Married To The Law | E8: How Not To Buy A House

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  • @mrflipmrflip
    @mrflipmrflip 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Worst boss: "Mike told me to change this" Best boss: "Mike taught me why this needed changing". When you ask a colleague to change their work product, commit to then or later distilling the "here's why my instinct/experience said to intervene" into a crisp decision principle. That has two benefits: a) equips them to teach colleagues (esp important as you scale). But above that, b) if you can't do so, you're micromanaging; apologize and learn from that.

    • @templebrown7179
      @templebrown7179 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I definitely appreciate having an understanding of why I am wrong or why I shouldn't do something in a particular scenario.

  • @kesanpo
    @kesanpo 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I love watching this podcast - you both are great storytellers and I really enjoy the banter lol

  • @Sympatico4u
    @Sympatico4u 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Law is now like medicine. Attorneys specialize in different areas much the same as doctors have specialties. Real Estate, Family Law, Personal Injury, Maritime, Wills/Trusts/Probate, to name just a few. Litigation is another area altogether. Personally, I want a lawyer that specializes - they will know more about the subject you need them for in the first place. More knowledge makes for a wiser decision in everything, not just legal issues.

  • @etowahjazz
    @etowahjazz 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    great story, again. Love your elocution of both of you. Great example.Thanks.

  • @templebrown7179
    @templebrown7179 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow, you both are very candid. I can see a lot of people developing parasocial relationships with you, feeling like they know you.

  • @klmbunny1
    @klmbunny1 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Love watching your podcasts. You guys are so funny 😁

  • @djkeithjust
    @djkeithjust วันที่ผ่านมา

    How you approach being a boss, makes you a great boss!

  • @langsbr
    @langsbr วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I cannot believe ole Duffy is out there still doing real estate. Crazy he took no responsibility for what happened in any of the situations.

  • @DanielGallowayR
    @DanielGallowayR 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Having worked for some bad bosses, Mike doesn't sound like that bad of a boss. Being willing to look at mistakes and make improvements sounds good.

  • @sohanpanda
    @sohanpanda วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wait this might be the craziest(in a good way) neighbour story I heard 😂

  • @bluettr250
    @bluettr250 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You need your own radio show on Sirius

  • @Thumper255
    @Thumper255 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Wow Ash, a bit harsh review then to blame poor innocent and gentle Mike dishonor on you and dishonor onyour cow.

  • @28cthedestroyer
    @28cthedestroyer 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My girl says the same thing 😂😂😂

  • @laquintagilbert8671
    @laquintagilbert8671 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This was a great story. I’m a researcher by nature so I actually found the case. 😂😂😂

    • @MikeRafiLawyer
      @MikeRafiLawyer  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      Don’t mean to call you out, but there was no case.

    • @danielkirienko1701
      @danielkirienko1701 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      ​@@MikeRafiLawyerLMAO. Get him Mike.

    • @FriskyFilks
      @FriskyFilks 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@MikeRafiLawyerThat definitely looked intentional.

    • @frumpycrust
      @frumpycrust วันที่ผ่านมา

      Please link to this nonexistent case.

  • @tarodas
    @tarodas 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gotta be Nina & Rafi for Pizza, Pour Taproom, and the James Room.
    Nina & Rafi is bad pizza, keep your deep trash dish north of the Mason-Dixon. Antico all the way.
    Pour is a fun spot and worth visiting with friends from out of town.
    The James Room went from an intimate bespoke small plate and cocktail spot, think a super trendy H&F circa 2012, to another overpriced clubspot.

  • @JayJay_LA
    @JayJay_LA 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yesss mikeee lesgoooo

  • @Illumas
    @Illumas 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Oo, what board games do y'all play?

    • @MikeRafiLawyer
      @MikeRafiLawyer  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Our 11 and 7 year old like Clue, Catan (one of them has learned to hoard the ore), and Blockus (sort of a board game). Been trying to get them in Rummicube. Any recommendations?

    • @OldGravyLeg
      @OldGravyLeg 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@MikeRafiLawyer board game suggestions: Sushi Go, or Sushi Go Party, Zombie Dice: Horde Edition, Bang! The Dice Game, Forbidden Island, Forbidden Desert (a little more challenging than Forbidden Island), and King of Tokyo would be some good starters for you and the kids.

  • @GeorgiaOutdoorGuy
    @GeorgiaOutdoorGuy 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So my fishing teammate (not partner) will tell me, i am supposed to know what he is thinking before he tells me.

    • @MikeRafiLawyer
      @MikeRafiLawyer  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Must be the result of nurture and not nature.

    • @GeorgiaOutdoorGuy
      @GeorgiaOutdoorGuy 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Kinda see a pattern here.

  • @thatjeff7550
    @thatjeff7550 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I'm having an issue about y'all knocking down a house in order to build a new house. What was wrong with the previous house?

    • @AshleyRafi
      @AshleyRafi 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      It was a very old home. Unfortunately it had structural damage and would have cost about the same to completely fix/renovate it.

    • @thatjeff7550
      @thatjeff7550 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@AshleyRafi Okay then. Sorry to give y'all grief but here locally we've had perfectly good older homes ripped down for real estate developers to throw up massive apartment complexes.

    • @zebedeesummers4413
      @zebedeesummers4413 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@thatjeff7550 I don't mean to be disrespectful but how else do you build dense housing where people will actually move in?

    • @thatjeff7550
      @thatjeff7550 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@zebedeesummers4413 understandable. I supposed I should have explained my perspective first....
      I have a degree in architecture and had an interest in historic buildings and homes. Now, my issue is what has happened locally. My city *HAD* a historic neighborhood close to our university. However, landlords and real estate developers HATED that zoning overlay and did everything they could legally to get rid of these once beautiful homes (and these things were mansions, not shotgun houses) so that they could tear them down and build apartment buildings.
      So yeah, I'm not keen on destroying old homes if they can be saved, particularly with out bad new building construction has been. Folks can get an old home that is lovely on the outside and just need a rewiring and some renovation for the same price of a cheap, poorly constructed "McMansion" that developers will quickly throw up and hope the buyer doesn't notice the shoddy construction.

  • @C0MPUTERPHILE
    @C0MPUTERPHILE 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I never used to think podcasters actually needed high end mics, but the audio from this is atrocious. Especially hers for some reason? After 7 other episodes I would assume they could have gotten audio issues like this corrected?

    • @MikeRafiLawyer
      @MikeRafiLawyer  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What?

    • @langsbr
      @langsbr วันที่ผ่านมา

      sounds fine to me

    • @DirtyUncleSAL
      @DirtyUncleSAL วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think you might be experiencing an auditory issue, @COMPUTERPHILE. Their audio sounds crisp, and clear, with no popping. Maybe adjust your EQ settings?

  • @AegonTheUnlikely
    @AegonTheUnlikely 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love the podcast, you and the wife. She’s beautiful and brilliant, respectfully 😉