Welcome back to another tea with tiffanythinks on a Tuesday (Ep 9). I have had my biopsy all taken - that video you will see on Thursday. I haven’t edited it yet because I have been an emotional mess since having it done. Thank you for being THE BEST!! Please SUBSCRIBE!! Instagram, TikTok & FB: @tiffanythinks. Love you lots!! WE GOT THIS💙
I am so sorry that you are in so much pain. We love you, and appreciate the updates. But, we understand when you aren’t well, and need to rest. 💜💙💙🙏🏼💙💙💜 I will continue to have you in my prayers!💙💙We got this!!💙💙Just thought of this. You know those “donut pillows”, or cushions women sit on after they give birth? You might want to try and find one to sit on( even after your surgery)….there is a hole in the middle which takes the pressure off your bottom area. Check into it! God bless you and your family!
Sweetie, you can get more or different pain meds you dont need to be in this level of pain, call the docs, dont put yourself through this. you need sleep too heal. Also get the bleeding checked ASAP, you could need treatment now not later. You film anything and everything you want to , it's fine . Film from bed if you need to . Having had lots of biopsies, I would call your docs ASAP. If you need to talk just message me, treatment is hard. Do you have a donut pillow it will help with sitting. Sending you lots of hugs and prayers. 💙
Tiffany, I don’t know exactly where they biopsied but having excess pain and bleeding after this procedure should be brought to your doctors attention. I’ve been a nurse for over 40 years. Anesthesia makes many people emotional several days post op but the bleeding and pain really should be brought to your surgeons attention. Bless your heart - I am praying for you…. Please do whatever you need for yourself….
Tiffany please go to hospital and get seen. Bleeding and pain is a warning something isn’t right. You have every right to get checked out and better pain management. 🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙
Hello from Ohio, USA. I am another nurse with 40 plus years experience. I agree with the other nurses please contact your surgeon as soon as possible. He would want to know how you are feeling, your symptoms, etc. Praying for you.
Tiffany, you shouldn't have to be in pain like this, let alone the bleeding. You have several nurses advising you to go to the hospital now. Please listen to them. I beg you please go to the hospital.
Tiffany we got this,I’m a stage 4 neuroendocrine pancreatic cancer. I’m thriving and surviving. I know that hard days are hard. But really I’m praying for complete healing. So u can jump and say I’m cancer free
Tiffany, first off I love you. I’m Jeri living in the state I’d Washington, USA. I was diagnosed with Stage IV Hodgkin Lymphoma. I was extremely sick for six months before being diagnosed. I went through six months of chemo but was very very close to losing my life after the first chemo. I had a severe reaction to one of the four chemo’s. I had four grand mal seizures, and many other near fatal side effects. I was in ICU for five days. I don’t remember any of those five days. But I survived! I gave it all to my my Lord to see me through. I’ve now been in remission for 14 years. Do not lose you hope and continue praying to God. Please know that I pray for you very often. You are a sweetheart and I would love to meet you one day. You have a wonderful support group, especially your Mom and your Darling. If you are up to it I would love to hear from you. 🙏🏽✝️❤️😘
Sweet darling Tiffany 💙, hi! I’m a medical social worker who watches all your posts. Today I just want to encourage you to contact your care team asap & whenever you have symptoms like this: excessive pain, bleeding nausea, etc. You’re not bothering, it is absolutely their job to help you! You have a serious situation here and just had a surgical procedure. I’m sure by now you have contacted them. And if you can’t please ask Matt or Amma to advocate for you. I agree with the other comment, a donut pillow would be helpful, I DK if they did not suggest it? I don’t know what the set up is in the UK but there certainly must be an oncology/surgical nurse or team member that you could speak with, and help and resources available. Please reach out asap girl! on a personal note, I love your videos and they seem to benefit you as well. Sometimes it may feel vulnerable to put out so much personal experience online, that’s understandable. Remember, your community is here for you. The Tiffany Thinks family is real and we love you! You got this 💙💙
Dear Tiffany - I’m an RN in the US. With the symptoms you are having-you should call your doctor immediately. You should not be having this much post procedure bleeding or this amount of pain. Please call them now. ❤️🙏✝️
Dearest Tiffany- I'm a nurse practitioner here in the US. please don't wait but let ur team/surgeon know NOW about ur pain and bleeding. You are a very tough woman but there is no shame in getting reassurance OR letting them fixing what's wrong. I've always been told gut/rectum surgery is one of the roughest. You are doing great! Keep ur chin up DR. TIFFANY. (Remember the saying "physician, heal thyself"?). Let us know if u have sorted this out.❤️❤️❤️❤️
Do you think she has built up a tolerance for the morphine she has been taking for so long now and it may not be working for her as well or not at all, this is so heart breaking to watch. She should have pain relief right. I am from Canada and I have had surgeries and I have always had pain relief and if not the Dr would increase it or change it. I do not hear her talking about follow up. I hope that the Dr or asst will call her to see how she is doing. I am praying for her recovery
I totally concur. I have had so many abdominal/pelvic surgeries (40+), the rectal reconstruction was the worst and I was so emotional. I’m usually so balanced, but I struggled so much with the pain that I was so low mood wise. It will get better, I promise. Tiff, please ask for different pain relief. I know I have mentioned it before, but fast acting oxycodone is wonderful and is better tolerated than morphine, it’s also a stronger and faster acting. Praying for you my love. Big (gentle) hugs xoxox
Tiffany…you are definitely not putting too much out there. Your transparency is amazing and it has helped me and all your fans know exactly how to best be praying for you. Hang in there! You’ve got this! Your pain is temporary even though it is so hard. Psalm 30 “…Weeping may linger for the night, but joy comes with the morning … You have turned my mourning into dancing; you have taken off my sackcloth and clothed me with joy.”
Go to emergency this is not normal take control of your life, I am elderly been going through all this I refused at one time to leave hospital they tried to discharge me when I was Bleeding too much, they persisted and bullied me. I went home and immediately called an ambulance and got back in I do not have support but I know I matter to me. Sending you good vibes but speak up and act on it.
Tiffany, I was on top of the world in my career and financially. Then, I was diagnosed with Triple Negative breast cancer and boom! I haven't worked in two years and am being affected financially. I had 8 rounds of chemo, 2 surgeries in 24 hours, 25 rounds of radiation and 6 months on the chemo pill. I slid into a deep and dark depression in January of this year. The hard part is trying to get my life back. I get scared thinking about fitting back into the corporate world after this jarring episode of my life. I am a thriver and survivor but it has it's challenges along the way. You will never be same but maybe that is a good thing. I have to remind myself to allow grace towards myself. It really scares me how you can be going along in life fine and then something kicks you out of that life into a parallel universe of uncertainty and mental pain. I belong to a cancer support group but outside of that no one seems to understand what I am going through. I don't even know what I am going through.
Hi Tiffany Call the doc who did the biopsy tell the doc what's happening and tell the doc how much pain you are having and tell them you are bleeding If you don't get a response call your cancer doctor Keep going down the line until you reach someone who will help A doctor needs to put their eyes on it to be sure you are ok❤
Tiffany, please love, if you don’t feel good enough to vlog, don’t. Your sister or amma, or Matthew could update us if anything needed to be updated. Please rest! Take care of you, first and foremost!! 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 Also as a nurse, I’d call the doctor if you’re having excessive bleeding. From one cancer survivor to another, please take care. Oh! I’m drinking chai tea ☕️ and my background isn’t TV, it’s usually a podcast 😃
Tiff I think you should call your doctors about the side effects your having from the biopsy sooner than later. I’ve been praying for you so hard. I hate seeing you in so much pain and I’m so sorry. You share what you feel is comfortable for you and don’t worry about the rest. We all love you so much and your tears are our tears, your pain is our pain. We just want you better sweetheart. 💙💙💙💙💙
Tiffany with us there is always a choice. Love is unconditional. Whatever you give is just so authentic and is such a gift. You are loved and prayed for.
