With the necklace one the OP definitely isn’t the A-hole. The bride committed theft and that automatically justifies getting the police involved, wedding or not.
For the second story:its your daughters life not yours she's different then her sisters. Your living your dreams through your daughter and its hurting your daughter.
Yeah but she also needs to have a social life. You need social skills for jobs and future friendships and relationships. It’s important so I agree with the mothers concern.
That’s online talking. In person talking and body language is important and studies have shown that screens can also damage your mental health as well as lead to physical strains on your body and eyesight. If your on them all the time it could be a sign of an addiction! There are many harmful and good effects of screens but if your on them all the time it can generally be quite harmful
@@Ella-bg2ve Studies have also shown that video games actually improve skills such as problem-solving, creativity and more. Video games can also improve players’ moods, promote relaxation and ward off anxiety. A career can also be made with video gaming. With the current rise of technology it’s way more convenient to hold online meetings, calls, etc. Sure body language is important, but it’s not like that girl was a hermit! She still has her group of friends and she’s happy with them, her hobby of video gaming isn’t impacting her negatively so there is literally no problem whatsoever. The mom is being pretty controlling and forcing her kid to do something that might be detrimental to her social growth. Every flower blooms at it’s own pace, besides Highschool isn’t everything. Lots of people I know either hated it or just felt neutral about it.
@@nono-bv1ls I said that it had positive and negative effects. You’d be surprised how many young people are unable to talk to people and just sit and look at the ground while your talking to them. And sure a career can be made with video games but you also need a back up because what if you aren’t able to build a career in that industry. I hate high school it sucks but I go to a school where nobody even looks at you unless you talk to them (when you do they won’t look you in the eye they look at the ground) they are socially terrible.
For the birth one, Why in the world would the husband need to have support for? He's not giving birth so it's not like he needs support to get through a painful process! He doesn't need any support, just supporting his wife while she is having their baby, but if he is really that freaked out about having the right to have someone in the room, then he has his wife's mother too, or he can be out during the birth too, because he has no right over anything at that time. He doesn't have a right over who watches you give birth, he just has to help calm you down
1:43 you should not ever force your child to go to a party to socialize because all that does is make them uncomfortable and feel like they were forced to socialize instead of them choosing to socialize by themselves and the fact that that mother was comparing that girl that likes to play video games to her social butterfly sisters is just making it more difficult the mother keeps saying that she doesn't have alot to have insecurities about because she's actually pretty but she does, the comparison from her mother is what she can possibly be insecure about not only that people have different opinions and standards if your child looks pretty to you there's a chance they're not as pretty when others opinion come through
Ikr like what is it with parents trying to force their kids to be social, like don't force them to be social, that will happen with time, she doesn't need to be forced to do something she doesn't want
For the pregnancy/ delivery room one, she’s perfectly fine for not wanting her brother in law there. If she is uncomfortable then there should be no debate whatsoever, it is her pregnancy after all. And besides, the husband isn’t the one giving birth so the “support person” really isn’t necessary and makes me cringe at the stubbornness of her own husband.
@@shakiyalisane6788 I just gotta say. If she doesn’t feel comfortable with her husband in the room then that’s her choice. She’s giving birth and she’s 21 so it makes a lot of sense. If she isn’t that comfortable with her husband in there than his brother doesn’t need to be in there at all. Also there’s doctors and nurses in there to help her so I think she’s good.
For the first story, it sounds like both to me. While a birthday is not as big of a deal as a wedding. And the bride should be allowed to wear the dress of their dreams on their wedding day. It definitely could have been phrased better or at least don't slap her with the "Sorry, but not really my problem". That is pretty hurtful to say to the women that is about to give her son away to you. Considering all the effort that she took to give birth and raise him, only to be dismissed by her future daughter-in-law as how she feels isn't important nor was the day that she was born. Especially, when it wasn't like she was intentionally trying to start drama at first as she did indeed get the dress first. Though she was being a little over dramatic about people's opinion of her for wearing the same dress. Both though picked a dress over their son/soon to husband.
