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  • Dr. Serena H. Chen, a reproductive endocrinologist and fertility specialist, answers the internet's burning questions about fertility, pregnancy, and having children. How do pregnancy tests actually work? Why can IVF be so expensive? What is the process of egg freezing like? Are sperm counts lower than they used to be? Serena answers all these questions and much more.
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  • @aleximis
    @aleximis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16157

    Between watching her and the mortician, I really feel like I know so much more about the circle of life now. 🥴

    • @PinkChucky15
      @PinkChucky15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      Same 😂

    • @willflint5014
      @willflint5014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +340

      I want the two of them to do a co-op vid. 😂

    • @darthgengar2047
      @darthgengar2047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      same, life is actually a lot more interesting after seeing 2 ends of the spectrum.

    • @lydiahalliday6532
      @lydiahalliday6532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Agreed!

    • @reneli5403
      @reneli5403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      bro i literally searched up the mortician video because i saw this on my recs and i forgot what the channel was called 😭

  • @gabriellaberman
    @gabriellaberman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6753

    It breaks my heart that people who have miscarriages still have pregnancy symptoms afterwards. That would be so hard

    • @giawelch1181
      @giawelch1181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +624

      It is heartbreaking. With one of my losses I was still reading positive on a blood pregnancy test for almost two months after it happened. It was a gut wrenching constant reminder that a baby wasn't happening and I still kept having to go to the Dr and get my blood drawn.

    • @LS-yu3or
      @LS-yu3or 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      @@giawelch1181 I hope you're doing okay 💕

    • @giawelch1181
      @giawelch1181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      @@LS-yu3or I am, thank you. That was over ten years ago.

    • @DeepBlue7
      @DeepBlue7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      It's very hard. And confusing.

    • @aviirose9743
      @aviirose9743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      Phantom kicks are definitely the weirdest part no one talks about

  • @MeghanF93
    @MeghanF93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8516

    I love how she equally addressed men and women in this video. I feel like sometimes the focus is on women when it’s really a two person process!!

    • @Bibblesupremacy1992
      @Bibblesupremacy1992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I mean they never specified that she ways only educated in female fertility so she’s both

    • @catc8927
      @catc8927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      Yes! Especially debunking that men don’t have a biological clock.

    • @missuschainsaw
      @missuschainsaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Definitely because fertility issues are 1/3 female only, 1/3 male only, and 1/3 male and female.

    • @kashatnick
      @kashatnick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@catc8927 Its a modern cope of pretending things are the same, when the reality is the effect is mostly on women. The lies continue as the ones that hit the wall pay the consequences and are forgotten. Propaganda skew is always in that direction, 1 in 4 homeless are women, tragedy, when news is the other way, minimize through obfuscation. The proof of the pudding is this, historically fathers have always been older, and women prefer it, it is not the real problem.

    • @oppooopoookjgffghjookjjj4531
      @oppooopoookjgffghjookjjj4531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      @@kashatnick what are you even talking about

  • @kl-tj4nx
    @kl-tj4nx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4154

    I appreciate that she didn’t only focus on the women’s side. Men need to understand fertility too

    • @panda-yr6ul
      @panda-yr6ul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@GregorioStyreco literally anyone who knows that this topic is mostly aimed towards *women* and should be aimed towards men too
      Also, I didn't realize spelling "women" correctly was so hard.

    • @lovelandfrog5692
      @lovelandfrog5692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      I know! My husband was really invested in learning about the pregnancy process and all the changes I was experiencing. He really wants to be there for me and understanding fertility and pregnancy is vital for any guy who wants to be there for a partner who wants children.

    • @natto6606
      @natto6606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@GregorioStyreco since you don’t pay attention in school?

    • @solus8685
      @solus8685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@GregorioStyreco because compared to men, women aren't as fixated on outdated sεxist beliefs

    • @WouldntULikeToKnow.
      @WouldntULikeToKnow. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@GregorioStyreco because men need to know about fertility too. Duh

  • @Retroglamamour
    @Retroglamamour 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9467

    _“Mother Nature designed us to have 10 kids by the age of 25 and then die of exhaustion at the age of 40”_ 😆 In response to freezing your eggs. I love Dr. Chen’s analogies.

    • @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep
      @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      She lost all credibility when she stated the covid vaccine does not affect fertility. That is a blatant lie, there is no way she can possibly know because no one does yet. People that say whatever they want contrary to reality are dangerous. If 100 women got the vaccine and lost the ability to conceive that is 100 lives in a matter of 2 minutes this women has ruined.

    • @gracetaveo2733
      @gracetaveo2733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep Right? Last time I checked term is 9 months, how can she say that for sure when we’ve barely had the vaccine that long

    • @alexminsky1
      @alexminsky1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +488

      @@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep there’s no evidence of vaccines influencing fertility in the entire history of vaccines. So, she is confident because of that. Things of course can change if new evidence shows the contrary.

