I'm a lifelong atheist, and I completely agree. Sean is pretty awesome and I will be watching more of his videos. I've been reading into all of this, various religions, for over 40 years and Sean is one of the very few who made rational sense to me. He has the ability to speak across the divide, even when that's not his intent.
The fatherlessness point was interesting to me. I was raised agnostic/atheist, I've been struggling to come to Christianity for 3 decades and just recently made it. But in the trinity I was finding it impossible to connect with the concept of "Father". My own father asked my mum to abort me and I never got so much as a birthday card from him, my mother's partner who I have known since I was 6 y/o made a show out of rejecting me and not wanting to be a father to me. I simply have no idea what a father is; what a father would do, what even the point of a father is. In my life the only constant people (as flawed as even they were) were women. But what is helping me understand more is reading all the verses in the Bible about how God is the husband of the widow and the father to the fatherless. That gives me some hope that I can come to understand this aspect of God. I thought I would pass that on in case it helps another fatherless person
You have a valid point that I believe many are wrestling with. Yes, the important thing is to look at the Father as descrbed by Jesus - that is a good point of reference.stay strong.
good advice. we should only rely on christs example, because he never fails. the second we follow any man, eventually he will fall. Jesus knows this. that's why he tells us to forgive everyone.
I am just now watching this. I am not in a good place spiritually and cannot say I believe anything of my former faith, currently. This video was excellent. I think Christians who have concerns and need to understand should definitely watch this. Sean McDowell is IMHO one of my favorite Christian apologists. Much respect also to his guest (I do not know him at all, but his presentation and objectivity were very impressive to me). Thanks so much for videos like these, even if I don't know where I will wind up, I have nothing but respect for this presentation of Christianity.
The thing that has always helped me thru the times I've wrestled with my faith vs what I've experienced is that I cannot lean on my own understanding of anything, I have to trust that this thing that I don't understand or I find offensive because I am not all knowing but God is so you have to boil it down to having faith in Jesus and do I believe that He has MY best in mind so He will bring me clarity to the thing I'm struggling with... ♥︎
Thank you for your honesty. I’ve been a Christian for 30 years and my life has had seasons of ups and downs… what I have learnt is that “God does work things for good for those who love him” however it is always my choice to blame others - (even God) or allow pain to seep in and pull me away from God… what is a great comfort, is knowing “he will never leave me … nor forsake me” … and I just have to let him in during those tough times … not beat myself up, and feel unworthy of his love
@@Standing.W.Israel good point. I've been a christian for 47 years and god has never let me down, but boy have I let him down at times! I really believe that much of western christianity is self serving and we don't want anything to do with suffering. the parable of the sower really shows this. we are called to carry our cross daily, and that's not impossible. jesus is our example. he suffered horribly, yet was faithful to the end. we should never follow man, because eventually he will fail. I find that the reasons for " deconstructing" are really pathetic. how many of them ever look at their own sins? it's like it's always someone else's fault. then they will say that they are more free than ever before by renouncing christ. they are lieing to themselves, and then when you look at their lives, you see that they are aimless.
how people who claim to have revelation, and that god is omnipresent 24/7 can "struggle" strikes me as pure insecurity and neediness, a competition to see who struggles the most. you're well out of the talking snake and donkey cult, and sean is nothing more than another two faced apologist who spends more time atheist bashing than promoting love and tolerance and the words of jesus - if you want to be a good christian, be atheist - we don't threaten hell on people to gain recruits.
this was a great video. I really related. I became a christian in 1979 and really tried to follow God; bible study, church all the time, serving, praying, etc. Wife cheated on me and left. remarried again a christian in 1988. repeat and rinse. We got divorced in 1993 and I de-converted and shouted at God:"I did what you asked of me and this is how you repay me". I too was "happier and more content" because I followed my own way. Fast forward 24 years in 2015 God started working on me again. Blessing were poured out on me out of nowhere. I finally surrendered to God again. I started studying on my own and grew into a deeper understanding of Sovereignty and Providence. I looked back and repented on my horrible rebellion. Who am I to tell the creator He should treat me a certain way? I deserve hell and I know it. Our relationship is so much sweeter. So much more full of Grace and Liberty. My message is Stop looking for reasons not to believe but for reasons to believe. God justice is NOT our idea of Justice - His ways are not our ways. Maranatha. edit: one last thing: in the back of my mind, your dad's books always haunted me. I remember reading them as a new christian and a part of me always knew there was no denying God was real. Thank him for me. I actually attended a dinner in Colorado he was speaking at back in the early 80s. No we didn't meet.
@@downenout8705 It is possible he thought he left the faith but still cried out to God. Have a relationship with the Lord is key and somehow I believe he was hurt but kept his heart open.
@@downenout8705 Thanks Downen Out (good handle by the way). You are definitely the kind of "christian" I never want to be around. You missed the point completely.
I was heavily involved in a church with a corrupt pastor which tested my faith deeply. Ultimately I love Jesus. Period. Heart got hard for awhile, but never lost faith. Now I’m back fully. My feeling is if someone has truly been born again, nothing can take their faith.
But why do you have faith to begin with. What makes Christianity true? For example, why don't you believe in Zeus, the God of Thunder from ancient Greek religion?
You should have learned the plain and simple lesson that these pastors make their money off of control and manipulation. Giving authority over your life to anyone is a recipe for bad decision making. Follow your original gut and get out of the cult.
@@radscorpion8Great amount of historycity in the Bible, Tremendous impact of Jesus on our life even in these days, Countless numbers of fulfilled prophecies. Many more besides these, you have phylosophical argument for existence of God, argument from morality, cosmological argument, teleological argument, ontological argument. If you don't like that maybe take a deeper look at our world at quantum level which clearly tells us that determinism is dead and there's something special about our consciousness that collapses the wave function, which greatly shows irreducible nature of our mind and it's origin from something else than physical matter. I hope you'll find the truth, because it makes us free like nothing else in this beautiful world. God bless You
When I left Christianity, it wasn’t emotionally troubling for me. It just didn’t make sense to me anymore. When I came back, it was because it made sense to me again, also with no emotionally compelling experience. The cognitive reasons are all that made a big difference to me, at least that I’m aware of.
@Andrew Fairborn You wouldn’t know, since I didn’t tell you what my reasons were and how logical I think they are, so your skepticism is unwarranted here.
It is so refreshing to hear people who are deep in their faith exploring the uncomfortable or messy. Many people ignore the pitfalls, difficult ideas, and questions. Thank you for this discussion!
If parents would be tolerant and open to the ideas or questions of their children while at the same time very firm on behaviors, what a difference that would make in the outcome of children's faith. Allow discussion, questions even doubts by our children. Sean's father modeled this openness very well. Help our children think through ideas rather than see questions as a threat.
my mom and agnostic Atheist my Dad methodist they never raised use to believe in anything specific they let us explore what we wanted to believe in what we got older my sister is druid/pagan my and I became Christian when I was 24 years but I didn't affiliate with any donimnation and I am not affiliated with any organization today I just believe in god the father and jesus his only son I feel vary grateful my parents let us research and decide what path was right for us.
Here's something I wrote while facing some trying times in my life. God is Still God - by Troy Hinkle God is still God when things don’t go my way God is still God when the cancer doesn’t go away God is still God when I don’t understand why God is still God when all I want to do is cry God is still God when I don’t know what to do God is still God and He will help see me through God is still God when the world is upside down God is still God when I wear a frown God is still God and He is not surprised at the things I must face God is still God and He is full of Grace God is still God and He loves me still God is still God and I seek to know His will God is still God even when I worry God is still God and He is full of glory God is still God and He will supply God is still God and He is enough to get me by God is still God and He is on my side God is still God and in Him I must abide God is still God and He is in control God is still God and He brings peace to my troubled soul God is still God and He has an open ear God is still God and He hears my prayers God is still God and He understands the desires of my heart God is still God and He will never depart God is still God and I must trust and obey God is still God and He is the Way God is still God and He gives us His Son God is still God and Over Sin He has overcome God is still God during the good and the bad God is still God He cares when I am sad God is still God when things are a mess God is still God and He does like to bless God is still God and I am glad that I am not God is still God and I must not be distraught God is still God and He is teaching me each day God is still God and He is showing me His way God is still God and I must not fear God is still God and He sees every tear God is still God and I rest in His hand God is still God and He knows where I will land God is still God and He molds me each day God is still God when trials come my way God is still God and He is ever near God is still God and I am glad He still Cares
Thank You for sharing this poem, Troy. I agree with it totally. A line of poetry from Don Williams song, “I believe in love” May he always rest with our Lord. “Well I don’t believe that Heaven waits, for only those who congregate. I like to think of God as love, He’s down below, He’s up above. He’s watching people everywhere, He knows who does and doesn’t care. And I’m an ordinary man, sometimes I wonder who am. But I believe in love…. Good day to you and yours.
Hello. Friendly apostate here. Thankyou for covering this and addressing the issue. I had a fairly smooth transition out of my religion and community. But not everyone does. And even mine was not free of discomfort. And it's really good to see you giving researched reasons for why people apostate and leave their faith in contrast to the straw man critcisms often given by apologists. Also good to see you addressing the bad treatment some have recieved in doing this. Really appreciate your work Shaun.
Also Shaun, in terms of effectiveness in bringing people back into Christianity, which I am making an educated gues that for you it's about trusting in Jesus's death on the cross, for the forgiveness of sin and becoming apart of the kingdom of God. In my contrasted experience with people who have wanted to debate me (Although many have been gracious listeners not pushing an agenda) what you are doing here is going to be most effective in bringing people back in faith in Jesus. Because you make the person who's left feel heard, cared for and loved. And from a psychological perspective we know someone in that state is more likely to listen and open to receiving different perspectives. Whatever it is you are presenting. Even if you we solely concerned with the result of conversion and cared nothing for the command to love others this still would be the best chance you would get at making a conversion. Ironic in one sense. But not in another. Keep going Shaun. Cheering you from the ex-Christian sidelines :) As I'd rather see people respecting each other and discussing complex issues in depth than at each other's metaphorical throats
Did you try to build yout faith on sand? Or by mocking God? Did God say? Come on, really? God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not. In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word. So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar! And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say? Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question. Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question. Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs! Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses. Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say? Every change they make is an insult to God and His word. God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19. In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent. God will not be mocked. This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30 changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair. King James Bible online Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online Sources: Adullum Films Documentary -Tares Among the Wheat video Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort. Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com. If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video. It has some American History also.
@@judyswiderski2682hey Judy. It seems like this reply relates to something that isn't my comment :) I'm guessing it was meant as a reply to the video or another comment. If I'm not wrong about this could be good to move it to the intended place. If it is intended for my comment you could explain as to how if you like🙂
My question would have been why doesn't a living, personal, Father God who wills that all should be saved and who is not the author of confusion doesn't interact with His beloved children who are on the verge of losing their faith/trust/belief in His very existence. It's really as simple as that. When I was on my way out, I was all but begging God to not let me slip off into disbelief that was very much happening against my will and the silence from my Father was deafening.
I’ve had two close friends deconstruct and leave the faith. I attempted to retrain the friendships, both stop communication with me and moved on to their new life. It was hurtful and confusing. They both had such a positive impact in my life, but (here comes the Christian cliche…but it’s true!) God helped me through that difficult time.
@@stiimuli he probably meant "retain" of course, but either way, a friend who can't challenge his friends maybe just shows the sensitivity of this age and that more people take a path of least resistance in their relationships and prop up their own 'authenticity' as their greatest mooring (and then go find reinforcing fair-weather friends).
that is surprising because it usually is the other way, unless the denomination is more radical or bigoted. In which case for their own mental health many of us deconverted need to put up healthy boundaries
@@designbuild7128 it could also be the case that a believer constantly challenging someone's position feels more like a battle every time the friends get together. I can't speak for his two friends but if their friendship was solely based on their shared belief at the time than perhaps the friendship wasn't very substantive.
@@jdjsidjdi That could be. And to the point of this video, professing Christians (or church goers) can get it wrong for sure; but I would contend that traditional Christian doctrine / philosophy is built on the idea that we see every person as transcendently valuable. But this is coupled with the idea that withholding what we believe is truth is not loving or being a true friend either. Some claim the platinum rule, which I would say is the same as the golden rule once qualified. as such, there can be of course ideal ways to 'show truth in love' including giving people space, listening/sympathizing, etc. But there are many modern philosophies that imho confuse discernment on what makes a substantive friendship, what constitutes healthy boundaries as mentioned in this thread, etc. From a pragmatic standpoint, shared values is one of the greatest temporal ties you can use to define a friend. Outside of God's intrinsic value on people, I am not sure how you can transcend commonality / shared interests to define a friendship. Of course you can say you will befriend someone for the greater human condition and civility, but then they are likely just a means to an end. This is a risk in cultural Christianity as well (but this is seen as a misguided view of God's call to love our neighbor and enemies). But I get the points you and others are making.
I had a really bad church experience. Even though I thought my faith was unshakable, it was shaken to the core. It took me 10 years to come back, and yes, it was a long and painful crawl back. If not for God...so I lean in that direction. It's a complicated thing to consider.
Only one bad church experience.....how is this possible...all you have to do is walk into virtually any church in Australia and you will get a shock....so unloving and unfriendly and if you stay longer you will have to have a God given iron clad faith....I refuse to be the religious hateful churchie type...
@Christian Aponte Just the general behaviour is so often unloving....many self serving wanting to be leaders and not servants.....chosen for being loud, pushy, bullying, pushing themselves forward, sociable but shallow, often narcissists, many do not believe in the basics or have an even working knowledge of the bible and do not follow what they do know....have you not noticed how they treat many groups, the meek, the lowly etc...
My oldest son's left our faith because of church abuse by peers, peers' parents, lay leadership and pastors not willing to believe those people were abusive and liars. Nothing was acknowledged. Nothing was done. Church clearly became a very unsafe place for our family. My children's faith was destroyed by physical and emotional abusive church people.
I just watched and commented on your talk with GM Skeptic. I came here right after. Doubt was my concern. As an old atheist, I am actually worried about where christianity is going, and I don't want it to go wanky or towards evil. However, your openness and honesty only makes me think that christianity, if it wishes to survive, may have to accept a very much reduced status in America based upon Jesus and not on the ideologically religious based politics of fundamentalism, nor upon what is popular. The problem which you face as christians, of course, is accepting that you may have to be a little light under a shroud, and you may have to live your lives in emulation of Jesus.
Another problem I see, Ol Jimmers, is the ignorance of Christians. They refuse to listen to what an argument is against their religion. They believe it, and that settles it. "Don't tell me the truth. I'm happy with what I believe in" is their motto. And yet they will say that theirs is the truth, and nobody else has the truth. It's pretty sad.
The Jesus way is bigger than christianity in my opinion. They were first called Christians in Antioch as a derisive title. It's embarrassing for me to be counted as Christian in America today because of the misrepresentation of the real Christ. The worldwide ecclesia is as vital as ever!
Discussions of this subject make me really appreciate my own spiritual journey to an ever deeper love and trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. I went through my crisis of "faith" before I became a real believer. I knew I was an agnostic in the 2nd grade at Catholic elementary school. I knew a Roman Catholic view of the gospel, and I knew about most of the important critiques of spiritual worldviews in general and Christianity in particular. Then on Saturday, December 20, 1980, around 12PM Noon PST, whilst I was looking at a "Wanted" poster for Jesus, it all fell in to place and I knew that He is everything He claimed to be, and He is able to do everything He promises to do. He says He's got the keys of hell and of death, and I believe Him. He says He is the Bread of Life, and I believe Him. He says that if I go to be with Him where He is, I'll get to drink of the Water of Life freely, and not only that, He will grant me the privilege of being set down in His Throne, as He is set down in His Father's Throne, if I overcome, as He has overcome. The Lord has made it easy for me to believe, though not any easier in terms of living it out in real life in real time. So, I can have compassion for those who struggle in ways that I no longer struggle. I also understand that whilst only those who persevere in the faith to the end will be saved, it is also in my opinion the case that only those who persevere AT the end will be saved. The ups and downs don't matter, it's where you come down in the end that matters, so in spite of my Calvinism I keep hope for anyone who might still be eligible for mercy, who is not so reprobate that I'm forced to treat them as not worthy of any bother. Frankly, I haven't actually met anyone in that category, though some come close I'll admit. I think I can describe my self as a Neo-Calvinist. I believe that whom God foreknew He did also predestinate, but I also believe that God is not willing that any should perish. It's one of those pesky paradoxes that drive people crazy because they try to resolve it in their flesh, within our 4 human dimensions, and forget about the other spiritual dimensions. I think it's the case that God has predestinated everybody to be saved, but individuals exercise their "free" will to opt out of salvation, as it were, so to speak, so that the lost are lost not because God predestinated them to be lost, but because they chose to be lost in rebellion and disobedience and ingratitude against God.
The best thing you can do as a Christian to respond someone who is deconverting is to be like this: Love endures with patience and serenity, love is kind and thoughtful, and is not jealous or envious; love does not brag and is not proud or arrogant. 5 It is not rude; it is not self-seeking, it is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]; it does not take into account a wrong endured. 6 It does not rejoice at injustice, but rejoices with the truth [when right and truth prevail]. 7 Love bears all things [regardless of what comes], believes all things [looking for the best in each one], hopes all things [remaining steadfast during difficult times], endures all things [without weakening].
But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is [perceived] knowledge, it will pass away.
Unfotunately, the bible and christians for the last 2000 years have made it undoubtedly clear that there is no hate on the planet like Christian love. So quoting a verse about 'love' from a book full of Orwellian doublespeak and that demands humans have personal relationships with an abuser is a frightening approach towards people who already see the Christian mythology for the horrific moral depravity that it is and atrocities it has wrought on the world.
I find it interesting that we are acting as if there is a new classification for what used to be called falling away, forsaking the faith, or backsliding. I actually walked away from my relationship with God very similar to that you have described. I actually told God I didn't leave him but he left me. I use to despise that people would seem to come across my way and they would say the most outlandish things about God. I used to feel compelled to clarify that just because I no longer serve God it does not change HIS character. I eventually came to the end of myself and realized I was miserable without God and I was miserable with God but what else could I do but return to God because He alone has life. Once I repented and returned, God began to heal my heart and hurts from church doctrine and the people in the church. What I came to realize is that the lack of discipleship and my immaturity in the faith led to me falling away. This is literally my greatest push now as a follower of Christ Jesus... we are to make disciples of Christ Jesus not members of the church. Some feel this is just semantics but it definitely is not. I as a human can belong to something without being invested in the cause or purpose. Discipleship creates opportunity for one to invest in each other's maturing in the faith of our Lord and Savior as well as creating a safe place to ask questions and grapple with hard truths.
There's a big difference between believing and not following and the realisation that there is no good reason to believe that any god or gods are real and so not believing and not following.
LOL! What you stated is the exact reason I could never stop being a Christian. Life is so much fuller and meaningful with God than it is without Him. It's why I often think and find that so many of the stories of these deconverted Christians are people who were never Christians to begin with. They either come from some legalistic fundamentalist background or their Christianity was based on just some feel good feeling, or they became a Christian for social reasons ie. career/marriage. But they never gave their mind or heart to God.
I stopped considering myself a Christian at the age of 18. I grew up in an evangelical environment but I kept my perspective to myself most of the time. Through lengthy introspection, I realized that I was exhausting my interest in rationalizing my way around Christian beliefs and I decided that ‘I don’t know’ was a valid response to many of my questions around religion. My immediate feeling was relief. I was free to explore religion and philosophy without that inner sense of tension at the idea that I may have to defend my worldview against intellectual attack. I could just study for the joy of learning. This approach has suited me much more and I still consider myself unaffiliated.
Great comment. Many theists view "I don't know" as a weakness. I think it is oftentimes the best answer. If we admit we don't know we can keep searching for an answer. I also agree that being willing to admit I don't know reduces cognitive dissonance and saves a lot of emotional energy.
I glad you realized you didn't Know Jesus. I hope you give up whatever sin you left the church for and truly get saved! Ray Comfort has FREE movies and interviews on TH-cam with the gospel!
Kal, that's a shame. I know, I spent years only to find out Jesus makes everything easier to bear, no one else lead me to this "peace that surpasses all understanding."
YES! I also grew up evangelical. I was in it a little longer, deconstructing March 2022 at the age of 24, and have stepped back into that "I don't know" perspective. Learning without taking a side IS very relieving. Thank you for your comment.
I deconverted but the process was happening for years before and didn't realize it. I was deconverted out of hard core fundamentalism gradually but I was claiming Jesus and my fundamentalist faith until I pivoted in one day I looked in the mirror and told myself I am no longer a Christian. I wanted a Time I actually know that I can look back to where I made the concrete decision to leave the faith. I didn't attend a more "liberal" Christian Church.
@@jeffcaminiti162 That is changing and I have watched Chrisitanity for over 45 years and huge changes have been happening within the last 3 years. I find it shocking myself, and that is saying something.
@@jeffcaminiti162 I worked in a mega church and attended a year long class there with some wonderful women. I was surprised by the amount of ex-Catholics that were calling themselves reformed Catholics, jokingly. They shared a common theme to why they left the Catholic Church- it was very legalistic and was not about having a real relationship with Jesus. Being saved by works, not grace.
@@taras4352 No question that a lot of people walk away from legalism. But legalism doesn't represent God. Legalism represents flawed(sinful) human beings misrepresenting the faith. Going the opposite extreme of that isn't the answer.
But the pronlem goes umdtayed: Did God say? Come on, really? God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not. In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word. So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar! And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say? Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question. Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question. Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs! Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses. Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say? Every change they make is an insult to God and His word. God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19. In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent. God will not be mocked. This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30 changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair. King James Bible online Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online Sources: Adullum Films Documentary -Tares Among the Wheat video Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort. Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com. If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video. It has some American History also.
As an ex-evangelical, I lost my faith over 20 years ago. It was gradual, long process. I still remember my very last prayer, it was something along these lines: "God forgive me, I am no longer sure You exists. Please help me and show me the truth. Until I hear from You directly, I will continue alone." And I still mean it! If God will show me that He is true, I will repend. Until that, there is nothing to repend for. I just live my life the best way I can, as if it was the only one.
@@SeanMcDowell Tough part was: everything was, what I did not expected, and on top of it, I had to re-define my worldviews, reasons for everything. And to be true, I still keep making corrections. Your topic got my attention - I hoped to recognize the reasons I had when leaving. But no dice ;) And, thanks for being so.. positive! (I really struggled for the last word)
Sean is my favorite apologist. He seems like such a genuine guy. If I ever found myself starting to believe in the Christian god, he'd be my first source for apologetics.
@@connormorris5189 I know you aren't asking me, but if you are just interested in the psychological aspect, I can answer When I read the bible (specifically the old testament) it seems much more like a product of humans than that of a loving god. I can't figure out why god would repeatedly demand sacrifice in the old testament, but I know that gods from plenty ancient man-made religions are the same way - so it is possible that god is depicted in this way because that is how humans viewed gods back then. Phrased in a different way, it is possible that god is made in the image of humans and not the other way around. Furthermore, this would explain so many things about the old testament. Why does god repeatedly kill people for trivial reasons including kids? Can't say for certain, but gods of other religions do the same thing. Why does god have a desire to be worshipped and feared? Why does god who loves everyone have a select group of people that he helps in war like in other religions? Why are the laws in deutoronomy from a modern perspective so horrifying? chapter 13 specifically demands that you stone family members to death if they start worshipping different gods and the same chapter demands that we slaughter entire cities if they have different gods. Shouldn't we convert them to christianity? Same thing with hell. I can't rationally justify it, but I know that other religions have a hell too - isn't it weird that humans independantly of god figured out the perfect and most morally just punishment/reward system for the afterlife? I personally think hell is a thing because the bible is made by humans and I know that the humans responsible for other ancient religions are big fans of hell. Finally, I don't just don't find the evidence compelling. The evidence consists of ancient people claiming that jesus rose from the dead. But religions don't generally spread by themselves. They always arise and spread because someone starts claiming something that isn't true, so I don't know how anyone can differentiate between a religion spreading because it's true from a religion that is based on a lie. I am fine with people using jesus as a role model, though. I think he represents good values and I think the world would be a better place if more people listened to his teachings. But if we are purely looking at this from a perspective that I consider rational, I can't say that I think any of these things actually happened
@@connormorris5189 I would say it's the lack of good evidence. I don't know what it would take to convince me otherwise....but if God does exist, he would know exactly what it would be.
Definitely relate to that. Of the apologists and preachers I listened to when I was a Christian and while I was a deconverting, Sean was definitely my favorite. While atheists have plenty of great spokespersons, few are as genuinely caring and loving as Sean. While I don’t wish the real struggle and heartbreak that happens when you lose your faith for the first time on anyone, Sean would be the best person to coherently and lovingly represent exchristians if he ever were to deconvert. I refound him as I was following Josh Steingard (think thats the spelling) through his doconversion (as we definitely went through the same things). Sean’s approach and conversation with him was a very beautiful moment. Kinda shocked me to hear what others like Alisa Childers and the lead singer of Skillet had to say, both of whom I had admired. That being said I still appreciate their perspectives and Monster is a great song
Mothers often sacrifice an awful lot for the sake of their children, especially those moms who invest a lot in their kids. They sacrifice their bodies, their health, so much of their time, their careers, their time with friends, their sense of individuality. I think in a lot of ways, motherhood changes a woman’s self-concept more than fatherhood does a man’s. I could be wrong, since I’ve never been a father. But I’ve worked with mothers for a long time. When you have invested so much of your life - not just your time, your whole life - into someone, to watch them fall away from what matters most in life is not just heart-wrenching; it also feels like all that sacrifice you made was in vain. For better or worse, we mamas feel like a lot is riding on how our children turn out.
