Very true my ex broke me 3times but he alwasy come back when I ingore him love you this coach sir Alex and sir Adrian 👏👏👏 without your advice perhaps I’m drowning now.
Hey, in my situation guy broke up with me 3 or 4 times and I think, what it was the last time. I don't found much information about multiple breakups, but this video helps me a lot and let me keep faith. My boyfriend get back to me after 8 eight month. I work really hard to understand that was the root problem. It takes patience, hope, knowledge and work. I really thankful for your videos. Send you love and wish you the best.
There were multiple breaks ups but it’s been about 3 months since the final initial break up. Whenever a few weeks goes by he usually comes back willing to start a friendship but problems arise. He is known to be a liar and there has been a lot he has been lying to me about. Our relationship was full of trust issues on my end because of past trauma from other relationships yet he continues to lie to me to spare me of my feelings. And his words don’t match his actions or he starts false story telling and it causes fights. His family and friends only know his side of the story and have a huge impact on his decision even though I’ve been doing the work to become better, I am seeing a therapist and I’ve tried to tell him not to bring up anything from the past because it will result in problems. He won’t change because he doesn’t think he needs to. And I’m trying to change and hold on to something extremely toxic. I am not saying I changed 100% I still have toxic behaviors that has been hard to change. I am trying my best though. What do you think about this?
That happened to me guys I lost myself in the relationship we broke up multiple times in five years I wanted to marry her have children we’ve connected a month ago for about three weeks I took her on dates stayed in her home she said she love me she missed me and then everything fell off it’s been a month now and i’m reading my Bible now praising my Lord Jesus Christ living for God yet there’s still a part of me that misses her tremendously I still pray for her I still think of her just wanted to comment that, thank you guys for bringing a lot of stuff to light
Can you guys do a video on if you've pushed them away? I suffer from anxiety and depression and my ex left me at a super sensitive time in my life which ended up with a lot of begging , stress and pain on both ends. I actually pushed him into the arms of another woman, and they have been dating a couple weeks now. I've not successfully done NC, but I'm committed to it now. Other then working on myself, becoming stable and allowing time to go past, do you have any advice on interactions with him in the future? We spent two years together and broke up officially a little more than a month ago.
Trap Chan weird but this is exactly me right now!! I’ve started the NC late because we still had things connected.. like our phone bills and his mail coming to my house. But I haven’t contacted him in a month now. We broke up last year in November and he’s currently with another girl. The only thing I’ve been doing is looking up motivational videos to inspire me to do better and focus on myself :) what did help me move on is having no hope of us getting back together.
Love Advice TV Just to clarify, I mean when your actions push them away. Example for me is being super needy or too attached / passionate and turning them off, not necessarily telling them to go away. When you've already made the mistakes you warn against what to do afterwards. My ex has gone silent , so I'm doing no contact
i will never ever stop improving myself once im in a relationship i learned my lesson when i thought my gf would love me now for who i am regardless if im crossing a period with lower ambition and accomplishments, lesson learned
Hi coaches, can you make a video about how your ex’s friends have an impact on a break up? I feel like my ex wants to come back to me but his friends are having their say and persuading him to stay away 😰
Congratulations to both coaches for bringing up such important topics and explaining them with great clarity. You are doing a great job. All the best to you.
I hope And pray that my ex girlfriend comes back to me I miss her so much she was my first love im nothing without you my heart has died and won't come back until she comes back which again im praying everyday to God to bring her back.
Well, I know I'm in a Toxic relationship. I love this person but he's not good for me and my health. but even if I do no contact I see him at work, and it's so stressful, and when I'm ok he comes back, we're trapped in a vicious circle. Now I am determined not to get back, for my mental and phisical health.
Hey Nelly, I commend you for the self-realization and realizing that you have to break this loop. It's very difficult to do this when you work with the person, but it is possible. You might benefit from coaching, so don't hesitate to reach out to us at www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ if you feel you might benefit from it - Coach Steven
Wow. Very good content. Love too much, small things upset both people. Friends don’t understand. But when both are heavily invested, then it can be too much, and people need to get control of their emotions. Very good point of view I didn’t hear before
My gf is 9 years older than me. We have broken up once/year over the last 7 years. The longest we've been apart was 1 year. I lover her, but I feel like bc of the age difference we want different things. She has had kids, I haven't. I spent my 30's with her, and now I'm 40 and feel like I've never gone after the things that I want (ie having children or living in a different city). I'm open to any and all advice.
Thanks for this video. I have a topic in witch I broke up over and over through a 5 yr relationship. She always took me back or came back on her own. This last break up something changed in her. She says she forgives me and the emotional and mental stress I put her in. All the stressed I caused her actually changed her in ways where she is no longer her loving self but more angry or upset but for some reason she was always willing to come back. Now she says she needs space to heal and to find herself again. What are the chances of an ex coming back after I’ve tried to get her back and she’s just not emotionally there anymore. What can someone in my shoes do?
OMG!!! Me n him broke up so many times, rite now I'm in a healing process by myself I can't fight alone for the relationship. Their is so much love between us that it became dysfunctional it felt like I was not me any more. I surrender I'll rather be me then to be in that kind of relationship not knowing when the next break up will come.
Blondie M. I'm in the same spot at the moment my ex and I had a 10yr run she broke up with me 3 times in the last 2yrs and I was feeling the same thing lately when will the next breakup come its not a good feeling at all she say she don't Kno y she feels this way every 6months or so she happy for a few months then she's not for a few months smh its I'm healthy to go through that as I can see now they will b missed loved and much more but hey b strong and get better
Over a four year period my ex dumped me over ten times, the longest being four months. I have come to realise that you can’t live with the stress of knowing it will happen again but the uncertainty of when. We’d been back together two months, he was saving for our future, he was affectionate, on the Wednesday he was still saying he loves me, he couldn’t wait for our date night on Saturday. On Thursday he went out with the guys/gals from work. I rang him, like we always did (he said he wasn’t going out but I didn’t know he had), his phone was off, something he never did. I’d had a message early hours of Fri saying, ‘ can I not have a day off from you.’ It was upsetting because we never spoke in that way to each other. Friday evening it was all over.
I realized this not long ago but i wasnt sure n U jus made me realize more and identifying something in me i never thought about, knowing the root cause of my countless fights wit ma gurl becuz of extreme passion and losing control of my emotions !!! I thank you so much of this and things r getting better between us by tryin to control my emotions and not losin my identity.... thank you so much for this video
My ex and I broke up 6 times. In the past I was able to always tell she wanted to work things out but this time she’s the opposite. She’s been hot and cold lately. We have been broken up for 2 months now. We have dated off and on for 5+ years. Is there any chance or hope left?
Johnny Cage Yh man just do you! Ive been with the same girl for exactly five years got a son together last year and broke up with me in July...got back together after the 7th time. Hopefully all is well with your situation man.
Does no contact work multiple times? I never really did no contact previous times. This time I am giving her space and time and really focus on changing myself.