    • @jarehelt
      @jarehelt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep
      • Epidemiology studies tend to produce less reliable data that can be more difficult to interpret. For instance, it is extremely rare that an epidemiology study alone can confirm that a particular chemical exposure caused a health effect. Moreover, as noted by Stanford University professor Dr. John Ioannidis, the vast majority of published epidemiology studies are later proven to be wrong.
      • Furthermore, with the exception of randomized-control trials that research potentially beneficial therapeutic pharmaceuticals, it is considered unethical to randomly allocate humans into exposed and unexposed groups. So epidemiologists can only observe, not control, the conditions under which people are exposed. Consequently, a vast, unknown number of other variables, referred to as confounders, may cloud our understanding of the relationship between a chemical exposure and observed health effects.
      • Errors in measurements of exposure and disease also can occur, which can further skew findings. Potential confounding and measurement errors are especially problematic in studies that include a relatively small number of subjects (i.e., less than tens of thousands), report exposures near background levels and report weaker relationships (e.g., increased risks less than 3 fold between groups). Finally, not all epidemiology study designs produce equally strong evidence (see, “Evidence Hierarchy of Epidemiological Study Design”)
      Science by definition requires eliminating extraneous variables and being replicatable. If it cant do one or in this case both. It isn't really Science 😕 Not to say epidemiology can't be useful, it has helped eliminate diseases that have plauged humanity since the dawn of time. Studies just need to be taken with a healthy dose of salt.

    • @DestPestoDud
      @DestPestoDud 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      @@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep My older sister and my step-brother are hard core leftist (non-derrogstory) so they both have all 3 shots (the 2 and booster) and she got pregnant two weeks ago. 🤷‍♀️ So idk, it doesn't seem to have affected fertility. I texted her right now too to see how many times she did it (awkward question I know lol. I also made sure to not mention the topic to not skew her opinion). She told me a handful, idk what that means but Im assuming it isn't much. So it doesn't seem to have affected their fertility, hopefully nothing happens to the child, but I doubt the vaccine will

  • @jaladhipatel6008
    @jaladhipatel6008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12764

    She seems so sweet! She’s someone I would want to be my teacher cause she explains everything so nicely…

    • @anuk1311
      @anuk1311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Simulation K ahhahaha I though the same

    • @taylor3950
      @taylor3950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Agreed! She’s explains kindly but doesn’t beat around the bush. Super easy to understand

    • @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep
      @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She lost all credibility when she stated the covid vaccine does not affect fertility. That is a blatant lie, there is no way she can possibly know because no one does yet. People that say whatever they want contrary to reality are dangerous. If 100 women got the vaccine and lost the ability to conceive that is 100 lives in a matter of 2 minutes this women has ruined.

    • @hannahhoover8754
      @hannahhoover8754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      @@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep ok. But where's your degree? Are you a doctor?

    • @azoverdosed
      @azoverdosed 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😳😳😳

  • @louskyasmr
    @louskyasmr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3324

    me who has no desire for children or to become pregnant: completely invested and absorbing every bit of info in this video possible

    • @mehboobhassan371
      @mehboobhassan371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      I know. It's just interesting.

    • @mgnruth
      @mgnruth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I'm a midwife in training so same also not interested in getting preggers atm.

    • @loopstationyt
      @loopstationyt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me as well

    • @shawtysbae
      @shawtysbae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactlyy

    • @vvearyeyes
      @vvearyeyes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      It’s helpful to know this if you’re trying to prevent pregnancy too 😂

  • @val.s2866
    @val.s2866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6549

    As a woman who is currently 18 and not trying to get pregnant, I wish she was my doctor. Ik that sounds weird but she explains everything so nicely which is important when talking about health.

    • @andreawest2194
      @andreawest2194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      Me as a 19 year old and I understand, I want her to

    • @jesusislord6545
      @jesusislord6545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Repent to Jesus Christ
      “Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.”
      ‭‭Colossians‬ ‭3:1‬ ‭NIV‬‬
      L

    • @yooein
      @yooein 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      yeah, most ob-gyns are UGH. not good. keep looking for the good ones. hint: the ones who prescribe birth control without any checks beforehand are quacks.

    • @koaruu
      @koaruu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      @@jesusislord6545 No thanks. I died in the hospital, and then i did not see jesus. I saw nothing. They then brought me back to life. Simple

    • @Blackjackjk
      @Blackjackjk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      @@jesusislord6545 can you not on posts completely off topic on what you comment?

  • @endorsishorn
    @endorsishorn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2811

    Her voice and manner of explanation is so reassuring, I'm not even thinking about fertility and she makes me feel safe

    • @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep
      @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She lost all credibility when she stated the covid vaccine does not affect fertility. That is a blatant lie, there is no way she can possibly know because no one does yet. People that say whatever they want contrary to reality are dangerous. If 100 women got the vaccine and lost the ability to conceive that is 100 lives in a matter of 2 minutes this women has ruined.

