Never marry a man who encourages your masculine side. Be aware and avoid men who place you in the position to make all of the decisions for the home and family. What a disadvantage that can be. rip Pastor Darby. Sharing priceless wisdom.
This sermon was so true it hurt. Even though my husband was leading me off a cliff, I pushed him there. God remove the Jezebel spirit in my life and in the life of my daughters so they will not follow in the mistakes that I have made. My home is out of order and our family is broken apart. Our 7 children are hurt and my husband is gone. Cleanse and cover me, forgive and protect me. Fight my battles for me and bring our family back together if it is your will.
Who’s watching this in August 2019 and it’s STILL rich!!!! Omg...THANK YOU Father, for giving us Stephen Darby!! He is gone but the anointing is still effective!
As a woman! I can say he preached this word through and through! As a 20 something, that jezebel spirit ran me I won’t lie! In my early 30s now, and I reject that spirit! It disgusts me to see it now in the media (especially in Music), family, everywhere… This was a convicting word and it was much needed. Praise God for inspiring Pastor Darby’s teachings. Bless his wife, family and the ministry!
I fought this spirt all my life not knowing about it. I had a direct encounter with it for 5 years in a marriage that almost cost me my mind and life. This pastor was a TRUE man of God.
Thank you Pastor Darby. As a single woman I have made some of these mistakes thinking I was trying to help. But I see that the man has to lead it cannot be forced. The Lord has to get that man's attention.
As a newly married woman, knowing the agenda placed against the family and against man/woman. This sermon spoke so personally to me, because even with that knowledge I did not realize the Jezebel tendencies that I carry within myself. Because my husband is truly walking in his covering, I have to repent and as Yahuah to help me.
Yall the Jezebel spirit caught me one day. I was angry with my man for no reason and he was calm asking me what was wrong and I held on to the anger for a minute and brought something up that wasn’t a real reason but he saw thru it. I snapped out of to the anger and was confused why I was even mad. I’m so happy I found Pastor Darby. I’m working on myself everyday.
I’m here in 2023. I’m breaking down my life. I’m cleaning out my closet. Getting those skeletons out. I know this spirit is apart of me. I’m claiming it With open honesty. So I can be delivered and save my Kids, my family and myself.
Powerful message man of God. I've grown a lot listening to your messages! being a wife and a mother sometimes I have to remind myself that my husband got it and that he's the Head of the household.
He’s teaching Gods divine ORDER.... churches aren’t teaching this. I grew up in a church that was ran by jezebels, to the point that the Pastor was going to them for permission to do certain things smh.... ladies we must do self-checks often to make sure we aren’t walking in a jezebel spirit... I’ve been guilty of this in part and fear of being lead down the wrong road but when God is in control of the man then he will lead you right!!
2022 these messages are extremely imperative as we see these things already at play. At the end. Keep your salvation at the front of your mind! Desire eternal reward and make the earthly change. HALLELUYAH
This is crazy everybody needs to hear this I can't find a pastor that preach like him or even close to him he have a true gift from God WOW always on point a great relationship message
I just shared this sermon with my sister praise the Lord she came to Christ two weeks ago all glory to the most high! I just love how Pastor D breaks it down solid work now rest in peace brother your work on earth is done 🙏💟🌹
I've been dealing with this for years and couldn't identify what it was until now. All I can say is thank you Jesus and there is work to do on both our parts.
That’s crazy I clicked on this video and an advertisement came up with a almost naked woman. the devil be working but he can’t stop us for the Holy Spirit lives in us
This is by far one of the BEST teachings on Men & Women relationships I have ever heard!!!!!! Thank you Pastor Darby, I am learning so much from you, and will be sending a seed whenever I can.
Father,thank You for this much needed message through Pastor Darby. Forgive me for having the Jezebel spirit and being a bad example for my son and daughters. Cleanse me and deliver me and each of my children. Bless our family,bless my children's future marriages and families. Let my children desire to obey and follow you all the days of their lives. In Jesus name.🙏❤️
Nothing about this message suggested that any man dominate his wife, but only to LOVE and LEAD, because God requires this. ORDER!!!! OBEDIENCE so the family can benefit as one under God.
