Monica - U Should've Known Better (Official Video)

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  • "U Should've Known Better" by Monica - Album Version
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    Chorus:
    You should've known better
    Than to think I would leave
    You should've known better
    Than to doubt me (me)
    It don't matter if you're up
    Matter if you're down
    Either way, I'm gonna be around
    You should've known that
    I would stay by your side
    Should've known your girl
    Was gonna ride or die
    And it just don't matter
    If you're rich or poor, out or in doin' 5 to 10
    You should've known better
    #Monica #UShouldveKnownBetter #OfficialVideo
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  • @chyrellhartsock9867
    @chyrellhartsock9867 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +509

    Whose here in 2024?

    • @trishblessed8443
      @trishblessed8443 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Ridin stiii😊😊😊

    • @MontellaQ
      @MontellaQ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Mee ❤

    • @nilufergunay8439
      @nilufergunay8439 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤

    • @teyannagreen
      @teyannagreen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me as I lay in the hydromassage chair at planet fitness lol

    • @deweycombs3676
      @deweycombs3676 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yesssssssssssssssssss

  • @Keisolomon7489
    @Keisolomon7489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3633

    Reminds me of my situation, I got sentenced to 4 years in prison in 2015 and I told my dude to move on....he did all of my time with me. I got out of prison July of 2018 and were still together. November will be 9 years we've been together. It's men out here that will hold a woman down too💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
    ****UDATE***** it’s 7/23/23 and we’re still holding on! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
    Ohhhjj ok it’s 2/20/24 and the ACE TO MY SPADE ♠️ IS STILL ROCKING! 😘🫶🏽🌹

    • @rachelpayares3932
      @rachelpayares3932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Nice im currently with someone in feds got 3 years left its tough i question him everyday if he gonna mess up on me when he get out i know that bad

    • @wgaines323
      @wgaines323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      🙏Love is Real. When Its Love.... God Continue To Bless You Both.. Him For Staying..and You For Trusting🙏🙏

    • @asiaace9966
      @asiaace9966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      SHOUTOUT TO YOU BEING HOME!

    • @ifunewme
      @ifunewme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💯❤️

    • @massarimonroe9578
      @massarimonroe9578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      JayKela Solomon that’s real!

  • @arleneandrews9262
    @arleneandrews9262 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +121

    2024 I'm still here!! ❤💃

  • @NikluvLei6111
    @NikluvLei6111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    "I never ever cheated, I never ever lied, so you can stop asking, asking me why. Why I never left you, Why I kept it real, and Why I'm still with you."
    "Your family and friends they just don't understand, you say I should leave it alone, but I say, they all should just leave us alone." ❤

  • @Minnieccc333
    @Minnieccc333 8 ปีที่แล้ว +411

    that guitar solo was fire!

    • @cookie22100
      @cookie22100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Thats Carlos Santana for you. Hes also in You got it bad by Usher.

    • @Minnieccc333
      @Minnieccc333 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i like the one from usher song too

    • @rekharani-ke1cw
      @rekharani-ke1cw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      carisma bethea
      o

    • @LexiPoohification
      @LexiPoohification 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeesss I hum it every time💓

    • @tanishamcbride9542
      @tanishamcbride9542 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yes me too

  • @anthonykahill3813
    @anthonykahill3813 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    This album got me through my custody battle with my daughter's mother. It gave hope, spread light when I was in a dark place, and helped me persevere. This album has the ups, the downs, and the sunshine at the end of the storm. Thank you Monica

    • @angelafinest7757
      @angelafinest7757 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I hope that everything works for you. 😊

  • @aladyslegacy1
    @aladyslegacy1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    To finally realize that she was singing this for C-Murder, gives it whole other sound... 💜

    • @justdc3517
      @justdc3517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Actually she confirmed she was singing about Rocko in an IG live stream with Tiny & TI. I thought it was about C Murder too. But she explained Rocko caught a charge around this time.

    • @aladyslegacy1
      @aladyslegacy1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@justdc3517oh wow! Really?! I wonder if C-Murder was just as surprised as I am, to find that out? 🤔 Lol....

    • @XahraaK
      @XahraaK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I also thought it was for C😳😳 I'm just as shocked

    • @yoyomunie.
      @yoyomunie. ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m just now realizing that

    • @wiltuhoward8164
      @wiltuhoward8164 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right

  • @AmeliaMark503
    @AmeliaMark503 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    Monica dun went off 2 da next level like fr fr 💖 *a u t h e n t I c v i e w s* 💖 is what got them HUGE!

  • @nessacessary9491
    @nessacessary9491 5 ปีที่แล้ว +537

    Can we take a second to APPRECIATE tf out of Monica 🙌🏼😍 Her beauty, voice, talent and her beautifully even skin complexion ❤️🔥 she has always and will always been a Diamond 💎

    • @anitamckenzie3140
      @anitamckenzie3140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Swear she's great

    • @Disciple_777
      @Disciple_777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late.!