You have just described me fully. My passion in my relationship wad like a wildfire, and I got burned in the end. I was one of those jealous, possessive girlfriends, because I knew he had a lot of female friends, and online flirtations. I would check his phone, and when I'd see something I didn't like, I'd confront him. He would get angry, but then he'd say I was right, and we would both promise not to do what we had done again (him the flirting, me the checking). We ended up breaking up just under a year of being together. I actually practiced the no contact rule when I discovered it, and he started reaching out again. Eventually we started hanging out. It became sexual, but he wasn't wanting to make a commitment to quickly. After a few months, we were back together, and a few months later, living together again. Things have gone pretty well, I've been on two vacations with him, to his home country, spent time with his children and his family (he is a guest worker in my country). However, I suspected that he was talking to a particular woman again, and I started checking his phone again, more often. I had also become one of those needy girlfriends, always asking if he was still happy with me, if he really wanted to be with me. He had breached the subject of getting married shortly after we got back together, and said that he had a surprise for me on our first trip. No surprise,....he said he wanted to give me a ring, but didn't have enough money. To give him a couple of months. Then my birthday came and went, Christmas came and went....nothing happened. His sister even told me that he wanted to do it. I became very worried that his feelings were changing, and I got paranoid always asking if he still wanted to marry me, if he still loved me, etc. I don't know if the pressure pushed him to seek validation or comfort in conversation with this other woman again. But, that's what happened. When I saw the messages last weekend, I freaked out on him. I called him names, etc. He broke up with me. I should probably mention that I have an anxiety/panic disorder, so my mind races with negative, what if thoughts. I have also been in an abusive (physical and very emotional) marriage prior to my relationship with the man I am in love with. I know he has done something wrong, but I also am aware of how my behavior has probably made him lose attraction for me and question if we can be happy together. I want to work on myself, I have been meditating, and am about to embark on a healthier lifestyle. I need to get help for the PTSD and deal with my demons so that they don't continue to haunt me. I am not ready to give up on us, and I want to rekindle our relationship. We broke up a week ago, I was staying in the apartment, with minimal communication, up until Saturday. Now that I am fully moved out, I am practicing no contact again. He is looking after my cat until I am settled in my own place. I would greatly appreciate any advice you have for me. I will also be setting up a one-on-one session with couch Amy very soon.
So is this what my ex means when he says "nobody will ever have my heart like you do and i will give you another chance so we can be together but as far as now i need to find myself again?" this was our first breakup and we were together almost 2 years. also a mutual friend of us just told me he's been asking about me
He needs to find himself "again"? I feel like you're not allowed to use that reason twice. Just make sure that he isn't finding himself on YOUR time. That's the most important thing - Coach Steven
Hi Adrian and Alex! My question is (and I hope I could help many people with this question): My ex tells me that we're just not good for each other in the bigger picture. That the two of us were good together but everything around is was against it? She disliked my friends and I didn't really like her friends, she didn't get along with my parents etc. But nonetheless we had an amazing and passionate relationship for a very long time. How do you think it is possible to overcome that? Obviously I won't 'change her mind' but still
Honestly I think my ex just isn't man enough... He cried about wanting a real women, money n not having time for hobbies....but did have all 3 but wasn't willing to balance himself so he dropped me n hung with friends play games all day n had them buy him gifts all the time
Hey Adrian, My name is David and my girlfriend broke up with me for the 4th time, but this time it was because of emotional cheating. Can you make a video on how to regain trust and reassure your partner that you have changed after emotional cheating? I did the emotional cheating months before the breakup and she found out at the time, and I thought i resolved it with her but she still held it against me and said she could never trust me again.
David Smith sane thing with me she feels I won’t change and she can’t trust me but I do love her I have a hard to being expressing my feelings . But I need to be able to show her no one else gets the same attention she blocked me from everything after this recent breakup
My ex Spoke to many women saying the same phrases he said to me like good morning beautiful you’re amazing thinking of you. Then there was another one that he talk to you very flirtatiously I’d like to snuggle with you for days. We have a friendship and I love to never be forgotten. That was a lot to overcome but I believed that it was just a friendship that was very flirtatious from when they first met way before me. I was willing to move on. And rebuild trust. As soon as I started creating boundaries he started really letting go. It took him months to detach but he finally told me he doesn’t love me he wished and MoveOn wish I’d meet someone else. I believe he is now seeing one of the women that he was flirting with and it’s killing me.Trying to focus on myself growth and everyone says why do you want him back you’ll be miserable. I still want them back
Me and my exgf have broken up so many times in 6 years...bt now we haven't been together for almost a year we have a son together and we still don't talk to each other...I keep it simple in texts about our son only....well she come around again even known she has exbfs on social media...wat do I do
Could you make more videos on helping people rekindle with their ex after 3 breakups. My ex thinks we will never work as he keeps coming to the conclusion to break up with me. How do I get him back? Will no contact work in these situations?
What if the multiple break up happened because he is too fixated on being a top notcher in his college and wants to build himself a solid reputation for his future? Can I still salvage that? Or should I just let go and let him do whatever makes him proud of himself?
Me & my ex have broke up so many times. We got engaged, then he just let us go again! Idk why, he hates me & says I was a mistake. I know when my father passed I was really emotional etc. he felt like he “ was tapped out” and couldn’t be in the relationship anymore. I just don’t want to loose him but I don’t want to hold on if we will never reconcile. I don’t know what direction to go at this point.
Hi coach Adrian and Alex, I reaaaaaly need your guidance, please!! First of all: I recognize myself in your description, really everthing you're saying (bit scary) !! I was too passionate, too dependent just because I loved my ex-boyfriend so so much. And still. My ex-boyfriend and I lived together for about 6 months (we had a relationship of 8 years, from our 16 until 24). Our relationship ended, and we both moved back home. Then, a month later we went back together, but afterwards, in this breakup, my ex-boyfriend said it was out of pity, not love. We were together for 5 months, and then in October he ended the relationship again, for the same reason. I do have to admit: I really didn't change. Also because of the thought that It would be strange for ur to seperate, because we we're sooo good as a couple. But I know the reason. I wanted all of the attention of my boyfriend. Even when he went out with friends. And i really got upset when I talked to other girls. Now, we are 6 months seperated, and I do understand why he broke it off. But I also know that it is something we can work trough because there was no cheating, no abuse. Only my jealousy and the feeling I gave him (that he would never be a good boyfriend). So now, we're 6 months later and I was going better, until he made some contact. Saying I was his first love and that I still mean a lot to him, to end up with 'but our relationship was over'. I found it difficult that, since our breakup, we had contact after a month, than a month nothing, and then a month ago he's still asking how I'm doing. That he misses my mom and wants to speak to her. But after the sweet things he's still convinced it was the best decision. I'm not the same person. I still miss him sooo much! As I said: it went better. And I know hearing of him is a bad thing, but when I hear of him or see his name pupping on my phone, my heart skips a beat. He still wants to be able to talk to me, because he found this normal after 8 years. And he hopes some day I will be able to. Saying he still cares for me, wants to see and talk to me. I just don't know what it is. It's driving me crazy because what should I do?? I'm still holding on because of that.. After 6 months now I deciced to block him. On Facebook, on Instagram. And he 'understood' it. He found it a shame, but he understood the reason why. I'm just so confussed. I wasn't reaching out for about 2 months, and then, al of a sudden, he contacted me trough Instagram asking about a furniture. I was short and distant, and after a short sentence, he went straight back at: "how are you doing?" "Are you seeing someone else?" 'I hope your next boyfriend will give you everything you want and need, because you deserve it". etc etc. What should I do? And why does he wants to stay in touch? Well, that's not possible anymore tough, now I've blocked him. Thanks in advance! And sorry for the long story :-) Greetings from Belgium!
