Having no money because only your wife works and you haven't worked in 2 years [Part 2] | K-DOC

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  • Part 1: • When you take care of ...
    Part 3: • “My daughter shouldn’t...
    Beloved Tumul is back on our show, this time with his lovely wife and daughter!
    Find out more about Tumul and his family's dynamic life!
    All edits and translations done by Eunjae Lee.
    All rights reserved to KBS.
    이웃집 찰스 [My Neighbor Charles]
    인도형제 투물과 아툴 Air Date: 2022.01.11

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  • @alannasong6133
    @alannasong6133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1181

    They can start doing TH-cam because I would love to watch their day to day, especially now with Dana 🥰

    • @Yoshi99ff
      @Yoshi99ff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Great idea
      Me too

    • @pinkymoon5039
      @pinkymoon5039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I agree. They should start a TH-cam channel. TH-cam can be very profitable if you have enough subscribers.

    • @yasminegostar
      @yasminegostar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thats a great idea! Tumul if u reading our comments then do vlogs ..i will surely watch to support

    • @angi1479
      @angi1479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes tumul you can easily shoot a day with Dana and what she plays and eats and your subscribers will love to watch dana thrive and grow and watch your family dynamic.

    • @mamaraidervlogs3429
      @mamaraidervlogs3429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yep

  • @spencerchamomile1026
    @spencerchamomile1026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1989

    The fact that they spent $120 for a child's cardigan knowing that they are having financial difficulties already tells me they are bad with money.

    • @tkp97
      @tkp97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +212

      They could have bought clothes online or something or go to a different store that had affordable prices. You can buy cardigans for $20-40 at the Korean mall. I bought online before.

    • @rachelcookie321
      @rachelcookie321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +250

      @@tkp97 even that seems pricey for a child cardigan that they’ll grow out of in 6 months.

    • @Iamsoul00
      @Iamsoul00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      I can’t even understand why they went to a somewhat upscale boutique . They could’ve gotten so many clothes elsewhere for $120.

    • @tkp97
      @tkp97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Iamsoul00 ikr

    • @tkp97
      @tkp97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@rachelcookie321 $20 is better than $120.

  • @LaLaLand926
    @LaLaLand926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    $120 can buy you SEVERAL pieces of children clothing. They outgrow it all so fast and get their clothes dirty anyway there’s literally no point 😬

    • @rachelcookie321
      @rachelcookie321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I remember seeing converse baby shoes and I was wondering why anyone would spend so much money on baby clothes. The kid doesn’t care what brand their clothes is and they’ll grow out of it before you even realise.

    • @samysdefer
      @samysdefer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rachelcookie321 You can spent that much money for cloth.
      But one factor is very important!! - you need the money to do stuff like this!!

    • @forward_ever_ever2595
      @forward_ever_ever2595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have spoke facts & with wisdom & experience.

    • @lonelypigeon7562
      @lonelypigeon7562 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i guess thats part reason I should not grumble about finding a woman to then have a relationship and then get married.....it aint all fun and games.

    • @midoritea4413
      @midoritea4413 ปีที่แล้ว

      Korean markets sell children's clothes for so cheap as well! Why would they go to a boutique like this when they're living paycheck to paycheck? Seoul has the best places to find great quality cheap clothes

  • @angi1479
    @angi1479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +557

    I love how they seamlessly work together raising their daughter as a partnership . The husband is down to earth and easily mixes in with the wife's culture without any hesitation and the wife supports the financially during these hard post covid times when travel business is at its worst. There is a clear reversal of roles but their is no complaining or regrets. That girl is learning great lessons about how to maintain and flourish a relationship and family life ❤❤❤

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      lol indian culture and east asian culutre not much different lmao, both are still asian cultures.

    • @rachelcookie321
      @rachelcookie321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@CoolNumber1 they are both Asian but the cultures are very different. Go to both countries and you’ll experience very different things. I’m from Scotland but live in New Zealand and although the two countries seem similar, the culture is very different. I’ve never been able to properly adapt to New Zealand culture.

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You have no real-world experience with Asian culture. Watching videos online doesn't count. He is right, they are all very similar.

    • @angi1479
      @angi1479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @asdfasdfasdf If they were that similar then rhe mother in law would accept him at first glance. There may be similarities but it's not the same. For example even among Indians you will find that North Indians and South Indians follow different rituals and customs even if the essence is the same. Imagine being a korean and living in India and you will find similarities in maybe some kind of foods and cultural hierarchy but you will also find things that will culturally shock you. No they are not the same and even if it has similarities he has put in effort to adjust to the way of life there inspite of financial difficulties. The point of my comment here is adjustment which even married couples from the same culture find it difficult to do but they are from different cultures and yet they have found a way to make it work.

