Worst Flight Ever: A Guy wouldn’t leave me alone for 11 HOURS, Boyfriend Scolded Me (I left Korea)
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Hey guys, I’m really grateful for your kind and supportive comments! But please don’t bring nationality or race into the discussion. I left that information out so you might not even guess rightly. Let’s not be too quick to generalize!
- Jennie ❤️
Great job handling the situation jennie! Im sorry things like that happen to you as a girl whos been through similar things you did well and I totally understand how pressuring, trapped, and unsafe you can feel when you have no help, but handled it like a champ! Much love and support ~ ❤ (BTW I GET HOW HARD IT IS TO SAY NO!!! ITS SO HARD TO BE MEAN I UNDERSTAND T-T)
Don't worry Jennie i can feel it happens with me one time and the most shocking part ever after telling them we are already engaged with someone else they still try to get our numbers 😢 very creepy experience
I knew his nationality by the flag on his sleeve, and I’m sorry this happened to you. Things like this happen to Iranian women every single day.
I knew his nationality by the flag on his sleeve, and I’m sorry this happened to you. Things like this happen to Iranian women every single day.
The guy from that country their mentality is built different
That guy is the definition of the saying “Men aren’t single by choice” 💀
Not everyone are same!
shitty sentence
Average feminist thoughs 💀
What does his behavior have to do with men in general?
Abusive people don't deserve a partner and should stay single their entire lives.
How disrespectful of that guy, no means no! Did you notify the crew? They can help in situations like this
some people don't really have social skills. They can't read the room.
No is already a complete sentence.
@@Katniss0000it’s not about not having social skills it’s about not caring about others. He didn’t care that she said no or didn’t want to or even had a bf.
@@Katniss0000I could almost feel the narcissist and psycho right there.. This happened to me too in a similar flight and it was just like her same experience!! When you say no and they keep insisting, it means they don't respect your opinion or the boundaries you set. That's very dangerous, and they won't stop until they get what they want. Also, asking for things while she was asleep, after she had already said no and thanked him, is not a good sign. Additionally, she clarified that she had a boyfriend and he didn't care. This person is a narcissist trying to reel in their new target by doing hoovering.
@@Katniss0000i think u need social skills to
As a Flight attendant myself, I would do my best to help you out in this situation. If that ever happens to you again, and I hope it won’t, contact one of the flight attendant and ask to change seat because the passenger next to you is bothering you. Most of the time, they will either give you another seat, or talk to that passenger to stop his behavior and if the plane is full, maybe try to change seat with another man or something.
Like Hojun said “11 hours flight should be comfortable for you”, and Im sorry that happened to you…
Unfortunately, many men (even women) don’t know how to take “no” for an answer.
And please, in this situation, there is no more being polite needed. Especially when you told him many times you had a boyfriend and that you weren’t interested.
Hope you will forget about this unfortunate event and will move on quickly 🫶🏼
Remember that usually there's an in-flight supervisor to whom you could report the incident to. They have a duty to take care of the matter and would likely recommend imposing a flight ban on this person. If he doesn't learn his lesson, he may go on to do this with other women.
Agree they could of even change her seat to even sometimes upgrade to first class if they dont have Economic available
I hate the part where she says that she has to be polite to that creature. No you dont. Especially if you are surrounded by other people, that could potentially help you.
It is NEVER a woman's fault when men behave this way. No means no, whether you say it politely, rudely, with humour or any other way. You did nothing to deserve this experience. If it happens again I would suggest very politely but firmly saying . "Please leave me alone. I have been clear that I am not interested. If you cannot respect my boundary I will speak to the flight attendant about the way you are harassing me."
And Hojun be on your girl's side. I'm disappointed to hear you say she did anything to deserve this.
EDIT: I didn't say Hojun was a terrible, bad guy. I just pointed out that he could be more supportive. I will never not be amazed at how far we go to defend men from even the tiniest bit of constructive criticism, while simultaneously expecting the woman in the situation to accept all of our feedback on her behaviour just after she's clearly been harassed. FFS!
