The reason why I love seeing conversations like these is that people can see our favorite actors and actresses in their real spaces. This allows people to be able to differentiate between the character and the person. Good talk!
Uhmmm... ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I would like to piggy back on that as well I loved the transparency as well as being comfortable and free to tell their truth awesome platform thank you Crystal you are truly breaking barriers love your podcast keep it coming.😊❤
My grandmother told me that when you have sex you share your soul. Soul ties are real. I have been shamed for having a low-body count. It took me a while to appreciate that I don't have to do all the things to be my authentic self. I commend you for sharing so much
@@TanyaEHoodJust speaking facts, I can guarantee you ain't no dude out here shaming women for having a low body count, it has to be loose women saying these things to you. No Christian woman would say this to you, just keeping it a buck. Don't listen to these women or even me, follow what God says.
Sometimes we give too much at the girlfriend stage. We have to learn when to hold back on the wifey treatment at the girlfriend stage because sometimes these men don’t deserve all of that.
Dummies... ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Uhmmm... ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
@@kesemawalker2019 Amen!!! let’s goooo! 🙏🏾 let’s change the narrative… 🙌🙏🏾 It’s worth the wait!! for the right man who takes on the challenge… (women need to challenge men and make them step up their game…) The man… rather the king ( and we not talking materialistic wise, we talking characteristics, moral, integrity) who takes our hands in marriage and promises to keep us safe from harm… the King that understands and values the essence of a woman’s existence and treasure that which she holds sacred …. allowing her through his love to further blossom into the flower she was born to be… For which to break generational curses and establish the foundation of truth in a society that praises and applauds fornication and adultery rather than the beauty and sacredness of love between a man and a woman - it’s worth the wait not for them but for you…
@@orteganism that’s totally awesome and good to know. I know everybody’s story and journey is different but if we still wanna be old school, that should be okay to. So good to know there are still men out here representing and respecting this. 🙏🏾🙌
Another great topic for the sistas, I am married myself but I have been preaching this to my good friends for years. The women that I have in my life that express they want to find that good man and want to find solid relationships, you have to be in touch with your source, and know your worth stop giving Everyman a piece of you, Everyman doesn’t deserve you, and then it 10x harder to detach if it doesn’t work out. That’s when those feeling of low esteem kick in and the devil just loves when we hate ourselves, he will send another an another disappointment our way to distract from what God truly has aligned for us.
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I’m almost 30 and I still feel too young for this conversation going on here😂 This is quite educative yet hilarious. Bring back Jazzy sometime soon. And Crystal, you’re foiiiiiiine!
I feel the same way. Im just turned 29 this month.I’m might not be so experienced but this so educated & hilarious 😂 as well. Feels like they can be our girlfriends.
@@itbrittbritt don't run up your body count like these old birds. Trust me when I say men can never be shamed into marrying woman with high body count. We see a woman with a high body count the same way you see a guy who constantly got his azz kicked in fights time and time again in his past - he just got beat and abused by the other guys and never won - now he says he's going to protect you😅. you stop being attracted to him even though he may treat you well. Worse is when everyone knows you are married to the guy that constantly got his azz kicked in his past - just a loser. Same way men see guys who are married to women we know who has a high body count- he's married to a loser - "she got her azz kicked by many men" - also throat cancer (from giving plenty of head) and HPV is at an all time high among these blk female number runners-don't do it!
As black women we should be able to open our hearts and minds to have conversations like this because can teach and learn from one another without any judgements. We are not better than the other. We all go through different experiences in life. As a black woman, I enjoy listening to these videos. Thank You for keeping it positive. Looking forward to more episodes.
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
As a guy who is saving himself for marriage, I appreciate this conversation because it gives me a bit more perspective from the female side of things. I had a situation not too long ago when a girl didn't want to be in a relationship with me because my body count is 0 AND the fact that I'm waiting until after I get married to get jiggy with it. She said that sex is a big factor for her in a relationship/marriage. If her partner isn't good at it then that's a no no. Even worse would be to wait until AFTER marriage to discover her husband is a dud in the bed. Geez, people lied when they told me that the worst thing that a girl can say is "No" 😒
Don't be discouraged, brother. Keep waiting. There are Christian women who are abstaining and will work with you til it's right once you're married. The problem is too many of us are claiming to be Christians and freely engaging in pre-marital sex. They are developing appetites and preferences that they should not have walking into marriage. Period.
@@beautybeads7285 yeah it's not like I judged her at all because of her sexual past either. It's funny how looking back you realize how certain standards change as you get older. Personally, my 'virgin' decision was made when I came to Christ at 8. As I got older, I wanted to make my decision to NOT have sex prior to marriage a personal one rather than a 'because I'm Christian' one. I mean we all get older and start asking questions about things. The bible speaks against people getting piercings and tattoos. How come this deacon, pastor, usher, gospel singer, etc. in the church has a tattoo, piercing, spoke about their 'wild times' in their youth and still claim to love God? Made me realize that just because we do unbiblical things, that doesn't mean God loves us less. It's a matter of realizing we did those things but want to DO BETTER to get closer to Him. I wanted to eventually get married to a virgin, but as I got older; I realized that situation looks less and less likely as time goes on. I'm about to turn 32 in a couple of months and I realize that my standard needed a bit tweaked just a bit. Would I still like to marriage a virgin? Yes. Does my future wife HAVE to be a virgin? No!
You’re doing the right thing. Not everyone is on your spiritual path. It doesn’t make your path less important. Let no one change you, but be patient because you deserve someone who cherishes it the way you do and knows the importance of waiting like you.
Notice how they contradicted themselves!!! So, its ok to sleep around, but it will cause you emotional pain & confusion!!! Ladies, be very wise & discerning who you admire & take advice from!!!