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@angi1479 similar doesn't mean 100% the same idiot.

  • @maggiechan33
    @maggiechan33 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I have to commend Tumul; he keeps their home incredibly pristine.
    He has a healthy marriage, compared to the last one I saw; a Korean husband manipulating his Mexican wife
    from taking a great job, so he can keep her "barefoot + pregnant".

  • @marney6679
    @marney6679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    i really salute fathers who are not disgraced to take care of their children. parenting is really a work for both parents not just of mothers. your children would really appreciate your hard work in the future :)

    • @dannnsss8034
      @dannnsss8034 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It all comes down to $$$ especially in a developed country , unfortunately.
      Does the family need more money? Then who can make more...

    • @marney6679
      @marney6679 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dannnsss8034 yes i get your point about the person who makes more money. But aside from that emotional/relationships should also be built between a parent and their children. Maybe I'm coming from a perspective who watches The Return of Superman. Some dads there works and are almost not home all the time but still make quality time with their children when they can. Those little quality time can be precious for the kids in the future may it be just fragments of their memories. Moreover, some novice dads who joined also did not know how to take care of their children at first and are not close with them but eventually got to a point where they built strong relationship and got to be "professional" dads later on.

  • @kehidupankanada
    @kehidupankanada 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I hate when your in-laws says the kid doesn look like the mother but looks more like the father. Whats so big deal about that n it hurts alot.

    • @rajs7876
      @rajs7876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She totally looks like the mom, that is what is absurd. Theh just see skin colour

    • @skillbopster
      @skillbopster 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She's Korean and wants the kid to look it. What's wrong with that exactly?

  • @anugrahasethumadhavan5586
    @anugrahasethumadhavan5586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Her husband is so hilarious. He just have a great sense of humor

  • @bymarcissus
    @bymarcissus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +548

    I mean living in Korea as a foreign is never easy and 120$ on cardigan was waste of money. ( I know parents wants the best for their kids but still you can buy less expensive and good quality clothes from other shops. I am wishing them happiness and I hope they figure this out. I am sure everything will be ok. ♥️

    • @oceanstaiga5928
      @oceanstaiga5928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Especially when a kid is at such a young age where they grow out of clothes fast

    • @sammylee5474
      @sammylee5474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My mom bought onesies and jumpers to save money, instead of pieces of clothing like that.

    • @dannnsss8034
      @dannnsss8034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      He's not a foreigner anymore. We have to stop labelling them as foreigners at some point, they are Koreans whether you like it or not.

    • @dannnsss8034
      @dannnsss8034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Cxs1a3 Say that to the Asian Americans who are "not American enough" to not be treated differently. Trust me, I know.
      So my point is, it all starts with us. We label them foreign, or treat them differently. We must stop that, and stop calling them "foreigners", and they themselves must stop labelling themselves as "foreigners" or acting like precious foreigners who can't speak the local language (many lazy people out there expect to get by with only English), even after many years... You will never be a local without being fluent like a local.
      The dude is Korean, and he has Indian heritage. There will be more non-asian Koreans in the future.

    • @dannnsss8034
      @dannnsss8034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Cxs1a3 No one is talking about "western cultures" here but you. No one is even talking about "Asian culture", as if that's one big thing, all the same.
      No need for comparison though, it's not a competition.
      Point is, don't EXPECT to be treated like a local when you're not even trying.
      This new Korean dude is obviously trying, and good on him. Much easier for someone to be accepted when there's less communication barriers.
      Edit: I never said this starts with Asians, I said it starts with "us", as in EVERYONE.

  • @Xentradi97
    @Xentradi97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Wow, owning a travel company in Covid time must've been hell. I feel for him. It's like Armageddon with no end in sight. I hope he finds something else using his skills in the meantime while waiting for travel to resume.

    • @mpforeverunlimited
      @mpforeverunlimited 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah flights were so cheap though that it was great for customers. I went to Colombia, costa rica and mexico! Sadly prices have gone up again though

  • @juiliethakur37
    @juiliethakur37 2 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    I was out of a job long before the whole shitshow began. The stress when you've got mouths to feed, and then they(you-know-whos)come up with those restrictions that didn't apply to them. Tumul is one of those self-made ones. You'll figure something out and get right back on track.

