So like, how do people find it so easy to articulate their thoughts? It's like they have the answers at the tips of their fingers, it's honestly such an admirable trait. It would honestly take me a couple of minutes to give answers coz I need to take a whole trip down memory lane or maybe I'm just slow? Anyway, this is some awesome content, I really like these two!
You just have to have conversations in your head about conversational topics you find interesting. It comes out much more fluid if some of those topics are brought up. Also pro tip read a lot and look up words you don't know.
I'm the same, unless I've talked about something before it would take me a minute to gather my thoughts, if I wanna answer it well anyway. But yeah for that reason I'd assume that these are things that they've thought about or talked through before, or maybe they're just super articulate lol idk
This episode resonated a lot with me. I feel like this is the outcome in most of my life. Not everything is about sex and having not only platonic relationships with the opposite sex, but also deep, fulfilling and REAL relationships with opposite sex I think makes the world a much better/safe space for everyone and cultivates understanding with one another. It also helps humanize each other. I know they are just two people, but I truly believe relationships like that makes such a positive difference in the world.
Yep even if I didn't have a romantic spark I would definitely wanna be friends with Loward and Lauren. They are such characters, so kind and mature. They would brighten my mood instantly.
Both of them are SO likeable. I struggle a lot with building meaningful connections as an adult and sometimes I wonder if people even strive for those kinds of connections, but both of them seem so.... I dont know what it is but I really feel like I could hang out and not feel emotionally and energetically drained afterwards.
It's always interesting to me when people say they don't feel a spark/romantic connection to someone on the first or second date. But when do you meet someone and immediately have a connection with them? A connection with someone is something you build, we don't live in a Hallmark movie where you bump into someone and immediately fall in love
Falling in love with people, not the ideals. Choosing a life partner, attractions other than physical. Those are too big of concepts for most people apparently
theyre just talking about attraction and have used the word connection instead, attraction is indeed something that can be felt instantly; not that deep
You can kind of just tell and it has nothing really do with how hot the person is. For me, it was always like their smell and their mannerisms and of course just the flow of conversation. So many things can turn you off from a first conversation or interaction with someone. I read people really well and even with like coworkers it's easy for me to tell who I'm going to get close with and who I will keep at an arm's length. People give off a vibe.
Awww them both writing notes to eachother!! ...they both didn't feel the spark but noticed how genuine and empathetic and wonderful they both were as humans. A wonderful connection, whether it turned into a friendship or not
I love how they both chose leave and the genuinely nice letters they wrote to each other because I also can see them as just friends or just a good human connection 👍🏻💕
1:28 Mad respect for that guy, finally someone non-Finnish who nailed the pronunciation for sauna! Or well, ofc he might be half Finnish or so but haven't watched the video yet, but still good job :D
The correct English pronunciation is different from the original Finnish one, so it's normal for people to pronounce it "wrong" (the English way), in reality it's the correct way in their own language. 🙃
No it was evident. They were far too comfortable and it seemed like there was an unspoken understanding they were going to be just friends. I've had the same energy where I'm friendly but definitely not interested in the person across from me. Still made the most of the date even though no relationship was coming out of it
He reminds me of Eddie Redmayne lol They both seem like good and mature people. I feel like finding ppl like this is really difficult in the dating pool these days with dating apps and all.
Thank you nectar I loved this episode!! I think people should inspire to love One another & help uplift each other. also take care of yourself & grow from experiences & move forward to be the best version of yourself if not you won’t see the amazing things that lie ahead of you. Don’t let the enemy steal your future God has planned for you just cause of bad experiences. We all have a purpose here & to be the light in the darkness & shine✨ Remember You are loved and precious to God ❤ have A blessed day😁
If and when you fall in love, may you be happy with her. I don't need to wish her anything, for she'll be happy with you. May your sky always be clear, may your dear smile always be bright and happy, and may you be for ever blessed for that moment of bliss and happiness which you gave to another lonely and grateful heart. Isn't such a moment sufficient for the whole of one's life?