My ex and I were together 5yrs. Last 2 were horrible. I suspected he was cheating and simply asking him caused him to say he needed a break completely no COntact. He did that throughout the 2 yrs. I was so Depressed and miserable but only wanted him back but we wouldn’t last past 2 wks. We got back together recently and those strange behaviors returned faster this time. I did some investigation and turns out he did cheat back then and every break from me was spent with this person who was married. So after 2 weeks of back together and thinking it would work this time because those 2 wks were the best but after seeing his STILL close friendship with her and still lying about what happened. I know in my heart I will never forgive him so I broke up but he thinks this is just another break and she’ll return. I don’t want to. I’m no longer in love with him and I can’t even trust one simple sentence out of his mouth...But I’m so accustomed to him being there I end up returning or I allow him to slowly sneak back in. I can’t anymore. It’s making us into ugly angry people. HOW DO I STAY AWAY AND NOT GET BACK WITH HIM ON ANY LEVEL?????
Love is not enough - you need Happiness. Know all the reasons for your breakups, understand your emotions. Are you losing yourself to the relationship? Are you breaking up for very small reasons? Control your emotions by meditating.
So I had a long distance relationship for a month...he broke up with me got back in contact with in 5 day we got back together....I found out he was also having a emotional affair with a married woman that he knows from his home town... He told me he would end it...I went to see him on the weekend of the 14th of October...the 15th he text me with a lame excuse to break up with me again...I haven't heard from him since....
He met my mom but refused to introduce me to his family. They knew he had a gf but i have never met them. So I’m a way i feel like he was hiding me like if i was a secret when we were together for almost 9 months ...
Me and my ex bf broke up 1 week ago.. it was our 6th break up I still love him But how was there so much love and passion? From only me or for both of us? How does it mean we both love each other too much?
mskyrox toxic relationships are passionate just not healthy his passion was most likely real. Steve talks about it in the video towards the end. Toxic relationships are love/hate relationships, both emotions are strong. Hate is not the opposite of love indifference is. Wether you love or hate someone, you have strong feelings for that person either way. In toxic relationships these emotions aren’t controlled properly and get out of hand, hence the passion, which makes the relationship toxic. It’s like a mindfuck, You can’t live with them or without them. Most healthy relationships lack passion but in return you get stability understanding and respect whereas in toxic relationships is primarily just passion.
Medina So you think it comes down to a unhealthy outlook on the relationship to the point where to much of each persons identity is based upon the other person and the relationship? I thought relationships ended because of a lack of passion not because of to much passion. But I guess with passion comes more extreme reactions to arguments or if someone gets out of character it freaks out the other party. I always said I’d have more respect for her even though it will hurt me if she was truly done forever with me because I’m not one to breakup over arguments I find it childish and immature but she would rather run from things when the heat in kitchen gets way to hot then get to the real root of what’s going on with us as couple. The only time I’d break up with someone is if that person cheated because I have no patience for that and never would in a million years stay with someone who cheated on me. It shows complete lack of self worth to ever stay after that. To clarify this argument was not over cheating it was over something stupid but serious were both gym people been working out intensely for years and I found out she was taking GW-501516 Cardarine and I was shocked because of all the conversations I had with her how bad steroids or Sarms are and she agreed with me that nobody should ever put that stuff in their bodies so this was first time since iv know her she’s done something behind my back I didn’t know about. She was caught red handed and think she freaked out she would have some explaining to do and this was the first time she was ever truly in the hot seat with me. Since iv known her she’s more then honest about her life never hid anything from me so this shocked me. My Ex has broken up with me 3 times in a 4 and half year period. All over intense arguments. However she ALWAYS comes back. During breakups we would go 3-6 months not talking but it’s like a magnet that always brings us back. I feel both know we were meant to be together for life when we met each other years ago because the bond we got between us is to strong for either of us to truly ever walk away. She is way to dependent on me and I’m the only male in her life she told me that ever gave her true stability. I don’t see her ever being in relationship with another guy long term because I think till the end of time she would think of me because I definitely had a impact on her life. So I wonder if she thinks so highly of me how as a person how can she can text me she wants to move on from me that we both just need to realize it’s not working out. 2 weeks after argument I texted her how she was doing and for the first time in 4 and half years she completly ignored a text I sent her. So Two days later I text her again and offered to meet up and talk and she wrote me back hour later and She said she doesn’t see the point of meeting up anymore and doesn’t want to discuss anything and just wants to move on and thinks I should do the same. I don’t know this breakup this time felt different. Could she really be done for good this time?
we always argue on small things and at the end she breaksup with me. we do patchup after few days but then again we fight on small thing she breaksup again. how can resolve our relationship ? please help coach
A video when you have been married 20+ years, have children and are forced to live together due to finances. I desperately want to change things but after a year nothing has changed. Then again when we see each other daily nothing can I guess. I need help, but cannot afford any sessions.
I did no contact 3 times.yesterday after 10 days letter i broke no contact as my family want to fix my marriage with someone else. I told him about my situation but still he is negative and said there is no change to get him back.I again start no contact.am i doing right? plz plz help me???
Me n my partner broke up for 3 times and it’s all because of my sexual imorality, now we are away and she blocked me forever. So I’m in no contact 😢zone
My ex told me after 4years that she doesn’t love me anymore, but she wants to me to be her bff. She also told me that nothing can make her miss our relationship. But she wants to be bff and to hang out. What should i do?
My ex left again it's the third time. She told me she was tired it's been 4 months and she stays cold. It seems like she seeing somebody but keeping it a secret I'm thinking it's a serious relationship. I still love her and want to fix our problems but she doesn't seem to care I feel like she moved on. I don't even talk to her only if has to do with our kids
and for a topic, might as well give u a backstory? Me and my ex broke up because we had a huge fight. He said that fighting became a cycle and he can never win. Few days later, he started flirting with another girl. I found out about it, he told me himself that it was a rebound. We ended in good terms bc he apologised and will try to respect the relationship we had. Next week, he called me, told me he missed me and that everything has been going rough ever since i left, I said the same thing and that I love him. He told me he still loves me too, but in the end, he backed away and I never spoke to him again for 3 months now. BASICALLY haha, "your ex backed away and has gone cold even after saying things that he still misses/loves you". for me that's quite interesting.
Hi Adrian. I was in a long distance relationship for around 11 months and two weeks ago I broke up with her because I was worried about if we’d ever actually find the opportunity to meet (we’ve never met) and I needed time to find myself. I broke up with her quite selfishly and she wasn’t expecting it, I still need time to find happiness in myself but I do love her and I do want to be with her. Is it dangerous to her back into a relationship when we aren’t sure if we can meet soon? And how do I approach her after I’ve hurt her? We haven’t spoken since the breakup. Im afraid that she thinks I don’t care about her and she is trying to move on but I don’t know how to tell her that I do care even though I still need time. I know I can’t just keep her on hold like this but I just want a chance with her.
My ex has tendency to contact with his ex's . he contacts with his all ex gfs . so where is my chance ? He broke up with me 3 mnths ago .then I was in no contact nd he contact me so many times and ignore him. I need ur help please tell me
Hey Skye, Thank you for the suggestion. This is a very important topic! Their anxiety is something your ex needs to work on themselves. All you can do is be supportive of them and reassure them there is no pressure. Coach Samira
Successful Reengagment after NC but has ignored my texts after hanging out face to face. She follows me intently on social media (snapchat) should I block her?