My body count is actually 5.. that shouldn’t take away from a woman’s (speaking for myself experience). I realized I LOVE women .. as much as I do men. I can please a man as much as I can please a woman. I understand that this is your experience and opinion. I’m just speaking up for myself and also trying to relate to the audience (as I’m sure you are). “Spin around the block” I don’t mind anyone who doesn’t have “experience”. That means nada to me. I am not vulnerable to just anyone. I know some people that hold sex in that same regard. I am 27 and I still don’t share my body with anyone (hence my body count being 5).
I love the sexual health discussion. Get a Pap sis it’s important. Recently found out I had fibroids and I was stressed out but through research and questioning my doctor I found out its not detrimental. So I’m changing my diet to shrink them naturally and keeping my body active. #kips
I heard the podcast first then came and watched it .Jazzy was so hilarious, real and personal you can’t help but love her . I appreciate you two for being upfront and honest with this conversation.
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Body count does matter .. no matter if you had a connection or not. We have to learn and be held strong on giving our body to the right person .. or hold off early until you find that person
i relate sooo much to Crystal when she spoke on her "hoe phase" in college .. I was hurt so i wanted to do the same as the guy did to me,.. also relate to Jas when she said she dated older men when she was younger. this was very relatable for sure . Now that im older I value myself a whole lot better in a different way. Also I put God first so i don't move the way i used to.
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I waited until marriage before losing my virginity. Though divorced now, I have no regrets about waiting. Intimacy in a relationship is a beautiful thing, a soul connection worth its weight in gold.
This is probably the only conversation that I've heard on this subject where I feel it's shared with candour. I wish the 20yr old me would've heard this and maybe JUST MAYBE so many mistakes would've been avoided. However, I've learnt so much already listening to both of you. I'm enlightened and I'll definitely pass the torch. THANK YOU.
This is SO HELPFUL for young ladies!!! I LOVE THIS CONVERSATION, you two beautiful Queens being CANDID & EXPOSING THINGS!!! SHINING LIGHT & SHARING INSIGHT!!! ✨This is INCREDIBLE!!!
SADLY as women this is why we will never understand men. Instead of dismissing men and what they deem important how about ask men WHY it matters to them. As women we value certain things too
Dude. Did you even listen? She has been with so many men the number will demoralize her partners. Easily 100+ bodies. She has been obsessing about secks since she was 10. She is worn-out and ran through like no one else. You really want her overweight body with a worn-out whistle sack in a catcher's mitt? :D
Uhmmm... ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Such a real conversation! I was deep in while driving and SIRI got on my nerves everytime she gave me directions😭 I love how transparent you are Jasmin, the educational gems, and the cozy environment ☀️ good job ladies 🫶🏾
This was one honest, revealing conversation that is needed especially for our young generation to learn from the big sisters.This was a good dose of healthy.Much love from Kenya!! Thanks
Uhmmm... was it 🤷🏽♂️ Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Crystal thank you so much for making this podcast. From your life story to this episode you have me in tears. I’m finally to a point where I’m accepting my self for who I am. I’m finally seeing all the goodness in me that everyone else sees. I relate to you so much. From our childhood discipline to suicidal thoughts at a young age and looking like you have it all, to the hoe phase, to wanting to be on tv your whole life. We both sing and have a deep range. Despite all you’ve been through you remain positive which is how I live my life. So grateful everyday because I made it. And I am so grateful that you made it too 💚
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
This girl chat was so needed! Growing up, I didn’t have the sex conversation with the women in my life and i didn’t have anybody show me those sacred things about my body. I learned about sex and the female body through my own personal experiences. It wasn’t until i got in college and had a hoe phase where I really learned. Thank you for opening our minds to this conversation. It’s so needed especially in this age of social media and young women trying to figure out their sexuality.
Baby when I say yalll dropping gems 💎 I needed to hear this no lie. I love your podcast so much Crystal, So real, so raw, living y’all’s truth. So informative. It’s really amazing to see and watch. Like frfr thank you Crystal 🫰🏽thank you sharing and teaching. Jazzy is amazing and so radiant ❤. Y’all need to do more project together 🎉
Love seeing the off screen chemistry and it's amazing hearing both of your experiences and advice, I'm sure it was a much needed Big Sister advice moment for so many females, myself included 💜
Much respect to you. I don’t think they realize how much body count is like education, our permanent path in life we can never move away from nor escape it.
So appreciated the topics of conversation, this is the sisterhood I've missed. I feel @ this stage in my life I'm seeking the men who feel comfortable with communicating on a deep level yet also casual conversations now and then is pleasant.
I think it depends on the person, belief, faith, culture, upbringing etc when it comes to body count. I am almost 40 and can only count 1 and a half because the other one I didn’t let to go that length if you get what I mean 😅 I felt guilty even though I was already separated from my ex husband at this time. I just feel like God’s temple which is my body should be treated with more respect, but this is me. People have their own opinions 🤎
Coming from a black 45 year old male this by far is the best episode I’ve ever seen!!! I’ve learned so much from hearing y’all truth. Thank you so much for putting out such great content.
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
The fact that Jazzy personality on the show is so genuine makes it so much more authentic and Crystal love and affection for Devale is always showing as her natural way based on the energies in these conversations.
I totally agree to bring Jazzy back. She got that cheerful and cool vibe. Shoo bring the whole cast of sistahs and Zatima one by one. Then after you do that, bring them all back and have a reunion. Crystal you motivate me so much.
Love this conversation. Continued transparency and showing the world that even our favorite actresses/actors go through the same thing we do. A constant reminder that we are all human and there's nothing new under the sun. May God continue to bless the both of you
I love, love, love this!!!! Often times us as women don't have a safe space to share all our fears, insecurities, questions etc and this show has really hit home on multiple topics. So kudos to you two beautiful ladies for being so raw and authentic because a lot of us can relate❤
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
This episode was EVERYTHING!! I promise you I wanted to come through and bring some popcorn and wine and join Crystal and Jasmin in this conversation. Sooo good!!!