Tiffany call your Surgeon. I had my Colon surgery for tumor & my surgeon called that night to check on me. He re-admitted me immediately for bleeding, I was brought back into surgery and he checked all the areas and put clips on the bleeders.
Sweet Tiffany. You are allowed every tear, every feeling of anxiety and any other “feels” you have every day. Never feel bad about it and NEVER apologize for it. Please do call your doctor regarding the under anesthesia post biopsy pain and bleeding. A certain amount would be expected, but it should never be severe. Call. Please. You need your pain handled. I am a retired Oncology nurse here in the USA. If I can offer you one piece of advice, it is to keep feeling all the faith you have God and in your oncology surgeon and all of his team. Faith does make a difference in cancer patient outcomes. We are all here for you 24/7/365. ♥️♥️😘
Tiffany, does your discharge paperwork tell you about pain and bleeding? I am a nurse, and I would read through to see if this is normal. Honey, once again, we are here for you. If you are struggling, let us help you. I appreciate you sharing and caring so much. 🌹🌹
If you are not feeling well Tiffany get Mat to come on and say Tiff is not well but she will be back. I love what you are doing. Like you say if we don't want to see we can change it. Prayers and hugs love.
Six years ago a friend of mine went through all you're going through right now. He also had Stage 3 Colorectal cancer. He wasn't even 40 at the time. After his surgery there were more complications, and more challenges BUT then it all turned around. Now we are here, 6 years later, still in remission, no other pain, no other issues. That first year and a half of his journey though, he couldn't believe it would ever get better. Now, he can't believe it was every that bad. You do have this. You will get through this. Like my friend, it will get bad (I'm not going to sugarcoat it, I respect you enough to be honest), but you will get through just as he did. You will go back to work and have the life you left behind for this short time. I say this while I wait for another close friend to get his results. All test currently point to the same cancer. He had his biopsies last week. I suggested to his wife to watch your channel because you give hope and God knows, that's all any of us need. More and more young people are being diagnosed with this particular cancer, than ever before. You, Tiffany, are a trailblazer. There are many channels that explore other cancers, so we know those journey-but this is a journey that there isn't much out on right now. You are saving lives Tiffany because people with this cancer will see that it's challenging, it's hard, but it's not impossible and they won't give up. You are showing people the path and in times of trouble, we all need someone to light our way. Your are the lightbearer. I wish you and your family all the love and happiness you deserve. You got this Tiffany, and we got you!
Tiffany, we all love you so. I hope you listen to all of the nurses advice in these comments and contact your physician or nurse to state your pain and symptoms. It is NEVER wrong to ask for help. You have to be your own advocate here. No need to make videos if you are too I'll either. We all would feel comfort in knowing that you are doing things that only put you at ease and allow you rest. Especially in these moments. Rest up and ask for help ❤️
Tiffany my dearest girl. Contact doctor immediately. You shouldn't be under such pain. You look in pain. You don't put too much out there. I want to help you. I really am praying for you. My poor girl. Xxxx
I was only hospitalized for the weekend and they had nicked something in my liver which is highly vascular, hence the bleeding. It’s excruciatingly painful internal bleeding, so I’m suspicious on Tiffany’s behalf.
Prepare yourself for a long journey even after surgery this will not be Cured. They may get a lot of the Cancer, but maybe not all of it but you can live a long long time with medication and maybe more surgeries. It’s not a race it’s a marathon, lol, something like that. But that’s ok we All have something some illness to deal with. You and Matt can have babies and a life together. And that’s amazing.
So sorry you're in so much pain, Tiffany. Don't worry about making videos till you feel better, and do call your doctor to tell them of your side effects from the biopsy. Please take care of yourself, and I hope you get an upcoming surgery date this week. You've been more than patient through it all...
Always better to talk to the doctor sooner. Pain management is a must! You can’t function unless your pain is under control. Also don’t feel you put out too much information. You allow us to pray specifically for your needs as well as educate us along the way❤️💙
You need to get a doughnut pillow to sit on. I’m sitting here in pain today myself. I so relate to you, and your journey helps me with mine. Much love to you sweet Tiffany. Stay strong our beautiful girl.
Prayers move mountains U have been a strong girl. U are blessed to have the world's best mum And a loving understanding Max . Be strong I am so happy u get hungry which is a good sign ..u are to be admired to open and share so much .It will help so many people who are undergoing different illness ..please call the doc and explain the pain and bleeding u are undergoing .. We love you sooo much U will be the happy bubbly girl u were
Tiffany, you need to contact your Surgeon and let him know about the level of pain you are having. It's not normal. There comes a time when you need to put yourself first. Please go back to bed and sleep if you can. Don't push yourself. I love your videos but if you are finding it too difficult then don't be concerned about us. Sending you love and Prayers. 'For you shall go out with Joy.' Isiah 55, Verse 12.
Tiffany, my son and I watch you all the time. He is 34 and I’m 63, this is the first time I’ve commented. We support you and your lovely family 100% and be believe you’re going to get through this and remake you life. I’m never fed up with your comments, in fact as a mother my reaction is to try to find away to bring you comfort. I am so sorry for this pain your in and I am praying it resolves quickly. Pain does have a way of waking us up; it is the great equalizer. You, Matt, and your family deserve nothing but the best. What a sweet bunch of people. We are with you through the long haul. Don’t ever apologize for crying. You got this! Susan Issaquah, WA, USA
My sweet girl all I want to do is hold you and tell you everything will be ok . You are so endearing , it’s ok to cry . Please contact your doctor about bleeding and pain . We love you.
💙💙💙💙 My dear Tiffany, I would love to hear from you every day! You are not posting too much! I am a nurse of 40 years. I have a lot of GI experience. You really should notify your Dr. of your increased pain and bleeding. It may be nothing to worry about but at least your mind will be put at ease. If it’s not normal, they can address it. Your doctor would want you to call them. Sitting on a donut would definitely help. Also, a warm bath to sit in if you don’t have any restrictions. I pray and think of you daily.
Sweet Tiffany I'm a nurse and listening to how you are going through right now with all that pain should be addressed immediately. You are so brave and courageous. Top priority is to take care of yourself sweetheart. We all want the best for you. I dont think you are putting to much out there. So many people benifit from what you share.We are all here for you and praying for you. You've got this. God bless you and your family.
Tiffany I hope you called your physician asap. I’m concerned about your bleeding. I don’t think you film too much. Post videos at your pace and on your schedule. Yes, your videos will be a valuable tool for other cancer patients ❣️
Tiffany, if you’re in such a lot of pain and bleeding, I’d be on the phone to make sure/query whether it’s a normal side effect of the procedure or not. They could advise on appropriate treatment and whether you need to be seen. I don’t think they’d want you to be suffering. Xxxx
Don’t wait to call your Dr about pain and bleeding, they really want to know everything. Your emotions are up and down now as you are in pain. He may give you something different that work for your pain better. Also you can get in the Drug store or Amazon a seat cushion called a Donut. You’ll be able to sit without your bottom touching the bottom of the chair or couch. They use if after surgery or if you have hemorrhoids. Do everything now that will make you feel better, it’s important for your mental health.. Don’t change a thing with your TH-cam channel. It so honest and raw and that’s what made me a huge fan. We all could be watching at this moment any other TH-camr but we are with you💙
The pain in your eyes is heart shattering 🥺 Please don’t doubt yourself and what you do. I believe you are helping so many people and not only people who are going through cancer. You are educating people and I know myself personally, I count my blessings everyday because of you. I can’t begin to imagine what your going through or how your feeling. But I will be watching every video you make now and forever. I support you through all your ups and downs and day to day life. Your humble, your stunning, your caring, intelligent and above all so very honest. You share from the heart ❤️ Much strength and love your way.