Do not block her, you'd be going backwards if you do. You've been able to reconnect and you are very close to reaching your goal here. Don't hesitate to book a coaching session with us to help you seal the deal. Best of luck either way, Adrian
Okay so I did the no contact rule before with the same guy and it always works. Will it work again? It’s only been one day. But I just left him alone because he gives me hot n cold emotions. He’s happy I mean really happy with me then he’s not. He says I expect to much and we aren’t together because he’s still young. He never cut me off I always walked out because I want him to feel life without me and it worked the past 2 times. But this time he told me he cares about me and he loves me but I expect too much from him. So I told him to block me , he’s like “ No I might need him for something “ does that mean he will need me? Then he’s like “ you gonna miss me when I’m gone “ I think he’s speaking for him self. I said I will block him he told me “ do what u gotta do baby “ LOL I didn’t reply after just left him on seen. Do u think he will reach out?
But what if she just doesn´t want to try anymore because she has had enough and feels that it is just better for herself. She loved me but wasnt happy because of all the fights. She doesnt belive that we can be happy and work together, that all the love and passion was damaged. This is 4-6 months ago....do I still have a chance? What can I do?
is no contact work every time ?. , i meant when i tried first time no contact for 12 days my girlfriend response me amazing then she got cold again , and ignore my calls and messages , please help me ? should i try no contact again ? i am in long distance relationship , and i can only meet her after one year , this is my situation (
It's been multiple times but it's been me that is screwed up she has moved on the side dating so I think this time it's done but I'm going to make myself better and see where it goes we've done the five or six times you've always got back together but I've always screwed up somehow some way
Hey I need help in understanding that .my ex told me on Saturday that she love me. So today I take it upon myself to tell her today that I love her and instead of her telling me that she love me she sent me a ☺️what do this means I am. Please help I'm so confused.
my ex girlfriend just broke up with me before valentines day over miscommunication. weve have had issues in the past mostly on my part and broke up. i want her back so bad. before we broke up i was planning on proposing to her on valemtines day. the day she broke up with me she said she was letting the relationship go. im so hurt right now. she asked me if we could be friends and i reluctantly said ok. now im trying to give her some space. i explained to her my plans that i was trying to suprise her with a proposal hoping she would understand why i hadnt earlier. im so lost. its day 3 of being alone and a week to this day of the disagreement. i need help
Hey jopac75, Know how you are feeling. Remember DON't DO ANY MISTAKES!!! Take your self to your hands!!! THINK!!!! No mistakes! Yes, it's going to be hard, but later on will be easier. Do not talk about any proposes, don't explain anything, don't cry, don't call, just chill the F..... Down. I am going true the same situation. I and my most beautiful love, we got argued 2 months ago and she left me 1,5 month ago. I love her so much, with all of my hard. I could say even too much. And I know that she also loved me... She was and she is still the one for me. And I Know I will get her back! I will fight for her!!!! I did multiple mistakes, I begged, I plead, I Cried. Damn.... I was so stupid. For the first month I was crying almost everyday. It was and still is so HARD. The last time I had tears in my eyes today when I have remembered her smile. It is hard to describe how hard it is...... I have watched I guess almost all Adrien's and Natalie's videos.. God bless them... Listen to them and LEARN! I am doing no contact, Yes it's freaking hard. Now every day reading books, doing community work, trying to solve my business issues, at the same time looking for new job. Trying to change my self at all the points. Did and still doing research about my self, positive, negative things, basically changing my point of view from A-Z. Please remember to give her time, give her space, she has to put her thoughts also in place. You have to do the same. Do not try to prove anything, If You will honestly change, She will notice that. And do not rush the things! Because you will push her away. If you really love each other, you will have time to propose her. Believe me, I also have a ring for her and You know what??? Hide the ring, because it's gonna be to hard to look and think every day. I did the same.... Remember NO MORE F....... MISTAKES! Show that you are ALPHA male and you are the one for her!
First watch this ,,Break up from the break up" th-cam.com/video/OtIs_t9Z8kw/w-d-xo.html Im telling you it is going to be hard, but you will make it. Seriously the first month my brains melted down... :D By the way sorry for my English... I am not fluent.
Buves Ponas thank you for you support. its hard right now. she says shes letting go and part of me says ok and my heart says to fight for her because i love her and i want her to see that. i makes mistakes and im only human but my heart is for her.
Me and my wife are separated right now I wish I could afford a session with you guys but I'm barely making it by I found out that my wife was seeing somebody behind my back then when I confronted her about it she left that day and I begged and begged for her to come home but she said no she said that she doesn't love me anymore she said that it's my fault that she was seeing other people but she would come home every once in awhile and she would love on me and kiss me and I thought everything was going to be okay but then after a month she came home to tell me she wanted a divorce and I asked her if she wanted to spend more time away from me and we can slowly work it out and I even forgave her but she said no she said it's easier to walk away then it would be to work on it and I feel like a complete and total failure because I feel like I'm on standby cuz my wife will calls me and she tell me how great her life is and how happy she is and how things are working out for her and when I asked her if she thought about coming home she says no she doesn't want to so now I feel like a complete and total failure I feel like if if I couldn't keep my wife and keep her happy and keep her loving me what makes me think that I can make anyone else happy what makes me think i deserve to be happy if I couldn't make the one person I wanted happy the most pretty much my question is I don't think she's coming back should I just move on or should I stay and wait I'm sorry to bother you guys
Damn. I did break up with her because we got too fiery and we did love each other so much. Our egos got in our way. She has a new guy, and I must move on because I feel that she would never get back to me. I doubt tho that she shares as much passion and love with her rebound..
Could you do a video about when an ex partner decided they want to live a single life and explore the world on their own? She turned 18 when we met and we were together for 6 years, and I'm guessing she's having some quarter life crisis about all the 'things' she missed out on in her early 20's
We have broken up multiple times. Last time was 3 weeks ago. We have a 4 year old child now. Please help me get my family back. We aint married but have been together for 13 years. This is our 4th breakup. I want her back for good. Help me please.
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Very true my ex broke me 3times but he alwasy come back when I ingore him love you this coach sir Alex and sir Adrian 👏👏👏 without your advice perhaps I’m drowning now.
Hey, in my situation guy broke up with me 3 or 4 times and I think, what it was the last time. I don't found much information about multiple breakups, but this video helps me a lot and let me keep faith. My boyfriend get back to me after 8 eight month. I work really hard to understand that was the root problem. It takes patience, hope, knowledge and work. I really thankful for your videos. Send you love and wish you the best.
There were multiple breaks ups but it’s been about 3 months since the final initial break up. Whenever a few weeks goes by he usually comes back willing to start a friendship but problems arise. He is known to be a liar and there has been a lot he has been lying to me about. Our relationship was full of trust issues on my end because of past trauma from other relationships yet he continues to lie to me to spare me of my feelings. And his words don’t match his actions or he starts false story telling and it causes fights. His family and friends only know his side of the story and have a huge impact on his decision even though I’ve been doing the work to become better, I am seeing a therapist and I’ve tried to tell him not to bring up anything from the past because it will result in problems. He won’t change because he doesn’t think he needs to. And I’m trying to change and hold on to something extremely toxic. I am not saying I changed 100% I still have toxic behaviors that has been hard to change. I am trying my best though. What do you think about this?
I give 2nd chance and that's it..no more breakup enough and goodbye
That happened to me guys I lost myself in the relationship we broke up multiple times in five years I wanted to marry her have children we’ve connected a month ago for about three weeks I took her on dates stayed in her home she said she love me she missed me and then everything fell off it’s been a month now and i’m reading my Bible now praising my Lord Jesus Christ living for God yet there’s still a part of me that misses her tremendously I still pray for her I still think of her just wanted to comment that, thank you guys for bringing a lot of stuff to light
Can you guys do a video on if you've pushed them away?
I suffer from anxiety and depression and my ex left me at a super sensitive time in my life which ended up with a lot of begging , stress and pain on both ends.
