The compliance of the family (parents) is amazing. Especially the dad and his deep interest is real moving. Aklso the mother is great. This family has a great chance!
I saw some of the stuff again bc. of your response to me. I see all the chances of the familiy, they will have integrated all the (learned lessons) into their day so far. BUT: seeing how the girls are rejected and how deeply institutionalized this structure is, hurts again to watch. Hopefully history now. Btw: the girls will have to care for the brother all their adult lives.
The girls don´t only have to be taken busy, but individuallsy (each for herself) loved and valued. Also in this video the girls come after Tristan and they are used to be perceived as a couple! Even from the counsellors They are singularly personalities! and taken as that!
i hear ya trae i get ppl thjat don't understand all the time with my 5 year old high functioning autistic son, good on u and dei for putting urselfs out there so we could all get pointers, i would love to hear how things are now, i know it's a learning journey and this one show was just the begining
If you are the parents of a special child, you are 110% responsible for your family. You have to find the experts and therapies for the kid, and you do NOT expect the other siblings to pick up after him/her.
But the mother must not leave the girls so cruel. And, watch 4.50 : she has more directly and more positively affected to give the girls attention and praise. With the girls she seems to have problems. In this video they stand behind Tristan even in good moments. All the direct attention is directed to first Tristan, then, 4.50 somewhat weaker perhaps to the girls. The only direct attention to them is paired with negative messages 3.35! But they earn also primary attention and love!
And: you made a therapy! That helped your parents as well how to treat you! Another example of effects on siblings can IMHO be seen in case of the sister of John Travolta: she is (was) somewhat affected by the autistic brother and his behaviour and effects on the family-system: very much concentration goes on the boy, the sister has no normal brother and has "different-from-normal" focussing parents (out of a situational + general demand). In my view: dilemma, tragic,somewhat TYPICAL!
1) sorry for the many writing-mistakes; when I delete and rewrite it,your answer would prob. vanish,so I leave it! 2) there is at least one study from the 70's , in which the system.-statistical effects of autism-case in family for the siblings is described. I'm glad for you that things run o.k! There might be contemporary shiftings of parental behaviour as well. But this family without advice would neglect totally the girls.This is obvious and could still be a typical effect in aut-fam.!
@christopherironyokes I am on the spectrum and relate to Tristan. I was singing and stimming as I wrote this message. alot of professionals believe their way is the right way due to misplaced passionfire. Not that it is a bad thing, it just gets to their heads. whilst I Have mostly negative memories of childhood and therapy...remembering my mum's smile...I cannot stop crying and rocking now. I apologize if I sound over dramatic.
I agree, the Tristan gets all the positive attention and the twin girls only get negative attention. I feel bad for them. Just because they are not special needs does't mean they should be treated this way.
Please don't say hate comments about them you try to take care of an autism 3 year old and 4 twin girls who fight and want to play a lot and if you can say you can handle it good for you but remember people are different so they will look and take things different so please just think before you post another one
Hi do people remeber me kayla the one in middle school please no hate commets I love my family and this thing you call entertainment super nanny doesn't help so please just came to say hi to the people who care for me and my family thanks, kayla
The parents really lack parenting skills.. that is what sums it up... no one is teaching future generations how to be parents... we need to re institute parenting classes in High School
your answer brought me back to this stuff and I tell you: the way they treat(ed!!!) the girls realy sucks! Google for autis+sibblings" - you will gernerally find, that siblings of autists are neglkected in several dimensions: they get less attention, have lack in speech, school-succcess and, and. You can even find such films on Yotube. Wha I see here is the total confirmation of the broader thesis: autist in familes are bad for the siblings! The way these girls are treated is ashaming!
Great to see how Pivotal Response works in real life.
The compliance of the family (parents) is amazing. Especially the dad and his deep interest is real moving.
Aklso the mother is great.
This family has a great chance!
I saw some of the stuff again bc. of your response to me. I see all the chances of the familiy, they will have integrated all the (learned lessons) into their day so far. BUT: seeing how the girls are rejected and how deeply institutionalized this structure is, hurts again to watch. Hopefully history now. Btw: the girls will have to care for the brother all their adult lives.
The girls don´t only have to be taken busy, but individuallsy (each for herself) loved and valued. Also in this video the girls come after Tristan and they are used to be perceived as a couple! Even from the counsellors They are singularly personalities! and taken as that!
This warmed my heart.
I love the words Jo uses, like "Gobsmacked," lol. I like ti when she says "knackered."
i hear ya trae i get ppl thjat don't understand all the time with my 5 year old high functioning autistic son, good on u and dei for putting urselfs out there so we could all get pointers, i would love to hear how things are now, i know it's a learning journey and this one show was just the begining
It was at this moment he knew he had fucked up
If you are the parents of a special child, you are 110% responsible for your family. You have to find the experts and therapies for the kid, and you do NOT expect the other siblings to pick up after him/her.
But the mother must not leave the girls so cruel.
And, watch 4.50 : she has more directly and more positively affected to give the girls attention and praise. With the girls she seems to have problems. In this video they stand behind Tristan even in good moments. All the direct attention is directed to first Tristan, then, 4.50 somewhat weaker perhaps to the girls. The only direct attention to them is paired with negative messages 3.35! But they earn also primary attention and love!
And: you made a therapy! That helped your parents as well how to treat you!
Another example of effects on siblings can IMHO be seen in case of the sister of John Travolta: she is (was) somewhat affected by the autistic brother and his behaviour and effects on the family-system: very much concentration goes on the boy, the sister has no normal brother and has "different-from-normal" focussing parents (out of a situational + general demand). In my view: dilemma, tragic,somewhat TYPICAL!
1) sorry for the many writing-mistakes; when I delete and rewrite it,your answer would prob. vanish,so I leave it!
2) there is at least one study from the 70's , in which the system.-statistical effects of autism-case in family for the siblings is described. I'm glad for you that things run o.k! There might be contemporary shiftings of parental behaviour as well. But this family without advice would neglect totally the girls.This is obvious and could still be a typical effect in aut-fam.!
@christopherironyokes I am on the spectrum and relate to Tristan. I was singing and stimming as I wrote this message. alot of professionals believe their way is the right way due to misplaced passionfire. Not that it is a bad thing, it just gets to their heads. whilst I Have mostly negative memories of childhood and therapy...remembering my mum's smile...I cannot stop crying and rocking now. I apologize if I sound over dramatic.
I agree, the Tristan gets all the positive attention and the twin girls only get negative attention. I feel bad for them. Just because they are not special needs does't mean they should be treated this way.
Please don't say hate comments about them you try to take care of an autism 3 year old and 4 twin girls who fight and want to play a lot and if you can say you can handle it good for you but remember people are different so they will look and take things different so please just think before you post another one
Hi do people remeber me kayla the one in middle school please no hate commets I love my family and this thing you call entertainment super nanny doesn't help so please just came to say hi to the people who care for me and my family thanks, kayla
Im the little Brunette :D
Marlana Facente.. that's absolutely Amazing! was it a good/fun experience?
The mom says all the things she has to do in the day is going to "wear her down" Is she serious?
The parents really lack parenting skills.. that is what sums it up... no one is teaching future generations how to be parents... we need to re institute parenting classes in High School
lmfao!
your answer brought me back to this stuff and I tell you: the way they treat(ed!!!) the girls realy sucks!
Google for autis+sibblings" - you will gernerally find, that siblings of autists are neglkected in several dimensions: they get less attention, have lack in speech, school-succcess and, and.
You can even find such films on Yotube.
Wha I see here is the total confirmation of the broader thesis: autist in familes are bad for the siblings! The way these girls are treated is ashaming!