This video hit home for me as I am 46 and lost my partner last year. I have come to realize I will be alone for the rest of my life. I am a part of the LGBT community, and the dating poor is very small. It's a sad place to be and realize that this is my new reality.
I’m so sorry for your loss, you’re still very young I hope you find someone new to share your amazing life, most people do not understand how powerful it is to lose someone, I lost my uncle in March of this year it was so painful cuz he was 46 years old, we have never lost any young person in our family before, that thrown me into full-blown depression because he Was A good man and He was killed in this house and that incident stuck in My head most Nights I Keep thinking about what happened to him, and I think of my life Generally, I felt so bad because I hadn’t spoken with him for like 2 years I was running from him as he was asking me to get married when I turned 30 and now I found the one we are getting married soon but my beloved uncle is no longer here to witness it. Now I know good people will always be in our hearts. All my love to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
When i was 12 i learned the difference between isolation and solitude. After 20 years i can say many of these women are in solitude but see it as isolation. They are holding themselves back by not pursuing a partner. These women are attractive and would have no issue finding someone but do they want to do that work? It baffles me how someone can touch fire and continue to touch fire when they know it burns. The 3rd woman does not deserve anything, no one does. You get what you work towards, not because you are worthy.
Just one question, why doesn't society criticize single and childless men as it does women? Why do men seem to deal better with "loneliness" or the fact that they don't have children or a wife? Is it because they can find a wife or have children until old age?
😂😂😂😂 seriously I've asked this question too, it’s really painful to see how women are being called out for being single and childless, it’s sad to see how society treats women.
@@ellamedic8963 I think that women should expose men's dirty games (their use of placeholders, etc...) and mind games ( when they have their eyes on another chicken, they treat us badly until we take the initiative to leave the relationship so they don't get the bad look, etc...) but they should stop coming to the internet "crying" that they are single with cats and fine, or who are abstinent from se*, that don't want kids (even if is true) etc... this still gives men a reason to make fun of us! This is the only aspect that we have to imitate men, otherwise it would just be exposing men's game
@@ellamedic8963 I think that women should expose men's dirty games (their use of placeholders, etc...) and mind games (tfor example: when they have their eyes on another chicken, they treat us badly until we take the initiative to leave the relationship so they don't get the bad look, etc...) but they should stop coming to the internet "crying" that they are single with cats, and fine, or who are abstinent from se*, don't want kids (even if all that is true) etc... this still gives men a reason to make fun of us (say women are alone with cats, are bitter...)! This is the only aspect that we have to imitate men (Women on a sentimental and emotional level lose to men, men can stay silent about feelings and suffer, we can't) otherwise it would just be exposing men's game to help other women
@@Veeafa I agree with you, but in addition to society criticizing this in women, it is women themselves (not much from our generation but from our parents' and grandparents' generation) who criticize it too. And even for those who have children, you often see women in the comments giving opinions on how that mother should take care of her children, you almost never see men criticizing a woman's education for her children (they also don't say anything because they don't do nothing about children), just women and mothers. Leaving the subject a little, the truth is that men are more united than women, you rarely see a father criticizing another father for abandoning his children (they still defend themselves in the wrong). On the other hand, women criticize other women when raising their children (even though the woman is tired and present 24 hours a day doing her best)
These women have all had good guys in their lives, but they likely have ignored them, friend zoned them, or done dumb stuff like wanting an open relationship because they aren't getting what they want all of the time. I have been married almost 20 years and I can tell you that isn't always happy perfect all of the time. Life throws difficult things at you and sometimes you have to put in some work to make the relationship work. I have almost no sympathy for these women. I know many great guys that are single that women won't even consider because they don't make a ton of money and aren't super tall, etc. Women need to learn to not be so picky and rediculous or else this is where they are headed.