Believe it or not, you are describing codependence not motherhood. If you did your best, you have nothing to worry about. The child will have to learn the hard way at times. If they reach a snare in life, they will fall back on all that made you stable. Then they will be able to put their life in order. It might take a 12 step program and a therapist. That is the journey of them and God's plan for their life and maybe plan b and c. Your kids are loaned to you. They really belong to God and themselves. You need to read a book on codependency. You cannot control your kids or your lives. Focus on your life and become excited about your life and that will attract your children to you in relationship. Show how happy following God makes you. God bless you.
As a former Christian, I can remember feeling this burden, that my children's salvation was riding on my ability to "train up a child in the way he should go...". Indoctrination is the inevitable, natural consequence; rest assured, children that walk away from the faith will resent this. Neither your nor your child's self-worth should hinge on a Christian identity. If you've raised a loving, empathetic, and productive member of society, well done. Consider (or perhaps reconsider) a god that would cast that person into hell for eternal torment for a lack of belief.
Sacrifice is different from vicarious living. A sacrifice is vicarious, but... a sacrifice requires a death, and a sacrifice therefore seems to be something made "in vain." That is the meaning of sacrifice. Something to think on, sisters.
I understsnd your hesrt! We so dedire to see the best for our children especially their eternity. But there is a deceptive veke we were not aware of. We thouhht that God made all bibles equal. Did God say? Come on, really? God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not. In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word. So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar! And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say? Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question. Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question. Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs! Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses. Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say? Every change they make is an insult to God and His word. God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19. In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent. God will not be mocked. This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30 changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair. King James Bible online Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online Sources: Adullum Films Documentary -Tares Among the Wheat video Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort. Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com. If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video. It has some American History also.
I have started telling my kids that they WILL have doubts as they go along in their faith and to continue seeking answers. To not be scared by doubts and to be okay with some of the discomfort while they search out their answers. The alternative is that this is all by chance and that is more ludicrous than any doubt I might have.
God does not have to justify His actions to anyone. This includes everything from the OT all the way to the future final judgement. It is not incumbent upon pastors to find innovative ways to explain God's actions in an effort to reconcile them with modern day sensitivities. Any tension between God and the deconverting skeptic is purely the fault of the skeptic. We all have a choice to make. We can either believe in and follow Christ or we can reject Him and walk away. We also must own the logical outcomes of these decisions. We should pray for and be available to answer the questions and doubts of those who are deconverting. But never, never, never give them victim status. Hard truth: Those that reject Christ are enemies of God unless they repent. No exceptions.
Christian rhetoric like this do more to ensure the mass exodus from Christianity grows exponentially. Tone deaf, rude, dismissive, toxic and ignorant. It not only makes it patently clear to those deconstructing and deconverting that the Christian god is made in the image of morally depraved men, but that there is no hate like Christians love. The world needs more comments like this. Classic Westboro Effect.
I find it very natural and even logical to believe in a Higher Power / Creator, and even confess christian faith, but I still struggle with lots of theology.
"And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him." Hebrews 11:6
@@SeanMcDowell it's understandable, but also unbearable. Truth about "God and everything" is really something I want to find, not only vague belief in something higher.
You are to be taugt by the Spirit of truth, after you atre born again by the power of the Holy Spirit of God. The first part, the Spirit of truth does not use lying, God mocking bibles. Did God say? Come on, really? God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not. In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word. So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar! And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say? Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question. Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question. Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs! Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses. Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say? Every change they make is an insult to God and His word. God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19. In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent. God will not be mocked. This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30 changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair. King James Bible online Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online Sources: Adullum Films Documentary -Tares Among the Wheat video Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort. Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com. If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video. It has some American History also.
I used to be a super devout Mormon. So so incredibly fundamental. I don’t regret leaving because it was a cult, but all these things you’re saying are so incredibly true of my experience and leaving. It was a super long process that took several years. It was definitely the hypocrisy of the members that planted that first seed of doubt that caused me to really look around and be like you’re not even doing what you’re preaching. Then there were the intellectual issues, their own books having problems, and them being shunned. It scares me knowing that life does have a way of brining up situations that I would’ve never dreamed was possible. I would’ve never guessed that I was going to leave. So now it’s taking me 10 years to find my way back to evangelical faith because I had to take time to heal and live and experience the ways of the world, despite avoiding a ton of pitfalls that people who leave fall into, see them fail me in my life get worse and completely run out of every option that way. I have no clue what the future is gonna have and if it’s going to break me spiritually again and not be able to find my way out of it. All I can do is try to build up my testimony even more and continue to work to make sure I’m surrounded by a positive community to be there to help me out. Fortunately pastors are all formally trained and can help in a way that Mormon bishops can’t but members are taught to expect. Hence they’re bleeding members and they should be! They claim they’re Christian but they really aren’t but we need to be bringing them over to this side and welcoming them into this community after being burned by theirs.
This is what has my attention more than anything right now in this culture...I feel like I'm the poor man's John Marriott :) as I'm in many conversations/debates and studying of folks deconstructing/deconverting in books and videos. He's 1000% right in that you go through the gammit of empathy, anger, and questioning things yourself--especially when someone genuinely has their updated worldview very well contructed and are no longer in the Faith. While discouraging, it also should not be surprising--not everyone is going to "believe" so at some point in a gracious debate or conversation, there comes a time when you have to be ok that it really is not for everyone. That's the beauty of Christianity...it's not forced...you either love it or you don't. You end up getting what you want in the end. I'm finding it to be mostly strengthening to my own faith and forcing me to learn and understand Scripture even more...that has been super cool. I look forward to reading John's book and even connecting with him on some advice. I'm actually in the middle of the book "Before you Lose your Faith" by Trevon Wax, Rachel Gilson, and others which is really good too.
@@hhstark8663 " I stopped believing in atheism" You stopped believing in something you didn't believe? That's a double negative. Being an atheist simply means you don't accept a god claim. You don't stop believing in atheism, you begin believing in theism. Believing something is an action. You cannot to begin to stop believing.
@@mrscience1409 You are technically correct, in the same way that being a Bolshevik is technically not genocidal, but is by the common understanding of genocidal - desiring to kill entire groups of people who you don't like (just killing kulaks for the sake of the state, you know...). Agnosticism, as understood by most people, is having the humility to not believe any particular religious claim, in the lack of any perceived good evidence for any such claims. Generally it is a transition point for people between one belief system (no matter how ill formed) and another, although people can be in such a situation for decades. Atheism, as understood by most people on the other hand, is the belief that all such religious claims about gods or divinities are bunk, and that our world is not fundamentally subordinate to some divine personality or personalities. It is not, and has not been understood to mean for a long time, as a designation related to a specific god/deity. It describes a big-tent set of beliefs which reject a divine framework as the underpinning of the world. Tend to be materialistic, but atheist idealists are a respectable category that exists. Tl;DR Many atheists try to write themselves into victory by default by making Atheism the default belief of humans linguistically. Therefore this shifts the burden of proof in their favour, such that if they really desire, any evidence cannot shift the scales. You can do that if you want, I certainly used to. But you are only making it more confusing for everybody.
This is mostly true, but not in the way that tends to matter. I can't force myself to deny the obvious. Incidentally, this is the reason why many theists discuss the concept of 'divine hiddenness', with one solution being that it would not leave humans with a real choice to be undeniably present everywhere... that would be like sorting Stockholm syndrome sheep from those who want to escape, no matter how benevolent the deity. However, what I can do, and what many (not suggesting you - this is more true of me imho) people actually do, is commit what lawyers and psychologists term wilful blindness. So often, when there are truths we fear, despise, or are disinterested in, we know where to find them - we just would rather not look. When I became an atheist, I claimed that the scriptures are full of contradictions! I had heard it somewhere on TH-cam, and by super cursorily looking over my bible (if that), I could confirm that those passages were indeed in the places the youtuber claimed. So in short, you are for the most part correct! You can't force belief, it happens organically! But you can *stifle* it. You can throw away the seed before it germinates. You can avoid asking your child why they are acting uncharacteristically despondent, and cultivate an atmosphere where they will never dare talk about their issues, and claim you never knew they were having difficulty, and not even deliberately, just because you prefer the comfort of a quiet house after your 10 hour shift. You can neglect to ask your son how much debt they are in before co-signing the loan, because you ardently believe your son a responsible man, and how could you be wrong about THAT! And given how painful contemplating the idea of a god, and this god's place in your life, the one where bad things have happened to you and to humanity - well, that is ample reason to avoid serious entertaining of the idea of a deity altogether. How much moral culpability you may have for wilful blindness is up to you to decide. You may even assume the unevidenced, yet not entirely unreasonable assumption that free will does not exist, and therefore the idea of moral culpability is bunk. But what is not up to debate is that it exists, and therefore in some sense our actions (i.e. pseudo choice for stalwart determinists) can determine our beliefs. Bit of a ramble, but if nothing else it helped me clarify my thoughts. Hope you have a good day!
Friendly atheist here! :) It is a straw man that people are leaving the faith due to bad things happening to them... stop wasting time on this, we all agree that good or bad things happening to people are not a good reason to believe or not believe in themselves.
It depends. For some people it is intellectual, for other people it is emotional (like in "Jim Yost" and "Sarah´s song"´s cases in the comments below). I conqur that emotional reasons *should* not cause a change in position, but it does unfortunately (not all human beings obviously, but still occurs). Human beings are unfortunately not entirely rational.
Reasons don't have to "be good" (whatever that means) to believe something though, so it's important to address regardless of your personal opinion of the reasons.
Hi, Friendly Atheist! I agree that the fact that bad things happen to good people is not a very good excuse to dis-believe in a loving, all-powerful God. The Bible explains that bad things are the consequences of sin being unleashed upon the world, which happened at man's initiative, in spite of a clear warning from God, Who, in His mercy, took the eternal consequences upon Himself through His Son, providing an escape route for mankind--should they choose to take it. I think of original sin as being like radiation from the sun. I was born into a world with radiation. I did not ask for it, but it will eventually kill me. Whether or not I believe in radiation or not does not change the consequences for me, although if I choose to lie around in tanning beds, I could hasten the process. In order for me to live forever, someone would need to save me from the consequences of radiation.
Maybe it's not the majority, but I believe him when he says he came across people who gave that as a reason. Maybe it serves as a catalyst. From utter disappointment to asking yourself whether or not your religion is true. And it also depends on what you believed in the first place. I imagine someone following the prosperity gospel will deconvert faster because of bad things happening to them than another denomination.
Ive deconstructed my faith and I’m still an evangelical. My views on some secondary issues have changed, but I hold on to the essentials even stronger.
@Sarah Hodgins For me, anyone who affirms the tenets of the Nicene Creed is a Christian. An Evangelical however is someone who also 1) empathises the necessity of being ‘born again’ 2) Places a focus on evangelism and spreading the Gospel and 3) sees the Bible as the trustworthy Word of God.
I left the church at the peak of my love for it. It broke my heart that I couldn't affirm the dogma in good faith. Nearly 15 years later, it takes everything in me not to be contemptuous of what the church has become; particularly American evangelicalism. It certainly bears little to no resemblance to the vision of Jesus I once followed. I grieved the loss at the time, but I regret nothing about parting ways.
I left Christianity during a time when I was trying to be a better Christian. After a friend started getting involved with a particular church that made claims that weren't Biblical, I tried talking to him, and realized my ability to recall a relevant verse was lacking. From there I decided to not just read but thoroughly study the Bible to not just understand what's being said, but why. As I delved deeper into the Bible, I realized there was a lot that just simply wasn't true, acts of a god that are cruel, despicable, and immoral...none of it made sense anymore. I went searching for answers, trying to make sense of it all and happened to come across debates between apologists and atheists, and every single time - the atheist made more sense. Turns out the best Christian I could be was an atheist. That said, no bad experience led me away. I was (and am still) happily married with a family and great friends. Leaving my faith was more difficult because I lost some of those connections I had with others.
@Sarah Hodgins You've got to be kidding. First, American churches don't teach these things; they just ignore it's there. The old testament is littered with times where god commands the death of many people, including the firstborns of Egypt. Leviticus 25:44 - “‘Your male and female slaves are to come from the nations around you; from them you may buy slaves." Leviticus 25:46 - "You can bequeath them to your children as inherited property and can make them slaves for life, but you must not rule over your fellow Israelites ruthlessly." This isn't pro-slavery? Really? The only reason people feel the need to interpret verses like this is because of the uncomfortable truth about what it blatantly says.
I came to a crossroads when I was 24, and I was challenged. The thing is, I didn't take those challenges as a wreck to my faith. Instead, I challenged the challenges and they fell apart. Today, my faith is 100 times stronger, my knowledge and study is also much more sturdy than it was then. All in all, when it comes to the philosophy of God's existence, the answer to that question is a resounding and overwhelming YES! I chose not to fold, and dig in instead. The challenges were very real to me as well. This is when my faith became my own, and not anything I was taught. I have a friend who was raised in the church. He fell at the first challenge to his faith and what he fell to was a little book that was nothing. The book was all completely false and written by what most would consider to be a quack. I challenged him to challenge the book and he said no. He was never of us. Just as the bible says, the wheat and chaff will be separated. Chaff blows away in the wind easily. No strength in his faith at all. I believe he was looking for the first reason to give it up and when that excuse presented itself he did. (hard Christian home) I personally was bombarded with challenges, but they all fell at my scrutiny of them.
That's an excuse--akin to saying a demon made you do it, the devil made you do it, God/s made you do it etc. Statements like, "the evidence convinced me and left me with no other choice," require elaboration and don't on their own provide any information on what was convincing.
@@hhstark8663 I have a very hard time seeing how evidence could possibly lead you to any sort of specific theology. Once you consider the idea that all religions are invented by men any other explanation seems very unlikely by comparison.
Let me add to your statement. Reading the Bible and not understanding it, or studying it, is why a lot of people either leave, or don’t want anything to do with it. IMO
Thank you for this program. I cried through much of it because I have a sister who has been in the deconversion process for several years, and my heart breaks for her. Bottom line for her is that she just can't accept a God who would send someone to hell. This was mentioned as an example in the interview, and I wish there had been more discussion on how to respond to that. You have given me much to think about and much to pray about.
These are the two best answers I have heard about this the issue of hell. I hope they help. :) 1. God does not send humans to hell. Humans *send themselves* to hell, since they do not want to be in presence with God. God *will not force* someone to be in his presence against his/her will. The only loving thing by God is to let them decide for themselves. 2. God will judge *those who have never heard* or *not have enough information* based on the information that they have been given. If their hearts want to be with god, they will get admitted into heaven. (The reason that we are Christians is because *it is true* , which still justifies missionary-activity on this view.)
@@hhstark8663 Thank you for those good points. My sister would probably reply that the idea that someone sends themselves to hell is preposterous--"No one would do that." If something doesn't seem sensible to her personally then she denies that it's true.
@@thingstocomemission9243 This is what I would respond to her: Why would a judge not do that? Can a judge in real life send a criminal to jail for lifetime for committing serious crimes? Yes, they can. Can a criminal be pardoned in the jurisdictional system? Yes, they can. If the criminal refuses the pardon, will the criminal still be sent to jail for lifetime? Yes, they will. Why is it then injustice for God to act according to the laws that he layed out (the moral laws), while giving us the option to be pardoned? Have you followed the Ten Commandments perfectly? If we do not take the pardon, we are sending ourselves to jail for a lifetime. That is not injustice. ____________________________ Here is another scenario: *Accusation* : It´s unjust for god to send people to hell because of a geographical accident! *Answer* : Why is that unjust? A person is not sent to hell for rejecting Jesus, they are sent to hell for breaking the moral laws (Ten Commandments, repeated in the New Testament as well with the exception of one, namely the Sabbath) for over a lifetime. Has that person who has not heard about Jesus broken the moral law? Yes, they have. How would the punishment be unjust, given the person´s guilt? By accepting Jesus, the person would then be pardoned from his guilt. If the person in question would have accepted Jesus, God would have put a Christian in his/her path. And that is not injustice.
I agree with your sister I believe God know our heart and will eventually welcome everyone back, so I have no fear of the physical death, it is God's greatest gift to humans. Yah though I walk thru the valley of shadow of death I shall fear no evil, this is what I believe@@thingstocomemission9243
@@koakat4340 I did indeed find God within, I never gave up my faith I gave up organized religion and found a heart full of compassion and that gave me peace.
Because apologetics are just a poor excuse for the doubts that arise from lack of evidence. Apologetics is not the search for truth, but the search for arguments for preconceived notions.
@Hello There I would like to answer your last question. "So what would convince you of the existance of God?" I don't know what would convince me, but God would. If God truly wanted to have a personal relationship with me, he, being the all powerful god, would know exactly what to do or say to convince me. The fact that he doesn't says one of two things, he doesn't want a relationship with me or he doesn't exist.
Congratulations, friend. Your newfound enlightenment can be quite intoxicating, but I would suggest resisting the temptation to share your good news too broadly until you have matured a bit in your freedom from religion. Many will be easily offended, and feel judged by you even though you say little. Be kind to those who are religious - they find much comfort in it. Peace, and enjoy the journey.
How is faith good? Truth wins through but only if you let it. Faithful Muslims will never change their beliefs. It is faith that keeps them wrong. That is all faith can do. It has no correction method and can only keep people wrong.
There is always going to be a struggle for some people when they face challenges in life, they blame God, pray to Him, and don't feel their prayers have been answered. I feel that God always listens to our prayers, but people don't always realise that He works in mysterious ways, not always the way we think, or not always straight away, and we may not always notice the ways in which He has worked or is working for us. Some walk away from faith because of this, which is so sad, but I know that God listens, cares and loves us unconditionally, and will always be there. Faith is a beautiful thing to let go of, and I feel heartfelt sympathy for those who have lost this most precious of things, what now for them? I pray that they will find their way home, back to Him who created us and loves us, and who wants us home when we leave our earthly life.❤️🙏❤️
Do you realize the description you laid out in your first paragraph paints a situation that is entirely indistinguishable from that god not existing at all? You've constructed a completely unfalsifiable concept. So how do we reliably check to see if this god you're referring to really does hear our prayers and does mysterious things we can't see....or simply isn't there except in the minds of those who want to believe? Similarly, how exactly do you "know that God listens, cares and loves us unconditionally, and will always be there"? How have you determined this to be true? Because the bible says so? Because you wish this to be true? I am sincerely asking. If this god can reliably and definitively be demonstrated to actually exist outside imagination then many many more people would believe......and surely this god knows this, right?
@@stiimuli I have had a personal experience after the tragic death of a loved one, I can honestly and truly , hand on heart vouch for this experience at the worst time in my life. It was a supernatural experience with no other explanation as I cried out in total despair to my Lord and Saviour. So I speak through personal experience as well as Christianity making complete sense to me. Nothing else does! 🙏
@@beemer2869 Surely you're aware that "I had an experience" is commonly espoused across all religions and all manner of claims. Does it mean they all are true or what that person thinks they were? Also, you didn't actually answer my questions. What can we do to test your claims about this god to reliably verify if they are accurate? Please offer something better than "I had an experience" or "have faith".
To be fair, I knew you wouldn't understand because my experience was personal and unique to me, I believe it 100 percent, and what you believe is irrelevant. On my faith, I believe the evidence of the Holy Bible and all the extremely clever men and women through the centuries to the present day who have studied it and analysed it intelligently from cover to cover. My faith is not blind, it is very strong for many many reasons. You are free to not believe, just as I am to believe, but I tell you one thing, I would rather be in my position than that of a non believer, you have so much more to lose in the end Nothing will convert me from Christianity. For more educated answers, if you were interested, I suggest you do some research on TH-cam. C S Lewis doodles are a good place to start. I wish you well my friend, God bless.
@@beemer2869 1) I don't doubt you had an experience or what you believe about it. I doubt that your assessment of its cause and meaning are accurate. Just like if someone told you they had an experience with aliens. With only the claim to go on would you just accept actual aliens? I don't mean that as any kind of insult. I'm simply trying to remain objective and intellectually honest. 2) "I believe the evidence of the Holy Bible and all the extremely clever men and women..." But only the clever men and women who believe the bible is true like you do? What about the many, many clever men and women who have studied the bible and believe differently (or don't believe its true)? Do you consider them as well? 3) "you have so much more to lose in the end" No more than you have to lose if Islam is correct. Actually you have more to lose there because Islam's description of hell is far more horrifying than Christianity's. By your own logic you should now convert to Islam because you have more to lose in the end. Or could it be that hypothetical risk is not how we reliably assess what is true and what is not? 4) "Nothing will convert me from Christianity" and that right there is a literal example of being closed minded. Being unwilling to even consider ever changing your mind if new evidence or ideas warrant it. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but I'm a bit shocked you said that flat out. 5) "I suggest you do some research on TH-cam" I've spent more than a decade on TH-cam and other forums examining and discussing these subjects. I'm familiar with Lewis and many other apologists. If you find a certain argument of his particularly compelling I'm happy to discuss it here with you.
I left the Christian tradition after 20+ years of beautiful, weekly practice and faith when I realized Christian Exceptionalism (Christians go to heaven, *everyone else* goes to hell) would never, ever achieve a peaceful world... quite the opposite... would ensure a world that was forever violently divided. And so it is. And I left the Christian tradition wholesale within a year.
That's a tough one. I considered leaving Christianity because I didn't like the idea of my way being the right or the only way. And then, when I thought of becoming something else - non-religious, other religion - I hit a conundrum. I realized, no matter what I believed, I would believe that THAT way (whatever it was) was the right way. Even if I believed all religions were right, I would be forced to believe that Christian exceptionalists were wrong. I figure we're all stuck with a kind of exceptionalism. Painfully, I think it's unavoidable.
@@yaminatoday1151 We are not stuck with exceptionalism if we are in a consistent growth process that includes - and yet transcends the best truths as we find them, and jettisons the rest. I jettisoned Christian dogma that was clearly deficient or pathological, and moved forward
@@MamaKatrinaRain Not sure what you mean by "transcends the best truths?" Truth is truth, isn't it? Also, it seems to me that Christians can also be in a consistent growth process, believing what they believe. They don't have to disavow Christ to be in a consistent growth process. So I honestly don't understand what you are saying. Can you clarify?
Is it possible that our finite minds can’t fathom every way that God thinks? Consider what God says to Job and his philosophical friends when they are going back and forth in their discussion
If Christianity is true, islam is false and vice versa. They can NOT both be true at the same time. Christianity says that Jesus died on the cross. Islam says that Jesus did NOT die on the cross. See "cira international" or "pfanderfilms" for more information.
It depends on whether the aspect you are thinking of has been accepted by the church for 2000 years, or not. If you disagree with calvinists, you should be an arminian. If you disagree with arminian, you should be a wesleyan. And so on (don´t forget the catholics and orthodox as well). Those are still minor secondary theological issues. The major primary theological issues are accepted regardless of denomination.
I had a very warm relationship with my father who was a devoted Christian. Read a degree in Theology at the London Schools of Theology and still deconverted. Attachment patterns formed in relationship with real parents don't point to whether god is real in any way. It may be that avoidant attachment simply makes it less likely that a person will form a relationship with an imaginary supernormal parent projected from their own mind as they have developed the resources to take care of themselves at an earlier stage.
So many critical issues were left out of this interview. · The New Testament is heavily influenced by Aristotelian, NeoPlatonistic, Pythagorean, and Stoic philosophies, woven all throughout it. · Zoroastrian and Egyptian influences abound. · It copies extensively from the Greek pantheon and Mithraic beliefs. Luke and Acts are based heavily on Homer's Iliad and Odyssey, both in structure, detail, and quotes. The gospels also quote from and borrow storylines from Euripides and Virgil. · The Gospel of Mark is based on the Zodiac, in the correct order of the constellations. · The author of Luke heavily borrowed from Josephus and Plutarch. · The NT quotes extensively from the Qumran/Dead Sea Scrolls. · The NT quotes/plagiarizes the much older book of Enoch 100x, quotes other pseudepigraphal/deuterocanonical books hundreds of times, including endless quotes from The Wisdom of Solomon, Sirach/Ecclesiasticus, Baruch, Esdras, Jubilees, Judith, Tobit, The Testament of the Twelve Patriarchs, The Assumption of Moses, The Book of Jasher, The Life of Adam and Eve, The Apocalypse of Zephaniah, etc. · There are many quotes of earlier philosophers woven throughout the NT--not just where it's spelled out in Acts. · Gematria (Jewish numerology) and early Kabbalah played a very large part, especially when mixed in with Pythagorean concepts (John 21's "153" fish, the numbers in the first 2 chapters of Luke, and all over Revelation). · There are 40-50+ Gospels and 6+ books of Acts. There are at least 9 different endings to Mark. How do you know which one is the correct one? · You didn't even touch on canonicity how many books floated in and out of the canon for hundreds of years. · There are forgeries and counter forgeries, including inside the canon. · There is extensive astrotheology woven in. · You didn't touch on Roman state influences on the narrative. · You didn't touch on the endless church power struggles, and that orthodoxy shifted on major levels many times. You can't wave a magic wand over what happened 200 BC - 400 AD and act like Christianity is anything other than a Jewish version of a Greco-Roman mystery cult that heavily borrowed from endless "pagan" sources of the day. The Bible doesn't look divine in any way. And, as usual, you show ZERO admission of: "We're sincerely searching for the truth but are entirely aware that our current worldview may be entirely incorrect and we will adjust as new information becomes available." As always, you think you have the answers and there is no room whatsoever for you to be on the wrong side of the argument. We will continue to expose the reality of where the NT came from, and will continue to help more and more people escape the cult of Christianity.