I loved this conversation!!! Jasmine & Crystal Kudos to y’all 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!! Glad to see RAW, Vulnerable dialogue between y’all two. SEX is so taboo especially in our community. It’s like everyone is doing it but it’s shamed or frowned upon in some instances . We’re all Sexual, Sensual & Soulful. As a Sexual Abuse Survivor I can totally relate to Jasmine for years I was HyperSexual an used Sex to gain my power back !! So glad God & Therapy saved my life !
This is why I don't want a man's love, I want his respect. I just feel like a man's version of "love" is whack. If he can "love" me and sleep with other women this means that he has a warped diminished version of "love" that I won't tolerate. With them its all about respect.
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Jazzy is so beautiful and I love the fact that she was so open about her “Hoe Phase” such a relatable topic lol. And the whole journey period, I feel a lot of women can relate to this especially being based off of how a person was raised or what they wanted for themselves. I definitely Remember wanting to know so much about sex at about 16y/o. Lol Love you both.
Uhmmm... ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Ive only had ONE really open conversation amongst females in 30++ years, and that was 15 years ago 😅.. thank you both for letting me into the girl chat 🤗😁
Its ridiculously insane to equate how many men you sleep with to how experienced you are and to say you dont want a man with a low body count. Thats so careless
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I wasnt sexually active until I was 19 years old. My parents allowed me to date at 16, but I never allowed anything to happen. Just wasnt on my mind lol. Love this chat for sure!!
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I appreciate this conversation. It's funny how so many women who are ashamed of their body count still want men who are sexually experienced. Body count does matter. If you are emotionally present with the people who you have sex with, then you are sharing the most intimate parts of yourself with them, which ultimately create soul ties. But mature men don't truly care "how many" men a woman has slept with, it's more about "who" they slept with. Men understand attractive women get attention. If I am attracted to a woman, I know a lot of other men are too. Jasmin and Crystal represent the type of women who I've always been attracted to but who were generally always out of my reach because they generally dated multiple men and would be in and out of relationships all the time... so they were never truly single.
That relationship with daddy and girls are really needed. Being a daddy's girl and how open he was with me was both good and bad because my tolerance for guys with BS was extremely low. I would leave a relationship quickly, and sometimes some things could have been worked on. But I still don't feel bad about compromising too much of myself.
I most definitely can relate this episode. Having father issues and being sexually abused. It still hinders me as I getting older. I’m trying to get over it; but it seems hard
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Crystal, honestly I'm beginning to see your kind of person you are and you are really amazing... Would love a podcast that talks about healing from breakups
I really had to take my time with this episode because my goodness it was so good! This was a great candid conversation. And Jazzy is so hilarious without even trying 😅
Love it!! Keep it real sweetie!!!! My cheeks are hurting from laughing 🤣🤣 One thing that stuck me with me is "You had me and didn't appreciate me!" That right there should always play in your mind so you do not double back!!
Ladies, thank you for being so open and vulnerable. I looking for a foundation in places that was wrong because I did not know where to start and what to do. So sleeping with different men is what I thought was right. Now at 40 I know how respect myself and the process.
So far this is the issue I have with this body count conversation with women. At a certain age I will say men do need to be a bit more realistic with the amount of partners a woman has been with. But at the same time, majority of women including these two grown women constantly show that they don’t care about how men feel about certain situations because it doesn’t benefit them. Some of the reasons we ask because we want to know what her mental state was like. Was she the type of girl who just gave it out, was she the type of woman who was just carefree and reckless. We want to know because we as men understand that with more the more sex you have with a different men it doesn’t take a toll on a woman. Because men will use and discard you and know you hate men and all men ain’t shit. Not to mention we think about will she teach our daughter that sleeping around is good thing to do. Whats the old saying “a fathers job is to make sure our daughter doesn’t end up on the poll”. Men don’t want a promiscuous partner. The difference is we don’t care if your good in bed or not we like to be the one to teach. But as the ladies pointed out they don’t want to teach a man. Do you see the difference? We have to have a lot of sex but that does not mean a lot of partners. Also women tend to like men who other women have find attractive and has been with a lot of women because it is a testimony to him understanding women. Thats why the popular boys had women going crazy while the popular girls didn’t have the boys sweating her the same. Women need to come to terms that you are inherently selfish and only like the double standard when it benefits yourself. Are the one’s who need to grow up. Also a woman can say a man MUST make X amount of money (even if they don’t have it), has to be X height (if he’s not she will ignore everything else that makes him a great partner), not to mention he HAS to have a big xyz. All men say is don’t be a hoe. You see how the difference?
I’ve learned so much just from this Episode, so insightful for me being just 20. It’s always a pleasure seeing women with wisdom share pieces of their journeys 💗!
Crystal you're gem and God bless your heart. Just recognize myself in you when you said "not to allow someone who do not appreciate it ruin your heart". Thank you.
Loooooove this!!!!❤ I really appreciate this grown and realistic content. I’m sure so many women can relate to so much in this discussion. Thank you so much for this ladies.
Let me just say I'm halfway through this episode, and I wanna be on the sofa discussing this topic with you'll too because I am learning, sis, I'm learning.😮
I love this….. This really touched a lot of females to know that some of the things that we have been and went through that we can now see and know that we were not alone and that it’s okay to talk about it and to not feel embarrassed or shamed….. Females are very sensitive and we fear to open up about a lot of topics because people can be so judgmental and mean….. To see you being so transparent, understanding and honest means so much to us Females….. Sexual Health is very important…These episodes are getting better and better every week Ms. Crystal ❤
The comment about not taking advice from a woman that has only been with 11 men sexually threw me off. If we are talking about wanting committed marriages at this point, why shame women who haven’t been with a lot of men??? Everybody is different. I think 11 is a lot but others may think it’s not. Just let ppl be!
