuzic 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here waiting on my wife..

  • @annienankumba8551
    @annienankumba8551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    May the God who remembered Hannah and Sarah remember me and send me a God fearing man

    • @samuelmutebi6484
      @samuelmutebi6484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Annie, let me get your contact because God has remembered you.

    • @overcomer8691
      @overcomer8691 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @phephiekhumalo7249
      @phephiekhumalo7249 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @vickymor3963
      @vickymor3963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samuelmutebi6484 😂😂😂😂 smh

    • @annienankumba8551
      @annienankumba8551 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samuelmutebi6484 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jeromemoss8467
    @jeromemoss8467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My husband will love me as much as how Christ Jesus mighty God loves me Amen

  • @melvinatieno8251
    @melvinatieno8251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Jesus, I wished someone could hear this. Thank you for this revelation... A 23 year old girl.... Am learning alot. Lemme not be a hearer of the word but also a doer.

  • @ireneifanse5523
    @ireneifanse5523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    i am a single mum who really cannot settle for anything less than who God wants for me,a man is really claiming to love and want a God fearimg man but he is not,and i have told him but he has refused to let go i cannot wait this long and marry wrongly. i hope i am on the right part sir. will be 50 in dec

    • @sonwealth6453
      @sonwealth6453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Follow your heart sis may God be with you........... Amen

    • @kingsleychukwuka1417
      @kingsleychukwuka1417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sister, Just focus your heart only on Jesus Christ....... you'll see the right man....mark mine word.

    • @cathrinewambui8910
      @cathrinewambui8910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pray about the will of God to b done,,

    • @Musheneneko
      @Musheneneko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God is faithful

    • @miracleetifit6686
      @miracleetifit6686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is the spirit. God Bless you and grant you your heart desires. It will come for you.

  • @kwempire9333
    @kwempire9333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    If it is God wish that my future wife sees this message, please be prepared because we must listen to apostle message every morning and every night, I don't mind if we repeat one message for a month and even say everything he said word by words...

  • @amandabogosi8455
    @amandabogosi8455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Sometimes I get confused when it comes to marriage but this sermon taught me a lot. Thank you sir 🙏 😇

  • @makiaforex
    @makiaforex 4 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    I'm really blessed I'm 25 desperately searching for my wife, that's what even brought me here. Unlike most guys of my age, I'm responsible by God's grace. This is really something we gada dedicate to God so that we don't involve ourselves in to toxic relationships. Thank God for Apostle Selman , I took note of all these points I'm gonna refine myself so that I won't hurt my future wife.

    • @NikaFlemm
      @NikaFlemm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The the approach all men should do "refine" aswell as women we need to search ourselves and see what does not fit in the kingdom of God

    • @graceogolla5025
      @graceogolla5025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Been praying for a spouse and I still believe I will be married

    • @princessadoram6759
      @princessadoram6759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Proverbs 18:22 says he who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtain favor from God. God am patiently waiting for my right time and my right husband

    • @mavisamankwaa8536
      @mavisamankwaa8536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Grace Ogolla Indeed you will
      I’m praying for the same breakthrough.
      Our God is faithful

    • @kingnarhmusic
      @kingnarhmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mavisamankwaa8536 Hi Mavis

  • @temiolatunji7356
    @temiolatunji7356 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    This teaching really blessed me sir. Have been married for 6 yrs, my husband didn't look like the man I wish to marry when he came along becos he was passing through some hard times around him. I knew he is God's choice for me becos he's God fearing, passionate, respectful and understanding. I pray for grace to have more passion for him and I also pray he walks in God's obedience more and more every day in Jesus name. This teaching just rekindled my love for him

  • @alicejoshua5598
    @alicejoshua5598 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To my Husband Out there whose God has created Him just for me.

  • @estherosadolaye9871
    @estherosadolaye9871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    This is an eye opener,I have always prayed for a God fearing man and I pray God grant me my heart desires soon! I also pray for the grace to be a God fearing woman too🙏

  • @estheroghoro-aliems5998
    @estheroghoro-aliems5998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm a victim of such marriage. Sisters be very very careful & watchful. My partner is nothing less than what the man of God has said.

    • @yvonnewangui4444
      @yvonnewangui4444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      May God have mercy on me 🙏

    • @doreeneshun7037
      @doreeneshun7037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True! Not every born again man is Marriage material. Sisters be very careful ... in a bad marriage is like hell on earth !