Somehow they miss the unconditional love of God. Anytime we feel we have to earn our salvation, (instead of fully accepting Jesus paid it all,) we will burn out and treat others without compassion.. But the fact that up to 40% of church leaders are Narcissists, who control, by the law, their parishioners, we also have a viable reason why people leave the church, feeling it is not worth the pain.
Unconditional? How exactly is "worship me or be punished for eternity" unconditional? There's a reason the only unforgivable sin in the bible is disbelief.
I didn't but first I would need evidence that a god exists and then proof that this god loves me. saying it is not enough, and sorry but I can't just flip a switch and say okay I will believe again, because I need a good reason to believe and there isn't one after searching for over 15 years. and then furthermore if it take longer than 2 years what kind of god would allow people truthfully and genuinely searching for a relationship with Jesus????
@@stiimuli You missed it. You try to sum it up in what you think is happening, but that is not what is happening in this story. The story is, Humans decided not to love God. God, in his way to seek REAL believers and beings to share in his creation lovingly gave that choice. So when you choose to not be with God, God allows you to do that. The ultimate end is complete existence with everything godless. When you realize what that is exactly, there is no one who would want that. Existence without any pleasure or goodness whatsoever. Just sorrow, disgrace, regret, and torment for eternity. Why? Because you chose to not be with God. Super simple. Just being without who God is and what he is is what makes life Hell. He is not actively torturing you, he turns his back on you and the result is, you get to enjoy none of his attributes. Which is everything that you think is good in life period.
@@Epsylon21 There is evidence that God exists everywhere you look, however, you deny it and attribute it to the musings of man and his ideas. Math, logic are 2 very big things that point to God. Its not hard, but when you don't want it to be true, it is even harder.
But that's the thing a lot of people who deconvert WANT it to be true. The bias is in the opposite direction. But I do understand where your perspective comes from and I know you're well intended, but for many it's not "not choosing God's love" it's "choosing reality over a pre conceived reality" Anyway have a good day, I'm not intending to insult or "deconvert" you
Some nasty comments here of course, will try to keep it respectful. First of all, I applaud the idea of looking at deconversion and hopefully also conversion statistically. Too often we just hear anecdotes, which are important to each individual, but zooming out to a high level can be informative i feel. I think the wording is really important. How is a deconversion defined? I feel that most are brought up in a certain faith and their family and community usually promote it, so there wasn't much of a choice to "enter" the faith or opt out in the first place. I gradually grew out of the faith I was raised in, but would not deem it a deconversion, simply a phase I grew out of like being afraid of the dark as my world view developed. My guess is that this is true for many, but would like to see the stats. If experiences were similar these would need to be categorized as something other than deconversions, maybe world view maturations? It would be interesting as well to see stats on reasons given by adults for converting faiths or finding faith.
I wrote an article on deconversion for the Dutch magazine that I write for. Based on my own story and the co-author, who also lost her faith. Mine was slow and gradual, hers was instant. Mine started because of moral implications, hers was because of a crisis. According the psychologist that specialises in religion and faith, it really depends on the reason you deconverted.
Agreed, I grew up in a Christian family and thus identified as one early on. I experienced no pain or hardship, just realized I just never questioned it before.
@@roeliethegoat thanks for sharing. I too had moral objections when I started analyzing the beliefs instead of taking them on face value. To me it would be fascinating to see what percentage of the faith community: -Was indoctrinated and simply never questioned their beliefs. -Came to faith later in life after a life changing experience. -left the faith later in life after a epiphany/life changing experience -left the faith gradually as they questioned more and more (where you and I fit in) -was raised in faith and grew in faithfulness through life no matter what. There are probably a few more categories that make sense. The big problem would be gathering "honest" data and I have no good proposals for doing so, but am excited by the idea nonetheless.
What happens when you try to build your house on sand? That is a major problem! Did God say? Come on, really? God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not. In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word. So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar! And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say? Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question. Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question. Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs! Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses. Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say? Every change they make is an insult to God and His word. God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19. In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent. God will not be mocked. This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30 changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair. King James Bible online Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online Sources: Adullum Films Documentary -Tares Among the Wheat video Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort. Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com. If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video. It has some American History also.
I am going through a crisis of faith. I realize that even if I “abandoned” the religious things of Christianity I could never not believe in Jesus. No matter what I think that never fades. Despite that I’m still confused on many things and how that confusion has any bearing on my salvation.
I'm kinda feeling that way about my Catholic faith. I believe in Jesus and God and am so incredibly confident in the Bible... But I have zero respect for the Catholic Church. The pope is a joke and the evils of Rome cannot be ignored. I feel kinda homeless right now...
When I was much younger I left my church because I believed the lie that Christians didn't care, which wasn't at all true, but my core beliefs were still intact, I rededticated fairly soon after. I had missed the Lord and glad this Prodigal came back
It was painful when I left. It was like a death in the family. When I did leave I was more happy and felt that a burden was lifted. I don't "sin it up" and I have not done anything different as to how I live after I deconverted pretty much. Most Christians think because we deconvert we go nuts and do every sin under the sun and that is just not true. I was brought up in Christianity since I was two years old. I got saved (Yes I understood) at five years old. I was a fundamentalist for 40 years. That is part of what makes you who you are.
Hey, can I ask you honestly - why does it feel happier? I am a Christian who converted from atheism (there was some New Agey-ness in between) and I can't fathom ever feeling happy about God not existing, because for me it would mean the absence of hope, truth, love and meaning. How do you understand these things now? As much as can be explained in a TH-cam comment 😂 I am truly sorry for the painful process you've been through. 💖
My life has been so much better, I love stronger than before and I feel so much happier since I gave up the supernatural, superstitions of faith. I was a happy Christian but am a much happier, giving, caring and loving person since letting go of all of those fairytales.
This segment has been very very helpful and enlightening. I'm currently dealing with looking into this myself. I've been in contemplative thought toward attempting to ask a few of my friends the reasons behind their deconstruction deconversion stories. The friend that I asked already has confirmed this video as legit information because there were a few variants from this video that he has dealt with in his leaving the faith. Please pray that I decrease in the Lord increases as I speak to him further about his reasonings. That I might know and be led in what to say and what not to say while conversing with him and any of the other people in my life who I speak to on this subject. And pray that they have those instances where they come back to the faith or come to the faith, for the glory of God. Thank you both again!
This is a chance for you to consider your own beliefs. You prayed that your God gives you the words to say that will "work". If he gives you words and they don't work then your God has been falsified.
@@thetruest7497 I never prayed for the "words that work" which it would seem as though you are equating that phrase to mean "magic words". I asked for the words to say that will help me to answer his questions to the best of my ability. The words that will allow me to show compassion to his hurt and truth to the lies he has been fed. Whether he accepts them as true or not is on his heart once the seed of Truth has been planted. Matthew 10:19 I would suggest that you take time to examine scripture because if you think God is a Genie you either have the wrong God or you've been battling against the Prosperity/Name It Claim It gospel...which I am against as well.
@@nikduke23 this whole response is a way to reconcile the fact you know the God you think exists will not do anything with the fact that you don't want to give up belief. It's understandable, but not good for accepting reality. Whether or not you prayed for the words that work or words at all you're still treating it like a genie. I recommend taking a long critical look at what you're doing here.
@@thetruest7497 okay. Thanks for the advice. Nothing wrong with taking the time to examine your beliefs. I have done that. On many occasions and Jesus is the answer that stands in every test I conduct. Hopefully, he'll be that for you someday as well.
@@nikduke23 based on your response here I can tell you haven't done that. What you've done is look to reaffirm what you already wanted. This is quite common and quite easily detectable. For example your initial response was an attempt to hide the fact that your God won't do something verifiable. This is a tactic commonly used by people suffering from confirmation bias. You incorrectly thought that if the results of your asking are unverifiable then God cannot be assessed. You didn't realize that you were still treating it like a genie by asking for words at all. Only you would be able to tell whether or not you think you were spoken to (a way of hiding the results of your asking) where if your friend wasn't convinced by your God words (which they wouldn't be because the words provided by your God are always eerily similar to and lack luster as your own words) then that proves your God doesn't know everything ie the words that would convince your friend. Christian attempts to protect their God from examination like this is telling enough, it exposes that even you don't believe in its power. Furthermore it's unbiblical. Go read 1 Kings 18 where Yahweh lays out scientific tests to verify "real gods" from fake ones (ignoring the fact that Yahweh thinks Baal exists for the moment). Why do you want to protect your God from the types of verifiable tests he was adamant about in his autobiography, the bible? I know the answer to that, but just want you to consider that for a while.
The hardest part of separating myself from the Church was not abandoning God in the process. So many have been indoctrinated to believe that isn't possible. At best a delusion but basically any move away from the Church is warned as a move into the lap of Satan. How many have been turned away from the divine idea of God because of horrible experiences in the church of Christian religion
Great discussion here. I was myself baptised as a baby, but grew up in a very secular environment. I remember having religious thoughts as a child, but by my late teens I had already lost any hope for God's existence, and going through confirmation didn't change my doubts at all. When I came of age, I immediately left the church, as it made no sense for me to stay. Today my atheistic world view is stronger than ever. I love listening to theological debates (also between believers) and essays on religious history, but the more I learn, the more obvious it becomes that religion is the product of a human culture evolving over thousands of years.
@@jeffcaminiti162 No, I have not. Only the book of revelation because I thought it was wicked cool as a kid, and various bits and pieces in religion class and confirmation school. I have a decent knowledge of the main narratives of the old testament and the gospels, but I'd be reluctant to debate the intricacies of scripture because I don't consider myself qualified to do so. I leave such matters to atheists who have studies scripture extensively, such as GMS (who was mentioned in this video) or Matt Dillahunty. Heck, I even once watched a rabbi tear a Christian theologian to shreds over scripture. It was quite the theological pounding.
After 40-plus years as agnostic/atheist, I encountered God...then Christ...and then moved over 20 years through Protestant churches into the Catholic Church. I lived in a world of other atheists...and I still do. This discussion raises so many different ideas and responses that it is impossible to contain them in this comment. Would I love to exist in a totally Christian/Catholic world - including family and friends? Sure! But - what does that have to do with my own faith? Christ ate with Matthew and all his tax collector friends. He "sent out the twelve" to a Jewish/Gentile world that knew nothing of Christ and the Gospel. How can a Christian "not have anything in common" with friends who deconvert? How about breathing/eating/thinking as human beings? Meet your friends in their Crisis of Faith and be their Christian example who points to the road Home! Thanks for this discussion!!!
Reading these comments is enough to prove just how toxic the Christian response is to those who Deconstruct their faith. Thanks for providing proof of your hateful intolerance in real time.
Sorry to hear that man. I've seen toxic and well-meaning people on both sides of belief in this comment section. I don't think it is necessarily a Christian, but a human impulse to shift blame. Hope you have a good week.
So are you afraid of the atheist label? If you lack a belief in a supernatural entity then by definition you are an atheist. I am an agnostic atheist, in that I don't know that no gods exist but I do know that no theist has ever provided anything close to sufficient evidence to demonstrate that their god claims are true.
@@glennsimonsen8421 For goodness sake, he provided philosophical arguments, not evidence. I see that you are a Christian, so read 1 Corinthians 15: 14 and I say to you with the same degree of confidence that the sun will rise tomorrow that if you reply to this post, not a single sentence will contain even a mustard seed's worth of empirical evidence to support the biblical claim that a dead multicellular eucaryote magically came back to life after rotting in the heat of the Levant for a couple of days some two thousand years ago. Belief without sufficient evidence is indistinguishable from gullibility and I have no wish to be gullible.
@@glennsimonsen8421 Hi count the number of posts and you will see that one is missing. That's Dowen Out's reply to you. " For goodness sake, he provided philosophical arguments, not evidence. I see that you are a Christian, so read 1 Corinthians 15: 14 and I say to you with the same degree of confidence that the sun will rise tomorrow that if you reply to this post, not a single sentence will contain even a mustard seed's worth of empirical evidence to support the biblical claim that a dead multicellular eucaryote magically came back to life after rotting in the heat of the Levant for a couple of days some two thousand years ago. Belief without sufficient evidence is indistinguishable from gullibility and I have no wish to be gullible". I see no good reason to block that reply do you? I say someone is very scared of the true reason many are leaving Christianity.
@@glennsimonsen8421 Count the replies. The two that are missing are from Dowen Out. Hopefully this highly edited version of Dowen Out's reply won't be deleted. "For goodness sake, he provided philosophical arguments, not evidence. I see that you are a Christian, so read 1 Corinthians 15: 14 and I say to you with the same degree of confidence that the sun will rise tomorrow that if you reply to this post, not a single sentence will contain even a mustard seed's worth of empirical evidence to support th* (that) biblical claim *******". Belief without sufficient evidence is indistinguishable from gullibility and I have no wish to be gullible".
The problem with atheism is that it offers no meaningful answers to the most important questions a person can ask. On the other hand, even with all of its diffculties, at its core Christianity presents message that I find compelling. I could never give that up for something as empty as atheism. And belive me, there are things about Christianity I find troubling. As Christians I think we need to be upfront about these things and talk about them.
Atheism isn't actually a thing so can't offer answers obviously. Losing faith is a little like running out of petrol in your car - it just doesn't work any more. But that's fine because you can get out and walk. And who knows what you will find?
I am convinced that 200 years ago there were also tons of people leaving Christianity or their Christian upbringing. Big difference was that they kept it very private.
And another difference is we have digital publishing and social media where (more) deconversion stories can be shared publicly instantly and globally, so we see & hear more of them
This is a very good point. There was no viable alternative culturally and in parts of the US there still isn't. Pretty easy to keep your mouth shut when you have a lot to lose socially by speaking out.
@@danhoff4401 Yes, and the same thing is happening in Islamic societies. Literally millions have left Islam but only very few are known for it. And Pew Research will not find out about most of them, and Statistics will continue to report strong growth of Islam. But the reality on the ground will look quite differently. The giant will stand on feet of clay.
Parable of the soil comes to mind and the warning/expected apostasy will happen according to scripture. I think it is a very complex topic given not everyone is the same in cling their circumstances. Questions of what we can do better in the family of God are good and something that we need to do better. One thing that I have learnt - just becos someone goes to church does not make them a real disciple of Jesus. Some truths are hard to hear but necessary in my opinion. We gather in a church where both the sheep and goats come together whether we r willing to admit or not. God knows the heart of all men. Lastly, I was a prodigal son whom the Lord brought me back from the errors of my ways. Too long to share here but in short, God is the One who keeps us from falling.
I find the prosses of people adopting/changing world views facinating. The selective pressures on world views are complex, it has a huge emotional impact on the person and people arround them and though the progression of human history will/has had major effects. Gonna have to get this book. If anyone knows books about similar topics I'd be big appreciate.
I have a friend who deconverted a little over 2 years ago. He definitely experienced the abandonment of his family and friends to a degree. He walked away from his marriage because of his shift in mindset. However, we’ve remained close. I really believe our relationship transcends faith and religious traditions. When love for someone is genuine and deeper than commonalities, it can withstand any any trial and/or change. When we grow individually we can choose to grow apart or grow together. I CHOOSE to still support my friend and wish him well. I absolutely pray and hope for him to have a true encounter with Christ that completely demolished the fundamentalist farce he was fed as a kid. Another point: I’d be interested in knowing how many folks are leaving the faith based on the mixed response of the church to matters of social justice? The friend I mentioned above attributes “the silence of white Christians, or flat out apathy about the murder of innocent black lives in a historically racist country” a huge catalyst to his deconversion. Sounds like one of those moral arguments
@@johngrimkowski598 hello. I’m not really sure how I would categorize myself other than a Christian. I grew up nondenominational and have worshiped and conversed with some of everyone from COGIC and Baptists to Mennonite and Methodists, and just about everything else in between. I’ve seen imbalanced miseducation all over, but noticed a particular scar among the ppl I’ve met who have been brought up in a traditional belief in the judgement and punishment of God without any emphasis on the love and grace of God. It’s been my experience that these are the individuals who have a hard time reconciling social Justice issues and a lack of punishment for seemingly wicked parties. “If God is just then why…”. I’ve always been interested in the WHY behind ppl’s actions and understanding the personal histories that leads them to their conclusions. Years ago I was into apologetics and veered from in order to LISTEN more and speak less. That led me to books like UnChristian and other studies on how Christians are perceived. I feel strongly that, if we’re going to be the hands and feet of the Father then we should have his heart to hear his children. Lovingly correcting them when opportunity presents itself, but know how to read the room and wisely discern whether or not our delivery will do more harm than good. That’s a summary of my experience. There are plenty of ppl hurting in the world and I try to be genuinely empathetic and loving, strong in my belief, but gentle and peaceable as much as possible. We’re all on a journey, and I’m just hoping i can be a version of Romans 8:19-21 for somebody along the way.
Jesus himself was not a social activist, even though there were sufficient reasosns in his day to be one. He focused on the transformation of the human heart, which in turn leads to endeavours for bringing about social change. This is why, after 300 years of Christianity in the greco-roman world, when the church became the dominant factor in society, slavey was abolished in the east.
@Redeemed Channel who said "A major problem is people having only a very surface-level understanding of scripture" Most people who deconvert start studying the bible harder than they ever would have if they were a Christian. I am reading the bible currently, every word from beginning to end. I have never done this and I went to Christian grade school, high school and College.
Muggles, sometimes understanding the opposing view provokes a quest for deeper understanding of our own view. Sites like this make civil conversation possible.
My BEST FRIEND for years deconstructed, and he was the one who utterly rejected me. Just straight up stopped speaking to me suddenly. I have reached out to him many, many times to affirm my friendship and acceptance of him and his choices, but he absolutely refuses to have anything to do with anyone who professes belief in God. To be clear, I have several atheist friends who know where I stand and know I love them, so I'm pretty sure i didn't push him away.
41:40 This sentence seems so telling to me. 'You have to believe tenets A, B and C. We have to give flexibility on other, minor issues or the edifice of the faith crumbles'. It's all about having to believe, nothing about evidence, or what should be convincing. Just 'For God's sake, keep believing, otherwise we'll be here all on our own...'
Perhaps it has something to do with raising children in the faith. Being told the amazing stories associated with the Bible only to grow up and find that there never was a worldwide flood, that there is zero evidence for an Exodus and that there is error everywhere in the Bible. I know for my part I was raised to believe in an inerrant word of God Bible. Fast forward to me in the age of the internet where I can research these claims for myself and bobs your uncle. Why can't Christians just stick to the Faith instead of trying to appeal intellectually through debates with scientists where they are obliterated almost every time. Regardless I love my Christian friends and family. I wish you the best.
When Christians leave the faith the best thing you can do is leave them alone. To want to drag people back into a toxic relationship is abuse of the worst kind. Do yourselves and them a favour, either follow them or leave them alone.
As someone who deconverted and reconverted it was mainly the problem of evil and also the credibility of the bible, it was hard to reconcile that all powerful and all good God would let so much evil happen, now I have learned and it is something powerful and worth
@@ellied4088 I looked at the archeological evidence of the bible and heard a lot of arguments, for example the gospels of the Bible is dated closer to Jesus' death than people think, the Gospel of Mark is dated to around 60 ce and the latest gospel was John which was dated to around when John died, the letters from apostles are contemporary meaning it is not debated that the authors of the letters were the apostles, before they died, and they confirm and they reaffirm the later written gospels written, the Old Testament it is debated when they were written however to my understanding most of it was written around 600 bce, the most debated is Daniel if it was written 500s or 100 BC, the arguments for the 500s is overwhelming and more thought out and researched, the 100BC argument comes from pretty much "the prophecies of Daniel were too accurate to be written before hand" and for the longest time there was a name in Babylon that was contested to be real or not in the book of Daniel, I forget the details however recent archeological findings found a cylinder that had names of important figures in Babylon dated back to the 500 BC and one of them was a name from daniel, and historians didn't know of so that is strong evidence Daniel was written in 500 and the prophecy being an actual prophecy So pretty much look at archeological evidence and look at the arguments from both sides, and remember even those who claim the negative need to provide evidence as well
@@livingtoaster1358 Thank you. But I'm in this situation because I started looking at both sides of the arguments. And also because I don't know where to begin really. There is so much info out there, it's overwhelming. I've heard of some unsettling claims. Like Genesis being plagarized from earlier Mesopotamian myths, Yahweh being a minor Canaanite god the Israelites elevated, Israelites being Canaanites, no evidence for the exodus, the OT and NT being adapted and changed over time, the gospels not being eyewitness accounts, etc. As wish I had some guidance as to where to start researching all this.
@@ellied4088 okay so there's a lot to unpack, and I'm not an expert on all of this, so I will tell you based on my own research and this is my own opinion, but ultimately do your own research because God is a God who is truth and values truth, both in Old and New Testament, so do your due diligence Now with the Mesopotamian myths, the only story people cite is Noah's Ark, and the Epic of Gilgamesh, when I first heard this I freaked out but I took a mythology class where we read the Epic of Gilgamesh and it is VASTLY different from the bible, here are the similarities: the gods wanted to flood the world and thus they had one man in a boat/ark to continue the race after the flood, the differences are many, 1 in the epic of Gilgamesh it was because Human kind was making to much noise and thus woke up the gods, and they got pissed and thus wanted to flood the earth, that is vastly different, and here is a food for thought, "why does so many different cultures have a flood story?" The Greeks had one Egyptians had one, heck even the Native Americans had one as well, the Greek version was that Zeus became disgusted by the cannibalism of Mankind, but generally speaking the gods decided to flood the world because of how evil Mankind was throughout all of these cultures except the Epic of Gilgamesh, if there are numerous cultures that say there was a flood, my thought would be "if a whole bunch of people who don't interact with each other that often are saying this, then an event described like that is most likely possible" With Yahweh, I just found this out recently so I am researching through it but what I know so far what I've seen is the Caananites didn't have a God named YWHW however they did have a God named elohim, but that's just semantics the functionality of Elohim is the same and the Israelites also call God Elohim, because his actual name is too holy, but anyway, the thing is that Israel did take a lot from the Caananites and their culture, the bible even talks about it too, the thing is, God commanded them not to do that, in Jeremiah Israel was giving offerings to the "Queen of Heaven" which according to Canannite tradition is the wife of Elohim, but God, or Elohim told them that she is also a false deity, Israelites being Caananites is something I've never heard before The gospels not being eye witness accounts is partially true, Matthew wasn't written by Matthew, but people who heard the Gospel from Matthew, and his eyewitness testimony, that's why we call it "The gospel according to Matthew", now John is a gospel written by John that is not disputed, Luke was written by a doctor who did his own independent research on the Gospel stories, he had it from eye witness testimony, but he also investigated it for himself, the first chapter of Luke tells you this it was an investigation and the author was very specific about all the details that add to his credibility as an author and investigator,
@@ellied4088 if I can recommend someone, check out Mike Winger's series on "evidence for the bible" he goes over different arguments for and against the bible, of course he is biased towards the bible but he tries to give the best arguments from people who do not trust the bible and it's authorship
“They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have continued with us: but they went out, that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us.” 1 John 2:19
@@c.m.granger6870 I think you mean that emotional arguments or minor intellectual disagreements should not immediately result in apostasy, especially considering theistic philosophy and pascals wager. :)
Exactly. My life has not been easy I've had ups and downs and questions but Im secure in my faith. We all as human creatures will have hard times and questions but what do you hold on to if you leave Christianity? Once you've had a true relationship with Christ and tasted salvation how can you turn completely away and believe in nothing? It's illogical for me. Amd let's just says your having an intellectual crisis. Then start the investigational studies on the resurrection and the validity of the Bible. The story of the cannanites doesn't bother me if we realize the true nature of sin and what it does. For goodness sake they were sacrificing their babies. Sin must be punished....
There is also this element. Most Christian kids grow up in a bubble. When first exposed to secular reasoning, it sounds formidable. And kids lose faith due to a shock factor. I felt such shock personally as a high schooler. But I persevered, thought through issues, and searched for answers from the sacred, and ultimately found them more substantial. I like the quote Sean makes....If evolution is true, and Jesus rose from the dead, then Christianity is true.
@@buddhikaw What makes you think an argument is required? My experience trumps your ignorance whether you understand that experience or not. If you want to give me your explanation for the absence of transitional animal forms, which should be virtually the norm if common descent is a credible theory, let me know.
@@buddhikaw One can be a theist and believe in different god than the Christian God. I believe God is the probable explanation of the universe. He is especially seen in the existence of complex information systems. We have experience with lesser forms of such systems, and they always require a designer. Therefore, a Designer is the probable cause of DNA, and other information systems. As a Creator Being being the probable cause, I am warranted in looking for this Being. Has He communicated with man? Can one meet Him? At this point it moves to which is the true God... In the Bible I find evidence that this Being has communicated, and one can experience Him. This is the abbreviated version, and contains question begging. That goes away with a more detailed description of my reasons.
