Thankyou so much... He actually saw the text...I had sent it on fb..because that's where you can see if someone has seen it or not.. The day I asked this request from you.. .was the day he actually texted back later that day saying he's gonna call during his lunch break.. But that call never happened..it's not the first time this has happened..hes a busy man I understand but I invested so much in this..we knew each other a from a long time back...but it was only recently like 2months back he started talking about things like crushes and relationships.. So on his birthday (may )I made him something and told him not to freak out ..guess what happened next.. He freaked out..Jesus he's goshting like no tomorrow..like wtf bruh!! True girl...I totally got your view on snap chat! I hate that too.. 💯♥️💋.. I don't even use it..
Pile 2..... kind of hard to deal with someone who ghosted you when you WERE friends and you work together and see each other daily but they constantly ignore you......
It’s actually not. If you care enough to take the time, you have to put yourself in their shoes. Now once in those shoes if you do not like their perspective then you guys were not really friends to begin with. You either let them go or work with them 💛
Pile 3: Thank you, Nikki~ It's a girl who's already in a relationship, I didn't even send her a request to hit on her, I just wanted to get to know her, and things went real fast all of a sudden. As I have had experience with being an option before, even though I got really hooked, and I am sure it's mutual (it could happen to anyone, to be attracted to someone while in a relationship, to meet them at the wrong time...) - I distanced myself a bit and sure, she got the message. It's so awkward because I do try to talk to her from time to time again, she responds, but then runs away again. We are in an online community together and constantly exchange comments there as well, but it was more frequent before. I am not a person to go for someone who is in a relationship so I stepped back a bit, what the hell am I supposed to do, I don't want to invade her space and influence her decision, yet I really feel like I met someone special :( Honestly, it's up to her, I can't just push myself onto her, it's against my principles, I don't know how long this is going to take though, lol, the push is really strong...
You can always talk to her, even if shes in a relationship this doesnt mean she is anyone’s property and there is nothing wrong with telling someone your feelings. I would make it clear that I’m not expressing myself for any reason other then “i wanted you to know” then i would feel free. This doesnt mean enemies, but it helps you move from being in that limbo. This also lets them know that you are moving on emotionally, clarifying to them that you wont wait around. Basically take back your power. Make your own clarity by stating to them the reality of the situation. It may hurt cause you like her but i think its more painful to sit around and not know, hope that helps ty 💛
@@NikkisTarot Aw, thank you, I think you're absolutely right, it sounds like the mature thing to do, I guess I still need a bit more time but I will definitely keep in mind the advice
Can i request another one? What is they point of view on our connection? +what do they think my opinion is about our connection? Good/bad/ any kind of potential?/ just another option etc etc
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Thankyou so much...
He actually saw the text...I had sent it on fb..because that's where you can see if someone has seen it or not..
The day I asked this request from you.. .was the day he actually texted back later that day saying he's gonna call during his lunch break..
But that call never happened..it's not the first time this has happened..hes a busy man I understand but I invested so much in this..we knew each other a from a long time back...but it was only recently like 2months back he started talking about things like crushes and relationships..
So on his birthday (may )I made him something and told him not to freak out ..guess what happened next..
He freaked out..Jesus he's goshting like no tomorrow..like wtf bruh!!
True girl...I totally got your view on snap chat! I hate that too.. 💯♥️💋.. I don't even use it..
Yw, tysm and I’m happy it resonated 💛
Pile 2..... kind of hard to deal with someone who ghosted you when you WERE friends and you work together and see each other daily but they constantly ignore you......
It’s actually not. If you care enough to take the time, you have to put yourself in their shoes. Now once in those shoes if you do not like their perspective then you guys were not really friends to begin with. You either let them go or work with them 💛
Really resonated thank you!
That’s great to hear, tysm 💛
Pile 3: Thank you, Nikki~
It's a girl who's already in a relationship, I didn't even send her a request to hit on her, I just wanted to get to know her, and things went real fast all of a sudden. As I have had experience with being an option before, even though I got really hooked, and I am sure it's mutual (it could happen to anyone, to be attracted to someone while in a relationship, to meet them at the wrong time...) - I distanced myself a bit and sure, she got the message. It's so awkward because I do try to talk to her from time to time again, she responds, but then runs away again. We are in an online community together and constantly exchange comments there as well, but it was more frequent before.
I am not a person to go for someone who is in a relationship so I stepped back a bit, what the hell am I supposed to do, I don't want to invade her space and influence her decision, yet I really feel like I met someone special :( Honestly, it's up to her, I can't just push myself onto her, it's against my principles, I don't know how long this is going to take though, lol, the push is really strong...
You can always talk to her, even if shes in a relationship this doesnt mean she is anyone’s property and there is nothing wrong with telling someone your feelings. I would make it clear that I’m not expressing myself for any reason other then “i wanted you to know” then i would feel free. This doesnt mean enemies, but it helps you move from being in that limbo. This also lets them know that you are moving on emotionally, clarifying to them that you wont wait around. Basically take back your power. Make your own clarity by stating to them the reality of the situation. It may hurt cause you like her but i think its more painful to sit around and not know, hope that helps ty 💛
@@NikkisTarot Aw, thank you, I think you're absolutely right, it sounds like the mature thing to do, I guess I still need a bit more time but I will definitely keep in mind the advice
100%! Thank you.
Yw, ty Georgie 💛
Pile 1.. 🙃🙃🙃
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Can i request another one?
What is they point of view on our connection? +what do they think my opinion is about our connection?
Good/bad/ any kind of potential?/ just another option etc etc
Sure i can do a “how do they view your connection” read that should answer all of that, ill add it, ty 💛
@@NikkisTarot yes how they view our connection and how do they think I view the connection ?
Please thankyou! ♥️ you're a QUEEN 👑
🙏 t h a n k y o u N i k k i 🙏
this resonated eeeeeeeeeeexactly, and the topic was on point for me 👌✨ .
That’s great to hear, ty 💛