I was shocked! I can't believe Hojun blamed her in any way, if something worse happened I'd hate to think how he would react
It's Korean man, what else do you expect? Most of them are somewhat misogynistic and blame women.@@shelby6
I have to agree... Soo happy I saw this comment an you're right in everything 😌
진지빨지 마세요ㅋ
@shelby6 I am a woman and I agree that that man is 100% in the wrong. but I'm sure Hojun's words don't mean to victim-blame her. Instead, it seems like advice on how to protect herself in that kind of situation. It's such a sad world we lived in, but we can only control ourselves, not others. And I rather be safe than proving that I'm right
The stalker on the plane is just disgusting. That’s just sexual harassment. Kudos to you for remaining calm and you got way from him
im glad her boyfriend stayed calm during the whole situation and gave her advice.
I disagree. 'No, thank you' still means no, if a guy hears this and thinks, 'not a 100% no, then!" something is wrong with him
Exactly, the important word is no! If they choose to cherry pick that out of the sentence just because you ended it with thank you that is a them problem, not a you problem!
No means no, no matter how the no is delivered!!
Hey Jennie, I don't know if you'll read this but if you do, maybe it'll help. This is coming from a 42 year old unnie who was a bit of a people pleaser and wanting to be nice when I was your age. While I really understand where you're coming from, and it can be deeply uncomfortable to be rude to people because we ourselves don't want to be treated that way, the world is also not a nice place. Reserve your niceness for those who deserve it. The guy who was encroaching on your personal bubble and disrespecting your boundaries does not deserve to be treated with kindness. The guy has a lesson to learn. He thinks he's god's gift to women and he expected you to fall all over his feet for being kind to you. Hell no. He does not. That said, I know how difficult it is to be "rude" (your words) right now so it helps if you can rehearse in your mind what you would do in situations like this in future. What you would say, what you can do, etc. Sometimes, you need to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. By that, I mean being rude is deeply uncomfortable for you, but life needs you to do something that is uncomfortable. After that, you may feel empowered, and liberated. You've taken your power back, instead of having your mood and your space being affected by this guy. *hugs* Things will be better, and we all live and learn. Don't be so hard on yourself, and take it as a life lesson.
Being rude can be dangerous though, hence why a lot of women are polite when they say no because some men are scary
@@shelby6 I'm aware of that. It's a fine line. If she's alone in a dark alley, I think being polite while getting away is a safer option. Here, she is in an airplane, surrounded by people and cabin crew. She's protected, in a sense. I'm also a bit angry, because she was put into this situation and many other women were also facing the same thing as she was. I had the same experience. These men need to learn to accept the word no, or else they might do it to another women.
Also, I just want to add that being firm and direct is not the same as being rude. Some guys just don't get it unless you're completely straightforward with them.
yueah i agree! I used to please people as well! Now i dont do that anymore :) feels like a breath fresh of air
@@shelby6
As @kestiameshad has already mentioned, in this instance though, on a plane (public space), then you must understand that there are obviously many people on the plane and if she was rude to that creep then he wouldn't dare to be aggressive or else other people would rescue her and beat the shit out of him.
That creep needs to go to jail for life. Motherfucker, he is.
No, you are right. Its always better to be polite to be safe! We never know how a man can react to a no or a rude encounter, especially after we have heard instances of them getting aggressive on soo many of these situations. You weren’t at a fault here, men harassing women regardless of their response is always their fault!! I am so sorry this happened to you, sending you all my support always.
Clear signs of an abuser. I would've pretended like I was going to the bathroom, explained to the flight attendant the situation (including the notes you took) and asked for a different seat.
You don't have to be polite to these men with bad behavior. They will see it as interest, no matter what you say.
To protect yourself when Hojun isn't with you, don't engage. Say you have a boyfriend if you feel the need to be polite but don't say ANYTHING else. Ignore them, no matter how hard they try to get your attention.
I know it's hard because women are taught to be nice, good and kind but only be good and kind to people who are good to you.
Please protect yourself. I'm worried one of these guys will push too far. Don't even say hi. Look away and ignore. Don't engage.
Ella puede decir gracias pero No!!
No es no y punto..
La gente no anda en la vida siendo psicólogo de otros!!
Ella es quien es y punto, una chica noble, educada y sencilla!!..
No tiene que andar pensando que dijo algo que la otra persona no entienda!!