    • @mnaoitb1
      @mnaoitb1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      exactly, not working during the pandemic isnt any indication of your ability. actually we should stop attributing value to how much someone works or what type of job they have.

    • @Scho-penhauer
      @Scho-penhauer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Restrictions were necessary to control the pandemic that's why Korea is among the top of the least deaths from corona. Unless you'd like no restrictions and everyone gets sick and may die. And someone struggling and stressed wouldn't buy his kid a piece of clothes for 120 dollars!

    • @juiliethakur37
      @juiliethakur37 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Scho-penhauer I agree on the 120$ part. But, smart saving and smart expenses is not for everyone in most of the Urban parts of our planet.

  • @asmita2318
    @asmita2318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The little girl definitely got both of her parents good parts. She is just so cute.
    P.S I love the brother's relationship. 😂

  • @SC0613
    @SC0613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    I'm 24 and even I don't have any clothing worth $120 😂

    • @rachelcookie321
      @rachelcookie321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The most expensive clothes I own are $90 Puma shoes. Everything else is worth like $20 lol.

    • @madewithrealdiamonds
      @madewithrealdiamonds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      26, and only ever bought one piece of clothing that expensive in my entire life. It was $143 KC triple layered winter coat, and I got 50% clearance sale, and 15% extra discount. I've worn that jacket almost everyday in fall and winter for the last 2 years. I'd never purchased anything that costed more than $100 prior and haven't again since.

    • @madewithrealdiamonds
      @madewithrealdiamonds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shengki333 Jamaicans are the exact same. I think it's a spillover from the colonial era, as almost all former colonies have this issue. It's seeing upperclass people dressed well, that encourages the not so wealthy people to overspend on clothing. Not everyone, but the vast majority.

    • @beauty.fromashes
      @beauty.fromashes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have some expensive brand clothes but I've purchased when they make crazy sales, like 70 it even 90 percent off.

  • @yintotheyang6433
    @yintotheyang6433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    First of all, beautiful family. Secondly, so funny watching two Indian men in Korea speaking to each other in Korean 😅

  • @elsaelsa9967
    @elsaelsa9967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    He has blended beautifully with SK culture. That takes a tremendous amount of effort and courage. All the very best!

  • @alimama234
    @alimama234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I love their attitude even tho they are worried….Pandemic has really hit a lot of people all over the world… It has taught us to define the meaning of Need vs Want… back to basics guys…time to reflect…

  • @jackiemccoy6282
    @jackiemccoy6282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Omg FIL is so funny!!! Dana looks a lot like both parents and TG they are both beautiful 😍

  • @sharathwho4927
    @sharathwho4927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm so invested in their life right now that I've binged their vdos together.. 😂

  • @MettaLovingKindness
    @MettaLovingKindness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Lovely family. May they be well. Kudos to granny for her courage for allowing her beautiful daughter to get married to a Foreigner who came to the country few years ago. Only a parent would understand the risk she took. Some foreigners deceive native women to get the residency permit and then abandon the women.I truly appreciate the wife for her humanity and Tumul's sincerity. Daughter is super cute and they should start a TH-cam channel

    • @kristinesharp6286
      @kristinesharp6286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Korea definitely doesn’t keep safe the foreign spouse. They can lose the permit.

    • @SarahLynn__
      @SarahLynn__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's not her boss, wtf kudos for let her adult kid live her life?

  • @Koreanmarie
    @Koreanmarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    투물씨! 앞으로 좋은 일자리 생길거예요. 멀리서나마 응원합니다😊😊 다나양 너무 귀엽네요

  • @geethigass8275
    @geethigass8275 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yoo the person who edits these comments need a raise i swear , like they make it much more entertaining 😭😭😭😭

  • @btsarmysnoa8074
    @btsarmysnoa8074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lots of love to your family...Dana is cute...lots of love to her...fighting ...you all will get through ...

  • @evlyn3442
    @evlyn3442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tumul had a good brother that spend time with him just to let him relieved his stress instead of it builds up inside him alone....

  • @toyangalbina332
    @toyangalbina332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Humor is helpful in every relationship...

  • @august.d6041
    @august.d6041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Tumul will surely handle this 💪 fighting!!

  • @Waterbug1591
    @Waterbug1591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    It's disgusting how men are only valued based on his ability to make money. It's stated very clearly that he's not very good with a job, but he's being a responsible hardworking househusband doing laundry, washing dishes, and looking after the kid. It's 2022, not 1960, strong woman should financially support weak men, why can't men be allowed to participate in women's roles but women can have a high-paying career?

