Sudha Murthy to Girls : You should marry a man who is more understanding than rich to be happy.

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  • @Bittu_naruto
    @Bittu_naruto ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My girlfriend is so understanding, she is working hard for her future. I support her no matter what.

  • @novemberPrincess1109
    @novemberPrincess1109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +532

    Absolutely! Agree with your words Mam. It's about the companionship. Staying Loyal, caring and understanding even when you are not around is most important. We have to be practical in life, what matters is how much you invest into relationships than materialistic needs. Hope people take note of these statements from you.✅

    • @nikhilmorey2672
      @nikhilmorey2672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Still girls or women u call them ....they will aim for a roch guy only

    • @vijayalakshmikk6623
      @vijayalakshmikk6623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Abslutly correct.
      Mutual understanding
      is very costly Gift..👍🏾👍🏿👍🏿

    • @novemberPrincess1109
      @novemberPrincess1109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@nikhilmorey2672 Most of the rich men are spoiled. I have seen Rich, handsome and High profile Men in corporate. What's important is the attitude , the way you treat people, the way you respect women, there are lot many things that matters over richness. Yes, Money is absolutely important at the same time you should be a Gentleman not just a Man.

    • @nikhilmorey2672
      @nikhilmorey2672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@novemberPrincess1109 Still importance will be given to money over compatibility right amulya ms

    • @nikhilmorey2672
      @nikhilmorey2672 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@novemberPrincess1109 u from bangalore....

  • @hafasakhan6966
    @hafasakhan6966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    These two are setting an example for young generation, teaching lessons on relationship and support each other wherever they are....💐🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍🌟🌟🌟

  • @thek2890
    @thek2890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    What Sudha maam told is correct but nowadays who cares for emotions, most of the people run for money

    • @djohn0909
      @djohn0909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Then they should not cry or complaint about the same

    • @poulomimajumder2889
      @poulomimajumder2889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      We all are still bound into the circle of material world, so MONEY DOES MATTER..... Even the religious institutions like ISKCON, RKM INCLUDING THE VATICAN, RUN ON DONATIONS AND MONEY..... SO MONEY IS IMPORTANT ..... BUT AS LONG AS THE BASIC NEEDS GET FULFILLED.... IN MY CASE I WANT A CARING, UNDERSTANDING BUT WELLOFF.... HUSBAND .... NOT REALLY RICH... but WELL OFF..... BECAUSE RICH ONES MOSTLY ARE CORRUPTED.... THOUGH NOT ALL....

    • @Ankona_Vaani
      @Ankona_Vaani 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Somewhere it's possible

    • @shyamadantu7885
      @shyamadantu7885 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I think money has always and will be a player in relationships in past,present,future

    • @ronaknanda6175
      @ronaknanda6175 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@poulomimajumder2889 why you can't earn n feed your husband

  • @krisshnakumar5082
    @krisshnakumar5082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Today couple never understand but starts more dominant 😂😂

  • @girlsworld5726
    @girlsworld5726 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    They both are great individuals, that's the reason behind their beautiful relationship. Before loving anyone love yourself.

  • @madhuraj3600
    @madhuraj3600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Absolutely mam, Getting freedom of life and fullfil once dreams is greater than the Anniversary , birthday wishes and gifts.

  • @shwetaagrawal6075
    @shwetaagrawal6075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Hats off to this couple who have every wealth im the world but still follow the simplicity and using their retirement time to teach and preach with their experience.

    • @waybackboy9843
      @waybackboy9843 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's what I would do even if i have such wealth. Stop being a sheep

    • @cutekoala234
      @cutekoala234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@waybackboy9843 what's being a sheep? it is just a correct analogy.

  • @yaminishinde241
    @yaminishinde241 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Understand each other than giving gifs to each other is love , emotionally attached person always take care of what you like.
    Extremely deep definition of love.

  • @nilighosh158
    @nilighosh158 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    This is so true. Thank you Ma'am 🙏. Marriage is a wonderful institution and something that should be treasured and valued by married couples. Every successful marriage is based on the foundation of mutual respect for one another.

  • @ramt6102
    @ramt6102 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    These two are not just MADE FOR EACH OTHER..... they are also.....both are MADE BY EACH OTHER.

    • @SUDHAKARMSK
      @SUDHAKARMSK หลายเดือนก่อน

      Excellent bro understanding is deeper than knowledge yes they are made by each other

  • @gautamkumarjha1160
    @gautamkumarjha1160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The woman who asked question seems very brave 😊

  • @swarushiph1
    @swarushiph1 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She is absolutely right
    Todays generation beleive caring means buying expensive gifts but in the end the small gestures of caring and mutual respect and trust is what matters most for a long standing marriage
    Marriage means daily adjustment and it is always give and take

  • @lakshmi5natarajan
    @lakshmi5natarajan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    true, some of us have seen worst life partner, always suspecting, and finding ways to end up relationship, supporting.... blossom on own to the fullest..... these all words are lived by only few women ..... nice to know you are one..... god bless you. We want such ppl to our society. am blessed to see such ppl.