Personally I think that though a wedding is a bigger deal than a birthday, mother in law did get the dress first . Also the mother is obviously not going to change her mind so I think that wife should change her dress not for mil but for her husband so have his family
@@the_mushroom_frog_ what.. so she didnt birth that dude out her own v keeping him in her womb for 9 months.. going through pain and tons of money for him just to not say hes her kid anymore? Im confused
Exactly- like ‘it’s only fair if they both have a support person’ UH NO she’s the one having the baby- yeah it’s important for both of you but you don’t need support
Ikr, especially if her mother in law has been nothing but a critic to her and has made her feel horrible. Honestly, if husband did show up with his mum, I would of kicked mother in law and husband out of the room
For the second one. Maybe she isn’t insecure she just isn’t into that stuff. Let her do what she is passionate about or likes. She is in high school she doesn’t have to be like her sisters
For the birth story like not wanting the brother in law to come in is so reasonable. She’s the one giving birth not him. She should be as comfortable as she can while giving birth
9:09 ……. What does the husband need support for??? He’s not the one giving birth to a child that it like 10 times bigger than the hole it’s coming out of.
@@shakiyalisane6788 dude shut up we mean physical pain not that, the only physical pain the father will experience will be from the wife gripping onto his hand
3:30 I think you are wrong I get that it’s sorta a mother daughter thing but dude if she likes video games let her play does it matter if she is less feminine if she’s unsocial that’s fine don’t force someone to do that
As someone who’s mom is pressuring me to have a more open social life it is infuriating and annoying because she doesn’t seem to understand that I just dislike socializing
Ya and being forced to socialize with other people isn't going to make you like socializing it's going to make you hate it and you could even end up resenting your mother because of this, not to mention it the story the mom constantly compar e the other older sisters who are social butterflies to the introverted little sister and she have friends there just online.
@@itsscurlyhead7638 my older sister is a social butterfly and on occasion I’ve even heard my mom talk about if she were able to mix my sister and I together, she’d have the “perfect kid”
HEY ! CMON IT'S LEAGUE OF LEGENDS ! XD And you daughter can live your her own life and let her do what she wants to do! Like you said " you can play games all the time " well that is an event and so they don't happen all the time !
With the pregnant woman one with the brother in law in the delivery room, why does the husband (who is NOT giving birth and has not gone through the whole thing of 9 month pregnancy) need a support person? The woman is in the right and the husband is selfish
The first story. Who cares about the mother-in-law? Is it her wedding? NO. Let the girl be a princess for a day. It’s not the mother in laws choice. If no one will stand up for the girl and not even her own fiancé, the girl should get rid of the man. A real man would stand up for her future wife and not get mad at her for a dress.
I understand it's her wedding day but to be rude to her mother-in-law is kind of just automatically a red flag I wouldn't let her marry myself considering she's really rude to me and if anything the mother tried to respectfully say everything she could if anything the mother was more comfort I understand it's her wedding day but to be rude to her mother-in-law is kind of just automatically a red flag I wouldn't let her marry myself considering she's really rude to me and if anything the mother tried to respectfully say everything she could Being rude to the very person who raised your husband I think not. Saying that the mother's birthday didn't matter the literal day she was born It's wrong to dismiss her feelings It might be her wedding but she had no right to dismiss her husbands mothers feelings I'm not marrying someone who's that ruthless and disrespectful with my mother
6:44 I once went to a McDonald’s when I was young with my grandpa and I was like I’m going to get the food myself so I went to the counter and got the tray as I walked to the table this 14 year old on his phone walked straight into me and me being like 6 I dropped the food. So we went to the counter and said like can we get more food or a refund cus like this isn’t our fault and this lady was like well I asked you if you could hold it and not drop it and you said yes so we’re not giving you more food. My grandpa is a bit of a Karen when he gets angry and now we call that lady Goldie b@&$#.
Story at like 3:10, (yes half way through the story) the mum is the Ass hole, I’m in grade 11 (second last year in Australia) I have had the same group of friends and have never attended a single school dance my entire high school life. I don’t see the problem
Last story as someone who plays alot, i would say you are not a A hole. My parents warned me about the same thing. Just try to explain to your daughter the dangers of the internet and why its not a good idea
little inside info from a mcdonald's worker. the employees arent responsible for checking orders before they go out, managers are. the workers have a set job all day, they mostly do whatever that job is. the only thing they are resposible for is making the food right, but the managers are the ones responsible for the complete order
1: What a bunch of babies weddings definitely take priority. Also trauma is not an excuse to make others stop doing what they want. I would have worn the og dress out of spite if the family acted like that. And I would have mocked mil at the wedding. If she wants to play the victim game. Fine.
