Jake Banfield - Boys Don't Cry (Official Audio)

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    Produced by: Jason Walker
    Written by: Jake Banfield, Jason Walker
    LYRICS:
    VERSE 1:
    I've been starting to lose control
    I swear I can fix anything
    Anything, but me
    I've been putting my heart thru hell
    And I don’t want to think about anything
    Anything, but me
    PRE:
    Just give me time
    I’ve been running from my mind
    Need a second for my soul
    Let it go
    And I tried
    Keepin' all of this inside
    But the cracks they start to show
    And I’ve been told
    HOOK:
    Boys don’t cry
    But damn I need a shoulder
    I’d be lying
    If I said I don’t
    Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
    If boys don’t cry
    Where are these tears supposed to go?
    Where are these tears supposed to go?
    V2:
    I’ve been trying to find that light
    But darkness just keeps finding me
    Blinding me from what’s real
    PRE:
    Just give me time
    I’ve been running from my mind
    Need a second for my soul
    Let it go
    And I tried
    Keepin' all of this inside
    But the cracks they start to show
    And I’ve been told
    HOOK:
    Boys don’t cry
    But damn I need a shoulder
    I’d be lying
    If I said I don’t
    Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
    If boy’s don’t cry
    Where are these tears supposed to go?
    Where are these tears supposed to go?
    CLOSING HOOK:
    Boys don’t cry
    But damn I need a shoulder
    I’d be lying
    If I said I don’t
    Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
    If boy’s don’t cry
    Where are these tears supposed to go
    Where are these tears supposed to go

ความคิดเห็น • 310

  • @imranynwa506
    @imranynwa506 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "I swear I can fix anything, anything but me" 😔
    It's so true 😢

  • @kysoncard7789
    @kysoncard7789 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This song hit different when you really had no one by your side😭❤️stay strong,✊🏿

    • @GiovannyVelardo
      @GiovannyVelardo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @DC-Instrumentalz
      @DC-Instrumentalz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      it really does brother

    • @MarilynMejorado-ee8qh
      @MarilynMejorado-ee8qh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed. I need a shoulder. I raised my kids and others who's mother's didn't care. I wish somebody could take this pain. I love the I need a second for my soul. That helped me a lot.

  • @theresalopez7138
    @theresalopez7138 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    Lost my boy to suicide on January 7th. He was a senior in high school. This song has so much power behind it. Thank you 💙

    • @jenniferbanfield8208
      @jenniferbanfield8208 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      From my momma heart to yours, I'm so very sorry. Sending you my warmest hug.

    • @theresalopez7138
      @theresalopez7138 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@jenniferbanfield8208 thank you so much. I miss beyond explanation.

    • @jonsonianyong5869
      @jonsonianyong5869 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same birth of me Po 😢

    • @tyleranez2990
      @tyleranez2990 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sorry for your loss my wife passed away feb 8th 2023 of a heart attack I'm just 29 years old.

    • @theresalopez7138
      @theresalopez7138 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tyleranez2990 I'm so so sorry

  • @tasha42001
    @tasha42001 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I'm not not a boy or man..but this song hits deeply with me .. I hold everything in. ❤ what a song xxx

  • @ianrushworth
    @ianrushworth ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lord I just want to pray for anyone who is listening to this song who can relate or is struggling right now
    May they find peace
    In Jesus name AMEN

  • @jennifer_teters
    @jennifer_teters ปีที่แล้ว +44

    My mother told me to have a listen to your song. This is so good. Your grandpa was a teacher/principle in my hometown, one of my favorites . In remember your mama as a little girl. I know they are so proud of you and the beautiful words your putting back into this spinning Ball of dust. Keep them coming.

    • @davidmurphy5083
      @davidmurphy5083 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hello Jennifer 👋 Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face today…

    • @veeez8608
      @veeez8608 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome

  • @thepunisher4664
    @thepunisher4664 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Boys or men, we all suffer in silence. Even when we put others together and love them. They always leave and show no appreciation. Leaving us alone to deal with.

  • @frankromine4138
    @frankromine4138 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have never heard of " Jake Banfield " until tonight. This song and Lyrics " If boy's don't cry where these tears supposed to go ", just powerful....