Please continue to Pray for people who's lives were destroyed by this Jezebel spirit...i know im not the only one..when you loose your family its like dying evryday..pray for me.😞
Such a powerful message that uncovers completely, the devices that satan uses to destroy our marriages and relationships with one another. I thank God for this.
Such a transformative word! Wow. This is exactly what I needed to here. My flesh is dying daily. This is something that I’m just now understanding how deep this spirit can cut and manipulate . Praise the Lord for continually delivering me. At the end my heart started to ache but praise God for deliverance. Hallelujah
I listen to alot of his messages and most of them have the same message men need to be men and women need to be women this is the main problem in society no order or guidence its like we just out here living. Thank u pastor darby
In this day and age when this type of teaching is RARE. It is so refreshing to have this on the internet so to share with others. Thank you Pastor for the message and allowing the Lord to use you. We as women do not like to admit when we are wrong. But as a Child of God I had to do some soul searching and admit I see some things within myself from time to time that I myself must pray to God to remove. Thank you for preaching EXACTLY what we need to hear. May God continue to Bless you and your family.
Another lesson that has humbled me completely at 29 years old 😢 thank you pastor Darby for your ministry I shared this with my mom dad and brother and they didn’t even respond back to me but lord I want love I have a daughter and son and I do not want to continue to let the jezebel spirit take over me iam done listening to people when they don’t even know.
I thank God for Pastor Darby's realness and his ability to make the truth plain and understandable. His messages will sit in your spirit and keeps ministering to you days after. I greatly appreciate it.
This is one of the Realest preachings I’ve heard!! That jezebel spirit is always on the rise. We as females must rebuke rebuke rebuke!! Like he said, it rises from time to time, we must check ourselves!! God blessed him!
I can truly say that this message touched my spirit. God showed me myself the other day, and I saw myself as a monster. So I know this message is for me, thank you man of God for allowing God to use you.
Thank you JESUS for pastor stephen darby ... And thank you first lady missy for keeping pastor darby word going and coming forward i don't know no pastor like him his preaching and teaching 🙏❤🌷
This bless my entire life to actually see a Pastor who is honest enough to talk about and not skate around what you have known to be right in your heart but never could put into words because some leaders were not honest enough to tell you because they were/ are dealing with a Jezebel Spirit and are scared it will tare up everything they have built
This Word is sooooooooooo powerful and is setting me free to be obedient to God and what He wants for me. Thank you Pastor Missy for uploading and it's a pleasure to support this ministry.🥰🥰😇😇🥳🤒
My gosh if he isn't on point. I can be sitting there quiet folding clothes and my husband will look at me and say "babe what's wrong? You real quiet" 😂🤣 I'm like get out of my head please!
This is indeed a powerful sermon, I am learning a lot just listening. Every marriage should know who is better at handling different things in the marriage. I understand that my husband is the "head", but that doesn't make him less than, and it doesn't make me want to be the head and in control just because he says, bae look, you handle this and this every month and this because I cant remember all that, or you are better at organizing than me. Sometimes our husbands don't "have it" and need a little help, that's why we are called "help meets" Gen 2:18. Each married couple do things differently, but as long as we know our places God will still get the Glory!
Powerful message! Thank you ABBA for the life and legacy of Pastor Darby! May his children, wife, church and all that knew and love(d) him , be bless and covered under the blood of Jesus.
Here! March 18, 2023 and Pastor’s sermons are so relevant and describe us perfectly to this day! God bless Pastor Darby’s family and God please continue to cover and keep them. They were blessed to have this man of God in their lives!
I just listened to this message for the first time and I have such clarity about what I have been going through with my daughter since she was a small child to now....I know how to fight this thing now....may the Lord continue to bless Pastor Darby's family and his messages continue to cut the way they do...
