Pull back Peaches. Stop giving him everything. Do very little ….the minimum. Every time you feel the need to do something nice for him .. think of yourself and do it for yourself. He will slowly began to change. For every time he’s inconsistent you be consistent with giving back to your self and take back your power.
Yea but for how long?? At what point do you say no more??? She been with him for a long time, how long does she stay and wait for him to change and be better? Yell can be delusional at times, life is too short to wait for others to catch up to you...sorry not sorry!
This conversation was so real. Wood not taking it seriously hurts to watch. His energy shows that he doesn’t want to change and doesn’t plan to. (Anyone watching and not acknowledging that is purposely being delusional) Love bombing and men playing in our face is a REAL THING. Black women and our feelings matter. Praying for you and with you phenomenal peach 🍑.
Realistically he don't have to change. There are no severe consequences so why change. As long as she keep chasing her husband and pushing out babies he'll keep breadcrumbing her and weaponizing incompetence against her.
Wood don’t real want peach and I really can’t blame him because look how she walk around looking like a 65 year old woman with her hair not done. Soon as she want attention from wood she go get her hair done lol this situation is hilarious. Wood just want her for money, but he is not attractive to her.
@arnetra25 You're the reason women don't want to embrace their natural self. Is his hair cut? He has seen her at her absolute lowest. She has 7 kids and she make sure they're always looking ok. As a mom, that's their first priority, THE KIDS. Everything not about looks. How old are you?
This woman is absolutely astonishing. Taking care of her kids, AND her newborn while constantly uploading content, being consistent, and dealing with everyday life struggles is so inspirational. Reminds me of my momma, hate to see you hurt peaches, things are gonna get so much better🩷 gotta love us Floridians🥹
Peach dont ask anymore. Love yourself. Give yourself flowers. Love you at all cost. I have 8 kids and been where you are. And until i learned to love me the tears continued to flow. Now i know me and love every once of my life. Im in Orlando and can be a listening ear who can relate to you. Keep your head up sis.
Explaining your love language and how important it is to you and him literally looking at you get emotional and him still standing strong in not doing what you’re begging for is crazy
Seven happy healthy children she’s given him and half her life! The fact that he’s sitting there rationalizing why she doesn’t deserve the smallest effort to make her feel loved makes me furious and hurt for her!
Righttttt!!!!!! And him knowing she’s telling us all this and he’s not even embarrassed….. he’s probably cheating 😢and glad his side trash gets to see him treat her shotty
Stay.....Choose your family. Singleness doesn't equal happiness. You will regret it. Choose your happiness. He hears you but doesn't understand your needs.
That’s the thing… you ain’t by YOURSELF anymore in a marriage. People don’t believe in making amends with their marital partner anymore and it’s sad. People don’t take those vows serious I see.
@@kizziah7777 he understands her needs perfectly fine. He just told her he doesn't want to do the things she asks for because he feels the other things he does do is enough and she should be happy with that. Im reading all through these comments and I keep seeing people skirt around what this man is saying because they want to believe its something else. No. Its not him not understanding. She said it clear and plain as day that she likes to have flowers and would like to have flowers every now and then and he just said he ain't doing that. One thing about women that I see so often is that we just cling on to that idea that maybe he will come around eventually... And then here we are, 18yrs later, STILL asking for the same things we asked for in the beginning and still arent getting. He is never going to change, unless he feels like it is something he needs to change (something else he JUST said in this video) .. He isn't changing. Nothing will change.
I was in a relationship for 6 years with two kids and was going through some of the same things with my significant other and I realized I couldn't make someone love me the way I wanted to be loved so I left the relationship to love myself, and just know everything that's done your kids are like sponges so it's left up to you to make the right decision. Sending healing energy to you hun and prayers 🙏🏾 ❤
He is living his best life at YOUR expense Doll. You’ve created a safety net for him to tantrum and get his way because you’ve been “Super Ninja Girl.” Like you said you didn’t know better before but you are willing to learn, and grow. You’ve stunted his growth and he is defiantly unwilling to change so YOU must change and hold the pose. I wish you all the best Doll. Coaching and Therapy are changing minds and changing lives.
He doesn’t give a damn! Why would he though she has spent almost 20 years chasing him. He is the prize. This is what she has made it because she doesn’t love herself.
Peach, his behavior is referred to as “weaponized incompetence”…. He hears you and knows how to be better, he’s only choosing to do the opposite. This is so heartbreaking to hear you pouring out your feelings and crying, while he’s being dismissive about it. You deserve so much better. ❤
IDK. I've had this conversation with male friends and it's not always because they mean to come off as dismissive. It's scary to them or makes them nervous because they feel it is out of their control. They sometimes don't understand why we are crying because they wouldn't act the same with regard to the situation at hand. Another thing, I hate to say it but it's true...Even though you may mother a child; the child is his only bloodline. That's part of the reason females get taken out so much when they keep the kids away from the fathers. Men seem able to empathize more with men. Like they share the same struggles. People have to identify their weaknesses and want to improve themselves. No one else can make them do it...but they can be influenced. A lot of men aren't going to read self help books or do traditional therapy. Often, it seems foreign to them. Men often follow by example. They need to see the profit and how it applies to their lives. Wood should probably put more effort into becoming more financially independent while doing something he actually enjoys. He doesn't need to be out here making more babies or trying to get another momma. It feels like he lets a lot of things slide. He seems good at holding things in. I don't agree with Peach assuming she is strong and he is weak. We all have vulnerabilities and faults. 😔
Peach, I once told you that people treat you the way you allow them to treat you. You have accepted this behavior for so long he doesn't think that there is a problem. You were buying him name brand, high price items and you were getting Citi Trends (nothing wrong with Citi trends). You didn't require or demand anything more. You are learning to love yourself and are no longer willing to accept the crumbs that you were given. You are realizing your self worth. Start doing more for yourself. You make the money so go buy or do something nice for yourself, (not cheap). Peach, TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT YOU BY TREATING YOURSELF RIGHT!