    • @endorsishorn
      @endorsishorn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep because you know better than a certified expert. Even an informed google search can answer your questions

    • @Ky-wf3ry
      @Ky-wf3ry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep why are you copying and pasting your comments 💀. She’s a professional, you’re not

    • @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep
      @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ky-wf3ry So am I. That means nothing, all humans can lie. And here we have her blatantly lying and you don't need a medical degree to see it. That is what "blatant" means. It means obvious. A new technology AND new drug cannot be deemed effective nor safe right after it's creation just because someone uttered those words. Data has to be compiled. You know evidence, a reality to base those statements first on. Why can't you grasp that honey?

    • @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep
      @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@endorsishorn So am I. That means nothing, all humans can lie. And here we have her blatantly lying and you don't need a medical degree to see it. That is what "blatant" means. It means obvious. A new technology AND new drug cannot be deemed effective nor safe right after it's creation just because someone uttered those words. Data has to be compiled. You know evidence, a reality to base those statements first on. Why can't you grasp that honey?

  • @swyxTV
    @swyxTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +882

    how on earth does Wired keep finding such articulate experts?! thank you for doing this.

    • @armond3267
      @armond3267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      i know right?!?! it’s very informative! 😅

    • @Brian-tn4cd
      @Brian-tn4cd ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well when you become more popular people with specific jobs/niches will more easily see you and offer help

  • @eirsjofn80
    @eirsjofn80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3942

    Loved this episode and she seems very warm, im sure her patients are really happy to have her as her doctor

    • @Daymickey
      @Daymickey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      See my comment above. I only had one procedure with her and one random monitoring appointment but… I’ll pass on her. Though she’s very smart and qualified for sure.

    • @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep
      @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She lost all credibility when she stated the covid vaccine does not affect fertility. That is a blatant lie, there is no way she can possibly know because no one does yet. People that say whatever they want contrary to reality are dangerous. If 100 women got the vaccine and lost the ability to conceive that is 100 lives in a matter of 2 minutes this women has ruined.

    • @benspiller455
      @benspiller455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@Daymickey you really copy and pasted your own comment several times under other peoples comments? Get a life you joke

    • @RaquellyReacts
      @RaquellyReacts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep ok but has that happened yet? besides she’s the expert here she did study fertility.

    • @jesusislord6545
      @jesusislord6545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Repent to Jesus Christ
      “Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.”
      ‭‭Colossians‬ ‭3:1‬ ‭NIV‬‬
      O

  • @samaranjaykaundal5228
    @samaranjaykaundal5228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2343

    Finally something educational on fertility, thank you doc and wired

    • @Kaalyn_HOW
      @Kaalyn_HOW 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Super recommend Mama Doctor Jones here on YT for anyone else interested in female health and OBGYN :)

    • @billystokes3917
      @billystokes3917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Kaalyn_HOW Yes! Her videos are great!

  • @sandysreviews1386
    @sandysreviews1386 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1845

    Would love another video focused on PCOS and Endo issues. This was extremely informative and should definitely be shown in schools.

    • @HarekaTysiri
      @HarekaTysiri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      yes please

    • @patriciacastro8235
      @patriciacastro8235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I would also love to hear a segment on this issue. I’m a young single Hispanic women who is looking to freeze my eggs in case I choose to have a surrogate or bear a child later in life and these concerns seem to be affecting many people within my community and without the proper information we simply feel lost

    • @samanthal133
      @samanthal133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSS PLEASE!!!! I am 31 and have PCOS, that would be amazing!!!!

    • @ninamoon7398
      @ninamoon7398 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      no because kids aren't trying to get pregnant. If you want to learn more read a book, google, become a specialist in fertility.

    • @eduardaarrais
      @eduardaarrais 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@ninamoon7398 children aren't trying to get pregnant but they have the right to know their body and how it works, being educated never hurt anyone.

  • @sophiarose7163
    @sophiarose7163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1088

    I almost wish she was my doctor! I bet her patients love her, she seems really kind, and she explains things in a wonderful way that is clear and full of information without sounding condescending

  • @kait_herring
    @kait_herring ปีที่แล้ว +125

    I had a miscarriage at almost 17wks and I still felt pregnant for a while. It was really emotional and weird. I wouldn't wish the pain of a miscarriage on anyone.

    • @yulfine1688
      @yulfine1688 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sadly the effects can last many years and often does. I am very sorry for what happened it's devastating.