가끔 아무리 NO 라고 말해도 말이 전혀 통하지 않는 남자가 있습니다. 비행기라는 꽉 막힌 공간에서 잘못했다간 어떤 일이 발생할지도 모르는 상황인데 상식이 통하지 않는 사람에게 제니님은 본인의 안전을 위해서 현명하게 잘 대처하신거예요.
Sometimes there are men who don't listen no matter how many times you say "NO." In the confined space of an airplane, anything could happen if things go wrong. Jennie handled the situation wisely for her own safety when dealing with someone who doesn't understand common sense.
South Korea plastic
If you encounter this situation on a plane and the passenger next to you doesn’t stop then you can do the following: tell a cabin crew secretly (like getting up and going to the galley) that the passenger next to you is disturbing you and that you would like to change seat (that is if the flight isn’t completely full)
In certain countries touching someone without their consent is against the law, therefore you have the right to tell the police.
Of course most people don’t want to make a scene and don’t want to make things anymore complicated than they already are, so the best option is to change seat (if you can)
Shouldve told the steward this situation! Its about safety
You saying thank you is not an invitation to others to continue to interact with you in that way. It’s showing gratitude and then moving on.
But saying it because she felt like she had to is not okay either. I think encouraging her to be more cold to men who act like this is a better way to go. So they can get it through their thick skulls.
@@Gisellla I'm not saying it's not. My comment was towards the idea her boyfriend said that saying thank you is why the guy acted like a creep. That's a lame male excuse. She should be able to say thank you to people, especially males, and them not take it as a oh she's interested in me because she gave me attention. In no way is saying thank you to someone an open invitation for them to be so familiar with you and make you uncomfortable. You and I agree on the same thing, but you didn't actually read the meaning of what I said and instead tried to initiate an argument. Also lame behavior.
@@kelseylynnebarber unfortunately, some men do take it as invitations to continue problematic behavior. And it wasn’t an argument and I want trying to come at you in any way lmao. I was just making a point. We still allowed to do that these days? :)
@@Gisellla making what point? She didn’t say she felt she had to. She said it as a way to end the conversation and her boyfriend said no when you do that it’s an invitation and I said at the beginning of this that he’s wrong. It’s not an invitation. To which you proceeding to repeat my statement in a different way as if you have some kind of new take and you don’t. You said the same thing I did in different words. You’ve made nothing.
@@kelseylynnebarber lmao ma’am who hurt you 🤣
Can't play nice with creeps, they will just try harder and harder knowing you are uncomfortable with them.
What about me?
This isn’t meant to disparage Hojun in any way but as someone who has been in these types of situations, it can be frightening and suffocating - especially if you’re trapped next to a creep for a whole 11 hour flight. You cannot gauge how they will react if you’re being more assertive in letting him know to stop his behaviour and the fact that this man thought it was okay to not only touch your items but your foot too shows that he would not have respected your boundaries regardless. I know it makes people feel better to say things like “if you had just done this or that, then the outcome would’ve been better”. But as someone who has asserted themselves in a situation like this (politely too), it did escalate to the man getting more hostile and violent towards me. You are in no way at a fault Jennie, you did what you thought was the right and safest thing to do for yourself. And that’s the best you could’ve done. Again, this isn’t to disparage Hojun but ultimately the fault is always gonna be at those creeps that take advantage of certain situations to corner women and make them uncomfortable.
well said
I agree. It kind of put me off when he said he understood why he kept doing it because she said thank you. I’ve been in many similar situations and it’s different every time. You never know what can happen :// especially being forced to be in proximity with someone like that for hours on end. Made me kinda upset ngl
@@strwbrryrikiYOURE HERE TOO WTH
@@Koniglover890 WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK HELLO?
@@strwbrryriki LMFAOOOOOOO
That was VERY disrespectful. No means no. PERIOD.
YAS GIRL PERIOD .
He is definitely the problem!! I think "no thanks" is a polite no already.
I’m so glad you are okay! You are just a polite and nice person. This has nothing to do with you, the guy was in the fault.
Good luck with your exam.