I actually pushed him into the arms of another woman, and they have been dating a couple weeks now. I've not successfully done NC, but I'm committed to it now.
Other then working on myself, becoming stable and allowing time to go past, do you have any advice on interactions with him in the future? We spent two years together and broke up officially a little more than a month ago.
Trap Chan weird but this is exactly me right now!! I’ve started the NC late because we still had things connected.. like our phone bills and his mail coming to my house. But I haven’t contacted him in a month now. We broke up last year in November and he’s currently with another girl. The only thing I’ve been doing is looking up motivational videos to inspire me to do better and focus on myself :) what did help me move on is having no hope of us getting back together.
Hi Trap!
We certainly can make some video content on this. Thank you for your suggestion!
Best,
Natalie
Love Advice TV Just to clarify, I mean when your actions push them away.
Example for me is being super needy or too attached / passionate and turning them off, not necessarily telling them to go away.
When you've already made the mistakes you warn against what to do afterwards.
My ex has gone silent , so I'm doing no contact
Update girl!!!
i will never ever stop improving myself once im in a relationship i learned my lesson when i thought my gf would love me now for who i am regardless if im crossing a period with lower ambition and accomplishments, lesson learned
How to PREVENT a breakup in a long distance relationship? How to manage anxiety when long distance?
work on yourself. Seek therapy if you suffer from low self esteem and jalousy. These things aren't normal, everyone is lovable and important.
Hi coaches, can you make a video about how your ex’s friends have an impact on a break up? I feel like my ex wants to come back to me but his friends are having their say and persuading him to stay away 😰
Caitlin White yes !!!!
Caitlin White I would actually love to hear what the coaches would opinionated on the ex friends. Great question 😇
a massive impact !
Yes i can relate. Hope they make a video in how to befriend them or something.
Congratulations to both coaches for bringing up such important topics and explaining them with great clarity. You are doing a great job. All the best to you.
You guys are doing an amazing job. Thank you for all this. ♡
I hope And pray that my ex girlfriend comes back to me I miss her so much she was my first love im nothing without you my heart has died and won't come back until she comes back which again im praying everyday to God to bring her back.
update?
Love Coach Alex already! want to see him in more videos soon! :)
Well, I know I'm in a Toxic relationship. I love this person but he's not good for me and my health. but even if I do no contact I see him at work, and it's so stressful, and when I'm ok he comes back, we're trapped in a vicious circle. Now I am determined not to get back, for my mental and phisical health.
Hey Nelly, I commend you for the self-realization and realizing that you have to break this loop. It's very difficult to do this when you work with the person, but it is possible. You might benefit from coaching, so don't hesitate to reach out to us at www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ if you feel you might benefit from it - Coach Steven
Love you guys you are angels for broken hearts
Wow. Very good content. Love too much, small things upset both people. Friends don’t understand. But when both are heavily invested, then it can be too much, and people need to get control of their emotions. Very good point of view I didn’t hear before
I needed this. Thank you
I LOVE THAT WHY EXCERSICE I HAVE LEARN ALOT FROM THIS THANKS ALOT
How to keep the passion alive and win an ex back that needs space where it’s an long distance
My gf is 9 years older than me. We have broken up once/year over the last 7 years. The longest we've been apart was 1 year. I lover her, but I feel like bc of the age difference we want different things. She has had kids, I haven't. I spent my 30's with her, and now I'm 40 and feel like I've never gone after the things that I want (ie having children or living in a different city). I'm open to any and all advice.
Simply advices but smart very useful 😍😍😍
Thanks for this video. I have a topic in witch I broke up over and over through a 5 yr relationship. She always took me back or came back on her own. This last break up something changed in her. She says she forgives me and the emotional and mental stress I put her in. All the stressed I caused her actually changed her in ways where she is no longer her loving self but more angry or upset but for some reason she was always willing to come back. Now she says she needs space to heal and to find herself again. What are the chances of an ex coming back after I’ve tried to get her back and she’s just not emotionally there anymore. What can someone in my shoes do?
This video was amazing! Thank you!
You're so welcome!
OMG!!! Me n him broke up so many times, rite now I'm in a healing process by myself I can't fight alone for the relationship. Their is so much love between us that it became dysfunctional it felt like I was not me any more. I surrender I'll rather be me then to be in that kind of relationship not knowing when the next break up will come.
Blondie M. I'm in the same spot at the moment my ex and I had a 10yr run she broke up with me 3 times in the last 2yrs and I was feeling the same thing lately when will the next breakup come its not a good feeling at all she say she don't Kno y she feels this way every 6months or so she happy for a few months then she's not for a few months smh its I'm healthy to go through that as I can see now they will b missed loved and much more but hey b strong and get better
Over a four year period my ex dumped me over ten times, the longest being four months. I have come to realise that you can’t live with the stress of knowing it will happen again but the uncertainty of when. We’d been back together two months, he was saving for our future, he was affectionate, on the Wednesday he was still saying he loves me, he couldn’t wait for our date night on Saturday. On Thursday he went out with the guys/gals from work. I rang him, like we always did (he said he wasn’t going out but I didn’t know he had), his phone was off, something he never did. I’d had a message early hours of Fri saying, ‘ can I not have a day off from you.’ It was upsetting because we never spoke in that way to each other. Friday evening it was all over.
I've been watching a lot of your videos and this one has resonated the most. Such an underrated truth. Thank you.
You're very welcome! We're glad it resonated with you :) - Adrian www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
This was soo useful something ive never known thanks alot.
I realized this not long ago but i wasnt sure n U jus made me realize more and identifying something in me i never thought about, knowing the root cause of my countless fights wit ma gurl becuz of extreme passion and losing control of my emotions !!! I thank you so much of this and things r getting better between us by tryin to control my emotions and not losin my identity.... thank you so much for this video
My ex and I broke up 6 times. In the past I was able to always tell she wanted to work things out but this time she’s the opposite. She’s been hot and cold lately. We have been broken up for 2 months now. We have dated off and on for 5+ years. Is there any chance or hope left?
Johnny Cage Yh man just do you! Ive been with the same girl for exactly five years got a son together last year and broke up with me in July...got back together after the 7th time. Hopefully all is well with your situation man.
Does no contact work multiple times? I never really did no contact previous times. This time I am giving her space and time and really focus on changing myself.
You have just described me fully. My passion in my relationship wad like a wildfire, and I got burned in the end. I was one of those jealous, possessive girlfriends, because I knew he had a lot of female friends, and online flirtations. I would check his phone, and when I'd see something I didn't like, I'd confront him. He would get angry, but then he'd say I was right, and we would both promise not to do what we had done again (him the flirting, me the checking). We ended up breaking up just under a year of being together. I actually practiced the no contact rule when I discovered it, and he started reaching out again. Eventually we started hanging out. It became sexual, but he wasn't wanting to make a commitment to quickly. After a few months, we were back together, and a few months later, living together again. Things have gone pretty well, I've been on two vacations with him, to his home country, spent time with his children and his family (he is a guest worker in my country). However, I suspected that he was talking to a particular woman again, and I started checking his phone again, more often. I had also become one of those needy girlfriends, always asking if he was still happy with me, if he really wanted to be with me. He had breached the subject of getting married shortly after we got back together, and said that he had a surprise for me on our first trip. No surprise,....he said he wanted to give me a ring, but didn't have enough money. To give him a couple of months. Then my birthday came and went, Christmas came and went....nothing happened. His sister even told me that he wanted to do it. I became very worried that his feelings were changing, and I got paranoid always asking if he still wanted to marry me, if he still loved me, etc. I don't know if the pressure pushed him to seek validation or comfort in conversation with this other woman again. But, that's what happened. When I saw the messages last weekend, I freaked out on him. I called him names, etc. He broke up with me. I should probably mention that I have an anxiety/panic disorder, so my mind races with negative, what if thoughts. I have also been in an abusive (physical and very emotional) marriage prior to my relationship with the man I am in love with. I know he has done something wrong, but I also am aware of how my behavior has probably made him lose attraction for me and question if we can be happy together. I want to work on myself, I have been meditating, and am about to embark on a healthier lifestyle. I need to get help for the PTSD and deal with my demons so that they don't continue to haunt me. I am not ready to give up on us, and I want to rekindle our relationship. We broke up a week ago, I was staying in the apartment, with minimal communication, up until Saturday. Now that I am fully moved out, I am practicing no contact again. He is looking after my cat until I am settled in my own place. I would greatly appreciate any advice you have for me. I will also be setting up a one-on-one session with couch Amy very soon.