@@nahhhbruhhhI think anyone with common sense knew the feeling and difference between their fathers masculine and their mothers feminine energy as kids in their home, it’s not just learned it’s been made popular from the Spiritual community and now used 10xs more then ever
Crying is cleansing, it's not a sign of weakness, it in fact shows strength. Sounds like your husband...Wood only lives in the physical and is ignoring the spiritual side of things. It's like a surface level type of relationship, and I feel all of it. It's also like watching my husband(soon divorcing) and I on camera. I relate to you on so many levels, thanks for sharing🙏🏾❤
This breaks my heart into a million pieces. There are so many women that feels this way. My Mamaw was one of them! She taught me at a very young age flowers are important, opening the door is important, good night kisses are important. No women should have to feel the way you are feeling Peach! Before I married my husband I made sure he understood flowers are a MUST! I made sure he understood what I expected out of our marriage. And, the same goes for me. The older we have got it’s changed and we have sit downs where we talk openly about what we need out of each other. There are men out there that will worship the ground you walk on, Queen! And, Mr. Woods will be kicking himself in the ass when you have a man bringing you flowers, taking care of your kids without asking, and loving you the way you deserve. Plus you can love yourself better it sounds like then he is!
This broke my heart as well. She's vocalizing to him how important flowers are and he won't do the basic. What tore me up is the fact that he brought her funeral flowers. Now I don't know if he did that on purpose or if it was a mistake. The relationship could not recover after that. I like Wood and Peach together but I don't like to see her cry and we are only seeing the parts she wants us to see. She probably crying even the more off camera.
I don't get it??? What hurts? It looks clear that she's going to stay or want to be with him. Regardless of the way he treats her! And I get it she has been with this man for a certain long time! I been her minus the 7 children. What I learned is I could not make him love me the way I need my husband to love me, no amount of tears the empty threats of me leaving me actually leaving nothing worked he went on bout his business and remarried
That’s the value… you made sure you married someone who shared, could provide, and understood the importance of your values. Sometimes us women don’t know our own values before we attach or permanently tie ourselves to a man. Then when we figure it out we want the person we’re with to change. In a marriage, both people should be willing to give of themselves. But there are bo guarantees. The only thing we control in this life is what we accept and how we react. He’s clear on his boundaries and standing on them. She’s not clear on hers and he knows it. She knows them but is not standing on them.
She loves him. As someone who is married and seriously went through the process of leaving EVERYTHING twice, you don’t just fall out of love with each others. They may not get through the divorce process or they might get closer through the process but whatever happens, Peaches is giving her reality. And she got y’all watch. So hit a likey like, for ya girl! 😂😂😂 praying for the family and a speedy recovery for you Peach!!!
@@ajadestone3376 yeah you choose to allow yourself to fall in love with someone. Everything is technically a choice at some point or another. What’s the ultimate point of this tho?
@@denieraadams4924 And everything is so transactional. I come from an era of R&B music that felt like it was made just for you and every emotion you are going through. Love was deep. Now they like somebody and lay with them and that’s that. They don’t know how to truly love or what true love feels like.
In the past I was used to doing a lot in my relationships, but with my NEW MAN he literally plans 80% of the dates and all the travel. Flights, hotel, excursions everything. You’re not asking for too much. Maybe you’re just asking the wrong person.
My honey plans all our trips as well. All I do is pack my bags. He has everything covered. He's not perfect but damn near. My previous 26 year relationships was the opposite. Peach deserve 1000x more than what she gets
I understand what she saying she is always there holding it together being caring loving doing everything.. When she needs the comfort and care she can’t get that a mothers job is never done she just wants the same affection that she gives .
A man treats you how he feels about you if you have to keep expressing your feelings to him and he ain't making no effort he don't care cause he know you ain't going nowhere don't matter how many babies you have by a man and what you do for them that ain't gonna make him love you.praying for you.
Sometimes we stay in situations so long we forget who we are….you hold you and everyone else down, I can’t say that he will or won’t change but eventually you will change..its going to get easier to leave I don’t care if it take 20 or 30 times..one day you won’t go back because you will realize the reality of what you are going back to, you got time..live your life and be happy no matter what..find your own happiness and peace….man im preaching to us both!! Be blessed!
Peaches is too good for him. I’m DEFINITELY ROOTING & PRAYING FOR PEACHES AND Those beautiful children❤ He’s not gone change…you are making the right decision divorcing him. She deserves the love that she pours out 😩🥺🥹
Do it for the FAM Wood! You guys have a good thing going. Your wife is beautiful. You don't even have to ask. She's telling you what you can do to make her feel safe. Come on Wood. You can do it!
you are such an inspiration peach. I came across your gambling page and fell in love with your personality, now I can't get enough! I was supposed to start up a TH-cam channel over 10 years ago and each time I talked myself out of it. but watching you be so open and vulnerable in this video has really touched and inspired me. thank you for being your true authentic self. hope to meet you one day! much love💞
It feels so good to know that I am not alone. I am literally going through the same thing. Me and my husband have been together 10 years. I always tell him to buy me flowers because it’s part of my love language and he refuses. We never go on a date, he never surprises me. I do so much for him when it comes to birthdays anniversary holidays to make sure he feels appreciated. But I don’t get the same. Sometimes I feel so alone. Girl thank you for being open. Some of us need it. I don’t care how much I express my feelings or how emotional he sees me. It’s as if he does not care. I’ve been contemplating divorce for about 2 months now.
It’s not in him . don’t divorce him because of that the next person you meet might do the same thing and not love you like your husband does. Buy yourself flowers, and make yourself happy. You will feel much better. I do that, some people are just not like that, we can’t change them. I’ve been married 40. Don’t sweat the small stuff. think about the big picture. Maybe he shows you love in other ways. Appreciate the other ways that he shows you love.❤
You broke my heart crying. You can tell you love him deeply and he cant show lovw the way you need it. Dont ever let him undermine you, you gave that man 7 gorgeous children.
My husband isn't romantic at all, but he shows up, he's got us always. He'd do anything for me and our kids and that means the world to me. But you're the only one that can decide what you need.