I’ve always love Jazzy..she keeps it very real !! & Crystal I love your character on ‘Sistas’ !! I’m going through a drought as well, but it’s peaceful not entertaining anyone’s raggedy son. & living in ATL..if you know..then you know !! Thank you both for such an authentic & transparent conversation. 🤎
This is the problem with modern women, women telling men that the things that matter to man don't matter, but the things that matter to women, women don't wanna compromise on. This is why you are not married at 40
I just subscribed and started watching your videos. This is the second video and this is awesome! You are THE FRIEND, THE HOMIE. May God continue to bless this friendship you have with Jasmine...this type of friendship on this LEVEL is HARD to come by!! I've been blessed back to MY PERSON/MY BF/MY SOUL MATE after 10+ yrs and your first two videos I've watched are not by chance! I pray every women in these comments that haven't met their person, are blessed to be found by their person!
Crystal, I love your craft and the “Keep it Positive, Sweetie” episodes. I am so enjoying your latest real girl talk with Jasmine Brown. Having been married for 19 years (yrs.) before my knight and shining armor went to be with the Lord almost four yrs. ago, watching this segment was cathartic for me. I haven’t had a man touch me since my Boaz left. I’ve experienced and graduated from an HBCU, Jesuit College and a major university therefore relatability of your conversation connects fully. I am close friends with one of the characters on “House of Payne.” My journey matches you and Jasmin’s. I had college flashbacks. Thanks for being real and beautiful. Watching you two has been very therapeutic. I so needed this. Thank You! Blessings🙏🏽
It’s the honesty for me that I am receiving from this so far! You ladies are beautiful, and I appreciate you sharing your stories with us. I can totally understand the hoe phase. I went through it in college as well. And now that I am divorced I may have touched on it a little lol because I was feeling like I needed to find myself again. But now I am back on the intentional phase on what I want in life. Thank you again.
Can’t lie as a man watching this podcast dope info and perspective. Loved that you highlighted health - get tested, re learning education and importance of each partner’s experiences being catered to you/them. Communication fam🥂🙏🏽
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I'm a virgin at 32. Proud and grateful to God
My best friend was too I was so proud and honored to her friend she knew what she deserved and waited
You should be love. That's amazing. Proud of you
Proud of you too sis. ❤❤❤
You go girl!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Proud of you too!
The reason why I love seeing conversations like these is that people can see our favorite actors and actresses in their real spaces. This allows people to be able to differentiate between the character and the person. Good talk!
Uhmmm...
ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Yep I agree, I love the comfortable setting, feet on couch girl talk vibe.
I would like to piggy back on that as well I loved the transparency as well as being comfortable and free to tell their truth awesome platform thank you Crystal you are truly breaking barriers love your podcast keep it coming.😊❤
My grandmother told me that when you have sex you share your soul. Soul ties are real. I have been shamed for having a low-body count. It took me a while to appreciate that I don't have to do all the things to be my authentic self. I commend you for sharing so much
Wow, that's different, never heard of a woman being shamed for having a low body count, that's abnormal.
Yep, it happens. I have been asked what's wrong with me🙄
@@TanyaEHoodMy guess would be it's mainly single unmarried baby mama's saying this to you. Because no god fearing married woman would say this to you.
@adim00lah thanks so much for the encouragement 😊
@@TanyaEHoodJust speaking facts, I can guarantee you ain't no dude out here shaming women for having a low body count, it has to be loose women saying these things to you. No Christian woman would say this to you, just keeping it a buck.
Don't listen to these women or even me, follow what God says.
Sometimes we give too much at the girlfriend stage. We have to learn when to hold back on the wifey treatment at the girlfriend stage because sometimes these men don’t deserve all of that.
Faaaccttssssss❤❤❤
when u both are in love everybody gives it all. Its only feels bad when its doesn`t work out for some reasons.
I agree its always nice to leave a little mystery
I agree! I don’t play house and you will not get this cow for free LOL.
@@kham__mokha7045love
I love this conversation. This is something that people are always mute about especially with fear of being judged.
That part 👏🏽
Women I know have always had these conversations, just not in/on a public platform.
Men have not been mute about it at all.
Dummies...
ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Uhmmm...
ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I think sex is sacred. Energy exchange and deep emotions. I can't just body everyone. Soul ties are real. #pisces
i totally agree with you sis
😂
Soul Ties is crazy!!! 💯
Still a virgin and proud of it 😌 so not everyone has a body count
Me too love😊
@@kesemawalker2019 Amen!!! let’s goooo! 🙏🏾 let’s change the narrative… 🙌🙏🏾 It’s worth the wait!! for the right man who takes on the challenge… (women need to challenge men and make them step up their game…)
The man… rather the king ( and we not talking materialistic wise, we talking characteristics, moral, integrity) who takes our hands in marriage and promises to keep us safe from harm… the King that understands and values the essence of a woman’s existence and treasure that which she holds sacred …. allowing her through his love to further blossom into the flower she was born to be… For which to break generational curses and establish the foundation of truth in a society that praises and applauds fornication and adultery rather than the beauty and sacredness of love between a man and a woman - it’s worth the wait not for them but for you…
This is so refreshing because there are men that still respect that.
@@orteganism that’s totally awesome and good to know. I know everybody’s story and journey is different but if we still wanna be old school, that should be okay to. So good to know there are still men out here representing and respecting this. 🙏🏾🙌
Finally some decent women
Another great topic for the sistas, I am married myself but I have been preaching this to my good friends for years. The women that I have in my life that express they want to find that good man and want to find solid relationships, you have to be in touch with your source, and know your worth stop giving Everyman a piece of you, Everyman doesn’t deserve you, and then it 10x harder to detach if it doesn’t work out. That’s when those feeling of low esteem kick in and the devil just loves when we hate ourselves, he will send another an another disappointment our way to distract from what God truly has aligned for us.