Social pressure to conform to the humanistic and ultra progressive zeitgeist; fear of losing friendships and causing friction within families; and fear of radical social media mobs.
A strange list considering the west (U.S. especially) is dominated by Christianity both in numbers and political power base. Also considering the enormous societal pressure that Christian majority puts on everyone to be like them "or else". It would seem reality does not match the religious claim you're making.
@@stiimuli or else what? How I see the United States is that if you don't become woke you are canceled. If you don't agree with BLM and the critical race theory you are racist. If we say a man is man and woman a woman biologically then we are going against science which makes no sense. They want to indoctrinate our children to believe these lies. What Christians want is for society not to impose what I consider low standards for morality on us or our children because politics has to do with morality. They even went as far as to take away Richard Dawkins Humanist award for using science.I saw a transgender man breastfeeding a new born baby as if he could. The hole thing is ridiculous and you say us Christians are forcing our beliefs on you or else? Christians shouldn't force our "religion" on anyone it's a personal choice. We just want people to know God does exist Jesus does save, christianity is true and God is calling because time is short. The Jews are awaiting their Messiah and the temple is ready to be rebuild. People need to wake up and make a decision on who they are going to follow.
Don't forget ,seeing the religiously sanctioned and societally condoned systematic dehumanization of homosexuality that leads to the permissive atmosphere that justifies contempt and hatred through subjective ( and, therefore, contextually unfair and invalid) comparison that ultimately shatters the golden rule, all in the name of religion.
@@dougsmith6346 - Then you are deluded in your belief Christianity is true. It is just one more of the religious mythology that have percolated through history.
@@douglasrasmussen480 you use the word 'mythology'. You are seriously claiming that the characters of the historical record didn't exist? They are akin to Zeus and Hercules? No eyewitnesses claimed to touch, dialogue with, eat with, walk with, see in person any of the mythology gods. Real people of Scripture DID exist. Peter, John, Jesus, Paul, Pilate, Herod, et al. The historical claims of Scripture are all verifiable human beings with a historical footprint. You may not believe their eyewitness accounts, but to call them 'mythology' is dishonest and, well, juvenile
@@dougsmith6346 The bible is filled with real people, fabricated characters, and characters whose acts have been so exaggerated as to make the mundane appear miraculous. Your citation of putative apostles does not account for decades or centuries that passed in reporting what they saw - from unknown and multiple scribes. Another name for mythology is fiction and fiction frequently has real people and events that serve to lend artistic legitimacy to fictional works. This is what is seen in the bible. For example King David and King Solomon were real historical characters, but extensive archaeology of the areas where they existed finds their glorious, expansive kingdoms were no more than localized citadels. The Exodus has been roundly disproven as either outright false or a monumental exaggeration of a few families leaving Egypt. Prophecies attributed as proof of biblical legitimacy have been rejected on many factual levels. So, yes DS, the bible is a form of mythology and your willingness to engage in the fiction is what is juvenile.
I strongly disagree on evolution being basically a non-issue that shouldn't conflict with Christian faith. To the contrary, this is one of the MAIN reasons why people de-convert. Man's origins are not a peripheral issue. The dating of the earth, the literal word-for-word account of Genesis is peripheral, but Darwinian evolutionary theory outright debunks the need for the "Last Adam" (Christ) in 1 Corinthians 15 if there was no literal "Adam." I see that even William Lane Craig struggles with a historical Adam. All mainline Protestantism and Roman Catholicism freely accept full evolutionary theory, and you can see where their treatment of the Bible is compromised, including views on the Atonement, Virgin Birth, the Resurrection and a literal Second Advent.
The most compelling reason for me, as an atheist, that god does not exist is the fact that I want so badly for him to exist. This is in order to dispell the terrifying existential dread that exists for me without heaven, and this proves to me that someone could be motivated enough to make all of religion up in order to avoid existential dread and attempt to make others better people
You make a fair point Jose. Also consider that just because that could happen doesn’t mean it’s what is most probable. There are very strong arguments that God’s existence is the most logical explanation for the universe, life on Earth, and human existence. You may find the Inspiring Philosophy (Michael Jones) and Reasonable Faith (William Lane Craig) channels to be meaningful. They appeal to the more logical and intellectual evidences of God’s existence and Christ’s resurrection. I hope this helps!
For me, it's the opposite. I couldn't care less if a god exists or not. I don't really don't have a problem at all if an afterlife doesn't exist. One less thing to worry about. I'm not sure what is so terrifying about going back to the way you were before you were born - which is what most likely will happen after death.
@@pwoods100 what is terrifying for me is that I will never be able to experience anything again and that my life will be over. I understand that this is what it was like before I was born but now that I am able to live, I don't want to not live again.
Jose, from my research into the topic it is my conclusion that it is far more probable that there is life after death. Here are links to videos that present evidence that you may find very interesting. I hope this helps you on your search. th-cam.com/video/X8SO_aCk_sU/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/ZUOeY7sidvg/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/play/PL1mr9ZTZb3TUjEbz4zD0i_rfGiyB4AGQa.html
As a former Christian, I need to be honest here. First of all, I'm glad that Sean and John are honest in their approach and don't blame all deconversions on people leaving the church because they were treated badly. They will actually admit that a lot of stuff in the bible could be a main reason for walking away. Here is all anyone needs to know about why I deconverted or why most people do it: Forget about contradictions. You could have a book rife with contradictions, and have it still be true in some way. Forget about bad Christians. You have bad people in any walk of life or profession. What finally did it for me, is when I started looking at the bible through the eyes of plain, nuts and bolts common sense. In other words, I quit treating the bible like it was special and started looking at it , the same way I looked at any other religious book. It all boils down to two things: Did this stuff really happen historically, and is this god a god that I would want to worship? The answer I was finally forced to admit, was NO and NO. If my own parents had the power to send me to hell - would they do it if I didn't worship them or disowned them? The answer is NO. If you had to make a choice between a god who talked audibly to humans everyday, verses a god who didn't talk to anyone and had men write a book about him - which god would you choose? The answer is the god who talks to humans everyday. Who wouldn't want that? If I were a god who didn't need humans - and knew before I created the world that people would go to hell if I created it, would I choose to go through with it or choose to not create? If I were a moral god, then I would NOT do it. If Jesus died for all of mankind - then why did he come in the middle of history in first century Judea after millions of ancient people were already dead - and never got to hear about him? Why couldn't the ancient Sumerians hear about the "good news?" Why not just die for people's sins right at creation? Adam and Eve could have been the first missionaries that spread Christianity - no other religion would have had a chance. But god had to wait until other pagan religions were established before he sent Jesus? Sounds like something that would have happened if it was man-made. There are NO good answers for this. Sorry, J Warner Wallace. Can you blame people for walking away from the church if they get treated poorly? No - you can't. And lastly - I'm sick and tired of hearing deconverting for emotional reasons vs intellectual reasons. That's a false dichotomy. The reasons are both always emotional and intellectual. The struggle with the bible and it's so called "history" was an emotional period, but I also had to make decisions based on what seemed to be the most intellectual conclusion. So please stop with this BS. As shallow as the people who left the church might seem to you because they got treated badly, keep in mind that most of these people probably tried their best to hold on for as long as they could - but intellectually their brain was telling them that there was something WRONG with this belief system, if god's people who truly had the holy spirit within them - treated them like dirt. You have to think through these things. Hardly anyone just walks away over night, because of some emotional reaction they had. So quit telling me that I deconverted for only emotional or intellectual reasons - when it's almost always a mixture of BOTH. IT's sad that Christians can't see that there book was completely invented by man, and there is absolutely no evidence that their god had anything at all to do with it. This is mainly why people deconvert - sheer brutal common sense. If all other religions are entirely man-made then it would only make sense that Christianity is also man-made.
Sean, it would be awesome if you could interview someone who has gone through deconversion and walked away and then returned to Christ after some time.
Matt Copeland Law of averages guarantee's there are a few utterly confused out there somewhere...would be more entertaining to interview someone who has walked away, returned, walked away again, returned again, walked awa.....
Sean and John did a really job of approaching the conversation as a way to foster empathy for those who have left the faith, and I applaud that. I don't think I've seen any Christians outside of Progressive Christianity really try to understand those who have left. That said, as someone who has left the faith, there is still an air of condescension that is all too common in the conversations Christians have about those who leave the faith. Many of the explanations offered can be boiled down to "they didn't try hard enough," "they didn't have the right beliefs," "they were part of the wrong sect," "you're heart is deceitful" aka you just want to sin. I don't think either Sean or John means this as victim blaming, but those of us who have tried to explain our paths to friends and family know how painful it is to be constantly met with these kinds of comments after going through one of the most difficult processes of our lives. We are treated as wholly wrong, and misguided, often after we have done much more to study Christianity, think about religion and seek god than those who tell us off. From my experiences, most of us want truth. Most of us want not only to receive love, but to give it as much as we can. And we've found Christianity, even in its most loving forms, to not offer those things for us. The dialogues with those from other belief systems are fantastic, and needed among Christian circles. Keep up the good work you're doing pushing for empathy, and keep these kinds of conversations going.
Good points. I was disappointed with the comments around the 50 minute mark that seemed to imply atheists have "daddy issues". I had great relationships with both my parents and desperately wanted to believe I would see them again in the "next life". It was very painful admitting to myself that my hopes for afterlife were baseless. Sean and John just can't accept that the evidence for their beliefs is terrible. If the evidence was sound everyone would be Christian. The only folks that believe these claims do so because they WANT to believe it.
@@bobskane4353 Just wondering. How do you explain how people like J. Warner Wallace who say "I am a Christian because Christianity is true in light of the evidence"? He was an atheist who hated supernatural claims. He obviously did not convert because he wanted to believe. Lee Strobel was arguably even more apathetic than him, and certainly did not want to believe. The list goes on.
@@hhstark8663 If JWW uses the same standards of evidence for his detective work has he does Christianity then he is a terrible detective. I don't think he even claims that his "evidence schtick" is was brought him to Christianity (I could be wrong on this one). I think Lee Strobel was an alcoholic who met a Christian girl and turned his life around. I don't see any convincing evidence from either one of them. What do you see as the best piece of evidence supporting the truth of Christianity?
@@bobskane4353 Yes, that is what JWW claims. He says that in all his interviews (linked below). No, Lee´s wife was NOT a Christian when they met. She became a Christian during their marriage. Then he sought out to disprove Christianity and take her out of the "cult" (according to him at the time) that she had gotten involved with. If you have read both of their books ("The case for christ" and "Cold-case christianity: homicide detective investigates claims of the gospel") then I have nothing to add. If you have not already, then you should take a look at theistic philosophy by William Lane Craig and Alvin Plantinga. Just a friendly suggestion. :) Link to JWW:s interview: th-cam.com/video/3FzFTGJc7ZY/w-d-xo.html Interview #2: th-cam.com/video/nGOC7CLuiMc/w-d-xo.html
@@hhstark8663 I have not read either book but I have heard JWW speak. Unimpressive to say the least. I am heading out but will check out the interview later. Thanks for sharing. What is your best reason for believing?
As a person who has traveled through the denominations, holding on to the truth of our Messiah and our Father, I must say that I have not been in a "church" gathering for over ten years. This is not because "I" have been offended in any way, but because I have not found that identifying with the soup of "church" has helped me or anyone else. However I have never entertained the option of turning from Christ or Torah. This is a very good expression on the road some take without real study of truth. Sorry for those who use a broken church as an excuse to walk away from their savior.
Rituals, observances and a sense of community are very important in any social situation and often help reinforce religious beliefs. My opinion is that there might be more atheists if people who doubted were not part of a community that they cherished. I'm just saying, if I were a Christian, I would want the whole life experience and not just the stick. Great excuse to dress up in fine clothes.
The internet - for all its pitfalls - facilitates the dissemination of resources dedicated to the development of critical thought. People of faith are perhaps more likely now than before to encounter these resources, to engage with associated communities and to experience the intellectual emancipation which occurs when a lifetime of doctrine is exposed without censorship to the power of well-trained logic and reason.
The author is making some legitimate points and I wish that Sean explored more elements of those warped theological and Biblical issues and presuppositions that also contributed. It seems like the blame is fundamentally the Church. That may not be the intentional vibe but it may come across as that.
What makes you think responsibility rests with someone other than the individual who capitulates? What about the failure of the individual to assess his own level of sincerity? Rather than blame a monolithic institution, consider an adult approach to the psychology of failure and its spiritual consequences.
This is the kind of response that helps one to make a decisions j to leave the church. The church is supposed to be representative Gods love in earth. You can have great knowledge and theology but if you lack like ve and compassion you are nothing. I'm 61 and I've deconveryed because I don't see the church really living up and teaching the message of Jesus in the gospels. Evangelicals as a blocked seem more concerned about political power and patriotism than loving their neighbor and God. They not power that changes hearts is love, not political power or money. Yhe church is the one that shouldvpook at yhemseoces and see the huge damage theybhave don't be to America Christianity by their support if corrupt political officials for the sake if power. It might be a good idea from the evangelical church to look at the log in their own eye instead and of the splinter in someone else's eye.
Consider the consequenves of building your faith on quick sand Did God say? Come on, really? God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not. In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word. So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar! And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say? Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question. Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question. Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs! Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses. Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say? Every change they make is an insult to God and His word. God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19. In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent. God will not be mocked. This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30 changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair. King James Bible online Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online Sources: Adullum Films Documentary -Tares Among the Wheat video Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort. Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com. If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video. It has some American History also.
Once again, Sean does one of the best jobs dealing with a difficult subject. I deconverted after a lifetime in the faith and I've attempted conversation on other channels of apologists. I've found other apologists to be deeply disappointing and seemingly intentionally dense.
@@stiimuli agreed. I initially was super upset with his impersonation of an atheist... until he got to the end and pointed out how Christians treat those outside the faith. Then when he had on drew it was really impressive.
I've been an atheist all my life, but my father took a very different route. He came from a deeply religious, conservative community, and both his parents were committed Christians, so it's no surprise given his background that he too became fully invested in the Christian faith. That came to an abrupt end in college when, while studying philosophy, he came to realize that he'd been living a lie all his life. Abandoning his faith by no means came easily, in fact it led to a nervous breakdown which lasted several days. Upon learning the news, his parents nearly disowned him, and it took many years for him to rebuild his relationship with his father. His mother, however, never forgave him for turning his back on the faith. Even near the end of her life, she tried (unsuccessfully) to prevent my father (their only child) from inheriting any portion of their estate.
AW,......Well, the truth of the matter is, if anyone is in/of any church, they are an atheist. The churches real religion is the God hating worlds atheist religion of scientism. They all only pretend to believe in the Bible, but the truth is, they do not.
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@@hhstark8663 ,......Wow, are you ever blind, lost, and deceived. That guy is a 100% phony. He is an atheist. He is just another uncalled, unsaved, blind, lost, and deceived person of the God hating (atheist) world that has been snared into the 100% apostate church and its false manmade atheist religion of scientism that the church pretends is Christianity, it is not.. His/your Christianity is fake, it is a counterfeit, the worlds (atheists) version, a replacement for the real thing, also known as antichrist. You have been deceived. Everyone snared into all churches remain atheists, as I have said. Anyone that is not an atheist is not in any church. The church is for atheists (counterfeit christians). They go is atheists, and come out atheists. They just go from one deception to a different one. Instead of serving one master, they learn to serve two masters. They are just taught to add a fake christianity to their real religion of scientism (atheism). It is al being a double minded man, and serving two masters. Matthew 6:24 "No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon." James 1:5 5, "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. 6, But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed. 7, For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord. 8, A double minded man is unstable in all his ways."
@@tonybasoni8443 If you watched the interview you'll realize that stories like his are common. Most athiest came from fundamentalist Christian homes and leave because of people with your judgmental attitude.
@@mariowalker9048 ,....I have spoken the truth for your edification. The problem is, no one wants to hear the truth, they only want and love, lies and deceptions. As I stated, the church is an atheist institution, people go in atheists, and come out atheists. Those few that actually believe in God and his word have nothing to do with the church. The church is in the business of selling the god hating worlds false, manmade religion of scientism they disguise and sell as christianity. Those who buy and sell this counterfeit (antichrist) christianity are the Godless people of the God hating world, (the beast). Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand!
@@douglaswise6797 our interpretation of the scripture is not the same as scripture itself. It is healthy to hold our interpretation with humility because there’s always something we do not know. That’s why inherency is tricky. Bottom line we all see scripture slightly different and none of us can claim to hold the perfect interpretation.
42:55 If the bible is inerrant we have to rethink... Meaning we have to make Cinderella's shoe fit by changing the choreography of our tap dance to fit the dogma of our denomination.
You would have a point if the inerrancy was an all-or-nothing proposition (by which I mean - if you discredit one letter of the bible, its entirety must be thrown out). But inerrancy doesn't need to mean that. It means, at minimum, that God guided the authors of the individual books of both the New and Old Testaments. Can we claim that just because there is a minor-add on to the Lord's prayer in some manuscripts that therefore all the otherwise credible evidence for Jesus's resurrection is bunk, from a Christian perspective? No, that sounds like a classic case of throwing out baby Jesus with the baptismal water (to continue your witty word-play)! Or what about the plausibly non-original addendum to the Gospel of Mark? Do we therefore conclude that the addition by some eager and perhaps propagandistic Christians editing an account of the resurrection (which is easily reconcilable with the other accounts of the resurrection, and introduces no new doctrines) that the gospel which we heard, and therefore our christianity, was in vain? This seems foolhardy. You might be able to convince me that you could defeat the bible via 1000 cuts. That I can see as being possible (not plausible) with enough historical research and technology to recover more of what actually happened. But, although I am open to being shown otherwise, I strongly suspect there isn't enough evidence at hand to rip out the key doctrines and facts established by the gospels and secondary/tertiary sources. And not to mention, inerrancy isn't even a core doctrine of Christianity, it is only elevated as such by certain denominations. You COULD tear out large chunks of the bible (not without other serious consequences for people's faiths, but after all, this is a thought experiment), and the argument for Jesus being Lord would still stand, as I see it. God made a world that became messy, because he invited an imperfect, fallen humanity to live with him and be his representatives. Why would we expect the process of coming to understand who he is to not be messy on our account? So who are we to say that just because God guided the process of the creation of the bible, that therefore all writers must have been 100% accurate and relevant to all contexts its readers occupy? Would we not rather expect a winding masterpiece of a gravel road, down which many curious facts and sub-themes all suspiciously point to one conclusion, but which was made by flawed creatures, voluntarily called to participate in the construction of this mysterious path, beyond any of the author's comprehensions? The answer of course is we would not know what to expect, but we certainly should contemplate the fact that it is unlikely to be the clean philosophical proofs, nor unquestionable revelations which force the truth upon all that our God would choose to reveal himself through. Not only would that fail to give choice, but it would also rub people up the wrong way, for obvious and subtle reasons. That one is less directed at you, more just at the general unease I used to have at how complicated the historical analysis of Jesus has been at times, and I know anyone who has read this to the end probably relates to.
@@alexanderhorspool1906 It is nice to see that people are understanding that just because every literal word is not necessarily ex cathedra does not mean they have to give up. Some are all or nothing.
Jesus is the good shepherd. He goes after the one sheep of 99 that has strayed and brings it back. I certainly experienced this in more than one occasion in my spiritual walk. He brought me back every time.
Even Jesus in his parable of the sower and the seed showed there are those who genuinely had root of faith but allowed his faith to become abandoned (strangled) Matthew 13 I think.
I disagree with Sean on some things, but I really admire his humility, sincerity, compassion, and respect for people. He's a classy guy.
Absolutely!
That’s why atheists really respect this guy. His humility is really unmatched in the apologist community.
I'm a lifelong atheist, and I completely agree. Sean is pretty awesome and I will be watching more of his videos. I've been reading into all of this, various religions, for over 40 years and Sean is one of the very few who made rational sense to me. He has the ability to speak across the divide, even when that's not his intent.
So is his dad
He is very humble, and asks great questions, love his podcasts, even the facial expression on screen shows something genuine about him.
The fatherlessness point was interesting to me. I was raised agnostic/atheist, I've been struggling to come to Christianity for 3 decades and just recently made it. But in the trinity I was finding it impossible to connect with the concept of "Father". My own father asked my mum to abort me and I never got so much as a birthday card from him, my mother's partner who I have known since I was 6 y/o made a show out of rejecting me and not wanting to be a father to me. I simply have no idea what a father is; what a father would do, what even the point of a father is. In my life the only constant people (as flawed as even they were) were women. But what is helping me understand more is reading all the verses in the Bible about how God is the husband of the widow and the father to the fatherless. That gives me some hope that I can come to understand this aspect of God. I thought I would pass that on in case it helps another fatherless person
You have a valid point that I believe many are wrestling with. Yes, the important thing is to look at the Father as descrbed by Jesus - that is a good point of reference.stay strong.
good advice. we should only rely on christs example, because he never fails. the second we follow any man, eventually he will fall. Jesus knows this. that's why he tells us to forgive everyone.
This revelation can be helpful to so many
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I am just now watching this. I am not in a good place spiritually and cannot say I believe anything of my former faith, currently. This video was excellent. I think Christians who have concerns and need to understand should definitely watch this. Sean McDowell is IMHO one of my favorite Christian apologists. Much respect also to his guest (I do not know him at all, but his presentation and objectivity were very impressive to me). Thanks so much for videos like these, even if I don't know where I will wind up, I have nothing but respect for this presentation of Christianity.
Thanks Byron. I’m so glad it was helpful.
The thing that has always helped me thru the times I've wrestled with my faith vs what I've experienced is that I cannot lean on my own understanding of anything, I have to trust that this thing that I don't understand or I find offensive because I am not all knowing but God is so you have to boil it down to having faith in Jesus and do I believe that He has MY best in mind so He will bring me clarity to the thing I'm struggling with... ♥︎
Thank you for your honesty. I’ve been a Christian for 30 years and my life has had seasons of ups and downs…
what I have learnt is that “God does work things for good for those who love him” however it is always my choice to blame others - (even God) or allow pain to seep in and pull me away from God… what is a great comfort, is knowing “he will never leave me … nor forsake me” … and I just have to let him in during those tough times … not beat myself up, and feel unworthy of his love
@@Standing.W.Israel good point. I've been a christian for 47 years and god has never let me down, but boy have I let him down at times! I really believe that much of western christianity is self serving and we don't want anything to do with suffering. the parable of the sower really shows this. we are called to carry our cross daily, and that's not impossible. jesus is our example. he suffered horribly, yet was faithful to the end. we should never follow man, because eventually he will fail. I find that the reasons for " deconstructing" are really pathetic. how many of them ever look at their own sins? it's like it's always someone else's fault. then they will say that they are more free than ever before by renouncing christ. they are lieing to themselves, and then when you look at their lives, you see that they are aimless.
how people who claim to have revelation, and that god is omnipresent 24/7 can "struggle" strikes me as pure insecurity and neediness, a competition to see who struggles the most. you're well out of the talking snake and donkey cult, and sean is nothing more than another two faced apologist who spends more time atheist bashing than promoting love and tolerance and the words of jesus - if you want to be a good christian, be atheist - we don't threaten hell on people to gain recruits.
this was a great video. I really related. I became a christian in 1979 and really tried to follow God; bible study, church all the time, serving, praying, etc. Wife cheated on me and left. remarried again a christian in 1988. repeat and rinse. We got divorced in 1993 and I de-converted and shouted at God:"I did what you asked of me and this is how you repay me". I too was "happier and more content" because I followed my own way. Fast forward 24 years in 2015 God started working on me again. Blessing were poured out on me out of nowhere. I finally surrendered to God again. I started studying on my own and grew into a deeper understanding of Sovereignty and Providence. I looked back and repented on my horrible rebellion. Who am I to tell the creator He should treat me a certain way? I deserve hell and I know it. Our relationship is so much sweeter. So much more full of Grace and Liberty. My message is Stop looking for reasons not to believe but for reasons to believe. God justice is NOT our idea of Justice - His ways are not our ways. Maranatha.
edit: one last thing: in the back of my mind, your dad's books always haunted me. I remember reading them as a new christian and a part of me always knew there was no denying God was real. Thank him for me. I actually attended a dinner in Colorado he was speaking at back in the early 80s. No we didn't meet.
Sorry but no-one "de-converts" and then "shouts" at a god they no longer believes exists.
@@downenout8705 It is possible he thought he left the faith but still cried out to God. Have a relationship with the Lord is key and somehow I believe he was hurt but kept his heart open.
@@downenout8705 Thanks Downen Out (good handle by the way). You are definitely the kind of "christian" I never want to be around. You missed the point completely.
@@michaelpalmer3540 I'm an atheist, and I'm simply pointing out the cognitive dissonance that I find so prevalent amongst theists.
@@facedown36 What he described is a typical example of theist cognitive dissonance.
I was heavily involved in a church with a corrupt pastor which tested my faith deeply. Ultimately I love Jesus. Period. Heart got hard for awhile, but never lost faith. Now I’m back fully. My feeling is if someone has truly been born again, nothing can take their faith.
But why do you have faith to begin with. What makes Christianity true? For example, why don't you believe in Zeus, the God of Thunder from ancient Greek religion?
That is so true!!!