Yes some men love language is just being there and showing up when you need them. Also some women are like that, scared to show emotions or they just not that romantic. Doesn’t mean they don’t love you or in love with you.‼️
She might want to stop irritating him all the time telling him the same stuff you don't need any flowers at the man's there with you taking care of the kids like we've seen him doing and showing you love and being on this tape all the time what in the world are you talkin about flowers constantly for
Your right peach!!! It's the littlest things that matter the most and you refuse to attempt to even try and do what I need... YOU NEED HIM TO STAND UP AND LOVE YOU RESPECT YOU LIFT YOU UP AND EMPOWER YOU AND YOU DESERVE IT AND SO MUCH MORE!!! DONT SETTLE PEACH
Your transparency is mind blowing…… everyone is different learn each other , be patient with each other.. we all learn differently.. I’m always for black love and family…I don’t like the bullying and judgmental… just pray for them and hope for the best 🙏🏾 they are human just like us 💯🙏🏾
Queen peach. You are a prize. Everything gets better w time. I watched my mother go thru this w my pops. Give everything and get nothing in return when in reality you just want the small things. What one man won’t it’s a line for who will. I got love for you queen.
I understand all you saying I went though that with my husband and I was married 20yrs and it’s not going to change don’t wait until your 40-50 yrs old like I did ❤
Peach I’ve been watching you guys for a long time and it breaks my heart to see you going through this. He needs to grow up. Buy your own flowers ok. Don’t depend on him for your happiness. If he wanted to do romantic things for you he would so evidently he doesn’t want too. Keep your head up love.
You are such a great wife Peaches! Motivating Daddy Wood like that is so selfless. While I am rooting for your two to make it work if you don’t, you both will be alright ❤
Peach you gave wood 7 beautiful children the least he can do is surprise you with some flowers after the birth of each child or even just because. Peach being the scapegoat as I am also we growing up the lines between love n abuse are blurred. So we tend to attract men who do the same. I've been through so much!!! I feel for you I just want to hug you!!! Your such a beautiful woman ❤❤❤❤
Peaches I get it... he has to learn how to give you things that are important to you. Some men get it, and some just dont.... continued prayers for you all to get it worked through 🙏
Not don’t. WON’T. He won’t do nice things for her that she literally has to TELL him what they are, because he so dum he can’t notice or pay attention. He is not in this thing. Cut him loose. Like dead wood. Prune, prune, prune!
He doesnt cry probably bc he didnt get the proper nurturing growing up thats years of healing needed right there! He's been holding stuff in for years 😢 Sending healing VIBES ❤️ Crying is a healing release!
I definitely understand! Human decency, and treatment from someone you’ll give the world too! When they hurt u hurt! And all u want is to feel that back!
Candy Yams Butter1 stick (Unsalted) Depending on how big of a pan you want 1 to 1/2 cup of sugar( white ) Brown sugar 1 cup bake at 350 for 45 minutes if using fresh sweet potatoes and 30 minutes for canned . Enjoy Peach!
Miss Peaches, I have been following you for years now, I think I have commented once on your videos. I love who you are and I love how real you are. No matter how you go to ups and downs, you always keep it 1000. this video have motivated me and help me see to keep moving through my pain. Although I don’t comment often, I want you to know you are like a sister to me. I love you lots, keep going girl.
I appreciate that you are coaching your husband. He has to know as a black man there is always going to be adversity, its how you handle it while you are going through it. He is in the mist of a fight for his wife and family. The blessing comes when you endure the adversity and make it to the other side of it. It would not hurt to see a therapist.
Whew! I feel that sentiment of yours so deeply. Appealing to one another's love language(s) is vital to nurturing the intimacy in the connection. It makes you feel seen in ways you appreciate in particular. I would hug you if I could. Sometimes relationships don't work out, but the self-awareness we gain in the end makes it all worth it. ❤
Peach my heart breaks for you. Yes you do deserve more out of y'all relationship. You are worthy. It is a lot, but you got this. You are a wonderful person, woman, mother, sister, wife, and friend. I love how vulnerable and loving you are. Even though you are a gangsta 😊. YOU GOT THIS PEACHES! I LOVE YOU AND YOUR STORY! 🦋💜🦋
Listening to you express yourself to your husband and him not getting it is mind-blowing. It's like every word in of Miley Cyrus' Flower he doesn't understand that marriage is a lot of work and it's the simplest of things that makes a huge impact in a relationship.
Are they healthy though? Because she literally put all his stiff in his car and refined for divorce few days ago and not they happy and healthy 😂 don't sound mentally healthy to me. But maybe I'm wrong.
Peach you have a heart of gold you're right every woman needs that attention from their husband I understand where you're coming from stay strong continue doing you God bless
Taking care of the kids isn’t doing anything for you…it’s parenting. Peaches, I’ve followed you from the beginning and will stay loyal to you. Keep talking to Daddy; whether he does it yet or not, he hears you. My husband and I got married at 18 and are still married 29 years later. Don’t give up, keep telling him what you need!
Whether he does it or not he hears you?😮 Women enable, baby and pacify men There is a difference between hearing and listening I’ve been following her for years, she has been communicating what she needs to this man and he disregards her feelings… while he loves his kids he is not a good mate
😮 so keep begging someone for something that they are making clear they are NOT going to give you? Y’all are pathetic to allow these men to treat y’all like trash!
Marriage is not for punks. I have been married for 33 years and it has not always been bliss. You have to choose to stay together and find a way to work it out. At least you guys are talking. That's huge!! I will be praying for you both. Do what's right for yourself and your children.
Wow I can relate to this me and my husband been together and he never plans anything and we don’t go on dates I start thinking about myself whatever I want to do go out to eat the spa or trip I just plan and go myself or go with one of my good friends and when he complain about us not doing things together I just tell him we start doing thing together when you start planning it
It sucks being in relationship and you're the only one fighting to save it. Being alone in a marriage is horrible. I was alone in my marriage I asked for affection outside the bedroom I was told that's fairytale bullshit. I was broken it took me almost 3yrs to heal after he up and left me. I love Woods channel
I was married to my ex husband for YEARS!!! Let me tell you leaving was the best thing ever!!! You have to be ready 100 percent! No one can tell you when it’s time!! I’m married again and let me say this, when it’s with the right person you don’t have to say or do much because it’s reciprocated by each other. So if the cons are more than the pros that’s your answer right there! Of course it’s not perfect but being loved properly is amazing!!!
Girl!!!!! You are stepping into your Devine femininity. You will thrive beautifully in this chapter. You know exactly what you need and want to be the greatest YOU! Stand 10 toes he will follow or be gone. Your king wether in him or someone else, is ...coming! ❤ i wish you nothing but strength. You have a long life to live make it how you want.