  • @joshwoodcock6463
    @joshwoodcock6463 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lost my little brother the summer before his senior year he was only 17 and it was the harcest thing to get through being the oldest sibling i had to hold it in as much as possible trying to be strong for my younger siblings but i finally broke down this song is on repeat when i think about him

  • @hafizmuhammed7847
    @hafizmuhammed7847 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m so touched by listening to this song. The lyrics and the voice OMG

  • @jamesjennings3055
    @jamesjennings3055 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Holy shit I'm crying because I relate to this thank you Jake Banfield

  • @Tonyallencorum1987
    @Tonyallencorum1987 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This song is amazing dude been on repeat sense I found it last night I needed this

  • @lenebruce8256
    @lenebruce8256 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my son came to me last year, he was 20, and told me he didn’t want to live 😢 he laid in my lap and cried! I’m so thankful he had the courage to come to me so i could help! He is my only son out of 5 children it would destroy me losing him or any of my kids! This song had just came out and i played it for him! Thank you the words are beautiful ❤

  • @veeez8608
    @veeez8608 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks bro....this helped...found u on tiktok and came here.... God's got me even when no one does

  • @VictorMajiya-bx2hk
    @VictorMajiya-bx2hk ปีที่แล้ว

    That feeling that u shud not be crying makes u cry for sure 😢

  • @ceazgang254
    @ceazgang254 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally, thanks for relating to what as men feel. God bless you.

  • @gemimamutombo8837
    @gemimamutombo8837 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This song really helps lately I've been having negative thoughts and this songs gives me some hope that maybe things will be okay

  • @BrockCamp
    @BrockCamp ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It takes bravery to put your emotions IN a song. Well done, sir. This one is staying on repeat!

  • @MarilynMejorado-ee8qh
    @MarilynMejorado-ee8qh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love watching you sing these heart breaking stories. You have been going through so much.

  • @RidingWithWill
    @RidingWithWill ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This song hits me hard right now life’s been rough an I was told these same words an I’m excited this came out I’ve been waiting since you released the date for it to come out but I got my motivation an that’s my kid an I know I gotta stay strong for him

  • @allyd-r3z
    @allyd-r3z 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hey jake my name is ally and I am 37 years old. and i'm from Minnesota in the United States. and i just wanted to say that i think you are by far the most exceptional, extrodinary, excellentl, bright, i, osinspiring, inspirational, moving, touching, incredible, awesome, dedicated, devoted, determined, daring, compassionate,
    Heart Felt and the most Humble country singer. that i have ever seen in the entire country musici business by far. and i also wanted to say how much i love your songs called, Take This Pain,
    Somebody Does,
    Dance Alone,
    Boys Don't Cry,
    You And Me, Numb,
    Better Without Me, Drowning In Your Love,
    Hold Me, If I Were You and your other song called Can't Let Go I think by far are the most inspiring, inspirational, upbeat, uplifting, moving, touching, incredible, breath taking, Healing, And the most Heart Felt songs. That i have ever seen or heard from any other country singer. in the entire country music business by far.

  • @jeniqueolsen9401
    @jeniqueolsen9401 ปีที่แล้ว

    My family got in a car accident almost 7 years ago, my dad was behind the wheel, and he injured his brain neck and arm and now he has seizures, and he doesn't let go of all the pain he is harboring, instead he just turns it to anger and its so sad to watch... Lots of girls cry but I am one of the select few that don't, instead i just hold it in and don't let it show, I always tell my mom i cant cry because then people would see me crying and think I'm weak or unable to handle my emotions... this song hit me hard bro!!! thank you so much!

  • @gisellerobitaille8136
    @gisellerobitaille8136 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    we were all born to cry, it's called feelings, doesn't matter if your female or male , we were all born to feel , feelings stop judging everyone and look at our selves in the mirror once in awhile!!!

  • @gregklueber
    @gregklueber ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Brother, this song rocks. You are so talented. Keep it up.

  • @dewayneredmackey5109
    @dewayneredmackey5109 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    man this is one of the best songs I've heard in long time and probably because it hits home with me and the many other people with mental health and especially us men

  • @marksheppard5346
    @marksheppard5346 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This song is totally amazing.... Definitely hit my soul!!!!

  • @nicksebregts6488
    @nicksebregts6488 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im holding myself everyday together trying to forget all the shit in my past That smack me down in life. Sometimes I think there is nothing left to hold on to….
    But I Wake up every day so there is one reason Im still here.🙏

  • @christinataggart2522
    @christinataggart2522 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow this is an absolutely amazing song love it and it's what makes a man a man when they cry and you can hug them just like they look after us when we are not doing good just remember everyone it's okay not to be okay. Much love to everyone 🥰🥰

  • @princemartinug2486
    @princemartinug2486 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this talks to my soul bro have been under depression for a long time but this makes me smile it gives life back knowing that our parents should learn to give us that shoulder to lean on coz we go through a lot but everyone tells u ur a man but we are human too.