I don’t understand what’s wrong with the second story if she doesn’t want to go to the dance she doesn’t have to go I can understand if she said she doesn’t have any friends that she does
With the first story the way you went about it was wrong, yes it's your dream dress which you shouldn't give up. But what you said to the mother in law was wrong
Personally I think everyone is the a-hole no one actually cares about how this effected the fiancé/brother/son turning him on his soon to be wife, putting him in such a horrible situation. I just feel bad for him.
@@shouldsleepbetterdoesnt.2668 same! The mother in law is so immature while the wife doesn’t know what to do so she’s escalating the situation. They just need fo get over it, she wanted that dress for her wedding day, so what? The mother in law can still wear it, the wife didn’t seem to be too upset. But then of course they needed to put the husband in that horrible situation.
@@chadfromsleepingbeauty absolutely! Or I mean I don’t know if that dress was what both of them wanted they could try getting some add ons to make it different there are some tailoring companies that will add things to outfits then the mother-in-law would be happy because now the dress has a few details that make it hers? I mean seriously there were so many better options the poor fiancé didn’t have to go through that over a dress.
For the one with the pregnancy and the brother really got me when he said it’s just a right as mine in yours when it’s very possible to have a baby without the male reproductive and it’s not like he carried the baby for nine months and with the pain to break the baby so I really don’t like that
For the first one I feel like the bride should wear the dress she wants to her wedding but she didn’t have to say what she said because it affected her fiancée’s relationship with his family. So I feel like you are wrong bc at the end of the day your going to be associated with your mother in law for however long the marriage lasts whether it be 2 years or a life time.
OK last story I think, it's about mum not letting her daughter see her boyfriend. Anyway the guy lives in Florida right and doesn't want to travel due to certain circumstances. My head just went to Dream he doesn't want to travel at the risk of people recognising him and he lives in Florida. Just me? Ok
Story 1 I think you should return it. See, you are marrying a person and it means creating a scared connection between two families , it may be hard but you have to adjust somethings for the sake of your marriage . And it is your problem because she is your future mother in law hence your future family so you should care about her. You said she doesn't like you and I understand but maybe try to make amends with her. I am not saying that she is in the right but this is just my advice to you
I think the first one could either look for another dress or talk it out with the mother in law and ask her if it’s possible that she finds another dress because that’s her dream dress
1: I think you should’ve swapped the dress because she did have it first and people would think she copied one but you could have found one similar. 2: I think let your daughter do what she wants, maybe have a chat with her about it but in the end it’s up to her and she might feel uncomfortable or something going to the dance so it really depends. 3: Absolutely not, no matter what the situation was that was theft of property and that would have been your only way of getting your necklace back. 4: lol idek 5: you can have whoever the hell you want in the delivery room. and it’s not just as much his right because you’re the one pushing a child out of you not him. what a dick.
1rst story: I don't think you should have said "Sorry it's really not my problem." To the woman that is giving away her son. But I think the mother in law is a a-hole. A birthday is not as important as a wedding. The mother and law should not have got all of the sons family involved.
Your husband is in the wrong because it is your right to choose who is in the delivery room! If you don't want your brother in-law in the room then he has no right to be.
for the pregnancy one I'm not tryna be rude but why does the husband need support he's not the one pushing and he's not really doing anything idk I'm not in a relationship can someone explain cuz I'm confuzled
The second story Most parents don't want their kids sitting and playing video games all day pretty much every day, but she enjoys it. Yes, there's a limited amount of hIgH sChOoL eXpIrEnCe but clearly, she doesn't care about making new friends and likes her life as it is. You shouldn't force her to do something just because her sisters were super excited about it, you should be able to realize that if you head wasn't stuck up your other daughters a$$es. You just want her to because the other sisters did it, not because she wants to.
For the first ya you are because you could return it so easily but being petty and not. The mother had it first but the mother should not have excluded her own son.