    • @nomfundomasuku2443
      @nomfundomasuku2443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      O mi gosh, i just said those words about a pastor guy who was proposing me, he's behaviour is that less of what a man God has said to be. Please continue to pray ladies and May God deliver you all.🙏🏽💜

  • @mlangenielizabethlebo5666
    @mlangenielizabethlebo5666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Dear future husband, please listen to this teachings in Jesus name🙏🏾

    • @NikaFlemm
      @NikaFlemm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right! I am with you on that i pray that these qualities with rest in the heart of our future husbands

    • @celineyakubu
      @celineyakubu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen!

    • @rachealfumilayo604
      @rachealfumilayo604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May d Almighty God remould my husband in righteous way.amen he is a faith but not a fearing God.

    • @gadknack-baiden9332
      @gadknack-baiden9332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahaha, I'm listening dear with abprut attention

    • @jennyjen8579
      @jennyjen8579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

  • @theauthenticvoice6545
    @theauthenticvoice6545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    My future wife will definitely love and adore me just as how I love and adore her intrinsically 🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️🔥

  • @margaretumoh6909
    @margaretumoh6909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    This message is for me, have been so confused of whom to choose as a life partner. Thank you papa for the eye opener.. 🙌more fire...🔥🔥🔥

  • @christabelsinkamba4015
    @christabelsinkamba4015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I really needed this now I understand why my Marriage didn't last

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      AMEN AMEN AMEN..MINE 2🙏💯😇

    • @patiencemakungu1
      @patiencemakungu1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The next one will last❤️

    • @omadaradeyounge8889
      @omadaradeyounge8889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      After listening this message i thank god for ending my first marriage

    • @ireneochieng5991
      @ireneochieng5991 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We serve GOD of many chances.

    • @brorguldberg9885
      @brorguldberg9885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too oo. But its well

  • @ssebaalezoey5849
    @ssebaalezoey5849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was blaming my self for the love I lost but from now on I surrender all to you

  • @mishaeljohnson963
    @mishaeljohnson963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am the best wife for my future husband because i build my life process in God.And God i trust you to make my path cross with my blessing.

  • @colbyartis35n
    @colbyartis35n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need prayer for my last relationship to reconcile, I wish to bring God back to my family. I wish for God to be the final reference in our home. I failed her. I should have held strong until the end, but I fainted from her stubbornness, please help me pray for her to not have those spirits over her and for us both to not live in sin, but to submit to the word of God as the final authority and not evil. Please pray for us. I want her to be my wife. With no sin.I want to love her like Christ loved the church!

  • @iamtaliba.divine.love1322
    @iamtaliba.divine.love1322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The most hurtful thing that I have experienced is majority of the men that is described in this video claims to be a believer.

  • @irohankeiruka6002
    @irohankeiruka6002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Oh thank u Lord for blessing me with my husband, I enjoy all this in my home. Father am grateful.

  • @IreneJaneefah
    @IreneJaneefah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Oh Yes! God may my future husband be a God Fearing man. I have been waiting of my God fearing husband and I believe that God is sending Him this season. I shall come back with testimony

    • @charityokafor7514
      @charityokafor7514 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Show me the way lord 🙏

    • @elsakenneth451
      @elsakenneth451 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I heard this before I said yes

    • @enenchearthursunday7219
      @enenchearthursunday7219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen as you decreed you shall have it in Jesus name amen Amen

    • @IreneJaneefah
      @IreneJaneefah 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@enenchearthursunday7219 Amen and Amen

    • @laurenawuitor8264
      @laurenawuitor8264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless my husband, I pray for more Grace to his elbows

  • @yattaricks7735
    @yattaricks7735 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I Pray that God Will Bless Me With A Husband With These Four 4 Things
    1 God Fearing.
    2 Must Submit To An Earthly Authority.
    3 Have Passion For Me.
    4 And To Be Responsible
    🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @kerryssienzawadi1090
    @kerryssienzawadi1090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    This message has helped me to escape a toxic relationship.. thanks

  • @ifelovett4383
    @ifelovett4383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    God take away every negative thought from my hrt so that I can have a marriage that pls God.

  • @mmanakonhlapo3754
    @mmanakonhlapo3754 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am 40 years single woman and i trust God Almighty to bless me with a God fearing husband Amen

  • @lovelyneliviokeke6964
    @lovelyneliviokeke6964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wish ALL single ladies would listen to before they got married.
    I wish I had listened too before I got married too.
    God bless Apostle alot of marriages will still be saved.

  • @rinahobson9043
    @rinahobson9043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Powerful message for all the God-fearing single women and for those in a relationship...take heed to the message...

    • @frankgraysofficial9187
      @frankgraysofficial9187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's true I love this video cause it's remember me of my son

    • @Conelcornelius
      @Conelcornelius 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@frankgraysofficial9187 what happened to your son?

