Ohh, I've got a good one for the ex story. So, I was dating this woman who I already had a pretty toxic on and off relationship with her and when I finally managed to break up with her for good, she stood in front of my door with a knife pressed to her throat, screeching at me to take her back or she would kill herself. Later on was told that when I had planned to visit her (LDR) for a few days, she had planned to lock me up in her basement and even prepared stuff like a makeshift bed and a makeshift toilet. A (former) friend of hers sent me pictures. Luckily I never went to her place after all because I had a bad feeling about it
Crazy boy/girl story: I knew a girl who boasted about how she was physically abusive to her ex. I told her I don't worry because she would never hit me. She indignantly asked why would she not. I told her I would hit her back. She never spoke about being abusive ever again.
i do belive that violence is never a solution but you should be able to defend yourself which is often only possible with violence no one should be a real life damage sponge if they dont want to
My mom and I strongly disagree about this. But I have always had the opinion that, man or woman, you have a right to ensure your own safety. I'm not saying it's a free pass to beat the crap out of someone. But like my bio dad taught me, I will teach my kid. You stand your ground and give 3 warnings to back off. If that doesn't work, try to walk away. If they make a move to keep you there or hit you, then it's fair game. He said we never start a fight, but we will always finish one. 🤣 love my daddy.
I also had a friend who used to say, "I will never hit a woman, but I will slap a bitch." Not at all appropriate, but it still makes me giggle a little bit. 🤣
Storytime kids, gather round. I dated this girl. Had a daughter i got attached to. She threw a yelling, screaming fit at my grandma's birthday party because i dropped the car keys in the grass and couldn't find them. Refused to helped, threw an actual temper tantrum, instead of helping me and her daughter look. I was absolutely mortified.
I’ve had one experience with a crazy partner, and it ended pretty badly for me. When I was younger, I dated a girl from Germany, and unbeknownst to me she had some serious underlying issues. To cut a long story short, she fed me tainted food the evening before I was meant to return back home, and once I recovered; threatened me in various ways to stay with her. I told her point blank that I needed to return home because I had a job to get to, and she decided the only course of action was violence. She cut me twice with a large kitchen knife before I managed to defend myself and get the hell outta dodge. I still bear the scars on my arm and leg from it, and they’re a reminder to always, always make sure that you’re not dating a total psychopath.
@@punkypiesyt4871 No, I didn’t press charges, but only because I left the country the next day. To be fair, I’m not vindictive, so I just forgot about it, and moved on.
I agree, cheating makes no sense to me. Neither does all these “revenge” things, if you’re broken up, why stay stuck on it? Love your videos Kris! Your complements make my day!
I get why people would WANT revenge in those situations, but I don't get why they overdo it so much. Why do illegal things that would have even worse consequences for yourself?
I was dating this girl and she was crazy. I noticed her red flags about a week into the relationship. She kept yelling at other girls when they would talk to me. She even did this with the gay boys. Eventually I had enough and ended it. I had 58 missed calls and 150+ unread messages after a few days. I texted her and she said that she wouldn’t do that stuff again but I knew she would. When I turned her down she spammed me with 110 red flag emojis. Yeah… I blocked her
I didn't think any of my ex's were crazy until I was married, pregnant and living out of state and he still asked my mom if my daughter looked like him... I hadn't even seen him in almost two years at that point. I think that was when my mom finally walked away from him too (she actually "kept him" when we broke up, like treated him better than me and when I met my husband, she let my ex move into her house, into my old room...) they both crazy.
My ex claimed to have DID (as well as other ex-friends during a course of a few months, which made it quite suspicious). She never got it diagnosed by a professional, she's never even brought it up with her psychologist. I tried to be supportive about it and help her as much as I could but it turned out to be very mentally draining - after a few months it left me suicidal. To give you a picture: her alters blamed me for everything, her alters abused me verbally, she was never around when I needed her, but she always had time to be with her DID crew. Together they gaslit me and made me feel guilty about crap that wasn't even my fault. In the end, she cheated on me with one of her DID friends (who was also my friend at the time) right before my eyes when we went out together, because their alters were dating. Note that not single one of them was diagnosed and I don't mean to fakeclaim, but every single one of their actions screamed "fake disorder tiktok". I believed all of them to be legit for MONTHS, hence why I took all their shit and just wanted to end it once it all became too much. She apologized for the sake of apologizing once we broke up for hurting me but not for the crap they all dragged me through. That wa the worst time of my life so far.
Don't worry I'll fake claim for you. This trend of faking DID has gotten super popular in the last few years You can tell they're fake extremely easily, because they don't follow DID at all. For example, *every* one of their alters always all like using the same social media like discord, use the same servers, if they're furries they're all furries, but they'll have different ways of typing but use the exact same verbiage, they'll all have the exact same opinions on everything, and they're also all present at all times including the main personality as if they're consciously taking turns and all watching like it's a TV (basically, not disassociating at all which is the first letter in DID.) They'll all pretty much have the exact same opinions about politics and people. And, they tend to swap constantly. On discord servers I see people swapping between them almost every sentence. And most of all, they weaponize it. And that whole crew thing? They try to pass off multiple different personalities as liking each other and every other alternate personality. Two of these "alters" are even dating according to your claim. So yeah, you might not want to fake claim, but I'll happily do it for you.
Hey hey, I'm actually a part of a diagnosed DID system Yeah, the trend of people faking this disorder is completely disgusting. It stems from repetitive/severe childhood trauma and is the brains trump card to to protect the kid This disorder is very very complicated, I have recently been diagnosed in October 2021, and I started communicating with the others maybe December/January 2021/2022 Yes, it is possible for alters to know each other, build relationships, and even date, some are family, etc. It is very unique, and different for each system There is a certain part we struggle with the most, and it's being in a state called "blurred" (I think?) Well, it's like mixing up everyone and not being able to tell who is actually fronting, it all feels mixed, and it's been stuck like this for a long time, because of constant stress, anxiety, and even though it doesn't sound like I thing, I emotionally traumatize myself everyday and have been for a long time, and I don't remember most of anything even though I'm the host, because it is too emotionally damaging and so others have the memories, or hold certain symptoms, emotions, etc for me/others who cannot handle it Normally, there are certain triggers that get the others to come out, like star, she's a little nonhuman alter, she is 7, she shows more strong signs of autism, she loves unicorns, talks in a higher pitch, she is just easy to pick up on if someone actually knows her Pheonix however, she is like my personal protector, not sure if she's a co host, but she's normally always out for me, always takes control if I situation is too difficult for me or one of the littles If you have any questions, we would love to answer, yet we are still relatively "new" to this, and don't understand it Also I'm very sorry you had to endure that, thats so horrible
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I was dating this girl and she constantly told me that she would kill me if I ever left her. I broke up with her anyway. She came to my house in the middle of the night and carved a letter on my door. It was talking about how if I ever saw her again, she would trap me in her attic and never let me out. A few days later she threw a brick through my window and started yelling at my neighbors and I who were having a party. I in payback pop her tires as she was in my backyard. She could not leave and I called the police she got arrested and is now living out a 3 year sentence in jail. I thank God everyday for still being alive.
@@nativeprimitive769 what?? he was right to do that . Imagine being in a relationship and they threaten to KILL you?? That would be so toxic. You are so brave for breaking up with her I hope this never happens to you again. People like this are psychotic and should be locked up for life
@@ammam386 I agree locked up for life not three years, never count out the possibility that she could carry out the threat out of anger after she is released from prison, I just put two plus two together and I might be right, people are crazy
My ex drove me to the point of questioning my own sanity while we were together. Toward the end he would say weird stuff on the phone like "I'm going to the Christmas party and you can't stop me" while we were talking about the cats on the phone. It always confused me and I didn't realize that he was doing it on purpose to make me seem controlling and unstable to his friends that liked me. He would drive me to the point of hunting him down when I needed actual help with something. Constantly saying he'd be at my house in 5 minutes and lying about where he actually was. When I confronted him about my friend seeing him at the mall with someone else he literally asked "are you gonna believe your boyfriend or a guy who wants to fuck you?" Eventually he broke up with me and told me he was gonna stay with me till after Christmas, so he could at least get his present. About 2 weeks later I met my now husband. During the time I was dating my now husband my ex would show up at my work, sit outside for extended periods of time, or just drive by a few times. Never spoke to me in that time. Just did creepy shit. It went on for several months before I quit and got a job elsewhere. The next time I saw him was last year. It'd been almost 9 yrs since I'd seen him and seeing him in a reflection of the ice cream cooler door just standing behind me at the commissary was weird and honestly should have scared me, but just made me angry. My dad came over and told him off, so I wouldn't have to. Like after all this time he's still willing to do this creepy shit. He looked pretty bad off too. I found out from friends that he'd pretty much lied our entire relationship. He wasn't retired he was dishonorably discharged, he didn't quit Walmart he was fired for stealing, he didn't get tired of working at the pizza store he was fired for stealing, etc. When I found out he worked at UPS I legit had a fear he'd eventually have to deliver something to me at home or at work and I DID NOT want him knowing where I live or work now. Called his work and told them his prior history and even gave them the phone number of the pizza shop owners to confirm with and through a mutual friend found out he was eventually fired. Do I feel bad for probably getting him fired? Sure. Do I feel safer? Absolutely. Would I have let it go if it wasn't for his creepy shit last year? Yup.
Yeah I’ve had the crazy stalker ex… it’s bad news. Who cares about gifts? They’ll just try to use it as a way to act like you “owe” them. The stalking can continue for years. Creepy af, thanks for showcasing your mental instability! 😒
ex story: we were in high school, and were dating (both girls) and she wanted sex, but I wasn't ready for that yet. She said that it was ok, because she was bisexual, she said she could have a boyfriend AND a girl friend, and that she would get what she wanted from someone else. I told her that is NOT what being bi meant, and that I was breaking up with her. At least she wasn't too crazy. She did try to convince me that she was a werewolf, but at least the breakup was civil...
i had to tell the same thing to someone else in my high school and it took her two weeks to understand that you cant have a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time because you are bi.
I used to date this one girl, and at first, she seemed pretty chill in the relationship, and we would call a lot, there was a time, we were on a call, and I apparently said the wrong thing, and she got like really upset, and started saying to was going to 'commit unalive' is what we will call it, this went on for a year and of course, me being a responsible person, I have a life... if I didn't respond to her within 5 minutes, she would start saying stuff like "oh you don't love me" and stuff, we got into many arguments, and then she began to threaten me and started getting her siblings involved in this, but she also wouldn't let me leave her, and she would always come back with like apologies and stuff, and then the same thing always happened, and while we wouldn't date, she would accuse me of cheating, and say I never gave her enough attention, and she got a lot of people to hate me.
Okay; not a crazy ex story of my own. But BOY- it's wild. Kinda really long, so...sorry! :P Context: When I was in middle school, my 6th grade Algebra 1 teacher loved to nickname students. It was all cute and fun; and I actually made two of my best friends because of it. I was called Katniss because I always wore my hair in a single side French braid (still do, to be honest!) and the two guys that sat next to me were Peeta and Gale, because the truly did look like Peeta and Gale from the general book descriptions. After the third week of this, we all started talking outside of class and became close. Gale thought it was funny back then, but both he and I never really called each other the nickname when we weren't joking about it or teasing each other. Peeta LOVED it though, and has never stopped calling me Katniss or Gale, Gale and we have never stopped calling him Peeta even though it has been YEARS. Peeta's various girlfriends weren't okay with him calling me Katniss, so he stopped when we were all together, but sometimes he would slip up and call me it by accident, just out of pure habit. His three-year girlfriend in high school especially did not appreciate our friendship NOR the endearments, and even forced him to not interact with me in public, or to hang out with me unless nearly half the football team (which Peeta was on, and his girlfriend was friends with their girlfriends) was there. So, whenever he saw me in the halls at school, or at a party but he was next to his girlfriend he would whistle like an arrow passing as a way to say hi but really didn't talk to me outside of that. It played to the inside joke, and I understand how some girls can get over something like nicknames or close friendships with other girls, so I don't really blame the guy. I didn't want to step on anyone's toes, so it was enough. We still remained really good friends despite not talking as much as we used too, and Gale or other mutual friends sometimes played messenger for us when Peeta's girlfriend was being more possessive and jealous then normal and wouldn't let me anywhere near him. When it hit senior year and he was considering giving up his free ride to Texas A&M to follow her to MIT, I did what any sensible friend would do. Called him a f*cking idiot and told him not to do it. He had always given up his plans, or what he wanted in the relationship slide for her wants and her needs and her dreams. I never really commented about it- because it was never my place. His relationship, he can throw away his time, energy, and money for this girl and be absolutely whipped if that is what made him happy. But really?!? A full ride scholarship to a college of his dreams that had a one-way ticket to his dream job almost guaranteed upon graduation, gone, POOF! for a girl he could easily make it work with, long distance? I told him, in the end it was his decision, but just so he knew- I was personally against the idea. At the time I was planning on attending Texas A&M as well, so when his girlfriend heard that I told him not to follow her she took this as validation for her suspicion that I have been in love with Peeta for years and have been trying to steal him from her. But instead of talking to him, or even me- about it, like a normal rational human being, she waited for the 'confrontation' to have maximum impact. I don't know what she had originally planned, but this all went down in the most rom-com way possible. YEP. You guessed it, this all happened.... AT OUR SENIOR PROM. Honestly, I thought everything was going fine that night. I was finally getting along with her, Peeta and I could hang out more, I passed every class with a high A, high school was practically over, and my life was about to really begin. Life was good! So, I decided to be wild and kind of started this whole karaoke thing with the DJ (to our admins dismay) to get the party going with some actual good music (it was a dance and not a single Neon Trees song, I don't think so!) and it just continued throughout most of the night. People were trading the mic to others that had song recommendations and it was just a bunch of kids getting crazy. I was almost constantly on stage, duetting with friends that wanted to do it but were scared to do it alone, or just cause the person singing wanted me to continue dancing like an idiot on an elevated stage- I didn't mind, I was having the time of my life. When Peeta wanted to give it a go, I was already on stage, and we just had fun jamming out to Pitbulls' Everything Tonight. Which was, apparently, the final straw. Peeta's girlfriend got on stage halfway through the song, shut off the music, stole the mic from my hands, and then proceeded to accuse Peeta of cheating on her with me in front of the entire Senior class, about half of the schools teaching staff, and even a couple parents. There was nearly 1,000 people in that ball room, watching this on a huge projector and stage. It was quite a performance, and if I hadn't just spent four years in advanced, professional theatre classes with this chick, I wouldn't have been able to see she was acting; tears, runny mascara, voice cracks, the half-crazed "evidence" and "should've known's" of his infidelity. If I wasn't so upset and embarrassed, I would have been impressed. When Peeta tried to get her to calm down, and to talk with him in private, she just straight up started screaming like a banshee into the microphone. I swear this girl did not breath for a solid five minutes- she was just screaming. Then, like a Tasmanian devil, launched herself at me- decked out in six-inch heels and fake acrylic nails to cat fight me. I'm trained in Krav Maga, so I can defend myself pretty well. BUT I was ALSO decked out in heels, and a sleeveless, backless dress that really didn't allow combative movement (if you know what I mean). It was... intense. It all kind of dissolved into a bunch of yelling, and wrestling, and people trying to climb up into the DJ stage and booth to film it on their phones (someone even shouted WORLDSTAR) or break up the fight which Peeta and several others were trying to prevent ME from severely hurting HER. Some sound equipment was thrown through the window (we were on the third floor of a really tall hotel-terrifying), there was glass and bits of ice sculpture everywhere. But to top it all off, when she was finally restrained, and the rest of the senior class was slightly more chill, she asked Peeta, in near hysterics, "Why are you doing this to me?" (can anyone say gaslighting??) To which he replied: "Because you're no Katniss, b*tch." And then hotel security escorted her out, some girlfriends of mine helped me get back to party ready in the bathroom, and Prom resumed. I got high fives from random classmates, free food from the catering staff all night, and was celebrated at every afterparty I hit (went to prom with a group of girls so we just kind of bounced from place to place depending on where someone else in the group wanted to go). Peeta and I are still great friends, and I am happy to say that he is married to a woman who finds the Katniss thing as hilarious as he does, and their three-year-old daughter actually believes that it is my name. :P
As a former crazy ex, it really sucks when your fiancé cheats on you, you forgive him, take him back and then discover that his mistress who took your side originally, is now going to a Christmas in July carnival with him. And then you hear from your little spies (mutual friends) that he is calling you his crazy ex, when you're out here planning your wedding, sending him money for food, because his broke ass is buying tickets for a carnival for him and his "new wifey". But hey... I was just his "crazy ex".