    • @Disciple_777
      @Disciple_777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't take the vaccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY!!.!

    • @stephenprice3357
      @stephenprice3357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AMEN!

  • @tommyleejr.1326
    @tommyleejr.1326 8 ปีที่แล้ว +681

    She sung a lot of songs, thinking about C Murder, locked in prison................she really loved him and I don't think, she ever really bounced back from that experience..............she was really in LOVE. Must of her songs and videos are references of a life with the boyfriend in jail. That's just my take on it and she's always visiting down here in New Orleans. Real beautiful down to earth woman. And Solage as well.

    • @dashaunthompson6785
      @dashaunthompson6785 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Wait they dated?

    • @tommyleejr.1326
      @tommyleejr.1326 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      +dashaun thompson Yes they did and Monica still comes down to the city and chill.

    • @sheamarcelle
      @sheamarcelle 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      u Dont know her ass

    • @sheamarcelle
      @sheamarcelle 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what other video did she have referencing jail

    • @tommyleejr.1326
      @tommyleejr.1326 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +sheamarcelle youngsters these days..............are really DUMB, SO THERE'S NO REASON TO ENTERTAIN YOU LIL ONE!!!

  • @florencembele1944
    @florencembele1944 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Who is here 2024 ?

  • @peteylittlejohn5300
    @peteylittlejohn5300 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    June 2024🎉

  • @summerdavis6061
    @summerdavis6061 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3316

    when the sonqs you grew up to finally apply to you 😐💯

    • @andreasnaails
      @andreasnaails 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      girllll!!

    • @john-naydavis6580
      @john-naydavis6580 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      giirrrllll omg !!! yeeesssss 😖

    • @specialk3436
      @specialk3436 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯💯💯

    • @nobullshtmimi
      @nobullshtmimi 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      LMAOOO I WAS JUS THIKING ABOUT THAT

    • @breew2389
      @breew2389 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      girl I got chills reading this comment , you aint never lied 💯

  • @Latruthisfree
    @Latruthisfree 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2022

    I waited 13 years, made sure he was straight. Went to school and got a degree in nursing. Now he, our kids, and I,are happy and settled. 3 in college, 1 in the navy. Wasn't thinking about another man, I was focused on our kids and future. I'm now months away from graduating with my master degree. Now, were happily married. 17 years and counting. Still bumping this wonderful song.( 3-16-2019) Today's his birthday. Happy birthday, boo! Love you to the moon and back. My Jamaican king.

    • @angelmoon2106
      @angelmoon2106 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Lorena Bobbitt that’s a blessing ❤️

    • @Latruthisfree
      @Latruthisfree 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@angelmoon2106 thanks, hon. Yes, it is. Giving the great Lord, all the thanks and glory. AMENNNNN!!!

    • @msoddballz5763
      @msoddballz5763 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Congratulations. That's good mews.

    • @Latruthisfree
      @Latruthisfree 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@msoddballz5763 thanks, hon. My true soul mate.

    • @mysticalgoddess7399
      @mysticalgoddess7399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Latruthisfree Hey boo! Congrats! 💜

  • @InspiredbyNita
    @InspiredbyNita 2 ปีที่แล้ว +531

    This still hits home in 2022. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @tmm9113
      @tmm9113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes 2022 still slaps

    • @jayce.milky09
      @jayce.milky09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yess ma'am!! With boom box high bass in ma living room and my neighbors better love it too!! 💅🏻💅🏻🤭😁

    • @Disciple_777
      @Disciple_777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't take the vaccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY!!.!

    • @Disciple_777
      @Disciple_777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late

    • @chabbi
      @chabbi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      search ahmed deedat

  • @belleamebrielle3964
    @belleamebrielle3964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +737

    Here in 2019 🔥♥️

    • @ms.blackee7635
      @ms.blackee7635 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      February 15th 2019 (6:36pm)

    • @toiannawafer300
      @toiannawafer300 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl crying and laughing like I'm crazy person about my first love reminiscing about the old times and how we could've made it 😭😭😭😭

    • @mrboss3663
      @mrboss3663 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      February 25 2019.
      1136 pm

    • @ms.blackee7635
      @ms.blackee7635 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mrboss3663 my born day

    • @mariemarriott3629
      @mariemarriott3629 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This song heals my soul 🌹

  • @lanajohnson2100
    @lanajohnson2100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1402

    2020 I'm still here!!! 😘🤞🏾

  • @Romeo19898
    @Romeo19898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    One of my favorite Monica songs! A real, true, down to earth, hood, ride-or-die love story! Monica breathed every inch of emotion and life into this song! This song is dedicated to all the real "ride-or-dies" and "day ones!!" #FreeCMurder

  • @simplytee1000
    @simplytee1000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3933