1st story i would wear an ugly azz dress and then when he doesnt like it since you couldn't worn that dress this is the one she has to wear ugly or pretty
For the first yes you could have got something bigger better or anything at all but that it was rude of you and selfish clearly badly or as important as weddings in this family so you are wrong for that
If her step sister is capable of stealing something as valuable as her necklace, do you not think she is capable of keeping it to herself? The step sister can just say she lost it so how could the other sister prove otherwise? The wedding was the only time she was sure the step sister would be wearing the necklace so she would have no choice but to give it back. From my point of view, necklace was important to her so she was just using that opportunity to get it back. About ruining the wedding, well the bride should have thought better before Stealing, because she was really stealing since she didn’t had permition to get the necklace, something for her wedding day.
She didn't overreact, the necklace has sentimental value and for the sister and step mother to take it even tho she said no is wrong. So if they didn't want any problem on the wedding day they shouldn't have taken it in the first place:)
@@taylore5392 yes she could've but they shouldnt have taken she also said that things like that happened in the past so she also wasn't sure if she was gonna get it back
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For the first story, it sounds like both to me. While a birthday is not as big of a deal as a wedding. And the bride should be allowed to wear the dress of their dreams on their wedding day. It definitely could have been phrased better or at least don't slap her with the "Sorry, but not really my problem". That is pretty hurtful to say to the women that is about to give her son away to you. Considering all the effort that she took to give birth and raise him, only to be dismissed by her future daughter-in-law as how she feels isn't important nor was the day that she was born. Especially, when it wasn't like she was intentionally trying to start drama at first as she did indeed get the dress first. Though she was being a little over dramatic about people's opinion of her for wearing the same dress. Both though picked a dress over their son/soon to husband.
With the necklace one the OP definitely isn’t the A-hole. The bride committed theft and that automatically justifies getting the police involved, wedding or not.
Right that wasn’t your property. I’m glad she got the necklace back
For the second story:its your daughters life not yours she's different then her sisters. Your living your dreams through your daughter and its hurting your daughter.
Yeah but she also needs to have a social life. You need social skills for jobs and future friendships and relationships. It’s important so I agree with the mothers concern.
@@Ella-bg2ve Diana has friends tho, and video games are rather social as you play in a team sometimes. Mom is being wayyy too controlling.
That’s online talking. In person talking and body language is important and studies have shown that screens can also damage your mental health as well as lead to physical strains on your body and eyesight. If your on them all the time it could be a sign of an addiction! There are many harmful and good effects of screens but if your on them all the time it can generally be quite harmful
@@Ella-bg2ve Studies have also shown that video games actually improve skills such as problem-solving, creativity and more. Video games can also improve players’ moods, promote relaxation and ward off anxiety. A career can also be made with video gaming. With the current rise of technology it’s way more convenient to hold online meetings, calls, etc. Sure body language is important, but it’s not like that girl was a hermit! She still has her group of friends and she’s happy with them, her hobby of video gaming isn’t impacting her negatively so there is literally no problem whatsoever. The mom is being pretty controlling and forcing her kid to do something that might be detrimental to her social growth. Every flower blooms at it’s own pace, besides Highschool isn’t everything. Lots of people I know either hated it or just felt neutral about it.
@@nono-bv1ls I said that it had positive and negative effects. You’d be surprised how many young people are unable to talk to people and just sit and look at the ground while your talking to them. And sure a career can be made with video games but you also need a back up because what if you aren’t able to build a career in that industry. I hate high school it sucks but I go to a school where nobody even looks at you unless you talk to them (when you do they won’t look you in the eye they look at the ground) they are socially terrible.
For the birth one, Why in the world would the husband need to have support for? He's not giving birth so it's not like he needs support to get through a painful process! He doesn't need any support, just supporting his wife while she is having their baby, but if he is really that freaked out about having the right to have someone in the room, then he has his wife's mother too, or he can be out during the birth too, because he has no right over anything at that time. He doesn't have a right over who watches you give birth, he just has to help calm you down
1:43 you should not ever force your child to go to a party to socialize because all that does is make them uncomfortable and feel like they were forced to socialize instead of them choosing to socialize by themselves and the fact that that mother was comparing that girl that likes to play video games to her social butterfly sisters is just making it more difficult the mother keeps saying that she doesn't have alot to have insecurities about because she's actually pretty but she does, the comparison from her mother is what she can possibly be insecure about not only that people have different opinions and standards if your child looks pretty to you there's a chance they're not as pretty when others opinion come through
Ikr like what is it with parents trying to force their kids to be social, like don't force them to be social, that will happen with time, she doesn't need to be forced to do something she doesn't want
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK 😫
As an Ambiverted person YESSS SAY IT LOUDER 🤭
For the pregnancy/ delivery room one, she’s perfectly fine for not wanting her brother in law there. If she is uncomfortable then there should be no debate whatsoever, it is her pregnancy after all. And besides, the husband isn’t the one giving birth so the “support person” really isn’t necessary and makes me cringe at the stubbornness of her own husband.