I have anxiety and depression too 🥺 and I dont know what to do
He broke up with me 4 times and I'm getting sick and unhealthy but I hope it gets better...
It’s a horrible circle to be trapped in.
I m going through all this as u guys says,passion ....thnku for ur guide lines...:)
You're welcome :) Thanks for tuning in and watching our video :) - Coach Natalie
So is this what my ex means when he says "nobody will ever have my heart like you do and i will give you another chance so we can be together but as far as now i need to find myself again?" this was our first breakup and we were together almost 2 years. also a mutual friend of us just told me he's been asking about me
He needs to find himself "again"? I feel like you're not allowed to use that reason twice. Just make sure that he isn't finding himself on YOUR time. That's the most important thing - Coach Steven
Hi Adrian and Alex!
My question is (and I hope I could help many people with this question):
My ex tells me that we're just not good for each other in the bigger picture. That the two of us were good together but everything around is was against it? She disliked my friends and I didn't really like her friends, she didn't get along with my parents etc. But nonetheless we had an amazing and passionate relationship for a very long time.
How do you think it is possible to overcome that? Obviously I won't 'change her mind' but still
Honestly I think my ex just isn't man enough... He cried about wanting a real women, money n not having time for hobbies....but did have all 3 but wasn't willing to balance himself so he dropped me n hung with friends play games all day n had them buy him gifts all the time
Hey Adrian, My name is David and my girlfriend broke up with me for the 4th time, but this time it was because of emotional cheating. Can you make a video on how to regain trust and reassure your partner that you have changed after emotional cheating? I did the emotional cheating months before the breakup and she found out at the time, and I thought i resolved it with her but she still held it against me and said she could never trust me again.
David Smith sane thing with me she feels I won’t change and she can’t trust me but I do love her I have a hard to being expressing my feelings . But I need to be able to show her no one else gets the same attention she blocked me from everything after this recent breakup
My ex Spoke to many women saying the same phrases he said to me like good morning beautiful you’re amazing thinking of you. Then there was another one that he talk to you very flirtatiously I’d like to snuggle with you for days. We have a friendship and I love to never be forgotten. That was a lot to overcome but I believed that it was just a friendship that was very flirtatious from when they first met way before me. I was willing to move on. And rebuild trust. As soon as I started creating boundaries he started really letting go. It took him months to detach but he finally told me he doesn’t love me he wished and MoveOn wish I’d meet someone else. I believe he is now seeing one of the women that he was flirting with and it’s killing me.Trying to focus on myself growth and everyone says why do you want him back you’ll be miserable. I still want them back
Me and my exgf have broken up so many times in 6 years...bt now we haven't been together for almost a year we have a son together and we still don't talk to each other...I keep it simple in texts about our son only....well she come around again even known she has exbfs on social media...wat do I do
In your position how has it worked out?
Could you make more videos on helping people rekindle with their ex after 3 breakups. My ex thinks we will never work as he keeps coming to the conclusion to break up with me. How do I get him back? Will no contact work in these situations?
Omg😢 ty so much for this video guys
What if the multiple break up happened because he is too fixated on being a top notcher in his college and wants to build himself a solid reputation for his future? Can I still salvage that? Or should I just let go and let him do whatever makes him proud of himself?
Me & my ex have broke up so many times. We got engaged, then he just let us go again! Idk why, he hates me & says I was a mistake. I know when my father passed I was really emotional etc. he felt like he “ was tapped out” and couldn’t be in the relationship anymore. I just don’t want to loose him but I don’t want to hold on if we will never reconcile. I don’t know what direction to go at this point.
Lynda Josephina Doan I’m going through the same thing, has anything happened so far?
Thank you this has helped me. Sooo much in sooo many ways this channel always helps me. Out thank you. ❤
All in a days work! :)
- Steven
Wow this was an eye opener thank you.
You're welcome :) - Alex Cormont
Do you really think its possible to get back together??
You did it 4 or 5 times!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 true...
😂😂😂😂- Coach Adrian
Hi coach Adrian and Alex, I reaaaaaly need your guidance, please!! First of all: I recognize myself in your description, really everthing you're saying (bit scary) !! I was too passionate, too dependent just because I loved my ex-boyfriend so so much. And still.
My ex-boyfriend and I lived together for about 6 months (we had a relationship of 8 years, from our 16 until 24). Our relationship ended, and we both moved back home. Then, a month later we went back together, but afterwards, in this breakup, my ex-boyfriend said it was out of pity, not love. We were together for 5 months, and then in October he ended the relationship again, for the same reason. I do have to admit: I really didn't change. Also because of the thought that It would be strange for ur to seperate, because we we're sooo good as a couple. But I know the reason. I wanted all of the attention of my boyfriend. Even when he went out with friends. And i really got upset when I talked to other girls.
Now, we are 6 months seperated, and I do understand why he broke it off. But I also know that it is something we can work trough because there was no cheating, no abuse. Only my jealousy and the feeling I gave him (that he would never be a good boyfriend).
So now, we're 6 months later and I was going better, until he made some contact. Saying I was his first love and that I still mean a lot to him, to end up with 'but our relationship was over'. I found it difficult that, since our breakup, we had contact after a month, than a month nothing, and then a month ago he's still asking how I'm doing. That he misses my mom and wants to speak to her. But after the sweet things he's still convinced it was the best decision. I'm not the same person. I still miss him sooo much! As I said: it went better. And I know hearing of him is a bad thing, but when I hear of him or see his name pupping on my phone, my heart skips a beat. He still wants to be able to talk to me, because he found this normal after 8 years. And he hopes some day I will be able to. Saying he still cares for me, wants to see and talk to me. I just don't know what it is. It's driving me crazy because what should I do?? I'm still holding on because of that..
After 6 months now I deciced to block him. On Facebook, on Instagram. And he 'understood' it. He found it a shame, but he understood the reason why. I'm just so confussed. I wasn't reaching out for about 2 months, and then, al of a sudden, he contacted me trough Instagram asking about a furniture. I was short and distant, and after a short sentence, he went straight back at: "how are you doing?" "Are you seeing someone else?" 'I hope your next boyfriend will give you everything you want and need, because you deserve it". etc etc. What should I do? And why does he wants to stay in touch? Well, that's not possible anymore tough, now I've blocked him. Thanks in advance! And sorry for the long story :-) Greetings from Belgium!
Rani Merckx hi. How are you now?