  • @gamerdutch0548
    @gamerdutch0548 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cry never and be alone is better in too life than can nobody you more❤

  • @lazyangel83
    @lazyangel83 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sometimes I don't feel right until I cry it out...... I've learned to let go instead of holding everything in......great song

  • @LJ-ry5bw
    @LJ-ry5bw ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your voice wow, this song is so deep.

  • @laurenb507
    @laurenb507 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been waiting via tiktok for this to hit. Amazing song!!!!!

  • @Sunshine..77
    @Sunshine..77 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so beautiful 🤌🌟🌟.....deserves so much recognition

  • @yodamian5371
    @yodamian5371 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Finally I stayed up all night for this❤️

  • @munahmuntu2558
    @munahmuntu2558 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    been waiting patiently for this one🔥🔥🔥 all the way from tiktok✌️

  • @moleise
    @moleise ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Men do cry in silence
    Mental health is real

  • @jeremiah7246
    @jeremiah7246 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love love this song so much thank you I’ve got it on repeat screaming the lyrics ❤❤❤

  • @robinmasarakufa2533
    @robinmasarakufa2533 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amongst friends and family i put up a smile but deep down i just wnna cry, grateful for this song i listen in bed get to cry all my emotions out... Much love from Zimbabwe

  • @SoldierDemonKing
    @SoldierDemonKing ปีที่แล้ว +4

    yes finally. love this song!!!

  • @elbarmalamabanda7995
    @elbarmalamabanda7995 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    love this song...can relate to alot of situations...thanks for this master piece

  • @deniseday4340
    @deniseday4340 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love this song thanks

  • @lifeinpicturesandgoodvibes2111
    @lifeinpicturesandgoodvibes2111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life is like seasons, like the highway, we have to continue going and living...
    It takes effort, faith and belief.

  • @michaelwadel3806
    @michaelwadel3806 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Stayed up for this I'm so happy this dropped

    • @hudsynfritz5880
      @hudsynfritz5880 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did too, and I just got into a car accident.

    • @michaelwadel3806
      @michaelwadel3806 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hudsynfritz5880 fuck buddy shit will get better hopefully your all good that's what matters

  • @jonsonianyong5869
    @jonsonianyong5869 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've followed at TikTok..very nice vibe touched I'm from Malaysian fans..

  • @tiaandupreez
    @tiaandupreez ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yo Bro This Song Tho!! Love from South🇿🇦Africa

  • @josh_dat-guy4891
    @josh_dat-guy4891 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like crying right now ..ts bn a long time with this feeling...that's the only therapy l need as we speak...l hope this will help me heal from what's eating my heart 😥😥😥

  • @TheSolarGuyJK
    @TheSolarGuyJK ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Speaks to many of us 😢

  • @monniquegouws2736
    @monniquegouws2736 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yippie Im so happy its finally out ❤

  • @netsaisimbanegavi2745
    @netsaisimbanegavi2745 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Inlove with your songs jake.
    Thank you

  • @calebwinsley6273
    @calebwinsley6273 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Going through hell right now. I discovered this song and now it's on replay. It's giving me strength even though I got one support system that i feel is dwindling after carrying me for few months now.

  • @DizzymonkeyYT
    @DizzymonkeyYT ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Did it again!!! Amazing lyrics but your voice!!! AMAZING WRITER & singer!!

  • @glendrennan1458
    @glendrennan1458 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just heard this for the first time !!wow !! Love this !!so true !!great tune great voice ,love it ❤️❤️

  • @SoundSpritz-msc
    @SoundSpritz-msc ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing song

  • @takudzwanyanhira593
    @takudzwanyanhira593 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can't listen to this song but I can feel it ❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥💯

  • @Rick-cp4xx
    @Rick-cp4xx ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love the song I was going through hell now I see I'm not alone ❤️❤️

  • @amiirigucci7048
    @amiirigucci7048 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks big brother, but I can't stop crying coz of pasts it's so hard

  • @leochaby8455
    @leochaby8455 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally. Time to heal! Thanks for the " medicine " mate

  • @justingregson5365
    @justingregson5365 ปีที่แล้ว

    This song hits different I have always been brought up getting told really men dont cry and dont show emotion

  • @caseygordon1035
    @caseygordon1035 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Incredible!