As a young woman it isn't always easy to know how to react to these kinds of situations and these mens perfectly know what they are doing. Do never blame yourself. All the best for your life 🙏
I completely agree with her, in this day and age if you flat out reject someone sternly half of the time the person you reject will lash out at you. Be safe out there folks. However, maybe it would’ve been a good idea for her to flag down a stewardess and ask to switch seats with someone else.
I am deeply touched by Hojun’s sacrifice and devotion to their relationship 🥰and to save the miserable birth rate of 🇰🇷 😂
Some ppl really doesn't know how to be rude at fast in this type of situations 😢.. such a pure heart person she is ❤.. next time be like a strict and cold person like hojun said😊 ..
0:06 bro the boy who sat next to her is iranian and im iranian too and its so wierd😭
Omg im Iranian too but I don’t speak Persian-
7:36 the bird randomly hopping up...lol
So disrespectful, for me how to deal with this kind of guys is to completely ignore and not answer, do not give him the opportunity to start a conversation with you, leave him talking alone like an idiot ,cuz saying "I have a boyfriend" no longer works.
i felt you so hard on how anything you do would make you more uncomfortable. it's so scary rejecting men outwardly because no one knows how they'll react and i don't want to end up on the news so i'll always just smile and refuse and then proceed to walk away or immediately tell someone i'm uncomfortable.
Watching from nepal🇳🇵cute couple💗
Im so sorry for what happened to you 😭
Jen..you did the best you could without causing a scene. I for one am proud of you! That’s a long flight and you need to be comfortable. Hope you do well on your exam! 🙂❤️🇺🇸
Gurl I live in Denmark And in really glad your bf stayed calm during this situation
You should have talked to the flight attendant about this guy so they could have a talk with him and asked for another seat. This is not acceptable to be this uncomfortable in so many hours on a flight.
You should have turned him down flat. It's not rude. And no wonder your boyfriend is angry.
You think this is her fault? Gaslighting much?
Saying no is not being rude! You establishing your boundaries is not being rude.
Must have been such a uncomfortable experience, sending love and support. From a women to another woman ❤
Jennifer you are gorgeous, watching you with your boyfriend and brother is so fun! Keep going.
cute couple, but yes jennie you must be cold n say NOOOOO! gladly you safe
Same stuff happened to me and I was nervous and shaky, my bf scolded me for not standing up for myself and later he taught me how to reply to men like these for an hour. I had to practice a lot for what I should say the next day when he stalks me again. But he never came. I was relieved, my bf even gave me his police uncle's phone number just in case. I'm too coward to stand up for myself and I can't rely on my bf every day.
Next time, you should wear a ring, a wedding ring-like ring... and tell that kind of stranger that you are married. it might work
It won't
Wont work buddy, their mentality is “good, now i only have one competitor only”
its hard for women to be rude to men like that because we FEAR of what might happen if we hurt their feelings. thats why we have to try to be polite to them when actually we want to scream at them.
She's on a managed flight that probably has staff on-board who are trained to resolve such situations. They would've taken care of it right away, had she notified them.
@@squ34ky they can only control what happens on the plane, he could’ve very well followed her after she got off. You never know what people are thinking
@@Xonatirose there's airport security to handle that eventuality. She also mentioned her family came to pick her up.
@@squ34ky airport security aren’t everywhere and honestly not all of them care. Especially when you’re in that situation itself you’re panicking and thinking the worst. On top of that, it’s not like the flight attendant can watch them 24/7 or move her if the flight was full or people refused. She probably should have talked to them but it’s very likely that it didn’t even cross her mind. Anyway I’m just glad she’s safe.
0:52 SU SU SU SUPERNOVA 🔥🔥🔥🔥
omg i am so sorry that happened to you, no means no for the literal sake! did u notify the crew? know that this is not your fault and i am so happy you refused even when that man asked u many times u still refused! so proud of u jennie
It's really hard to say no to a man when you're potentially in danger if he doesn't like that you were rude or said no. Outside in the open on the street? you can be bold because you can run away or create space between you. But I'd be just as scared of being rude as you were.
I SERIOUSLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO TELL MEN IF I SAY “NO” THEY SAY “OH SO MAYBE??”
0:53 I’m sorry but WAS THAT WINTER FROM AESPA? (Supernova outfit)
Something similar happened to me once. I flagged down a flight attendant when I went to the bathroom who then spoke to the lead flight attendant, and I got moved to first class since they didn't have any seats anywhere else.