I completely understand now, Especially with the love language topic , peaches girl you almost made me cry too I've been watching your videos for a couple of months now but I must say you are a strong woman and you deserve whatever makes you happy
Peaches you deserve soooooooo much more, self love, self mastery and truly knowing your worth and then add tax. He doesn't take you seriously and he blocking your true happiness
As indigenous woman we need to up lift each other, and give words of wisdom we all go through things and no one is left out. I understand Mrs. Peach I would love to talk to you.
You are beautiful inside and out continue to be the mother and woman you are. Leave him at his MOTHER’s you cant keep something that don’t wanna be kept. Praying for peach!❤
I feel what you’re saying about having to take on so much as a mom and being there for literally everyone. Including your spouse. Prayers mama 🙏🏾 cause you are not alone. I commend you for handling yours as a mother of seven. Hell I have two so trust me you’re a super woman. 🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾💕💕
A friend told me, "A man worth your tears, will never make you cry." Heal your energy to attract someone who matches your frequency for genuine joy. Stay blessed.
Right, and make that $ yall have a family to take care of!!! I love how real you keep it, cause it's really like that at times. Love yall Peach and Wood!! ❤
Peaches flowers come from the heart. I am a widow of 1and1/2 year. My husband brought me flowers on my birthday and our anniversary. My be that would work for him. He passed from a heart attack. I pray that your doing the right thing with no regrets later. Stay strong.❤
I feel you ms.peaches you go hard for people and they will do bare minimum for us here's a hug sis and that's what we ask for little shit I feel your pain God got you and it's o.k to cry
I know the feeling Peaches,you are in love with a man you been knowing for literally a lifetime he's your husband,babies daddy,partner lover,your everything I can tell,keep the faith in God and he will see yall through.Yall really are a beautiful family and couple.I do see yall back together forever,he just got to work on being there for his beautiful queen and family the right way like a real loving man would God bless yall.❤❤💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💐💐💐🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹🌼🌼🌼You do deserves your flowers all the time,you gave that man 7 beautiful kids
You do you peach by yourself ,you be much better,you cant change him to want you want.your a queen, men should treat you with respect x good luck .from London ❤❤x
Pull back Peaches. Stop giving him everything. Do very little ….the minimum. Every time you feel the need to do something nice for him .. think of yourself and do it for yourself. He will slowly began to change. For every time he’s inconsistent you be consistent with giving back to your self and take back your power.
I love this with so many people just saying leave leave leave this comment saying switch it up and change how you treat yourself
This is great advice! I love this and I’m going to take that advice on board. Thanks, I needed this ❤
Peach look after yourself 😘
This comment is pure WISDOM ❤❤❤❤❤
Yea but for how long?? At what point do you say no more??? She been with him for a long time, how long does she stay and wait for him to change and be better? Yell can be delusional at times, life is too short to wait for others to catch up to you...sorry not sorry!
Just asking how many of y'all are married that liked that comment 😮
This conversation was so real. Wood not taking it seriously hurts to watch. His energy shows that he doesn’t want to change and doesn’t plan to. (Anyone watching and not acknowledging that is purposely being delusional) Love bombing and men playing in our face is a REAL THING. Black women and our feelings matter. Praying for you and with you phenomenal peach 🍑.
Girl I am going though this right now. As a women black women, we go through it.
Realistically he don't have to change. There are no severe consequences so why change. As long as she keep chasing her husband and pushing out babies he'll keep breadcrumbing her and weaponizing incompetence against her.
Buy her Rose's WOOD.. come on bro!!!
Wood don’t real want peach and I really can’t blame him because look how she walk around looking like a 65 year old woman with her hair not done. Soon as she want attention from wood she go get her hair done lol this situation is hilarious. Wood just want her for money, but he is not attractive to her.
@arnetra25 You're the reason women don't want to embrace their natural self. Is his hair cut? He has seen her at her absolute lowest. She has 7 kids and she make sure they're always looking ok. As a mom, that's their first priority, THE KIDS. Everything not about looks. How old are you?
This woman is absolutely astonishing. Taking care of her kids, AND her newborn while constantly uploading content, being consistent, and dealing with everyday life struggles is so inspirational. Reminds me of my momma, hate to see you hurt peaches, things are gonna get so much better🩷 gotta love us Floridians🥹
No, she’s toxic and miserable as fuck and she spews evil. That’s why God’s punishing her and keeping her in this situation.
A brother ain't gone change til he ready! When people show you who they are, THAT'S WHO THEY ARE! BELIEVE IT! LOVE YOURSELF AT THE END OF THE DAY!❤
Peach dont ask anymore. Love yourself. Give yourself flowers. Love you at all cost. I have 8 kids and been where you are. And until i learned to love me the tears continued to flow. Now i know me and love every once of my life. Im in Orlando and can be a listening ear who can relate to you. Keep your head up sis.
Explaining your love language and how important it is to you and him literally looking at you get emotional and him still standing strong in not doing what you’re begging for is crazy
Exactly! I did it for 23 years and nothing ever changed. Opened my eyes way too late ❤
Seven happy healthy children she’s given him and half her life! The fact that he’s sitting there rationalizing why she doesn’t deserve the smallest effort to make her feel loved makes me furious and hurt for her!
😢 THIS the straw, I bet broke the camel's back. From what I'm reading. I'm just now watching it.
Righttttt!!!!!! And him knowing she’s telling us all this and he’s not even embarrassed….. he’s probably cheating 😢and glad his side trash gets to see him treat her shotty
You have to teach people how to treat you. If they don’t learn it, they don’t want to and that’s your relationship eviction notice.
He is who he is. Either you gonna stay and deal with it or leave and be happy.
It’s the leave and be happy part that hit the hardest!! ❤💪🏾
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Well said.
Said Everything i needed to hear.😢❤
The hardest thing is to be in a marriage by yourself. Choose yourself Peaches. It's ok. You'll get through this.
Stay.....Choose your family. Singleness doesn't equal happiness. You will regret it. Choose your happiness. He hears you but doesn't understand your needs.
That’s the thing… you ain’t by YOURSELF anymore in a marriage. People don’t believe in making amends with their marital partner anymore and it’s sad. People don’t take those vows serious I see.
@@kizziah7777 thank you!!!! Best advice.
