Nope the second she stated she wanted a year to cheat I would have told her you have the rest of your life to do with what you wish and immediately divorced her. The second the daughter started singing the phrases of her mothers lover I would have cut her out as well. I feel for the son in law. If he's smart he'd see a lawyer NOW and get a post nuptial written explaing in detail exeactly what will happen if she ever tries this crap on him!
You're wrong, by the time she said she slept with Greg at dinner with her husband it would have been over. As a story it was distracting, but what this guy accepted is off limits. His revenge came late, he behaved like a simp, including with his daughter.
I don't think so. Every day every hour and minute he dpent without her made him indifférent versus her. Like this the Final count down hurt her so much. Tom avoided a possible take back
I am so tired of so many people using the term “simp” to describe the husband that has been cheated on. My goodness do any of you know the meaning of this term?
And yet again we have the usual suspects screaming SIMP. This was the OP's marriage his dilemma and his decision as to how to handle it. Following the consensus of advice here the moment his wife announced her intentions he should have filed for divorce. His wife would have got half the house, half the value of their assets and just possibly a percentage of his pension. He waited got sound legal advice. Disposed of the majority of their assets leaving his wife $195! Gifted his Daughter Son-in-Law and Grandson a mortgage free house. Moved to a new job and city and dumped his wife in the trash where she belonged. He also gave his Daughter a valuable lesson about the consequences of disloyalty. I'd say he handled it like a PRO!
This was most definitely a simp 1st he Worried about Kate calling off the wedding...he should've called the wedding off. 2nd....he played the hope strategy because he didn't have confidence in himself.
Some of this was “maybe” plausible until the stun gun scene after Christmas dinner. To make this just a bit more realistic perhaps the husband could have threatened with a small pistol. Selling or gifting the property without the wife’s signature is impossible, even if she were declared dead. No mention of his move across country was added nor did he mention his wife’s infidelity prior to the June sixth date to his daughter. If there was any shred of truth to this story it would have likely continued with his STBXW marrying her lover and this couple becoming more involved with the daughter, son-in-law, and grandson. Given his age he’d likely never leave the west coast nor ever actually see his family again.
I don't know why tom did not discredit greg while he was bragging about his exploits . How can a war hero get demoted from an E8 to E6? And what about his children and thier support? This would have made katie and joan sit up and take notice.
Yes, I agree with you, but the damage to the marriage was already done. Do you remember the letters found? The guy is a simp who waited almost a year to make his decision.
Dude disgusted me with even considering staying with her while at the restaurant...so i have absolutely no respect or sympathy...he basically allowed it... pathetic
Simp?….Maybe. But he played the cards he was dealt well and easily moved on. Perhaps it is better to think things through and take aim, instead of just acting emotionally right away.
As in most of these stories there really wouldn't be a story if the word no was used. A lot of problems don't need a year to solve. No!! Please leave. Problem solved.
Nope the second she stated she wanted a year to cheat I would have told her you have the rest of your life to do with what you wish and immediately divorced her. The second the daughter started singing the phrases of her mothers lover I would have cut her out as well. I feel for the son in law. If he's smart he'd see a lawyer NOW and get a post nuptial written explaing in detail exeactly what will happen if she ever tries this crap on him!
You're wrong, by the time she said she slept with Greg at dinner with her husband it would have been over. As a story it was distracting, but what this guy accepted is off limits. His revenge came late, he behaved like a simp, including with his daughter.
The next mistake this fool made was tolerating the disregard of him by keeping in contact with her ex.
I don't think so. Every day every hour and minute he dpent without her made him indifférent versus her. Like this the Final count down hurt her so much. Tom avoided a possible take back
Even her considering calling off the wedding for her ex would have been enough to call it off. This guy is a simp.
I am so tired of so many people using the term “simp” to describe the husband that has been cheated on. My goodness do any of you know the meaning of this term?
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Simpleton Idolizeing Mediocre P****.
@@BettyFerrell-m2j The guy in the story is a total simp.
Goodness Tom , she was damaged goods that you should have shown the door
Simp: Simpleton Idolizing Mediocre P****
The story lack the aftermath, especially the thoughts and reaction of wife and daughter.
And yet again we have the usual suspects screaming SIMP.
This was the OP's marriage his dilemma and his decision as to how to handle it.
Following the consensus of advice here the moment his wife announced her intentions he should have filed for divorce.
His wife would have got half the house, half the value of their assets and just possibly a percentage of his pension.
He waited got sound legal advice.
Disposed of the majority of their assets leaving his wife $195!
Gifted his Daughter Son-in-Law and Grandson a mortgage free house.
Moved to a new job and city and dumped his wife in the trash where she belonged.
He also gave his Daughter a valuable lesson about the consequences of disloyalty.
I'd say he handled it like a PRO!
I would have told you do this I won't be there when you get done I think he was right in setting everything up before he left
Good story but you didn’t finish it !! You left out the ending which was very good! Don’t cut it short as it was important👍👍👍👍💕👀😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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Yes please finish the story
This was most definitely a simp 1st he Worried about Kate calling off the wedding...he should've called the wedding off. 2nd....he played the hope strategy because he didn't have confidence in himself.
Needs about 30 more minutes to close out.
Because of the spirit tie, there is an attachment to the first love which is difficult to break.
You've never had a marriage, end this madness with a quick divorce.
This story is insane, I'm angry just listening to it.
Very good revenge.
Some of this was “maybe” plausible until the stun gun scene after Christmas dinner. To make this just a bit more realistic perhaps the husband could have threatened with a small pistol. Selling or gifting the property without the wife’s signature is impossible, even if she were declared dead. No mention of his move across country was added nor did he mention his wife’s infidelity prior to the June sixth date to his daughter. If there was any shred of truth to this story it would have likely continued with his STBXW marrying her lover and this couple becoming more involved with the daughter, son-in-law, and grandson. Given his age he’d likely never leave the west coast nor ever actually see his family again.
Pretty tough to get a signature after she's dead
Come on man, you need to divorce this woman, she's still in love with him and soon you'll be history.
Wise up and bail.
such a hard to believe story. who in their right mind would allow their spouse to live a year with their lover?
I don't know why tom did not discredit greg while he was bragging about his exploits . How can a war hero get demoted from an E8 to E6? And what about his children and thier support? This would have made katie and joan sit up and take notice.
Yes, I agree with you, but the damage to the marriage was already done. Do you remember the letters found? The guy is a simp who waited almost a year to make his decision.
Should have given the house to Frank because his wife will cheat on him, that way she can’t take it away from him.
He should not have married her knowing that she was still emotionally attached to her high-school flame. Then he continued to ignore the red flags.
A vacation--no an ending!
Dude disgusted me with even considering staying with her while at the restaurant...so i have absolutely no respect or sympathy...he basically allowed it... pathetic
Why are all these stores about geriatrics? No one wants to hear about lemon partys
Simp?….Maybe. But he played the cards he was dealt well and easily moved on. Perhaps it is better to think things through and take aim, instead of just acting emotionally right away.
great ending!
meh - the best part of the story is skipped.
Life's a b****h🎉🎉🎉
Fantastic story
You love simps.
As in most of these stories there really wouldn't be a story if the word no was used.
A lot of problems don't need a year to solve.
No!! Please leave.
Problem solved.