    • @TheSongPreacher-soundking123
      @TheSongPreacher-soundking123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I got this song from story of the prodigal son,
      (Luke 15:11-32)
      Story of Joseph and his brothers, (Genesis 37:2-50:26)
      We conquer by forgiveness and Love
      Luke 6:37
      ✍🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿

    • @Waziri.B
      @Waziri.B 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Powerful

  • @helenamk3038
    @helenamk3038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    God fearing
    Submission to an earthly authority
    Passion
    Responsible
    Father Lord, in the name of Jesus please bless me with such a kind of man for marriage as my husband and companion. Let not my patience perish in vain....I believe and trust that you my Lord are hearing my cry.. Amen.🙏😘

  • @pnjambi4664
    @pnjambi4664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    God help our brothers and the men we parents are raising . Raise them to be God fearing responsible men who love the Lord whole heartedly. 🙏

  • @nicolinetafang6853
    @nicolinetafang6853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    With this message I now understand the difference between a God fearing man n a born again man . God still hoping for a partner show me Mercy n favour me through your Grace 🙏🙏🙏. What an inspiration and hopeful message

  • @susanwingate4522
    @susanwingate4522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God help me have a good relationship with my soulmate may he love you more than he loves me may we always put God first in our lives in Jesus Christ name Amen Amen Amen Amen

  • @princeglobaloutreach2571
    @princeglobaloutreach2571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wow, a lot of sisters are blessed with this message, I think it's mainly you all; I'm searching for message dedicated mainly for men 😉

  • @user-sr9dl9pp4o
    @user-sr9dl9pp4o หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I pray for my future husband where ever you are please be prayerful

  • @bkbeya77711
    @bkbeya77711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I pray that the fear of God falls on everyone of us. Every christian every where.

  • @reallygood4434
    @reallygood4434 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    My wife to be will be the most luckiest....

    • @naomiblessed6993
      @naomiblessed6993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I pray indeed , may his will prevail, God has packaged me for that one blessed man, I will wait,his timing is the best.its very true, there is only one soulmate for every one.

    • @TopHat_VR828
      @TopHat_VR828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome

    • @divineakachukwu4271
      @divineakachukwu4271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@naomiblessed6993 yea

    • @divineakachukwu4271
      @divineakachukwu4271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@naomiblessed6993 please dear can I know u. I'm akachukwu by name

    • @allisonmckie9823
      @allisonmckie9823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May God bless your union

  • @angelangandwe2743
    @angelangandwe2743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Am challenged and blessed by this message. The Lord has opened my eyes and I pray that I my teach my sons to be Marriage material in Jesus name.

    • @anulinnedu2557
      @anulinnedu2557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank God for this word

    • @lissettelopez866
      @lissettelopez866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AMEN YES MANY WOMEN NEED TO RAISE GOD FEARING KINGS👑👑👑

    • @nasthaciadouglas8098
      @nasthaciadouglas8098 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen powerful massage man of God.May God continue to give you strength to carry out his work in you.

  • @oluchionyia7096
    @oluchionyia7096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Faith in God and fear of God are two different things"...wow..thank you so much for this enlightenment

  • @Lolo584
    @Lolo584 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ask God to give you your own husband and together advance the Kingdom of God mission forwards for His glory to be revealed in Christ Jesus, amen.

  • @richardennin4256
    @richardennin4256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Those of us about to enter into marriage must be vigilant. Remember; Jesus Christ in the New Testament told us to be vigilant. We need to reflect on this message so we can have a pleasant marriage, God richly bless you Apostle. You're indeed an agent of change

  • @jenagya7855
    @jenagya7855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    May God grant us the wisdom to choose wisely for his glory that's my heartmost prayer everyday

  • @barbaramelebachiariolu3336
    @barbaramelebachiariolu3336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please God I need ur will in my life. Do not let me go the wrong way. Give me a life partner with the fear of God.

  • @patiencemakungu1
    @patiencemakungu1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😭😩😭Where were you when I was making mistakes with my choices of men in this life😭😭

  • @chukssamuel4848
    @chukssamuel4848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Oh Lord! I thank you for raising a man like Apostle Selman . I have been blessed with your messages.
    Thank you sir.