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I have many people around ,but I'm still feeling lonely because I'm alone with my way of deep thinking
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This video hit home for me as I am 46 and lost my partner last year. I have come to realize I will be alone for the rest of my life. I am a part of the LGBT community, and the dating poor is very small. It's a sad place to be and realize that this is my new reality.
I’m so sorry for your loss, you’re still very young I hope you find someone new to share your amazing life, most people do not understand how powerful it is to lose someone, I lost my uncle in March of this year it was so painful cuz he was 46 years old, we have never lost any young person in our family before, that thrown me into full-blown depression because he Was A good man and He was killed in this house and that incident stuck in My head most Nights I Keep thinking about what happened to him, and I think of my life Generally, I felt so bad because I hadn’t spoken with him for like 2 years I was running from him as he was asking me to get married when I turned 30 and now I found the one we are getting married soon but my beloved uncle is no longer here to witness it. Now I know good people will always be in our hearts. All my love to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Veeafa I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for your story and kind words ❤️ 🙏 😊
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When i was 12 i learned the difference between isolation and solitude. After 20 years i can say many of these women are in solitude but see it as isolation. They are holding themselves back by not pursuing a partner. These women are attractive and would have no issue finding someone but do they want to do that work? It baffles me how someone can touch fire and continue to touch fire when they know it burns.
The 3rd woman does not deserve anything, no one does. You get what you work towards, not because you are worthy.
Just one question, why doesn't society criticize single and childless men as it does women? Why do men seem to deal better with "loneliness" or the fact that they don't have children or a wife? Is it because they can find a wife or have children until old age?
😂😂😂😂 seriously I've asked this question too, it’s really painful to see how women are being called out for being single and childless, it’s sad to see how society treats women.
Men are suffering too, but they’re not expressing it and especially not on social media
@@ellamedic8963 I think that women should expose men's dirty games (their use of placeholders, etc...) and mind games ( when they have their eyes on another chicken, they treat us badly until we take the initiative to leave the relationship so they don't get the bad look, etc...) but they should stop coming to the internet "crying" that they are single with cats and fine, or who are abstinent from se*, that don't want kids (even if is true) etc... this still gives men a reason to make fun of us! This is the only aspect that we have to imitate men, otherwise it would just be exposing men's game
@@ellamedic8963 I think that women should expose men's dirty games (their use of placeholders, etc...) and mind games (tfor example: when they have their eyes on another chicken, they treat us badly until we take the initiative to leave the relationship so they don't get the bad look, etc...) but they should stop coming to the internet "crying" that they are single with cats, and fine, or who are abstinent from se*, don't want kids (even if all that is true) etc... this still gives men a reason to make fun of us (say women are alone with cats, are bitter...)! This is the only aspect that we have to imitate men (Women on a sentimental and emotional level lose to men, men can stay silent about feelings and suffer, we can't) otherwise it would just be exposing men's game to help other women
@@Veeafa I agree with you, but in addition to society criticizing this in women, it is women themselves (not much from our generation but from our parents' and grandparents' generation) who criticize it too. And even for those who have children, you often see women in the comments giving opinions on how that mother should take care of her children, you almost never see men criticizing a woman's education for her children (they also don't say anything because they don't do nothing about children), just women and mothers.
Leaving the subject a little, the truth is that men are more united than women, you rarely see a father criticizing another father for abandoning his children (they still defend themselves in the wrong). On the other hand, women criticize other women when raising their children (even though the woman is tired and present 24 hours a day doing her best)
This is just normal existence for an average man.
These women have all had good guys in their lives, but they likely have ignored them, friend zoned them, or done dumb stuff like wanting an open relationship because they aren't getting what they want all of the time. I have been married almost 20 years and I can tell you that isn't always happy perfect all of the time. Life throws difficult things at you and sometimes you have to put in some work to make the relationship work. I have almost no sympathy for these women. I know many great guys that are single that women won't even consider because they don't make a ton of money and aren't super tall, etc. Women need to learn to not be so picky and rediculous or else this is where they are headed.
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