@@kizziah7777he needs to submit to therapy so that he can LEARN how to show (key word) love to his wife. LOVE is an action word. LOVE DOES.
@@kizziah7777 he understands her needs perfectly fine. He just told her he doesn't want to do the things she asks for because he feels the other things he does do is enough and she should be happy with that. Im reading all through these comments and I keep seeing people skirt around what this man is saying because they want to believe its something else. No. Its not him not understanding. She said it clear and plain as day that she likes to have flowers and would like to have flowers every now and then and he just said he ain't doing that. One thing about women that I see so often is that we just cling on to that idea that maybe he will come around eventually... And then here we are, 18yrs later, STILL asking for the same things we asked for in the beginning and still arent getting. He is never going to change, unless he feels like it is something he needs to change (something else he JUST said in this video) .. He isn't changing. Nothing will change.
I was in a relationship for 6 years with two kids and was going through some of the same things with my significant other and I realized I couldn't make someone love me the way I wanted to be loved so I left the relationship to love myself, and just know everything that's done your kids are like sponges so it's left up to you to make the right decision. Sending healing energy to you hun and prayers 🙏🏾 ❤
He is living his best life at YOUR expense Doll. You’ve created a safety net for him to tantrum and get his way because you’ve been “Super Ninja Girl.” Like you said you didn’t know better before but you are willing to learn, and grow. You’ve stunted his growth and he is defiantly unwilling to change so YOU must change and hold the pose. I wish you all the best Doll. Coaching and Therapy are changing minds and changing lives.
she didnt stunt his growth. he is responsible for his own growth
He doesn't care to please her. She tells him what she needs and I felt his refusal in the way he responded. Peach do what you need to do for you.
Right flowers are such a simple sweet gesture. He don't care really and it's sad but up to Peach to leave where she is not appreciated.
He doesn’t give a damn! Why would he though she has spent almost 20 years chasing him. He is the prize. This is what she has made it because she doesn’t love herself.
Right. And when your man don't care to please you Please believe he's not in love with you . He ' Might ' love you, but not in love.
It could haven't been the way he was raised in the black community women are taught do everything and the men are taught to protect and provide.
Imma stay outta it because that’s their marriage. That’s between them.
Peach, his behavior is referred to as “weaponized incompetence”…. He hears you and knows how to be better, he’s only choosing to do the opposite. This is so heartbreaking to hear you pouring out your feelings and crying, while he’s being dismissive about it. You deserve so much better. ❤
IDK. I've had this conversation with male friends and it's not always because they mean to come off as dismissive. It's scary to them or makes them nervous because they feel it is out of their control. They sometimes don't understand why we are crying because they wouldn't act the same with regard to the situation at hand. Another thing, I hate to say it but it's true...Even though you may mother a child; the child is his only bloodline. That's part of the reason females get taken out so much when they keep the kids away from the fathers. Men seem able to empathize more with men. Like they share the same struggles. People have to identify their weaknesses and want to improve themselves. No one else can make them do it...but they can be influenced. A lot of men aren't going to read self help books or do traditional therapy. Often, it seems foreign to them. Men often follow by example. They need to see the profit and how it applies to their lives. Wood should probably put more effort into becoming more financially independent while doing something he actually enjoys. He doesn't need to be out here making more babies or trying to get another momma. It feels like he lets a lot of things slide. He seems good at holding things in. I don't agree with Peach assuming she is strong and he is weak. We all have vulnerabilities and faults. 😔
Thanks for the explanation cause I am sitting here like he's doing that on purpose 😢
Peach, I once told you that people treat you the way you allow them to treat you. You have accepted this behavior for so long he doesn't think that there is a problem. You were buying him name brand, high price items and you were getting Citi Trends (nothing wrong with Citi trends). You didn't require or demand anything more. You are learning to love yourself and are no longer willing to accept the crumbs that you were given. You are realizing your self worth. Start doing more for yourself. You make the money so go buy or do something nice for yourself, (not cheap). Peach, TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT YOU BY TREATING YOURSELF RIGHT!
100% exactly.
Is he a Taurus!!!
She’s constantly being forced to be in masculine energy & it’s sad af.. I feel you peach!
@@nahhhbruhhhI think anyone with common sense knew the feeling and difference between their fathers masculine and their mothers feminine energy as kids in their home, it’s not just learned it’s been made popular from the Spiritual community and now used 10xs more then ever
@@nahhhbruhhhthat and gas lighting. I swear.
@@Blessed2bhere34and narcissistic…🤦🏿♂️
Why yall trying to act like this woman ain't bat shit crazy? Doing this shit for the internet?
Crying is cleansing, it's not a sign of weakness, it in fact shows strength. Sounds like your husband...Wood only lives in the physical and is ignoring the spiritual side of things. It's like a surface level type of relationship, and I feel all of it. It's also like watching my husband(soon divorcing) and I on camera. I relate to you on so many levels, thanks for sharing🙏🏾❤
My husband always plans our date nites and loves to surprise me with gifts. I love when my husband gives me his time and full attention.
This breaks my heart into a million pieces. There are so many women that feels this way. My Mamaw was one of them! She taught me at a very young age flowers are important, opening the door is important, good night kisses are important. No women should have to feel the way you are feeling Peach! Before I married my husband I made sure he understood flowers are a MUST! I made sure he understood what I expected out of our marriage. And, the same goes for me. The older we have got it’s changed and we have sit downs where we talk openly about what we need out of each other. There are men out there that will worship the ground you walk on, Queen! And, Mr. Woods will be kicking himself in the ass when you have a man bringing you flowers, taking care of your kids without asking, and loving you the way you deserve. Plus you can love yourself better it sounds like then he is!
This broke my heart as well. She's vocalizing to him how important flowers are and he won't do the basic. What tore me up is the fact that he brought her funeral flowers. Now I don't know if he did that on purpose or if it was a mistake. The relationship could not recover after that. I like Wood and Peach together but I don't like to see her cry and we are only seeing the parts she wants us to see. She probably crying even the more off camera.
I don't get it??? What hurts? It looks clear that she's going to stay or want to be with him. Regardless of the way he treats her! And I get it she has been with this man for a certain long time! I been her minus the 7 children. What I learned is I could not make him love me the way I need my husband to love me, no amount of tears the empty threats of me leaving me actually leaving nothing worked he went on bout his business and remarried
That’s the value… you made sure you married someone who shared, could provide, and understood the importance of your values.