You should’ve told a flight attendant asap! They would’ve changed your seat girl!
Omg I see winter 😮😮😮😮 in the airport ✈️ 🥹🥹
Kinda disappointed by your boyfriend's response here... It is NEVER your fault when you are the victim being harassed, no matter how you dress or just for saying "thank you", WTF. It didn't matter what you said to that guy, he would have kept harassing you no matter what. I'm sorry you went through that, it sounds distressing and very uncomfortable, and your bf should have been supporting you here, not discussing whether you said something that could have led him on. Saying 'thank you' is also NOT leading anyone on btw.... You should blame the perpetrator, never the victim. And you are right that being rude could have also escalated things, you simply just never know in these situations. I think you acted as good as one can in a situation like that
I agree she managed it in the best way possible, cuz u never know how would the guy react if u are just straight up rude.
Btw I think Hojun was upset about the situation that's why he said those things to her but still as a guy I would try to cheer up my girl for handling the situation for 11 hours, it would be so uncofmy for a girl to encounter someone like that, just a simple "U did the right thing babe love u" would've been great from Hojun + she told everything to her bf so it was totally unexpected from him...
He has a point here , you can't be harassed and say "thank you" god damn you need to be clear to the person that you're aren't Comfortable
@@mennasdrawings429 She was VERY clear SEVERAL times. Just being polite does NOT excuse ANY type of harassment. Stop looking for what the victim could and should have done, and start blaming the disgusting dude she sat beside instead.
@rigelr5345 no one's saying the creep is innocent? He just has valid advice whether u like or not. It's unfortunate but it is what it is. U need to be firm and cold with these people
@@rigelr5345 I'm talking from her perspective not the terrible person next to her a thank you is WILD
Report to the Police and the Airline company. This type of the behavior is absolutely unacceptable 😤
It sounds like you were trapped next to a creep. Unfortunately, I don't think the guys knew that he was a creep. Anyway, if that happens in the future, just let a flight attendant know about it because he is a stranger bothering you. They will either tell him to stop or have him/you reseat to another spot.
Touching you is crossing the line too far. If that ever happens again please contact the flight attendants and ask to be moved.
Glad you didn't drink anything he offered. He could have drugged it or something. You should have told one of the stewards about the creep and see if you can move seats. So sorry this happened to you.
Omg.. so sorry that happend to you. This person should learn manners and respect again! 😠
Men will never actually understand or grasp the fact what women go through every day. Regardless of whether he is the nicest man out there.
We face consequences whether we we are kind or rude in such situations.
Hojun might've said it (that Jen shouldnt have said thank you and blah blah) because he know how men are but as a woman myself, i felt disappointed to hear that... Not when she called up to share the uncomfortable incident.
The difference in tone of Jen's voice at timestamp 7:35 and 7:38 😂
If something like that happens again, just send him to hell, lol. It also helps when you put a cold face that makes you look intimidating, they wouldn't approach you. But that's just my opinion. 😆 Glad you arrived safe after all that annoying experience.
With all the weirdos it's not odd that a whole lot of girls in public act super cold! But probably not just because of that, they just want to be left alone unless you are Brad Pitt or whatever.
I think a whole lot of guys expect girls to not want any attention at all, and therefore many would not even look at them. But that also makes it a little awkward, not normal if you are sitting besides each other. Should be polite etc, but not disturb. It's lucky I have a wife, life out there is just odd.
Personally, even if the guy is Brad Pitt I'd still get extremely annoyed if a guy approached me for my number or whatever sht he has to say to show he's interested, Since I'm not looking rn. If I wanted a man I'd reach out either myself or only through my social circle I ain't getting with no guy out in the random, that's typically My preference. I'm more of a friends to lovers kind of person as are my other friends too, also becuz most of the couples around were introduced through friend groups or were former friends, its just more common and safer. That way, you know more about a guy too, picking up people from places isn't all that attractive nor romantic.