Wow! This is good! I've never heard preaching that addresses the spirit of Jezebel in this way. My eyes opened even more! Thanks and blessings in the Most High GOD.
GREAT TEACHING, Pastor Darby. I totally agree most women haven't been taught on how to let the man lead! Also, your explanation of the bride, groom & father has never been explained like that...I totally get it now!!
Ive heard this message a few times and it seems like every time it hits home. Its 2018 and its still prevalent. We are facing so much as a body, I can't believe feminism has wiggled her way into the church. Thank you destined ministries!...still missing you pastor!
Rest in Heaven Pastor Darby. I thank my sweet God and Precious Jesus for you and your word. God bless your wife, ministry, your family, and people like myself and others who hears and understand the word from Jesus Christ. God bless the Father, the Son, the Holy Spirit, and the Holy Ghost. Amen Hallelujah.
Oh My Gosh!!! This is the realest sermon on TH-cam!!! I wonder if ppl really listen to this...like really listen. 🤔 I'm listening & I already know I need to listen a 2nd time. So many gems💎. I'm a woman & I didn't even realize how much of this is so true!!! Ppl need to see this b4 they get married.
Pastor, what a great and powerful message wittily presented. I too had difficulty with submission but I'm learning to be obedient to the Lord's word and to submit to my husband. I have seen tremendous changes since I have been living the way a wife should be and it has transformed my husband and he is beginning to operate the way the Lord wants him to operate and how I was always longing for him to be.
If you didn’t know any better you would think this sermon was in 2023 we truly were blessed with pastor Darby
Never marry a man who encourages your masculine side. Be aware and avoid men who place you in the position to make all of the decisions for the home and family. What a disadvantage that can be.
rip Pastor Darby. Sharing priceless wisdom.
Still listening April 2024❤️🙏🏾🌹
This sermon was so true it hurt. Even though my husband was leading me off a cliff, I pushed him there. God remove the Jezebel spirit in my life and in the life of my daughters so they will not follow in the mistakes that I have made. My home is out of order and our family is broken apart. Our 7 children are hurt and my husband is gone. Cleanse and cover me, forgive and protect me. Fight my battles for me and bring our family back together if it is your will.
I find myself coming here everyday just to stay sane. My workplace is controlled by Jezebels.
THE REALIST PASTOR I'VE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE..... ...
real men say real man things. And its needed in the church
amen
Wow, not many womeb around that would say that.
Jan 2023
The spirit of jezebel ( and Leviathan) is ruling this culture
Who’s watching this in August 2019 and it’s STILL rich!!!! Omg...THANK YOU Father, for giving us Stephen Darby!! He is gone but the anointing is still effective!
when you have that level of selfcontrol you cant be manipulated
August 2023 and I'm back here. This is perfect. Thank you for all the work you did man of God. May you continue to rest in peace.🙏🏾❤️
As a woman! I can say he preached this word through and through! As a 20 something, that jezebel spirit ran me I won’t lie! In my early 30s now, and I reject that spirit! It disgusts me to see it now in the media (especially in Music), family, everywhere… This was a convicting word and it was much needed. Praise God for inspiring Pastor Darby’s teachings. Bless his wife, family and the ministry!
I fought this spirt all my life not knowing about it. I had a direct encounter with it for 5 years in a marriage that almost cost me my mind and life. This pastor was a TRUE man of God.
The Realest Preacher ever!
Thank you Pastor Darby. As a single woman I have made some of these mistakes thinking I was trying to help. But I see that the man has to lead it cannot be forced. The Lord has to get that man's attention.
+Different by Design Yes amen.....Getting some wisdom
I cant get tired listening to these sermons...
" I ain't beggin! Im not Keith Sweat" Lol. Would have been an honor to have met this brotha. The word of God lives on.