@radscorpion8 I challenge you to HONESTLY ask God to show you the Truth. But you won't get anywhere if you have a by attitude.
You should have learned the plain and simple lesson that these pastors make their money off of control and manipulation. Giving authority over your life to anyone is a recipe for bad decision making. Follow your original gut and get out of the cult.
@@radscorpion8Great amount of historycity in the Bible, Tremendous impact of Jesus on our life even in these days, Countless numbers of fulfilled prophecies. Many more besides these, you have phylosophical argument for existence of God, argument from morality, cosmological argument, teleological argument, ontological argument. If you don't like that maybe take a deeper look at our world at quantum level which clearly tells us that determinism is dead and there's something special about our consciousness that collapses the wave function, which greatly shows irreducible nature of our mind and it's origin from something else than physical matter. I hope you'll find the truth, because it makes us free like nothing else in this beautiful world. God bless You
When I left Christianity, it wasn’t emotionally troubling for me. It just didn’t make sense to me anymore. When I came back, it was because it made sense to me again, also with no emotionally compelling experience. The cognitive reasons are all that made a big difference to me, at least that I’m aware of.
That’s amazing you came back. Fascinating!
I doubt it was logic and reason that bought you back.
@@SeanMcDowell you and I evaluate amazing in very different ways. Also, what are you a doctor of?
What caused doubts for you and how did you answer them?
@Andrew Fairborn You wouldn’t know, since I didn’t tell you what my reasons were and how logical I think they are, so your skepticism is unwarranted here.
It is so refreshing to hear people who are deep in their faith exploring the uncomfortable or messy. Many people ignore the pitfalls, difficult ideas, and questions. Thank you for this discussion!
If parents would be tolerant and open to the ideas or questions of their children while at the same time very firm on behaviors, what a difference that would make in the outcome of children's faith.
Allow discussion, questions even doubts by our children. Sean's father modeled this openness very well.
Help our children think through ideas rather than see questions as a threat.
THIS!
(atheist with christian parents here and this is so SO important)
I believe apologetics is way to low on the priority list as far as what you need to be a Christian.
And 100% agtreement
As an atheist I agree. Not being able to question definitely played a part in my deconversion
my mom and agnostic Atheist my Dad methodist they never raised use to believe in anything specific they let us explore what we wanted to believe in what we got older my sister is druid/pagan my and I became Christian when I was 24 years but I didn't affiliate with any donimnation and I am not affiliated with any organization today I just believe in god the father and jesus his only son I feel vary grateful my parents let us research and decide what path was right for us.
Here's something I wrote while facing some trying times in my life.
God is Still God
- by Troy Hinkle
God is still God when things don’t go my way
God is still God when the cancer doesn’t go away
God is still God when I don’t understand why
God is still God when all I want to do is cry
God is still God when I don’t know what to do
God is still God and He will help see me through
God is still God when the world is upside down
God is still God when I wear a frown
God is still God and He is not surprised at the things I must face
God is still God and He is full of Grace
God is still God and He loves me still
God is still God and I seek to know His will
God is still God even when I worry
God is still God and He is full of glory
God is still God and He will supply
God is still God and He is enough to get me by
God is still God and He is on my side
God is still God and in Him I must abide
God is still God and He is in control
God is still God and He brings peace to my troubled soul
God is still God and He has an open ear
God is still God and He hears my prayers
God is still God and He understands the desires of my heart
God is still God and He will never depart
God is still God and I must trust and obey
God is still God and He is the Way
God is still God and He gives us His Son
God is still God and Over Sin He has overcome
God is still God during the good and the bad
God is still God He cares when I am sad
God is still God when things are a mess
God is still God and He does like to bless
God is still God and I am glad that I am not
God is still God and I must not be distraught
God is still God and He is teaching me each day
God is still God and He is showing me His way
God is still God and I must not fear
God is still God and He sees every tear
God is still God and I rest in His hand
God is still God and He knows where I will land
God is still God and He molds me each day
God is still God when trials come my way
God is still God and He is ever near
God is still God and I am glad He still Cares
Thank You for sharing this poem, Troy. I agree with it totally. A line of poetry from Don Williams song, “I believe in love” May he always rest with our Lord.
“Well I don’t believe that Heaven waits, for only those who congregate.
I like to think of God as love, He’s down below, He’s up above.
He’s watching people everywhere, He knows who does and doesn’t care.
And I’m an ordinary man, sometimes I wonder who am.
But I believe in love…. Good day to you and yours.
Many many assumptions
Yes , God is still God,
No matter what nonsense you choose still to believe !
Salutations , to delusional beliefs !
@@johnlinden7398 Funny; the believers think the non believers are delusional for unbelief.
Beautiful and encouraging, dear friend in Jesus' family! Thank you so much
Hello. Friendly apostate here. Thankyou for covering this and addressing the issue. I had a fairly smooth transition out of my religion and community. But not everyone does. And even mine was not free of discomfort. And it's really good to see you giving researched reasons for why people apostate and leave their faith in contrast to the straw man critcisms often given by apologists. Also good to see you addressing the bad treatment some have recieved in doing this. Really appreciate your work Shaun.
Thx for sharing. I’m glad your transition was smoother than many.
Also Shaun, in terms of effectiveness in bringing people back into Christianity, which I am making an educated gues that for you it's about trusting in Jesus's death on the cross, for the forgiveness of sin and becoming apart of the kingdom of God.
In my contrasted experience with people who have wanted to debate me (Although many have been gracious listeners not pushing an agenda) what you are doing here is going to be most effective in bringing people back in faith in Jesus. Because you make the person who's left feel heard, cared for and loved. And from a psychological perspective we know someone in that state is more likely to listen and open to receiving different perspectives. Whatever it is you are presenting.
Even if you we solely concerned with the result of conversion and cared nothing for the command to love others this still would be the best chance you would get at making a conversion. Ironic in one sense. But not in another. Keep going Shaun. Cheering you from the ex-Christian sidelines :) As I'd rather see people respecting each other and discussing complex issues in depth than at each other's metaphorical throats
@@RemyRemy987 Thank you for sharing this here. I wish more believers understood this issue And how to handle it.
Did you try to build yout faith on sand? Or by mocking God?
Did God say? Come on, really?
God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not.
In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word.
So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar!
And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say?
Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question.
Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question.
Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs!
Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses.
Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say?
Every change they make is an insult to God and His word.
God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19.
In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent.
God will not be mocked.
This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30
changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair.
King James Bible online
Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online
Sources:
Adullum Films Documentary
-Tares Among the Wheat video
Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort.
Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com.
If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video.
It has some American History also.
@@judyswiderski2682hey Judy. It seems like this reply relates to something that isn't my comment :) I'm guessing it was meant as a reply to the video or another comment. If I'm not wrong about this could be good to move it to the intended place. If it is intended for my comment you could explain as to how if you like🙂
My question would have been why doesn't a living, personal, Father God who wills that all should be saved and who is not the author of confusion doesn't interact with His beloved children who are on the verge of losing their faith/trust/belief in His very existence. It's really as simple as that. When I was on my way out, I was all but begging God to not let me slip off into disbelief that was very much happening against my will and the silence from my Father was deafening.
Fantastic conversation. This is the kind of content that is very practical and helpful for us as pastors and church leaders. More of this please!
yeah you need all the help you can get, the church is up the creek. should have left roe / wade alone.
I’ve had two close friends deconstruct and leave the faith. I attempted to retrain the friendships, both stop communication with me and moved on to their new life. It was hurtful and confusing. They both had such a positive impact in my life, but (here comes the Christian cliche…but it’s true!) God helped me through that difficult time.
Perhaps your attempts to "retrain" them rather than understand them could explain the loss of communication.
@@stiimuli he probably meant "retain" of course, but either way, a friend who can't challenge his friends maybe just shows the sensitivity of this age and that more people take a path of least resistance in their relationships and prop up their own 'authenticity' as their greatest mooring (and then go find reinforcing fair-weather friends).
that is surprising because it usually is the other way, unless the denomination is more radical or bigoted. In which case for their own mental health many of us deconverted need to put up healthy boundaries
@@designbuild7128 it could also be the case that a believer constantly challenging someone's position feels more like a battle every time the friends get together. I can't speak for his two friends but if their friendship was solely based on their shared belief at the time than perhaps the friendship wasn't very substantive.
@@jdjsidjdi That could be. And to the point of this video, professing Christians (or church goers) can get it wrong for sure; but I would contend that traditional Christian doctrine / philosophy is built on the idea that we see every person as transcendently valuable. But this is coupled with the idea that withholding what we believe is truth is not loving or being a true friend either. Some claim the platinum rule, which I would say is the same as the golden rule once qualified. as such, there can be of course ideal ways to 'show truth in love' including giving people space, listening/sympathizing, etc.
But there are many modern philosophies that imho confuse discernment on what makes a substantive friendship, what constitutes healthy boundaries as mentioned in this thread, etc. From a pragmatic standpoint, shared values is one of the greatest temporal ties you can use to define a friend. Outside of God's intrinsic value on people, I am not sure how you can transcend commonality / shared interests to define a friendship. Of course you can say you will befriend someone for the greater human condition and civility, but then they are likely just a means to an end. This is a risk in cultural Christianity as well (but this is seen as a misguided view of God's call to love our neighbor and enemies). But I get the points you and others are making.
I had a really bad church experience. Even though I thought my faith was unshakable, it was shaken to the core. It took me 10 years to come back, and yes, it was a long and painful crawl back. If not for God...so I lean in that direction. It's a complicated thing to consider.
Only one bad church experience.....how is this possible...all you have to do is walk into virtually any church in Australia and you will get a shock....so unloving and unfriendly and if you stay longer you will have to have a God given iron clad faith....I refuse to be the religious hateful churchie type...
Perhaps reliably determining true and false should rest upon the available evidence rather than how a particular social group treats you.
@Christian Aponte Just the general behaviour is so often unloving....many self serving wanting to be leaders and not servants.....chosen for being loud, pushy, bullying, pushing themselves forward, sociable but shallow, often narcissists, many do not believe in the basics or have an even working knowledge of the bible and do not follow what they do know....have you not noticed how they treat many groups, the meek, the lowly etc...
Yes, I think this is where people go, because of such bad experiences either within the church or with another so called believer who hurt them
@@debzest4life37
Many put their faith in church instead of in Christ
My oldest son's left our faith because of church abuse by peers, peers' parents, lay leadership and pastors not willing to believe those people were abusive and liars. Nothing was acknowledged. Nothing was done. Church clearly became a very unsafe place for our family. My children's faith was destroyed by physical and emotional abusive church people.
I just watched and commented on your talk with GM Skeptic. I came here right after. Doubt was my concern. As an old atheist, I am actually worried about where christianity is going, and I don't want it to go wanky or towards evil. However, your openness and honesty only makes me think that christianity, if it wishes to survive, may have to accept a very much reduced status in America based upon Jesus and not on the ideologically religious based politics of fundamentalism, nor upon what is popular. The problem which you face as christians, of course, is accepting that you may have to be a little light under a shroud, and you may have to live your lives in emulation of Jesus.
Another problem I see, Ol Jimmers, is the ignorance of Christians. They refuse to listen to what an argument is against their religion. They believe it, and that settles it. "Don't tell me the truth. I'm happy with what I believe in" is their motto. And yet they will say that theirs is the truth, and nobody else has the truth. It's pretty sad.
The Jesus way is bigger than christianity in my opinion. They were first called Christians in Antioch as a derisive title. It's embarrassing for me to be counted as Christian in America today because of the misrepresentation of the real Christ. The worldwide ecclesia is as vital as ever!
That christians face the problem of actually following and being like Jesus is ironic and sadly true.
Discussions of this subject make me really appreciate my own spiritual journey to an ever deeper love and trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. I went through my crisis of "faith" before I became a real believer. I knew I was an agnostic in the 2nd grade at Catholic elementary school. I knew a Roman Catholic view of the gospel, and I knew about most of the important critiques of spiritual worldviews in general and Christianity in particular. Then on Saturday, December 20, 1980, around 12PM Noon PST, whilst I was looking at a "Wanted" poster for Jesus, it all fell in to place and I knew that He is everything He claimed to be, and He is able to do everything He promises to do. He says He's got the keys of hell and of death, and I believe Him. He says He is the Bread of Life, and I believe Him. He says that if I go to be with Him where He is, I'll get to drink of the Water of Life freely, and not only that, He will grant me the privilege of being set down in His Throne, as He is set down in His Father's Throne, if I overcome, as He has overcome.
The Lord has made it easy for me to believe, though not any easier in terms of living it out in real life in real time. So, I can have compassion for those who struggle in ways that I no longer struggle. I also understand that whilst only those who persevere in the faith to the end will be saved, it is also in my opinion the case that only those who persevere AT the end will be saved. The ups and downs don't matter, it's where you come down in the end that matters, so in spite of my Calvinism I keep hope for anyone who might still be eligible for mercy, who is not so reprobate that I'm forced to treat them as not worthy of any bother. Frankly, I haven't actually met anyone in that category, though some come close I'll admit.
I think I can describe my self as a Neo-Calvinist. I believe that whom God foreknew He did also predestinate, but I also believe that God is not willing that any should perish. It's one of those pesky paradoxes that drive people crazy because they try to resolve it in their flesh, within our 4 human dimensions, and forget about the other spiritual dimensions. I think it's the case that God has predestinated everybody to be saved, but individuals exercise their "free" will to opt out of salvation, as it were, so to speak, so that the lost are lost not because God predestinated them to be lost, but because they chose to be lost in rebellion and disobedience and ingratitude against God.
If you believe in truth, you must follow it wherever it takes you, even dark, uncomfortable and scary places…
The best thing you can do as a Christian to respond someone who is deconverting is to be like this:
Love endures with patience and serenity, love is kind and thoughtful, and is not jealous or envious; love does not brag and is not proud or arrogant. 5 It is not rude; it is not self-seeking, it is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]; it does not take into account a wrong endured. 6 It does not rejoice at injustice, but rejoices with the truth [when right and truth prevail]. 7 Love bears all things [regardless of what comes], believes all things [looking for the best in each one], hopes all things [remaining steadfast during difficult times], endures all things [without weakening].
But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is [perceived] knowledge, it will pass away.
After you say that do I get a cookie? The schick fails if I don't get a cookie!
@@MagnumInnominandum I actually have some cookies right here lol.
@@gfxpimp
Holy rolling will pass away, as well.
Unfotunately, the bible and christians for the last 2000 years have made it undoubtedly clear that there is no hate on the planet like Christian love. So quoting a verse about 'love' from a book full of Orwellian doublespeak and that demands humans have personal relationships with an abuser is a frightening approach towards people who already see the Christian mythology for the horrific moral depravity that it is and atrocities it has wrought on the world.
I find it interesting that we are acting as if there is a new classification for what used to be called falling away, forsaking the faith, or backsliding. I actually walked away from my relationship with God very similar to that you have described. I actually told God I didn't leave him but he left me. I use to despise that people would seem to come across my way and they would say the most outlandish things about God. I used to feel compelled to clarify that just because I no longer serve God it does not change HIS character. I eventually came to the end of myself and realized I was miserable without God and I was miserable with God but what else could I do but return to God because He alone has life. Once I repented and returned, God began to heal my heart and hurts from church doctrine and the people in the church. What I came to realize is that the lack of discipleship and my immaturity in the faith led to me falling away. This is literally my greatest push now as a follower of Christ Jesus... we are to make disciples of Christ Jesus not members of the church. Some feel this is just semantics but it definitely is not. I as a human can belong to something without being invested in the cause or purpose. Discipleship creates opportunity for one to invest in each other's maturing in the faith of our Lord and Savior as well as creating a safe place to ask questions and grapple with hard truths.
There's a big difference between believing and not following and the realisation that there is no good reason to believe that any god or gods are real and so not believing and not following.
LOL! What you stated is the exact reason I could never stop being a Christian. Life is so much fuller and meaningful with God than it is without Him. It's why I often think and find that so many of the stories of these deconverted Christians are people who were never Christians to begin with. They either come from some legalistic fundamentalist background or their Christianity was based on just some feel good feeling, or they became a Christian for social reasons ie. career/marriage. But they never gave their mind or heart to God.
Really good point. I will remember that. Church members vs. disciples.
I stopped considering myself a Christian at the age of 18. I grew up in an evangelical environment but I kept my perspective to myself most of the time. Through lengthy introspection, I realized that I was exhausting my interest in rationalizing my way around Christian beliefs and I decided that ‘I don’t know’ was a valid response to many of my questions around religion.
My immediate feeling was relief. I was free to explore religion and philosophy without that inner sense of tension at the idea that I may have to defend my worldview against intellectual attack. I could just study for the joy of learning. This approach has suited me much more and I still consider myself unaffiliated.
Great comment. Many theists view "I don't know" as a weakness. I think it is oftentimes the best answer. If we admit we don't know we can keep searching for an answer. I also agree that being willing to admit I don't know reduces cognitive dissonance and saves a lot of emotional energy.
I glad you realized you didn't Know Jesus. I hope you give up whatever sin you left the church for and truly get saved! Ray Comfort has FREE movies and interviews on TH-cam with the gospel!
Kal, that's a shame. I know, I spent years only to find out Jesus makes everything easier to bear, no one else lead me to this "peace that surpasses all understanding."
YES! I also grew up evangelical. I was in it a little longer, deconstructing March 2022 at the age of 24, and have stepped back into that "I don't know" perspective. Learning without taking a side IS very relieving. Thank you for your comment.
Your comment greatly show strength in humility and honesty. Thank you.
I deconverted but the process was happening for years before and didn't realize it. I was deconverted out of hard core fundamentalism gradually but I was claiming Jesus and my fundamentalist faith until I pivoted in one day I looked in the mirror and told myself I am no longer a Christian. I wanted a Time I actually know that I can look back to where I made the concrete decision to leave the faith. I didn't attend a more "liberal" Christian Church.
Hard core fundamentalism or legalism is what I think people assimilate with Christianity
@@jeffcaminiti162 That is changing and I have watched Chrisitanity for over 45 years and huge changes have been happening within the last 3 years. I find it shocking myself, and that is saying something.
@@jeffcaminiti162 I worked in a mega church and attended a year long class there with some wonderful women. I was surprised by the amount of ex-Catholics that were calling themselves reformed Catholics, jokingly. They shared a common theme to why they left the Catholic Church- it was very legalistic and was not about having a real relationship with Jesus. Being saved by works, not grace.
@@taras4352 No question that a lot of people walk away from legalism. But legalism doesn't represent God. Legalism represents flawed(sinful) human beings misrepresenting the faith. Going the opposite extreme of that isn't the answer.
It has been said that there is no perfect church, cause as soon as you join it, it is no longer “perfect.”
But the pronlem goes umdtayed:
Did God say? Come on, really?
God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not.
In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word.
So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar!
And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say?
Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question.
Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question.
Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs!
Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses.
Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say?
Every change they make is an insult to God and His word.
God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19.
In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent.
God will not be mocked.
This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30
changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair.
King James Bible online
Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online
Sources:
Adullum Films Documentary
-Tares Among the Wheat video
Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort.
Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com.
If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video.
It has some American History also.
As an ex-evangelical, I lost my faith over 20 years ago. It was gradual, long process. I still remember my very last prayer, it was something along these lines: "God forgive me, I am no longer sure You exists. Please help me and show me the truth. Until I hear from You directly, I will continue alone." And I still mean it! If God will show me that He is true, I will repend. Until that, there is nothing to repend for. I just live my life the best way I can, as if it was the only one.
Thank you for sharing your story. I can only imagine how tough that would’ve been.
@@SeanMcDowell Tough part was: everything was, what I did not expected, and on top of it, I had to re-define my worldviews, reasons for everything. And to be true, I still keep making corrections. Your topic got my attention - I hoped to recognize the reasons I had when leaving. But no dice ;) And, thanks for being so.. positive! (I really struggled for the last word)
@@veikoplays great insights, there’s a lot of reasons
Sean is my favorite apologist. He seems like such a genuine guy. If I ever found myself starting to believe in the Christian god, he'd be my first source for apologetics.
Praying for you man
Agreed. Just curious, you don’t have to answer, what do you think is preventing you from believing in the Christian God?
@@connormorris5189 I know you aren't asking me, but if you are just interested in the psychological aspect, I can answer
When I read the bible (specifically the old testament) it seems much more like a product of humans than that of a loving god. I can't figure out why god would repeatedly demand sacrifice in the old testament, but I know that gods from plenty ancient man-made religions are the same way - so it is possible that god is depicted in this way because that is how humans viewed gods back then. Phrased in a different way, it is possible that god is made in the image of humans and not the other way around.
Furthermore, this would explain so many things about the old testament. Why does god repeatedly kill people for trivial reasons including kids? Can't say for certain, but gods of other religions do the same thing. Why does god have a desire to be worshipped and feared? Why does god who loves everyone have a select group of people that he helps in war like in other religions? Why are the laws in deutoronomy from a modern perspective so horrifying? chapter 13 specifically demands that you stone family members to death if they start worshipping different gods and the same chapter demands that we slaughter entire cities if they have different gods. Shouldn't we convert them to christianity?
Same thing with hell. I can't rationally justify it, but I know that other religions have a hell too - isn't it weird that humans independantly of god figured out the perfect and most morally just punishment/reward system for the afterlife? I personally think hell is a thing because the bible is made by humans and I know that the humans responsible for other ancient religions are big fans of hell.
Finally, I don't just don't find the evidence compelling. The evidence consists of ancient people claiming that jesus rose from the dead. But religions don't generally spread by themselves. They always arise and spread because someone starts claiming something that isn't true, so I don't know how anyone can differentiate between a religion spreading because it's true from a religion that is based on a lie.
I am fine with people using jesus as a role model, though. I think he represents good values and I think the world would be a better place if more people listened to his teachings.
But if we are purely looking at this from a perspective that I consider rational, I can't say that I think any of these things actually happened
@@connormorris5189 I would say it's the lack of good evidence. I don't know what it would take to convince me otherwise....but if God does exist, he would know exactly what it would be.
Definitely relate to that. Of the apologists and preachers I listened to when I was a Christian and while I was a deconverting, Sean was definitely my favorite. While atheists have plenty of great spokespersons, few are as genuinely caring and loving as Sean. While I don’t wish the real struggle and heartbreak that happens when you lose your faith for the first time on anyone, Sean would be the best person to coherently and lovingly represent exchristians if he ever were to deconvert.
I refound him as I was following Josh Steingard (think thats the spelling) through his doconversion (as we definitely went through the same things). Sean’s approach and conversation with him was a very beautiful moment. Kinda shocked me to hear what others like Alisa Childers and the lead singer of Skillet had to say, both of whom I had admired. That being said I still appreciate their perspectives and Monster is a great song
Mothers often sacrifice an awful lot for the sake of their children, especially those moms who invest a lot in their kids. They sacrifice their bodies, their health, so much of their time, their careers, their time with friends, their sense of individuality. I think in a lot of ways, motherhood changes a woman’s self-concept more than fatherhood does a man’s. I could be wrong, since I’ve never been a father. But I’ve worked with mothers for a long time. When you have invested so much of your life - not just your time, your whole life - into someone, to watch them fall away from what matters most in life is not just heart-wrenching; it also feels like all that sacrifice you made was in vain. For better or worse, we mamas feel like a lot is riding on how our children turn out.
You make a lot of good points about motherhood but not sure how that relates at all to the above video O_o
Believe it or not, you are describing codependence not motherhood. If you did your best, you have nothing to worry about. The child will have to learn the hard way at times. If they reach a snare in life, they will fall back on all that made you stable. Then they will be able to put their life in order. It might take a 12 step program and a therapist. That is the journey of them and God's plan for their life and maybe plan b and c. Your kids are loaned to you. They really belong to God and themselves. You need to read a book on codependency. You cannot control your kids or your lives. Focus on your life and become excited about your life and that will attract your children to you in relationship. Show how happy following God makes you. God bless you.
As a former Christian, I can remember feeling this burden, that my children's salvation was riding on my ability to "train up a child in the way he should go...". Indoctrination is the inevitable, natural consequence; rest assured, children that walk away from the faith will resent this. Neither your nor your child's self-worth should hinge on a Christian identity. If you've raised a loving, empathetic, and productive member of society, well done. Consider (or perhaps reconsider) a god that would cast that person into hell for eternal torment for a lack of belief.
Sacrifice is different from vicarious living.
A sacrifice is vicarious, but...
a sacrifice requires a death,
and a sacrifice therefore seems to be
something made "in vain."
That is the meaning of sacrifice.
Something to think on, sisters.
I understsnd your hesrt! We so dedire to see the best for our children especially their eternity.
But there is a deceptive veke we were not aware of. We thouhht that God made all bibles equal.
Did God say? Come on, really?
God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not.
In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word.
So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar!
And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say?
Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question.
Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question.
Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs!
Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses.
Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say?
Every change they make is an insult to God and His word.
God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19.
In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent.
God will not be mocked.
This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30
changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair.
King James Bible online
Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online
Sources:
Adullum Films Documentary
-Tares Among the Wheat video
Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort.
Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com.
If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video.
It has some American History also.
I have started telling my kids that they WILL have doubts as they go along in their faith and to continue seeking answers. To not be scared by doubts and to be okay with some of the discomfort while they search out their answers. The alternative is that this is all by chance and that is more ludicrous than any doubt I might have.
