I want to say thank you for showing such a realistic view of motherhood. I have a 2.5 year old son, and honestly I find being a mum so much harder than I anticipated it to be. Don’t get me wrong, being a mum is the best thing to have ever happened to me and I’ve never had so much purpose, but being bombarded with romantic ideas of motherhood on social media doesn’t help me to make it feel like it’s any easier. Your content is so relatable, and honestly makes me feel a lot less lonely as a SAHM ❤
Your talk about the pressures of having to have activities planned, interact and be right next to your little ones at all times is a massive O M G Y E S!!! It took me a while to realise this but, when I think back, of course I remember spending time with my parents but I also remember time spent playing at home and, God forbid, alone, while my Mum was busy doing whatever she needed to. No wonder so many women find motherhood so impossible when we're lead to believe that we can't just crack on with our day and give our little ones a chance to figure out how to entertain themselves. This is a game changer. YES SHAN. 😂
George will calm down once he starts school. You are amazing and such a lovely, pretty very patient mummy. If only all children could have a mummy like you. ❤
I love these videos! I have a 3 year old boy and have watched your videos since 2020, its sooo hard at times isn't it, and I just have 1! You're doing a fab job! 😊 x
Needed this video so much ❤ after a night of no sleep, my 5 month old and me are collapsed on the sofa watching your vlogs. I swear you’re my LO’s Ms. Rachel 😅 thank you!!!
Thank you for sharing your journey. I feel like we all can't thank you enough ❤ My little girl is a very similar age to yours and I've found it so nice videoing my experience as a new time Mum. Even just looking back at videos from a few months ago is insane 😅😂
Love your videos, I have a 4 year old and 6 month old what a challenge it is ! Your videos really do cheer me up. Your doing a brilliant job your such a good mum. I often watch your videos with my 6 month old he finds you so funny he always laughs and smiles at you on the tv. Keep up with the videos you’re amazing ! 😊
I am 4 months postpartum, and this is honestly one of the most relatable TH-cam channels that I watch. Thank you for keeping it real and normalising organised chaos. X
Thank you for your videos, it seems so hard to have two kids but seeing you do it makes me think I will to be able to manage. You are a great mother. 💞💞💞
I feel so guilty for not playing with my son enough even though I'm a full time mam and whenever I'm busy I'm doing stuff for him anyway like prepping food or packing his bag. I constantly see comments saying to enjoy them while they're young and the chores can wait but our parents definitely didn't play with us non-stop and definitely did housework. No wonder we struggle to get it all done when we dont have any time because we're busy with plans and playing haha x
My son is 20 months old, and it's already not fun dressing him... And I can't wait for him to be potty trained, as nappy changes also aren't fun 🤦🏻♀️😂 My son has always watched TV... Whenever he's home it's on (he goes to daycare full time during the week). I'm a single mom and some days that's the only way I stay sane.. I've never felt bad about it, regardless of who says what. He is however very busy and doesn't watch it the whole time, and still wants all my attention 😂
Hi Shan, this vlog was fantastic and made me feel less alone as a parent of an almost 4 year old. And when George told you to stop talking made me giggle and reminds me when my girl tells me to stop singing. Thank you for sharing your life with us x
Really recommend letting them pick their outfits for the next day as part of the bedtime routine, was a game changer for us ! Although now we have the clothes down but she likes to get mummy to do it and then changes her mind halfway through and shouts daddy to do it and back and forth 🫠
@@mumofthreekids3428 literally sameeee!!! My 3 year old daughter ALWAYS runs off as soon as I take one item of clothing off and thinks it’s hilarious when I chase her around the bed. And then when you do grab, that fight to put the clothing actually on them😭😭😭
I heard that too, I think she was crying before she fell asleep. I suppose you can’t really support them to sleep when you have two to look after! Speaking as a mum of just one!
I want to say thank you for showing such a realistic view of motherhood. I have a 2.5 year old son, and honestly I find being a mum so much harder than I anticipated it to be. Don’t get me wrong, being a mum is the best thing to have ever happened to me and I’ve never had so much purpose, but being bombarded with romantic ideas of motherhood on social media doesn’t help me to make it feel like it’s any easier. Your content is so relatable, and honestly makes me feel a lot less lonely as a SAHM ❤
Your talk about the pressures of having to have activities planned, interact and be right next to your little ones at all times is a massive O M G Y E S!!!
It took me a while to realise this but, when I think back, of course I remember spending time with my parents but I also remember time spent playing at home and, God forbid, alone, while my Mum was busy doing whatever she needed to.
No wonder so many women find motherhood so impossible when we're lead to believe that we can't just crack on with our day and give our little ones a chance to figure out how to entertain themselves.