    This song makes me think of my baby, he was in a coma for two months and when he woke up he said that he thought I would have moved on and lived my life, that broke my heart I told him you are my life 💔

    • @rochellereese4068
      @rochellereese4068 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tianakhara a

    • @raindalton5876
      @raindalton5876 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Tianakhara love this song

    • @back2beauty985rhgo
      @back2beauty985rhgo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Tianakhara Sweet

    • @trishy2149
      @trishy2149 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Tianakhara guys think we give up after a certain time but little do they know love doesn't expire

    • @cjleo81
      @cjleo81 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      ,💯💯 loyalty is rare

  • @Black_Anunnaki_God
    @Black_Anunnaki_God 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This is the Tru definition of unconditional love #FreeC

  • @georgegonzalez3365
    @georgegonzalez3365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Monica is one of the most versatile r&b artists in my opinion. She has this ability to project such a different range of emotions without breaking a sweat.

    • @Disciple_777
      @Disciple_777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late.!

    • @Disciple_777
      @Disciple_777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't take the vaccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY!!!!

    • @tysyama
      @tysyama 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We still supposed to be married 😢

    • @rashidalivingston9721
      @rashidalivingston9721 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      OMG facts!!! Remember she performed Keyshia Cole's song at the BET Awards? Keyshia (who I love, by the way) was working so hard to portray the emotions to match the notes... while Monica ABSOLUTELY MURDERED her part (hitting a gazillion notes) with such ease. SO UNDERRATED!!!

  • @alizzayaliya
    @alizzayaliya 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Deadlift workout music right here 💖 *a u t h e n t I c v i e w s* 💖 dun took Monica
    oFf 2 da big leagues and for dat I will always be super grate

  • @quarterboy2674
    @quarterboy2674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    I’m in tears because I felt this shit just then . It’s really great women out here still #solid #freecoreymiller man !

    • @theascension1557
      @theascension1557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who's CM?

    • @infmiiishook7187
      @infmiiishook7187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theascension1557 C Murder brother of Master P

    • @slimmedition1691
      @slimmedition1691 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @Disciple_777
      @Disciple_777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't take the vaccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY!!.

    • @Disciple_777
      @Disciple_777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late.

  • @selflove946
    @selflove946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    Free C-murder damn Monica I loved y’all together🤍

  • @AmySmith-tz7cg
    @AmySmith-tz7cg หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I'm here in 2024.

  • @bernadettesison5979
    @bernadettesison5979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    It's 2022, still rocking this song to give me a boost. Thank you Monica for the song and the inspiration ❤️ 😊

    • @Disciple_777
      @Disciple_777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late!!

    • @Disciple_777
      @Disciple_777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't take the vaccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY!!!.

    • @rlco75nation
      @rlco75nation ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It sure do

    • @bernadettesison5979
      @bernadettesison5979 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @rlco75nation buddy did you the same memo letter? I think it was fan only believer of lazy ape. Hopefully one of my good friends read this note, Mahalo

    • @AlfonzanaeJacobs
      @AlfonzanaeJacobs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Disciple_777 😂❤😅

  • @diw.824
    @diw.824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    This reminds me of how my mom rode for my dad when he was locked up in prison back in 1987 until they released him in 1994. He got my mom pregnant his first month out of prison and married my mom in 1995 and had me that same year.They known each other since they were 17 years old back in 1982.

    • @starlinasmith3343
      @starlinasmith3343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My favorite

    • @starlinasmith3343
      @starlinasmith3343 ปีที่แล้ว

      Think.

    • @damonplaysgames6786
      @damonplaysgames6786 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful Story

    • @Joharilok
      @Joharilok 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      damn dawg that some real beautiful ninja shit

    • @Ladyred79
      @Ladyred79 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He knew your mom stayed by his side. I'm so Happy that your mom and dad made it. That's true ❤.

  • @johnnydestid2078
    @johnnydestid2078 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2706

    Who listening to this in 2k19... other than me..... let's see a show of hands. I know I cant be the only one.

  • @mariearipa9316
    @mariearipa9316 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    Still listening 2023!! LOVE Monica. She's a true diamond in this industry. I miss music like this. Heartfelt, sweet, jamming. Ugh!!

    • @veriaaubre6986
      @veriaaubre6986 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jamming Right NOW!🤎💯

    • @WlknHope2024
      @WlknHope2024 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Monica has ALWAYS held it down. I have always loved her motives on what love should be. I pray the industry doesn't change or try to destroy another legend.

    • @sotanyagreen985
      @sotanyagreen985 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    • @tequeshaharris4794
      @tequeshaharris4794 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Where is her flowers....They honored a C list like Trina (rapper)....and never gave Monica whom is an a list (RB artist)...I know the catagories dont mix but to here got an award 🤢

    • @DarnellWhite-nv8lo
      @DarnellWhite-nv8lo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊

  • @bredabreda884
    @bredabreda884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    My fiancé played this song for me last year after I came home from a nine years sentence. I’m there for her forever

    • @fidelcastro780
      @fidelcastro780 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      En 9 ans elle a dû se faire troncher plusieurs fois par d'autres que toi je pense

    • @carlettapittman5470
      @carlettapittman5470 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ,😢😢😢😅😅😊 0:19

    • @user-lb3oh4iw9h
      @user-lb3oh4iw9h 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thumbs up. Fuck haters.

