What's Going On? (Girlfriend ASMR)

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  • @your_quiet_hater
    @your_quiet_hater 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Yay New Content :3 I've been watching your content since I was 14 and now I'm 18 as of today thank you for giving me inspiration when I needed it most and for always being there Ms. Mindfulmess I hope you have a wonderful day and I choose Lake :)

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yay New Comment x3 and Happy birthday!!!

    • @borisslavk01nolastname91
      @borisslavk01nolastname91 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      happy bday our friend!

    • @HeroGhost
      @HeroGhost 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Happy Birthday! I hope you have an amazing day!

  • @ThatsMox
    @ThatsMox 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    As someone who has both been deceived by a partner and has once bottled up my depression and wanted to be alone before this is either the BIGGEST gaslight of all time or she’s being extremely honest 😭

  • @4886jk
    @4886jk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    "Oh, good, you were just sad. No, don't misunderstand. I just thought the secret agency I'm not supposed to know that you work for was having trouble with interdimensional pirates again, and they were making you work overtime. ... Of course you don't work for a secret agency. My mistake."

  • @HeroGhost
    @HeroGhost 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This audio was a beautiful mix of so many emotions, and I wanted to hug Mess so hard during this audio. She sounded so worried that the listener wanted to know why she was constantly canceling their plans and spending less time with them.
    Could we please hear more audios like this? It was a nice change to hear a soft voiced girlfriend’s positivity being an act to hide her sadness from the listener.
    You did an absolutely amazing job of conveying how awkward Mess was acting, how confused she was by how the listener was acting, how nervous she was when she opened up about her past, how hard she was trying to keep her emotions in check, how scared she was that they would leave her if she showed them her sadness, how surprised she was that they wanted to help her express her feelings and how much she loves the listener, Mindful!
    The listener and Mess’s dynamic was absolutely beautiful to listen with how gentle they were when she opened up about her past and explained why she had been cancelling their plans so often. Hopefully they can help her feel comfortable sharing her feelings both good and bad with them.
    Just some feedback on this beautiful and wonderfully heartfelt audio, the listener and Mess’s absolutely beautiful dynamic, and a request to hear more audios like this. I hope my feedback is helpful, Mindful!

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you, I appreciate the feedback!! I’ll see what I can do!!!

  • @HeroGhost
    @HeroGhost 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    “I guess I can try, in the name of love.” The worry in Mess’s tone during the ending line really tugged st my heartstrings. Hopefully the listener can help her feel comfortable showing them her sadness. Beautifully heartfelt and very touching audio Mindful! Hope you have a fantastic day, stay safe and well-rested!
    A beautiful and wonderfully heartfelt audio with an important message woven into it that really tugged at my heartstrings. Could we please hear more of this character? It’d be really nice to hear the listener helping Mess learn to be comfortable with showing them her sadness. Hope you’re doing well Mindful!

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you, I hope you’re also doing well!! I’ll see what I can do!!!

  • @gvenz2017
    @gvenz2017 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Oh man….this has been the most relatable audio I’ve heard in a very very long time. It can get exhausting living like this sometimes. Having an overwhelming sense of sadness everyday, feeling like you can’t function most days, but I do it because I can name a handful of people who’d be very sad if I didn’t show up everyday for them. And it sucks because 99% of the time I have no reason to be sad, and although I’m good at hiding it, sometimes there are days where not take sober and you can’t do nothing about it. It’s especially difficult when it shows when you’re out with your friends. I know I should be full of energy when I’m around my friends, but sometimes I feel I don’t have the energy to even speak most days, and it makes me feel bad when everyone’s laughing and talking and I’m just sitting there like a background character just existing. It’s a daily battle, a battle that kicks my ass most of my days. But the bright side of it all is that I’m still here, despite of it all, I’m choosing life everyday just by waking up every morning and tackling the day. Thank you for this audio Mindful, you’re the best. :) 💚

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope you can take time for yourself when needed!!!

  • @JLocke0113
    @JLocke0113 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She has done well surviving this long. She developed tools to help her get through the bad times. But no one ever told her that now she can put down those tools. Now, she can do more than survive.