Hope you are calling the Dr. I just returned from the hospital from having my biopsy on my Manubrium, (chest bone),and the number one thing to do was called the Doctor if any pain or extreme bleeding.
Please make sure you call the Dr. it might have caused an infection. Tell them what is going on. I have chronic pancreatitis. After being in pain it can make you feel like you are going crazy. Don’t get down. Set yourself a goal that’s it’s ok for you to let yourself heal. After a certain date look back of your progress. Don’t dismiss the pain or bleeding. You will feel better. It takes time for healing and reducing the swelling to go down. Please check in with Dr. God bless you. 💕❤️💕 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Tiffany pls do not wait another day , if something doesn’t feel right it’s best to ask sooner then later ! I’m sorry you’re going through this and I’m Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers pls call the do. Straight away
Please know that you’re not letting us down if you skip a video. Just get Matt or Amma to say you’re recovering from your biopsy and you’ll be in touch as soon as you can. Please contact your doctor with your symptoms and see what they can do for you. You’ve got this 💙💙💙
You’ve literally changed my perspective on life. I have been my husband’s biggest supporter during his cancer journey, but to follow you on your journey has honestly given me a new perspective on my life, and I’m 55 years old! You may be only 30 in earthly years but your old soul is over 100 years old! You are such a light for all of us. Your strength, courage and bravery amaze me on a daily basis. Sending you lots of love Tiff. You got this! ❤️
tiffany i hope you’ve contacted your doctor about the bleeding and pain 💙 i hate you see you down like this!! take care of yourself and rest and please please don’t feel obligated to post content when you’re not well!!! 💙💙💙
I am worried about the amount of pain and bleeding you are having still days later. Please contact you doctor or go to the ER and have them check you out. We got this💙💙💙
Anything more than discomfort is not OK and can and will be dealt with provided you can be your own best advocate and speak up to say you need more help pain wise. Even after surgery for ovarian and uterine cancer I wasnt in that amount of pain, and when I was really uncomfy (too much), my partner (a nurse thank god) made sure it was sorted pronto. If the painkillers at home are not working then they need to have you in for a day or overnight to get it sorted. Actually the surgery pain management will probably be much better because you will be an inpatient for a while, and things like morphine etc are easier and safer to dispense on site. Sending love and hang in there, there will be times when it seems unbearable but there will be many good days ahead. Please speak to your CNS nurse as soon as possible. Xxx
Tiffany, I am so very sorry about your pain and bleeding. Please listen to the advice that your Tiffany Family is leaving in your comments. Why should you suffer with bleeding and pain in silence. Please get it checked out urgently, as the sooner the Drs. figure out what's going on, the sooner they will know how to treat you and alleviate your pain and bleeding❤️
Tiffany I think you need to have some counselling, you are only a small way through your treatment, your Surgery to remove the tumour being the major part will be the biggest. You need to know what to expect before it happens so you are able to mentally prepare for it. The Hospital should have given you a list of side effects after your recent Biopsy surgery, I know as a Nurse the importance of preparing and being aware of what to expect after surgery is very important, but the mental ability to cope with life changing surgery is even more important. Stay positive but also don’t put yourself under more stress. 😘
Hang in there hunny.. it will get better.. I have a permanent colostomy and in October 2019 I had to have my rectum and anus removed alongside a large hernia repair. I will tell you that the first couple of weeks were tough but after that I went from strength to strength and with your positive outlook, you will go from strength to strength too. Stay positive. Love and hugs from Karen 💙
Darling girl, I want to cry when you apologize for sharing so much. Cancer is the big event for you right now, it’s natural for you to have so much to say. I’ve been on both sides of cancer, and like it or not, it is all-consuming when it’s going on. You will never know how much you help others by being so relatable.
Tiffany---I think you should contact your doctors sooner rather than later. You should not be in this much pain, and you should not have to just deal with it. You are so courageous and so strong. If it helps you to talk to us, then share as much as you would like. Don't ever apologize for being you! And if you need to rest and take a day off from vlogging, we all understand and support you! WE GOT THIS!
Yes, I agree. Tell your doctors sooner than later about the bleeding and pain. Did they send you home with discharge instructions? They do in the US. If not, then call them please. Don't suffer. Rest.
@@ourcorrectopinions6824 I agree but I wonder why the Dr or someone from the office isnt calling her to see how she is doing, that is very disturbing. I go to the Dentist and get put to sleep for a filling and they are calling me the same day and the next day. Also, she should be laying in bed or sitting on a special pillow. Seeing her in so much pain breaks my heart and I think her pain meds should be increased because she has been on morphine for a while and she probably has built up a tolerance for it and now it is not working.
Some pain never gets better with the best pain killers believe me, I’ve just had a complex total knee replacement and there are times I’ve almost given up,m the pain,is horrendous
@@jofitzgerald9969 I know, I broke my leg and even with morphine & percocet I still had pain. I just mean that she said before & we saw in her videos that she was taking liquid morphine for her pain so I was thinking that maybe she had built up a tolerance for it & that it might not be working for her as well as it could. But she did say that she was now back on the morphine again so I just hope that she can get some relief. Pain is stress on the bodies system & it is just so hard to see her in so much pain but she's been through a lot & the pain will get better with time but when she said in the hospital that they gave her Ibuprofen, I was like what? That is not going to help he with the type of pain she is having & will have for the coming days!
Tiffany please advocate for your self . Immediately. A biopsy may cause a little bleeding and a little pain for a very little time and that’s all. More than that please call your doctor and tell him about your symptoms and that pain meds aren’t helping. You can call anytime their should be an answering service that can pass on a message. All these questions should be told to your dr. Not that I mind hearing about what is going on with . I hope you have taken advantage of the talking with a therapist. I hear anxiety in your voice and that’s normal regarding what you are dealing with. It’s like , hurry up and wait ! And wait . It’s 9:42 pm Pacific Daylight Time drinking sparkling water and holding my little yorkie on my lap . I wish the best for you and Matt and AMA . Looking forward to hearing that you did call and get help for your bleeding and pain on Wednesday. Sending big, big hugs . And tons of love . 🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
We've been anxiously waiting to see how it went. Thank you for coming on here. Get a rubber ring to sit on. Women use them after having babies, or people with rectal surgery use them. Even the local chemist should sell them, they are a medical item as well. You are not posting too much, please don't worry. Much love to you Tiffany! Can't wait for this to be over with for you. xxx
Tiff - please don’t wait to talk to the hospital - go to the emergency right away. Stop thinking pain is normal - please go and get seen. Don’t film a video instead of looking after your health. ❣️💐
Tiffany hang in there. Know that God knows what your going through. Thanks for sharing your life. I am a two time cancer patient myself. Breadt cancer the first time and now t-cell large granular lymphocytic leukemia which is a very rare cancer. So I know about what your experiencing. Stay encouraged.
Oh sweet girl I’m so sorry you’re feeling so bad. I just had to say that to let you know my heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Yes the pain is real. I have had about 8 surgery in the past 2 years. When I had an infection the surgeon scraped the infection during surgery and it was SO painful. I understand that pain that meds don’t touch. Thank you for your honesty. It is just fine to want all the things you want. You are incredibly positive. Even when you are in pain. Rest, it is so important. I love and look forward to all your videos. It is also ok to slow them down if that feels good to you. Don’t feel guilty for skipping a post. Keep visualize yourself moving forward. This is a huge step. You are clear headed and honestly looking at your situation. Keep visualizing this being done.