Great conversation. Very interesting and informative. Thank you for sharing.
God does not have to justify His actions to anyone. This includes everything from the OT all the way to the future final judgement.
It is not incumbent upon pastors to find innovative ways to explain God's actions in an effort to reconcile them with modern day sensitivities.
Any tension between God and the deconverting skeptic is purely the fault of the skeptic.
We all have a choice to make. We can either believe in and follow Christ or we can reject Him and walk away. We also must own the logical outcomes of these decisions.
We should pray for and be available to answer the questions and doubts of those who are deconverting. But never, never, never give them victim status.
Hard truth: Those that reject Christ are enemies of God unless they repent.
No exceptions.
well put,..
Christian rhetoric like this do more to ensure the mass exodus from Christianity grows exponentially. Tone deaf, rude, dismissive, toxic and ignorant. It not only makes it patently clear to those deconstructing and deconverting that the Christian god is made in the image of morally depraved men, but that there is no hate like Christians love.
The world needs more comments like this. Classic Westboro Effect.
I find it very natural and even logical to believe in a Higher Power / Creator, and even confess christian faith, but I still struggle with lots of theology.
That’s understandable!
"And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him."
Hebrews 11:6
Sometimes things are counterintuitive
@@SeanMcDowell it's understandable, but also unbearable. Truth about "God and everything" is really something I want to find, not only vague belief in something higher.
You are to be taugt by the Spirit of truth, after you atre born again by the power of the Holy Spirit of God.
The first part, the Spirit of truth does not use lying, God mocking bibles.
Did God say? Come on, really?
God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not.
In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word.
So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar!
And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say?
Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question.
Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question.
Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs!
Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses.
Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say?
Every change they make is an insult to God and His word.
God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19.
In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent.
God will not be mocked.
This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30
changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair.
King James Bible online
Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online
Sources:
Adullum Films Documentary
-Tares Among the Wheat video
Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort.
Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com.
If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video.
It has some American History also.
I used to be a super devout Mormon. So so incredibly fundamental. I don’t regret leaving because it was a cult, but all these things you’re saying are so incredibly true of my experience and leaving. It was a super long process that took several years. It was definitely the hypocrisy of the members that planted that first seed of doubt that caused me to really look around and be like you’re not even doing what you’re preaching. Then there were the intellectual issues, their own books having problems, and them being shunned. It scares me knowing that life does have a way of brining up situations that I would’ve never dreamed was possible. I would’ve never guessed that I was going to leave. So now it’s taking me 10 years to find my way back to evangelical faith because I had to take time to heal and live and experience the ways of the world, despite avoiding a ton of pitfalls that people who leave fall into, see them fail me in my life get worse and completely run out of every option that way. I have no clue what the future is gonna have and if it’s going to break me spiritually again and not be able to find my way out of it. All I can do is try to build up my testimony even more and continue to work to make sure I’m surrounded by a positive community to be there to help me out. Fortunately pastors are all formally trained and can help in a way that Mormon bishops can’t but members are taught to expect. Hence they’re bleeding members and they should be! They claim they’re Christian but they really aren’t but we need to be bringing them over to this side and welcoming them into this community after being burned by theirs.
This is what has my attention more than anything right now in this culture...I feel like I'm the poor man's John Marriott :) as I'm in many conversations/debates and studying of folks deconstructing/deconverting in books and videos. He's 1000% right in that you go through the gammit of empathy, anger, and questioning things yourself--especially when someone genuinely has their updated worldview very well contructed and are no longer in the Faith. While discouraging, it also should not be surprising--not everyone is going to "believe" so at some point in a gracious debate or conversation, there comes a time when you have to be ok that it really is not for everyone. That's the beauty of Christianity...it's not forced...you either love it or you don't. You end up getting what you want in the end. I'm finding it to be mostly strengthening to my own faith and forcing me to learn and understand Scripture even more...that has been super cool. I look forward to reading John's book and even connecting with him on some advice. I'm actually in the middle of the book "Before you Lose your Faith" by Trevon Wax, Rachel Gilson, and others which is really good too.
You can't force yourself to believe stuff you no longer believe.
I agree. :) I stopped believing in atheism after reading theistic philosophy and after questioning my atheism.
@@hhstark8663 " I stopped believing in atheism" You stopped believing in something you didn't believe? That's a double negative. Being an atheist simply means you don't accept a god claim. You don't stop believing in atheism, you begin believing in theism. Believing something is an action. You cannot to begin to stop believing.
@@mrscience1409 You are technically correct, in the same way that being a Bolshevik is technically not genocidal, but is by the common understanding of genocidal - desiring to kill entire groups of people who you don't like (just killing kulaks for the sake of the state, you know...). Agnosticism, as understood by most people, is having the humility to not believe any particular religious claim, in the lack of any perceived good evidence for any such claims. Generally it is a transition point for people between one belief system (no matter how ill formed) and another, although people can be in such a situation for decades. Atheism, as understood by most people on the other hand, is the belief that all such religious claims about gods or divinities are bunk, and that our world is not fundamentally subordinate to some divine personality or personalities. It is not, and has not been understood to mean for a long time, as a designation related to a specific god/deity. It describes a big-tent set of beliefs which reject a divine framework as the underpinning of the world. Tend to be materialistic, but atheist idealists are a respectable category that exists.
Tl;DR Many atheists try to write themselves into victory by default by making Atheism the default belief of humans linguistically. Therefore this shifts the burden of proof in their favour, such that if they really desire, any evidence cannot shift the scales. You can do that if you want, I certainly used to. But you are only making it more confusing for everybody.
This is mostly true, but not in the way that tends to matter. I can't force myself to deny the obvious. Incidentally, this is the reason why many theists discuss the concept of 'divine hiddenness', with one solution being that it would not leave humans with a real choice to be undeniably present everywhere... that would be like sorting Stockholm syndrome sheep from those who want to escape, no matter how benevolent the deity.
However, what I can do, and what many (not suggesting you - this is more true of me imho) people actually do, is commit what lawyers and psychologists term wilful blindness. So often, when there are truths we fear, despise, or are disinterested in, we know where to find them - we just would rather not look. When I became an atheist, I claimed that the scriptures are full of contradictions! I had heard it somewhere on TH-cam, and by super cursorily looking over my bible (if that), I could confirm that those passages were indeed in the places the youtuber claimed.
So in short, you are for the most part correct! You can't force belief, it happens organically! But you can *stifle* it. You can throw away the seed before it germinates. You can avoid asking your child why they are acting uncharacteristically despondent, and cultivate an atmosphere where they will never dare talk about their issues, and claim you never knew they were having difficulty, and not even deliberately, just because you prefer the comfort of a quiet house after your 10 hour shift. You can neglect to ask your son how much debt they are in before co-signing the loan, because you ardently believe your son a responsible man, and how could you be wrong about THAT! And given how painful contemplating the idea of a god, and this god's place in your life, the one where bad things have happened to you and to humanity - well, that is ample reason to avoid serious entertaining of the idea of a deity altogether.
How much moral culpability you may have for wilful blindness is up to you to decide. You may even assume the unevidenced, yet not entirely unreasonable assumption that free will does not exist, and therefore the idea of moral culpability is bunk. But what is not up to debate is that it exists, and therefore in some sense our actions (i.e. pseudo choice for stalwart determinists) can determine our beliefs.
Bit of a ramble, but if nothing else it helped me clarify my thoughts. Hope you have a good day!
Your faith should not be grounded on headline motto. Unfortunately, this is as deep as it goes for most Christians
Friendly atheist here! :) It is a straw man that people are leaving the faith due to bad things happening to them... stop wasting time on this, we all agree that good or bad things happening to people are not a good reason to believe or not believe in themselves.
It depends. For some people it is intellectual, for other people it is emotional (like in "Jim Yost" and "Sarah´s song"´s cases in the comments below).
I conqur that emotional reasons *should* not cause a change in position, but it does unfortunately (not all human beings obviously, but still occurs). Human beings are unfortunately not entirely rational.
Reasons don't have to "be good" (whatever that means) to believe something though, so it's important to address regardless of your personal opinion of the reasons.
You sound like you understand that Jesus said no one that the Father gives Him will be lost and Jesus will raise them up on the last day. John 6:39
Hi, Friendly Atheist! I agree that the fact that bad things happen to good people is not a very good excuse to dis-believe in a loving, all-powerful God. The Bible explains that bad things are the consequences of sin being unleashed upon the world, which happened at man's initiative, in spite of a clear warning from God, Who, in His mercy, took the eternal consequences upon Himself through His Son, providing an escape route for mankind--should they choose to take it. I think of original sin as being like radiation from the sun. I was born into a world with radiation. I did not ask for it, but it will eventually kill me. Whether or not I believe in radiation or not does not change the consequences for me, although if I choose to lie around in tanning beds, I could hasten the process. In order for me to live forever, someone would need to save me from the consequences of radiation.
Maybe it's not the majority, but I believe him when he says he came across people who gave that as a reason. Maybe it serves as a catalyst. From utter disappointment to asking yourself whether or not your religion is true. And it also depends on what you believed in the first place. I imagine someone following the prosperity gospel will deconvert faster because of bad things happening to them than another denomination.
Ive deconstructed my faith and I’m still an evangelical. My views on some secondary issues have changed, but I hold on to the essentials even stronger.
Sounds good to me!
@Sarah Hodgins For me, anyone who affirms the tenets of the Nicene Creed is a Christian. An Evangelical however is someone who also 1) empathises the necessity of being ‘born again’ 2) Places a focus on evangelism and spreading the Gospel and 3) sees the Bible as the trustworthy Word of God.
I left the church at the peak of my love for it. It broke my heart that I couldn't affirm the dogma in good faith.
Nearly 15 years later, it takes everything in me not to be contemptuous of what the church has become; particularly American evangelicalism. It certainly bears little to no resemblance to the vision of Jesus I once followed. I grieved the loss at the time, but I regret nothing about parting ways.
Jordan, seriously why do you try to follow a church? The real deal is to follow Jesus. No human organization gets it right.
@@glennsimonsen8421 bwahahaha. Your Jesus is a human construct, same as the human organizations.
There with ya
I left Christianity during a time when I was trying to be a better Christian. After a friend started getting involved with a particular church that made claims that weren't Biblical, I tried talking to him, and realized my ability to recall a relevant verse was lacking. From there I decided to not just read but thoroughly study the Bible to not just understand what's being said, but why. As I delved deeper into the Bible, I realized there was a lot that just simply wasn't true, acts of a god that are cruel, despicable, and immoral...none of it made sense anymore. I went searching for answers, trying to make sense of it all and happened to come across debates between apologists and atheists, and every single time - the atheist made more sense.
Turns out the best Christian I could be was an atheist.
That said, no bad experience led me away. I was (and am still) happily married with a family and great friends. Leaving my faith was more difficult because I lost some of those connections I had with others.
@Sarah Hodgins You've got to be kidding. First, American churches don't teach these things; they just ignore it's there. The old testament is littered with times where god commands the death of many people, including the firstborns of Egypt.
Leviticus 25:44 - “‘Your male and female slaves are to come from the nations around you; from them you may buy slaves."
Leviticus 25:46 - "You can bequeath them to your children as inherited property and can make them slaves for life, but you must not rule over your fellow Israelites ruthlessly."
This isn't pro-slavery? Really? The only reason people feel the need to interpret verses like this is because of the uncomfortable truth about what it blatantly says.
Believing something is not a choice, until you understand this, you will not understand leaving the faith.
I came to a crossroads when I was 24, and I was challenged. The thing is, I didn't take those challenges as a wreck to my faith. Instead, I challenged the challenges and they fell apart. Today, my faith is 100 times stronger, my knowledge and study is also much more sturdy than it was then. All in all, when it comes to the philosophy of God's existence, the answer to that question is a resounding and overwhelming YES! I chose not to fold, and dig in instead. The challenges were very real to me as well. This is when my faith became my own, and not anything I was taught. I have a friend who was raised in the church. He fell at the first challenge to his faith and what he fell to was a little book that was nothing. The book was all completely false and written by what most would consider to be a quack. I challenged him to challenge the book and he said no. He was never of us. Just as the bible says, the wheat and chaff will be separated. Chaff blows away in the wind easily. No strength in his faith at all. I believe he was looking for the first reason to give it up and when that excuse presented itself he did. (hard Christian home) I personally was bombarded with challenges, but they all fell at my scrutiny of them.
@@bairfreedom no
That's an excuse--akin to saying a demon made you do it, the devil made you do it, God/s made you do it etc. Statements like, "the evidence convinced me and left me with no other choice," require elaboration and don't on their own provide any information on what was convincing.
I agree. :) I stopped believing in atheism after reading theistic philosophy and questioning my atheism and following the evidence where it leads.
@@hhstark8663 I have a very hard time seeing how evidence could possibly lead you to any sort of specific theology. Once you consider the idea that all religions are invented by men any other explanation seems very unlikely by comparison.
I agree with him that reading the bible for yourself is the top reason people leave the faith.
Let me add to your statement. Reading the Bible and not understanding it, or studying it, is why a lot of people either leave, or don’t want anything to do with it. IMO
no. it's because of selfishness. it's not hard to defend the bible. the bible is never the problem. we humans love to rebel.
Thank you for this program. I cried through much of it because I have a sister who has been in the deconversion process for several years, and my heart breaks for her. Bottom line for her is that she just can't accept a God who would send someone to hell. This was mentioned as an example in the interview, and I wish there had been more discussion on how to respond to that. You have given me much to think about and much to pray about.
I’m glad it was helpful
These are the two best answers I have heard about this the issue of hell. I hope they help. :)
1. God does not send humans to hell. Humans *send themselves* to hell, since they do not want to be in presence with God. God *will not force* someone to be in his presence against his/her will. The only loving thing by God is to let them decide for themselves.
2. God will judge *those who have never heard* or *not have enough information* based on the information that they have been given. If their hearts want to be with god, they will get admitted into heaven. (The reason that we are Christians is because *it is true* , which still justifies missionary-activity on this view.)
@@hhstark8663 Thank you for those good points. My sister would probably reply that the idea that someone sends themselves to hell is preposterous--"No one would do that." If something doesn't seem sensible to her personally then she denies that it's true.
@@thingstocomemission9243 This is what I would respond to her: Why would a judge not do that? Can a judge in real life send a criminal to jail for lifetime for committing serious crimes? Yes, they can. Can a criminal be pardoned in the jurisdictional system? Yes, they can. If the criminal refuses the pardon, will the criminal still be sent to jail for lifetime? Yes, they will.
Why is it then injustice for God to act according to the laws that he layed out (the moral laws), while giving us the option to be pardoned? Have you followed the Ten Commandments perfectly? If we do not take the pardon, we are sending ourselves to jail for a lifetime. That is not injustice.
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Here is another scenario:
*Accusation* : It´s unjust for god to send people to hell because of a geographical accident!
*Answer* : Why is that unjust? A person is not sent to hell for rejecting Jesus, they are sent to hell for breaking the moral laws (Ten Commandments, repeated in the New Testament as well with the exception of one, namely the Sabbath) for over a lifetime. Has that person who has not heard about Jesus broken the moral law? Yes, they have. How would the punishment be unjust, given the person´s guilt? By accepting Jesus, the person would then be pardoned from his guilt. If the person in question would have accepted Jesus, God would have put a Christian in his/her path. And that is not injustice.
I agree with your sister I believe God know our heart and will eventually welcome everyone back, so I have no fear of the physical death, it is God's greatest gift to humans. Yah though I walk thru the valley of shadow of death I shall fear no evil, this is what I believe@@thingstocomemission9243
I have stopped going go church and my faith got stronger.
May I ask, "your faith in what?"
@@christophergibson6694 God silly. The spirit of God is within you. Go within.
@@koakat4340 Just to be clear. The Spirit of God only comes to live in you when you have repented and trusted Jesus alone for your salvation.
@@koakat4340 I did indeed find God within, I never gave up my faith I gave up organized religion and found a heart full of compassion and that gave me peace.
I felt the same. I'd like to go back someday for the fellowship and preaching but most of my growth has been outside the church.
Because apologetics are just a poor excuse for the doubts that arise from lack of evidence.
Apologetics is not the search for truth, but the search for arguments for preconceived notions.
@Hello There there is no atheist dogma.
Atheism is not bound by the conclusion from any scripture.
@Hello There Let's compare.
What's your best argument for the existence of your deity?
My only argument against it is... I am not convinced.
@Hello There That's the weakest "best argument" I have ever heard.
@Hello There Keep stabbing in the dark.
@Hello There I would like to answer your last question. "So what would convince you of the existance of God?"
I don't know what would convince me, but God would. If God truly wanted to have a personal relationship with me, he, being the all powerful god, would know exactly what to do or say to convince me. The fact that he doesn't says one of two things, he doesn't want a relationship with me or he doesn't exist.
I just left Christianity a couple weeks ago. I was having doubts for a couple months and I eventually stopped fighting them.
Thank you for sharing. That must have been hard.
Congratulations, friend. Your newfound enlightenment can be quite intoxicating, but I would suggest resisting the temptation to share your good news too broadly until you have matured a bit in your freedom from religion. Many will be easily offended, and feel judged by you even though you say little. Be kind to those who are religious - they find much comfort in it. Peace, and enjoy the journey.
@@randomentity6553very insightful. I want to second this.
How is faith good?
Truth wins through but only if you let it.
Faithful Muslims will never change their beliefs. It is faith that keeps them wrong.
That is all faith can do.
It has no correction method and can only keep people wrong.
There is always going to be a struggle for some people when they face challenges in life, they blame God, pray to Him, and don't feel their prayers have been answered. I feel that God always listens to our prayers, but people don't always realise that He works in mysterious ways, not always the way we think, or not always straight away, and we may not always notice the ways in which He has worked or is working for us.
Some walk away from faith because of this, which is so sad, but I know that God listens, cares and loves us unconditionally, and will always be there. Faith is a beautiful thing to let go of, and I feel heartfelt sympathy for those who have lost this most precious of things, what now for them? I pray that they will find their way home, back to Him who created us and loves us, and who wants us home when we leave our earthly life.❤️🙏❤️
Do you realize the description you laid out in your first paragraph paints a situation that is entirely indistinguishable from that god not existing at all? You've constructed a completely unfalsifiable concept. So how do we reliably check to see if this god you're referring to really does hear our prayers and does mysterious things we can't see....or simply isn't there except in the minds of those who want to believe?
Similarly, how exactly do you "know that God listens, cares and loves us unconditionally, and will always be there"? How have you determined this to be true? Because the bible says so? Because you wish this to be true? I am sincerely asking. If this god can reliably and definitively be demonstrated to actually exist outside imagination then many many more people would believe......and surely this god knows this, right?
@@stiimuli I have had a personal experience after the tragic death of a loved one, I can honestly and truly , hand on heart vouch for this experience at the worst time in my life. It was a supernatural experience with no other explanation as I cried out in total despair to my Lord and Saviour. So I speak through personal experience as well as Christianity making complete sense to me. Nothing else does! 🙏
@@beemer2869 Surely you're aware that "I had an experience" is commonly espoused across all religions and all manner of claims. Does it mean they all are true or what that person thinks they were?
Also, you didn't actually answer my questions. What can we do to test your claims about this god to reliably verify if they are accurate? Please offer something better than "I had an experience" or "have faith".
To be fair, I knew you wouldn't understand because my experience was personal and unique to me, I believe it 100 percent, and what you believe is irrelevant.
On my faith, I believe the evidence of the Holy Bible and all the extremely clever men and women through the centuries to the present day who have studied it and analysed it intelligently from cover to cover. My faith is not blind, it is very strong for many many reasons.
You are free to not believe, just as I am to believe, but I tell you one thing, I would rather be in my position than that of a non believer, you have so much more to lose in the end
Nothing will convert me from Christianity.
For more educated answers, if you were interested, I suggest you do some research on TH-cam.
C S Lewis doodles are a good place to start.
I wish you well my friend, God bless.
@@beemer2869 1) I don't doubt you had an experience or what you believe about it. I doubt that your assessment of its cause and meaning are accurate. Just like if someone told you they had an experience with aliens. With only the claim to go on would you just accept actual aliens? I don't mean that as any kind of insult. I'm simply trying to remain objective and intellectually honest.
2) "I believe the evidence of the Holy Bible and all the extremely clever men and women..." But only the clever men and women who believe the bible is true like you do? What about the many, many clever men and women who have studied the bible and believe differently (or don't believe its true)? Do you consider them as well?
3) "you have so much more to lose in the end" No more than you have to lose if Islam is correct. Actually you have more to lose there because Islam's description of hell is far more horrifying than Christianity's. By your own logic you should now convert to Islam because you have more to lose in the end. Or could it be that hypothetical risk is not how we reliably assess what is true and what is not?
4) "Nothing will convert me from Christianity" and that right there is a literal example of being closed minded. Being unwilling to even consider ever changing your mind if new evidence or ideas warrant it. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but I'm a bit shocked you said that flat out.
5) "I suggest you do some research on TH-cam" I've spent more than a decade on TH-cam and other forums examining and discussing these subjects. I'm familiar with Lewis and many other apologists. If you find a certain argument of his particularly compelling I'm happy to discuss it here with you.
DId Sean just say he "read it again this morning". He reads a whole book in one morning? lol
I thought the same thing 😆
Yep. It's a thing. I can do that!
I thought the same thing when he said that 😂
Hahahaha I thought the same 😊
Speed reading works well for a book you have read before.
Thank you for this interview! really helpful and gave me a lot to think about
Dr Marriott interviewed the people deconverting…did he interview the people who the people deconverting said treated them poorly?
I left the Christian tradition after 20+ years of beautiful, weekly practice and faith when I realized Christian Exceptionalism (Christians go to heaven, *everyone else* goes to hell) would never, ever achieve a peaceful world... quite the opposite... would ensure a world that was forever violently divided. And so it is.
And I left the Christian tradition wholesale within a year.
That's a tough one. I considered leaving Christianity because I didn't like the idea of my way being the right or the only way. And then, when I thought of becoming something else - non-religious, other religion - I hit a conundrum. I realized, no matter what I believed, I would believe that THAT way (whatever it was) was the right way. Even if I believed all religions were right, I would be forced to believe that Christian exceptionalists were wrong. I figure we're all stuck with a kind of exceptionalism. Painfully, I think it's unavoidable.
@@yaminatoday1151 We are not stuck with exceptionalism if we are in a consistent growth process that includes - and yet transcends the best truths as we find them, and jettisons the rest. I jettisoned Christian dogma that was clearly deficient or pathological, and moved forward
@@MamaKatrinaRain Not sure what you mean by "transcends the best truths?" Truth is truth, isn't it? Also, it seems to me that Christians can also be in a consistent growth process, believing what they believe. They don't have to disavow Christ to be in a consistent growth process. So I honestly don't understand what you are saying. Can you clarify?
Is it possible that our finite minds can’t fathom every way that God thinks? Consider what God says to Job and his philosophical friends when they are going back and forth in their discussion
If Christianity is true, islam is false and vice versa.
They can NOT both be true at the same time.
Christianity says that Jesus died on the cross. Islam says that Jesus did NOT die on the cross.
See "cira international" or "pfanderfilms" for more information.
Or, should we relook at what is being left? Maybe there are objects of our faith SHOULD be abandoned or redefined.
Have you had a bad experience with someone in the church or someone who claims to be a Christian?
It depends on whether the aspect you are thinking of has been accepted by the church for 2000 years, or not.
If you disagree with calvinists, you should be an arminian.
If you disagree with arminian, you should be a wesleyan.
And so on (don´t forget the catholics and orthodox as well).
Those are still minor secondary theological issues.
The major primary theological issues are accepted regardless of denomination.
Such as?
I had a very warm relationship with my father who was a devoted Christian. Read a degree in Theology at the London Schools of Theology and still deconverted. Attachment patterns formed in relationship with real parents don't point to whether god is real in any way. It may be that avoidant attachment simply makes it less likely that a person will form a relationship with an imaginary supernormal parent projected from their own mind as they have developed the resources to take care of themselves at an earlier stage.
So many critical issues were left out of this interview.
· The New Testament is heavily influenced by Aristotelian, NeoPlatonistic, Pythagorean, and Stoic philosophies, woven all throughout it.
· Zoroastrian and Egyptian influences abound.
· It copies extensively from the Greek pantheon and Mithraic beliefs. Luke and Acts are based heavily on Homer's Iliad and Odyssey, both in structure, detail, and quotes. The gospels also quote from and borrow storylines from Euripides and Virgil.
· The Gospel of Mark is based on the Zodiac, in the correct order of the constellations.
· The author of Luke heavily borrowed from Josephus and Plutarch.
· The NT quotes extensively from the Qumran/Dead Sea Scrolls.
· The NT quotes/plagiarizes the much older book of Enoch 100x, quotes other pseudepigraphal/deuterocanonical books hundreds of times, including endless quotes from The Wisdom of Solomon, Sirach/Ecclesiasticus, Baruch, Esdras, Jubilees, Judith, Tobit, The Testament of the Twelve Patriarchs, The Assumption of Moses, The Book of Jasher, The Life of Adam and Eve, The Apocalypse of Zephaniah, etc.
· There are many quotes of earlier philosophers woven throughout the NT--not just where it's spelled out in Acts.
· Gematria (Jewish numerology) and early Kabbalah played a very large part, especially when mixed in with Pythagorean concepts (John 21's "153" fish, the numbers in the first 2 chapters of Luke, and all over Revelation).