I had a feeling they would leave cause they felt more like friends and getting to know each other instead all that romantic ish stuff. Loved their energy tho
As someone with a somewhat difficult name to pronounce, I just got to say that it’s the BEST when someone actually makes an effort to try to say my name right instead of just saying something dismissive like “oh ok”. Doesn’t take much but it does mean the world. - just a guy with a funny name
I really hope they become friends. There didn't seem to be a romantic attraction between them, but I really feel they could become very good friends, for life even.
The depth, introspection and emotional maturity they both embody is impressive.
Fr
Thats what I thought too
I was surprised a couple of times, didn’t expect to hear such wise and mature words
That's what happens when you've kept your power for 23/25 years
It was a little obvious there was nothing there, romantically. But otherwise i thing they have so much in common they would make great friends
Agree
Very obvious as soon as he saw her
hello fellow army (lmao) I totally agree :)
@@rkivelover hey there! Also a fellow ME watcher. 🤭
@@rickyayy hmm
How
I'm actually surprised they both said no and was overall a calm atmosphere
Never underestimate physical attraction
really? the atmosphere screamed platonic lol
Wow I can’t believe people actually are surprise I’m at the part the first see each other and u can obviously tell physical attraction isn’t there
@@jaitara3781 She's huge, so he wasn't interested. She would be insecure around him since she's so much bigger.
@@mattdubs357 shes literally beautiful lol. Idt she would be insecure and no one should be tbh
What a great conversation, they’re so articulate with their thoughts :) they seem to have a lot in common
How to be as articulate as them
@@Lemonade_353 talk to pseudo intellectuals
So like, how do people find it so easy to articulate their thoughts? It's like they have the answers at the tips of their fingers, it's honestly such an admirable trait. It would honestly take me a couple of minutes to give answers coz I need to take a whole trip down memory lane or maybe I'm just slow? Anyway, this is some awesome content, I really like these two!
Yesssssssss
same
You just have to have conversations in your head about conversational topics you find interesting. It comes out much more fluid if some of those topics are brought up. Also pro tip read a lot and look up words you don't know.
I'm the same, unless I've talked about something before it would take me a minute to gather my thoughts, if I wanna answer it well anyway. But yeah for that reason I'd assume that these are things that they've thought about or talked through before, or maybe they're just super articulate lol idk
It’s interesting to see this type of blind date. Hopefully things will work out for both of them. They seem to be really humble for the most part.
This episode resonated a lot with me. I feel like this is the outcome in most of my life. Not everything is about sex and having not only platonic relationships with the opposite sex, but also deep, fulfilling and REAL relationships with opposite sex I think makes the world a much better/safe space for everyone and cultivates understanding with one another. It also helps humanize each other. I know they are just two people, but I truly believe relationships like that makes such a positive difference in the world.
Great insight.
beautifully spoken 🥺
Yep even if I didn't have a romantic spark I would definitely wanna be friends with Loward and Lauren. They are such characters, so kind and mature. They would brighten my mood instantly.
Both of them are SO likeable. I struggle a lot with building meaningful connections as an adult and sometimes I wonder if people even strive for those kinds of connections, but both of them seem so.... I dont know what it is but I really feel like I could hang out and not feel emotionally and energetically drained afterwards.
exactly, i need these kind of friends or people in my life to talk with
they both seem like such genuine people. i hope they find what they’re looking for one day!
they're both such beautiful people! this was so vulnerable.
how it ended is actually really perfect! wishing all the best for them :)
It looks like a deep conversation between two INFPs, loved both of their personalities, was really wholesome and calming to watch. - A fellow INFP
Wow I am an INFP as well
I'm an INFP also!
I’d say they’re ENFP* because they’re not introverts. - another INFP
They both talked so eloquently. I enjoyed just listening to them talk lol.
they are SO freaking cute- i’m crying. She’s so precious & so is he
they got sooo many dark questions and still managed to keep the energy high 🥰
this was beautiful 😊they were both so kind and genuine, very chilled too😇 what would happen if u got a virgin and non-virgin on a date 🤔just a thought
This might be random, but I love Lauren’s voice; it's so soothing.