    • @katiehoward9258
      @katiehoward9258 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You still with her?

    • @mama.neumann
      @mama.neumann 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That makes me cry. I wish y'all happiness always

  • @HerrComplexx
    @HerrComplexx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This song is for us spiritual beings, on twin flame journeys. Now i know why i used to cry my eyes out to this song at 12. My soul was crying for my twin, making me strong at such a young age.

  • @gamingwithbblove
    @gamingwithbblove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +479

    *Who else is on a old song spree-2020 miss music like this fr*

    • @craigclark1980
      @craigclark1980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah. Just a great music spree of songs that I put on a playlist for my Woman!!!

    • @towandamcleod2730
      @towandamcleod2730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙋🏽‍♀️

    • @itstreseannworld8106
      @itstreseannworld8106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙋🏽‍♀️

    • @cesarleo8847
      @cesarleo8847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They don’t make music like this anymore

    • @simonerichelle1370
      @simonerichelle1370 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m on an old song spree in 2021 🤞🏾

  • @CharlesOnikosi-ql5sb
    @CharlesOnikosi-ql5sb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That hair style is just beginning to trend in 2024. That's real love 💕

  • @Africa2DaWorld
    @Africa2DaWorld 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    “After The Storm” is out there toe to toe with some of the Top 10 greatest R&B albums ever made. ❤❤🎶🔥🔥🐐👏🏾

  • @Rondoturkworld
    @Rondoturkworld 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I pray I find REAL LOVE like this one day! 🥺🥹 #2024

    • @CharlesOnikosi-ql5sb
      @CharlesOnikosi-ql5sb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are all stuck here, hoping for a real love. She's praying for her real too. This song embraces the pain women go through when they live their men. We always feel it coming from Monica, she me hooked like on her sweet melodies like Dom Perignon. I ain't giving it up. Lol

  • @missuniverse8931
    @missuniverse8931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I think we all here August 2020, brought tears to my eyes. I hope he comes home soon and they can be happy. She can truly be happy. The smile on her face in the photos with C says it all... ❤️

  • @sacralbeautyllc3163
    @sacralbeautyllc3163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    Let that sink in men. A woman came and got him not his homies

    • @nathaliesuazo588
      @nathaliesuazo588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Forreal that says a lot

    • @deebee476
      @deebee476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      His homie tried to break them up.

    • @LGnLA
      @LGnLA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@deebee476 Exactly!!! So she had to pull up & SHOW him! Smh... it be your own 'friends'!

    • @spiritologysense2239
      @spiritologysense2239 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Everytime. Smfh

    • @Saja215me
      @Saja215me 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Usually how it goes😔

  • @k.smileyk.smiley5085
    @k.smileyk.smiley5085 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I met my wife while I was in prison in 2007 and I'm still with her in 2023. God is good. She stayed by my side

  • @justme830210
    @justme830210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I listened to the lyrics instead of just getting caught up in the emotional sentiments of the video, and some things she said are alarming. It doesn't always end up happily ever after for "ride or dies" who give more than they get out of their relationships. I've seen aunties like that end up broke and destitute to the point of being homeless taking care of a man who wouldn't and/or couldn't help provide and/or was incarcerated or other less favorable situations; I saw some end up broken, angry, feeling cheated, and bitter. Watching so many BW get so little for all their sacrifice giving them the reputation of being the women for "struggle love" to go to when you're down and out, because they supposedly have little to no standards for men, showed me the error in always putting others, especially your men, before yourself not even knowing if he'd do the same for you if the tables were turned.
    It taught me from observation to have standards for myself and my man so I wasn't taken for granted or used. It should teach us not to end up just another Bernadine from Ready to Exhale. Love should be reciprocal in every way and not all one-sided loyalty with her always the one ending up with the short end of the stick. Just my dose of reality to add a different perspective.

  • @sidonicampbell1495
    @sidonicampbell1495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    2k22 My Jam💜

  • @trishdaG
    @trishdaG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    One of my fav Monica songs. Had no idea this was about Corey and now I realize how deep this song is for her to write and record.

    • @letaviabryant8599
      @letaviabryant8599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mine to

    • @hunterbelinda99
      @hunterbelinda99 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The love of her life.

    • @sofresh105monica
      @sofresh105monica ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Maelie Jean-pierre that’s not true she said it was about rocko.. her and buck met after this video shoot.

    • @FrederickGiunyard-uv4mh
      @FrederickGiunyard-uv4mh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My daddy name corey. ! In he show had a girl name Trisha before long Live MY BIG POPS.