· There are 40-50+ Gospels and 6+ books of Acts. There are at least 9 different endings to Mark. How do you know which one is the correct one?
· You didn't even touch on canonicity how many books floated in and out of the canon for hundreds of years.
· There are forgeries and counter forgeries, including inside the canon.
· There is extensive astrotheology woven in.
· You didn't touch on Roman state influences on the narrative.
· You didn't touch on the endless church power struggles, and that orthodoxy shifted on major levels many times.
You can't wave a magic wand over what happened 200 BC - 400 AD and act like Christianity is anything other than a Jewish version of a Greco-Roman mystery cult that heavily borrowed from endless "pagan" sources of the day.
The Bible doesn't look divine in any way.
And, as usual, you show ZERO admission of: "We're sincerely searching for the truth but are entirely aware that our current worldview may be entirely incorrect and we will adjust as new information becomes available." As always, you think you have the answers and there is no room whatsoever for you to be on the wrong side of the argument.
We will continue to expose the reality of where the NT came from, and will continue to help more and more people escape the cult of Christianity.
Somehow they miss the unconditional love of God. Anytime we feel we have to earn our salvation, (instead of fully accepting Jesus paid it all,) we will burn out and treat others without compassion.. But the fact that up to 40% of church leaders are Narcissists, who control, by the law, their parishioners, we also have a viable reason why people leave the church, feeling it is not worth the pain.
Unconditional? How exactly is "worship me or be punished for eternity" unconditional?
There's a reason the only unforgivable sin in the bible is disbelief.
I didn't but first I would need evidence that a god exists and then proof that this god loves me. saying it is not enough, and sorry but I can't just flip a switch and say okay I will believe again, because I need a good reason to believe and there isn't one after searching for over 15 years. and then furthermore if it take longer than 2 years what kind of god would allow people truthfully and genuinely searching for a relationship with Jesus????
@@stiimuli You missed it. You try to sum it up in what you think is happening, but that is not what is happening in this story. The story is, Humans decided not to love God. God, in his way to seek REAL believers and beings to share in his creation lovingly gave that choice. So when you choose to not be with God, God allows you to do that. The ultimate end is complete existence with everything godless. When you realize what that is exactly, there is no one who would want that. Existence without any pleasure or goodness whatsoever. Just sorrow, disgrace, regret, and torment for eternity. Why? Because you chose to not be with God. Super simple. Just being without who God is and what he is is what makes life Hell. He is not actively torturing you, he turns his back on you and the result is, you get to enjoy none of his attributes. Which is everything that you think is good in life period.
@@Epsylon21 There is evidence that God exists everywhere you look, however, you deny it and attribute it to the musings of man and his ideas. Math, logic are 2 very big things that point to God. Its not hard, but when you don't want it to be true, it is even harder.
But that's the thing a lot of people who deconvert WANT it to be true. The bias is in the opposite direction. But I do understand where your perspective comes from and I know you're well intended, but for many it's not "not choosing God's love" it's "choosing reality over a pre conceived reality"
Anyway have a good day, I'm not intending to insult or "deconvert" you
Some nasty comments here of course, will try to keep it respectful. First of all, I applaud the idea of looking at deconversion and hopefully also conversion statistically. Too often we just hear anecdotes, which are important to each individual, but zooming out to a high level can be informative i feel.
I think the wording is really important. How is a deconversion defined? I feel that most are brought up in a certain faith and their family and community usually promote it, so there wasn't much of a choice to "enter" the faith or opt out in the first place. I gradually grew out of the faith I was raised in, but would not deem it a deconversion, simply a phase I grew out of like being afraid of the dark as my world view developed. My guess is that this is true for many, but would like to see the stats. If experiences were similar these would need to be categorized as something other than deconversions, maybe world view maturations?
It would be interesting as well to see stats on reasons given by adults for converting faiths or finding faith.
I wrote an article on deconversion for the Dutch magazine that I write for. Based on my own story and the co-author, who also lost her faith. Mine was slow and gradual, hers was instant. Mine started because of moral implications, hers was because of a crisis. According the psychologist that specialises in religion and faith, it really depends on the reason you deconverted.
Agreed, I grew up in a Christian family and thus identified as one early on. I experienced no pain or hardship, just realized I just never questioned it before.
@@roeliethegoat thanks for sharing. I too had moral objections when I started analyzing the beliefs instead of taking them on face value. To me it would be fascinating to see what percentage of the faith community:
-Was indoctrinated and simply never questioned their beliefs.
-Came to faith later in life after a life changing experience.
-left the faith later in life after a epiphany/life changing experience
-left the faith gradually as they questioned more and more (where you and I fit in)
-was raised in faith and grew in faithfulness through life no matter what.
There are probably a few more categories that make sense. The big problem would be gathering "honest" data and I have no good proposals for doing so, but am excited by the idea nonetheless.
I didn't see a lot of nasty comments?
What happens when you try to build your house on sand? That is a major problem!
Did God say? Come on, really?
God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not.
In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word.
So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar!
And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say?
Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question.
Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question.
Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs!
Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses.
Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say?
Every change they make is an insult to God and His word.
God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19.
In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent.
God will not be mocked.
This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30
changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair.
King James Bible online
Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online
Sources:
Adullum Films Documentary
-Tares Among the Wheat video
Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort.
Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com.
If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video.
It has some American History also.
I am going through a crisis of faith. I realize that even if I “abandoned” the religious things of Christianity I could never not believe in Jesus. No matter what I think that never fades. Despite that I’m still confused on many things and how that confusion has any bearing on my salvation.
I'm kinda feeling that way about my Catholic faith. I believe in Jesus and God and am so incredibly confident in the Bible... But I have zero respect for the Catholic Church. The pope is a joke and the evils of Rome cannot be ignored. I feel kinda homeless right now...
When I was much younger I left my church because I believed the lie that
Christians didn't care, which wasn't at
all true, but my core beliefs were still
intact, I rededticated fairly soon after.
I had missed the Lord and glad this
Prodigal came back
It was painful when I left. It was like a death in the family. When I did leave I was more happy and felt that a burden was lifted. I don't "sin it up" and I have not done anything different as to how I live after I deconverted pretty much. Most Christians think because we deconvert we go nuts and do every sin under the sun and that is just not true. I was brought up in Christianity since I was two years old. I got saved (Yes I understood) at five years old. I was a fundamentalist for 40 years. That is part of what makes you who you are.
Hey, can I ask you honestly - why does it feel happier? I am a Christian who converted from atheism (there was some New Agey-ness in between) and I can't fathom ever feeling happy about God not existing, because for me it would mean the absence of hope, truth, love and meaning. How do you understand these things now? As much as can be explained in a TH-cam comment 😂 I am truly sorry for the painful process you've been through. 💖
My life has been so much better, I love stronger than before and I feel so much happier since I gave up the supernatural, superstitions of faith. I was a happy Christian but am a much happier, giving, caring and loving person since letting go of all of those fairytales.
@@ashleyl6790 You can still believe in a God without being christian.
@@jdnlaw1974 fairytales?
@@grimlund what’s your definition of being a Christian?
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This segment has been very very helpful and enlightening. I'm currently dealing with looking into this myself. I've been in contemplative thought toward attempting to ask a few of my friends the reasons behind their deconstruction deconversion stories.
The friend that I asked already has confirmed this video as legit information because there were a few variants from this video that he has dealt with in his leaving the faith.
Please pray that I decrease in the Lord increases as I speak to him further about his reasonings. That I might know and be led in what to say and what not to say while conversing with him and any of the other people in my life who I speak to on this subject. And pray that they have those instances where they come back to the faith or come to the faith, for the glory of God.
Thank you both again!
This is a chance for you to consider your own beliefs. You prayed that your God gives you the words to say that will "work". If he gives you words and they don't work then your God has been falsified.
@@thetruest7497 I never prayed for the "words that work" which it would seem as though you are equating that phrase to mean "magic words".
I asked for the words to say that will help me to answer his questions to the best of my ability. The words that will allow me to show compassion to his hurt and truth to the lies he has been fed. Whether he accepts them as true or not is on his heart once the seed of Truth has been planted.
Matthew 10:19
I would suggest that you take time to examine scripture because if you think God is a Genie you either have the wrong God or you've been battling against the Prosperity/Name It Claim It gospel...which I am against as well.
@@nikduke23 this whole response is a way to reconcile the fact you know the God you think exists will not do anything with the fact that you don't want to give up belief. It's understandable, but not good for accepting reality. Whether or not you prayed for the words that work or words at all you're still treating it like a genie. I recommend taking a long critical look at what you're doing here.
@@thetruest7497 okay. Thanks for the advice.
Nothing wrong with taking the time to examine your beliefs. I have done that. On many occasions and Jesus is the answer that stands in every test I conduct.
Hopefully, he'll be that for you someday as well.
@@nikduke23 based on your response here I can tell you haven't done that. What you've done is look to reaffirm what you already wanted. This is quite common and quite easily detectable. For example your initial response was an attempt to hide the fact that your God won't do something verifiable. This is a tactic commonly used by people suffering from confirmation bias. You incorrectly thought that if the results of your asking are unverifiable then God cannot be assessed. You didn't realize that you were still treating it like a genie by asking for words at all. Only you would be able to tell whether or not you think you were spoken to (a way of hiding the results of your asking) where if your friend wasn't convinced by your God words (which they wouldn't be because the words provided by your God are always eerily similar to and lack luster as your own words) then that proves your God doesn't know everything ie the words that would convince your friend.
Christian attempts to protect their God from examination like this is telling enough, it exposes that even you don't believe in its power. Furthermore it's unbiblical. Go read 1 Kings 18 where Yahweh lays out scientific tests to verify "real gods" from fake ones (ignoring the fact that Yahweh thinks Baal exists for the moment).
Why do you want to protect your God from the types of verifiable tests he was adamant about in his autobiography, the bible? I know the answer to that, but just want you to consider that for a while.
The hardest part of separating myself from the Church was not abandoning God in the process.
So many have been indoctrinated to believe that isn't possible. At best a delusion but basically any move away from the Church is warned as a move into the lap of Satan.
How many have been turned away from the divine idea of God because of horrible experiences in the church of Christian religion
Great discussion here. I was myself baptised as a baby, but grew up in a very secular environment. I remember having religious thoughts as a child, but by my late teens I had already lost any hope for God's existence, and going through confirmation didn't change my doubts at all. When I came of age, I immediately left the church, as it made no sense for me to stay.
Today my atheistic world view is stronger than ever. I love listening to theological debates (also between believers) and essays on religious history, but the more I learn, the more obvious it becomes that religion is the product of a human culture evolving over thousands of years.
Have you ever read the Bible in its entirety?
@@jeffcaminiti162 No, I have not. Only the book of revelation because I thought it was wicked cool as a kid, and various bits and pieces in religion class and confirmation school. I have a decent knowledge of the main narratives of the old testament and the gospels, but I'd be reluctant to debate the intricacies of scripture because I don't consider myself qualified to do so. I leave such matters to atheists who have studies scripture extensively, such as GMS (who was mentioned in this video) or Matt Dillahunty.
Heck, I even once watched a rabbi tear a Christian theologian to shreds over scripture. It was quite the theological pounding.
After 40-plus years as agnostic/atheist, I encountered God...then Christ...and then moved over 20 years through Protestant churches into the Catholic Church. I lived in a world of other atheists...and I still do. This discussion raises so many different ideas and responses that it is impossible to contain them in this comment. Would I love to exist in a totally Christian/Catholic world - including family and friends? Sure! But - what does that have to do with my own faith? Christ ate with Matthew and all his tax collector friends. He "sent out the twelve" to a Jewish/Gentile world that knew nothing of Christ and the Gospel. How can a Christian "not have anything in common" with friends who deconvert? How about breathing/eating/thinking as human beings? Meet your friends in their Crisis of Faith and be their Christian example who points to the road Home! Thanks for this discussion!!!
Reading these comments is enough to prove just how toxic the Christian response is to those who Deconstruct their faith. Thanks for providing proof of your hateful intolerance in real time.
Believers don't look to Jesus but to all other things and fail whether they are Christians now or in the past.
Sorry to hear that man. I've seen toxic and well-meaning people on both sides of belief in this comment section. I don't think it is necessarily a Christian, but a human impulse to shift blame. Hope you have a good week.
Former Christian here, now a strong agnostic, but I love Dr. McDowell’s discussions on here. Thanks for the great discussions.
So are you afraid of the atheist label? If you lack a belief in a supernatural entity then by definition you are an atheist.
I am an agnostic atheist, in that I don't know that no gods exist but I do know that no theist has ever provided anything close to sufficient evidence to demonstrate that their god claims are true.
@@downenout8705 Anthony Flew certainly refuted your claims.
@@glennsimonsen8421 For goodness sake, he provided philosophical arguments, not evidence.
I see that you are a Christian, so read 1 Corinthians 15: 14 and I say to you with the same degree of confidence that the sun will rise tomorrow that if you reply to this post, not a single sentence will contain even a mustard seed's worth of empirical evidence to support the biblical claim that a dead multicellular eucaryote magically came back to life after rotting in the heat of the Levant for a couple of days some two thousand years ago.
Belief without sufficient evidence is indistinguishable from gullibility and I have no wish to be gullible.
@@glennsimonsen8421 Hi count the number of posts and you will see that one is missing. That's Dowen Out's reply to you.
" For goodness sake, he provided philosophical arguments, not evidence.
I see that you are a Christian, so read 1 Corinthians 15: 14 and I say to you with the same degree of confidence that the sun will rise tomorrow that if you reply to this post, not a single sentence will contain even a mustard seed's worth of empirical evidence to support the biblical claim that a dead multicellular eucaryote magically came back to life after rotting in the heat of the Levant for a couple of days some two thousand years ago.
Belief without sufficient evidence is indistinguishable from gullibility and I have no wish to be gullible".
I see no good reason to block that reply do you?
I say someone is very scared of the true reason many are leaving Christianity.
@@glennsimonsen8421 Count the replies. The two that are missing are from Dowen Out.
Hopefully this highly edited version of Dowen Out's reply won't be deleted.
"For goodness sake, he provided philosophical arguments, not evidence.
I see that you are a Christian, so read 1 Corinthians 15: 14 and I say to you with the same degree of confidence that the sun will rise tomorrow that if you reply to this post, not a single sentence will contain even a mustard seed's worth of empirical evidence to support th* (that) biblical claim *******".
Belief without sufficient evidence is indistinguishable from gullibility and I have no wish to be gullible".
The problem with atheism is that it offers no meaningful answers to the most important questions a person can ask. On the other hand, even with all of its diffculties, at its core Christianity presents message that I find compelling. I could never give that up for something as empty as atheism. And belive me, there are things about Christianity I find troubling. As Christians I think we need to be upfront about these things and talk about them.
Atheism isn't actually a thing so can't offer answers obviously. Losing faith is a little like running out of petrol in your car - it just doesn't work any more. But that's fine because you can get out and walk. And who knows what you will find?
@@treescape7 What a brilliant response 👏 👌 👍
@@treescape7 when you do it your way, it will never work. it's not about you, that's selfishness. follow christ, not yourself.
I am convinced that 200 years ago there were also tons of people leaving Christianity or their Christian upbringing. Big difference was that they kept it very private.
And another difference is we have digital publishing and social media where (more) deconversion stories can be shared publicly instantly and globally, so we see & hear more of them
This is a very good point. There was no viable alternative culturally and in parts of the US there still isn't. Pretty easy to keep your mouth shut when you have a lot to lose socially by speaking out.
@@danhoff4401 Yes, and the same thing is happening in Islamic societies. Literally millions have left Islam but only very few are known for it. And Pew Research will not find out about most of them, and Statistics will continue to report strong growth of Islam. But the reality on the ground will look quite differently. The giant will stand on feet of clay.
Parable of the soil comes to mind and the warning/expected apostasy will happen according to scripture. I think it is a very complex topic given not everyone is the same in cling their circumstances. Questions of what we can do better in the family of God are good and something that we need to do better. One thing that I have learnt - just becos someone goes to church does not make them a real disciple of Jesus. Some truths are hard to hear but necessary in my opinion. We gather in a church where both the sheep and goats come together whether we r willing to admit or not. God knows the heart of all men.
Lastly, I was a prodigal son whom the Lord brought me back from the errors of my ways. Too long to share here but in short, God is the One who keeps us from falling.
I find the prosses of people adopting/changing world views facinating. The selective pressures on world views are complex, it has a huge emotional impact on the person and people arround them and though the progression of human history will/has had major effects.
Gonna have to get this book.
If anyone knows books about similar topics I'd be big appreciate.
I have a friend who deconverted a little over 2 years ago. He definitely experienced the abandonment of his family and friends to a degree. He walked away from his marriage because of his shift in mindset. However, we’ve remained close. I really believe our relationship transcends faith and religious traditions. When love for someone is genuine and deeper than commonalities, it can withstand any any trial and/or change. When we grow individually we can choose to grow apart or grow together. I CHOOSE to still support my friend and wish him well. I absolutely pray and hope for him to have a true encounter with Christ that completely demolished the fundamentalist farce he was fed as a kid.
Another point: I’d be interested in knowing how many folks are leaving the faith based on the mixed response of the church to matters of social justice? The friend I mentioned above attributes “the silence of white Christians, or flat out apathy about the murder of innocent black lives in a historically racist country” a huge catalyst to his deconversion. Sounds like one of those moral arguments
chuck are you a ex fundamentalist. Id like to hear your story.
@@johngrimkowski598 hello. I’m not really sure how I would categorize myself other than a Christian. I grew up nondenominational and have worshiped and conversed with some of everyone from COGIC and Baptists to Mennonite and Methodists, and just about everything else in between. I’ve seen imbalanced miseducation all over, but noticed a particular scar among the ppl I’ve met who have been brought up in a traditional belief in the judgement and punishment of God without any emphasis on the love and grace of God. It’s been my experience that these are the individuals who have a hard time reconciling social Justice issues and a lack of punishment for seemingly wicked parties. “If God is just then why…”. I’ve always been interested in the WHY behind ppl’s actions and understanding the personal histories that leads them to their conclusions. Years ago I was into apologetics and veered from in order to LISTEN more and speak less. That led me to books like UnChristian and other studies on how Christians are perceived. I feel strongly that, if we’re going to be the hands and feet of the Father then we should have his heart to hear his children. Lovingly correcting them when opportunity presents itself, but know how to read the room and wisely discern whether or not our delivery will do more harm than good.
That’s a summary of my experience. There are plenty of ppl hurting in the world and I try to be genuinely empathetic and loving, strong in my belief, but gentle and peaceable as much as possible. We’re all on a journey, and I’m just hoping i can be a version of Romans 8:19-21 for somebody along the way.
Jesus himself was not a social activist, even though there were sufficient reasosns in his day to be one. He focused on the transformation of the human heart, which in turn leads to endeavours for bringing about social change. This is why, after 300 years of Christianity in the greco-roman world, when the church became the dominant factor in society, slavey was abolished in the east.
@Redeemed Channel who said "A major problem is people having only a very surface-level understanding of scripture" Most people who deconvert start studying the bible harder than they ever would have if they were a Christian. I am reading the bible currently, every word from beginning to end. I have never done this and I went to Christian grade school, high school and College.
Muggles, sometimes understanding the opposing view provokes a quest for deeper understanding of our own view. Sites like this make civil conversation possible.
My BEST FRIEND for years deconstructed, and he was the one who utterly rejected me. Just straight up stopped speaking to me suddenly. I have reached out to him many, many times to affirm my friendship and acceptance of him and his choices, but he absolutely refuses to have anything to do with anyone who professes belief in God. To be clear, I have several atheist friends who know where I stand and know I love them, so I'm pretty sure i didn't push him away.
41:40 This sentence seems so telling to me. 'You have to believe tenets A, B and C. We have to give flexibility on other, minor issues or the edifice of the faith crumbles'.
It's all about having to believe, nothing about evidence, or what should be convincing. Just 'For God's sake, keep believing, otherwise we'll be here all on our own...'
Perhaps it has something to do with raising children in the faith. Being told the amazing stories associated with the Bible only to grow up and find that there never was a worldwide flood, that there is zero evidence for an Exodus and that there is error everywhere in the Bible. I know for my part I was raised to believe in an inerrant word of God Bible. Fast forward to me in the age of the internet where I can research these claims for myself and bobs your uncle. Why can't Christians just stick to the Faith instead of trying to appeal intellectually through debates with scientists where they are obliterated almost every time. Regardless I love my Christian friends and family. I wish you the best.
When Christians leave the faith the best thing you can do is leave them alone. To want to drag people back into a toxic relationship is abuse of the worst kind.
Do yourselves and them a favour, either follow them or leave them alone.
I'm sorry you feel that way. There's nothing toxic about following Jesus.
@@glennsimonsen8421 apart from the homophobia, misogyny, slavery, endorsing genocide and incest.
You must be joking, it’s super toxic.
As someone who deconverted and reconverted it was mainly the problem of evil and also the credibility of the bible, it was hard to reconcile that all powerful and all good God would let so much evil happen, now I have learned and it is something powerful and worth
I'm there now. I'm struggling with the credibility of the bible. It's really done a number on me faith wise. How were you able to deal with it?
@@ellied4088 I looked at the archeological evidence of the bible and heard a lot of arguments, for example the gospels of the Bible is dated closer to Jesus' death than people think, the Gospel of Mark is dated to around 60 ce and the latest gospel was John which was dated to around when John died, the letters from apostles are contemporary meaning it is not debated that the authors of the letters were the apostles, before they died, and they confirm and they reaffirm the later written gospels written, the Old Testament it is debated when they were written however to my understanding most of it was written around 600 bce, the most debated is Daniel if it was written 500s or 100 BC, the arguments for the 500s is overwhelming and more thought out and researched, the 100BC argument comes from pretty much "the prophecies of Daniel were too accurate to be written before hand" and for the longest time there was a name in Babylon that was contested to be real or not in the book of Daniel, I forget the details however recent archeological findings found a cylinder that had names of important figures in Babylon dated back to the 500 BC and one of them was a name from daniel, and historians didn't know of so that is strong evidence Daniel was written in 500 and the prophecy being an actual prophecy
So pretty much look at archeological evidence and look at the arguments from both sides, and remember even those who claim the negative need to provide evidence as well
@@livingtoaster1358 Thank you. But I'm in this situation because I started looking at both sides of the arguments. And also because I don't know where to begin really. There is so much info out there, it's overwhelming. I've heard of some unsettling claims. Like Genesis being plagarized from earlier Mesopotamian myths, Yahweh being a minor Canaanite god the Israelites elevated, Israelites being Canaanites, no evidence for the exodus, the OT and NT being adapted and changed over time, the gospels not being eyewitness accounts, etc. As wish I had some guidance as to where to start researching all this.
@@ellied4088 okay so there's a lot to unpack, and I'm not an expert on all of this, so I will tell you based on my own research and this is my own opinion, but ultimately do your own research because God is a God who is truth and values truth, both in Old and New Testament, so do your due diligence
Now with the Mesopotamian myths, the only story people cite is Noah's Ark, and the Epic of Gilgamesh, when I first heard this I freaked out but I took a mythology class where we read the Epic of Gilgamesh and it is VASTLY different from the bible, here are the similarities: the gods wanted to flood the world and thus they had one man in a boat/ark to continue the race after the flood, the differences are many, 1 in the epic of Gilgamesh it was because Human kind was making to much noise and thus woke up the gods, and they got pissed and thus wanted to flood the earth, that is vastly different, and here is a food for thought, "why does so many different cultures have a flood story?" The Greeks had one Egyptians had one, heck even the Native Americans had one as well, the Greek version was that Zeus became disgusted by the cannibalism of Mankind, but generally speaking the gods decided to flood the world because of how evil Mankind was throughout all of these cultures except the Epic of Gilgamesh, if there are numerous cultures that say there was a flood, my thought would be "if a whole bunch of people who don't interact with each other that often are saying this, then an event described like that is most likely possible"
With Yahweh, I just found this out recently so I am researching through it but what I know so far what I've seen is the Caananites didn't have a God named YWHW however they did have a God named elohim, but that's just semantics the functionality of Elohim is the same and the Israelites also call God Elohim, because his actual name is too holy, but anyway, the thing is that Israel did take a lot from the Caananites and their culture, the bible even talks about it too, the thing is, God commanded them not to do that, in Jeremiah Israel was giving offerings to the "Queen of Heaven" which according to Canannite tradition is the wife of Elohim, but God, or Elohim told them that she is also a false deity,
Israelites being Caananites is something I've never heard before
The gospels not being eye witness accounts is partially true, Matthew wasn't written by Matthew, but people who heard the Gospel from Matthew, and his eyewitness testimony, that's why we call it "The gospel according to Matthew", now John is a gospel written by John that is not disputed, Luke was written by a doctor who did his own independent research on the Gospel stories, he had it from eye witness testimony, but he also investigated it for himself, the first chapter of Luke tells you this it was an investigation and the author was very specific about all the details that add to his credibility as an author and investigator,
@@ellied4088 if I can recommend someone, check out Mike Winger's series on "evidence for the bible" he goes over different arguments for and against the bible, of course he is biased towards the bible but he tries to give the best arguments from people who do not trust the bible and it's authorship
"For whatever reason they feel its not persuasive"
“They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have continued with us: but they went out, that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us.”