Yes! Would definitely listen to her reading an audio book 📖
Agreed
ONE OF MY FAVORITE VIDEOS SO FAR 🥺💖 I want to be friends with Lauren so baaaaad. I can truly relate to these people and it just warms my heart
these two made my day. they seems like wholesome human beings!
It's always interesting to me when people say they don't feel a spark/romantic connection to someone on the first or second date. But when do you meet someone and immediately have a connection with them? A connection with someone is something you build, we don't live in a Hallmark movie where you bump into someone and immediately fall in love
Falling in love with people, not the ideals. Choosing a life partner, attractions other than physical. Those are too big of concepts for most people apparently
theyre just talking about attraction and have used the word connection instead, attraction is indeed something that can be felt instantly; not that deep
You can kind of just tell and it has nothing really do with how hot the person is. For me, it was always like their smell and their mannerisms and of course just the flow of conversation. So many things can turn you off from a first conversation or interaction with someone. I read people really well and even with like coworkers it's easy for me to tell who I'm going to get close with and who I will keep at an arm's length. People give off a vibe.
Yea but you would have at least a little bit of a spark to wanna see someone again and there was none
That’s last line was hilarious 😂
They are both so kind 🥺
I loved this format when jubilee did it before the pandemic. I'm so glad it's back!
Same. I missed the series a lot. Glad it's back
This was so wholesome and heartwarming . They both were beautiful, inspiring people
The ending was really great and happy! : ) I loved this, please make a part 2.
What a great conversation. I love this so so so much! They both have such great energy and aura.
i think they would make the best of friends, loved this video
really really hope they’ll keep in contact and become great friends
New age dates look so interesting. Out in the open and on the internet. I’d be so nervous but also so excited. Love the show
Such a beautiful episode with beautiful kind souls. Can't wait to see more🥰
Awww them both writing notes to eachother!!
...they both didn't feel the spark but noticed how genuine and empathetic and wonderful they both were as humans. A wonderful connection, whether it turned into a friendship or not
Wow what a friendly connection
loved this! both great humans❤
I love how good listener both of them are. Precious people. :>
i love the way she.. talks like im mesmerized right now
This dude a master communicater
I feel like they’re gonna be really good friends for a long time
Bruh i accidentally started to focus on the guy saying “yeah” and i cantttttt ☠️
yeah 💀
I shouldn’t have read this. Once I saw he went off. I’m literally dying
Yeah
If you took a shot every time this guy uses the word "like" (or "yeah"), you'd be under the table before the video is halfway through.
😭 I canttttt bc you mentioned it ahhh
one day a couple on tea for two will get married and i NEED to see a "first-ever look to wedding first look" video
I love this so much!!! They both have such great energy and aura.
I love how they both chose leave and the genuinely nice letters they wrote to each other because I also can see them as just friends or just a good human connection 👍🏻💕
THIS IS SO WHOLESOMEEEE I LOVE IT
I really like this show. Lovely letters to end. Glad they made the same choice.
These are my favorite videos on TH-cam. Thank you for these so much🤍
I have used 36 Questions to make conversation a couple of times and had really nice dialogues! Definitely a fun activity
please dont change this vibe of the channel I love this a lot
the overall vibes of these videos r so aesthetic
I sort of felt they wouldn’t end up dating there way to similar to one another and there wasn’t a relationship spark but a more friendship smiles
1:28 Mad respect for that guy, finally someone non-Finnish who nailed the pronunciation for sauna! Or well, ofc he might be half Finnish or so but haven't watched the video yet, but still good job :D
not half Finnish but glad I pronounced it right :)
The correct English pronunciation is different from the original Finnish one, so it's normal for people to pronounce it "wrong" (the English way), in reality it's the correct way in their own language. 🙃
he looks so much like Felix from stray kids its crazyy, it was all i could think of :)))
For real!!!