    • @stankssmile5865
      @stankssmile5865 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Simm JJ matrilineal and matriachal societies 🤔🤔🤔

    • @trueamerican1546
      @trueamerican1546 ปีที่แล้ว

      Being weak is not a sin but staying weak is. I guess you are one of the weak men being dependent on women. Must be proud of yourself lmao 😂😂😂😂 stay weak u bum

    • @alexss3661
      @alexss3661 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Let's normalize not calling stay at home dads "weak men". Just like housewives they also work very hard and that makes them strong.

    • @alexss3661
      @alexss3661 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Simm JJ who says that? Nobody cares about your religious beliefs. Men and women are a bit different biologically but gender roles are a social construction of many generations. In the past all societies were more misogynistic and sexist, that's why women had to comply with being housewives. They didn't have any other choice while men could be financially independent. Women were slaves of their husbands and couldn't get divorced because of that. Traditional gender roles are sexist and misogynistic. As women we can do whatever we want. It's okay for a woman to be a housewife but we can also pursue our dreams and be financially independent. Some women don't want to provide for their family and that's okay but some of us have no problem doing that. The real problem is that there are men who don't like being with a financially independent woman because he has no power over her and both are equal to make decisions and initiate a divorce. Those men only want a slave who can be totally dependent on him. That kind of life sucks and thank god women are realizing that now.

    • @maxb8749
      @maxb8749 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Simm JJ As soon as you throw religion into an argument all logic flies out the door LMAO

  • @MG_Ria
    @MG_Ria 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I spent 100usd for a puffer coat. It was a necessity in winter in korea. That cardigan is a luxury they couldn’t afford. Besides, it’s not good to invest on clothes for toddlers. They grow up so fast.

  • @pawlove7545
    @pawlove7545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Can't wait for part 3 already 🤯

  • @jeanfelix9696
    @jeanfelix9696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not the High School Musical background music🤣🤣..Brings back memories.

  • @hannahchavez6
    @hannahchavez6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I've never spent $120 on one piece of clothing. I think the most I ever spent on a single piece of clothing is a Tshirt that was around $50. It was pricey for a shirt, but I liked it and I knew I would get use out of it. But buying a cardigan for $120 for a toddler, there wasn't much thought behind that. They're having money troubles and they go and spend that much on one piece of clothing, when their daughter won't be able to use it in a few months (because she'll most likely outgrow it). Also, I understand the pandemic has screwed everyone over when it comes to jobs, housing, finances, etc. However, contrary to what the mother-in-law stated, I don't believe this guy isn't a good worker. He's fully capable of getting a part-time job online. He knows more than one language, he should teaching or tutoring online. I even read another comment that he should start a TH-cam channel with his daughter. Even though I'm a bit iffy about family channels and how much parents show about theirs and their children's lives, those kind of channels are popular. He has options.

    • @shashank-sama
      @shashank-sama 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He has started a youtube channel. It's named "이웃집 투물 my neighbour tumul"
      Link of his channel is
      th-cam.com/channels/mJtfQzVmwORyTrmovf1zMQ.html

    • @keikey9123
      @keikey9123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's about pride I guess

    • @CaimAstraea
      @CaimAstraea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think I've only done it for jackets or shoes also.

    • @hannahchavez6
      @hannahchavez6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CaimAstraea I didn't think about jackets and shoes. I usually buy one or two pairs of shoes at a time and wear them down. With jackets or coats, I usually buy simple black ones, cause I think black is a timeless color.

    • @Unknownplsyer
      @Unknownplsyer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have never spend $20 for a piece of clothes

  • @Qaiira
    @Qaiira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You kiddin? For 120 dollars I would have bought much more than that lol... people really are thoughtless

  • @fanbingbing6012
    @fanbingbing6012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    It’s a shame that theirs still people like his in ways that think and feel the way she does to him because he’s not the same as her. Poor man, it must of been so painfully hard dealing with all her crap. I’m glad that he stuck it out. His wife is wonderful and same goes with dana

    • @fkloh3289
      @fkloh3289 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did the couple agree that the husband should stay at home to be a househusband? If not, a able body person should work regardless of gender.

    • @cn4s490
      @cn4s490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      he is a loser .lol
      stay at home and can't make money

    • @vetiverose128
      @vetiverose128 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fkloh3289 The wife seems fine with it and she is the one who is directly involved. You're just a 3rd party but getting triggered as though you are giving them money.

  • @GauravSingh-hn8cg
    @GauravSingh-hn8cg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Video is great. We also need part 3.