As a newly married woman, knowing the agenda placed against the family and against man/woman. This sermon spoke so personally to me, because even with that knowledge I did not realize the Jezebel tendencies that I carry within myself. Because my husband is truly walking in his covering, I have to repent and as Yahuah to help me.
Solid teaching
I’m going to obey and yield to my husband
Yall the Jezebel spirit caught me one day. I was angry with my man for no reason and he was calm asking me what was wrong and I held on to the anger for a minute and brought something up that wasn’t a real reason but he saw thru it. I snapped out of to the anger and was confused why I was even mad. I’m so happy I found Pastor Darby. I’m working on myself everyday.
I’m here in 2023. I’m breaking down my life. I’m cleaning out my closet. Getting those skeletons out. I know this spirit is apart of me. I’m claiming it With open honesty. So I can be delivered and save my Kids, my family and myself.
Wow. Amen.
"Brothers, thats why you gotta be Self Controlled, you be led by nothing but the spirit"
Powerful message man of God. I've grown a lot listening to your messages! being a wife and a mother sometimes I have to remind myself that my husband got it and that he's the Head of the household.
This is Dewayne Wade and Gabrielle Union to the T!!!
I love raising children and staying at home. No desire to be equal. He can lead.
Man never heard a pastor break it down like this thank you God for letting me hear pastor Darby and receive your word
Many are called but few are chosen.
I was never taught how to trust a man this teaching was right for me!!!
He’s teaching Gods divine ORDER.... churches aren’t teaching this. I grew up in a church that was ran by jezebels, to the point that the Pastor was going to them for permission to do certain things smh.... ladies we must do self-checks often to make sure we aren’t walking in a jezebel spirit... I’ve been guilty of this in part and fear of being lead down the wrong road but when God is in control of the man then he will lead you right!!
2022 these messages are extremely imperative as we see these things already at play.
At the end.
Keep your salvation at the front of your mind! Desire eternal reward and make the earthly change. HALLELUYAH
RIP Stephen,you did a lot in a short time!!
This is crazy everybody needs to hear this I can't find a pastor that preach like him or even close to him he have a true gift from God WOW always on point a great relationship message
I pray I am delivered from this so my marriage can heal and prosper in the way Most High intended!
HERE IN SEPTEMBER 25, 2023!!! WORD IS EYE OPENING AND DELIVERING. MY GOD!!
My Favorite Pastor ever!! This message I sent to all the girls
I just shared this sermon with my sister praise the Lord she came to Christ two weeks ago all glory to the most high! I just love how Pastor D breaks it down solid work now rest in peace brother your work on earth is done 🙏💟🌹
This guy is really teaching
Everything this man speaks about years ago is exactly what’s playing out today!!❤ Every time I listen to him I get totally amazed by him.
I've been dealing with this for years and couldn't identify what it was until now. All I can say is thank you Jesus and there is work to do on both our parts.
The most powerful sermon I have ever listened to. Wow, God be praised 🔥
That’s crazy I clicked on this video and an advertisement came up with a almost naked woman. the devil be working but he can’t stop us for the Holy Spirit lives in us
This is by far one of the BEST teachings on Men & Women relationships I have ever heard!!!!!! Thank you Pastor Darby, I am learning so much from you, and will be sending a seed whenever I can.
Father,thank You for this much needed message through Pastor Darby. Forgive me for having the Jezebel spirit and being a bad example for my son and daughters. Cleanse me and deliver me and each of my children. Bless our family,bless my children's future marriages and families. Let my children desire to obey and follow you all the days of their lives. In Jesus name.🙏❤️
Nothing about this message suggested that any man dominate his wife, but only to LOVE and LEAD, because God requires this. ORDER!!!! OBEDIENCE so the family can benefit as one under God.
Please continue to Pray for people who's lives were destroyed by this Jezebel spirit...i know im not the only one..when you loose your family its like dying evryday..pray for me.😞
I'm a woman!!! An I laughed my behind off. Everything he said is so true!!!