@@shakiyalisane6788 I just gotta say. If she doesn’t feel comfortable with her husband in the room then that’s her choice. She’s giving birth and she’s 21 so it makes a lot of sense. If she isn’t that comfortable with her husband in there than his brother doesn’t need to be in there at all. Also there’s doctors and nurses in there to help her so I think she’s good.
@@shakiyalisane6788 her husband isn't the one pushing a 7-10 pound baby out of him is he?
Exactly
For the first story, it sounds like both to me.
While a birthday is not as big of a deal as a wedding. And the bride should be allowed to wear the dress of their dreams on their wedding day. It definitely could have been phrased better or at least don't slap her with the "Sorry, but not really my problem".
That is pretty hurtful to say to the women that is about to give her son away to you. Considering all the effort that she took to give birth and raise him, only to be dismissed by her future daughter-in-law as how she feels isn't important nor was the day that she was born. Especially, when it wasn't like she was intentionally trying to start drama at first as she did indeed get the dress first. Though she was being a little over dramatic about people's opinion of her for wearing the same dress.
Both though picked a dress over their son/soon to husband.
Her child is NOT her property, please don't phrase it like that
I think she's the a hole if the tables were turned shed agree too
Personally I think that though a wedding is a bigger deal than a birthday, mother in law did get the dress first . Also the mother is obviously not going to change her mind so I think that wife should change her dress not for mil but for her husband so have his family
@@the_mushroom_frog_ what.. so she didnt birth that dude out her own v keeping him in her womb for 9 months.. going through pain and tons of money for him just to not say hes her kid anymore? Im confused
are we gonna ignore the step dad being so mad over this
Exuce me but if she doesnt want him in the delivery room then tough shit man. It's her choice, not yours
Exactly- like ‘it’s only fair if they both have a support person’ UH NO she’s the one having the baby- yeah it’s important for both of you but you don’t need support
Ikr, especially if her mother in law has been nothing but a critic to her and has made her feel horrible. Honestly, if husband did show up with his mum, I would of kicked mother in law and husband out of the room
For the second one. Maybe she isn’t insecure she just isn’t into that stuff. Let her do what she is passionate about or likes. She is in high school she doesn’t have to be like her sisters
For the birth story like not wanting the brother in law to come in is so reasonable. She’s the one giving birth not him. She should be as comfortable as she can while giving birth
9:09 ……. What does the husband need support for??? He’s not the one giving birth to a child that it like 10 times bigger than the hole it’s coming out of.
Exactly
This!!!!
Because sometimes men can panic and faint on the spot during when the child is coming out.
@@shakiyalisane6788 dude shut up we mean physical pain not that, the only physical pain the father will experience will be from the wife gripping onto his hand
@@shakiyalisane6788 that’s why there’s doctors there he doesn’t need a “support person”
Excuse me? BABYSIT? THAT IS YOUR CHILD, THAT'S CALLED BEING A PARENT.
i was ooking for this comment ong ppl are soo entiteld some times 🙄
Ikr
THAT'S WHAT I'M THINKING!
ok but im LIVING for the person who said they like to plan out arguments with their family for the holidays. . . and the RAINBOW SHIRT :D
>:D
It’s nothing cool about her planning out arguments because she never uses them, also some people can come up with stuff on the spot.
1st: right
2nd: so wrong
3rd: meh
Delivery room story: right. It’s your choice
Babysitting story: wrong
Last story: right. Could be a cat fish
You are not the asshole for not wanting your husbands brother in the delivery room
It’s YOUR BODY
3:30 I think you are wrong I get that it’s sorta a mother daughter thing but dude if she likes video games let her play does it matter if she is less feminine if she’s unsocial that’s fine don’t force someone to do that
As someone who’s mom is pressuring me to have a more open social life it is infuriating and annoying because she doesn’t seem to understand that I just dislike socializing
Ya and being forced to socialize with other people isn't going to make you like socializing it's going to make you hate it and you could even end up resenting your mother because of this, not to mention it the story the mom constantly compar e the other older sisters who are social butterflies to the introverted little sister and she have friends there just online.