My ex and I were together 5yrs. Last 2 were horrible. I suspected he was cheating and simply asking him caused him to say he needed a break completely no COntact. He did that throughout the 2 yrs. I was so
Depressed and miserable but only wanted him back but we wouldn’t last past 2 wks.
We got back together recently and those strange behaviors returned faster this time. I did some investigation and turns out he did cheat back then and every break from me was spent with this person who was married. So after 2 weeks of back together and thinking it would work this time because those 2 wks were the best but after seeing his STILL close friendship with her and still lying about what happened. I know in my heart I will never forgive him so I broke up but he thinks this is just another break and she’ll return.
I don’t want to. I’m no longer in love with him and I can’t even trust one simple sentence out of his mouth...But I’m so accustomed to him being there I end up returning or I allow him to slowly sneak back in. I can’t anymore. It’s making us into ugly angry people.
HOW DO I STAY AWAY AND NOT GET BACK WITH HIM ON ANY LEVEL?????
Love is not enough - you need Happiness. Know all the reasons for your breakups, understand your emotions. Are you losing yourself to the relationship? Are you breaking up for very small reasons?
Control your emotions by meditating.
So I had a long distance relationship for a month...he broke up with me got back in contact with in 5 day we got back together....I found out he was also having a emotional affair with a married woman that he knows from his home town... He told me he would end it...I went to see him on the weekend of the 14th of October...the 15th he text me with a lame excuse to break up with me again...I haven't heard from him since....
I want to know if I can get back with her if we broke up twice in 3 years and she is dating someone now and has blocked me already.
He met my mom but refused to introduce me to his family. They knew he had a gf but i have never met them. So I’m a way i feel like he was hiding me like if i was a secret when we were together for almost 9 months ...
charm coach Alex !
Me and my ex bf broke up 1 week ago.. it was our 6th break up
I still love him
But how was there so much love and passion?
From only me or for both of us?
How does it mean we both love each other too much?
mskyrox toxic relationships are passionate just not healthy his passion was most likely real. Steve talks about it in the video towards the end. Toxic relationships are love/hate relationships, both emotions are strong. Hate is not the opposite of love indifference is. Wether you love or hate someone, you have strong feelings for that person either way. In toxic relationships these emotions aren’t controlled properly and get out of hand, hence the passion, which makes the relationship toxic. It’s like a mindfuck, You can’t live with them or without them. Most healthy relationships lack passion but in return you get stability understanding and respect whereas in toxic relationships is primarily just passion.
Medina So you think it comes down to a unhealthy outlook on the relationship to the point where to much of each persons identity is based upon the other person and the relationship? I thought relationships ended because of a lack of passion not because of to much passion. But I guess with passion comes more extreme reactions to arguments or if someone gets out of character it freaks out the other party. I always said I’d have more respect for her even though it will hurt me if she was truly done forever with me because I’m not one to breakup over arguments I find it childish and immature but she would rather run from things when the heat in kitchen gets way to hot then get to the real root of what’s going on with us as couple. The only time I’d break up with someone is if that person cheated because I have no patience for that and never would in a million years stay with someone who cheated on me. It shows complete lack of self worth to ever stay after that. To clarify this argument was not over cheating it was over something stupid but serious were both gym people been working out intensely for years and I found out she was taking GW-501516 Cardarine and I was shocked because of all the conversations I had with her how bad steroids or Sarms are and she agreed with me that nobody should ever put that stuff in their bodies so this was first time since iv know her she’s done something behind my back I didn’t know about. She was caught red handed and think she freaked out she would have some explaining to do and this was the first time she was ever truly in the hot seat with me. Since iv known her she’s more then honest about her life never hid anything from me so this shocked me. My Ex has broken up with me 3 times in a 4 and half year period. All over intense arguments. However she ALWAYS comes back. During breakups we would go 3-6 months not talking but it’s like a magnet that always brings us back. I feel both know we were meant to be together for life when we met each other years ago because the bond we got between us is to strong for either of us to truly ever walk away. She is way to dependent on me and I’m the only male in her life she told me that ever gave her true stability. I don’t see her ever being in relationship with another guy long term because I think till the end of time she would think of me because I definitely had a impact on her life. So I wonder if she thinks so highly of me how as a person how can she can text me she wants to move on from me that we both just need to realize it’s not working out. 2 weeks after argument I texted her how she was doing and for the first time in 4 and half years she completly ignored a text I sent her. So Two days later I text her again and offered to meet up and talk and she wrote me back hour later and She said she doesn’t see the point of meeting up anymore and doesn’t want to discuss anything and just wants to move on and thinks I should do the same. I don’t know this breakup this time felt different. Could she really be done for good this time?
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I got a 2nd time break up with the same ex . 1st on aug 2018 and 2nd is Oct 2018 ? What do I do now ?
My ex broke up with me because I accepted a friend request on fb I didn't talk or anything.
Hi coach Adrian! How do you deal with a break up without a closure?
A video about what to do if your ex moves away ?
we always argue on small things and at the end she breaksup with me. we do patchup after few days but then again we fight on small thing she breaksup again. how can resolve our relationship ? please help coach
A video when you have been married 20+ years, have children and are forced to live together due to finances. I desperately want to change things but after a year nothing has changed. Then again when we see each other daily nothing can I guess. I need help, but cannot afford any sessions.
I did no contact 3 times.yesterday after 10 days letter i broke no contact as my family want to fix my marriage with someone else. I told him about my situation but still he is negative and said there is no change to get him back.I again start no contact.am i doing right? plz plz help me???
Me n my partner broke up for 3 times and it’s all because of my sexual imorality, now we are away and she blocked me forever. So I’m in no contact 😢zone
My ex told me after 4years that she doesn’t love me anymore, but she wants to me to be her bff. She also told me that nothing can make her miss our relationship. But she wants to be bff and to hang out. What should i do?
tbsdrummer87 lmao
My ex left again it's the third time. She told me she was tired it's been 4 months and she stays cold. It seems like she seeing somebody but keeping it a secret I'm thinking it's a serious relationship. I still love her and want to fix our problems but she doesn't seem to care I feel like she moved on. I don't even talk to her only if has to do with our kids
and for a topic, might as well give u a backstory?
Me and my ex broke up because we had a huge fight. He said that fighting became a cycle and he can never win. Few days later, he started flirting with another girl. I found out about it, he told me himself that it was a rebound. We ended in good terms bc he apologised and will try to respect the relationship we had. Next week, he called me, told me he missed me and that everything has been going rough ever since i left, I said the same thing and that I love him. He told me he still loves me too, but in the end, he backed away and I never spoke to him again for 3 months now.
BASICALLY haha, "your ex backed away and has gone cold even after saying things that he still misses/loves you". for me that's quite interesting.
Hello coach! Have you ever see a couple be married after multiple break ups?
Hi Adrian. I was in a long distance relationship for around 11 months and two weeks ago I broke up with her because I was worried about if we’d ever actually find the opportunity to meet (we’ve never met) and I needed time to find myself. I broke up with her quite selfishly and she wasn’t expecting it, I still need time to find happiness in myself but I do love her and I do want to be with her. Is it dangerous to her back into a relationship when we aren’t sure if we can meet soon? And how do I approach her after I’ve hurt her? We haven’t spoken since the breakup. Im afraid that she thinks I don’t care about her and she is trying to move on but I don’t know how to tell her that I do care even though I still need time. I know I can’t just keep her on hold like this but I just want a chance with her.
My ex has tendency to contact with his ex's . he contacts with his all ex gfs . so where is my chance ? He broke up with me 3 mnths ago .then I was in no contact nd he contact me so many times and ignore him. I need ur help please tell me
Can you do a video on anxiety? When your ex has anxiety and gets it every time before seeing you? How can you make them feel at ease again?