There can only be one Pastor Darby, the general of our time. RIP brother. Being blessed and cant get enough of the sermons.
Such a powerful message that uncovers completely, the devices that satan uses to destroy our marriages and relationships with one another. I thank God for this.
My GOD! The Bible is now all making sense to me. Praise You MOST HIGH GOD in Jesus name!
I miss your husband and very thankful for you for still sharing his work
Pastor your, Right about the Jezebel Spirit! I had the Jezebel Spirit , I thank the Most High for delivering from that Spirit.
Wow this needs to be heard everywhere
Such a transformative word! Wow. This is exactly what I needed to here. My flesh is dying daily. This is something that I’m just now understanding how deep this spirit can cut and manipulate . Praise the Lord for continually delivering me. At the end my heart started to ache but praise God for deliverance. Hallelujah
I listen to alot of his messages and most of them have the same message men need to be men and women need to be women this is the main problem in society no order or guidence its like we just out here living. Thank u pastor darby
In this day and age when this type of teaching is RARE. It is so refreshing to have this on the internet so to share with others. Thank you Pastor for the message and allowing the Lord to use you. We as women do not like to admit when we are wrong. But as a Child of God I had to do some soul searching and admit I see some things within myself from time to time that I myself must pray to God to remove. Thank you for preaching EXACTLY what we need to hear. May God continue to Bless you and your family.
Powerful message.. Miss you pastor Darby R. I. P my favorite pastor 😥
Another lesson that has humbled me completely at 29 years old 😢 thank you pastor Darby for your ministry I shared this with my mom dad and brother and they didn’t even respond back to me but lord I want love I have a daughter and son and I do not want to continue to let the jezebel spirit take over me iam done listening to people when they don’t even know.
Best preacher in the world!!!!!
I thank God for Pastor Darby's realness and his ability to make the truth plain and understandable. His messages will sit in your spirit and keeps ministering to you days after. I greatly appreciate it.
This is truly a deliverance message !!!!
Cold blooded message, straight with no chaser... it was hard but it was right!..
shalom MHNCB
This is one of the Realest preachings I’ve heard!! That jezebel spirit is always on the rise. We as females must rebuke rebuke rebuke!! Like he said, it rises from time to time, we must check ourselves!! God blessed him!
Man, I learn so much from this guy!......he is truly anointed.
Realest Sermon I've ever seen/heard regarding jezebel, marriage, our roles as men and women and Husbands and Wives. Wisdom all over this here.
2020. And his messages are still relevant, Thank you Jesus
Back listening for the third time! September 2024 ❤❤❤ I love you Darby family!
I know he's telling the truth. I cannot stand confusion and I cannot stand when folks try to be out of order and think you won't say anything.
I can truly say that this message touched my spirit. God showed me myself the other day, and I saw myself as a monster. So I know this message is for me, thank you man of God for allowing God to use you.
2024 he speaking truth in real time
The Spirit of Jehu throws Jezebel off the balcony.
Thank you JESUS for pastor stephen darby ... And thank you first lady missy for keeping pastor darby word going and coming forward i don't know no pastor like him his preaching and teaching 🙏❤🌷
This bless my entire life to actually see a Pastor who is honest enough to talk about and not skate around what you have known to be right in your heart but never could put into words because some leaders were not honest enough to tell you because they were/ are dealing with a Jezebel Spirit and are scared it will tare up everything they have built
Best Teacher ever! Blessed he is!
This Word is sooooooooooo powerful and is setting me free to be obedient to God and what He wants for me. Thank you Pastor Missy for uploading and it's a pleasure to support this ministry.🥰🥰😇😇🥳🤒
blk women here, this hit hard but unfortunately all true...Lord help us hebrew women back to submission Jesus name!!!
My gosh if he isn't on point. I can be sitting there quiet folding clothes and my husband will look at me and say "babe what's wrong? You real quiet" 😂🤣 I'm like get out of my head please!
Pastor Darby...