I'm going through it with you dear Tiffany. I've been fighting stage 4 incurable ovarian cancer for 2 and half years now. I'm proud of you too. Lots and lots of love and prayers 💛✨🙏✨💛
Tiffany I had bleeding and SO much pain after my D&C snd it was awful until I had my surgery. It was rough after surgery but different because the pain went away. Tiffany I honestly feel you need to make yourself 100% of your focus I love your posts and wait for them but you are in all our hearts and we will be with you whether you post or not Do what you must to keep yourself rested and relaxed. If you're stressing over getting the videos out that's probably not best for you. You have captured our hearts with your sweet spirit. We Got This!!!!!!
@@catsjamerz2338 I agree I didnt mean to give the impression it's ok and not get it checked but I see it may have come off like that. Thanks for your helpful comment 🙏🏼
Tiffany, please do nut worry about your followers we will always be here thinking and praying for you. I really think if you are in such discomfort and pain you should get Matt to take you back to get checked ASAP. Sending you hugs and best wishes .
Ah, Little One. My heart is breaking for you! BIG virtual hug for you from this old great-granny! You are one of the most courageous people I've ever met throughout my long life. You will make it through this. Love to you, Omah and Matt........
Contact your doctor about the pain and bleeding. Remember before you went in for the c diff infection how much pain you were in? If you don’t feel right tell them straight away and don’t assume it is a part of the journey. They would have given you stronger meds if they were expecting you to be in a lot of pain. It doesn’t seem right x
Yes please Tiffany please let your dr. Know about the pain and bleeding. You shouldn’t be that much in pain. Oh hunny I’ll pray for you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼no you will be just fine. As my sister always tell me to move around as much as you can.You actually heal faster that way.I found that to be so true. Love you Tiffy ❤️Tiffany we care about you very much.you talk as much as you want to. We’re there for you ❤️🩹❤️💚💜💙💚
You are helping me! You’re a bright light in my life. Please continue ❤️ I had Neuroendocrine lung cancer, found by accident when I coughed up blood. 6/21. Had upper left lobectomy and removed a few lymph nodes, I’m cancer free today, but my cancer is the kind that aways comes back, usually in a different spot. I’m now divorcing my husband, he wasn’t supportive ever. Cancer and my children ( I have 3 bio, 2 bonus and 1 adopted)helped me open my eyes. moving into assisted living home for a while while I sort out my weakness, and other side effects of my rare hormonal cancer. Thinking of you, praying 🙏🏻 for some ease of your discomfort. In my family we say Love you hug you kiss you miss you. Jenn B (I was a professional nanny for 30 years)
Try ginger ale also. You are such a strong and precious child of God. You help so many people just realize that some of us take life for granted. You are here with us all for a purpose! God loves you and is sitting beside you at every moment. I lost my 13 year old nephew to cancer and it left and imprint on my souls like no other. I want you to keep doing what you are doing and our prayers are with you. You have a guardian angel sitting on your shoulders and just talk to him. You GOT THIS! ❤️💝
Tiffany so sorry you are having such a tough time post procedure. You should not wait to call the surgeon if you are concerned, that's what they are there for. Hang in there, you've got this!! You are not alone in your journey. Like my chemo nurse told me this morning it's a blip in the road.
I’m here Tiffani. I am fighting cancer as well and mine is in curable. I am almost 50 but I can relate totally to what you’re saying. I cry a lot too. We’ve got this!😊
Tiffany dpn't ever think you talk to much because I think it helps everyone feel a little better when others listen and may say something to ease some thoughts. I lpve to watch you because you are so sweet and soft spoken. My partner is having to deal with cancer right now. I pray for you both.
Do contact your dr. & ask if anything ever seems amiss. It might help with the pain if you get up & move as much as you can. There's a reason they get you up & strolling the halls of the hospital right after surgery. It helps work the anesthetic out of your system & getting the blood flowing a bit helps you heal faster & feel better.
Sweet Tiffany, I've been praying for you all week and think of you constantly. I survived breast cancer in 2018 and remember so well the feelings of fear and anxiety and generally sick all over, inside and out. My journey was minimal compared to what you are going through and my heart just breaks for you. I am extending my arms across the digital space and wrapping you in all the love and strength I have. We all love you so very much and support you through this very difficult journey. And you should share anything and everything you are feeling. There is nothing wrong with sharing everything you want to share and I only wish you were around when I was going through my very lonely cancer journey.
Tiffany. I watched my mom go through cancer, and I agree about calling your Dr. About all the pain and bleeding. You are doing such a courageous thing by sharing with us your journey. I am praying for you and thanking God that he sent you to such a wonderful surgeon to help you through this! That in itself is a miracle and shows how much God is watching over you! You Got This!
Oh sweet Tiffany, please contact your doctor and let them know about your bleeding and pain. I can’t stand seeing you in so much pain. Thank you for sharing your journey. You are helping many people with your videos. It is not too much. It is perfect. Love to you and prayers for you.💙💙💙🦋💙💙💙🦋💙💙💙
Tiffany take time to heal and if bleeding please go to a and e this shouldn’t be happening and your blood count could be low, listen to your body hugs xx
Call your doctor sweet Tiffany..let them know right away that your bleeding and in pain. That’s what the doctors are for. Sending you a huge hug, love and strength. Know you are loved my many Tiffany. ❤️🇨🇦
Welcome back to another tea with tiffanythinks on a Tuesday (Ep 9). I have had my biopsy all taken - that video you will see on Thursday. I haven’t edited it yet because I have been an emotional mess since having it done. Thank you for being THE BEST!! Please SUBSCRIBE!! Instagram, TikTok & FB: @tiffanythinks. Love you lots!! WE GOT THIS💙
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Hope u r doing ok sister.
I am so sorry that you are in so much pain. We love you, and appreciate the updates. But, we understand when you aren’t well, and need to rest. 💜💙💙🙏🏼💙💙💜 I will continue to have you in my prayers!💙💙We got this!!💙💙Just thought of this. You know those “donut pillows”, or cushions women sit on after they give birth? You might want to try and find one to sit on( even after your surgery)….there is a hole in the middle which takes the pressure off your bottom area. Check into it! God bless you and your family!
Please don't worry for these long vids.. take rest as much as u can.. a small update on insta is also fine..
Sweetie, you can get more or different pain meds you dont need to be in this level of pain, call the docs, dont put yourself through this. you need sleep too heal. Also get the bleeding checked ASAP, you could need treatment now not later. You film anything and everything you want to , it's fine . Film from bed if you need to . Having had lots of biopsies, I would call your docs ASAP. If you need to talk just message me, treatment is hard. Do you have a donut pillow it will help with sitting. Sending you lots of hugs and prayers. 💙
Tiffany, I don’t know exactly where they biopsied but having excess pain and bleeding after this procedure should be brought to your doctors attention. I’ve been a nurse for over 40 years. Anesthesia makes many people emotional several days post op but the bleeding and pain really should be brought to your surgeons attention. Bless your heart - I am praying for you…. Please do whatever you need for yourself….
Thanks for saying this. She’s so kind she’ll never “complain”, but coming from a nurse, I pray she hears you.
Tiffany please go to hospital and get seen. Bleeding and pain is a warning something isn’t right. You have every right to get checked out and better pain management. 🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙
Hello from Ohio, USA. I am another nurse with 40 plus years experience. I agree with the other nurses please contact your surgeon as soon as possible. He would want to know how you are feeling, your symptoms, etc.
Praying for you.
Tiffany, you shouldn't have to be in pain like this, let alone the bleeding. You have several nurses advising you to go to the hospital now. Please listen to them. I beg you please go to the hospital.
Pain after biopsy is not normal!!!
Tiffany we got this,I’m a stage 4 neuroendocrine pancreatic cancer. I’m thriving and surviving. I know that hard days are hard. But really I’m praying for complete healing. So u can jump and say I’m cancer free
💙🦋we are all praying for you
I also hope the same for you. Hang in there yourself.