    • @onionbubs386
      @onionbubs386 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm very sorry for your loss

  • @Omar-wq9dz
    @Omar-wq9dz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +539

    Wired always finds the best people with expertise of different topics. They're the people you wish were your teachers at school

  • @rayesafan9628
    @rayesafan9628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    I love how she said not to avoid stress, but handle stress in a healthy way/have a healthy mind. People are not infertile because they're "Worried". But having emotional/mental illnesses can affect your whole body. There's a difference. It's not that you just need to "Take a bath" or "Go outside" to improve your fertility. It's more of make sure your mind and body are healthy. Sometimes that means seeing a doctor.

  • @dylanedwards1879
    @dylanedwards1879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    I'm not a woman, I'm actually a man. Yet I still learned a lot about reproduction, artificial reproductive medicine and its political and societal issues. We need more women like her in the medical area. Experienced, informative, transparent, and analytical.

    • @Pandaboomina
      @Pandaboomina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      We do they just aren’t listened to or paid as much as their male counterparts

    • @isabellairon8420
      @isabellairon8420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Aren’t, like, 70% of current med students female identifying? Women are for sure interested in and perusing the medical field. As Mina said, they just aren’t afforded the same opportunities as their male counterparts. There is still very much the myth in the medical field that women are only there to be nurses and that they’re “too emotional” for higher up positions (which is obvious bull crap but it’s what they deal with every day so). I’m not saying you hold these opinions, given how supportive you comment was you don’t seem like the type but hey, it’s the internet, I just wanted to add in my two cents

    • @avatr7109
      @avatr7109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      holy shhhhhhh, the replies made it about sexism out of nowhere.
      and...thats the difference between the Dr. Chen in the video and these women.

    • @dylanedwards1879
      @dylanedwards1879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@avatr7109 well done lad

    • @isabellairon8420
      @isabellairon8420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@avatr7109 being a woman means you face sexism and if that is something relevant to the discussion the the original commenter began, why shouldn’t we bring it up? If it wasn’t relevant to what we was saying (and I admit I was stretching it a little bit in my reply) we would bring it up. But nonetheless, why would we just stay silent about real issues we face? Like we aren’t making things up or being over dramatic, this is our lived experience, so why shouldn’t we “make it about sexism”? It’s a part of the system and ignoring it only makes things worse and harder for women to get in equal footing in the field.

  • @818lyyyy
    @818lyyyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +971

    I like how she explains it all. It makes sense and I'm not looking everything up like the others. Thank you!

    • @sophiarose7163
      @sophiarose7163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      If you haven't already, I recommend the biology questions one with Thor (i forget his last name, sorry, but i don't think it was that long ago), he explains things really well and you can tell he really loves his field!

    • @818lyyyy
      @818lyyyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sophiarose7163 Ofc thank you sm!

  • @ericson0504
    @ericson0504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    She’s so comforting and insightful. I love her. Wish we could see more of her.

  • @clairesnelson9961
    @clairesnelson9961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    I hope they bring her back for a part 2. I would love to learn more about PCOS .. after watching this I know I have questions I would love to ask

    • @romantic_hippie
      @romantic_hippie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I worked in infertility as a medical assistant, maybe I can help? I can't give advice but I can help guide you to where to get some answers ☺️

    • @mariusvanc
      @mariusvanc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Issues with PCOS = lose weight, 99% of the time

    • @vvsk4918
      @vvsk4918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@mariusvanc But I know so many skinny women with PCOS. How do you explain losing weight to solve their symptoms if that would make them anorexic?

    • @ReiAnikaAyanami
      @ReiAnikaAyanami 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@mariusvanc that's such a dumb thing to say 😭

    • @CelesticaDemonix
      @CelesticaDemonix ปีที่แล้ว

      ​​@@vvsk4918 the meds they're prescribed do affect their weight usually gaining then dropping.

  • @karla2011384
    @karla2011384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    She seems like an incredible doctor ! Learned so much in such a short amount of time! Thank you! Can you guys have her back??

    • @taylor3950
      @taylor3950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same, ready for Part 2.

    • @crystala7x182
      @crystala7x182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right? I saw that the video was coming to an end and I was thinking, “nooo, this is so interesting and I’m learning so much!” 😆

    • @aquamarine3699
      @aquamarine3699 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@crystala7x182 Agreed! I love her!

  • @purflish1263
    @purflish1263 2 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    It feels illegal to watch this for free because I just learned so many things

    • @lililemmeedititrealquicklilil
      @lililemmeedititrealquicklilil 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh

    • @loverrlee
      @loverrlee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Education should be free! You can learn lots of things for free thanks to TH-cam! Glad you learned a lot. Education is so important. :D

    • @purflish1263
      @purflish1263 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@loverrlee agree!! Education should be freeeeee

    • @Candi_Clown
      @Candi_Clown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@loverrlee but free education could lower the quality of education/teachers sadly

  • @leovenyua
    @leovenyua 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    When she was explained how a pregnancy test turns positive, she just seemed genuinely happy/excited, as if it really did happen. IT MAKES ME WANNA SHED A TEAR

  • @laurac2657
    @laurac2657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Surrogacy shouldn’t be taken lightly. Yes, you’re compensated, but, it’s a lot and it’s risky. You really should only consider it if you’re done having your own kids, because you could be left infertile. And the US has a bad maternal mortality rate for a first world country, so take that into account if you’re here. Additionally, there are requirements - like a history of healthy pregnancies, that you’ve raised a child, have a hearth BMI, etc. All that said, and while I know some who’ve had bad experiences as gestational carriers, it’s one of the most amazing things I’ve ever done.