I wish I read this at the age of 20. Even teenage years. I also wish I saw this at a younger age .
*video
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I’m almost 30 and I still feel too young for this conversation going on here😂
This is quite educative yet hilarious.
Bring back Jazzy sometime soon.
And Crystal, you’re foiiiiiiine!
I feel the same way. Im just turned 29 this month.I’m might not be so experienced but this so educated & hilarious 😂 as well. Feels like they can be our girlfriends.
I’m 33 and I feel to young for this conversation too. You are not alone 😩
I’m 24 but seeing Crystal on YT and hearing this conversation amongst 2 successful black women in the industry, I could not subscribe quick enough!
She is definitely fine! ❤❤❤
@@itbrittbritt don't run up your body count like these old birds. Trust me when I say men can never be shamed into marrying woman with high body count. We see a woman with a high body count the same way you see a guy who constantly got his azz kicked in fights time and time again in his past - he just got beat and abused by the other guys and never won - now he says he's going to protect you😅. you stop being attracted to him even though he may treat you well. Worse is when everyone knows you are married to the guy that constantly got his azz kicked in his past - just a loser. Same way men see guys who are married to women we know who has a high body count- he's married to a loser - "she got her azz kicked by many men" - also throat cancer (from giving plenty of head) and HPV is at an all time high among these blk female number runners-don't do it!
As black women we should be able to open our hearts and minds to have conversations like this because can teach and learn from one another without any judgements. We are not better than the other. We all go through different experiences in life. As a black woman, I enjoy listening to these videos. Thank You for keeping it positive. Looking forward to more episodes.
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
As a guy who is saving himself for marriage, I appreciate this conversation because it gives me a bit more perspective from the female side of things. I had a situation not too long ago when a girl didn't want to be in a relationship with me because my body count is 0 AND the fact that I'm waiting until after I get married to get jiggy with it.
She said that sex is a big factor for her in a relationship/marriage. If her partner isn't good at it then that's a no no. Even worse would be to wait until AFTER marriage to discover her husband is a dud in the bed.
Geez, people lied when they told me that the worst thing that a girl can say is "No" 😒
Don't be discouraged, brother. Keep waiting. There are Christian women who are abstaining and will work with you til it's right once you're married. The problem is too many of us are claiming to be Christians and freely engaging in pre-marital sex. They are developing appetites and preferences that they should not have walking into marriage. Period.
Ladies, this was awesome! Thank you for sharing your truth.
@@beautybeads7285 yeah it's not like I judged her at all because of her sexual past either. It's funny how looking back you realize how certain standards change as you get older. Personally, my 'virgin' decision was made when I came to Christ at 8. As I got older, I wanted to make my decision to NOT have sex prior to marriage a personal one rather than a 'because I'm Christian' one. I mean we all get older and start asking questions about things.
The bible speaks against people getting piercings and tattoos. How come this deacon, pastor, usher, gospel singer, etc. in the church has a tattoo, piercing, spoke about their 'wild times' in their youth and still claim to love God? Made me realize that just because we do unbiblical things, that doesn't mean God loves us less. It's a matter of realizing we did those things but want to DO BETTER to get closer to Him.
I wanted to eventually get married to a virgin, but as I got older; I realized that situation looks less and less likely as time goes on. I'm about to turn 32 in a couple of months and I realize that my standard needed a bit tweaked just a bit. Would I still like to marriage a virgin? Yes. Does my future wife HAVE to be a virgin? No!
You’re doing the right thing. Not everyone is on your spiritual path. It doesn’t make your path less important. Let no one change you, but be patient because you deserve someone who cherishes it the way you do and knows the importance of waiting like you.
@@OurKindofEntertainmentkeep waiting for the right woman. I’m 26 and still a virgin. We are out here.
Notice how they contradicted themselves!!! So, its ok to sleep around, but it will cause you emotional pain & confusion!!! Ladies, be very wise & discerning who you admire & take advice from!!!
interesting observation.
They’re not promoting it they are just unapologetically owning the phase they went through.
Jazzy is a broken woman who thinks abuse is acceptable and preferred, she is not someone to listen to whatsoever
This was so good!!! We need more women to have discussions like this.
The women I know have always had these conversations. We just don't in a public setting.
@@fah232 Same with my friends and I. I think younger girls could learn a lot from these topics.
@@ravensnaetion Absolutely
I was confused at how they said bodycount doesn't matter, and then brought up a bunch of reasons as to why bodycount does matter...
It was a train wreck.
From enemies on Zatima/Sistas to couch buddies chatting about life on KIPS! I'm here for this! 'Deja Daddy Jeremy' has entered the chat!
My body count is actually 5.. that shouldn’t take away from a woman’s (speaking for myself experience). I realized I LOVE women .. as much as I do men. I can please a man as much as I can please a woman. I understand that this is your experience and opinion. I’m just speaking up for myself and also trying to relate to the audience (as I’m sure you are). “Spin around the block” I don’t mind anyone who doesn’t have “experience”. That means nada to me. I am not vulnerable to just anyone. I know some people that hold sex in that same regard. I am 27 and I still don’t share my body with anyone (hence my body count being 5).
I would love to see an episode on
How do men deal with a woman who had better (sex in bed) but in love with the man their with
The Ty Foundation 😮
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I love the sexual health discussion. Get a Pap sis it’s important.
Recently found out I had fibroids and I was stressed out but through research and questioning my doctor I found out its not detrimental. So I’m changing my diet to shrink them naturally and keeping my body active. #kips
What diet are u gonna be on sis? I am in the same situation, stressed😢
Please get surgery if you need to. Time is of the essence when it comes to fibroids.