This is a game changer. YES SHAN. 😂
What a lovely mum. You have 2 beautiful children and you are great with the kids. You are so natural. Xx❤❤❤
George will calm down once he starts school. You are amazing and such a lovely, pretty very patient mummy. If only all children could have a mummy like you. ❤
Thank you so much, this honestly means the world 🥹🫶🏼
Molly was enjoying Halle’s lunch. It makes clean up so much easier. 😂❤
I love these videos! I have a 3 year old boy and have watched your videos since 2020, its sooo hard at times isn't it, and I just have 1! You're doing a fab job! 😊 x
What a wonderful mum you are. 🤍🤍
Needed this video so much ❤ after a night of no sleep, my 5 month old and me are collapsed on the sofa watching your vlogs. I swear you’re my LO’s Ms. Rachel 😅 thank you!!!
Thank you for sharing your journey. I feel like we all can't thank you enough ❤ My little girl is a very similar age to yours and I've found it so nice videoing my experience as a new time Mum. Even just looking back at videos from a few months ago is insane 😅😂
Love your videos, I have a 4 year old and 6 month old what a challenge it is ! Your videos really do cheer me up. Your doing a brilliant job your such a good mum. I often watch your videos with my 6 month old he finds you so funny he always laughs and smiles at you on the tv. Keep up with the videos you’re amazing ! 😊
I am 4 months postpartum, and this is honestly one of the most relatable TH-cam channels that I watch. Thank you for keeping it real and normalising organised chaos. X
Thank you so much for watching the vlogs!! I hope you’re doing okay, I know that 4 months pp is a HARD stage, so look after yourself mama ♥️
Hardest job in the world and you are doing great anyone with negative comments are just jealous 😊
Thank you for your videos, it seems so hard to have two kids but seeing you do it makes me think I will to be able to manage. You are a great mother. 💞💞💞
I really loved this video, so relatable in every way! ❤
Smashing it as always!!!
Even if you don’t feel it
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I feel so guilty for not playing with my son enough even though I'm a full time mam and whenever I'm busy I'm doing stuff for him anyway like prepping food or packing his bag. I constantly see comments saying to enjoy them while they're young and the chores can wait but our parents definitely didn't play with us non-stop and definitely did housework. No wonder we struggle to get it all done when we dont have any time because we're busy with plans and playing haha x
I love seeing Molly watching the madness in the kitchen,so hard to get ready with 2 kids,but I sort of miss those days but not the screaming!!
Her name is Halle
@@Suns-x17 I meant the Dog.😊
Oh lol
The straggly hair you said is PP hair loss I had before my son. I think it’s prone to breaking there from putting it behind your ears? ❤️
Where is the denim jacket from? Towards the end of video that outfit has just given me inspo 🤌🏽
It’s from Primark! I got it in a size 18 to be oversized xxx
Love your hair it really suits you. X
Love your hair x
My son is 20 months old, and it's already not fun dressing him... And I can't wait for him to be potty trained, as nappy changes also aren't fun 🤦🏻♀️😂
My son has always watched TV... Whenever he's home it's on (he goes to daycare full time during the week).
I'm a single mom and some days that's the only way I stay sane.. I've never felt bad about it, regardless of who says what.
He is however very busy and doesn't watch it the whole time, and still wants all my attention 😂
Love all of your videos.tour amazing ❤❤❤
I bribe myself everyday with chocolate.😂😂😂
Hi Shan, this vlog was fantastic and made me feel less alone as a parent of an almost 4 year old. And when George told you to stop talking made me giggle and reminds me when my girl tells me to stop singing. Thank you for sharing your life with us x
Aw wow thank you so much for watching, it means so much!! These little ones are pure sass sometimes aren’t they 😅🤪 we’re all in this together 🥹♥️
you havent been a mum if you don't find random socks in coats and jackets we wear lol
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Really recommend letting them pick their outfits for the next day as part of the bedtime routine, was a game changer for us ! Although now we have the clothes down but she likes to get mummy to do it and then changes her mind halfway through and shouts daddy to do it and back and forth 🫠
Trying to get a toddler dressed is sooo hard 😫
It’s a TASK isn’t it 😂
It should be an Olympic sport. My almost 3 year old is a nightmare at the moment. Especially if we have to be somewhere😂
@@mumofthreekids3428 literally sameeee!!! My 3 year old daughter ALWAYS runs off as soon as I take one item of clothing off and thinks it’s hilarious when I chase her around the bed. And then when you do grab, that fight to put the clothing actually on them😭😭😭
Dont want to seem horrible but was that Halle screaming/crying around 5mins 30?
I heard that too, I think she was crying before she fell asleep. I suppose you can’t really support them to sleep when you have two to look after! Speaking as a mum of just one!
You definitely can. I have 4 under 8 and have always supported them to sleep - but it's a personal choice
@shoneyc1771 I have 2 under 3. Same age gap as george and halle. I support to sleep. It's hard but I can't leave my baby to cry it out
Do you have permanent eyelash set glued on
Your son is very spoiled
In what way? As far as I can see, he's not spoilt.
Ok then ☺️
How is he? He’s very loved, not spoilt.
That’s also not an acceptable thing to say to someone about their child.