  • @RavenMMori
    @RavenMMori 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I was worried, It's okay everyone need a little time alone 🥰

  • @EnigmaticTwister
    @EnigmaticTwister 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't usually comment, I'm more of a lurker, but this audio hit really close to home. For most of my life, I felt exactly how Mess was describing herself. I never wanted to be a burden to anyone, and I never ever wanted people to know how I was feeling, and honestly I have not ever heard a better description of depression. I would put up this facade, this mask, whenever I was around anyone else while all my sadness and emptiness was all bottled up and stored away deep down. The only difference between me and this audio is that in my mind, I didn't have anyone who I cared about or who I felt cared about me. So I kept bottling my emotions for years. The bottles started to crack around 2017. I was spending more time alone, as well as starting to cut and have thoughts of unaliving myself on the daily. I even tried a few times to follow through, but the last time a few years ago, when I felt really serious about it, I ended up taking a break and spent almost a year trying to find myself, and who I was and wanted to be. Things started looking up from there. I met my SO, I got my first car, and I started to just be authentic to myself and going to therapy. I relapse every now and then, whenever something triggers my memories of that time. But I'm much better at talking to people about how I feel, as well as dealing with these emotions. This past year marks the first time I was happy, like genuinely happy and not just faking it, since I was like 4-5 years old. And I'm still going strong.
    Anyways, enough of my rambling. It was a fantastic audio, and I hope anyone who reads this has a great day.

  • @chrisleyhe9039
    @chrisleyhe9039 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This poor girl sounds like she's suffering clinical depression. I'm hoping the listener can help her with this. Cool audio Mindful! LOVED IT!!!😊💚👍

  • @vtgalover8213
    @vtgalover8213 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Out of the many audios I listened to for many years this is the only one that made me cry this one is the most relatable audio as it feel as if I was talking to myself

  • @Bluekoala626
    @Bluekoala626 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Stitch wants to know why you keep ducking out. Stitch isn't mad, just confused. :3
    Great audio, Ohana approved.
    (Lake for the win.)

  • @puglife658
    @puglife658 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Has it occurred to her that maybe the reason she’s so sad all the time is because she insists on isolating herself? If that’s all she’s ever known then of course she wouldn’t recognize the reason behind the sadness. And even if that’s not the case, then there’s still the possibility that she feels sad because nothing is happening to make her feel happy.

  • @VoiceofJuany
    @VoiceofJuany 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    omg..... :'( Mindful, you deserve 1000 Oscars, seriously! your work is so emotional.

  • @thirdacct8486
    @thirdacct8486 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Depends on the type of beach, I've walked miles down gravel beaches searching for agates. Rocky beaches also tend to have big boulders 100~ feat out to swim out to, and the view from it is quite nice. Though, the aforementioned beaches I'm talking of are on Lake Superior. Not the ocean.

  • @kydremurr1216
    @kydremurr1216 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I know its not intended but if i were in this situation due to similar situations i would have just told her were breaking up and left i know thats on me but i dont want to go through getting cheated on again

  • @alexgids
    @alexgids 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A delicate situation. It’s hard to balance wanting to help your partner and doing what is best for their needs.

  • @edmundolastra3279
    @edmundolastra3279 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel this one on so many levels... Hard one to sit through but worth the experience. Thank you MM

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for listening!!!

  • @alehaim
    @alehaim 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "I don't need you to be all perfect and happy all of the time you're around for me to love you, I'll love you no matter whether you're happy or sad. You staying away from me all the time because you're sad hurts me more because I want to spend time with you whether you're happy or sad, and I want to be there for your even during the bad times.
    I'll stay by your side even during the hard times, because I love you. No matter of how sad you feel, I'll always be there for you so that you can get back on your feet and feel truly happy not needing to fake it, because I want to see your genuine smiles."

  • @greenonedragon7356
    @greenonedragon7356 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you this was fantastic! I choose lake

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm glad you enjoyed!!!

  • @RavenMMori
    @RavenMMori 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I choose beach
    Have a wonderful day MM! ❤️

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Have a wonderful day as well!!!

  • @ArceusZer035
    @ArceusZer035 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💚
    Beach or Lake? I choose Beach, open air, fresh scent of sea water, sand everywhere, seashells being picked up or stepped on, get a chance to see something interesting wash ashore.