  • @sridharbasavaraju9097
    @sridharbasavaraju9097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Well said ma'am.. It's like my family or parents.. They have the greatest bond or care, than the birthday dates or other one/two dates.. Well explained or remind us.. Thank you so much ❤❤❤

  • @lifeofanitha4814
    @lifeofanitha4814 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Sometimes despite knowing everything it takes lot of luck to transform or find some understanding person...

  • @pragyasinibehera9500
    @pragyasinibehera9500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    U two are so beautiful souls from within.. Lots of respect for both of u sir and madam🙏🙏

  • @mogleesh-22
    @mogleesh-22 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    *"You need money to understand each other."* -me

    • @f1chronology890
      @f1chronology890 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Totally Agree

    • @venktesh6600
      @venktesh6600 ปีที่แล้ว

      slight change.. "You need money to understand each other in "married life"."

  • @kits1111
    @kits1111 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Behind every successful woman is a great man ...

  • @saswatab79
    @saswatab79 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So true Mrs Murthy. I wish my wife understood this and didn't get bothered by my caring.😞

  • @Sabbani
    @Sabbani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A valid one.. need to circulate it so that it reaches to max.. many of us need to know, understand n adopt it..

  • @therohitsahani
    @therohitsahani ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Every Flower 🌼 should bloom with its own pace, with its own wish

  • @arunnhas
    @arunnhas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Anchor🙏
    She knew very well differentiated the words for Cares and bouther, even though she initially putting a big task on sudha murthy.
    Yup she explained beautifully whether she would have been with her husband last 40 yrs each and every situation how he was interpreted and such as not dominating manner👌

  • @priyankae775
    @priyankae775 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Agreed ! All a girl need is caring husband , especially it is painful that your partner is not caring when you are in need .

    • @shubhmishra66
      @shubhmishra66 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then marry a caring beggar

    • @RG-sl6ix
      @RG-sl6ix ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shubhmishra66 people look for partners based on their expectations. Why u worry or insult others.
      I married a man with poor salary, I'm still happy. My expectations of life and selecting husband was different. We have our fights. Money s a main factor. But, not the only factor. Money, understanding , care, love, responsible man all r equally important. It's not this or that

  • @GamingSigma20
    @GamingSigma20 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Created such a great impact in just few words .. Hats off to u mam ..

  • @suman3316
    @suman3316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hope so Everyone understand themselves first...rather than excepting others to understand ourselves

  • @ramredkar5405
    @ramredkar5405 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great lady Mrs. Sudha Moorti 🙏.
    Now a days people should be taught such wisdom.
    Hat's off to u Mrs. Moorti.

  • @jurisdivya6325
    @jurisdivya6325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Such a pure soul. I admire her alot.

  • @abrahamlincoln680
    @abrahamlincoln680 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mohammed Ahsan, thanks for bringing these people closer to us

  • @vasudevan2168
    @vasudevan2168 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Two living legends 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @murugeshhc8377
    @murugeshhc8377 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Love and respect forms basic foundation of healthy and happy married life...

  • @brahmaiahchinna6966
    @brahmaiahchinna6966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    అందరికీ చాలా చాలా హృదయపూర్వక నూతన సంవత్సర కృతజ్ఞతలు శుభాకాంక్షలు

  • @shrutikumari4393
    @shrutikumari4393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The companionship 💞

  • @views-qw9tf
    @views-qw9tf ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She's speaking life she created all..

  • @GaneshKumar-wm6ml
    @GaneshKumar-wm6ml ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When you show more love, care and affection towards the partner- The Partner might get bored, or less Interested!!

  • @harishsm121
    @harishsm121 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great couple with noble intension and grown with hard work 🙏👌👍

  • @shobhanapillai1786
    @shobhanapillai1786 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What i heard was extremely superb, God be with her family.

  • @caties884
    @caties884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Best compliment couple ❤️

  • @amitday5957
    @amitday5957 ปีที่แล้ว

    so many Great People in one family...pride of India.

  • @user-sx5hj9hw4s
    @user-sx5hj9hw4s ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very true richness is just not money....be rich in understanding, polite , caring , maturity and most importantly flexibility certain qualities in human that No Money can buy

  • @anchalwalia7693
    @anchalwalia7693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the way she laughs😄😄😄

  • @sathya36
    @sathya36 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish naranyanmurthyji and Sudha Narayan murty both are a assets to India. Long live you both and stay healthy and enjoy life to its maximum

  • @duskydawn8
    @duskydawn8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Owner of Biggest tech giant Infosys and just look at their humbleness. What a great couple ♥️

  • @AjaiKailasa
    @AjaiKailasa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hello Mr.Murthy, happy to hear from her about you. Wish and hope the loyal employees are protected and taken some care … but I wish you
    Good luck to you and also your family …
    Happy New Year…

  • @poojatandia510
    @poojatandia510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is really important, very important quality. Always keep looking for your valuable words ✨ 💯

  • @AP-eb8hd
    @AP-eb8hd ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy Narayan, what he is ,... It's all because of Sudha... Kudos to her..