1 John 2:19
Yep, true Christians don't leave Christ regardless of their circumstances.
@@c.m.granger6870 I think you mean that emotional arguments or minor intellectual disagreements should not immediately result in apostasy, especially considering theistic philosophy and pascals wager. :)
Exactly. My life has not been easy I've had ups and downs and questions but Im secure in my faith. We all as human creatures will have hard times and questions but what do you hold on to if you leave Christianity? Once you've had a true relationship with Christ and tasted salvation how can you turn completely away and believe in nothing? It's illogical for me.
Amd let's just says your having an intellectual crisis. Then start the investigational studies on the resurrection and the validity of the Bible. The story of the cannanites doesn't bother me if we realize the true nature of sin and what it does. For goodness sake they were sacrificing their babies.
Sin must be punished....
@@hhstark8663 nope, I mean true Christians don't leave Christ regardless of their circumstances.
@@abullard8409 well said!
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There is also this element. Most Christian kids grow up in a bubble. When first exposed to secular reasoning, it sounds formidable. And kids lose faith due to a shock factor. I felt such shock personally as a high schooler. But I persevered, thought through issues, and searched for answers from the sacred, and ultimately found them more substantial.
I like the quote Sean makes....If evolution is true, and Jesus rose from the dead, then Christianity is true.
@@buddhikaw That is true. For that reason I teach apolegetics to my kids so they have answers when they come up against the internet atheists.
@@buddhikaw For my God, as in the Christian God, or for God generically?
@@buddhikaw
What makes you think an argument is required? My experience trumps your ignorance whether you understand that experience or not. If you want to give me your explanation for the absence of transitional animal forms, which should be virtually the norm if common descent is a credible theory, let me know.
@@buddhikaw One can be a theist and believe in different god than the Christian God.
I believe God is the probable explanation of the universe. He is especially seen in the existence of complex information systems. We have experience with lesser forms of such systems, and they always require a designer. Therefore, a Designer is the probable cause of DNA, and other information systems.
As a Creator Being being the probable cause, I am warranted in looking for this Being. Has He communicated with man? Can one meet Him? At this point it moves to which is the true God...
In the Bible I find evidence that this Being has communicated, and one can experience Him.
This is the abbreviated version, and contains question begging. That goes away with a more detailed description of my reasons.
Thanks for making this video Sean, and thank you Dr. Marriott. I am an apostate. But I find this conversation very thought provoking and valuable.
Thank you this was very informative and helpful. Keep giving us truth.
Social pressure to conform to the humanistic and ultra progressive zeitgeist; fear of losing friendships and causing friction within families; and fear of radical social media mobs.
A strange list considering the west (U.S. especially) is dominated by Christianity both in numbers and political power base.
Also considering the enormous societal pressure that Christian majority puts on everyone to be like them "or else".
It would seem reality does not match the religious claim you're making.
@@stiimuli or else what? How I see the United States is that if you don't become woke you are canceled. If you don't agree with BLM and the critical race theory you are racist. If we say a man is man and woman a woman biologically then we are going against science which makes no sense. They want to indoctrinate our children to believe these lies. What Christians want is for society not to impose what I consider low standards for morality on us or our children because politics has to do with morality. They even went as far as to take away Richard Dawkins Humanist award for using science.I saw a transgender man breastfeeding a new born baby as if he could. The hole thing is ridiculous and you say us Christians are forcing our beliefs on you or else? Christians shouldn't force our "religion" on anyone it's a personal choice. We just want people to know God does exist Jesus does save, christianity is true and God is calling because time is short. The Jews are awaiting their Messiah and the temple is ready to be rebuild. People need to wake up and make a decision on who they are going to follow.
Don't forget ,seeing the religiously sanctioned and societally condoned systematic dehumanization of homosexuality that leads to the permissive atmosphere that justifies contempt and hatred through subjective ( and, therefore, contextually unfair and invalid) comparison that ultimately shatters the golden rule, all in the name of religion.
The more a person really knows of the bible and Christianity the harder it is to believe mythology is real. Once the fallacy is exposed, people leave.
What do you mean by fallacy? What do you know now that made you leave?
Agree, the more I see that Christianity is evidentially true, the more I can dismiss the mythologies.
@@dougsmith6346 - Then you are deluded in your belief Christianity is true. It is just one more of the religious mythology that have percolated through history.
@@douglasrasmussen480 you use the word 'mythology'. You are seriously claiming that the characters of the historical record didn't exist? They are akin to Zeus and Hercules? No eyewitnesses claimed to touch, dialogue with, eat with, walk with, see in person any of the mythology gods. Real people of Scripture DID exist. Peter, John, Jesus, Paul, Pilate, Herod, et al. The historical claims of Scripture are all verifiable human beings with a historical footprint. You may not believe their eyewitness accounts, but to call them 'mythology' is dishonest and, well, juvenile
@@dougsmith6346 The bible is filled with real people, fabricated characters, and characters whose acts have been so exaggerated as to make the mundane appear miraculous. Your citation of putative apostles does not account for decades or centuries that passed in reporting what they saw - from unknown and multiple scribes. Another name for mythology is fiction and fiction frequently has real people and events that serve to lend artistic legitimacy to fictional works. This is what is seen in the bible. For example King David and King Solomon were real historical characters, but extensive archaeology of the areas where they existed finds their glorious, expansive kingdoms were no more than localized citadels. The Exodus has been roundly disproven as either outright false or a monumental exaggeration of a few families leaving Egypt. Prophecies attributed as proof of biblical legitimacy have been rejected on many factual levels. So, yes DS, the bible is a form of mythology and your willingness to engage in the fiction is what is juvenile.
I strongly disagree on evolution being basically a non-issue that shouldn't conflict with Christian faith. To the contrary, this is one of the MAIN reasons why people de-convert. Man's origins are not a peripheral issue. The dating of the earth, the literal word-for-word account of Genesis is peripheral, but Darwinian evolutionary theory outright debunks the need for the "Last Adam" (Christ) in 1 Corinthians 15 if there was no literal "Adam." I see that even William Lane Craig struggles with a historical Adam. All mainline Protestantism and Roman Catholicism freely accept full evolutionary theory, and you can see where their treatment of the Bible is compromised, including views on the Atonement, Virgin Birth, the Resurrection and a literal Second Advent.
I agree with your emphasis upon a literal historical Adam.
I have some friends, some old and some new, who have left the faith. I've had the same thoughts and questions that are being asked here.
The most compelling reason for me, as an atheist, that god does not exist is the fact that I want so badly for him to exist. This is in order to dispell the terrifying existential dread that exists for me without heaven, and this proves to me that someone could be motivated enough to make all of religion up in order to avoid existential dread and attempt to make others better people
You make a fair point Jose. Also consider that just because that could happen doesn’t mean it’s what is most probable. There are very strong arguments that God’s existence is the most logical explanation for the universe, life on Earth, and human existence. You may find the Inspiring Philosophy (Michael Jones) and Reasonable Faith (William Lane Craig) channels to be meaningful. They appeal to the more logical and intellectual evidences of God’s existence and Christ’s resurrection. I hope this helps!
For me, it's the opposite. I couldn't care less if a god exists or not. I don't really don't have a problem at all if an afterlife doesn't exist. One less thing to worry about. I'm not sure what is so terrifying about going back to the way you were before you were born - which is what most likely will happen after death.
@@pwoods100 what is terrifying for me is that I will never be able to experience anything again and that my life will be over. I understand that this is what it was like before I was born but now that I am able to live, I don't want to not live again.
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As a former Christian, I need to be honest here. First of all, I'm glad that Sean and John are honest in their approach and don't blame all deconversions on people leaving the church because they were treated badly. They will actually admit that a lot of stuff in the bible could be a main reason for walking away.
Here is all anyone needs to know about why I deconverted or why most people do it: Forget about contradictions. You could have a book rife with contradictions, and have it still be true in some way. Forget about bad Christians. You have bad people in any walk of life or profession.
What finally did it for me, is when I started looking at the bible through the eyes of plain, nuts and bolts common sense. In other words, I quit treating the bible like it was special and started looking at it , the same way I looked at any other religious book.
It all boils down to two things: Did this stuff really happen historically, and is this god a god that I would want to worship? The answer I was finally forced to admit, was NO and NO.
If my own parents had the power to send me to hell - would they do it if I didn't worship them or disowned them? The answer is NO.
If you had to make a choice between a god who talked audibly to humans everyday, verses a god who didn't talk to anyone and had men write a book about him - which god would you choose? The answer is the god who talks to humans everyday. Who wouldn't want that?
If I were a god who didn't need humans - and knew before I created the world that people would go to hell if I created it, would I choose to go through with it or choose to not create?
If I were a moral god, then I would NOT do it.
If Jesus died for all of mankind - then why did he come in the middle of history in first century Judea after millions of ancient people were already dead - and never got to hear about him? Why couldn't the ancient Sumerians hear about the "good news?" Why not just die for people's sins right at creation? Adam and Eve could have been the first missionaries that spread Christianity - no other religion would have had a chance. But god had to wait until other pagan religions were established before he sent Jesus? Sounds like something that would have happened if it was man-made.
There are NO good answers for this. Sorry, J Warner Wallace.
Can you blame people for walking away from the church if they get treated poorly? No - you can't.
And lastly - I'm sick and tired of hearing deconverting for emotional reasons vs intellectual reasons. That's a false dichotomy. The reasons are both always emotional and intellectual. The struggle with the bible and it's so called "history" was an emotional period, but I also had to make decisions based on what seemed to be the most intellectual conclusion. So please stop with this BS. As shallow as the people who left the church might seem to you because they got treated badly, keep in mind that most of these people probably tried their best to hold on for as long as they could - but intellectually their brain was telling them that there was something WRONG with this belief system, if god's people who truly had the holy spirit within them - treated them like dirt. You have to think through these things. Hardly anyone just walks away over night, because of some emotional reaction they had.
So quit telling me that I deconverted for only emotional or intellectual reasons - when it's almost always a mixture of BOTH.
IT's sad that Christians can't see that there book was completely invented by man, and there is absolutely no evidence that their god had anything at all to do with it. This is mainly why people deconvert - sheer brutal common sense. If all other religions are entirely man-made then it would only make sense that Christianity is also man-made.
Hmm
Sean, it would be awesome if you could interview someone who has gone through deconversion and walked away and then returned to Christ after some time.
Matt Copeland Law of averages guarantee's there are a few utterly confused out there somewhere...would be more entertaining to interview someone who has walked away, returned, walked away again, returned again, walked awa.....
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So true, some Christian groups make Christianity into a giant burden rather than a restful gift. Come to me all who are weary.
Sean and John did a really job of approaching the conversation as a way to foster empathy for those who have left the faith, and I applaud that. I don't think I've seen any Christians outside of Progressive Christianity really try to understand those who have left. That said, as someone who has left the faith, there is still an air of condescension that is all too common in the conversations Christians have about those who leave the faith.
Many of the explanations offered can be boiled down to "they didn't try hard enough," "they didn't have the right beliefs," "they were part of the wrong sect," "you're heart is deceitful" aka you just want to sin. I don't think either Sean or John means this as victim blaming, but those of us who have tried to explain our paths to friends and family know how painful it is to be constantly met with these kinds of comments after going through one of the most difficult processes of our lives. We are treated as wholly wrong, and misguided, often after we have done much more to study Christianity, think about religion and seek god than those who tell us off. From my experiences, most of us want truth. Most of us want not only to receive love, but to give it as much as we can. And we've found Christianity, even in its most loving forms, to not offer those things for us.
The dialogues with those from other belief systems are fantastic, and needed among Christian circles. Keep up the good work you're doing pushing for empathy, and keep these kinds of conversations going.
Good points. I was disappointed with the comments around the 50 minute mark that seemed to imply atheists have "daddy issues". I had great relationships with both my parents and desperately wanted to believe I would see them again in the "next life". It was very painful admitting to myself that my hopes for afterlife were baseless. Sean and John just can't accept that the evidence for their beliefs is terrible. If the evidence was sound everyone would be Christian. The only folks that believe these claims do so because they WANT to believe it.
@@bobskane4353 Just wondering. How do you explain how people like J. Warner Wallace who say "I am a Christian because Christianity is true in light of the evidence"?
He was an atheist who hated supernatural claims. He obviously did not convert because he wanted to believe. Lee Strobel was arguably even more apathetic than him, and certainly did not want to believe. The list goes on.
@@hhstark8663 If JWW uses the same standards of evidence for his detective work has he does Christianity then he is a terrible detective. I don't think he even claims that his "evidence schtick" is was brought him to Christianity (I could be wrong on this one). I think Lee Strobel was an alcoholic who met a Christian girl and turned his life around. I don't see any convincing evidence from either one of them. What do you see as the best piece of evidence supporting the truth of Christianity?
@@bobskane4353 Yes, that is what JWW claims. He says that in all his interviews (linked below).
No, Lee´s wife was NOT a Christian when they met. She became a Christian during their marriage. Then he sought out to disprove Christianity and take her out of the "cult" (according to him at the time) that she had gotten involved with.
If you have read both of their books ("The case for christ" and "Cold-case christianity: homicide detective investigates claims of the gospel") then I have nothing to add. If you have not already, then you should take a look at theistic philosophy by William Lane Craig and Alvin Plantinga. Just a friendly suggestion. :)
Link to JWW:s interview: th-cam.com/video/3FzFTGJc7ZY/w-d-xo.html
Interview #2: th-cam.com/video/nGOC7CLuiMc/w-d-xo.html
@@hhstark8663 I have not read either book but I have heard JWW speak. Unimpressive to say the least. I am heading out but will check out the interview later. Thanks for sharing. What is your best reason for believing?
As a person who has traveled through the denominations, holding on to the truth of our Messiah and our Father, I must say that I have not been in a "church" gathering for over ten years. This is not because "I" have been offended in any way, but because I have not found that identifying with the soup of "church" has helped me or anyone else. However I have never entertained the option of turning from Christ or Torah. This is a very good expression on the road some take without real study of truth. Sorry for those who use a broken church as an excuse to walk away from their savior.
Are you resigned to never being part of any Church community?
Rituals, observances and a sense of community are very important in any social situation and often help reinforce religious beliefs. My opinion is that there might be more atheists if people who doubted were not part of a community that they cherished. I'm just saying, if I were a Christian, I would want the whole life experience and not just the stick. Great excuse to dress up in fine clothes.
Jonathan Edwards inspired me too as a young Christian. Had no clue he had left the Faith
The internet - for all its pitfalls - facilitates the dissemination of resources dedicated to the development of critical thought. People of faith are perhaps more likely now than before to encounter these resources, to engage with associated communities and to experience the intellectual emancipation which occurs when a lifetime of doctrine is exposed without censorship to the power of well-trained logic and reason.
The author is making some legitimate points and I wish that Sean explored more elements of those warped theological and Biblical issues and presuppositions that also contributed. It seems like the blame is fundamentally the Church. That may not be the intentional vibe but it may come across as that.
What makes you think responsibility rests with someone other than the individual who capitulates? What about the failure of the individual to assess his own level of sincerity? Rather than blame a monolithic institution, consider an adult approach to the psychology of failure and its spiritual consequences.
This is the kind of response that helps one to make a decisions j to leave the church. The church is supposed to be representative Gods love in earth. You can have great knowledge and theology but if you lack like ve and compassion you are nothing. I'm 61 and I've deconveryed because I don't see the church really living up and teaching the message of Jesus in the gospels. Evangelicals as a blocked seem more concerned about political power and patriotism than loving their neighbor and God. They not power that changes hearts is love, not political power or money. Yhe church is the one that shouldvpook at yhemseoces and see the huge damage theybhave don't be to America Christianity by their support if corrupt political officials for the sake if power. It might be a good idea from the evangelical church to look at the log in their own eye instead and of the splinter in someone else's eye.
Consider the consequenves of building your faith on quick sand
Did God say? Come on, really?
God said He preserved His word. Psalm 12:6-7. Most modern bibles do not.
In other words they are not admitting that God has a standard, His inspired word.
So most of the modern bibles have at least one out and out lie. NKJB lies in Exodus 6:3. Others quote Jesus saying i am not going to the feast. John 7:8. (Is he saying he is going to break the law of Moses?) He waits and then goes. Liar!
And blatantly they mock Jesus and continually and constantly, with each change ask, Did God say?
Did God say Mark 11:26? Absolutely. It is an essential part of our walk with God. Truly a stupid question.
Did God say? Acts 15:34? It shows God's divine providence. Silas was there when Paul needed him for a journey. Another stupid question.
Did God say eleven (11) times in the New Testament the word damnation, eternal burning? Yes. But not in theirs!
Did God give three witnesses to that truth? Mark 9:44, 46, 48. They however only have v48. The other two they ask, Did Gid say? This is important because those who preach Annialism, we cease to exist, are easily proven wrong with these verses.
Jesus is God and Jesus is man. Hebrews supports this with four verses, 3:3, 7:24, 8:3 and 10:12: "But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sin for ever, sat down at rhe right hand of God; v10:12. They do not use the clarifying words "this man at all. Again, Did God say?
Every change they make is an insult to God and His word.
God ssid He would curse those who add to or take from His word. Revelation 22:18-19.
In the Old Testament those who honored a false prophet received the reward of that prophet. So the original translators, the bible societies the publishers, the promoters, sellers and those who teach from them (showing those ear tickling bibles are God's word) pr honor them will be held responsible. If done ignorantly, repent.
God will not be mocked.
This happened when the inspired Antioch manuscripts called the Textus Receptus were replaced by the Alexandrian manuscripts called the Codex B or the Vaticanus from the Vatican basement, and the Sianiticus from a monestary. They do not agree with each other and the latter has about 30
changes per page. Obviously inspired by their spiritual father who brings conflict. doubt and despair.
King James Bible online
Helpful tool: Noah Webster 1828 Dictionary online
Sources:
Adullum Films Documentary
-Tares Among the Wheat video
Books: The Revision Revised and The Last Twelve Verses of Mark, both by William Burgon. Dean Burgon lived during the time of Wescott and Hort.
Book: Look What's Missing by David Daniels Chick.com.
If interested an old video called The Forbidden Book video.
It has some American History also.
Once again, Sean does one of the best jobs dealing with a difficult subject. I deconverted after a lifetime in the faith and I've attempted conversation on other channels of apologists. I've found other apologists to be deeply disappointing and seemingly intentionally dense.
or just outright dishonest (cough) HOVIND, HAM, CRAIG (cough).
Sean seems a genuinely decent and honest guy, even if I disagree with his beliefs.
@@stiimuli agreed. I initially was super upset with his impersonation of an atheist... until he got to the end and pointed out how Christians treat those outside the faith. Then when he had on drew it was really impressive.
@@stiimuli also I would call hovind and ham apologists. They are just dishonest hacks pushing one specific idea while insulting and lying to everyone
I wonder what Sean thinks of those apologists that refuse to learn what they are actually arguing against (such as evolution)
Intentionally Dense. One of those traits that manages to cross all social barriers
I really enjoyed this interview. Thank you!
I've been an atheist all my life, but my father took a very different route. He came from a deeply religious, conservative community, and both his parents were committed Christians, so it's no surprise given his background that he too became fully invested in the Christian faith. That came to an abrupt end in college when, while studying philosophy, he came to realize that he'd been living a lie all his life. Abandoning his faith by no means came easily, in fact it led to a nervous breakdown which lasted several days. Upon learning the news, his parents nearly disowned him, and it took many years for him to rebuild his relationship with his father. His mother, however, never forgave him for turning his back on the faith. Even near the end of her life, she tried (unsuccessfully) to prevent my father (their only child) from inheriting any portion of their estate.
AW,......Well, the truth of the matter is, if anyone is in/of any church, they are an atheist. The churches real religion is the God hating worlds atheist religion of scientism. They all only pretend to believe in the Bible, but the truth is, they do not.
@@tonybasoni8443 Really? :) Look up *J. Warner Wallace* and come back here.
I will give you some recommendations to help you out.
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@@hhstark8663 ,......Wow, are you ever blind, lost, and deceived. That guy is a 100% phony. He is an atheist. He is just another uncalled, unsaved, blind, lost, and deceived person of the God hating (atheist) world that has been snared into the 100% apostate church and its false manmade atheist religion of scientism that the church pretends is Christianity, it is not..
His/your Christianity is fake, it is a counterfeit, the worlds (atheists) version, a replacement for the real thing, also known as antichrist. You have been deceived. Everyone snared into all churches remain atheists, as I have said. Anyone that is not an atheist is not in any church. The church is for atheists (counterfeit christians). They go is atheists, and come out atheists. They just go from one deception to a different one.
Instead of serving one master, they learn to serve two masters. They are just taught to add a fake christianity to their real religion of scientism (atheism). It is al being a double minded man, and serving two masters.
Matthew 6:24
"No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon."
James 1:5
5, "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
6, But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.
7, For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord.
8, A double minded man is unstable in all his ways."
@@tonybasoni8443 If you watched the interview you'll realize that stories like his are common. Most athiest came from fundamentalist Christian homes and leave because of people with your judgmental attitude.
@@mariowalker9048 ,....I have spoken the truth for your edification. The problem is, no one wants to hear the truth, they only want and love, lies and deceptions. As I stated, the church is an atheist institution, people go in atheists, and come out atheists. Those few that actually believe in God and his word have nothing to do with the church. The church is in the business of selling the god hating worlds false, manmade religion of scientism they disguise and sell as christianity. Those who buy and sell this counterfeit (antichrist) christianity are the Godless people of the God hating world, (the beast).
Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand!
I would like to see a video of the 'Non-negotiables" of the Christian faith.
The apostle’s creed summarises the fundamentals which have stood the test of time for 2,000 years
@@marymasthe1st324 according to your view. I know Christian sects that function apart from the apostles creed or add fundamentals to the creed.
@@mugglescakesniffer3943 they have not been around for over 2,000 years. Can bet my hat on that.
Apparently biblical innerancy is negotiable.
@@douglaswise6797 our interpretation of the scripture is not the same as scripture itself. It is healthy to hold our interpretation with humility because there’s always something we do not know. That’s why inherency is tricky. Bottom line we all see scripture slightly different and none of us can claim to hold the perfect interpretation.
42:55 If the bible is inerrant we have to rethink... Meaning we have to make Cinderella's shoe fit by changing the choreography of our tap dance to fit the dogma of our denomination.
You would have a point if the inerrancy was an all-or-nothing proposition (by which I mean - if you discredit one letter of the bible, its entirety must be thrown out). But inerrancy doesn't need to mean that. It means, at minimum, that God guided the authors of the individual books of both the New and Old Testaments. Can we claim that just because there is a minor-add on to the Lord's prayer in some manuscripts that therefore all the otherwise credible evidence for Jesus's resurrection is bunk, from a Christian perspective? No, that sounds like a classic case of throwing out baby Jesus with the baptismal water (to continue your witty word-play)! Or what about the plausibly non-original addendum to the Gospel of Mark? Do we therefore conclude that the addition by some eager and perhaps propagandistic Christians editing an account of the resurrection (which is easily reconcilable with the other accounts of the resurrection, and introduces no new doctrines) that the gospel which we heard, and therefore our christianity, was in vain? This seems foolhardy.
You might be able to convince me that you could defeat the bible via 1000 cuts. That I can see as being possible (not plausible) with enough historical research and technology to recover more of what actually happened. But, although I am open to being shown otherwise, I strongly suspect there isn't enough evidence at hand to rip out the key doctrines and facts established by the gospels and secondary/tertiary sources.
And not to mention, inerrancy isn't even a core doctrine of Christianity, it is only elevated as such by certain denominations. You COULD tear out large chunks of the bible (not without other serious consequences for people's faiths, but after all, this is a thought experiment), and the argument for Jesus being Lord would still stand, as I see it.
God made a world that became messy, because he invited an imperfect, fallen humanity to live with him and be his representatives. Why would we expect the process of coming to understand who he is to not be messy on our account? So who are we to say that just because God guided the process of the creation of the bible, that therefore all writers must have been 100% accurate and relevant to all contexts its readers occupy? Would we not rather expect a winding masterpiece of a gravel road, down which many curious facts and sub-themes all suspiciously point to one conclusion, but which was made by flawed creatures, voluntarily called to participate in the construction of this mysterious path, beyond any of the author's comprehensions? The answer of course is we would not know what to expect, but we certainly should contemplate the fact that it is unlikely to be the clean philosophical proofs, nor unquestionable revelations which force the truth upon all that our God would choose to reveal himself through. Not only would that fail to give choice, but it would also rub people up the wrong way, for obvious and subtle reasons. That one is less directed at you, more just at the general unease I used to have at how complicated the historical analysis of Jesus has been at times, and I know anyone who has read this to the end probably relates to.
@@alexanderhorspool1906 It is nice to see that people are understanding that just because every literal word is not necessarily ex cathedra does not mean they have to give up. Some are all or nothing.
@@mugglescakesniffer3943 cherry picking justification at its finest.. y'all are NUTS
@@nonyabidnazz7487 lol
Jesus is the good shepherd. He goes after the one sheep of 99 that has strayed and brings it back. I certainly experienced this in more than one occasion in my spiritual walk. He brought me back every time.
Even Jesus in his parable of the sower and the seed showed there are those who genuinely had root of faith but allowed his faith to become abandoned (strangled) Matthew 13 I think.