*Craziest Ex Girlfriend Story:* So after arguing for like 5 HOURS about us just being different people and possibly not making it in the future, she just decided that the real problem is that I wanted to have sex with other people which was always an accusation of hers, but this time she mentioned my mother AND sister... I live with my mother again (who is very young and quite beautiful too) and we used to argue a lot so my gf at the time just figured that it was due to the fact that there was a lot of built up sexual tension between us. There was no point talking any sort of sense into her at this point so I just decided to stay silent because I didn't know what to do. She REALLY believed that I wanted to have sexual relations with my mother and sister and went in full detail how I would "do it" if I had the chance for another hour or so. I said nothing for hours and just decided to go to bed because like... WHAT THE FUCK? But not before she yanked me back by the arm and bite my hand like a freaking animal, she even snarled as she did it. This was last year and I still have the bite mark on my hand to prove it. The scars look like something out of a vampire movie. She would punch, slap, scratch and violently grab me as usual and would convince me that since I am a man who practices MMA I should be able to "handle it". That's why watching the JD & AH trial brings up so many sucky memories... Yeah, we are no longer together and moving on was not an issue. She used to be a paramedic too btw 👌
I dated someone for two years when I was 18 and he was 22, he was mentally abusive at first then after a year and a half became physically violent with me, he harmed the two cats we had and threw them in the river close to his apartment (don't worry the cats were alive and sent off to live with someone else), he stalked me multiple times, got me arrested, hung around minors constantly. He still is after seven years of being broken up will continue to message me on FB or Snapchat and won't understand why I don't want to be friends, and will never forgive him. Not to mention he actively preys on minors and any 18 year old. Recently he confessed to "sleeping" with his new girl/victim when she was 14 and he was 26 at the time and it made me violently ill. He's literally in his early 30s now.
I don't know if this is psyco, but it was more like anger issues. I broke up with my boyfriend, lets call him Conrad. Conrad made a joke objectifying adopted children, and being adopted, I took personal offense. I had other reasons for breaking up with him, and had reason to believe he was cheating on me. He was apologetic at first, but later got angry at me because he saw the whole thing as my fault. He eventually started to try and aggravate me, including calling me "cute" when I would glare at him, and trying to hold my hand / hug me. (I do have some touch sensitivity issues) It eventually got to a breaking point, and I asked a friend to talk to him. Apparently he had a plan to make me lash out at him, then kick sweep me in "self defense". I was shooketh to say the least, and I was scared to go places without my friends. Eventually he backed down, but it was a huge scare for me. Evetually some of the people in my grade found out and started to keep an eye out for me, and I got some sympathy from a classmate who was going through a similarly harsh breakup. Moral of the story? Feel free to rely on your friends and keep yourself safe.
So I was with my ex for 4 months, but for all of the last month with him I kept trying to leave because I didn't feel safe and I was out of the relationship emotionally. He wouldn't let me leave and got my brother involved to keep me in the relationship. I ended up "cheating" on him (no one considered it cheating because I was so done with my ex) and it gave me the courage to fully get out of that relationship. I'm glad to say I'm in a better place and with someone that treats me right
My only kinda crazy ex story happened last year. I was dating a girl who was being really shitty to my friends, so I broke up with her and she told me that I couldn't brake up with her because she didn't agree with it. This year, she told everyone in the school that I cheated on her, and for a solid 3 months, I constantly got called a cheater or people would ask if I actually cheated on her, even my friends (yes, the ones that she was being shitty too. But, it was not all of my friends.)
Absolutely the guilt.. so i was dating this guy who cheated over and over and over.. and i kept taking him back, because i used to be an idiot like that. So.. one day i decided to cheat on him before breaking up with him and shownhim how it felt.. never had cheated in my life.. dont know why i thought it would be a good idea... i couldn't fully go through with it, and was so guilty, that i ended up calling him instantly, crying.. told him what i planned.. and he said "thats fair"... i was so crushed. And mad at myself.. more then anything. Never everrrr did it again! (That was around 20 years ago)
Not quite an ex story, but I went on a “date” once with this guy when I was a freshman in high school and he was a sophomore or junior. After that, he kept coming to me again and again, no matter how many times I said no, for another “date” or to be his girlfriend. I eventually moved schools for unrelated reasons. We still texted because I didn’t want to be mean and break contact, but I evaded the topic of meeting up. Found out later that he was harassing a girl I started dating, yelling at her in the halls and stuff that she was “keeping me from him”. I finally broke contact with him after that. EDIT: OMG I COMPLETELY FORGOT ABOUT THE TIME HE TEXTED THAT SAME GIRL FOR PICTURES OF ME YEARS AFTER I BROKE CONTACT WITH HIM!!!
In response to the cheating thing, while some people do feel guilt, the ones who do it again do it for the “thrill”. The like the drama, the attention, and to further manipulate their ‘partner’ by stating either dominance, something along the lines of “I could end it with you like that! So you better do what I like”. It’s crazy to think that humans can be like that, but as the internet revels, there are so many of them. It’s sad really... But this was a GREAT video, and a always love the genuine humor you take in everything. Much love to you and hope you have a wonderful rest of your life beyond what you record.
CAreSs.uno I respect everyone who were involved in this Seriously the best piece that i ve ever seen on TH-cam 💌 Hate off to well all 💟 love your videos...
ok, literally everything aside, Ben & Jerry's half baked in literally the best flavour and no one can tell otherwise cause I've got Kris on my side lol
I really hope that after the Johnny Depp trial, women start to clue in to the fact this behavior is abusive and not ok. Let's get this cleared up for EVERYONE. Don't hit your partner, throw things at your partner, stalk your partner, gaslight your partner, emotionally manipulate your partner, verbally abuse your partner, throw yourself on the hood of your partner's car. The list can go on and on, but I feel the point is clear now. Just get some fucking therapy, people. I don't understand how you don't understand that you are the problem. 🤦♀️
Thank you for this comment, I would like it 1000 times if I could. There is still a problem of ridiculing male IPV victims, even the crazy girlfriend stuff is concidered to be funny, but you can be sure it wouldn't be if the roles were reveresed. I really hope it will change.
I am a girl and I hv NEVER done this. When i hv a breakup I watch my fav movie, hv some ice-cream and snacks, then I just tell my best-friends, and we then start badmouthing my ex. I don't even record anything abt the breakup
9 years ago, I felt guilty for having even one thought of cheating; I didn’t actually follow through with that horrible thought, but that’s how I knew there was nothing there anymore between my ex and I, and we had a mutual breakup.☺️
Facts I was leaving my ex's house literally last week because his dad said I couldn't stay there no more and I was already getting a ride home and then I looked at my boyfriend and I was like how we going to do long distance he would be dead in my face got aggressive and said I don't even want to be with you I don't love you and I haven't for the last 2 days and I was like it doesn't make any sense kept trying to talk to him see if you could change his mind sat there for 30 minutes and silence and didn't give me no answer and I like the best of so what are we done he said yes and kicked me out that night mind you I had nowhere to go that night because I was going to ask if I could stay one more night there because I work the next day and she lives near my job so that night ended up having to go walk around until like 4:00 a.m. in the morning when I saw my friend and she let me sleep at her house until 5:00 in the afternoon which I then had worked then so I went to work work till like 12:00 at night and then had to get a ride all the way 30 minutes away from my job and just the way he ended it like you said there's no need to end relationships that way if you don't want to be with somebody just be like hey I don't like I'm not really as interested as I used to be not say things just to hurt their feelings just cuz you know that will make them leave cuz even after he texted me and asked me if I was okay and told me missed me but if you missed me them why would you break up with me is it that you were confused at the time or is there somebody else or are you not knowing what you really want and I'm pretty young but still had enough to know I can't deal with that
Kris will always be that one person who makes others laugh even if you're having a bad day. Also always wondered about what life would be like having Kris as a girlfriend.
Just in case you don’t want to read the whole thing: My boyfriend pretended who spilt a bottle of juice so he and his “friend” could do the devils tango. Ex Story: So I'm gay (yay) and my boyfriend was a nice guy. One day he brought a supposedly close friend to our place. Suddenly he somehow accidently spilt the juice on the ground. It was a big bottle and I was looking forward to drinking it. So I ran to the store to get another. I came back and all I heard was weird sounds. I opened the door and THEY WERE DOING THE DEVIL'S TANGO ON MY FOCKIN COUCH. I immediately forced them out of the house and on the way he had the audicity to say to me to join them. I blew up and slammed the door in his face. He then twisted the story to all of our close friends and now everyone thinks I'm the villian bc I apparently did the devil's tango with another guy and got mad when he confronted me. THEN HE HAD THE AUDICITY TO SEND ME MESSAGES OF HOW HE MISSES ME. BUT HIS PICS SAY OTHERWISE BC THERE WERE SEVERAL PICS OF HIM KISSING HIS SUPPOSEDLY BEST FRIEND
Being a non-confrontational introvert, ending up in a relationship with a secret psycho is anxiety inducing. I've had a couple buddies that went down that road - geez.
I had a friend like that, she took advantage of my easy-going and introverted nature and strung me along for like nine years until I finally had enough about a year ago
very recently some guy started texting me nonstop, he was a friend of a friend and he js won’t stop messaging me. he will ask like where i live, for photos of me. my friends told me to stop talking to him and i kinda did but he realized it and i am an introvert and don’t like to be mean so i was scared bc he would like make me respond. idk what to do and he’s kinda freaking me out. he seems like the kind of person to be a psycho ex lmao
Crazy(?) ex story: The excuses my ex would come up with were ridiculous. She'd lie to get out of calls, she'd act out, and make up excuses for why she wasn't active on certain days. I'm not sure if you would consider that crazy, but I know that her lashing out and verbally abusing me, along with convincing her other bf she had for a whole year, that I "threatened" to take my life if we broke up- clearly not worth my time if I wasn't worth hers, but yeah, that's... that's the story haha.
Definitely crazy, Not to the same degree as some of the others (here's Jonny bi**h stabbing the door) but she is definitely crazy as all get out. Sorry you had to deal with that 😕
I feel so bad for the guys in these stores, especially where the girlfriend stalked them. I can image they wouldn’t be believed and even if they are, the police are basically useless.
Don’t feel bad for them, they knew those girls were crazy when they started dating them! That’s what attracted them to those chicks in the first place.
@@Ghost-xl5fg No that’s what a grown woman would say. I’ve dated enough men in my life to know some -men- boys just like the crazy chicks, just like some -women- girls like the “bad boys”. When you grow up you aren’t attracted to that bs anymore, you (hopefully) know better than to date people like that.
@@The.Hawaiian.Kingdom Yaeh I can agree with that to an extent. Because also sometimes like the comments on this video, you don’t know they’re crazy until they go psycho on you but I do see what your saying.
@@Ghost-xl5fg Yeah there’s always outliers (those are the scary ones you REALLY need to worry about) but for the most part I’m guessing the people who commented that are either young or don’t have much dating experience. When you get older and have some experience under your belt, you recognize the signs. That one lady who was yelling into the wrong persons ring camera… HER boyfriend FOR SURE knew what she was like ahead of time lol. Take care.
I was dating a girl in high school and she cheated on me. Decided to break up with her. She then proceeded to throw herself down some stairs because she thought I'd take her back if she was injured. Then she used a razor to write the name of the man who she slept with on her leg. P.S. She and I have remained in contact, and she has sought psychological care that has done wonders. We're still friends, and she's a wonderful mother and wife. Just had some undiagnosed mental health issues in high school.
I've got one, and I can describe it relatively short. At some point I found out she had a picture of herself making out with another guy on the profile/dating site that we were both on (seriously how did she think I would not see it?), she ended up claiming it wasn't real and someone must have faked it. Anyway, I ended up breaking up with her. The crazier part: she tried to get back in touch with me a year later, claiming she had my child.....which was a lie. So yeah, I met up with her mother, who told me it wasn't true, that she was in some sort of institution, and never saw/heard anything from her again afterwards.
No crazy ex stories but, when Kris acted out how she would rat herself out to her partner if she cheated. I immediately thought of myself cheating on my first grade spelling test. I had written the word "because" on my desk the day before my test, but then I felt too bad and told my teacher...