@@itsscurlyhead7638 my older sister is a social butterfly and on occasion I’ve even heard my mom talk about if she were able to mix my sister and I together, she’d have the “perfect kid”
@@jy11ess3 holy crap im so sorry that sounds awful
The first story hurts me so much I wanna hurt that woman but other then that good video
Which women 🧍♀️
HEY ! CMON IT'S LEAGUE OF LEGENDS !
XD
And you daughter can live your her own life and let her do what she wants to do! Like you said " you can play games all the time " well that is an event and so they don't happen all the time !
For the necklace one.they stole your property and got upset when they were told off for it and are back stabbers.get them out of your life-
With the pregnant woman one with the brother in law in the delivery room, why does the husband (who is NOT giving birth and has not gone through the whole thing of 9 month pregnancy) need a support person? The woman is in the right and the husband is selfish
The one about the necklace: Nooo You were not wrong at All! I would be livid.
The first story. Who cares about the mother-in-law? Is it her wedding? NO.
Let the girl be a princess for a day. It’s not the mother in laws choice. If no one will stand up for the girl and not even her own fiancé, the girl should get rid of the man. A real man would stand up for her future wife and not get mad at her for a dress.
It’s just a dress, it doesn’t matter.
Right her wedding comes first so she wears the dress. The mother in law is selfish and a brat in my opinion
@@LowYummy EXACTLY
I understand it's her wedding day but to be rude to her mother-in-law is kind of just automatically a red flag I wouldn't let her marry myself considering she's really rude to me and if anything the mother tried to respectfully say everything she could if anything the mother was more comfort I understand it's her wedding day but to be rude to her mother-in-law is kind of just automatically a red flag I wouldn't let her marry myself considering she's really rude to me and if anything the mother tried to respectfully say everything she could Being rude to the very person who raised your husband I think not. Saying that the mother's birthday didn't matter the literal day she was born It's wrong to dismiss her feelings It might be her wedding but she had no right to dismiss her husbands mothers feelings I'm not marrying someone who's that ruthless and disrespectful with my mother
I mean son
6:44 I once went to a McDonald’s when I was young with my grandpa and I was like I’m going to get the food myself so I went to the counter and got the tray as I walked to the table this 14 year old on his phone walked straight into me and me being like 6 I dropped the food. So we went to the counter and said like can we get more food or a refund cus like this isn’t our fault and this lady was like well I asked you if you could hold it and not drop it and you said yes so we’re not giving you more food. My grandpa is a bit of a Karen when he gets angry and now we call that lady Goldie b@&$#.
U were a Karen
Does anyone know who’s the person tell her story at 6:45? I really want to know-
@@amaanachaudhary9879 wtf you could at least be nice you are acting like a karen it's not his fault
@@windkaxh4528 The name is Jozadak.
Story at like 3:10, (yes half way through the story) the mum is the Ass hole, I’m in grade 11 (second last year in Australia) I have had the same group of friends and have never attended a single school dance my entire high school life. I don’t see the problem
Last story as someone who plays alot, i would say you are not a A hole. My parents warned me about the same thing. Just try to explain to your daughter the dangers of the internet and why its not a good idea
the fact that the one guy said that they didn't want to BABYSIT there DAUGHTER set me off
Second story: just making sure she and y’all know that biased means showing favouritism unfairly
6:10 I can agree bc the other day I asked for ketchup they said " yes it's in there" when I got home THERE WAS NO KETCHUP!?!?!?
little inside info from a mcdonald's worker. the employees arent responsible for checking orders before they go out, managers are. the workers have a set job all day, they mostly do whatever that job is. the only thing they are resposible for is making the food right, but the managers are the ones responsible for the complete order
@@arwen08 oh ok thanks!
For the delivery room one I have a question for the husband/brothe in-law : so are you the one giving birth... yeah no didn't think so
yay another post
It isn’t terrible, but I can sense that she doesn’t like me. That one hit HARD.