You are on point!!! My eyes are open!!!
Thank you!!!
This is indeed a powerful sermon, I am learning a lot just listening. Every marriage should know who is better at handling different things in the marriage. I understand that my husband is the "head", but that doesn't make him less than, and it doesn't make me want to be the head and in control just because he says, bae look, you handle this and this every month and this because I cant remember all that, or you are better at organizing than me. Sometimes our husbands don't "have it" and need a little help, that's why we are called "help meets" Gen 2:18. Each married couple do things differently, but as long as we know our places God will still get the Glory!
Powerful message! Thank you ABBA for the life and legacy of Pastor Darby! May his children, wife, church and all that knew and love(d) him , be bless and covered under the blood of Jesus.
Whew 🎯🔥🔥🔥 all praises to The Most High Yah, Pastor Darby stay on point! Nothing new under the sun and that jezebel spirit running wild! 12/7/22
Y’all… just 7 minutes into this and God has already delivered a message. Teach me more please. Mind blown .wow.
Here! March 18, 2023 and Pastor’s sermons are so relevant and describe us perfectly to this day! God bless Pastor Darby’s family and God please continue to cover and keep them. They were blessed to have this man of God in their lives!
I just listened to this message for the first time and I have such clarity about what I have been going through with my daughter since she was a small child to now....I know how to fight this thing now....may the Lord continue to bless Pastor Darby's family and his messages continue to cut the way they do...
Still Here #December 22, 2024 @ 11.46am in #Arlington, Texas
🐦🔥
I.truly miss this Man of God. We need more preachers like this to reveal uncompromised truth
Wow! This is good! I've never heard preaching that addresses the spirit of Jezebel in this way. My eyes opened even more! Thanks and blessings in the Most High GOD.
If you. Don’t think like this. Man and weman don’t get married.😇because all your doing putting each other through hell. End of story
This is the only Pastor I still listen to because the Word of God lives on !
Amen i just discovered this man yesterday wow
GREAT TEACHING, Pastor Darby. I totally agree most women haven't been taught on how to let the man lead! Also, your explanation of the bride, groom & father has never been explained like that...I totally get it now!!
Yo, this is so off the hook.... The world may not be ready for this message but it is exactly what it needs to hear!!! This is SO GOOD!!!
Pastor Stephen Darby best pastor ever, his word is & will also be relevant because it's the truth!
RIEP much luv my brother
All praises to The Most High for bringing out God’s Word. I really enjoyed this.
Ive heard this message a few times and it seems like every time it hits home. Its 2018 and its still prevalent. We are facing so much as a body, I can't believe feminism has wiggled her way into the church. Thank you destined ministries!...still missing you pastor!
Absolutely revelatory & necessary, especially in today;s society. That Jezebel spirit is rampant in & out of churches! Pastor Darby was a blessing...
Rest in Heaven Pastor Darby. I thank my sweet God and Precious Jesus for you and your word. God bless your wife, ministry, your family, and people like myself and others who hears and understand the word from Jesus Christ.
God bless the Father, the Son, the Holy Spirit, and the Holy Ghost.
Amen
Hallelujah.
Listening to this in 2020. The truth will never be hindered. God bless this family.
I was just telling my wife this.......this guy is on point.
They been saying that The first lady of this nation is a man.
Oh My Gosh!!! This is the realest sermon on TH-cam!!! I wonder if ppl really listen to this...like really listen. 🤔 I'm listening & I already know I need to listen a 2nd time. So many gems💎. I'm a woman & I didn't even realize how much of this is so true!!! Ppl need to see this b4 they get married.
Pastor, what a great and powerful message wittily presented. I too had difficulty with submission but I'm learning to be obedient to the Lord's word and to submit to my husband. I have seen tremendous changes since I have been living the way a wife should be and it has transformed my husband and he is beginning to operate the way the Lord wants him to operate and how I was always longing for him to be.
Amen!!!, May GOD continue to Bless your marriage.