  • @rujiaolin8388
    @rujiaolin8388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    As a woman who definitely don't what a child, I am still impressed by this gentle, patient and sweet doctor! Everything so well explained and easy to understand. Thanks a lot!

  • @bleh8484
    @bleh8484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    I interned at an infertility clinic and saw most of the processes. It is really an exhaustive and emotional experience for the couple. But when they get positive reports and conceive healthy child, they come back to thank everyone. And I got to learn so much about fertility.
    The video is so great and the doctor explains everything in a simple informative way!!!!!

  • @angko-pe
    @angko-pe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    As a mother of two IVF/ICSI daughters I'm forever grateful for science and fertility specialists!
    Also, when I did the retrieval I was NOT put under. Twice (out of the 4 times I went through it) I did it with little to no pain relief at all because my veins are apparently really hard to find when I'm nervous 😬😬😬 100% do not recommend this.

    • @AirQuotes
      @AirQuotes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      That's just cruel

    • @WouldntULikeToKnow.
      @WouldntULikeToKnow. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yikes!

    • @MsLouisez
      @MsLouisez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ouch!! Brave mumma.

    • @missuschainsaw
      @missuschainsaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      When she said they use a "small needle" to get the eggs, I was like, uhhh you mean the long thing the diameter of a toothbrush?! The doctor showed me that tool right before I got the anesthetic and boy am I glad I got it. I can't even imagine doing it without.

    • @angko-pe
      @angko-pe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@missuschainsaw I particularly did not want to see any of the instruments they where going to use, and by the look on my husband's face when she pulled out the needle I'm glad I didn't 😂 I have not felt such pain before or since. I didn't even let them go for my left ovary because it was so painful.

  • @poikaraves
    @poikaraves 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I love that she brought up that your doctor should not be dismissing your concerns. My previous OBGYN claimed that I was perfectly healthy despite having some abnormal bloodwork, no period for 3 years, and other clear signs of PCOS. Took my results to another doctor for a 2nd opinion and she said "Yup, PCOS." 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @BlameItOnMercury
      @BlameItOnMercury ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What a freaking joke..

    • @sleepyearth
      @sleepyearth ปีที่แล้ว

      Is your previous OBGYN doc a male doc?

  • @yupperzsonson
    @yupperzsonson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I wish she was my OBGYN. I like when she mentioned it is important for your doctor to listen and not dismiss you because you shouldn't be suffering every month 👀

  • @cmad13
    @cmad13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    As someone who does not want children or to ever get pregnant, this was still extremely beneficial and educational. As women, why don’t we learn this stuff at a younger age?!

    • @abigailfitzgerald714
      @abigailfitzgerald714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Because one of the governments main goal is to lower population and the smaller amount of knowledge people have the more control they gain

  • @sleepyotter
    @sleepyotter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I love how she stayed professional even after reading so many "asking for a friend" tags.

  • @bruja_cat
    @bruja_cat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    I really wish we had a teacher like her in school.

  • @deaaqua86
    @deaaqua86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    Me a woman who never wants children watching this video because it's interesting.

    • @ruthannareardon
      @ruthannareardon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      same here *runs to ask Dr. about uterine transplant*

    • @Danay985
      @Danay985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @kashatnick
      @kashatnick 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      the darwin awards trusts the experts

    • @aishwarya5608
      @aishwarya5608 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha same

    • @Akash_158
      @Akash_158 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aishwarya5608 😶‍🌫️

  • @WouldntULikeToKnow.
    @WouldntULikeToKnow. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    It's too bad freezing your eggs is so expensive. It's out of reach financially for many people.

  • @jennaom1
    @jennaom1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I love Dr. Chen! She’s a great doctor and colleague. Make a series with her!

  • @ghadeer.m
    @ghadeer.m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    She’s just amazing, man we should have more of her…

  • @pinkbearx3ily
    @pinkbearx3ily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I hope they do a second video with her. A lot of the women in my family go through menopause extremely early. I have an Aunt that went through it at 35. My mom went thrit at 40. I'm scared that I will end going through it before I even get the chance to have a baby.