Prayers and best wishes to you💜💙🙏🏼💙💜
❤️❤️❤️❤️ you got this too sweetheart
Prayers for you sweetheart ❤ 🤲
Tiffany, first off I love you. I’m Jeri living in the state I’d Washington, USA. I was diagnosed with Stage IV Hodgkin Lymphoma. I was extremely sick for six months before being diagnosed. I went through six months of chemo but was very very close to losing my life after the first chemo. I had a severe reaction to one of the four chemo’s. I had four grand mal seizures, and many other near fatal side effects. I was in ICU for five days. I don’t remember any of those five days. But I survived! I gave it all to my my Lord to see me through. I’ve now been in remission for 14 years. Do not lose you hope and continue praying to God. Please know that I pray for you very often. You are a sweetheart and I would love to meet you one day. You have a wonderful support group, especially your Mom and your Darling. If you are up to it I would love to hear from you. 🙏🏽✝️❤️😘
Sweet darling Tiffany 💙, hi! I’m a medical social worker who watches all your posts. Today I just want to encourage you to contact your care team asap & whenever you have symptoms like this: excessive pain, bleeding nausea, etc. You’re not bothering, it is absolutely their job to help you! You have a serious situation here and just had a surgical procedure. I’m sure by now you have contacted them. And if you can’t please ask Matt or Amma to advocate for you. I agree with the other comment, a donut pillow would be helpful, I DK if they did not suggest it? I don’t know what the set up is in the UK but there certainly must be an oncology/surgical nurse or team member that you could speak with, and help and resources available. Please reach out asap girl! on a personal note, I love your videos and they seem to benefit you as well. Sometimes it may feel vulnerable to put out so much personal experience online, that’s understandable. Remember, your community is here for you. The Tiffany Thinks family is real and we love you! You got this 💙💙
Dear Tiffany - I’m an RN in the US. With the symptoms you are having-you should call your doctor immediately. You should not be having this much post procedure bleeding or this amount of pain. Please call them now. ❤️🙏✝️
Dearest Tiffany- I'm a nurse practitioner here in the US. please don't wait but let ur team/surgeon know NOW about ur pain and bleeding. You are a very tough woman but there is no shame in getting reassurance OR letting them fixing what's wrong. I've always been told gut/rectum surgery is one of the roughest. You are doing great! Keep ur chin up DR. TIFFANY. (Remember the saying "physician, heal thyself"?). Let us know if u have sorted this out.❤️❤️❤️❤️
Do you think she has built up a tolerance for the morphine she has been taking for so long now and it may not be working for her as well or not at all, this is so heart breaking to watch. She should have pain relief right. I am from Canada and I have had surgeries and I have always had pain relief and if not the Dr would increase it or change it. I do not hear her talking about follow up. I hope that the Dr or asst will call her to see how she is doing. I am praying for her recovery
I totally concur. I have had so many abdominal/pelvic surgeries (40+), the rectal reconstruction was the worst and I was so emotional. I’m usually so balanced, but I struggled so much with the pain that I was so low mood wise. It will get better, I promise. Tiff, please ask for different pain relief. I know I have mentioned it before, but fast acting oxycodone is wonderful and is better tolerated than morphine, it’s also a stronger and faster acting. Praying for you my love. Big (gentle) hugs xoxox
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You’re a darling
Please talk with your doctor…that pain is just wrong. Sending the biggest hug from Canada…💙💙💙💙💙
Tiffany…you are definitely not putting too much out there. Your transparency is amazing and it has helped me and all your fans know exactly how to best be praying for you. Hang in there! You’ve got this! Your pain is temporary even though it is so hard.
Psalm 30 “…Weeping may linger for the night, but joy comes with the morning … You have turned my mourning into dancing; you have taken off my sackcloth and clothed me with joy.”
Tiffany, i'm praying for you , you can see the pain in your eyes, pray and be strong, you're going to be ok love you.
His mercies are new every morning.
You are right
Amen
praying for you, you got this, Im sorry you are having so much pain, I pray you feel better soon 😥
Go to emergency this is not normal take control of your life, I am elderly been going through all this I refused at one time to leave hospital they tried to discharge me when I was Bleeding too much, they persisted and bullied me. I went home and immediately called an ambulance and got back in I do not have support but I know I matter to me. Sending you good vibes but speak up and act on it.
Tiffany, I was on top of the world in my career and financially. Then, I was diagnosed with Triple Negative breast cancer and boom! I haven't worked in two years and am being affected financially. I had 8 rounds of chemo, 2 surgeries in 24 hours, 25 rounds of radiation and 6 months on the chemo pill. I slid into a deep and dark depression in January of this year. The hard part is trying to get my life back. I get scared thinking about fitting back into the corporate world after this jarring episode of my life. I am a thriver and survivor but it has it's challenges along the way. You will never be same but maybe that is a good thing. I have to remind myself to allow grace towards myself. It really scares me how you can be going along in life fine and then something kicks you out of that life into a parallel universe of uncertainty and mental pain. I belong to a cancer support group but outside of that no one seems to understand what I am going through. I don't even know what I am going through.
Much love and strength to you, CDC.
Much love sent your way ❤️ 💛 💕
I will pray for you! Love and hugs!
CSC I hope this will all soon be behind you … and be just a bad memory 🙏
Take care and don’t give up
You’ve got this! 🍀
Very sad and eye-opening, all the best to you in the future.
Tiffany please call your your doctor about your discomfort and bleeding
Definitely call your doctors right away!!!! Doesn’t sound right.
Tiffany if you are in a lot of pain and you are bleeding, please call the doctor today please don’t wait
Hi Tiffany
Call the doc who did the biopsy tell the doc what's happening and tell the doc how much pain you are having and tell them you are bleeding If you don't get a response call your cancer doctor Keep going down the line until you reach someone who will help
A doctor needs to put their eyes on it to be sure you are ok❤
Tiffany you need to contact your doctor asap! Why wait? I hate you being in so much pain.
Tiffany, please call your doctor now or better still, go to the emergency and tell them you have so much pain and is bleeding.
Tiffany, please love, if you don’t feel good enough to vlog, don’t. Your sister or amma, or Matthew could update us if anything needed to be updated. Please rest! Take care of you, first and foremost!! 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
Also as a nurse, I’d call the doctor if you’re having excessive bleeding. From one cancer survivor to another, please take care. Oh! I’m drinking chai tea ☕️ and my background isn’t TV, it’s usually a podcast 😃
Tiff I think you should call your doctors about the side effects your having from the biopsy sooner than later. I’ve been praying for you so hard. I hate seeing you in so much pain and I’m so sorry. You share what you feel is comfortable for you and don’t worry about the rest. We all love you so much and your tears are our tears, your pain is our pain. We just want you better sweetheart. 💙💙💙💙💙
Beautifully said @Susie Dean! I fully agree. Still praying for you Tiffany, we got this!💙
I so agree!
Tiffany with us there is always a choice. Love is unconditional. Whatever you give is just so authentic and is such a gift. You are loved and prayed for.
I agree. Pls tell doctor soon.💙💙💙💙💙💙 much love🦋🦋🦋🦋
Absolutely!!! 🙏🏿💜
Tiffany call your Surgeon. I had my Colon surgery for tumor & my surgeon called that night to check on me. He re-admitted me immediately for bleeding, I was brought back into surgery and he checked all the areas and put clips on the bleeders.
Sweet Tiffany. You are allowed every tear, every feeling of anxiety and any other “feels” you have every day. Never feel bad about it and NEVER apologize for it.
Please do call your doctor regarding the under anesthesia post biopsy pain and bleeding. A certain amount would be expected, but it should never be severe. Call. Please. You need your pain handled.
I am a retired Oncology nurse here in the USA. If I can offer you one piece of advice, it is to keep feeling all the faith you have God and in your oncology surgeon and all of his team. Faith does make a difference in cancer patient outcomes.