  • @andreab3783
    @andreab3783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    You can easily tell the mother in law will never truly accept Tumul. Yes, he's married to her daughter and now he's part of the family, they even gave her a granddaughter and all... But these types of comments give you the impression that she would have liked to have a korean son in law.

    • @supersagarsagar
      @supersagarsagar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      He's broke i don't even think a indian MIL would accept that

    • @daudkhan4218
      @daudkhan4218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@supersagarsagar its not about broke its abut colourism lol

    • @daudkhan4218
      @daudkhan4218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Koreans are a bit hyper nationalistic it will take decades for them to change !!

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@daudkhan4218 No, it's not, if he was the son of Mukesh Ambani, any race would accept him

    • @vetiarvind
      @vetiarvind 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@daudkhan4218 no it's more like features..but what can you expect from an old person from a homogenous country. Atleast she accepts them now. Think of Indian MIL's how much fuss they do over small things like say different castes, why should korean MIL's be any different.

  • @SangAoooSangA
    @SangAoooSangA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wife is so pretty. Hope they stay happy.

  • @operamom3303
    @operamom3303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this couple even before they met

  • @winter7091
    @winter7091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omgosh, Dana is a doll 💖

  • @beezlebub9
    @beezlebub9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    8:33 omg the hubby is hilarious

  • @jayem7208
    @jayem7208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    The thing to remember is, kids don't stay that way forever. They grow up so fast! So enjoy the time because they get to the point where they become more and more independent and you'll miss when they were dependent on you as their parent. Just my two cents.

    • @rachelcookie321
      @rachelcookie321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Someone should tell my dad this lol. He’s so eager to kick me out of the house as soon as he can.

    • @lilbahadurchetri4361
      @lilbahadurchetri4361 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly

    • @samysdefer
      @samysdefer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rachelcookie321 Different cultures. In asia you live with ur parents until you marry. In western cultures its mostly the case, that you move out with 18-21
      Due to that fact, I would even say asian families are closer to eachother.
      In western countries its kinda normal to not have much contact to your parents.
      F.e. korean families are often as close that they fart in front of eachother... as for me I can't even dream of this. Absolutely unimaginable.

    • @rachelcookie321
      @rachelcookie321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@samysdefer I’m pretty sure most families are comfortable enough to fart in front of eachother lol. Most families in English speaking countries are close enough to do that. I feel like in western countries they are closer than Korean families because Korea is kinda old fashioned so parents don’t like to talk to their kids about stuff. My mum would always let me talk to her about anything.

    • @devonmatthews8197
      @devonmatthews8197 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It sounds like you are speaking from experience

  • @motherhoodsbeauty9279
    @motherhoodsbeauty9279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    People shouldn’t be so hard on him. It’s not even his fault that he don’t have job.

  • @seanpark54
    @seanpark54 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    두 인도 남자분 포장마차에 속상해서 소주 ! 한국 분이 다 됐네요 !!힘내세요

  • @Roonlovesfish3874
    @Roonlovesfish3874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I hope something works out for this guy. 🙂

  • @friendlyatheist9589
    @friendlyatheist9589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Tumul just don't play any game with random guy in subway station it ain't worth it

  • @cee_el
    @cee_el 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I honestly don’t think they’re low on money because no one would go to a boutique shop to buy clothing. Boutique shops are all expensive and they obviously know that

  • @Loriani93
    @Loriani93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    When the grandmother said she hated how her granddaughter looks like the son in law.....🤡 And she wanted the baby to look more like her daughter as if her daughter is way prettier than the husband.. they're literally on the same level when it comes to looks and their baby is cute af soooo... what exactly was the problem for her then

    • @cynfulification
      @cynfulification 2 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      I felt the Grandmother was very rude with this statement like she has never given birth before. Most firstborn children do look like their father. I hate such backward thinking.

    • @sheena3168
      @sheena3168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Couldn’t agree more

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She's right

    • @dannnsss8034
      @dannnsss8034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@cynfulification "the first born should look like the father."
      Um bro, this is also backwards thinking 🤦🤣

    • @cynfulification
      @cynfulification 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@dannnsss8034 It's not. Most 1st born children do look like their father. If you had a kid one day and didn't look like you... You would be the same guy running to Maury for a paternity test.

  • @sofiya9212
    @sofiya9212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They look like a nice family

  • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
    @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    omg idk why but I love seeing videos of people living in Korea

    • @dannnsss8034
      @dannnsss8034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Videos of the new Koreans who have immigrated to South Korea, and are more-or-less living like locals. Success stories and their struggles, big or small.

