How I Deal With Loss.

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  • @nancypeteja6560
    @nancypeteja6560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Cin, that is a FANTASTIC idea for Sammie! She will NOT be sick of you....she will treasure them forever!!! That IS the right thing! That makes me so happy for you & for her!!! 💖 💕 💗 👍 You are AWESOME!!! Glad you seem better and you probably just needed that sleep. Take care.😉 ☕

  • @overdressedgirl216
    @overdressedgirl216 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are definitely doing a great thing by recording messages to her !!! There will be time when she ll need to hear your voices and advices !!! None anyone in earth would replace Mum’s advices, tips, presence !!!! But as long as your alive keep on fighting and recording !!! Love ❤️ from 🇫🇷 🇬🇧

  • @amberlynn8591
    @amberlynn8591 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Cindy, I thought I have seen all of your videos until I came across this one and found out you were a Patriots fan, whoop whoop! My husband and I were driving on a work trip to Ohio and were listening to the Superbowl on Sirius radio, had to stop for gas and the game was minutes from being over so we got gas as fast as we could and got back in the car, 2 min later the Patriots won and our trip was saved from heartache. It made me think that we were watching/ listening at the same time. The crazy part is I was looking at football merchandise earlier and thought, "I wonder what team Cindy liked, if any at all?" I actually got my answer and it came from you, it's amazing! I love and miss you Cindy🥰

  • @hownwen
    @hownwen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are doing an amazing thing for your daughter. She will cherish every vidoe💙

  • @daruso190
    @daruso190 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Cin, you are doing the Wright thing, I wished my mum would have done something on that line for me. I was only 3 when she went.
    You look good on this video ! Keep doing what you are doing. Big hug from Spain! 😘

  • @UKMusicCharts-UK
    @UKMusicCharts-UK 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think that is a really lovely thing to do for Sammy! I hope she feels better soon too. I always try to think of a question to ask you but I can never think of one to ask!! Haha, I hope you have a lovely day, take care :)

  • @bccindi
    @bccindi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think those recordings are a lovely thing to do for Sammy! She will treasure them!

  • @klodianbregasi2305
    @klodianbregasi2305 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hello my friend :) Good to hear from you and you look real good. Take care

  • @heleniddon8323
    @heleniddon8323 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You and your daughter are beautiful, glad to see you alot happier (better) lots of love X X X ❤ your disc idea is beautiful, so personal between you both X X X ❤

  • @anitakoncewicz6566
    @anitakoncewicz6566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are awesome! And a great Mom!

  • @GreenEyeBrat-jd1ek
    @GreenEyeBrat-jd1ek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I dont think you sound like a weirdo or something else, you are a concerned mom and only want the best for your daughter and that is something to be proud of. you are doing a great job with the hand you have been dealt. thoughts and prayers

  • @yvonnegreen5363
    @yvonnegreen5363 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What a lovely present 🎁 my mum passed away 5 years ago on the 2nd February OMG even now am 52 and I cry a lot even at my age mums are mums I will always cry for my mum no matter what age I am great idea to do a video cd 💿 glad to see you feeling a little better xxx sending love 💕

  • @TheMzzWright
    @TheMzzWright 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think that is amazing! Such a gift!! Your such a giving loving mom! Those videos will mean everything to her!!

  • @nissanicole8136
    @nissanicole8136 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Much love. Praying for you. ❤️

  • @pemachotso6727
    @pemachotso6727 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think it's a wonderful thing to do for your daughter!!!!! She will appreciate every minute of it and will be very thankful for each one of those intimate moments with mom!! Hang in there! You're doing great!!!!

  • @karen6543
    @karen6543 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Follow your instincts when it comes to Sammy and you can't go wrong. She will cherish those videos of you. A wonderful idea.

  • @Sub-515
    @Sub-515 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Children losing parents so young is just not bloody fair, really makes me question why. If only she knew how important these times are for her, I can only imagine how much heartache these thoughts brings you. 💛💚💙 Videos will be precious to her.

  • @sharebear1129
    @sharebear1129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think that's a great gift for Sammie. ❤ ❤. But in my mind. I want you to be around for a while. Like at least 20 more years. I care about you my friend. xo

  • @michelesmyers8479
    @michelesmyers8479 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think the videos that you made for your daughter are a positive thing...that she will love and appreciate them and you for doing them. My sister passed away leaving letters to be opened at certain times of her kids lives. They loved them. Told me its like having her with them during those important times...dont second guess

  • @lattymom1
    @lattymom1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your a good mom.. Strong women.. So glad I found your videos.. Sending our love from Northern Canada.