2nd Story :yes you are so wrong
1st story: yes you are so wrong
3rd story: no you are not wrong
1: What a bunch of babies weddings definitely take priority. Also trauma is not an excuse to make others stop doing what they want. I would have worn the og dress out of spite if the family acted like that. And I would have mocked mil at the wedding. If she wants to play the victim game. Fine.
It just feel that mother inlaws are problematic when they judge about meeting girlfriends.
9:45 - bruh your dad it’s ‘babysitting’ it’s your flippin job!!!
I don’t understand what’s wrong with the second story if she doesn’t want to go to the dance she doesn’t have to go I can understand if she said she doesn’t have any friends that she does
With the first story the way you went about it was wrong, yes it's your dream dress which you shouldn't give up. But what you said to the mother in law was wrong
Personally I think everyone is the a-hole no one actually cares about how this effected the fiancé/brother/son turning him on his soon to be wife, putting him in such a horrible situation. I just feel bad for him.
@@shouldsleepbetterdoesnt.2668 same! The mother in law is so immature while the wife doesn’t know what to do so she’s escalating the situation. They just need fo get over it, she wanted that dress for her wedding day, so what? The mother in law can still wear it, the wife didn’t seem to be too upset. But then of course they needed to put the husband in that horrible situation.
@@chadfromsleepingbeauty absolutely! Or I mean I don’t know if that dress was what both of them wanted they could try getting some add ons to make it different there are some tailoring companies that will add things to outfits then the mother-in-law would be happy because now the dress has a few details that make it hers? I mean seriously there were so many better options the poor fiancé didn’t have to go through that over a dress.
For the one with the pregnancy and the brother really got me when he said it’s just a right as mine in yours when it’s very possible to have a baby without the male reproductive and it’s not like he carried the baby for nine months and with the pain to break the baby so I really don’t like that
That woman is problematic forcing comparing her youngest daughter to her 2 oldest daughters and forcing to be Extrovert.
For the first one:
ITS A FUCKING DRESS WHY ON EARTH ARE YOU GUYS ACTING LIKE ITS SOMETHING BAD
RIGHT!?
1: NTA
2: kinda
3: NTA
4: 😂
5: NTA
6: YTA
7: NTA
1: eh
2: TA
3:NTA
4: again, eh but i dont think ta bc hes working
5: NTA
That last one the daughter is definitely in the wrong like that is literally breaking like all the online safety rules
That first one is so petty
I have to say birthdays are just the day you were born it's not super important
me watching storytimes because i thought that its actualy ice cream storytime, like- Stories of people who worked in ice cream shops...lol
Yeah
For the first one I feel like the bride should wear the dress she wants to her wedding but she didn’t have to say what she said because it affected her fiancée’s relationship with his family. So I feel like you are wrong bc at the end of the day your going to be associated with your mother in law for however long the marriage lasts whether it be 2 years or a life time.
You are not the assoull for saying no for your husband's brother to come in the dilveri room .
The first one? Yes
9:09 it’s her opinion she’s the one popping out the baby not her husband
For the second one what if her daughter regrets it bc that happened to me once
Wha ice cream shop is this
OK last story I think, it's about mum not letting her daughter see her boyfriend. Anyway the guy lives in Florida right and doesn't want to travel due to certain circumstances. My head just went to Dream he doesn't want to travel at the risk of people recognising him and he lives in Florida. Just me? Ok
Story 1 I think you should return it. See, you are marrying a person and it means creating a scared connection between two families , it may be hard but you have to adjust somethings for the sake of your marriage . And it is your problem because she is your future mother in law hence your future family so you should care about her. You said she doesn't like you and I understand but maybe try to make amends with her. I am not saying that she is in the right but this is just my advice to you
Ok so the thing about the dresses, i think that OP is the a hole. Mother in Law had the dress first therefore OP should’ve been understanding.
2nd story, yes she was the problem
4:22 90s kids are millennials which are around 30ish pretty young so they don’t be hurting like there grandparents
Does anyone know who the girl at 6:08 is? I've heard a lot of her story times and want to watch more
2 story-yes your the you will find it
Tell me why I’m so happy because I saw a add for hocus pocus 2🤗🤭
You are not babysitting your daughter. It's called being a parents and looking after your daughter.
I think the first one could either look for another dress or talk it out with the mother in law and ask her if it’s possible that she finds another dress because that’s her dream dress
if she does not want to go she does not have to go. you should not force your daughter to something she does not want to do
Before WE got pregnant???