What all did you do
@@kseke25 Got surgery but still bleeding a lot that causes a severe anemia🥲
Constant sex is good for your fibroids
I heard the podcast first then came and watched it .Jazzy was so hilarious, real and personal you can’t help but love her . I appreciate you two for being upfront and honest with this conversation.
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Body count does matter .. no matter if you had a connection or not. We have to learn and be held strong on giving our body to the right person .. or hold off early until you find that person
i relate sooo much to Crystal when she spoke on her "hoe phase" in college .. I was hurt so i wanted to do the same as the guy did to me,.. also relate to Jas when she said she dated older men when she was younger. this was very relatable for sure . Now that im older I value myself a whole lot better in a different way. Also I put God first so i don't move the way i used to.
Jazzy need to come back for another episode 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I waited until marriage before losing my virginity. Though divorced now, I have no regrets about waiting. Intimacy in a relationship is a beautiful thing, a soul connection worth its weight in gold.
Your right
I loved this! So many unspoken conversations especially STD testing requirements. Ladies, prevention is better than cure. Make it a prerequisite.
This is probably the only conversation that I've heard on this subject where I feel it's shared with candour. I wish the 20yr old me would've heard this and maybe JUST MAYBE so many mistakes would've been avoided. However, I've learnt so much already listening to both of you. I'm enlightened and I'll definitely pass the torch. THANK YOU.
This is SO HELPFUL for young ladies!!! I LOVE THIS CONVERSATION, you two beautiful Queens being CANDID & EXPOSING THINGS!!! SHINING LIGHT & SHARING INSIGHT!!! ✨This is INCREDIBLE!!!
SADLY as women this is why we will never understand men. Instead of dismissing men and what they deem important how about ask men WHY it matters to them. As women we value certain things too
New Year, New SHE! I love this episode so much!!! Two beautiful queens having an open conversation without judgment! I love it!
OMG I done fell in love with Jazzy. She is gorgeous & sooooo funny. Definitely need a part 2 🔥🔥🔥
Dude. Did you even listen? She has been with so many men the number will demoralize her partners. Easily 100+ bodies. She has been obsessing about secks since she was 10. She is worn-out and ran through like no one else. You really want her overweight body with a worn-out whistle sack in a catcher's mitt? :D
Uhmmm...
ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
"Not Lamb skin..I just had a lamb chop the other day" LMAO Jazzy is CRAZY! Love the transparency between you two!
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Such a real conversation! I was deep in while driving and SIRI got on my nerves everytime she gave me directions😭 I love how transparent you are Jasmin, the educational gems, and the cozy environment ☀️ good job ladies 🫶🏾
This was one honest, revealing conversation that is needed especially for our young generation to learn from the big sisters.This was a good dose of healthy.Much love from Kenya!! Thanks
Uhmmm... was it 🤷🏽♂️
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Two beautiful accomplished ladies having an honest conversation and being vulnerable. I love to see it ❤
Crystal thank you so much for making this podcast. From your life story to this episode you have me in tears. I’m finally to a point where I’m accepting my self for who I am. I’m finally seeing all the goodness in me that everyone else sees. I relate to you so much. From our childhood discipline to suicidal thoughts at a young age and looking like you have it all, to the hoe phase, to wanting to be on tv your whole life. We both sing and have a deep range. Despite all you’ve been through you remain positive which is how I live my life. So grateful everyday because I made it. And I am so grateful that you made it too 💚
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
This girl chat was so needed! Growing up, I didn’t have the sex conversation with the women in my life and i didn’t have anybody show me those sacred things about my body. I learned about sex and the female body through my own personal experiences. It wasn’t until i got in college and had a hoe phase where I really learned. Thank you for opening our minds to this conversation. It’s so needed especially in this age of social media and young women trying to figure out their sexuality.
Baby when I say yalll dropping gems 💎 I needed to hear this no lie. I love your podcast so much Crystal, So real, so raw, living y’all’s truth. So informative. It’s really amazing to see and watch. Like frfr thank you Crystal 🫰🏽thank you sharing and teaching. Jazzy is amazing and so radiant ❤. Y’all need to do more project together 🎉
Love seeing the off screen chemistry and it's amazing hearing both of your experiences and advice, I'm sure it was a much needed Big Sister advice moment for so many females, myself included 💜
I will have to disagree with you ladies, I am 56 years old and my body count is 5! :)
Much respect to you. I don’t think they realize how much body count is like education, our permanent path in life we can never move away from nor escape it.
The energy between the two of you is🔥🔥🔥🔥
So appreciated the topics of conversation, this is the sisterhood I've missed. I feel @ this stage in my life I'm seeking the men who feel comfortable with communicating on a deep level yet also casual conversations now and then is pleasant.
I think it depends on the person, belief, faith, culture, upbringing etc when it comes to body count. I am almost 40 and can only count 1 and a half because the other one I didn’t let to go that length if you get what I mean 😅 I felt guilty even though I was already separated from my ex husband at this time. I just feel like God’s temple which is my body should be treated with more respect, but this is me. People have their own opinions 🤎
I love Jasmin. Shes so beautiful and funny. I love her talent. I hope her show takes off. I feel like she deserves that happiness.
Y’all are a mess!!!! I’m over here hollering 😂 Love the friendship and the HONESTY
This conversation was so REAL ❤ two beautiful people….
Coming from a black 45 year old male this by far is the best episode I’ve ever seen!!! I’ve learned so much from hearing y’all truth. Thank you so much for putting out such great content.
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
The fact that Jazzy personality on the show is so genuine makes it so much more authentic and Crystal love and affection for Devale is always showing as her natural way based on the energies in these conversations.
I totally agree to bring Jazzy back. She got that cheerful and cool vibe. Shoo bring the whole cast of sistahs and Zatima one by one. Then after you do that, bring them all back and have a reunion. Crystal you motivate me so much.