    • @NadiaSeesIt
      @NadiaSeesIt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's so stressful - are you able to freeze your eggs by chance? I'm sorry you have to deal with that

    • @yulfine1688
      @yulfine1688 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are many factors that do play into menopause in terms of diet fat content so if youre under the threshold especially you can actually even stop periods, to being too overweight which is much less common but has happened for some women who wanted to have kids. To genetics as well in the family and it's very likely that is the case for your family where it's genetically pass downed.
      Surprisingly, whole human genome studies have showed that SNPs or genes associated with menopause are enriched on chromosomes 13, 19, and 20. Variants located on these chromosomes increase the chance of early menopause and suggest that genetic risk factors are important in determining early onset of menopause.
      This is a small bit of infor and there's not a lot of there that gives any solid answer as they're still trying to full understand what and why this can happen.

  • @Nirmiti.
    @Nirmiti. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I like her. Dr. Chen just screams "professionalism." She explains things in a way that's easy to understand, while not looking down on people. It's very refreshing. Especially, in regards to the general care specialists I've visited.

  • @sliceout9040
    @sliceout9040 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    That explanation regarding covid-19, vaccines and pregnancy was really important. A lot of people unfortunately still need to hear it.

  • @ChikinKween
    @ChikinKween 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I’m fully vaccinated (and people told me not to for fertility reasons lol) and I still got pregnant! Actually found out I was pregnant after being in the ER with Covid.

  • @Eser10ten
    @Eser10ten 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Dr. Chen is my IVF doctor and she's great. I joke with my husband about asking Dr. Chen what the return policy is on our two kids.

  • @doctorricky
    @doctorricky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I really wanna be the first plastic surgeon featured on wired. Let’s go! The reconstructive stuff is so interesting. You feature so many other doctors. There are so many people in your world that have questions for a guy like me 🙏🏻

    • @dragunutyfan22
      @dragunutyfan22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Write them an email!

    • @merge9585
      @merge9585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good luck!

    • @ivamanral989
      @ivamanral989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dr. Youn will win😛

  • @dwidana2574
    @dwidana2574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    She is so passionate and she feels so kind. Love her!

  • @jaypeerogel
    @jaypeerogel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    One of the best expert videos out there. Organized and straightforward.

  • @JosepMBeRo
    @JosepMBeRo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Omg i love these series! It’s so fresh and fun to hear those professionals responding regular questions with such charisma!

  • @Sableow
    @Sableow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I was told I could never get pregnant by my doctor when I was younger. I'm now 22 and a month along. I'm happy. I never thought I'd be lucky enough to have the chance of being a mother.

    • @FC-hj9ub
      @FC-hj9ub 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      A doctor has to be an idiot to tell some one they can "never" get pregnant. Never ever? Nonsense. 22 is very very young, why would he tell you that so young?

    • @aliciafreitag6682
      @aliciafreitag6682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Best of luck! I hope its moving forward nicely!

    • @hello_ree
      @hello_ree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hows it going?

    • @yikesmydude5641
      @yikesmydude5641 ปีที่แล้ว

      hope everything went and is going well!!!

    • @Sableow
      @Sableow ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@yikesmydude5641 Hey my daughter is 3 months old now and thriving

  • @1310g
    @1310g 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I love this woman! she explained every term and answered the questions in a way that's easy to understand

  • @JadeSantoro
    @JadeSantoro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Dr. Chen seems so awesome, I’d want her to be my fertility doctor with how sweet and intelligent she is.

  • @trevorhman12
    @trevorhman12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Honestly have no idea why this recommended but this was a super interesting and educational video. Knew close to nothing about what was talked about but at the end of the video, I now have a much better knowledge of fertility. And she did an amazing job at talking about something that can be complicated but put it in a way that was very easy to understand.

  • @lastdonuts
    @lastdonuts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "Uterine transplants is that really a thing?" I thought for a split second she was actually asking and flashed through so many emotions wow, I kinda want to feel that again ngl

  • @martic5951
    @martic5951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    She seems like a very competent and empathetic Doctor. Great!!

  • @FruitMeate
    @FruitMeate 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Videos like this can make such a huge difference. My wife and I are in our mid 30s and thinking about starting now to try to have kids, and the whole topic of fertility is now a lot less scary and overwhelming after I watched this video. Thank you, Dr. Chen!

  • @morefine746
    @morefine746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    As someone who was born to a 48 year old parents who conceived naturally, I got lucky and got away with being mostly normal!

    • @JenPurple2022
      @JenPurple2022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      U lucky good luck

    • @reptile_loki
      @reptile_loki 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      no you're not normal. you have severe autism and mobility deficit

    • @exclusive_tia2752
      @exclusive_tia2752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@reptile_loki how do you know..? Are you stalking her or something

    • @dezalt
      @dezalt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@reptile_loki Source?

    • @leedlbagginshield8492
      @leedlbagginshield8492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      my great grandmother also has had her last child at 48 and she turned out healthy

  • @maddievictoria4947
    @maddievictoria4947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I absolutely love these videos with different professionals, it's truly great.