    • @vesnalukic9877
      @vesnalukic9877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s so fascinating because we always think of the west as where ppl immigrate too

  • @ThatsEunice
    @ThatsEunice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    They pissed me off buying that cardigan.

  • @samysdefer
    @samysdefer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just the translation of the $3700 they spent:
    Internet/TV: $100
    Handy: $120
    Electricity: $170
    Dana cloth: $120
    shopping(cloth, make up etc.): $410
    yearly family present:$290
    eating outside: $100
    someones marriage present:$80
    hospital costs: $120
    creditcard spendings: $590
    .... and some insurances

  • @mariakim4009
    @mariakim4009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been waiting for this

  • @sheena3168
    @sheena3168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I just can’t.. with the mother in law

  • @________9313
    @________9313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    120 dollars for a cardigan whaaattt!!!!!! not even gap for kids lol. That was most definitely an unnecessary purchase. Btw I only say this because they are supposedly struggling so much with money. When someone is struggling with money they don't go off and buy a sweater for 120 dollars for a child that's growing super fast. By all means, if you have the money and you can buy it go ahead no problem but in this case, that was not a good purchase.

    • @samysdefer
      @samysdefer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Probably used to buy stuff like this. So it may be hard to surrender such life standard. Especially in front of camera they can't accept that they don't have no more money...

    • @daniyalbbd5281
      @daniyalbbd5281 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      More like an ego issue. They are putting on a show

  • @35Ryma
    @35Ryma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Mom already knows its her only income and yet she spends $120 on a cardigan? For a kid who is gonna outgrow it next year? You'll be fine. 😒

  • @MF-km4er
    @MF-km4er 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    120 dollars for a kids cardigan??????

  • @Cxs1a3
    @Cxs1a3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I remember the old video of him with his 49" Odyssey g9 monitor in his office, looking like a boss, now this, lul

  • @TheAnimeGirl0401
    @TheAnimeGirl0401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Her family is mean!

  • @A_k_h_i_l__1995
    @A_k_h_i_l__1995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Everything will be fine. Don't find relief in alcohol 🙅‍♂️. Love from 🇮🇳

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alcohol is the way

    • @A_k_h_i_l__1995
      @A_k_h_i_l__1995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Cxs1a3 🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      U prolly never drank in yo life

    • @chee518
      @chee518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Cxs1a3 it will probably buy some relief for a short period of time, but in the long run I don't think its worth it, spending money on alcohol when you could be putting that into savings.

  • @lalaland-ze8sb
    @lalaland-ze8sb ปีที่แล้ว

    She's wearing a mangalsutra so sweet respecting her husband's culture

  • @vocalone1008
    @vocalone1008 ปีที่แล้ว

    The wife is so beautiful. He is lucky

  • @Annie097ful
    @Annie097ful 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where can I watch full episodes with ENG sub? Please

  • @marein1327
    @marein1327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    We indians have very rich natural texture and colour we are and always should be proud of it !!! I hate how them lot over their always try to pick aside our colour as something unwanted or less of a "desirable " triat cause they want vampire ass face 😒 tumul is handsome inside out they are blessed to have such a son in law and they should respect it the way i see is tumul has always bend down towards her family so they somewhat seem superior to him which is not fair !!
    **this is no hate towards them but an observation 🤔

  • @Valeria_ng221
    @Valeria_ng221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tumul start a youtube channel.I think that would be best for you.

  • @AG-so4gl
    @AG-so4gl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just gave up work. Working from home for 2 years during lockdown was too much

  • @Raaaaven
    @Raaaaven 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Sorry, but I wouldn’t even buy a $120 cardigan for me.

  • @ayzhah9369
    @ayzhah9369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like his wife mom(mother-in-law)so open that she don’t lie or hide anything in her heart. It is said that if daughter looks like her dad then she is very very lucky child n bring luck to the family. I always say to my mom that I will only marry once I get job so that my husband n I can support each other at hard time just like them.

  • @mathew284
    @mathew284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    We Indians can't live without the word Discount.....

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's kinda racist

    • @mathew284
      @mathew284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Cxs1a3 I don't know what made u say that bt in india it's common nature to always bargain or search for discounts .
      I hope u noticed that I started the statement with "we indians" rather than they or u meaning it is a custom practiced by most of Indians including myself....

    • @mathew284
      @mathew284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Cxs1a3 And please don't throw the word Racist as you wish without knowing the gist of the matter..

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're just pretending to be Indian, so you can say racist sh:t

    • @Roonlovesfish3874
      @Roonlovesfish3874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mathew284 "we Indians" is precisely what makes it prejudiced. I know you possess the basic level of comprehension to understand why.