  • @borisslavk01nolastname91
    @borisslavk01nolastname91 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    beach since I like the aesthetic and photos, even though I don't plan on getting on the water or leaving the shade x3
    really glad what I was thinking was not what was happening in the video, the thumbnail sentence made me almost not listen to the audio ;w;
    have a great morning MM ASMR, remember to stay hydrated and to have a nice day🖤🤍

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, you as well!!!

  • @citizen_2402
    @citizen_2402 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    oh i get it, mindfulness, mindfulmess, mind-full-mess

  • @homelander2395
    @homelander2395 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “ you don’t have to hide your emotions from me shared them with me I’ll help you and make you the happiest girl ever I love you :) ❤ ( I choose beach I love the beach 🏝️) amazing audio mindful ❤

  • @TwoEyedMoth
    @TwoEyedMoth 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The beach is always nice and you can typically do a bit more activities at the beach

  • @humor_n
    @humor_n 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lake, sand gets everywhere and it is a pain to clean

  • @rudyflorestheswitchblade4462
    @rudyflorestheswitchblade4462 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    What is going on? Are you seeing someone else???

    • @solidsnake8330
      @solidsnake8330 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My war hungry ass thought your pfp was a AIM-9 SIDEWINDER

    • @Captain_Shadow10
      @Captain_Shadow10 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@solidsnake8330lmao same

    • @no.1.dumbass
      @no.1.dumbass 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@solidsnake8330are you eating weapons my guy?

    • @prussia4428
      @prussia4428 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@no.1.dumbassidk about him but a Aim-7 sparrow sounds delicious rn

    • @cyberdragon3721
      @cyberdragon3721 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@prussia4428 man im so hungry i could eat a whole sherman

  • @thegentlemen6729
    @thegentlemen6729 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well this one certainly hit me in the emotions. Great audio

  • @maskedherophil5405
    @maskedherophil5405 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You don't have to hide your sadness from me. You can always talk to me about anything. As I embrace you in my arms and wipe your tears away. I want to help you regain your happiness and smile, my precious sweetheart.

  • @Tarasoul101
    @Tarasoul101 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well... This was a very unique way I've discovered why I have such repressed emotions.

  • @Storious-j9x
    @Storious-j9x 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well I'm an open book and understanding person

  • @lljw9455
    @lljw9455 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope you’re doing well!! ❤. Great Video !!

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you!! I hope you’re also doing well!!!

  • @ThatsMox
    @ThatsMox 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beach easily

  • @connormcgrath5800
    @connormcgrath5800 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well that’s depressi spaghetti.

  • @bendalymckenna6271
    @bendalymckenna6271 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beach I’m sorry for not spending enough time with you

  • @THERandomGuyMan
    @THERandomGuyMan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bros def snitching to the Fbi

  • @SuperSpike47
    @SuperSpike47 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💜💙🧡🤍

  • @Dystopian_k1ng
    @Dystopian_k1ng 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am I cooked?

  • @JakeSm4sh
    @JakeSm4sh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was here

  • @dmoneyjapan9228
    @dmoneyjapan9228 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really hope everything is ok bae uk i love you very much more than anything else in the world bae uk u can tell me anything 💖😘🐰

  • @powerfulchris07
    @powerfulchris07 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This sounds like a very bad attempt at emotional manipulation

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I didn’t intend it to sound that way, my bad!!

  • @Synthetic94
    @Synthetic94 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man i think shes seeing someone else.

  • @lol-2247
    @lol-2247 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello there 😢

  • @borisslavk01nolastname91
    @borisslavk01nolastname91 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello there :3

  • @pauloackerman2003
    @pauloackerman2003 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Like 😊

  • @Zero_8008
    @Zero_8008 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello 👋 😊

  • @Cdragon6
    @Cdragon6 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello

  • @Sping20
    @Sping20 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beach because i like the sound of the ocean 🏖
    "I understand sweetheart, sometimes you just want a little alone time"
    Great video MindfulMess 🩵

  • @diegocifuentes6794
    @diegocifuentes6794 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢😢😢
    Come here my love 😊 😙😘🫂🫂🫂 we'll get through this together, you dont have hide anymore
    Ty for all your effort mindful 🖤🤍🫂

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for listening!!!

  • @ArmIessIoveseat
    @ArmIessIoveseat 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤍🖤🤍