  • @jessicakeel2141
    @jessicakeel2141 5 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    It's me your girl your life your world my family and friends they just don't understand they say I should leave you alone but I say that they all should just leave us alone!!! 😣 I felt that lol💖

    • @MrsJJones
      @MrsJJones 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I swear I did😩

    • @amanii97
      @amanii97 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl we all felt that lol

  • @amoyaellis5037
    @amoyaellis5037 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    2024 and this song is still it....

  • @theeblackdaliahvu2473
    @theeblackdaliahvu2473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +505

    I won my first talent show singing this at 13 like I was really singing like the rent water and lights was due 😂😝👏🏿my all time favorite Monica album

  • @alycecreary969
    @alycecreary969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1753

    This song was definitely made for Corey Miller and I’m here for it 💯💯

  • @appetite4chic878
    @appetite4chic878 5 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Monica has a timeless voice and music. I always thought this song was about C Murder and her still being there after he got locked up

    • @mariahtolbert2569
      @mariahtolbert2569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It is about him

    • @jayjanzee9059
      @jayjanzee9059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It is said that she recorded this song in 2001. She only briefly dated C-Murder for a short time up til his incarceration in 2003. Her After the Storm album is seemingly a response to the tragedy she faced in 2000, after witness the suicide of her ex boyfriend Jarvis Weems. I think this song has nothing to do with C-Murder, as it has more to do with her relationship with Weems

    • @shawandabrowning2079
      @shawandabrowning2079 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me know if you 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔🌆🐛🍨🍧

    • @richardgregor8712
      @richardgregor8712 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello

  • @lovelee1454
    @lovelee1454 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Even if this song is about C murder or not, she made the song for a reason. Monica is a ride or die, she is almost in the same situation with C murder rightnow and that girl hadn't gave up not one day. She stayed by his side no matter the circumstances❤️

  • @matureloveslowjammusic345
    @matureloveslowjammusic345 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Monica is proof that you can love someone with intellectual love but if your heart is not in it neither will your soul be committed. Her love for C-Murder was in her heart, which transferred to her soul. She is willing to wait for him, her desire to stay faithful and her emotions to love him at his best or worst is powerful. Clearly somethings happened and she tried to love her exhusband. That was intellectual love “because we have kids” or “we have good times” or “he makes me feel”… but PURE SPIRITUAL love is a love that is not intellectual. It is pure and it survives the worst of the moments and rises like a radiant of light into the divine purpose God created it for. ❤

  • @mrsmebeforeyou
    @mrsmebeforeyou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    She's singing to C MURDER ❤

  • @rosaxo1003
    @rosaxo1003 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Ever since you've been gone I've been holding us down on my own...💖

  • @jessicaboat8096
    @jessicaboat8096 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    All these years later & I still love this song like it just came out! ❤ Monica’s music is timeless

  • @Gorgeousbaebeauty
    @Gorgeousbaebeauty ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This song NEVER gets old ever! Monica has so many classics! Love her

  • @Misfit.98
    @Misfit.98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    I guess im the only one with a wife locced up.... Currently missin my lady 😔 stay up baby i got you and i love you to pieces 👑💙

    • @HoneyBunches100
      @HoneyBunches100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Tayy Taylor - Very sweet.

    • @kenyattewilliams5492
      @kenyattewilliams5492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hope it gets better praying for y'all 🧡

    • @reneea5679
      @reneea5679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tyler 'Misfit' Taylor wow!! Prayers

    • @Misfit.98
      @Misfit.98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks guys 💙

    • @Dinopuppet38
      @Dinopuppet38 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was there before

  • @JsGirl_Whatleybaby
    @JsGirl_Whatleybaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    Men don't realize how real we are about loving them thru it all no matter what

  • @foreverme3078
    @foreverme3078 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If this song is your girl, don't ever hurt her or throw her away like garbage. Treat her with the utmost love and respect, even if she has faults of her own.

  • @LBJisBOULESPORTSANDPOLIT-tl3so
    @LBJisBOULESPORTSANDPOLIT-tl3so 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was a hood classic back in the day in the clubs

  • @ThePiinkcoco
    @ThePiinkcoco 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1841

    Shout out if you're listening to this when your going through a breakup, your not alone.

  • @nolaredgirl80
    @nolaredgirl80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +786

    Looking at all the comments of those that ain’t know this was about C-Murder. If you’re a Monica fan, you would already know this 💕

    • @shante70sb
      @shante70sb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Damn right? Monica real fans know this. Especially if you old to remember when they use date. This old news.

    • @s.durden6984
      @s.durden6984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      PERIOD!