  • @mnaoitb1
    @mnaoitb1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    they are wasting an opportunity NOT becoming influencers and youtubers. india has a billion people which of whom many would love to connect to a half korean relationship and life. START A TH-cam ASAP

    • @shashank-sama
      @shashank-sama 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He has started a youtube channel. It's named "이웃집 투물 my neighbour tumul"
      Link of his channel is
      th-cam.com/channels/mJtfQzVmwORyTrmovf1zMQ.html

  • @wutyilin4288
    @wutyilin4288 ปีที่แล้ว

    They should start TH-cam channel during pandemic periods.Either starting as language translator or part time job would make easy earn in money.

  • @musicforthemind8338
    @musicforthemind8338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did anyone else want to sing What Ive Been Looking For from high school musical at the begining of this?

  • @chipangamazano
    @chipangamazano 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    120 for a cardigan is too much; worse for someone who claims to be broke.

  • @demonlord4661
    @demonlord4661 ปีที่แล้ว

    The part where the grandmother said how she didn’t like the way her granddaughter looked pissed me off

  • @kaynesheenan
    @kaynesheenan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    actually, he's done well to come to Korea just a few years ago and be aclimatized like that with a family

  • @eimisavageofficial9196
    @eimisavageofficial9196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Following 👏👍

  • @mansuelbro469
    @mansuelbro469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Of course is natural to ask discount I'm always do when I was in Japan to work

  • @cookie22100
    @cookie22100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dana is so beautiful!

  • @sammospencer8641
    @sammospencer8641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Omg! Even if the husband was working $120 on a kid’s sweater is pretty excessive, considering that it will only fit for one season.

    • @vetiarvind
      @vetiarvind 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've never spent more than $60 on a clothing item lol

    • @user-ly8vw3ej3v
      @user-ly8vw3ej3v ปีที่แล้ว

      Хах. А моя мама говорит,что внук похож на нее. Ну не похож он ни на меня,ни на отца. Но это не имеет значения.

  • @kirtidevibhardwaj9060
    @kirtidevibhardwaj9060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you give us discount 🤣🤣 desi habit

  • @jaykay5086
    @jaykay5086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol idk how I feel about the grandparents

  • @user-ur7rw3zg6k
    @user-ur7rw3zg6k 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How come they speak so good korean

  • @marvelv212
    @marvelv212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If he can't find work with travel agency he can do things besides that. Being jobless for 2 years who has family. Do whatever you have to.

  • @samanthalee9839
    @samanthalee9839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Everybody feel so hard because of pandemic :( my husband only work also we have twins :( and i got sick 😫 🤒 😷 🤧 not covid.. but in my liver

    • @chantalmonique2353
      @chantalmonique2353 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same as me except we only have one daughter, sick in my liver too (something to do with autoimmune illness). We recently spent 100k plus for our first house including renovations, furnitures, electrical appliances and down payments. Now we only have 11k left in our savings. Husband is the sole bread winner. I am now looking for part time job to ease my husband's burden. Maybe you can try it too!

    • @samanthalee9839
      @samanthalee9839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chantalmonique2353 i cant work yet my twins still small..

    • @cherylkhoo6133
      @cherylkhoo6133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope you get well soon

    • @samanthalee9839
      @samanthalee9839 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cherylkhoo6133 thank you

  • @avimax2.064
    @avimax2.064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have not spent 120$ on my clothes for last 3 year combined here i india if the shirt is more than 500rs (7$) and jeans 1000rs (12$) i don't buy it because its simply isn't worth it i am not going to pay extra to just have a special logo on my clothes

    • @rachelcookie321
      @rachelcookie321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish you could get clothes that cheap in New Zealand. Here jeans cost $50. I guess the wages are higher here but those clothes in India still sound very cheap!

    • @anweshasarkar7134
      @anweshasarkar7134 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      R8.we get the branded jeans in 12-14$....

  • @nathalyveneros6225
    @nathalyveneros6225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The grandmother comment about her the baby girl looking like his father being such a disgrace it’s just racist

  • @lutchilacarlos9283
    @lutchilacarlos9283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If he was conscious that he is the One not having an income, would not induce his wife, the only provider and lots of responsability, to pay 120 on a baby piece of clothe.

  • @johnnysmith9978
    @johnnysmith9978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to find myself an Asian woman to marry and work for me too. That man is living the dream.