Exactly that's how I could see
This seemed more like a 'personality' interview for a prospective new hire, than a date. Wish them both goodluck
on the edge of my seat when i thought he might go back in after she left, i wouldve felt so bad lol
That was so calm and relaxing. Felt like therapy. Both of them are so cute and wise. Bi panic oo
I >>really
she's gorgeous damnnnn
2 LOVELY lovely people
Is it fucked up to say I knew they wouldn't date each other?
How did you know?
@@DefineMorena there was no romantic chemistry
@@pedroloto I agree
No it was evident. They were far too comfortable and it seemed like there was an unspoken understanding they were going to be just friends. I've had the same energy where I'm friendly but definitely not interested in the person across from me. Still made the most of the date even though no relationship was coming out of it
I'll just be blunt, she wants very masculine men, while he wants someone on the more petite side...
He reminds me of Eddie Redmayne lol
They both seem like good and mature people. I feel like finding ppl like this is really difficult in the dating pool these days with dating apps and all.
Did anyone feel like they both spoke at a million miles an hour?! Kinda terrifies me about going back into dating 😩
Really nice episode :) I loved the letters also.
Thank you nectar I loved this episode!! I think people should inspire to love One another & help uplift each other. also take care of yourself & grow from experiences & move forward to be the best version of yourself if not you won’t see the amazing things that lie ahead of you. Don’t let the enemy steal your future God has planned for you just cause of bad experiences. We all have a purpose here & to be the light in the darkness & shine✨ Remember You are loved and precious to God ❤ have A blessed day😁
If and when you fall in love, may you be happy with her. I don't need to wish her anything, for she'll be happy with you. May your sky always be clear, may your dear smile always be bright and happy, and may you be for ever blessed for that moment of bliss and happiness which you gave to another lonely and grateful heart. Isn't such a moment sufficient for the whole of one's life?
I had a feeling they would leave cause they felt more like friends and getting to know each other instead all that romantic ish stuff. Loved their energy tho
i love them 🥺🥺
As someone with a somewhat difficult name to pronounce, I just got to say that it’s the BEST when someone actually makes an effort to try to say my name right instead of just saying something dismissive like “oh ok”. Doesn’t take much but it does mean the world.
- just a guy with a funny name
This eposode was just cheff kiss
This was a beautiful conversation to be a fly on the wall for
i am so shocked at the end but damn this was a good episode and their energy was great
two beautiful souls ❤
I really hope they become friends. There didn't seem to be a romantic attraction between them, but I really feel they could become very good friends, for life even.
The smile he put in once he saw her👀
He is always smiling
THATS true tho
@@truth6074 you can tell its different
Nectar we would like more of these please !!
great conversations + the ambiance is so so calming n beautiful
I would have fallen in love with both of them 😊
this was such a mature conversation
I HOPE THEY BECOME BEST FRIENDS!!!
Bro idk, but I fell for them. PROTECT THEM AT ALL COST
Can y’all get me in a episode like this, looking to meet new people
I hope they become super close friends. This was lovely.
THEY ARE SO COOL
Omg this guy is my next crush and lauren😍she is out of this world
They're both beautiful!
I don't know why people accepted from them to say yes. For me it screamed just super friends from the beginning 😃
They can be friends but nothing like a romantic stuff right there!
Love that. If only most dates were as sweet as this 😅
They’re such a good match!
Stop capping 😂
They both left the date 😂
as friends, lol.
@@myharrybalzahk but they seriously were a good match. Idk why they choose to leave
Those questions killed the mood highkey
bro kept saying "yeah" and "like" 🤣
He was probably nervous
He wasn't into her but had to keep going
his ass love to say yes😂😂😂
He is giving me "Felix" vibes from skz 🥰k-pop stans are y'all there!?
This was so wholesome 🤗
i got my v card still. i hope i find someone who also has it still
Lorward is so cute
Genuine question; how do you know there is a spark between you?
When is the next "Build a Boo for Boyfriends" be done again, Nectar?
It's a good one, so make more of them😳
Loved it ❤
ok but why am I crying
They would be really best friends
he says alot of oh yeah yes ...
the chair bent so much when she sat down
I love this for them!