Also becuz the image of guys who ask random girls in public is labeled petty becuz of the encounters ive had with them. For instance, A guy followed me home to ask for my name (creepy), another one was on his bike with his friend behind stopped me midroad asking for my number, name Personal info etc till a woman saw me in distress and chased them away (disgusting and idek which part of the brain they use to think that this approach is romantic??), another one was when I was at an college event with friends and this couple of guys started bothering us and following us even when denied multiple times, we had to leave early. Strangers effin disgust me now, I'm so fed up like. Even girls around me have started limiting contacts with guys outside of their friend groups after experiencing similar situations and some even worse. The women here have adapted face covers for safety too lmao, it's that bad.
Also watching the news of guys unaliving girls for denying them or revenge unaliving for reporting them is all too scary and becoming common which is even more terrifying, even a politicians daughter fell a victim to this. So I'm really sorry that guys can't get dates, I'm too busy keeping myself safe and unharmed.
@@A_N_T333 I think just blunt honesty is what you learn is working and the way to go. If someone doesn't seem to get it, say it straight to his face but still be nice about it. That is nice both to yourself and him.
@@hearteu5260 This totally makes sense, when I mention Brad Pitt that that goes for some girls. I mean, there are those exceptions when you are Brad Pitt (for some girls, many but not all). But what you say about meeting people through friends etc is for sure the only real way nowadays, because the social exchange with people are way different now compared to before when you hang out with both close, semi close and some unknowns. The thing also, I would say that even though they are many it is still a minority of guys ruining the fun for everyone else. And some guys had NO boundaries at all, no moral, no nothing. So if I was a girl, I would also put my safety first and be forced to be careful even if I didn't want to feel that way.
This reminds me of the time a random guy sat next to me on a nearly empty train. He was manspreading so badly that I was practically glued to the window. He kept offering me food, which I politely declined. Then he pretended to fall asleep, and his arm "slipped" off the armrest onto my side, touching my thigh at one point. I was so uncomfortable that I "woke him up" (because I didn't think he was really asleep) and told him to keep his hands to himself and respect my space. He apologized, saying he didn't notice, but he did it at least twice more after that.
But at least I "only" had to deal with him for 3 hours and not 11. :/
always the girl's problem eh? Always her not being cold enough, straightforward enough, rude enough.....even the boyfriend attacked her first. Disappointing on so many levels
he probably was taking pics of you while you were sleeping.🤢
seeing you w your bf is my motivation to come to Korea and find my owns too
Hack: Wear a wedding band.
your brother is also soooooo handsome sis
Oh my god, im so happy you are safe 💗 but i imagine how uncomfortable it was, i hope that you never experience it twice 😞. Luv you Jennie take care 💗‼️
❤ in this situation u should go to the air hostess and ask for help in.ost situation she will change the seats or talk it out for you
If i were u I would tell a flight attendant and file report or talk to someone that can help could ask the flight attendant if there where any other seats available or ask if they could ask someone to exchange spots with there are many ways to get out of that situation without drama I have had this happened to me before and I ask someone to changed seats with me and tell them why I wanted to do that and they agreed or ask a flight attendant to do that for you is you feel like it’s awkward to do yourself but girls should always ask for help dont be afraid of hassle girl traveling alone is dangerous but at the same time not but can learn for experience this time and there are many advices people give you should keep in mind if happen again.
I see both points fr
That's so disreespectful of the guy & the way your bird just pops up at the end 🥺
Yayyyy a new video we miss you❤❤❤
pls forget this don't take it too much to ur heart and if ever sth like this happen pls react more and tell other people around u..I feel u its really hard to forget this type of incidents i been there
7:36 the bird behind : 😂
For persons like that, it's best to be blunt and borderline run, show it in your face and attitude
이 커플 너무 귀여워서 구독을 안 할 수가 없네
Girl, I feel you from the bottom of my soul. I can’t even explain how many times an unfortunate experience on the plane has been caused by a random guy old enough to be my father trying to flirt with me. 😅😢
be safe jen ❤️💌
Best travel life hack I guess when travelling is wearing head phone or headset then sleep (act one). If you do not want to act sleeping, just keep wearing the headset or head phones. It works for me, at least. It keeps creeps out of my way everytime.