Hey Skye,
Thank you for the suggestion. This is a very important topic! Their anxiety is something your ex needs to work on themselves. All you can do is be supportive of them and reassure them there is no pressure.
Coach Samira
Love Advice TV thankyou so much, yes that is very true! Love your channel you are all amazing!
Is it bad that my ex says he wants to be alone for a while? do I still have a chance or should I just move and give up?
My ex and I had a huge fight after our breakup. Is there any way we can get back together?
Successful Reengagment after NC but has ignored my texts after hanging out face to face. She follows me intently on social media (snapchat) should I block her?
Do not block her, you'd be going backwards if you do.
You've been able to reconnect and you are very close to reaching your goal here.
Don't hesitate to book a coaching session with us to help you seal the deal.
Best of luck either way,
Adrian
Okay so I did the no contact rule before with the same guy and it always works. Will it work again? It’s only been one day. But I just left him alone because he gives me hot n cold emotions. He’s happy I mean really happy with me then he’s not. He says I expect to much and we aren’t together because he’s still young. He never cut me off I always walked out because I want him to feel life without me and it worked the past 2 times. But this time he told me he cares about me and he loves me but I expect too much from him. So I told him to block me , he’s like “ No I might need him for something “ does that mean he will need me? Then he’s like “ you gonna miss me when I’m gone “ I think he’s speaking for him self. I said I will block him he told me “ do what u gotta do baby “ LOL I didn’t reply after just left him on seen. Do u think he will reach out?
Whats the update sis?
But what if she just doesn´t want to try anymore because she has had enough and feels that it is just better for herself. She loved me but wasnt happy because of all the fights. She doesnt belive that we can be happy and work together, that all the love and passion was damaged. This is 4-6 months ago....do I still have a chance? What can I do?
Julia Ryan how long was the relationship and how many times did you guys broke up?
is no contact work every time ?. , i meant when i tried first time no contact for 12 days my girlfriend response me amazing then she got cold again , and ignore my calls and messages , please help me ? should i try no contact again ? i am in long distance relationship , and i can only meet her after one year , this is my situation (
It's been multiple times but it's been me that is screwed up she has moved on the side dating so I think this time it's done but I'm going to make myself better and see where it goes we've done the five or six times you've always got back together but I've always screwed up somehow some way
Hey I need help in understanding that .my ex told me on Saturday that she love me. So today I take it upon myself to tell her today that I love her and instead of her telling me that she love me she sent me a ☺️what do this means I am. Please help I'm so confused.
my ex girlfriend just broke up with me before valentines day over miscommunication. weve have had issues in the past mostly on my part and broke up. i want her back so bad. before we broke up i was planning on proposing to her on valemtines day. the day she broke up with me she said she was letting the relationship go. im so hurt right now. she asked me if we could be friends and i reluctantly said ok. now im trying to give her some space. i explained to her my plans that i was trying to suprise her with a proposal hoping she would understand why i hadnt earlier. im so lost. its day 3 of being alone and a week to this day of the disagreement. i need help
Hey jopac75,
Know how you are feeling. Remember DON't DO ANY MISTAKES!!! Take your self to your hands!!! THINK!!!! No mistakes!
Yes, it's going to be hard, but later on will be easier. Do not talk about any proposes, don't explain anything, don't cry, don't call, just chill the F..... Down.
I am going true the same situation. I and my most beautiful love, we got argued 2 months ago and she left me 1,5 month ago. I love her so much, with all of my hard. I could say even too much. And I know that she also loved me... She was and she is still the one for me. And I Know I will get her back! I will fight for her!!!!
I did multiple mistakes, I begged, I plead, I Cried. Damn.... I was so stupid. For the first month I was crying almost everyday. It was and still is so HARD. The last time I had tears in my eyes today when I have remembered her smile. It is hard to describe how hard it is...... I have watched I guess almost all Adrien's and Natalie's videos.. God bless them... Listen to them and LEARN!
I am doing no contact, Yes it's freaking hard. Now every day reading books, doing community work, trying to solve my business issues, at the same time looking for new job. Trying to change my self at all the points. Did and still doing research about my self, positive, negative things, basically changing my point of view from A-Z.
Please remember to give her time, give her space, she has to put her thoughts also in place. You have to do the same. Do not try to prove anything, If You will honestly change, She will notice that. And do not rush the things! Because you will push her away. If you really love each other, you will have time to propose her. Believe me, I also have a ring for her and You know what??? Hide the ring, because it's gonna be to hard to look and think every day. I did the same.... Remember NO MORE F....... MISTAKES! Show that you are ALPHA male and you are the one for her!
First watch this ,,Break up from the break up" th-cam.com/video/OtIs_t9Z8kw/w-d-xo.html
Im telling you it is going to be hard, but you will make it. Seriously the first month my brains melted down... :D
By the way sorry for my English... I am not fluent.
Buves Ponas thank you for you support. its hard right now. she says shes letting go and part of me says ok and my heart says to fight for her because i love her and i want her to see that. i makes mistakes and im only human but my heart is for her.
My ex girl is dating co worker hiding relationship
Im her 5 live in partner
Plz advise me i love her so muach
Me and my wife are separated right now I wish I could afford a session with you guys but I'm barely making it by I found out that my wife was seeing somebody behind my back then when I confronted her about it she left that day and I begged and begged for her to come home but she said no she said that she doesn't love me anymore she said that it's my fault that she was seeing other people but she would come home every once in awhile and she would love on me and kiss me and I thought everything was going to be okay but then after a month she came home to tell me she wanted a divorce and I asked her if she wanted to spend more time away from me and we can slowly work it out and I even forgave her but she said no she said it's easier to walk away then it would be to work on it and I feel like a complete and total failure because I feel like I'm on standby cuz my wife will calls me and she tell me how great her life is and how happy she is and how things are working out for her and when I asked her if she thought about coming home she says no she doesn't want to so now I feel like a complete and total failure I feel like if if I couldn't keep my wife and keep her happy and keep her loving me what makes me think that I can make anyone else happy what makes me think i deserve to be happy if I couldn't make the one person I wanted happy the most pretty much my question is I don't think she's coming back should I just move on or should I stay and wait I'm sorry to bother you guys
What if u breack up beacuase of difrent racial background? Then what
broke up multiple times what to do? should i go in no contact , and for how long ? and what else should i do to get her back .
Yes, begin no contact. I would need more details in a coaching session to understand your situation better.
Coach Samira
Damn. I did break up with her because we got too fiery and we did love each other so much. Our egos got in our way. She has a new guy, and I must move on because I feel that she would never get back to me. I doubt tho that she shares as much passion and love with her rebound..
Could you do a video about when an ex partner decided they want to live a single life and explore the world on their own? She turned 18 when we met and we were together for 6 years, and I'm guessing she's having some quarter life crisis about all the 'things' she missed out on in her early 20's
Hi 1990lathan!
We certainly can make some content on this! Thank you for sharing your suggestion.
Best,
Natalie
How’s your life now?
We have broken up multiple times. Last time was 3 weeks ago. We have a 4 year old child now. Please help me get my family back. We aint married but have been together for 13 years. This is our 4th breakup. I want her back for good. Help me please.
Alexandre qui parle anglais ah !
I thought all brake ups was part of low interest from the one doing the brake up
That’s what I also thought but I’m confused because my ex said his reason to us breaking up is because he fell out of love yet he loves me too much