Also be okay with silence. You don’t HAVE to talk every time it gets quiet. If the other person isn’t adding anything to the conversation don’t do it yourself. Awkwardness is personal, the conversation gets awkward if you think it is and if YOU or the other person allows it to be. If you don’t want to be in the conversation leave. Find a way to exit or be very concise and specific.
You sir are phenomenal Vihn, this is just some random comment from a random person. But know, that you are able to change lives by just simply posting videos like this. and my goal, is to finally save enough money to buy one of your face-to-face courses then give you the biggest "thank you" in my life
I can ramble using all three. What's funny is that PARA is close to PAR (Problem Action Result) another version of STAR or CARL which is how you answer those annoying interview questions. Since PAR and PARA are similar I think I'll use them interchangeably. The new PARA for me is [Point/Problem], Action, Result, Ask (a question if its appropriate for the situation).
In Spanish, "para" (the preposition) means "for," as in, "for whar purpose?" The verb "parar" means to stop. So in this case, it's both, like, "You achieved your goal, now stop talking." lol
Sometimes I start to ramble, then I ask am I rambling, and I answer yes you're rambling, what was I asking again? Am I rambling? Sometimes I start to ramble. What was the question?
Also be okay with silence. You don’t HAVE to talk every time it gets quiet. If the other person isn’t adding anything to the conversation don’t do it yourself. Awkwardness is personal, the conversation gets awkward if you think it is and if YOU or the other person allows it to be. If you don’t want to be in the conversation leave. Find a way to exit or be very concise and specific.
How to stop yapping 101
You sir are phenomenal
Vihn, this is just some random comment from a random person.
But know, that you are able to change lives by just simply posting videos like this.
and my goal, is to finally save enough money to buy one of your face-to-face courses
then give you the biggest "thank you" in my life
Omg I NEED this 😂 I need to learn how to handle both others' and my own oversharing
I thank God, the day, I came across Vinh's teaching, as well as others that have so much Knowledge, I can learn from.
Vinh is why I love TH-cam.
I can ramble using all three. What's funny is that PARA is close to PAR (Problem Action Result) another version of STAR or CARL which is how you answer those annoying interview questions. Since PAR and PARA are similar I think I'll use them interchangeably. The new PARA for me is [Point/Problem], Action, Result, Ask (a question if its appropriate for the situation).
This man is a legend! Thanks for these awesome tips!
Always bringing strong, helpful tips! Appreciate/needed this one.
In Spanish, "para" (the preposition) means "for," as in, "for whar purpose?" The verb "parar" means to stop. So in this case, it's both, like, "You achieved your goal, now stop talking." lol
I was going to share the same information but for Portuguese. You beat me to it 😂
It’s the same in Tagalog! Lol. We say “para” when we need the Jeepney to stop. 😂
@@pattilorenzo9186 haha that's on point!
PARA METHOD! BOOM! Thanks Vinh!
Vinh is the greatest PARAman alive 😮
Awesome tips! Thank you!
This is helpful, thanks Vinh!
Do you have any strategies for if you, yourself, overshare and have a hard time recognizing when you're doing so?
Read the cues of other people like how they look at you, how is their body positioned etc
Thank you so much hof bless ✝️🙏😇
PARA; great !
para
P : point : what is the point
A : Action :
R : result :
A : Ask
Some tips on how to politely stop a rambler would be handy.
MY TURN!! 🏃🏾💨
I just subscribe and the first video is the thing I do the most 🤣
Gosh I have all 3 forms of rambling!!!
I swear I misread the Thumbnail as "Stop Gambling" 😅
curing rambling is probably the first step to curing gambling 🤷♂️
HAHA NO SAME THO ❤
Helpful ❤
I'm glad!
Yes we all have experienced some of those "MY TURN"ers 😂
I like the image of a parrot that constantly squaks the same old stuff. So PARA stops the parroting on.
Sometimes I start to ramble, then I ask am I rambling, and I answer yes you're rambling, what was I asking again? Am I rambling? Sometimes I start to ramble. What was the question?
"There's a 0,0000001% of our population that are relentless" 😂
awesome
Are you sharing communication skills or psychology skills?
Both!
They are the same thing
Vình can you make a video only speaking Vietnamese because I want to hear it
How come you are not famous yet?
Para literally means rant in Nigerian pidgin English 😂😂
I was thinking this. At least I'll never forget the acronym now 😂
@@elonapearl5403 tell me about it😂😂
"PARA" here in the Phil means STOP
Thats funny because in spanish Para means stop
Mustache comment cut deep
I do one and two all the time. Lol
So para ?
As in I dey para,as para boy
Wey I be
Park a communication framework that stops the rambling
Point
Action
Result
Ask
The full commit is so hard. Some people are so dense🫠