  • @pam164
    @pam164 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You look at lot chirpy on here 😊 and what a lovely thing for someone to send you the gift i hope you find out who sent it. Its lovely you have left videos for your daughter. My brother lost my parents at 10 years old and i think if they had made videos it would have helped him a lot but 40 years ago that didn't happen! Keep fighting xo

  • @leahsamuels667
    @leahsamuels667 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Poor thing xx I hope things get better soon xx I’m sorry you had to go through this xx Poor Sammy xx I hope you and Sammy get better soon xx The thought of you gone when you child is young is awful xx It’s really hard and painful xx I understand how you feel xx In glad your feeling better xx Stay strong xx Keep fighting Cindy xx And what you doing for Sammy is so nice and lovely xx Sammy will love it xx Your in my thoughts and prayers xx I hope chemo is alright xx I hope and wish the best for you xx I send my love and support and prayers and thoughts and hope and strength and positivity to you, Sammy, your family, and friends xx You are so strong and amazing xx It’s just it’s heartbreaking and upsetting that you have to go through all this stuff which sucks xx You must feel awful xx Bless you xx You are beautiful inside and out xx Also that blog kit is cool xx 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @joanneeltis9854
    @joanneeltis9854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Cin x glad you got a good sleep, you must of needed it hunny xx I think it’s amazing that your doing videos for her x I would do that xx

  • @joolslassiter1236
    @joolslassiter1236 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loveeeee what you are doing for Sammy! She will treasure the videos forever and YOU forever!

  • @gwynethgrove772
    @gwynethgrove772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s a wonderful idea, in years to come she will know how much you loved her and thought about her. It’s not weird, it’s lovely. Wishing you all the strength to carry out your plan. Sleep well tonight.

  • @trishelmelancon2364
    @trishelmelancon2364 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s absolutely the right thing to do and don’t let anyone ever make you question that. You’re so down to earth.

  • @cheri6360
    @cheri6360 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Cin, so good to see you smiling! (And Sammie too). You guys make me smile when I see you having fun, goofy times together.
    I can’t imagine how you get thru a question like that. You did pretty damn good I must say. Sammie is so lucky and blessed to have a mommy like you, Cin. To make those vids for her she will appreciate that, I promise you.
    That was such a nice gift to you got from ??? Can’t wait to see you use it! Have fun with it. Congrats on 70k views! Hugs my friend

  • @tasteecupcake7832
    @tasteecupcake7832 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a wonderful gift for Sammie !! It is soooo right...Precious and priceless..... {{{Hugs}}}

  • @Ella-gx1ez
    @Ella-gx1ez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is the most amazing and thoughtful idea to do! She will be so grateful ❤️

  • @manilowmeltsme
    @manilowmeltsme 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You seem more upbeat, and you look beautiful!!! I'm glad that you're feeling a little better. Sammy is just so adorable!!! XOXOXOXXOXOXOXOXO

    • @manilowmeltsme
      @manilowmeltsme 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I commented before video was over. LOL I love your gift! How incredibly sweet. LOL'd at the asshole socks. I need socks like that. LOL
      The videos for your daughter is a beautiful idea. I saw a movie called "My Life" with Michael Keaton. If you haven't seen it you should really watch it. He's terminal and he does that for his little boy not yet born. It's a wonderful film. Anyway, thank you for letting us know how you're doing. Thinking of you all the time.

  • @chickens1964
    @chickens1964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello my new friend!!! I think what you are doing for Sammie is ssooooo special. ♥ I lost my Mom to colon cancer when I was 18. It was dx when I was 12, so she was a strong fighter, like you, for over 6 years, but.. how many times in my life I had wished I could just hear her voice, her advice, her laughter, just her. What a gift for your baby girl. People may think different than that, but... like I said before, to hell with the rest! You are doing the very best you can with the situation you have. You are looking brighter and healthier!! So happy to see it! Much love & peace. Be back soon! ♥

  • @amberlynn8591
    @amberlynn8591 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww Cindy I wish you were here to see my comment because I would have told you that is so amazing and what a wonderful Idea. Weirdo never crossed my mind, you wouldnt be controlling her from the grave because you would do the same here on Earth (not necessarily control)If you were here you would have everyone of these conversations face to face so it makes it no worse to give letters because I believe she will find the greatest comfort and feel connected to you. And if you didnt write her she would always wonder what mom would say about this or that, how would she do it? You can answer those questions!