We are all here for you 24/7/365. ♥️♥️😘
Tiffany, does your discharge paperwork tell you about pain and bleeding? I am a nurse, and I would read through to see if this is normal. Honey, once again, we are here for you. If you are struggling, let us help you. I appreciate you sharing and caring so much. 🌹🌹
If you are not feeling well Tiffany get Mat to come on and say Tiff is not well but she will be back. I love what you are doing. Like you say if we don't want to see we can change it. Prayers and hugs love.
I am praying for you. Please talk to the doctor this is not right. You should not have that much bleeding and pain. Please take care. Love sue.
Six years ago a friend of mine went through all you're going through right now. He also had Stage 3 Colorectal cancer. He wasn't even 40 at the time. After his surgery there were more complications, and more challenges BUT then it all turned around. Now we are here, 6 years later, still in remission, no other pain, no other issues. That first year and a half of his journey though, he couldn't believe it would ever get better. Now, he can't believe it was every that bad.
You do have this. You will get through this. Like my friend, it will get bad (I'm not going to sugarcoat it, I respect you enough to be honest), but you will get through just as he did. You will go back to work and have the life you left behind for this short time.
I say this while I wait for another close friend to get his results. All test currently point to the same cancer. He had his biopsies last week. I suggested to his wife to watch your channel because you give hope and God knows, that's all any of us need. More and more young people are being diagnosed with this particular cancer, than ever before. You, Tiffany, are a trailblazer. There are many channels that explore other cancers, so we know those journey-but this is a journey that there isn't much out on right now.
You are saving lives Tiffany because people with this cancer will see that it's challenging, it's hard, but it's not impossible and they won't give up. You are showing people the path and in times of trouble, we all need someone to light our way. Your are the lightbearer.
I wish you and your family all the love and happiness you deserve. You got this Tiffany, and we got you!
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I just want to give you a hug. Please contact your Doctor about the bleeding and pain.
Tiffany, we all love you so. I hope you listen to all of the nurses advice in these comments and contact your physician or nurse to state your pain and symptoms. It is NEVER wrong to ask for help. You have to be your own advocate here. No need to make videos if you are too I'll either. We all would feel comfort in knowing that you are doing things that only put you at ease and allow you rest. Especially in these moments. Rest up and ask for help ❤️
Tiffany my dearest girl. Contact doctor immediately. You shouldn't be under such pain. You look in pain.
You don't put too much out there. I want to help you. I really am praying for you. My poor girl. Xxxx
Tiffany,
Call your doctor!
When they biopsies my liver - I was in horrible pain and the techs ignored me about it - but it was internal bleeding.
I wound up hospitalized. Call the doctor! xoxo
I was only hospitalized for the weekend and they had nicked something in my liver which is highly vascular, hence the bleeding. It’s excruciatingly painful internal bleeding, so I’m suspicious on Tiffany’s behalf.
Prepare yourself for a long journey even after surgery this will not be Cured. They may get a lot of the Cancer, but maybe not all of it but you can live a long long time with medication and maybe more surgeries. It’s not a race it’s a marathon, lol, something like that. But that’s ok we All have something some illness to deal with. You and Matt can have babies and a life together. And that’s amazing.
So sorry you're in so much pain, Tiffany. Don't worry about making videos till you feel better, and do call your doctor to tell them of your side effects from the biopsy. Please take care of yourself, and I hope you get an upcoming surgery date this week. You've been more than patient through it all...
I agree ☝️ I would be high tailing myself to the emergency room 💕🙏🏻☮️🥰
Tiffany, this nurse agrees with the nurses here....call your doctors as soon as possible!! Hugs!
Always better to talk to the doctor sooner. Pain management is a must! You can’t function unless your pain is under control.
Also don’t feel you put out too much information. You allow us to pray specifically for your needs as well as educate us along the way❤️💙
You need to get a doughnut pillow to sit on. I’m sitting here in pain today myself. I so relate to you, and your journey helps me with mine. Much love to you sweet Tiffany. Stay strong our beautiful girl.
Great suggestion!!
Same here. You stay strong to 💙❤
Prayers move mountains
U have been a strong girl.
U are blessed to have the world's best mum And a loving understanding Max .
Be strong I am so happy u get hungry which is a good sign ..u are to be admired to open and share so much .It will help so many people who are undergoing different illness ..please call the doc and explain the pain and bleeding u are undergoing ..
We love you sooo much
U will be the happy bubbly girl u were
This is a great idea. 👍
me too re: pain-I relate and this feels a safe place to share pain and yet also be joyful-in life-Tiffany is very special.
Sweet Tiffany, it's not normal to have those kinds of symptoms after a biopsy, please contact your Dr. immediately. Praying for your healing ❤️
Tiffany, you need to contact your Surgeon and let him know about the level of pain you are having. It's not normal. There comes a time when you need to put yourself first.
Please go back to bed and sleep if you can. Don't push yourself. I love your videos but if you are finding it too difficult then don't be concerned about us. Sending you love and Prayers. 'For you shall go out with Joy.' Isiah 55, Verse 12.
Tiffany, my son and I watch you all the time. He is 34 and I’m 63, this is the first time I’ve commented. We support you and your lovely family 100% and be believe you’re going to get through this and remake you life. I’m never fed up with your comments, in fact as a mother my reaction is to try to find away to bring you comfort. I am so sorry for this pain your in and I am praying it resolves quickly. Pain does have a way of waking us up; it is the great equalizer.
You, Matt, and your family deserve nothing but the best. What a sweet bunch of people. We are with you through the long haul. Don’t ever apologize for crying.
You got this!
Susan
Issaquah, WA, USA
Tiffany please contact your surgeon, it doesn’t sound right that you are bleeding and in so much pain 💕
My sweet girl all I want to do is hold you and tell you everything will be ok . You are so endearing , it’s ok to cry . Please contact your doctor about bleeding and pain . We love you.
💙💙💙💙 My dear Tiffany, I would love to hear from you every day! You are not posting too much!
I am a nurse of 40 years. I have a lot of GI experience. You really should notify your Dr. of your increased pain and bleeding. It may be nothing to worry about but at least your mind will be put at ease. If it’s not normal, they can address it. Your doctor would want you to call them.
Sitting on a donut would definitely help. Also, a warm bath to sit in if you don’t have any restrictions.
I pray and think of you daily.
You definitely need to call your doctor. Don’t wait call today ❤️❤️
Sweet Tiffany I'm a nurse and listening to how you are going through right now with all that pain should be addressed immediately. You are so brave and courageous. Top priority is to take care of yourself sweetheart. We all want the best for you. I dont think you are putting to much out there. So many people benifit from what you share.We are all here for you and praying for you. You've got this. God bless you and your family.
Tiffany I hope you called your physician asap. I’m concerned about your bleeding.
I don’t think you film too much. Post videos at your pace and on your schedule. Yes, your videos will be a valuable tool for other cancer patients ❣️
Hi Tiffany, Please don't wait. Call your doctor and let them know what is happening. Don't concern yourself about being a bother to them. 💙
Tiffany, if you’re in such a lot of pain and bleeding, I’d be on the phone to make sure/query whether it’s a normal side effect of the procedure or not. They could advise on appropriate treatment and whether you need to be seen. I don’t think they’d want you to be suffering. Xxxx
Don’t wait to call your Dr about pain and bleeding, they really want to know everything. Your emotions are up and down now as you are in pain. He may give you something different that work for your pain better. Also you can get in the Drug store or Amazon a seat cushion called a Donut. You’ll be able to sit without your bottom touching the bottom of the chair or couch. They use if after surgery or if you have hemorrhoids. Do everything now that will make you feel better, it’s important for your mental health.. Don’t change a thing with your TH-cam channel. It so honest and raw and that’s what made me a huge fan. We all could be watching at this moment any other TH-camr but we are with you💙
PLEASE GO TO EMERGENCY NOW.DONT WAITE.PLEASE.LOVE CONNIE
The pain in your eyes is heart shattering 🥺
Please don’t doubt yourself and what you do. I believe you are helping so many people and not only people who are going through cancer. You are educating people and I know myself personally, I count my blessings everyday because of you.