Sometimes us women don’t know our own values before we attach or permanently tie ourselves to a man. Then when we figure it out we want the person we’re with to change. In a marriage, both people should be willing to give of themselves. But there are bo guarantees. The only thing we control in this life is what we accept and how we react.
He’s clear on his boundaries and standing on them. She’s not clear on hers and he knows it. She knows them but is not standing on them.
She loves him. As someone who is married and seriously went through the process of leaving EVERYTHING twice, you don’t just fall out of love with each others. They may not get through the divorce process or they might get closer through the process but whatever happens, Peaches is giving her reality. And she got y’all watch. So hit a likey like, for ya girl! 😂😂😂 praying for the family and a speedy recovery for you Peach!!!
You do not fall in love either.......LOVE IS A CHOICE!!!!!!!!
@@ajadestone3376 yeah you choose to allow yourself to fall in love with someone. Everything is technically a choice at some point or another. What’s the ultimate point of this tho?
@@ajadestone3376yessss !!!! Facts ! It’s a choice
That’s why city girl life is popular bc people don’t know how to work things out.
@@denieraadams4924 And everything is so transactional. I come from an era of R&B music that felt like it was made just for you and every emotion you are going through. Love was deep. Now they like somebody and lay with them and that’s that. They don’t know how to truly love or what true love feels like.
In the past I was used to doing a lot in my relationships, but with my NEW MAN he literally plans 80% of the dates and all the travel. Flights, hotel, excursions everything. You’re not asking for too much. Maybe you’re just asking the wrong person.
My honey plans all our trips as well. All I do is pack my bags. He has everything covered. He's not perfect but damn near. My previous 26 year relationships was the opposite. Peach deserve 1000x more than what she gets
I finally found the same kind and loving man, sometimes I don’t know how to except it.
You're blessed 🙌🏽 You are correct!
@@Kekebusinessmogul 😅
Peaches is definitely a real one for telling him that … She really do Love him and hope for the best for him ♥️
I understand what she saying she is always there holding it together being caring loving doing everything.. When she needs the comfort and care she can’t get that a mothers job is never done she just wants the same affection that she gives .
Girl, love YOURSELF!
You can’t love people into treating you right‼️
Facts...
100%! She needs to let her 8th kid go!
A man treats you how he feels about you if you have to keep expressing your feelings to him and he ain't making no effort he don't care cause he know you ain't going nowhere don't matter how many babies you have by a man and what you do for them that ain't gonna make him love you.praying for you.
I'm proud of you for standing up for what you want, need, and deserve!
❤️
Sometimes we stay in situations so long we forget who we are….you hold you and everyone else down, I can’t say that he will or won’t change but eventually you will change..its going to get easier to leave I don’t care if it take 20 or 30 times..one day you won’t go back because you will realize the reality of what you are going back to, you got time..live your life and be happy no matter what..find your own happiness and peace….man im preaching to us both!! Be blessed!
She has made it perfectly clear what she wants and what she needs give her what she needs or move so she can be loved properly
has she though? Telling your followers isn't the same as telling HIM what she wants and needs
Don't change him Peach.... YOU change YOU!!!! They are gonna do what they do. So you continue being YOU. Stay strong and God will bless the Rest. 🙏
❤ needed that
Peaches is too good for him. I’m DEFINITELY ROOTING & PRAYING FOR PEACHES AND Those beautiful children❤ He’s not gone change…you are making the right decision divorcing him. She deserves the love that she pours out 😩🥺🥹
Do it for the FAM Wood! You guys have a good thing going. Your wife is beautiful. You don't even have to ask. She's telling you what you can do to make her feel safe. Come on Wood. You can do it!
Queen. It’s beautiful seeing somebody stand up for themselves your feelings are valid.
you are such an inspiration peach. I came across your gambling page and fell in love with your personality, now I can't get enough! I was supposed to start up a TH-cam channel over 10 years ago and each time I talked myself out of it. but watching you be so open and vulnerable in this video has really touched and inspired me. thank you for being your true authentic self. hope to meet you one day! much love💞
If your brother could have the initiative to show up and take your kids to summer camp Wood should too!
It feels so good to know that I am not alone. I am literally going through the same thing. Me and my husband have been together 10 years. I always tell him to buy me flowers because it’s part of my love language and he refuses. We never go on a date, he never surprises me. I do so much for him when it comes to birthdays anniversary holidays to make sure he feels appreciated. But I don’t get the same. Sometimes I feel so alone.
Girl thank you for being open. Some of us need it. I don’t care how much I express my feelings or how emotional he sees me. It’s as if he does not care. I’ve been contemplating divorce for about 2 months now.
We teach people how to treat us!
Do all that for yourself girl
Same
Mines does stuff for me every holiday but random gifts no not really and dates I gotta plan or it’s always what we doing been together nine years also
It’s not in him . don’t divorce him because of that the next person you meet might do the same thing and not love you like your husband does.
Buy yourself flowers, and make yourself happy. You will feel much better. I do that, some people are just not like that, we can’t change them. I’ve been married 40. Don’t sweat the small stuff. think about the big picture. Maybe he shows you love in other ways.
Appreciate the other ways that he shows you love.❤
He is still in his set way; because you do everything!!
I found your videos randomly. I love how openly you communicate and stay true to who you are. You are absolutely phenomenal Peach❤
You broke my heart crying. You can tell you love him deeply and he cant show lovw the way you need it. Dont ever let him undermine you, you gave that man 7 gorgeous children.
My husband isn't romantic at all, but he shows up, he's got us always. He'd do anything for me and our kids and that means the world to me. But you're the only one that can decide what you need.
I wonder why men are like that
Yes some men love language is just being there and showing up when you need them. Also some women are like that, scared to show emotions or they just not that romantic. Doesn’t mean they don’t love you or in love with you.‼️
See I’m a female but I’m just like your husband. My love language is different. My husband is a romantic and loves to be affectionate.
My friend and her partner been together for years and refuse to wrap gifts, you just get it in a shopping bag 😊
@@McAnultyBunch same, my bf love language is affection, meaning kissing hugging, cuddling, and my love language is gift giving .
I totally feel you girl.... Us women all across the world go through a lot of the same things.