  • @GardenNHS
    @GardenNHS ปีที่แล้ว

    Lost my Adam, late Nov 2020. And those close to me. Thank you for this song. It's so true. My mom soon after

  • @Jtross9810
    @Jtross9810 ปีที่แล้ว

    This helps me so much i relate to this and nobody understands me and it suck so thank you so much

  • @dannyKHoops
    @dannyKHoops ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing as always

  • @chrismccall8069
    @chrismccall8069 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ❤️ great song

  • @trentonjeffers7121
    @trentonjeffers7121 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Listen to this song like 9 times now

  • @SoldierDemonKing
    @SoldierDemonKing ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Listen this song now 24/7 bc i love this song, its true and makes me think about other things and not thinking about my depression

  • @tinotendataka6620
    @tinotendataka6620 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Masterpiece ❤️🥺

  • @brianhicks1204
    @brianhicks1204 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for your music ❤👍

  • @משולםקופרשמיט
    @משולםקופרשמיט ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for a wonderful song..

  • @ethandyllancummins3070
    @ethandyllancummins3070 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for making this song I relate to this song so much

  • @RealTalksMatter
    @RealTalksMatter ปีที่แล้ว

    #Beatz2Vibe2023
    Generations of tears have been held back by so many🥀

  • @vanessaising5917
    @vanessaising5917 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been waiting for this ❤

  • @jerristark1445
    @jerristark1445 ปีที่แล้ว

    my bf had a 8 month battle with a deep depression and his family are those that tell guys to man up and be strong cause boys dont cry thankfully me and my family was there telling him it was ok to let it out for a long time i was scared to death we would lose him PLEASE IF YOU HAVE BOYS DONT TELL THEM BOYS DONT CRY

  • @Pankerr76
    @Pankerr76 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my favorit song😁

  • @edsionwarren
    @edsionwarren ปีที่แล้ว

    This song keeps reminding me that my mental health is of paramount importance ❤❤.

  • @snk4eva
    @snk4eva ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for saying what we can’t.

  • @thegiantoweishe4261
    @thegiantoweishe4261 ปีที่แล้ว

    Power and healing in voice and then extra reality in the lyric

  • @dustinholben9299
    @dustinholben9299 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Perfect 👍💯

  • @yuma2501
    @yuma2501 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love this song keep it up

  • @EyazMusic
    @EyazMusic ปีที่แล้ว

    This is fire.

  • @stevenbryson7641
    @stevenbryson7641 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the song bro sooo true

  • @dylancoleman8782
    @dylancoleman8782 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Started up waiting for this

  • @JenM.915
    @JenM.915 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this💜👏 life has been beating me down.

  • @wesnerdavilmar155
    @wesnerdavilmar155 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best one ever

  • @carlosaustine431
    @carlosaustine431 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm from Kenya n going through a break up with my wife...
    N I must confess this song is what my heart needs right now.. I've been repeatedly listening to it dusk till dawn big up brother

  • @b-radmcnattakaryderbeastmo5020
    @b-radmcnattakaryderbeastmo5020 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely love this song ❤❤😢

  • @jamesonlova5879
    @jamesonlova5879 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Powerful 💪

  • @vibescold906
    @vibescold906 ปีที่แล้ว

    Song hits home

  • @samstgermain2433
    @samstgermain2433 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this song man❤

  • @sayie554
    @sayie554 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    on repeat,,love this song

  • @afloyd87
    @afloyd87 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Masterpiece 💪🏽

  • @judithachira8052
    @judithachira8052 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loooove you Banfield 😢

  • @Veronika88G
    @Veronika88G ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing

  • @millymillz3319
    @millymillz3319 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This amazing ❤❤❤

  • @drjacobmwenechanyangambi123
    @drjacobmwenechanyangambi123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing so indeed I can relate especially that I grew up without my biological parents .It's cutting into my soul and spirit

  • @sacerme
    @sacerme ปีที่แล้ว

    I want my friends to play this during my celebration of life💔❤️😪😪

  • @Danny-lj6nm
    @Danny-lj6nm ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow,bro, this is the real, powerful, and amazing song. Danger song 🤙

  • @Janetkabboush
    @Janetkabboush ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love it ❤

    • @davidmurphy5083
      @davidmurphy5083 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Janet 👋 Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face today…

  • @stanleyscruggs7286
    @stanleyscruggs7286 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s been so long since I’ve cried a good cry. Thank you for this ❤️❤️ maybe now I can continue this healing process

  • @starksidegaming5663
    @starksidegaming5663 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another amazing song respect