I can’t begin to imagine what your going through or how your feeling.
But I will be watching every video you make now and forever. I support you through all your ups and downs and day to day life.
Your humble, your stunning, your caring, intelligent and above all so very honest. You share from the heart ❤️
Much strength and love your way.
Tiffany, please call the doctor that did your biopsy an tell him how much pain you are experiencing. Praying that you fee better very. Soon!!!
Hope you are calling the Dr. I just returned from the hospital from having my biopsy on my Manubrium, (chest bone),and the number one thing to do was called the Doctor if any pain or extreme bleeding.
Please make sure you call the Dr. it might have caused an infection. Tell them what is going on.
I have chronic pancreatitis. After being in pain it can make you feel like you are going crazy. Don’t get down. Set yourself a goal that’s it’s ok for you to let yourself heal. After a certain date look back of your progress. Don’t dismiss the pain or bleeding. You will feel better. It takes time for healing and reducing the swelling to go down. Please check in with Dr. God bless you. 💕❤️💕 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Tiffany pls do not wait another day , if something doesn’t feel right it’s best to ask sooner then later ! I’m sorry you’re going through this and I’m
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers pls call the do. Straight away
Please know that you’re not letting us down if you skip a video. Just get Matt or Amma to say you’re recovering from your biopsy and you’ll be in touch as soon as you can. Please contact your doctor with your symptoms and see what they can do for you. You’ve got this 💙💙💙
Tiffany please call your doctor I am sending you prayers it breaks my heart to see you like this you got this Tiff 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Please go to the hospital to be checked out sweet Tiffany. Bleeding and severe uncontrollable pain after a few days isn’t normal.💕
You’ve literally changed my perspective on life. I have been my husband’s biggest supporter during his cancer journey, but to follow you on your journey has honestly given me a new perspective on my life, and I’m 55 years old! You may be only 30 in earthly years but your old soul is over 100 years old! You are such a light for all of us. Your strength, courage and bravery amaze me on a daily basis. Sending you lots of love Tiff. You got this! ❤️
So beautifully said, and my sentiments exactly 💙
So well said.
tiffany i hope you’ve contacted your doctor about the bleeding and pain 💙 i hate you see you down like this!! take care of yourself and rest and please please don’t feel obligated to post content when you’re not well!!! 💙💙💙
I am worried about the amount of pain and bleeding you are having still days later. Please contact you doctor or go to the ER and have them check you out. We got this💙💙💙
Anything more than discomfort is not OK and can and will be dealt with provided you can be your own best advocate and speak up to say you need more help pain wise. Even after surgery for ovarian and uterine cancer I wasnt in that amount of pain, and when I was really uncomfy (too much), my partner (a nurse thank god) made sure it was sorted pronto.
If the painkillers at home are not working then they need to have you in for a day or overnight to get it sorted.
Actually the surgery pain management will probably be much better because you will be an inpatient for a while, and things like morphine etc are easier and safer to dispense on site.
Sending love and hang in there, there will be times when it seems unbearable but there will be many good days ahead.
Please speak to your CNS nurse as soon as possible. Xxx
Tiffany, I am so very sorry about your pain and bleeding. Please listen to the advice that your Tiffany Family is leaving in your comments. Why should you suffer with bleeding and pain in silence. Please get it checked out urgently, as the sooner the Drs. figure out what's going on, the sooner they will know how to treat you and alleviate your pain and bleeding❤️
Tiffany I think you need to have some counselling, you are only a small way through your treatment, your Surgery to remove the tumour being the major part will be the biggest. You need to know what to expect before it happens so you are able to mentally prepare for it. The Hospital should have given you a list of side effects after your recent Biopsy surgery, I know as a Nurse
the importance of preparing and being aware of what to expect after surgery is very important, but the mental ability to cope with life changing surgery is even more important. Stay positive
but also don’t put yourself under more stress. 😘
Hang in there hunny.. it will get better.. I have a permanent colostomy and in October 2019 I had to have my rectum and anus removed alongside a large hernia repair. I will tell you that the first couple of weeks were tough but after that I went from strength to strength and with your positive outlook, you will go from strength to strength too. Stay positive. Love and hugs from Karen 💙
Don’t worry about blogging...rest but definitely call the doctor as soon as possible. 💞
Darling girl, I want to cry when you apologize for sharing so much. Cancer is the big event for you right now, it’s natural for you to have so much to say. I’ve been on both sides of cancer, and like it or not, it is all-consuming when it’s going on. You will never know how much you help others by being so relatable.
Tiffany---I think you should contact your doctors sooner rather than later. You should not be in this much pain, and you should not have to just deal with it. You are so courageous and so strong. If it helps you to talk to us, then share as much as you would like. Don't ever apologize for being you! And if you need to rest and take a day off from vlogging, we all understand and support you! WE GOT THIS!
Yes, I agree. Tell your doctors sooner than later about the bleeding and pain. Did they send you home with discharge instructions? They do in the US. If not, then call them please. Don't suffer. Rest.
@@ourcorrectopinions6824 I agree but I wonder why the Dr or someone from the office isnt calling her to see how she is doing, that is very disturbing. I go to the Dentist and get put to sleep for a filling and they are calling me the same day and the next day. Also, she should be laying in bed or sitting on a special pillow. Seeing her in so much pain breaks my heart and I think her pain meds should be increased because she has been on morphine for a while and she probably has built up a tolerance for it and now it is not working.
@@ourcorrectopinions6824 you couldn't have said that better I agree 100% with that comment
Some pain never gets better with the best pain killers believe me, I’ve just had a complex total knee replacement and there are times I’ve almost given up,m the pain,is horrendous
@@jofitzgerald9969 I know, I broke my leg and even with morphine & percocet I still had pain. I just mean that she said before & we saw in her videos that she was taking liquid morphine for her pain so I was thinking that maybe she had built up a tolerance for it & that it might not be working for her as well as it could. But she did say that she was now back on the morphine again so I just hope that she can get some relief. Pain is stress on the bodies system & it is just so hard to see her in so much pain but she's been through a lot & the pain will get better with time but when she said in the hospital that they gave her Ibuprofen, I was like what? That is not going to help he with the type of pain she is having & will have for the coming days!
Tiffany please advocate for your self . Immediately. A biopsy may cause a little bleeding and a little pain for a very little time and that’s all. More than that please call your doctor and tell him about your symptoms and that pain meds aren’t helping. You can call anytime their should be an answering service that can pass on a message. All these questions should be told to your dr. Not that I mind hearing about what is going on with . I hope you have taken advantage of the talking with a therapist. I hear anxiety in your voice and that’s normal regarding what you are dealing with. It’s like , hurry up and wait ! And wait . It’s 9:42 pm Pacific Daylight Time drinking sparkling water and holding my little yorkie on my lap .
I wish the best for you and Matt and AMA . Looking forward to hearing that you did call and get help for your bleeding and pain on Wednesday. Sending big, big hugs . And tons of love . 🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
We've been anxiously waiting to see how it went. Thank you for coming on here. Get a rubber ring to sit on. Women use them after having babies, or people with rectal surgery use them. Even the local chemist should sell them, they are a medical item as well. You are not posting too much, please don't worry. Much love to you Tiffany! Can't wait for this to be over with for you. xxx
Tiff - please don’t wait to talk to the hospital - go to the emergency right away. Stop thinking pain is normal - please go and get seen. Don’t film a video instead of looking after your health. ❣️💐
Need to call the doctor !! Praying for you to feel better 💕💕
Tiffany hang in there. Know that God knows what your going through. Thanks for sharing your life. I am a two time cancer patient myself. Breadt cancer the first time and now t-cell large granular lymphocytic leukemia which is a very rare cancer. So I know about what your experiencing. Stay encouraged.