Humanity genuinely scare me sometimes. Can’t believe some people actually have to go through this, I feel horrible for them. Hope they end up having better lives afterwards
I lived with my former best friend of 13 years almost ten years ago. After what I discovered to be a landslide of lies and manipulation I decided to go elsewhere. She went insane over this, calling it a divorce like we had been a thing even though I was already dating who is now my fiancee at the time. She threw my stuff out of the house, tried to keep some of it, succeeded in keeping some of it. And then I heard later that she sold a sex toy to a minor, got in trouble for it, and tried to tell the police I was the one who had done it. The kid was old enough to say it wasn't me and I guess that's the reason the law never contacted me over it, I have no idea if that's true. But she also told her daughter I was dead and to this day I still have trust issues because of it all.
Chris is like that one kid in your class that always screams “FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!” Whenever there’s beef going on at the playground 😂 Love you Kris your the best ❤
I got stalked by an ex for several years. She was a walking red flag, living in a halfway house run by this smuggler called Pastor Pete who had pretty recently been released from prison after 15 years. Anyway, I noped right out of there when it clicked how messed up her whole situation was and she ended up getting committed shortly after. She would call me from the hospital every day and I told her that I couldn't deal with her and to stop calling me. Her mom called and told me that she was going to send some bangers to kill me - so I called the police and had her arrested. Eventually, she gets out of the loony bin and started stalking me on the internet. She did it in a really weird way. She would hack into my Facebook account and unblock herself. That was it. So I would have to go to her page and block her - her banner picture was always a message to me. Eventually, the picture was her with a guy who looked exactly like me. I thought it was photoshopped at first, but several photos later and I'm sure it was just my doppelganger. At first it was to tell me that they were dating, then engaged, then married, then divorced, then "please take me back", and then I deleted all of my social media and created new accounts under different names and made sure to never post a picture of myself. I haven't heard from her in a couple of years thankfully.
Crazy ex story: i dated this girl who was abusive (wont get into that) and she at one point after a few months of dating she just ignored all my messages for an extended period of time (like 3 weeks) and i was confused because i hadnt done anything so i kept asking what i had done and apologising for nothing really. Anyway she ended up breaking up with me over text, telling me about how i was such a terrible person and how i never listened to her and that i was so bad that i 'made her straight...' and gererally ripping me to shreds. what really got me though was she then messaged me an hour later saying 'but we can still be friends if you want'.
The thing that I find funny about these things is, cheating on someone isnt against the law, breaking up with someone isnt against the law. But smashing people cars, fences and property is. Like imagine cheating on someone then smashing up their property cause they wont take you back.
I have a recent crazy ex story. So about two and a half months ago, my ex, let's call them Finch, came to my house and cussed out my parents in my front yard after I had just come out to my parents as trans and pansexual (he/him). They then went home after we called the police on them, cuz we thought they had a g*n, and tried to k*ll them self. My mom sent the police over there for a wellness check and Finch spent a week in the hospital. We then got back together because they continued to manipulate me. The manipulation got worse and I told them we needed to take a break for a bit. Then my parents wanted me to take Finch off of the family tracking app I have in my phone and I warned Finch before I did so they didn't think it was cuz I hated them. They freaked out and threatened me with blackmail they were gonna send to my mom if I took them off. I told my parents about it, taking away the power of said blackmail, took Finch off the tracking app and told them I'd call the police if it got leaked. They continued to freak out and try to manipulate me more but it was already too late for that because I could already see through the lies. I blocked them on almost everything and told them our relationship was over. Few days later Finch goes on social media and tells their followers that I'm ghosting them after a two year relationship (it was a year and a half) and that I told them to k*ll them self (which I didn't and would never do). So yeah. They've still tried to contact me a few times, like yesterday, but I want to be as far away from that situation as possible. So yeah, super recent, still ongoing, crazy ex story 👍🏻
A small update. They tried to email me and at one point they made it sounds like they weren't gonna be alive in the morning cuz they'd done something to hurt them self. So I was able to convince them to call the police on them self, and they told me the next morning that they were in the hospital again. They started trying to talk to me again through email and whenever I responded, I made sure to be extremely standoffish and defensive and give ZERO signs that I wanted to get back with them or even be friends with them. After a few days of them trying to get on my good side, they confronted me about said coldness, saying they didn't feel like "my heart wanted them anymore", to which I responded that I thought I'd already made that VERY clear. They proceeded to freak out again, saying if there wasn't a chance for us to be together again, then there was no reason for them to be alive, that they weren't messaging me ever again and didn't care if I thought they were alive or de*d (which I do care but I digress). I didn't respond to that cuz I wasn't gonna feed into the crazy. I didn't get anything else from them till almost noon the next day when their mom emailed me. She said "I'm not sure what kind of sick game you've been playing, but I want [their] stuff back. The games are over, I hope you're happy". She was speaking as though the "game" that was being played was mine to begin with, when I have done nothing but try to help Finch. I marked the email as spam and I haven't heard from them since. I'm hoping that this is the end of it but I'll give updates if the crazy continues
That copying of keys is a serious fear I've had (especially after a break-up where the other person spent half the night pounding on my door and screaming to take them back). That's where smart locks are nice since you can issue and remove access individually, plus get notified if someone enters your home when you weren't expecting them to. I consider physical keys to be a backup and only for those on the lease or the deed.
I still know the code to my ex's place even 5 years later... He cheated on me but I let it go and just broke up with him (he was alittle on the abusive jealous side anyways) but anytime I came over to check to see if I left this or that he was there never let myself in... Just wrong... Now again after 5 years he gets his family to check to see if I'm doing well and to know I always have a place to stay... It's fucked up... I'm happily married now so yeah....
The only toxicity I ever had involvement with was in my 1st year at university, when a girl from the 3rd year invited me to be part of her pantomime, in April 🤷. Which was ambitious for our course, because my now co-manager and I couldn't achieve that at uni. This girl, we'll call her T quickly changed relationships from someone in 2nd year (a mutual friend) to me, then left me about a month after the pantomime was finished. "I feel like I need to work on myself" was how the general conversation of that phone call went, but by this point I had had enough of the messy eating, the messy makeup over her bedroom, the jealousy of me getting on well with people SHE introduced me to. She also alienated herself, purposefully, with the friends she introduced me to. One night was movie night at my place. Awesome, very much looking forward to it, all mutual friends, getting to know each other over a few movies and jacket/baked potatoes and trimmings. One friend explained to the other about how T often behaves, and T walks home! Leaving me with the mutual friends! We still made it a great night, but she made it that little bit more awkward. Not a great first post-school GF, but a lesson of what love does not look like. The worst aftermath I have seen from toxicity was the year before when one of my friends from FedEx, we'll call him S, met a hot girl, moved into a rental house with her, got great "Devil's tango" time with her - while other friends were in the house! Told him he worked and spent more with us than spending time with her. (Fedex wasn't/isn't a normal 9-5, it's sifted and dependant on when flights/shipments arrive). The final straw was when she loitered outside the Fedex warehouse for hours until security asked her what she wanted, she asks for S, who has to leave whatever he's doing - On an assembly line which never stops - to go tell his GF she can't stay there, which puts her into a frenzy, which leads to our manager having to come out and deal with her. 😫 Anyway S did split from her the year I went to Uni and I caught up with him the following August at another friends wedding to exchange stories about T, both of us questioning whether this was the reason for higher abuse/rape cases, and whether we would ever marry, because how could us "good guys" trust another girl to keep us good? Fast forward to today and I'm with a woman who has 2 kids, not a girl of high unattainable standards...which explains a lot.
My best friends ex smashed his car windows and then drove it into a bay. She had convinced herself he tried to poison her with a Tim Hortons coffee because she found “a little black bit” inside it (aka a coffee grain). I’m pretty sure she had undiagnosed schizophrenia tbh.
8:11 I wasn't in the truck for this thankfully but my (now ex) step dad chased my mom around our city at 3 in the morning because he found out that she filed for divorce and a restraining order a few days prior. She still has PTSD from it 😔 Thankfully no one was physically hurt and he is now apprehended and we are safe, but the damage has been done.
Two part story. My ex admitted to me had cheated after 2 years together (on and off) I was broken but immediately broke up with him. A month later he's begging me to take him back. Saying he didn't actually cheat. Just wanted a break but didn't want to hurt my feelings by telling me that. Uumm so apparently cheating didn't hurt my feelings. BTW he actually didn't cheat. But I agreed to get back together. We planned a sexy first night back together. I get to his house and he's set go. Practically naked already. I calmly walk over and hand him a piece of paper and walked out. Paper said "now we can have an infinite break"
@Tom Nahhhhh, what they did was badass, clear conscience or not. Like, at least they can say they broke up with him, and broke up with him in a way in which they would never feel the need to go back.
My crazy abusive ex decided whilst on meth, to try to tell everyone I'm a prostitute and abusive to my kids, and a meth addict. He set me up and got my kids taken from me, after beating me with a metal baseball bat in front of said kids. 😣 Still dealing with the aftermath actually. Anyway, love you Kris, your content, and your channel. You bring light to my fucked up life ❤️
You are my child now. I am adopting you. You are most likely much older then me, but if something like this were to happen again, I will appear like a ghost and make them disappear into the void. No one deserves to go through this. You are no exception. You are most likely a wonderful person, and there is someone out there who will move mountains for you. But until then, just know that you are wanted, and that everything will get better - I promise.
Well the night before I finally broke up with my ex, we were having another hour long chat about the usual stuff. I wasn’t doing the do with him (birth control made me lose any motivation for it), he would constantly accuse me of cheating on him with other dudes ( I could never do something like that, especially to the guys he accused me on cheating on him with), and plenty of other things. I was tired of it. Eventually it got so heated he told me that even if we were married, he would MAKE me love him again. As if I’d marry him when I didn’t love him! He also sprouted other nonsense like that before I just turned off my phone. At one point he told me that I took over the place of his dead dog. Yes, you heard that right. Apparently I gave him the same comfort that a deceased pet had once given him. So weird to be compared to a dog like that. But in a final attempt for me to talk to him again after the breakup, he logged into my PS4 account. We had play-shared some games, so my account was already logged into his system. He went in while I was playing a game with my best friend (that’s how I know he did it) and changed my settings. He set it to 2 step verification and I hadn’t put my phone number in my account. He had locked me out of my account on a Friday night. I couldn’t reopen my account until Tuesday because of a holiday. I assume he put in his phone number so that I had to talk to him. I knew it was him because the only other person with my account info was my best friend and we were trying to play a game that night together online. All that just for me to talk to him
This crazy ex story happened to my best friend when we were in high school. My friend broke up with her boyfriend because he was cheating on her and had been for a while. After the break up which turned into him standing outside her house screaming for over two hours. The cops were called and he finally left. Then he started sending my friend “gifts” in the mail. Like stuffed animals that were cut up or burned. And other things that were extremely disturbing. My friend finally had to file a restraining order. Thankfully when she went to college the guy never followed her. But it was a real worry that he might keep stalking her. I learned later that the guy was serving a prison sentence for doing this same thing to another girl.
I've been watching your channel for about 3 months now and you have been the highlight Everytime I go on TH-cam. As common as it may sound, you are a very relatable person and through your skits and videos, I see a little of myself. I'm a huge fan and I'm happy you have found a way to express yourself through your art. I'm still trying to figure out how to express myself through a common platform, so thank you for being you.
I definitely have the craziest ex story - can’t go into much detail because of court proceedings: Rich girl, met at rich school, she joined a cult, made a bomb scare that shut down campus, got committed, got out, FBI got involved in multiple states, she’s now facing charges for DV (against me), assaulted an officer, and has an arrest warrant for making death threats against me. Oh, side note - she got into heroin after I ended things and now has a kid from a homeless guy. She lives in a beach house in a very wealthy area.
Just wanna say, in light of the very public court proceedings of certain celebs recently, that I'm very glad you had the courage to report the abuse you endured. I was blessed to be raised by a fantastic mother who taught me that just because "society" says something doesn't mean it's right or true. I know that society says men can't be victims of DV, that women can't be abusers, and I know that that's a bunch of bullshit because DV isn't gender-specific. But I know that it is much harder for men to report being abused because "society" tells everyone not to believe them, which truly breaks my heart. I hope this can change and that our society as a whole will end the narrative of DV means "man abuses woman" and start seeing the truth which is DV means "abuser abuses victim" Anyway, sorry for the little rant, just feeling things heavily today and felt really touched to see a DV victim say their abuser was/is a female and not be immediately attacked or called a liar in the replies. Sorry if this doesn't make much sense, it's really hard to find words to express what I mean correctly. My neurodivergent brain struggles with articulating things I feel strongly about lol
@@amylynnwalker7726 thank you for the kind words! Watching Depp v Heard certainly gave me a morale boost! Unfortunately, this has been in the court system for 2 years at this point so my reporting it was not influenced by the Depp v Heard trial. I do hope that the culture has started to shift, though! It's crazy the lack of support for male victims. Thankfully I've kept records of everything and photos/recordings/videos so I couldn't be ignored by the magistrate/police. Once I got a court date, there was no support. They gave me a phone number to a 'victim support' program which flatly told me they only support women. They still ask me for money at least once a month to 'support women'. They still send me their 'believe all women' newsletters. One thing I was glad to see in the Depp v Heard trial was the emphasis on verbal/emotional abuse. From my experience, verbal/emotional abuse is much more common than physical abuse from female abusers and honestly I think verbal/emotional abuse is much more effective against men than physical abuse. When I was physically attacked, it was surreal - I knew I could defend myself (and did) without physically attacking her - just wall up and let her swing away and so it almost felt ridiculous to press charges against her. It took 3 of these incidents along with destruction of some very valuable property and the suggestion of *her* mother that I press charges for me to finally do it. The psychological effects of the gaslighting and verbal/emotional abuse and threats are the parts I'm still dealing with. I went from being a confident, take-charge kind of person to really being in a shell and didn't really realize it. The weird thing is when you finally start to get through a situation like this and you look logically at all the things you could be upset with but at the end of the day you just want the person to get better and to be able to move on yourself.
Here to be an outlier. I haven't been a crazy ex as I've never dated anybody, but when my crush cut contact with me, I went crazy. To be honest with you, I cyber stalked her for like 5-6 months and I was very obsessive. However, when I turn 18 in less than 6 months, I plan to tell a doctor so I can get help.