    • @121love6
      @121love6 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good one, even me😀

    • @annahnharreluga3431
      @annahnharreluga3431 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The truth as it is and even the pastor in the knows about the wrong thing that is happening in the church the Pst will be quite because the Pst don't want to loose the member

    • @EjikemePrecious-pt5bn
      @EjikemePrecious-pt5bn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊😊😊

  • @centreoflifeministries8428
    @centreoflifeministries8428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I BELIEVE I found this man, I was wondering why this man is like this, many times I thought maybe I was Bing lied to, but after this massage Thankyou I BELIEVE he is the one he has all these qulitis. And more🤗

  • @judithabba7997
    @judithabba7997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    1)He must be God fearing
    2)He must be submissive to ethnic authority
    3)He must have passion for you
    4) He must be responsible ( an irresponsible man says have they not done it?
    A responsible man says let's do it)

  • @evangelistjudy5966
    @evangelistjudy5966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is a powerful message...sometimes we feel like giving up waiting on God but he still encourages us...He is faithful.am waiting on u.oh God... give me a husband who we will serve your purpose in our days of living in jesus name

  • @alicelarbi9187
    @alicelarbi9187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    God pls help me meet my Godly man..

  • @annashowunmi4696
    @annashowunmi4696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I just found this pastor, my life is transformed 😇😇
    I hv been working on this chalk line since I was born, I’m 22 and discourage, I just need a little more encouragement.
    Thank u sir 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @joelsimfukwe
    @joelsimfukwe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Thank you Apostle Joshua for this sermon. I had a bad break up with the person I was seeing for 4 years. She said I should listen to this! Am here with my eyes open in tears because this sermon did not come eary! I really love her and I hope I will make it to these 4 things a man should have.
    Thanks once again!

  • @eunicemalala8451
    @eunicemalala8451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Actually apostle God has changed my life through your teachings,,,, may God bless you more and more

  • @PurityinDatingAndRelationship
    @PurityinDatingAndRelationship 4 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    It's essential to maintain Purity in dating and relationship - honoring God

    • @gracegadugah7958
      @gracegadugah7958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Powerful message God bless you more

    • @lissettelopez866
      @lissettelopez866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AMEN🙏🙏🙏

    • @wysefavor
      @wysefavor 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats how you know if their marriage will fail or succeed..

  • @okurofavour6684
    @okurofavour6684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank God I am still single. Now I my eyes are open now thank you Jesus Christ for this message

    • @bellaomo4848
      @bellaomo4848 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow what a lovely msg

  • @senyodelakudjo8740
    @senyodelakudjo8740 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    God bless pastor ,truly after listening to your message ,I have sent apologies messages to her for all my weak points,and after I sent her the preaching.
    Seriously it has touched me more than others.
    May God comfort all women

  • @juliamae46
    @juliamae46 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Amen. We need to have more Pastors preaching these word in Church.. Learned a lot from this message, I became a widow after 29 years and found answers in this sermon about my marriage. Thanks and continue to be led by God.

  • @arinola8851
    @arinola8851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This message is very powerful. Lord, lead me through this relationship journey to make the right choice in marriage.

    • @arinola8851
      @arinola8851 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 scammer get lost

    • @colletteikeanyibe1487
      @colletteikeanyibe1487 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@arinola8851 why make such statement? He's words blesses many soul.

  • @susanthobekilencube71
    @susanthobekilencube71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    It's true that many marriages don't have passion. When I tell people l want to marry a man who is passionate about me, they think am crazy & want a perfect man that doesn't exist.
    Thank you Apostle for teaching about it. A confirmation of what the Lord has been teaching me. I refuse to settle. I'll wait for that man.

  • @jaredb9530
    @jaredb9530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Because of this I will be ready for my wife in Jesus Name

  • @romonaokoola2991
    @romonaokoola2991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Servant of God,that's very true.You've made me have fresh memories of my late husband who had all those qualities and really changed my life for God's glory,may the Lord remember me a gain.

  • @oladelejames4990
    @oladelejames4990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Your msg is always comfort my heart and bring peace to my mind, may the lord continues to strengthen you sir

    • @atunwabukola3550
      @atunwabukola3550 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very Tru.....amen

    • @rachealmatthew3358
      @rachealmatthew3358 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its really bring peace to my mind
      Please lord give me a fearing husband

    • @rachealmatthew3358
      @rachealmatthew3358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its really bring peace to my mind
      Please lord give me a fearing husband

    • @TheSongPreacher-soundking123
      @TheSongPreacher-soundking123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this song from story of the prodigal son,
      (Luke 15:11-32)
      Story of Joseph and his brothers, (Genesis 37:2-50:26)
      We conquer by forgiveness and Love
      Luke 6:37
      ✍🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿

  • @lawrenshaabu3581
    @lawrenshaabu3581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm grateful to have listened to the message before I get married because the relationship I'm into lack all this except for #4. Lord please give me a husband that will have all this qualities and more .

  • @umechiamaka
    @umechiamaka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's really beautiful to dwell in God's presence and be refreshed by his Love.
    I don't pray for a husband but I pray for a guardian and someone with an audacious character.

  • @zinenqose
    @zinenqose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you man of God. My life will never be the same. My name is Zine from South Africa. Amen