    • @latricebutler509
      @latricebutler509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      #REALMONICAFANS KNEW WHAT THIS SONG WAS ABOUT 10 DAMN YEARS AGO!!!!!!! AND WE STILL REPPING HIS FREEDOM.
      LORD GOD PLEASE!!!!!!!! #FREECOREYMILLER

    • @iMAKEtheBESTbetter
      @iMAKEtheBESTbetter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Keep in mind most people thought it was about Maino, who she was linked to at the time of this song.

    • @shakendrarankin1204
      @shakendrarankin1204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Real Fans Know Who It’s About

  • @ebonitravis7685
    @ebonitravis7685 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Here cause my fiancé send me here to listen to it 😢💕🙏🏾🌹freeHIM

  • @ronniesneed7769
    @ronniesneed7769 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Still one of the best GOATs of all time & all natural unlike these fake cyclone industry brauds..Wh1600P✊🏽👌🏽💪🏽

  • @Dasani605
    @Dasani605 9 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    My family & friends they just don't understand! They say I should leave you alone! But I say that they all should just leave us alone! Talk that shit Mo👏👏

    • @christyallison5050
      @christyallison5050 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr

    • @DatBossMike
      @DatBossMike 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Christy Allison
      m

    • @billagrashen2249
      @billagrashen2249 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dasani605 thats right cause dont nobody know what make another happy its all bout feelings who can feel what you feel if they aint really part of the feelings that you feel only you know what make you feel good period

  • @princesskatera
    @princesskatera 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2705

    Look at everybody with their convict husbands, boyfriends, and baby daddies in the comments. Y’all cute 😍

    • @danielowens6843
      @danielowens6843 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Lol

    • @Footballl942
      @Footballl942 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      😂😂

    • @ms.blackee7635
      @ms.blackee7635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      We out here lol

    • @ms.blackee7635
      @ms.blackee7635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      This comment made me smile and sad at the same time 😌😘Free my people from them walls Zechariah and Brian Keep yall heads up

    • @nevaehlane6554
      @nevaehlane6554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Good job mom 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @treyjones1958
    @treyjones1958 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Attention everybody don't miss Fantasia Taraji P Henson Halle Bailey and more in the Color Purple musical movie which will be in theaters worldwide Christmas 💜

  • @theeternalphoenixpnthn9373
    @theeternalphoenixpnthn9373 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I love this song, its video, & its message!
    I’m so happy that I had this as my Song of The Summer, for the summer of 23! (the best summer I ever had!)

  • @ambitiousme4727
    @ambitiousme4727 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Never thought one of my favorite songs as a teen would be my reality as an adult 🤞🏾❤️

    • @lynnmercado4472
      @lynnmercado4472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fuckin facts I'm going thru it now ...🌬️🥺🙏😉

    • @woke1497
      @woke1497 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn

  • @MusiCkKid91
    @MusiCkKid91 6 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    this whole album was sad!!! especially 'I Wrote This Song' I still cry on that

    • @billagrashen2249
      @billagrashen2249 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lexi Davis also why do you cry but i really understand

    • @miyahbaddie204
      @miyahbaddie204 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lexi Davis awe that's is so sweet

    • @medisysadmin1
      @medisysadmin1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Real life just like that

    • @HoneyBee1980
      @HoneyBee1980 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was just listening to I Wrote This Song 😢💯

    • @polo2129
      @polo2129 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lexi Davis

  • @carlosdeandreyoung9520
    @carlosdeandreyoung9520 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    4EVA A BANGER 💯FYM 🎯 DAT WAY ‼️🎯💪❤️♥️🎯💪❤️😘

  • @loveislife1991
    @loveislife1991 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I should have known better

  • @Whichofthefavors
    @Whichofthefavors 8 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    My Husband got locked up just before our Daughter was born, I been listening to this on repeat!

    • @kelishahamiliton8765
      @kelishahamiliton8765 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      is he out?

    • @marissalopez290
      @marissalopez290 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here a week before my son was born.

    • @Whichofthefavors
      @Whichofthefavors 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Kelisha Hamiliton Sorry, I have just seen this. Yes he got out 2 weeks ago. Missed 14 months of the babys life.

    • @Whichofthefavors
      @Whichofthefavors 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Marissa Lopez Im sorry you had to go through this. It seems like Men don't think about the consequences of their actions.

    • @mrswan1735
      @mrswan1735 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      WhichoftheFavours ofyourLordwillyouDenyl)9

  • @donaldpittman4500
    @donaldpittman4500 7 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    these type of lady's are hard to come By

    • @death24314
      @death24314 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Donald Pittman yup very

    • @shacoyagriffin339
      @shacoyagriffin339 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Donald Pittman cOunjBbNnnsnnnn
      Y

    • @willie1000001
      @willie1000001 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Donald Pittman No FUCK! These dumb hoes STAY wanting a "in and outta jail" ass, nothin-ass nigga. Fuck you talkin about?

    • @stacystacy9491
      @stacystacy9491 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Donald Pittman no we not...