Why are you choosing to make her feel scared? Why do you want to be a trauma in her life? Why do you want to take away her sense of trust? Sounds like you should stay away from relationships.
@@katiedavis2046 I'm trying to get help now, but I've been put on a waiting list that's months long, so I'm not sure when I can get it. And honestly I think I've improved since then. It's been almost 3 years since the incident and I've done some self help stuff and ever since becoming aware of my issues (I wasn't aware when I stalked her), I'm so much better at controlling myself and my emotions, and even when I feel really bad emotionally, I internalise it and try to communicate, instead of lash out. I still definitely have things to work on, like how to not feel such negative emotions over certain things and how to calm myself down, but I'm hoping I can do this when I finally get help. And I honestly I wasn't thinking properly. I didn't think about how it was scaring her, fucking up her sense of trust, etc. I was very selfish and only thought of myself and how I felt at the time, not her. I thought she was the reason I was experiencing mood swings and feeling absolutely terrible, so I guess I didn't really care about her feelings anyway, but I think I've thankfully grown since then and realised the errors of my ways. I'm actually surprised I only made this comment 2 months ago because for a while now I've kind of just wanted to forget about the whole situation and move on, as I don't feel like it represents me anymore and I know I'm probably not that type of person anymore, so I'm surprised I actually stated this on the internet.
@@wolfzmusic9706 i know this is an old comment but don’t let that other person villainize you for wanting to reach out, you never crossed any moral lines and a lot of people don’t reach out for help before that line gets crossed because they see nothing wrong with their actions. you aren’t a monster because the good in you saw what you did wrong. good people aren’t happy with themselves when they behave like that. i hope you’re doing better:)
I may have a good story. There was this guy, back at my school. Our relationship didn't last long but he got kinda obsessed after it. He even asked me for a stroke of my hair so he "can take it to his grave" After he started to involve my mom, by begging her to convince me to take him back, I finally broke of the contact.
A long time ago I had my first Valentine's day with a partner. My gift to her was her favourite food and some flowers plus a trip to the movies later that night and her gift to me was a cute little card that had everything I was doing wrong as a boyfriend written inside. This was from my ex who cheated on me during my birthday and stole all my friends labeling me the toxic ex. Even went as far as to get the school involved with our drama so I would suffer more my junior year. However she dropped out of school, lost all her friends after they found out how shitty she really was, and even got fired from her dream job cause she was terrible at it. Needless to say I got some kind of justice in the end and I have a loving girlfriend now who I have zero problems with and I'm finally happy
Just to everyone who is suffering from psycho ex's, I admire you. Why, you might ask? Well, first off, you had to deal with that sucker for quite a while, seeing that you were in a relationship with them, and then you had the strength to cut it off and build yourself back up. Maybe you're still building yourself up, and maybe you don't know where to begin just yet, but know that you are strong, because if I was ever in a relationship like that, I'd be afraid to break up simply because of my fear of being alone. You have to be brave to separate yourself from a hurtful person, and the fact that you all have done that, and have continued to fight back against them even though they desperately try to find ways to get back with you is almost like a heroic trait to me. I admire you all, and I hope you have a fantastic rest of your day. Trust me, life will get better as long as you have at least one person standing behind you.
Once I had a kind of bad ex experience. Everyday my ex would take pictures of me in class without me knowing, and then sending them to my sister and I. He also started following me everywhere. Eventually I got a school counsler to help me, and he was expelled.😅
Holy shit ok I get that they would be upset but following you everywhere!? Dang if i was a ex boyfriend I would just be friends with the person that broke up with me or the person I broke up with… Just have a friend who’s good at kickin’ ass (like me! Ok sure we aren’t friends but still) probably an Australian or Scottish dude (once again like me) Have a wonderful day ( or night )
Hey Kris! I always do a happy dance when I see a new video posted by you - makes my day! ☺️ *CRAZY EX STORY* : I had to get a restraining order against a guy I dated back in college. He seemed like a genuinely nice guy and we had plenty of memorable times during our relationship....until I found out that he was behind my last breakup. I was furious because I was happily engaged in that previous relationship. I won't go into details about it but holy hell was I hurting so much to the point where I refused to come out of my room or eat for several days. Anyway, I broke up with him right away, and he did *NOT* take it well. What initially was just multiple attempts to get me to answer his calls and texts became WATCHING ME THROUGH MY APARTMENT WINDOWS - yes.....WINDOWS - EVERY. F*ING. NIGHT. WHILE KEEPING HIMSELF HIDDEN IN THE WOODS JUST BEHIND MY APARTMENT COMPLEX. Every night for several hours while I had no idea, he saw me cooking, cleaning, studying, dressing, and sleeping. Eventually he showed up at my door with a gun in his hand and threatened to shoot himself right then and there if I didn't take him back. I calmly told him, "Alright. Wait here and let me finish my call with my lab partner and we'll talk." He fell for it. I actually called my neighbor for help and then came back to the door with pepper spray and nailed him just as my neighbor was stepping out of her apartment door. She called the cops and took his gun away when she realized what was going on and did not let him run off. Cops arrived within minutes. I have been super picky with dating since then. And this was about 5 years ago.
@@kallmekris Thank you, Kris!! The best love I have found is my own self-love - something you have instilled in me in all your awesome videos! Your compliments really are genuine and uplifting to me. You really know how to touch the hearts of people who need it most! I hope you find the right guy who will give you the same love that you give us - and more! 🤗💚
Oh man. I have so many crazy ex stories. I don't know what it is but I always seemed to attract really terrible people. I've had 3 major stalkers. But I'll tell the story about one of them. When I was 16 years old, I met a guy who was in the army. He seemed so sweet, and was always saying the kindest things and bringing gifts over not just for me, but for my mom, aunt and sister as well (I grew up with my mom and aunt because my dad wasn't in my life yet). And they all seemed to really like him. Well, he told us he was 18. And as the age of consent was 16 where I lived and he wasn't pressuring me, just being very nice, my mom was okay with us dating. Well, it got to the point where we started fooling around, not sex, just doing other intimate things. And he left his wallet at our house one time. But I also always had friends over at my house, so my mom opened the wallet to see who it belonged to. She found an ID, and sure enough.... It was the army guy's. Military ID. In which stated he was 26 years old. TWENTY SIX. Yeah... It took my mom every ounce of control she had to not beat the crap out of him. She tried to tell the cops, nothing happened. They talked to me, never went anywhere with it. Of course. So, a few weeks later, I tell a few friends I'm going to go to the park. I walk there. I used to go sit on the swings to clear my head. I didn't know he had been parked at the park and was watching me. Not until a couple hours later, when I started walking back home. He pulled up next to me in a black car I saw at the park, and asked me if I needed a ride back. I told him I would call the cops if he didn't leave immediately. I called my aunt to come get me, and she did. Things like this kept happening. I'd see him at Walmart, or our Kroger store. Not buying anything. Just showing up at the area of the store I happened to be shipping in. With my family. I'd see him driving around downtown when no one knew I was going to be there except the people I was with. He'd end up everywhere I went. And then I thought I was rid of him for a long time. Until I was 19 and got a phone call from an unknown number. It was him. Calling from jail. He needed someone to come pick him up. He was in jail because a 16 year old girl accused him of R. So at this point he was 29. He tried to tell me that he refused to have sex with her, and she liked him so much that she wanted to get him into trouble because he wouldn't do it. Yeah..... Okay. I didn't believe him for a second. Told him if he ever called me again, I would call the cops. Blocked him, again. I had been blocking every cellular attempt he made to contact me for years. That was the last I heard from him, except one of his friends later told me he was dishonorably discharged for what he did. Apparently I was not the first. And he used to tell his friends that all us 16 year old girls were 18-20. It took a long time before anyone knew the truth or believed us.
I suddenly fell sick today and was lying in bed the whole day with 103°F fever and my inability to walk because of the weakness and dizziness, Then Kris uploaded and it made my day so much better. Thank you so much Kris for enlightening people's lives
I had an ex named Danica and we dated for around 2 years and 7 months I loved her to bits and she was my first proper kiss. Things were starting to get bored of me and she dated another guy so i would break up with her she succeeded and i was devastated for a long time know i hate her to bits
Never had an actual ex before. Been in one long lasting relationship since last March. Never made it past the talking stages before that. When I was in elementary school though, a girl in my class would leave notes about how she had “loved” me from a distance for years really creeped me out. Especially as a 9 year old kid.
Girl, you are my role model. Sometimes I have the most challenging moments in life, but you always give me and everyone else out there compliments. I love ya Kmk. you are fantastic! keep doing what you're doing and don't ever stop. GO, QUEEN
Here’s my crazy Ex story well I have two 1: So my ex forced me to be with her (I’m bisexual but I’ve dated mostly girls) and a week into the relationship I broke up with her and she shouted at me for an hour until I broke into tears and when I was home she spam called me. 2: This was in the relationship, so if I accidentally hurt my gf (I’m clumsy) she would grab something at chase me with whatever was in her hand it was the same as if I were to walk of to go say hi to friends.We are still friends and I forgive her since we were 13
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Ohh, I've got a good one for the ex story.
So, I was dating this woman who I already had a pretty toxic on and off relationship with her and when I finally managed to break up with her for good, she stood in front of my door with a knife pressed to her throat, screeching at me to take her back or she would kill herself. Later on was told that when I had planned to visit her (LDR) for a few days, she had planned to lock me up in her basement and even prepared stuff like a makeshift bed and a makeshift toilet. A (former) friend of hers sent me pictures. Luckily I never went to her place after all because I had a bad feeling about it
OMG you are very lucky that you didn't go
Oh my god. That's some serial killer true crime shit right there. Dodged a bullet there.
Again, this is why i no longer date women
@@kenophobicboyo9387 leaves more for me, all good ;)
She was gonna kill you bro!! Omg!!!
“YOU EAT MY FRIES, I EAT YOUR SOUL”
Sounds like a fair trade to me.
Yessssseessssss
Absolutely agree, nobody messes with my food, that's for sure.
Same
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Crazy boy/girl story:
I knew a girl who boasted about how she was physically abusive to her ex. I told her I don't worry because she would never hit me. She indignantly asked why would she not. I told her I would hit her back. She never spoke about being abusive ever again.
Good on you.
i do belive that violence is never a solution
but you should be able to defend yourself which is often only possible with violence
no one should be a real life damage sponge if they dont want to
My mom and I strongly disagree about this. But I have always had the opinion that, man or woman, you have a right to ensure your own safety. I'm not saying it's a free pass to beat the crap out of someone. But like my bio dad taught me, I will teach my kid. You stand your ground and give 3 warnings to back off. If that doesn't work, try to walk away. If they make a move to keep you there or hit you, then it's fair game. He said we never start a fight, but we will always finish one. 🤣 love my daddy.
I also had a friend who used to say, "I will never hit a woman, but I will slap a bitch." Not at all appropriate, but it still makes me giggle a little bit. 🤣
@@sierrafairbanks7776 fuck yea😝😜
Storytime kids, gather round. I dated this girl. Had a daughter i got attached to. She threw a yelling, screaming fit at my grandma's birthday party because i dropped the car keys in the grass and couldn't find them. Refused to helped, threw an actual temper tantrum, instead of helping me and her daughter look. I was absolutely mortified.
😮
Sorry but girl is a spoiled brat
I’ve had one experience with a crazy partner, and it ended pretty badly for me. When I was younger, I dated a girl from Germany, and unbeknownst to me she had some serious underlying issues. To cut a long story short, she fed me tainted food the evening before I was meant to return back home, and once I recovered; threatened me in various ways to stay with her. I told her point blank that I needed to return home because I had a job to get to, and she decided the only course of action was violence. She cut me twice with a large kitchen knife before I managed to defend myself and get the hell outta dodge. I still bear the scars on my arm and leg from it, and they’re a reminder to always, always make sure that you’re not dating a total psychopath.
A total psychopath. But if she/he is a little psycho, its ok.
Dude! That’s rough! And yours is the only crazy ex story I’ve found so far.,.
Pin this one
Did she get arrested?
@@punkypiesyt4871 No, I didn’t press charges, but only because I left the country the next day. To be fair, I’m not vindictive, so I just forgot about it, and moved on.
Kris is just such a genuinely nice person. Her compliments always make me smile.
@doja саt shorts 🅥 WHATS HERE OMG THATS ANNOYING
I know right
Mhm
Me too I wish she was my mom
Agreed
I agree, cheating makes no sense to me. Neither does all these “revenge” things, if you’re broken up, why stay stuck on it? Love your videos Kris! Your complements make my day!
Like don’t cheat, sit down and talk to the person and explain why it doesn’t work.
I get why people would WANT revenge in those situations, but I don't get why they overdo it so much. Why do illegal things that would have even worse consequences for yourself?
I am 41 yrs old married twice, every woman I was with cheated on me, including the woman I had 6 children with.
@@donaldmccombs5566 that sounds terrible…. 😣 i feel sorry for you
I was dating this girl and she was crazy. I noticed her red flags about a week into the relationship. She kept yelling at other girls when they would talk to me. She even did this with the gay boys. Eventually I had enough and ended it. I had 58 missed calls and 150+ unread messages after a few days. I texted her and she said that she wouldn’t do that stuff again but I knew she would. When I turned her down she spammed me with 110 red flag emojis. Yeah… I blocked her
Yikes
Holy shi- wow, how are people so crazy!?
Gay boys.... I MEAN-💀
i’m so sorry you went through that, just know that she’s 100% projecting and all those flags belong to her, not you 🤍
I didn't think any of my ex's were crazy until I was married, pregnant and living out of state and he still asked my mom if my daughter looked like him... I hadn't even seen him in almost two years at that point. I think that was when my mom finally walked away from him too (she actually "kept him" when we broke up, like treated him better than me and when I met my husband, she let my ex move into her house, into my old room...) they both crazy.