Right i'm one of thoses women
She might want to stop irritating him all the time telling him the same stuff you don't need any flowers at the man's there with you taking care of the kids like we've seen him doing and showing you love and being on this tape all the time what in the world are you talkin about flowers constantly for
@@mamiebryant9064 Girl, a bouquet of flowers is 10.99 at the grocery store. Please shut your bare minimum self up.
Exactly ❤ Amen
Facts, and it's getting tiring!!
Your right peach!!! It's the littlest things that matter the most and you refuse to attempt to even try and do what I need... YOU NEED HIM TO STAND UP AND LOVE YOU RESPECT YOU LIFT YOU UP AND EMPOWER YOU AND YOU DESERVE IT AND SO MUCH MORE!!! DONT SETTLE PEACH
Flowers = thoughtful ❤ she deserves to be thought of
MY DADDY ALWAYS TOLD ME CHIN UP CHEST OUT! That hit my core when you said that… thanks for the reminder 🍑
Your transparency is mind blowing…… everyone is different learn each other , be patient with each other.. we all learn differently.. I’m always for black love and family…I don’t like the bullying and judgmental… just pray for them and hope for the best 🙏🏾 they are human just like us 💯🙏🏾
Wood you got a good woman. Make time for her give her flowers while she’s alive. Just do the right thing and things will get better 😇❤️
I get you, Peach. Simple signs of gratitude make a difference. You deserve those 💐 Peach. You give words of wisdom every day Peach here's to you. 💐
His vibe is cold as hell honey run for the hill and never look back.
He doesnt WANT to do what you want. He has to WANT to do those things naturally. It should naturally be in his spirit without you having to ask.
Queen peach. You are a prize. Everything gets better w time. I watched my mother go thru this w my pops. Give everything and get nothing in return when in reality you just want the small things. What one man won’t it’s a line for who will. I got love for you queen.
I understand all you saying I went though that with my husband and I was married 20yrs and it’s not going to change don’t wait until your 40-50 yrs old like I did ❤
Same here. Gave too many chanes and too many years ❤
Stay strong Peach.. you have to make Wood responsible. You both should be responsible for the care of your children. Hold him
accountable.
He needs to know the joy that he will feel when he makes the plans and surprises you!
Peach I’ve been watching you guys for a long time and it breaks my heart to see you going through this. He needs to grow up. Buy your own flowers ok. Don’t depend on him for your happiness. If he wanted to do romantic things for you he would so evidently he doesn’t want too. Keep your head up love.
You are such a great wife Peaches! Motivating Daddy Wood like that is so selfless. While I am rooting for your two to make it work if you don’t, you both will be alright ❤
Peach you gave wood 7 beautiful children the least he can do is surprise you with some flowers after the birth of each child or even just because. Peach being the scapegoat as I am also we growing up the lines between love n abuse are blurred. So we tend to attract men who do the same. I've been through so much!!! I feel for you I just want to hug you!!! Your such a beautiful woman ❤❤❤❤
Peach I’m just always amazed of how much of a real one you are. You just dropped gems just walking through the parking lot. Yesssir 💗💗
I’m watching your videos. I am realizing a lot. I pray for your healing. Guard your heart Peach. No need to settle for less.
First let me say thank you for exposing your vulnerabilities and fears. Second, I feel your tears it’s heart wrenching.
Peaches I get it... he has to learn how to give you things that are important to you. Some men get it, and some just dont.... continued prayers for you all to get it worked through 🙏
They grew up together so he should know his wife better than her own parents
Not don’t. WON’T. He won’t do nice things for her that she literally has to TELL him what they are, because he so dum he can’t notice or pay attention. He is not in this thing. Cut him loose. Like dead wood. Prune, prune, prune!
He doesnt cry probably bc he didnt get the proper nurturing growing up thats years of healing needed right there! He's been holding stuff in for years 😢 Sending healing VIBES ❤️ Crying is a healing release!
Peaches ❤
Wood does not seem to be WILLING to give you what you need. Do what will make you happy. You deserve that!
Burlington Coat Factory has a great baby/ kid section!💙💙
I definitely understand! Human decency, and treatment from someone you’ll give the world too! When they hurt u hurt! And all u want is to feel that back!
Can’t judge nobody else just pray for folks 💕💕🫶🏽🫶🏽 Keep going Peach
Candy Yams Butter1 stick (Unsalted) Depending on how big of a pan you want 1 to 1/2 cup of sugar( white ) Brown sugar 1 cup bake at 350 for 45 minutes if using fresh sweet potatoes and 30 minutes for canned . Enjoy Peach!
Love em; can’t make ‘em. Not all super heroes wear capes 🎉❤
I would also add some vanilla. Possibly some cinnamon if you like in your yams.
Can also do it on the stovetop in a pot with a top. Same ingredients with a little water to keep from sticking to the pot.
Add vanilla and brandy extract a little lemon juice
Thx, I've never made them.
Shame on me.
Could've ask my mom.
Miss Peaches,
I have been following you for years now, I think I have commented once on your videos. I love who you are and I love how real you are. No matter how you go to ups and downs, you always keep it 1000. this video have motivated me and help me see to keep moving through my pain. Although I don’t comment often, I want you to know you are like a sister to me. I love you lots, keep going girl.
I appreciate that you are coaching your husband. He has to know as a black man there is always going to be adversity, its how you handle it while you are going through it. He is in the mist of a fight for his wife and family. The blessing comes when you endure the adversity and make it to the other side of it. It would not hurt to see a therapist.
If Wood doesn’t go to therapy, you go. And don’t call your husband names , thats not right.
Whew! I feel that sentiment of yours so deeply. Appealing to one another's love language(s) is vital to nurturing the intimacy in the connection. It makes you feel seen in ways you appreciate in particular. I would hug you if I could. Sometimes relationships don't work out, but the self-awareness we gain in the end makes it all worth it. ❤
Peach my heart breaks for you. Yes you do deserve more out of y'all relationship. You are worthy. It is a lot, but you got this. You are a wonderful person, woman, mother, sister, wife, and friend. I love how vulnerable and loving you are. Even though you are a gangsta 😊. YOU GOT THIS PEACHES! I LOVE YOU AND YOUR STORY! 🦋💜🦋
Listening to you express yourself to your husband and him not getting it is mind-blowing. It's like every word in of Miley Cyrus' Flower he doesn't understand that marriage is a lot of work and it's the simplest of things that makes a huge impact in a relationship.