    • @Waterbug1591
      @Waterbug1591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same, asian women can financially support their men, we can just sit home and play video games as long as we do house chores otherwise boss queen would be mad when she gets home from her high paying career. Men are allowed to be submissive and this makes the world a better place.

  • @mirasyal4259
    @mirasyal4259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The dad in law is so much nicer

  • @abdulrhmanadelsalam
    @abdulrhmanadelsalam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    120 bucks for a cardigan? Come on now there are tons of areas in SK where you can get super cheap clothes

  • @zopaseah4982
    @zopaseah4982 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dreams die fast!

  • @Timholle
    @Timholle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    He’s so funny 😂

  • @jessilynlu1422
    @jessilynlu1422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Must be common to live beyond their means and then go into debt and having to borrow money or file bankruptcy. Just like what’s usually featured on k dramas.

  • @rachelcookie321
    @rachelcookie321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I thought maybe the mum makes a lot of money and they’re used to being rich (that’s why they bought an expensive cardigan) and not middle class but then she said she doesn’t even make six figures. My dad makes about $100,000 and my mum makes about $50,000 but my family is still lower middle class and we could never afford to spend $120 on an item of clothing.

    • @braveshan921
      @braveshan921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Are u joking? 150,000 dollars/month is a lot. For sure, at least you are middle class people and not low middle.

    • @cee_el
      @cee_el 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@braveshan921 that’s yearly income

    • @cee_el
      @cee_el 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But where do you live? She works in a uni and even if she makes 60k usd a year, that’s considered a lot in Korea compared to your average worker in their 30s.
      Also, she didn’t say “I don’t make 6 figures”
      She said “it’s not like I make that much money”

    • @pisces6409
      @pisces6409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@braveshan921 a month lmao what are they - a rapper?? 😂 they’re definitely talking about their family’s yearly income

    • @user-ly8vw3ej3v
      @user-ly8vw3ej3v ปีที่แล้ว

      Вы сочиняете. Человек с доходом 100 тыс долларов в месяц вполне может позволить сеье вещь за 120 долларов.

  • @kingofasia517
    @kingofasia517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There is a white guy host where is he now?? Did he go back to their country?

  • @antonyang7273
    @antonyang7273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YOU can make A TH-cam CHANNEL with DANA in it as a family...

  • @TheGeneralMod
    @TheGeneralMod ปีที่แล้ว

    Imagine owning a travel business during covid... Hopefully everything is a-ok now that its almost 2023

  • @dibya6274
    @dibya6274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im not a hypocrite but thats the reason indian parents prefer government jobs even if the salary is less. job security matters the most. i know tumul is a very capable man and i hope their family will overcome this situation and everything will go back to normal. but they are freaking rich even if they are a little short on money, spending 3700 dollars per month is a lot. for indian middle class family its definitely a lot compared to 400 dollars(30000 inr) per month.

  • @clumsychacha859
    @clumsychacha859 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️🌼

  • @bluebunnycone8505
    @bluebunnycone8505 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If I had $3700 in monthly spending money even one time. I would never have to spend again for a long time. Lol

  • @pinkymoon5039
    @pinkymoon5039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Come on guys, you spend $120 on a cardigan for a child who will outgrow the cardigan in a few months!! And then you complain about over spending. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Stick to H&M or zara (a bit more expensive) for kids clothes. Kids outgrow their clothes very fast. What a waste of money!

    • @m11nt
      @m11nt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yup, seems like they're dumb.

    • @ppjskh
      @ppjskh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They need to Iive within their means and not go overboard. $120 for a cardigan that will only last a few months, because their kind will outgrow it, is useless.

    • @rachelcookie321
      @rachelcookie321 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope they resell the clothes after she’s outgrown them.

    • @user-ly8vw3ej3v
      @user-ly8vw3ej3v ปีที่แล้ว

      Это ж полное говно. Извините, но одежда плохого качества. Ее носить невозможно.

  • @yottabyte2065
    @yottabyte2065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey bro you are Indian !! Bro business and Enjoyment in our blood so don't stop u can do many more things ....Jai Jagannath 🥰

  • @chopstix3
    @chopstix3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just do what everyone is doing and become a TH-camr for the income - better than doing nothing at home. Income provides the chances to create memories and care for your family. Without money, everything else deteriorates rapidly.

    • @Waterbug1591
      @Waterbug1591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WTF?? he's doing his best as a stay-at-home dad washing dishes, doing laundry and looking after the kid. What more do you expect from him? The wife is the breadwinner, the husband is the caretaker, why can't he stay at home and do his house chores??? It's 2022, not 1960.