  • @paidichinni5093
    @paidichinni5093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Indian Icons 🙏🙏
    Role models to todays Generations, should learn from you

  • @johnnyb9715
    @johnnyb9715 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    To all the girls here who want an understanding husband, first be understanding and caring urselves too then expect one

  • @kartikidevlekar4904
    @kartikidevlekar4904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am feel so glad... my husband is same as you said mam... He is good man

  • @pankajamshivkumar4500
    @pankajamshivkumar4500 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excellent ma’am ... hats off to you both 👍

  • @KemthurManasa
    @KemthurManasa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most beautiful and inspiring couple

  • @khyati461
    @khyati461 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, your words just touched my heart.
    👍🏻

  • @gauravsaini3109
    @gauravsaini3109 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just realized, Prof. Karandikar is sitting there too. Good to see our professors.

  • @sureshnishtala2887
    @sureshnishtala2887 ปีที่แล้ว

    sudha murthy garu is always an inspiration..

  • @sancharig5863
    @sancharig5863 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My husband is like him. We have our own life. We trust each other. We are best friends.

    • @sancharig5863
      @sancharig5863 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @funy_girl9 not in last 8yrs as gf bf or 3 yr as married. Why??

  • @AnupumPant
    @AnupumPant ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Surely getting the freedom of life and fulfil one's dreams is greater than the anniversary, birthday wishes and gifts. While Sudha ji is wise enough to understand that, it is indeed a rare quality. It is very common for people to stop appreciating everything they are getting and focus on what is lacking. Pandemonium ensues.

  • @shyamadantu7885
    @shyamadantu7885 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    you have to marry someone who has same ideals as you in atleast imp spheres of life like parenting,finances , family dynamics etc

  • @chaithanyav6646
    @chaithanyav6646 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes one should not expect for rich husband then no one should expect for beautiful, hot, sexy,homely wife too

  • @mdarifkhan579
    @mdarifkhan579 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Excellent emotional bonding and mutual care 👌👍🙏

    • @TickleyourBuds1111
      @TickleyourBuds1111 ปีที่แล้ว

      Now to find a husband who has a emotional attachment instead of running after money , doesn’t seem to exists , all man these days are busy running after money or multiple women , I hope I find a man who emotional attached to me under the #ShivShakti of just 2
      Stay happily married guys, it’s so hard n difficult now days to even find such relationships,

  • @SV-wu2my
    @SV-wu2my ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Simplicity. We see in both of them.

  • @HarryPotter-fp1el
    @HarryPotter-fp1el 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A perfect match. That's why they are a great successful couple.

  • @anjanadas2105
    @anjanadas2105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    What a lady, pranam mam, I should follow you more

  • @kmnlalitha
    @kmnlalitha 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Care, love, respect etc are mutual.. personal.. each one has their own way to express it.. and the partner just knows it..

  • @rozinafatima6947
    @rozinafatima6947 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I don't know about this
    But i have read her book "house of cards"
    N trust me she is the only one who decoded "What woman wants?"
    Though it is quite a boring story but the massage is incredible n the simplicity with which it conveys the massage is amazing!!!!
    Everyone must read it especially MEN!!!

    • @venktesh6600
      @venktesh6600 ปีที่แล้ว

      btw whats the message Ms. Rozira?

    • @rozinafatima6947
      @rozinafatima6947 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@venktesh6600 well why don't you try to read it!!

    • @venktesh6600
      @venktesh6600 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rozinafatima6947 i have already with hell of pdf books pending to read in future I think in next life. im pull of tension mode. you prompted about this book so plz no more homework. gimme the stupp.

    • @rozinafatima6947
      @rozinafatima6947 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@venktesh6600 okay first of all your problems are yours not mine to care for them. N i can tell you but you might not get the point n if you really want to know you will read the book one day!!!!

    • @venktesh6600
      @venktesh6600 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rozinafatima6947 Thenx, she is not a that appealing influencer for me to read her, otherwise I have tried at least glancing the book. In case, if you try explaining those point would give a hint of ur expression as a writer.

  • @gyot3487
    @gyot3487 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i can here this lady all day long.

  • @NS-bj5hj
    @NS-bj5hj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Yes right ma'am ... Women should also be supportive,non egoistic, and who love your family as her family ..
    Money can't buy you happiness but a loving home can give you happiness

    • @pratriciadewan7396
      @pratriciadewan7396 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As long as men are also supportive and non-egotistical. But if one spouse is not respectfully, then better to leave than stay in a miserable marriage. Also, money can't buy happiness but it can provide food, water, shelter, healthcare, kids tuition. And those things are important.