I Love to see families together. Happy and healthy.
Are they healthy though? Because she literally put all his stiff in his car and refined for divorce few days ago and not they happy and healthy 😂 don't sound mentally healthy to me. But maybe I'm wrong.
@@saushakamara you right but you got to remember that you are talking to a group of people who are use to disjunction relationships
Peach keep your head up. Your an awesome mom no matter what. Yes you are strong enough for this. Love ya sis!!!
Peach you have a heart of gold you're right every woman needs that attention from their husband I understand where you're coming from stay strong continue doing you God bless
Taking care of the kids isn’t doing anything for you…it’s parenting.
Peaches, I’ve followed you from the beginning and will stay loyal to you. Keep talking to Daddy; whether he does it yet or not, he hears you.
My husband and I got married at 18 and are still married 29 years later. Don’t give up, keep telling him what you need!
Whether he does it or not he hears you?😮
Women enable, baby and pacify men
There is a difference between hearing and listening
I’ve been following her for years, she has been communicating what she needs to this man and he disregards her feelings… while he loves his kids he is not a good mate
😮 so keep begging someone for something that they are making clear they are NOT going to give you? Y’all are pathetic to allow these men to treat y’all like trash!
Marriage is not for punks. I have been married for 33 years and it has not always been bliss. You have to choose to stay together and find a way to work it out. At least you guys are talking. That's huge!! I will be praying for you both. Do what's right for yourself and your children.
I lived exactly what she's going through. I know how she feels. Put yourself first!! God will see you through ❤️❤️
Same.
Wow I can relate to this me and my husband been together and he never plans anything and we don’t go on dates I start thinking about myself whatever I want to do go out to eat the spa or trip I just plan and go myself or go with one of my good friends and when he complain about us not doing things together I just tell him we start doing thing together when you start planning it
Look how far you all have come. God is good and he’s truly healing you and everyone around you
It sucks being in relationship and you're the only one fighting to save it. Being alone in a marriage is horrible. I was alone in my marriage I asked for affection outside the bedroom I was told that's fairytale bullshit. I was broken it took me almost 3yrs to heal after he up and left me. I love Woods channel
I was married to my ex husband for YEARS!!! Let me tell you leaving was the best thing ever!!! You have to be ready 100 percent! No one can tell you when it’s time!! I’m married again and let me say this, when it’s with the right person you don’t have to say or do much because it’s reciprocated by each other. So if the cons are more than the pros that’s your answer right there! Of course it’s not perfect but being loved properly is amazing!!!
This is amazing insight. Thank you for sharing.
I am thankful you, Peach, are going through the healing process, and I am deeply grateful you are healing properly and as you should. ❤
Girl!!!!! You are stepping into your Devine femininity. You will thrive beautifully in this chapter. You know exactly what you need and want to be the greatest YOU! Stand 10 toes he will follow or be gone.
Your king wether in him or someone else, is ...coming! ❤ i wish you nothing but strength. You have a long life to live make it how you want.
I completely understand now,
Especially with the love language topic , peaches girl you almost made me cry too
I've been watching your videos for a couple of months now but I must say you are a strong woman and you deserve whatever makes you happy
WOOD WOOD WOOD, DAMN IT, SURPRISE HER WITH A PICNIC.
PEACH YOU REALLY DO LOVE HIM.
😂😂😂😂😂
Peaches you deserve soooooooo much more, self love, self mastery and truly knowing your worth and then add tax. He doesn't take you seriously and he blocking your true happiness
As indigenous woman we need to up lift each other, and give words of wisdom we all go through things and no one is left out. I understand Mrs. Peach I would love to talk to you.
You are beautiful inside and out continue to be the mother and woman you are. Leave him at his MOTHER’s you cant keep something that don’t wanna be kept. Praying for peach!❤
Love your self peach 🍑 he's very nonchalant!! He can only do what you allow!!! Pray for him and keep it moving. 🙏🏾😇
I feel what you’re saying about having to take on so much as a mom and being there for literally everyone. Including your spouse. Prayers mama 🙏🏾 cause you are not alone. I commend you for handling yours as a mother of seven. Hell I have two so trust me you’re a super woman. 🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾💕💕
Praying for your healing period!! Whatever the decision, God’s armor is your protection!! Be blessed Peach!!❤
A friend told me, "A man worth your tears, will never make you cry." Heal your energy to attract someone who matches your frequency for genuine joy. Stay blessed.
Right, and make that $ yall have a family to take care of!!! I love how real you keep it, cause it's really like that at times. Love yall Peach and Wood!! ❤
Peaches flowers come from the heart. I am a widow of 1and1/2 year. My husband brought me flowers on my birthday and our anniversary. My be that would work for him. He passed from a heart attack. I pray that your doing the right thing with no regrets later. Stay strong.❤
I’m so happy to see you all laughing with each other again. Surprise Peach with some beautiful flowers from time to time❤️
Leave him permanently. Worry about you and your children. Let life hit him without you. Worry about you. Your amazing.
@@dianar6235 .Right and that's why he's the way he is.
Peach when we cry the Holy Spirit collect our tears in a bottle. And I too love to cry because it makes me feel cared for by the Lord.
I feel you ms.peaches you go hard for people and they will do bare minimum for us here's a hug sis and that's what we ask for little shit I feel your pain God got you and it's o.k to cry
You’re a sweetheart Peach! This video showed such a tender side of you 🥰
My husband send flowers to my job!!! I love it.
I know the feeling Peaches,you are in love with a man you been knowing for literally a lifetime he's your husband,babies daddy,partner lover,your everything I can tell,keep the faith in God and he will see yall through.Yall really are a beautiful family and couple.I do see yall back together forever,he just got to work on being there for his beautiful queen and family the right way like a real loving man would God bless yall.❤❤💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💐💐💐🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹🌼🌼🌼You do deserves your flowers all the time,you gave that man 7 beautiful kids
You do you peach by yourself ,you be much better,you cant change him to want you want.your a queen, men should treat you with respect x good luck .from London ❤❤x
Your so worth it!! Keep growing!! When you change , everything around you will change with you🥰
I feel this to my soul!! I would love to be a soft woman but I don’t have that luxury.