    • @graceosteen4763
      @graceosteen4763 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Donald Pittman we are real

  • @wealldeserveloveandhappine7430
    @wealldeserveloveandhappine7430 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Here in 2024..... Free bd till it's backwards.❤

  • @hectorfeliz6209
    @hectorfeliz6209 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Every time I go through a tough heartbreak in my relationship I listen to this song. I love R&B. It’s so soothing and the lyrics understand how I feel ❤

  • @maurica38
    @maurica38 10 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    this song remind me of my daughter ASHLEY BRANCH holding down her HUSBAND serving 5 years a strong young WOMAN. MOMMY PROUD OF YOU.......

    • @Maxxxxxxxxxxwelll
      @Maxxxxxxxxxxwelll 10 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Why is she standing by a felon? He better straighten up his act, otherwise you should not be proud. Also why are you saying her full name here?

    • @maurica38
      @maurica38 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cause she and he is in love, and he not in there for DRUGS cause he was trying to support his WIFE and there 3 handsome "SON"..And she proud of her name..

    • @aishawilliams8677
      @aishawilliams8677 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ***** who lied to you with that bullshit theory

    • @Maxxxxxxxxxxwelll
      @Maxxxxxxxxxxwelll 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Aisha Williams It's a quote from Chris Rock, and there's definite truth to it. Ghetto culture is trashy and it's unfortunately the prevailing mentality among Blacks, which is destroying you guys. There are always exception and if you want the lot of African Americans to improve you have to look in the mirror at some point instead of looking for someone else to blame, or living in denial.

    • @aishawilliams8677
      @aishawilliams8677 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Max again miss me with that bullshit logics of why you feel it's ok to call someone ghetto

  • @ciao2315
    @ciao2315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    Who is here during Covid 19 revisiting songs from high school? Man, Monica was a Queen!!! Wonder what she’s up to! Xoxo

    • @khmerbraveheart
      @khmerbraveheart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She filed a divorce and it went through last year.

    • @Dopeboi98
      @Dopeboi98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Commitment is the best song ever

    • @haleyferguson1960
      @haleyferguson1960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💜🥰

    • @ramonehosten472
      @ramonehosten472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Still a Queen!

    • @quinettacope
      @quinettacope 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Working on getting her dude free

  • @journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen
    @journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Birthday, Monica! You're coming to IL on Nov. 4th. I'm taking your advice. You said, "You can stay home, worship, and not go to church." I will listen to your songs at home and not go to the concert. Thanks, I saved some money. LOL. I'll just put the concert money into the offering plate on Sunday. Have fun!😊

  • @sweetapplepie70
    @sweetapplepie70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Monica one of the best singers ever I love u gal😍😍😍

  • @hilarydonald5536
    @hilarydonald5536 10 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I MISS MUSIC LIKE THIS!!! ANYBODY ELSE???

    • @kelliewilliams9002
      @kelliewilliams9002 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Everyday!

    • @mrsbellard2014
      @mrsbellard2014 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes...I know I do!!! Good music!!!

    • @caseyjl949
      @caseyjl949 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too! So let's not complain about today's stuff! Let's reminisce!

    • @jayalaanthony7743
      @jayalaanthony7743 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am go

  • @kimberlyrodriguez8486
    @kimberlyrodriguez8486 7 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    SO TRUE WHEN U LOVE A MAN U STAY WITH HIM IN GOOD TIME AND BAD TIME EVEN IF UR FRIENDS AND UR FAMILY DONT WANT U WITH HIM.....THAT REAL LOVE STAY BY UR MAN

    • @kathleensmith7612
      @kathleensmith7612 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      that is so right me an my man has been together for 13 years an his family an mine has been trying to come between us but it just makes me stronger as a woman an a wife I will stand by my man no matter what

    • @ednafuentes868
      @ednafuentes868 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I been with my hubby for 25 year been through 3 bids with him faithfully, our bond unbreakable, 25years strong, two beautiful girls, n a lifetime of memories

    • @chefksmith1247
      @chefksmith1247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kimberly Rodriguez yes.until he cheats on you.then i start listening to R kelly”when a women’s fed up”lol

    • @reesewallace3904
      @reesewallace3904 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jennifer Hudson

    • @appetite4chic878
      @appetite4chic878 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kimberly Rodriguez this is facts !!

  • @ashleyhannah68
    @ashleyhannah68 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Music just isn't the same 😭 I miss the old days. All these songs takes me back to being a teen thinking I was in love 😂 good times.