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Yikes that’s so weird dude
My ex claimed to have DID (as well as other ex-friends during a course of a few months, which made it quite suspicious). She never got it diagnosed by a professional, she's never even brought it up with her psychologist. I tried to be supportive about it and help her as much as I could but it turned out to be very mentally draining - after a few months it left me suicidal. To give you a picture: her alters blamed me for everything, her alters abused me verbally, she was never around when I needed her, but she always had time to be with her DID crew. Together they gaslit me and made me feel guilty about crap that wasn't even my fault. In the end, she cheated on me with one of her DID friends (who was also my friend at the time) right before my eyes when we went out together, because their alters were dating. Note that not single one of them was diagnosed and I don't mean to fakeclaim, but every single one of their actions screamed "fake disorder tiktok". I believed all of them to be legit for MONTHS, hence why I took all their shit and just wanted to end it once it all became too much. She apologized for the sake of apologizing once we broke up for hurting me but not for the crap they all dragged me through. That wa the worst time of my life so far.
this should be pinned i'm so sorry
im so glad you survived this abuse. whoever your ex was, she needs some serious help with professionals.
Don't worry I'll fake claim for you.
This trend of faking DID has gotten super popular in the last few years
You can tell they're fake extremely easily, because they don't follow DID at all.
For example, *every* one of their alters always all like using the same social media like discord, use the same servers, if they're furries they're all furries, but they'll have different ways of typing but use the exact same verbiage, they'll all have the exact same opinions on everything, and they're also all present at all times including the main personality as if they're consciously taking turns and all watching like it's a TV (basically, not disassociating at all which is the first letter in DID.) They'll all pretty much have the exact same opinions about politics and people. And, they tend to swap constantly. On discord servers I see people swapping between them almost every sentence.
And most of all, they weaponize it.
And that whole crew thing? They try to pass off multiple different personalities as liking each other and every other alternate personality. Two of these "alters" are even dating according to your claim.
So yeah, you might not want to fake claim, but I'll happily do it for you.
@@150booyadragon like the fact they're aware of their alters..
Hey hey, I'm actually a part of a diagnosed DID system
Yeah, the trend of people faking this disorder is completely disgusting. It stems from repetitive/severe childhood trauma and is the brains trump card to to protect the kid
This disorder is very very complicated, I have recently been diagnosed in October 2021, and I started communicating with the others maybe December/January 2021/2022
Yes, it is possible for alters to know each other, build relationships, and even date, some are family, etc.
It is very unique, and different for each system
There is a certain part we struggle with the most, and it's being in a state called "blurred" (I think?)
Well, it's like mixing up everyone and not being able to tell who is actually fronting, it all feels mixed, and it's been stuck like this for a long time, because of constant stress, anxiety, and even though it doesn't sound like I thing, I emotionally traumatize myself everyday and have been for a long time, and I don't remember most of anything even though I'm the host, because it is too emotionally damaging and so others have the memories, or hold certain symptoms, emotions, etc for me/others who cannot handle it
Normally, there are certain triggers that get the others to come out, like star, she's a little nonhuman alter, she is 7, she shows more strong signs of autism, she loves unicorns, talks in a higher pitch, she is just easy to pick up on if someone actually knows her
Pheonix however, she is like my personal protector, not sure if she's a co host, but she's normally always out for me, always takes control if I situation is too difficult for me or one of the littles
If you have any questions, we would love to answer, yet we are still relatively "new" to this, and don't understand it
Also I'm very sorry you had to endure that, thats so horrible
My 9-year-old Grandson saved me from a house fire. After I was released from the hospital he got me watching you. Now I can't stop. I think you're awesome. You helped me with my recovery.
Aw❤ glad you’re okay and hope you enjoy the comedy
Every time I feel upset I just come on here knowing that Kris will cheer me up with her compliments and will never fail to make me laugh.
Same, her videos are my therapy lol 😊
I can relate to that🥲
99%of the comments every time Kris posts: " Can we appreciate how good Kris' vids are" "Her compliments make my day" " She is such a lovely and friendly person" "Your vids are so good keep it up" "Lots of love Kris you brighten my day"
This is true btw you are so nice and lovely. From your compliments to your amazing content and personality, you are amazing
Cause bots have taken over TH-cam
I just wanna see some funny comments no offense to anyone who has and are commenting things like what's in the quotes above
Appreciate you guys so much ❤️
@@kallmekris no we appreciate you 💞
@@kallmekris no Kris. Your the one making us feel like we actually are worth something! Have a wonderful day
I was dating this girl and she constantly told me that she would kill me if I ever left her. I broke up with her anyway. She came to my house in the middle of the night and carved a letter on my door. It was talking about how if I ever saw her again, she would trap me in her attic and never let me out. A few days later she threw a brick through my window and started yelling at my neighbors and I who were having a party. I in payback pop her tires as she was in my backyard. She could not leave and I called the police she got arrested and is now living out a 3 year sentence in jail. I thank God everyday for still being alive.
Bro why did you do that, what if those were just threats now you have provoked her to really do it
@@nativeprimitive769 what?? he was right to do that . Imagine being in a relationship and they threaten to KILL you?? That would be so toxic. You are so brave for breaking up with her I hope this never happens to you again. People like this are psychotic and should be locked up for life
@@ammam386 I agree locked up for life not three years, never count out the possibility that she could carry out the threat out of anger after she is released from prison, I just put two plus two together and I might be right, people are crazy
My ex drove me to the point of questioning my own sanity while we were together. Toward the end he would say weird stuff on the phone like "I'm going to the Christmas party and you can't stop me" while we were talking about the cats on the phone. It always confused me and I didn't realize that he was doing it on purpose to make me seem controlling and unstable to his friends that liked me. He would drive me to the point of hunting him down when I needed actual help with something. Constantly saying he'd be at my house in 5 minutes and lying about where he actually was. When I confronted him about my friend seeing him at the mall with someone else he literally asked "are you gonna believe your boyfriend or a guy who wants to fuck you?" Eventually he broke up with me and told me he was gonna stay with me till after Christmas, so he could at least get his present. About 2 weeks later I met my now husband. During the time I was dating my now husband my ex would show up at my work, sit outside for extended periods of time, or just drive by a few times. Never spoke to me in that time. Just did creepy shit. It went on for several months before I quit and got a job elsewhere. The next time I saw him was last year. It'd been almost 9 yrs since I'd seen him and seeing him in a reflection of the ice cream cooler door just standing behind me at the commissary was weird and honestly should have scared me, but just made me angry. My dad came over and told him off, so I wouldn't have to. Like after all this time he's still willing to do this creepy shit. He looked pretty bad off too. I found out from friends that he'd pretty much lied our entire relationship. He wasn't retired he was dishonorably discharged, he didn't quit Walmart he was fired for stealing, he didn't get tired of working at the pizza store he was fired for stealing, etc. When I found out he worked at UPS I legit had a fear he'd eventually have to deliver something to me at home or at work and I DID NOT want him knowing where I live or work now. Called his work and told them his prior history and even gave them the phone number of the pizza shop owners to confirm with and through a mutual friend found out he was eventually fired. Do I feel bad for probably getting him fired? Sure. Do I feel safer? Absolutely. Would I have let it go if it wasn't for his creepy shit last year? Yup.
Go girl (or guy or anything in between)
Jeeeeeeeezusssssss
Yeah I’ve had the crazy stalker ex… it’s bad news. Who cares about gifts? They’ll just try to use it as a way to act like you “owe” them. The stalking can continue for years. Creepy af, thanks for showcasing your mental instability! 😒
ex story: we were in high school, and were dating (both girls) and she wanted sex, but I wasn't ready for that yet. She said that it was ok, because she was bisexual, she said she could have a boyfriend AND a girl friend, and that she would get what she wanted from someone else. I told her that is NOT what being bi meant, and that I was breaking up with her.
At least she wasn't too crazy. She did try to convince me that she was a werewolf, but at least the breakup was civil...
Hold up why werewolf?
as a werewolf i feel insulted.
@@robertmiller5735 😂
i had to tell the same thing to someone else in my high school and it took her two weeks to understand that you cant have a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time because you are bi.
😂 the werewolf took me by surprise there
I used to date this one girl, and at first, she seemed pretty chill in the relationship, and we would call a lot, there was a time, we were on a call, and I apparently said the wrong thing, and she got like really upset, and started saying to was going to 'commit unalive' is what we will call it, this went on for a year and of course, me being a responsible person, I have a life... if I didn't respond to her within 5 minutes, she would start saying stuff like "oh you don't love me" and stuff, we got into many arguments, and then she began to threaten me and started getting her siblings involved in this, but she also wouldn't let me leave her, and she would always come back with like apologies and stuff, and then the same thing always happened, and while we wouldn't date, she would accuse me of cheating, and say I never gave her enough attention, and she got a lot of people to hate me.
If I had to rate this girl for how much of a psycho she sounds like I would give it 182883737/10
That sounds similar to what happened to me. I'm sorry you had to go through that
this literally sounds like my ex 😳 sorry you had to go thru that
I mean u seem pretty nice, so I don’t hate u.
What did you say that made her so upset? 😧
Okay; not a crazy ex story of my own. But BOY- it's wild. Kinda really long, so...sorry! :P
Context: When I was in middle school, my 6th grade Algebra 1 teacher loved to nickname students. It was all cute and fun; and I actually made two of my best friends because of it. I was called Katniss because I always wore my hair in a single side French braid (still do, to be honest!) and the two guys that sat next to me were Peeta and Gale, because the truly did look like Peeta and Gale from the general book descriptions. After the third week of this, we all started talking outside of class and became close. Gale thought it was funny back then, but both he and I never really called each other the nickname when we weren't joking about it or teasing each other. Peeta LOVED it though, and has never stopped calling me Katniss or Gale, Gale and we have never stopped calling him Peeta even though it has been YEARS.
Peeta's various girlfriends weren't okay with him calling me Katniss, so he stopped when we were all together, but sometimes he would slip up and call me it by accident, just out of pure habit. His three-year girlfriend in high school especially did not appreciate our friendship NOR the endearments, and even forced him to not interact with me in public, or to hang out with me unless nearly half the football team (which Peeta was on, and his girlfriend was friends with their girlfriends) was there. So, whenever he saw me in the halls at school, or at a party but he was next to his girlfriend he would whistle like an arrow passing as a way to say hi but really didn't talk to me outside of that. It played to the inside joke, and I understand how some girls can get over something like nicknames or close friendships with other girls, so I don't really blame the guy. I didn't want to step on anyone's toes, so it was enough. We still remained really good friends despite not talking as much as we used too, and Gale or other mutual friends sometimes played messenger for us when Peeta's girlfriend was being more possessive and jealous then normal and wouldn't let me anywhere near him.
When it hit senior year and he was considering giving up his free ride to Texas A&M to follow her to MIT, I did what any sensible friend would do. Called him a f*cking idiot and told him not to do it. He had always given up his plans, or what he wanted in the relationship slide for her wants and her needs and her dreams. I never really commented about it- because it was never my place. His relationship, he can throw away his time, energy, and money for this girl and be absolutely whipped if that is what made him happy. But really?!? A full ride scholarship to a college of his dreams that had a one-way ticket to his dream job almost guaranteed upon graduation, gone, POOF! for a girl he could easily make it work with, long distance? I told him, in the end it was his decision, but just so he knew- I was personally against the idea.
At the time I was planning on attending Texas A&M as well, so when his girlfriend heard that I told him not to follow her she took this as validation for her suspicion that I have been in love with Peeta for years and have been trying to steal him from her. But instead of talking to him, or even me- about it, like a normal rational human being, she waited for the 'confrontation' to have maximum impact.
I don't know what she had originally planned, but this all went down in the most rom-com way possible.
YEP. You guessed it, this all happened.... AT OUR SENIOR PROM.
Honestly, I thought everything was going fine that night. I was finally getting along with her, Peeta and I could hang out more, I passed every class with a high A, high school was practically over, and my life was about to really begin. Life was good! So, I decided to be wild and kind of started this whole karaoke thing with the DJ (to our admins dismay) to get the party going with some actual good music (it was a dance and not a single Neon Trees song, I don't think so!) and it just continued throughout most of the night. People were trading the mic to others that had song recommendations and it was just a bunch of kids getting crazy. I was almost constantly on stage, duetting with friends that wanted to do it but were scared to do it alone, or just cause the person singing wanted me to continue dancing like an idiot on an elevated stage- I didn't mind, I was having the time of my life. When Peeta wanted to give it a go, I was already on stage, and we just had fun jamming out to Pitbulls' Everything Tonight.
Which was, apparently, the final straw.
Peeta's girlfriend got on stage halfway through the song, shut off the music, stole the mic from my hands, and then proceeded to accuse Peeta of cheating on her with me in front of the entire Senior class, about half of the schools teaching staff, and even a couple parents. There was nearly 1,000 people in that ball room, watching this on a huge projector and stage. It was quite a performance, and if I hadn't just spent four years in advanced, professional theatre classes with this chick, I wouldn't have been able to see she was acting; tears, runny mascara, voice cracks, the half-crazed "evidence" and "should've known's" of his infidelity. If I wasn't so upset and embarrassed, I would have been impressed. When Peeta tried to get her to calm down, and to talk with him in private, she just straight up started screaming like a banshee into the microphone. I swear this girl did not breath for a solid five minutes- she was just screaming. Then, like a Tasmanian devil, launched herself at me- decked out in six-inch heels and fake acrylic nails to cat fight me. I'm trained in Krav Maga, so I can defend myself pretty well. BUT I was ALSO decked out in heels, and a sleeveless, backless dress that really didn't allow combative movement (if you know what I mean).
It was... intense.
It all kind of dissolved into a bunch of yelling, and wrestling, and people trying to climb up into the DJ stage and booth to film it on their phones (someone even shouted WORLDSTAR) or break up the fight which Peeta and several others were trying to prevent ME from severely hurting HER. Some sound equipment was thrown through the window (we were on the third floor of a really tall hotel-terrifying), there was glass and bits of ice sculpture everywhere.
But to top it all off, when she was finally restrained, and the rest of the senior class was slightly more chill, she asked Peeta, in near hysterics, "Why are you doing this to me?" (can anyone say gaslighting??)
To which he replied: "Because you're no Katniss, b*tch."
And then hotel security escorted her out, some girlfriends of mine helped me get back to party ready in the bathroom, and Prom resumed. I got high fives from random classmates, free food from the catering staff all night, and was celebrated at every afterparty I hit (went to prom with a group of girls so we just kind of bounced from place to place depending on where someone else in the group wanted to go).
Peeta and I are still great friends, and I am happy to say that he is married to a woman who finds the Katniss thing as hilarious as he does, and their three-year-old daughter actually believes that it is my name. :P
What a wild story! I didn’t expect to read this today but I’m glad I did. Also it is a crime this only has 3 likes
Wooow
Wow! This is epic. I would seriously turn this into a book if I were you, that would make a great read.