  • @jomama2892
    @jomama2892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love how transparent she is. So informative especially since I don’t know much about this topic

  • @BlasterVice264572
    @BlasterVice264572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Respectful and thoughtful advice for everyone. Thanks Dr Serena

  • @ashisheady8841
    @ashisheady8841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    she's the best med explainer I've ever seen. I was in the flow state and that's happened to me only a few times in my whole life.

  • @reiroll5
    @reiroll5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dr. Chen makes me feel so informed and reassured. It felt like a one on one consultation and she was my doctor genuinely concerned about my health. Such a lovely person.

  • @justhuman3424
    @justhuman3424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This is so educational. Thank you for this wired! Hope we get a part two about birth control questions too since there's also this other side of women where we don't wanna get pregnant at all haha

  • @viviansytsui
    @viviansytsui 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Fantastic video! I love the videos with professionals talking about their field.

  • @lett321
    @lett321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    My resepect for these experts who take many years of their lives to study all this and can help people. Wow.

  • @CarrieCole09
    @CarrieCole09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Give this woman a Netflix deal! Great familiar tone and simple answers. Kind and warm and informative! I don't even care about fertility but she's a great watch.

  • @josepastor2505
    @josepastor2505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    100% agree with the geriatric thing (writing this while it's being discussed). My sis had her first at age 36, she's fine, the little lady is fine, everyone did good :)

    • @dlsauthor7553
      @dlsauthor7553 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had my first at 39 and my second at 44!

  • @ryanfikri1882
    @ryanfikri1882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    The fact this type of video gets extremely less views than lots of videos with such least effort out there is outrageous.

    • @cl4074
      @cl4074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree! My guess would be that it’s because not many people are interested in the topic until they’re personally affected (pregnancy, having children or trying to get pregnant).

  • @melgr8s
    @melgr8s ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm 28, married, and want a baby. I'm watching this at almost 3am on my period and almost crying at the miscarriage part. Oh that's got to be hard to lose your baby and still feel like you're carrying them 😭

    • @jessicaalsum
      @jessicaalsum หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is really hard, I’ve had two miscarriages and it stings everytime but it’s worth it I have my two sons now and they are my rainbows and I am so grateful for them

  • @holly289
    @holly289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    love her! this was very educational and i would love to see a part two

  • @brooklynweinstein3740
    @brooklynweinstein3740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She went so fast but gave so much information. Efficient queen.

  • @bec7440
    @bec7440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    With everything happening in the US and laws being made for anyone with a uterus, I happened to see this video and realized how little I actually know about my own body. This helped a lot and I could listen to Dr Serena talk all day.

  • @PrInCeSsSiSsI888
    @PrInCeSsSiSsI888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is really helpful. I'm preparing for the egg-freezing process and there aren't many good resources out there, since the field is evolving so quickly. Hoping we'll get insurance coverage for egg-freezing soon in Massachusetts.

  • @beepboopbeep5369
    @beepboopbeep5369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This was so entertaining and informational! She seems like such a wonderful person and i hope we get another video soon

  • @emilysebastian34
    @emilysebastian34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i want this woman to be my doctor she’s so comfortable and seems so easy to talk to

  • @sarad2083
    @sarad2083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    The video we've all wanted but never asked for 🙌

  • @joma4157
    @joma4157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    All of these info about fertility and we, men, still will never know how hard and painful it is to carry and deliver a baby. Respect to all mothers out there! Love you mum.

  • @danabarakat1816
    @danabarakat1816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I absolutely loved watching her explain! Her and the mortician. Both great! My favorites so far :)

  • @vaibhavkura7458
    @vaibhavkura7458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    14 year old here. just had "the talk" with my parents. they didn't explain things very well. I now understand after Dr. Chen explains

    • @Bibblesupremacy1992
      @Bibblesupremacy1992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Watch Mama doctor jones for better inform about everything

    • @vaibhavkura7458
      @vaibhavkura7458 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Bibblesupremacy1992 yeah I know

    • @tushargupta4262
      @tushargupta4262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You seem Indian. How did your parents actually begin?

    • @vaibhavkura7458
      @vaibhavkura7458 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tushargupta4262 idk what you mean. and yes I am indian

    • @tushargupta4262
      @tushargupta4262 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vaibhavkura7458 I mean how did they actually begin the talk? Was it awkward?

  • @imeneraa7467
    @imeneraa7467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your patients must be the luckiest
    You seem to be amazing
    Thanks for the amount of info in your video.