  • @gonzalezbeatriz881
    @gonzalezbeatriz881 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You should of know better

  • @moriabadd8569
    @moriabadd8569 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Man yall be sleeping on real music... Monica does not get the recognition that she deserves she's been coming out with hits since the early 90s shit dont make since

    • @shawandabrowning2079
      @shawandabrowning2079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good morning 🌞🌄 I love 💕😘💕😘💕😁☺️💓😄😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘💕😁☺️😄☺️ be. Be together

    • @tonyhenderson267
      @tonyhenderson267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stay by your side you shouldn't know your girl what's going around and die because you're a matter if you want Richard points out of here and do a fight

    • @tonyhenderson267
      @tonyhenderson267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thursday just don't understand they say I will leave us alone a restless don't you get it baby I never ever cheated I never ever ever lie so you can stop asking asking me why well I never let you and why I can't drill and why I'm still with you

    • @tonyhenderson267
      @tonyhenderson267 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should have known better I don't to tell me

    • @jasoncrablephillytransitbo4633
      @jasoncrablephillytransitbo4633 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shawandabrowning2079 Good Morning Beautiful

  • @dominicalbright5317
    @dominicalbright5317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    2020 still listening.... and no I never been to Prison before..... I just love women that ride for you 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @jacquelinesimmons4266
    @jacquelinesimmons4266 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    hope he comes home so they can be together...

  • @CC-ml2mj
    @CC-ml2mj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️

  • @rahellabella3755
    @rahellabella3755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Who’s here after Monica’s post about c murder ? Lol

    • @vert_bk6145
      @vert_bk6145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Trinitylouissaint
    @Trinitylouissaint 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Yall are some real loyal women half of yall dudes been locked up for 10 or more years and yall are still standing by their side when yall could've left🤧💕 making me tear up

  • @DamienHurts
    @DamienHurts 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Golden age of RnB female vocalists. We will never get this again, although I thank god for SZA, Summer Walker, Jazmine and Ari Lennox. But 2000s vocalists were way more technically proficient at singing

  • @itsall_Love
    @itsall_Love ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Now that I'm older. I realized this song was about C Murder (Master P Brother) that went to Prison. They were in a relationship prior to this
    ❤❤

  • @myeikabattiste3492
    @myeikabattiste3492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    Who's still listening in 2019 🙋🙋

    • @yoyowatwat
      @yoyowatwat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      2019 EVERY1 COPYS EACH OTHER LIKE SHEEP TYPING THE SAME AS MANY BEFORE ON THE SAME SONG ZOMBIES GET A LIFE ITS SO SAD TO SEE THIS IN 2019

    • @myeikabattiste3492
      @myeikabattiste3492 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yoyowatwat and why do you care, go and find you some business to tend to cause clearly you have none and don't worry about what everyone is typing....no one care what you think actually when we want your opinion we'll ask.... Have a Nice Day ✌️ It's sad to see so many Negative people 😔

    • @yoyowatwat
      @yoyowatwat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@myeikabattiste3492 You are a sheep

    • @yoyowatwat
      @yoyowatwat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@myeikabattiste3492 Its sad the need to copy and have no orignal things to say

    • @yoyowatwat
      @yoyowatwat 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@myeikabattiste3492 Makes you look dumb and childish and its spaming youtube

  • @Mzshondagirl
    @Mzshondagirl 10 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    2014 this is still what's up.

  • @foreverme3078
    @foreverme3078 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Monica had an amazing team behind her on top of her serious talent. Nothing but hit after hit after hit

  • @mz.cayenne1720
    @mz.cayenne1720 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When you keep loving someone, no matter what ,that's real love, good times, bad times ,love so deep, your just connected 💯❤️still jamming 🎶 2022🎶

  • @quandrap.agnew-jernigan8082
    @quandrap.agnew-jernigan8082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This song is still a classic.

  • @ladyindaroom
    @ladyindaroom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Most of the beautiful love songs she made has a story, and most of these songs are about C-Murder.
    I'm telling yall this man has never left her heart.
    I'm a woman, I know.

  • @mrz.kaylag
    @mrz.kaylag 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    #FREECOREYMILLER
    💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @jacklyndavis6989
    @jacklyndavis6989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love love love this song❤️she put her heart and soul in this song it gave our Clues to she going to ride or die with C-Murder No Limit Soldier and I feel her.

  • @PrettyFlacko_
    @PrettyFlacko_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Listening in 2019

    • @braylonbyars4185
      @braylonbyars4185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      . . , a new new study in new Orland found in many cities where the average age is between five to ten common frome forms frome from ... and is not the most

  • @Summer-md2qp
    @Summer-md2qp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    i was today yrs old when i realized this was about C........BUT I GUARANTEE ONCE OR IF HE GETS OUT THEY'RE GETTING BACK Together AND POSSIBLY GET MARRIED

    • @christinagraham2915
      @christinagraham2915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @candyc4713
      @candyc4713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wish them both the best. If I can't have him she may as well lol

  • @inmemofmrskyboi1174
    @inmemofmrskyboi1174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ima keep it 💯 only because im a street mfr like C, murder and been to prison this song hit home hard, man I love Monica's dedication and loyalty, she's genuine, mad respect for her

  • @Olefolk
    @Olefolk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Crazy nobody talking about how she ate that Monica up 😩