Wow.. I'm speechless..
Great to hear he Got away from THAT. Question out of curiosity: Did he end up going to the College he wanted to?
As a former crazy ex, it really sucks when your fiancé cheats on you, you forgive him, take him back and then discover that his mistress who took your side originally, is now going to a Christmas in July carnival with him. And then you hear from your little spies (mutual friends) that he is calling you his crazy ex, when you're out here planning your wedding, sending him money for food, because his broke ass is buying tickets for a carnival for him and his "new wifey". But hey... I was just his "crazy ex".
*Craziest Ex Girlfriend Story:*
So after arguing for like 5 HOURS about us just being different people and possibly not making it in the future, she just decided that the real problem is that I wanted to have sex with other people which was always an accusation of hers, but this time she mentioned my mother AND sister... I live with my mother again (who is very young and quite beautiful too) and we used to argue a lot so my gf at the time just figured that it was due to the fact that there was a lot of built up sexual tension between us. There was no point talking any sort of sense into her at this point so I just decided to stay silent because I didn't know what to do. She REALLY believed that I wanted to have sexual relations with my mother and sister and went in full detail how I would "do it" if I had the chance for another hour or so. I said nothing for hours and just decided to go to bed because like... WHAT THE FUCK? But not before she yanked me back by the arm and bite my hand like a freaking animal, she even snarled as she did it. This was last year and I still have the bite mark on my hand to prove it. The scars look like something out of a vampire movie. She would punch, slap, scratch and violently grab me as usual and would convince me that since I am a man who practices MMA I should be able to "handle it". That's why watching the JD & AH trial brings up so many sucky memories... Yeah, we are no longer together and moving on was not an issue.
She used to be a paramedic too btw 👌
You should be pinned I’m sry great story though 👍
Why do we label them “crazy” when they are domestic abusers.
Bro u ain’t gotta specify that they’re beautiful 💀💀
Omg she was freaking abusing you. The bitch should've been locked up
@@bbyvltno7346 He's just explaining why she would assume that- If I had to guess, she's REALLY jealous of them.....
I dated someone for two years when I was 18 and he was 22, he was mentally abusive at first then after a year and a half became physically violent with me, he harmed the two cats we had and threw them in the river close to his apartment (don't worry the cats were alive and sent off to live with someone else), he stalked me multiple times, got me arrested, hung around minors constantly. He still is after seven years of being broken up will continue to message me on FB or Snapchat and won't understand why I don't want to be friends, and will never forgive him. Not to mention he actively preys on minors and any 18 year old. Recently he confessed to "sleeping" with his new girl/victim when she was 14 and he was 26 at the time and it made me violently ill. He's literally in his early 30s now.
Maybe you should report him to the police, for stalking, animal abuse (?) and pedophila. (Atleast I think it’s pedophila.)
@@g0blinshark
I would have to have proof of it, I have a little bit of it but the police nor the judicial system is going to look into it.
That's fucking disgusting, so happy that you're out of that situation❤
My cousin actually feels with people like that.
Meant to say deals
I don't know if this is psyco, but it was more like anger issues. I broke up with my boyfriend, lets call him Conrad. Conrad made a joke objectifying adopted children, and being adopted, I took personal offense. I had other reasons for breaking up with him, and had reason to believe he was cheating on me. He was apologetic at first, but later got angry at me because he saw the whole thing as my fault. He eventually started to try and aggravate me, including calling me "cute" when I would glare at him, and trying to hold my hand / hug me. (I do have some touch sensitivity issues) It eventually got to a breaking point, and I asked a friend to talk to him. Apparently he had a plan to make me lash out at him, then kick sweep me in "self defense". I was shooketh to say the least, and I was scared to go places without my friends. Eventually he backed down, but it was a huge scare for me. Evetually some of the people in my grade found out and started to keep an eye out for me, and I got some sympathy from a classmate who was going through a similarly harsh breakup. Moral of the story? Feel free to rely on your friends and keep yourself safe.
Let's call him Conrad, bc, well, that's his name😂😂😂
@@WhisperingWempe
Baaahahaha!! 😂
So I was with my ex for 4 months, but for all of the last month with him I kept trying to leave because I didn't feel safe and I was out of the relationship emotionally. He wouldn't let me leave and got my brother involved to keep me in the relationship. I ended up "cheating" on him (no one considered it cheating because I was so done with my ex) and it gave me the courage to fully get out of that relationship. I'm glad to say I'm in a better place and with someone that treats me right
“There’s a special breed of stupid out there and you’re one of them.” KRIS 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
So am I though high key 😂
@@kallmekris shh ur a weirdo but ✨so are we✨
same 🥱
😂😂😂
My only kinda crazy ex story happened last year. I was dating a girl who was being really shitty to my friends, so I broke up with her and she told me that I couldn't brake up with her because she didn't agree with it. This year, she told everyone in the school that I cheated on her, and for a solid 3 months, I constantly got called a cheater or people would ask if I actually cheated on her, even my friends (yes, the ones that she was being shitty too. But, it was not all of my friends.)
Well...you will get to know who your real friends are through this experience xD Real friends would believe you if they trust your character.
@@Nyxio_ yeah, I have better friends now. I am no longer friends with them.
Absolutely the guilt.. so i was dating this guy who cheated over and over and over.. and i kept taking him back, because i used to be an idiot like that. So.. one day i decided to cheat on him before breaking up with him and shownhim how it felt.. never had cheated in my life.. dont know why i thought it would be a good idea... i couldn't fully go through with it, and was so guilty, that i ended up calling him instantly, crying.. told him what i planned.. and he said "thats fair"... i was so crushed. And mad at myself.. more then anything. Never everrrr did it again! (That was around 20 years ago)
Not quite an ex story, but I went on a “date” once with this guy when I was a freshman in high school and he was a sophomore or junior. After that, he kept coming to me again and again, no matter how many times I said no, for another “date” or to be his girlfriend. I eventually moved schools for unrelated reasons. We still texted because I didn’t want to be mean and break contact, but I evaded the topic of meeting up. Found out later that he was harassing a girl I started dating, yelling at her in the halls and stuff that she was “keeping me from him”. I finally broke contact with him after that.
EDIT: OMG I COMPLETELY FORGOT ABOUT THE TIME HE TEXTED THAT SAME GIRL FOR PICTURES OF ME YEARS AFTER I BROKE CONTACT WITH HIM!!!
Damn hope ur safe and free of stress
that dude is crazy
I really appreciate you reading them and not just expecting us to pause and read it makes the watching experience so much more enjoyable ❤️
I still out of habit end up pausing it to read 🤣🤣
I am very glad you said this because it does make it much better for me as well. 💜💜💜
@@izzyherod6303 same
@@izzyherod6303,
___Thank you. Same here. I'm glad I'm not the only one. I'm always afraid she's going to skip over some of the words.
I totally agree
In response to the cheating thing, while some people do feel guilt, the ones who do it again do it for the “thrill”. The like the drama, the attention, and to further manipulate their ‘partner’ by stating either dominance, something along the lines of “I could end it with you like that! So you better do what I like”. It’s crazy to think that humans can be like that, but as the internet revels, there are so many of them. It’s sad really...
But this was a GREAT video, and a always love the genuine humor you take in everything.
Much love to you and hope you have a wonderful rest of your life beyond what you record.
CAreSs.uno I respect everyone who were involved in this Seriously the best piece that i ve ever seen on TH-cam 💌 Hate off to well all 💟 love your videos...
ok, literally everything aside, Ben & Jerry's half baked in literally the best flavour and no one can tell otherwise cause I've got Kris on my side lol
I really hope that after the Johnny Depp trial, women start to clue in to the fact this behavior is abusive and not ok. Let's get this cleared up for EVERYONE. Don't hit your partner, throw things at your partner, stalk your partner, gaslight your partner, emotionally manipulate your partner, verbally abuse your partner, throw yourself on the hood of your partner's car. The list can go on and on, but I feel the point is clear now. Just get some fucking therapy, people. I don't understand how you don't understand that you are the problem. 🤦♀️
Thank you for this comment, I would like it 1000 times if I could. There is still a problem of ridiculing male IPV victims, even the crazy girlfriend stuff is concidered to be funny, but you can be sure it wouldn't be if the roles were reveresed. I really hope it will change.
@@GiltleyRage,
___Like it 1,001 times. Just as long as you end up on an odd number and then the thumb up is darkened!🤣😂😁
yes, some people just need to chill the fuck out. 👏
I am a girl and I hv NEVER done this. When i hv a breakup I watch my fav movie, hv some ice-cream and snacks, then I just tell my best-friends, and we then start badmouthing my ex. I don't even record anything abt the breakup
No one: people who can’t afford the therapy 🥲
9 years ago, I felt guilty for having even one thought of cheating; I didn’t actually follow through with that horrible thought, but that’s how I knew there was nothing there anymore between my ex and I, and we had a mutual breakup.☺️
I was reading all these stories and I am glad to end on this slightly more positive note
Factually, the BEST way to break up! I did the same thing with a friend of mine, when we realized how out of touch we've gotten
Wish we all just ended relationships in a healthy, mature way instead of turning into infantile maniacs. We had a good run, I wish you the best.
Facts I was leaving my ex's house literally last week because his dad said I couldn't stay there no more and I was already getting a ride home and then I looked at my boyfriend and I was like how we going to do long distance he would be dead in my face got aggressive and said I don't even want to be with you I don't love you and I haven't for the last 2 days and I was like it doesn't make any sense kept trying to talk to him see if you could change his mind sat there for 30 minutes and silence and didn't give me no answer and I like the best of so what are we done he said yes and kicked me out that night mind you I had nowhere to go that night because I was going to ask if I could stay one more night there because I work the next day and she lives near my job so that night ended up having to go walk around until like 4:00 a.m. in the morning when I saw my friend and she let me sleep at her house until 5:00 in the afternoon which I then had worked then so I went to work work till like 12:00 at night and then had to get a ride all the way 30 minutes away from my job and just the way he ended it like you said there's no need to end relationships that way if you don't want to be with somebody just be like hey I don't like I'm not really as interested as I used to be not say things just to hurt their feelings just cuz you know that will make them leave cuz even after he texted me and asked me if I was okay and told me missed me but if you missed me them why would you break up with me is it that you were confused at the time or is there somebody else or are you not knowing what you really want and I'm pretty young but still had enough to know I can't deal with that
I’m still friends with my ex, it’s honestly like nothing changed bc we never even did the do-
Kris your complements at the beginning of every video make my day thank you!! ❤❤❤
Kris will always be that one person who makes others laugh even if you're having a bad day. Also always wondered about what life would be like having Kris as a girlfriend.
Just in case you don’t want to read the whole thing: My boyfriend pretended who spilt a bottle of juice so he and his “friend” could do the devils tango.
Ex Story: So I'm gay (yay) and my boyfriend was a nice guy. One day he brought a supposedly close friend to our place. Suddenly he somehow accidently spilt the juice on the ground. It was a big bottle and I was looking forward to drinking it. So I ran to the store to get another. I came back and all I heard was weird sounds. I opened the door and THEY WERE DOING THE DEVIL'S TANGO ON MY FOCKIN COUCH. I immediately forced them out of the house and on the way he had the audicity to say to me to join them. I blew up and slammed the door in his face. He then twisted the story to all of our close friends and now everyone thinks I'm the villian bc I apparently did the devil's tango with another guy and got mad when he confronted me. THEN HE HAD THE AUDICITY TO SEND ME MESSAGES OF HOW HE MISSES ME. BUT HIS PICS SAY OTHERWISE BC THERE WERE SEVERAL PICS OF HIM KISSING HIS SUPPOSEDLY BEST FRIEND
That’s messed up my dude am sorry for ya
Sorry dude
bro thats really mesed up kissing another guy/girl is bad but doing that ON YOUR COUCH! is really mesed up dude
I'm so sorry that kris didn't pin you.
Bro, i'm sorry for ya
Being a non-confrontational introvert, ending up in a relationship with a secret psycho is anxiety inducing. I've had a couple buddies that went down that road - geez.
I had a friend like that, she took advantage of my easy-going and introverted nature and strung me along for like nine years until I finally had enough about a year ago
very recently some guy started texting me nonstop, he was a friend of a friend and he js won’t stop messaging me. he will ask like where i live, for photos of me. my friends told me to stop talking to him and i kinda did but he realized it and i am an introvert and don’t like to be mean so i was scared bc he would like make me respond. idk what to do and he’s kinda freaking me out. he seems like the kind of person to be a psycho ex lmao
I’m a confrontational introvert you start a fight I give you a war in return
And that’s why kids, you should always have trust issues with other people (except your family and friends)
@@Averyjohnson336and you shall win the war, and I shall join you on that🫡
this was such a HALARIOUS VID LOVE U KRIS!
Crazy(?) ex story: The excuses my ex would come up with were ridiculous. She'd lie to get out of calls, she'd act out, and make up excuses for why she wasn't active on certain days. I'm not sure if you would consider that crazy, but I know that her lashing out and verbally abusing me, along with convincing her other bf she had for a whole year, that I "threatened" to take my life if we broke up- clearly not worth my time if I wasn't worth hers, but yeah, that's... that's the story haha.
Definitely crazy, Not to the same degree as some of the others (here's Jonny bi**h stabbing the door) but she is definitely crazy as all get out. Sorry you had to deal with that 😕
@@Observer_Decay true true. But it's okay, not your fault
I feel so bad for the guys in these stores, especially where the girlfriend stalked them. I can image they wouldn’t be believed and even if they are, the police are basically useless.
Don’t feel bad for them, they knew those girls were crazy when they started dating them! That’s what attracted them to those chicks in the first place.
@@The.Hawaiian.Kingdom That’s what a psychopath would say😳
@@Ghost-xl5fg No that’s what a grown woman would say. I’ve dated enough men in my life to know some -men- boys just like the crazy chicks, just like some -women- girls like the “bad boys”.
When you grow up you aren’t attracted to that bs anymore, you (hopefully) know better than to date people like that.
@@The.Hawaiian.Kingdom Yaeh I can agree with that to an extent. Because also sometimes like the comments on this video, you don’t know they’re crazy until they go psycho on you but I do see what your saying.
@@Ghost-xl5fg Yeah there’s always outliers (those are the scary ones you REALLY need to worry about) but for the most part I’m guessing the people who commented that are either young or don’t have much dating experience. When you get older and have some experience under your belt, you recognize the signs.