1: I think you should’ve swapped the dress because she did have it first and people would think she copied one but you could have found one similar.
2: I think let your daughter do what she wants, maybe have a chat with her about it but in the end it’s up to her and she might feel uncomfortable or something going to the dance so it really depends.
3: Absolutely not, no matter what the situation was that was theft of property and that would have been your only way of getting your necklace back.
4: lol idek
5: you can have whoever the hell you want in the delivery room. and it’s not just as much his right because you’re the one pushing a child out of you not him. what a dick.
Bro the title got me mad why are you saying “ Babysit my daughter “ like it’s not babysitting !
I like the Feinstein gummies....but I was born in 2012 😭
Srry I think I spelled the gummy wrong 😅 but I'm still sadd
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200th comment!
3:51 yes you are wrong
for all of these you are NOT the a hole
It's not babysitting if it's your kid it's parrenting
Yo league of legends
1rst story: I don't think you should have said "Sorry it's really not my problem." To the woman that is giving away her son. But I think the mother in law is a a-hole. A birthday is not as important as a wedding. The mother and law should not have got all of the sons family involved.
9:18 that is your daughter it's called parenting not babysitting you're her FATHER
Your husband is in the wrong because it is your right to choose who is in the delivery room! If you don't want your brother in-law in the room then he has no right to be.
early!!!
not really-
No no no yes no dk no no no
for the pregnancy one I'm not tryna be rude but why does the husband need support he's not the one pushing and he's not really doing anything idk I'm not in a relationship can someone explain cuz I'm confuzled
The second story
Most parents don't want their kids sitting and playing video games all day pretty much every day, but she enjoys it. Yes, there's a limited amount of hIgH sChOoL eXpIrEnCe but clearly, she doesn't care about making new friends and likes her life as it is. You shouldn't force her to do something just because her sisters were super excited about it, you should be able to realize that if you head wasn't stuck up your other daughters a$$es. You just want her to because the other sisters did it, not because she wants to.
For the first ya you are because you could return it so easily but being petty and not. The mother had it first but the mother should not have excluded her own son.
1st story i would wear an ugly azz dress and then when he doesnt like it since you couldn't worn that dress this is the one she has to wear ugly or pretty
For the first story the girl. Is wrong because the mother in law had it first
It's a dress....who cares, the mom's behavior is childish and petty.
Just give up the dress
For the first yes you could have got something bigger better or anything at all but that it was rude of you and selfish clearly badly or as important as weddings in this family so you are wrong for that
3rd one, the sister is wrong but sending the damn police to a WEDDING?! Yeah she def overreacted like i get it but couldn’t sh waited after???
If her step sister is capable of stealing something as valuable as her necklace, do you not think she is capable of keeping it to herself? The step sister can just say she lost it so how could the other sister prove otherwise? The wedding was the only time she was sure the step sister would be wearing the necklace so she would have no choice but to give it back. From my point of view, necklace was important to her so she was just using that opportunity to get it back. About ruining the wedding, well the bride should have thought better before Stealing, because she was really stealing since she didn’t had permition to get the necklace, something for her wedding day.
She didn't overreact, the necklace has sentimental value and for the sister and step mother to take it even tho she said no is wrong. So if they didn't want any problem on the wedding day they shouldn't have taken it in the first place:)
@@nini_stanskz no i get it, i meant if she could’ve waited
@@taylore5392 yes she could've but they shouldnt have taken she also said that things like that happened in the past so she also wasn't sure if she was gonna get it back
@@nini_stanskz yes
Romans 10:9-19
9 If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.
For the first story, it sounds like both to me.
While a birthday is not as big of a deal as a wedding. And the bride should be allowed to wear the dress of their dreams on their wedding day. It definitely could have been phrased better or at least don't slap her with the "Sorry, but not really my problem".
That is pretty hurtful to say to the women that is about to give her son away to you. Considering all the effort that she took to give birth and raise him, only to be dismissed by her future daughter-in-law as how she feels isn't important nor was the day that she was born. Especially, when it wasn't like she was intentionally trying to start drama at first as she did indeed get the dress first. Though she was being a little over dramatic about people's opinion of her for wearing the same dress.
Both though picked a dress over their son/soon to husband.