    • @AB-ce3nn
      @AB-ce3nn ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Men should love their wives family as their family then can expect the same from their wife, else its plain hypocrisy and selfishness

    • @darthrevan8306
      @darthrevan8306 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. If women are that kind men are also are respectful

    • @jitendragarhwal3140
      @jitendragarhwal3140 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pratriciadewan7396 you felt the need to comment this shows you are egotistical. You coudn't accept someone's opinion about expectation of a husband from his wife without commenting about husbands.

    • @sm24572
      @sm24572 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jitendragarhwal3140 They are modern feminist type

  • @AK-iy3em
    @AK-iy3em ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What a couple❤ I just love them

  • @srikanthkal8695
    @srikanthkal8695 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wise words from her, as always.

  • @binad1285
    @binad1285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Your a real example to young or married women hats off to you. God bless you both r Gems of the world I say.

  • @ravikirti5027
    @ravikirti5027 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They are an ideal couple.

  • @aishwaryavs3290
    @aishwaryavs3290 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Super cute chweet chweet couple... Did Narayan murthy Sir say 👌🏻 super to Sudha Amma's answer in 0.28 🤗🤗🤗🤗...I loved Murthy Sir's reaction after she finished the question... Typical ayyye gesture😄😄😄

  • @rashmiupadhye9109
    @rashmiupadhye9109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very well said

  • @binad1285
    @binad1285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow Suddha mam well said

  • @satyaartcreations8186
    @satyaartcreations8186 ปีที่แล้ว

    Proud of you mam love from odisha lord jagannath blessed u

  • @deepakumar9545
    @deepakumar9545 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every woman needs caring husband.

  • @santhiganapathy8895
    @santhiganapathy8895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said 🙏👍

  • @lopamudrabehera4728
    @lopamudrabehera4728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with friendship and you.

  • @menaga9085
    @menaga9085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Final words , very true. Marry a understanding husband.

  • @shivanya9856
    @shivanya9856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love u both....God bless u 🥰💞💞💞💞🙏

  • @sangitajain1612
    @sangitajain1612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great great🥳🥳

  • @jaggarao2312
    @jaggarao2312 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good & Matured Couple..!! 👌👌🙏🙏

  • @rosyvarghese3754
    @rosyvarghese3754 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sometimes you just cant manufacture attraction no matter how much care they give you.

  • @Navz295
    @Navz295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am lucky person to have my hubby to be that way

  • @vikashatri3230
    @vikashatri3230 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well said by Mrs Murthy.

  • @Englishacademy.
    @Englishacademy. ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I already thought about this! 💪 Either an understanding husband or no husband 🤣💪

    • @Antinatal529
      @Antinatal529 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you need a husband or a companion ? On a different level , why do you want to introduce another human into your personal space over which you have total control ? Value your well being and independence over anyone.

    • @Englishacademy.
      @Englishacademy. ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Antinatal529 🙂❤️

    • @Englishacademy.
      @Englishacademy. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @VARUN TheFashionista yes! 😂🤣......

  • @sheenahabib9137
    @sheenahabib9137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful god bless mam🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️

  • @ricorico08654
    @ricorico08654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love from Odisha ❤️

  • @satishborkar9078
    @satishborkar9078 ปีที่แล้ว

    How humble ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @artpand4579
    @artpand4579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hello Ma'am it was nice to listen yr vedios every husband should understand his wife there will be no divorce in our country

    • @jitendragarhwal3140
      @jitendragarhwal3140 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What about wife. Wives are perfect??? Shame on you for putting the whole blame for divorces on husbands.

  • @aminaabdulla8611
    @aminaabdulla8611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haribol !!! Hare Krishna !!! Hare Krishna !!! om namah shivaya !!!

  • @rahulsai815
    @rahulsai815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Inspiration couple om sai ram

  • @suchitrananda7475
    @suchitrananda7475 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely right Mam. ❤🙏

  • @sarithaani7228
    @sarithaani7228 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So cute both are! Both had a point of view!😂

  • @dasikakn
    @dasikakn ปีที่แล้ว

    Love is about acts of service for each other, not gifts.

  • @renukarajesh6317
    @renukarajesh6317 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well said.

  • @viralupdates5642
    @viralupdates5642 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏👏👏excellent

  • @bharathia.v3947
    @bharathia.v3947 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said Mam 😊

  • @niveditasaha1
    @niveditasaha1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing👏👏👏

  • @unnikrishnanhr
    @unnikrishnanhr ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent 👌👌❤❤

  • @amazingfacts1398
    @amazingfacts1398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    True ❤️