That one lady who was yelling into the wrong persons ring camera… HER boyfriend FOR SURE knew what she was like ahead of time lol.
Take care.
Kris is always here to make us smile with her unique compliments and adorable reactions. I love her so much 🥺❤️
I was dating a girl in high school and she cheated on me. Decided to break up with her. She then proceeded to throw herself down some stairs because she thought I'd take her back if she was injured. Then she used a razor to write the name of the man who she slept with on her leg.
P.S. She and I have remained in contact, and she has sought psychological care that has done wonders. We're still friends, and she's a wonderful mother and wife. Just had some undiagnosed mental health issues in high school.
I've got one, and I can describe it relatively short.
At some point I found out she had a picture of herself making out with another guy on the profile/dating site that we were both on (seriously how did she think I would not see it?), she ended up claiming it wasn't real and someone must have faked it. Anyway, I ended up breaking up with her. The crazier part: she tried to get back in touch with me a year later, claiming she had my child.....which was a lie. So yeah, I met up with her mother, who told me it wasn't true, that she was in some sort of institution, and never saw/heard anything from her again afterwards.
No crazy ex stories but, when Kris acted out how she would rat herself out to her partner if she cheated. I immediately thought of myself cheating on my first grade spelling test. I had written the word "because" on my desk the day before my test, but then I felt too bad and told my teacher...
Honestly, I respect that
Humanity genuinely scare me sometimes. Can’t believe some people actually have to go through this, I feel horrible for them. Hope they end up having better lives afterwards
Same Kris I can't start watching Netflix till I have food
I lived with my former best friend of 13 years almost ten years ago. After what I discovered to be a landslide of lies and manipulation I decided to go elsewhere. She went insane over this, calling it a divorce like we had been a thing even though I was already dating who is now my fiancee at the time. She threw my stuff out of the house, tried to keep some of it, succeeded in keeping some of it. And then I heard later that she sold a sex toy to a minor, got in trouble for it, and tried to tell the police I was the one who had done it. The kid was old enough to say it wasn't me and I guess that's the reason the law never contacted me over it, I have no idea if that's true. But she also told her daughter I was dead and to this day I still have trust issues because of it all.
@@MissEsamae That's terrible. I'm sorry to hear about that.
Dang I'm sorry about that but your really good at explaining story's!!😄lol you should maybe do it more often!!😄
@@j.u.l.e.s2290 Thanks XD
Chris is like that one kid in your class that always screams “FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!” Whenever there’s beef going on at the playground 😂
Love you Kris your the best ❤
Hell yeah!
I got stalked by an ex for several years. She was a walking red flag, living in a halfway house run by this smuggler called Pastor Pete who had pretty recently been released from prison after 15 years. Anyway, I noped right out of there when it clicked how messed up her whole situation was and she ended up getting committed shortly after. She would call me from the hospital every day and I told her that I couldn't deal with her and to stop calling me. Her mom called and told me that she was going to send some bangers to kill me - so I called the police and had her arrested. Eventually, she gets out of the loony bin and started stalking me on the internet. She did it in a really weird way. She would hack into my Facebook account and unblock herself. That was it. So I would have to go to her page and block her - her banner picture was always a message to me. Eventually, the picture was her with a guy who looked exactly like me. I thought it was photoshopped at first, but several photos later and I'm sure it was just my doppelganger. At first it was to tell me that they were dating, then engaged, then married, then divorced, then "please take me back", and then I deleted all of my social media and created new accounts under different names and made sure to never post a picture of myself. I haven't heard from her in a couple of years thankfully.
Crazy ex story: i dated this girl who was abusive (wont get into that) and she at one point after a few months of dating she just ignored all my messages for an extended period of time (like 3 weeks) and i was confused because i hadnt done anything so i kept asking what i had done and apologising for nothing really. Anyway she ended up breaking up with me over text, telling me about how i was such a terrible person and how i never listened to her and that i was so bad that i 'made her straight...' and gererally ripping me to shreds. what really got me though was she then messaged me an hour later saying 'but we can still be friends if you want'.
The hell?
I’m sorry you went through that. But I’m soooo glad you’re away from that.
That is the epitome of manipulation and gaslighting, jeez. Happy for you that you’ve managed to dodge that bullet in the long run.
This absolutely beautiful video, exactly like Kris!
We all love u so much!.3
(I don’t know how I commented video earlier that it was published.)
How was this 20 minutes ago??
How is this comment 20 minutes aho
How was this 20 mins ago bruh
20 minutes ago? How???
@doja саt shorts 🅥 Thanks! I little bit scary when video disappeared.)
The thing that I find funny about these things is, cheating on someone isnt against the law, breaking up with someone isnt against the law. But smashing people cars, fences and property is.
Like imagine cheating on someone then smashing up their property cause they wont take you back.
Am I the on.y one when Chris said I am looking at your ears in the intro I covered my ears lol 😂😂
I have a recent crazy ex story. So about two and a half months ago, my ex, let's call them Finch, came to my house and cussed out my parents in my front yard after I had just come out to my parents as trans and pansexual (he/him). They then went home after we called the police on them, cuz we thought they had a g*n, and tried to k*ll them self. My mom sent the police over there for a wellness check and Finch spent a week in the hospital. We then got back together because they continued to manipulate me. The manipulation got worse and I told them we needed to take a break for a bit. Then my parents wanted me to take Finch off of the family tracking app I have in my phone and I warned Finch before I did so they didn't think it was cuz I hated them. They freaked out and threatened me with blackmail they were gonna send to my mom if I took them off. I told my parents about it, taking away the power of said blackmail, took Finch off the tracking app and told them I'd call the police if it got leaked. They continued to freak out and try to manipulate me more but it was already too late for that because I could already see through the lies. I blocked them on almost everything and told them our relationship was over. Few days later Finch goes on social media and tells their followers that I'm ghosting them after a two year relationship (it was a year and a half) and that I told them to k*ll them self (which I didn't and would never do). So yeah. They've still tried to contact me a few times, like yesterday, but I want to be as far away from that situation as possible. So yeah, super recent, still ongoing, crazy ex story 👍🏻
jeez im so sorry
A small update. They tried to email me and at one point they made it sounds like they weren't gonna be alive in the morning cuz they'd done something to hurt them self. So I was able to convince them to call the police on them self, and they told me the next morning that they were in the hospital again. They started trying to talk to me again through email and whenever I responded, I made sure to be extremely standoffish and defensive and give ZERO signs that I wanted to get back with them or even be friends with them. After a few days of them trying to get on my good side, they confronted me about said coldness, saying they didn't feel like "my heart wanted them anymore", to which I responded that I thought I'd already made that VERY clear. They proceeded to freak out again, saying if there wasn't a chance for us to be together again, then there was no reason for them to be alive, that they weren't messaging me ever again and didn't care if I thought they were alive or de*d (which I do care but I digress). I didn't respond to that cuz I wasn't gonna feed into the crazy. I didn't get anything else from them till almost noon the next day when their mom emailed me. She said "I'm not sure what kind of sick game you've been playing, but I want [their] stuff back. The games are over, I hope you're happy". She was speaking as though the "game" that was being played was mine to begin with, when I have done nothing but try to help Finch. I marked the email as spam and I haven't heard from them since. I'm hoping that this is the end of it but I'll give updates if the crazy continues
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“I only murdered 1 person I swear.”
Yeah, like that makes it any better!
That copying of keys is a serious fear I've had (especially after a break-up where the other person spent half the night pounding on my door and screaming to take them back). That's where smart locks are nice since you can issue and remove access individually, plus get notified if someone enters your home when you weren't expecting them to. I consider physical keys to be a backup and only for those on the lease or the deed.
I still know the code to my ex's place even 5 years later... He cheated on me but I let it go and just broke up with him (he was alittle on the abusive jealous side anyways) but anytime I came over to check to see if I left this or that he was there never let myself in... Just wrong... Now again after 5 years he gets his family to check to see if I'm doing well and to know I always have a place to stay... It's fucked up... I'm happily married now so yeah....
The only toxicity I ever had involvement with was in my 1st year at university, when a girl from the 3rd year invited me to be part of her pantomime, in April 🤷. Which was ambitious for our course, because my now co-manager and I couldn't achieve that at uni.
This girl, we'll call her T quickly changed relationships from someone in 2nd year (a mutual friend) to me, then left me about a month after the pantomime was finished.
"I feel like I need to work on myself" was how the general conversation of that phone call went, but by this point I had had enough of the messy eating, the messy makeup over her bedroom, the jealousy of me getting on well with people SHE introduced me to. She also alienated herself, purposefully, with the friends she introduced me to. One night was movie night at my place. Awesome, very much looking forward to it, all mutual friends, getting to know each other over a few movies and jacket/baked potatoes and trimmings. One friend explained to the other about how T often behaves, and T walks home! Leaving me with the mutual friends! We still made it a great night, but she made it that little bit more awkward.
Not a great first post-school GF, but a lesson of what love does not look like.
The worst aftermath I have seen from toxicity was the year before when one of my friends from FedEx, we'll call him S, met a hot girl, moved into a rental house with her, got great "Devil's tango" time with her - while other friends were in the house! Told him he worked and spent more with us than spending time with her. (Fedex wasn't/isn't a normal 9-5, it's sifted and dependant on when flights/shipments arrive). The final straw was when she loitered outside the Fedex warehouse for hours until security asked her what she wanted, she asks for S, who has to leave whatever he's doing - On an assembly line which never stops - to go tell his GF she can't stay there, which puts her into a frenzy, which leads to our manager having to come out and deal with her. 😫
Anyway S did split from her the year I went to Uni and I caught up with him the following August at another friends wedding to exchange stories about T, both of us questioning whether this was the reason for higher abuse/rape cases, and whether we would ever marry, because how could us "good guys" trust another girl to keep us good?
Fast forward to today and I'm with a woman who has 2 kids, not a girl of high unattainable standards...which explains a lot.
Pantomime?
Lol
"He didn"t enter the house
He only entered me"
That was HILARIOUS
COMIC GOLD
My best friends ex smashed his car windows and then drove it into a bay. She had convinced herself he tried to poison her with a Tim Hortons coffee because she found “a little black bit” inside it (aka a coffee grain).
I’m pretty sure she had undiagnosed schizophrenia tbh.
Lets all agree that God took a lot of time while giving Kris her awesome personality and looks!!!!! You rock Kris!!!!
Facts
amen
you eat my fries? I EAT YOUR SOUL! can totally relate
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I wasn't in the truck for this thankfully but my (now ex) step dad chased my mom around our city at 3 in the morning because he found out that she filed for divorce and a restraining order a few days prior. She still has PTSD from it 😔
Thankfully no one was physically hurt and he is now apprehended and we are safe, but the damage has been done.
Whenever you say: "does anybody else have...... nope just me, ok" It's the most relatable thing ever! love u Kris, you always make my day!
Two part story. My ex admitted to me had cheated after 2 years together (on and off) I was broken but immediately broke up with him. A month later he's begging me to take him back. Saying he didn't actually cheat. Just wanted a break but didn't want to hurt my feelings by telling me that. Uumm so apparently cheating didn't hurt my feelings. BTW he actually didn't cheat. But I agreed to get back together. We planned a sexy first night back together. I get to his house and he's set go. Practically naked already. I calmly walk over and hand him a piece of paper and walked out. Paper said "now we can have an infinite break"
@Tom Nahhhhh, what they did was badass, clear conscience or not. Like, at least they can say they broke up with him, and broke up with him in a way in which they would never feel the need to go back.
Kris: Your ears are so cute❤
Me: I'm wearing headphones 👁👄👁
My crazy abusive ex decided whilst on meth, to try to tell everyone I'm a prostitute and abusive to my kids, and a meth addict. He set me up and got my kids taken from me, after beating me with a metal baseball bat in front of said kids. 😣 Still dealing with the aftermath actually. Anyway, love you Kris, your content, and your channel. You bring light to my fucked up life ❤️
jeez I'm really sorry
@@catwantssushi2614 thankyou. I deeply appreciate it. My life has been a mess here lately. And I'm nowhere near the woods yet.
@@KendyJ929 well I'm hoping things get better for you genuinely sending lots of love from Texas
@@KendyJ929 well I'm hoping things get better for you genuinely sending lots of love
You are my child now. I am adopting you. You are most likely much older then me, but if something like this were to happen again, I will appear like a ghost and make them disappear into the void.
No one deserves to go through this. You are no exception. You are most likely a wonderful person, and there is someone out there who will move mountains for you. But until then, just know that you are wanted, and that everything will get better - I promise.
Well the night before I finally broke up with my ex, we were having another hour long chat about the usual stuff. I wasn’t doing the do with him (birth control made me lose any motivation for it), he would constantly accuse me of cheating on him with other dudes ( I could never do something like that, especially to the guys he accused me on cheating on him with), and plenty of other things. I was tired of it.
Eventually it got so heated he told me that even if we were married, he would MAKE me love him again. As if I’d marry him when I didn’t love him! He also sprouted other nonsense like that before I just turned off my phone. At one point he told me that I took over the place of his dead dog. Yes, you heard that right. Apparently I gave him the same comfort that a deceased pet had once given him. So weird to be compared to a dog like that.
But in a final attempt for me to talk to him again after the breakup, he logged into my PS4 account. We had play-shared some games, so my account was already logged into his system. He went in while I was playing a game with my best friend (that’s how I know he did it) and changed my settings. He set it to 2 step verification and I hadn’t put my phone number in my account. He had locked me out of my account on a Friday night. I couldn’t reopen my account until Tuesday because of a holiday.
I assume he put in his phone number so that I had to talk to him. I knew it was him because the only other person with my account info was my best friend and we were trying to play a game that night together online. All that just for me to talk to him
This crazy ex story happened to my best friend when we were in high school. My friend broke up with her boyfriend because he was cheating on her and had been for a while.
After the break up which turned into him standing outside her house screaming for over two hours. The cops were called and he finally left. Then he started sending my friend “gifts” in the mail. Like stuffed animals that were cut up or burned. And other things that were extremely disturbing.
My friend finally had to file a restraining order. Thankfully when she went to college the guy never followed her. But it was a real worry that he might keep stalking her. I learned later that the guy was serving a prison sentence for doing this same thing to another girl.