Oh sweet girl I’m so sorry you’re feeling so bad. I just had to say that to let you know my heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Yes the pain is real. I have had about 8 surgery in the past 2 years. When I had an infection the surgeon scraped the infection during surgery and it was SO painful. I understand that pain that meds don’t touch. Thank you for your honesty. It is just fine to want all the things you want. You are incredibly positive. Even when you are in pain. Rest, it is so important. I love and look forward to all your videos. It is also ok to slow them down if that feels good to you. Don’t feel guilty for skipping a post.
Keep visualize yourself moving forward. This is a huge step. You are clear headed and honestly looking at your situation. Keep visualizing this being done.
I'm going through it with you dear Tiffany. I've been fighting stage 4 incurable ovarian cancer for 2 and half years now. I'm proud of you too. Lots and lots of love and prayers 💛✨🙏✨💛
Prayers for healing Amanda 🙏 ❤
Sending you so much love and prayers. You've got this.
@@rosemarypalmer9729 Thankyou so much Rosemary 💛✨🙏✨💛
@@bethmugambi8819 Thankyou so much Beth 💛✨🙏✨💛
Lots of love to you Amanda! will remember you in prayers also.🙌
Tiffany I had bleeding and SO much pain after my D&C snd it was awful until I had my surgery.
It was rough after surgery but different because the pain went away.
Tiffany I honestly feel you need to make yourself 100% of your focus
I love your posts and wait for them but you are in all our hearts and we will be with you whether you post or not
Do what you must to keep yourself rested and relaxed. If you're stressing over getting the videos out that's probably not best for you.
You have captured our hearts with your sweet spirit.
We Got This!!!!!!
@@catsjamerz2338 I agree I didnt mean to give the impression it's ok and not get it checked but I see it may have come off like that. Thanks for your helpful comment 🙏🏼
@Nic DeGrave thank you🙏🏼
Call your Doc, it really breaks my heart to see you in so much pain. I do pray you will have a speedy full recovery ❤️🩹💙 .
Tiffany, please do nut worry about your followers we will always be here thinking and praying for you. I really think if you are in such discomfort and pain you should get Matt to take you back to get checked ASAP. Sending you hugs and best wishes .
Ah, Little One. My heart is breaking for you! BIG virtual hug for you from this old great-granny! You are one of the most courageous people I've ever met throughout my long life. You will make it through this. Love to you, Omah and Matt........
Contact your doctor about the pain and bleeding. Remember before you went in for the c diff infection how much pain you were in? If you don’t feel right tell them straight away and don’t assume it is a part of the journey. They would have given you stronger meds if they were expecting you to be in a lot of pain. It doesn’t seem right x
Yes please Tiffany please let your dr. Know about the pain and bleeding. You shouldn’t be that much in pain. Oh hunny I’ll pray for you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼no you will be just fine. As my sister always tell me to move around as much as you can.You actually heal faster that way.I found that to be so true. Love you Tiffy ❤️Tiffany we care about you very much.you talk as much as you want to. We’re there for you ❤️🩹❤️💚💜💙💚
Please get in touch with the doctor you should not be in such pain god bless you
You are helping me! You’re a bright light in my life. Please continue ❤️
I had Neuroendocrine lung cancer, found by accident when I coughed up blood. 6/21. Had upper left lobectomy and removed a few lymph nodes, I’m cancer free today, but my cancer is the kind that aways comes back, usually in a different spot. I’m now divorcing my husband, he wasn’t supportive ever. Cancer and my children ( I have 3 bio, 2 bonus and 1 adopted)helped me open my eyes. moving into assisted living home for a while while I sort out my weakness, and other side effects of my rare hormonal cancer. Thinking of you, praying 🙏🏻 for some ease of your discomfort. In my family we say Love you hug you kiss you miss you. Jenn B (I was a professional nanny for 30 years)
Tiffany, everything you tell us is from your heart. Scream, cry, do whatever makes you feel better. We got this!!! We love you...
Try ginger ale also. You are such a strong and precious child of God. You help so many people just realize that some of us take life for granted. You are here with us all for a purpose! God loves you and is sitting beside you at every moment. I lost my 13 year old nephew to cancer and it left and imprint on my souls like no other. I want you to keep doing what you are doing and our prayers are with you. You have a guardian angel sitting on your shoulders and just talk to him. You GOT THIS! ❤️💝
Tiffany so sorry you are having such a tough time post procedure. You should not wait to call the surgeon if you are concerned, that's what they are there for. Hang in there, you've got this!! You are not alone in your journey. Like my chemo nurse told me this morning it's a blip in the road.
I’m here Tiffani. I am fighting cancer as well and mine is in curable. I am almost 50 but I can relate totally to what you’re saying. I cry a lot too. We’ve got this!😊
Barb nothing is incurable, Positiveness and Prayer can cure You
big big big hugs
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Let’s hope yours is one of those stories we sometimes hear about people being told that and a miracle happens. Sending positive thoughts. x
Tiffany dpn't ever think you talk to much because I think it helps everyone feel a little better when others listen and may say something to ease some thoughts. I lpve to watch you because you are so sweet and soft spoken. My partner is having to deal with cancer right now. I pray for you both.
Please my dear Tiffany check with your Dr about what your feeling please. Your in my prayers always.Put what you want our here we are for you
Don't be concerned about your listeners. We want you to take care. Go rest!💙 Call now about pain.
Do contact your dr. & ask if anything ever seems amiss. It might help with the pain if you get up & move as much as you can. There's a reason they get you up & strolling the halls of the hospital right after surgery. It helps work the anesthetic out of your system & getting the blood flowing a bit helps you heal faster & feel better.
My heart is broken for you. It's so brave of you to share with us at your expense. Thank You.
Sweet Tiffany, I've been praying for you all week and think of you constantly. I survived breast cancer in 2018 and remember so well the feelings of fear and anxiety and generally sick all over, inside and out. My journey was minimal compared to what you are going through and my heart just breaks for you. I am extending my arms across the digital space and wrapping you in all the love and strength I have. We all love you so very much and support you through this very difficult journey. And you should share anything and everything you are feeling. There is nothing wrong with sharing everything you want to share and I only wish you were around when I was going through my very lonely cancer journey.
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Tiffany. I watched my mom go through cancer, and I agree about calling your Dr. About all the pain and bleeding. You are doing such a courageous thing by sharing with us your journey. I am praying for you and thanking God that he sent you to such a wonderful surgeon to help you through this! That in itself is a miracle and shows how much God is watching over you! You Got This!
You need to contact the doctor asap, you shouldn’t have to go through this much discomfort. ♥️
I’m praying for your healing Tiffany. You are such a precious lady x
I'm so sorry you're in pain. This should be brought to the doctor's attention. Praying for you 🙏
Oh sweet Tiffany, please contact your doctor and let them know about your bleeding and pain. I can’t stand seeing you in so much pain. Thank you for sharing your journey. You are helping many people with your videos. It is not too much. It is perfect. Love to you and prayers for you.💙💙💙🦋💙💙💙🦋💙💙💙
Tiffany take time to heal and if bleeding please go to a and e this shouldn’t be happening and your blood count could be low, listen to your body hugs xx
Call your doctor sweet Tiffany..let them know right away that your bleeding and in pain. That’s what the doctors are for. Sending you a huge hug, love and strength. Know you are loved my many Tiffany. ❤️🇨🇦
Tiffany, you absolutely are amazing and inspiring! This WHOLE planet is blessed to have you.
My heart goes out to you, don't forget how very brave and special you are, sending a massive hug to you and your lovely family x