Love this conversation. Continued transparency and showing the world that even our favorite actresses/actors go through the same thing we do. A constant reminder that we are all human and there's nothing new under the sun. May God continue to bless the both of you
I love, love, love this!!!! Often times us as women don't have a safe space to share all our fears, insecurities, questions etc and this show has really hit home on multiple topics. So kudos to you two beautiful ladies for being so raw and authentic because a lot of us can relate❤
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
This episode was EVERYTHING!! I promise you I wanted to come through and bring some popcorn and wine and join Crystal and Jasmin in this conversation. Sooo good!!!
This is good! Thank you ladies for being so open & transparent. I’m 36 & this is really helping me ❤️🙌🏾
Need more of jazzy segments: balancing life any situation with more of an experience & lessons among them
I loved this conversation!!! Jasmine & Crystal Kudos to y’all 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!! Glad to see RAW, Vulnerable dialogue between y’all two. SEX is so taboo especially in our community. It’s like everyone is doing it but it’s shamed or frowned upon in some instances . We’re all Sexual, Sensual & Soulful. As a Sexual Abuse Survivor I can totally relate to Jasmine for years I was HyperSexual an used Sex to gain my power back !! So glad God & Therapy saved my life !
This is why I don't want a man's love, I want his respect. I just feel like a man's version of "love" is whack. If he can "love" me and sleep with other women this means that he has a warped diminished version of "love" that I won't tolerate. With them its all about respect.
🗣🗣🗣💯❤️
The episode was everything. I truly love the real authentic conversation between you too.
I am so so happy you created this podcast/platform! This is the girl chat, big sister hug that is soooo needed! Thank you 🫶🏾🫶🏾
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Jazzy is so beautiful and I love the fact that she was so open about her “Hoe Phase” such a relatable topic lol. And the whole journey period, I feel a lot of women can relate to this especially being based off of how a person was raised or what they wanted for themselves. I definitely Remember wanting to know so much about sex at about 16y/o. Lol Love you both.
Uhmmm...
ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Ive only had ONE really open conversation amongst females in 30++ years, and that was 15 years ago 😅.. thank you both for letting me into the girl chat 🤗😁
This was SO Good! Real, Funny, and Educational! Love It!!!!
Its ridiculously insane to equate how many men you sleep with to how experienced you are and to say you dont want a man with a low body count. Thats so careless
Jazzy is veryy open and honest ❤ love her character as well. #KeepItPositiveSweetie Crystal you are bringing the heat with this podcast!
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
You and Jazzy??! HILARIOUS!! This about to be juicy…so ready for a good laugh
Crystal is literally my sister in my head. I love how she carries herself. 🥰
I wasnt sexually active until I was 19 years old. My parents allowed me to date at 16, but I never allowed anything to happen. Just wasnt on my mind lol. Love this chat for sure!!
Same for me.
Exact Same Sis!
Me to
THIS EPISODE was not to be missed !!! You both are stunning , hilarious and real ! Im watching this again with my glass of wine later 😂😂😂
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
So raw & uncut from the start. I loved this conversation....thank you😊
Thank You Crystal For Yet Another Great #KIPS Episode Jazzy Is Hilarious😂😂😂❤
I appreciate this conversation. It's funny how so many women who are ashamed of their body count still want men who are sexually experienced. Body count does matter. If you are emotionally present with the people who you have sex with, then you are sharing the most intimate parts of yourself with them, which ultimately create soul ties. But mature men don't truly care "how many" men a woman has slept with, it's more about "who" they slept with. Men understand attractive women get attention. If I am attracted to a woman, I know a lot of other men are too. Jasmin and Crystal represent the type of women who I've always been attracted to but who were generally always out of my reach because they generally dated multiple men and would be in and out of relationships all the time... so they were never truly single.
This was amazing!! So educational and needed. Thank you for being true and raw❤❤
That relationship with daddy and girls are really needed. Being a daddy's girl and how open he was with me was both good and bad because my tolerance for guys with BS was extremely low. I would leave a relationship quickly, and sometimes some things could have been worked on. But I still don't feel bad about compromising too much of myself.
I love Jazzys personality 😍😍😍 found your podcast today & im obsessed!
I most definitely can relate this episode. Having father issues and being sexually abused. It still hinders me as I getting older. I’m trying to get over it; but it seems hard
Have you tried talking to a therapist about your truama?
@@ayomide1743 no; but I am going to
@@honeyantionette456 Also trauma release from the body, it carries all those memories...Breathwork changed my life as a survivor.. x
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Crystal, honestly I'm beginning to see your kind of person you are and you are really amazing... Would love a podcast that talks about healing from breakups
Walking in your truth and being honest about your mistakes now turns your past mistakes to simply “past experiences”.
I really had to take my time with this episode because my goodness it was so good! This was a great candid conversation. And Jazzy is so hilarious without even trying 😅
I loved this! Jazzy is so honest. I wish we could hear more from her or maybe y'all can have a segment series ??
This episode had me in tears from start to finish . Thank you both for speaking on this topic and for keeping us laughing 😂😂.
Love it!! Keep it real sweetie!!!! My cheeks are hurting from laughing 🤣🤣 One thing that stuck me with me is "You had me and didn't appreciate me!" That right there should always play in your mind so you do not double back!!
Ladies, thank you for being so open and vulnerable. I looking for a foundation in places that was wrong because I did not know where to start and what to do. So sleeping with different men is what I thought was right. Now at 40 I know how respect myself and the process.