*"CAROL, STOP SWEARING!!"*
Can we all appreciate that Kris always compliments us every video and puts so much effort into her videos
I've been watching your channel for about 3 months now and you have been the highlight Everytime I go on TH-cam. As common as it may sound, you are a very relatable person and through your skits and videos, I see a little of myself. I'm a huge fan and I'm happy you have found a way to express yourself through your art. I'm still trying to figure out how to express myself through a common platform, so thank you for being you.
I definitely have the craziest ex story - can’t go into much detail because of court proceedings:
Rich girl, met at rich school, she joined a cult, made a bomb scare that shut down campus, got committed, got out, FBI got involved in multiple states, she’s now facing charges for DV (against me), assaulted an officer, and has an arrest warrant for making death threats against me.
Oh, side note - she got into heroin after I ended things and now has a kid from a homeless guy. She lives in a beach house in a very wealthy area.
Just wanna say, in light of the very public court proceedings of certain celebs recently, that I'm very glad you had the courage to report the abuse you endured. I was blessed to be raised by a fantastic mother who taught me that just because "society" says something doesn't mean it's right or true. I know that society says men can't be victims of DV, that women can't be abusers, and I know that that's a bunch of bullshit because DV isn't gender-specific. But I know that it is much harder for men to report being abused because "society" tells everyone not to believe them, which truly breaks my heart. I hope this can change and that our society as a whole will end the narrative of DV means "man abuses woman" and start seeing the truth which is DV means "abuser abuses victim"
Anyway, sorry for the little rant, just feeling things heavily today and felt really touched to see a DV victim say their abuser was/is a female and not be immediately attacked or called a liar in the replies.
Sorry if this doesn't make much sense, it's really hard to find words to express what I mean correctly. My neurodivergent brain struggles with articulating things I feel strongly about lol
@@amylynnwalker7726 thank you for the kind words! Watching Depp v Heard certainly gave me a morale boost! Unfortunately, this has been in the court system for 2 years at this point so my reporting it was not influenced by the Depp v Heard trial. I do hope that the culture has started to shift, though!
It's crazy the lack of support for male victims. Thankfully I've kept records of everything and photos/recordings/videos so I couldn't be ignored by the magistrate/police. Once I got a court date, there was no support. They gave me a phone number to a 'victim support' program which flatly told me they only support women. They still ask me for money at least once a month to 'support women'. They still send me their 'believe all women' newsletters.
One thing I was glad to see in the Depp v Heard trial was the emphasis on verbal/emotional abuse. From my experience, verbal/emotional abuse is much more common than physical abuse from female abusers and honestly I think verbal/emotional abuse is much more effective against men than physical abuse. When I was physically attacked, it was surreal - I knew I could defend myself (and did) without physically attacking her - just wall up and let her swing away and so it almost felt ridiculous to press charges against her. It took 3 of these incidents along with destruction of some very valuable property and the suggestion of *her* mother that I press charges for me to finally do it.
The psychological effects of the gaslighting and verbal/emotional abuse and threats are the parts I'm still dealing with. I went from being a confident, take-charge kind of person to really being in a shell and didn't really realize it. The weird thing is when you finally start to get through a situation like this and you look logically at all the things you could be upset with but at the end of the day you just want the person to get better and to be able to move on yourself.
"You eat my fries, I eat your soul." Marceline is that you?
I love how Kris stops and reads for us, so we don’t have to pause.
Thank you. :)
Here to be an outlier. I haven't been a crazy ex as I've never dated anybody, but when my crush cut contact with me, I went crazy. To be honest with you, I cyber stalked her for like 5-6 months and I was very obsessive. However, when I turn 18 in less than 6 months, I plan to tell a doctor so I can get help.
Why are you choosing to make her feel scared? Why do you want to be a trauma in her life? Why do you want to take away her sense of trust? Sounds like you should stay away from relationships.
@@katiedavis2046 I'm trying to get help now, but I've been put on a waiting list that's months long, so I'm not sure when I can get it. And honestly I think I've improved since then. It's been almost 3 years since the incident and I've done some self help stuff and ever since becoming aware of my issues (I wasn't aware when I stalked her), I'm so much better at controlling myself and my emotions, and even when I feel really bad emotionally, I internalise it and try to communicate, instead of lash out. I still definitely have things to work on, like how to not feel such negative emotions over certain things and how to calm myself down, but I'm hoping I can do this when I finally get help.
And I honestly I wasn't thinking properly. I didn't think about how it was scaring her, fucking up her sense of trust, etc. I was very selfish and only thought of myself and how I felt at the time, not her. I thought she was the reason I was experiencing mood swings and feeling absolutely terrible, so I guess I didn't really care about her feelings anyway, but I think I've thankfully grown since then and realised the errors of my ways. I'm actually surprised I only made this comment 2 months ago because for a while now I've kind of just wanted to forget about the whole situation and move on, as I don't feel like it represents me anymore and I know I'm probably not that type of person anymore, so I'm surprised I actually stated this on the internet.
Glad you’re getting help buddy, really👍🏽
@@mariekom81 thanks man, really appreciate it :)
@@wolfzmusic9706 i know this is an old comment but don’t let that other person villainize you for wanting to reach out, you never crossed any moral lines and a lot of people don’t reach out for help before that line gets crossed because they see nothing wrong with their actions. you aren’t a monster because the good in you saw what you did wrong. good people aren’t happy with themselves when they behave like that. i hope you’re doing better:)
I may have a good story.
There was this guy, back at my school. Our relationship didn't last long but he got kinda obsessed after it. He even asked me for a stroke of my hair so he "can take it to his grave"
After he started to involve my mom, by begging her to convince me to take him back, I finally broke of the contact.
Me watching you on my phone while eating a snack 😅 I didn’t start watching TH-cam until I got my dots pretzels from my lunch box 3:16
A long time ago I had my first Valentine's day with a partner. My gift to her was her favourite food and some flowers plus a trip to the movies later that night and her gift to me was a cute little card that had everything I was doing wrong as a boyfriend written inside.
This was from my ex who cheated on me during my birthday and stole all my friends labeling me the toxic ex. Even went as far as to get the school involved with our drama so I would suffer more my junior year.
However she dropped out of school, lost all her friends after they found out how shitty she really was, and even got fired from her dream job cause she was terrible at it.
Needless to say I got some kind of justice in the end and I have a loving girlfriend now who I have zero problems with and I'm finally happy
Just to everyone who is suffering from psycho ex's, I admire you. Why, you might ask? Well, first off, you had to deal with that sucker for quite a while, seeing that you were in a relationship with them, and then you had the strength to cut it off and build yourself back up.
Maybe you're still building yourself up, and maybe you don't know where to begin just yet, but know that you are strong, because if I was ever in a relationship like that, I'd be afraid to break up simply because of my fear of being alone.
You have to be brave to separate yourself from a hurtful person, and the fact that you all have done that, and have continued to fight back against them even though they desperately try to find ways to get back with you is almost like a heroic trait to me.
I admire you all, and I hope you have a fantastic rest of your day. Trust me, life will get better as long as you have at least one person standing behind you.
16 years and I'm still stuck
@@Sixx323 same bout to tic over to 17 years 😢 😔 complicated. Friends and family miss out on the happy version of you in the end.
Kris, some days while battling depressive episodes, your YT vids and TikToks, make me feel a lot better, thank you 😊
Definitely I know what it feels like
@Brok3nRos3s YOU WATCH HER 😺?!
“U eat my fry’s, I eat your SOUL”
I love how Kris watches a video and then shows us how she would react in that situation.
Once I had a kind of bad ex experience. Everyday my ex would take pictures of me in class without me knowing, and then sending them to my sister and I. He also started following me everywhere. Eventually I got a school counsler to help me, and he was expelled.😅
Holy shit ok I get that they would be upset but following you everywhere!? Dang if i was a ex boyfriend I would just be friends with the person that broke up with me or the person I broke up with…
Just have a friend who’s good at kickin’ ass (like me! Ok sure we aren’t friends but still) probably an Australian or Scottish dude (once again like me)
Have a wonderful day ( or night )
I have to say Kris is probably the only TH-camr I watch that I actually laugh out loud and I don’t mean just a chuckle.
The thumbnail was so funny I couldn't stop laughing.And also this.😂😂 12:34
Hey Kris! I always do a happy dance when I see a new video posted by you - makes my day! ☺️
*CRAZY EX STORY* : I had to get a restraining order against a guy I dated back in college. He seemed like a genuinely nice guy and we had plenty of memorable times during our relationship....until I found out that he was behind my last breakup.
I was furious because I was happily engaged in that previous relationship.
I won't go into details about it but holy hell was I hurting so much to the point where I refused to come out of my room or eat for several days.
Anyway, I broke up with him right away, and he did *NOT* take it well.
What initially was just multiple attempts to get me to answer his calls and texts became WATCHING ME THROUGH MY APARTMENT WINDOWS - yes.....WINDOWS - EVERY. F*ING. NIGHT.
WHILE KEEPING HIMSELF HIDDEN IN THE WOODS JUST BEHIND MY APARTMENT COMPLEX.
Every night for several hours while I had no idea, he saw me cooking, cleaning, studying, dressing, and sleeping.
Eventually he showed up at my door with a gun in his hand and threatened to shoot himself right then and there if I didn't take him back.
I calmly told him, "Alright. Wait here and let me finish my call with my lab partner and we'll talk."
He fell for it.
I actually called my neighbor for help and then came back to the door with pepper spray and nailed him just as my neighbor was stepping out of her apartment door. She called the cops and took his gun away when she realized what was going on and did not let him run off. Cops arrived within minutes.
I have been super picky with dating since then. And this was about 5 years ago.
I’m sorry u went through that but I hope things get better
OMG! Thank god you’re okay!! Yes please be careful and as picky as possible! You deserve the best queen! ❤️
@@kallmekris Thank you, Kris!! The best love I have found is my own self-love - something you have instilled in me in all your awesome videos! Your compliments really are genuine and uplifting to me. You really know how to touch the hearts of people who need it most! I hope you find the right guy who will give you the same love that you give us - and more! 🤗💚
@@papaya8347 Thank you! I learned a big lesson then and won't ever forget it. 🙃😉
dude thank God that guys in jail now, and that ur ok
Oh man. I have so many crazy ex stories. I don't know what it is but I always seemed to attract really terrible people. I've had 3 major stalkers. But I'll tell the story about one of them.
When I was 16 years old, I met a guy who was in the army. He seemed so sweet, and was always saying the kindest things and bringing gifts over not just for me, but for my mom, aunt and sister as well (I grew up with my mom and aunt because my dad wasn't in my life yet). And they all seemed to really like him. Well, he told us he was 18. And as the age of consent was 16 where I lived and he wasn't pressuring me, just being very nice, my mom was okay with us dating. Well, it got to the point where we started fooling around, not sex, just doing other intimate things. And he left his wallet at our house one time. But I also always had friends over at my house, so my mom opened the wallet to see who it belonged to. She found an ID, and sure enough.... It was the army guy's. Military ID. In which stated he was 26 years old. TWENTY SIX. Yeah... It took my mom every ounce of control she had to not beat the crap out of him. She tried to tell the cops, nothing happened. They talked to me, never went anywhere with it. Of course.
So, a few weeks later, I tell a few friends I'm going to go to the park. I walk there. I used to go sit on the swings to clear my head. I didn't know he had been parked at the park and was watching me. Not until a couple hours later, when I started walking back home. He pulled up next to me in a black car I saw at the park, and asked me if I needed a ride back. I told him I would call the cops if he didn't leave immediately. I called my aunt to come get me, and she did. Things like this kept happening. I'd see him at Walmart, or our Kroger store. Not buying anything. Just showing up at the area of the store I happened to be shipping in. With my family. I'd see him driving around downtown when no one knew I was going to be there except the people I was with. He'd end up everywhere I went. And then I thought I was rid of him for a long time. Until I was 19 and got a phone call from an unknown number. It was him. Calling from jail. He needed someone to come pick him up. He was in jail because a 16 year old girl accused him of R. So at this point he was 29. He tried to tell me that he refused to have sex with her, and she liked him so much that she wanted to get him into trouble because he wouldn't do it. Yeah..... Okay. I didn't believe him for a second. Told him if he ever called me again, I would call the cops. Blocked him, again. I had been blocking every cellular attempt he made to contact me for years. That was the last I heard from him, except one of his friends later told me he was dishonorably discharged for what he did. Apparently I was not the first. And he used to tell his friends that all us 16 year old girls were 18-20. It took a long time before anyone knew the truth or believed us.
Kris: telling us about how cute our ears are.
People who are wearing headphones: I’m i a joke to you
Oh she just *knows*.
I suddenly fell sick today and was lying in bed the whole day with 103°F fever and my inability to walk because of the weakness and dizziness, Then Kris uploaded and it made my day so much better. Thank you so much Kris for enlightening people's lives
I had an ex named Danica and we dated for around 2 years and 7 months
I loved her to bits and she was my first proper kiss.
Things were starting to get bored of me and she dated another guy so i would break up with her she succeeded and i was devastated
for a long time know i hate her to bits
Never had an actual ex before. Been in one long lasting relationship since last March. Never made it past the talking stages before that. When I was in elementary school though, a girl in my class would leave notes about how she had “loved” me from a distance for years really creeped me out. Especially as a 9 year old kid.
she makes me so happy when I feel down even my mom watches her. I love watching you!
Girl, you are my role model. Sometimes I have the most challenging moments in life, but you always give me and everyone else out there compliments. I love ya Kmk. you are fantastic! keep doing what you're doing and don't ever stop. GO, QUEEN
kris is honestly really annoying
YES YES YES YES FINALLY YOU PUT IN STEVEN HE IN THANK YOU
Five minute crafts at 1:29
WRITE THAT DOWN!!
This woman made me feel better when I was sick. Thanks Kris!
I always appreciate what Kris does for us and how much time she puts into her videos ♥️
Here’s my crazy Ex story well I have two
1: So my ex forced me to be with her (I’m bisexual but I’ve dated mostly girls) and a week into the relationship I broke up with her and she shouted at me for an hour until I broke into tears and when I was home she spam called me.
2: This was in the relationship, so if I accidentally hurt my gf (I’m clumsy) she would grab something at chase me with whatever was in her hand it was the same as if I were to walk of to go say hi to friends.We are still friends and I forgive her since we were 13
1:14 "you expect me to believe that Johnny" I immediately thought of amber heard saying that to Johnny Depp