  • @loridunn5873
    @loridunn5873 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I lost my dad when I was 13. I think making things for your daughter is great. That’s what I would do. It’s not strange at all. I wish I had video of my parents since they both passed now but different technology then too. Lol. I think Sammy will treasure them and maybe someday show her kids their grandma.

  • @marcusmaggs3206
    @marcusmaggs3206 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sammy’s “Pizza Face” lolz 😆

  • @colleendragon2569
    @colleendragon2569 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Cin, I think what you're doing for your daughter is wonderful! My prayer is that you'll be there for her for all those important times in her life, if not then it's something i think she will treasure for life, you will always be there for her when she needs her mom. I lost my mom when i was 5 years old, and my poor dad had to deal with all those things. He did a great job though :) I hope you continue to feel better. Hugs from NC xoxo

  • @Roudter
    @Roudter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think that's a really great, unselfish thing to do for her...I wish you hadn't had to come up with it (if you know what I mean). Glad you had a good night sleep.

  • @applejellypucci
    @applejellypucci 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very thoughtful.

  • @nervousamerican1184
    @nervousamerican1184 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What you are doing reminds me of a sweet made-for-TV movie in 1973 called "Message to My Daughter" about a mom who had terminal cancer and made tape recordings for her daughter. It was really beautiful.

    • @TheNotSoSecretWorldOfCin
      @TheNotSoSecretWorldOfCin  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, I’m going to have to go find that one and watch it

    • @chickens1964
      @chickens1964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think I remember that... I was only 8, but was that the one with the song "Sunshine on my shoulder" in it by John Denver? I remember crying, that's for sure.

    • @nervousamerican1184
      @nervousamerican1184 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chickens1964 Wow, the early seventies had some real tearjerker movies! You're thinking of the movie Sunshine, which was a different movie with a similar story. Sunshine was based on real people. It came out the same year as Message to My Daughter. I cried for days over both of these. (Emotional 14 year old!) Oh, and Brian's Song, too.

    • @TheNotSoSecretWorldOfCin
      @TheNotSoSecretWorldOfCin  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Got it! Lol

    • @chickens1964
      @chickens1964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nervousamerican1184 Oh gosh yes, Brian's Song. Watched in 7th. grade English and cried my eyes out. I've watched it a few times since, & yes, still cry. I will have to look up Message to My Daughter... so I can cry some more. :-D

  • @souixaan
    @souixaan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    how cute is she! :)

  • @toddeidson7520
    @toddeidson7520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry for taking away some time from Sammy I think you are smart and wonderful thank you so much for talking to me I am going to take care of things later today but you are so courageous I want you to make it

  • @shirlenegosek8527
    @shirlenegosek8527 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i think it is abeautiful thing to do cin. hugs

  • @reneelanier3475
    @reneelanier3475 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💖

  • @HWolfe
    @HWolfe 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Remember, or have you seen the movie "My Life" with Michael Keaton? Don't bother taking the time to watch it now, unless you have the time to, bottom line, he portrayed a cancer patient that did that for his unborn son. It has played alot in my life with my illness now; and if anyone thinks what you are doing is weird...who gives a flying flip. Do you, EVERY DAY, in EVERY way with your illness. You have loved by the Eternal One. Nothing else matters outside that and your family close to you. huggies and huggies.

  • @hhwrnlegalnurse
    @hhwrnlegalnurse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love and hugs! I hope you have a better week!! At my desk every day, so call me if you feel like chatting.....LOVE the videos for Sam!! AND, I.LOVE.YOU!!!!

  • @patriciamcmurray7240
    @patriciamcmurray7240 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    😥

  • @leelak9763
    @leelak9763 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my gosh she looks just like you....a mini me....so cute....

  • @Qabil2000
    @Qabil2000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @TheNotSoSecretWorldOfCin
      @TheNotSoSecretWorldOfCin  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have been on cbd and combinations of natural medicine since I was diagnosed

  • @Fre3brd
    @Fre3brd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is Sammi your Daughter Cin?

    • @TheNotSoSecretWorldOfCin
      @TheNotSoSecretWorldOfCin  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes ma’am, she is a menopause baby. They told me no way could I have children at age 43.....so I had to prove them wrong 🤣 (not on purpose). But I wouldn’t have it any other way!

  • @toddeidson7520
    @toddeidson7520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please I've made one last posts for you and once you see it you will understand why I did it I won't do anymore but this one I feel better about