So far this is the issue I have with this body count conversation with women. At a certain age I will say men do need to be a bit more realistic with the amount of partners a woman has been with. But at the same time, majority of women including these two grown women constantly show that they don’t care about how men feel about certain situations because it doesn’t benefit them. Some of the reasons we ask because we want to know what her mental state was like. Was she the type of girl who just gave it out, was she the type of woman who was just carefree and reckless. We want to know because we as men understand that with more the more sex you have with a different men it doesn’t take a toll on a woman. Because men will use and discard you and know you hate men and all men ain’t shit. Not to mention we think about will she teach our daughter that sleeping around is good thing to do. Whats the old saying “a fathers job is to make sure our daughter doesn’t end up on the poll”. Men don’t want a promiscuous partner. The difference is we don’t care if your good in bed or not we like to be the one to teach. But as the ladies pointed out they don’t want to teach a man. Do you see the difference? We have to have a lot of sex but that does not mean a lot of partners. Also women tend to like men who other women have find attractive and has been with a lot of women because it is a testimony to him understanding women. Thats why the popular boys had women going crazy while the popular girls didn’t have the boys sweating her the same. Women need to come to terms that you are inherently selfish and only like the double standard when it benefits yourself. Are the one’s who need to grow up. Also a woman can say a man MUST make X amount of money (even if they don’t have it), has to be X height (if he’s not she will ignore everything else that makes him a great partner), not to mention he HAS to have a big xyz. All men say is don’t be a hoe. You see how the difference?
I’ve learned so much just from this Episode, so insightful for me being just 20. It’s always a pleasure seeing women with wisdom share pieces of their journeys 💗!
They more I get to know Crystal, the more I admire her
Body Count is a real @$$ topic of conversation. Women should feel more liberated to talk about it without shame. 💯
This episode made me see Jazzy in a different light… idk if that Shan interview showed her in the best light. This one was MUCH better.
Crystal you're gem and God bless your heart. Just recognize myself in you when you said "not to allow someone who do not appreciate it ruin your heart". Thank you.
This is one of the realest podcasts ever
Loooooove this!!!!❤ I really appreciate this grown and realistic content. I’m sure so many women can relate to so much in this discussion. Thank you so much for this ladies.
Let me just say I'm halfway through this episode, and I wanna be on the sofa discussing this topic with you'll too because I am learning, sis, I'm learning.😮
I love this….. This really touched a lot of females to know that some of the things that we have been and went through that we can now see and know that we were not alone and that it’s okay to talk about it and to not feel embarrassed or shamed….. Females are very sensitive and we fear to open up about a lot of topics because people can be so judgmental and mean….. To see you being so transparent, understanding and honest means so much to us Females….. Sexual Health is very important…These episodes are getting better and better every week Ms. Crystal ❤
The comment about not taking advice from a woman that has only been with 11 men sexually threw me off. If we are talking about wanting committed marriages at this point, why shame women who haven’t been with a lot of men??? Everybody is different. I think 11 is a lot but others may think it’s not. Just let ppl be!
That's actually a lot of dudes. The fact that they've been around more than that speaks volumes. Nobody should be taking advice from these women.
Jazzy is gorgeous. I’m so use to seeing her in character on Zatima. A much needed conversation.
This was a good one Crystal. Keep them coming. When she said, " i was just peeing and going" 😆 I almost passed out!
Yall beautiful ladies couldn't get anymore organic, than this, on all topics, everything hit! I love you both
This was my first time tuning in. I really enjoyed this episode. You ladies are so relatable and discussed topics that people are afraid to have.
I’ve always love Jazzy..she keeps it very real !! & Crystal I love your character on ‘Sistas’ !!
I’m going through a drought as well, but it’s peaceful not entertaining anyone’s raggedy son. & living in ATL..if you know..then you know !!
Thank you both for such an authentic & transparent conversation. 🤎
This is the problem with modern women, women telling men that the things that matter to man don't matter, but the things that matter to women, women don't wanna compromise on. This is why you are not married at 40
I just subscribed and started watching your videos. This is the second video and this is awesome! You are THE FRIEND, THE HOMIE. May God continue to bless this friendship you have with Jasmine...this type of friendship on this LEVEL is HARD to come by!!
I've been blessed back to MY PERSON/MY BF/MY SOUL MATE after 10+ yrs and your first two videos I've watched are not by chance!
I pray every women in these comments that haven't met their person, are blessed to be found by their person!
Love this episode! Mental intimacy is amazing and can be just as good as sex. Felt like I was on the couch with y’all.
Crystal, I love your craft and the “Keep it Positive, Sweetie” episodes. I am so enjoying your latest real girl talk with Jasmine Brown. Having been married for 19 years (yrs.) before my knight and shining armor went to be with the Lord almost four yrs. ago, watching this segment was cathartic for me. I haven’t had a man touch me since my Boaz left. I’ve experienced and graduated from an HBCU, Jesuit College and a major university therefore relatability of your conversation connects fully. I am close friends with one of the characters on “House of Payne.” My journey matches you and Jasmin’s. I had college flashbacks. Thanks for being real and beautiful. Watching you two has been very therapeutic. I so needed this. Thank You! Blessings🙏🏽
It’s the honesty for me that I am receiving from this so far! You ladies are beautiful, and I appreciate you sharing your stories with us. I can totally understand the hoe phase. I went through it in college as well. And now that I am divorced I may have touched on it a little lol because I was feeling like I needed to find myself again. But now I am back on the intentional phase on what I want in life. Thank you again.
Ewww🦨 this is why throat cancer is running rampant among blk women
Can’t lie as a man watching this podcast dope info and perspective. Loved that you highlighted health - get tested, re learning education and importance of each partner’s experiences being catered to you/them. Communication fam🥂🙏🏽
Honestly this Episode was just to make them feel better abt their 20+ bodies on Them....
Probably more like 40 -50 lol
Unfortunately 100+.... True Repentance is their only Hope
I loved this episode. Those two ladies were wonderfully authentic, and H.O.T, Humble, Open and Transparent. 🥰