  • @blacksun3884
    @blacksun3884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    "Hopefully in the future we can get better insurance coverage."
    Here's the issue doc. Insurance is the problem, not the solution. #MedicareForAll

    • @imagitext1342
      @imagitext1342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yup. Of course a doctor would push for more insurance coverage instead of less profit

  • @kayleeismail8067
    @kayleeismail8067 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I actually recently discovered that my friend's mom is the first testtube baby in the Netherlands, funny thing is he didn't even know that about her

  • @hconf
    @hconf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Dr. Chen. You seem lovely. Thanks for the great video and for helping so many individuals and couples!

  • @amyspeers8012
    @amyspeers8012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    In 1995, I was part of a medical study for ovulation at Georgetown University. I was a nurse at the hospital-why I heard about it-and I had had a baby the previous year. For 10 days out of the month, I had to collect my first morning urine and pop it in the freezer. Once a month, I dropped it off. I also had to not use hormonal birth control and had to have a pelvic exam to make sure all my girly bits were ok. I was told the study to to check the viability of an OTC ovulation test. Made $800, which isn’t 1995, was pretty good!

    • @itsstar4171
      @itsstar4171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh cool thanks for helping us ladies now

  • @salsabilaamalia2580
    @salsabilaamalia2580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This video is so informative! I love the way Dr. Chen explains things. Can we have her for another video, please?

  • @juandenz2008
    @juandenz2008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Informative video. Dr Serena seems super knowledgeable, but is also a great communicator !

  • @lydiahalliday6532
    @lydiahalliday6532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I would've liked to ask, does taking oral birth control for many years have any affect on fertility? What about birth control where you skip periods?
    Also, as a 31 year old female, never been pregnant, is there a "cut off" age to getting pregnant? What age are you considered high risk?

    • @elsa2190
      @elsa2190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      No it doesnt affect your fertility. Skipping your periods and being on birth control even increase the chance of getting pregnant since you havent been ovulating so the eggs are ”preserved”. So after you quit birth control and if u would have problems getting pregnant that means you had problem before getting birth control but just that you didnt know

    • @missalicesmiles
      @missalicesmiles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She mentioned 35 and above is considered a "geriatric" pregnancy but not accurate. At the same time, I think those older people i know who got preggers had to go to the doctor every week for monitoring because they were considered "old"

    • @jennr8642
      @jennr8642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just like mens biological clock is at 40. The same is for women because some women start menopause at that age but everyone is different

    • @elisasterken
      @elisasterken 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@elsa2190 This is not true unfortunately. Eggs perish every month, whether or not you ovulate.

    • @elsa2190
      @elsa2190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elisasterkenYeah but u still dont ovulate and get your period which is the reason a lot of people take birth control to not have their period

  • @stephanieghansen
    @stephanieghansen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you doctor! This is my favorite one yet!
    Great job! 👏🏼

  • @auliashiina8646
    @auliashiina8646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is cool! You help a lot just by sharing your knowledge! Would love to visit a good doctor just like you!

  • @taylaajane
    @taylaajane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Found this video by chance and I'm glad I watched it. Learnt a lot

  • @camelia-elenamorlovea174
    @camelia-elenamorlovea174 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So sweet and kind and informative!

  • @shikhasharma2782
    @shikhasharma2782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Please do a part two 😬

  • @jnels2007
    @jnels2007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love this!!! She is so informative and sweet!

  • @ouestlavraivie8702
    @ouestlavraivie8702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these [tech] support videos, the expert are always so professional and sweet.

  • @ghoulnonconforming
    @ghoulnonconforming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very informative, even though I don't plan on having kids 😂
    She definitely knows what she's talking about and I hope she gets more recognition. Love the way she talks, very comfortable to listen to

  • @flaz7752
    @flaz7752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the only person that speaks so clearly that i don't need subtitles

  • @Madesobe
    @Madesobe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love listening to her. Thanks for the insights!

  • @michaelclatecki8157
    @michaelclatecki8157 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for talking about Cleveland clinic. Nice to hear Cleveland mentioning on social media

  • @cesaraugustoojeda2336
    @cesaraugustoojeda2336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg she's so amazing I'm not even interested on this topic but I found it very engaging. What a great doctor!

  • @cheasly6
    @cheasly6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She seems great. Super professional, informative and great attitude

  • @wolfyds
    @wolfyds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I never heard of older sperms causing disabilities. I thought only the sperm count was decreased with age. Good to learn.

    • @Helga-fe5xl
      @Helga-fe5xl ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have noticed that a lot more children with autism seem to have older Dads

    • @lastchanc3stars
      @lastchanc3stars ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@Helga-fe5xlcan second that. My father was 42 when I was born, and I have since been diagnosed with autism 😂

    • @kirsch3
      @kirsch3 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This would explain me. My dad would've been like 50-60 when I was conceived and I'm prettyyy sure I have a few issues 💀

  • @mirrorballfolk5074
    @mirrorballfolk5074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I smiled when i realized how long the video is. Love this kind of info

  • @kimberlyh395
    @kimberlyh395 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the wonderful info! Could watch her all day!