인도 서남아 중동 이란 아랍 이쪽 인간들.. 괴롭힘이 일상화되어있음.. 지들도 지들 자신을 잘알아서 여자들 부르카나 히잡쓰게함
What hojun said was right though, saying things like "Thank you" and being polite is nice and all but some men just won't understand that especially if you come across as being polite and nice. Although i believe that jen has no faults here and it's the problem of the guy especially when he doesn't get the hint, sometimes being nice and polite can lead to more dangerous situations if the guy thinks that you're doing it because you like him and "appreciate" him
예전에도 저런일 겪었던걸로 기억나는데???
단호하지 못해서 그런거라고 한마디했다가 오히려 저를 비롯해 한국남자들만 이상한 취급받았던걸로 기억나는데 음... 남친분이 좀 강하게 얘길하셔야될듯
I'm really sorry that happened to you but as someone from the same country as him, I'd like to say sorry on behalf of him and how not all of us are like that :))
That’s the pain of being too pretty 😅
That’s so disrespectful u should have informed to the cabin crew, be careful and inform the cabin crew next time BE SAFE!!
Love is one of the great gift in our live. May you recover from that.
Girl u shouldn't be polite to these type of guys 😭
When a guy would not back off after you have made it clear you were not interested - YOU NEED to be MUCH more forceful with your message and not worry about being seen as rude.
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Tell the stewardess about what's happening and get a new seat. Sorry that happened to you. There are crazy people in this realm
HELLO! Why didn't you inform the cabin crew? This is harassment! You could have asked to change seats!! please learn to protect yourself. And besides, your boyfriend has the right to be upset because he loves you dearly. What HoJun said is true. Your behaviour is too passive. Unless you secretly enjoy this sort of attention. You have to learn how to firmly say NO
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Omg, I just saw the Iranian flag on the creepy guy’s sleeve and I’m Iranian and I feel so angry!!! Of course men like him exist everywhere, but too many exist in my country. I’m so sorry you had to experience this. 😑❤️
Mad respect for brave Iranian women!
he was right. politely deny them. Sir, you were being thoughtful but I'm not comfortable with all these. I'll have to ask you to stop doing all that for me because I am trying to mind my own business and have my rest right now. I also dont talk when I eat or watch my videos and listen to the music so I'd appreciate it if you would let me enjoy my trip.
or you could simply wear the headphones all the time and pretend you dont listen to him. When he nudged and forced you to talk to him, simply refuse everytime and fake sleeping.
You should just look at him blankly and ignore him completely. Then, if he persists, you can ask a stewardess if you can change seats because you are afraid. I would not be able to sleep as who knows what this guy will do while you are vulnerable. In the USA and Canada, someone touching you (even spitting at you) without consent is considered criminal assault. No need to be rude, but do not engage. Pretend you don't speak the language, put on a sleep mask, headphones, hoodie.
kakak kamu terlihat begitu cantik manis dan kawaiii banget. love from Indonesia 🇮🇩
I have long flights to Taiwan to see my husband. Whenever there is a rude guy I act like a rude girl. Burp, flatulence, invading space...all of it. If that doesn't work I ask the attendant to change seats.
I have no words for that! I‘m so sorry for you❤
I don’t think he scolded you, I think he was giving good advice. He never said it was your fault either so that’s good. I know from experience that it is hard to be rude, but sometimes you just have to be. Or at least be stern and stand your ground. Especially traveling when traveling alone and especially when you’re a female traveling alone. It could have gone bad very fast and I think your boyfriend had that in mind when he was saying “sometimes you just have to be rude.” Sadly, it’s true. And if it’s a long flight and someone’s constantly annoying you, call for the flight attendant. They should be able to help in some way. After all, you did pay for the flight and it’s their job to offer you service. Hopefully you have some good advice for next time you travel with all these comments, stay safe!!
I had to develop a RBF to avoid guys talking to me. Avoiding eye contact and refusing when they offer me things like napkins, food, etc helped, too.
"No thanks" sounds colder than "No Thank You."
And of course, just plain "No" - OR - holding up a hand, palm facing the other person and just shaking your head No without even saying it out loud works best of all. Practice those.
Think of it as........you're not being impolite or rude, but you ARE protecting yourself. Your safety is MUCH, MUCH more important than other people's feelings.
The bird is soooo cute 🥰
I’m so sorry this happened. This is just scary